3:51🔗
Adam
It is Loveline. I'm Adam Corolla. That is Dr. Drew. Phone number 1-800-L-O-V-E-1-9-1. Fax number 3108-54-4455. Dr. Drew is a board certified physician and addiction medicine specialist. I took a nap tonight, Drew. Oh, boy. I went down so hard that when my little buzzer, my little egg timer.
4:17🔗
It went off.
4:18🔗
Adam
I went to bed at about 8.40. Preparation is my middle name if you ever listen to this show. I live about 22, 23 minutes away from the studio, so I set my alarm for 9.30. I figured I'd give me plenty of time to get up and make it on into the seat, and I gave myself a couple of minutes to put my shoes and my sweatpants or pajama bottoms on, at least. Make it in the studio. But the point is, I went to bed about 8.40. My little alarm went off at 9.30. That thing was going off. I didn't know where I was. I was just paralyzed. I was just lying there in bed, and I was thinking, well, it's dark, was my first thought. That I drank in pretty good. It's dark. Now, it could be early in the morning, or maybe it's late at night. There's this buzzer going off, and that buzzer seems to indicate I'm supposed to go do something, but I'm not exactly sure what it is. So, I'm going to play it safe and just sit up. Now, it's like 932, the buzzer is still going off, and I'm still sitting there, and my alarm clock, which I don't use, I just use it like a clock. I always use my egg timer. I have a few things I really want to share with you, the listener of Loveline, because it really can help you in your life. I like these electronic egg timers. Ten bucks down at the supermarket, takes one AA battery. Pow! You press in one hour, you can press in 45 minutes, you can press in 18 minutes.
6:06🔗
Adam
But you can't set your clock alarm, because there's no way you're going to set your clock alarm when it's 8.46 at night to go off at 9.11. You're not going to do it.
6:19🔗
Adam
By the time you've done it, it's time to get up. And furthermore, and it's not going to work out, because there's going to be an AM PM prom, because you had it on AM.
6:29🔗
Adam
So you have two options. You can lie there and wake up every two to two and a half minutes and glance over at the clock, which doesn't really constitute a nap, because you have one eye awake, because you're constantly aware that you have to get up. Or you could go, F it, I'm going down. In which case, you could wake up at 1145 in the evening and have missed your job, whatever. Whatever it is you're supposed to do. But with these little egg timers, little tink, tink, tink, tink, tink, little digital timer, 999, I'll set that thing for 18 minutes. I'll set that thing at nine o'clock. When I have to leave for work at 925, I'll set that thing for 20 minutes, I'll go down. Pow. If that thing didn't go off, I'd be going all night. But anyway, this time I popped up, I didn't know where the hell I was. Completely out of it.
7:20🔗
Adam
Who said that? Who said that? Are you eyeballing me? What did you do with Drew? No, I'm out of it. Yeah, I'm completely out of it. It's impossible. Yeah, this is a dream. I shouldn't get paid for this part of the show because I don't remember this. But the point is, is I just woke up and went, I know the fact that this little box here is making a noise.
7:39🔗
Adam
Put your shoes on and start heading for the door. By the time you get to your car or at least down the hill, you'll figure out which way to turn, which office to go to, where to go. I was so goddamn tired in general that I plopped down a 500 bucks for a Lou Gehrig's disease benefit gala. Dinner event tonight didn't go. By the way, everybody, that's a big deal. That's 500, that's a lot of food. That's a lot of chow. I mean, it's a charity, fine. But you know you want to go home when you bought a 500 dollar ticket to go to some event and you want to screw it. I'm going home.
8:22🔗
Drew
Well, last night you were complaining about how just overwhelmed and tired and you give yourself now a chance to sleep.
8:45🔗
Adam
The new bad Adam. I know, I was telling my shrink last week, I've only been an A-hole for a couple of years. I used to be a really nice guy, I was really a sweet guy. Now I'm an A-hole, but at least I know I am. All right, how big an A-hole can I be? I freely admit I'm an A-hole.
9:08🔗
Drew
He wrote Bugsy and he's the writer producer of Black and White and he's a really smart, interesting guy and he would like interviewing him. We should try to get him in if she's listening.
9:20🔗
Drew
I mean just total A-hole. Ready people there, his people there. Toback flies into the interview, oops, interrupts his rhythm.
9:32🔗
Adam
I'm glad I'm not a gambling man, I would have lost millions on this. Drew, what did I say to you yesterday when you said Tyson was coming in?
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He'll never be there. We'll show up.
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Yeah.
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Exactly.
9:50🔗
Adam
That's all you need to know about people, everyone. They don't disappoint. I knew Tyson wouldn't show up for that interview. What's going on there, Jeff?
9:58🔗
Caller
I've been having sex with my girlfriend for about maybe six months now. Every time I have sex with her, the condom rips. It's really hard to get on over the head.
10:33🔗
Yes?
10:45🔗
Guest
Okay. First of all, I want to say you guys are great. I've listened to you since I was nine years old.
11:12🔗
No.
11:18🔗
Okay.
11:19🔗
Guest
Well, on Saturday I was making out with my boyfriend and I felt like a little wet down there and later I discovered that I bled a little bit and I wasn't on my period, so I was wondering if there's something wrong with that.
11:44🔗
Drew
Yeah, sometimes sexual stimulation, particularly intercourse, will stimulate some bleeding, so it's not that big a deal.
12:02🔗
Yeah.
12:04🔗
Adam
That area is a little leaky down there, right? I mean, it's not like your finger. I mean, what I mean is you could take a rubber band, put it on your finger, sort of engorge it with blood. It's not like it would start leaking.
12:14🔗
Drew
It doesn't have a little glands around there. There's just a giant gland up top, the uterus, and there's also skiing glands and Bartholomew glands and all sorts of glands around it.
12:27🔗
Adam
They go cave exploring and they go under the lake and you look up, there's a little water on the top, a little dripping. I mean, it's not like it's flowing down, but if there's enough of that, whatever it is above it, it'll kind of get around in there, right?
13:08🔗
Adam
I'm not really tired, I'm just disoriented. Jamie, you're 16. What's up? Well, once again, proving I can do the show in my sleep. Actually, I'm better, more effective. Go ahead, Jamie.
13:19🔗
Caller
Okay. I have a friend of mine, she's not bi and I am, and we got drunk, and I don't want to go into a long story, but we messed around, and now she thinks she owns me, but she doesn't say anything like that.
13:35🔗
Adam
True is the same way. He thinks he owns me, he doesn't say anything, but I know he thinks he owns me.
13:42🔗
Caller
She's really protective, like she tells me, oh, don't go for him or don't do this, don't do that. And I'm just like, I don't know what to say.
13:51🔗
Caller
Well, that's what I say, but she just seems like she's my girlfriend. She's like, she owns me.
14:00🔗
Caller
And she's so anti, she's anti, she's anti like fag, gay, anything. She's like, come on.
14:08🔗
Caller
But then I don't get it now because she doesn't act like we, she acts like she knows we did stuff and we talked about it one time, but I don't know what to say to her.
14:42🔗
Drew
Well, maybe it's that she feels very, very close to her, uncomfortably close. And it's just that's the way she expresses when she feels really tight. Does she treat her boyfriend like that too?
14:50🔗
Caller
Well, she hasn't had a boyfriend. She's only had one boyfriend. And I've had a lot of, not to sound like I'm all, God's given me anything, but I've had a lot of boyfriends and I don't treat her.
15:08🔗
Adam
Well, lots of boyfriends going down on your best friend, you know, why are they acting out?
15:18🔗
Caller
I just, I feel if I don't go out with somebody or I don't, if I'm not with somebody, I feel like I'm missing out on something good.
15:39🔗
Caller
No, I just feel, I like when I'm with somebody in a relationship, I like for them to be more pushy than I am. I just kind of go along with it.
15:59🔗
Drew
I think there's probably two ways to get to die chain. One is the eating disorder route.
16:56🔗
Drew
She's just exploring. People talk about exploration. Oh, they're just exploring. This is what this probably is. She's just a little out of control, probably even a little depressed and doing things that are, one day she'll look back and go, oh, jeez, what was I up to?
17:11🔗
Adam
Yeah. Well, we don't get a lot of true explorers, but this is a real ponce de Leon here. She means it.
17:24🔗
Adam
I mean, she let her go down on her, and now she's sort of protective and controlling. Maybe her friend has some feelings for her.
17:31🔗
Drew
Not as though, I don't think that she'd want to be in a committed relationship, but she has feelings that she can't control. She feels she's responding to it, let's put it that way.
17:45🔗
Caller
I breastfed my son for about a year and a half, and I stopped a few months ago, but I'm still lactating.
17:52🔗
Adam
My mom did me for a year and a half too. I think the problem was it was between 13 and 15. I was 13 and a half to about my 15th birthday. I never did it when I was younger. I think she felt bad about that, wanted to sort of make it up.
18:14🔗
Adam
Wet nurse is not cheap. How does a wet nurse work, by the way? And what kind of gig is that? I mean, these are nurses that actually let the child breastfeed?
18:26🔗
Adam
Do they have to be pregnant themselves? Or is there some sort of sympathetic milk produced? I'm around someone who's hungry, I'll produce milk.
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Drew
Women are really amazing, aren't they? No, I don't know how they used to do that. Some women can be stimulated to produce milk just with stimulation, but I bet they got them when they were pregnant and they just kept stimulating them so they could produce milk.
18:50🔗
Adam
And this sounds like a lucrative gig, I mean, if you could get work. I mean, if you're one of the better wet nurses Better producers? In town. Yeah, I mean, do they still use this?
19:15🔗
Adam
Yeah, I mean, you had to take the silver spoon out of your mouth so you could get to the rent-a-boob, but jeez, talk about one more reason to hate your mom. She farmed her boob out, you know? I mean, got a wet nurse. Too busy.
19:43🔗
Drew
Okay. Well, sometimes they actually have to, usually it will dry out pretty quickly on its own, but sometimes they have to use a medication called Bromocryptine or Parlidel to get things to shut down. Are you on any medication?
20:02🔗
Caller
I have another question. Yeah. Sometimes you guys say negative things about teenage parents, but I don't.
20:16🔗
Caller
But if a person works really hard, and I think that I'm a really great mom, I work hard to go to school and take care of my son.
20:34🔗
Okay.
20:44🔗
Adam
Sounds like a real winner, this guy. What do you mean he doesn't like the whole milk thing?
21:02🔗
Adam
I could leave him alone. I just take a look at him, you know, take care of my milk myself while I looked at her. You know what I'm saying?
21:15🔗
Drew
Actually, you bring out actually a very interesting point is that they've studied teenage parents and they do better than you predict. However, what we're sort of speaking from is how difficult it is to be a parent these days and how much resource you need. And, holy Christ, I can't do it. I don't know how the hell this...
21:33🔗
Drew
Or if we even put ourselves in the role of a 17-year-old and imagine ourselves at 17 trying to be a parent or 22 or 25.
21:41🔗
Adam
Well, she's married, which is a vastly different than the majority of the people or teens who call this show or anyone who calls this show. Michelle?
21:49🔗
Hello?
22:01🔗
Caller
And I was with him until I was 18 when I left him. And I spent a long time trying to get over it. And I've been in therapy.
22:14🔗
Caller
Well, no. But I've tried to work through it. And I've never really thought about pursuing a legal suit against him, like taking him to court. And I know I could do that now. But I don't know whether I should do that. Because he's supposed... Well, from what I hear, I haven't seen or heard of him. I mean, I moved away from my town and everything.
22:38🔗
Drew
I have two sort of thoughts on this. One is he deserves it. I wish he would save him from other people, or at least make a report. On the other hand, acting out one's anger, as opposed to sort of dealing with it in the therapeutic process, isn't always the best thing. Maybe you ought to just sit with your therapy for a while and see where that takes you.
22:59🔗
Adam
Well, and also, direct some of that at your own parents. I mean, for Christ's sake, I don't know what kind of parent lets their 12-year-old date a 22-year-old and then keep that relationship going for six years. What's up with mom and dad, or I should say mom?
23:40🔗
Caller
You know, I did not know what they were thinking, and my mom and I go around and around about this, and she just feels really guilty now, and she, What were they thinking? She's just really sorry.
23:53🔗
Caller
I don't know. She just says that they were just caught up in their own lives. Like, they got divorced when I was 11, and then-
24:04🔗
Adam
Dude, you got a 12-year-old daughter staying at a 22-year-old? Just for fun, how old are you when you're 12? Sixth grade? Seventh grade?
24:18🔗
Caller
When I think about it now, it just pisses me off when I look back on it. I'm taking this training, actually, to be on a crisis hotline.
24:29🔗
Caller
That's when I realized I'm taking this training. It's a state certification, and we were having this thing about child abuse. That's when it just first struck me, wait a minute, that wasn't a relationship. That was child abuse.
24:44🔗
Caller
Well, I didn't actually have sex with him until I was 14. So I knew him for a couple of years.
24:53🔗
Adam
Even worse. That guy's like, yeah, I'm courting. He's grooming a 12-year-old. Listen, I'm sorry your dad's dead, and I know your mom's confused and apologizes. They still dropped the ball in a major way. Major. I don't even know if my parents could have pulled that one off. Although they...
25:16🔗
Adam
They probably could have given your folks a run for the money. I think they would have had some pretty stiff competition in the out-of-it department. They may have taken that home, but still...
25:29🔗
Adam
Yeah, that's true, but her dad died two years into the relationship. I mean, those are the cruciers. I mean, listen, you make it from 12 to 14. The rest is downhill.
25:54🔗
Oh!
26:07🔗
Adam
Give me some of the names, because this is going to be good. What was the first band he was in when you were 12?
26:56🔗
Adam
All right. All right. Well, listen, we'll see him in hell. You sound fine. We're done talking to you.
27:02🔗
Drew
Well, yeah. Listen, Michelle, the nice thing is that you do sound fine. You are working on yourself. You've gotten some counseling about this and you're being of service, which is also going to be a great help to you through all this. So keep your wits about you and Godspeed.
27:25🔗
What's going on?
27:34🔗
Adam
Hold on a second. We're going to take ourselves a break. When we come back, we'll speak to young Jeff who drops 500 a week at a massage parlor after this.
27:46🔗
This is Loveline, 1-800-LOVE-191. We'll be right back.
28:23🔗
Yeah.
28:25🔗
Adam
Hey, it's the Loveline of Adam Corolla. This is Dr. Drew over there. Phone number 1-800-L-O-V-E-1-9-1. Well, we did the first half hour of the show. I don't even remember doing it.
28:36🔗
Adam
Oh, you serious? Don't laugh with me. Sometimes I nap so hard, I wake up, my innards are still asleep. You ever get those, like, you ever nap, you go down so hard, and then you wake up and you're awake, like your brain's awake and your eyes are awake, like your legs are moving, but your lungs, and your, like, intestines are still sort of asleep, and you're walking around and you're kind of going, it kind of feels like your parts are still asleep in you a little, especially your lungs, I'm feeling the lungs, like they don't hurt or anything, it's just like...
29:13🔗
Drew
You're still breathing wrong. You're still breathing like you were asleep. You're asleep, you're still going...
29:18🔗
Adam
Yeah. I mean, it's like your parts, like, it's sort of like, it's like I'm a piece of meat that's thawing, and the outside is good, but the core's still frozen. That's the way I feel. The core of my brain and my gut's still frozen, still asleep, outside, working just fine.
29:42🔗
Caller
How's it going, guys? Good. Before I start, Adam, I think you're a true philosopher warrior.
29:55🔗
Caller
I went to Loyola, Chicago, for a couple years, and then southern Illinois, and I just finished at Northeastern. So I've been in all directions.
30:06🔗
Caller
Pretty much, yeah. My problem is that I've developed this habit of going to massage parlors and receiving a hand job from the ladies there.
30:32🔗
Adam
Well, you could get just a regular massage for I don't know how much money, but if you want the hand release, it's going to bump you up a little.
30:54🔗
Caller
Some of them are Asian, but a lot of them are American too. But half of them, they just offer you clothing options where you can get yourself off, but the other half, they help you out.
31:12🔗
Caller
The ironic thing is, the places where you do yourself, some of them cost more, and I don't know how they stay in business because I'd rather go to the ones where they do it. But anyway, we digress.
31:23🔗
Adam
Wait a minute. Now listen, I've never been to a massage parlor before. It doesn't sound, there's a few things I've never done, and there's not that nothing's not wrong with me sexually. Oh, there's plenty wrong. But phone sex, never called one in my life, and never been to a massage parlor. I filmed something at a massage parlor once, a comedy bit, and I can tell you what they look like. But the ones where you get yourself off, how does that go? You go in, they give you a rub down, and then you finish yourself off?
31:58🔗
Caller
Yeah, you pay the 50 or 60 dollars for the massage, and once you get in there, it's probably like 100 bucks for them to get nude, and they just get on the table and just pose and stuff.
32:12🔗
Adam
Sort of ironic, you go in for a rub down, they get naked, you pull your Johnson out of your trunks. The masseuse is naked.
32:26🔗
Oh my god.
32:50🔗
Caller
No, I go to different ones and pick different girls. And just today, actually, I got myself an escort. So it's sort of escalating, I mean, this pattern.
33:06🔗
Adam
When you get the happy release, where does the release go? I mean, is someone mopping up in there? Do they have some of that butcher paper down on the table? How does that work?
33:17🔗
Drew
The image sometimes is very strange for me because I think of release, I think about like poles, clay pigeons and things.
33:28🔗
Pull!
33:36🔗
Adam
I just want to make sure you don't walk into someone else's happy release that they released 20 minutes earlier before you got in there.
33:51🔗
Caller
Well, different counties are on Chicago are different. You know, some of them are a little more relaxed about it. Some of them are strict and shut them down.
34:02🔗
Adam
Yeah, I know. But there's only in listen. Oh, for Christ's sake, don't get me going on vice. They're too busy trying to bust madams by having women having having officers poses, you know, Asian businessmen and then having 19 guys with surveillance cameras and the next room and all this. And let me just say one more thing real quick to the cops, because I know we got sued for this last time. I just want to say something. Listen, you idiots, you do what we want you to do, not what you want to whack off to. No one gives a rat's heinie about Heidi Fleiss and her girls, you idiots. Drives me nuts. I don't want to get going on this tangent, but I just, the hair on the back of my nuts stands up every time I hear about how much manpower, how much time is devoted. Whenever I hear about like Pee Wee Herman and how they had like four VICE guys stocking, you know, sitting in the adult theater looking for troublemakers, the hair on the back of my neck stands up. This is where our money is being spent. This is where our resources are going. All I ever hear from cops is, we don't have enough manpower. That's all I ever hear. We don't have enough manpower. We wish we could get to these calls an hour earlier, but we can't. We don't have enough manpower. Yeah, but drive down to Burbank and get yourself a goddamn jaywalking ticket. Go to Burbank, everyone. See how much manpower they got. Oh, they got plenty of manpower. As long as you got money, they got a ton of manpower. As long as someone's getting naked, they got a ton of manpower. It's just when the actual crime is going down, they're a little bit light on the manpower. You do what we want you to do, you pussies. Not what you feel like doing. It drives me nuts.
35:56🔗
Adam
No, I don't care. I don't have a problem with them. I drive 65,000 Venice every night. They don't give me any trouble. I like those guys. All right. So, Jeff, where do you make all this money?
36:10🔗
Adam
I know. That's still a pretty good sum. I mean, if you're dropping 500 bills a week on prostitution, you got to be making some cash, don't you?
36:32🔗
Caller
I started with that. That's what this has escalated to. And now it's escalated to actually have had sex with them a couple of times.
36:48🔗
Caller
So, the other question is, I got these small red bumps on my upper thigh, but I don't know if-
37:00🔗
Drew
That could be herpes. Could be molluscum contagiosum. But really, Jeff, if you want to- There's a couple ways to go about this.
37:10🔗
Drew
Go to SNA or you might check out the website, the National Council on Sexual Addiction and Compulsivity, NCSAC, and they have referrals in your area for people that are used to treating sex addicts. SA or you can get referrals to SA through AA. It's a real serious problem, believe it or not. You can get yourself an individual therapist. That's the other way to get this dealt with.
37:33🔗
Adam
I've decided Florida is the biggest abuser of this cop sitting around thing. I was thinking about it. I was watching the news the other night, and somebody else got popped for doing something in Florida and taking their top off or something. I realized that Lenny Bruce, Jim Morrison, and Pee Wee Herman all basically got brought down in Florida.
37:52🔗
Adam
Yeah, it's all Florida. Yeah, they're the weirdest, most uptight over there. Screwed up. Eddie?
37:59🔗
Eddie?
38:20🔗
Caller
Our school is like 7 to 12, and I'm now in 9th grade and I'm 15. I was wondering if I would be like a rapist or molester when I grow up.
39:01🔗
Adam
Uh-huh. I see. Yeah, I can tell what it is. I can tell the difference between a 10th grader and 11th grader pretty easily. And so he walked in, what did he do to you?
39:48🔗
Adam
10 minutes? Well, let me explain something about anal rape. Two minutes can feel like 20. You know what I mean? You sure it was a full 10 minutes? Because that's been my experience, especially dare or dry anal rape.
40:38🔗
Adam
Right. All right. Yeah, you'll probably be a rapist, but that's not a bad gig. The benefits are good. Pay is not what it could be, but like I said, a lot of perks, a lot of perks, a lot of travel, a lot of raping, you know, I mean, it's right in the title. All right, Eddie?
41:05🔗
Adam
It opens up a lot of doors from a raping standpoint. You rape guys, you rape women. Again, not much pay, but not a bad job, not a bad vocation.
41:26🔗
Adam
Not really? Okay. Well, that's something that can sometimes you get a taste for that a little bit later on in life. Let's not push things.
41:37🔗
Adam
Yes, you should seek counseling. Now, don't go to a guidance counselor. He's just going to tell you to be a rapist. That's what mine told me. As of mine, when I talked to my guidance counselor, he was like, I finished my aptitude test. He was like, let's see. Well, he could be a janitor or a-
41:56🔗
Adam
A Catholic big brother or a rapist. I went with janitor. Actually, it was carpet cleaning or raping, I think were my two choices.
42:30🔗
Adam
No. Not really. We never care. We just pretend to care on certain calls, but we're not pretending to care on your call.
42:41🔗
Drew
I'm offended at the fake calls because they actually belittle the people who actually have these fake calls.
43:02🔗
Drew
And then not- A 13-year-old and a 15-year-old we're talking about would just be- I mean, unless Eddie had a long history of profound abuse, which this could have happened to somebody with that history, would have been the crap. But a 15-year-old fought like hell to get away from it if he didn't want to be there.
43:17🔗
Adam
It'd be like a badger in a mountain line going at it in there. It'd just be a fur flying everywhere, stuff getting knocked over. I said it last week. You couldn't get a piece of a piano string in my ass that had been frozen. You dumped liquid nitrogen. If you took a piece of piano wire and you dipped it in liquid nitrogen so it was stiff, and then you dipped it in KY, and then you got a running start, you couldn't get it in my asshole if we were fighting, if we were scrapping. It was impossible.
43:50🔗
Drew
Yeah, but if somebody is obviously immediately report, if this thing ever happens to anybody, immediately report.
43:59🔗
Okay, let's do it. Call Loveline, 1-800-LOVE-191. Loveline will be right back.
44:46🔗
Adam
Pennywise. It's a good sounding song, though. I like that song. All right, we're Loveline, Adam Corolla, Dr. Drew, in the back of the phones. Peter?
45:17🔗
Caller
I've been kind of with this guy off and on through like my, like off and on through all high school and everything. And we had a kid together and she's about seven weeks old now. And right now he's just treating me like crap. He's being a total jerk. He doesn't even really acknowledge it. I'm around.
45:38🔗
Caller
And I just, I need to know if I should talk to him and say, hey, what's your problem or?
45:48🔗
Caller
Well, when I was pregnant, he really didn't even come by that much. He came by every once in a while, but he didn't really want to have anything to do with it.
46:32🔗
Drew
Oh, damn. Now, seven weeks, two months into life, you're not going to give that child up for adoption.
46:45🔗
Adam
The kid doesn't know where he is. He still thinks he's in the womb. Give that kid up for adoption.
47:02🔗
Adam
Okay. Jeanette, let me give you the situation. I'm going to tell you the truth. This guy, he may be in, he may be out, he'll be in and out. He's not going to be consistent. He's not a great guy. He's not going to be a good father. He's not going to be a good boyfriend slash husband slash whatever.
47:23🔗
He's 19.
47:29🔗
Yeah.
47:31🔗
Yeah.
47:32🔗
Adam
Yeah, I know this guy. He's got grease on his cuticles. He's a dirt head. Listen, he's not going anywhere. What's he do for a living?
47:48🔗
Adam
He doesn't even know what he's... No, he's just doing like, he's probably just doing labor. He's probably just like, stacking wood all day or something. Where's he working? Has he got some uncle that has an outfit or something?
48:10🔗
Adam
Yeah, he's digging trenches, laying in a pipe. All right, listen, Jeanette, I've got this guy all sussed out. He's an idiot. He's a loser. He's probably got one of those mullet haircuts. What kind of haircuts has he got? Shaved. Shaved?
48:28🔗
Adam
He shaved his mullet off. Yes, it is the new idiot's mullet is the shaved head. All right, give this kid up for adoption. Break up with this guy. Get yourself a job and move out of the house and start new. Okay. That's what you've got to do. Forget it. You're overwhelmed. It's not going to work out. I know you're freaked out. You love your kid and everything. You'll meet a nice guy in a couple of years. You'll have a regular family. That'll be fine. Can you do that?
49:02🔗
Adam
No, you're not. Good. You're a kid yourself. You made a mistake. Fine. Don't make yourself pay for the next 20 years.
49:12🔗
Okay.
49:15🔗
Okay.
49:18🔗
Okay.
49:19🔗
Adam
Thank you. There we go. There you go. Enjoy. I think that worked. All right. Hold on. Jessica?
49:44🔗
Adam
Yeah. We're going to take a quick break, then we'll come back and talk to you about your sex addiction. Okay?
49:51🔗
Adam
Four. All right. Hold on. I was, I got to four. Thirty-six? Come on. Be fair. We'll be back in a second.
50:39🔗
Adam
All right, we're gonna take a quick 10 second timeout. We'll be back with more of the program in just 10 seconds.
50:44🔗
This is Love Line on Radio Station.
51:00🔗
Adam
It's Loveline. I'm Adam Corolla. That is Dr. Drew, phone number 1-800-L-O-V-E-1-9-1. All right. Let's get ourselves back on the phone and get back with Jessica's 14 years old. She's had sex with four guys at the tender age of 14. You have sex with strangers, and you're addicted to sex by your own admission.
51:23🔗
Guest
Well, I go, I visit one of my friend's house or something, or I go out with a friend, and I meet a guy that she knows, and I've had sex with them.
51:49🔗
Adam
Hold on, Drew, can I go out to the car and smoke a cigarette or something while you're going through this arduous ordeal?
51:56🔗
Guest
Well, one time I was getting high with a guy and then just things led to another and I didn't really stop it. Then like one time, three times, the other three, they just like keep on asking. I get sick and tired and all of a sudden they just keep on, they just do things and they lead it on and I get turned on and I do it.
52:25🔗
Guest
Well, he's kind of in my life. We've had a fight. We've had a couple fights since he came back in my life about three years ago.
52:36🔗
Guest
About five years ago, he was getting his act together and everything because he was like on drugs and alcoholic and everything.
52:50🔗
Adam
I need a male attention. It feels good to have men want you, right? Yeah. Yeah, like your dad never wanted you and now these guys want you, and that feels good.
53:02🔗
Drew
And yet, it's always as a victim role, though. It's not just wanting it. It's these abusers, adder, adder, adder.
53:15🔗
Adam
I see. All right. Well, you realize you're kind of acting out. Can you stop that, please?
53:20🔗
Guest
Well, I haven't done it since the late of January because I've had a boyfriend that I really do like, and he won't do it, but-
53:40🔗
Adam
That's not a change of direction. That's like you running full speed one way and getting swatted the other direction.
54:00🔗
Drew
That's not important. You were in pain. You were looking for solutions. You were looking up, barking up the wrong tree.
54:08🔗
Guest
And like in December, I had this sex period. I had sex once in October, and then I had it twice in January. And in December, I got this like mark in my inner thigh, and it's still been there. It looks kind of like a ringworm without the ring. And sometimes I get like a few red spots, like little tiny ones, like a little tiny drop size.
54:32🔗
Drew
Yeah, probably fungus. So you might try some low-trimming over-the-counter, see if that takes care of it.
54:38🔗
Adam
Listen here, all you a-hole pops that are listening to this show. You screw with your daughter, don't worry. She'll get attention. Absolutely. It's not like me. I didn't have a choice. Well, my dad didn't pay me any attention. My mom didn't really pay me any attention. Again, they weren't abusive. No one smacked me or anything. They were just into their own crap. You know, we're kind of on our own. And I would have gladly spiraled into a world of indiscriminate sex with women. Gladly.
55:14🔗
Adam
Yeah, I had all the makings except for the part about actually having sex. What I mean is, I grew up in a semi-dysfunctional family. People didn't pay much attention to anybody. And my sister ran away from home when she was, you know, 13. She had herself like a 17-year-old boyfriend. And that was it. I mean, she went down that road. That's what she did. I just couldn't. I mean, being a male, I couldn't get my goddamn ass laid, you know? But I don't blame any of these women. I mean, if nobody shows you any affection, nobody shows you any attention, and you go out and find it somewhere. And the thing that's tough about being a woman is, is you can find it anywhere, all the time. Go to the park, go to the internet, go to a party. It's there. Teeming with idiots. Dying to give you attention. It's not gonna cure you, but you'll find it. And you'll get distraction if that's what you're looking for. Oh no, not me. That's the problem.
56:17🔗
Adam
Guys have sports. That's about it. Go out and beat the crap out of someone playing football or something. But you never could. Had I had that ability to go out and get women, had the biology's been 180 degrees different from a societal standpoint, meaning had we lived in a world where I was sort of like a woman and the women were like men.
56:41🔗
Adam
I'd be doing, I would have done my first snuff film at 14 and that would have been the end of my career. Michelle?
56:54🔗
Caller
Nothing. I've been sleeping with my boyfriend for eight months and we're each other's first. The only problem is that every time that I have to come, it's always at the same time. So he has to pull out. But today...
57:21🔗
Adam
No. I think she's having orgasm the same time he's having orgasm. You're saying, why is he pulling out? Why can't he stay in?
57:34🔗
Caller
Why? Well, sometimes he's wearing a condom and we're just scared that something might spill out.
57:54🔗
Adam
I got to say, I got to get on the PI system for a second. Attention, tards. I do not know who you think you're speaking to, but we understand what we're asking, so please answer.
58:09🔗
Adam
I mean, it's like you're on the prosecution is saying to you, so you ran over that old lady on your way home from work. I don't run over an old person every day on my way home from work, if that's what you're asking. No, we're asking about this particular day. Well, yes, I was driving home from work and you ran over, well, I do not always run over an old woman. No, so you're wrong. I understand. He pulls out because he's not wearing a condom.
58:39🔗
Adam
And you cannot have an orgasm or you cannot continue your orgasm because he's pulling out.
58:50🔗
Caller
Okay, well, I was, but I missed it. And I'm not sure if you could double up on the same day. Or how all that works.
58:58🔗
Adam
All right, little tardette, get that back on. No, I am, I am. And then he can happily stay in you and you can finish your orgasm together.
59:09🔗
Caller
Okay, thanks. My question was that, how do you exact, because today, I was at that point and he didn't have to, and I think orgasm, but when do you exactly know? Because on a guy, it all shoots out, but.
59:43🔗
Caller
No, I said today. It seems I thought I did, but I wasn't sure how you exactly, exactly.
1:00:05🔗
Drew
Ann, you have Ann's around now. Maybe she can give us some pointers, the masturbation pointers.
1:00:15🔗
Adam
Ann, once you belly up to the mic there, and tell us now that you're without children.
1:00:27🔗
Drew
By the way, this is the pre and post delivery stuff. Remember, we occasionally talked to couples where there's been a baby, and you don't really realize how much of an impact that has on everybody, especially mom.
1:00:37🔗
Adam
Well, producer Ann just gave birth to twins, and well, it's been five, six months now. But first off, were you hornier when you were pregnant? I mean, how did that biology go?
1:01:02🔗
Really?
1:01:06🔗
Oh, really?
1:01:17🔗
Adam
Oh, yeah. Yeah. It went from a brothel to a Hobo Kelly's living room. That's horrible.
1:01:25🔗
Adam
It looked like a Turkish whorehouse this time last year. Now it just looks like a romper room. It sucks the sex right out of you then, right?
1:01:45🔗
Drew
Multiple. She has multiples. I mean, that is a special bond, special experience. We'll talk. It sometimes requires some attention, special kinds of attention.
1:01:57🔗
Drew
Well, you have to literally figure out what's going on because so much goes on with multiple moms from the stress to the depression. After fertility treatment, the biology shutdown is huge.
1:02:24🔗
Adam
Yeah. But now, Anne, did you let your husband watch a video, take care of himself? I mean, you weren't going to be there for him?
1:02:39🔗
Adam
Nothing beats a good porno movie. Right. All right. So he didn't- he took care of himself.
1:02:46🔗
Adam
All right. Listen, I think, and I know women aren't wired this way, but if you realize, and be truthful, Ian, can you do this? If you realize, hey, my biology is, I'm shut down. I mean, I had twins. I'm out of service for a few months now. Things may not be right for a couple of fortnights. I can still go ahead and give him a little something to tide him over. I mean, do you work that way or if it ain't good for me, it ain't good for anyone and it's not happening?
1:03:23🔗
Adam
I mean, he's not putting a full court press on you, so you feel like you throw him a bone every once in a while. Exactly.
1:03:32🔗
Drew
Isn't that nice? See? Because you're thinking about telling women just to roll over and just-
1:03:37🔗
Adam
Yeah. Well, listen, I've learned my lesson. You cannot hound women sexually. They start trying out. I mean, it's like that time lapse photography of the rains hit the Serengeti and then it starts drying out, all the puddles start going, and then the fish start dying, and you see a bunch of animal carcasses lying around, and then there's a bunch of cracks in the mud. I mean, that's what happens. It's real fast-paced. It's the time lapse stuff, but that's what happens to a woman's vagina when you start bugging her. Come on, come on, a little something. What do you say? I mean, they can't stand it. Drives them nuts. See, a guy, I think, the way guys are sexually is like if we didn't feel like sex at all, and the woman said, hey, listen, I'm really horny, and it's been like six weeks, and you ain't put now, and I'll tell you what, I know you ain't into it, but I'll turn the TV on. You can hear the TV. I'll turn some talk radio on. You can listen to the car guys or something on Sunday morning, and you listen to those guys and just go down on me for 10 minutes, and just let me blow a little steam off. I think most guys would be like, yeah, all right, whatever. I can have the TV on? Sure, I'll take care of that. I mean, not into it myself, but what the hell? You know what I mean? They could actually sort of turn it into a mechanical process that needed to be sort of dealt with or addressed and take themselves out of the equation. Like, don't you think 90% of guys could do that?
1:05:12🔗
Drew
No, no, no, the point is there would be no need for receptivity and for build up and it's like pow, you want me to do? That's what I'm going to do? All right, let's go.
1:05:20🔗
Adam
Yeah. Oh, and you could barter it with a guy. Like you could go, you could say to a guy, you know how we're supposed to go antique shopping? We're going to the Rose Bowl, go to the swap meet this Sunday and kill about nine hours over there. Well, you pulled along a wagon with a bunch of lamps in it. Tell you what, you go down on me, you stay home, sonny, watch ball. I'd be like, your skirt be over his head before he even stopped finishing what he was eating. And I'll be like, yeah, I mean, that'd be it. You could barter it with him. You'd say like, listen, I'm going to make you a nice pot roast tonight and maybe I'll clean the garage out. Just get down there. Get right down. And really, this situation would work if it was reversed. And women are like, I mean, you imagine saying to a woman who's like pregnant or something, kind of shut down, listen, how about a little Humsky? Just kind of, you know, just kind of take the edge off. Come on, baby. Five minutes, I'll be done in five. Come on.
1:06:11🔗
Adam
We'll turn the view on. I'll put a mirror on my belly. You can watch it. It'll reflect off the TV set. Yeah, you just get whacked with a mop or something. All right. All right.
1:06:43🔗
Guest
Well, here's the problem. Every time I wear a thong, I have like a clear discharge. I think it's from my vagina. And I don't know if it's me getting ready for my period or what.
1:07:06🔗
Drew
And it's normal to have some increased discharge at the priority period. And it will be not so clear as you get older, too, I suspect.
1:07:47🔗
Adam
I got a fog hat jockstrap that I got in 78, I think it was. Remember they're out here for the Us Festival? Yeah.
1:08:00🔗
Adam
Blair, listen, I don't approve of 13-year-olds wearing thong baths, but if it's a Blink-182 official merchandise, I suspect it's okay.
1:08:11🔗
Adam
I don't know who I was talking to about these thongs, but I'll tell you, you know any wearings I'd get out of one thong?
1:08:20🔗
Adam
Well, you'd have to cut it off and it'd be ruined. Listen, I ruin underpants that aren't thong. I mean, I get a pair of briefs stuffed up to my ass half the day. I could only imagine what a thong. Guys, no way could guys wear a thong.
1:08:36🔗
Adam
Yeah, be destroyed. Yeah, I'd be eating a sandwich. You'd be like, I'm tasting an elastic. What is this? That's my underwear. It's push up my ass. Hold on. I got to fart and get this out. Don't belch. You'll implode. You belch, son, and your innards are going to come out of your mouth. Your only chance is to fart. Oh my God. I think I finally found my food. I had such colossal gas this weekend. It was amazing. It was astounding. Astounding. I drank two milkshakes in the course for about 20 minutes and just never stopped. Milkshake. A lot of dairy.
1:09:24🔗
Adam
We were shooting something like Havasu. I was like, mouth tastes like a sewer for the whole day, so I told someone to go get me a milkshake. They got me a milkshake. I sucked that thing down in no time at all. And then somebody else ordered a milkshake, didn't want it, and like handed it to me. I sucked that one down in no time at all. And within about 20 minutes, we were just blasting the roof off of the place. And for the next day and a half on the bus. Oh, the bus.
1:09:47🔗
Adam
Dinner in a motel room. Huge, huge. I was tremendous. I'm still riding a natural high on this. All right, Daniel. Daniel, you're 16.
1:10:05🔗
And our relationship is really strong.
1:10:09🔗
But we haven't had sex yet.
1:10:14🔗
And I would like to have sex too, but I'm kind of hesitant about it.
1:10:25🔗
No. Yeah.
1:10:31🔗
Adam
I mean, have a condom nearby in case something happens. Just kind of take it slow and see where it goes. What are you doing at this point?
1:10:42🔗
Yeah.
1:10:46🔗
Yeah.
1:10:50🔗
Yeah. I wish, but...
1:10:55🔗
What?
1:10:57🔗
Yeah.
1:11:00🔗
Yeah.
1:11:01🔗
Adam
All right. Hey, listen. I don't need that sort of nonchalant laissez-faire come see, come say attitude about the oral sex. I don't appreciate that. You understand? I understand. All right.
1:11:43🔗
Adam
We got to go to break, but let's just say hi to Mike before we do that. Mike, you're 17?
1:12:47🔗
Adam
Neil, it's The Loveline. I'm Adam Corolla. That is Dr. Drew. We're going to hop back on the phones here and speak to young Mike. Mike is 17 years old. What's up, Mike? Hi, tube swelling.
1:13:04🔗
Caller
The tube that comes up from my left testicle, like it just kind of goes up. I don't know. It swells to be about the size of like my testicle.
1:13:17🔗
Drew
Because what happened sometime during ejaculation, the testicles will pull up into that canal.
1:13:26🔗
Caller
Like I've seen the doctor about it and like I've seen first I went to the clinic and they said it might be a hernia. I went to the doctor and he said that it was swollen when I went to the doctor and he said it's not a hernia and that like he wasn't sure what was wrong with it.
1:13:43🔗
Drew
Wait a minute. Let's get this clear. The swelling the doctor felt is the same swelling you're talking about?
1:13:55🔗
Caller
It's like I can see like my two testicles and then right above the less testicle like I guess it's like the tube that the semen goes up through or something.
1:14:16🔗
Drew
I think you're confusing things. I really do. You can have thickening of the spermatic cord. You can have epithetomitis and you can have the testes to pull up into the inguinal canal after ejaculation. I suspect if you actually feel your scrotum there will not be anything in it. You'll see it's your testes and you may have some thickening of the spermatic cord. That's not even necessarily abnormal.
1:14:35🔗
Yeah.
1:14:37🔗
Caller
Oh, nothing. I'm just started seeing this girl. She's like 20 years old and she has a three-year-old daughter, but she wants me to tell her I only dated her for one time, one night, which was last Sunday, which was yesterday. She's already telling me that she wanted me to take on responsibility as a father figure to her daughter.
1:14:58🔗
Drew
No way. If you're going to stay around for a long time, that's great. Even then, wait till you're six months into this relationship. Do not get into that child's life and then leave. Don't do it.
1:15:10🔗
Caller
Well, I mean, I've known her for a long time. I've dated her like a long, long time ago, almost like two years ago. And then my friend was dating her for like a year and a half, almost two years. And I've and me and her were friends, you know, because I was with my best friend, of course. And she still knew me. But then they broke up along the way. And now we're starting to date and she's already telling me this. So, you know, I've known her for a while.
1:15:36🔗
Adam
I see. All right. So it's not as freaky as it sounded initially. Well, do you like her?
1:15:58🔗
Adam
Well, listen, why don't you just be up front with her? Go on the next date with her and say, listen, I like you, but this is our second date and I just want to take it slow and see where it goes.
1:16:22🔗
Adam
Here's the deal, though, everybody. Here's the deal. You want to know the most freeing thing in life?
1:16:30🔗
No. All right.
1:16:33🔗
Adam
Oh, OK. Second most freeing thing in life is have your own sort of moral compass and follow it. And if people don't understand it or give you service or don't get along with it, do not let it slow you down. Meaning, you're on a second date with a woman. She's worried about your relationship with her kid and wants to know why you aren't attending the parent-teacher conference night. You're worried about how she's going to take that when you tell her to slow down. It's the second date. You're 100% right. If somebody freaks out when you're 100% right, it doesn't matter. Screw them. It doesn't matter. I told you this story. Maybe not a great example, but my mom hung up on me once. She hung up on me for no reason. It was a couple of years ago. I don't know what the hell. I don't know. I called her. She like hung up. I called her back. She was pissed off as hell. I said, Mom, what the hell are you hanging up for? She pissed off as hell, hung up again.
1:17:38🔗
Adam
I swear to god damn god that I don't know what it was. But here's my point. She was pissed off about something I said or something I did or whatever it was. I said to her on the phone, listen, whatever it was, whatever you're upset about, I have no clue what it is, but whatever it is, why don't we talk about it and we can fix it. You know what it is. She hung up. At that point, I said, hey, screw that bitch. I didn't call her. I said, just screw her. I didn't talk to her. That was it. It was done. I mean, done. She hung up. I called her two or three times. I asked her to try to work it out. I asked her to tell me what it was. She wouldn't do it. It was done.
1:18:21🔗
Adam
I got engaged, and I didn't tell... I got engaged about a year ago, and I told... She found out through my sister, but not through me. But the reason I called her was to tell her, and it was two days later. And my feeling was, hey, screw you. I can't help it that my sister squealed. I called you to tell you this. That's why I'm calling you, and now you're hanging up on me. And I remember, I just remember thinking, this bitch is crazy. That was it. I never... I didn't think about it. I don't want to be like a serial killer, but listen, if somebody does something... There goes my keys, by the way. If somebody does something and you've, you know, you've given your best effort, and they still want to be pissed off or freaked out or whatever, hey, that's their business. You can not go through life worrying about people if you feel like you've taken care of it. On the other hand, you gotta be fair. Timothy? Yeah. Well, not me. I got two TV shows in the national radio show. I don't have to be fair. But you guys, you have to be fair. Timothy, you're 17.
1:19:31🔗
Hmm.
1:19:32🔗
Caller
Well, okay. My girlfriend, right? She like, she comes over to my house probably every day, right? Okay.
1:19:45🔗
Caller
Like, well, she won't really say anything, but her like physical emotions I could tell.
1:20:00🔗
Adam
Well, why don't you talk to your girlfriend? Why is your stepdad home so much, by the way?
1:20:11🔗
Adam
All right, Drew, let's play guess the dog breed. Uh, hold on. Now, hold on. Is it a mutt, that dog of yours?
1:20:46🔗
Adam
I hope that dog- Listen, stoner. I hope that dog eats your bong. You check-ass. Oh, listen. Listen, all you potheads. And don't worry. I smoked plenty of pot last weekend. I don't mind pot, but listen, you potheads who think it's the funniest thing in the world. You ain't going to be laughing so hard in a couple of years. You'll be living at home. You'll be 22 years old. You'll be working on some piece of ass Vega out in the parking lot, going down to Pickapart to get yourself a new water pump for it because it blew again. Have fun. Enjoy. Enjoy, stoners. Enjoy it now. Toke up, toke out every day of your life and enjoy yourself because the rest of life ain't going to be that good a time. It really won't. You're not going to have as good a time as you're having now. Nadia? Yeah. You're 16. You know what's ironic? We spend every week we sit here trying to get information out of people that won't volunteer. The one time we say to a guy, hey, do not tell us what kind of dog this is.
1:21:59🔗
Guest
OK. I know I have depression, you know. I mean, and I've had bulimia like off and on for about two years now. And I mean, my parents don't realize that they're not home a lot, you know.
1:22:14🔗
Guest
They're working. They're like, when I get home, they're off to work, right, when I get home. And so, I mean, they don't notice, you know.
1:22:35🔗
Guest
Yeah. But she keeps like saying, like, you know, they only make you like stupider or crazier.
1:22:47🔗
Drew
It's interesting that she'd be afraid to send you to help. But women, parents oftentimes, when they're afraid to send their children to help, are fearful of what they're going to have to feel themselves. And they're also fearful of sort of letting down their idealization of you.
1:23:02🔗
Guest
I mean, they're like always trying to like say that I'm, you know, an all-A student and stuff. You know, I'm not, you know, and that's what they tell people.
1:23:12🔗
Drew
They do, really? They idealize, idealize. You've got to tell, you should say something somewhat dramatic to her. Say, I'm afraid I'm going to hurt myself or something that's going to get her attention and go.
1:23:20🔗
Guest
I have, like, hurt myself, you know? I mean, like, so where they can see it, you know?
1:23:26🔗
Drew
And I, they won't see it. Listen, you told her in clear, no uncertain terms what your needs are. They didn't hear that.
1:23:32🔗
Drew
They're not going to see a scar. They're going to, immediately in their head, so I was on the jungle gym.
1:23:50🔗
Yeah.
1:23:58🔗
Adam
Yeah, never good enough with you, but what about with other people? You think they did that?
1:24:11🔗
Adam
Never heard any compliments? Yeah, my parents did that too. They did that bragging to their friends about me. They screwed up because they'd always forget my first name. They'd go, yeah, Lauren's doing real good, and then my dad would snap his finger to go, the boy. Then I don't think that people believed them after whatever came out after that. Hey, Zeus?
1:24:40🔗
Caller
Yeah. I'm religious, right? But I still touch myself. Sure. And, well, during Lent...
1:24:56🔗
Adam
Yeah. How long does Lent go on for? Super Tuesday until Ash Wednesday? Or what the... Yeah. When was Ash... What was Ash Day?
1:25:06🔗
Caller
Well, that was like three, four weeks ago. This is like the last week. I'm at the end of that. What was that?
1:25:48🔗
Adam
I swear to God, I turned the TV on on Ash Wednesday and saw idiots with the, like, news anchors and stuff with ash on their forehead. And it always messes me up, too, because, see, I think they should stencil a cross on their forehead with, like, ash. You know, some guy, like, used a cigarette on them or something. It always looks like... I'm always sitting there going, geez, this guy got some pen on his forehead. It always seems like, especially when you see a guy who's got an anchor desk, you know, I swear to God, I turned the TV on, it was like, it looked like some guy put his hand down on a, you know... Yeah, he put his hand down on a fax or something, some guy, like, smeared on him and then he wiped his forehead with it, it was like, hey, the makeup's got to get that, and then I realized, oh, he's got ash on his forehead.
1:26:34🔗
Adam
If you put makeup over the ash? Yeah, I think you put the makeup on, then they have to reapply the ash.
1:26:40🔗
Adam
Yeah, sorry. Sorry, Jesus. By the way, anyone working for me with the ash on the forehead who's on camera is fired. That's my policy, you idiots.
1:26:50🔗
Caller
Yeah, well, before I used to get like erections really easy, I mean, the wind would blow and you'd get an erection. And now I noticed that it doesn't get up easily.
1:27:26🔗
Adam
No, when is Easter? It's like a week or something, right? Whatever it is, it's a lifetime. I don't care if it's three days or three weeks. That's a lifetime of that masturbation. Anderson, do you look at the calendar? What's that? 23rd of April. Hey, you're screwed, brother.
1:27:45🔗
Adam
Yeah, that's right. Say adios to your penis for about another two weeks. Yeah, you're screwed.
1:28:01🔗
Drew
There's a parabolic curve. If you're not masturbating, your testosterone levels drop, your arousal levels drop. If you do, there'll be a certain amount of rate of increase of that as a plateau, and then this falling off on the other side where you start again sort of depleting yourself and levels drop off.
1:28:16🔗
Adam
Yeah, listen, I don't have a religion, but if I did, here's how I'd lay it out. Instead of not doing something, I'd have you do something, like volunteer or something for that month, or exercise more, or spend X amount of time with your kids every day or something. You had to do something. That whole give something up is kind of weird.
1:28:40🔗
Adam
You walk around, you idiots with the ash on your forehead. What's wrong with me? Would you fire somebody, they're working at your station and came in to sat down to do at the anchor desk to do the news that day, and they had ash mirrored on their forehead? You know what I'm saying?
1:28:58🔗
Adam
Okay. Listen, listen, Tards, please, who are you kidding? Who are you kidding? How many ex-wives you figure that guy has with the ash on his forehead? How many high balls you figure he puts down that night after the show? You figure he's got a kid or two somewhere he doesn't talk to too much? Yeah, don't worry, he's got the ash on the forehead. That'll make it all up, sure. Get that ash on there. That ash will stop a bullet, by the way. That's good stuff. All right, we'll take ourselves a little break and we'll be back after this.
1:30:03🔗
Adam
Yeah, it's The Loveline. I'm Adam Corolla. He is Dr. Drew. We're just discussing a troubled past. And let's hop back on the phones here. Drew, Heather?
1:30:25🔗
Guest
I take Alprazolam, it's like Xanax or something. I take Metaprolol for like heart flow. And I just want to know like if I can take a different medication to help.
1:30:49🔗
Guest
Just when I have the attacks. But I don't like to take it because lately like when I take it, it seems to make things worse and it takes a real long time to like actually work.
1:31:05🔗
Drew
Yeah. There's multiple other options here. First of all, you need a diagnosis. Are you depressed? Are you do a panic disorder?
1:31:20🔗
Drew
Well, it's time to get back to that person. Drugs like Paxil can be very good for anxiety. Sometimes they use MAO inhibitors. You're already on what's called a beta blocker. You're on benzodiazepines which can be a little treacherous. But usually they use a tiny dose of Xanax throughout the day or the longer acting benzodiazepines like clonopin through the day.
1:31:38🔗
Adam
It's funny. I may have been drunk and high, but I was in Lake Havasu this weekend. The TV was on somewhere. It was a NASCAR race. And there was a car sponsored by Viagra.
1:31:56🔗
Adam
I mean, it was just blue and white and a big Viagra across the hood. But the thing that was really funny is it said Viagra in big letters. And then in small letters, underneath it, it said, like, Pentathorum 08. You know, that whatever the hell the Latin name, or the scientific.
1:32:16🔗
Adam
It's another made up name. Yes, okay, because it's not like this S existed prior to 5, 10 years ago or whatever. The point is, is Brozac, I mean, not Brozac, Viagra. It's the Viagra Mobile. We don't need the Latin pronunciation written in small letters underneath it.
1:32:38🔗
Adam
Why would you paint that part onto the car? What is the name of it? What is the medical name of it?
1:32:46🔗
Adam
It was like a 17 letter word written under Viagra, which was in big letters across the hood. It was like two foot letters, Viagra across the hood, and then in three inch letters underneath it, was a Parisian dialing. It was like, who's, why? I mean, is there anyone who knows it by that name, but not sure what Viagra is? Or how does that work? Is it some legality? Or why? Why, you're painting a car. You can't leave that part off? What I mean is, is like, the car that's sponsored by Tide doesn't have the ingredients, the chemical breakdown of the Tide Mobile, like written on the fender, and then washing instructions, you know, soak in cold water for colors, you know, they just write the goddamn Tide across the hoods, you know what you're talking about. I gotta check in to that Viagra Mobile. Isn't that awesome though? Viagra car?
1:33:48🔗
Yeah.
1:33:50🔗
Caller
Yeah. I can't get erections, and I was wondering if that is because I was molested by my dad when I was eight.
1:33:58🔗
Caller
Okay. And I was also calling in regards to the caller Van, who was, I think, raped by the mailman.
1:34:08🔗
Caller
I was just saying that he was like a real inspiration to get out of that about the story for me.
1:34:30🔗
Adam
Thank you. There you go. Thank you. Hey, listen. I have what I call Ass Wednesday. Yeah. That's where you take one of the gym socks of white, myself with, and you rub it on your forehead.
1:34:50🔗
Adam
Well, I know because nobody goes, hey, I can't get an erection when I'm a lesbian. What do you think about that?
1:34:58🔗
Adam
Yeah. All right. Yeah. I think what we're learning and what we've learned tonight especially is when people give you the answer to their question. It means there's something up.
1:35:24🔗
Caller
Yeah. For the longest time when I was a kid, I thought I had a problem because me and my buddies used to go into the bathroom and squeeze our penises and see how far we could shoot our urine.
1:35:41🔗
Drew
By the way, just because Adam did it doesn't mean there wasn't something wrong with you.
1:35:51🔗
Caller
Anyway, when I was 12 years old, I knocked up this chick and she had the baby and I moved out west when I was about 17. She was back east and I haven't seen a kid.
1:36:25🔗
Caller
And I've realized what he's done for my life and he's four now. And over the last four years, I've realized-
1:36:50🔗
Drew
Jesus Christ. If he shows up in that kid's life, that kid's going to be pissed. And it's not going to undo the abandonment that he's already put the kid through. That means no amount of penance is going to undo that.
1:37:00🔗
Adam
All right. But think about, there is a difference between knocking up a girl when you're 12. I mean, when you're a kid, you're screwed up and you're Canada. It's freezing. There's nothing to do over there. And doing it when you're 21. I mean, think about it. You're 12. What are you supposed to do? Stay in the child's life? Raise him at 12, 13 years old? You're raising a child? I mean, it's not your fault. I mean, now you're 24, you're father, you're responsible, you've seen what you've done. I don't know. I think about tracking her down. Give him some free bread. All right.
1:37:30🔗
Drew
Well, I've been explaining that to the kid, but then you're giving the kid a license. Maybe it's better just to keep the idealized memory of an image of the father in the child's mind.
1:37:38🔗
Adam
Your dad was a world-renowned Canadian baker who died in an oven explosion. All right, we'll take a break.
1:38:25🔗
Adam
In the dirt. All right. We'll take ourselves a 22-hour break, and when we come back, we'll come back with more fabulous show and a renewed attitude and renewed commitment to the program. That'll be at least for the first break, and then we'll wear off into our usual jaded selves.
1:38:40🔗
Adam
So until next time, this is Adam Corolla for Dr. Drew saying mahalo. My boyfriend had such a huge shlong that he scrambled my innards.