Wednesday, August 16, 2000

1:33🔗 Voiceover Listener discretion is advised. Adam Corolla and Dr. Drew Loveline, Coast to Coast.

1:45🔗 Adam Yep, that's what it is. It is Loveline and no Ace Rockolla tonight, Dr. Drew.

1:49🔗 Drew Thank god. Oh, thank god.

1:51🔗 Adam Well, I'm probably just as bad, not as hairy, man.

1:53🔗 Drew Tonight, joining me is Stryker.

1:55🔗 Adam Yes, first name Ted. Nice to see you again.

1:57🔗 Drew We'll call you Stryker.

1:57🔗 Adam You can call me Stryker.

1:59🔗 Drew Your friends out in Tucson would know you as Stryker, right?

2:01🔗 Adam That's right. And my parents too.

2:03🔗 Drew That's right.

2:03🔗 Adam They're in LA.

2:04🔗 Drew Stryker is a disc jockey here at K-Rock and came from via Tucson.

2:07🔗 Adam Yeah.

2:08🔗 Drew Where he was very popular and he's replacing Adam. Adam is not dead yet. He's just taking some time off.

2:14🔗 Adam What time? Is it commercial or man show? Go to the man show. What's going on with the man show?

2:18🔗 Drew Stryker will be feeling a bit, a welcome relief, a breath of fresh air.

2:21🔗 Adam Well, thank you. I see you at all the K-Rock events, the weenie roasts, we chat, we mingle, and then I see you here and you ignore me till we get in the booth. Is that because?

2:27🔗 Drew No way.

2:28🔗 Adam A little bit.

2:29🔗 Drew I'm sorry.

2:29🔗 Adam I saw you give me the finger out there.

2:31🔗 Drew Well, that's how I treat everybody, but no, no, no, it's just it's it's you'll save everything for air, right?

2:35🔗 Adam OK, yeah, exactly. All right. Adam is is probably the unluckiest man in the world right now. And I could be the luckiest not because I'm hosting Loveline with Dr. Drew, it's because of the lady in front of me, Dr. Drew, Victoria Silvstedt. Did I say that right?

2:49🔗 Victoria Silvstedt You said it perfectly right.

2:51🔗 Adam And you were a playmate of the year.

2:53🔗 Victoria Silvstedt In 1997, like years ago, it feels like forever ago. But yeah, still carrying that title.

2:58🔗 Adam And do you have the car that they give you when you won that thing?

3:00🔗 Victoria Silvstedt You know what? I got rid of that Porsche.

3:03🔗 Adam I've never said that.

3:04🔗 Victoria Silvstedt For various reasons. Yeah, I got a little bit in too much trouble with the cups and stuff. So coming from Europe, you know, I do like to step on the gas and go the fast lane. So yeah, I had to get rid of it.

3:17🔗 Adam All right. I don't know where it is. Now what are you driving? A Pinto?

3:22🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Pickup truck.

3:23🔗 Adam Pickup truck. No, you're not driving a pickup truck for god sakes.

3:26🔗 Victoria Silvstedt I'm driving a lot of different cars. You know, I like to change a lot. You know, BMW, you know, Cherokee, you know, you name it.

3:35🔗 Adam I've had the same car since 1983. It's a Toyota Celica and it's gray.

3:40🔗 Stryker Well, good god.

3:41🔗 Adam All right. By the way, if Adam Corolla is listening, Adam, look at sexyvictoria.com and that's who is in front of me, in front of us.

3:48🔗 Drew He loves Victoria.

3:49🔗 Adam Right now.

3:50🔗 Drew He was very unhappy about this.

3:51🔗 Victoria Silvstedt When is it coming back?

3:52🔗 Drew Him? Adam?

3:53🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Never. Maybe.

3:54🔗 Adam Who cares? Who cares? It's about me and you, Victoria. It's about us and doing the show. You ready to talk about...

3:59🔗 Victoria Silvstedt See if I can warm up to you during the show. We'll see about that.

4:02🔗 Adam Well, you're pretty close now and we'll get closer. Okay. 1-800-LOVE-191. It's Stryker, Dr. Drew, board certified physician, addiction medicine specialist. And I guess we are going to speak to Julie. You're 17. How are you?

4:14🔗 Caller Good. How are you?

4:15🔗 Adam Good. Ask away.

4:16🔗 Caller I have a question about a previous experience this night. Well, tonight. My boyfriend was performing oral sex on me. And I had, I climaxed and it was perfectly normal. It was just a little more intense than usual. And towards the end of it, a lot of fluid came out and it wasn't like a normal fluid. It was really like a liquidy. And I was just wondering like what, what that was, if that was normal or?

4:47🔗 Drew Was it urine?

4:49🔗 Caller No, no it wasn't. I mean, I felt it coming out, I don't.

4:52🔗 Drew Because that happens too. But there's also, there are a number of other glands in that vicinity that can create fluid emissions. Some women do that every time.

5:00🔗 Caller Oh yeah.

5:00🔗 Drew And I'm sure your boyfriend's fine with it. Don't worry.

5:03🔗 Caller No, no, he wasn't. He was really cool about it.

5:05🔗 Adam Wait, was he down there when this fluid was just pouring out of there? Like the, like the Salt River or what?

5:10🔗 Victoria Silvstedt A refreshing shower.

5:11🔗 Adam Seriously.

5:12🔗 Drew You know, guys are the striker. It's like, hey, hey, I produced something. I did something. Right. Right. That's a good sign.

5:18🔗 Adam He's got a big ass checklist, right? We got to do this. We got to do this. And we need lots of fluid coming out.

5:23🔗 Drew Well, no, it's more that it's when they've, they've like, guys need something real concrete to feel like they've accomplished something. So this is like, hey, I did this thing. Hey, I'm cool. But no, women, women are very ashamed of it. And yet it's a very common thing. And people don't talk about it.

5:37🔗 Adam God forbid if I can have a woman start flooding all over me, I'd win a gold medal. All right. Elaine, you're 24. You're on Loveline.

5:44🔗 Caller Hi. Hi.

5:45🔗 Caller OK. My question is, is I have a very steady boyfriend. Well, actually we're engaged. And he is the second man I've ever been with. The problem is that we only decided to have sex very recently. And we found that it's very difficult because he has an abnormally curved shaped penis.

6:10🔗 Drew Which way?

6:11🔗 Caller Curved to the right.

6:12🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Like a banana?

6:13🔗 Drew Curved.

6:13🔗 Victoria Silvstedt More curved, though.

6:14🔗 Drew Curved to the right.

6:15🔗 Caller Curved, yes.

6:15🔗 Drew And so what, that hurts you?

6:17🔗 Caller Very much so. It's very painful.

6:19🔗 Drew Very painful.

6:20🔗 Adam Is it like a right angle or is it just like a banana shape?

6:23🔗 Caller It's banana shaped, but it goes way to the right. And I don't know if it hurts him to, you know, move it. I don't know what to do.

6:31🔗 Drew Are you sure it's hurting you?

6:33🔗 Caller Yeah, well, what it is is the penetration, it will only go a certain way before it just starts to hurt.

6:40🔗 Drew And then it starts to hurt, I see. And did you tell him about this?

6:43🔗 Caller Yeah, yeah. I mean, we have to stop every time, you know, there's nothing we can do about it.

6:48🔗 Adam I'm going to leave this up to you about the curved wiener.

6:49🔗 Drew Well, is he having pain?

6:52🔗 Caller I don't know. I really...

6:54🔗 Drew Doesn't seem like it does it. And by the way, a guy again will scrape his kneecaps off.

6:58🔗 Adam To have sex, the thing could be falling off as long as you're having sex. It feels wonderful.

7:02🔗 Drew But I'll tell you what, there's a couple of things here. One is that there can be a normal amount of curvature that sometimes gets better with taking vitamin E. About 800 units a day. He needs to do that for starters, OK? And what it's caused by, I'm giving the visuals in the room here, is by a scar that forms on one side and pulls it over to that side. You guys get the visual here?

7:23🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Can you demonstrate it better?

7:25🔗 Drew If this is it, there's a scar here and pulls it. And the only way they can straighten it is by cutting like a piece of pie shape out of this side and straightening it back out, but that of course shortens the whole thing.

7:34🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Is it big to begin with?

7:36🔗 Adam What are you talking about?

7:37🔗 Victoria Silvstedt What inch size? What are we talking about here?

7:41🔗 Drew Sandy? Whoops. Hold on one second, Sandy. That was the wrong one. Elaine?

7:45🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Yeah. How big is this thing?

7:50🔗 Caller I don't know. My guess would be about seven or eight inches.

7:54🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Well, it's pretty well.

7:56🔗 Adam Yeah. Victoria, have you been with a man with anything curved on him before?

8:01🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Not that I know of, no, but I'm sure I should have noticed.

8:04🔗 Drew There's something called Peyrona's disease and usually people think about it as a disease if they're actually having pain or difficulty with erection, which he doesn't seem to be having, so he should take the vitamin E and if it's still a problem, he should see a urologist.

8:13🔗 Adam Vitamin E is a way to go for a curved wiener.

8:15🔗 Drew That's right.

8:15🔗 Adam All right. We'll remember that. All right, Victoria.

8:17🔗 Drew Stryker, remember that.

8:18🔗 Adam I will. Victoria Silvstedt is here and she was a Plainman of the Year in 97. She has a calendar coming out soon, and Sandy is 21 on Loveline. Sandy.

8:28🔗 Caller Yes.

8:29🔗 Adam Go ahead. You're on.

8:30🔗 Caller I have a question for Dr. Drew.

8:32🔗 Drew Yeah.

8:32🔗 Caller My brother died about a year ago from a brain aneurysm, and at the time he was using cocaine, and I was wondering if it was connected.

8:40🔗 Drew Well, did they surmise it was aneurysm or did they definitely know it was just bleeding inside the brain?

8:46🔗 Caller Well, it was kind of complicated. He was doing construction work and he fell off a ladder.

8:51🔗 Drew Oh, boy.

8:52🔗 Caller And they found out, or they told us the next day, I think it was, that he had had an aneurysm, which is why he fell.

8:59🔗 Drew I see. So they think it happened first. Do you think he did cocaine?

9:03🔗 Caller Do what?

9:03🔗 Drew Do you think he did cocaine?

9:05🔗 Caller They know he did. They found it in his bloodstream.

9:07🔗 Drew Well, cocaine can cause intracranial bleeding. An aneurysm is basically just like a blowout. Like, if you have tires get little blebs in them, they blow out the sidewall, those little bubbles that come out the side. That's what an aneurysm is in an artery. And it's very weak and it can spontaneously explode. And if that happens in your head, you're instantaneously dead.

9:27🔗 Adam Now, doesn't cocaine more affect your heart? It speeds up your heart rate?

9:30🔗 Drew Well, it turns out that cocaine, smoked cocaine can increase the risk of intracranial bleeding from increasing the shear forces on vessels, not necessarily from an aneurysm. So the answer is yes, cocaine can definitely do it. In terms of heart and cocaine, it increases the stickiness of the platelets in the blood. And so blood clots can form in the arteries to the heart, cause heart attacks. It can also cause strokes that way too. Right.

9:51🔗 Adam Victoria.

9:51🔗 Drew Is there a word?

9:52🔗 Adam I was just going to say. You really were? There is going to be a quiz at the end of the show, and you better know every damn answer or you're never coming back. No, you can come back any day.

9:59🔗 Drew Did you see Survivor tonight?

10:00🔗 Adam Yes, I did.

10:01🔗 Drew I wasn't listening carefully, but when they had to go get those masks, right, could you remember all the answers?

10:06🔗 Adam I got three of them. The other two, I was like, what the hell are these things?

10:09🔗 Drew I got one of them. Not that I was listening that carefully, but I thought they couldn't have just told them that once.

10:14🔗 Adam That's the first time I've seen Survivor, by the way.

10:16🔗 Victoria Silvstedt What's up with that Survivor main anyway?

10:18🔗 Adam Oh, they put these people on an island, there's a gay guy, there's an old man, and they're feuding, and the winner gets one million dollars.

10:22🔗 Victoria Silvstedt And they all run around naked and have fun, right?

10:24🔗 Drew One guy does. Did you like it? They don't have fun.

10:26🔗 Adam I liked it a lot. I liked it a lot. And speaking of liking a lot, nipples turn inward. Michelle, you are 16.

10:32🔗 Caller Okay.

10:33🔗 Adam Okay.

10:34🔗 Drew You're on.

10:35🔗 Caller Hi. I have a problem with my nipples. They like they turn in and they don't like turn out. And it's been I've been trying to make them turn out.

10:46🔗 Adam You need a feather. Tickle them.

10:49🔗 Drew Well, you can't make them come out at all.

10:51🔗 Adam I don't know.

10:52🔗 Drew Or they won't stay out.

10:53🔗 Caller They won't stay out.

10:55🔗 Drew Yeah. That's you.

10:57🔗 Caller Yeah.

10:57🔗 Drew That's you, Michelle.

10:57🔗 Victoria Silvstedt What about when you get aroused? They don't kind of swallow up a little? No.

11:03🔗 Caller Well, not really.

11:05🔗 Victoria Silvstedt No.

11:05🔗 Caller It doesn't really work when I get aroused. All right.

11:07🔗 Drew Well, inverted nipples are normal, Michelle. Now, there are surgeries that can sort of, they sometimes do to correct that if you have a lot of irritation, that kind of thing. But otherwise, it's normal. And guys are not troubled by that.

11:19🔗 Caller All right. Well, my boyfriend, he found out about it and he's going, well, there's no way I'm going to have to have sex with you or anything.

11:26🔗 Drew Oh, my God.

11:30🔗 Drew He's a dick. Yeah, get rid of him. Yeah. He's gone. Michelle. Now, you have a threshold question for your boyfriend.

11:35🔗 Adam I want to know, did he find out by grabbing you, having his mouth there or he heard it in the men's locker room?

11:41🔗 Caller No. He took my shirt off.

11:43🔗 Adam Good for him.

11:44🔗 Caller He looked and he looked and he's like, oh God.

11:48🔗 Adam He said, oh God, right there? Anyone that gets around breasts do not say, oh God.

11:51🔗 Drew You say, hallelujah.

11:52🔗 Caller He walked out of the room.

11:55🔗 Drew What is up, Michelle, that you'd be with a guy like that? I don't know. He's a dick, isn't he? All through and through.

12:00🔗 Adam You said dick twice.

12:01🔗 Drew Because that's what this guy is.

12:02🔗 Victoria Silvstedt You're gay.

12:04🔗 Drew This is not the first time he's been a jerk.

12:08🔗 Victoria Silvstedt How long have you been with the guy?

12:10🔗 Caller Two years now.

12:12🔗 Drew He's a jerk, right?

12:12🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Well, this is the first time he saw your nipples after two years?

12:16🔗 Caller Well, yeah.

12:16🔗 Adam She's only 16.

12:17🔗 Drew 14.

12:18🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Oh, sorry.

12:18🔗 Drew They're from Sweden.

12:19🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Yeah. It doesn't matter to me.

12:22🔗 Drew Correct me. He's a jerk, right?

12:24🔗 Caller Yeah, I guess.

12:25🔗 Drew I mean, this isn't the first time. No, this isn't the first time he's been awful to you, is it?

12:29🔗 Caller Yeah, it has because the first year, it was sort of rough because we'd have yelling matches about like, oh, you were looking at so and so or whatever, and it'd be really stupid. And then it got easier. And he asked me to have sex like in the middle of our first year. And I said, no, I'm going to wait.

12:48🔗 He asked me.

12:51🔗 Drew Very wise. And?

12:53🔗 Caller And he asked me to have sex in the middle of our second year.

12:59🔗 Adam Drew, I can't take this. Hold on one sec. Here's get rid of the man. He's been bad. He doesn't like your nipples. And apparently, they're not going to turn out immediately. Are they, Dr. Drew? No, no, no, no, no. OK, let's move on. All right, Michelle, you're going to be fine, all right? You're only 16. Nipples will pop out possibly. Yeah.

13:13🔗 Drew We're going to be on the show about 10 minutes. You're sounding a lot like Corolla.

13:16🔗 Adam No, no, I'm not. I'm not. She was stumbling and fumbling.

13:19🔗 Drew Yeah.

13:19🔗 Adam How could it be bad in two years?

13:21🔗 Drew Don't you want to call our listeners retarded or anything like that?

13:23🔗 Adam No, no, no.

13:23🔗 Drew I feel really at home here.

13:24🔗 Adam I'll call them screwballs. I'll do that. I'm just kidding. I'm just kidding. I have more problems than all of you combined.

13:30🔗 Luis?

13:31🔗 Hello.

13:32🔗 Adam What's up, man? You're 17.

13:33🔗 Caller Already. Well, I have dreams about stealing my friend's boyfriend.

13:38🔗 Drew Your girlfriend's boyfriend's or guy friend's? Your female friend's boyfriend's?

13:43🔗 Adam Yeah.

13:43🔗 Drew Are you gay?

13:44🔗 Caller Yeah. You're gay.

13:46🔗 Drew Well, did you know you were gay? Let's put it that way.

13:49🔗 Caller There's some kind of discrepancy going on with me internally right now. We'll go for that.

13:52🔗 Drew You're just trying to figure it all out.

13:53🔗 Caller Well, no. I mean, ever since I was in kindergarten, I knew that I was a little bit fonder of the boys on the playground than I was the girls. But recently, it's become like with close friends. I'll be hanging out with them and it's like, I think I like you sometimes.

14:10🔗 Drew You're telling that?

14:11🔗 Caller Yeah. They just like, Louis, shut up. It's not really a big deal right now.

14:15🔗 Drew That is a big deal. It's hard for you. Difficult for you, excuse me.

14:19🔗 Caller Anyways, my question is basically, I-

14:22🔗 Drew You better attend to that, Louis, because that's going to end up being pretty painful for you if you constantly putting yourself in a situation where you develop these intense feelings for friends, people you really care about and can never connect in the way you need to or want to. It's going to get ugly at some point.

14:39🔗 Caller Yeah.

14:39🔗 Drew So what is it you want to know?

14:41🔗 Caller I just want to know what the hell that means about me. The fact that I have that.

14:46🔗 Drew Do you have any other dreams about men?

14:48🔗 Caller Do I what?

14:49🔗 Drew Any other dreams about men?

14:50🔗 Caller Oh, yeah. I mean, since I was little, there's no doubt in my mind that I'm attracted to men.

14:54🔗 Drew But this fact that you're stealing boyfriends from your girlfriends.

14:57🔗 Caller Exactly. These friends are really close and it makes me feel really bad inside.

15:02🔗 Adam You're pretty much a normal guy that happens to be gay.

15:05🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Have you had relationships with women, girls before?

15:09🔗 Caller No, not really. No, just like one 24-hour things when I was a freshman.

15:15🔗 Victoria Silvstedt You felt like, okay, this is not my cup of tea kind of thing?

15:18🔗 Caller My cup of tea.

15:19🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Yeah. This is not your cup of tea. You just feel like you were not that attracted to.

15:24🔗 Caller Well, I always knew it wasn't my cup of tea.

15:25🔗 Victoria Silvstedt It's weird.

15:26🔗 Caller It's like you deny it for a while, wishing it to go away and then you realize that it's still there. Then you just accept it after a while.

15:34🔗 Drew Why do you need to have a explicit explanation for this stealing boyfriend dream? Let's put this way. I don't think I can accurately give any interpretation without knowing you a lot better. What meaning do you think it has?

15:46🔗 Caller Well, it doesn't only happen in my dream. Well, the whole thing about-

15:50🔗 Drew But what's the feeling attached to it?

15:54🔗 Caller Total desire.

15:57🔗 Adam Do you feel guilty after the dreams?

15:59🔗 Caller I wake up and I'm just like, what the hell was that? I want to tell whoever's girlfriend the guy is. Because it's funny, I think. I mean, it's funny to a certain point where I can talk about it and laugh about it. But at the same time, it's still bizarre.

16:15🔗 Drew Just let them be. Just dreams.

16:17🔗 Caller All right.

16:17🔗 Drew Don't worry about it. Just get a gay group of friends though because you're going to need that.

16:22🔗 Adam Yeah, and start liking guys that aren't attached to women. That would help.

16:24🔗 Drew Those that aren't hetero.

16:25🔗 Adam Exactly. Hunter.

16:28🔗 Yes.

16:28🔗 Adam Hi, you're 20.

16:29🔗 Caller Yes.

16:30🔗 Adam What's going on, man?

16:31🔗 Caller Well, the other night, a few nights ago, my girlfriend and I were having sex. Ended up, you know, doing a thing and she's acting like it felt really good and she was, you know, getting into it and all of a sudden she started crying.

16:47🔗 Adam Had she had an orgasm already or not?

16:48🔗 Caller I'm not sure. I'm not sure. It was seeming to get to that point if it hadn't already happened.

16:52🔗 Drew But how old is she?

16:54🔗 Caller She's 16.

16:55🔗 Adam Oh, and you're 20.

16:56🔗 Drew Hunter, 16. Was this their first time?

17:00🔗 Caller No.

17:02🔗 Drew How do you know?

17:03🔗 Caller Well, because I mean, first person or first time? Both.

17:08🔗 Drew Well, I hope it was with a person the first time.

17:10🔗 Caller I mean, first person, like the writer first or we had before, but.

17:15🔗 Drew For a long period of time or?

17:17🔗 Caller We've been together for two years.

17:18🔗 Drew And you've been having sex since she was 14?

17:21🔗 Caller Yikes.

17:24🔗 Adam Have you been seeing other people while seeing the 14-year-old now 16?

17:27🔗 Caller Yes.

17:28🔗 Adam Does she know this?

17:31🔗 Caller No.

17:31🔗 Adam Well, that's kind of why you're going out with a 16-year-old because you know you can get some. Why don't you just leave her alone and go for girls that are 18 or over?

17:37🔗 Drew Maybe she knows. Listen, somebody that age that is not getting the kind of reassurance they need is going to feel fairly, feel pain, feel abandoned. And naturally enough, when she's trying to have an intimate experience with you and doesn't feel the reciprocal feelings, boy, yeah, you'd cry too.

17:56🔗 Adam Definitely.

17:56🔗 Caller Well, is this normal though?

17:59🔗 Drew Yeah, it's normal for somebody in a relationship to feel awful about their partner because the partner is just abusing them.

18:06🔗 Caller That's nice.

18:07🔗 Adam Now, Victoria is here. She was playmate of the year. You've got a calendar coming out. How old were you when you first started making Whoopi?

18:15🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Whoopi, Whoopi, Whoopi. Well, we kind of started earlier back in Sweden. I shouldn't say we, but I did.

18:23🔗 Adam And was the man much older than you?

18:26🔗 Victoria Silvstedt He was not. No, it was kind of an experimental thing. It's like doing homework kind of thing.

18:31🔗 Adam Really?

18:32🔗 Victoria Silvstedt We learned early in school about sexuality and stuff like that. And yeah, we started at 12, 13. And we're just curious. And I grew up as a woman very early.

18:45🔗 Adam Right. And you're still a woman, let me tell you.

18:47🔗 Drew Do parents support that?

18:48🔗 Caller Do parents talk to you about it?

18:49🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Well, they don't really know.

18:51🔗 Drew They don't know.

18:52🔗 Victoria Silvstedt They don't really know, no. I had to deal with more of that sneaking out kind of thing until I was about at least 16.

18:59🔗 Drew You had an older sister, right?

19:00🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Yeah, I had an older sister.

19:01🔗 Drew And was she trailblazing or?

19:05🔗 Victoria Silvstedt She was kind of wild too, but we kind of stuck together and did our little things behind the back of our parents. We were good though, we never get really caught.

19:14🔗 Adam Wow, well good for you. All right, Joey, I'll give you your homework assignment later. Joey, you're 15, you're on Loveline.

19:21🔗 Caller Hey. What's up? A few weeks ago, my girlfriend, she gave me like a BJ and she had like her feet on her lip like a blister. And now I like blisters on my hand like my penis and it hurts.

19:35🔗 Drew Well, there you go.

19:37🔗 Adam Now, Dr. Drew, is a canker sore, I know that's a type of herpes, but can that cause you to get blisters down below?

19:43🔗 Drew Yep.

19:44🔗 Adam And that's what he has.

19:45🔗 Drew That's what he has.

19:46🔗 Caller Also, I have another question.

19:48🔗 Adam You just, you don't care about that?

19:49🔗 Caller Oh, well.

19:50🔗 Drew He just made it up.

19:51🔗 Adam Oh, were you making that up?

19:52🔗 Drew Yep.

19:53🔗 Adam I don't think he was.

19:54🔗 Drew Oh, yes.

19:54🔗 Stryker Okay.

19:54🔗 Adam Well, what's, hey, what, Joey, Joey, don't let me down. What's your other question?

19:58🔗 Caller I want to know what the side effects to, like, Zoloft were.

20:01🔗 Drew Zoloft?

20:01🔗 Caller Yeah.

20:03🔗 Drew Fatigue, mostly. I, I, what are you having? What are you experiencing?

20:07🔗 I, like, lost appetite and stuff.

20:09🔗 Drew You'll be able to press your appetite sometimes. It can stimulate your appetite.

20:12🔗 And I, it's like, does it do anything to the sex drive?

20:15🔗 Drew Oh, it shuts it down. You completely, absolutely. That's, that's one of the more typical side effects in, of Zoloft is no libido, difficulty with orgasm, that kind of thing.

20:24🔗 Adam The side effects are blisters on the penis and apparently you still have a sex drive because you just got a BJ a couple weeks ago. Suzie, you are 28, you're on Loveline with Dr. Drew and Victoria Silvstedt.

20:35🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Hello.

20:35🔗 Drew Hi.

20:36🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Hello.

20:37🔗 Hi, I have been dating a guy for about a month and a half. And the other day, my cousin was in her bathroom getting ready and he just walked right in when she was in the bathroom. And then he started peeing right in front of her.

20:53🔗 Drew This is her boyfriend?

20:55🔗 No, the guy that I've been dating.

20:57🔗 Adam Oh, peed in front of your cousin?

20:59🔗 Yes.

21:00🔗 Drew How old is your cousin?

21:01🔗 She's 26.

21:03🔗 Drew And it's not like you guys all live together in the same house or something?

21:06🔗 Well, no, I just we're close because we're family. So I, you know, go out with her and stuff and hang out with her.

21:12🔗 Drew And how well does he know her?

21:15🔗 Well, we know each other fairly well. But I wait a minute.

21:20🔗 Drew How well does he know her?

21:22🔗 Well, he knows her on a friendship.

21:26🔗 Victoria Silvstedt It's kind of like family. You know, you pee in front of family members.

21:30🔗 Adam Pretty much doesn't really bother me that much to just go to the.

21:33🔗 Drew It's a little weird. Is it? It lets you have a girlfriend and her friend comes over and you start peeing in front of her friend.

21:38🔗 Adam Maybe number two would be odd.

21:40🔗 Drew That's odd.

21:41🔗 Adam Number one, standing up, a guy can pull it down with not showing his butt.

21:45🔗 Drew Yeah, it's not like they're out in the woods or something. Right. She's standing in the woods.

21:49🔗 Adam Are you in the woods, Susie?

21:51🔗 No, no. My cousin was in Buckhead.

21:54🔗 Adam That's the woods.

21:55🔗 Drew Buckhead, Atlanta.

21:57🔗 Adam Oh, that's nice. I've been there.

22:00🔗 I called them afterwards and I asked them, I said, did you just walk into the bathroom and just pee in front of my cousin? And he said, well, yeah, as a matter of fact, I did. And then I said, well, don't you think that's weird? Don't you think that's strange behavior? And he said, well, she couldn't see me.

22:17🔗 Drew Oh, is that true?

22:19🔗 No, because well, I mean, I went into the bathroom and I looked in the bathroom, and the bathroom is a small bathroom. The sink is right by the toilet.

22:28🔗 Drew I don't know, Susie, you may just need to let this one go. If he's otherwise been a good guy and this just- Let him pee. Tell him that you have some boundary questions about that kind of behavior, but that's it.

22:39🔗 Yeah. See, that's what I think too. That's what I was trying to do.

22:41🔗 Drew What do you do for a living?

22:43🔗 Yeah.

22:43🔗 Drew Susie, what do you do for a living?

22:45🔗 Caller Oh, I work for IBM. I build distance learning.

22:49🔗 Adam Really? Good for you. You don't know if that's weird. You know what I would do?

22:53🔗 Drew Because you sound like you're about 14.

22:55🔗 Adam Well, I would, I've peed in front of people that I don't really know before. I don't think that's that bad. You're okay.

23:00🔗 Victoria Silvstedt That's very European. It's cool.

23:02🔗 Caller Okay.

23:02🔗 Adam Really?

23:02🔗 Caller Yeah.

23:03🔗 Adam All right. We've got to take a break. It's Loveline. I'm Stryker filling in for Ace Rockolla with Dr. Drew and the Playmate of the Year from 97. Victoria Silvstedt is here and we'll speak to her. We'll speak to you and about a guy who has a small wiener. We'll do that next on Loveline. Rage Against the Machine was outside Staple Center the other night. Did you know that, Dr. Drew? No. They got a permit, and they played a free show Monday night right next to Staple's.

23:59🔗 Victoria Silvstedt That's awesome. Well, the protests are out there.

24:01🔗 Adam Exactly. They let the music speak for themselves, I guess. Yeah, that was good.

24:05🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Were they protesting too?

24:07🔗 Adam They protest everything.

24:08🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Against everything. No matter what it is.

24:10🔗 Adam Amazing band, amazing lyrics. You really got to get to them. Anyway, all right, you're listening to Loveline, 1-800-LOVE-191. Our guest tonight, Victoria Silvstedt. Toughest name to say.

24:20🔗 Victoria Silvstedt You got it done, baby.

24:21🔗 Adam Now, Lou Gehrig was the luckiest man alive at one point.

24:24🔗 Drew Until he got Lou Gehrig's disease.

24:25🔗 Adam Right, and now I happen to be him because Ace Rockolla is gone and we have you here with us.

24:30🔗 Victoria Silvstedt I'm here instead.

24:31🔗 Adam I know, and if you want to see what Victoria looks like, it's sexyvictoria.com. And you hate that because?

24:37🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Well, because I could not get my name. It was already taken and it's for sale now for like so much money. Yeah, and I think it's just not worth it. So, I just took any other name that was out there that was available.

24:49🔗 Adam Sexy Victoria is pretty fitting.

24:51🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Well, it's kind of like, you know, yeah.

24:53🔗 Adam If you like blondes with big breasts that are 6'1 model, they were top 10 in Miss World, then we're all going to be fine.

24:59🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Yeah, you got it.

25:00🔗 Adam All right, Eric, you're 17, you're on Loveline.

25:04🔗 Caller Hey, what's up, guys? Hey, Victoria, man, you're hot.

25:06🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Hey, thank you.

25:08🔗 Caller If I was your age, I'd go off eating a heartbeat. Hey, Dr. Drew.

25:11🔗 Drew Hey, Eric, yeah.

25:12🔗 Caller Hey, you guys rock, you know. My arm's not there.

25:15🔗 Drew No, it isn't. No, it's okay. It's fine.

25:18🔗 Adam He has two TV shows. You know how many I have?

25:20🔗 Caller How many? None.

25:22🔗 Victoria Silvstedt It's coming. It's coming, baby.

25:23🔗 Adam It's coming. So we're still with the shows. Go ahead, Eric, what's your question?

25:26🔗 Caller Hey, yeah, I kind of have a small wiener, like you stated earlier in the show, you know?

25:32🔗 Drew How small are we talking about?

25:34🔗 Caller Well, one is not erect, you know? It's about an inch and a half.

25:37🔗 Adam That doesn't matter. What's it like when it's hard?

25:41🔗 Caller It's about four inches.

25:43🔗 Drew Are you, are you, it's fully developed? Are you sort of your body stature normal, body hair normal?

25:50🔗 Caller Well, yeah, I mean, I'm from Mexican, so I have a lot of hair on my body.

25:54🔗 Drew You do have a lot of hair, okay. I'm just wondering if you finish puberty and if there's, you know, guys can grow well until 21. So you got a few years of growth to go here, right?

26:02🔗 Caller Really?

26:03🔗 Drew Yeah.

26:04🔗 Caller Oh, wow, I didn't know that.

26:05🔗 Drew Yeah. So just eat your Wheaties.

26:08🔗 Caller Yeah.

26:08🔗 Adam And, Eric, I actually hear Dr. Drew say that all the time. Your thing down there grows definitely after 17. But, you know, if the girl sees your penis and it's pretty small and she, you know, runs out of the room screaming, forget about it, man. You're 17 and there's plenty of women out there.

26:23🔗 Caller Yeah. I have a question. You know those fat pills? You know those fat reduction pills?

26:28🔗 Drew Like which?

26:29🔗 Caller Huh?

26:30🔗 Drew There's a, you're just 17 so you don't realize there's billions of those out there. Which one are you talking about?

26:35🔗 Caller You know, I've seen these infomercials about these ones that you, you know, they crunch them up into dust and they put fat in a cup in the water and they attract the fat. Does that actually work?

26:44🔗 Drew No.

26:44🔗 Caller Are they like, you know, pulling my leg?

26:46🔗 Drew There's something called Xenocal you can use that actually does absorb fat if you have relevant weight excess. Are you obese? You're fat.

26:53🔗 Caller Well, I'm 250.

26:55🔗 Drew Okay. And that, by the way, being overweight can increase your level of estrogen and that might delay some of your puberty. So losing the weight, exercising, all that will raise testosterone levels and may help you with your growth and development.

27:06🔗 Caller Oh, no doubt. All right.

27:07🔗 Victoria Silvstedt You know what you should try? No. The Swedish penis enlarger.

27:13🔗 Adam Does that have anything to do with it?

27:14🔗 Victoria Silvstedt You ever heard about that, the pump thing?

27:16🔗 Adam It's in the back of the LA Times sports piece.

27:17🔗 The Austin Power movie.

27:18🔗 Victoria Silvstedt They have the Swedish penis enlarger.

27:20🔗 It works.

27:21🔗 Adam Well, how do you know?

27:23🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Nowadays, you can pump up lips and boobs with those things.

27:26🔗 Adam Well, you've been pumping a lot, Victoria.

27:27🔗 No, yeah.

27:29🔗 Adam Good job on your part.

27:30🔗 Drew Victoria, do not even suggest to our listeners that this is a possibility.

27:33🔗 Adam If you want to know about them.

27:35🔗 Drew By the way, if it did work, it wouldn't be $39.95. It would be $3,995.

27:39🔗 Adam And we'd all be walking around with something hanging out of the bottom of our Levi's. 16 inches, limp and folded. Okay, Andrew. Andrew, you're 14 on Love On.

27:49🔗 Caller Hello?

27:49🔗 Adam What's up, man?

27:51🔗 Caller I met this girl. She's 19, and she was like... We were playing truth or dare at my house, and my sister was there. And one of the questions was if she had the chance to have sex with me, she would.

28:00🔗 Adam Your sister would?

28:01🔗 Caller No, my friend asked her if she could have the chance to have sex with me.

28:05🔗 Drew What was a 19-year-old doing with a bunch of 14-year-olds?

28:08🔗 Caller She was my ex-best friend's cousin, so we got introduced to that, and then we just started talking and stuff.

28:14🔗 Drew All right. Again, why was she hanging around with a bunch of 14-year-olds, though? I understand how you met, but...

28:18🔗 Adam Because she's the ex-best friend's cousin, so we were just fooling around. But anyway, my sister?

28:23🔗 Caller Well, my sister was there. One of my friends asked her if she had the chance to have sex with me, if she would.

28:28🔗 Drew Yeah.

28:29🔗 Caller And she said yes, so then my sister went off running to my mom, telling her that, and then my mom saw it, saying that if we do, that she's going to get her in trouble and stuff. And I was wondering, like, what are the chances?

28:38🔗 Drew Oh, mom.

28:40🔗 Caller Bad woman!

28:42🔗 Drew Well, what are the chances of what?

28:45🔗 Caller I just wanted to know, like, what are, like, what's, like, the worst that can happen to her if, like, my mom found out?

28:50🔗 Drew Oh, she could go to jail, because it doesn't, in many states, it doesn't specify whether it's male or female, having sex with a minor is not legal.

28:57🔗 Adam But I can understand Andrew's position. 14 years old and he's got a 19 year old.

29:01🔗 Drew He's willing to take the risk?

29:02🔗 Victoria Silvstedt I know.

29:04🔗 Drew Andrew, you just relax. She probably was just goofing anyway.

29:07🔗 Adam Probably. All right, Andrew? All right.

29:09🔗 Drew But your mom's trying to do her job, give her a chance.

29:11🔗 Adam And now you have a masturbating material for the next 17 years until you really do have some sex.

29:16🔗 Drew And you gave some for Stryker, too, so thanks.

29:18🔗 Adam Thank you, because I need it. All right, Jason21 on Loveline with the lovely Victoria and Dr. Drew.

29:24🔗 Caller Hey, how you doing? I eat my Wheaties, by the way.

29:28🔗 Drew Good job.

29:30🔗 Caller Hey, I just had sex for the first time with a girlfriend. I've been with her for about two years. And after we were done, I had to take her to the hospital because I ripped her up pretty good.

29:39🔗 Caller And now she's like Larry about having sex and stuff.

29:43🔗 Adam Ripped her up.

29:43🔗 Drew First of all, are you out on the bayou right now? Where are you?

29:48🔗 Caller I'm on my cell phone.

29:49🔗 Drew Listen to that.

29:50🔗 Adam Listen. I can hear the crickets.

29:52🔗 Drew Crickets sounds like it's like a swamp.

29:55🔗 Caller I'm outside.

29:56🔗 Caller We live in the middle of the desert.

29:59🔗 Adam What state are you in?

30:00🔗 Caller New Mexico. Okay.

30:02🔗 What's that?

30:03🔗 Victoria Silvstedt So you said you whipped her up pretty good?

30:06🔗 Caller She had to get like four sticks of that.

30:08🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Oh my God. You must be huge or really rough. I don't know.

30:11🔗 Caller I eat a lot of wheat. I'm telling you.

30:14🔗 Drew Well, I don't understand how did that happen? That you forced yourself on her?

30:19🔗 Caller What's that?

30:20🔗 Caller No, no.

30:21🔗 Caller We both wanted to do it.

30:22🔗 Drew You know what I mean? Yeah. But didn't it hurt her? And did she decide to stop at the point at which it hurt?

30:27🔗 Caller No. She just wanted to keep on going. We were both drinking pretty much. You know what I mean?

30:33🔗 Drew That's nice.

30:34🔗 We were pretty lit up.

30:35🔗 Adam Well, anytime you have sex for the first time with someone, you want to be on as much Mickey's 40 ounces as possible.

30:42🔗 Drew So far, this call has been, hey, I want everybody to know that I sent my girlfriend to the hospital. So what is your question?

30:48🔗 Caller I mean, she's like, she's like against it.

30:50🔗 Caller So I don't, you know what I mean?

30:52🔗 No kidding.

30:53🔗 Adam So you want to know what you can do to have sex with her again, I guess, right?

30:57🔗 Caller Yeah, until we get her to have sex with me again and stuff.

30:59🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Let her heal up a little and then do it the romantic way. Don't, you know, go out and drink and then try to, you know, do it.

31:07🔗 Adam And buy about two gallons of Astraglide. Throw that on the package and you'll be in and out of there, man. All right, good. David, you're 20. You're on Loveline.

31:14🔗 Caller Yep. First off, I just wanted to congratulate on some of the sound effects from yesterday. The Mr. Burns, I'm a big boy.

31:23🔗 Drew Oh, yeah.

31:23🔗 Caller Oh, yeah. That was beautiful. Very beautiful. My question was from the time I've been probably 13 or 14 until I was about 17 or 18, I'd masturbate while I was on the toilet.

31:38🔗 Caller I'm the big boy.

31:40🔗 Drew Oh, there you go, David.

31:42🔗 Caller Beautiful.

31:42🔗 Victoria Silvstedt All right.

31:43🔗 Caller Thank you. Because, you know, that was the most private place I could find. And anymore, when I have sex, I have to take a dump.

31:52🔗 Drew Oh, yeah.

31:53🔗 Caller And I just wanted to know, what can I do to overcome this?

31:56🔗 Drew That's sort of a conditioned response. There are different sort of colonic reflexes that can be entrained as gastrocolic reflexes and things from eating, drinking hot liquids and things. And so this is something that happens sometimes. You just need to control yourself, David, and not continue to gratify that urge, okay? I'm sure you're a big boy now.

32:17🔗 Caller That's right. I'm a big boy.

32:18🔗 Drew Yeah, but to have the fact that you have that urge is not surprising, right? You, for years, coupled that very rewarding experience with number two, so there you go.

32:28🔗 Caller Right.

32:28🔗 Drew It's not unheard of, what you're experiencing.

32:31🔗 Adam And you know what? You may get hemorrhoids from sitting on that.

32:33🔗 Drew Although we never had that question before.

32:34🔗 Adam Isn't that possible?

32:35🔗 Drew No.

32:36🔗 Adam No?

32:36🔗 Drew Okay.

32:37🔗 Adam Sarah.

32:37🔗 Yeah.

32:38🔗 Adam You're 15. What's going on?

32:41🔗 Caller Well, last year, I kind of found out. Well, I came out as a lesbian. And I've never actually been with another girl. And I wanted to know how to get her horny and what if, like, if I...

32:55🔗 Drew Hey, Sarah, we're 15. What's the horny?

32:57🔗 Victoria Silvstedt How do you know for sure you're a lesbian? Maybe you're just attractive to a female. It's very normal in that age.

33:02🔗 Caller Are you sure?

33:04🔗 Victoria Silvstedt I went through that too and I'm totally straight.

33:08🔗 Caller Well, it's been...

33:09🔗 Caller So, it's okay if it's, like, more than one chick or...

33:13🔗 Drew You mean more attractive than just a one person? Yeah, there's...

33:16🔗 Victoria Silvstedt You don't even look at guys or, like...

33:18🔗 Caller I look at guys a couple of times, but, I mean, if I see a girl or a guy...

33:21🔗 Drew Sarah, let me just explore with you. I just get a feeling from you, right? Okay. Do you have any medications?

33:27🔗 Caller Medication?

33:28🔗 Drew Yeah.

33:28🔗 Caller Allergy pills.

33:29🔗 Drew That's it. And you have any history we need to know about? Anything in your past?

33:35🔗 Caller Nothing really big.

33:36🔗 Drew Like, what were those not big things big?

33:40🔗 Adam A neighbor didn't come over your house when he wasn't supposed to?

33:43🔗 Caller No.

33:44🔗 Adam You pause. Why do you pause? What's going on?

33:48🔗 Caller I... I was younger and...

33:51🔗 Drew What happened?

33:54🔗 Caller My mom's cousin came over.

33:56🔗 Drew How old was she? Or he?

33:58🔗 Caller He.

33:59🔗 Drew How old was he?

33:59🔗 Caller I don't know. 18 at the time.

34:01🔗 Drew How old were you?

34:02🔗 Caller Probably around seven.

34:03🔗 Drew And he sexually abused you?

34:05🔗 Caller A little.

34:06🔗 Drew Yeah. You know, it's like a little pregnant, too. There's not a little sexual abuse there either.

34:09🔗 Caller Yeah, okay. Yeah.

34:11🔗 Drew All right. So you got some stuff flying around from that, no doubt.

34:13🔗 Caller Yeah.

34:14🔗 Drew And that... those kinds of experiences make people at your age very confused about their sexual identity. Most 15-year-old lesbians don't need to declare it. Well, I haven't publicly declared it yet. Just like most 15-year-olds that have sex don't go declare it because it's their private business and it's who they are and they may need people close to them to know about it. But, Sarah, you sound confused, though. Yeah. How do I know if... You don't know anything right now. If you want to know something, get a therapist, get an evaluation and get in, start talking about this stuff and see if you can sort it out. You may be lesbian. That's fine. But right now, you just sound confused. And the important thing is not to act when you're confused. It adds to the confusion.

34:53🔗 Adam Now, is she confused because she's only like 14 or 15 or because what that guy did when he went over the house?

34:59🔗 Drew She was sexually abused.

35:00🔗 Adam That's the reason? OK. Katie, you're 17 on Loveline.

35:04🔗 Caller Hi.

35:05🔗 I have a really strange question.

35:08🔗 Caller Is it possible for a guy to urinate during anal sex?

35:12🔗 Adam Do you want that to happen?

35:13🔗 Caller No.

35:14🔗 Drew I don't think it's really... What is that feedback? It's very difficult for a guy, if not impossible for most guys, to urinate during any sex, during erection even.

35:22🔗 Caller Okay. So, the answer basically would be yes, he could.

35:27🔗 Drew Some guys possibly could.

35:29🔗 Caller Okay.

35:29🔗 Adam Do you know how hard it is to urinate if you have an erection?

35:33🔗 Drew For some guys, it's impossible.

35:34🔗 Caller You gotta hold it down.

35:35🔗 Victoria Silvstedt You gotta shoot it in the face.

35:36🔗 Drew Even if you aren't aiming, even if you're just trying to push out urine, it's almost impossible.

35:40🔗 Adam As a kid, I used to try to get an erection just so I could play this mind game to try and pee, so I could shoot it taller than my head was.

35:47🔗 Drew Don't admit to that stuff.

35:48🔗 Victoria Silvstedt It's so much easier for us girls, though, you know?

35:51🔗 Drew Stryker, Stryker, come on, we'll talk off the air.

35:53🔗 Adam Alright, I'll tell you guys later what happened with the erection.

35:55🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Yeah, we want to know.

35:56🔗 Adam If you've seen me, myself, and Irene, very similar, alright?

35:59🔗 Drew Wait, now it's break time.

36:00🔗 Adam Oh, it is break time? Now it's break time. Alright, 1-800-LOVE-191 is the number. Dr. Drew Stryker here in for Ace Rockolla, Adam Corolla, Victoria Silvstedt. She is the guest, Playman of the Year from 97, Ask Questions, and more Loveline coming up next with the girl who has a lot of problems, of course, on the vine.

36:50🔗 Caller Alrighty.

36:52🔗 Adam You're listening to Loveline 1-800-Love-191 with Dr. Drew and Striker for Adam Carolla and our guest tonight, Victoria Silvstedt. And it says here, and I read, you were on The Real World or something?

37:04🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Well, I was just greeting the teams when they came to the Playboy Mansion, and I took them on a private tour.

37:10🔗 Adam Of the Playboy Mansion. What are the chances of a guy like you and a girl like me possibly going to one of the Playboy Mansion parties?

37:17🔗 Victoria Silvstedt I've heard you've been to a couple already.

37:19🔗 Adam I've been to one. I've been to one.

37:20🔗 Victoria Silvstedt You went to the Limp Bizkit Pajama Party thing?

37:22🔗 Adam Yeah, I wore Curious George pajamas, and they worked out pretty well. I went home alone. Did you? It was okay, though.

37:30🔗 Victoria Silvstedt You were fulfilled there at the party, I'm sure.

37:31🔗 Adam Exactly. All right. Who are we going to here, Drew? We're going to talk to Keith, I guess? Keith is 19, and you're on Loveline with Victoria.

37:40🔗 Caller Oh, I made it on Loveline. Oh, Dr. Drew, I got to say first off, you're a wonderful man.

37:45🔗 Caller I love what you do.

37:46🔗 Caller I love drdrew.com.

37:47🔗 Drew Oh, Keith, God bless you.

37:49🔗 Caller I'm on there every day, no doubt. To Anderson, you're hilarious. You have great timing and can you play the Taboo 2 theme since Adam's not here tonight?

37:59🔗 Drew If we can find it.

38:00🔗 Caller If we can find it.

38:01🔗 Adam What is it, Drew?

38:02🔗 Drew Taboo 2.

38:03🔗 Adam Oh, yeah. I know that.

38:05🔗 Drew Here it comes.

38:07🔗 Caller Oh, there it is.

38:08🔗 Drew We'll just play a couple lines of this, because without Adam singing along, it's just not the same.

38:13🔗 Caller He knows how to please.

38:16🔗 Caller I listen to this show every night. Hey, Stryker, man, I'm out in Tucson.

38:19🔗 Adam Hey, what's up?

38:19🔗 Caller What's going on?

38:20🔗 Adam Nothing.

38:21🔗 Caller I can't believe you weren't here for KFMA Day, man.

38:23🔗 Adam Ah, well, I was out here doing my thing.

38:25🔗 Drew We're in Los Angeles now.

38:26🔗 Yeah. That's a trip.

38:28🔗 Caller You're out there now.

38:28🔗 Victoria Silvstedt And you have to play with a mansion.

38:31🔗 Caller Oh, in Victoria Silvstedt. My god.

38:34🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Are you hot?

38:34🔗 Caller Keith.

38:35🔗 Adam You are just blowing smoke up everyone here, Keith.

38:38🔗 He's smooth.

38:40🔗 Drew Got any questions, Keith?

38:41🔗 Caller Yes, yes, I do. I smoke marijuana every day.

38:44🔗 Drew Nice.

38:45🔗 Caller First, I gotta tell you, though, I am in support of Adam's Theory.

38:49🔗 Drew What's that?

38:49🔗 Caller Of high IQ people doing drugs. And I do have a fairly high IQ.

38:55🔗 Drew All I know is, whatever brain cells you lose, you'll wish you had back when you're older.

38:59🔗 Caller That's very likely.

38:59🔗 Drew It's guaranteed. Guaranteed that. There's a stronger argument for pot, though, and that's the Cypress Hill theory. Oh, yeah. Which is, I've known these guys for like 15 years, and when I first met them, they were like hopped up, hostile, angry young guys. Fast forward 10 years of daily marijuana, and they're like passive. They're great. They're great guys. They were always great guys, but all that anger and hostility is just puffed right out of them.

39:27🔗 Adam They went from songs about the gang life down in Cypress, California to songs about hits from the bongs.

39:32🔗 Caller Exactly.

39:33🔗 Adam All right, man. So what's going on?

39:35🔗 Caller Well, when I was about, I guess, nine or 10 years old, well, it was a repressed memory, actually, until one night that I was listening to the show. I was abused by the kid that lived across the street.

39:45🔗 Drew What'd he do?

39:47🔗 Caller The only flash I have of it was him laying down on top of me. And all I remember was just thinking, I don't play like this or whatever. And that's as much as I can get from it right now.

40:01🔗 Drew Well, that might not even be abuse. That might have been just a kid who was moving in that direction, but you appropriately sort of got out from under it, quite literally.

40:09🔗 Caller I got a really bad feeling that it was the ladder, though.

40:13🔗 Adam That you didn't stop it?

40:15🔗 Caller I'm pretty sure something happened.

40:17🔗 Drew Like what do you mean something?

40:19🔗 Caller That he at least fondled me or did something like that.

40:22🔗 Victoria Silvstedt How old was your neighbor?

40:24🔗 Caller I guess he was only a couple years older like me.

40:26🔗 Drew But you were ten. You weren't like four. And it wasn't something that went on and on. It was like something that happened and you pulled away from it, got away from it. That doesn't have to be a traumatizing experience.

40:36🔗 Caller Okay. I'm just wondering because there's no real... I don't think there's really a history of addiction in my family, although I will say it's pertinent that my mom told me recently that her and my dad, when they were trying to have their second kid, which was me, that they just kind of conceived. Even one night they decided, well, we'll just get stoned and they did and then they had me.

40:57🔗 Drew A stoner.

40:58🔗 Caller I wonder if that's just a coincidence now that I'm a pothead.

41:02🔗 Drew What's your ethnic background?

41:04🔗 Caller I guess German, Indian.

41:07🔗 Drew North American Indian?

41:09🔗 Caller No, no. Actually Cherokee, I guess.

41:11🔗 Drew Cherokee. That's where the alcoholism gene is in you. That's a profound problem. Look on that little part of your family and you'll see there'll be some alcoholics there.

41:19🔗 Caller Oh, well, I'm definitely sure because my mom had every abuse in the book.

41:23🔗 Drew All right. Well, there you go.

41:24🔗 Caller Dad and stepdad. So I'm sure they were both alcoholics.

41:27🔗 Drew All right. Now you're a marijuana addict. You have to be most, 90 plus percent of marijuana addicts are alcoholics, so that's where the gene is.

41:35🔗 Caller And I agree with that. It's just odd because I really don't even have a thing for alcohol. I drink once in a while.

41:40🔗 Drew If you get a more addictive compound going first, the alcohol doesn't do it for you. It takes a long while for the alcoholism to get charged up, to get conditioned in that part of the brain, while these other drugs do it very quickly. And once they've sort of been etched into the brain chemistry, the alcohol, you can do it with the alcohol, but you have to drink a lot of it. And usually people that have started with stronger drugs stay with stronger drugs.

42:02🔗 Adam Now I've listened to the show constantly for years. Smoking pot, I'm still not even clear. You are affected by it years and years from now?

42:12🔗 Drew The big thing with pot is when you are using it, frankly. People who get addicted to it usually use it for 5, 10, 15 years. And somewhere along there it stops working, they start getting depressed, they start getting memory problems. If you do CAT scans on these people, there is brain structural change. And mostly, if not all that, it goes away when you stop smoking pot.

42:31🔗 Adam I have a friend, straight A's in business school. He smokes pot daily.

42:36🔗 Drew The most significant consequence is on affect, mood, and it will happen.

42:40🔗 Adam The mood is, no wonder he's so mellow.

42:43🔗 Drew It will fall apart soon.

42:44🔗 Adam Alright, Joe, you're on Love Line with Victoria. What's up, man?

42:47🔗 Caller Excellent. Well, my girlfriend is always, when we start making out, she'll like rub on me. Like clothes are still on, and she like gets off rubbing. But then when we get into the sex, she doesn't. Like she won't work at them. And I just want to know what I can do to better please her.

43:07🔗 Drew What does she say when you ask her that?

43:11🔗 Caller You know, I really haven't questioned it a whole lot.

43:14🔗 Drew No, that's where you gotta go.

43:15🔗 Caller Well, right.

43:16🔗 Drew It may not get better for her.

43:18🔗 Caller What's that?

43:18🔗 Drew It may not get better for her. That may be what she likes to do. It's for you.

43:23🔗 Caller Could be.

43:24🔗 Adam And I think Victoria can probably hopefully clarify this. Isn't there a spot on a woman, whether there's clothes on or not, if you just rub it in that area, like, just going nuts down there?

43:34🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Uh, yeah.

43:35🔗 Adam And then maybe you're the person...

43:37🔗 Victoria Silvstedt It's like when you're horseback riding, bareback. It's like the rubbing thing.

43:41🔗 Adam Right.

43:42🔗 Victoria Silvstedt It's different.

43:43🔗 Caller Perhaps, I know she's blonde, fairly big-breasted. I don't know if... I've never actually seen pictures of you, Victoria, but what is it that gets you excited? I mean, what is it that best turns you on?

43:56🔗 Adam Good question, Joe. God bless America.

43:58🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Exactly.

43:59🔗 Adam Victoria, answer that, please.

44:01🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Well, it's a lot of different things. Horseback riding, bareback, one of them.

44:08🔗 Adam I'm sure Dr. Drew to my left, too, right?

44:10🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Yeah. I'm sitting here with two hot guys, so that gets me going. Yeah.

44:15🔗 Adam And Joe, some women are a lot more sensitive in a good way inside. Some are a lot more sensitive outside, and some aren't sensitive at all inside, right, Dr. Drew? Or either place. Yeah, or either place. And if that happens, find a new mate. Tony, just kidding. Tony, you're 17, you're on Loveline.

44:30🔗 Caller How's it going? Good.

44:32🔗 Caller I have a question. I masturbate about seven times a day.

44:35🔗 Adam Seven?

44:35🔗 Caller Yeah.

44:36🔗 Drew Ouch.

44:37🔗 Caller My testicles ache after a while.

44:39🔗 Drew No kidding. Why don't you do less?

44:43🔗 Caller I don't know, I'm addicted to it.

44:44🔗 Drew Okay, honest enough answer. Is there some trauma in your childhood that sort of triggered this?

44:50🔗 Caller No, no, no, no.

44:51🔗 Drew Are you doing other drugs?

44:52🔗 Caller No, no drugs.

44:54🔗 Drew Hmm. Because addiction to sex per se usually follows some other addiction, a chemical addiction, unless there's something to induce sexual compulsivity like a sexual abuse in childhood.

45:06🔗 Caller I wasn't abused very often.

45:08🔗 Drew Tony, what do you use? Were you physically abused? What do you use?

45:10🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Porn videos or magazines or just your imagination?

45:14🔗 Caller Pretty much my imagination.

45:15🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Wow, you got a big one, wild one.

45:17🔗 Adam Write some books, man.

45:18🔗 Drew Were you physically abused?

45:20🔗 Caller No.

45:20🔗 Drew Nobody ever hit you or anything?

45:21🔗 Caller No. My mother never hit me.

45:23🔗 Caller My father never hit me.

45:25🔗 Adam Have you been with a woman before?

45:27🔗 Caller Yes, I have.

45:28🔗 Victoria Silvstedt He's just a horn dog, baby.

45:30🔗 Adam How long did you last with the woman compared to how long you last when you're by yourself?

45:39🔗 Adam Longer with the woman?

45:40🔗 Adam Yeah, because man, you got to slow down a bit or you're going to know how to do it to yourself. And if this person isn't doing it exactly how you're doing it, man, you're going to be not only just running a marathon with these women, but you're never going to be able to get to that climax point.

45:56🔗 Drew No, there's no such thing as running out, but you can certainly hurt yourself. You can cause skin problems and urethritis. What the hell are you doing? Prostatitis? Tony, there's a point at which it is just a compulsion, not something you enjoy. Is there any bipolar illness in your family?

46:13🔗 Caller Not that I know of.

46:14🔗 Drew Do you have any other features? Do you sleep normally at night?

46:18🔗 Caller Yeah, I'm totally fine.

46:20🔗 Drew It's not like you sleep just one hour a night.

46:21🔗 Are you a jerk now?

46:23🔗 I'm kidding. I'm sorry.

46:25🔗 Drew Well, I don't know if he has any time during the day when he isn't at seven times a day.

46:28🔗 Caller Well, I don't know.

46:29🔗 Caller It's just something to do.

46:32🔗 Drew Yeah, he must be pretty bored.

46:33🔗 Adam You know, the gym's a fun place to go, not to masturbate, but to work out, but you don't get rid of some of that angst possibly, man.

46:40🔗 Caller Why are you getting enough work out?

46:44🔗 Drew All right, Tony, just cool it a little bit. You're gonna hurt yourself. There's something missing from his story. It just doesn't fit. But he's not really getting to it. I mean, the way that happens...

46:50🔗 Victoria Silvstedt He's not being very honest. I hear something's missing.

46:52🔗 Drew Yeah, right. Either he's making the story... I think he may be making the whole thing up, frankly. The way that happens is either addicted and addicted to something else first, you're compulsive because of a trauma or you're bipolar manic. That's how that happens.

47:05🔗 Adam Got it. Shannon.

47:07🔗 Yeah.

47:07🔗 Adam You're on Loveline and you're 20. Welcome.

47:10🔗 Caller Well, hi. I have a question. Okay. I'm married right now, but me and my husband just recently split up. But we were the whole high school sweetheart thing, young, engaged in high school, got out of high school, got married, then had a kid. But since January, it just seems like we've been distant just ignoring each other. So finally, we just decided, you know, we're just going to be friends and get along because we do have a kid together.

47:39🔗 Drew Shannon, we've got to go to break. What's the question real quick?

47:41🔗 Caller Well, the question is, we're still having intercourse just so we can get it out of our system. It's like, we're not wrong.

47:47🔗 Drew Hold on.

47:48🔗 Adam Dr. Drew, they're having intercourse and we're going to find out if she should keep doing it. It's Loveline with Victoria Silvstedt and Drew and Stryker for Adam. Coming up next on Loveline.

47:57🔗 Stryker Loveline, Loveline, we'll be right back.

48:44🔗 Adam All right, Adam Corolla has three TV shows. I don't have any, but I'm in a Limp Bizkit video. Oh, really? So I got that going for me. In the Breakstuff video. I'm Stryker, in for Adam Corolla on Loveline 1-800, Love 1-9-1, along with Dr. Drew and Victoria Silvstedt, who came in the top ten in the Miss World Competition.

49:03🔗 Victoria Silvstedt How do you know that? I was like...

49:04🔗 Adam I'm smart.

49:05🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Ten years ago.

49:06🔗 Adam Because I went to your website.

49:07🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Oh, my God. You've been everywhere, haven't you?

49:09🔗 Adam So if you were Playmate of the Year and you were top ten in the world, don't you think the women in front of you should have been Playmate of the Year at some point? Where the hell are they now?

49:18🔗 Adam What? Watch, you can't say that word.

49:20🔗 Caller Oh, I'm sorry.

49:22🔗 Adam See, if we were in Sweden, then you can say words like that.

49:25🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Oh, I'm so sorry.

49:26🔗 Adam All right. I'm doing my best here. Thanks for calling up. We are going to speak to Shannon. If you just joined in us, she split away from her husband. They were away from each other for a while. And now all of a sudden, just to get it out of their system, they're having sex again, right, Shannon? Yeah.

49:42🔗 Drew Well, it's not...

49:44🔗 Caller We broke up and we decided we were going to be friends. But now all of a sudden, we get along a lot better. Everything's more comfortable. You know, it just... we're joking around. We're just... it's just the whole...

49:54🔗 Drew Shannon, do you want to get back with your husband?

49:58🔗 Caller Well, not really.

50:00🔗 Caller I mean, I still love him.

50:01🔗 Drew Don't you think that continuing to have a physical relationship with him keeps you sort of attached in some way that might not be so good for you?

50:09🔗 Caller Well, no. I just think I still get to have sex and not, you know, have risks, you know, getting diseased or, you know...

50:15🔗 Drew But that doesn't... it doesn't keep you emotionally involved in this relationship. You're still able to go out and... it doesn't get rid of your mojo. Huh?

50:23🔗 Caller What do you mean?

50:25🔗 Drew Mojo!

50:26🔗 Adam Who are you quoting Stuart Scott, Dr. Drew?

50:28🔗 Drew You still want to go out and date other people and all.

50:30🔗 Adam How many... Shannon? Shannon, do you have any kids?

50:33🔗 Caller We have one.

50:34🔗 Adam And is this possibly going to hurt your child if you guys are separated but all of a sudden every couple of days maybe he's coming over for a quickie?

50:42🔗 Caller Well I'm going over there.

50:44🔗 Adam And where's your child at the time?

50:46🔗 Caller Well right now he's with his grandparents for two weeks.

50:49🔗 Drew If you're really at ease with this, that's fine. It's obviously a comfortable place for you. It's the only thing you've ever known. You've been with the guy since high school. It's understandable that it would be sort of such a comfort zone for you. On the other hand I will predict that it will keep you involved in that relationship in a way that will not let you really be available to other relationships until you end it. That's when the piece of yourself will be able to be available for something more substantial.

51:13🔗 Adam So either give up the sex and-

51:15🔗 Drew Just give up the relationship and create more boundaries in that relationship.

51:19🔗 Adam Michael, you're 22 on Loveline.

51:20🔗 Caller Hey, how's it going guys?

51:22🔗 Adam Excellent.

51:23🔗 Caller I have a problem here. I've known my girlfriend for a while.

51:29🔗 Caller We're kind of trying to be friends now or whatever.

51:32🔗 Caller I've known her for about six years. Before we got together, I got to see her have sex with other guys.

51:38🔗 Adam You got to? What do you mean?

51:39🔗 Caller You were watching her. I wasn't watching her, like watching her just get cheap throws off it or anything.

51:47🔗 Caller I just happened to be in the same room while she was doing it.

51:49🔗 Drew You're gay. So he wasn't just a cheap observer. He was a professional.

51:55🔗 Caller You know, I just happened to be in a room at the same time.

51:58🔗 Drew And by the way, you've known her for six years. So this was all going on when you were 16, 17?

52:05🔗 Caller Huh?

52:07🔗 Adam I'm really curious. How were you able to, I guess if you're in the moment, but you just snuck in the room while this girl was with someone else?

52:13🔗 Caller No, no, no. She was drinking, you know.

52:16🔗 Adam What about you, though? I'm asking about you. You just got in the room?

52:19🔗 Caller Oh, no.

52:19🔗 Drew Was it opium dens or something? What the hell are you talking about?

52:23🔗 Caller I was just in the room, that's all.

52:24🔗 Drew Yeah, Michael, you're talking about that as though that's just-

52:26🔗 Caller We were real close friends. That's all it was.

52:28🔗 Drew Evidently.

52:30🔗 Adam I've got friends. I don't want them watching me get it on. Come on, now.

52:34🔗 Caller When she's drinking, she doesn't really care, you know? So anyways, what was your question? My question is, whenever I masturbate now, instead of me thinking of me and her having sex, I think about her having sex with these other guys.

52:49🔗 Caller You're gay.

52:53🔗 Caller I was just wondering if that was normal or not.

52:56🔗 Adam Dr. Drew, you take this one.

52:57🔗 Victoria Silvstedt I think it's more normal if girls fantasize about other girls while you're having sex with a guy, but I don't know about guys and guys and another girl.

53:03🔗 Drew Yeah. But the whole situation is so ridiculous, so awful. He's been watching this girl have sex with other guys since she was 16.

53:12🔗 Caller He's got to be.

53:14🔗 Drew Yeah. Hold on.

53:14🔗 Adam I got to ask you one more thing. What exactly is your question, short and to the point?

53:18🔗 Drew Is it normal?

53:19🔗 Caller Question basically, is it normal that I do that?

53:22🔗 Drew Should he be thinking about him having sex with her as opposed to other guys having sex with her?

53:26🔗 Caller Oh.

53:28🔗 Adam Drew, you answer that one.

53:29🔗 Drew The whole situation is so unnormal that-

53:31🔗 Adam That thing is just whack, as they say. Yeah.

53:35🔗 Drew What you do in your private time doesn't make it any less abnormal.

53:39🔗 Adam Right. All right, Howard, you're 22 and apparently you're being stalked by somebody.

53:44🔗 Caller Yeah. I am. I'm from Cal- Well, I'm going to college in California, and I think it's some chick off the Internet. I wrote to some chick off the Internet, and ever since then, I've gotten weird, freaky phone calls.

53:57🔗 Drew Okay.

53:58🔗 Caller And like, I went to the police station in Beverly Hills and they laughed at me. They said that I shouldn't be afraid of some girl stalking me. And my friend, the number is unlisted, and he got the listing off the Internet. She's from New York City and Lexington Avenue. And I tried to call the number back, but I hear breathing on the phone, and then it connects me to some automated service. Well, there's always all these weird messages.

54:25🔗 Drew How long has this been going on for?

54:27🔗 Caller Like, how long? Like two weeks?

54:29🔗 Drew Yeah.

54:30🔗 Caller Yeah. It's like screen, man. It's getting freakier and freakier and freakier.

54:33🔗 Drew Why? In what sense?

54:34🔗 Caller Because, like, the messages start out okay, but they're getting more and scarier and scarier.

54:39🔗 Drew In what way?

54:40🔗 Caller What?

54:41🔗 Adam What's the scariest thing that she said to you in the message?

54:44🔗 Caller Uh, that she knows about a scar on the right side of my head that looks like a hook. Well, it looks like a tattoo, but it's every- everybody thinks it's a tattoo, but it's actually a scar. And she's gonna rip my legs off because I dissed her or something. And I don't even know this person.

54:59🔗 Drew Change your phone number. And you reported to the police that she was threatening violence?

55:03🔗 Caller Yeah, but they said they can't do anything unless some physical harm comes to me. So what good is that gonna be?

55:08🔗 Drew Well, but there are- there are stalking laws now, right? And it seems to me that you could invoke those sorts of protections. However, unless there's something- some reason to believe you're in harm's way, I can see where they might not mobilize.

55:25🔗 Caller The thing that I'm not telling you is this woman's a dominatrix.

55:28🔗 Drew How do you know that?

55:30🔗 Caller Uh, because I put an ad on the internet.

55:34🔗 Adam Oh, I don't know. He put an ad on the internet.

55:36🔗 Drew I forget it.

55:37🔗 Adam All you have to do, man, is change your number, and the mind can play tricks on you so bad. So just change your number and move somewhere else. All right, Mark, you're 15 on Loveline.

55:48🔗 Caller Like, for me, every time I get an erection, I get this, like, pretty, you know, stomach ache? It's just, like, a pretty bad stomach ache. And, like, it's hard to masturbate. Like, you're trying to think about the girl, and then you get this messed up stomach failure. Is that normal?

56:04🔗 Drew What the hell are you talking about?

56:05🔗 Adam What is this?

56:06🔗 Drew Stryker, this is your fault.

56:07🔗 Adam This is all my fault. You know it's a full moon tonight, by the way.

56:10🔗 Drew It's been for three or four nights, though. But tell me this again. Describe the feeling.

56:15🔗 Caller Like, it's, like, it's a stomach ache, and it kind of works its way up towards, like, it kind of works around in the stomach.

56:22🔗 Drew OK. Ask me.

56:23🔗 Adam Hold on. Dr. Drew, I want to be him. Ask me.

56:25🔗 Drew Describe the stomach pain to me.

56:27🔗 Adam Well, I just think about a girl, and the pain squirms around and goes up.

56:33🔗 Drew Yeah, that's what we got. Mark, the term stomach ache, don't use. What do you experience?

56:39🔗 Caller Like, a burning feeling in the stomach.

56:41🔗 Drew Burning. Right under the belly button, kind of?

56:44🔗 What?

56:46🔗 Caller Like, in a three inch surface area of that, yeah.

56:48🔗 Drew Under the belly button. Yeah. And it doesn't move up or down?

56:53🔗 Caller Throbs.

56:54🔗 Drew Throbbing. And is it every time you have an erection?

56:56🔗 Caller Every time I have an erection, yeah, for like the past year.

56:59🔗 Drew Huh.

57:00🔗 Caller I've had doctors check it out and they're like, they think it's normal, they think I'm just having like a hormonic rage.

57:05🔗 Drew Right, right, right.

57:07🔗 Adam Do you chew a lot of Flintstones, kids?

57:11🔗 Drew No, no, no.

57:12🔗 Adam A lot of acid in there.

57:15🔗 Drew This is some sort of muscular or prostate thing. So I don't know what that would be, Mark, but have you seen a urologist ever?

57:20🔗 Caller What?

57:22🔗 Caller No, I haven't.

57:23🔗 Drew That's what you ought to do, but I'll tell you what, the probability of this being something important or harmful or even problematic to you, very, very remote.

57:34🔗 Caller Yeah.

57:34🔗 Drew So you didn't worry about it, right? But I can understand that it could be unpleasant.

57:39🔗 Adam Definitely, especially every time you get an erection, thinking about a girl, the burning sensation.

57:42🔗 Drew Hey, by the way, at 15, every time is like, how many times an hour?

57:46🔗 Adam Every other minute, probably.

57:46🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Every other minute.

57:47🔗 Caller All right.

57:48🔗 Adam Let's talk to Aaron, who's 19 on Loveline with Victoria Silvstedt, who's blonde, six foot one, and pretty nice.

57:57🔗 How you going, guys? How you guys doing?

57:59🔗 Drew Aaron, what's up?

57:59🔗 Caller Okay.

58:00🔗 Caller Hey, I got a question. I've known this girl for four months and I knew she was bisexual from the beginning, and I seem to think that was okay and pretty cool and everything. But we started getting in a relationship, and there's this one girl that's always been around, and her asked me if they wanted to pull a threesome, and I said, yeah.

58:18🔗 Adam But you said it more...

58:19🔗 Caller Who wouldn't say it?

58:20🔗 Adam Exactly.

58:21🔗 Caller I said yes, but I thought it would be pretty cool. I've never done it before and everything, but they had sex, and I was sitting there having sex with my girlfriend. I can't say that, but...

58:30🔗 Caller Yeah, yeah, yeah.

58:32🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Because you felt left out.

58:33🔗 Caller Yeah, I kind of felt left out, and afterward, that kind of feels like she's got more feelings for her than she does for me, and it's kind of scaring me.

58:41🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Maybe she's trying to impress you, like, you know?

58:45🔗 Drew That would make him feel like he would.

58:47🔗 Caller I called you guys, see if you guys could help me out.

58:49🔗 Drew Most people that are committed bisexuals are basically telling you they're not committed to monogamy. Mono versus bi.

58:57🔗 Adam Aaron, how much do you like your girlfriend? I love her.

59:02🔗 Caller I love her with all my heart.

59:04🔗 Drew Aaron, no, this isn't going to work, I bet you. This is somebody, she can't tolerate intimacy. She's telling you that by warning you I'm bisexual. It means I'm soon going to be saying bye and hello to another person of the same sex.

59:17🔗 Adam Dating her four months and you already love her, man. I would just look at it like this.

59:20🔗 Drew I care for the girl a lot.

59:22🔗 Caller She's been there for me. She's done stuff for me. I'm kind of scared you know that she's going to wind up leaving me for somebody else.

59:29🔗 Drew Well, she's already put you on notice that's what her plan is.

59:32🔗 Caller What can I do?

59:34🔗 Adam Find another woman and just thank God you had a free summer.

59:37🔗 Drew Have very honest and open dialogue with her about what her intentions are with this relationship and don't be afraid to deal with the reality that exists. Okay. Alright, man. Deal with reality and reality's term. Don't ignore these things so you don't want to hear what you don't want to hear.

59:51🔗 Adam Anytime you're dating someone four months and the girl you're with is saying, why don't we have a threesome with my friend? Right there is a...

59:57🔗 Drew That is bye.

59:59🔗 Adam Definitely.

59:59🔗 Drew Bye bye to the relationship.

1:00:01🔗 Adam And if you already love her for four months, something's kind of odd right there. And if you don't love her, hey, you got a threesome out of it and move on with your life. Hey, Jerry. Yeah. Yeah. You're on Loveline. You're 18. Good.

1:00:11🔗 Caller Hey, Dr. Drew. I love you on Big Brother, man. You're awesome.

1:00:14🔗 Drew Jerry, thanks. You see it tonight?

1:00:15🔗 Yeah.

1:00:16🔗 Drew It was a good show tonight, I thought.

1:00:18🔗 Yeah.

1:00:18🔗 Caller I hate Karen. She's like...

1:00:19🔗 Drew Yeah. But did you hate her by the end of tonight?

1:00:21🔗 Caller Yeah, I did, actually.

1:00:22🔗 Drew Okay. Well, there you go. I thought it was pretty touching what she did.

1:00:27🔗 Caller Yeah, I love Loveline, too. Yeah, I have a big problem with my hands. Like, four days ago, I guess, my sister found my little stash of pornography.

1:00:35🔗 Drew How old is your sister?

1:00:36🔗 Caller She's eight.

1:00:37🔗 Adam Oh. Now, what does this collection consist of?

1:00:41🔗 Drew God, mental note. Thank God I have triplets. What?

1:00:44🔗 Caller Everything except videos. And, like, I guess she told my mom or whatever because she was cute. Yeah, I know. She gave it to my mom and, like, now my mom's on my case and I don't know what to do.

1:00:56🔗 Drew What is she on your case about, mom?

1:00:57🔗 Caller Like, exposing my sister to, like...

1:00:59🔗 Drew Yeah. She's not, like, pissed at you for having porn, right?

1:01:03🔗 Caller Nah.

1:01:04🔗 Drew It's not like, oh, my God.

1:01:05🔗 Caller Actually, yeah, she is. She is.

1:01:06🔗 Drew Well, you're...

1:01:06🔗 Caller She's, like, really conservative.

1:01:08🔗 Drew So, what is it about the porn that bothers her?

1:01:11🔗 Caller I'm, like, looking at that kind of stuff that, I don't know.

1:01:14🔗 Drew Well, is it the exploitation of women?

1:01:17🔗 Caller Everything about it.

1:01:18🔗 Drew Is it the fact that you're a sexual being?

1:01:20🔗 Caller Yeah.

1:01:20🔗 Drew Yeah, the fact that Jerry's grown up. That's bugging her. Okay. I can... I definitely understand if she has a problem with porn in terms of how it treats women. I definitely have a major connection with her on how it affects your eight-year-old sister, because it can be problematic for her.

1:01:35🔗 Caller Like in what way?

1:01:36🔗 Drew Well, it can be... Kids that get exposed prematurely to explicit sexual material can be traumatized. It changes your chemistry a little bit and can hypersexualize them. It can have effects. So, it is actually important that you keep that stuff away from her.

1:01:49🔗 Caller So, what should I do now?

1:01:50🔗 Adam Find a better hiding place.

1:01:52🔗 Drew A better hiding place or a better hiding place out of the house. And what you're doing is not wrong. It's sort of age appropriate for you, for an 18-year-old. But your sister needs to talk a lot about this with her mom and dad. She needs to be figuring out what this is, what this means to her, how people relate. This is an opportunity for your parents to begin communicating with her about these issues. They're going to have to establish and keep a dialogue going for quite a while.

1:02:15🔗 Adam Jerry, Jerry, I'm dying to know, where was this porn collection hidden so your sister could find it?

1:02:21🔗 Caller It was under my bed next to my comic book.

1:02:23🔗 Adam That's the most common place in the history of mankind, Jerry! Come on, man, get a better place than that. All right, Karin, you're 16, on Loveline, with Dr. Drew Victoria Silvstedt is here as well.

1:02:36🔗 Caller Go ahead.

1:02:38🔗 Caller Well, I have this, I guess, like extra skin around, like, my vagina, and it really bothers me.

1:02:49🔗 Drew Why?

1:02:50🔗 It's, I don't know, it's just, it's like, it's just like big and like-

1:02:55🔗 Adam Does it make noise when you walk?

1:02:57🔗 Drew Some women have that, and there actually are operations to reduce that.

1:03:00🔗 Caller Yeah, that's what I was going to ask you, but nobody has ever, like, none of my sexual partners have ever said anything to me.

1:03:05🔗 Drew I don't think it would be an issue to a guy. I don't think you need to worry about it, and you're 16, I definitely don't think anybody would operate on you at 16, so relax. You're fine, it's you.

1:03:18🔗 Adam Don't worry about it, it'll be just good. Hey, Michael.

1:03:21🔗 Drew You'll be just good.

1:03:23🔗 Caller Michael.

1:03:25🔗 Drew Michael?

1:03:26🔗 Adam Michael's good.

1:03:26🔗 Drew Caller, who goes by the name of Michael?

1:03:28🔗 Adam Smoked a lot of speed and became psychotic, is now running around his house and can't hear us. All right, I'm going to put you on hold and come back to you.

1:03:34🔗 Drew He's got to be there. Michael.

1:03:35🔗 Adam Let's see if he's snoring.

1:03:37🔗 Caller He won't be that fast.

1:03:39🔗 Adam We'll come back to him, okay?

1:03:40🔗 Drew Little one.

1:03:41🔗 Adam Drew, I didn't mean to blow that girl off, so to speak, but you answered a question.

1:03:44🔗 Caller Yeah. Yeah? All right.

1:03:45🔗 Adam Stephanie.

1:03:46🔗 Caller Yes.

1:03:47🔗 Adam You are 26 on Loveline.

1:03:49🔗 Caller Yes.

1:03:50🔗 Caller What's going on?

1:03:52🔗 Drew Stephanie.

1:03:53🔗 Caller Yes.

1:03:53🔗 Drew Hello.

1:03:54🔗 Caller Hello.

1:03:55🔗 Adam Speak. What's going on?

1:03:56🔗 Caller Okay. Well, I don't know why, but within the last couple of months, I've noticed that sex has become very painful for me.

1:04:04🔗 Drew At what point?

1:04:06🔗 Caller Well, it just hurts really bad, and I don't know why, and I don't know-

1:04:10🔗 Drew Right at the time of penetration, or after it's been going on for a while, or when?

1:04:14🔗 Caller Both. Both.

1:04:17🔗 Caller And it's to the point where I don't even want to have sex with my husband anymore because it's so uncomfortable for me.

1:04:22🔗 Drew Anything else going on in the relationship that's made you-

1:04:24🔗 Caller No, everything's fine. Everything's great.

1:04:26🔗 Drew Anything else make you uptight?

1:04:28🔗 Caller No.

1:04:28🔗 Drew Anything else going on? Your periods are normal?

1:04:31🔗 Caller Yeah, everything else is normal.

1:04:32🔗 Drew No medications recently?

1:04:34🔗 Caller No.

1:04:34🔗 Drew No.

1:04:36🔗 Caller Everything's-

1:04:38🔗 Drew Why haven't you seen a doctor about this?

1:04:40🔗 Caller Well, I made an appointment, but they can't see me for a month.

1:04:44🔗 Drew Oh, boy. HMOs. Wonderful. Well, you got to get in there. You got to urge them to see you sooner because it could be a cyst, could be endometriosis, could be infection. These things only need to be checked out. If it's nothing, which it also can be, it could be just vaginismus. Have you ever had this problem before?

1:05:00🔗 Caller No, never. That's why I just can't understand what's going on.

1:05:04🔗 Drew You have no discharge, no irritation.

1:05:06🔗 Caller No.

1:05:07🔗 Drew And again, it's right at the time of penetration, you have a pain?

1:05:11🔗 Caller Well, I kind of felt like it might be, like I was experiencing dryness, so I did try. Lulucans? I don't know, KY Jolly or something like that. But that didn't seem to help.

1:05:25🔗 Drew Did you try like a yeast medication just to make sure it's not some sort of vaginitis?

1:05:29🔗 Caller No, I didn't.

1:05:30🔗 Drew You might do that, but that's usually more discharge and irritation, itching, that kind of thing.

1:05:35🔗 Caller But if I did try that yeast medicine and I didn't have a yeast infection, would that harm me?

1:05:40🔗 Drew No, no it wouldn't. But it's sort of a waste of time and money, though. You need to see somebody, Stephanie, this needs to be looked into. If really the relationship is going well, really nothing else going on in your life that could be stressing or impairing your ability to have sexual relationships, there's nothing that you can point at physically, then somebody needs to figure this out for you.

1:05:57🔗 Adam Let's go back to Michael, the psychotic who's on speed. Michael?

1:06:00🔗 Caller Yes. There you are.

1:06:01🔗 Drew Hey.

1:06:02🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Where have you been?

1:06:03🔗 Caller Sorry, I fell asleep there.

1:06:05🔗 Drew I knew it.

1:06:06🔗 Victoria Silvstedt We're that good to know.

1:06:08🔗 Adam All right. Smoked a lot of speed, have you?

1:06:10🔗 Yeah.

1:06:12🔗 Caller Well, I've been off about two and a half years. As soon as I found out my girlfriend was pregnant with my son, I decided that I needed to quit and clean my life up. But while I was using, I went into severe psychosis towards the end of...

1:06:34🔗 Drew So people have understand what that is. It's particular with amphetamine, with the speed psychosis, it's a delusion. And delusions mean you start believing, particularly paranoid delusions, which would occur from stimulus, start believing that people are trying to do things till you're thinking about you. With speed, those delusions are always preoccupations about family and friends and neighbors. What did you have, Michael?

1:06:56🔗 Caller It was exactly that. Neighbors were trying to get me busted with the police. I thought the police were after me all the time. I thought the family members were trying to turn me into the FBI. I thought people were trying to kill me.

1:07:11🔗 Drew That's just from doing the speed.

1:07:14🔗 Caller That could have been from smoking or from eating it. I've seen it from people.

1:07:20🔗 Drew That's right. However you do it, that's how you get it. That's all. It's a problem because with cocaine, the psychosis is always directed at the police and the FBI and not about the families and things. It goes away in about 8 to 10 hours. With speed, that delusion, even after you stop using the speed, can go on for weeks or even months. Exactly. It can be terribly disruptive to relationships. Imagine if you think your grandmother is trying to kill you. I mean, you're, you know, right.

1:07:43🔗 Caller Yeah. So my question is, I've, my memory and my memory retention and my verbal skills have really taken a slip. I'm concerned about these things. And I'm wondering what can be done, if there's anything.

1:08:06🔗 Drew I do have a lot of speed patients who did a lot of speed, who complain about persistent memory problems. They're usually not disabling, they're not awful, but they're noticeable. And if you really wanted to do something about that, I would see a neurologist start with somebody who has some experience perhaps at a university center. There are these medications now like Exelon and Aricept that are helped with cognition, might have some use in this setting. And also to be evaluated to see if there's a mood disturbance component to this, which is a common thing that follows what you've described.

1:08:40🔗 Caller Yeah, I'm on Prozac right now.

1:08:43🔗 Drew Prozac can impair your memory too.

1:08:44🔗 Caller Oh really?

1:08:45🔗 Drew Yeah. Well, Butrin classically does that.

1:08:47🔗 Caller Well, this was before, I had this before. I'd just taken the Prozac within the past three months.

1:08:52🔗 Drew Okay, so it's not that. But again, whoever is prescribing the Prozac, talk about Exelon or Aricept.

1:08:58🔗 Caller Exelon or Aricept?

1:08:59🔗 Drew Aricept. These may have some use for you. And the Prozac is not something you'd choose to use with that. They might switch that around a little bit too. But again, I would see a neurologist in a university setting.

1:09:10🔗 Caller Okay, you guys are great. I really appreciate you.

1:09:13🔗 Drew You must be in recovery right now, yes? Huh? You in recovery?

1:09:16🔗 Caller No, I'd cold turkey myself. I quit smoking cigarettes, quit everything.

1:09:21🔗 Adam How long has it been?

1:09:22🔗 Caller It's been two and a half years.

1:09:24🔗 Drew You know what, I'll tell you, people that cold turkey without doing something, without making a change, my experience, always depressed, severely depressed. So depression may be a big part of what's going on with you, Michael.

1:09:35🔗 Adam All right, Mike, hope you get better and your grandma's not going to attack you. We're going to take a break. Just got to ask this girl real quick. Whitney.

1:09:40🔗 Caller Yeah.

1:09:40🔗 Adam You're 13, you've already had sex 25 times?

1:09:43🔗 Caller Yeah.

1:09:43🔗 Adam And you've never orgasmed?

1:09:44🔗 Caller No.

1:09:45🔗 Adam Okay, well hold on one second. We're going to find out the reasons. Yikes, oh my God. Victoria Silvstedt is here. You're listening to Loveline. We'll be right back. Yes! All right. What's going on? It's Love Line, 1-800-LOVE-191. The offspring is blaring in the background, the remake of the AFA song, A-F-I. All right. Stryker in for Adam Corolla. He'll be back, I don't know, at some point doing something with The Man Show. Here's my impression of Adam when The Man Show was on during the week. So we're going to be back in a couple. Is it commercial yet in The Man Show? Listen, is it commercial? Drew, take over. I got to go watch The Man Show. Hey, love The Man Show. Okay, great.

1:10:58🔗 Drew Our program director just began noticing that he was behaving like that.

1:11:02🔗 Adam How could you not notice it?

1:11:04🔗 Drew Couldn't believe it. He called me up like this. Is there a TV over there? Is he really doing that? Yes and yes.

1:11:10🔗 Adam Man. Okay, Victoria Silvstedt is here. Hello, Victoria.

1:11:13🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Hey, how are you?

1:11:14🔗 Adam Are you having a good time here?

1:11:15🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Yeah, I'm having a blast. I'm learning a lot of things too. A lot of things that I didn't know.

1:11:21🔗 Adam You have a calendar coming out.

1:11:22🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Yeah, it should be out like in September, beginning of September sometimes in the stores all around the country.

1:11:26🔗 Adam And you're wearing ski clothes in it?

1:11:28🔗 Victoria Silvstedt You got it.

1:11:29🔗 Adam Beautiful.

1:11:30🔗 Victoria Silvstedt We shot sexy bikini shots in Brazil.

1:11:33🔗 Adam Small bikinis?

1:11:35🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Yeah.

1:11:35🔗 Adam Can you sign me up for one?

1:11:38🔗 Victoria Silvstedt I've saved a couple for you.

1:11:39🔗 Adam Okay, very good.

1:11:40🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Will you model them for me later on?

1:11:43🔗 Adam Consider that a yes.

1:11:44🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Okay.

1:11:45🔗 Adam All right, sexyvictoria.com is how you can see what she looks like. She's literally sitting two feet away from me and I'm loving this. Sorry, Ace Rockolla. Let's take a call. This is Whitney on Loveline. She's only 13 and, oh my God, sex 25 times?

1:12:01🔗 Caller Yeah.

1:12:01🔗 Drew How old is the guy?

1:12:03🔗 Caller Huh?

1:12:03🔗 Drew How old is the guy?

1:12:04🔗 Caller It was three different guys.

1:12:06🔗 Drew How old were they, roughly?

1:12:08🔗 Caller 16, 15, and 13.

1:12:10🔗 Victoria Silvstedt That could explain that.

1:12:12🔗 Adam I don't think your problem is not having the orgasm. I think the problem is the 25 times.

1:12:17🔗 Victoria Silvstedt I know, so not getting to know the guys enough to be able to relax.

1:12:22🔗 Drew Wouldn't you agree at 13 the probability of having an orgasm is remote?

1:12:27🔗 Caller 20 times with my boyfriend, and I've been going out there for like nine months.

1:12:30🔗 Drew Yeah, but most women don't get that piece figured out until much, much later. And I don't know, it's so common that many women, not all, but I would dare say most, don't really master that until their 20s, really.

1:12:47🔗 Victoria Silvstedt When that age, because you just kind of lay there and waiting for it to happen, and it's not happening that way. I mean, it takes a lot of practice, a lot of work from both sides, I would say. So don't you worry.

1:13:00🔗 Drew I have a suspicion that some of it may actually be some biological development because women in their 13 to 16 don't have that, typically some do, but typically don't. And somewhere around 18, they sort of become more open to that possibility and figure it out eventually. And guys are clueless the whole way, in terms of helping women, completely clueless. And some of it is also the ability to achieve real intimacy too and to feel comfortable with somebody else.

1:13:23🔗 Adam It's such a mind game, I think, also.

1:13:24🔗 Drew For women.

1:13:25🔗 Adam And for me too.

1:13:26🔗 Drew No.

1:13:27🔗 Adam It's not fine. I have a fur coat that doesn't eat a hanger. Whitney, are you having safe sex with your boyfriend?

1:13:33🔗 Caller Oh no.

1:13:34🔗 Adam Why not?

1:13:36🔗 I don't know.

1:13:38🔗 Drew You plan to get pregnant at 13?

1:13:39🔗 Caller No.

1:13:40🔗 Drew You're going to.

1:13:43🔗 Adam Hello?

1:13:44🔗 Caller Yeah.

1:13:44🔗 Drew Right? You may be already, actually.

1:13:46🔗 No, I'm not.

1:13:47🔗 Drew How do you know?

1:13:48🔗 I'm on my period right now.

1:13:50🔗 Drew Yeah. It could even be first term. You can bleed and be pregnant. So you got to get some birth control. You will be pregnant in no time.

1:13:56🔗 Adam It's Russian roulette. One of these times, bam, the little sperm-y guy's going to get in there and you're going to have a baby. Your life has changed. All right. Hey, Rebecca. Rebecca?

1:14:06🔗 Yeah?

1:14:06🔗 Adam What's going on? You're 16.

1:14:10🔗 Caller I was thinking about taking this pill called Blasphante.

1:14:17🔗 Adam Drew?

1:14:18🔗 Drew What is it?

1:14:19🔗 Adam No, we can't.

1:14:20🔗 Drew Mom there?

1:14:21🔗 Adam Uh-oh, yeah. She got nervous. Can you answer it? Maybe she can hear it. What is Blufoint?

1:14:24🔗 Drew I have no idea. Never heard of it.

1:14:25🔗 Adam Me neither. And you call yourself a doctor?

1:14:28🔗 Drew It's probably something you get out of a backroom magazine.

1:14:31🔗 Adam Back in the sports section.

1:14:32🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Anything.

1:14:34🔗 Adam Josh? Yeah. All right. You heard something can get you high. What is that something?

1:14:39🔗 Caller Nutmeg.

1:14:41🔗 Drew Yeah, apparently there is some hallucinogenic property to that if you take enough of it.

1:14:44🔗 Caller But yeah, because like my friend said, if you take like two tablespoons of it, it would be like almost like an acid trip.

1:14:49🔗 Drew Yeah. Not a good thing for you. OK, just don't.

1:14:51🔗 Caller Yeah, because I heard it would like mess up your liver.

1:14:54🔗 Drew Possibly.

1:14:55🔗 Caller Is that true?

1:14:55🔗 Caller What else?

1:14:55🔗 Caller Like, what else are these side effects?

1:14:57🔗 Drew Well, again, I always worry that anything that causes hallucinations is damaging, potentially damaging brain. That always is there.

1:15:04🔗 Adam Hey, why do you want to trip out so much of 14?

1:15:06🔗 Caller I don't know.

1:15:08🔗 Adam Want to experiment and see where it can take you?

1:15:09🔗 Caller Well, I'm just going to, I mean, just going to do it.

1:15:12🔗 Caller I mean, I'm not going to do it.

1:15:14🔗 Caller But I want to know if it's like, if it was safe.

1:15:16🔗 Drew No.

1:15:17🔗 Caller It's not?

1:15:18🔗 Drew No.

1:15:19🔗 Caller So like I shouldn't do it at all?

1:15:20🔗 Drew That's not safe. Not safe.

1:15:23🔗 Adam You can still go to the rave and do your thing, man. Just don't do that.

1:15:26🔗 Caller OK. So like, would it really mess me up inside?

1:15:29🔗 Caller Yes.

1:15:30🔗 Drew Don't do it.

1:15:32🔗 Drew Let's have a fantasy answer. Oh, Josh.

1:15:34🔗 Drew In fact, take 14 tablespoons. That's what you ought to do.

1:15:37🔗 Adam I'm on it right now.

1:15:37🔗 Drew Enjoy. Have a great time. It's good for you. How could it not be good for you?

1:15:41🔗 Adam It makes your wiener go to 11 inches. Julian.

1:15:44🔗 Caller Yeah.

1:15:45🔗 Adam What's up? You're 14.

1:15:46🔗 Caller Yeah.

1:15:48🔗 Caller My girlfriend, she hasn't got her period yet, and she was supposed to get it about two weeks ago, right? And I just want to know why she hasn't got it, if we haven't had sex.

1:15:58🔗 Drew Julian, how old is she?

1:16:00🔗 Caller 14. She's 13.

1:16:01🔗 Drew Yeah. Most women, when they start having their periods, are not like clockwork. They're very irregular.

1:16:06🔗 Stryker Oh, really?

1:16:07🔗 Drew Since some women are very irregular their entire life. But particularly at that age, you would expect some irregularity.

1:16:13🔗 Stryker Yeah.

1:16:13🔗 Caller Well, she said that she was supposed to get it about two weeks ago and she's really scared, but.

1:16:17🔗 Drew Well, look, just what's she afraid of?

1:16:20🔗 Adam Hey, do you know?

1:16:20🔗 Victoria Silvstedt If you haven't had sex, what's she scared of?

1:16:23🔗 Caller I have no idea.

1:16:24🔗 Drew She should relax.

1:16:25🔗 Victoria Silvstedt It's normal, okay?

1:16:26🔗 Adam Have you told her that if there's no sex, that she can't?

1:16:30🔗 Caller Yeah, that's what I told her.

1:16:31🔗 Caller She's like, well, maybe you had some of it on your fingers or something.

1:16:34🔗 Caller No, no, no, no, no.

1:16:36🔗 Drew No, no, no, no, no.

1:16:37🔗 Adam Don't worry. Explain it to her. She'll be fine. Yvonne, you're 18. You're on Loveline.

1:16:42🔗 I was actually just curious about something Dr. Drew said earlier about young kids being traumatized by pornos at a young age. I know that all my sexual experiences haven't been, like I've never reached, you know.

1:16:57🔗 Drew Orgasm.

1:16:57🔗 Right. And also, I also, like at a young age, I also have seen pornos and I've seen my parents looking at them.

1:17:04🔗 Drew How old?

1:17:06🔗 Anywhere from like five to thirteen.

1:17:09🔗 Drew Okay.

1:17:11🔗 And I just was wondering, like, I mean, how badly traumatized can you be? Like, how serious can that be?

1:17:16🔗 Drew Well, I wouldn't worry about it affecting your orgasmic functioning if that's what you're asking.

1:17:22🔗 Okay.

1:17:22🔗 Drew Okay. It's more that it creates kind of a post-traumatic stress reaction in some people, not in everybody. And if the parents are not sort of available to you to help you process that and understand that and come to terms with it, it's one of the things to lead to certain kinds of sexual compulsivity.

1:17:38🔗 I'm sorry, I think kind of what?

1:17:39🔗 Drew Sexual compulsivity in sort of chaotic relationships.

1:17:42🔗 Okay. Because, right, because like my sexual relationships have never been really stable. Like someone said earlier, like sometimes I'll break out into like tears in the middle of...

1:17:51🔗 Drew Yeah, there's some of that. And then you got to remember these are parents that were sitting there watching porn in front of you when you were five too. And what does that imply about their attunement to what your needs were? So there's a lot of stuff going on here.

1:18:02🔗 Adam Do you think, Yvonne, that your relationships are not going that great because you saw porn at a young age?

1:18:07🔗 Well, I mean, I'm just wondering if like any of my discomfort has to do with like things that I might have been traumatized earlier. I mean, I was also molested at a very young age and not much was done about that either.

1:18:20🔗 Drew Alright, well that's the big one right there. Definitely that's affected you. You can say that with certainty. Get some treatment, okay?

1:18:27🔗 Okay.

1:18:28🔗 Adam Alright, Yvonne, goodbye. Alright, 1-800-LOVE-1-9-1, it's Loveline, Victoria Silvstedt is here, I would be Stryker and I'm filling in for Adam Rockolla, feebly attempting to do a job. Eric?

1:18:40🔗 Yeah?

1:18:41🔗 Adam Yeah, alright, what's going on with you, man?

1:18:44🔗 Caller For the past five nights, I've had a wet dream and I tried masturbating and it doesn't work.

1:18:52🔗 Adam But it works while you're sleeping. Oh, his phone's cutting out.

1:18:58🔗 Drew Yeah, well, it will work.

1:18:59🔗 Adam It says, is that common? Yes, it's common. Will it work? Yes, it will work, definitely.

1:19:04🔗 Drew Just keep practicing.

1:19:07🔗 Adam Just don't be like that other guy who does it seven times a day. Alright, Kim, you want some breast implants apparently in your 18. Yeah. What's your size right now? Breast size, that is.

1:19:17🔗 Caller 34B.

1:19:18🔗 Adam That's not bad. That's not terribly small.

1:19:20🔗 Caller That's not an A.

1:19:22🔗 Drew Most women are looking for B or C.

1:19:24🔗 Caller Yeah, I mean, I'm not flat. I know I'm not. I have about a handful, but from watching TV and everything, and I see girls like that, it's like, I don't know.

1:19:35🔗 Caller I just been thinking about it, but I hear so much bad stuff about it.

1:19:38🔗 Caller Like you lose feeling or there's scars, so I'm scared about it.

1:19:41🔗 Adam Victoria, take it away.

1:19:44🔗 Victoria Silvstedt How tall are you?

1:19:45🔗 Caller I'm about 5'4 or 5'5.

1:19:47🔗 Victoria Silvstedt You see, you're not that tall. I mean, you know, with a handful, I mean, I'm sure that looks, you know, very proportionate. And I don't know, Ace, does it just for you to feel better and to make, you know...

1:20:01🔗 Caller Yeah, I just want them, I don't know.

1:20:04🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Has guys complained or...?

1:20:06🔗 Caller No, like, no. They haven't complained, but I just think, I don't know, I just want them like...

1:20:10🔗 Victoria Silvstedt You just feel like you want to live up to, like, an image?

1:20:13🔗 Adam What size do you want to get?

1:20:15🔗 Caller I don't know.

1:20:17🔗 Adam Well, and are you afraid that you're going to lose sensitivity also?

1:20:19🔗 Caller Yeah, I've heard about that, and I don't want scars, and I just, I've heard...

1:20:23🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Well, you don't have to worry about, you know, the scars, I mean, you know, today, you don't have to worry about those things, the scars.

1:20:27🔗 Caller I mean, it's not that they're not big enough, I just want them more, like, pushed up, I think.

1:20:31🔗 Adam Push-up bra, Victoria's Secret, 1995, it's a barking, don't get it.

1:20:35🔗 Victoria Silvstedt It's all the bra, baby.

1:20:36🔗 Adam All it is. Right, so, if I may ask, what size were you previous to having your breasts on?

1:20:41🔗 Victoria Silvstedt I was a B, and now I'm a C+, but...

1:20:44🔗 Adam You're not a C, you're a D+.

1:20:46🔗 Victoria Silvstedt No, I'm not.

1:20:47🔗 Adam You are so...

1:20:48🔗 Victoria Silvstedt It's the bra, baby. I swear to God, it's the push-up bra.

1:20:51🔗 Adam Oh, wow, that looks pretty good.

1:20:53🔗 Victoria Silvstedt See, it does wonders for me.

1:20:55🔗 Adam But that's, you're definitely a C+, up to a D.

1:20:57🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Mm-mm, C+, baby.

1:20:58🔗 Adam And we have a guy on the other side of the room looking at the glass.

1:21:00🔗 Victoria Silvstedt But I'm tall, I'm like almost six feet, so it's more proportioned. I mean, if I was 5'4, and having this size breast, I would be like a cartoon, for God's sake. Exactly. She's not that tall, so I mean, with a handful, I'm sure she looks great.

1:21:14🔗 Adam Have you lost your sensitivity in the restaurant? No? Oh, good. Very good. That's Victoria Silvstedt. She was Playmate of the Year back in 97, and she's here on Loveline, and we're going to speak to Sean, 24, on Loveline.

1:21:27🔗 Caller How are you doing?

1:21:27🔗 Adam Good.

1:21:29🔗 Caller What's up, guys?

1:21:30🔗 Caller Not much.

1:21:33🔗 Caller So my question is...

1:21:34🔗 Drew Sean's got the record, the turntable on slow.

1:21:36🔗 Caller Seriously.

1:21:37🔗 Adam What's up, Sean?

1:21:39🔗 Caller I've been smoking marijuana pretty regularly since I was about 17. I'm 24.

1:21:43🔗 Drew No kidding.

1:21:45🔗 Caller And I don't really dream too much. Like, I don't really remember having a dream.

1:21:49🔗 Drew Well, ever.

1:21:50🔗 Victoria Silvstedt No wonder.

1:21:51🔗 Drew Or since you've been smoking on that pot?

1:21:53🔗 Caller Yeah.

1:21:53🔗 Drew It could have something to do with it. I mean, your brain's under the influence of a drug.

1:21:58🔗 Caller Right?

1:21:59🔗 Drew It changes the brain function. Why does it surprise you that its function will be changed when you sleep, too?

1:22:04🔗 Caller Okay.

1:22:06🔗 Caller It's reversible.

1:22:06🔗 Caller You were saying earlier that everything related with it is reversible.

1:22:10🔗 Drew Well, for the most part, it's been my experience, yeah.

1:22:12🔗 Caller What's...

1:22:12🔗 Caller I heard something about nitrogen bubbles being caught between the exterior layer of the brain and the skull.

1:22:19🔗 Caller Do you know anything about that?

1:22:21🔗 Drew No, not seeing anything like that.

1:22:22🔗 Caller What a chiropractor told me.

1:22:23🔗 Drew No. That's nonsense.

1:22:25🔗 Caller Okay.

1:22:25🔗 Caller Part two of my question is, I was back in the early 80s, they were handing out Ritalin like it was the miracle drug, you know, make Johnny good, good grades.

1:22:34🔗 Caller And I took that all the way until I was 18 and I quit taking it.

1:22:37🔗 Drew Yeah. Well, ADD, if you have a family history of alcoholism and you have ADD, that's an addict. And it turns out if you treat an ADD addict with Ritalin in childhood, the intensity of the addictive disease that comes on later is actually reduced. So it's actually a good thing to treat kids with Ritalin if you have an addict ADD child. Okay.

1:22:59🔗 Caller How do they diagnose a person with ADD?

1:23:02🔗 Drew Their clinical features, the fact that you're an addict almost guarantees that you have ADD. Most addicts have an ADD-like quality about them. And their actual formal testing, they can be done. Their PET scans can be done now to document it. There are ways to document it. It's being treated very aggressively in urban centers and undertreated in rural and suburban centers. Rural and sort of rural centers, yeah.

1:23:23🔗 Caller Okay.

1:23:24🔗 Adam You still smoking pot every day?

1:23:26🔗 Drew Sure.

1:23:26🔗 Caller Multiple times a day.

1:23:27🔗 Adam Multiple times a day?

1:23:28🔗 Caller Yeah.

1:23:29🔗 Adam Dude, okay man.

1:23:30🔗 Drew Can't you hear that?

1:23:30🔗 Adam Of course I can hear that. All right, Sean. Let's speak to Elise and then we're going to take a quick break. I just saw the word enlarge and the word penis and I immediately have to press this button. Elise?

1:23:39🔗 Yeah, how you doing?

1:23:40🔗 Adam Doing good.

1:23:41🔗 All right. My question was I want to know if there's any products out there that increase the size of your penis area, you know what I mean, besides surgery or whatever, you know what I mean?

1:23:51🔗 Adam Hold on. What's your ethnicity?

1:23:54🔗 I'm black.

1:23:55🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Oh, you say if you go black, you never go back. There's no stereotype now.

1:23:59🔗 Adam What's going on? So you're 25 and how big are you right now, man?

1:24:05🔗 Caller Nine and a half.

1:24:06🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Oh, come on.

1:24:07🔗 Adam Come on. I am signing you off right now.

1:24:11🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Seriously.

1:24:11🔗 Adam Oh, God. All right. Nine and a half is too big. All right. Victoria Silvstedt is here. It's Stryker for Adam Corolla with Dr. Drew Loveline coming back.

1:24:19🔗 Stryker Loveline. Loveline.

1:24:20🔗 Caller 1-800-LOVE-191.

1:24:23🔗 Stryker We'll be right back.

1:24:56🔗 Adam All right, we're back. It's Loveline. Stryker here for Adam Corolla, who is gone, probably doing some with The Man Show. Dr. Drew, where is he? What's he doing?

1:25:04🔗 Drew He's going to Toronto. I don't know if that's right now for the... Oh, The Man Show is going to be in Canada.

1:25:08🔗 Adam Oh, really?

1:25:09🔗 Drew Yeah. So he's premiering it there, I guess.

1:25:11🔗 Adam Ace Rockolla in Canada. All right, Victoria Silvstedt is here. She's a Playman of the Year in 97. She was a top 10 Miss World. You have a calendar coming out sometime in early September.

1:25:23🔗 Victoria Silvstedt And here I am.

1:25:24🔗 Adam You have a C plus breast size and you're six foot one. And what's your sign? Your sign? Germanized as...

1:25:30🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Virgo Libre Cust.

1:25:32🔗 Drew Virgo Libre, okay.

1:25:33🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Is that good?

1:25:34🔗 Adam Yeah, I think so. I don't really know. It just seemed like the most cheesy line I could say.

1:25:39🔗 Victoria Silvstedt That's good.

1:25:39🔗 Adam That's all I could think of. Here's a question directly to you, Victoria. Stephanie, you're 16 on Loveline.

1:25:45🔗 Caller Yeah. I wanted to ask Victoria, how do you get into Playboy?

1:25:49🔗 Caller Do they have special regulations or what?

1:25:52🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Well, you got to be 18. And what most girls do, they send in pictures. But the problem is they get probably like thousands of pictures every day. I was unfortunate and lucky. I was discovered when I lived in Paris and they flew me over to do a test shoot for them. And they liked me, so they kept me there pretty much.

1:26:12🔗 Adam Were you already modeling before they called you or were you just walking in a mall and someone said, oh, let's get that girl?

1:26:17🔗 Victoria Silvstedt I was modeling in Paris for two years. And some photographers saw me and said, well, you'd be perfect for Playboy. You know, just what they're looking for. I'm like, well, I don't really know if I'm going to go that direction, but I haven't looked back ever since. So it's been a pleasure.

1:26:33🔗 Adam And how fun is it just hanging out at the Playboy Mansion? They have monkeys there.

1:26:37🔗 Victoria Silvstedt That's the best part. Once you've been a playmate, like now, that's the fun part. You go to all the great parties.

1:26:44🔗 Adam And do a lot of the famous people try to pick up on you?

1:26:47🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Well, you know, it's the Playboy Mansion.

1:26:48🔗 Adam Of course, but is it like the Bill Maars and Leo and all those guys?

1:26:53🔗 Victoria Silvstedt The cream of the crop running around. You got it.

1:26:56🔗 Adam And what's your favorite thing about the Playboy Mansion besides the famous people? What's...

1:27:00🔗 Victoria Silvstedt The cave, the Grotto, the Jacuzzi. Yeah, it's very cozy, very nice.

1:27:05🔗 Adam Right. You didn't want to get me just now, did you?

1:27:07🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Most men, no.

1:27:07🔗 Adam Okay.

1:27:09🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Uh-uh. So you just, you want to get into Playboy, you said?

1:27:13🔗 Adam Actually, she's already gone.

1:27:14🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Okay, bye-bye. She's only 16 though, so.

1:27:16🔗 Adam Yeah, exactly. Hey, George. You're 17 on Loveline. Yeah. Go ahead.

1:27:22🔗 Caller Okay, yeah.

1:27:23🔗 Caller Okay, I had an aunt, right?

1:27:25🔗 Caller She told me it was my girlfriend while I was doing the right, and she's now just trying to blackmail me.

1:27:30🔗 Caller She said, if I'm like, she would hurt, she would tell my dad, and then my dad would.

1:27:33🔗 Caller Oh, baloney, George. Give me a break.

1:27:35🔗 Adam If you'll sleep with your aunt?

1:27:37🔗 Stryker Me?

1:27:37🔗 Caller Listen.

1:27:38🔗 Caller No, I don't want to hurt my uncle.

1:27:39🔗 Caller Me and him are really close.

1:27:40🔗 Drew But she's blackmailing you about it? Nonsense. Nonsense.

1:27:46🔗 Caller Oh, man.

1:27:47🔗 Adam Okay.

1:27:48🔗 Drew Because A, it doesn't work like that. Of course, you're going to say, hey, go tell your uncle.

1:27:53🔗 Adam Well, I got to find it. George, George, where do you live, man? In Seattle. In Seattle. No, I don't think that happens in Seattle. I'm not going to stir up it. Anyways, Katrina, you're 15, you're on Loveline. What's up?

1:28:03🔗 Caller Hi. I'm only like 15, right? And I'm like suffering from depression every day. I mean, like I'm crying and for no reason. I don't know what to do.

1:28:11🔗 Drew Why don't you get some treatment for that?

1:28:13🔗 Caller I mean, I talked to my mom about it.

1:28:14🔗 Drew Yeah.

1:28:14🔗 Caller I used to cut my arms with a razor blade for like, it's really stupid. I'm afraid if I go to a doctor, they'll try to send me to some kind of mental institution.

1:28:22🔗 Drew Well, not if you're not imminently in harm's way, if you're not planning to hurt yourself or hurt somebody else and you can follow them.

1:28:29🔗 Caller Wait a minute, what can they do though?

1:28:30🔗 Drew I mean. And you can, medication would help you a lot. A lot.

1:28:35🔗 Caller I'm just afraid of going on it because I mean like-

1:28:37🔗 Drew Katrina, you have a life-threatening condition. Why not take advantage of the treatments that are out there and why not feel better?

1:28:45🔗 Caller Let's go to a regular doctor or should I go to a psychiatrist?

1:28:47🔗 Drew You can start with a regular doctor but you do need to see a psychiatrist.

1:28:50🔗 Caller Thank you.

1:28:51🔗 Drew Okay.

1:28:51🔗 Adam Thank you.

1:28:52🔗 Caller Bye.

1:28:52🔗 Adam And she sounded about 10 years old by the way.

1:28:54🔗 Drew That means something. Exactly.

1:28:56🔗 Caller Definitely.

1:28:57🔗 Adam Rebecca.

1:28:58🔗 Caller Yeah.

1:28:58🔗 Adam Welcome to Loveline. You're 19.

1:29:00🔗 Caller Hey. Hey. All right. So first off, what's up, Stryker?

1:29:05🔗 Adam What's going on?

1:29:05🔗 Caller You don't even remember me, I'm sure, but I listened to you back in Tucson.

1:29:10🔗 Caller Cool.

1:29:11🔗 Victoria Silvstedt He's the man over there.

1:29:13🔗 Caller Oh, yeah. Thanks. Now, Roast is out here and we got the whole crew going. It's great.

1:29:18🔗 Adam You got that, right? Thanks, Rebecca.

1:29:19🔗 Drew How hot is it there now?

1:29:21🔗 Caller How hot is it in Tucson?

1:29:22🔗 Drew Yeah.

1:29:22🔗 Caller Oh, I have no idea. I'm in Los Angeles now.

1:29:24🔗 Adam Oh, so you heard me there in here?

1:29:26🔗 Caller Yes.

1:29:26🔗 Adam Oh, good. Thanks for following me around.

1:29:29🔗 Caller She's a stalker.

1:29:30🔗 Victoria Silvstedt She's a stalker.

1:29:31🔗 Caller Yeah. It doesn't matter about my obsession about you.

1:29:35🔗 Adam Take it easy. So what's going on, Rebecca?

1:29:37🔗 Caller Well, actually, I've got this problem where I listened to the girl who called in a while ago and she was saying something about how she had the skin around her vagina or something like that. She didn't like it. Well, that's the first time I've ever heard somebody having a similar problem to me. And it's kind of like there's these kind of, it's like extra skin growing right around the opening of the vagina. And I've been a two gynecologist for this and they both say that it's normal.

1:30:10🔗 Drew It is normal.

1:30:11🔗 Caller But the problem is that they're causing me to bleed every time I have sex.

1:30:18🔗 Drew You mean they get so irritated, they're so chafed?

1:30:21🔗 Caller Yeah. And it's not like it was like this when I first started having sex. I mean, it just started happening recently.

1:30:29🔗 Caller Yeah.

1:30:30🔗 Drew Well.

1:30:31🔗 Caller But nobody has any good suggestions.

1:30:33🔗 Drew They didn't talk about any operation for that?

1:30:35🔗 Caller No. No. They all said, oh, you know, don't worry about it. Just make sure you're properly lobed.

1:30:41🔗 Drew Yeah. Well, they're right about that. But I would consult again, see if there's any sort of surgical interventions they could offer.

1:30:47🔗 Caller Really?

1:30:47🔗 Drew Yeah. If it's really starting to bug you, why not?

1:30:50🔗 Caller Yeah. Yeah.

1:30:52🔗 Adam All right, Rebecca?

1:30:52🔗 Caller All right.

1:30:53🔗 Adam I hope the flaps shorten up.

1:30:57🔗 Caller Thanks.

1:30:57🔗 Adam I'll see you in my next city, which will always be LA.

1:30:59🔗 Caller Oh, good.

1:31:00🔗 Adam Okay. See you. Bye. All right. Let's talk to Jessica, who's on Loveline. You're 20?

1:31:05🔗 Caller Yeah, I'm 20.

1:31:06🔗 Adam Okay. What's up?

1:31:07🔗 Caller Okay. I was wondering if you could tell me, Dr. Drew, what the characteristics are of being addicted to sex?

1:31:15🔗 Drew Well, it's like any other addiction. You typically see a family history of something, typically alcoholism. The features are sexual activities and behaviors that have mounting consequences on relationships, health, finance, legal circumstances, and then some degree of denial about that. And in the vast majority of cases, there's a history of some sort of sexual trauma in childhood.

1:31:39🔗 Adam What are you doing that may trigger in your mind that you could be a sex addict, Jessica?

1:31:43🔗 Caller Well, you know, it's kind of weird because I haven't had sex in two years, but it's like an all-consuming thought life. And it feels like I can't have a normal relationship without just like desiring to sleep with this person because I don't want to sleep with anyone again until I'm married. And so I just I can't get through a relationship without like making it that way.

1:32:13🔗 Drew I'm totally confused.

1:32:14🔗 Caller Okay, I can't get through a relationship without desiring to just jump in bed with whoever.

1:32:20🔗 Adam Now, are you talking about on the first date or after you, you know, get to know the person emotionally and or are you saying and another person, not the one you're getting involved with?

1:32:28🔗 Caller No, I just mean that like, I mean, it's my I mean, it's my standard that I'm not going to sleep with anyone until I'm married.

1:32:34🔗 Drew Yeah.

1:32:35🔗 Caller And I just had to break up with the first person that I've dated after two years. And because it was too hard to stay like not having sex with him.

1:32:47🔗 Drew All right. Were you going to marry him?

1:32:49🔗 Caller Um, no.

1:32:50🔗 Drew Okay. So move along.

1:32:52🔗 Caller Well, I would like to, but it's just too hard to until I know whether or not he's the right person to marry to stay out of bed with him.

1:33:01🔗 Adam Now, why is it so bad if you have sex with a boyfriend after you get to know him? And, you know, you may not be married, but you know, you have a feeling for him. Why is it so bad in your mind to give in to that?

1:33:12🔗 Caller Well, actually, I have a theory that human bodies were crafted to only have sex with one person in their whole life.

1:33:22🔗 Drew Well, Jessica.

1:33:23🔗 Caller No, really, if you think about, like, what happens inside of a woman's body when she has sex, the inside of her body is totally formed around the man.

1:33:31🔗 Drew That is not true at all. I don't know where you got that notion, but let me tell you from a medical perspective, you could not be further off.

1:33:38🔗 Caller Okay, why am I wrong? Because then what happens then?

1:33:43🔗 Drew Nothing, it goes completely, no, no, no, no, no. It doesn't change at all, because it stays right where it's always been. It doesn't shape, what would happen after the baby comes out? What shape is it in then?

1:33:56🔗 Caller Good point.

1:33:58🔗 Adam Strike one up for the doctor, Jessica.

1:34:02🔗 Caller But really then what, you know how she's like, a girl starts off really tight and then she loosens up?

1:34:08🔗 Drew No, no, no.

1:34:08🔗 Caller What's that whole deal?

1:34:09🔗 Drew That's nothing.

1:34:10🔗 Caller That's nothing?

1:34:11🔗 Drew It happens a tiny little bit to everybody, but it doesn't matter if you're with a guy who's, you know, that's not dependent on the guy at all.

1:34:19🔗 Adam All right, so apparently according to the doctor, your theory's a little out of whack.

1:34:22🔗 Caller I should just go sleep with him then.

1:34:24🔗 Adam Sleep with everyone!

1:34:25🔗 Drew No, no, I think that, I thought what you were gonna say was that maybe that longevity of relationships, that the survival of marriages, you might read some of the Rabbi Schmooley stuff. He really has some really interesting philosophies about how important it is to wait and what that does for health of relationships. Rabbi Schmooley?

1:34:43🔗 Adam I've heard him on here before.

1:34:44🔗 Drew We had him up here before.

1:34:44🔗 Adam Yeah.

1:34:45🔗 Drew And he has some interesting theories about why waiting is good for health and for relationships. You might read that, Jessica, more substantial reasons for waiting.

1:34:52🔗 Adam All right, we gotta take a quick break. You're listening to Loveline. Victoria Silvstedt is here. We'll be back in a minute. Shalom.

1:34:59🔗 Drew Hello. This is Loveline.

1:35:01🔗 Stryker 1-800-LOVE-191. Loveline will be right back.

1:35:27🔗 Adam All right, so it's Loveline just about over, Stryker here in for Adam Corolla. Thank you for dealing with me. I'm actually gonna be back tomorrow for that guy. Drew has already jetted. I wanna thank Victoria Silvstedt for hanging out.

1:35:37🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Thank you, it was a pleasure. I had so much fun.

1:35:39🔗 Adam Good, good. Look for her calendar. It's gonna be out early September. Check out her website, which is Who and What again.

1:35:45🔗 Victoria Silvstedt It's sexyvictoria.com.

1:35:47🔗 Adam All right, thanks to Anne, thanks to Danielle, thanks to Ken, Stryker. We'll see you tomorrow on Loveline. Bye, Victoria.

1:35:52🔗 Victoria Silvstedt Good night.

1:35:54🔗 Stryker This has been Loveline. The opinions expressed on this show are not necessarily those of the staff, management, sponsors or this station. The producer for Loveline is Anne Wilkins Dingle. Loveline is a presentation of Westwood One Entertainment.

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