Episode 1000754887299

1:01 Voiceover Listener discretion is advised.

2:03 Drew There's different kinds of psychics. There's people who can connect with people on the other side, which is what I do, and there's also people who just do psychic readings, which is foretell the future, tell you what you're headed for based on where you're at right now.

2:16 Adam I see. Now, can you do that as well?

2:20 Drew I do that all.

2:21 Adam So, what is your strength?

2:23 Drew My strength is connecting with people on the other side. People have crossed over, and a lot of the information that comes through tells me what I need to know about the person who's right in front of me, like you, for instance.

2:32 Adam How does that work?

2:34 Drew The mechanics of it, I'm not sure. Things just come to me.

2:38 Adam I understand that, but if you were talking to someone who was in my life, who passed through to the other side, like my cat Norman, for instance, what would that tell you about me?

2:50 Drew No, the cat wouldn't tell me anything about me. The cat would just tell me about the cat, and they wouldn't talk. They would just show me the cat.

2:55 Adam I see.

2:56 Drew The cat would show itself.

2:57 Adam I understand. I think Norman's in hell anyway. Do you talk to people in hell?

3:03 Drew There is no hell.

3:04 Adam No hell?

3:04 Drew No, hell is here sometimes.

3:06 Adam Oh, it's just Culver City?

3:07 Drew Not Culver City on earth. It depends what you want to make your life.

3:10 Adam Oh, I see. Culver City is some of the outlying areas. I know there's parts of hell in the valley. Chatsworth, Reseda, places like that.

3:17 Drew Yeah, it could be.

3:18 Adam Yeah, North Hollywood, where I grew up. But you take people and you read them psychically, but you also read their life psychically by people that have come and gone in their life, parents, loved ones, past relationships, things like that.

3:34 Drew And people that have crossed over, basically what we call it has died.

3:37 Adam Right. Right. That's how the laymen call it died.

3:41 Drew Exactly.

3:42 Adam So in your belief or your understanding, what happens when somebody dies?

3:47 Drew My understanding is that they leave the body, like the moment of quote, impact if they have an accident or if they die of cancer, just of old age, their spirit leaves the body. And the spirit is just like the oxygen in the air. You don't see it, but it exists. And it's the same thing. The spirit still exists, and it can communicate, just like through telepathy. If you've ever thought of someone and then they call you, you actually, you called them mentally. So the spirits speak to me, speak to actually everybody. People who have crossed over for you do speak to you, except you may not listen. You may not know that it's happening.

4:20 Adam Well, I didn't listen to a lot of them while they were here. So my feeling is why listen to them now that they're dead?

4:25 Drew Exactly.

4:25 Adam At least now I have an excuse. All right. So, and when did you discover you had this ability?

4:31 Drew Well, when I was really young, I knew things. I used to predict a lot of stuff, but I didn't call it psychic. I just knew things that occurred. But it wasn't until a friend of mine actually killed himself, that I sat down and I wrote conversations with the spirit world, which is 17 people who killed themselves, basically speaking through me, and I checked out all the names and details, and it turned out to be true. That was the first real connection.

4:56 Adam Isn't it true you just killed this person so you could talk to them? Or did they actually kill themselves?

5:01 Drew They killed themselves.

5:02 Adam They killed themselves.

5:03 Drew Yes.

5:03 Adam Well, it's very sad.

5:04 Drew Yeah.

5:04 Adam By now, are you a little bit crazy?

5:06 Drew No.

5:07 Are you?

5:09 Adam You know, I know everyone says, well, everyone's a little bit crazy.

5:12 Drew You're a lot.

5:13 Adam No. I'm medium. Then there's crazy. I'm not crazy crazy.

5:17 Drew How do you know if you are, though?

5:19 Adam I know. You know, like, I know that I'm tall. I know that my hair is brown. I know whether I'm sane or not. I know there's certain things I may be a little out there on, but generally, I'm not what you'd call crazy. Pain in the ass half the time, but not what you call crazy.

5:35 Drew You got it.

5:35 Adam A lot of the psychic people you talk to, they're a little out there. And maybe now you believe everyone has this ability to some degree or another.

5:44 Drew Well, we all have an ability to connect with the people that we love on the other side, not necessarily other people like a neighbor's father or something.

5:53 Adam I see. And is it the kind of thing someone can practice? Can they get in touch with their side, their psychic side?

6:02 Drew I just created a tape called Building a Bridge to the Other Side, and that's what it's about. It's about learning. It's the signals. It's noticing. It's so fast that it's easy to miss. When you get the instinct, when you hear a name, it sounds like I'm hearing it in my head, but it's like someone's calling your name from a distance.

6:18 Adam Now let me ask you this. Do the people have passed on to the other side? Do they have some insight? For instance, don't get on that airplane or don't marry this person. Do they? And if so, why the hell do they know?

6:34 Drew Well, it's like if you're in an airplane, you can look down and you see a broader space than if you're just walking straight ahead. That's how it has come through to me, is that they can see more about what we're doing. They're more objective. When we're involved in our lives, we don't see a lot of stuff. So they come through with things. I've had warnings. I've had things that come to pass. I mean, that's not the purpose of what I do, because I think every person kind of wants to learn for themselves. You can tell them, don't do it, don't do it. And if they need to go there, they'll go there.

7:02 Adam All right. So are you reading anything off of me as we sit here? You do.

7:09 Drew You're easy to read.

7:10 Adam Really?

7:10 Drew Yes.

7:11 Adam Now, why would I be easier than the average person?

7:14 Drew Well, because you pretty much, you know, some people try to hide it. It's like this. It's like you, what you're about pretty much is like on your sleeve. You just, you're easy to read. I mean, you're not really hidden. What you do is like a public thing. You're used to being out there. It's like your energy is more out there than someone who sits at home all day and doesn't talk to people.

7:34 Adam I see. So you're getting a read off of me. Do you have anything coming to mind?

7:39 Drew Well, the first thing that comes to mind with you, I was thinking about Valentine's Day and relationships with you, and kind of asking the spirit world about you and relationships, and they said, like a mess.

7:50 Adam Yeah. Well, then most people could cop to that.

7:53 Drew Okay. But not at this particular point. There's a feeling of that leaving a trail behind you. Whether or not you've left a trail behind you, there's like a leaving a trail behind you. That's what's coming through. Okay. Yeah.

8:06 Adam But I do see my problem with a lot of the psychic stuff is that when you talk to people in terms of, well, you know, you're a creative person, but your job doesn't really give you that outlet right now.

8:18 Drew That's general.

8:19 Adam Right. Everyone says yes when you say you've had some relationships in the past, you've left a trail behind you. Those are things that most people...

8:26 Drew That's a messy trail. Not everybody does.

8:28 Adam You take any guy who's in his mid 30s who's not married and you can say, safely, the guy's probably had a little bit of a trail.

8:35 Drew Yeah.

8:36 Adam That's easy. That's deductive reasoning.

8:38 Drew Yes.

8:38 Adam That's not necessarily glimpsing at his soul. That's more something I could figure out about a guy. Show me guys 36, not married and dresses poorly. I'm going to show you guys got a trail. Do you see what I'm saying? I'm looking for specifics and here's what I'm saying. I generally don't believe in the whole psychic thing. I don't believe in them moving on. I don't believe in, and I don't know if you believe in this, the reincarnation. The reason I don't believe in the reincarnation is because there just wasn't that many goddamn princes back then. Everyone was some form of royalty. No one shoveled crap 200 years ago. They all were something noble except for they're doing something crappy now. I never buy into that because the math doesn't work out for me. It doesn't seem like there's enough good enough gigs back there for everyone to be a noble man or a knight or a maiden or whatever the hell a great poet whatever they claim to be it all sounds like sort of narcissism to me but and I lost my train of thought thanks I shouldn't I shouldn't have drank that I forgot to do you know but what I'm saying is is like to me you die you're dead I believe it's it's more the ego that doesn't want to let us go and when I'm talking about my skepticism with psychics I want to know why you guys can't pick a Super Bowl and a lot of people can't you see this is the thing and then yeah no they can't well then they haven't they don't okay the next Super Bowl I'll pick a Super Bowl if you're gonna pick an earthquake you know four years from now why not just pick the Super Bowl for me and make me some money where were you talking about psychic in general not about me so next year you want me to predict the Super Bowl I'll do that for you I'm saying if you could go to the track and pick the winner of a race you wouldn't be sitting here and is that the purpose of psychic stuff is it you think that's what the spirit world wants us to come and do pick the track now that's something you do on weekend so you wouldn't have to sit here in front of me no but this is my love I mean I love doing this I love and what you're saying about you know there's two different things there's a psychic and then there's mediums and basically it's when you bring through people if you I don't know if you listen to my demo tape but if you bring through people that crossed over you tell people names you tell people details and you you tell people things that there's no logical way of knowing right you could say well how does she get that I mean I'm not here to prove it to you it's just the experience of having a quote reading and there are a lot of psychics that are full of you know yeah there's a ton and it kind of ruins the I hate the word psychic because of that but what what is a hokey what about the thing that always makes me skeptical is this sort of very general nature of the information a lot of times a lot of times it is but not why is the communication so broken up it's not so broken up it's like for example from the spirit world you get sounds it's like it's like imagine from where they're communicating it's like a really long distance call so they'll say a name to me like a JA the two initials JA. Why don't they just give you the whole name?

11:32 Drew They do give me the whole name. Yesterday on the radio this guy I said who's Jim? Jim's coming through he's your dad. The guy's like yeah he's my dad and I told him how he crossed over and I told him when he did and I told him details.

11:42 Adam All right all right well you may be different we'll we'll find out tonight I'm just saying in general people are piecing together something when I hear these guys some of these more famous guys what's the guy's name is his name Prague Jameson Prague yeah he's got a show coming out or something like that he's fishing he always looks like he's fishing it always looks like he's doing a car trick to me meaning my grandfather who was someone who's passed away you can find him later probably talking to you now tell me quiet down I'm doing the talking my grandfather used to do this thing where he'd say hide your keys in the room somewhere and he will lead you to the keys and what he would do is he would hold your hand and he would walk you around the room and he could feel and if something had to train at and something had to be skilled at just like a magician or someone who did sleight of hand he could tell by your little motions and your body language and your gestures where the keys were and he would magically find them but it was you who led them based on him doing a sort of hunt and peck sort of feel absolutely and when I see these other people not you of course but these other people do this it always seems like they're on some sort of expedition they're fishing my thing is like don't give me the J don't give me the A give me the guy's goddamn name either you're talking to him or you're not right but something see this is the thing it's just like in life some people communicate better than others so if your grandfather wasn't a great communicator he's not going to be one on the other side either and that's why what do you mean well because if they don't communicate well I get people with different languages what are they supposed to speak English all of a sudden well that's my point though either I speak Japanese or I don't if I don't speak Japanese I don't understand anything that's going on but if I do speak Japanese I do understand not bits and pieces or little J's and A's.

13:22 Drew Right but you see this is the thing the logical mind doesn't understand that we're talking about you're talking about me talking to people who are no longer in a body so until we're no longer in a body I really can't judge if they give me a piece and they give me more details and I'm very specific when it comes to details because I hate that as well as you just said I hate the general all right well we'll we'll put you to the test tonight. You do that.

13:44 Adam All right all right we'll plug your book too for for me bugging you now let me see so the deal is everybody we don't obviously have Dr. Drew here tonight we don't have an MD we just have me in a medium so you're really you're really up ass creek without a paddle but we'll see we can pile through some of these calls and if some people have calls about you can do this via the phone right?

14:10 Drew Yes I do.

14:11 Adam Some people who've had loved ones pass on maybe we can get some insight to that. All right let's just start at the top here. Sandy?

14:21 Yes.

14:22 Adam You're 21?

14:23 Caller Yes.

14:24 Adam What's up?

14:26 Caller I'm married and I think my husband's trying to control me.

14:31 Adam I see.

14:31 Caller Trying to mold me into what he wants me to be.

14:35 Yeah.

14:36 Caller And he does little things. He's over controlling and he's not here at the moment. He's overseas and I want to break it off with him but I want to know if it's just me being paranoid, scared or being stupid or if it's really him that's trying to do something.

14:55 Adam What's he doing? What's he doing overseas? In the military?

14:58 Caller Yeah.

14:59 Adam All right. So he's probably not the world's greatest guy, right?

15:03 Caller No. You see, he puts up this front. He will be your best friend. He will talk to anybody and everybody like he's known them for years.

15:11 Adam Yeah.

15:12 Caller Yet when I was like eight or nine months pregnant, he said, let's go out to eat and I said, okay, that's cool. We're getting ready and he says, now, can you please keep it between us? Like you know, don't involve anybody else in our conversation. You know, just let it be me and you.

15:28 Adam Yeah.

15:30 Caller And then at the restaurant the whole night, it ends up him talking and messing around with the waiters.

15:36 Adam Oh boy. A big deal. That doesn't sound like it. That's your example?

15:41 Caller Well, his brother, one time when I first got to meet his family, he came up to me and he goes, what are you doing looking at my brother like that for?

15:52 Adam His brother came up to you and then he accused you of looking at his brother. Yes. Well, okay, he's an idiot. Why did you marry him?

16:02 Caller Because I was stupid.

16:03 Adam Okay.

16:04 Caller And I want to make sure that, you know, because we have a son together and he just does things like that.

16:12 He'll pick me out, make up for it.

16:15 Adam Right. Then he talks to the waiters. Listen, how old is he?

16:19 Caller He's 30.

16:20 Adam All right. Lysa, you getting a vibe?

16:22 Drew I'm getting a strong vibe. With you, first of all, the first thing I got from you is that you do, quote, fight back with your mouth. Okay. Does that make sense to you? Yes. Okay. Because what really came through is you've got a mouth on you, which is not an insult. It's just what I got from you. And like a lashing out at him and a lot of screaming. And basically, he does his thing, you do your thing. But the thing is, is that you get something out of staying in this. Partially, it's the complaining, you know, there's something about that that you've been going on with. Because the truth is, if you don't want to be married, you cannot be married anymore. Him trying to control you, it's, I'm not picking up that he tries to control you. I pick up that you don't, he doesn't do what you want and you lash out.

17:04 Adam Wow, what do you mean? He went to a restaurant, said, let's be quiet, and then he ordered.

17:09 Drew Yeah.

17:09 Adam I mean, come on, he talked right to the waiter.

17:12 Caller No, he wasn't actually, he had the waiters in the conversation last weekend.

17:17 Adam All right, listen, Sandy?

17:19 Caller Yeah.

17:19 Adam Listen, it doesn't take a psychic to figure out both of your pain in the ass. And I don't mean to be so rude, but That's fine. You're not giving, I mean, you sound a little angry, and maybe that's rightfully so, and maybe you should be angry at him, but it sounds like you're angry at men too. Is that true?

17:39 Caller Yes.

17:39 Adam Yeah, where's your dad?

17:41 Caller He's in California.

17:43 Adam What kind of guy is he?

17:46 Caller I go to work, take care of my family, strong, stern, keeps to himself.

17:52 Adam Does he drink?

17:54 Caller He drinks a beer here and there.

17:58 Adam Was he good to you growing up?

18:00 Caller Yeah, he was good.

18:01 Adam He was good? He wasn't distant? He wasn't absent?

18:05 Caller He keeps himself at a distance.

18:07 Adam I see.

18:07 Caller He keeps himself, I'm a father. That's it.

18:10 Adam I see. All right. It just feels like there's some strain in that relationship. Seems like there's something missing here.

18:17 Caller Well, there's one more thing that really gets to me. A year ago, around this month, I was diagnosed with herpes. And we've been married three years at the end of this next coming up month. And I've been faithful to him this whole time. And the doctor said that usually that kind of sexual disease, whatever, is contracted within ten, maybe a week or two within sexual intercourse. And I've been faithful to my husband this whole time. And it was two years into our marriage that I come up with this.

18:55 Adam Yeah, so maybe he was unfaithful.

18:58 Caller And he is so jealous.

19:01 Adam Alright, alright. Listen, you two hate each other. So get a divorce. And then you can hook up another guy and complain about him.

19:10 Caller I don't want to hook up another guy.

19:11 Adam Alright, good. But listen, be a good mother, would you?

19:15 Caller That's what I'm trying to do. I'm trying to get myself on my feet so when he comes back, I'll say see you.

19:21 Adam The spirit world says good. What do you think of that big homo Kenny Kingston? You don't like him, do you?

19:27 Drew I don't know anything about him.

19:28 Adam Oh, sweet spirit. Sweet, sweet spirit.

19:32 Drew Let me say something to you real quick. See, when a person starts, basically all I need is a person to ask a general question because if she starts talking, of course she's going to read into things that she says. It doesn't take a psychic. But if she just says, tell me about my relationship, then that's when I do my work. Well, I understand.

19:47 Adam We'll get some of those.

19:48 Drew Thank you.

19:49 Adam Don't you worry about it. You'll have your time to shine.

19:51 Drew Thank you.

19:52 Adam Be in the one o'clock hour. Tom, you're 15. What's up?

19:57 Caller I'm 15 and I have a two inch dick.

20:01 Adam I see.

20:03 I was wondering if there's any way to make it bigger. Is it something or should I just wait?

20:08 Adam Yes. Can you channel John Holmes to see if we can get some advice?

20:11 I was going to say wait for what?

20:13 Adam You're waiting for it to get bigger?

20:15 Yeah.

20:15 Caller I'm just kind of waiting, hoping and praying.

20:18 Adam I see. Do you think God answers those kinds of prayers, ones that make your Johnson bigger?

20:23 I hope so. Yeah.

20:24 Adam He's not usually at the top of his priority list, the make the genitalia bigger for the screwy teenagers. I'm sure if you pray enough though. Tom, how big is your penis when it's erect?

20:38 Probably four inches.

20:39 Adam All right. That's not too bad. You're fine. I've labeled this a bogus call, by the way, so I'm not going to spend too much time on it. Now, Lisa, you want to pick a call? You getting any vibes off any of these calls here?

20:52 Drew There's somebody who is a, I would say, African American, it feels like.

20:57 Adam No. That's out of our demo. We don't want blacks listening to this show.

21:00 Drew Stop it.

21:01 All right.

21:01 Adam Are they calling in?

21:03 Drew Yeah, they're calling in.

21:04 All right.

21:05 Adam Let's see if we can find this person. Jennifer?

21:09 Yes.

21:09 Adam Are you black?

21:10 Caller No, I'm white.

21:12 Adam What are you? You may be close.

21:14 Caller I'm white.

21:15 Adam You're white? Okay. That's too far away. Indian, I would have gone with, but hold on. Let's see if we can find a black caller. Joey? Yeah. Are you black? All right. Hold on a second. Let's talk to Emily. Emily?

21:29 Lysa Mateu Yeah.

21:29 Adam You're not black, are you?

21:31 Lysa Mateu I'm part Native American.

21:33 Adam That's close. So is Cher, though. We're not talking to her. Hold on a second. All right. You're hearing an African American.

21:41 Drew I was not hearing. It was early. I'm not sure if anyone hung up, but there was a feeling about that.

21:45 Adam I see. Kathy?

21:47 Yeah.

21:48 Adam Are you black?

21:48 No, I'm white.

21:49 Okay.

21:50 Adam Well, let's get back to the half Indian. All right?

21:52 Okay.

21:52 All right.

21:52 Adam That's close. Hold on a second. Hold on. Anderson, what did you say, by the way? All right. Let me speak to, I'm quite down in there. Anderson, Emily?

22:05 Lysa Mateu Yeah.

22:05 Adam All right. What's up?

22:07 Lysa Mateu Okay. I'm 17, and I've never had a boyfriend at all.

22:11 Adam Wait a minute. Wait a minute. Anderson's right. Hold on a second, sweet spirit. I didn't read her question. She had a question. You're reading it off the screen.

22:17 Drew I'm not even looking at the screen.

22:19 Adam You read it earlier. Kathy? I wasn't. You have a question about a black man? Yeah. Of course. Okay.

22:25 There you go.

22:26 Adam How stupid of me. Go ahead.

22:28 I'm 17 and what I've noticed is that only older black guys are attracted to me. I have never been able to attract like a white 17-year-old guy.

22:38 Adam Uh-huh. So you just-

22:39 It's a complete phenomenon to me. I never talk to them. They just come up to me and start talking to me.

22:46 Adam And you're just dating guys like Ike Turner mainly?

22:52 I mean, I don't date them. I talk to them. But that's how that comes up to me. I never get anybody else. Yeah.

22:57 Adam How old are these guys?

22:58 They're usually 26, 27, 28. All right.

23:01 Adam You don't like them?

23:02 I mean, they're attractive, but I just want somebody my own age.

23:06 Adam You want a nice fresh white guy?

23:09 Not really, but just somebody who's 17 or 18 or something.

23:13 Adam All right. You're going to high school?

23:14 Yeah.

23:15 Adam Okay. You'll find a guy.

23:19 It's been going on since I was like 14.

23:21 Adam Well, eventually, you'll be 28 and then you'll be begging for the older black guys. But I mean, you're in high school. There's plenty of guys in high school, right?

23:29 Yeah.

23:29 Adam Do you walk? Are you sort of open? Do you know what I mean as far as your body language and stuff?

23:34 Yeah. I mean, it's not like I hide or anything. It's like everybody could see me.

23:38 Adam All right.

23:39 You know that I'm there, but it's like nobody ever approaches me. Only those guys.

23:42 Adam Lisa, you getting any kind of vibe off of Kathy? Yeah, Kathy.

23:45 Drew I'm getting pretty much you acting like a victim. Okay? And it's not an insult, but it's kind of like you're just sitting back waiting for something to happen as opposed to going for what you want. So because basically that's what you're attracting because that's what you're like open for. So it's up to you to go out there and just go for what you want instead of waiting around for whatever comes up to you or whoever comes up to you.

24:04 Adam All right. You got to get proactive there, Kathy. All right there, sweetie. Enjoy. Good luck with the white guys. All right.

24:10 Thank you.

24:11 Adam There's plenty to go around.

24:13 Thank you.

24:13 Adam All righty. Lisa Matteo is our guest tonight. She's a psychic spirit medium. She wrote herself a book, Conversations with the Spirit World. Wrote it after one of her good friends committed suicide. Then you were able to communicate with that friend. Fantabulous. We're here with her tonight. We're answering your questions that have to do with love, relationships, and maybe just questions about the dearly departed. Right? Phone number 1-800-L-O-V-E-1-9-1. We'll take a little break. We'll be back after this. Hey, Loveline, I'm Adam Carolla. That's where Dr. Drew would be sitting, except for he's passed over to the other side, the other side being New York, hoaring himself out for a buck. Phone number 1-800-LOVE-191. Lisa Mateu is our guest tonight on this fantabulous Valentine's Day. She's a psychic spirit medium. She's the author of the book Conversations with the Spirit World. She also has a website which is www.channelingspirits.com. And on that website, what can you find?

25:54 Drew Oh, you can find so many things. You can find details about how to connect with the other side yourself. You can set up a reading with me by phone. You can also do that if you call 310-820-711.

26:07 Adam Yeah, man, go ahead and pimp. That's fine. I mean, you know, you come out here, you polish your crystal ball and get some numbers out. Well, you know, it only gets weird when you pretend like you're not doing it.

26:20 Lysa Mateu Of course.

26:21 Adam So, since you're psychic, you know what I'm thinking. I'm thinking pimp.

26:25 Lysa Mateu Okay.

26:26 Adam I have no problem with that.

26:28 Lysa Mateu You got it.

26:29 Adam Let's see if we can, again, we don't have an MD here tonight, so we're going to see about channeling, and that's a good choice of terms, some of our calls toward the psychic world. This is Kim. Kim is 30. Kim?

26:43 Lysa Mateu Hi.

26:43 Adam What's up?

26:44 Lysa Mateu I had a question for Lisa. It was in regards to two people who have deceased.

26:50 Lysa Mateu There have been like little incidents that have happened.

26:52 Lysa Mateu They just kind of, in regards to them, that have made me wonder if it's them like just saying that, hey, we're okay, or whether it's just, they're just coincidences that things have happened. That kind of remind me of these two people.

27:07 Drew Okay. The number one thing regarding, just in general sense, regarding people who have crossed over, they do send you signals. So sometimes they'll use the light, sometimes a song will come on the radio. They can affect things. Usually when you get the instinct that you feel them, it's like feeling somebody staring at you and they're pretty far away. You just can feel it or you can sense. You're usually correct with that. So that's on a general sense number one with that. What I'm picking up with people who have crossed over for you, there's somebody who is... There's a male coming through right now and it's the feeling of that... And he's saying like there's someone with a DA. Now it's either them or someone here.

27:39 Okay?

27:40 Drew Okay. What does that mean to you?

27:41 DA.,

27:41 Lysa Mateu dad.

27:42 Drew Okay.

27:43 Adam Well, that's easy.

27:44 Caller Come on.

27:45 Drew It could be anybody. Do you understand that?

27:47 Caller Right. Yes, I do.

27:48 Drew Thank you. And there's the feeling that whether or not there's a choking or something around him with either the choking or the... It's really hard for me to breathe right now. So, it's a feeling of like there's some kind of either collapsing something with the lungs, either choking or collapsing with the lungs.

28:05 Adam I broke wind. That may have something to do with it. No.

28:08 Drew He's in the moment here, okay. Does that...

28:13 Lysa Mateu He had a heart attack.

28:14 Drew Okay.

28:15 Lysa Mateu There's...

28:17 Drew whether or not there is a... All right. If there's a question mark around his crossing, okay, it's almost like whether or not there's something else that occurred in conjunction with the heart attack, okay.

28:32 Lysa Mateu What do you mean?

28:33 Drew There's a question mark. There's like the heart attack, but something didn't make sense. There's something that didn't make sense about how he crossed over, whether or not the doctor... There's something that didn't make sense. That's what's coming through.

28:43 Adam Do you... Is that true, Kim?

28:47 Lysa Mateu The only thing... They ruled it as a heart attack, but they didn't do any type of autopsy and they just kind of took it as that, that it was a heart attack because he had a ventricle and it goes by him, so I don't know if that's true or not.

28:59 Adam Well, sure. I mean, that's what his business partner did to make it look like a heart attack. Listen, I'm with Elise on this one. But, look, you want to know if he's okay?

29:09 Lysa Mateu Yeah, and there was someone else, too.

29:11 Adam I don't know if she can pick up on that. First off, he's dead, so he ain't in great shape. No. I mean, you're not that good when you're dead, are you?

29:18 Lysa Mateu Right.

29:19 Adam So Elise's not alive. We can rule that part of good out, right? But for a dead guy, he's doing great. Fantastic. I hope I do that good when I'm dead. Now, are you getting any vibe from how he's doing? He's getting along with the other dead people? Is he making friends? Does he know like Abe Lincoln? What do you want to know?

29:41 Drew Funny. You're funny.

29:42 Adam Well, he's dead.

29:43 Caller What do you want?

29:45 Drew People ask me, are they okay? It's like, yeah, I feel the same way. Yeah, they're okay. But you're more asking about the signs that they're giving you, okay?

29:53 Caller Right.

29:53 Drew And it's a feeling with him, there's a feeling of a presence around you, and it's also affecting things. The other person that's coming through is another male, but there's like a younger male, okay? Does that make sense to you?

30:03 Caller Yeah, it's my brother.

30:04 Drew Okay. And there's the feeling of that, whether or not he was a, quote, kidder, like the kind of, I would call it like a jokester, but he's calling it like more of a kidder, something about him that's like a kidder. I don't know if that makes sense to you.

30:15 Adam Did your brother pass away?

30:17 Lysa Mateu Yes, he did.

30:18 Adam Well, what happened to him?

30:19 Lysa Mateu He had cancer.

30:20 Adam How old was he when he went on to the other side? Wow. Very tragic.

30:25 Drew Okay.

30:26 Adam And was he a screwball?

30:28 Lysa Mateu Yeah, he liked to tell jokes, kid around and stuff.

30:31 Adam Aha. And how's he doing?

30:35 Drew He's doing fine.

30:36 Adam Is he with the dad?

30:38 Drew Well, they're coming through together, yes. Like the minute she asked about the people on the other side, immediately there was a two-man presence. Doesn't mean there's not other people, but they came forward. And there was the father, where I said the DA, and then there was someone younger. There was like the younger male.

30:51 Adam So, we did get that. And so, I mean, if I die, I have to spend eternity with my family, or can I avoid that?

30:59 Drew I don't know about that, because I've gotten people who are married that didn't like each other when they were married.

31:03 Adam Listen, when I go, I'm getting my own path.

31:05 Lysa Mateu Okay.

31:05 Adam I mean, I'm going to live with my folks for a while when I'm dead.

31:08 Drew Okay, so you don't have to pay rent.

31:09 Adam Six months, get back on my feet kind of thing. You know, it's going to be tough to get a gig when you're dead.

31:13 Lysa Mateu Yeah, that's true.

31:14 Adam I'm sure I can still work for Westwood One in some capacity. As soon as I get a gig, I'm back out again. I'm on my own. I got my own coffin, maybe a mausoleum. I'm going to step up to something nicer, get a few roommates, live in a nice mausoleum. All right, let's see if we have some other questions here for Lisa. Jennifer? You're 20?

31:37 Caller Yes. What's up?

31:39 Lysa Mateu I was just wondering, well, see, my family is really angry because my grandfather died two weeks ago. He had cancer and he was 82, but he ended up shooting himself and he did it while my grandmother was home. Well...

32:00 Drew There's something that he took with him. It's the feeling that he took with him.

32:04 Adam A shotgun shell?

32:06 Drew No, no.

32:06 Adam I don't know.

32:07 Drew It's almost as if his crossing over has stopped something. It's like whether or not it was a will or something that his crossing over kind of stopped the process of. Because he's saying like took with him, unless it was just him taking himself out. But no, it's like the feeling of that he took something with him. I'm not sure what that is.

32:27 Lysa Mateu Well, see, my grandma has Alzheimer's disease and she was the only one that was home with them and she said that he took her out and stuff and was just like, had her look at all these things like he was going to kill her too. But then he sent her.

32:45 Adam What do you mean? What do you mean had her look at all this?

32:48 Lysa Mateu Turn around and stuff and then he was just like, then he was like all of a sudden he's all go in the house.

32:53 Drew So that's what I said a moment ago. I said take her out, I mean take him out. So that's what he was talking about because that was what I was getting about that.

33:00 Adam He took something with him.

33:02 Drew No, no, when I said take, first I heard took him with him but then I heard instead of taking himself out, so then she just said he was going to take the grandmother out. There was something about that.

33:11 Adam So it was like he threatened the grandmother but didn't do it.

33:14 Lysa Mateu Yeah.

33:15 Adam Why are we angry at him?

33:16 Lysa Mateu The family is angry because he did it while she was home by herself, like with him.

33:22 Drew Yeah, but he did it to make a statement. You know, he did it to make a statement.

33:26 Adam Really? What the hell kind of statements is he making? Well, he's dying of cancer.

33:30 Drew Well, it doesn't matter. If he's dying of cancer, like exactly, he did it in front of people. This doesn't take a psychic. It takes... the logic is that he does it in front of her. He wants her to see. He's making a statement about it.

33:41 Adam Well, Jennifer, I agree he didn't handle this the right way, but he should have taken her and dropped her off somewhere or something, right?

33:48 Lysa Mateu Well, what I'm thinking is I think he should have OD'd or something on pills because then she'd think that he just didn't wake up because he was 82 years old, you know?

33:58 Drew Right, but he didn't want a chance living.

34:00 Adam I see. And what did he do? He just shot himself in the head?

34:03 Lysa Mateu Yeah, with a shotgun.

34:04 Adam Oh, and what's psychic about that shotgun shell? Oh, boy.

34:10 Caller Oh, my God.

34:11 Adam Baby, don't laugh now.

34:12 Caller Jesus.

34:13 Adam Well, I did say shotgun shell. Not everyone takes themselves out with a shotgun.

34:18 Lysa Mateu Huh.

34:19 Adam All right. Hey, Jennifer, this is sad, and I feel bad for, you know, the family and the grieving and all that. He probably, what, he had a few months left to live?

34:30 Caller Yeah, like...

34:31 Adam So it's kind of bad because here you are, you die. Everyone should be mourning your death. Instead, they're pissed off because you basically did it in a way that horrified other family members and screwed up the grieving process.

34:44 Drew But even your grandmother is not so aware of what actually occurred. She's kind of in and out of that, right?

34:49 Adam Yeah.

34:50 Drew Yeah, because she's, you know... I'm not demeaning, I mean, I'm not trying to make less of what happened, but she's not fully aware of what really happened anyway.

34:57 Adam All right. Well, so it's, you know, good times. Good times. Let's talk to CJ, he's 23. CJ? Yeah. What's up?

35:06 Oh, I just had a question for the psychic lady there. I'm a new man. I really don't believe in psychics, man. They're too general for me, too.

35:12 Adam All right. You're such a skeptic. You're calling the show.

35:15 Yeah, I know. I'm terrible.

35:17 Adam Yeah. What's up?

35:18 Well, I met this girl a while back, and she was separated with her ex-husband, or not ex yet. Still legally married, but separated. And we kind of talked and fell in love, I guess, so to speak. And she's not carrying my child, except she's a thousand miles away from me right now. And she has three kids of her own from her previous marriage.

35:41 Adam Hold on. I'm getting, I'm looking at my crystal ball. I'm getting white trash.

35:45 Right now.

35:46 Adam Are they closed?

35:47 Not even.

35:48 Adam Driving El Camino. No.

35:49 I wanted to know if, if, you know, my dad's, my family that is dead right now, who can see this picture like from an airplane so they can see a broader spectrum like she said, is because she left me about three times before to go back to her ex, so she didn't lose her kids. Yeah. If they kept holding the kids over her. Yeah. If you leave him there, you're going to lose your kids. And I guess she wasn't strong or not, but, you know, she moved out of her ex's house finally and back to her parents. And we're thinking about getting married. And I'm wondering if she's going to be strong enough to move out here to Albuquerque with me.

36:26 Drew Well, the first thing I'm picking up is somebody with a bad temper. So it's either you or her husband or ex-husband, whatever you want to call it. That's like the bad temper. Okay. Does that make sense about you or about him?

36:36 A little bit of both. He does have a temper. He was abusive.

36:39 Drew Well, that's what I call it. I mean like a bad temper. I'm seeing that because I'm seeing her staying because of fear. There's like a fear factor as opposed to what you said is just about the kids. No, there's like a fear factor. It's almost like he's been telling her things about leaving more than just about the kids. Okay? Because from you, I'm picking up there's a... It's almost like if she wanted to, she could walk all over you and not that that's her intention but you're like the nice guy. There's like the nice guy with you. Okay? And whether or not that has... It doesn't mean you have to start not being nice but that in relationships with you has kind of... women have taken advantage of that. Does that make sense?

37:15 Oh yeah, I've been married before, yeah.

37:17 Adam Your wife took advantage of you?

37:19 Yeah, make sure I have a big time.

37:20 Adam I'm getting a aquavelva smell. Is that such a cologne?

37:25 No, I don't wear cologne.

37:26 Adam High karate, nothing?

37:27 Nothing.

37:27 Adam Yeah, see maybe if you start putting some cologne on you could get some chicks. What's your problem? You smell like beer all the time. All right, so what's going to happen? You're going to tell him what's going to happen or what he should do?

37:38 Drew Well, see what's going to happen is based on what he does, okay? Basically for you, I don't really see, I see this one kind of staying apart for a while, okay? I don't see it really going together. She's got to, she's not ready to leave permanently.

37:50 Adam Thank God that you guys had that kid, Eugenius. Listen, look, you don't need a psychic for this. This chick screwed up. She's a, her husband's abusive. She's freaked out. Her dad was probably abusive before him. There's probably some alcohol or substance involved here. It's not that she's got to be with him or she's not going to get her kid. She could easily get divorced from this guy and get custody of her kids. She can't do it. She's not into CJ. She's into him, sort of, but then goes back to the abusive guy because her dad was abusive. She doesn't have that strong, deep rooted attraction. All right, so what's he going to do? I don't know. I think he dodged a bullet here. I'm sorry he had a kid with her. I don't know if he wants to spend the rest of his life with this screwed up chick and the four kids. He should look into himself and figure out why he's attracted to these types of women and what he's doing not to keep them. All right, we'll take ourselves a little break. Lysa Mateu is our guest tonight. She's a psychic spirit medium and if you have any questions for her on this Valentine's Day, you can call us up after this. Hey, there, psychic friends, it's Loveline. I'm Adam Carolla. That is not Dr. Drew. The sweet spirit known as Dr. Drew has passed on to the other side, the other side of the Atlantic Ocean, or Pacific. I guess it would be the Atlantic. There he is. I guess he's in New York, and he's pimping something. God knows what. We don't care because life is for the living over here at Loveline. Lysa Mateu is our guest tonight. She's a psychic spirit medium. She's the author of the book, Conversations with the Spirit World. She has herself a website.

39:35 Drew www.channelingspirits.com. I'll be doing some book signings in March, so check out the website. It's on there.

39:42 Adam That's right. Tonight, we're going to flavor the show that way. Since we don't have an MD here, we're going to swing the questions a little more toward the psychic realms. So, why don't we talk to Taylor? Taylor is 15. Taylor?

39:58 Lysa Mateu Hi.

39:59 Adam What's up?

40:00 Lysa Mateu Lisa, I had a friend commit suicide two years ago, and I was just wondering some things like why she did it, and if she regrets it, and if she's in a place that when I die, I'm going to see her again.

40:13 Drew Okay. Two things about that. The questions like that, I mean, any answer that I give you, you won't be able to validate. Okay.

40:22 Lysa Mateu Well, I'm not expecting. I'm just curious, you know.

40:25 Adam Well, listen, can't you blow a little smoke up her ass so she can enjoy her life?

40:29 Drew She can enjoy, she does enjoy her life. Okay. You do enjoy your life.

40:33 Adam She didn't mean to commit suicide. She is happy where she is. And yes, there's a place for you.

40:38 Caller All right. Thanks.

40:39 Drew Thank you so much.

40:40 Adam No. Just know her something good.

40:42 Drew I'm going to tell her something good, okay? The most important thing for you is that it's almost as if more than just finding out, there's like something hidden, whether or not she kept things very hidden as opposed to someone who is blatantly, outwardly depressed. There's like a hiding, some kind of hiding with her. I don't know if you know that about her. Does that make sense to you?

40:59 Caller Yeah, a little.

41:01 Lysa Mateu Like, she told me, like a few weeks before she did it, that she was feeling really depressed and she was scared. But other than that, she didn't really talk about anything like that.

41:11 Drew I'm talking about the way she showed it to the world, like other people, like in public, as opposed to... Yeah, that's what I mean.

41:16 Lysa Mateu She never...

41:16 Drew She didn't show it because I'm seeing it like it was hidden from...

41:18 Lysa Mateu She was a really cheerful person.

41:20 Drew Okay, exactly, because I'm seeing this opposite. And this sounds general, who's the blonde, but I'm seeing the blonde, so I'm not sure if that's you or her. That could be darker hair, but I'm seeing there's somebody with the blonde that she's mentioning.

41:30 Lysa Mateu She was blonde sometimes.

41:32 Drew Okay.

41:34 Lysa Mateu Her sister's blonde.

41:36 Adam I'm seeing either...

41:38 Drew It's you or her, I said.

41:40 Adam I'm seeing either a rope, a gun, pills...

41:43 Drew Oh, stop it...

41:44 Adam .or water in her suicide. Was it any of those things? No. How did she kill herself?

41:50 Lysa Mateu She killed herself by hanging herself by a rope.

41:52 Adam Yes, yes.

41:53 Drew It wasn't a rope. My God.

41:54 Adam When I say rope, I mean metaphor for hanging. What did she hang herself with?

41:59 Lysa Mateu Phone cord.

42:00 Lysa Mateu Daha.

42:01 Adam Yeah, I see. I see. That's what I've seen. When I see rope, I mean hangman's noose. You don't see a phone cord hanging. I'm seeing like a drawing. You see what I'm saying? It's the way the spirits speak to me. I love you, by the way. Thank you.

42:14 Drew There you go. Your love life is going to heat up.

42:16 Adam She really hung herself, huh? Yeah. That is, I would think, an unusual way for a woman especially to kill herself.

42:24 Drew Actually, a lot of them do hang themselves, believe it or not. Guns is the least. I mean, guns is like the man.

42:30 Adam Guns, what I mean is for women, from what I know is they go in sort of less violent ways. ODs, things like that. Some of them, too many bonbons, something like that. Something of a less cruel way. But her, she must have been hopped up on drugs or booze or something.

42:50 Drew That's what I heard.

42:50 Adam I'm not sure though. Yeah, I mean, she's got to be out of her mind.

42:52 Drew She was also on medication. She was also on some kind of medication.

42:56 Adam All right. So anyway, do you hold yourself responsible for this in any way?

43:01 Lysa Mateu I feel a little bad that she told me about it, that I could have done something more. But other than that, I don't think I've ever...

43:06 Drew But she told you she was depressed, okay?

43:07 Adam She didn't tell you she was going to hang herself.

43:09 Lysa Mateu She told me not saying that. She was really scared. And I told her to get some help, but I feel I could have done something more. Right.

43:15 Drew But she didn't tell you she was going to kill herself with a phone cord.

43:17 Lysa Mateu No.

43:17 Drew She didn't. Okay. So she just... Okay. I'm all right, though.

43:21 Lysa Mateu Okay. I just want to know if she's all right now.

43:24 Adam She's great. She's never been better. How old was she, though?

43:28 Lysa Mateu She was 14.

43:28 Adam Oh. 14.

43:30 Caller My God.

43:32 Lysa Mateu She had a hard life.

43:33 Drew And she's somebody that they always said was always smiling, because I'm seeing this like this, always smiling, always smiling.

43:38 Lysa Mateu Oh, that's in her obituary.

43:41 Adam Really?

43:41 Lysa Mateu Yeah.

43:42 Adam It said always smiling?

43:43 Drew So explain that.

43:44 Lysa Mateu Not like always smiling, but just said her cheerful smile.

43:48 Adam Well, because people that are walking around miserable, depressed, and complaining that they're going to kill themselves, are intervened upon. They don't get away with it.

43:56 Drew Of course, they do.

43:57 Adam No, they don't.

43:58 Drew My friend was depressed.

44:01 Lysa Mateu She was a very cheerful and happy person, and she was just like that. Yeah, but there was things about her life that really screwed her up.

44:12 Adam Well, listen, Taylor, I'm sorry this happened to her and to you. You will be together with her, not anytime soon. It will be about eight months, but not in the near future. No, you got years and years. But don't worry. When you see her, wait a minute, that's a good question. And Taylor kicks off at 85 and this chick's 14. What are they going to talk about? You know what I mean?

44:34 Lysa Mateu Yeah, I know what you mean.

44:36 Adam I crap myself. I want to go see and sing. You know what I mean? Like what are they going to do?

44:41 Lysa Mateu That's a good question.

44:42 Adam To be able to hang?

44:43 Drew That's a good question. I do not have the answer to that.

44:46 Adam That's a really good question. Do you age in the spirit world? Are you about the same age you were?

44:51 Drew You know, there's been babies that have crossed over and they just show me themselves as like a baby. I haven't seen anyone like get older because you wouldn't recognize it. No, the babies don't talk, they just, I didn't see them.

45:00 Adam And when you go over old, you got to spend the rest of your life that way or the rest of your non-life that way, right?

45:05 Drew No, I don't. I'll tell you when I get there.

45:08 Lysa Mateu I'll contact you if I go first.

45:10 Adam That's not a bad argument for not kicking off at 14, but late 30s, early 40s.

45:16 Drew You know, I'm going to say is you don't want to be 90 and stay that way.

45:19 Adam You want to spend eternity with loss of bowel control. You know what I mean?

45:23 Lysa Mateu Definitely not.

45:23 Adam You're crapping all over heaven.

45:26 Drew You want to have lots of friends.

45:27 Adam Right, yeah, you want to have friends. All right, let's see if we see some of the calls for Lisa over here. John?

45:36 What's up?

45:36 Adam You're 22. What's up?

45:37 Caller Yes, I am.

45:39 I'm just curious. I kind of wanted to communicate with my grandma. She passed on like three to four years ago, and I'm just curious. You see, I'm really into the whole spirit thing. I believe a lot in everything. I'm just the opposite of you, Adam. I believe in everything that happens in everything. But I just... I often feel like I'm communicating with my grandmother, but I feel like I need the proof.

46:05 Adam The spirits have told me you're gay. Is that true?

46:08 Yeah. Thanks a lot, bro. No, sorry.

46:10 Adam Really?

46:11 No.

46:12 Adam Jesus. He's wrapped up in talking to his grandma. Really? At least by, right?

46:18 No, not by.

46:20 Adam I can't figure this one out. I'm confused.

46:22 Drew Who's the, like, the, I don't know, the name Lainey or something with Lainey, like an LA name, someone with the, it's either an L or an LA name. It's not her, but she's saying something with the L or LA name. And I hate saying grandma's with knitting because it seems like every grandma knits, but she's showing me something with that, like making things, whether or not she used to make things. Does that make sense to you?

46:42 Adam No. She never made anything?

46:46 Drew No, no. The making things, both of them. The LA is here. Someone she's referencing, the name that begins with an LA. Not her, I said.

46:55 Right. No, it doesn't ring anything.

46:57 Adam Come on, John. Play along, buddy. We'll send you out a book.

47:00 I'm working, man. I'm searching everything.

47:01 Adam What about the knitting? She ever make one of those tea cozies or anything? Nothing?

47:08 No, no.

47:09 Adam All right. Hold on. Hey, John?

47:11 Yeah, what's up?

47:12 Adam All right. Now listen.

47:12 Drew Is your mom's here?

47:14 My mom is here, yeah.

47:15 Drew Good. Go home and ask her who the LA, the name begins with an L-A, okay?

47:20 Adam Hold on, John.

47:21 Caller Hold on a second.

47:22 It's my dad's, not his family.

47:24 Adam Hold on. We got to take ourselves a break here, John?

47:26 Yeah.

47:27 Adam Here's what I want you to do. I want you to think real hard about LA. I don't care if it's the middle initial of some guy you work with. I want you to work it into something that works here, all right?

47:35 Drew No, don't.

47:36 Adam Because you're making an answer to the guest.

47:37 Drew No, you're not.

47:38 Adam Hold on a second. I'm sorry. I've got to apologize for her. He'll think of something.

47:43 Drew No, he doesn't.

47:44 Adam We'll take a break. John, you squeeze that LA into something.

47:47 Drew You're in big trouble now.

47:48 Adam He is calling from Burbank, which is in Los Angeles. It's not that. It's the name.

47:52 Drew First two letters of the person's name.

47:53 Always.

47:54 Adam All right. We'll take a break.

47:55 We'll be back. Call on the 1-800-LOVE-191. With Dr. Drew and Adam Corolla on New Rock 104.

48:28 Adam Howdy there, kitties.

48:30 Caller It's Loveline.

48:32 Adam I'm Adam Carolla. Dr. Drew is somewhere better tonight. He's in a better place. Probably Ramada Inn, sleeping somewhere. Tomorrow night, Dano and Allison are going to be in here from Temptation Island. Anyone who's been watching the phenomenon known as Temptation Island will recognize those names. They'll be in here tomorrow night. We'll talk to them. And tonight we have Lysa Mateu. Lysa is a psychic spirit medium. She's authored the book, Conversations with the Spirit World. You want more information, you contact her on her website, which is www.channelingspirits.com. There you have it, everybody. All right, let's get back to the phones. 1-800-LOVE-191. Again, we're skipping some of the medical questions tonight in lieu of taking some psychic questions on Valentine's Day. Joey, you're 18.

49:26 Caller Yes, sir. What's up? Well, I'm married, and I have a 10-month-old son. Well, about two weeks ago, my wife told me that she cheated on me.

49:38 Lysa Mateu Did I say affair?

49:39 Adam No, you said he was gay.

49:40 Drew I did not. I was now the affair.

49:42 Adam Oh, I'm sorry. I thought you said gay.

49:46 Caller Throughout our whole relationship, she's pretty much wanted to go hang out with other guys and all that stuff. I've always tried to be trusting and understanding.

49:56 Adam Did she tell you she was having an affair or did you catch her?

49:59 Caller She told me. After it happened, she said that she was with another guy that she had been going over to his house. Like at first, he was supposed to be babysitting for us.

50:11 Adam I see. Did they break things off?

50:15 Caller Yeah. She told me that she doesn't want to have anything to do with him. The only problem is she works with him. I can't really trust her on that.

50:24 Adam I see. And how old is she?

50:28 Caller She's 18.

50:29 Adam I see. So you're both 18. You have a 10 month old. You got started pretty early.

50:35 Caller Yeah.

50:35 Adam And she's a little chaotic, right?

50:38 Caller Yeah. I think when I got us an apartment and got us out on our own, she pretty much wanted to go buckwild.

50:46 Adam I see. All right. And I mean, here's the deal. You guys can salvage the relationship if she wants to do that. Do you think she wants to do that?

50:57 Caller I'm not sure. At first, you know, when she first told me, you know, she convinced me to, you know, give her another chance. You know, she begged, pretty much begged me. But like, you know, since then, she's been kind of, you know, will screw you.

51:14 Adam I see. Like that. All right. Do you want to get a divorce?

51:18 Caller At when I first heard it? Yeah. And then, you know, she convinced me and I thought about it for a day or two. And, you know, decided with the baby, I wanted to try and make it work out.

51:28 Adam How about you guys try out some counseling or something like that?

51:32 Caller Well, she's been talking to a pastor or something. Yeah. Or she was supposed to, but I haven't heard anything else about it.

51:42 Adam What does she do for a living? Where does she work?

51:44 Caller She works at Century Express, which is like a work for Lefthansa Cargo.

51:50 Adam Man, she works at a cargo place. And what's the guy do? He works there too?

51:55 Caller Yeah, he's in the warehouse.

51:56 Adam I see. Do they have, is it a big place? Do they have much contact?

52:01 Caller I'd say they probably do. The way the office is, he probably has to come in and out to get what forms he needs to load and all that.

52:10 Adam Yeah, can she work on finding another gig?

52:14 Caller She's doing that now.

52:15 Adam All right.

52:16 Caller But she's been acting real lately.

52:19 Adam Yeah. Well, listen, Joey, this is why you don't have kids in Mary Screwballs, you understand?

52:25 Caller Yeah.

52:26 Adam She's a chaotic broad, right? She's got some problems. You're 18. You're not really equipped to deal with this stuff. But you have a kid and you have to take care of this kid. And whether you're chronologically an adult or emotionally adult, it's not really the issue. The issue is you got a 10-month-old kid and you have to do everything within your power to make a good stable environment for the kid. And that means you guys getting into some counseling, maybe she gets into some individual stuff to work on some of her demons. And I would say getting another gig. I wouldn't want her working around the guy she's having the affair with and she probably shouldn't be.

53:03 Drew No, but she wants out. And I, you know, she does. She wants out and she's looking for a way out and it's not it's She wants out of the relationship or she wants out of the relationship. But you know, she's finding a way, you know, one of the ways that she thought she'd get out was by cheating. She thought that would be enough and it's not enough.

53:18 Adam Why did she beg to get him back?

53:20 Drew Because is the fear of losing but also wanting out. She wants out. I guarantee you, you call back like 10 months from now, she's out. She wants out.

53:27 Adam I see. I think she wants chaos, which is temporarily wanting out. Listen, she wouldn't beg to come back in.

53:35 Drew Of course she would. It's like the fear of yes, she would.

53:37 Adam Listen, if she met this guy, hold on, stop shaking your head over there. I'm talking to the peanut gallery. I don't need coaching from behind the guests. Don't think I don't see that, Sarah. I think she obviously comes from a lot of chaos in her life or she wouldn't be pregnant. So, you know, 16 and a half, 17. She wouldn't be married at the 17, 18 years old and she does one out at times. But then she wants to keep the cycle of chaos alive. So, she gets back in and then steps out again. She is stepping out and she is causing.

54:10 Drew She will be out.

54:10 Adam Oh, listen, this thing ain't going to last. The over under is about eight months. But I'm saying if she wants out, she would go with this guy she was having the affair with. Why didn't she just stay with him?

54:21 Drew Because she doesn't want to be with him. She just wants out.

54:24 Adam Why did she beg to come back to him?

54:26 Drew Because she wants it. She's also afraid of leaving. She's going to be out.

54:28 Adam Well, then that's not wanting out.

54:29 Drew She's going to be out. She's going to be out.

54:31 Adam Listen, everything's going to... Your marriage is going to be over in two years. What are you talking about? Of course it is.

54:37 Drew No, it's not.

54:38 Adam Let me talk to Joey for a second. Joey?

54:40 Caller Yeah.

54:41 Adam Did she beg to come back?

54:43 Caller Pretty much. I mean, she didn't flat out get on her knees, but...

54:47 Adam Why don't you... She gets on her knees. That's a good sign. Why don't you ask her... Why don't you give the opportunity? She felt bad. Why don't you say, do you want out of this thing? And if you do, say it and see what she says, all right?

55:01 Caller Well, she's also picked a couple of fights with me since then.

55:03 Adam Yes.

55:04 Caller Threatened divorce and...

55:05 Adam Okay. Well, maybe she does want out. I know she's real chaotic. Whatever it is, whether it's her out or her in, if she's in, she's got to work. You both have to work at it, all right? All right. Okay. Listen, everybody. Don't get married at 17 and a half. Don't knock your high school sweetie up when she's 16 and a half. Don't do it. This is it. That's right. This is what your life is. You're living with a drunken, pippy, long stocking. She's screwing around with the guys at work. She's totally chaotic. Kids aren't going to help. They're not going to stabilize. Please, everybody. I like to sue these people. I really would on behalf of the United States and the taxpayers. Emily?

55:53 Lysa Mateu Yeah.

55:53 Adam You're 17?

55:54 Lysa Mateu Yes, I am.

55:55 Adam What's up?

55:57 Lysa Mateu Well, first off, Adam, I just want to say you're a genius.

55:59 Adam Well, thank you.

56:00 Drew Just discussing that?

56:01 Adam The psychic knew that. I was explaining to the psychic that I was a genius just a few minutes ago, was I not? You were.

56:08 Lysa Mateu You were.

56:08 Adam Thank you very much. Go ahead, Emily.

56:10 Lysa Mateu All right.

56:10 Lysa Mateu So anyway, I'm 17 and I've never been in a relationship at all and what?

56:17 Adam Hold on. The spirit's telling me I'm fat. Is that? I'm not fat.

56:20 Drew She's not fat.

56:22 Adam I'm just kidding. Go ahead.

56:23 Lysa Mateu Anyway, so I just get crushes on guys a lot. They kind of turn not obsessive but a little bit.

56:33 Adam Right. But are there guys that are interested in you that you're aware of that you're not interested in?

56:40 Lysa Mateu Not that I know of.

56:41 Adam There's never been a guy that's been some nerdy guy with an AV windbreaker on who's interested in you.

56:48 Lysa Mateu When I was in kindergarten, this kid used to chase me around and try to kiss me.

56:51 Adam Aha!

56:53 Lysa Mateu No.

56:53 Adam That's when I'm counting when they're in diapers, for Christ's sake. So nobody in high school, nobody asks you do they have junior prom or the snow dance or anything like that?

57:04 Lysa Mateu Nope.

57:04 Adam And why is it you think guys aren't asking you out?

57:07 Lysa Mateu I don't know. Maybe they're threatened. I don't know.

57:12 Lysa Mateu I'm not like mouthy. I'm not quiet or anything.

57:15 Adam Yeah? Are you too aggressive?

57:18 Lysa Mateu I don't think so, no.

57:20 Adam What do you do at school? What do you play sports? Are you a good student? What do you do?

57:24 Caller I'm in choir.

57:25 Adam You're in choir?

57:26 Caller Yeah.

57:26 Adam Oh, yeah. Guys love a chick and a big mumu. Big shiny mumu singing. You get any vibe off of this?

57:34 Drew Yeah. It's interesting when you said that you're not... I don't think you're mousy, but you do keep to yourself. There's definitely this stay away from me energy going on when it comes to men. It would be more like a shyness, like a shutting down when you're around somebody that you do like, that you have an interest in. Okay. So what that does, you know it's just shyness, but to them, it looks like you're not interested.

57:55 Lysa Mateu Really?

57:55 Drew Okay. So if you're shutting down like that, you need to kind of allow your feelings for someone to be shown. You don't have to be outrageous about it, but do not hide it because if you hide it, they can't find it. They can't see it.

58:07 Lysa Mateu All right.

58:07 Drew All right. Because you've been hiding it too much and then wondering why no one comes after you.

58:11 Adam I agree with Lisa. Start wearing tube tops. There you go. All right.

58:15 Caller I also have another question.

58:16 Caller Yeah.

58:17 Lysa Mateu My best friend's dad died like two years ago and I was just wondering, Lisa, if you could like talk to him or anything and see if he has a message for his daughter.

58:27 Drew Okay. What I'm getting and this sounds so graphic. I hate to say like dropped it, but there's a feeling of that he just boom, like was just gone. Okay.

58:34 Lysa Mateu Not really.

58:35 Drew Okay. That's what I'm getting.

58:36 Adam I'm getting an L and an A.

58:38 Lysa Mateu Listen. Listen.

58:39 Drew A commenter of me. Okay. The feeling that he just was like just gone like in a moment. So whether or not it's not that... Yeah. He was just like gone. So for her, you can ask her about this, that there was no preparation from her part to say goodbye to him. Okay. Even though she spoke with him, it was like just sudden.

58:57 Adam How did he die?

58:58 Lysa Mateu He had cancer.

58:59 Adam Oh. Well.

59:00 Lysa Mateu For like a couple years.

59:01 Adam Well, a couple years. I mean...

59:03 Drew And the moment that he died, was he expecting it?

59:04 Adam In terms of the Earth's calendar, you know? The moment.

59:07 Drew It wasn't expected. It was like just he heard that he died.

59:10 Adam He knew. Oh, she knew he was going to die. Two years, for Christ's sake. Look, you don't bat a thousand. That's fine.

59:16 Drew No.

59:16 Adam Let this one go.

59:17 Drew It's not about that.

59:18 Adam This was a slow, long, lingering death. No, it wasn't. You couldn't have been further off on this one.

59:22 Drew No, it wasn't.

59:23 Adam Listen, even Mark McGuire strikes out every once in a while. They're not all home runs. We'll get it back on the next call, baby.

59:28 Caller It's not about being a home run.

59:29 Drew It's about what occurred.

59:31 Adam You can ask her. Maybe you need to let go.

59:33 No.

59:34 Adam Let go.

59:34 Drew That's fine.

59:35 Adam This guy died over the course of two years.

59:38 Drew You don't die over the course of two years. You die in an instant. You understand?

59:41 Adam Okay. Listen here. You must start playing that card, please.

59:44 Lysa Mateu Isn't it true?

59:46 Adam Of course it's true. You got a safe dropped on you. You die in an instant. You have cancer for 20 years. You die in an instant. You always die in an instant.

59:53 Drew That's right.

59:54 Adam That's the most retarded argument I've ever heard.

59:56 Drew No. But it wasn't like she was sitting there expecting him to die at that moment.

59:59 Adam Yes, she was. She was sitting in the hospital room. Well, it's true. She expected him to die 15 minutes later. Come on. She's sitting in the guy's hospital room while his body's being eaten by cancer. That's the worst argument I've ever heard. You got to let this one go. That's all right. You're bad about 800% here. That's not bad. It's not about me.

1:00:18 Caller Okay?

1:00:18 Adam It's about selling the book.

1:00:19 Caller It's not about selling the book.

1:00:21 Adam Let this one go. Hold on. The spirits talk to me. They said they're all wrong.

1:00:24 Caller They don't talk to you.

1:00:25 Drew They definitely don't.

1:00:27 Adam That's why I have these headphones. No. These headphones are for the spirits.

1:00:30 Drew No. You'd have arguments with them. They wouldn't talk to you.

1:00:32 Adam All right. Emily?

1:00:33 Caller Yes.

1:00:34 Adam She's a million miles off of this one, right?

1:00:36 Drew Well, I don't know.

1:00:38 Caller Okay.

1:00:38 Adam Thanks for being so kind. Where are those tube tops? Talk to those guys. Right, baby?

1:00:42 Lysa Mateu Where are the tube tops? Thanks.

1:00:43 Adam Well, I know it's Chicago in the winter, but you got to give a little if you want to get the boys. You understand?

1:00:50 Lysa Mateu Yes.

1:00:50 Adam All right, baby.

1:00:51 Lysa Mateu All right. Thanks a lot.

1:00:51 Adam Take care of yourself. All right. That's all right. We all miss a few. Let's see if we can get back on the next one. All right. Any vibes off any of these numbers here? Any lucky numbers here?

1:01:02 Drew Numbers?

1:01:02 Adam Yeah. I'm looking at the board here. Do you see anything you like? Look at the screen here. Do you see anything speaking to you? There's some questions here. Ann here has a question. She wants to know if she's going to hook back up at the ex-lover. That sounds like a good Valentine's Day one. Why not? Hey, Ann.

1:01:19 Lysa Mateu Hello.

1:01:19 Adam You're 28.

1:01:21 Lysa Mateu Yes.

1:01:21 Adam What's up?

1:01:22 Lysa Mateu I just want to ask Lisa a follow-up. She found anything since... It's been about eight years and we recently started talking again. And I was interested in whether we could get back together.

1:01:37 Drew Okay. The first thing I'm picking up with you is that...

1:01:39 Adam I'm getting quite loose.

1:01:41 Caller That's what I was going to say.

1:01:42 Adam Is that what you're getting? We're both agreeing on that. The spirits fell asleep.

1:01:46 Lysa Mateu And I'm tired.

1:01:51 Adam All right. So let me get this straight. You're 28. You're with a guy like eight years ago.

1:01:57 Lysa Mateu Girl.

1:01:58 Adam Yes?

1:01:58 Lysa Mateu Girl.

1:01:59 Adam Oh, a girl. A girl. I'm sorry. Eight years ago, you were with a girl and you have a relationship and then you break it off.

1:02:08 Lysa Mateu It was broken off eight years ago.

1:02:10 Adam I see.

1:02:11 Lysa Mateu So eight years have passed.

1:02:12 Adam Right. And now you're back in touch with the person?

1:02:15 Lysa Mateu Yeah. You know. Yeah.

1:02:17 Adam Yeah. I'm sorry we called you this late. You idiot. Would you wake up?

1:02:22 Lysa Mateu Exactly.

1:02:23 Adam You're calling from LA, right?

1:02:24 Lysa Mateu Yeah.

1:02:25 Adam All right. So 11.15. You all right?

1:02:27 Lysa Mateu Fine.

1:02:27 Adam All right. Pep up, baby. All right. So now you're back in touch with her, right?

1:02:32 Lysa Mateu Yeah.

1:02:33 Adam You want to know if something's going to happen? There could be more sparks. What do you think?

1:02:36 Drew Okay. Well, first of all, and like, this doesn't take a psychic to say what I'm going to say. It just takes logic. Your attitude even with being late, there's nothing to do with it. It's more passive. Like you're waiting to see what's going to happen as opposed to deciding what's going to happen. Okay? Like she's like, you're waiting to see what's going to happen based on her taking action as opposed to you deciding that you want a relationship and going forward.

1:02:57 Lysa Mateu Actually, I have decided that and I am doing that. I just want to know if it's the right thing to do.

1:03:01 Drew Okay.

1:03:01 Lysa Mateu I am going forward with it.

1:03:03 Drew But your question about whether or not it's going to work, okay, doesn't put you in the driver's seat. There's like a she decides whether that's been the question with the relationship in the past, that she was doing all the deciding about whether to end it or whether to be with you. Does that make sense?

1:03:17 Lysa Mateu Yeah.

1:03:17 Drew Okay. And so for you, it's about stepping up into the driver's seat and going forward with this and having it be, it's not like you would control it, but it's almost what she's looking for. You were way too passive in the past. Like she could just bulldoze you. Does that make sense? Yeah. Okay. So it's like you taking a different stance here. It's kind of like meeting your match. I mean, she doesn't want to be with someone who she can bulldoze. Not that that's the purpose, but you need to kind of step up to the plate. And yes, it will work in that respect. And actually, I'm not sure if you really want to be with her once you start getting what you want from her. You know, you may be very surprised about if she's the kind of person that you really want to be with long term.

1:03:51 Lysa Mateu Have you chosen to?

1:03:53 Drew Yeah. But you definitely need to step up. That's just your own growth, like not being passive and stepping up for yourself.

1:03:58 Caller All right. All right. Thank you so much.

1:04:01 Adam All right. I'm going to play a little psychic hunch here because the spirits are speaking to me.

1:04:05 Caller All right.

1:04:05 Adam Let me guess what you do for a living. I got narrowed down to two things, either auction livestock or you're a carnival barker. Is that one?

1:04:15 Caller Am I right?

1:04:16 Lysa Mateu Neither.

1:04:17 Adam Neither. Latte, those spirits.

1:04:20 Lysa Mateu I'm somebody's boss.

1:04:21 Adam Somebody's boss?

1:04:22 Lysa Mateu Yeah. I'm the boss.

1:04:24 Adam Boss of one retarded guy or? No. The whole office?

1:04:27 You woke her up though.

1:04:28 Adam Yeah. Okay, baby. I wish I had a boss like this. Say, Adam. Yeah? Come in my office. Yeah? I forgot. Go get lunch. That would be a great boss, wouldn't it? I'd like to have an innocent boss. Hey, I got an assignment.

1:04:46 Caller Yeah?

1:04:51 Adam Why don't we nap on this one? Okay. That's good. All right. Let's see. Let's talk to... You're slowly redeeming yourself.

1:05:00 Drew I don't have to redeem myself.

1:05:01 Adam No, you don't have to prove anything to anyone.

1:05:02 Drew That's right.

1:05:03 Adam Oh, you chicks are the same. You wear the lingerie for you. It's not for anyone else.

1:05:07 Drew No, that's not true, actually.

1:05:08 Adam It makes you pretty.

1:05:09 Drew No.

1:05:09 Adam You do. You wear it for other people?

1:05:11 Drew No, you wear it for other people. My husband...

1:05:13 Adam Right...

1:05:14 Drew .that's person. Right.

1:05:15 Adam Okay. That's good. I'm glad you can admit that. Most women buy lingerie for them. So they can feel pretty. You understand? Yeah. You buy it so guys can see your mince around in nice panties, right? That's right.

1:05:27 Caller Of course.

1:05:28 Adam Sara?

1:05:29 Lysa Mateu Yeah.

1:05:29 Adam You're 17. What's up?

1:05:31 Lysa Mateu I am recently. I lost somebody who is really close to me. And I was wondering if maybe you could tell me if they're okay, or if they found some kind of peace and if they're around me at all. And if, you know, misses me, misses my family.

1:05:47 Drew Okay. The first thing that, and one thing when spirits come through, they don't necessarily come through in the order that you're asking for. Okay? It's kind of like the leader comes through first because there's a feeling of someone being, all right, this is a different kind of thing. Whether or not something caused this person's, it's like they said taken from you. So it's the feeling of that some, something like an impact, an action, something caused this person's death as opposed to their own actions. There's like, they're making it, no, this person has something to do with their death actually.

1:06:14 Adam Oh really?

1:06:15 Drew Yeah.

1:06:15 Adam Switching gears.

1:06:16 Drew Okay. Yeah. I was saying that and then the spirits were like, no, that they were involved in this, meaning that they brought it about, not necessarily a suicide, but they brought it about, like their actions brought about their death.

1:06:27 Adam Bungie jumping.

1:06:29 Lysa Mateu Well, I guess it's both.

1:06:31 Drew I can see. It's okay.

1:06:32 Lysa Mateu Because he did commit suicide.

1:06:33 Drew Okay.

1:06:34 Lysa Mateu So it's both.

1:06:35 Adam Well, that ain't both. He killed himself.

1:06:36 Lysa Mateu Yeah.

1:06:36 Drew So why do you say both?

1:06:37 Lysa Mateu Actually...

1:06:38 Lysa Mateu I mean, his actions, I guess, led up to it in a way.

1:06:40 Adam What do you mean his actions led up to it?

1:06:42 Lysa Mateu Well, he was going through some problems with alcohol. And, you know, he just felt really guilty about everything that had happened.

1:06:52 Adam And when did he kill himself?

1:06:55 Lysa Mateu Exactly one month ago.

1:06:56 Adam I see. How are you doing, by the way?

1:06:59 Lysa Mateu It's been really hard.

1:07:01 Adam Yeah, I mean, have you gotten therapy for this, by the way?

1:07:04 Lysa Mateu Yeah, yes, I'm going.

1:07:05 Adam Good, because this is like, you know, you can have a lot of, you know, trauma from something like this.

1:07:11 Lysa Mateu Yeah.

1:07:11 Adam Okay.

1:07:12 Drew I'm not sure if you would look, what's coming through is someone, something about looking through his stuff, something about looking through his stuff. And he's also saying the initial D, which is not necessarily for, it's someone with the D either here or across or over, that's coming through, that's saying D, like a D, that's what I'm getting with that. It's not him. There's the feeling of, does that make sense? Also looking through his stuff, I don't know why, whether or not you have his, there's something about looking through his stuff. I don't know what that means.

1:07:36 Lysa Mateu Like that we have or that we need to maybe?

1:07:39 Drew No, no. There's a feeling of like someone either spends a lot, a lot of time reminiscing, looking, like searching through his things, like a lot of time, more than just putting his stuff away and using it, like not looking at it.

1:07:50 Lysa Mateu Yeah, he played the guitar and I played the guitar, too. I play his guitar all the time.

1:07:54 Drew No, but that's not what I'm talking about. No, no, no, no.

1:07:57 Adam Saxophone, bass?

1:07:58 Drew No, no. It's not even an instrument. It's like looking through his stuff. Like they were looking for something, like looking for, I don't know, something. Like searching. It's almost a feeling of like searching for it, either an answer within his stuff. Does that make sense to you? Like looking through his stuff, that's all it's coming through with that.

1:08:13 Lysa Mateu That he's looking through?

1:08:14 Drew No, you were looking through his stuff.

1:08:16 Adam Listen, you didn't go through his trunk and discover anything.

1:08:20 Drew It doesn't have to be even you. It's like they were looking for an answer.

1:08:23 Lysa Mateu He wrote me half of the note.

1:08:25 Adam Really?

1:08:26 Lysa Mateu Half, yeah.

1:08:27 Adam Why half? I know you don't know.

1:08:29 Lysa Mateu He wrote it while he was in the hospital. And then he left and he just never finished it.

1:08:36 Adam Did he, how did he kill himself?

1:08:39 Lysa Mateu He shot himself.

1:08:42 Adam And so he was in the hospital for what?

1:08:44 Lysa Mateu What happened was, I came home and I found him on the floor. And I didn't know what was wrong. I called the ambulance. I didn't know that he was drinking. So, and I thought he'd had a heart attack. And once I called the ambulance, it was just because he had drank so much. If he had one more drink, he would have been dead. And he went through rehab and he went through detox. And we told him that he had to keep going through it. And he just, I don't think he thought he could finish it. And he was supposed to go to the rehab center, but instead he went to Las Vegas.

1:09:16 Adam And he killed himself.

1:09:17 Lysa Mateu In the hotel room there, yeah.

1:09:18 Caller Okay.

1:09:19 Drew What is with the, I don't know, if he injected drugs, I'm seeing something with the arms and injecting.

1:09:24 Lysa Mateu Yeah.

1:09:25 Drew He injected drugs in his arms?

1:09:26 Caller No.

1:09:27 Drew What's he injecting then? What am I seeing?

1:09:29 Lysa Mateu There was a lot of medication injected into him, like, that really made him depressed.

1:09:34 Drew Oh, he was injected, because I was seeing injecting, so I didn't know what that meant, okay.

1:09:37 Adam All right. Well, Sarah, listen, I know you want to know, you know, what he's doing in the afterlife and all that other stuff, but you need to focus on you and your counseling and your therapy. I mean, this is a huge, huge thing to deal with at your age, at any age. You understand? And it has all kinds of feelings that surround it and feelings like maybe could have done something or something. This guy had a disease and he couldn't beat it, and it ended up taking his life. And it has nothing to do with you. And I'm sure he loved you. Yeah. And you cannot... He would want you to have a good productive life and good relationships and do well in school and excel and exceed in life. You know what I'm saying? I mean, the greatest tribute you could pay to this guy is having a good life. It really is.

1:10:32 Lysa Mateu Is he sending any kind of message to you at all?

1:10:35 Drew It's interesting. Actually, what Adam just said is what he's sending. It's really important for you to do that.

1:10:40 Adam Don't go to junior college is what I'm picking up from him right now.

1:10:43 Drew Yeah, that's exactly how it's going to work.

1:10:44 Adam Yes. Stay in school. Deal with the grieving. It's way too early to even pretend like you can get passes.

1:10:51 Drew But also, I just want to say, I want you to... I guess it is pimping, but it's also helping. My book is about that. It's Conversations with the Spirit World. It's 17 people who kill themselves and what they have to say. So that you can get on Amazon. But that can help you out.

1:11:06 Adam How did you know? Did you know all these 17 or just the one?

1:11:09 Caller All one. Okay.

1:11:12 Adam All right. I may kill myself later on. You make it 18. You can do a revision to the book. Don't you want to go for 20? Why 17? The book seems a little light.

1:11:20 Drew There are certain things that I don't have to answer.

1:11:22 Adam Okay.

1:11:23 Drew How old are you?

1:11:25 Adam 33. Oh, so I thought you weren't going to answer that.

1:11:28 Drew Very good.

1:11:29 Adam We'll take ourselves a little break. Lisa Mateu is our guest tonight. She's a psychic spirit medium. We will come back with more of your questions after this. Loveline, I'm Adam Carolla. That is Lysa Mateu. Lysa is a psychic spirit medium. She's authored herself a book, Conversations with the Spirit World. If you want more information about how to obtain that book, you can look her up on her website.

1:12:32 Drew It is www.channelingspirits.com.

1:12:37 Adam That's right. Now, tonight it is Valentine's Day, and what we can do is instead of taking the MD questions, we will take the psychic questions because that's where we are feeling strongest. Let's talk to Lou. Louis19, Lou?

1:12:50 Caller Yeah, hello?

1:12:51 Adam What's happening there, Lou?

1:12:52 Caller Yeah, I have a question for the psychic about the whole soulmate concept. I want to know what she thinks about it because I've had some experiences, which I believe is a soulmate.

1:13:08 Drew Regarding the soulmate, it is basically like this. Some people think that they wait their whole life for someone to show up and they're going to just know it. I do believe that. That's what happened with my husband. You just know. But a lot of people waste their time with someone who's not right trying to make it right. So there is a sense of ease that comes when you meet a friend, for example, and it just works. You just get along. It's not all this trials and craziness. That's a sign that the relationship's off.

1:13:33 Adam What if you're like me and you've had 14 soulmates? Can you have more than one soulmate?

1:13:39 Drew Well, you just proved that you can if you call them soulmates.

1:13:41 Adam Yes.

1:13:41 Drew But are they your soulmate? How would you know they're your soulmate? Oh, no.

1:13:44 Adam Wait a minute. Wait a minute. Wait a minute. Let me do the math here. I had eight soulmates. Six were cellmates. That's different, right? I think so. Big black guys. Yeah. Okay. That's different. Yeah. Only eight soulmates.

1:13:57 Drew Well, it depends what your definition of a soulmate is.

1:13:59 Adam Oh, it's nonsense. You know, Lou, when you're 19, you spend a lot of time thinking about soulmates. When you're in your 30s, all of a sudden, you stop talking about soulmates. Yeah. It's the a-hole who sleeps in the bed with me. That's the way you look at it. You stop looking at soulmate.

1:14:14 Caller Okay. Because my experience was, it all started back when I was in 10th grade. And this female, she used to write. She used to do a lot of writing. I'm into that stuff. And some of the stuff she wrote, I kind of was interested in it. But I never told anyone about this. I never told anyone about this.

1:14:39 Adam Lou, listen, if you're into her, soulmate or not, be with her.

1:14:46 Caller Yeah, but the thing is, this is kind of odd because I never had her for a classroom. But towards the end of the year, like in graduation, I wrote one of my poems and I gave it to someone so this person didn't give it to her and at the same time she wrote one to me.

1:15:08 Adam Oh, really?

1:15:08 Caller She did, yeah.

1:15:09 Adam Well, where is she now?

1:15:11 Caller Right now?

1:15:12 Adam Well, I don't mean this second, but in general.

1:15:14 Caller Yeah, she's going to college.

1:15:16 Adam I see. How far away?

1:15:18 Caller Same city.

1:15:19 Adam All right. Why don't you ask her out?

1:15:22 Caller Yeah, I have. I have written to her.

1:15:26 Drew No, no, ask her out. Ask.

1:15:27 Caller Yeah, but it seems like she's not ready.

1:15:29 Drew No, no, did you ask her out? How would you know she's not ready unless you ask? Using your mouth, not your hands.

1:15:35 Adam The pen is mightier than the sword, but the penis is mightier than the pen. See, it trumps the pen.

1:15:41 Caller Yeah, she said, you know, I'd be an interesting person to hang out with. I told her, you know, you seem like you'd also be interesting.

1:15:50 Adam Hey, Lou?

1:15:50 Caller Yeah.

1:15:51 Adam Let me douse a little tough reality on you and your soulmate-riddled life. This chick's either interested or she's not. I don't know what the answer to that is. Smart Money says no, but ask her out. Don't write her a poem. Don't write her a note. Ask her out, no uncertain terms. If she don't want to go out with you, that ain't your soulmate. All right?

1:16:10 Caller Okay.

1:16:11 Adam And then you move on. Lou, you're a virgin?

1:16:14 Caller No.

1:16:14 Adam You've had women before?

1:16:16 Caller Yeah.

1:16:17 Adam One?

1:16:18 Caller No, I've had like five.

1:16:19 Adam Five? Wow. All live?

1:16:23 Caller Yeah.

1:16:23 Adam Okay. Okay. So find yourself a nice woman. This could be her, but you don't know by writing her letters. Right.

1:16:33 Drew And also you have to be specific. Ask her like specifically. Like you want to go out Tuesday night at 8. Not just like I'd like to hang out with you. What does that mean?

1:16:39 Adam Yeah.

1:16:40 Drew Be specific.

1:16:41 Adam Yeah. I used to try to pull that move on chicks. I'd go, hey, I'd give real loose terms so they wouldn't back out. I'd go, hey, you want to, what about going out sometime, like some point, some indefinite time in the future? And they'd always be like, hey, yeah, sometime. I mean, not this month, right? No. Like sometime. And they'd go, yeah. And then I'd do it like stages, you know? And then I'd hit them up like a week later. Well, you know, how about that time is now, right? No.

1:17:11 Drew No, it was last week.

1:17:13 Adam I'm not so sure this chick's interested in Sweet Lou. Lisa? I mean, sorry, Jim? Yes. You have a question for Lisa?

1:17:20 Yes, I do.

1:17:20 Adam What's up?

1:17:22 Lisa, I've lost many family members in my lifetime, but there's only one of them that I really need to feel validation or I really respect the opinion of. And I was wondering if maybe you could try and channel and find out maybe if that dominant person comes to the front and speaks.

1:17:35 Drew Okay. The first person that's coming through is a male and it's a male that is above you, which would either be either an older brother, father, grandfather, but it's the feeling of it's a, he's making himself like a very, not only strong force in your life, but a strong personality, like a very, there's like a solidity to him. I don't know if that makes sense to you. Does that make sense to you?

1:17:54 No.

1:17:55 Drew There's somebody, let me just explain this to you.

1:17:57 Adam There's somebody coming through. Now down to 700, you're batting.

1:17:59 Drew No, just listen.

1:18:00 No, I'm not trying to add to the stab there.

1:18:01 Drew No, just, can you listen? There's somebody coming through, there's a solidity, it's almost the feeling of like he is a sergeant. There's this kind of military or this kind of general, whatever he was like in charge of something. That's who's coming through. Just because you ask for someone doesn't mean they come through first, okay? Because the person coming through is above you, it feels like either father, grandfather, and he's giving me the feeling of like a very solid, either a general or some kind of, that kind of, whatever he did for a living was like either a general or a marshal or something that he was the head of.

1:18:30 My grandfather was a drill instructor.

1:18:34 Adam That's pretty good.

1:18:35 It's not like he said, it's not who I was looking for. Exactly. What do you get?

1:18:38 Adam We get. Listen, let me tell you something about this psychic thing. It's like throwing spaghetti at the wall. You just see what sticks. You see what I'm saying? So your grandfather was a DI. Yeah. And he D.I.ed, right?

1:18:52 Yes, he did.

1:18:53 Adam But that's not the guy you're looking for.

1:18:54 No, actually it was his wife, my grandmother.

1:18:56 Adam I see.

1:18:57 Drew Okay, but so one person comes through first. He could give me a minute, then the other one comes through.

1:19:00 Adam No, you're back, you're down to 700.

1:19:02 Drew Why?

1:19:03 Adam Give me a break. 700, you said a man.

1:19:05 She said you don't get who you want, but...

1:19:07 Adam All right.

1:19:08 If she could work on her and try and bring her, you know, tell grandpa to get the military and step aside and let her talk.

1:19:14 Drew You know, his grandfather could have been like a shoemaker, okay?

1:19:17 Adam No, the drill instructor with the grandpa was not bizarre, but at least warm. I mean, there was something there.

1:19:25 Drew Yeah, just warm.

1:19:26 Adam That was pretty good. That's something you can cling to. It will last you the week.

1:19:31 Are you going to try it for grandma or not?

1:19:33 Adam No, I'm not trying for grandma. Yeah, she's going to try. Try for grandma. I'll take grandma for $400.

1:19:42 You said if you give me a minute, even though he was first, he might come third.

1:19:45 Adam Well, she got grandma now. Well, actually, you gave her grandma, but now we're on grandma. Can you focus on grandma?

1:19:51 Drew I can't focus on anything with all this creative stuff.

1:19:53 Adam Well, come on, focus now. Focus, focus, Damian, focus.

1:19:58 Drew Oh my goodness.

1:19:59 Adam I'll talk to Jim while you focus on grandma.

1:20:01 Drew You know what? You guys are missing the boat about what this is about. You don't understand?

1:20:05 Well, I've been married for a while and my grandmother died before I got married. We have two children and things are pretty good. However, I just wanted to know her feelings on whether she was happy, I was with the right girl or no, this isn't the one you should have picked or.

1:20:20 Adam She told me she didn't like kids.

1:20:22 Adam, I'm talking to her about it.

1:20:24 Drew That's what she said. You know what I'm going to do for you, okay? Yeah. Just give me a call.

1:20:30 What is your name?

1:20:31 Jim.

1:20:31 Drew Jim, my number is 310-820-0711. Just tell my husband Satori, I told you to call me. I'm going to just do a ten minute free reading for you, so I don't have to make a bizarre thing, like a circus ring about your grandmother because this is important to you.

1:20:44 310-8...

1:20:46 Drew 711.

1:20:48 Okay.

1:20:48 Drew Just tell Satori that I told you to call and I'll do ten minutes of free reading for you because he's going to make this into a circus and that's not what he deserves.

1:20:55 Like sometimes through the week or...

1:20:56 Drew Yeah, just tomorrow, whatever, and he'll make the appointment.

1:20:59 Okay.

1:21:00 Drew Okay.

1:21:00 Adam. Hey, Jim.

1:21:01 Adam Yeah.

1:21:02 Adam, you were talking about Temptation Island again last night instead of the West Wing. What is going on here?

1:21:07 Adam The West Wing, yeah. That crap is a little heady for me.

1:21:12 West Wing is too heady for you?

1:21:13 Adam Yeah. I'm too... I don't like to use my brain when I watch TV.

1:21:17 All right. Well, stick with your heroine island or whatever it is.

1:21:21 Adam Thank you. Well, listen, we got people from Temptation Island coming on tomorrow night and then I got my old friend Mark Wahlberg coming in here who hosts the show, so I got to kiss a little Temptation ass. There's nothing wrong with that. When someone from West Wing comes on here and Rob Lowe comes on here, I'll kiss some Rob Lowe ass and gladly. There was a guy I was going to do, that'd be the guy. Let's talk about me for a minute. You getting any vibes?

1:21:49 Drew Nothing. Nothing? Total shut down.

1:21:53 Adam Nothing. No vibe off of me. Middle name.

1:21:57 Drew You're looking to just sling it. Okay.

1:21:59 Adam Middle names.

1:22:00 Drew Can I tell you something?

1:22:01 Adam Any signs.

1:22:01 Drew Would you walk into a flaming house, can I tell you that?

1:22:04 Adam You know what sign I am? Nothing.

1:22:06 Drew I don't care.

1:22:07 Adam Nothing like that. It's your job to care.

1:22:10 Drew I do care, but not about what sign you are.

1:22:11 Adam My grandfather passed away a few years ago. Is he speaking to you at all?

1:22:16 Drew Right now, what's speaking to me is he's speaking to me the whole time, something about you and writing some kind of comedy thing and something falling through with TV. Something with TV keeps about you falling through. Something is falling through.

1:22:27 Adam No.

1:22:27 Drew With TV.

1:22:28 Adam No.

1:22:28 Drew That's fine.

1:22:29 Adam Now you're down to 600.

1:22:30 Drew I'm not down to 600. You're not here to score.

1:22:32 Adam Listen. Listen. Any comedy writer I got to do is something fell through on TV. That's everyone in this town.

1:22:38 Drew That's not true.

1:22:39 Adam Are you high?

1:22:40 Drew Okay.

1:22:40 Adam Nothing ever falls through.

1:22:42 Drew No. It's not nothing ever fall through, but this is just what's coming up with you specifically.

1:22:45 Adam Something fell through with TV? Could something have fallen on my TV?

1:22:51 Drew No.

1:22:51 Adam Now I'm worried. I'm going to hurry home.

1:22:53 Drew No.

1:22:53 Adam No? This is some like a deal I had.

1:22:56 Drew There's something that you were working on that, for Seinfeld, it didn't fall through. It went through.

1:23:02 Adam Right.

1:23:03 Drew You understand? He got the TV deal.

1:23:05 Adam This is something I'm trying to put together that has fallen through.

1:23:08 Drew No. They're making it like pass. Like it just passed and there was something that fell through with TV.

1:23:11 Adam Something that fell through?

1:23:12 Yeah.

1:23:12 Drew Because right now, it's kind of like you're looking for the next thing. Not that this is not good enough.

1:23:15 It is.

1:23:16 Drew But it's not what you're ultimately going to be doing. You're going to do something in addition to this that's, you know, I don't think it's not big, but bigger than this. Yeah.

1:23:23 Adam I'm looking to get back into carpet cleaning.

1:23:25 Drew You are not. You know what I'm talking about.

1:23:27 Adam No, I do know what you're talking about. And it's a, you know, it's a, listen, it's a, it's a good bet, it's a safe bet to say something fell through, but nothing is falling through. But now you're down to six hours.

1:23:38 Drew It's not. So nothing's falling through. So you just told me that all the TV writers, there's, I mean, all comedians have something fall through, but you're telling me nothing fell through for you.

1:23:46 Adam Well, I got to tell you, and I don't want to dedicate the, well, we'll run long tonight, dedicate the rest of the show to me. In my career, I did Loveline, the TV show, which is now off the air, which ran for about four years on MTV, which about as long as anything runs on that network. That's, I haven't done that in over a year. That's nothing that fell through. Other than that, everything couldn't be going better. I'm working on, I just went back to work on 26 more man shows, and we got a movie thing going on, and there's nothing I'm aware of that fell through.

1:24:21 Drew Something that you had written just for TV?

1:24:23 Adam No, I didn't write anything.

1:24:24 Drew Okay, that's fine.

1:24:25 Adam I never wrote anything for TV. Nothing fell through.

1:24:27 Drew Okay.

1:24:28 Adam You're down to 600. You want to go for 500? Whatever I want to do. You want to keep going, or we go over the phones?

1:24:31 Drew You can deny your life all you want.

1:24:33 Adam Deny my life. Listen here, nothing is falling through.

1:24:37 Drew Nothing is falling through. Okay, that's fine. If you believe that, that's fine.

1:24:39 Adam If I believe it?

1:24:40 Drew Yeah.

1:24:42 Don't throw it back on me.

1:24:43 Drew So you're telling me that you never wrote something? No. Okay, that's fine. So you can say no.

1:24:47 Adam Listen to me, look at my eyes. I have never written a spec script.

1:24:50 Drew I didn't say it was a spec script.

1:24:51 Adam I said it was an idea for a TV show. I didn't say you wrote it. I have never written an idea. You just said right. I have never written a concept or floated a concept for a TV show that I have not ended up doing. Now granted, I don't float too many concepts, so I got a good batting average, unlike yours, which is dropping right now. But no, nothing is falling through.

1:25:10 Drew That's fine. You want to believe that? That's fine.

1:25:13 Adam You want to keep going with this, with the one to believe?

1:25:15 Drew You know what?

1:25:16 Adam Listen, it's like you're saying, you want to believe the Earth is round? Fine. No, it's not what I want to believe. It's a fact. There's nothing that is falling through.

1:25:24 Drew Okay, and I guarantee you tomorrow, I guarantee there's somebody who can say, do you remember the time you did this and this and this? There'll be somebody, I guarantee you, somebody will listen to this and know you, and we'll tell you that.

1:25:33 Adam All right. Anderson, you've been with me for a couple years now. Is there, have I ever spoke of any project that I thought I was doing?

1:25:40 Drew No, you're very secretive.

1:25:41 Adam That I'm not doing?

1:25:42 Drew You're very secretive.

1:25:43 Adam Oh, okay. I'm secretive. No, no, you're right. There's no project when I'm working on The Man Show. I'm writing a movie, but I'm done with the movie. And that's green-lighted, so we're doing it. All right. All right.

1:25:55 Drew Well, then don't be surprised if it falls through.

1:25:57 Adam Well, that'd be a movie, though. It wouldn't be TV.

1:25:59 Drew Well, I saw writing for TV, but maybe it goes to TV.

1:26:02 Lysa Mateu It could. That's what I saw, sir.

1:26:05 Adam All right. We'll take ourselves a little break. I think the love affair over with us.

1:26:10 Lysa Mateu Maybe getting tired.

1:26:12 Adam Have a cup of coffee. I'm not tired. Let's get those spirits back in.

1:26:14 Lysa Mateu I'm not tired.

1:26:15 Adam All right. We'll talk to some more spirits after this.

1:26:19 Hello. This is Loveline.

1:26:25 You're listening to Loveline.

1:26:28 Bye-bye, I'm New Rock, 104.

1:26:43 Adam All right, it is Loveline. I'm Adam Carolla. That is Lisa Mateu. Lisa is a psychic spirit medium. She is author of Conversations with the Spirit World. And I was busting Lisa's chops. She's not here to pimp. And I'm saying, I'm saying to you, Listen, whether this book has anything worth reading or not, the point is, is that you wrote it. You want people to read it. It's not about getting ranch. It would be nice if you could cover the electric bill this month. But it's not about that. Give the number out. Let people get it and be enlightened. Right?

1:27:27 Lysa Mateu Yeah. All right.

1:27:27 Adam So give the website.

1:27:29 Drew Okay. www.channelingspirits.com or you can call for an appointment at 310-820-0711.

1:27:38 Adam All right. So let's talk to... You're exhausted, aren't you? Tired of me busting your balls?

1:27:45 Drew You're a buster.

1:27:46 Adam Well, listen, if you're on something, I'll say it and if you're off something, I'll say it. That's fine. That's my job.

1:27:52 Drew The thing of the psychic is that there are things that have not come to pass yet. So something's falling through and it's not like 10 years from now. It's like around now. So you can get back to me about that.

1:28:00 Adam All right. Well, you know, I'm not going to do it, but if it does fall through, here's what I'll do. I'll tell you what, because...

1:28:07 Drew You can go in the air and announce it.

1:28:08 Adam No, no, no, I won't. Listen, I don't call anyone. I don't talk to anybody. I don't follow up with anything. But here's the deal. I really don't. I'm really super lazy. I got a thousand people I got to call back before I get to you and I won't get to them either.

1:28:22 Drew I didn't say call me.

1:28:23 Adam So here's the deal. If something falls through, like for instance, I was thinking while I was taking a leak, me and Jimmy are doing the Tonight Show. My partner and I, not Dr. I can't even remember his name, Dr. Who, over here, me and Jimmy Kimmel from the Man Show are doing the Tonight Show on Tuesday, or at least we're slated to do it on Tuesday. Now, there's a good, not a TV project, not a script, but there's an appearance. We could easily be bumped. They could easily call us Tuesday morning or Monday night and say, you know what, you guys aren't doing the show. That's something that could fall through.

1:28:57 Drew That's not what I'm talking about.

1:28:58 Adam Oh, it isn't? No. All right, but even if that did fall through.

1:29:00 Drew That wouldn't be it.

1:29:01 Adam I would think of you. I would, and I wouldn't have to call you because.

1:29:05 Drew You think of me telepathy, I would get the message.

1:29:06 Adam You would get the message via me thinking of you, but it's something else.

1:29:09 Drew Okay.

1:29:09 Adam Well, maybe it's this movie thing. All right, let's say, it could be a movie, right?

1:29:14 Drew It could be a movie, but there's someone involved that has to do with TV. There's some TV connection with this whole thing, so I don't know what that is.

1:29:19 Adam I'm booked up for a good six months with the TV world. John?

1:29:23 Caller Hello?

1:29:23 Adam You're 18?

1:29:24 Caller Yes.

1:29:25 Adam What's up?

1:29:28 Caller Oh, I've been hearing like voices, like for like two days. Like yesterday and the day before, right?

1:29:37 Adam You're hearing voices?

1:29:38 Caller Yeah, like it's like calling my name, but I'm not sure if I'm just hearing voices like in my head. I'm imagining them or actually.

1:29:45 Adam Is it your sister wanting you to get out of the bathroom?

1:29:48 Caller No, they like woke me up. I was already sleeping when I, and then I woke me up and then I heard them sort of.

1:29:55 Adam I see.

1:29:56 Drew You're asking what they want?

1:29:57 Caller Yeah.

1:29:58 Lysa Mateu What do they say?

1:30:00 Caller They're just calling my name, like just to get my attention or something. It's really annoying.

1:30:05 Adam Do you do any drugs?

1:30:06 Caller No.

1:30:07 Adam No mushrooms?

1:30:09 Caller No shrub.

1:30:10 Adam No acid? Sounds like it. No speed? You gotta be doing some weed though, right?

1:30:16 Caller No weed.

1:30:16 Adam No weed?

1:30:17 Caller No.

1:30:18 Adam This is your natural pace? Don't do any weed. You'll come to complete stop and fall over.

1:30:24 Caller I'll fall over.

1:30:25 Okay.

1:30:26 Adam Listen, I can tell you that schizophrenia does heal a lot of males in their late teens, early twenties. And that's about hearing voices. You understand?

1:30:38 Caller Yeah.

1:30:39 Adam I mean, listen, don't laugh. It's a serious thing. If you're hearing voices, if you're hearing voices, that could be schizophrenia. You understand?

1:30:53 Caller Yeah, I guess.

1:30:54 Adam Well, I'm telling you, it hits mostly males, I think.

1:30:58 Lysa Mateu What do you mean by hits?

1:30:59 Adam Well, it comes on to males or affects males more than females. I think females get it too, but it seems most of them are males. And it hits them at 18, 19, 20. They start hearing voices and then it starts progressing. I'm saying maybe you should go to a doctor, psychiatrist and get yourself checked out.

1:31:19 Caller Yeah, I already go to a doctor, psychologist.

1:31:21 Adam Why don't you tell him about this?

1:31:22 Caller I told him he thinks like... I don't know. He doesn't know what it is. He thinks I'm just making it up or whatever. He doesn't believe me or something.

1:31:35 Adam I bet he believes you.

1:31:37 Caller I guess he doesn't know what it is. Exactly what it is.

1:31:39 Adam All right. Well, listen, do me a favor. If it happens again, tell him that you have to talk about it. You have to deal with it. You have to see a specialist if possible, because if you're hearing voices, that's something that's what it could be. All right. Let's see. Let's take a little psychic related question. Carissa?

1:31:57 Caller Yeah.

1:31:58 Adam You're 22?

1:31:58 Caller Yes, I am.

1:31:59 Adam What's up, Toz?

1:32:01 Lysa Mateu I had a question for Lisa.

1:32:03 Caller I met a guy a couple of weeks ago that it seems that we really get along when we're together, and to me, I feel like we have a connection as we're...

1:32:13 Drew Yeah, but he's pulling himself back.

1:32:15 Caller Huh?

1:32:16 Drew He's pulling himself back.

1:32:17 Caller Yeah.

1:32:17 Drew Yeah, he's backing away. I mean, he's holding himself back more than backing away, but he's holding himself back from you.

1:32:22 Lysa Mateu Is there a reason?

1:32:24 Caller Does he have a girlfriend or...?

1:32:26 Drew No, I'm not kidding that he's got a girlfriend, but I'm just kidding that he's got a standstill, so what that does is make you want more and go more forward as far as him being on your mind. So what you need to do is kind of chill out about this because he's not going to come out of his, quote, shell. If you're sending so much energy to him, like, you want him, you want him, you want him, it's borderline like obsessive in your mind. Okay. And so you need to, because he gets your energy, so he's not going to come towards that.

1:32:50 Adam All right. We're going to move quick here, see if we can pile through some. Nina?

1:32:54 Caller Hi.

1:32:55 Adam 18?

1:32:56 Caller Yes.

1:32:56 Adam You think your boyfriend may be cheating?

1:32:58 Caller Well, I don't know if I should give him a second chance.

1:33:03 Adam Oh, he has cheated?

1:33:04 Caller Yes. Yeah.

1:33:05 Drew Don't, you know, dump him. I honestly dump him. He's out with, and I hate these kind of questions, but...

1:33:10 Caller No, no, no. See, we have a daughter together, and I don't know where him and his daughter stand.

1:33:16 Drew Where him and his daughter stand?

1:33:17 Caller Yeah, because he'll come and see her. Maybe, I don't know, like this week, it was three times a week, he was down three times.

1:33:26 Adam All right, baby. Listen, we got to go to break, but let me tell you something right now. You got to be mama. You got to be super mama. Do you understand? You cannot get pregnant again. Do you hear me?

1:33:36 Caller Oh, I know. I'm on birth control.

1:33:38 Adam I want you on ten different kinds of birth control. I want cement dumped in your vagina. Do you hear me? No more kids. Now, as far as this guy, this guy's an idiot. This is why you don't get pregnant at 16 and a half or 17. You understand? I don't trust this idiot as far as I can throw him. Okay, here's my point. You focus on being a great mother to this child. If this guy is in your life, in the child's life, then he is. But you can't yo-yo with this guy. He's got to either be daddy or he's out. And if he's out, he has to give you support.

1:34:10 Lysa Mateu He doesn't help. He doesn't help.

1:34:11 Adam He needs to give you financial support, and you need to contact the court system to get this son of a bitch at doing it. And listen, all you idiots out there, you knock someone up, you pay. I'm not paying for it. Idiots. Take a break.

1:34:31 Loveline, with Dr. Drew and Adam Corolla on New Rock 104.

1:34:54 Caller All right, there you go.

1:34:56 Adam I think Lysa Mateu and I have made a piece, back on a good psychic side. And for that, I'll give her one more plug. It's Conversations with the Spirit World. Lysa Mateu is the author, and if you look her up on this website, www.channelingspirits.com. Thank you. You can find out more about the book and make yourself an appointment for reading, right?

1:35:21 Drew Yeah. Well, that is 310-820-0711.

1:35:25 Adam Good times. Tomorrow night, we have some folks from Temptation Island. Until next time, this is Adam Carolla for Lysa Mateu saying Mahalo.

1:35:34 Caller This has been Loveline. The opinions expressed on this show are not necessarily those of the staff, management, sponsors or this station. The producer for Loveline is Ann Wilkins Engel. Loveline is a presentation of Westwood One Entertainment.

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