Episode 1000754887364

5:38 And now, here's Loveline, with your host, Adam Carolla, and Dr. Drew.

5:44 Yeah.

5:45 Adam You're 14.

5:46 Caller Yeah.

5:46 Adam You're on Loveline.

5:48 Caller Cool.

5:50 Drew Yeah. John, what's going on?

5:52 Caller Not much, you know. All right.

5:54 Drew All right, go ahead and call.

5:55 Adam You can just hang on for a little while, and adjust his attitude. Kaya.

6:00 Kaya.

6:02 Adam Kaya.

6:02 Yeah, that's my name.

6:04 Adam You're 16.

6:07 Caller Okay. Here's my little spiel. I'm 16 and I met my friend's 23-year-old fiance online because he lives across the country. Well, one thing led to another, and he ended up breaking off the engagement because he fell in love with me and I fell in love with him. Well, we planned on sleeping together the first night we finally met each other, which actually was my virginity. And we had to wait two and a half months to finally see each other. Well, during this whole time, he tried to convince me that I was bisexual.

6:33 Drew Why?

6:34 Caller Because I couldn't appreciate the beauty in women, and I'm interested in experiencing anything emphatic. Well, two days after our consummation, he broke things off, but we still talk all the time. Now he has a new bisexual girlfriend and is interested in me having my first lesbian experience with her when I come in to see him again.

6:52 Drew I want to know what you think. I'm somewhere between this and this.

6:57 Adam Drew doesn't know where to hang up or go for the wallet?

6:59 Drew You're right.

7:00 Adam Are you scratching your ass?

7:01 Drew No, that's what I was doing.

7:01 Adam Oh, going for the wallet. Yeah.

7:03 Go for it.

7:04 Adam Okay. Now he has dumped you.

7:07 Yeah.

7:07 Adam Now, let me just backtrack for a second. What state do you live in?

7:12 Caller I live in California.

7:14 Adam He lives in?

7:14 Caller Pennsylvania.

7:15 Adam Okay. You met him over the Internet. How did you get to him over the Internet? Your friend?

7:22 Caller My friend was engaged to this guy.

7:25 Adam Did she meet him over the Internet?

7:26 Caller No, she met him personally. They worked together.

7:30 Adam And then he moved to Pennsylvania?

7:32 Caller Nope. They all lived in Pennsylvania the whole time.

7:34 Drew And you started, how did you know this friend?

7:36 Caller I visited my dad in Pennsylvania.

7:38 Drew And you just started communicating with this guy on the Internet? Okay.

7:41 Caller And then we moved it to the phone.

7:44 Adam Okay. So he broke things off with your friend.

7:47 Caller Yep.

7:47 Adam Did your friend know about the two of you?

7:50 Caller Sort of. Not real clearly.

7:52 Drew What did you and your friend have in common? Other than this jerk?

7:57 Adam Drew, please.

7:57 Caller Yeah. No, no, no. Please. Seriously, he is. Basically, that was it.

8:02 We weren't really true to each other.

8:03 Drew You didn't have a similar past or anything?

8:06 Caller No, not really. Actually, she comes from a family with a mother and a father and money. And my past is a little different. We just met each other one time.

8:17 Drew She has a mother and a father and an eating disorder.

8:19 Adam Opposites attract. Yeah. Does she have an eating disorder?

8:23 Caller She had a little bit of one.

8:24 Adam Oh, Drew is getting a dollar. God damn it. In a buck already. The show has barely begun.

8:32 Caller Yeah.

8:33 Adam All right.

8:34 Caller What I'm curious about is if you think I'm bisexual.

8:37 Drew No, you're not. You are a victim.

8:40 Caller You think so?

8:41 Drew You're a professional victim. You'll believe anything. Any victimizer will tell you.

8:46 Adam You're my stupid.

8:48 Caller Thank you, Adam.

8:49 Drew No, she's not stupid. She's just clueless.

8:52 Caller You know what? I tend to be a little naive.

8:54 Drew No, it's not naive.

8:55 Adam You know what you're doing.

8:56 Drew It's not naive. It's just your sense of yourself is naive.

8:59 Adam People aren't as consistent as you're going to be with your men.

9:02 Drew So what gives somebody such a vague sense of oneself? When she was a virgin, so she was 16. But she chose a consummate victimizer as her first partner.

9:11 Adam 23-year-old guy.

9:13 Drew I wondered whether or not she ought to listen to whatever he says. Is your dad dying?

9:19 Caller No.

9:20 Drew You had a pretty good relationship with him one time, though, no?

9:22 Caller When I was really little.

9:23 Drew And then what happened?

9:24 Caller Then he left.

9:25 Drew Why did he leave?

9:26 Caller I have no idea.

9:28 Drew But you sure he didn't die or something? Was it the equivalent of him just being completely...

9:31 Adam He lives in Pennsylvania.

9:32 Drew I mean, what I get is that...

9:35 Caller Well, actually, I went back, like I met this girl that he was, because I met him through my dad, because she worked for my dad.

9:41 Drew Right. But what I get is that dad's relationship with that was pretty good, and then dad just left. That was it. Gone.

9:46 Caller Basically.

9:47 Drew And, you know, just depending on it.

9:49 Caller So I'm actually going to go back.

9:50 Drew So she's really seeking out that... So they're specifically trying to solve that problem.

9:55 Caller You know, that's what he says, too.

9:56 Adam The guy was already... your dad or the guy?

9:58 Caller The guy says that.

9:59 Caller He says, you're looking for a father figure.

10:01 Caller That's why you came to me.

10:02 Adam The guy was already working the sort of bisexual angle before they even consummated the relationship. Before they met?

10:11 Caller Yeah, before we even met. I mean, we slept together as soon as we met.

10:14 Adam Sure.

10:15 Drew But any healthy person would have turned tail and run immediately.

10:18 Adam What did you do? Get It On in the curb, the white zone of the airport?

10:22 Caller No.

10:22 Caller Unloading and loading?

10:24 Caller The back seat of his car.

10:25 Caller Oh, okay.

10:26 Adam While it was parked at the airport?

10:28 Caller No.

10:28 It was parked near my dad's house.

10:31 Adam Oh, that's very symbolic. Good. Hey, hey, hey, mister, you asked your daughter when she was young? Now she's effing right out of the porch.

10:39 Caller Basically, I'm going to be like the playboy. Oh, sorry. Excuse me.

10:43 Drew The playboy?

10:44 The playboy and all that stuff.

10:45 Caller And you know what? Everyone says it's his fault, but...

10:47 Adam What?

10:47 Drew You're going to be the playboy?

10:48 Caller Well, that's my job.

10:50 Adam Hold on a second. Drew, what kind of retard are you? You don't know what she's saying? No. She's going to get into stripping and nudity and prostitution and that kind of stuff.

11:00 Drew I talked to her about it.

11:01 Adam What? You're a playboy?

11:02 Drew What kind of playboy? I didn't know what that meant.

11:04 Adam Why don't you know?

11:05 Drew Because I don't. That's what I'm sick of.

11:08 What kind of answers? Because I don't.

11:10 Drew You have no idea what those words meant uttered by a woman.

11:13 Adam How come I knew what she meant?

11:15 Drew Well, because you're projecting what she's probably planning on doing. And I don't think she's going to go that far, frankly.

11:21 Adam Well, it's probably not good enough.

11:22 Caller It's my dream to be planet of the year.

11:24 Adam Yeah, well, I gave that one up three years ago.

11:27 Drew You need to get out of this desire to be in a powerful position with man or to use man as a way of controlling and getting power and solving these old problems. And get back to just having a relationship with a person.

11:39 Adam Just don't get pregnant.

11:41 Caller Oh, no, I was on the pill.

11:42 Adam Yeah, I'm cutting my losses with society in the chaos of the world, Drew, which is, listen, your healing words are great. She's going to bang 45 guys before she hears one syllable out of your mouth. You know what I mean? Whatever advice you have for Kaia is going to be good. I'd say three abortions, four kids and three failed marriages from now when she's 29.

12:05 Drew Might there be 12 other Kaia's out there that might learn something?

12:09 Adam Oh, yeah. Semi-angle usually.

12:11 Drew That's mine.

12:11 Adam Oh, okay. All right. My thing is just don't get pregnant. I'm really, I'm cutting my losses.

12:18 Drew You just you want to protect society from the Kaia's. You don't care what happened to the Kaia's.

12:24 Adam I don't. To me, I don't. If Kaia wants to go f up her life, Kaia can go f up her life. And if she wants to be the recipient of some maniacal 23 year old from the Quaker state, so be it. I just don't want her to have kids and have to drag them through the mess that is her life. That's all. All right. So Kaia, Kaia, you know what's going on.

12:48 Drew Don't you want to take some retribution on the father?

12:50 Adam You got a choice between right and wrong.

12:52 Drew You want to go get him?

12:54 Adam Yeah. Her dad?

12:55 Drew Yeah. Wouldn't that be part of your master plan?

12:57 Adam Yeah. That's just a big kick in the sack for him. And listen, this is how we ended the show last night. Dads, you who are planning on abusing, mistreating or abandoning your young daughters, congratulations, you'll get to see them in a porn film in a few years. That's a sort of dubious honor. Okay, let's start the show. 1-800-L-O-V-E-1-9-1 is the phone number, 310-8-54-44-55 is the fax number. We have a new email address. Not that we've given the old one out in, I would say, two years. Is there another show in the air that doesn't give out their email address and frankly doesn't like it when people email them because they consider it bothersome?

13:39 Drew Oh, for nice.

13:40 Adam Well, isn't that right?

13:41 I'd say that.

13:42 Adam Well, when's the last time Drew sat down and read some email?

13:44 You guys don't.

13:45 Caller We do.

13:47 Lisa spends probably about eight hours a week answering your email.

13:51 Adam Really? Oh, look at Lisa. She just gives and gives and gives.

13:56 Caller Yes, she does.

13:58 Adam I saw Amanda D'Cadney's kid from John Taylor, the loins of John Taylor, beautiful little daughter, little six-year-old. That could have been yours, Lisa. Oh, yes.

14:10 Drew Also the way we ended the show last time.

14:13 Adam Well, that's right. Okay. So here's the new address for the email.

14:18 Drew Right.

14:19 Adam Loveline, that's one word, at earthlink.net. That's it?

14:27 Drew Yeah.

14:28 Adam Ann, how am I going to read this when I'm stoned and it's four in the morning on Saturday night, and I'm not feeling good about myself.

14:34 Drew You got to get your Earthlink set up.

14:36 Adam Oh, I do?

14:36 Yeah.

14:37 Adam I don't have that.

14:37 Drew No.

14:38 Oh.

14:39 Adam Okay.

14:39 Drew Right?

14:40 Oh, now all of a sudden you want to start answering your email.

14:42 Yeah.

14:43 Adam I'm into my fans.

14:45 Caller It's very funny.

14:47 Adam Do we have some sort of code word or something you'll tell me off the air?

14:51 Maybe.

14:51 Adam Do you know what it is?

14:52 Caller Yeah, of course I do.

14:53 Adam Very good.

14:54 Drew We should make it up right now.

14:55 Adam All right. Drew?

14:57 Drew Yeah.

14:57 Adam You ready to rock on?

14:58 Drew Yeah.

14:59 Caller All right.

15:00 Adam Amanda?

15:00 Guest Uh-huh.

15:01 Adam You're 18.

15:03 Guest Yes.

15:03 Adam What's going on?

15:05 Guest Well, a couple of days ago, I went to a Fourth of July party and I got pretty drunk. But the thing is that my boyfriend is out of town right now. There's some pretty cute guys there and actually ended up sleeping with one of them at the party and then I went home with one of them.

15:24 Drew A different one?

15:25 Caller No, the same one.

15:26 Guest And I've been going out with my boyfriend for about four months.

15:30 Adam You really got to go home with the guy after he nails you at the party?

15:33 Guest Yeah, he was cute.

15:35 Adam What do you do when you get home? Hi, what's your name? I'm Larry.

15:41 Guest I'm Amanda.

15:42 Drew I think it's a symbolic gesture that it will continue, to be continued.

15:46 Guest He was really nice.

15:48 Adam Did you have more sex when you got home?

15:49 Guest Yeah.

15:51 Adam Where did you have sex when you were at the party?

15:53 In her sister's bedroom.

15:55 Adam Sacrilege. Was her sister sleeping?

15:57 No, her sister is like 28.

16:00 Drew Oh my god.

16:01 Guest At least it was in her parents' bedroom.

16:03 Drew Alright, so your relationship with your boyfriend is done.

16:05 Adam Do they keep the parent intruders?

16:06 Well, no.

16:07 Guest Okay, the thing is, is that my friend walked in.

16:10 Drew So somebody's gonna tell him?

16:11 Guest Well, yeah, and she's really good friends with my boyfriend's father.

16:14 Drew So he will find out. Why don't you...

16:16 Guest So should I just straight up tell him?

16:19 Adam Just break up with him. Yeah, break up.

16:21 Drew Reasons and all will come clear to him later.

16:23 Adam And then later on when he tells the story, it won't be that you had sex with this guy while they were going out. It's that I went out of town...

16:32 Guest We broke up.

16:33 Adam I went out of town and she immediately jumped on some guy. And then it'll change that way for you too. It's all... The past... History is great when you get to sort of ride it as you go. And no one really cares except for you. So you just tell people you don't really care? It won't be like you're cheating. It'll be like you just finished a relationship and began anew.

16:54 Guest I feel bad though because he's really attached to me.

16:56 Drew Well, that's probably why you let it go as long as you did. And this sort of thing.

17:00 Adam And by the way, this is the act of a woman who doesn't care.

17:05 Drew And who really wants out too.

17:06 Adam Right. It's sort of like, I don't have the guts to get out, so I'll get it out. I mean, I'll destroy it.

17:13 Drew Yeah.

17:14 Guest All right.

17:15 Adam You're having sex in a room that door's not locked, right?

17:19 Guest Yeah.

17:20 Adam What is it about people walking in? I swear to God, Drew, I'm going to go to college one day, and I'm going to do a study.

17:26 Drew Just start walking into dorms?

17:28 Adam What am I going to do? I'm going to build a plywood hallway with a bunch of doors on it. And I'm just going to tell, you know, co-ads and people just to go ahead and walk up and down the hallway, and I'm going to put cameras in there and stuff. And I'm sure this is going on for months without anyone opening a door. But the second somebody starts getting a blow job in one of the rooms, the door just comes flying open. And then as fast as it shuts, someone else will come walking in. This happens at every party. You really have to lock the door. Drew, do you, at your family's house, do they still have your room? You know what I'm talking about? I always think that's a little weird. Like you go back to your house.

18:06 Drew I never really lived in that house, though.

18:08 Adam You're 39 years old, and then there's a picture of you with the bad hair from the 10th grade and a letterman's sweater.

18:14 Drew Yeah, some of that.

18:15 Adam And your Fairfaxit poster.

18:17 Drew No, I never really lived in that room, though. Thank God.

18:21 Adam My folks had converted the room I was in while I was still living in it. I couldn't get out of there fast enough.

18:26 Drew That's sensible.

18:27 Adam The garage I lived in became a garage the day I left. They actually got the door hinges back on. Where there should be a shrine, there's a Honda.

18:38 Drew That day.

18:39 Adam Oh, yes. A shrine.

18:40 Drew A big plaque. Adam Corolla moved through high school here.

18:44 Adam Here laid one hell of a man. Big A's.

18:51 Drew Please.

18:51 Guest Big A's.

18:52 Drew Elizabeth.

18:53 Guest Yeah. Hi.

18:54 Drew You're 16. What's going on?

18:56 Guest I'm just wondering, is it normal for me to urinate when I orgasm?

19:00 Adam Is it normal?

19:01 Guest Yeah. I mean, what's going on?

19:02 Drew Are you definitely urinating or is it?

19:05 Guest It's a little bit, but it's there.

19:07 Drew I mean, some women have an ejaculate. They emit a bunch of fluid.

19:10 That's not urine.

19:12 Guest It's a really thin fluid.

19:15 Drew That's normal. Whether it's urine or not, it's normal. I mean, some women have female orgasmic incontinence and more commonly, there's actually a fluid that's emitted during orgasm.

19:24 Adam And is that fluid served to blind the male and temporarily render him? Yeah.

19:29 Drew It's like a cobra.

19:31 Adam Yeah. So that she can escape with her panties.

19:33 Drew Yeah.

19:33 Adam I mean, he might step over his body as he flails around the floor, grabbing his eyes.

19:37 Drew Isn't part of the human mating ritual is the male eats the female afterwards.

19:42 Adam Yeah.

19:43 Drew So he has to be rendered.

19:44 Adam Well, if he does it right, he doesn't eat her beforehand.

19:47 Drew Somehow I knew that would be twisted into that.

19:49 Adam Okay.

19:50 Drew Okay. Well, thanks.

19:51 Adam So it's just, it could be urine. It could be...

19:53 Drew It's probably not. It's probably just... And your partners will not be disturbed.

19:58 Adam I would be.

19:59 Drew You would be.

19:59 Adam But I'm a big star and I would still put up with that.

20:02 Drew Wouldn't you consider it sort of a triumph that you actually...

20:05 Adam I would consider it an achievement and a feather in my cap and a shot of urine in my eye. The first...

20:11 Drew No, what if it wasn't urine? What if it was just the female genital?

20:13 Adam Whatever shot out of there.

20:15 Drew Yeah.

20:15 Adam I don't care if it was a kugel.

20:19 Caller But it's not before.

20:21 Drew What?

20:22 Adam Drew, stop banging with that pen. What's up with you and that pen all of a sudden?

20:26 Drew All right.

20:27 Adam Well, we'll put the pen down.

20:28 Drew I'm so uncomfortable. You have no idea.

20:30 Guest Really?

20:32 Adam Okay. Hold on a second. I would consider it an achievement the first or second time it happened. But after a couple years of urine flying, I wouldn't put up with it.

20:41 Drew Elizabeth.

20:42 Caller It's after.

20:43 It's when I orgasm.

20:44 Caller It's not before.

20:45 Drew Right. We understand that.

20:45 Adam That's what I'm saying. But theoretically, the guy is still in the room, right? Is he your boyfriend?

20:51 Caller Yeah.

20:52 Off and on.

20:53 Caller Yeah.

20:54 Drew Does it bother him? Does it bother him?

20:56 He's never mentioned it, but it's bothered me.

20:58 Drew All right. Well, if he's never mentioned it, don't worry about it. Please don't worry about it. Normal function. Okay?

21:03 Caller Okay.

21:03 Caller All right.

21:04 Caller Bye-bye.

21:05 Adam All right.

21:06 Caller All right. Dr. Pinsky. Gwen.

21:09 Hello.

21:09 Adam Hey, you're 19.

21:11 Caller Yes, I am.

21:12 Adam You're very lucid for a loveline listener.

21:15 Caller Um, I have this boyfriend of seven months, and he has this thing with his hat. He never takes it off in front of me. I have tried taking it off and throwing it across the room so I couldn't get to it so I could actually see, you know, what's underneath. But he runs and grabs it, and I haven't really been able to see.

21:36 Caller I know he's not bald.

21:38 Adam You think he's bald?

21:39 Caller I know he's not.

21:42 Adam What kind of cap?

21:44 Caller It's a Burton cap.

21:45 Drew What's that?

21:46 Caller Black.

21:47 Drew What is that?

21:48 Adam Burton Cummings?

21:50 Caller No, Burton Snowboards.

21:51 Adam Burton Snowboards. Oh, so it's got a bill on it? Yeah. Good hip. Come on. Do you know about the snowboard?

21:57 Drew I'm studying this carefully.

21:59 Adam You know, you ever see Smokey in the Bandit?

22:02 Caller No. No.

22:03 Adam Burt Reynolds. Smokey? No, I mean the Bandit. He never took his hat off except for one thing.

22:08 Drew To do what? To laugh?

22:10 Adam Taking a leak. No, that was lovemaking. That's what he did.

22:13 Caller Oh, really? Well, he didn't take it off during sex.

22:16 Adam Oh, okay.

22:16 Drew That's bizarre.

22:18 Caller What can I say?

22:18 Drew That's bizarre.

22:19 Adam But he had it on when you met him? And you didn't want to get a look at what was underneath that hat before you committed to a relationship?

22:27 Caller No, not really. I wasn't really that curious in how we really got involved.

22:31 Adam See, I won't commit. I give him like a prison search before. Before I commit to anything.

22:38 Drew What's up with Gwen that something like that would just dismiss it? Well, he just works half in bed. What a big deal.

22:44 Adam I don't know.

22:45 Drew It's just so symbolic of hiding.

22:46 Has she ever seen him shower?

22:48 Drew Does he shower?

22:49 Adam Gwen?

22:50 Caller Have I ever taken a shower with him? No. I doubt that he would take a shower with me.

22:55 Drew Does he shower?

22:56 Caller Why?

22:57 Caller Because then he'd have to take a shower.

23:01 Drew Do we call him?

23:02 Adam You know he's not bald.

23:03 Caller I know he's not bald.

23:05 Adam How do you know that?

23:06 Caller Because from what I've seen, he's not.

23:09 Drew Can we call him?

23:10 Adam What have you seen? Can you call him?

23:12 Caller Yeah, call him and wake him up.

23:15 Drew We're not going to get any further with you. We've got to talk to him, right?

23:18 Caller Yeah.

23:18 Adam All right. We've got to go straight to the Mad Hatter. So hang on there, Gwen. Give Elise your phone number. We'll give him a call. We'll never talk to him. Every time we try to call someone, we never do. We never get their phone number.

23:32 Drew Just because you make an issue of it tonight, tonight we'll get through.

23:35 Adam Now we won't, you jackass. Do you see what you did?

23:39 Drew Because I did that, I jinxed it.

23:40 Adam That's right, you bastard. Don't you know anything about karma?

23:45 Caller My God.

23:46 Adam Bob?

23:49 Caller Bob?

23:51 Drew Yeah. What's going on?

23:53 Caller Well, I kind of got a problem.

23:55 Caller Right.

23:56 Caller Huh? Go ahead.

23:58 Caller Well, we were at this party, me and my girlfriend, and I walked in to the room, and she was having sex with another girl. And I really don't know. I really haven't talked to her, confronted her too much about it.

24:12 Caller I don't know.

24:14 Caller I didn't know how to act in the situation. I mean, I don't know if I'm not good enough for her, if I can't please her or what the deal is here.

24:23 Caller She's cheating.

24:24 Caller You think?

24:26 Caller I get it. I mean, yeah, that's kind of what it seems. But I mean, we've been going out for like two months now.

24:34 Caller She never mentioned nothing about it before.

24:37 Drew Does she know you saw this?

24:38 Caller Yeah.

24:39 Drew And you've seen her since?

24:40 Caller Yeah.

24:40 Drew And neither of you mentioned this?

24:42 Caller No.

24:43 Adam You guys have a pretty powerful bond there, Bob. It transcends. Verbiage.

24:49 Caller Well, yeah. I don't know.

24:51 Adam Hold on a second, Bob. Let me talk about you. Drew.

24:54 Drew Yeah.

24:54 Adam Has it ever struck you as peculiar or interesting as to what... Wouldn't you like to follow Bob and his so-called girlfriend around for a day and just actually see if they talk or what they talk about?

25:08 Drew Absolutely.

25:09 Adam And can you make love to somebody and sleep with somebody and share intimacy and passion with someone and not really have a conversation with them?

25:20 Drew Well, we know well that that's the case.

25:23 Adam What do you think they talk about? How does that not come up the next time you see the person?

25:29 Drew How does he refrain from being overwhelmed by emotion when she's around her? How does he suppress all that?

25:36 Caller What emotion?

25:38 Drew Whatever. Anger, disappointment, pain. I mean, how does he not react when he's around her and how does she not pick up on it?

25:44 Adam Right. Bob?

25:46 Drew And how does he have the temerity to just go on?

25:49 Adam How come you didn't say anything to her?

25:51 Caller I guess.

25:53 Caller I don't really know. I don't know what to do if I've, you know.

25:58 Drew It's nothing to do with you. It has very little to do with you.

26:02 Caller I guess.

26:03 Adam Let's do a little role playing.

26:05 Caller Yeah.

26:05 Adam What's your girlfriend's name?

26:07 Caller Kate.

26:08 Adam Kate?

26:09 Caller Yeah.

26:10 Adam Alright, I'm going to play Kate.

26:12 Caller Okay.

26:12 Adam I'm going to have Drew play Kate, but he doesn't got a lot of range.

26:15 Caller Okay.

26:15 Adam And he's sick.

26:16 Drew Maybe we should do it up to the break.

26:17 Adam Yeah, let's just get out of the way. It's not going to be very entertaining. Alright, we've just seen each other.

26:23 Caller Right.

26:24 Adam We're on the phone, let's say.

26:25 Caller Okay.

26:26 Adam You go ahead and bring it up.

26:28 Caller Alright.

26:29 Guest Hey, Bob.

26:30 Caller Yeah.

26:31 Caller Kate.

26:32 Adam Yeah.

26:33 Caller What was up with you and Stephanie last night?

26:36 Adam Stephanie, what do you mean?

26:38 Caller Well, kind of when I walked into the room and you guys was going at it.

26:41 Caller Yeah.

26:43 Caller Well, what was that all about?

26:44 Adam I like Stephanie.

26:47 Caller You like Stephanie?

26:48 Caller Uh-huh.

26:49 Guest What about us?

26:50 Adam Well, I like you too. I just like Stephanie too, you know.

26:56 Caller So, what is it going to, are we going to keep a relation?

27:00 Adam Well, is it me or her? Is that what you're saying?

27:03 Caller Yeah.

27:04 Adam You can't see me and I can't see Stephanie at the same time?

27:09 Caller Well, I wish you had kind of told me this before we got into a relationship that you like women.

27:16 Adam Hey, Bob.

27:16 Caller Yeah.

27:18 Adam I got a strap on.

27:21 Caller Oh, geez.

27:21 Adam All right. That was kind of good. I mean, not good entertaining, but good, good, it was a good breakthrough for Bob there. That's what you do, Bob. You put your foot down.

27:31 Caller Thank you.

27:32 Adam Yeah, we thank. How old is this gal?

27:35 Caller 19.

27:35 Adam Kate? Yeah.

27:37 Caller 19.

27:37 Adam Kate's a mess. I got news for you.

27:40 Drew Yeah. That's not what you think it is.

27:42 Adam Kate's a mess.

27:42 Guest What would make her do this? She's a mess.

27:46 Drew Listen to the show for a couple hours. You'll hear a lot about Kate's.

27:49 Caller You think? Yeah. Well, I just don't understand why.

27:54 Drew Don't. It has nothing to do with you or your relationship. In fact, if anything, it suggests you're too good. Your relationship is going too well.

28:02 Adam Yeah.

28:03 Drew Because if you were properly abusive, she probably wouldn't have done this.

28:05 Caller Let me explain.

28:07 Adam Let me address the why for a second. Why do the guys in Texas chain that black guy to the back of the bumper and drag his corpse up and down the highway? Why does some guy walk in a liquor store and put a bullet in some Korean store owner's head for ten bucks? Why?

28:27 Caller You know what I mean? Yeah.

28:30 Adam Why would a grandfather F his kid, his grandson? You know what I mean?

28:35 Caller Why?

28:37 Adam Why do people break into houses and kill people in their sleep? You know, why? They're F'd up. What do you mean why? They're F'd up. She's F'd up too. You're just lucky she hasn't tried to kill you. She's a mess. Bob, smarten up. All right. And listen, not that everyone is a bisexual is a mess, although quite a few of you are. You certainly are.

29:00 Drew Well, in 19 and she's masquerading as a heterosexual and then gets herself caught. It's more about the chaos than it is the bisexuality.

29:07 Adam Right. But listen, you're bisexual at 19, you got some issues. That's all right. Expect. I've said it a million times. I'm never wrong. When someone announces they're bisexual, they are saying they're going to cheat. It's like living with a tiger. You can feed him all the garbanzo beans he can eat. Eventually, you're going to wake up no foot. Eventually. You know why?

29:32 Drew Tiger. What he does.

29:34 Adam What he does. Okay. Oh, I got to get something out of my car.

29:38 Caller Okay.

29:38 Adam It's something interesting.

29:39 Caller We'll be back.

29:40 Caller You have it.

29:42 Caller Hello, this is Rob Stewart, and you're listening to Love Line with Adam Corolla and Dr. Drew. Just keep listening. You're going to hear everything you want to hear and all the answers to.

29:52 Adam Yes, you is. Phone number, 1-800-L-O-V-E-1-9-1. Hey, it's Dr. Drew. Ace Rockolla. That's right.

30:02 Caller All right, Drew.

30:04 Adam You know, I don't make the rave scene as much as I used to. You know, you're not hip to the rave scene when you've been calling it the rage scene for a long time. You know, kids see right through me. All right.

30:16 Drew If you think I'm a bad audience, you usually wait to see me tonight.

30:19 Adam What's going on with you?

30:20 Drew I'm just so sick.

30:22 Adam What do you got?

30:22 Drew It's a sinus infection. It's just killing me.

30:25 Adam You get it from the kids?

30:27 Drew A couple of weeks ago. Yeah, it never got better than I went to the ocean yesterday and really just knocked the hell out of me.

30:32 Caller Yeah.

30:34 Adam I'm worried. You know, I was watching this whole thing on viruses and how, wait a minute, is it viruses or is it one of the two forms of bacteria?

30:45 Drew Mycobacterium?

30:46 Adam Yeah. Anyway, all the antibiotics that are being generated.

30:53 Drew The resistance we're getting to.

30:54 Adam And how you just can't stop Mother Nature. Yeah. You just can't stop her. I mean, just when you think penicillin's got everything under control, pow! Stuff just keeps coming up and it comes up and they strain in mutated forms and it's more powerful.

31:08 Drew People still go to their doctors and demand antibiotics. I mean, you gotta give me antibiotics for this virus. And all we're doing is creating super strains of bacteria.

31:16 Adam Right.

31:17 Drew Right. Every time somebody takes an antibiotic, one step closer.

31:20 Adam Well basically, if you want to know how Mother Nature works, it's sort of like this. There's a bunch of bugs and they're on some corn crops, so they spray them with some chemical. And it kills just about all of them, but a couple survive. And those couple turn out to be resistant to whatever the chemical is. And then they go ahead and procreate. And then their kids have, I guess their kids get it on. The bugs, kids get it on.

31:46 Drew Related, I guess.

31:47 Drew But then they go back right where they started from with the bugs.

31:49 Adam Then they go ahead and spray it again, but now...

31:51 Drew Something new. Then they try to come up with something new to spray it. They knock that out and the same thing happens again.

31:56 Adam Yeah, I didn't really... You cut me off a step early there, Drew, but... You get my point. Can't really do anything about it. Can't fool Mother Nature.

32:08 Drew And by the way, Gwen's boyfriend wouldn't talk to us. You got the hat?

32:11 Caller What a surprise.

32:11 Drew So, Gwen, I don't know how much further we can go with that one.

32:14 Caller I wonder if it's...

32:15 Adam I just want to try a quick... I just want to play a quick hunch here.

32:19 Caller I think I might know who this guy is.

32:21 Adam Gwen?

32:22 Caller Yes?

32:23 Adam You're not dating Dom Delahue's, are you?

32:25 Caller No.

32:25 Adam No. Okay. you know, he always wears that hat.

32:29 Caller Yeah.

32:30 Drew Beanie.

32:31 Adam No, no. It's more of the chef hat.

32:33 Drew Oh, right, right, right.

32:34 Adam Cabbie hat.

32:35 Drew Yeah.

32:36 Adam You know, the one that sort of buttons in the front. But it's white. It's the same one Paul Perdome wears.

32:42 Drew Right. What is that? I don't know why. They look the same? They look the same?

32:46 Adam I know. Well, you look exactly like another guy. Don't wear the same effing hat he wears too. Now everyone's really confused. Don?

32:54 Caller Yeah?

32:54 Adam What's going on?

32:55 Caller You're 19.

32:56 Drew One of them must have looked, liked how the other one looked in the hat.

33:00 Adam Drew with the joke, everybody.

33:03 Caller Hi guys.

33:04 Caller Love you.

33:05 Adam Love you, baby.

33:07 Caller Well, for about two months, I was taking laxatives and I stopped taking them about two weeks ago and I haven't been able to go to the bathroom since.

33:18 Drew You have an eating disorder?

33:19 Caller Yeah.

33:19 Drew Yeah. Do you vomit also?

33:21 Caller I used to.

33:22 Adam Wouldn't you say she had a crapping disorder, Drew?

33:25 Drew It's all part of the eating disorder though. It is. Well, have you been treated for the eating disorder before?

33:31 Caller No. My family really doesn't know about it.

33:33 Drew You got to get treatment. This is going to get worse. And the laxative abuse is part of the progression of this disease. I mean, it can be really a mess. I've seen people actually have their whole colon removed surgically because they get such dysfunction of the muscle contractile ability of the colon to move stool through. It just fills up and never moves.

33:53 Adam And they replace it with a pig's colon, right?

33:55 Drew The other thing I'm sure you're getting already is your legs start to swell up, right? On my ankle. Yeah.

34:00 Adam From the laxatives?

34:01 Drew When you stop. Something about the way the kidney has to respond to hang on to sodium in response to all this diuresis.

34:07 Adam Weren't we just talking about fooling Mother Nature?

34:10 Drew The kidney keeps that compensation though when you stop using the laxative, you'll just start getting fluid overload.

34:15 Adam I've never taken a laxative in my life.

34:17 Drew That will go on.

34:18 Adam I've lit a cigarette from a fart.

34:20 Drew I promise Dawn wasn't taking a laxative. She was probably taking 50 a day, right?

34:25 Caller Yeah.

34:26 Adam How many a day?

34:28 Caller I was taking those little x-lax pills and I was taking about five of those.

34:32 Adam What does that do? Are you just constantly on the pod?

34:35 Caller No, actually. I don't go to the bathroom enough and so it just makes me more regular, I guess.

34:44 Drew Dawn, please. Please.

34:47 Adam What are you talking to here, honey?

34:49 Drew Please.

34:50 Adam Let's give Drew's fantasy land reaction to that. Should we just do that for fun?

34:54 Drew Oh, yeah. Okay.

34:56 Adam I'll be done. I'll be done. Well, actually, I don't move my bowels enough, so really the laxative abuse just makes me more regular.

35:04 Drew Oh, that's great, honey. You better go back to using at least five to seven a day then, and make sure you're having at least 12 bow moments a day.

35:10 Adam I love Drew's or in lineal feet, 17 feet. I like Drew. That's a new segment, Drew's fantasy answer. Let me just try a couple of those.

35:25 Guest All right, everybody.

35:26 Adam Drew's fantasy answer. I'm doing a lot of speed.

35:31 Guest Both my parents were alcoholics.

35:34 Adam I'm going to do a little more for a while, and then I think I'll just quit on my own.

35:37 Drew I know a great way to do that. If you graduate over to heroin, and particularly intravenously, you'll be just fine.

35:42 Adam All right. There's a good example when a Drew's fantasy answers. Now let's try one more. I'm having unprotected sex with my boyfriend.

35:54 Drew Delightful.

35:55 Adam But, and we don't want children because I'm only 15, obviously, but he does pull out fairly regularly, and I'm pretty confident I'm not going to conceive a child.

36:04 Drew I am, too. And as far as the pulling out, you know that doesn't work, so you might as well just not do it. And I'm sure you won't have any kids.

36:09 Guest Hey!

36:11 Adam Drew's fantasy answer, everybody. That's good.

36:14 Drew Oh, God.

36:15 Adam Okay.

36:16 Drew How bizarre is that?

36:17 Adam Done.

36:18 Drew Thank you for giving us that new segment, by the way.

36:20 Adam Did your, I'm going to make a note, Drew's fantasy answer.

36:24 Caller Thank you for humoring me.

36:25 Adam Did your folks send you to ballet when you were a kid?

36:29 Caller No, actually, they didn't.

36:31 Adam Tape?

36:33 Drew I think that may have been more in the abuse end of this.

36:35 Adam Who abused you?

36:37 Caller Nobody that I know of.

36:39 Adam Who abused you that you don't know?

36:42 Caller I wouldn't know.

36:43 Adam But something happened to you?

36:45 Caller I have no idea if something did.

36:48 Adam Well, listen, Drew, were you abused when you were kids, actually? And you know?

36:54 Caller Yeah.

36:54 Adam Right. Don, you should really know, shouldn't you?

37:00 Caller I guess. Well, how would I know if I was? I mean, I would not remember.

37:04 Drew Do you have a perfect family? Leave it to beaver?

37:07 Caller Not exactly.

37:08 Drew Okay. What's the situation?

37:10 Caller I don't know my biological father and my stepdad live in Kentucky.

37:16 Adam That's grounds enough for an eating disorder.

37:20 Drew And how were you first had sex?

37:23 Caller Actually, I'm still a virgin.

37:24 Drew Okay, good.

37:26 Caller Yeah, because you have such a bad self-body image.

37:30 Adam All right. Don, there's nothing wrong with you.

37:33 Drew You got to get treated for the eating disorder.

37:34 Adam Except for the eating disorder.

37:35 Drew Yeah, 20 percent fatality. You understand that? One out of five people with bona fide eating disorders die. You're already well into this with the vomiting, the laxative abuse, your colon doesn't move, your kidneys are compensating, you're getting fluid overloaded. Do not take diuretics. It takes a couple of months for your kidneys to sort of go back to normal, and they will on their own. Take some bulk agents to get your bowels going, like a citricel or metamucil, churros, things like that. And sometimes you have to wean yourself off the laxatives over a few weeks, but it's best if you possibly can just to stop and use bulk and maybe a little bit of a stool softener, a co-lace, that sort of thing. It has to be in a very structured way.

38:19 Adam When I've had my fill of the stool talk, you know we've run into the ground. Because I'm a guy who can pull up a stool and talk about one for hours on end.

38:29 Drew You can't though. You're not a real man. You talk about gas. When we graduated from the stool, you ran out of steam real fast.

38:36 Adam I like to talk about the The flatulence. Yeah. It's sort of... I want to talk about the gas but not the piston. You know what I'm saying? Not what's behind the gas. Krista.

38:50 Guest Hi. I had this problem.

38:54 Caller I was going to get a tattoo on my boob.

38:56 Guest And I was wondering if like any diseases or infection could come of it.

39:02 Adam What were you going to get? The...

39:03 Guest I was going to get like either a butterfly or a small tattoo on my boob.

39:09 Adam So that you could show that you were a certain kind of person?

39:15 Caller No, actually it was just for personal pleasure.

39:17 Drew It just looked good. That's the usual answer. Just looked good.

39:21 Adam Looks good for you and the 45 guys are at the club?

39:24 Caller What? No.

39:25 Guest I'm not like that.

39:26 Adam Just looks good for you?

39:28 Guest Yeah.

39:29 Adam Now there's no danger in it.

39:31 Drew How would your mom feel about it?

39:32 Guest I talked to her about it and she said she doesn't care as long as I really think about it.

39:36 Drew And your dad?

39:37 Guest My dad's not around.

39:38 Drew Oh, imagine that.

39:39 Shocking.

39:41 Adam Dad's not around?

39:42 Caller No.

39:43 Adam What, is he doing some missionary work or something? Be back at the end of the summer?

39:47 Caller No.

39:47 Adam No?

39:48 Guest No.

39:49 Adam Is he died in some military experiment?

39:51 Guest No. He's in jail.

39:53 Guest Oh, imagine that.

39:55 Adam What if he's seen a tattoo?

39:57 Guest He has one.

39:59 Adam Really?

40:00 Guest Just one, though.

40:00 Adam Just that teardrop?

40:02 Guest Uh, no. It's like a bulldog or something.

40:05 Adam That's good. What's he in jail for?

40:07 Caller Bank robbery.

40:09 Adam That's nice. Oh, boy. Hey, you start dating yet, Prista?

40:14 Caller Uh, no.

40:15 Adam Oh, good. Really?

40:17 Caller No.

40:17 Adam Why not?

40:19 Caller I don't know.

40:19 Adam Good. Good impulse. Stick with it. Thank you. You're going to be attracted to bank robbers, you know? No, not hardly.

40:26 Guest I hate my dad.

40:27 Caller How do you do?

40:28 Guest I love him.

40:29 Caller I don't know.

40:30 Caller He's listening.

40:32 Adam He is?

40:33 Caller More than likely.

40:34 Adam What's he going to do? I can see him telling his cellmate right now. God damn it, in eight years, when I get out of here, remember, if I'm giving her a timeout, when she's 27 and I see her next, timeout for her and her husband.

40:48 Drew But remember, if he treated her right at an appropriate time.

40:52 Guest I didn't grow up with him.

40:54 Caller He was mostly gone, going and running all over the place.

40:57 Drew All right.

40:58 Adam Well, so he didn't have a negative impact. Oh, Drew, how can you fit around to have a negative influence? You see what I'm saying?

41:06 Drew Oh, yeah.

41:07 Adam Okay. Being a fugitive is its own form of abuse, is it not?

41:12 Drew It's an abandonment.

41:13 Adam Wouldn't you say like...

41:16 Drew That is like the best role model either.

41:18 Adam Well, there's striking your child, that's bad. And then there's sexual abuse, and then there's neglect and verbal abuse. But being on the lam is kind of its own form of abuse, isn't it?

41:29 Drew Oh, sure.

41:30 Adam All right. Krista, here's why I don't want you to get the tattoo, because you're on a very slippery slope. You know what I mean? I could see things happening very quickly for you in a negative way.

41:42 Drew Yeah.

41:43 Adam You get the tat, then you get hooked up with some guy with the tat, then you have a few kids with tats. Does that happen, Drew?

41:51 Drew They're not born with the tats.

41:52 Adam They're not?

41:52 Drew No.

41:53 Adam It's not like a eye color or something like that?

41:56 Drew They certainly gravitate towards them very quickly. Look at Krista.

41:59 Adam All right. Krista, get it if you must, but it doesn't change anything. By the way, all you idiots out there just do stuff for you, you're lying. I don't trust you. Believe me. The only reason I do anything is because I think someone cares. If I thought they didn't care. Today, I think people stop caring today. I just stopped showering completely. I walk around with broccoli stuck to my teeth. You know what I mean?

42:29 Caller Okay. Right.

42:32 Adam I walk around with a bathrobe and erection. That's that day.

42:36 Caller Okay.

42:38 Loveline, be right back in a minute. All right, break it down, Drew.

43:00 Adam Yeah. Phone number for Loveline, 1-800-L-F-E-1-9-1. Here's one to bring up. This guy made me the Adam compilation CD, gave me these flags.

43:17 Drew Let's see.

43:18 Adam This is the heterosexual flag. Remember I was talking on the air a few weeks ago about the gay flag?

43:25 Drew Right.

43:25 Adam And the gay flag, for those of you who are listening in other parts of the country, who may not be aware of the gay flag, there is a flag and it's the gay flag. And it looks like Brazil. Well, it has all the colors in the rainbow and it's like the rainbow flag, but they're a little pastely. You know, they're just a little gay. There's no royal blue. And it's all, it's a lot of different colors, but it's kind of the gay colors. And they put them together and they make a gay flag. And you put it, you know, put a little sticker on your car like you would if, you know, you see the ones that are people from Great Britain or something or wherever you're from, Netherlands, they do that, the gay flag. But now they got banners and they got everything. And I didn't know what they were for some time. I swear to God, I thought they were from Cameroon or something. And then I realized after seeing the guy with the short cropped hair in the Miata for long enough with the blonde hair. This cat doesn't look like he's from Cameroon. But he sure looks happy. Let's be the gay flag. So that is the gay flag. But this guy sent me the or gave me the hetero flag. It's just white and black stripes and it's a sticker you can put on your car to announce to the world you're heterosexual. Looks pretty straightforward. Although to me, you don't really need this because if you're not flying the Raleigh Jodger...

44:55 I can do it. They can do it. You can do it.

44:58 Adam If you're not flying the gay flag, then that means you're heterosexual, right? Because you're not flying the gay flag.

45:04 Caller Right.

45:05 Adam But here's a way to really define it. You put this black and white stripe flag on your car and people know, hey, this guy's straight.

45:15 Drew Maybe it's the people that are compensating for their innate homosexuality that have to announce their heterosexuality.

45:21 Adam I'll do it later.

45:22 Caller I'm putting mine on anyway. Nicole?

45:26 Adam Yeah. You're 18.

45:28 Caller Yeah. Basically, my question is, last year I went through a major depression stage where I was writing dark poems and I was suicidal and yada yada yada. This year, I'm kind of seeing the same symptoms coming back, so I was taking St. John's War and anti-depressant.

45:46 Drew Were you treated last year?

45:48 Guest No.

45:49 Drew What happened last year? How did you get out of that?

45:51 Guest It just kind of went away by itself.

45:53 Drew Are you doing any drugs?

45:54 Guest No.

45:55 Drew Nothing?

45:56 Caller No.

45:56 Drew Did anything happen? Have you lost anybody or anything could have triggered this?

46:00 Caller Well, last year I went through a lot. A best friend of mine died of leukemia and that was hard. There's been a lot of things.

46:09 Adam Do you listen to a lot of Mummy Rock?

46:12 Caller No.

46:13 Adam You don't?

46:13 Caller No.

46:14 Drew How about this year? What's happened? Have you triggered it this year?

46:18 Caller Well, I'm 18. I should have been graduating. I'm not. I was kind of homeschooled for a while, so that totally messed up everything.

46:26 Drew Because you were so depressed?

46:28 Caller No. I was just homeschooled because I wasn't getting the right education.

46:32 Drew Who decided you weren't getting the right education?

46:40 Caller My mom and dad.

46:42 Adam But you weren't homeschooled.

46:45 Drew You weren't getting the right education at home either.

46:47 Caller Right.

46:48 Caller Yeah.

46:49 Adam Homeschooling wouldn't have worked for me. Homeschooling would have been a lot of Ben Hunter TV show, a lot of masturbation, a lot of watching commercials for the Breiman School.

47:00 Drew Oh, God.

47:02 Adam What's going on?

47:03 Drew Well, Nicole, look, if you have a bona fide depression, why don't you have it taken care of? I mean, if you need to take something for it, why use things that we don't know are effective? You understand? I mean, if you have a problem, we don't know that these over-the-counter substances are effective. We don't know how to use them. We don't know what dose is appropriate. I mean, depression is a serious condition. You don't have to suffer with that. You should avail yourself of whatever resources are available to get some help. There may be some issues lurking around that if dealt with, you may be able to get on with your life in a more productive and fulfilling way. Just treating yourself is not an adequate way to go about this. Get some help. And if you need medication, you should take medication, not something that carries the risk of medication potentially without giving you the potential benefits. 17 million people with depression in this country, 17% die. That's a serious thing.

47:59 Adam I was trying to do some math there. Couldn't you just pick 20 million people and 20% die?

48:04 Caller Go ahead.

48:06 Adam That's 8.5 million people. Kristen.

48:09 Guest Yeah.

48:10 Adam You're 15.

48:11 Guest Yah-hey.

48:13 Guest Yah-hey.

48:14 Adam You know, I'm half. What kind of Indian was John Popper from Blues Traveler?

48:20 Drew Chippewa.

48:20 Adam Brown stool. Black stool. One quarter black stool Indian. Yah-hey.

48:27 Drew Chris.

48:28 Guest Hi, guys. How are you doing?

48:30 Adam Good.

48:30 Drew Kristen.

48:31 Guest My stepbrother, I guess he liked me or something. And a while ago, he used to tell me things like he liked me and he really cared about me, but it wasn't like ways you tell your family members.

48:44 Adam How old is he?

48:46 Guest He's 18.

48:48 Drew Stay away from this guy. Has he done anything to you?

48:50 Guest Yeah.

48:51 Drew What did he do?

48:52 Guest He spelt me up and he tried to finger me and stuff.

48:55 Drew Oh my God.

48:56 Caller And what did you do?

49:00 Guest I got scared. I don't know what to do.

49:01 Drew Did you smack him?

49:03 Guest No. I just like, I don't know. I just like started shaking and stuff.

49:07 Drew Has anybody ever done anything like that to you before?

49:09 Guest No.

49:10 Drew You've never been victimized in any way?

49:11 Guest No.

49:12 Drew How this guy thinks he can get away with this?

49:14 Adam How old was he when he started?

49:19 Guest Well, the first time he was like, he just would tell me stuff. He was 17 then.

49:23 Adam When he started telling you things?

49:25 Drew You were 13.

49:27 Caller Yeah, 14.

49:28 Guest And like now he's like started again. Like he has a girlfriend and my parents are very spiritual. Very. If I told them something like this, I don't know what they'll do.

49:39 Drew What do you mean spiritual?

49:40 Guest Very spiritual. We're Jehovah's Witnesses.

49:44 Drew They need to...

49:45 Adam Jehovah's going to be pissed.

49:46 Drew Yeah. They can retain their spirituality but they better stay connected with reality. They've got a mess at home and they need to deal with that. You need to alert them. There's nothing to do with being spiritual or not spiritual. They need to get their house in order.

50:01 Adam Is he Jehovah's Witness?

50:03 Caller Yeah.

50:05 Drew Is he the brother, the stepbrother?

50:06 Caller Yeah.

50:07 Adam Oh, okay. Imagine if he wasn't. He'd probably just beat you with a rolling pin and then rape your limp body. Thank God he's a spiritual Drew. Can you imagine where he'd be without the religion?

50:19 Drew You have to alert people and if your family is not receptive to this, you've got to call... Let me give you your phone number, all right?

50:24 Guest Okay.

50:25 Drew Okay.

50:26 Guest Let me get a pen.

50:27 Adam It's Drew's car phone, by the way. It wants to write up on the way home.

50:30 Drew 1-800-422-4453.

50:37 Adam Hey, Kristen.

50:38 Drew 1-800-422-4453.

50:40 Adam This guy is way out of line and not only for your sake but for his sake, and I mean that.

50:49 Drew Pull him up short. Stop him. Because he'll do this to other people.

50:53 Adam I really mean that this guy, he needs some intervention, just like a guy who's strung out on heroin needs intervention. He really does. I mean, he can sort of go either way here. I mean, he's way out of line, but he's not drugged you and raped you.

51:11 Guest Yeah.

51:12 Adam So there's some sort of semblance of sanity. He's not an out and out.

51:18 Drew A vestige.

51:19 Adam Right.

51:20 Guest He used to do drugs. I used to do drugs with him. And it's what he was trying to do.

51:26 Adam What happened to Jehovah?

51:29 Guest He hasn't been good to me.

51:31 Adam Jehovah hasn't?

51:32 Guest No. Why? When my mom died. And like, it's just all messed up. It doesn't get better, it gets worse. And I haven't dealt with her death yet. It's been like four years, three, five, something like that.

51:46 Adam Oh, okay. So this guy is the son of your stepmother?

51:51 Guest Yeah.

51:53 Adam Interesting. It's always usually on the guy's side, isn't it, Drew? That brings the predators in? The bad stepdad comes in and brings the predator. Yeah. Did your parents meet at church?

52:05 Guest Yeah. A friend of ours introduced them to my stepmom now.

52:11 Drew I've seen some disturbed stepmoms bring some disturbed siblings in.

52:17 Guest His dad died too.

52:19 Adam It's like the Brady Bunch, except for the molestation.

52:23 Drew Except for that.

52:23 Adam Yeah. You know, you can't say Jehovah without Ho. That'd be my bumper sticker.

52:31 That's my bumper sticker.

52:34 Adam All right, Kristen, you got to say something to somebody. Talk to your dad. Now listen, you don't have to, it doesn't have to be all or nothing, you can, you can, here's what you can do. Here's what I would seriously recommend. I would say, I would, I would tell the brother that I had a little talk with dad and said that you were acting a little peculiar. And I didn't fill him in with all the details, but so help me, Jehovah, if anything, even close, if you brush my arm walking the other way down the hallway, I swear to God, I'll go right to him with all the dirt and all the crap.

53:11 Drew I'd go with all the crap right away.

53:12 Adam You know? Yep. Alright.

53:14 Drew I don't know.

53:15 Adam I bet the guy shuts down. Okay. Alright.

53:18 Caller Alright. Okay.

53:27 Guest Word up.

53:28 Adam It's Adam Corolla. That's Dr. Drew. This be the Loveline. And we'll be back in ten seconds.

53:38 Guest This is Loveline on Radio Station.

53:42 Caller Daily AKUBD, Tempe, Phoenix.

53:53 Drew Right.

53:54 Adam All right.

53:55 Drew As usual. Yeah, I mean, it didn't sound like we'd be asleep with the wheel.

53:59 Adam Hey, it's Loveline. I'm Adam Corolla. This is Dr. Drew. Once in a while, we get a complaint as to how we've handled a call. And I know this is convenient, Drew, because I'm defending myself. But every time we're accused of a call, we remember quite a few of the calls we get. Oh, boy, is that sad. I swear to God, someone will say to Drew, that call you got back in April, there's that 15-year-old who... And Drew will go, didn't have sight in one eye. Yeah, yeah, that guy. Drew, what the... See what happens when you don't do drugs, you don't drink, you don't do anything? You have a boring, steel trap kind of brain. Although, engineer Mike does enough drugs, and he seems to remember everything, too.

54:49 Drew Imagine what it would be like if he didn't.

54:51 Caller And that's funny, why?

54:54 Drew That's your point, anyway.

54:56 Adam My point is, on occasion, and it's a rare occasion, we get accused of mishandling a phone call, saying something that's dangerous or negligent, steering somebody in a direction that they shouldn't be steered, so on and so forth. Basically, you know, not reporting a crime, something like that.

55:15 Drew It's either one of two things, every time.

55:17 Adam Either whatever happened to the caller happened to the person that's complaining, or...

55:25 Drew And they have all kinds of their own issues and don't even listen to what we're doing. They just completely project their own stuff onto it.

55:32 Adam It usually works like this. I was outraged when I heard you talking to that 14-year-old girl, as someone who survived an eating disorder, I can tell you, and then a whole bunch of her eating disorder stuff comes pouring out when we may not... That may have been a small piece of whatever the call was about. But what's the other scenario, Drew?

55:52 Drew They're just not listening.

55:54 Adam Oh, okay.

55:54 Drew They just have no idea what we said. Anyway... You hear some little piece of it and you get outraged and don't really listen to the totality of what we're saying.

56:00 Adam We had a girl call in last week with the pie tasters. She'd been raped by her boyfriend. And you hear the beginning part. We got a few calls from a few affiliates or something like that. People were upset. I didn't get the whole story. But we just dug up the call on a tape and went and listened to it. And it was fairly benign.

56:20 Drew Not benign. We were clear that this is a crime. This guy is a criminal. She's a victim. She needs to end this. And you even went so far as to say you were at a crossroads. You were made a victim. You've got to report this guy for the criminal he is.

56:31 Adam Tell you that. Wait a minute. Did I say that? Yes. I didn't say report. I said get out of the relationship.

56:37 Drew At the end, then, because she said she wasn't going to, then you went, all right, we'll just get out of the relationship then.

56:42 Adam Oh, really?

56:42 Drew Yes. That was the call.

56:45 Adam I feel bad with my responsible advice. I got to turn that down.

56:47 Drew So because you end it with, I don't tell anybody that that's the way you're going to be, just get out of the relationship, people went, you're crazy. You've got to report this. And this is long after the fact when report of a rape is that the pain that she would go through and the ability to prosecute a guy, this be zero.

57:04 Adam Plus, she wasn't even talking, it wasn't as if she was just raped by some guy at the park and didn't want to tell anybody. She was raped by her boyfriend, she says, but her question was, did she want to stay with him?

57:16 Drew Right, right, that was the question.

57:18 Adam Which, and our answer to that is no, you don't.

57:22 Drew And you're a victim, and this is why you're a victim, and this is why we stop.

57:25 Adam Right, but Lisa, get on and pick up the microphone there and tell us what happened with this. Who had to complain about it and what was up? What was going on?

57:34 The GM, KBCO's GM wants a copy of the tape.

57:38 Caller I guess there was some complaints about this call.

57:41 Adam That's fine. And, all right, can we play this thing on the air, for Christ's sake, and the KBCO GM can just record it? We don't, I don't want to send him a tape. He can just record this and then he can play him this.

57:54 Drew Look at Mike, Mike loves this.

57:55 Caller Yeah. All right.

57:57 Drew What's so funny about that, Mike?

57:58 Adam What's funny about that, Mike?

57:59 Drew Mike will lose it.

58:01 Adam He's probably at home in bed. He doesn't know what he's gonna play.

58:03 Drew That's the point. He didn't hear it in the first place. He's just responding to a lot of nonsense complaints.

58:07 Adam The KBCO engineer can go ahead and record this and drop it on his desk tonight before he leaves, or she leaves.

58:14 Drew It's interesting, we get, it's so rare that we get complaints that when we do hear the slightest little rumble, we really react. I mean, here we are, maybe the first 10 minutes of this hour.

58:23 Adam Well, I was just, I was just listening. I only caught the end of it in the other room, but it sounded, it sounded fairly benign. I can't believe that somebody would demand a copy of this. It was that negligent. So, you folks, just hang tight. At least they'll get the tape, we'll cue it out and we'll play that a little bit later. Chris?

58:45 Caller Yes.

58:46 Adam You're 16.

58:47 Caller Yeah.

58:47 Adam What's going on?

58:49 Caller I'm not the month right now, but my question is, what do girls want in a guy?

58:56 Big penis.

58:57 Drew They want a guy who's emotionally available.

58:59 Adam With a big penis.

59:01 Drew Emotionally available, somebody who cares about them and who is available. Now, there are lots of screwed up boys and girls out there.

59:09 Adam Sure, you need a Saturday morning show.

59:11 Drew Men and women, young men and women who will seek out dysfunctional individuals. These are the ones that will sabotage a guy that's too nice and will look for the more abusive people because they're trying to solve some problems from childhood.

59:25 Guest There's a lot of people like that out there.

59:26 Adam Those are the ones you score with, Chris.

59:28 Drew Those are the ones that guys like Chris never get to do that with and he can't understand why the girls don't like the nice guys.

59:34 Adam I swear to God, but being healthy and adjusted is a liability at a certain age. And later on in life, it becomes more precious than platinum. But at a certain age, it gets you nowhere. All the guys I knew in high school that were sort of self-adjusted, they had their quirks and fears like anybody else, but they weren't screwed up, they weren't abusers, they didn't come from bad families, they weren't the rebel types. They were just sort of good students and played by the rules. Miserable. Couldn't get a hand job. Don't worry, they're doing fine now. Chris?

1:00:17 Drew Well, the guys, well, your friends that...

1:00:19 Adam You cannot transform yourself into one of those guys.

1:00:24 Caller You either are or you aren't.

1:00:25 Drew And find women that want somebody who is genuine. That's what women really want. They don't...

1:00:30 Caller I mean, don't...

1:00:31 Drew Do not... Go the opposite direction of the women's magazines. They will lead you astray.

1:00:36 Adam But not the men and women alike. Not the men's magazines with pictures of women. That's different. You understand?

1:00:41 Caller Yeah.

1:00:43 Adam All right. Now, Ann talked to us for a second on the air about this and Mike can queue up that tape.

1:00:48 Drew No, let's wait till the next break.

1:00:49 Adam All right. Let's do it. Let me talk to Ann.

1:00:53 All right.

1:00:53 Adam So what was the complaint?

1:00:55 People are saying that we didn't handle the call correctly, that it was a crime, that she was raped, so it's a crime and needed to be...

1:01:04 Drew Let me go on record. Whenever we discuss rape on this show, we always considered it a crime. Always. Always.

1:01:11 Adam Yeah, but we didn't tell her to go to the authorities. Is that their argument?

1:01:16 Drew We told her to tell her parents and let them take her. I thought I told her not to tell her parents because she wasn't going to... Listen to the thing.

1:01:23 Yeah, listen to the power.

1:01:25 Adam So here is the call. Hold on a second. Anne, we were accused of being negligent. Were people outraged or what was the deal?

1:01:33 Caller Yeah. One of our stations was getting a lot of calls.

1:01:36 Drew A lot of calls?

1:01:38 Caller Look, I'm not there. I don't know how many calls they're getting. I'm just passing it on.

1:01:42 Adam All right. So here was the negligent...

1:01:45 Caller He's still working on the case.

1:01:46 Caller Oh, okay.

1:01:47 Adam Let me see.

1:01:48 Drew All right. All rape should be reported, but here's the reality. That if a woman doesn't go in and report it immediately, what you have to do is go to an emergency department, get a forensic examination, file a police report. You have to do that right away in order for there to be any possibility of prosecution. Now, filing the report is always worthwhile because this person undoubtedly is doing this to other people, and one day it may become important to be a witness to this sort of thing. Right. I don't expect that it to be able to be prosecuted for unison.

1:02:18 Adam All right. So this is the this is a negligent call which folks were outraged about.

1:02:24 Guest Well, I've been going up this guy for two months, and about after a month, I started giving him oral sex, I guess you could say, and he's been very persistent on wanting to have sex, and I keep saying no, and about a week ago we were at my house and we were just watching a movie, and he kept asking, hey, it's the perfect time, nobody's here, and he's kind of forced himself on me, I don't know if it's rape or not, because I don't know, a lot of my-

1:03:01 Drew Did you tell him no?

1:03:02 Guest I did tell him no.

1:03:02 Drew Then it's rape. Or at least a sexual assault or something.

1:03:05 Guest A lot of my sons say it's not because I've been going out with him.

1:03:08 Caller No, no. We're not allowed to rape you.

1:03:11 Adam Hold on. Wait, did you stop it? Oh, you don't have to do that.

1:03:14 Drew Yeah, we'll just talk right over it.

1:03:16 Caller It's kind of illegal in Virginia.

1:03:20 Caller That's why we're there, right?

1:03:21 Caller Yeah.

1:03:21 Drew That's one of those weird little...

1:03:23 Caller Well, that's not a... Who's got the trouble to pack up and the forethought to go to Virginia just because you're horny?

1:03:30 Drew Were you a virgin, sir? We did.

1:03:31 Guest Yeah.

1:03:32 Drew So this is your first experience?

1:03:33 Guest Yeah.

1:03:34 Caller That's tough.

1:03:35 Drew I mean, how long was that? I'm sorry.

1:03:37 Caller How long did you go out? Are you going out with him? Two months.

1:03:41 Guest Two months, yeah.

1:03:41 Drew Are you going to break up with him?

1:03:44 Caller Are you going to have him arrested?

1:03:45 Guest No. I'm not sure.

1:03:48 Caller How old is he?

1:03:49 Guest He's 16.

1:03:50 Caller You see, hold on.

1:03:53 Adam I want to talk about you for a second, Sarah.

1:03:55 Caller The element in Sarah that makes the guy realize he can get away with it is the same element that makes her not want to break up with him or call the cops or take any action.

1:04:07 Adam It's that same thing.

1:04:09 Drew I mean, at least I have me, sort of the...

1:04:15 Caller Sarah?

1:04:15 Caller Yeah?

1:04:17 Caller What's up with you that you don't feel good about yourself?

1:04:22 Guest I mean, I don't have the best self-esteem about myself, no.

1:04:25 Caller Right. Because for you, this is sort of okay.

1:04:28 Guest Yeah.

1:04:28 Caller I mean, you don't love it, but on the other hand, you kind of...

1:04:32 Adam You don't deserve it, but it happens.

1:04:34 Caller What are you going to do?

1:04:36 Guest Yeah. I kind of thought he was my boyfriend. After like a lot of people said, well, he is your boyfriend and after a while, you should have expected this.

1:04:43 Caller Oh my God.

1:04:44 Drew You should not expect it.

1:04:45 Guest No.

1:04:45 Drew You should not expect it. You were assaulted. What you... The healthy thing would be to eject this guy and to tell everybody what he did.

1:04:55 Guest Tell everybody what he did?

1:04:57 Drew No. I don't know about that. Hold on, Drew. What are you talking about?

1:05:00 Caller That would be the healthy thing.

1:05:01 Drew The guy forced himself on her.

1:05:04 Caller He's going to do it to other people.

1:05:06 Drew He's going to do it to other people. That's the way this is. People need to know what...

1:05:09 Caller Sarah?

1:05:09 Adam Yeah?

1:05:11 Caller What happened?

1:05:12 Adam Were you kicking and screaming?

1:05:13 Caller Or did you just say no? Or were you guys drinking?

1:05:17 Guest I was completely sober and he was too.

1:05:19 Caller We were just watching a movie and like always, he always...

1:05:22 Guest He's always all you want to have.

1:05:23 Drew Did you say no or did you scream or yell?

1:05:26 Guest I said no and then he started taking off my pants. And then I tried putting them back on and he wouldn't let me. And I told him no and I told him to leave and I just wouldn't.

1:05:34 Adam He wouldn't.

1:05:36 Caller What movie were you watching just because it will be ironic, whatever it is?

1:05:40 Caller I don't even remember.

1:05:43 Caller I don't remember.

1:05:45 Drew Where did you learn that you can be objectified like that?

1:05:48 Caller Where did I learn?

1:05:50 Drew Did your parents manhandle you in some way when you were younger?

1:05:53 Guest No.

1:05:54 Adam Where's your dad?

1:05:55 Guest My dad's in his room.

1:05:56 Drew They never struck you?

1:05:57 Adam Hold on a second. I swear to God, she said he's in Israel there.

1:06:01 Drew It sounded like it. I agree.

1:06:03 Adam Everyone made fun of me when I said, your dad's in Israel. Everyone was like, what are you talking about?

1:06:08 Guest Israel?

1:06:10 Adam I swear to God, it sounded like she said her dad was in Israel.

1:06:12 Caller Keep playing.

1:06:14 Caller When you were younger? No.

1:06:15 Caller Where's your dad?

1:06:16 Guest My dad's in his room.

1:06:18 Drew They never struck you or hit you in any way?

1:06:20 Guest I mean, if I was ever bad, yeah, they did.

1:06:23 Drew That's not, that's how you create a Sarah.

1:06:26 Caller Okay? Parents, listen carefully. Most of the parents who listen to the show are drunk and 16. They're listening skills aren't what they could be.

1:06:34 Adam But Sarah, what's your dad doing in Israel?

1:06:37 What's my dad doing in Israel?

1:06:39 Drew He's in his room.

1:06:40 Caller Yeah, he's in his room.

1:06:41 Adam I swear to God, I thought you said my dad's in Israel.

1:06:43 Drew You just had a seizure, Adam. I will take care of it in the break.

1:06:46 Caller Okay, Adam.

1:06:48 Adam I could see where the question would sound like it was from left field. Do you wear a retainer, Sarah? No.

1:06:54 Caller No. Okay. Well, that is my dad. Your dad's in his room.

1:06:58 Caller Yeah.

1:06:59 Caller Then he was good to you and he spacked you around a little bit.

1:07:03 Caller Yeah, when I was little.

1:07:04 Caller Right.

1:07:05 Drew Yeah, but what does it matter then?

1:07:06 Caller It's like spanking, right?

1:07:08 Caller Like a spanking, not like a start.

1:07:09 Guest Yeah, like he would make me bend over and he would whip me with a bow and a bow. Actually, that was my mom.

1:07:14 Drew That's how you create a Sarah. That's how you destroy a child's self-esteem and create anti-social behavior. Okay. Set them up to be nice victims for their future boyfriend.

1:07:23 Adam So, Sarah, you're kind of at the crossroads here, which is you could stay with the guy, reinforce this bad pattern and eventually let him impregnate you, then drop out of school while he loses his teeth and his will to live. Or you could take a stand for yourself right now and perhaps take your life down a slightly different path.

1:07:45 Drew Now, you meant report this, right?

1:07:46 Caller What do you want to do?

1:07:48 Guest I'm not going to go around and tell everybody what happened to him.

1:07:51 Caller Squared Drew, that's horrible advice.

1:07:52 Guest Okay.

1:07:53 Adam The pie taster had been on the road for a month, they're drunk, and they knew that was bad advice. Don't tell anyone, just break up with him.

1:08:01 Caller Yeah, definitely don't.

1:08:02 Caller Don't hang out with this guy anymore.

1:08:04 Adam Just break up with him.

1:08:05 Caller Yeah, he has no self-control. Do you have an older brother? There are lots of single pie tasters that treat ladies with respect. That's right. All right.

1:08:13 Adam All right, so their objection was I said don't say anything, just break up with him. But Drew, since when do I give out solid advice?

1:08:22 Drew Well, we've been telling her.

1:08:24 Guest You told her on three occasions.

1:08:26 Drew It's rape, it's rape, it's rape.

1:08:28 Adam Here's the problem. Drew said tell everyone, and I responded to everyone as telling your friends at school and this. It seemed to me that she'd been through enough. Here's the deal, quite frankly. She said, and I may be digging myself in deeper here, but I don't think this guy was going to be brought to justice for what he did.

1:08:54 Drew I agree.

1:08:55 Adam She started the call off by saying she'd been performing a lot of oral sex on the guy, which already is going to make her slightly more suspect in court. Now, don't be outraged, everybody. I'm just saying what she said. So Drew said, tell everyone.

1:09:12 Drew My everyone, I meant report it, report it, report it.

1:09:15 Adam Right.

1:09:15 Drew Drew, you said she was raped.

1:09:18 Adam You said report it. Everyone told her to get rid of this guy. We got to sort of more the origin of her problem, which was her dad was a little physically abusive. And by the way, I swear to God, she said Israel. My dad's in Israel. Then I had four people looking at me like I was insane when I said Israel. I don't know how you guys all heard his room when I heard Israel and then we listened to it again and it really did sound like Israel.

1:09:43 Drew It sounded more like Israel the second time than his room.

1:09:46 Caller Yeah.

1:09:47 Adam Now how come I was the only one who heard that?

1:09:50 Caller You're creative.

1:09:51 Adam Oh, okay. Is that it? Is that the negligent call? Yeah. Okay. I should have told her to go to the cops.

1:10:00 Caller It was your first question.

1:10:02 Drew Are you going to go to the cops? That was your first question of her.

1:10:05 Adam All right. She said no. All you complainers, screw you. Please, don't you got bigger fish to fry than this? For Christ's sake, we spent an hour and 45 minutes with her. We told her everything we could possibly tell her.

1:10:20 Drew Including why it would be appropriate for her to report it and why she can't report it and how she has to break that cycle.

1:10:27 Adam Right.

1:10:28 Drew We even went into that.

1:10:29 Adam Okay. We didn't go to her house and make a report out. Drew didn't do a gynecological exam on her. But here's the reality of her situation. I can guarantee you, and listen, for people who don't think I'm responsible sometimes, I give people advice I think they're going to take. Not the Pollyanna advice that Drew likes to squirt out of his ass two hours a night. And I do this all the time. Which is, I knew she wasn't going to the cops. I knew she wasn't going to do anything. The best she could do was break up with this guy. I didn't even know if she was going to break up with him.

1:11:02 Drew That's right.

1:11:02 Adam She didn't even want to break up with the guy who raped her.

1:11:05 Drew That's right.

1:11:05 Adam And the reason I didn't spend a bunch of time trying to tell her to go to the cops and tell her dad and everyone at school is because there's no way she was going to do that. She wanted to know whether to stay with the guy or not. So I just focused on break up with the guy and move on.

1:11:19 Caller All right.

1:11:19 Adam So listen, all you naysayers, screw you. Durette, 42. Hey, can you believe that, S?

1:11:29 Caller You're right. You know, you say what people want to say. Sometimes they want to hear it, sometimes they don't.

1:11:33 Adam I know, but could that one station have been flooded with calls that were outraged over that negligent advice?

1:11:42 Caller You know what? It can't be there, but you don't worry about them.

1:11:44 Adam Good. I know.

1:11:45 Caller Well, I don't have any problems or complaints. I just called to say, I listen, I have four kids and 42, and you know what? It's good to hear people combine knowledge with common sense. People forget common sense. Oh, God knows. I think you help out people. I'll help people with sex problem, abuse problems of all sorts, eating disorders, and you help them. I really do. It's good to hear people do that. I just want to say you're doing a good job. That's all.

1:12:09 Adam Thank you. You strung out on speed?

1:12:12 Caller Now I'm from New Jersey. We all talk pretty fast.

1:12:14 Adam Okay. All right. Take care of those kids of yours.

1:12:17 Drew How many kids?

1:12:18 Caller All my oldest is going to be 18.

1:12:20 Drew You're into it.

1:12:21 Caller No, he's good. They get better as they get older. I have no problem.

1:12:24 Caller Yeah. Lucky. That's great. Like fine wine.

1:12:27 Caller I have three girls. My oldest is 16, not pregnant. They're good. They're real good. They use common sense. I think it's really important.

1:12:35 Drew Are you still married?

1:12:36 Caller Oh, yeah.

1:12:37 Drew This is their father?

1:12:38 Caller Excuse me?

1:12:39 Drew This is their father? What about him? This is the kid's father you're married to?

1:12:43 Caller Oh, yeah. All four of them?

1:12:45 Adam Same dad?

1:12:45 Guest Oh, yeah.

1:12:46 Adam Don't listen to the show anymore. We're not interested in your tie.

1:12:49 Drew But the point is, the common sense or not, the stability of that system and the health you have provided for them is really what nurtures them and lets them grow.

1:12:58 Guest Kids grow.

1:12:59 Drew They will just grow. They'll just grow up if you let them. Just give them the right soil, give them the little fertilizer to grow.

1:13:05 Adam I certainly understand the fertilizer.

1:13:08 Drew All right.

1:13:09 Adam Let's just get one more call here. Stephen?

1:13:12 Caller Yeah.

1:13:13 Adam The 22?

1:13:14 Caller Yeah.

1:13:14 Adam All right.

1:13:15 Caller Go ahead.

1:13:17 Caller Well, my wife and I will be married three years in September. About a year ago in May, she left and she wound up having basically an affair with an older married man while she was living in his house.

1:13:37 Drew Where was his wife?

1:13:39 Caller In the house.

1:13:41 Drew What? She was like renting a room or something? Different room.

1:13:43 Caller Different room.

1:13:46 Adam Like they were in the kitchen and mom.

1:13:48 Drew She was renting a room at somebody's house?

1:13:50 Caller No, she was just staying with them.

1:13:54 Adam Okay. Who was the guy?

1:13:57 Caller A guy she used to work with.

1:14:00 Drew And he invited her in? So he probably already had a thing for her. Did he think of her?

1:14:04 Caller Probably.

1:14:05 Drew So the guy is a big asshole and your wife is vulnerable. So what? Now what are you doing?

1:14:11 Caller Well we're back together now. My problem is I feel myself growing apart from her. Why? That's the problem.

1:14:20 Drew Why?

1:14:21 Caller Because I don't know why.

1:14:23 Drew Did you do anything while you were separated? Did I? Did you see anybody else?

1:14:27 Caller No, I did not.

1:14:27 Adam Lord knows he tried, but guys can't do it that fast. It takes guys a couple of months to sort of gear up. It's like fighting a European campaign in the 40s. It takes you six months just to move everyone over there, all the tanks and everything. Meanwhile, the women are getting laid on the boat, the troop carrier. That's what I hate about women. I really hate that about women. They can get laid anytime. And every woman knows at least three guys she works with who she can have sex with that evening.

1:15:01 Drew And if there are ever any greater evidence of the difference between a man and a woman, there it is. If that were a man, he'd be doing that.

1:15:09 Adam Here's the reality. Ann's husband Doug could break up with her or cheat on her or do something like that. And Ann could be on top of Mike Dooley by 12.15 tonight over in his head shop of an apartment down the street over at Shea Dooley. Absolutely. And even if Dooley wasn't interested, she could still do it. It would just be like this. Hey Dooley, it's a hot night.

1:15:36 Caller I'm bored.

1:15:38 Adam You live close to the studio. Let's go crack a beer and just sit out on a lawn chair and listen to the freeway for a couple minutes. And ten minutes later, she'd be on top of him on top of his Murphy bed or whatever he sleeps. I think he sleeps on an army cot. He has two army cots lashed together with red vines that he sleeps on. But the point is, she could do that. She could do it tonight. Women can do this whenever they want. Thank God they don't want to that often. If they ever want to, pow, it's over.

1:16:09 Drew Steven needs to get over this.

1:16:10 Caller They were separated.

1:16:11 Drew She was vulnerable.

1:16:12 Caller The guy was in the A-hole.

1:16:13 Caller He needs to commit himself to this relationship or that.

1:16:16 Adam Do you have any kids, Steven? Steven?

1:16:20 Drew No.

1:16:20 Adam I think he didn't hang out for my little dissertation there.

1:16:24 Caller David?

1:16:25 Caller Yeah, I'm here.

1:16:25 Drew You have kids?

1:16:26 Caller No.

1:16:28 Adam And why did you guys separate in the first place?

1:16:33 Caller She left saying that she didn't love me anymore.

1:16:36 Adam And what got her back?

1:16:38 Caller She decided she did.

1:16:42 Adam I can understand you feeling real bitter about it unless there was something that you did to drive her out of there. Did you hit her?

1:16:50 Caller No.

1:16:51 Adam You didn't do anything bad to her?

1:16:53 Caller No.

1:16:53 Drew You got your friends every night? You got your friends and drink every night?

1:16:56 Adam Did you ignore her?

1:16:58 Caller I came home every night. You're a good boy? Yeah. Yeah.

1:17:01 Adam How old is she?

1:17:02 Caller She's 24.

1:17:03 Drew Was she abused at any time in her life?

1:17:05 Caller No. Her parents are still married.

1:17:09 Adam Two animals or each other?

1:17:12 Caller Each other. My big problem is after she came back, I caught her once or twice in a discretional situation where she may or may not have been lying to me about him.

1:17:26 Drew Same guy? Yeah.

1:17:29 Adam Steven, I hate to say, but this is why you don't get married when you're 19.

1:17:35 Drew Yeah.

1:17:36 Adam This one, you may just be chalking this one up to experience. You don't have any kids. She got out of the house and was with another guy within what, a week?

1:17:47 Caller Pretty quick, yeah. About that time frame.

1:17:50 Adam God knows. She works with the guy. She may have had an indiscretion or two before she moved in with the guy.

1:17:58 Caller She did. Of course.

1:17:59 Adam Why did the guy offer to move her in?

1:18:03 Drew It's a pretty crazy situation if she's not giving it up.

1:18:06 Adam Was she married before you?

1:18:08 Caller No.

1:18:10 Adam She's got to have some kind of history. There's something up with her.

1:18:13 Caller Yeah, there is.

1:18:14 Adam She's got some issues, right?

1:18:16 Caller Yeah.

1:18:16 Adam What's her issue?

1:18:18 Caller Well, shortly before I met her, she was involved with a guy. They were friends for probably two years in college.

1:18:26 Drew And he turned out to be physically abusive?

1:18:28 Caller Well, they were... She wanted a lot more than friendship. He picked up on that, but he wasn't interested. No. He got drunk, decided he was, and then the next morning decided he wasn't.

1:18:40 Caller No, much more than this.

1:18:41 Adam No, there's something bigger than that.

1:18:43 Caller Much more than this.

1:18:43 Adam There had to be physical abuse, or maybe she went out with a prop magician or something. There had to be some sort of bizarre and negligent behavior. You know, those prop magicians, they're all screwy. All right, Stephen, hey, I'm telling Stephen to get out. Yeah, so what? Listen, being married is one thing, Drew, but being married without kids, screw that. Stephen was married at 19. Let's just get out. She's nutty. She's sleeping with this guy. You know, they've barely been married three years. She's sleeping with some guy she works with. She goes out of the house and lives with the guy and sleeps with him there and his wife's in the house.

1:19:22 Guest She's very chaotic.

1:19:24 Adam This is trouble.

1:19:25 Caller I understand.

1:19:25 Adam Stephen, you're young, you're dumb.

1:19:27 Caller Get out.

1:19:28 Adam I'm telling you. We'll be back. Where's your dad?

1:19:31 Guest My dad's in his room.

1:19:33 Adam Sarah, what's your dad doing in Israel?

1:19:35 What's my dad doing in Israel?

1:19:36 Guest I feel so liquidy, really.

1:19:39 You're listening to the Loveline, the Adam Carolla, and Dr. Drew.

1:19:43 Guest Quacky, y'all.

1:19:44 Caller This is Dubsie from the Westside Connect Gang. Y'all know this is still Westside on mine.

1:19:48 Guest Chillin on the Loveline.

1:19:49 Caller Y'all know what time it is. Dubsie, this is Shady's one.

1:19:52 Guest Packing that pistola. Chillin with my homeboy, Ace Rockolla.

1:19:56 Caller Fool, I thought you knew.

1:19:58 Guest Chillin with my homeboy, Dr. Drew. This is Shady's one.

1:20:01 Caller Listen to this. Turn it up. Turn it up.

1:20:03 Guest That's Ria Nia.

1:20:06 Guest That's my dad doing in Israel.

1:20:10 Adam Yeah, that's my boy Dubsie. We're breaking us some off down when you were here. Not here, Drew. We were hanging tough. Chillin. Chillin with Dubsie. I had a good time with Dubsie. I'll tell you, the brothers like me, Drew. I don't know what it is, but me and the brother man, we're thick as thieves. Iced tea, Coolio, Iced Cube, Dubsie, Mac-10.

1:20:39 Caller Oh, yes.

1:20:40 Adam I'm down. You're jealous because the brother man looks at me as one of their own.

1:20:46 Caller You know what I mean?

1:20:48 Drew I'm amazed with your quasi-racist overtones that that's the case, but at least they understand the context in which those foppish remarks tend to be made.

1:20:58 Adam Listen, you can say whatever you want as long as people know you're not an a-hole. Know what I mean? The second they think you're an a-hole, you're in trouble. I'll give you my greatest example that is, I haven't used this one for a while. People say to me all the time, how can you get on the air and make all those asinine remarks without people sending bombs in the mail and writing letters to get you off the air and all that kind of nonsense. And I say, oh actually I had told my dad this, who called me an a-hole. I said, listen, I'm not an a-hole, I'm a nice guy, and that's why I can be an a-hole. And the example that I use is, you women know all about this, there's some guy at work, there's two guys at work, one of them's real creepy, his eye wanders a little, he's creepy. You know what I'm talking about? We all know those creepy guys, and women really know the creepy guys. And the creepy guy says to Ann, who shows up over at K-Rock tomorrow morning, hey, is that a new dress? Ann gets weird.

1:22:02 Caller Ooh, what is that?

1:22:04 Adam What's he getting off with that business? I swear to God, I'll report the guy. I get a restraining order. I'll mace him next time he comes to me and wants to compliment my apparel. But a guy, so he can say almost nothing, and because the guy is a creepy guy, he can send shivers down your spine. But by the same token, there's cool guys that Ann works with, not me, but there are other guys. And those guys, you know, let's say a guy like John Frost, he can come up and say, oh, not John. Yeah, that's true.

1:22:35 Caller John's all creepy.

1:22:39 Adam Kevin Ryder? Kevin? Okay. There's guys Ann works with who can come down and say, uh, honey, how about you party on my Johnson after work? And Ann is going to laugh and walk down the hall and shake her head. Not think, not think another thing of it. Why? Because he's not a creepy guy. Okay. So creepy guys, what's in your heart? And believe me, people know whether you're a creep or not. It's not how you come across. It's what's in your heart. Those people can't say anything. I'm such a wonderful humanitarian that I can make fun of all races. You know what I'm saying, Drew?

1:23:16 Drew Yeah, but really nice guys, if they start behaving like jerks, are not forgiven.

1:23:22 Adam Really nice guys?

1:23:23 Drew No.

1:23:25 Adam No, I'm a really nice guy who creates...

1:23:27 Drew That proves you're not a really nice guy.

1:23:29 Adam I'm a kind of nice guy who acts like a jerk. Johnny? Johnny?

1:23:34 Caller Johnny? Yeah.

1:23:35 Adam Johnny, go. Turn down your radio, Johnny.

1:23:38 Caller Turn down the radio.

1:23:40 Adam What are you, in a submarine, Johnny?

1:23:42 Caller No, I'm at home, in my living room.

1:23:45 Caller Yeah, I'm sitting here with my husband.

1:23:47 Adam How's the beheimen?

1:23:48 Guest Yeah, that's what I was going to say.

1:23:50 Adam Is the beheimen intact?

1:23:52 Caller I'm sorry, what's that?

1:23:53 Adam The beheimen?

1:23:54 Caller Sure.

1:23:55 Adam Do you know what I'm talking about?

1:23:56 Caller What's going on?

1:23:57 Adam What's going on, Johnny? You know how women have a heimen in front?

1:24:00 Caller Okay.

1:24:01 Adam You may have a beheimen in back. How's that? Is that gone?

1:24:06 Caller Sounds good.

1:24:07 Drew What's going on?

1:24:08 Caller Well, I'm just sitting here thinking about you guys. We listen to your show a lot. It's a good show. We enjoyed a lot. But I've had this theory for a long time, and I really want to know if it's true. If a man ejaculates on a regular basis, say every three to four days maximum time, regardless of circumstances, on a long-term basis, will this help prevent the occurrence of prostate cancer later on in life?

1:24:35 Drew There is no evidence to that effect.

1:24:37 Caller I'm sorry?

1:24:38 Drew No, no.

1:24:39 Adam I like to think it's true.

1:24:42 Drew But Adam, you've taken it to a new level.

1:24:45 Caller Yeah.

1:24:45 Drew Three or four times a day, just a little, if three to four times a week is good, it must be better.

1:24:49 Adam I got a prostate...

1:24:51 Caller He doesn't even have that much to do three times a day. No, yes.

1:24:56 Adam I got a prostate like a Collegian Wrestler. Like when people can't get like a pickle jar open, I put it in my ass and it just comes out. Crack it open. Right open.

1:25:07 Guest That's nice.

1:25:08 Adam During the winter, you know, the holidays, put walnuts in my ass and they just come out shelved. Yeah. I can just, my prostate is that strong.

1:25:19 Caller Hold on.

1:25:19 Adam I gotta talk to Johnny for a second.

1:25:20 Caller Partially caused from massive sperm buildup, MSB.

1:25:23 Caller No, no, no.

1:25:24 Caller Like when he gets... No, no.

1:25:26 Drew Johnny, no.

1:25:27 Caller Johnny?

1:25:27 Drew It irritates the prostate. It can cause prostatosis and prostate inflammation and maybe even prostate infection.

1:25:33 Caller Too much ejaculation can be a bad thing?

1:25:36 Drew Yeah, but listen to me. Listen to me.

1:25:38 Adam Relax. It's just, hold on. Johnny, I know you're drunk, but is this Johnny?

1:25:41 Caller I'm not drunk.

1:25:42 Caller I'm seven months pregnant.

1:25:44 Caller Eight months. Excuse me. I'm not drunk.

1:25:46 Adam Oh.

1:25:47 Caller No, I don't drink.

1:25:48 Adam Hold on a second, Drew, and I got to talk. Johnny, turns out it's a woman.

1:25:54 Drew But she played right along with you. Well, I'm a hirer and talk and stuff.

1:25:58 Caller Yeah.

1:26:00 Drew What?

1:26:01 Adam Oh, it says female right there on the screen.

1:26:03 Drew Yes, if you read the damn screen.

1:26:05 Adam I swear to God, I'm such a tard. I have a form of dyslexia.

1:26:08 What's my dad doing in Israel?

1:26:10 Drew There it is.

1:26:12 Adam Oops, I'm sorry. Johnny? Yeah. Okay, so you're pregnant. Yeah.

1:26:17 Drew Okay, there's something called prostate hygiene, which decreases inflammation and swelling in the prostate, and that is regular ejaculation, don't delay ejaculation, don't strain, avoid alcohol, keep bowels functioning normally. These sorts of things are good for the prostate, but doesn't prevent cancer.

1:26:35 Adam No, we don't, but it couldn't hurt, right? That's the Jewish doctor said. Laurie, you're 16, what's going on?

1:26:44 Caller I was wondering what constitutes sexual abuse.

1:26:50 Adam Somebody abusing you sexually?

1:26:52 Guest I think I was.

1:26:53 Caller By who?

1:26:55 Caller By my cousin.

1:26:56 Caller What'd she do?

1:26:58 Guest She.

1:26:58 Drew What'd she do?

1:27:01 Guest She would get on top of me and stuff and feel me up and stuff like that.

1:27:08 Drew That's sexual abuse?

1:27:08 Adam First and foremost, do not report this to anyone. I think that's the most important lesson we've learned from our last call.

1:27:15 Drew That's of course our policy here. Yes.

1:27:17 Adam Don't ask, don't tell.

1:27:18 Drew Laurie, how old were you then?

1:27:19 Guest Excuse me?

1:27:20 Drew How old were you when that happened?

1:27:22 Guest I really can't remember. I think I was like eight.

1:27:24 Drew How old was she?

1:27:28 Guest Ten or 11.

1:27:29 Drew How many times did it happen?

1:27:31 Guest I don't know, a lot.

1:27:32 Drew A lot of times.

1:27:35 Adam What was the extent of this? Did she get her hands in places?

1:27:41 Caller I'm sorry, what do you mean?

1:27:43 Guest I can't understand you.

1:27:45 Drew Did she feel your genitalia, this sort of thing?

1:27:48 Guest Yeah.

1:27:48 Drew Yeah. Adam, you happy?

1:27:52 Guest I'm sorry, I'm just really, really nervous.

1:27:53 Drew That's all right. That is a form of sexual abuse, sure. Absolutely.

1:27:58 Adam Is she a lesbian, this cousin of yours?

1:28:03 Caller I don't know, she's never had a boyfriend.

1:28:05 Drew She's probably all over the place.

1:28:07 Guest She's an only child and she's really...

1:28:10 Drew Something happened to her. I mean, kids on kids is a common form of sexual abuse. It's when it's overtly sexual like this that it constitutes sexual abuse. It's not just experimentation or looking at anatomy, that sort of thing. This has a sexual element to it that is traumatizing to somebody under the age of 13, 14 even.

1:28:29 Adam Yeah. So here's the deal. Yes, it's not the worst case we've heard, but certainly something went on.

1:28:36 Drew It could affect you.

1:28:37 Adam You have the right to be affected.

1:28:38 Drew And you should tell your parents about it. You should get some help for this.

1:28:43 Guest Okay?

1:28:44 Adam Yeah.

1:28:44 Drew You should. I mean, that's the only way you can heal from this. And people do very well after this sort of thing. It can affect your ability to...

1:28:51 Guest If I am seeing a therapist, if I told her instead of my parents, would that be...

1:28:58 Drew Yes, that's fine. Tell the therapist. If you don't tell a therapist, you might as well not go. I mean, it's that important. Okay, this is a crucial thing. These are the kinds of things you go to a therapist to talk about. All right, Laurie? Yeah. Tell her.

1:29:13 Adam You know, I was at the Shrink today, Tim. I tell you, I'm such an entertaining guy with the Shrink. I really think he should be paying me.

1:29:21 Drew I need the Hallelujah Chorus or something that I can call upon when I need it.

1:29:26 Adam I sit there for 50 minutes and lay out some of my best material and philosophies on life and stuff. And I think to myself, I swear to God, at the 45-minute mark, I think to myself, Jesus Christ, I'm being entertaining. I mean, I'm not putting on an act or anything. I'm just telling them what I think about stuff and life and all that stuff. And then I think to myself, I swear to God, I think to myself, hell, this is a book on cassette.

1:29:49 Drew Isn't that a symbol for how you relate to people?

1:29:51 Caller I shouldn't be paying him.

1:29:52 Drew Maybe that's the way you relate to everybody now and you got to get through that.

1:29:55 Adam Quiet now, Drew, now listen up. You know what I told the shrink? I said, listen, here's why I'm scared to have kids. Now tell me if this is a narcissistic way of approaching life. I'm scared to have kids.

1:30:10 Drew Is that from you?

1:30:11 Caller Yes. Shut up.

1:30:12 Adam I'm scared to have kids because I look at a kid as a piece of me that's running around, but it's a really stupid, naïve, unprotected, vulnerable, but it's like a piece of me that's running around but it can't defend itself.

1:30:27 Drew Yeah, therefore?

1:30:28 Adam Therefore, anything could happen to it.

1:30:30 Drew Yes.

1:30:31 Adam And it scares the hell out of me.

1:30:32 Drew Right. So you identify with that vulnerability, but it's a separate person. It is not you.

1:30:38 Adam Well, okay, if I had a girl, I could see it not being me, but a guy.

1:30:42 Caller That'd be me, right?

1:30:44 Adam Well, it's not you. It's not Dooley.

1:30:46 Drew You yell about it in the show all the time, about parents that see their children as a narcissistic extension of themselves. That's how you screw up your parenting.

1:30:53 Adam Yeah, but it's better than overt abuse, isn't it?

1:30:56 Drew Slightly. Okay, then.

1:30:58 Adam Well, rest my case.

1:31:17 Caller Hey, this is John Hyatt, and you're listening to Adam Corolla and Dr. Drew on Loveline.

1:31:25 Caller Yeah.

1:31:26 Guest Who was that?

1:31:27 Adam Is that Iggy Pop?

1:31:28 Guest John Hyatt. Oh, that was John Hyatt. Oh, hi.

1:31:31 Adam Just heard the last line.

1:31:35 Guest Oh, do I love that John Hyatt.

1:31:37 Caller Boy, is that guy good.

1:31:39 Adam He is just so good. Let me tell you about John Hyatt. A lot of people aren't hip to John Hyatt, but I'd hip them up to John Hyatt, and then they'd all thank me a year later. And John Hyatt is one of those guys, if you keep a couple of CDs around, people think you know what you're doing. They think you know about music, because within the business, he's considered real hip. As a matter of fact, the only thing that reminded me of that is Leah Andreone. You remember her? Friend of ours. She's a real good singer, and she, I just got an invitation for her party. She's got a new record release party. Leah Andreone, I saw at the John Hyatt concert about six months ago. I said, Leah, what are you doing here? She said, I don't even know what John Hyatt is, but I just came out because I want to talk to his manager or something like that. Then ran into Leah when she was here with Eve Six two and a half weeks ago, and she said, I love John Hyatt. Then I said, that's right. Patrick, you're 16. What's going on?

1:32:53 Caller Um, I have a little problem about in May, I was a I was having going to have sex with my girlfriend, and I pumped once and it went limp.

1:33:08 Drew So you were able to penetrate?

1:33:10 Caller Uh, yeah, I went in and like I pumped like once or twice, and then it just went limp.

1:33:19 Drew This is your friend.

1:33:20 Adam Don't you miss those days when your friend was pumping her? You're trying to get some information out of her crotch.

1:33:29 Caller Yeah, pumped are good.

1:33:30 Caller It happened twice.

1:33:31 Drew What do you mean it happened twice?

1:33:32 Caller Like, okay, I went after it went limp.

1:33:35 Caller Yeah, I took it out and I got hard again and I put it back in and it went limp again.

1:33:40 Adam Did you pump some more?

1:33:42 Drew Yes, I pumped. Well, have you been with her since?

1:33:45 Caller Yeah, I'm still going out with her.

1:33:46 Drew But have you been with her sexually since?

1:33:48 Caller We've done some other stuff, but we've never had sex after that.

1:33:51 Drew It's real common for guys to have problems like that, particularly first time out, even with a new person first time out, even if somebody's not a virgin. The newness and the anxiety and the uncomfortableness can cause that. I mean, that's just what happens.

1:34:06 Caller So you think it's because I'm too excited?

1:34:08 Drew Too excited or too anxious. I mean, it's a new situation.

1:34:14 Adam There's really not anything we can tell you or your love pump, other than you stay with her, you get more relaxed, and you work it out. But I mean, that's really about it, isn't it, Drew?

1:34:28 Drew Yeah, absolutely.

1:34:30 Caller Really? Yeah.

1:34:32 Drew Last time I caught this, you asked him if something came out, and then it got soft.

1:34:39 Adam Should I have asked him that? Is that Patrick?

1:34:43 Caller Yeah.

1:34:44 Adam Patrick? Yeah? Did you have an orgasm?

1:34:48 Caller No.

1:34:48 Adam No. I didn't get that impression. Okay. Is your dad from Israel?

1:34:54 Caller No, but that's what I thought you said, too.

1:34:56 Adam Thank you.

1:34:57 Caller Yeah, you're right. I have another question.

1:35:01 Adam Yeah, go ahead.

1:35:02 Caller Okay. Would you consider me a virgin or not?

1:35:06 Adam No. No. You're seasoned.

1:35:09 Caller I didn't think so.

1:35:10 Adam No, you're like a porn star.

1:35:13 Caller You have to ejaculate to, you know, be a virgin.

1:35:16 Caller No, no. No.

1:35:18 Drew The genit is about penetration.

1:35:19 Adam Yeah.

1:35:20 Caller You got it.

1:35:21 Adam You got a pump and a half in, right?

1:35:24 Caller About two.

1:35:25 Adam Listen, let me ask you something, Patrick. You ever watch the Olympics?

1:35:30 Caller Yes.

1:35:31 Adam You ever see the weightlifting competition?

1:35:33 Caller Yeah.

1:35:35 Adam When the guy hoists that big weight over his head on the cleaning jerk, does he have to press it up five or six times or can he just lift it once over his head and then throw the barbell down?

1:35:46 Drew The guy's got to blow a whistle.

1:35:47 Caller Just once.

1:35:48 Adam Just once. That's right, buddy.

1:35:51 Drew Someone's got to be there to blow a whistle or...

1:35:53 Adam That's true. It's always funny when the guy's got 500 pounds over his head and they...

1:36:01 Caller he's moving around a little too much.

1:36:02 Adam Then they got to wait till he steadies himself. Listen, you get 500 pounds above your chin, that's it. Whatever you can get over your head, that's it. I don't care if you dive under the bar.

1:36:13 Caller All right.

1:36:15 Adam John.

1:36:17 Caller How do you do, gentlemen?

1:36:18 Adam Good. How are you doing, John?

1:36:19 Caller Hanging in there? Doing pretty good.

1:36:21 Adam You're 23. What's up?

1:36:24 Caller Well, all right.

1:36:26 Caller My girlfriend, young, beautiful, blonde, tall, lovely, any man's dream. Her girlfriend, a little shorter, blonde.

1:36:36 Caller All right. What?

1:36:37 Caller Well, anyway, they both want a little of the action. And I think I'd like to do that. At the same time, my girlfriend isn't at that 100% stage of, oh, yeah, let's do this.

1:36:53 Drew Whose idea was it?

1:36:54 Caller Her friend is all about it. Her friend is all about it.

1:36:55 Drew Whose idea was it?

1:36:57 Caller It was a mutual agreement almost.

1:36:59 Drew Whose idea was it?

1:37:02 Caller Like I said, it was a mutual agreement.

1:37:03 Drew It's not your girlfriend's idea.

1:37:04 Caller Well, no, no, no, she is, just as period...

1:37:07 Adam Who is like asking a German officer, whose idea was it to invade Poland? Well, we sat down with Poland, we talked about it for a while, and we came to a conclusion.

1:37:17 Caller Yeah, yeah. Really?

1:37:18 Drew They invited us in.

1:37:20 Caller Yeah, they rolled out the...

1:37:22 Caller It was a mutual thing.

1:37:23 Drew It was a mutual thing.

1:37:24 Caller Right.

1:37:24 Adam They laid down and we walked over them. I'm curious here. Now, the screen says foursome.

1:37:32 Caller Well, yeah, yeah, yeah. Okay, okay, okay. So, so now, we'll call my girlfriend Star, her friend Summer. Then we have her other little friend, we'll call her Winner, who heard about it.

1:37:48 Adam He's banging all the seasons.

1:37:49 Caller Oh, yeah. It's going to be a fun party anyways.

1:37:51 Adam There's three of them?

1:37:52 Caller Well, now, now, we'll save Winner, talking to Star, whatever. Anyways, she heard about this and now she wants in. Now, my girlfriend's two friends want to do the little Menage with Love thing with me. And I don't know if my girlfriend knows about the other girl knowing, but now it's going to be nothing but a pool of love going on.

1:38:22 Adam This turned into some sort of sexual pyramid scheme.

1:38:25 Caller Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah.

1:38:26 Adam This is great.

1:38:27 Drew There's only one person.

1:38:29 Adam That is a great idea. Do you remember those old pyramid schemes?

1:38:32 Drew Yeah, lots of them.

1:38:33 Adam You get a bunch of people together and everyone puts in a hundred bucks and I make the first grand and then Dooley makes the second grand and then you make the third grand and you have to keep recruiting people. I'd like to do this sexually. We have a big meeting at my house. I get to bang everyone and then whoever Dooley gets in after that, he gets to bang them.

1:38:54 Drew You know what I'm saying? A lot of sex when one person is getting screwed and that's his girlfriend. Because that's going to end the relationship.

1:39:01 Caller She's all about it though.

1:39:02 Drew It's going to end the relationship. That'll be the end of it.

1:39:05 Caller You think so?

1:39:05 Adam John, what's up with you?

1:39:06 Caller You're really good looking?

1:39:07 Caller Oh, I'm a god damn good looking man. Let me tell you this guys.

1:39:11 Adam But that's it? Tell you what?

1:39:12 Caller Nothing more?

1:39:14 Caller And I was blessed very well. And not only that, you know, like most men say, it's not the size, it's the motion. And I have it all, you know, I have it all.

1:39:26 Adam What do you do? Do you deal coke too though? What do you do for a living?

1:39:31 Caller I'm a general contractor.

1:39:33 Adam Oh, that's painful.

1:39:34 Caller Yeah, it works. It brings in the money. Also, well anyway, so you think it'd be over.

1:39:38 Adam OK, so you got your contractors license.

1:39:41 Caller I got my contractors license.

1:39:42 Adam Really? 23.

1:39:43 Caller Yeah. And I got my I got my stuff together.

1:39:45 Caller No kidding.

1:39:47 Adam What did your dad have in the business?

1:39:49 Caller My dad is not in the business, but he has a friend, a close friend that got me into the business at a young age. So it helped. It helped.

1:39:58 Adam But anyway, it's not the same as my dad. My dad didn't know anybody. He had a friend who was a shrink.

1:40:05 Caller Well, it seems like you're doing very well now, but before you answer me, a while ago, you guys were people and whatnot. People were debating on whether you were the, what is it, Mr. Birchham? Is that right? Yeah. Okay. Well, and then you guys did that little roll, roll, roll your boat on the radio.

1:40:25 Adam Right. Right. Yeah. Yeah.

1:40:26 Caller Okay. Well, anyways, until the day I see both of you side by side.

1:40:31 Adam Okay. Well, listen, this is a national show. Birchham's a guy who does the morning show out here on camera. Very popular.

1:40:39 Caller Very popular.

1:40:42 Adam People confuse us. All right, Drew. Let me just talk to someone who's been on hold for 63 minutes. I feel sorry for him. Amanda?

1:40:50 Caller Yeah.

1:40:51 Adam Do long distance relationships work? No. No. And Julie says no.

1:40:56 Caller Believe me, hasn't been late in here.

1:40:57 Adam Nina's 17. What is the minimum age for one to get her tubes tied, wants to do it? I want to know. You're never too young. That's really my advice.

1:41:06 Drew I don't think somebody would do it at 17, though.

1:41:08 Adam It would be hard to do at 17. But, you know, rules were made to be broken.

1:41:19 Caller Loveline will be right back.

1:41:29 Guest Hi, this is Dan, Dustin, and Steve from the Cherry Poppin Daddies, and you're listening to Loveline with Adam Carolla and Dr. Drew Loveline.

1:41:38 Caller Yes, you is.

1:41:40 Adam Them Cherry Poppin Daddies are good guys, and hell with it.

1:41:44 Caller I love it, man.

1:41:45 Adam You do? Yeah. All right.

1:41:46 Drew I love all that swing stuff.

1:41:47 Caller I really do.

1:41:49 Adam Come on, let me tell you about House of Blues tonight. I didn't get a chance to do it, but Gary Busey and Blue Straveler and Buddy Holly's guitar, $250 grand he paid for that thing. You gotta get in acting. All right.

1:42:03 Caller See you tomorrow.

1:42:04 Adam Great. So, until next time, don't screw me up, Drew. This is Adam Corolla for Dr. Drew saying, Mahalo.

1:42:11 What's my dad doing in Israel?

1:42:31 Caller We now return you to your highly tested, regular...

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