Thursday, August 17, 2000

3:39🔗 Voiceover Listener discretion is advised. Adam Carolla and Dr. Drew. Loveline, Coast to Coast.

3:50🔗 Voiceover Coast to Coast? I thought it was just here. Now I better do something right tonight.

3:55🔗 Drew Even in Tucson.

3:56🔗 Voiceover Even in Tucson, even in LA, Coast to Coast. All right, what's going on? It's Loveline, 1-800-LOVE-191. Adam Corolla not here, so I am gonna try and fill in for that hairy man as best as I can. I would be Stryker along with Dr. Drew, board certified physician, addiction medicine specialist. I checked out Big Brother tonight.

4:14🔗 Drew Oh, yeah.

4:14🔗 Adam First time.

4:15🔗 Drew Yeah.

4:16🔗 Adam Did that girl have blue hair going in?

4:18🔗 Drew No, actually red, like magenta. And then blue and now green.

4:23🔗 Adam I'm not sure. Just real quick, Reader's Digest, what's the show about?

4:27🔗 Drew It's about ten people locked in a house for three months.

4:30🔗 Adam And some dude with no shirt on the whole time wants to make out with two chicks. That's all I got.

4:34🔗 Drew That's it.

4:34🔗 Adam And where do you fit in in this thing?

4:36🔗 Drew On Wednesdays, they do a live show, okay? And it's sort of like a news format where they look at, they either talk about who the houseguests have nominated for banishment or who the public voted out that week. And then they bring them out of the house.

4:50🔗 Adam Have you formed a relationship with anyone in there or you're kind of on the outside looking at them?

4:53🔗 Drew I meet them as they come out. But I basically do like a three minute comment. They figure out what questions they want to ask me and I answer the questions.

4:59🔗 Adam Got it.

4:59🔗 Drew It's like being on a news show. I mean like being a news. It's like half time commentator at a football game or something. Right.

5:06🔗 Adam Without the X's and O's and you're not as heavy as John Madden.

5:08🔗 Drew No.

5:09🔗 Adam Now, driving home last night after Loveline, were you thinking about the huge breasts that were sitting to my right?

5:13🔗 Drew They were sitting there.

5:14🔗 Adam She is lying about those things being a C.

5:16🔗 Drew Yeah.

5:17🔗 Adam Those were a D plus and she showed me them. Did she not, Dr. Drew?

5:20🔗 Drew Did she show you?

5:21🔗 Adam She was like this. Sounds a little nibble.

5:23🔗 All right.

5:25🔗 Adam Let's talk to people. Shannon.

5:29🔗 Hi.

5:29🔗 Adam Hi. You're 16.

5:30🔗 Yeah. Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost three years now. And a couple months ago, he started watching pornos while we had sex. But he hadn't done it for about a month. But I want to know why. And the next time it comes up, I want to know, tell him how I feel about it.

5:45🔗 Because I don't like it.

5:46🔗 Adam Now, did he just stop having sex and pop in the tape? Or did he have the remote nearby? How did that come about?

5:52🔗 Well, we was, you know, he was telling him out, because we do it almost every day.

5:57🔗 Adam God bless him.

5:57🔗 Drew Shannon, are you 38?

6:00🔗 No.

6:01🔗 Drew Are you really 16?

6:02🔗 I'm 16.

6:03🔗 Adam What state do you live in?

6:04🔗 I'm South Carolina.

6:05🔗 Adam That's right.

6:06🔗 Drew I mean, Shannon.

6:08🔗 I'm on the peel and everything.

6:09🔗 Drew That's good.

6:10🔗 Adam You're on the what?

6:10🔗 Drew I'm on the peel.

6:11🔗 Adam Oh, the banana peel.

6:12🔗 Drew The peel. Oh, the peel, okay. But my god, you're 16. How old is the guy? 19. It sounds like you've been through a couple rounds of tours of duty in Vietnam, and now you've settled down with some trucker out in the country.

6:30🔗 Adam How often does he wear a wife beater tank top? More than five or less than five?

6:34🔗 Drew Are you married to him?

6:35🔗 No.

6:35🔗 Drew No.

6:35🔗 We're engaged.

6:37🔗 Drew Do you have kids?

6:38🔗 No.

6:39🔗 Adam What does he do for a job?

6:41🔗 He works at a plant making radiators, but he's going to college to be a chef.

6:47🔗 Drew Oh, cool.

6:47🔗 Adam How are you doing in school?

6:49🔗 I'm doing great. A's and B's.

6:51🔗 Drew All right, Shannon. Have you asked him to stop?

6:53🔗 Huh?

6:53🔗 Drew Have you asked him to stop?

6:55🔗 I told him I don't like it because I don't like magazines and pornos and all that kind of crap.

6:59🔗 I don't like none of it.

7:01🔗 Drew Because the way it treats women, the way it portrays women? Well, no.

7:04🔗 It's just I think it's ho-ish.

7:06🔗 Drew It's ho-ish?

7:07🔗 Yeah.

7:07🔗 Drew The way it portrays women. You don't like that.

7:09🔗 Yeah.

7:09🔗 But he hasn't done it in about a month, but we still have sex.

7:12🔗 And I just don't know how to tell him.

7:16🔗 Drew Well, wait a minute. He hasn't done it in a month.

7:18🔗 No.

7:18🔗 He hasn't done it in about a month.

7:19🔗 Adam He's watched the Pornos in a month, right?

7:21🔗 Yeah.

7:21🔗 Drew So why worry about it?

7:23🔗 I don't know.

7:23🔗 He had to do it again.

7:24🔗 Drew Well, he does it again?

7:25🔗 Because I take over it.

7:26🔗 Drew Hey, Shannon. All right. You don't realize this. I think many of them don't realize this. You have the ultimate trump card. Okay? It's very simple. He wants to watch Pornos. You don't want to have sex. That's it. That's it.

7:37🔗 Adam Do you understand what Dr. Drew is saying?

7:39🔗 Drew Yeah. You raise holy hell. That's it.

7:41🔗 Adam The guy will do whatever you say to have sex with you, Shannon. You say no porn, he'll say fine.

7:49🔗 Drew He'll manipulate and try to make you feel guilty and stuff. Eventually, he'll give in. Don't even listen to him. Just say whatever. Fine. I'm not participating. All right? Okay.

7:59🔗 Adam Thank you, Shannon.

8:00🔗 Drew All right.

8:00🔗 Adam You know what? A man will probably do anything just to have sex.

8:03🔗 Drew A 19-year-old? Come on.

8:04🔗 Adam He's 19. He's 16. You told me to walk over hot coals and there's breasts on the other side of the room. Old enough.

8:10🔗 Drew Approximately.

8:11🔗 Adam 27.

8:12🔗 Drew Okay. Yeah. You're still in that. You still want to live.

8:16🔗 Adam Where are we going, Dr. Drew? 1-800-LOVE-191. Jessica, you're 15.

8:21🔗 Caller Hi. Hi.

8:22🔗 Caller I just want to say you guys rock and I think you need to go back on 89X. On what? I live in Michigan and there's a station here.

8:31🔗 Drew Detroit?

8:33🔗 Caller Love Line isn't on anymore. It's a big disappointment.

8:36🔗 Drew Is that a Detroit station?

8:38🔗 Yeah.

8:39🔗 Drew I think we're another Detroit station now, aren't we?

8:42🔗 Caller Yeah. That's where I'm coming from. But I'm selling out. I see. Okay. I have a problem. My boyfriend, he jacks off in front of me with a washcloth, and it makes me uncomfortable because it's with a washcloth, and it doesn't that hurt.

8:58🔗 Drew At least he has the decorum to use the washcloth.

9:01🔗 Adam Wait, hold on. To wash collage as the lubricant or to finish it off in the washcloth, Jessica?

9:07🔗 Caller To finish it off.

9:08🔗 Drew See, he probably thinks he's being extra sort of neat and nice and sort of tidy.

9:13🔗 Caller Yeah. Well, he doesn't throw out the whole thing. Like throw out the whole thing.

9:18🔗 Drew It will not hurt him, no. If it hurt him, he wouldn't do it.

9:20🔗 Caller Well, it's uncomfortable for me because he does it in front of me.

9:24🔗 Drew Does he think it's something that you would enjoy?

9:26🔗 Caller I don't know.

9:27🔗 Drew Have you told him you don't enjoy it?

9:29🔗 Caller Yeah.

9:30🔗 Adam How does this come about? Are you guys sitting there watching Sports Center and he whips it out and breaks out the towel?

9:34🔗 Caller Yeah.

9:35🔗 Caller Basically.

9:36🔗 Drew Is he in the room there?

9:37🔗 Caller What?

9:37🔗 Drew Is he there with you?

9:39🔗 Caller No. Okay.

9:40🔗 Drew Can we talk to him?

9:41🔗 Caller Can you talk to him? Yeah. No. It's too late for him to get calls.

9:46🔗 Drew Why? What a bizarre. How old is he?

9:48🔗 Caller He's 15.

9:49🔗 Drew That's kind of wild behavior for a 15-year-old to be here. That is wild.

9:53🔗 Adam I don't think I have the gall to even do that right now.

9:54🔗 Drew But I mean, how does that even occur to a 15-year-old? Everything else OK?

9:58🔗 Caller Yeah. Yeah. We have a great relationship.

10:01🔗 Adam Have you guys had sex before?

10:03🔗 Caller Oh, no. No. We haven't. Yeah.

10:06🔗 Adam Have you ever touched his pee-pee?

10:08🔗 Caller Yeah.

10:09🔗 Adam You have.

10:09🔗 Drew OK. But he prefers to touch himself?

10:12🔗 Caller Well, you know, after we've done it or whatever. Not not done it, but after I've, you know, I just I don't want to do it every day or whatever. I don't want it to be a routine that I, you know, feed his meat for him.

10:27🔗 Adam I'm confused now, Dr. Drew. Help me.

10:29🔗 Drew I'm trying. And when you tell him not to do that in front of you, how does he react?

10:35🔗 Caller I just I just tell him I'm I tell him, you know, I just ask him why he has to do it with a washcloth and like, you know, why you have to do it in front of me and he's like, he just thinks I'm joking or something.

10:46🔗 Drew Well, stop joking around. Just make it real clear to him. If you say it giggly, he's gonna think you're joking. Say, look, hey, this doesn't turn me on. It bothers me. It's gross. Stop.

10:55🔗 Okay.

10:56🔗 Drew He'll stop.

10:57🔗 All right.

10:57🔗 Drew Again, the same trump card applies for you, Jessica.

10:59🔗 Adam You know, Jessica, you're a girl. You're 15. You're gonna be a woman soon. And a guy will do anything just to get just to touch him in any sort of way. Seriously, a guy will jump through hoops. He'll put up a small fight. He'll argue a little bit. But eventually, definitely will give in. Don't you think so, Dr. Drew?

11:16🔗 Drew Yeah.

11:17🔗 All right.

11:18🔗 Adam Because I do it every single day of my life.

11:20🔗 Drew Ryan. I saw you last night. I thought you were going to crawl across the console here.

11:23🔗 Adam I practically crawled across the console. Oh, man, I'm still, you know what? I had, I have material in my brain to use for months because of Victoria last night.

11:33🔗 Drew One movement, one motion of the hand.

11:35🔗 Adam All I think about is, she was so tan. Hey, Ryan. Yeah. Yeah, you're 19. You're on Loveline. Yeah. What's going on?

11:44🔗 Caller Nothing.

11:45🔗 Adam Well, good. Well, thanks for calling. We'll talk to you later.

11:48🔗 Caller No, my girlfriend, we're having sex and she says that she does an orgasm.

11:54🔗 Drew How old is she?

11:55🔗 She's 18.

11:57🔗 Drew Most women at that age would not orgasm during intercourse.

12:00🔗 Caller All right.

12:00🔗 Adam Because why?

12:01🔗 Drew Because that's the way they're put together.

12:03🔗 Adam Mentally at that age?

12:04🔗 Drew Well, it's probably, no one knows the reality is. I can just tell you from talking to thousands of young folks that, hang on a second, there you go.

12:13🔗 Adam I got it.

12:13🔗 Drew That's just the way it is. Now, I believe that women actually change biologically, that as they get older, it becomes easier for them to access that function. And by the same token, they also get more comfortable with partners, they achieve greater levels of intimacy and closeness and vulnerability, and all that is necessary for their sexuality to sort of unfold. Right.

12:31🔗 Adam I've noticed as growing up, women when I was younger, not that I was like sleeping around because I wasn't, girl like me when I was younger. But the older the women get, the more they know what they want and especially how they want it, and they just let themselves go bananas. Yeah. That's exactly what happens. So, hey Ryan, don't worry about it. Eventually, as the woman gets a little bit...

12:50🔗 Drew Well, ask her for direction. That is the main thing, women need to direct. Guys are clueless. Guys are clueless. Come on.

12:56🔗 Adam Straight down the happy trail line. It's right between the legs.

12:58🔗 Drew Clueless, right?

12:59🔗 Adam Pretty much.

12:59🔗 Drew Yeah. I mean, you sort of accumulate a body of knowledge, largely erroneous, and every woman is different anyway.

13:05🔗 Adam That's true. Nikki.

13:08🔗 Hello?

13:08🔗 Adam Hi, you're 15 on Loveline.

13:10🔗 Caller Hey, guys. I love the show. OK, I took ecstasy about a month ago for the first time. And I was wondering about side effects, because now whenever I get nervous or hyper, I feel like I'm on it, and it makes me almost sick.

13:28🔗 Drew How long ago did you take it?

13:30🔗 Caller I think about a month, month and a half.

13:32🔗 Drew And just one time?

13:33🔗 Caller Yeah.

13:34🔗 Drew Most people don't have any significant long-term effects except for a single exposure, though it's possible to have panic attacks and elevated experiences of anxiety.

13:43🔗 Caller Really? Yeah, I feel like...

13:45🔗 Drew Just more anxious all the time?

13:46🔗 Caller Yeah.

13:47🔗 Drew All right. So you may want to talk to somebody about that. There may be biological or pharmacologic remedies for that, but it's basically, it sort of can open up pathways in the brain that might not have opened up otherwise. And those pathways can create anxiety and depression. But it's usually after a few exposures. Was it a big hit, big dose?

14:06🔗 Caller I really wouldn't know. I've like never done drugs before.

14:08🔗 Adam How was your, Nikki, how was your experience on it when you took it?

14:13🔗 Caller It was okay. It was, I was really hyper for a while.

14:17🔗 Drew Did you get nauseated on that?

14:19🔗 Caller Yeah, actually I did.

14:20🔗 Drew All right. So there's sort of a coupled experience with anxiety and nausea, right? Every time you get anxious, you get that nausea feeling back. It may just been sort of a conditioned response to that whole experience.

14:29🔗 Adam Hey, Carrie.

14:30🔗 Yeah.

14:30🔗 Adam You're 16 on Loveline. Dr. Drew Stryker here for Adam. What's going on?

14:35🔗 Caller Hi.

14:36🔗 Well, I get my period like every six weeks or so.

14:38🔗 Drew And you always have?

14:40🔗 Caller Always have.

14:40🔗 Drew All right.

14:41🔗 Caller Always regular.

14:42🔗 Drew Always regular at six weeks though? Which is kind of irregular. And question?

14:48🔗 Caller Yeah.

14:48🔗 Caller Is that like normal? I mean, do I have to like go talk to somebody about that?

14:51🔗 Drew No, it's normal for you. That's fine.

14:53🔗 Caller Okay.

14:53🔗 Drew Okay?

14:54🔗 Caller Yep.

14:54🔗 Drew All right.

14:55🔗 Bye.

14:55🔗 Adam Good luck, Carrie. Actually, she's probably lucky it's every six weeks.

14:58🔗 Yeah.

14:58🔗 Adam Good. Your man's going to love you. Lara.

15:01🔗 Yes.

15:01🔗 Adam 18 on Loveline. What's up?

15:04🔗 This is going to sound really funny, but my armpits sweat like excessively.

15:08🔗 Adam Oh, that sounds nice. Can I lick them?

15:11🔗 Drew And you want it to stop?

15:13🔗 Yeah. I don't know what to do. It's really a lot.

15:17🔗 Drew Well, you know-

15:18🔗 It'll be like in the dead of winter.

15:19🔗 Drew Not to sound promotional, but at drdrew.com, there's a HealthWise article, Health Brief article that is just about this. There are some medications, there's something called Xerac and things you can put on to get some dermatology.

15:30🔗 I talked to my family doctor also, and he kind of like laughed at me.

15:33🔗 Drew It's not funny. It's not funny. Yeah. And people get this in their hands, they get it in their armpits, they get it in their forehead, and you should see a dermatologist about it. There are topical things. There are also the surgeries that can correct this, and there are things that they can do to sort of- Yeah.

15:45🔗 That's a little much.

15:47🔗 Drew Well, sometimes they're not in such big surgeries. They could change the nervous input into that area, but I would obviously start with some of these topical agencies, crams and things. Hey, Lara. Dr. Dermatologist.

15:57🔗 Adam Lara. Yes? Have you always sweat under the armpits? Yeah. Oh, you have? Okay. Because I was going to say- I never would sweat under the armpits. All of a sudden, I started doing it excessively. I switched deodorants, and now I'm fine.

16:09🔗 Oh, I've used everything.

16:11🔗 Okay.

16:11🔗 Over the counter.

16:12🔗 All right.

16:13🔗 But I want to tell you guys, too, that I really appreciate what you guys do for everyone. And I know a lot of crazies call in, but I'm 18, I'm a virgin, and I'm staying in school, so-

16:22🔗 Drew Right on.

16:23🔗 You're really making a difference. And it's not a community college either.

16:27🔗 Drew All right. Thanks, Laura.

16:29🔗 Adam God bless. And helping the community, I have nothing to do with it because Adam normally sits here. Lawrence, you're 15.

16:36🔗 Caller Dr. Drew, you are so awesome, man.

16:38🔗 Drew Lawrence, thank you, man.

16:39🔗 Caller Man, too bad Adam's gone. I had like a little monument for him.

16:41🔗 Drew Well, Stryker's here. He'll accept on his behalf.

16:43🔗 Caller Well, you filled the bill for him. You're much better than he is.

16:46🔗 Drew Why doesn't anyone... Lawrence, as God is my witness, why doesn't anyone ever say that when Adam's actually here?

16:52🔗 Adam Because he'll hang up on him and goes, is that... Because then he'll go off on me.

16:55🔗 Drew You know why? Because our listeners know that if they were to come forward with something like that, I would get abused for like an hour and a half.

17:00🔗 Adam And by the way, I don't... Anyway. Hey, Lawrence.

17:03🔗 Caller Yo, your website, Dr. Drew Cooks, so much ass. I visit it like every day.

17:06🔗 Drew Great, Lawrence.

17:07🔗 Caller And this show is like, I'm not on drugs, but this show is like my drug. I need my daily dose of it.

17:11🔗 Drew Right on.

17:13🔗 Caller I had a question. I'm not gay, but like...

17:17🔗 Adam But your boyfriend is?

17:19🔗 Caller Yeah, sure. Anyway, like I'm not gay, but like, I like I'm kind of attracted to like some guys. I mean, I don't have like fantasies, but I just like look at some guys.

17:27🔗 Drew I'm like, wow, you know, I just think that, you know, you feed it as a sort of sexual feelings or falling in love feelings.

17:33🔗 Caller Yeah, kind of. But I don't like I don't think, you know, I don't really fantasize anything. I just like say, wow, he's like pretty good looking. And I want to know why.

17:41🔗 Drew Do you have sexual feelings about women?

17:43🔗 Caller Yeah. Oh, yeah. I really love women.

17:45🔗 Drew I mean, I know I'm straight, but I just like I'm not gay, but I just don't I wonder why this is pretty much all men at one time or another will have some kind of same-sex women even more so, but men, they may not admit it and they may not remember it. But all men will have periods of more or lesser periods of intensity of same-sex attraction.

18:06🔗 Caller No, but this has been like for like a few years.

18:08🔗 Drew I know. And yours is more than average. And that's it. You're just you're just don't worry about it. Be comfortable with it. You know, you're clear in your sexual identity. You mostly sexually aroused for women. You appreciate men. You have these sort of intimate feelings about men. That's great.

18:21🔗 Caller And I had another question. I just want to know, is it because like, I was raped by some sick ass?

18:26🔗 Drew You were?

18:27🔗 Caller Yeah, when I was five.

18:28🔗 Oh, boy.

18:30🔗 Drew Tell me more about that. That is definitely why. I'm so sorry. I went off on a big tangent.

18:34🔗 Caller Because I'm not like any of you have to say if people are confused. And I'm kind of confused, but I know I'm straight.

18:38🔗 Drew I understand. It makes it difficult to formulate a clear sexual identity. It screws with your wiring a little bit.

18:46🔗 Adam Who messed with you, Lawrence?

18:47🔗 Caller I know some guy. I knew he was like 13 years old. He was like one of my older sister's friends. And I'm so pissed at him. I don't know why he did do that to me. Because I'm like all confused now.

18:59🔗 Drew Yeah, you are confused. And someone did that to him. I guarantee it. That's why he did it. You don't have any feelings towards young kids, do you?

19:05🔗 Caller Oh, my God. No.

19:06🔗 Drew Okay. Good man.

19:07🔗 Well, thanks.

19:08🔗 Caller You're so cool, Drew. What you do for everyone.

19:10🔗 Drew I appreciate it. Hang in there. You're going to figure this one out, right?

19:13🔗 Adam I'm coming back Sunday.

19:16🔗 Drew Strangely, I don't pay attention to that.

19:18🔗 Caller Is there anything I can do about this? Will it just pass?

19:22🔗 Drew Definitely. If you've never had any therapy, this is called a post-traumatic stress disturbance that people get from these sorts of experiences. Again, there's a suggestion that these kinds of traumas also change people's trajectory of their behavior. There are things you can do, the people you can talk to, but if you don't, at this point, I don't think you need to.

19:43🔗 Adam We've had a lot of calls last night and tonight about guys who say, I'm straight, I'm straight, who fantasize about being, not being with a guy, but look at a guy and go, oh, he must work out. I don't remember doing that, but you say it's kind of normal?

19:54🔗 Drew Well, it's usually, you're putting it in a sexual context. I wasn't talking about the kind of attraction that Lawrence probably actually does feel, which is a quasi-sexual feeling. It's more of an intimate feeling, like a desire to be close to and whole. A young kid, a vulnerable, intimate kind of feeling, more than a sexual feeling, because once the sexual feeling is really sort of galvanized, they're usually direct in a specific direction on women.

20:20🔗 Adam All right, it's Loveline, 1-800-LOVE-191. Joe, you're 20. What's going on, man?

20:25🔗 Caller Well, I was wondering how I could introduce a vibrator to my girlfriend.

20:30🔗 Drew Joe, hang on one second. Does this bother you? See what I'm doing here?

20:32🔗 Adam No.

20:33🔗 Drew I do this like one second. I'm flipping some papers here.

20:36🔗 Adam Right.

20:37🔗 Drew Adam has a stroke. He literally reaches across the wall, almost beats the crap out of me. Excuse me.

20:43🔗 Adam Get that on tape and save that. All right. There you go.

20:47🔗 Drew All right, Joe.

20:48🔗 Adam You want to introduce a vibrator to your girlfriend because you want to just get more kinky in the bedroom or what?

20:55🔗 Caller Well, we've been dating for about almost three years now. The only reason I don't want to marry her is because we're going to college and the only reason I would marry somebody is because we're moving out and we can't do that yet.

21:09🔗 Drew You're living at home and going to college?

21:10🔗 Caller Yeah, we're living at home and going to college.

21:12🔗 Drew Junior college?

21:13🔗 Caller Yeah. Yeah. The problem is that I love her and I don't want to leave her and screw around with somebody else because to me, it puts these and I want to make it more interesting for her, but she's kind of prudish.

21:26🔗 Adam So have you slept with her yet?

21:28🔗 Caller Yeah.

21:28🔗 Adam You have, but you want to go down there with the vibrator and toy around and get her to be not so prude, I guess.

21:34🔗 Yeah.

21:36🔗 Drew Joe, wait a minute.

21:37🔗 Caller I was wondering how I can introduce her without her freaking out.

21:40🔗 Drew But you describe women in such glorious terms there, Joe. Respectful and glorious, I should say. What is that all about? How do you even know you want to marry someone if you don't care what woman you're dating?

21:55🔗 Caller Excuse me?

21:56🔗 Drew Well, you seem to describe women in kind of negative terms just a minute ago.

22:00🔗 Caller Well, I don't mean like negative like that. I mean just the feeling of it. To me, it's just if I wanted to sleep around, it would just be like I was sleeping with her and I'm like, why do I want to do that? I don't want to screw this up. I just want to make it more interesting for both of us, but I don't want to freak her out.

22:20🔗 Adam I know exactly what you're saying. She's kind of prude. She has sex. She's not crazy. She doesn't scream and you want her to break out of some sort of shell she's in, I guess, right?

22:28🔗 Caller Yeah.

22:28🔗 Adam And how can you introduce this vibrator thing?

22:31🔗 Caller Yeah.

22:31🔗 Adam Just, you know what? Just communicate with her, man. No. No? Why not? Tell her, look, I love being with you. I love having the sex. Why can't we just spice it up a little bit? And you know, if she's real uptight. How old is she?

22:43🔗 Caller She's one year older than me.

22:44🔗 Drew Oh. Don't you think she might be defensive if she's already kind of uptight? How about like presenting her with a gift, making it a big, here, I thought she'd make it kind of funny.

22:52🔗 Adam A big dildo and a box gift.

22:54🔗 Drew No, but I mean, some sort of fun way of approaching it.

22:58🔗 Adam Why don't you take her for dinner and like conveniently have the dinner near one of those sex shops? Hey, look at that thing. Why don't we cruise in there? Go in there and then really scare the bejesus out of her, Joe.

23:09🔗 Drew Stryker, you're diabolical. Keep that mind focused on good.

23:12🔗 Adam Okay.

23:13🔗 Drew Well, but Joe, I think Stryker is saying if he gives some good advice, then talking to her, of course, is always an important way to try to let her know your feelings, but that may be some way of sort of making more comfortable using humor. That kind of thing might help her out.

23:28🔗 Adam But the only reason why I say to do it like that, they've been dating for three years, he said.

23:32🔗 Drew Yeah, yeah.

23:33🔗 Adam Hey, Leonard, you're on Loveline.

23:36🔗 What's up?

23:38🔗 Well, I have this problem, I don't know, because I could like, is with my heart, I don't know, I'm not sure I should be concerned, but I could play like football and basketball and everything and I'll feel fine, you know, but like when I masturbate, you know, I feel like I'm working my heart too hard or something. I don't know.

23:59🔗 Drew I mean, you feel racing in your chest?

24:02🔗 Not racing, not like my heart beat, but I feel like, you know, like when you breathe, you take a deep breath, your chest kind of comes up.

24:08🔗 Drew Yeah.

24:09🔗 I feel like, I don't know, like my heart doesn't like expand or something like.

24:15🔗 Drew Like you can't catch your breath?

24:17🔗 Like, I don't know.

24:20🔗 Drew You're not being too clear about this Leonard, but suffice it to say that during a sexual experience, the biological changes are sort of unique to that experience. And people can have chest pains, they can have migraines and things that they wouldn't otherwise have triggered by their experiences. A 17-year-old is able to play football and what not is really unlikely to be a significant heart problem. However, because you play football and because you're having funny symptoms, it does need to be looked at. It could be just something like Montreal Foul Prolapse, but it could be something more serious. Just to rule it out, just seeing a regular doctor, no problem.

24:52🔗 Adam It's probably okay, you think?

24:53🔗 Drew Oh, I'm sure it's probably okay. But it's the kind of thing where you want to get an EKG, you want to have a physical exam, just to make sure it's okay. Right, okay. As much as anything, because he's playing sports.

25:01🔗 Adam So what are we doing here? Is it break time?

25:02🔗 Drew Break time.

25:03🔗 Adam All right, well hold on. Mike, listen to this. Mike, he wants to have sex with his stepsister, and well, we'll find out what happens next on Loveline.

25:12🔗 Caller Hello, what is this?

25:14🔗 Stryker This is Loveline. 1-800-LOVE-191. Loveline will be right back.

25:40🔗 Adam All right, we're back. You're listening to Loveline. 1-800-LOVE-191. Adam Corolla, my main man mayonnaise is gone. When you had Snoop on, Dr. Drew.

25:49🔗 Drew And I went here.

25:50🔗 Adam Oh, you went here that night?

25:51🔗 Drew That was your favorite show, right?

25:52🔗 Adam Oh, it's probably my favorite show. Because just having Snoop on, go, my main man mayonnaise. That was so nice. That's Dr. Drew, I'm Stryker. In for Adam Corolla. We're going to talk to Mike Incest, and I see Step Sister. What's up with you?

26:05🔗 Caller Well, my dad just got married about three months ago, and my step mom has a daughter who's my age, and we've done some on top, like making out and groping and whatnot.

26:17🔗 Drew Were you guys already sort of getting together before the parents got together?

26:21🔗 Caller That's the thing, not really.

26:23🔗 Drew So you met as a result of the parents getting together?

26:25🔗 Caller Yes. Yikes.

26:27🔗 Drew It's going to make for some weird Thanksgivings and Christmases, you know?

26:30🔗 Caller That's what I wanted to know, so is intercourse considered incest since she's only my step-sister?

26:37🔗 Drew Maybe not in the eyes of the law, but I think in the eyes of God, and in my eyes, yes, it is.

26:41🔗 Adam That's a little odd, man.

26:43🔗 Drew It's just going to mess you up. It really is. How old is she?

26:47🔗 Caller She's 17. I'm 17.

26:48🔗 Drew God only knows. You take two seven-year-olds, put them together in a house together, what do people expect? No duh. This is my thing. No effin duh. But it's incumbent upon the parents to control and expect these things. And Mike, if you do it, it's going to, you're going to regret it. You're going to not regret it for about five minutes. And then you're going to regret it for about 25 years.

27:06🔗 Adam What do you think, Mike? You think it's right or wrong?

27:08🔗 It feels right.

27:10🔗 Adam It feels right. Do it. Well, anytime you grab a breast, it feels right. But what do you think?

27:14🔗 Drew It feels right. Do it. That's the olden days. Yeah. No longer applies to current situations.

27:19🔗 Adam As the doctor said, Mike, legally or whatever, I don't think there's a law at that. But man, that's screwy, man. I just look in your high school mic and find someone else, all right?

27:29🔗 Well, that's disgusting.

27:31🔗 Adam It's a little disgusting now. Cool, Mike?

27:33🔗 Caller All right, man.

27:35🔗 Adam I still think you're going to grab her breast, though.

27:37🔗 Caller Oh yeah.

27:38🔗 Adam OK, good luck.

27:38🔗 All right, man.

27:39🔗 Adam I'll see you on Geraldo.

27:40🔗 Uh-huh, bye.

27:40🔗 Adam OK, bye. Or on Loveline in a couple weeks from now. Oh, yikes. Justin, 18 on Loveline.

27:46🔗 Hello? Hello, Justin. Wow, it's an honor to talk to you guys. I'm Dr. Drew. I really admire the service you do for everyone. My pleasure. And Adam Corolla, if you're listening, you are a comic genius.

27:57🔗 Adam And where do I fit in, Justin?

27:58🔗 You are doing a great job covering for Adam Corolla.

28:00🔗 Adam All right, that's cool. Thanks.

28:01🔗 My question is, does body fat and metabolism influence how long THC stays in your system?

28:07🔗 Drew Interesting question. Kind of. How's that for a vague answer? Let's put it this way. If you have a large amount of body fat, you tend to store more THC. But predominantly the big issue with THC is how much you smoke and how long.

28:25🔗 Yeah.

28:25🔗 Drew And then how rapidly you lose weight determines how much THC then is released into the system.

28:32🔗 All right. Basically, I'm 5'11, I weigh 155. I'm a skinny guy. I have very low body fat.

28:36🔗 Drew So really, what you smoke was...

28:39🔗 I smoked about 11 days about a month ago. I went on a binge. I want to know...

28:44🔗 Drew That should be out.

28:45🔗 It should be out?

28:45🔗 Drew It should be out. It's possible that if you exercise a lot and just eat for two days, you might reappear in the urine, but I doubt it.

28:52🔗 Adam Have you heard of that dieter's tea? Would that do anything?

28:56🔗 Drew What's that?

28:57🔗 Adam It's like you drink this tea and the next day you are just crapping.

29:02🔗 Drew It's a diarrhea-inducing tea?

29:04🔗 Yeah, exactly.

29:05🔗 I've been working out and like drinking a lot of fluids lately, so should it be out by Monday?

29:09🔗 Drew It was a month ago?

29:10🔗 Hey, hold on. It was a good 30 days, probably 40.

29:15🔗 Adam What's the drug test for on Monday, Justin?

29:16🔗 Military.

29:18🔗 Drew It really should be.

29:19🔗 Adam All right.

29:20🔗 Drew All right. Be careful. People are getting very good at trying to detect adultering agents. I'm going to take some golden seal, I'm going to take this, I'm going to take that. We can test for that too now. And you're more likely to be negative, Justin. You're more likely to be picked up for taking an adultering agent than to be positive on the test. So go ahead and take the test.

29:41🔗 Adam Jeff?

29:43🔗 Drew Yes.

29:43🔗 Adam Yeah, you're 25 on Loveline.

29:45🔗 Caller Yeah, I was calling a question for Drew about vasectomy.

29:50🔗 Drew Yeah.

29:52🔗 Caller Is it safer for the male to get the job done than the female?

29:57🔗 Drew They're both equally safe, I believe.

30:00🔗 Caller Okay. Is there other means of other than just that surgery?

30:04🔗 Drew Other means of sterilizing?

30:06🔗 Caller Yeah.

30:07🔗 Drew A male or a female?

30:09🔗 Caller Actually more the male side because I've got three kids and I think that's about it for my family.

30:15🔗 Drew We would agree. Vasectomy, because it's the simplest, safest procedure, that's why it's done. You understand? If there were a simpler, easier, safer thing to be done, that's what people would get.

30:28🔗 Caller Oh, okay. Is there any, some kind of medication out that would be just as effective?

30:32🔗 Drew No, not for men. Not yet.

30:34🔗 Adam Why do you think there's something better, it could be something better if vasectomy is so popular, Jeff?

30:39🔗 Caller Well, no, I just, I've heard stories about there's like a birth control pill that men can take now.

30:44🔗 Drew Not yet, not out yet. But what is it that makes you so frightened of the vasectomy?

30:49🔗 Caller Right. I've heard different stories of people having it done and they've had problems in that lower area.

30:55🔗 Drew Like what?

30:56🔗 Caller Just like soreness and it's gotten infected and they've actually had to have that lower half completely removed because of it.

31:04🔗 Drew I've never, that's a new one on me. I'm sure it can happen, but boy, that would be rare. Okay?

31:10🔗 Caller Okay. And I just want to let you guys know that all the younger audience you guys have out there, I mean, whether they realize it or not, you guys are actually helping them out a lot.

31:20🔗 Drew That's the idea.

31:21🔗 Adam Cool.

31:21🔗 Drew Thanks, Jeff.

31:22🔗 Caller All right, I appreciate it.

31:22🔗 Drew Bye.

31:23🔗 Adam All right, here's my-

31:23🔗 Drew It's funny how it's more apparent to them though, tonight when Adam's not here.

31:26🔗 Adam Exactly. No, no, I don't want to say that. Here's my impression of Corolla to Jeff after that call. Hey, Jeff, stop having kids.

31:33🔗 Caller That's my main main main name.

31:35🔗 Adam You got that right, Natalie17 on Loveline.

31:37🔗 Caller Hello?

31:38🔗 Caller Yeah.

31:39🔗 Caller I just confessed to my parents. Actually, I told them that I was molested by my older brother.

31:44🔗 Adam Is that true?

31:44🔗 Caller Yes, it's true.

31:45🔗 Adam Oh, I'm sorry.

31:46🔗 Caller Like I was molested at the age of four.

31:50🔗 Adam Oh, boy. How old was he at the time?

31:52🔗 Caller I think he was ten. It was him and my cousin.

31:56🔗 Drew Wow.

31:58🔗 Caller I just told them today and it's been a long time.

32:01🔗 Drew Who did you tell?

32:01🔗 Caller My parents.

32:02🔗 Drew How did they react?

32:04🔗 Caller They were shocked.

32:06🔗 Drew Are they okay?

32:08🔗 Caller They're going to tell my brother today, like when he gets home from work.

32:11🔗 Drew Your brother?

32:12🔗 Caller Yeah. He still is with us.

32:13🔗 Adam So he must be about 24 now, right?

32:15🔗 Caller He's about going on 23.

32:18🔗 Drew Calling from Minnesota?

32:19🔗 Caller No, from California.

32:21🔗 Drew A boat? You're from Canada?

32:23🔗 Caller California.

32:24🔗 Drew California. Yeah, but where are you from? How do you say California? Say a boat. A boat's 24. Natalie, why are they even concerned with the brother? Why aren't they focused on you?

32:37🔗 Caller I don't know.

32:38🔗 Caller I'm really confused right now.

32:39🔗 Drew What is it they're planning to do to the brother?

32:41🔗 Caller Talk to him and see if this really did happen.

32:44🔗 Drew What the hell difference does that make?

32:46🔗 Caller I don't know.

32:47🔗 Drew Why don't you ask them to get you some help?

32:49🔗 Caller They're planning to put me in the therapy again.

32:51🔗 Drew Again? You've been in it in the past?

32:53🔗 Caller I went because I was really depressed.

32:56🔗 Drew Yeah. And did this come out in therapy?

32:58🔗 No, it didn't. But it is now and when I go back.

33:01🔗 Drew You're prepared to talk about it now?

33:02🔗 Caller Yeah.

33:03🔗 Drew Maybe really the way they'd approach this is getting him one, a therapist also.

33:07🔗 Caller Yeah.

33:08🔗 Drew Because whether or not he admits to this or not doesn't really matter.

33:11🔗 Caller Yeah.

33:12🔗 Drew He needs help. God knows he may do this to other people.

33:15🔗 Caller Yeah.

33:15🔗 Drew Are they going to call the police?

33:17🔗 Caller I don't think so.

33:18🔗 Drew Would you want them?

33:19🔗 Caller He has his problems.

33:21🔗 Drew No doubt.

33:21🔗 Caller Yeah.

33:22🔗 Caller He has a lot of problems.

33:23🔗 Drew Do you want them to?

33:25🔗 I don't know.

33:26🔗 Drew What kind of problems do they have?

33:28🔗 Caller He has two kids.

33:30🔗 Caller Oh my God.

33:32🔗 Adam Where are the kids? In the house with you guys?

33:33🔗 Caller No. They're with their mom.

33:35🔗 Drew As long as they're not around him.

33:37🔗 Caller No.

33:37🔗 Caller All right.

33:38🔗 Drew Natalie, this is good. You're 17. You're taking this head on. Sounds like you're in pretty good shape. Really? All things considered. Get some more treatment and let's put this thing behind you, all right?

33:49🔗 Caller Okay.

33:50🔗 Adam All right.

33:50🔗 Caller Thank you.

33:52🔗 Adam Now, that's tough. I just let you do the talking on that one.

33:54🔗 Drew I appreciate it.

33:54🔗 Adam I can watch this one. Of course. Kaylee, you're 15.

33:58🔗 Caller Yeah.

33:58🔗 Adam What's going on?

34:01🔗 Caller I'm attracted to guys that are anywhere from 18 to 24.

34:08🔗 Caller I just want to know what's wrong with me.

34:10🔗 Adam Because girls mature so much faster than guys, and guys that are 20 just look appealing to you, because the 15 year olds mostly are much smaller, Drew.

34:20🔗 Drew That and her dad took off when she was six.

34:22🔗 Adam Is that true?

34:23🔗 Caller Huh?

34:23🔗 Who?

34:25🔗 Drew Did your dad leave your family at a certain time point?

34:27🔗 Caller I never knew my father.

34:29🔗 Caller Never met him. There you go.

34:30🔗 Drew There you go.

34:31🔗 Caller Yeah.

34:32🔗 Drew And did you have a stepdad?

34:34🔗 Caller Nope.

34:34🔗 Drew Yeah. Well, you're looking for dad now.

34:37🔗 Caller Yeah.

34:38🔗 Drew You're on a big quest. You're going to find dad. What you're finding is more abusive, abandoning A-holes because only those kinds of guys are going to prey on a 15-year-old.

34:48🔗 Caller Yeah.

34:49🔗 Drew So, OK, have those attractions. That's fine. But don't trust them. Don't act on them. Realize that this is a remnant of your dad having abandoned you at such a young age.

34:58🔗 Adam And Kaylee, any guy that's, I don't know, about an 18-year-old, but 19, 20, 21 and older that would even, you know, may want to go out with you, there's something screwy with that guy to begin with. So stay away from them, OK?

35:09🔗 OK.

35:09🔗 Drew All right.

35:10🔗 Adam Cool. Bye, Kaylee.

35:11🔗 Caller Bye.

35:11🔗 Adam All right. Stryker here, filling in for Adam with Dr. Drew on Loveline. And let's talk to Joseph, 17. What's up?

35:18🔗 Hey, what's up? Hi. How you guys doing?

35:20🔗 Adam Good.

35:21🔗 Caller All right. I have a question for you guys. I gave a girl, she gave me a blow job. And she told me that, that, you know, that, I don't know, she's really confused about this.

35:38🔗 Adam Who's confused, you or her?

35:40🔗 Caller Well, we're both.

35:40🔗 Adam Okay. Ask away.

35:41🔗 Caller She, she, I don't know what the chances are of me, of her getting pregnant.

35:46🔗 Adam Breathe easy, man. It's okay. What's the question?

35:48🔗 Caller She told me that, she told me that if she didn't, she said that she's having a period on the 27th.

35:54🔗 Drew Wait a minute. You had sex with her?

35:57🔗 Caller She's having her...

35:58🔗 Drew Wait, wait. You had sex with her?

36:00🔗 Caller No, no. She gave me a blow job.

36:02🔗 Drew So by, by ingesting sperm into her stomach, she's concerned that that's going to get her pregnant?

36:07🔗 Caller Yeah.

36:08🔗 Drew How would that get to her uterus?

36:10🔗 Caller I don't know. She said that.

36:12🔗 Caller Magic sperm.

36:13🔗 Caller I don't know the chance are, you know? That's why I called...

36:15🔗 Adam Zero percent, Joseph. I'm not a doctor, but zero percent. Back me up, Dr. Drew.

36:20🔗 Drew Might as well put it down the toilet.

36:22🔗 Caller Is that to the chance there's no chance?

36:24🔗 Drew Zero.

36:24🔗 Caller There's absolutely no chance.

36:26🔗 Drew Zero.

36:27🔗 Caller Okay, thank you.

36:28🔗 Drew Bye.

36:28🔗 Adam Bye, Joseph.

36:29🔗 Drew Joseph.

36:30🔗 Adam Read a book.

36:30🔗 Drew Yeah. If you don't understand how the reproductive system works, don't use it.

36:34🔗 Caller Yeah.

36:34🔗 Drew Understand what I'm saying?

36:35🔗 Caller All right.

36:37🔗 Adam Joseph.

36:37🔗 Drew Check out drdrew.com. We have tons of information there about how this all functions. Let's check it out.

36:42🔗 Adam Who's president right now?

36:44🔗 Caller Huh? Who? Clinton.

36:46🔗 Adam Very good. I'll see you later, man.

36:47🔗 Caller Lates.

36:48🔗 Adam All right.

36:48🔗 Caller Lates.

36:49🔗 Adam Let's talk to Jack. What's up? You're 20.

36:53🔗 Caller Hey, man. What's happening?

36:55🔗 Adam Nothing.

36:55🔗 Caller I had a question. I've got the old saggy balls.

37:02🔗 Drew They're supposed to sag.

37:04🔗 Caller They're supposed to sag.

37:06🔗 Drew Yeah.

37:06🔗 Caller You're kidding.

37:07🔗 Adam Well, how far are they? Down to your knees and clanging?

37:09🔗 Caller No, they're not down to my knees, man. But like, I mean, it sometimes can be kind of uncomfortable.

37:16🔗 Drew Like, no kidding.

37:19🔗 Caller Like, sometimes it kind of...

37:20🔗 Drew Stryker feels your pain.

37:22🔗 Caller Excuse me?

37:23🔗 Adam Go ahead, Jack.

37:26🔗 Caller Yeah. Anyway, man, I was just wondering if there was something I could do. I've tried like wearing briefs and like, it's just kind of weird.

37:35🔗 Drew Maybe we're not getting exactly what the problem is. How far have they descended towards the ground?

37:40🔗 Caller Well, I mean, I haven't busted out with a rule or anything.

37:44🔗 Adam Are they... Listen, if you stuck your wiener down, which is further down, the wiener or the sack?

37:49🔗 They're about equal.

37:50🔗 Caller Maybe sometime... Yeah.

37:52🔗 Drew That's about normal.

37:53🔗 Adam That's about normal.

37:54🔗 Drew Where did you get the idea of something abnormal about this?

37:57🔗 Caller I haven't seen too many scrotums.

38:02🔗 Drew I've examined... You're fine. And when aroused, they'll tend to pull up a little bit. So you're looking at men when they're aroused too there.

38:10🔗 Adam So did you wear briefs then?

38:12🔗 I switched.

38:14🔗 Caller I wore boxers for a long time.

38:16🔗 Adam But you only wear boxers when you go on a date, I'm sure.

38:18🔗 Caller Absolutely.

38:19🔗 Adam There you go, man. I used to do the same thing.

38:20🔗 Caller Yeah.

38:21🔗 Adam Okay. See you later.

38:22🔗 Drew Enjoy. We're breaking.

38:23🔗 Adam We got a break? David. Yeah? You're 19 and we're going to talk to you next. And you were treated for something or other, okay?

38:30🔗 Drew Ciflis.

38:30🔗 Adam Oh, Ciflis. Oh, man. I'll find out what the hell that is, too. I don't even know. I should read a book. It's Loveline. Drew, what? You all right?

38:37🔗 Drew Yeah, I want to talk to him.

38:38🔗 Adam All right. You're looking at me like a deer in the headlights.

38:40🔗 Drew No, you didn't know what Ciflis was. I was surprised.

38:41🔗 Adam Oh, I may know. I'll let you know in the break. All right, it's Loveline. We're coming right back.

38:47🔗 Stryker Loveline will be right back. So get your problems ready. Ready.

39:22🔗 Adam All right, welcome back. It's Loveline. 1-800-LOVE-191, Stryker for Adam Corolla with Dr. Drew. Now, Adam Corolla is a millionaire.

39:30🔗 Drew Literally.

39:30🔗 Adam Literally. A millionaire.

39:32🔗 Drew Literally.

39:32🔗 Adam I am a dollar heir.

39:35🔗 Drew I'm a debtor heir. No, you're not. I'm a children heir.

39:38🔗 No, you're not.

39:40🔗 Adam How many are you running around?

39:41🔗 Drew Three kids.

39:41🔗 Adam Three kids. Wow. You know how many I have?

39:43🔗 Drew Triplets. I have triplets.

39:44🔗 Adam How many kids I have?

39:45🔗 Drew I hope nine.

39:46🔗 Adam None.

39:47🔗 Drew That's good.

39:47🔗 Adam None. I have no kids. All right. We briefly mentioned the word syphilis, and I'll admit it. I'm not sure what it is. Of course, I've heard it. How you get a sexually transmitted disease, but what is it?

39:57🔗 Drew Syphilis is a disease transmitted by something called a spirochete, and something that throughout human history has been a very, very serious issue, obviously, and used to kill people. And what it does is cause initially a shanker, an ulcer, a big red scab. And that ulcer is what can transmit the disease to another person. And where you contact that ulcer tends to be where you get it. So if somebody has an ulcer on his penis and puts it in a vagina, there's where she gets it. And then it goes away after a few days. And it's painless. It doesn't hurt. And then something called secondary syphilis comes on, where you get a rash, typically on the palms, and lymph nodes are around the, classically on the elbows. And then that goes away. And then it can do other things. It can cause gummas and something called acumenata.

40:47🔗 Adam If untreated, all these things will happen in a chronological order like that.

40:50🔗 Drew Yeah, and then ultimately it goes to the brain. And when it goes to the brain, it can cause a dementia. It's very serious. It's very difficult to treat when it gets to that point. So it's something you want to treat early, obviously. And it's easily treatable with penicillin.

41:02🔗 Adam And once it's gone, is it out for good?

41:04🔗 Drew That's it.

41:05🔗 Adam And now on the rankings of sexually transmitted diseases, in terms of most popular to least, where is it?

41:10🔗 Drew It was almost completely eradicated recently. When I was in training, there was a pretty decent outbreak. So it kind of comes back in little outbreaks.

41:17🔗 Adam All right, so now we know what it is. David, you're 19 on Loveline.

41:22🔗 Caller Hey, how you doing?

41:22🔗 Adam Good.

41:24🔗 Caller What happened three months ago, I was dating this one girl and we had sex. And about a week later, I know when I started to urinate, it would burn. So I went to a doctor and the doctor treated me for it.

41:36🔗 For what?

41:37🔗 Caller They said it was a combination of gonorrhea and syphilis.

41:39🔗 Drew Well, syphilis doesn't cause pain when you urinate.

41:42🔗 Caller Well, then it's not syphilis? Well, then it was gonorrhea because that's what the doctor told me.

41:45🔗 Drew Well, typically what you do is when somebody gets hurts when they peepee is you treat them for chlamydia and gonorrhea and non-gonococcal urethritis. It's all the same.

41:55🔗 Caller Okay. Well, she treated me for that and it took about almost two weeks for it to finally leave. And I left again. And now three months later, I have a girlfriend and she's on the pill. If I had sex with her, could she transmit the disease?

42:09🔗 Adam Can she get the disease?

42:10🔗 Caller Yeah, that's my question.

42:11🔗 Adam You would transmit it to her.

42:12🔗 Drew It's gone.

42:13🔗 Caller It's gone for good?

42:14🔗 Drew It should be. If you want to get tested before hand, just to be sure, because chlamydia is sometimes hard to eradicate. Make sure you, I don't know what treatment you got, whether or not you got the right treatment for that or not, but definitely chlamydia is something that should have been covered for them.

42:25🔗 Adam So what diseases stick with you forever? Herpes, warts?

42:28🔗 Drew Herpes, warts, the viruses, hepatitis, HIV. All the viruses.

42:32🔗 Adam Which ones are gone once you get them, you take a pill?

42:34🔗 Drew Everything else.

42:35🔗 Adam Really? Okay. That's good to know. Tim, you're 15.

42:39🔗 Caller Yeah.

42:39🔗 Adam What's up?

42:40🔗 Caller My girlfriend, you know, okay, she's, I know, an old girlfriend called me and she said she loved me and my new girlfriend, her name, can I tell you her name? No, okay. Well, anyway, and she said she didn't blame me if I experimented with this other girl who said she did love me that wasn't my girlfriend.

43:01🔗 Adam Experimented?

43:02🔗 Caller Yeah, experimented. That's what she called it, you know?

43:05🔗 Right.

43:05🔗 Caller But anyway, this pissed me off because I love my new girlfriend and anyway, and.

43:15🔗 Ella.

43:16🔗 Caller I don't know. She thinks it's okay if I experiment with other people and it makes me mad, you know, because.

43:21🔗 Drew Because why?

43:23🔗 Caller I wouldn't want her to experiment with other people.

43:25🔗 Drew Does that imply maybe this relationship isn't going the way you want it to go? I'm not sure. I would say the probability is not knowing her. The probability is one of two things. She either can't tolerate this relationship and is sabotaging or she's giving you a message. She really is ready to kind of move on, find a way to make you get out of it a little bit.

43:45🔗 Caller OK.

43:45🔗 Adam Does she call you back when you call her, Tim?

43:48🔗 Caller I call her. She's always there whenever I call her. I make sure she's there.

43:52🔗 Drew All right.

43:53🔗 Caller And I have another question though. I had sex with her and maybe this is... Do you think that... I know this is just an opinion, but is that maybe I wasn't... maybe I was inadequate?

44:07🔗 Drew No. Another 15-year-old?

44:10🔗 Caller She's 14.

44:11🔗 Adam She's probably walking around the cafeteria going, that Tim was just no good in the sack. I am getting rid of him. Pass me the burrito.

44:16🔗 Drew And here's the inadequate. You don't make her feel cared for enough. That's inadequate. Check that out.

44:23🔗 Adam Tim, I think you're upset because this girl gave you permission to go hang out with the other girl. That's it, right?

44:29🔗 Caller Pretty much.

44:30🔗 Adam All right. Well, I think she's sending you a message, so I guess just ask her and find out.

44:34🔗 Caller Okay.

44:35🔗 Adam All right, man. See you later. All right.

44:37🔗 Drew Hey, Danielle, do we get like, is it because Adam not here, are people sort of more comfortable calling us tonight? We're getting different kinds of younger callers, you think?

44:48🔗 I think people are just happy not to be insulted.

44:52🔗 Adam Well, let me start. Hey, screwball, Jenny. Yes. Jenny, everyone's an idiot, Jenny. Where do you fit in?

44:58🔗 Drew Let's go on, Jenny.

44:58🔗 Adam I'm just kidding, Jenny. You're 13 on Loveline. What's up?

45:01🔗 Caller My mom, she was going through some of my stuff and reading some of my letters and she recently found out I wasn't a virgin and now I don't know. She's like-

45:10🔗 Drew Flipped out.

45:11🔗 Caller Yeah, and I don't know what-

45:12🔗 Drew How do you feel about her going through your stuff?

45:14🔗 Caller Well, I sort of ran away for a weekend.

45:17🔗 Drew Why?

45:18🔗 Caller I don't know.

45:19🔗 Caller I just hopped out of the car and ran away.

45:20🔗 Adam You don't know why? Nothing happened. Everything was fine and you just said, I'm leaving.

45:23🔗 Drew Did your mom beat the crap out of you?

45:26🔗 Caller No, not really.

45:27🔗 Drew What do you mean not really?

45:28🔗 Caller I mean, we fight and argue.

45:30🔗 Drew Does she ever hit you?

45:31🔗 Caller Yeah.

45:33🔗 Drew That's impossible. That's just not something you should tolerate. When that happens, you call police. That's it. The kids that run away, run away because they're being abused.

45:43🔗 Caller Well, we went to my hometown where I'm from, and then I wanted to stay there for the weekend and she said no.

45:48🔗 Caller So I just got out the car and stayed anyway, and I took a bus back up to where I'm from.

45:52🔗 Drew I'm sorry. Where's your dad?

45:54🔗 Caller I don't know.

45:55🔗 Oh, man.

45:56🔗 Drew So hard. Do your mom have other kids?

45:58🔗 Caller Yeah.

45:58🔗 Drew How many?

45:59🔗 Caller One.

45:59🔗 Drew How old is she or he?

46:01🔗 Caller He's four.

46:02🔗 Adam Did she hit you when she read these letters?

46:05🔗 Caller No, we just argue a lot since I was younger, like in fifth grade.

46:10🔗 Caller Oh, wow.

46:12🔗 Drew Well, it's understandable if she upsets your young kid, and I'm sure she's worried about you and it hurts her to see that this is happening to you and she doesn't think it's good for you, which it isn't. But on the other hand, boy, she's really not serving your needs in the way she's parenting you necessarily, either. Why don't you take care of yourself, Jenny? I mean, having sex at your age is not the best thing for you, is it? No, I don't get it. No. Come on. Just focus on taking care of yourself. It was right for you. And let mom know that if you hit her, it's not appropriate. If she hits you, it's not appropriate. I'll give you a phone number. It is 1-800-540-4000. 1-800-540-4000. You can call and talk to about those kinds of experiences.

46:53🔗 Adam About abuse and things like that.

46:54🔗 Drew Yeah, somebody's hitting on you. You know, a lot of cultures in this country think that's okay. They call it whoop uneven. And it's not okay. It is extremely dangerous for kids. It is destructive to them. It changes their character development.

47:06🔗 Adam And they become beaters themselves.

47:08🔗 Drew Anti-social beaters.

47:10🔗 Adam Marco, 16 on Loveline.

47:12🔗 Caller Yeah, I'm taking a human growth hormone release.

47:15🔗 Drew No, no kidding. How come?

47:17🔗 Caller Because I want to get like bigger.

47:18🔗 Drew Oh, you're taking, you're surreptitiously taking it. It's not being prescribed to you.

47:23🔗 Caller No, like I got them from a magazine.

47:25🔗 Drew Wow. Well, I hope it's not the real thing. If it's the real thing, you're going to be in big trouble.

47:31🔗 Adam What is this pill? What does it do?

47:32🔗 Drew Well, real growth hormone will cause his bone plates to close. He'll be shorter than he would have been otherwise. It also causes his bone to grow in around the nerves, and so you can get paralysis of the facial muscles. I think it's a mess. So Marco, I don't know what it is they're giving you, but is there anything on the bottle that tells you what it actually is?

47:49🔗 Caller Oh, it says like live longer, feel younger, increase your energy level.

47:53🔗 Drew Yeah, but what is the chemical compound?

47:56🔗 Caller Oh, it has glutamate, glypholine, arginine, like hydros.

48:03🔗 Drew Yeah, so arginine can increase or stimulate release of growth hormone a little bit. So that's what they're getting at. So that's just a couple amino acids. It's not a big deal.

48:13🔗 Caller And they have like pepsin.

48:14🔗 Drew Yeah, these are all amino acids and things. So don't worry about it. That's probably safe.

48:18🔗 Adam He's not going to get any paralysis from taking that?

48:20🔗 Drew No, no.

48:21🔗 Adam All right, time to take a break? I don't know where we're going. No, well hold on. We got to speak to Robert.

48:25🔗 Drew Yeah.

48:26🔗 Adam All right, Robert.

48:27🔗 Hey.

48:28🔗 Adam 15 on Loveline.

48:29🔗 Yeah, I just want to say that you guys are really nice and Dr. Drew, I like what you do for kids.

48:33🔗 Stryker All right, my pleasure.

48:36🔗 I'm addicted to Tums because I have something called chondrocondritis that hurts my chest all the time.

48:41🔗 Drew Costochondritis.

48:42🔗 Yeah, I'm not sure what it's called.

48:44🔗 Drew Tums does not make that better.

48:46🔗 It won't?

48:46🔗 Drew Nope.

48:47🔗 I also have OCD and I tend to take it whenever I get scared or when I get nervous.

48:55🔗 Drew How many are you taking a day?

48:56🔗 About 15 to 20.

48:58🔗 Drew Do you drink a lot of milk?

49:00🔗 Yeah.

49:01🔗 Drew It can start to give you problems at a certain point.

49:03🔗 Adam Tums tastes pretty good though, I got to admit.

49:04🔗 Drew You're sure going to get constipated with all that too. Yeah. The calcium constipates. But 10 a day is not, you're not taking the double ones, are you?

49:12🔗 No. I'm just taking regular.

49:13🔗 Drew If you can stick around 10, you're not going to hurt yourself, but you're also not going to help your costochondritis. Tums is for acid indigestion, basically reflux, that sort of thing.

49:22🔗 Okay.

49:23🔗 Drew And costochondritis, you need anti-inflammatories, which will make your reflux and acid indigestion worse. But at 15, it'd be best if you could just take some physical therapy or chiropractic, something like that. Costochondritis is just basically spasm of the chest wall muscles. All right.

49:35🔗 Adam Because I had no idea what you were just talking about and I'm not even 15.

49:38🔗 Drew Okay. Good luck, Robert.

49:40🔗 Adam All right. Thanks. Bye.

49:40🔗 Drew Bye.

49:40🔗 Adam Switch to Pepto-Bismol. That tastes good also. Bye.

49:43🔗 Drew All right.

49:43🔗 Adam See you later. Let's go to break. All right. We're going to speak to-

49:47🔗 Drew We're late. We got to go.

49:48🔗 Adam All right. God, Drew, don't point at me. I'm going to be like Adam, screwball bastard. Loveline coming up next. Hold on.

49:54🔗 Stryker Loveline, Loveline, 1-800-LOVE-191. Back in a minute.

50:39🔗 Adam All right, we're back. It's Loveline. Drew, in the last two days, we have played footsies four times so far.

50:46🔗 Drew Have you noticed that? Oh, seriously? You just did it about 20 seconds ago. I wasn't aware of it.

50:50🔗 Adam Drew and I are probably-

50:52🔗 Drew You know what? Three feet apart. I don't have my shoes on. I'm just pushing shoes around. See that?

50:57🔗 Adam You didn't feel your feet on my testicles earlier? Please stay away from that, for God's sakes. All right, my name is Stryker. I am filling in for Adam Corolla while he's gone. My main man mayonnaise. He'll be back on Sunday night. So here comes. So Adam's going to be there. What? Main man mayonnaise? Ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, We're working with somebody who can read. Thank you. I just learned. Thank you, though. Yeah, what's up, Elise?

51:32🔗 Caller I'm a double D, and I was thinking about getting a breast reduction, but I don't know what's involved in all of that, like if there's any side effects to it or...

51:42🔗 Drew Wealth and operation.

51:43🔗 Adam How tall are you?

51:45🔗 Caller I'm about 5'4.

51:47🔗 Adam How much do you weigh?

51:49🔗 Caller About 200 pounds.

51:50🔗 Drew Oh.

51:51🔗 Adam Maybe an ass reduction.

51:53🔗 Drew But maybe a diet program and some weight loss in general would, because there's a lot of fat tissue there, it might reduce by itself, you think?

52:01🔗 Caller Yeah. When I did, a few years ago, I lost about 50 pounds, and they did reduce a little bit, but only to like a D, and I kind of want to be a C.

52:12🔗 Drew Okay, and that's sort of most women's desired size. That's what most people are going for. As you know, Victoria last night was a C.

52:18🔗 Adam No way.

52:19🔗 Drew So she's D. I'm sorry, what? That's fine. What's involved, it's in anesthesia, the usual inherent risks of anesthesia, it's surgery, so the risks of bleeding and infection.

52:31🔗 Caller Okay.

52:31🔗 Drew What they typically do is, I believe they still do the inverted T, which is a line coming down from the nipple and then sort of a smiley face underneath the nipple, underneath the breast rather, and they reduce down to the size you're looking for.

52:44🔗 Caller All right.

52:44🔗 Adam Elise, do you think, and you may have already said this, but I was spacing out for a minute, if you just went on an amazing diet and worked out a bit and you went from 200 to 140, that the breast would go from double D to maybe a D, which is definitely smaller, what do you think about that route?

53:01🔗 Caller That sounds very good. Actually, I'm trying that now. I lost a lot of weight and then I went away to college.

53:08🔗 Adam You put on the freshman 80.

53:09🔗 Drew How were you, be nice, how were you trying to lose the weight?

53:15🔗 Caller Well I went on this weight loss group, kind of like Weight Watchers, and like I said I lost 50 pounds and then over, this is like last Christmas I gained 15 pounds and then...

53:25🔗 Drew But you're not doing anything goofy diet-wise?

53:27🔗 Caller No, no. I'm actually very health conscious. I, my major in college was dietetics.

53:33🔗 Drew Alright, so you know what you're doing. Good.

53:35🔗 Adam Alright, good luck Elise.

53:36🔗 Drew Did you ever have an eating disorder?

53:38🔗 Caller Um, no.

53:39🔗 Drew Alright, okay, go to town.

53:41🔗 Caller Thanks.

53:42🔗 Adam Have you seen the dude that is like the spokesman for Subway now?

53:45🔗 Drew Yeah.

53:45🔗 Adam What's his name like? I don't know, I remember saying, but hey look how good Kenny's looking.

53:48🔗 Drew He ate one turkey sub a day.

53:50🔗 Adam And one other sub, I think it was two six inches a day.

53:54🔗 Drew That's actually a balanced meal.

53:55🔗 Adam It's pretty good.

53:56🔗 Drew Yeah, and it's like 240 calories or something.

53:58🔗 Adam Right, it's not bad. But that commercial, they show him giving like thumbs up. Look how good, he's like on the beach in a tank top. Some amazing chick walks by going, hey look how good Kenny's looking. He's got a Subway sandwich. Oh, I love that. I want to be the spokesman for the Slurpee one day by the way. Oh, I love the cherry flavor. Rick, 17 on Loveline.

54:17🔗 Oh yeah. Well, I have a little problem with it, you know, with women and all.

54:23🔗 Drew What's the problem?

54:24🔗 I mean, I'm kind of like the old fashioned guy. You know, I like to take the girl out, open the door for her, you know, the whole nine yards.

54:30🔗 Drew That's good. Another one with that.

54:31🔗 And the thing is, is that, you know, it doesn't seem like they're interested in me. Like, you know, first date, you know, basically screwed, you know.

54:39🔗 Drew So you're able to ask girls out.

54:41🔗 Yeah.

54:42🔗 Drew But once you do that, there's no second date. Of course not. How do they let you know that they're not interested?

54:50🔗 They ignore me. I try calling them. They kind of act like they're not there.

54:55🔗 Drew How many times has this happened?

54:58🔗 About a good ten plus.

55:01🔗 Drew And is there anything about the first date we should know? I mean, are you begging these women to go out with you?

55:05🔗 Caller No.

55:06🔗 You know, I don't really pressure with the whole sex thing or, you know, I'm just, you know, go out and go have fun.

55:13🔗 Drew Yeah. But are you, are you one of those guys that, when she goes, what were we going? And you go, well, where do you want to go?

55:19🔗 No, no, no. I have like a whole day set out, you know.

55:23🔗 Drew Like what do you do?

55:24🔗 Actually, I took a girl up in an airplane. You know, we were just running around town. We went to a movie. We went out to dinner. We went out to Scottsdale, you know.

55:37🔗 Adam Phoenix, yeah.

55:38🔗 And, you know, it was like a whole day, you know.

55:41🔗 Drew Is it too much? Is it too much for a first date?

55:43🔗 Adam No, no, no.

55:43🔗 Drew You scared him away?

55:44🔗 Adam I think, Rick.

55:46🔗 Drew Yeah.

55:46🔗 Adam You know, here's the thing. Step number one is the hardest thing is asking him out. And then once you got him out, are you just an idiot on these dates? You have the date planned out, but are you talking to him? Are you too shy?

55:57🔗 Caller Well, I'm a little shy, but I kind of forced myself to talk a little more.

56:04🔗 Drew What do you talk about?

56:10🔗 Adam Arizona Diamondbacks baseball.

56:12🔗 Caller Yeah, well, lame and stuff like that.

56:14🔗 Yeah.

56:17🔗 Drew Anything about you we should know?

56:18🔗 Caller I asked her, like what?

56:23🔗 Adam Hold on, Drew, I'm going to have to pull a Corolla here. Rick, can you hold on one sec? Thanks. I need a break for a minute. Rick, we're coming back to you. Find out what's, we'll try to figure it also, but think about what you do on the dates and why these women don't want to see you a second time, but at least you're asking them out for God's sakes. Alicia, 15 on Loveline.

56:42🔗 Caller Hi. I'm 15.

56:44🔗 Caller I've never kissed a guy in my...

56:49🔗 Adam In what?

56:50🔗 Drew Mom? Dad? Who are you sending away, Alicia?

56:54🔗 Caller Out.

56:55🔗 Caller Out of my room.

56:57🔗 Drew Is that dad?

56:58🔗 Caller No, my brother.

57:00🔗 Drew How's your brother? Let us talk to him, Alicia. We'll get him out of there.

57:04🔗 Caller No, it's okay.

57:06🔗 Adam Alicia, hold on. Rick is gone.

57:08🔗 Drew How's your brother?

57:10🔗 Caller 17.

57:11🔗 Caller Oh, boy.

57:12🔗 Adam All right, so you've never kissed a guy and do you want to kiss a guy?

57:17🔗 Caller I'm scared.

57:18🔗 Drew You're scared. Well, you're 15. Who is? Who wasn't?

57:21🔗 Caller It's my friend.

57:22🔗 Caller She just wants me to and I'm scared to.

57:24🔗 Adam She wants to live vicariously through you. She's one of those friends that probably has a toxic good game.

57:28🔗 Drew By the way, what kind of friend is that that really wants to sort of play upon your weakness, and your fears?

57:38🔗 Caller Is it like normal?

57:39🔗 Drew Yeah, of course it's normal. Of course it's normal. That's cute. It's refreshing. God bless you.

57:45🔗 Adam If you were 18, me and you would be dating, Alicia.

57:47🔗 Drew It's quite a change from the 15-year-olds I'm used to talking to. What would we talk to earlier that sounds like they've been to Vietnam and back?

57:55🔗 Adam The girl from the trailer. Alicia, you're perfectly normal, perfectly healthy. When you're ready, do it.

58:00🔗 Drew I'm more concerned about your friend and the quality of that friendship.

58:02🔗 Adam You know those idiot friends sometimes.

58:04🔗 Drew Well, that's what she is, an idiot friend.

58:06🔗 Adam All right, Alicia?

58:06🔗 Caller Okay.

58:07🔗 Adam You're going to be fine. Thank you. Okay, bye-bye.

58:10🔗 Caller Bye.

58:10🔗 Adam When you're 18, I'm here at Loveline.

58:12🔗 Caller Bye.

58:12🔗 Adam I'll be the first. Brandell. Brandell, 16 on Loveline.

58:18🔗 Caller Hi.

58:18🔗 Caller Hi. Yeah, my boyfriend, I want to know if he's too old for me.

58:23🔗 Adam Yes.

58:24🔗 Drew How old is he?

58:24🔗 Caller He's 23.

58:25🔗 Drew Yes. Not because he's too old for you, because he's a dick.

58:30🔗 Caller No, he's not.

58:31🔗 Drew Yes, he is.

58:32🔗 Caller No, he's not.

58:32🔗 Drew Yes, he is.

58:33🔗 Adam Where's your dad?

58:34🔗 Caller My dad? He's downstairs, asleep.

58:36🔗 Adam Oh, okay. Is he drinking?

58:41🔗 Caller No.

58:41🔗 Drew Not tonight.

58:42🔗 Adam Is he good to you?

58:44🔗 Caller Yeah.

58:44🔗 Drew Okay. Listen, when you're 23, you'll understand why he's a dick. That's the only thing I can tell you. But- Stryker, would you agree with me?

58:55🔗 Adam 100 percent. I've said it earlier.

58:57🔗 Drew Is there any way he's not a dick? Could it be possible?

59:00🔗 Adam No chance.

59:00🔗 Drew That's right. There's no chance.

59:02🔗 Adam He is a guy who probably is a little, is extremely insecure, is afraid to go out with someone of his own age, and he knows, he knows, because he was 16 at one point, that all the 16-year-olds are flattered when a 23-year-old is attracted to them, or at least shows that they are, just so they can get a little lovin.

59:17🔗 Drew I was in my second year of medical school at that age. I mean, that would be going back. Seriously, think about that. I mean, I have clinical rotations heading on back down to a high school.

59:29🔗 Adam That wouldn't hold. I got to ask you a question. Brandell?

59:32🔗 Caller Yeah?

59:32🔗 Adam We haven't convinced you one bit, have we, to stop going out with them?

59:35🔗 Caller No.

59:36🔗 Well, Dr. Drew?

59:39🔗 Drew Well, we usually sort of explore what it is in the young lady that's causing this need for the older guy.

59:43🔗 Adam I asked one question, and the dad's downstairs sleeping.

59:45🔗 Drew She doesn't want to talk about it.

59:46🔗 Adam Anything going on with you? You're not telling us, or we should know?

59:50🔗 Caller No. Not really, no.

59:53🔗 Drew Are you a virgin?

59:55🔗 Caller No.

59:57🔗 Drew With him?

59:58🔗 Caller Well, there are other people too.

1:00:01🔗 Drew But you understand he's a criminal by doing what he's doing?

1:00:05🔗 Caller Yeah, I guess.

1:00:06🔗 Drew All right, there's reasons those laws are in place.

1:00:09🔗 Adam Are you two exclusive with each other?

1:00:12🔗 Drew How do you know about him?

1:00:13🔗 Adam No, no, no. I'm going to get to that.

1:00:15🔗 Caller Yeah.

1:00:16🔗 Adam Does he live with his parents?

1:00:17🔗 Caller No.

1:00:18🔗 Adam No, of course not. Is he a welder?

1:00:21🔗 Caller No.

1:00:22🔗 Adam Okay. All right.

1:00:23🔗 Drew Breaks.

1:00:25🔗 Caller Well, he's like, he's already been married once.

1:00:28🔗 Drew Been where?

1:00:29🔗 Adam Married.

1:00:30🔗 Drew Oh, been married once. Yeah. Nice.

1:00:32🔗 Adam Brandell, please, I beg of you, I beg of you, get rid of this guy. He's 23. I swear, the guy is loony, a 23-year-old going out with a 16-year-old. He knows he can control you.

1:00:43🔗 Caller 17 tomorrow.

1:00:44🔗 Adam Oh, Dana, marry the man. Marry him, okay? All right, Brandell? Stay away. Goodbye. All right. Drew, I wasn't just a dick, as you said, was I?

1:00:56🔗 Drew No, you're fine. You're very kind.

1:00:57🔗 Adam All right. John?

1:00:59🔗 Caller Yeah.

1:01:00🔗 Adam 15, you're on Loveline. If you want to call in, by the way, wherever you're at, it's 1-800-LOVE-191. Go ahead, John.

1:01:07🔗 Caller Yeah, I was just wondering if you could get an FTD without actually having any contact.

1:01:13🔗 Drew Well, you can get hepatitis and HIV through, you know, blood products and things like that.

1:01:20🔗 Adam Is there anything sexually you can do, not intercourse, where you can get an STD, Dr. Drew?

1:01:24🔗 Drew You can get something called herpetic Whitlow, which is herpes of the fingertips, basically. And, you know, you can get that. It's hard, not an easy one to get, but you can get it.

1:01:34🔗 Adam You think you have something, John? Sorry to interrupt, Dr. Drew.

1:01:36🔗 Caller Well, I'm not sure if it's like an STD or anything, but like, there's like a little bit of like a rash or something, itches kind of.

1:01:47🔗 Drew Where? On your penis?

1:01:49🔗 Caller Yeah, like on my penis.

1:01:50🔗 Drew Well, you got skin there, right? Yeah. Do you have rashes anywhere else?

1:01:55🔗 Caller Uh, no.

1:01:56🔗 Drew You ever had a rash anywhere else?

1:01:58🔗 Caller No.

1:01:59🔗 Drew Well, it's a delicate skin and it gets rashes. So it may just be an allergic rash sometime. If you aren't having sex, it ain't sexually transmitted.

1:02:09🔗 Caller I haven't done anything like that.

1:02:10🔗 Drew Relax, it's allergic sometime probably.

1:02:12🔗 Caller Okay.

1:02:13🔗 Drew You haven't been out in the woods, have you?

1:02:14🔗 Caller No.

1:02:15🔗 Drew You mean, you're getting poison ivy or poison oak rust?

1:02:18🔗 Caller I'm immune to poison ivy.

1:02:19🔗 Adam You're what?

1:02:20🔗 Caller Immune to poison ivy.

1:02:21🔗 Adam Oh.

1:02:22🔗 Caller I can't get it.

1:02:23🔗 Drew Why?

1:02:24🔗 Caller I don't know.

1:02:25🔗 Caller It's just, I don't know.

1:02:26🔗 Drew Well, eventually you will sensitize. This may be your first brush with it. Okay. Okay, thanks.

1:02:33🔗 Adam Your winner will be fine, John. All right, it's Dr. Drew, Stryker for Adam Corolla, and Cassidy is 17 on Loveline.

1:02:41🔗 Caller Yeah, I'm obsessed with group sex. And one of my partners is getting really boring.

1:02:49🔗 Adam What city are you in?

1:02:50🔗 Caller Fort Worth.

1:02:51🔗 Drew How old were you when you were sexually abused?

1:02:56🔗 Caller Sexually abused.

1:02:57🔗 Adam Did anyone do anything that wasn't supposed to?

1:02:59🔗 Drew When somebody sexually assaulted you when you were a child.

1:03:03🔗 Caller Did they?

1:03:04🔗 Drew Of course they did. Yeah, of course they did. How old were you?

1:03:08🔗 Caller I was seven.

1:03:09🔗 Drew Yeah, of course. That's how this happens, Cassidy. People aren't just into this accidentally, just because it's cool. Something causes you to be into this. You develop what people are calling a trajectory, a momentum in this direction. It gets set off by the biological changes and the emotional changes that occur when you're sexually abused. It's hard to be really connected and open with somebody in a real relationship that's physical when physical contact has had trauma attached to it when you were younger.

1:03:39🔗 Adam So how can she deal with this?

1:03:40🔗 Drew You gotta get treatment. You gotta get treatment. So she gets treatment. You're heading down a slippery slope. Okay? Are you an addict also?

1:03:48🔗 Caller No.

1:03:49🔗 Drew Do you do drugs?

1:03:50🔗 Caller No.

1:03:51🔗 Drew Is there alcoholism in your family? You sure?

1:03:55🔗 Caller Yeah.

1:03:56🔗 Drew Because that would sort of add more momentum to all this. It's bad news.

1:04:00🔗 Adam So what is the outcome of therapy? She's gonna talk about this and she's all of a sudden not gonna be obsessed with any group of sex.

1:04:06🔗 Drew If she really works hard and goes and connects with a therapist for a long period of time, it's possible that she will start to have real relationships and a lot of these symptoms will just quiet down.

1:04:16🔗 Adam Now for a seven-year-old...

1:04:17🔗 Drew She may still have weird compulsions with sex, but they won't be as sort of destructive.

1:04:20🔗 Adam How is a 17-year-old gonna tell her parents this and I need a therapy? Is there anything she can, any place she can call or anything like that?

1:04:29🔗 Drew Yeah, but one of the things she should do is tell her parents about the history, which they probably don't know about. Here's a child abuse hotline. It's 1-800-5404-1000. There's also 1-800-4H-child, 800-422-4453.

1:04:44🔗 Adam All right. So Cassidy, best thing to do, I guess, try to open up to your parents, let them know what went on. And I'm sure they'll be, if they're fine parents, they'll be glad to get you some real help. Sally, 19 on Loveline, what's up?

1:04:56🔗 Caller Yes, I hear all of these side effects, or not side effects, but problems that people have after they've been molested or after they've been...

1:05:04🔗 Drew We just talked to Cassidy, right?

1:05:06🔗 Caller Yeah. And if they've been in a household where they've been abused. And I have all of these different side effects, but I don't ever remember being molested.

1:05:18🔗 Drew What are they? What are these experiences?

1:05:22🔗 Caller Just inability to have relationships with guys or girls, friends or boyfriends. And the only way that I can get aroused now, I don't watch pornography all the time, but it's only by watching other people. And I like imagining rough, really rough sex.

1:05:43🔗 Drew And nobody ever physically sort of manhandled you, strong, strong, you know, dealt with you physically in an aggressive way.

1:05:50🔗 Caller No, no. The only thing I can remember is just my dad's an alcoholic. And just remembering when I was a little girl that when somebody was drunk, I just remember thinking that that meant that they were perverted.

1:06:06🔗 Drew Hmm. That's interesting. I wonder if something happened when somebody was drunk. Yeah. You don't remember.

1:06:11🔗 Caller For the life of me, I cannot remember.

1:06:13🔗 Drew Have you ever gone to Al-Anon or Alateen?

1:06:16🔗 Caller I have. I've gone to Al-Anon.

1:06:18🔗 Drew And?

1:06:19🔗 Caller And?

1:06:19🔗 Drew Do you get any support about these feelings? Do you get any sort of, I think, worthwhile out of connecting with people who've been through things like this?

1:06:28🔗 Caller They didn't really talk about sexual experiences, but they were talking about how people can't really relate to other people in society and how they feel loneliness, and I connected with that.

1:06:37🔗 Drew Here's the problem. You didn't get a sponsor.

1:06:40🔗 Caller Okay.

1:06:40🔗 Drew And if you don't get a sponsor, you're just listening to stories. You're not doing the work. The work requires you do it in intimate contact with the sponsor in a 12-step process. That's how the change occurs.

1:06:51🔗 Caller Okay.

1:06:52🔗 Drew The stories are the stories, and they help you understand more fully the sort of full spectrum of how this disease affects people, but the change that needs to occur in you happens in an intimate contact with another person who's unconditionally available to you, the sponsor. To give it another try, right?

1:07:08🔗 Caller Okay. And I also have another question. Yeah. I have had a relationship for the past couple of years. We've actually been broken up for about six months now with a very healthy individual, a man. And I just, I've come to the point where my feelings for him deadened. I feel really numb and I feel as if I can't even sit still around him. And I'm just wondering if it's the relationship or if it's me starting to get close to somebody.

1:07:39🔗 Drew It sounds, I can't, you know, it's a couple of minutes in the radio with you here. It sounds more like the latter, that this is somebody who's really available and you can't cope. So you got to get that sponsor and you got to work that stuff out in that safe environment of the 12-step and maybe you'll be available to this relationship then. That's how this kind of stuff works.

1:07:58🔗 Adam I think maybe something did happen and she doesn't remember.

1:08:00🔗 Drew Oh, yeah.

1:08:01🔗 Adam Definitely.

1:08:01🔗 Drew But having an alcoholic parent is traumatizing enough.

1:08:04🔗 Adam Austin.

1:08:05🔗 Drew Yeah.

1:08:06🔗 Adam 16 on Loveline. What's up?

1:08:08🔗 All right. I had sex with a phone girl and now like I have this big lump on my penis.

1:08:14🔗 Drew Lump?

1:08:14🔗 Caller Yeah. Like a, it's like.

1:08:17🔗 Adam A pimple size or a golf ball size?

1:08:19🔗 Caller Like a marble size.

1:08:21🔗 Drew A marble.

1:08:22🔗 Caller Yeah, it's like right on it, like right before, right at the beginning of my dick.

1:08:29🔗 Drew This guy's a poet.

1:08:30🔗 Caller Huh?

1:08:31🔗 Drew Nothing.

1:08:32🔗 Adam Right at the beginning. At the tip?

1:08:34🔗 Drew No, the, where it joins the body.

1:08:36🔗 Caller No, no, the shaft.

1:08:38🔗 Drew It's like a marble. I wonder if it's a clotted vein or something. Sometimes that can happen.

1:08:44🔗 Caller Oh, like, could it be like, like herpes?

1:08:47🔗 Drew No, herpes hurts and burns and ulcerates.

1:08:50🔗 Caller Uh, so, like.

1:08:52🔗 Drew Austin, have a doctor look at it. The simplest explanation I would have would be sort of a clotted off vein, which can happen.

1:08:58🔗 Adam Medical question, I leave it to you. When there's a bump at the tip of the D, we're then, hey, Victor.

1:09:05🔗 Yeah.

1:09:06🔗 Adam All right. Ask away, man. You're 21 on Loveline.

1:09:09🔗 Caller Hey, yeah.

1:09:10🔗 Caller Like that other guy mentioned before.

1:09:12🔗 Caller Yeah.

1:09:13🔗 Drew You got a marble?

1:09:14🔗 Caller No.

1:09:15🔗 Caller It's not a marble. No.

1:09:16🔗 Caller Actually, it's a pimple on the shaft.

1:09:18🔗 Adam That's probably what it is, right?

1:09:19🔗 Drew Yeah. You can get those carbuncles and things there.

1:09:22🔗 Caller What are those?

1:09:22🔗 Caller Or what is that?

1:09:24🔗 Drew It's a pimple-like thing.

1:09:25🔗 Caller It's not like one or two.

1:09:26🔗 Caller It's maybe like three or four.

1:09:29🔗 Drew Are you sexually active?

1:09:31🔗 Caller Not after what I noticed.

1:09:34🔗 Drew Yeah. You want to have somebody look at this just to make sure it's not herpes or something else.

1:09:37🔗 Caller Do you know what a number you could give me?

1:09:39🔗 Like a clinic I could go to or something like that?

1:09:42🔗 Drew I would just go to a local emergency room or walking.

1:09:44🔗 Adam Emergency room?

1:09:45🔗 Drew Or an urgent care. An emergency room, is that okay? No, no, urgent care. Urgent care. Urgent care? Yeah, urgent care.

1:09:51🔗 Caller So, can I go like-

1:09:52🔗 Drew That would be good. Listen, I worked in a lot of emergency rooms. I was walking with stuff like this all the time. I can just see it.

1:09:58🔗 Adam A man just crashed in a cyclist. Arm is falling off. Sir, may I help you? I have two, three, or four white things on my wiener.

1:10:04🔗 Drew Help me out. Believe me, the motorcycle accidents do not excite the young males as much as the things on their Schwanns. That's when they're being airlifted in. Right. Oh, my God, there's three pimples on my penis.

1:10:15🔗 Adam Bring this man in. Let's bring in all the students from the college. All right. Justin, 15 on Loveline. What's going on?

1:10:22🔗 Caller All right. Football started a few days ago, right? I'm actually pretty frequently, at least twice a day. For the most part, it's generally thick semen, right? Well, on Thursday, but before orgasm, it just flowed out really watery.

1:10:38🔗 Drew That's okay.

1:10:40🔗 Adam How many times had you done it that day?

1:10:42🔗 Caller That was the first.

1:10:44🔗 Drew But your body is marshaling its resources for other things, like building muscle and sustaining stamina and stuff you're doing in football practice. It might even, at a certain point, over-exercising will actually lower your testosterone levels. Really? There's a sort of a curve to testosterone production with exercise that goes up to a certain point and then it starts to drop off the other side.

1:11:04🔗 Adam I should quit working out.

1:11:05🔗 Drew Yeah, that's the problem, Stryker.

1:11:06🔗 Adam What position do you play, Justin?

1:11:09🔗 Caller Defensive line.

1:11:10🔗 Adam All right. How much do you weigh?

1:11:12🔗 Caller I'm in a league. I'm in a level where you have to weigh between 130 and 150. All right. I weigh 145.

1:11:19🔗 Adam Well, good luck this year.

1:11:21🔗 Caller Thanks.

1:11:21🔗 Adam All right, man. See you later. All right. Let's talk to Jeff here on Loveline. 33, Jeff.

1:11:28🔗 Yeah, I just was wondering what kind of information you had on gambling addiction.

1:11:33🔗 Adam Gambling addiction. All right. We got to take a quick break. We'll find out about gambling, roulette, blackjack. The point spread on us coming back is plus seven and a half with Stryker and Dr. Drew on Loveline.

1:11:43🔗 Stryker Hello, this is your radio. Loveline will be ready.

1:12:23🔗 Adam Now my red hat gets a rap from these critics.

1:12:25🔗 Drew Which critics?

1:12:26🔗 Adam The critics.

1:12:27🔗 Drew What'd they say?

1:12:28🔗 Adam All the teaching in the world today? All the little girls?

1:12:31🔗 Drew Yeah.

1:12:31🔗 Adam Okay, you should listen to my program on K-Rock sometime. All right, it's Loveline, 1-800-LOVE-191, Stryker for Adam Corolla, along with Dr. Drew. We're gonna speak to Jeff about gambling. You know the 10th floor at the Hard Rock, at Hard Rock in Vegas? I built it, you know why? Because I've pissed away so much money in that freaking casino.

1:12:52🔗 Drew Oh really, so you got a problem too, huh?

1:12:53🔗 Adam I don't know about a problem, but I've done my share of gambling for many a year. Jeff?

1:12:58🔗 Yeah.

1:12:58🔗 Adam 33, addicted to gambling, huh?

1:13:01🔗 Caller Yeah.

1:13:02🔗 Adam What are you, sports, blackjack, anything or what?

1:13:07🔗 For here it would be video poker.

1:13:10🔗 Drew Okay, well here's the deal. Most in my experience, the more severe gambling addictions, in fact almost always in my experience, have followed or been concurrent with some other chemical addiction. So is there alcohol or anything else going on here?

1:13:26🔗 Caller Uh, nope.

1:13:27🔗 Drew Did you ever have an addiction otherwise?

1:13:30🔗 Caller Uh, no.

1:13:32🔗 Drew Wait, Stryker, did you ever have an addiction? Uh, no.

1:13:38🔗 Adam Yes or no? Jeff, have you ever had an addiction?

1:13:40🔗 Caller No.

1:13:40🔗 Drew You ever used any drugs regularly?

1:13:42🔗 Caller No.

1:13:44🔗 Drew Why don't I believe him?

1:13:45🔗 Adam Because of the pause in the beginning. You've done something, but just tell us. Did you drink at some point and you quit cold turkey or what?

1:13:54🔗 Caller Well, younger years I used to drink, yeah.

1:13:57🔗 Drew All right. Did you smoke pot regularly, too?

1:13:59🔗 Caller No.

1:14:00🔗 Drew Did you do cocaine?

1:14:01🔗 Caller Nope.

1:14:02🔗 Drew Anything else besides alcohol?

1:14:05🔗 Stryker Uh, no.

1:14:07🔗 Adam I believe him.

1:14:09🔗 Drew Is there a family history of alcoholism?

1:14:11🔗 Caller Nope.

1:14:12🔗 Drew What's your ethnic background?

1:14:14🔗 Caller Uh.

1:14:18🔗 Drew Are you on any medication?

1:14:20🔗 Caller No.

1:14:20🔗 Adam Jeff, hold on one sec, okay?

1:14:22🔗 Caller Okay.

1:14:22🔗 Drew We're going to do a reenactment.

1:14:23🔗 Adam Okay, here we go. I'll be here.

1:14:24🔗 Drew All right. What's your ethnic background?

1:14:29🔗 Adam Plus seven. I want the bills. Jeff. Jeff?

1:14:36🔗 Drew Yeah.

1:14:36🔗 Adam What's your ethnic background? Do you know what that means? It's cool if you don't.

1:14:41🔗 Drew Where are your ancestors from?

1:14:44🔗 Caller All over.

1:14:46🔗 Drew Well, most of them. Predominantly. We are done.

1:14:50🔗 Adam Addicted to gambling. Is there a number to call for gambling? You know offhand?

1:14:53🔗 Drew You can call AA and get a referral to GA. I'm just trying to establish whether or not you're actually an addict or just excessively in the game.

1:14:59🔗 Adam You understand why I put it back on hold? Because we're not getting anywhere.

1:15:02🔗 Drew We're not getting anywhere.

1:15:02🔗 Adam Call Gammler's Anonymous. And by the way, Gary Stevens at Hollywood Park. Best. Best jockey around. We're going to speak to Sean.

1:15:13🔗 Caller How you doing?

1:15:14🔗 Adam Hey, you're 24 and Loveline.

1:15:15🔗 Caller Yes. This question is for Dr. Drew. I cannot ejaculate any other way besides masturbating. I've been at like 20 girls, I don't know, since the teens or whatever and just never been able to work.

1:15:31🔗 Adam How many times a day do you do it to yourself?

1:15:35🔗 Caller I don't know. No more than once, really. Not every day, but I don't know.

1:15:39🔗 Drew Do you ever try sort of holding back for a while before you have sex?

1:15:43🔗 Caller No.

1:15:44🔗 Drew You got to give that a try first.

1:15:45🔗 Caller You think that'll work?

1:15:46🔗 Drew Well, it's a first step.

1:15:48🔗 Caller Okay. Have you ever heard of Deez?

1:15:51🔗 Adam Deez nuts? No. It didn't work. See? You can't fool Stryker. Don't even try it, Sean. See you later. Where did that come from? It's, you know, we don't even know where it come from.

1:16:01🔗 Drew That was last night, right? It happened to me? No. It happened last week.

1:16:03🔗 Adam It happened to you before?

1:16:04🔗 Drew Yeah, and I've never heard it before that.

1:16:06🔗 Adam I tried it with Cypress Hill when they were on my show. Where did it come from? It came from, I think, Dr. Dre's album a few years ago. Oh, do you know Bill from the hospital?

1:16:17🔗 Drew What hospital?

1:16:18🔗 Adam Deez Nuts. Brian, only about half the people are getting it.

1:16:24🔗 Drew I don't even get it. I don't even get it's the problem.

1:16:25🔗 Adam I don't know. All right, Pete McCoy. Brian, you're 14 on Loveline.

1:16:31🔗 Caller Yeah.

1:16:31🔗 Caller What's up, man?

1:16:33🔗 Caller Well, you guys were talking about yesterday. You were saying that it's impossible to urinate with an erection.

1:16:39🔗 Drew It's very difficult. It's very difficult.

1:16:41🔗 Adam I can do it, but it just goes straight up over my head.

1:16:43🔗 Caller Yeah. Well, I can, and it's just as easy as if it were flaccid.

1:16:48🔗 Drew Interesting. How about if you ejaculate? Do you pee right afterwards?

1:16:53🔗 Caller Not usually. Sometimes.

1:16:55🔗 Drew Okay. Some people are that way.

1:16:58🔗 Caller All right. I just didn't know if it was normal or anything.

1:17:00🔗 Drew As you get older, I suspect it will get more difficult.

1:17:03🔗 Caller Okay.

1:17:04🔗 Adam Thanks, Bry.

1:17:05🔗 Caller Yeah, thanks.

1:17:05🔗 Adam All right. Let's speak to Patrick. Patrick, you're 17.

1:17:10🔗 Caller Yeah.

1:17:10🔗 Adam What's going on?

1:17:12🔗 Caller I come home last night, right? Well, this question is not really about sexual related or nothing.

1:17:16🔗 Adam It's okay.

1:17:17🔗 Caller I come home last night, and I come inside my apartment, and I can tell right off the bat that something's the matter, because my mother, she normally wakes up for me, you know?

1:17:27🔗 Adam Yeah.

1:17:28🔗 Caller So I go in the back room, and I see her. She's watching the television with the lights off, right? And her eyes is all red, and her face is puffed up. I said, Mom, what the hell happened to you? You know? She said, Oh, don't worry about it. Go to bed. Go to bed. Go to bed. And I said, You know what happened? So today, I find out that my downstairs neighbor had gone out to argument with my mother about some money she owes him, and he hit her, right? So I swear to God, I was so pissed off. I was going to kill this guy.

1:17:59🔗 Drew What does she owe the money for?

1:18:01🔗 Caller Well, my cousin, he got into trouble and she needed to borrow some money to get him out of trouble.

1:18:08🔗 Adam So she borrowed money from the neighbor to bail your cousin out?

1:18:11🔗 Caller And then she's having a lot of trouble paying him back, and this guy just hit her, and I swear to God, I was going to kill this guy. I go downstairs, I bang on the apartment door, like pfft, pfft, pfft. No answer. Every time I think of this guy, I swear to God, I feel like killing him.

1:18:26🔗 Drew But if you take the law into your own hands, your mom's gonna need more bail money. You know, it's not, why don't you file a report? I know you guys don't seem to have a lot of trust out for the police, but sorry when I touch you, Stryker, I know it's very disturbing to you. But file a report for assault. File charges on this guy.

1:18:46🔗 Caller Well, the problem is that my mother, she doesn't want my father to know that she bought money, because she knows that my father doesn't have that kind of money to be paying back money to this guy.

1:18:55🔗 Adam So, your parents are together then?

1:18:57🔗 Caller Yeah.

1:18:58🔗 Adam But isn't he going to see the marks on your mom's face?

1:19:01🔗 Caller My father, he works, he comes back every once in a while. He has a traveling salesman kind of deal.

1:19:09🔗 Adam Well Patrick, all I can say, and I'm no expert in this, I'm just sitting in here, a normal guy, but don't take the law in your hands, man. I mean, you sound like a good guy, tough guy, just don't go killing your neighbor, man. If someone hit my mom, I'd go crazy and I'd want to kill this person, just go nuts on them. But you got to just collect yourself and Spike Lee said, do the right thing. Call the cops. I mean, you know.

1:19:37🔗 Drew File a report, you got to do it. It's the only way you're going to get any satisfaction out of this, and even that's going to be nominal. I'd be looking for my opportunity with this guy myself. You know what I mean?

1:19:49🔗 Adam Yeah, definitely. All right, Patrick.

1:19:52🔗 Caller Okay.

1:19:52🔗 Adam Okay, man.

1:19:53🔗 Caller See you later.

1:19:55🔗 Adam All right, Shelby15 on Loveline.

1:19:58🔗 Caller Yeah, hi.

1:20:00🔗 Caller Okay, see, I have a boyfriend, and okay, we've been doing it frequently, and it's just not doing anything for me, so I've been going behind his back and doing it with older men.

1:20:10🔗 Adam How many?

1:20:11🔗 Caller How many?

1:20:12🔗 Adam Yes.

1:20:12🔗 Caller About four or five.

1:20:14🔗 Adam And how old?

1:20:15🔗 Drew And that does something for you?

1:20:16🔗 Caller I mean, it does a little bit, but it's still not doing anything for me, hardly.

1:20:20🔗 Drew Right.

1:20:21🔗 Caller Is there something wrong with me?

1:20:22🔗 Drew Yes, that you're sexually compulsive, and 15-year-olds aren't supposed to be necessarily having much of an experience with intercourse.

1:20:30🔗 Adam What are you expecting that you're not getting?

1:20:33🔗 Caller I don't know. I mean, like, I don't know.

1:20:35🔗 Caller It's just, like, a feeling that I have that I'm not getting, that I know I have before.

1:20:39🔗 Drew This is another I was molested when I was six.

1:20:43🔗 Adam Ask her.

1:20:43🔗 Drew Right, Shelby?

1:20:45🔗 Caller Huh?

1:20:47🔗 Adam Did you have anyone touch you when you were younger?

1:20:49🔗 Caller No. I mean, I was perfect.

1:20:53🔗 Drew I don't buy it.

1:20:54🔗 Caller Huh?

1:20:55🔗 Drew It doesn't make sense.

1:20:56🔗 Caller I don't know why. I mean, I've been having an accrisis since I was 12, and then I stopped.

1:21:01🔗 Drew Okay. That's abuse right there. Who was that person that had sex with you at 12?

1:21:07🔗 Caller A guy.

1:21:08🔗 Drew How old was he? 19?

1:21:09🔗 Caller 21.

1:21:10🔗 Drew 21. See? That's sexual abuse, Shelby.

1:21:12🔗 Caller No, she said I was developed, and so I didn't like to stop.

1:21:14🔗 Drew No, no, no. Hey, hey, your brain was 12. Your brain's what we're talking about here, not your body, your brain. And your brain really isn't able to manage all this till you're about 16. That's just the way the brain develops. And that means you were sexually abused at 12. It also means that something was happening to you that put you at risk for such victimization at 12. Somebody hit you before that? No. Nobody ever raised their hand to you? No. Did you ever run away from home?

1:21:43🔗 Caller I did once.

1:21:45🔗 Drew Nobody ever hit you?

1:21:47🔗 Caller Not really.

1:21:48🔗 Adam What is not really? Yes? Come on, Shelby.

1:21:51🔗 Caller Yeah, but I fought back.

1:21:53🔗 Drew Yeah, Shelby.

1:21:54🔗 Caller Yeah.

1:21:54🔗 Drew Do you understand that being hit by your parents puts you at risk for victimization later? It doesn't matter if you fought back. It doesn't matter what. Being physically abused is what causes people to run away from home. It's one of the contributing factors to them being acted upon by victimizers at a young age. Now, that sets you up to be sexually compulsive and to feel like you can never get what you need out of sex and to be sort of, again, this sort of trajectory and the momentum and the direction of multiple, multiple partners try to get some sort of satisfaction from sex. It ain't never going to happen that way.

1:22:30🔗 Adam So what's the first thing Shelby needs to do?

1:22:32🔗 Drew The first thing is stop, stop, stop, stop all this, okay? It's going to make you feel awful about yourself. It's not going to make you feel good no matter what you do, no matter what physical experience you look for. And the best thing you can do is to, God, should get treatment, frankly, but at least try to have a stable relationship with somebody and keep good friends around you. At least do that.

1:22:54🔗 Adam She's got to just somehow mentally convince herself, stop sleeping with as many guys to look for something because she ain't going to find it.

1:23:00🔗 Drew No.

1:23:00🔗 Adam Right?

1:23:01🔗 Drew No.

1:23:01🔗 Adam All right. It's Loveline and Courtney is 18 and you're here. Hello.

1:23:07🔗 Caller Hi. My name is Courtney. I'm 18. I don't know if it's a problem, but if I had the choice, I would much rather go down on a guy than have him go down on me.

1:23:17🔗 Adam Are you married?

1:23:18🔗 Drew If you had the what?

1:23:18🔗 Caller No, I'm not.

1:23:19🔗 Adam What would you like to be?

1:23:21🔗 Caller Sure.

1:23:22🔗 Adam I'm here. We're in Los Angeles. She likes performing on a guy.

1:23:26🔗 Drew She had the choice. I see.

1:23:28🔗 Caller Right.

1:23:28🔗 Drew How about, are you sexually? Do you have an intercourse?

1:23:30🔗 Caller Yeah.

1:23:31🔗 Drew And what about that?

1:23:32🔗 Caller Like, we'll do the oral thing and then have an intercourse, usually.

1:23:36🔗 Drew And what do you like?

1:23:37🔗 Caller What do I like?

1:23:38🔗 Drew The intercourse is an okay thing for you?

1:23:39🔗 Caller Yeah. It's all fine. But like, if I had the choice, if I could just like give a blow job, I'd just much rather. I don't know. Is there something wrong with that?

1:23:50🔗 Adam There's nothing wrong with that. There's going to be guys lining outside your door for miles and miles. You know that, Courtney? No, I don't think that's a problem, Dr. Drew.

1:23:59🔗 Drew I don't think so at all.

1:24:00🔗 Adam Don't think so at all, Courtney.

1:24:02🔗 Caller All right. Thanks.

1:24:03🔗 Adam You're not addicted to doing it, are you?

1:24:05🔗 Caller No, it's not like I have to get my daily fix.

1:24:08🔗 Adam Okay. All right. Got it. Thanks a lot.

1:24:10🔗 Caller All right.

1:24:10🔗 Adam Good luck.

1:24:11🔗 Caller Bye.

1:24:11🔗 Adam All right. Sheila, 23. What's up?

1:24:16🔗 Caller Oh, not much.

1:24:18🔗 Caller I've just never had any type of sex drive. And I'm just starting to affect my marriage a little bit. And just wondering if there's some type of hormonal imbalance.

1:24:29🔗 Drew Are you aversive to it?

1:24:32🔗 Caller What do you mean?

1:24:33🔗 Drew Do you really not like it?

1:24:36🔗 Caller Well, it's not that I don't necessarily like it. I mean, I can honestly say about 95% of the time within her course, I have an orgasm.

1:24:44🔗 Drew Once a year.

1:24:47🔗 Caller You know, I mean, I always, you know, I never have a problem getting satisfied once I do it. It's just, I'm never in the mood to do it.

1:24:55🔗 Adam Before you got married and you're hanging out with this guy that you're married to, were you having sex regularly or not at all?

1:25:01🔗 Caller No, I was a virgin when I got married.

1:25:04🔗 Adam So he didn't know what he was in for.

1:25:07🔗 Drew Are you on any medication?

1:25:09🔗 Caller No. In fact, I've been off the pill for three years because it always made me feel bad. Again, I'm trying to have a baby.

1:25:16🔗 Drew I'm trying to establish, is it that you don't like it, you don't want to do it, or you really just have no libido?

1:25:23🔗 Caller I just really have no libido. I mean, sometimes it really hurts. So I guess maybe now it might be more of, you know, I'm kind of scared.

1:25:34🔗 Drew Anything we should know about your history?

1:25:36🔗 Caller Well, I was sort of abused. I had a cousin who touched me a couple of times, but it was never, you know, never vaginally or anything like that. It was just like a touch. And then my father's best friend one time groped me, but, you know, like I said, it was never, never anything more than that.

1:25:57🔗 Drew Okay. Again, that's obviously not good for you, but it shouldn't necessarily shut you down completely. Yeah. You're not depressed?

1:26:05🔗 Caller No, no.

1:26:07🔗 Drew No medication, no medical problems?

1:26:09🔗 Caller No.

1:26:09🔗 Adam When's the last time you had sex? Out of curiosity.

1:26:13🔗 Caller Last night.

1:26:14🔗 Drew How often do you have sex?

1:26:18🔗 Caller Well, if it was up to me, we'd probably only have sex maybe once a month. But a lot of times, I just go ahead and once we're finally into it, I have an orgasm and I enjoy it. It's just I never-

1:26:34🔗 Drew How often?

1:26:36🔗 Caller How often do we have sex?

1:26:37🔗 Drew Right.

1:26:38🔗 Caller About once every two weeks.

1:26:40🔗 Drew You love your husband?

1:26:41🔗 Caller Oh, absolutely.

1:26:42🔗 Drew You're into that relationship?

1:26:44🔗 Caller Oh, yes.

1:26:44🔗 Drew It may just be you. Maybe that's just your biology. It's a little lower than average, but that may just be you.

1:26:50🔗 Adam I think Sheila, would you like it more if he paid more attention before the sex actually happened? Do you guys just get right into the sex or is he romantic, the kissing?

1:27:02🔗 Caller He's a very big foreplay type deal.

1:27:05🔗 Adam You're still not into it, huh?

1:27:06🔗 Caller No, no. I mean, he does the whole, anything, he does everything and I mean, I am completely a poor guy, you know. I never give him oral sex. I mean, he's always into doing that for me, anything I want.

1:27:22🔗 Adam Got it. All right. Well, I don't know how to get the libido up, except maybe a couple of pineapples could do it for her, I think. I think that really works.

1:27:28🔗 Drew Pineapple?

1:27:29🔗 Adam You haven't read that in any of your books?

1:27:30🔗 Drew No.

1:27:31🔗 Adam Well, I read a lot.

1:27:32🔗 Drew Good.

1:27:32🔗 Adam Find a book.

1:27:33🔗 Drew Excellent.

1:27:33🔗 Adam All right. That's Drew, the doctor, Stryker, this guy, in for Adam Corolla. It's Loveline coming back in just a sec.

1:27:41🔗 Drew Back in a minute.

1:28:15🔗 Adam Loveline is back. That's us. 1-800-LOVE-191, Stryker for Adam Corolla along with Dr. Drew. And during break I mentioned, I heard pineapple makes it taste better when it flies out of the old ding ding ding.

1:28:29🔗 Drew I know. And our usual point of this show is, you know, you can eat everything you want, eat souffle and marshmallows and fresh cherries and your poop, still gonna taste like poop if you want to try to make it taste different. Eating something different is not gonna make it taste different. Things come out of your body or the same things come out of your body no matter what you put into it, basically.

1:28:50🔗 Adam I beg to do it. No, you're a doctor, who am I?

1:28:52🔗 Drew You tasted the pineapple.

1:28:53🔗 Adam No, I have not tasted anything and don't even insinuate that.

1:28:56🔗 Drew And we've actually, years and years and years ago, we actually did a taste test on this show. Really? We actually did it.

1:29:01🔗 Adam And who was the one tasting?

1:29:03🔗 Drew There were multiple partners because we had to do control, too.

1:29:06🔗 Adam Right.

1:29:07🔗 Drew And we had to blind it so they didn't know who'd had the pineapple and who hadn't.

1:29:09🔗 Adam I'm telling you, Gatorade and pineapple didn't work.

1:29:12🔗 Drew Nobody could tell. Completely random.

1:29:15🔗 Adam Okay. Hey, Vanessa, 19 on Loveline.

1:29:17🔗 Caller Hi.

1:29:18🔗 Caller Hi.

1:29:19🔗 Caller Well, the other day, me and my boyfriend were going at it a lot, like all day almost. And I think it was the very next day. I'd never had a yeast infection before, so I don't really know what it looks like. But I had something I think was kind of similar to it.

1:29:35🔗 Caller It might have actually been one.

1:29:36🔗 Caller And I wonder if it was related.

1:29:38🔗 Drew Well, it sounds like it's at least temporarily related, as you did something and something happened a day later. That makes sense it would be connected. You can get a vaginitis. You can get irritation in the vagina, discharge, that sort of thing. And yeast is one of the causes, and that usually has sort of a cottage cheesy-like discharge. But there are other bacterial vaginitis, vaginidities that can be treated and should be treated because they are associated with other problems.

1:30:01🔗 Caller Yeah, I got some anti-itch stuff for it, and now it's gone, but it still itches.

1:30:06🔗 Drew No, you should try some of the monistat, or the over-the-counter vaginal yeast creams, and if that doesn't work, then you got to see the doctor.

1:30:13🔗 Caller I have another question. My boyfriend told me that a while ago, he has a record of masturbating, and he says that...

1:30:22🔗 Adam What's the record?

1:30:23🔗 Caller 18 a day.

1:30:24🔗 Adam Oh, my God. Now we should bring those people in and do something. How much pain were his testicles in after 18 tests?

1:30:34🔗 Drew What would the officials be in that experiment?

1:30:36🔗 Caller I don't know.

1:30:37🔗 Adam We could throw Carolla in this contest. Oh, it would be terrific.

1:30:41🔗 Caller Is it something I should, like, worry about or...?

1:30:43🔗 Adam No.

1:30:43🔗 Drew I'm scared.

1:30:44🔗 Adam Give him a medal.

1:30:45🔗 Caller Give him a medal?

1:30:46🔗 Adam Yeah. That's terrific.

1:30:48🔗 Caller So it's okay?

1:30:49🔗 Adam Yeah.

1:30:50🔗 Caller Okay.

1:30:50🔗 Adam All right, Vanessa.

1:30:51🔗 Caller Okay, thanks.

1:30:52🔗 Adam Good luck with the yeast. Goodbye. All right, Marcie, 17. 17, Marcie on Loveline.

1:30:59🔗 Caller Yeah, I have a question.

1:31:00🔗 Caller I'm pregnant. And the guy that I'm pregnant by smokes a lot of weed. Would that affect my child in any way?

1:31:08🔗 Drew Well, if you were locked in a car cabin or something with him smoking pot.

1:31:12🔗 Caller No, but I'm saying, you know, cause I know they used to say, well, if you smoke weed, it's hard for you to get pregnant from the guy, you know, if the guy smokes weed.

1:31:20🔗 Drew Yeah, it is. That's true. But you are pregnant already.

1:31:22🔗 Caller Yeah, yeah.

1:31:23🔗 Drew There is some report, and this has not been substantiated, of an increased risk of orthopedic problems, like extra fingers and that sort of thing, in the children of pot-smoking dads. In my experience, it's a non-issue. The only thing that you have to worry about the child inheriting is the genetic potential for addiction.

1:31:43🔗 Adam Are you calling from a pay phone?

1:31:44🔗 Caller No.

1:31:45🔗 Adam Okay.

1:31:46🔗 Caller No.

1:31:47🔗 Adam All right.

1:31:47🔗 Caller Cell phone.

1:31:48🔗 Drew All right, Marcy.

1:31:49🔗 Caller Okay, thank you.

1:31:50🔗 Caller Bye.

1:31:50🔗 Adam All right. 1-800-LOVE-191. We'll try to squeeze as many as we can in here before we got to go. Jerry, 35 on Loveline.

1:31:59🔗 Caller Yeah. I have a real daughter who's 12 now, and a stepdaughter who's 21, and a stepdaughter sexually abused my real daughter when she was six, and the real one was 15. So it was six years ago.

1:32:16🔗 Drew The stepdaughter was 15?

1:32:19🔗 Caller My stepdaughter was 15, right?

1:32:20🔗 Drew Yeah.

1:32:21🔗 Caller Now, they live with their parents. I mean, they live with their mom, and she's out of state.

1:32:29🔗 Drew Wait, each...

1:32:30🔗 Caller Should I be concerned with the 12-year-old? Should I ask questions about her, or should I confront her?

1:32:39🔗 Drew Well, I'm totally confused here. You had a 15-year-old molest a six-year-old?

1:32:43🔗 Caller Correct.

1:32:44🔗 Drew And the 15-year-old was your step-daughter?

1:32:47🔗 Caller Yeah.

1:32:47🔗 Drew And the four-year-old was your biological daughter, six-year-old?

1:32:51🔗 Caller The six-year-old, yeah.

1:32:52🔗 Drew And neither of them are living with you now?

1:32:54🔗 Caller Neither of them. Now the six-year-old is 12 years old now.

1:32:58🔗 Drew And what do you want to know about her?

1:32:59🔗 Caller I want to know if I should confront my wife, my ex, with like, is this 12-year-old having any problems, or?

1:33:08🔗 Drew Yeah, why not?

1:33:09🔗 Caller What should I look for, or what should she look for?

1:33:12🔗 Drew A lability, like, lots of moods that will fluctuate, maybe even some rebelliousness and sexual activity, drug use.

1:33:23🔗 Caller Okay, I don't think there is any of that.

1:33:25🔗 Drew Good. But I would definitely ask about it.

1:33:27🔗 Adam Does your ex-wife know that that went on?

1:33:30🔗 Caller Yeah, but I don't think she believed it. I think she all, she tied it in with our divorce. She probably thought I wanted custody of the younger one.

1:33:42🔗 Drew No, you gotta ask the questions. You gotta ask the questions about your child.

1:33:47🔗 Caller Right.

1:33:48🔗 Drew See how she's doing.

1:33:49🔗 Caller Okay, but I shouldn't really ask my real daughter. I should just ask the wife.

1:33:53🔗 Adam Definitely.

1:33:56🔗 Caller Right?

1:33:56🔗 Drew Well, the daughter needs a chance to talk about whatever. And I would certainly open up, she's 12. You're sort of at the last minutes of this potential for establishing dialogues with your kids. If you miss between the 8 and 12, if they turn 12, you lose them. So give an opportunity to talk to her about whatever. Spend lots of time talking to her.

1:34:15🔗 Adam So you think he should talk to his daughter or the wife?

1:34:17🔗 Drew The wife for sure, but the daughter, but spend time establishing a dialogue with the daughter as well.

1:34:23🔗 Adam Okay, Sam, 19.

1:34:25🔗 Caller Hey, hi.

1:34:25🔗 Drew Hey.

1:34:27🔗 Caller I got a problem almost a couple weeks ago. I wanted to have sex with a hooker and I didn't have like completely sex because I was, like after three or four times I had it like in there and something. I changed my mind. Okay. And the very next day, ever since that time, I have diarrhea. I was looking yesterday on the computer searching the internet. I think they call it chronic diarrhea because I had it more than like 10 days.

1:34:59🔗 Drew Sam, look.

1:34:59🔗 Adam I am so confused.

1:35:01🔗 Drew Sam, this is why the internet is a dangerous instrument for people that have no experience. I understand that one of the reasons we know how to assess people's positions is we see things a zillion times. And just having the information is where you begin your training, not where you establish a diagnosis. You probably just have irritable bowel from being so nervous about having been through this experience.

1:35:23🔗 Adam So you had sex with her, Sam, or you didn't?

1:35:26🔗 Caller Actually, I had it like after like four or five times I inserted it in her and...

1:35:31🔗 Adam What do you mean four or five times? What?

1:35:33🔗 Caller Like, I had my thing in her like four or five times.

1:35:38🔗 Adam Okay.

1:35:39🔗 Caller And I changed my mind.

1:35:40🔗 Adam So you went in and out five times and said, forget about it.

1:35:43🔗 Caller Exactly.

1:35:44🔗 Drew And then you've been freaking out ever since.

1:35:47🔗 Adam Were you wearing a condom?

1:35:49🔗 Caller Yes. Yeah, I was actually. And I had all these ideas, for example, like you may get any kind of STDs and stuff.

1:35:57🔗 Drew Yeah, look, but you're totally flipped out and that will give you diarrhea.

1:36:00🔗 Adam Your mind is playing tricks on you, Sam.

1:36:02🔗 Caller Okay. No, but the thing is, like, I tried all kinds of stuff, for example, the Imodium, and I changed. I had like kind of such diet, for example, you know, yogurt and stuff, trying to cool down this diarrhea. But ever since that time, I still have that diarrhea.

1:36:18🔗 Drew Well, do you have any nausea?

1:36:20🔗 Adam What's that?

1:36:20🔗 Drew Any nausea with it?

1:36:22🔗 Caller No.

1:36:22🔗 Drew Have you been traveling at all in the last two weeks?

1:36:25🔗 Caller I'm sorry?

1:36:25🔗 Drew Have you been traveling in the last two weeks?

1:36:27🔗 Adam Just to see prostitutes.

1:36:29🔗 Drew Traveling?

1:36:30🔗 Caller Yes.

1:36:31🔗 Drew All right. So this could be a traveler's diarrhea, could be Giardia. You try two Imodium, not more than eight per day, get dairy out of your diet, get roughage out, no fresh fruits or vegetables, just well-cooked fruits. And if it's not better in two days, then you see a gastroenterologist, you get stool, you're a regular doctor, you get stool studies done, and you'll see what's causing it. There'll be a bacteria causing it, I'm sure.

1:36:49🔗 Adam Was that the first time you've ever seen a hooker, Sam?

1:36:51🔗 Caller Uh, yes.

1:36:52🔗 Adam Okay, well you're not going to do it again, I assume?

1:36:54🔗 Caller Hell no.

1:36:55🔗 Drew This probably has nothing to do with the hooker.

1:36:56🔗 Adam All right, see you later, man. All right, is it time to wrap it up?

1:37:00🔗 Drew Yep. Break, break, break.

1:37:01🔗 Adam All right, we gotta take a break. We'll be back for a few minutes. Loveline coming up. Hold on.

1:37:06🔗 Caller You know what I'm saying, I'm there.

1:37:08🔗 Stryker Adam and Dr. Drew will be right back on Loveline.

1:37:41🔗 Adam We're back, Loveline, and we're almost gone.

1:37:44🔗 Drew Stryker has been a pleasure. I hope you will rejoin me when I manage to elude my illustrious partner.

1:37:51🔗 Adam I would love to rejoin you anytime Adam is gone. And I definitely want to thank Adam for letting me come in here because-

1:37:57🔗 Drew He didn't let you come in.

1:37:57🔗 Adam No, he didn't let me come in.

1:37:58🔗 Drew No, don't thank him for anything. Do not give him credit.

1:38:00🔗 Adam My main man mayonnaise. And thanks to everyone that called in and was so cool to me for filling in for Adam, because I listen to Loveline all the time, driving home from when I do my radio show out here before you guys. Big shoes to fill, but he does well. And Adam will be back on Sunday on Loveline. So for Dr. Drew, this is Stryker saying, Shalom.

1:38:22🔗 Stryker This has been Loveline. The opinions expressed on this show are not necessarily those of the staff, management, sponsors or this station. The producer for Loveline is Ann Wilkins Engel. Loveline is a presentation of Westwood One Entertainment.

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