Episode 1000754887190

1:33 Voiceover Listener discretion is advised. Adam Corolla and Dr. Drew Loveline, Coast to Coast.

1:44 Voiceover Coast to Coast?

1:45 Stryker It does.

1:47 Adam Alright, welcome to Loveline, along with Dr. Drew, who's a board-certified physician, addiction medicine specialist. I'm not Ace Rockolla, Adam Corolla, I would be Stryker back in the house. So, Dr. Drew, they're going to have to deal with my suckiness for two hours straight.

2:00 Stryker Good. We're ready for it. Are we? Yeah.

2:02 Voiceover Alright, we're supposed to have a band in here, SR-71, from Maryland. I think they were playing a show tonight or something, had a couple of cocktails, and they're on their way. So, if you have questions for SR-71, call. Something's wrong with you. We're here. It's 1-800-LOVE-191. And Drew, you're very melancholy right now.

2:18 Stryker You alright? I've been feeling good for the last few days. I go through ups and downs.

2:22 Adam Can I give you a background?

2:23 Stryker Tired. Yes. Momentarily.

2:27 Adam Momentarily. How about at the break?

2:29 Stryker Yeah. I'm in.

2:30 Adam I love this. Zach, 15. What's up, man?

2:34 Stryker Yeah. I've been having sex with my girlfriend for about six months now.

2:39 Adam Good job.

2:40 Stryker And lately, I've noticed some burning when I ejaculate and when I urinate.

2:46 Stryker Well.

2:48 Stryker And I'd like to know if there's something I should be worried about.

2:50 Stryker Yeah. Those are signs of an infection, a urethral infection.

2:55 Adam Does it necessarily mean it's an STD?

2:57 Stryker Well, not necessarily, but it means it's something that certainly happened as a result of sex, whether or not it's actually something that's classically an STD or not remains to be seen. Was she a virgin? No. Yeah. You got to see somebody. They could be chlamydia, gonorrhea, non-gonococcal urethritis. These things are very common. And it could even be a mechanical problem or an irritation of the urethra, but it's got to be seen. It's got to be treated.

3:20 Adam Now, these diseases you just mentioned, these STDs won't go away unless they're treated, correct?

3:25 Stryker Well, for the most part, and they can have complications if you don't treat them.

3:28 Adam All right. Zach, see you, doctor. Yeah.

3:30 Stryker And should I confront her about this?

3:32 Stryker She undoubtedly doesn't know. And again, chlamydia is the leading cause of infertility in this country, and most women that have it don't know they have it. And that maybe something she's been harboring and just didn't know it.

3:41 Adam Dating six months.

3:42 Stryker But you'll need to talk to her about it because she'll have to be treated also.

3:45 Adam Because you don't want yourself to all of a sudden get better and then have a sex with her again, you're going to get this burning thing in two weeks again.

3:51 Stryker Oh.

3:52 Adam Right? Yeah. All right, Zach, don't be shy. Go see a doctor.

3:55 Stryker All right, no problem.

3:56 Adam Okay, later, man.

3:57 Stryker Thanks a lot.

3:57 Adam All right, sure. Let's speak to Bob, who is on Loveline. What's up, Bob?

4:01 Stryker How you doing this evening?

4:02 Adam Good, man. Thanks.

4:03 Stryker All right. Yeah, I just recently started this fantasy with like masturbating and stuff, like thinking about my mom and stuff. And I just wondered like, what's wrong with me? I mean, is that normal or?

4:15 Adam Perfectly normal, perfectly healthy.

4:19 Stryker Yeah, I thought so. Okay, thanks.

4:20 Stryker No, he was BSing. He was giggling trying to ask the question.

4:25 Adam I think, hold on. I think.

4:26 Stryker Go ahead, try it.

4:27 Adam Hey, Bob.

4:27 Stryker Yes, sir.

4:28 Adam You're not fooling, are you?

4:29 Stryker No, no, no. I'm totally serious.

4:30 Adam Seriously?

4:31 Stryker It's not every time, you know, but just like every once in a while.

4:34 Stryker I mean, I'm totally serious.

4:35 Adam Is your mom one of those hotties like from that movie, American Pie?

4:39 Stryker She's not all that. I mean, she's not like super hot or nothing.

4:43 Stryker But well, it's normal for humans to have those kinds of feelings in a way. They usually aren't explicit mature feelings. So I don't know. Come on. You're 21, Bob. Come on.

4:57 Stryker Yeah.

4:58 Stryker You're goofiness.

4:59 Stryker No, like I didn't say like because of Dr. Drew, I like started going to see a therapist and everything.

5:03 Stryker I just want to say thanks for like everything you do for everybody.

5:05 Stryker Great. My pleasure.

5:06 I'm like kind of scared like to talk to my therapist about it too.

5:09 Stryker Like I feel weird bringing it up.

5:12 Stryker Listen, the whole idea about therapy is to be able to tell them anything, anything you've done or felt so that you can get over whatever shame or you can process whatever shame is attached to that. You don't need to be ashamed of it. Like I said, it's a normal human thing. It's just sort of late in life to be having those kinds of feelings. It's whatever. You're not doing anything about it. It's just weird fantasy.

5:31 Adam I don't know. Anytime you say the word normal, masturbation and mother in the same sentence, I think that's abnormal.

5:36 Stryker It's not routine. But he's wanting to get something wrong with him, like a capital W. That doesn't necessarily mean that.

5:42 Adam Why see a therapist if you can't open up completely. Hello, Lindsey 17 on Loveline.

5:49 Stryker Hi. How are you guys?

5:49 Good.

5:51 Stryker I was just wondering, I've had major headaches lately and my throat is really sore and I'm bulimic. And could I just take Robitussin to make my sore throat go away? Or is it because this is because of something else in my throat or that I need to like take pills or something?

6:09 Stryker Something called Herpangina, which gives you headaches and sore throat. And look, are you being followed by a doctor for your bulimia?

6:16 Stryker No. I haven't told my parents yet. I told my dad about some other problem. And he's not talking to me right now.

6:23 Stryker How often are you throwing up?

6:25 Stryker Every day.

6:26 Stryker OK. So that's a potentially life threatening problem, right? Yeah. OK. That's what needs to be dealt with. Yeah. Nothing else. Everything else is rearranging deck chairs on the Titanic.

6:37 Stryker Could you give me a number that I could call here down here in Maryland?

6:41 Stryker Bad bulimia.

6:41 Adam Hey, that's where SR-71 is from.

6:43 Stryker Are you in Baltimore? No.

6:45 Stryker In Germantown. It's close to Baltimore.

6:46 Stryker Why don't you just call Hopkins? Call the Department of Psychiatry at Johns Hopkins and get some information.

6:52 Stryker Could you be anonymous?

6:54 Stryker I'm sure you could start that way and you'll probably go to some... There's undoubtedly some eating disorder groups you can get involved with. And I'm sure you can do it without your parental consent. In fact, some of it may be at a limited or no cost. So get going. Get going on this because the sore throat issue is obviously a secondary problem. You know you got something serious going on here. So let's do something about it. You've got to do it for you. Obviously, your parents aren't going to be able to help you in any substantive way and you're not in a position to really communicate openly with them yet. So do it for yourself.

7:22 Adam Is that normal one time a day if you're bulimic?

7:24 Stryker She did it more than that. I bet you.

7:26 Adam You think so?

7:26 Stryker Let's ask. One, two.

7:29 Two.

7:30 Stryker Hey, Lindsay.

7:31 Stryker Yeah.

7:31 Stryker Really, how many times a day are you vomiting?

7:33 Stryker After every time I eat.

7:34 Stryker There you go.

7:36 Stryker All right, you got to interpret these things.

7:37 Adam Get some help and stop throwing up.

7:39 Stryker I just want to say something real quick. I called a little while ago. This is just anyone who's ever thought about throwing up or anything and I wasn't supposed to do this forever. I was just supposed to be for like a little time and lose some quick weight. I just want to say that it's nothing like that and you really can't stop when you start.

7:54 Stryker That's the deal. We talked about it. I remember it. There you go.

7:58 Adam All right, Lindsey.

7:59 Stryker All right, thank you.

8:00 Adam Good luck. And say hi to my friend Tom Ackerman that lives out in New Jersey.

8:04 Stryker He won a what?

8:04 Adam No, he won a car in that old game show, Remote Control.

8:08 Stryker It's like interpreting what addicts or alcoholics say they're using.

8:12 Adam Hey, it's SR-71. Welcome to the show, boys. Good. How are you? Who are you, Mitch?

8:18 Stryker Yeah.

8:18 Adam What's up, Mitch?

8:19 Stryker Stryker.

8:20 Adam Stryker. Nice to meet you.

8:22 Stryker How are you? Dan.

8:22 Adam Nice to meet you. Nice to meet you.

8:23 Stryker How are you? All right.

8:24 Adam You know, it's SR-71 in the house.

8:26 Sorry we're late.

8:28 Stryker A little drinking.

8:29 Drew We had to play.

8:30 Adam Where at?

8:31 Drew We played the House of Blues tonight.

8:32 Adam How was it?

8:33 Drew It was wonderful.

8:34 Adam Very cool.

8:34 Drew Packed.

8:35 Adam All right. We're going to play a song for you guys pretty soon. You'll hang out. We'll talk about wieners and bosoms. And I'm sorry I'm not Adam Corolla.

8:40 Drew I'm so psyched right now.

8:42 Adam That I'm not Adam Corolla?

8:43 Drew No, to talk about wieners and bosoms.

8:44 Adam Oh, to talk about wieners and bosoms. Okay. On the air and off, I'm sure. All right. SR-71 is here. So call and ask questions about anything. 1-800-LOVE-191 and Chris14 on Loveline.

8:54 Stryker Hey. SR-71. I'm like your biggest fan.

8:57 Drew Oh, what's up, man?

8:59 Stryker How are you?

9:00 Drew First caller, absolutely.

9:01 Stryker Man, first caller. I'm so nervous. I saw you guys in the 930 Club and ducked out and said hi to Jeff.

9:07 Drew You're a hometown fan. Absolutely.

9:09 Stryker Yeah, so.

9:10 Do you see?

9:12 Stryker I just wanted to know what the details are for the re-release of Grow. I've been hearing about that.

9:18 Drew We have an independent CD that we put out a couple years ago, and that's what he's talking about. We plan on doing something next year with it, actually. We're not exactly sure, but probably after the first of the year, we're going to go back and redo it and put it out for everybody to get.

9:32 Stryker Keep an eye on the website for that.

9:33 Drew Yeah.

9:34 Stryker Okay.

9:35 Adam All right, Chris.

9:35 Stryker All right, thanks.

9:36 Adam Thanks a lot, man.

9:36 Stryker Thanks, Chris.

9:37 Stryker All right.

9:37 Stryker See ya.

9:38 Adam So how's touring going for you guys?

9:40 Drew Oh, it's great. It's great. We were playing the sold out shows everywhere. It's pretty amazing what radio can do for an audience.

9:44 Adam Definitely. And also for that TV movie Loser.

9:48 Drew Oh, you heard that. The previews. Yeah.

9:50 Adam Oh, every time I couldn't get enough of you guys on that thing.

9:52 Drew That's awesome.

9:53 Adam Yeah. If you've seen the previews for Loser, that's SR-71's song in there. We'll play it pretty soon. All right, we're going to speak to a guy named Rocky. Anytime you get to say the word Rocky, it's cool. 23, what's up, man?

10:03 Stryker Hey, guys. I was just wondering what Dr. Drew thought about starting a relationship over the Internet.

10:09 Stryker You mean a relationship with somebody you've been communicating with over the Internet?

10:12 Stryker Yes.

10:13 Adam Isn't that the only way to communicate?

10:15 Stryker Be careful. That's all. It's not like one of these dating services, right, where you know a lot about the person.

10:19 Stryker Right. Well, I was just on the Internet talking to my dad because he lives in a different state, so a long distance from me, and she just started talking to me.

10:29 Stryker You were talking to your dad in a chat room?

10:31 Stryker No, in a message kind of thing.

10:33 Adam In the room called Big Boozums, your dad was there, along with the lady with big breasts.

10:36 Stryker No, I wasn't in the chat room. I was just, you know, communicating with him on the Internet, and this girl come on, started talking to me, and well, we started, you're getting along pretty good, so we started calling each other because we were in the same state.

10:48 Stryker Right.

10:49 Stryker And we got to know each other pretty well on the phone, and I think we both have been pretty honest with each other, and I was just wondering if, you know, this is a healthy way to start a relationship or what.

10:59 Stryker How old is she?

11:00 Stryker She's 18.

11:02 Stryker So she says. Yeah. Usually these things, in my experience, they really only work out if you have some way of corroborating what that person is telling you about themselves, like a reference or a common friend or something. Some way to really make a connection that works. Because really, how long you guys been communicating online? About a month. Yeah. Well, it's not that long yet, but there's so much fantasy involved in that sort of pseudo intimacy that the web affords, and there's evidence accumulating that the real equality of that relationship is fantasy. It's not real. And it's likely this is going to be a disappointment, unless the fantasy sort of permeates the real relationship, in which case you have a relationship built on fantasy, and that's even worse.

11:41 Stryker So if we meet and everything seems to be on up and up.

11:44 Stryker Just go ahead. It's fine. It's going to do it anyway.

11:46 Adam Hey, Rocky. Rocky, what did she say she looked like?

11:51 Stryker Well, she sent me a picture, and it seems like it could be possible that it's her.

11:55 Adam All right. Well, how tall is she?

11:58 Stryker 5'8.

11:58 Adam So she's 5'2. How much does she weigh?

12:01 Stryker I don't know how much she weighs. She never really said, and it don't really matter.

12:04 Adam 180 is the over-under right now, and I'm a Vegas guy, so I'm betting on the over on that one.

12:09 Stryker All right.

12:09 Adam Be careful.

12:10 Stryker All right.

12:10 Stryker Thanks a lot.

12:11 Adam All right, Rocky.

12:11 Stryker See you later. Yeah, I usually tell people to get off the line quick, get on the phone quick, get off the phone quick into real life, bring a friend with you, make sure you live near that person so there's a possibility of a relationship, and enjoy.

12:22 Adam You guys go on the internet a lot, SR-71?

12:24 Drew Every day.

12:25 Stryker We get so many emails. We try to answer as many as we can, but Outlook Express.

12:30 Adam Now, do you ever go in chat rooms where they're talking about you guys, and you say, hey, I'm him, or you just go under a pseudo name and just kind of find out what the kids are talking about?

12:37 Drew I don't personally go to chat rooms, but I find out that someone who says they're me goes to chat rooms a lot and gets me in a lot of trouble.

12:45 Adam Oh, I bet.

12:45 Stryker I actually have gone to a couple. We've been in some town late at night. I'm sitting there on my computer with nothing better to do. And I go into a chat room that I know that a lot of our friends go to, and I go in there and I say, I'm here, and there's like nobody. I actually, it's like an e-tumbleweed floats by nobody.

13:01 Adam It's just you. You couldn't find any scrambled spice on TV, so you're looking for something on the internet. All right, that's SR-71. Stryker with Dr. Drew and Jonathan, 22 on Loveline. What's going on?

13:12 Stryker Well, it seems this happened about five years ago, and before I start, SR-71, you guys kick a lot of butt.

13:18 Drew What's up, man? Thank you.

13:20 Stryker Dr. Drew, I love what you do for people. I've called in a few times, and you've helped me greatly.

13:24 Stryker Good.

13:25 Stryker And well, about five years ago.

13:27 Stryker Thank you, man.

13:28 Drew I was waiting for something with Stryker. You rock, Stryker. You rock, man.

13:33 Stryker You rock, Stryker.

13:35 Stryker Thanks, John.

13:35 Stryker But about five years ago, I was dating this girl. She was 14. I was 16. And the relationship was really hot and heavy. And I mean, we had so much in common. It was just perfect for me. And one of the last times, it was pretty much on and off of an LDR, a long distance relationship. And one of the last times together, we had sex. And what I just found out about a week ago was that the last time we were together, I got her pregnant. I just found out about the kid. And the real kicker was about five to six months after she had the kid, she was killed by a drunk driver.

14:16 Stryker How did you find out about the child?

14:17 Stryker I found out about the child through the child's grandmother. She finally told me. And it's been five years.

14:22 Stryker And you've known the grandmother all this time?

14:23 Stryker And I've known the grandmother the whole time. Her reasoning behind not telling me when my girlfriend was alive was she was afraid that at that time since I was 16 that I would have done what normal kids my age would have done, ran away. And the reason why she told me after she died she didn't tell me is because it took me five years to come to grips with her being dead. And so she basically said, you know, if I couldn't come to grips with my girlfriend being dead, how could I come to grips of me now being a single father?

14:53 Stryker So where is the child?

14:54 Stryker The child right now is still living with the grandmother because I'm trying desperately to get on my feet.

14:59 Adam So what are you trying? What's your question then?

15:01 Stryker Should I, since I've been out of this child's life for five, almost five and a half years, what should I do? Should I, because I did a paternity test, it came back positive.

15:13 Stryker What do you mean you're trying to get back on your feet?

15:15 Stryker I spent like the last two years, I got a lot of money and ended up blowing it, spent a few years homeless. And now I'm basically back home.

15:26 Adam And you answered to the name of Lucky.

15:28 Stryker A lot of money and ended up homeless?

15:30 Yeah.

15:32 Adam Hmm. Well, Drew, you take this one.

15:35 Stryker Are you a drug addict?

15:36 Stryker No, I just pretty much, I started out, started out not really on my feet, then I was given the money, and I pretty much blew, blew about $65,000 in under two months.

15:50 Stryker On what?

15:51 Stryker On partying, traveling, everything.

15:54 Adam Hookers?

15:56 Yeah, okay, a few.

15:57 Adam The curse, right. Like 20.

15:59 Drew Is this Charlie Sheen?

16:01 Stryker What's that?

16:01 Drew Is this Charlie Sheen?

16:04 Stryker But her mother, her mother sat there and told me that when I can get on my feet, that she will give me custody of the child, and I have told people about this that I work with, and people said they're not really sure that that's really what she's going to do.

16:17 Stryker Or that it's in the best interest of the child.

16:19 Stryker Yeah, because I said, you know, I have been out of this child's life for five years. I did meet the child, and I mean that it's one of the most awkward positions I've been in in my life.

16:26 Stryker All right, Drew, what should he do?

16:27 Adam Should he go get in the child's life or what?

16:30 Stryker I don't know how to even begin to answer this one. How's the grandmother as a parent?

16:35 Stryker The grandmother, from what I've seen, is a very good parent.

16:37 Stryker You need to stop smoking cigarettes, John. I'm getting asthma just listening to you puff. Right? God, he's like...

16:45 Adam You know, if Jonathan said, yeah, I graduated college, now I'm working at this job, I've always been up on my feet, I'm like getting that child's life immediately.

16:53 Stryker Even then I would be peripheral, be Uncle John for a while, don't confuse this kid, be a supportive male figure in that person's life. So that's sort of the approach I would take. I don't think too confusing to come in as dad now. And financially you can support the child and get the kid resources all the way along, by all means do that. And again, be a part of the life, but I don't think dad is the right job for him right now.

17:16 Stryker How old is the kid now?

17:17 Adam The kid is five years old, yeah. Well, at least he spent the kid's college education on some hookers.

17:24 Stryker He should be a positive male role model in the child's life regularly and for its entire life and supportive financially.

17:30 Adam Do you think it's possible for them to form a relationship if he starts it slow?

17:33 Stryker Yes, but it won't be dad.

17:36 Adam And don't force yourself on this kid, so to speak.

17:38 Stryker Is there a grandfather?

17:40 Drew He's gone.

17:41 Stryker Was I here for this?

17:42 Adam But I don't think there was a grandfather. Let's take one more call and let's play one of your guys' songs, right? SR-71 is here on Loveline, and Corey, you're 20. What's going on?

17:51 Caller Hi.

17:52 It's hard for me to explain, but this weekend I was at a party and I mixed Coke with E and I was drinking and I kind of blacked out and when I woke up I was having sex with this guy that I didn't know.

18:08 Caller And I just want to know how long I have to wait before I take an AIDS test.

18:11 Adam This isn't Anne Heish, is it?

18:13 Caller No.

18:14 Stryker You do it now and do it again six months later. But it's not gonna be accurate for a few months. But when did you have the sex?

18:23 Caller Saturday.

18:24 Stryker How about morning after pill?

18:26 Caller I didn't take it.

18:27 Stryker Why don't you do that? You have a few more hours left here.

18:30 Caller Okay.

18:31 Stryker Oh, it's Wednesday already. No, it's too late. You understand if you have 72 hours to protect yourself against pregnancy that way, right?

18:37 Caller Yeah. I mean, every other time it has happened I remember using something, but this time I didn't.

18:43 Stryker Well, then all the more reason not to use the morning after pills.

18:47 Adam How often are you mixing the ecstasy and the coke there, Corey?

18:51 Stryker It was the first time I actually ever mixed it.

18:53 I didn't really mean to.

18:55 Caller It was like an accident. I really didn't mean to. I do coke a lot and I drink a lot. I mix coke and alcohol and I black out a lot, but it's the good time I've done this.

19:05 Stryker The blacking out from alcohol is really a sign of alcoholism. You may not really believe you have that disease yet, but I promise you, you have it. And there will be mounting consequences. That being said, my bigger concern for you is the ecstasy, though, because I just pulled an article today about just a list of psychiatric and neurologic disorders from ecstasy. It's just like as long as your arm. And I've seen it all. I swear to God, I've seen it all. And I've been sort of a lone voice for a long time. Now it's starting to get documented.

19:29 Adam Now, will the effects of ecstasy happen right now or in five years all of a sudden? Both, really?

19:34 Stryker Either or, both.

19:35 Adam Damn raved or screwing up our kids out there, SR-71. Too much fun, though. All right, so actually let's play your song. Great. You got many songs. Let's play the one that's blowing up right now. And you kids out there that don't know it, you're going to know it immediately when we start to hear it. So Ken, you ready? All right, check it out. This is SR-71 from the album Now You See Inside on Loveline. There we go, excellent. SR-71.

22:43 Drew Let's rock and roll, baby.

22:44 Adam Right now, look, we got the huge applause. All right, SR-71 is here at Love Line. We've got to take a quick break. We'll speak to Caroline, who is dumping boyfriends, taking them back and screwing other people. We'll find out what's going on next with SR-71 on Love Line. All right, we're back. Welcome back to Loveline. Stryker here, filling in for Adam Corolla, along with Dr. Drew. You've been so nice to me, Drew, except the comment yesterday about my wiener size.

23:44 Stryker You know what, that wasn't directed at you. It just directed whoever was in that seat. I'm so used to talking about Adams, that it just kinda came right at me.

23:50 Adam I beg to differ. I think you've been funnier the last few days than I've heard you in the last, I don't know, a few months or so.

23:56 Stryker Well, you give me room to do other things that Adam would not.

23:59 Adam Speaking of like touching my feet all night under that.

24:01 Stryker Just for my feet.

24:02 Adam Go. SR-71 is here. You guys are from Baltimore.

24:06 Stryker Baltimore, Maryland. The East Coast.

24:08 Drew We love the East Coast.

24:09 Stryker Shout out to all the Bomber Hines.

24:12 Drew Bomber.

24:12 Stryker We were talking to somebody just before you guys came in from Baltimore, weren't we?

24:15 Stryker Right.

24:15 Adam Yeah, exactly. She said, I don't know, Mitch, you did something to her and screwed her up.

24:20 Stryker Baltimore is one of the most underrated cities.

24:23 Drew Thank you.

24:24 Stryker Charm City. Charm City.

24:25 Drew Charm City.

24:26 Stryker That harbor, that bayside, beautiful.

24:29 Drew Roush & Company did it.

24:30 Stryker I spoke at Hopkins and it was just spectacular around there.

24:32 Drew Well, Johns Hopkins is still one of the most prestigious.

24:35 Stryker And beautiful. Beautiful campuses.

24:37 Adam So did you guys go to school or just after high school you had the band going?

24:41 Drew College, baby. College. I went to University of Maryland.

24:44 Stryker All right. I went to Towson State, north of Baltimore.

24:47 Stryker Another great big campus.

24:48 Drew Absolutely.

24:48 I went to community college.

24:50 Adam Where's Corolla when you need him? Community college. Now look what's happened. You're turning around in SR-71.

24:55 I went to night school.

24:56 Adam Very cool. We have Jeff in here now and all we're missing is Mark who is out there sipping on a 40.

25:01 Drew Oh, he's just incorrigible.

25:02 Adam Mark, you're welcome to slide on in and sit on Dr. Drew's lap.

25:06 He's slurring his words.

25:07 Stryker He is.

25:08 Drew He might be embarrassing to bring in now.

25:09 Adam All right. Let's talk to Caroline, 23 on Loveline.

25:12 Stryker Hi.

25:12 Stryker Good evening.

25:13 Stryker Thanks so much for taking my call. I appreciate it. I really enjoy the show.

25:16 Stryker Thank you. What's up?

25:17 Stryker Well, the intro before the break was a little off so let me see if I can clarify. Okay. My boyfriend of three years, college boyfriend and I have been going out for three years and out of nowhere in the beginning of last semester, he just broke up with me and he came crawling back, of course, a couple of months later.

25:34 Stryker Of course.

25:35 Stryker Of course, as expected and obviously, he's an important person to me, it was an important relationship so I'm giving it another try.

25:42 Stryker He stopped all of a sudden? Yeah. Just one day? No hint.

25:48 Stryker Probably another girl.

25:50 Stryker That's what it sounds like, doesn't it?

25:51 Stryker Yeah.

25:51 Adam You took him back with arms wide open?

25:54 Stryker Well, I was hesitant, definitely hesitant, but it's an important relationship that three years of my life, I'm willing to give another shot.

26:01 Stryker Were you at school together or something like that?

26:02 Stryker Yeah, we just graduated together.

26:03 Stryker Together from college? Graduated together.

26:06 Stryker Together.

26:06 Adam They're in the same class. Now, are you guys living in the same city?

26:09 Stryker Well, he wanted to move out here to DC, but I told him, no, no, no, no.

26:13 Stryker So you're sitting in the room here by chance?

26:15 Drew I was going to say. What's your name again? What's your full name?

26:19 Adam It's Caroline. Caroline. Caroline, I know exactly what happened because I went through this, dated a girl for three years. Yeah. Then I was like, Oh, God, what the hell am I doing? I broke it off. Maybe within a month, I came crawling back to her. And I'm actually very happy, but she didn't take me back. And the only reason why I went crawling back to her because I realized basically those three years, I was in a routine. And the first two years was cool, but the last year was just so easy to say, Yeah, I got a girlfriend. I know where I'm sleeping. I know she's going to be here. We're going to hang out. She'll do this with me. Then I got tired. And then I realized, God, who am I going to go to the movies with? And I went crawling back to her.

26:55 Stryker What happened to him when he graduated?

26:57 Stryker Well, he's an engineer and he took a job in Cincinnati. And he wanted to move out to DC.

27:01 Stryker So he moved away from you, engineering job in Cincinnati.

27:04 Stryker Well, he wanted to move to Washington, but I told him, forget about it. Take this job in Cincinnati.

27:09 Stryker And as a result of that, he decided he wanted to break up.

27:13 Stryker No, no, this is way after. This is after I took him back.

27:16 Drew You broke up while you were in school?

27:18 Stryker Exactly. And he came back to me and then, you know, wanted to take a big step. And I said, no, no, you can go to here and I'll go here.

27:24 Stryker Okay.

27:25 Stryker So things are progressing and, you know, fast forward, we're here. This is six months later. And, you know, these issues between us, this, you know, distrust, it's still there. And I think it's, you know, manifesting itself in the fact that I'm getting mad at him for little things and I nitpick and I'm not a nitpicky person and I just don't know how to channel all this anger that I still have and distrust.

27:46 Stryker Anger for him having broken up at all.

27:48 Stryker Oh yeah, totally. And I, you know, it's just that six months later I feel like I should be able to kind of move forward with it but it's just stagnant. I get mad at the dumbest things and I just wonder if there's a better way I can go about this.

27:59 Stryker Is it necessarily this? Are you depressed generally?

28:01 Stryker No, no.

28:02 Stryker It's this.

28:03 Stryker I think it's just this whole break up specific kind of thing.

28:06 Adam They've been going out for that long. She's got, she'll definitely be upset about that.

28:09 Stryker Yeah, but you better decide you're going to get over this or not. I mean, you've got to decide what forgiveness means to you and get a little of that under your belt and get going here. Because if you can't forgive, then you got to forget. Just end it. Get on with your life. But without forgiveness, this ain't going anywhere.

28:24 Stryker But you know, I think I've done the forgive thing.

28:26 Stryker Did somebody else leave you sometime in your life? Big time?

28:28 Stryker Yeah.

28:29 Stryker Who?

28:29 Stryker Oh, the boyfriend before that.

28:32 Adam You're on a roll, Carol.

28:33 Drew I see a pattern.

28:34 Stryker I know.

28:35 Stryker But how about before, like you have a parent abandon you or something?

28:37 Stryker Oh, no, not at all. Healthy family, all that good stuff. Just, you know, bad, you know, boyfriend, you know, things.

28:43 Adam Caroline, I'm just one idiotic, dumb guy, but I would just say forget it with this guy. He's not even living in the same city. He's got his career going somewhere else.

28:51 Stryker I agree, but there's something more going on with Caroline, though. There's no alcoholism in your family?

28:56 Stryker No, no.

28:57 Stryker Why don't we get this feeling that, I mean, you set this up, too. You told him to go away to Cincinnati, and now you're mad at him for sort of being apart from you. I mean, you set up these abandonments, then you make them huge.

29:06 Drew Like some drama queen.

29:08 Stryker No, no, not at all. No? Let me, let me, another perspective. If I were to step away from the relationship, I would say he's doing a great job of trying to make it up to me, honestly. He's a good guy all around, but I'm just nitpicking and I just want to get past it. I just don't know how.

29:24 Stryker You know, we've given you several different opinions. You've come right back to the first base again.

29:30 Adam Caroline, just move out with him.

29:31 Stryker You either have to forgive, and if you can't, you have to get on with it.

29:34 Stryker No, he needs to come to the East Coast, gentlemen.

29:36 Stryker But, Caroline, that's the point. You set up the separation. You set up, you set these relationships up, you sabotage, you create the abandonment, and then you make the abandonment insurmountable.

29:45 Stryker Okay.

29:45 Stryker You see?

29:46 Stryker Yeah, I can definitely see that.

29:48 Stryker I don't know why you're doing that, but you're doing it.

29:50 Drew There's a lot of great guys in DC. Meet a guy in DC.

29:53 Adam Meet a guy in DC.

29:54 Drew I got friends. East Coast, do you? I'll hook you up.

29:56 Adam Don't worry. Mitch from SR-71.

29:58 Stryker You set this one up.

29:59 Drew Are we going to be in DC soon?

30:01 Adam Yeah. Why don't you guys look for Caroline when she's there?

30:03 Drew We might bring her up on stage and do a little love connection.

30:05 Adam She sounds pretty good, actually. We'll be back in two and two. All right. Let's speak to Andrew, and this is probably a topic you guys are familiar with on the bus. Andrew, what's going on with you, man? You're 17.

30:15 Drew Masturbation.

30:15 Yeah, that's right.

30:18 Adam Andrew.

30:19 Hey, what's up, man?

30:19 Adam What's up?

30:20 I really like the show, but I was wondering why I have to masturbate every night.

30:24 Adam Because it feels good.

30:26 Stryker Is it normal, though?

30:27 Drew Hell yes, it's normal.

30:30 Stryker What are you, what's, there's something behind your question. Why do I have to? What do you mean?

30:34 Yeah, I mean, it's like, I feel like if I don't, I have to, though.

30:37 Adam Well, it's kind of like counting sheep. Some people count sheep to go to sleep.

30:40 Stryker You have to because it's uncomfortable if you don't, right?

30:43 Yeah.

30:44 Stryker Okay, that's your biology operating there, right?

30:46 So it's normal, though?

30:48 Stryker Yeah, once a day is normal for 17.

30:49 Adam That's abnormal. You should be doing it four times a day.

30:51 Drew I was going to say, absolutely.

30:54 Adam Okay, man.

30:54 Stryker Yeah.

30:55 Adam All right, keep on going. That's a master glide. It'll feel a lot better. SR-71 is here and they'll be hanging out for a couple of hours coming to a town near you. We're going to talk to Daisy32. What's up?

31:06 Stryker Hello. Hello. Well, I'm having a problem with my girlfriend. Go ahead. Well, we've been dating for a couple of months. Well, she wants to have sex and I want to have sex with her, but when we start getting intimate, I just kind of don't want to. I don't understand it because I'm very attracted to her. I get aroused. Then I just seize up and it's like, no, okay, I don't want to.

31:35 Adam Have you been with a lot of women before?

31:36 Stryker No. I've considered myself bi since my late teens, early 20s, started acting on it in my mid-20s. I've had one girl from where I was sexually active with her and the girl that I'm dating now, she's been with one other woman also. So we're not totally beginners but still pretty new to both of us.

32:01 Adam Dr. Drew, I think this could be the right avenue but possibly not. Girl last night, every time she wanted to have sex with a guy, she said, no. You said, what happened? She said she was violated when she was younger. So when she gets to that point, it's like, no, I don't want to get there. Anything happened to you when you were younger, Daisy?

32:16 Stryker Oh, a lot happened to me when I was younger.

32:17 Adam Of course.

32:20 Stryker No, I was never violated in that way and normally, I have a sex drive to match almost any guy.

32:26 Drew Where do you live?

32:29 Adam She likes women.

32:29 Drew And your friend? Where are you and your friend?

32:31 Stryker Remember we talked about, I was talking last night about trajectories, that people have some sort of early exposure to sexual material and that sort of sets them on that trajectory of being hypersexual. Does that fit your history?

32:42 Stryker Yes. I was promiscuous at a very early age. How old?

32:47 Stryker How about before that? I'm talking about like six, eight. Something happened to you then?

32:52 Stryker No.

32:52 Stryker Whether you were exposed to pornography or some other child touched you in some overtly sexual way?

32:57 Stryker No.

32:59 Stryker So it's just you. Are you, no manic depression in your family anywhere?

33:04 Stryker No, manic, well, no, let's see. Yes, but not by blood. Very. I could be the poster child for dysfunctional families. I spent lots and lots of time on the couch.

33:15 Stryker Okay. That has something to do with it, then. So this stuff, this stuff.

33:18 Stryker Yeah. I'm just kind of wondering if, I'm kind of confused whether this is, I've consciously made a point in the last few years with relationships to kind of slow them down, get to know people better.

33:29 Stryker Is it possibly something you're sort of intuiting about her, that there's something maybe more troubling there than you really realize, than your body and your sort of instinct is telling you, don't go there, don't get that intimate with her?

33:40 Stryker You know, I hadn't thought of that. That is possible.

33:43 Stryker And this isn't something you've ever done before in your relationships. It's not as though this is, hey, this means X, Y, Z to me when this happens. Right.

33:50 Stryker No, no. Usually, like I said, I tend to be more like a guy when it comes to sex, and if I get horny, I just do it.

33:57 Adam But with her, you're not doing it.

33:58 Stryker I'm not doing that, and I'm a little confused about why this, unless I'm having some performance anxiety or something.

34:04 Stryker Well, there's that. And that can kind of go both ways, right? And this is sort of an overgeneralization perhaps, but it's that either it's that you intuit something sort of not right about this relationship or maybe something too right about it, and it's overwhelming and scary to go down that intimate pathway with her because it's too close, too tight, too good.

34:21 Stryker Okay, and it could be too maybe, anything to do with the fact that this lesbian relationship is new to both of us?

34:27 Stryker Well, you said it's not new. Are you perfectly comfortable with that? You know, you've sort of...

34:31 Adam Since you're late teens, you've been going with women.

34:33 Stryker You've laid it out to us that way.

34:34 Stryker I've been interested in women, haven't been acting on it until my late 20s.

34:37 Stryker Do you feel guilty about it?

34:38 Stryker Oh, God, no.

34:40 Stryker You're 32. I hope you sort of have command of all these sorts of things by this time. I don't think it would be that sort of thing, no.

34:48 Adam You know what's great or odd about this? We talked to these women since I've been hosting this, that they're all ready to have sex, and when it's time to, they close their legs, okay? Would you guys ever, when you're in that business, just say, ah, no, I'm not going to have sex with you.

35:01 Stryker Or how about, it goes further than that for women. It's like, I'm almost there with, oh, no, I'm just not tonight, no.

35:06 Adam A guy would never do that.

35:08 Stryker They're talking about trajectories.

35:09 Drew Actually, I disagree. I disagree. In my younger years.

35:13 Stryker Right? That's called erectile dysfunction.

35:15 Drew No, no, no.

35:16 That's actually true in that.

35:18 Drew Seriously, I was with somebody who were in the middle of the act and-

35:22 Adam And what was his name?

35:23 Drew Fred. Let's just call her Fred. But it seemed to me that although she was telling me she was into it, that she wasn't and I just completely wanted to stop.

35:33 Stryker I can see that.

35:33 Drew And I was like, you know what? I could watch television right now and be more entertained.

35:37 Stryker When you feel that complete disconnect, it's almost spooky.

35:40 Adam That's different than I was talking about. She's talking about hot and heavy.

35:42 Stryker You're into it. You're into it.

35:44 Drew I can stop that. But you know what? I also think there's something going on where you're into this person but when it gets right down to it, you're not sexually attracted to this person. Physically, they might be everything you want but I mean, sexist smells and it's chemical. It's all these things. She might get right to the point because, yeah, I'm just not that turned on.

36:01 Stryker I think Dr. Drew was right saying that she, that it just seems like something that's too right.

36:06 Stryker I think either too right, I think it's what you're talking about though too, either too right or something you're intuiting and those kinds of issues come to bear on that.

36:13 Drew I've been there.

36:15 Adam Would you walk through hot coals to grab knockers? No. Come on, Mitch, you're lying to me.

36:20 Stryker To grab an idol in Bora Bora. You haven't seen this yet.

36:24 Adam No, no. Don't tell me a thing.

36:25 Stryker There is a hot coal walking scene.

36:27 Adam Put down the tiki, Bobby.

36:28 Stryker All right.

36:28 Adam SR-71 is here at Stryker for Adam Corolla along with Dr. Drew. More with SR-71 on Loveline. Hold on.

36:36 Loveline with Adam Corolla and Dr. Drew.

37:07 Adam All right, we're back. It's Loveline. 1-800-LOVE-191, I would be Ted Stryker, in for Adam Corolla along with Dr. Drew and SR-71 from Baltimore's here.

37:16 Drew What up?

37:17 Adam All right, Mitch, I got a question for you.

37:19 Drew Is it about masturbation or jerking off or anything?

37:20 Adam No, it is not.

37:21 Stryker Okay.

37:21 Adam It's the same thing. But we were just talking about something, and these guys were talking about it, so I wanna see if you give the same answer. What is the new bus missing that the old tour bus had?

37:33 Stryker In massive amounts.

37:34 Drew Oh god.

37:35 Stryker 24-7.

37:36 Drew I hope you can say this on the radio. Cum stains.

37:40 Stryker Produced as a result of what?

37:42 Drew Other bands. It's an old bus.

37:44 Stryker Oh, come on.

37:45 Drew Okay, hold on, hold on.

37:45 Stryker Think about the crew.

37:46 Crew.

37:48 Adam The crew was in it.

37:49 Stryker And their pastime.

37:50 Adam And Dan was in it, and he was going, oh my god, I gotta just.

37:53 Drew And the new bus doesn't have it? The new bus does not have it.

37:55 Stryker Well, you have to order it.

37:56 Drew You have to order it and pay for it. Satellite.

37:59 Adam No, it hasn't. Satellite, what? Raylene.

38:02 Drew Porn.

38:02 Stryker There you go.

38:03 Drew Oh my god, we don't have porn on the new bus?

38:05 Adam No, you don't.

38:06 Stryker We don't.

38:06 Drew Oh, I am. Oh, god.

38:07 Stryker It's a very new bus. We just got it. He doesn't even know that yet.

38:09 Drew Channel 598, baby. I knew that one. I knew all about 598.

38:13 Adam In Tucson, Channel 28 is the old station to watch. All right, you ready to take some more calls? Sure. All right, let's do this. Lynn, 19 on Loveline.

38:22 Oh, hi. Thank you so much for taking my call.

38:25 Adam It's my pleasure.

38:27 Okay. My problem is actually strangely similar to the last woman you had call. My boyfriend and I have been together for two and a half years. The first two years of our relationship, we had great sex, like the best sex, wonderful. About six months ago, I started feeling really uncomfortable during foreplay.

38:48 Stryker Let me stop you right here. You started seeing him when you were how old?

38:53 We got together when I guess I was about 17.

38:56 Stryker Or 16? I'm just doing the math here.

38:58 Yeah.

38:59 Stryker You had world-class experiences physically with him between 16 and 18?

39:03 I started young.

39:05 Stryker Most 16-year-olds aren't capable of that really.

39:08 Drew It's great when you're 16 and 18, but when you're 25, trust me, you'll find out what world-class is.

39:13 Caller If it's just going to get better, I'll take your word for it.

39:15 Stryker All right. Okay. Anyway.

39:17 Caller Yeah. Just about six months ago, during foreplay, I would be kissing and touching, and I would just tense up and freak out and just be like, please, please leave me alone.

39:27 Stryker So what's changed?

39:29 Caller I have no idea. I'm really just at my wit's end, and I'm about to go get counseling because I really don't know.

39:35 Stryker You're not on any medication?

39:36 Caller No, and I was never sexually abused as a child.

39:40 Stryker I wasn't going there. Birth control pills? Excuse me? You start birth control pills?

39:44 Caller I've been on birth control since I was 16.

39:47 Stryker And no change in pill type or?

39:48 Caller No, same kind.

39:50 Stryker And anything change in the relationship?

39:52 Caller No, not at all. We're discussing getting married. We're perfectly happy.

39:56 Stryker Is that freaking you out?

39:57 Caller No, not at all.

39:59 Adam Does your boyfriend?

39:59 Caller I'm not going to do it with something like this, such a huge problem.

40:03 Adam Lynn, does your boyfriend know that you're freaking out about this?

40:06 Caller Oh, yeah. We discussed that we have a very good relationship. I mean, he can obviously tell.

40:10 Adam Well, he's got to be frustrated.

40:12 Drew Are you smoking weed a lot?

40:13 Caller I feel horrible. I don't like the situation.

40:15 Drew Have you been smoking weed a lot lately?

40:18 Caller Yeah. My boyfriend and I both smoke a lot of weed.

40:21 Stryker Interesting.

40:22 Drew I think we're on to something.

40:23 Stryker Yeah, that'll shut you down pretty good.

40:24 Caller Really?

40:25 Stryker Oh, absolutely.

40:26 Caller Oh, wow.

40:27 Adam But if you mix ecstasy and coke, you'll be wonderful.

40:30 Stryker Oh, no. I didn't do anything else. No, I'm just kidding. Here's the deal. As you've probably heard me say, marijuana addiction always follows the same course. Somebody gets exposed to it a couple of times, somewhere around the third time, pow, oh, my God, the greatest thing, and you start thinking about it every day thereafter and smoking it most days, and maybe every day, and somewhere between one and maybe many years later, it stops working. You start getting depressed, start freaking out about things, panic attacks get forgetful, and it has a profound biological effect. And when you stop, it will get worse for about six months.

41:01 Adam Is it just the women that don't want it, if this is what it is, the marijuana making it like...

41:05 Stryker No, men get erectile dysfunction, all kinds of things.

41:07 Adam God, Cypress Hill has no problem.

41:09 Stryker How does it affect so many different people so many different ways?

41:12 Stryker That's what we don't know about it. Some people after, you know, Lynn, after a year, she starts to get this stuff. Other people, you know, Joe, he's been smoking 30 years, he's still okay.

41:19 Drew You know what, though?

41:20 Stryker That's out there.

41:20 Drew I've been taking a survey of my friends. Every one of my friends that started smoking weed when they were like 14, 15 years old stopped at 22. Everybody that started at 18, 19 smokes until they're 28, 29, 30. I think there's something to do when you start young.

41:32 Stryker But the people that's... Well, there's actually some brain change when you start young. But the people that start young almost always graduate to something else.

41:39 Drew Right.

41:39 Stryker They're at 22, they find they're at a speed of cocaine or alcohol.

41:42 Drew Yeah.

41:44 Adam Andrew. Yeah. 17. What's going on, man?

41:46 Hey, this question is for SR-71.

41:49 Drew What's up, Andrew?

41:50 What's up, man? I just wanted to know how you guys are classifying your music now and what kind of bands influenced you when you were growing up and starting out?

41:58 Drew Good question. We're a rock band. A lot of people think we're a punk rock band. We got a lot of punk in us, but I think we're more of just a rock band. We love everything from the Sex Pistols to the Beatles.

42:09 Really? That's cool though. I'm glad that you didn't say punk.

42:13 Drew No, we're not a punk band. We've never worn that moniker. The song right now, a lot of people hear it and they go, ah, you know, Blink 182 or punk.

42:20 You guys toured with them and bad religion, you know?

42:22 Drew Well, I'll tell you, if you listen to the song, if you listen to the vocals, if you listen to the way I sing more than anything, you can tell it's pretty much a rock band. It's just an up-tempo rock song. A lot of people get that.

42:31 Stryker It's more like I want you to want me than What's My Name Again.

42:34 Drew You know, it's funny, I grew up listening to Metallica. And that riff, that double-picked guitar riff, that's so metal.

42:39 Yeah, Master of Puppets, man.

42:41 Drew Oh, my favorite records, man. But I grew up double-picking everything, and that riff is just so metal to me. And then the song kicks in, and it's pretty fast. There's so many chords you can kind of put in it. So a lot of people think it's more of a punk tune. And there's definitely a punk edge to it, but we're a rock band.

42:55 All right, man, cool.

42:56 Adam Andrew, you from the East Coast?

42:57 Caller Yeah, man.

42:58 Adam Have you seen them live before?

43:00 Caller You know what? I was going to go to the show at Jones Beach, but Jones Beach doesn't have a pit. And I'm not down there. They made one.

43:06 Drew You gotta be at the Bowery Ballroom, bro, in New York. 28th of September, you gotta come.

43:13 Caller I live in California now, man.

43:14 Drew Oh, you missed the show tonight. We're at the House of Blues.

43:17 Stryker I can go to Modesto.

43:18 Drew Yeah, go to Modesto. You got a car?

43:20 Adam Reno, San Francisco, Portland, Seattle, Salt Lake, San Francisco, Tucson.

43:23 Stryker San Francisco in 26. Yo, maybe I'll check it out.

43:26 Drew Please.

43:26 Stryker All right, man. See you, bro. Look at that schedule. That is insanity.

43:29 Adam Excellent schedule.

43:31 Drew Welcome to the RCA world.

43:32 Adam I wanted to see you guys tonight at the House of Blues, but I had to do my show on camera.

43:36 Drew We were hoping that you would be there. I understand, though.

43:38 Adam But the rumor is that you guys are just an awesome live band. Is that...

43:42 Drew It's a true rumor.

43:43 Adam Is that what you guys shoot?

43:45 Stryker What we pride ourselves in.

43:47 Adam Just to, you know, blow everyone's minds away.

43:49 Drew If the audience doesn't sweat as much as the band, we have not done our job.

43:52 Adam I heard you say the best quote. We're a band that will not look at our toes while we play.

43:56 Drew Oh, absolutely. There's no shoe gazing in this band. As a matter of fact, I swear to God, this is a true story. I'm up there playing and I'm rocking out and I feel something. I look down and my guitar tech is tying my shoes because somehow my shoe came untied. I didn't even know.

44:08 Adam As soon as you have someone tying your shoes, you know you've moved up somewhere.

44:10 Drew And then he's wiping my brow.

44:11 Adam Would you like me to scrub your penis for you?

44:13 Stryker Wiping your what?

44:14 Drew And I'm only my brow.

44:16 Adam Sorry. His eyebrow.

44:17 Drew My brow.

44:17 Adam All right. Sarah, 18, you're on Loveline.

44:20 Caller Hi.

44:20 Adam Hi.

44:22 Caller It took forever for you guys to come to me.

44:24 Adam Well, I'm going to put you on hold. We'll be back to you in one sec.

44:27 Stryker That is a cool move.

44:28 Adam Oh, man. Let's talk to Brett. Sarah, we'll be back to you. Don't worry. Brett, you're 14 on Loveline.

44:35 Caller Hi. I got this friend, but he's gay and I'm not. I mean, him are real close, but he was trying to hit on me and stuff.

44:45 Adam You're gay too, right?

44:46 Caller No.

44:47 Stryker How old is he? You're gay. How old is he?

44:50 Caller He's 15.

44:51 Stryker 15. Why don't you put a stop to it?

44:55 Caller Um, because I just want our friendship to go on because I haven't known him since kindergarten.

45:00 Stryker I understand, but if he is not going to have any respect for you or boundaries, then that's it. There's no friendship there. There's got to be mutuality for there to be a friendship.

45:08 Drew He wants more than friendship anyway.

45:10 Stryker Well, but he might be able to knock it off if you really let it be known, but it sounds to me like you haven't been very clear with him. You're afraid he's going to leave. You're afraid you're going to upset him. Hey, hell with that. He is being disrespectful to you and your needs and desires in this relationship.

45:26 Adam Brett, do you get aroused, excited, happy that you're getting this attention from him?

45:32 Caller Not really, no.

45:34 Adam Do you like girls?

45:35 Caller Yeah.

45:35 Adam A lot?

45:37 Caller I think a little too much.

45:38 Adam OK. All right.

45:39 Stryker But you don't sound like the most assertive guy in the world, Brett. Right. Here's a situation where you've got to be very, very clear and not worry about his feelings. OK, because he's certainly not been worrying about yours in terms of how he comes on to you.

45:52 Drew You need to find a girl that you can parade in front of him too.

45:54 Stryker Don't lose the friendship. But he's not doing anything to keep the friendship going such as it is right now anyway.

46:00 Adam No, Brett, be assertive. Tell him, hey, dude, stop hitting on me. We're not going to be friends and then things will be fine. Sarah, you ready to be more pleasant?

46:07 Stryker Yep. Too bad.

46:09 Adam We're putting you on hold.

46:12 I knew it.

46:13 Adam Sarah, you're going to have to hold on a bit more. All right. Stryker here for Corolla with Dr. Drew and SR-71. We'll talk to Sarah possibly next on Loveline.

46:23 Caller Loveline, Loveline, we'll be right back.

47:13 Adam What song is this, Dr. Drew?

47:15 Caller Metallica.

47:16 Stryker I was going to say Metallica.

47:17 Adam Yeah, very good. Very good. All right, it's Loveline. We're back with SR-71, coming to a city near you. Let me just throw out a few cities, and these guys could be near you.

47:25 Drew All of them.

47:26 Adam Desto tomorrow, they're going to be in Reno, San Fran, Portland, Seattle, Salt Lake, Tempe.

47:31 Stryker A day separates each day from the next.

47:33 Adam Yeah, that's unbelievable.

47:34 Drew Seven nights a week.

47:36 Adam God.

47:37 Drew Hey, man. We love it.

47:38 Adam How's everyone getting along in the band right now?

47:40 Drew I hate these guys.

47:41 Stryker Shut up.

47:42 Drew With a passion.

47:42 Stryker Yeah.

47:43 Drew We're actually getting another bus for me.

47:45 Stryker Just for you.

47:46 Adam Just to fit your big ass head in there.

47:48 Stryker It's a wider bus.

47:49 Adam All right. I'm curious now, from the East Coast, from Baltimore, were you just playing the local scene there, created a big buzz and got the deal? How did everything come about?

47:57 Stryker Five years.

47:58 New York City.

47:59 Drew Yeah, pretty much. We did the local scene for five years, but we found out that there are no record companies in Baltimore. That was really, believe it or not, it took five years to figure that out. So we bought a van, a 1987 Dodge van and a trailer, and we hauled it to New York City every week, and we showcased and showcased. The funny part is we became the showcase band with that set that everybody talks about, that 40 minutes or that 45 minutes, but we actually discovered our manager in Raleigh, North Carolina. And he discovered us, discovered us, sort of. We sent him a tape, so I guess we discovered him. And we went back to New York with him, and the next thing you know, five months later we signed to RCA. Good job.

48:39 Adam That's how it's done if you're trying to be in a band. It doesn't happen overnight. You need to buy a Dodge and a trailer.

48:44 Drew A Dodge. Don't buy a Ford.

48:46 Adam Go to Raleigh, North Carolina. Next up is the O'Needers. Hey, that's the O'Needers. All right, Sarah, now we're going to speak to you. How are you?

48:53 Caller Great.

48:54 Adam Now you're pissed, right?

48:55 Caller No.

48:55 Adam Okay, good. Go right ahead.

48:57 Caller I've been going out with this guy for three and a half years. I'm 18 years old, and he is 21. And I have recently just moved to Palsville, Washington, and he lives in Woodland, Washington, and we've been very serious. And so we've been talking about...

49:24 Adam Talking faster.

49:28 Drew You've been dragging out, you mean?

49:30 Adam Sarah, what's the question?

49:31 Caller I want to know if I should wait for him to come out here and live with me out here, or I'm waiting for a commitment. I'm waiting for to ask me to be engaged.

49:48 Adam That's why she's been on hold for 72 minutes.

49:51 Drew You're 18 for God's sake.

49:53 Stryker What is the hurry?

49:54 Caller I know. That's what everybody's telling me.

49:56 Drew They're right.

49:57 Caller I know.

49:58 Adam Marriage does not immediately solve everything wrong in a relationship or immediately just make everything better.

50:07 Caller My family has just been going crazy on me.

50:10 Stryker What is the hurry?

50:12 Caller No hurry, really. I come from a broken-up family. I live with my grandparents, and they have passed away in less than a year, and I've been moved to two other places.

50:22 Stryker All right, but looking for a life preserver is not the greatest way to build a relationship.

50:26 Caller That's true, but...

50:27 Stryker And what you're going to end up doing is recreating the broken family you came from in the first place.

50:32 Caller Yeah, but now I've been put into a very rich environment, and it feels kind of awkward, but...

50:40 Adam How are you in a rich environment? I'm not sure I know what that means.

50:44 Caller My aunt and uncle that I live with now are very wealthy people, and I live in Pauzeville, which is very close to Seattle, and I'm just in Pauzeville.

50:56 Stryker Go to school, get a career. Yeah, enjoy that. Take your time. Look, Sarah, do not look for a hostage, a life preserver, a way of solving your problems. That's not what relationships are about. Relationships are about two people that have their lives together, coming together and sharing those lives.

51:11 Caller Yeah, I guess you guys are right.

51:13 Stryker You're 18 for Crying Out Loud. You're going to inadvertently recreate your family of origin. Let's break the cycle. Let's get your S together, go to school, enjoy those resources that, thank God, you've got now.

51:27 Adam Take advantage of the situation you're in now, Sarah. Make the most of this. I mean, I'm sorry everything happened to you, what happened to you before this, but now you're in a good environment with rich people. Take advantage of it, not of them, but of the situation you're in.

51:40 Stryker The University of Washington's a few miles away, come on.

51:43 Stryker And come do our show on the 29th.

51:45 Stryker See these guys?

51:46 Drew Is it DC or Washington State?

51:48 Stryker No, she's near Seattle.

51:49 Drew Oh, Seattle, that's what I thought.

51:50 Caller Yeah, right across the bay. We live on the water, too.

51:53 Stryker Sarah, this is it. This is your opportunity. You're at the crossroad.

51:56 Caller I'm looking at six years of free college.

51:58 Stryker Oh, sorry, you're right there.

52:01 Stryker Do not abort.

52:02 Drew Get to know your aunt and uncle.

52:03 Stryker Do not eject. Do not get off the path.

52:06 Stryker Do not get an art degree or something stupid like that.

52:08 Stryker Like me?

52:10 Stryker Thanks. I got a music degree.

52:12 Stryker Get whatever you want. Just study. Just get through school.

52:14 Drew Get an LCSW.

52:16 Stryker That's right. I agree with that, too.

52:17 Adam Start the school and finish it. Say hi to my cousins that live in Squim. Have you heard of Squim, Dr. Drew?

52:22 Stryker No.

52:22 Adam It's a little peninsula there in Seattle. Amazing. I was supposed to go next week.

52:26 Stryker Washington is a great state. Greatest state in the universe. You know why?

52:29 Adam Why?

52:29 Stryker You can get the morning after pill over the counter there.

52:32 Adam Really?

52:32 Stryker Yeah. You don't need a prescription.

52:34 Adam How old do you have to be, by the way?

52:36 Stryker Good question. Maybe 14. Maybe the same as a planned parent had birth control, that kind of thing.

52:42 Adam Very good.

52:42 Stryker I don't know that. I don't know.

52:43 Drew With a parent's signature.

52:44 Stryker Well, if you have the question to call 1-888-not-too-late, that'll be it.

52:49 Adam 1-888-not-too-late.

52:51 Stryker Yeah.

52:51 Adam That's the number two. All right. James, 16 on Loveline with SR-71.

52:56 Caller Hi.

52:57 Stryker I got a problem.

52:59 Stryker Okay. We're here to help.

53:03 Stryker I'm going out with this girl, and my best friend wants me to cheat on her.

53:08 Caller What should I do?

53:10 Stryker With him or her?

53:11 Stryker With her.

53:12 Stryker Your best friend is a girl?

53:13 Stryker Yes.

53:14 Stryker And she wants you to cheat?

53:16 Stryker I'm my girlfriend.

53:17 Stryker With whom? Wait, wait, wait. Your best friend is not your best friend. Your best friend is a girl that's into you. Big time. And the reason that you have that friendship is, the reason that was established in the first place, is she was completely into you. Don't be an idiot.

53:28 Drew Are you attracted to her? Your best friend that is? No. Oh, well then what are you worried about?

53:32 Stryker That's why they're friends.

53:33 Drew Yeah, say no.

53:34 Stryker She's into it, he isn't. You've got a girlfriend. You've got to confront your friend about this. This is not right.

53:41 Adam Jealousy. She likes you, but it's the, call that friend. Hold on, yeah, let's see if we can get the number. Hey, James? Yeah? Can we put you on hold and we can call up your best friend who's a girl and find out where she's at?

53:53 Caller She's at a town right now.

53:54 Adam Where is she at? The Niagara Falls area?

53:57 Stryker She's in Nevada right now.

53:58 Adam What's that?

53:58 Stryker She's in Nevada right now.

53:59 Stryker Self of Nevada? Yeah, Nevada.

54:02 Stryker Hey, you guys got corny commercials.

54:05 Adam We do? Okay. James, all I'm going to say is you, this girl is into you, and-

54:10 Stryker We can't figure out why.

54:11 Adam Yeah, we can't figure out why.

54:13 Stryker This is entitlement night. This is grandiose entitlement caller night.

54:16 Adam Wow, she's indicator and fortunately she's not still.

54:18 Stryker And since Corolla's not here to put them in line, I'm going to have to take the reins.

54:23 Adam I'm putting a little bit of line here. I'm just not going over the edge. I'm a guest here. I'm not, you know, unacceptable. You're gay.

54:31 Caller All right.

54:31 Stryker Like a ghost. Yeah, exactly.

54:34 Adam Brittany, you're 16.

54:36 Caller Yeah, I started seeing this guy about two weeks ago today. And when I met him, I was crying. And like you were what?

54:47 Stryker When I met him, crying.

54:48 Caller Yeah, I was crying. And me and my friend were both talking to each other, saying how creepy he was. And I started seeing his brother, which I really, really like. And I enjoy his company. But Monday night, I went over to his house to visit his younger brother. And this guy, me and him ended up fooling around.

55:07 Stryker The younger brother.

55:09 Caller No, the older brother.

55:09 Adam The guy you like.

55:11 Stryker The creepy guy?

55:12 Caller Yeah, the creepy guy.

55:13 Stryker Why are we fooling around with the creepy guy?

55:14 Caller Well, because I originally, like originally, I was seeing him.

55:18 Stryker I just imagine a bottle floating on the sea.

55:20 Adam Well, she was getting fried.

55:22 Stryker She just, she just a flow, a drift. A drift. Lost.

55:26 Adam Yeah. So, what's the question, Brittany?

55:29 Caller Well, when I went over there, we were fooling around and I told him I didn't want to have sex or anything and he kept like saying he wasn't going to.

55:38 Adam Right.

55:38 Caller And this guy is 18 years old and he stuck it in anyway and I kept trying to push him off of me and he wouldn't get off of me and I'm not sure exactly how I'm supposed to react to it.

55:48 Stryker You call the police.

55:50 Caller Yeah, well, I mean, I'm really, really into his, I mean, the younger brother and I don't want our relationship to end over this.

55:57 Drew It's already gone past that.

55:59 Adam You slept with the brother. No, not purposely, but just kissing made it go over the line.

56:06 Caller Well, the younger brother is not my boyfriend. We just started seeing each other.

56:09 Stryker Brittany, forget it.

56:11 Adam Brittany, this is ridiculous. I'm sorry that happened to you, but listen.

56:14 Stryker Call the police.

56:15 Adam Reason this out. This guy took advantage of you. You said no, and all you're thinking about is, well, I kind of like the brother, so maybe there's a chance.

56:22 Stryker You're making out with the older one anyway. Yeah. That's already makes the relationship with the younger brother impossible and it speaks volumes about how crazy this family is and these brothers are. The fact that you're attracted to them scares me even more. So look, Brittany, you got to end this. You got to call the police. God knows who else that he's forced himself on. You have to do that.

56:45 Adam And what can she do for herself? Like did he ejaculate?

56:50 Caller Um, yeah.

56:51 Adam Inside of you?

56:52 Caller No.

56:54 Adam Where?

56:55 Caller On the floor.

56:57 Stryker Oh my god. He is a world class dick. I want the David Allen Grier vomit sound, please.

57:05 Adam Alright, go to the, call the cops, go see a counselor, and don't go out with the younger brother.

57:11 Drew No, stay away from the whole family.

57:12 Stryker Yeah, it's a bad situation.

57:14 Adam Alright, Julie 24, you're on Loveline with SR-71.

57:17 Stryker I'm going to give her a phone number. It's 1-800-4-A-Child, 1-800-422-4453, 1-800-422-4453.

57:26 Adam Julie?

57:26 Stryker Hi.

57:27 Adam Hi, what's going on?

57:28 Stryker I am married and I have a husband with a healthy sex appetite like all guys, and we are trying to conceive, but I get yeast infections every time we have sex, and I'm wondering why, and if there's anything preventative measures I can take.

57:45 Stryker I drink a lot of water, I eat a lot of yogurt with active cultures.

57:48 Stryker No, that's not it, please.

57:49 Stryker What's that?

57:50 Stryker That's not gonna help you.

57:51 Adam Do you use the AB dolly?

57:53 Stryker I'm sorry, what?

57:54 Adam No.

57:54 Stryker You're not on any medication?

57:56 Stryker No, no, not at all.

57:57 Stryker And you guys aren't using condoms or anything?

57:59 Stryker No, I went off the pill a couple months ago.

58:02 Stryker Does he have anything on his skin?

58:05 Stryker No, no, we've been married for a year.

58:08 Stryker And have you been properly treated for the yeast infection?

58:11 Stryker Yeah, I have a diflucan, actually refilled the diflucan from my doctor.

58:16 Stryker And so you've used that repeatedly?

58:18 Stryker Yeah, I've used it like three or four times in the last couple months. I'm almost wondering if I could get an immunity to that?

58:22 Stryker No, you really can't. There's a couple things about recurrent yeast. One is, obviously you want to make sure you don't have diabetes and thyroid conditions, all these sorts of things that can predispose...

58:32 Stryker If I don't have what? Diabetes?

58:33 Stryker Medical problems that can predispose to yeast infection, which I can virtually guarantee you don't, but you ought to check that out. Number two, incomplete treatment of the yeast. A lot of people use the vaginal suppositories for yeast, and they sometimes don't get up into the recesses of the vagina and clear the yeast out of there, so the cream is useful. But then you're not using that using the diphlu can, which is very, very effective. Then finally, sometimes men can harbor a little bit of this in the urethra, and sometimes the man needs to be treated too. It's kind of unusual, but it can't happen. You need to talk to your gynecologist about perhaps treating your husband also.

59:06 Stryker Now, I've had other boyfriends. I'm sexually active before I was married, and I had the same problem.

59:11 Stryker Oh, really? Yeah. Well, you understand that's just a very delicate environment, that if anything disturbs it, it's like an ecosystem that goes a whack and this one thing blossoms. It's no big deal. It doesn't hurt you. It shouldn't really impair your fertility. You've seen gynecologists been tested in culture and whatnot? Yeah. All right. Well, it's something to reckon with, but not something to worry about.

59:35 Adam SR-71, when was the last time you guys talked about a yeast infection?

59:38 Stryker Wow. Just this morning coincidentally.

59:40 Stryker Are there any symptoms for a guy that would have them?

59:42 Stryker No. Again, if they just have a little bit in the urethra, there would be no symptoms. You can get a skin infection, get a little redness of the skin.

59:50 Stryker Not that I'm worried about that or anything.

59:52 Drew I'm Jewish. I don't know about yeast for at least 10 days out of the year.

59:56 Stryker Unleavened penis.

59:59 Adam It sat outside for nine days while his wiener burned. All right. Laura, 19 on Loveline. What's going on?

1:00:07 I live with my aunt and my uncle. My aunt is related to me. He's only by marriage. The thing is that he comes on to me. He puts his hands on me and I tell him, I'm like, you know what? I feel uncomfortable. So what I did was that I told him, I mean, like, because I have this boyfriend. I've been together for a long time and he's moving to Mexico. He's going back to Mexico. I told him when I was like, okay, you know what? I'm going to break up with him. But I didn't. The only reason I did it was so he can get mad and not leave me alone. But the thing is like now, he's like, it's as if he's trying to get me kicked out of the house.

1:00:45 Stryker The uncle is.

1:00:47 I don't want to do anything with him. You know what I mean? I don't want him to touch me.

1:00:50 Stryker You're talking in circles, Laura. But you feel like he's trying to get you kicked out of the house if you won't do something with him, right?

1:00:58 Well, I don't want him to touch me.

1:01:00 Stryker Hang on. We got that. And that's the healthiest thing about what you've said so far. But you've kept the boyfriend around just so he could protect you against the uncle?

1:01:07 Stryker Well, no.

1:01:08 The only reason I used it as an excuse just to say that I was going to break up with him so he would get mad and leave me alone. Like, it's like he's jealous or something.

1:01:19 Adam Oh, the uncle?

1:01:20 Yeah.

1:01:21 Adam So you said to the uncle, I'm not breaking up with my boyfriend.

1:01:24 No, I told him, I'm like, you know, well, I decided not to break up with him. You know, I decided to stay with him. I think that's... And he got mad at me. He goes, well, you're stupid.

1:01:32 Drew Where are your parents?

1:01:34 My parents live in San Francisco.

1:01:36 Stryker Why don't you call your parents?

1:01:38 Drew Which one of... Your uncle is related to who? Your mother or your father?

1:01:42 Oh, he's not related to any of them.

1:01:43 Stryker He's married to the mom's sister.

1:01:45 Drew Oh, okay.

1:01:45 My aunt is the one. And the thing is, my aunt is a larger woman. And she, you know, it bothers her. I mean...

1:01:52 Stryker She knows about this?

1:01:53 No, she doesn't know. Tell her. There's times where she's like... Well, the thing is, I'm afraid that they will, like, they'll take it the wrong way. They'll think that I'm trying to do something when I'm not. The only thing is...

1:02:04 Stryker Why don't you call your parents? I mean, you really... Just don't...

1:02:08 Don't make a big deal out of it. Don't make it like...

1:02:10 Stryker Laura, look, get out of there. Get out of this house.

1:02:13 Adam Well, yeah, get out... You're 19. Do you have a job?

1:02:16 Caller Yeah, I work at a bank.

1:02:17 Stryker Get out of the house.

1:02:18 Adam Can you afford to get your own place?

1:02:20 Caller Um, yeah, I mean, I can afford it. I'm starting to go to school, because that was the arrangement that I was going to live with them.

1:02:26 Stryker Well, forget it. This arrangement's not working. Move. It's not working.

1:02:29 Adam Adam. That's it. You're going to definitely pay for it in the long run.

1:02:32 Stryker Move.

1:02:33 Adam Definitely.

1:02:33 Stryker It's unfortunate. The arrangement, no good.

1:02:35 Drew And it is a big deal. It's a big enough deal for you to call in.

1:02:39 Stryker It's a huge deal. Huge deal.

1:02:40 Adam And it's all because her aunt is a large woman, by the way.

1:02:44 Stryker That's her thing. Laura, with the command of language that she had, it was just astonishing.

1:02:49 Adam Oh, man. It was in circles. All right. You're listening to Love Line, you guys. I'm Stryker with Dr. Drew, and we're going to talk to Miranda 14.

1:02:57 Caller Hi.

1:02:57 Stryker Hi.

1:02:58 Caller I have a problem with masturbation. I want to know if it's the same for girls as it is guys.

1:03:05 Stryker What do you mean if it's the same?

1:03:06 The same motion?

1:03:08 Stryker The answer is no.

1:03:09 Caller No, no, no. Not as in motion, but as in like as it is common as it is for guys. Yes. It is.

1:03:18 Stryker Well, it's not as necessary as it is for guys, but it's common for women.

1:03:21 Caller Really?

1:03:22 Adam How often do you do it a day?

1:03:23 Stryker Guys sort of must.

1:03:24 Caller Yeah, like I do it a lot. Like, I don't know.

1:03:27 Adam How many times?

1:03:28 Caller Like maybe like five, six times a day.

1:03:31 Drew No, that's a great thing.

1:03:32 Stryker It's a great thing, but at 14, it makes you wonder if something made her compulsive. Like some, again, we talked earlier about some exposure, some sexual material when you're a kid, or sexual abuse or witnessing something.

1:03:44 Caller Yeah, I had that kind of stuff.

1:03:45 Stryker What happened?

1:03:47 Caller When I was like, oh God, I don't want to talk about it.

1:03:51 Stryker All right, so you were sexually abused as a child.

1:03:53 Caller Yeah, a lot.

1:03:54 Stryker This is part of that, this sort of compulsion. This is where sexual compulsion has come from. And sex in that situation is not about sex. It's about this compulsion to manage these overwhelming feelings. And you should seek some treatment for this, Miranda.

1:04:06 Stryker You really should.

1:04:07 Caller I was going to get in the therapy, but like every single time, like I tell my parents in any therapy, because like I'm like really, really depressed, you know. They like, they say, oh no, you don't need that, you know.

1:04:19 Stryker You need it. Look, check out, there's a website, the National Council on Sexual Addiction and Compulsivity, NCSAC. She's not going to remember that. ncsac.org. And they have a lot of resources for people who have been through what you've been through, okay?

1:04:34 Caller All right.

1:04:35 Adam Good luck, Miranda.

1:04:35 Drew There's a bright sign.

1:04:36 Caller All right. Dr. Drew, I love you.

1:04:38 Stryker Thanks, Miranda.

1:04:39 Drew The fact that she can have five orgasms a day, yeah, will make a lot of girls jealous.

1:04:43 Adam It was six actually.

1:04:44 Drew Six.

1:04:44 Adam You know what though, like we'll see that we're going to talk about masturbation and addiction, and then I'm like, oh, this is going to be fun. And then she was molested as a kid.

1:04:53 Stryker I kill all the fun stuff.

1:04:54 Adam Yeah, seriously. You want to take it outside?

1:04:56 Stryker Poor Corolla can't go to strip bars anymore. Well, he still does. Let's face it, he does. Because those are all abused kids dancing around there, and he's able to see that now, and it kills him.

1:05:06 Drew All of them? All of them, you think?

1:05:07 Stryker Ruins his buzz. 85, 9%. The rest are bipolar.

1:05:12 Adam I spent my share of time in a strip club or two.

1:05:14 Drew Yeah, I was going to say.

1:05:15 Adam I got to know one or two here and there, and eventually you find out they are screwy, man.

1:05:20 Drew Yeah, I got a couch at home. I lay them down and talk to them for a little while, make sure everything's okay.

1:05:25 Adam Oh, do you? You walk around with a pen and write things down. You try to help. Where was your father? All right, Danielle, you're 15 on Loveline. What's going on?

1:05:35 Caller I have two questions. When I was seven, my mom's boyfriend molested me, and I was wondering if I should tell my mom.

1:05:44 Stryker Yes. Yes.

1:05:45 Caller He is recently deceased.

1:05:48 Stryker That doesn't matter. That's all the more reason that you're able to tell her now. It might even help her deal with his passing better to know that he was such a scoundrel.

1:05:55 Adam Not only will it get off your chest, maybe because you tell her, you'll be able to get some therapy and she'll be happy to help you get in therapy.

1:06:02 Stryker Tell your mom. I think that's fine.

1:06:04 Caller Okay? My other question was, I'm completely in love with this guy, but he absolutely hates me. I was wondering if I should call him up and tell him how I feel about him.

1:06:16 Stryker No. No. No. No. Just cool out. Just relax. Get some treatment, okay? Get your mom to get you somebody so you can get a real relationship with someone and to start to feel better about yourself and make better judgments about your relationships.

1:06:28 Adam Okay. Goodbye, Nino. So we're talking about molestation and I have another question. I really like this guy. What? It's like two sides.

1:06:38 Drew Two unrelated sides, of course.

1:06:40 Adam Dr. Drew just looked at me like a deer in headlights. Everything okay?

1:06:43 Stryker Yeah. I'm just watching you, enjoying.

1:06:45 Adam You're looking at me like either you're proud of your son or you want to make a move on me.

1:06:52 Stryker No desire to jump. All right.

1:06:55 Adam SR-71 is here on Loveline and Sarah, 15. What's going on?

1:06:59 Hello? Yes. Well, I have a boyfriend and everything's going really good and everything, but it seems like every time I get drunk, I'll have girlfriends around and I want to do something with one of them.

1:07:15 Adam God bless you.

1:07:16 Drew Absolutely.

1:07:18 But then in the morning, I feel really guilty and disgusted with myself about feeling that way.

1:07:22 Drew Well, we need to bring her on the bus.

1:07:26 Stryker She feels disgusted right now.

1:07:27 Stryker The band feels every morning too apparently.

1:07:29 Adam Sarah, you're 15, getting drunk. Do you have any feeling towards the girls when you're sober, walking around the classroom?

1:07:35 Caller No, no, but I, and it's like bad. I'll be with my boyfriend when I'm drunk and it's bad.

1:07:41 Adam What do you drink, beer?

1:07:43 Caller No.

1:07:43 Adam What?

1:07:44 Caller Black velvet.

1:07:45 Adam Well, you know your drink, all right.

1:07:47 Drew Would your boyfriend mind if you were with another girl?

1:07:50 Caller No, actually, I think he'd like it.

1:07:52 Stryker As long as he could watch. Nice. 15, how old is your boyfriend?

1:07:55 Caller Huh?

1:07:55 Stryker How old is your boyfriend? Well, Sarah, I'm sure that there's more to your story than just this little symptom.

1:08:06 Caller What do you mean?

1:08:07 Drew Father abused her.

1:08:08 Caller She's too young.

1:08:08 Stryker No, I don't know. There's a lot more going on here than just this one thing. It may be all about alcoholism and may be all about coming from a family of alcoholics. Whatever it is, it's about the consequences of alcohol here, right? You drink and you have things happen to you, yet you keep drinking. Yeah. Okay. Well, why not focus less on the symptom and more on sort of the source and the maybe not drink. You're 15. You're getting wasted at 15. And I suspect, I would bet that you have an alcoholic something in your family somewhere, right?

1:08:42 Caller Well, my mom's last boyfriend. We lived with him for about three years and he was a heavy alcoholic. That's why we had to leave.

1:08:51 Stryker Well, I would bet, given that mom picks alcoholics, that your dad was probably an alcoholic too, right?

1:08:59 Caller Not really. He drank a couple of beers when he came home from work or something, but he wasn't really abusive or anything like that.

1:09:05 Stryker He doesn't have to be abusive to be an alcoholic. You just have to give you the gene. Well.

1:09:12 Caller Well, that even was, that wasn't my real dad.

1:09:14 Stryker Okay. Your real dad, the one who gave you the gene, the one your mom picked to get pregnant with you for.

1:09:20 Caller Well, I don't know my real dad.

1:09:21 Stryker Because he was probably an alcoholic and left.

1:09:24 Caller Okay.

1:09:24 Stryker Okay. And you got the gene, and it's starting to express itself now. You better do something about it, because the consequences are going to begin to grow from here.

1:09:32 Caller Okay. Well, what does, I mean, what does that have to do with liking women?

1:09:36 Stryker That's. Hey, you're on drugs when you're like women. You don't like, when you're sober, you don't like women. You're on drugs.

1:09:41 Caller Yes.

1:09:42 Stryker So it's about the drugs, about the alcohol.

1:09:44 Drew You have six years to you can legally drink, plenty of time.

1:09:47 Caller Okay. So I'm not weird or anything.

1:09:49 Stryker It's about the, like you're an alcoholic and you're finding that out.

1:09:53 Caller Okay.

1:09:53 Adam All right, Sarah.

1:09:54 Caller Okay, thanks.

1:09:55 Adam Okay, bye. I mean, I'm sure you guys have gotten drunk plenty of time and wanted to make out with the local cows when you're in the Turbos or something.

1:10:01 Drew Dan is so attractive to me after 27 beers.

1:10:04 Stryker He's looking so good.

1:10:06 Adam So Sarah, it's in the genes. All right, SR-71 is here and we've got to take a quick break and we'll speak with Frank in a second. And his girlfriend will not have sex unless she's drunk. Wow, sounds like me three years ago. Hold on, it's Loveline.

1:10:23 Caller Loveline, we'll be right back. Call on the 1-800-LOVE-191.

1:11:00 Adam All right, we're back. It's Loveline. Stryker here for Adam Carolla, along with Dr. Drew and SR-71. We're gonna play another song from SR-71.

1:11:08 Drew Thank God we're gonna play another song.

1:11:10 Adam Definitely. So check this out. Everyone knows the other song, but this is Politically Correct, SR-71, on Love On.

1:14:34 Stryker Get It On.

1:14:35 Stryker More applause, more huge applause.

1:14:37 Stryker I love it.

1:14:38 Adam Excellent. All right, that's SR-71, Politically Correct. And I just mumbled Politically Correct. That's on the CD. Now you see inside in Yes, sir. SR-71 coming to a city near you. See them live, because apparently it's just awesome. We rock. We rock. And not necessarily a punk band.

1:14:54 Drew We're rock, punk, we're funk, funk, jazz. We're all of it.

1:14:58 Adam So do you guys get emails from people that hear the one song on the radio, and then, you know, I was expecting this on the CD, or I like this on the CD, what's the vibe you guys are getting?

1:15:08 Drew We'll put it out there right now, there are not 11 songs on the CD that sound just like right now. There's all kinds of great stuff on there. Right now it's pretty much the extreme, it's the fastest tune on the record. But then there's PC, that's our next signal, the one that came out. And then there's some slow mid-tempo rock stuff.

1:15:22 Stryker There's Deal Stryker, we're not gonna see these guys again. You know what I'm saying? There's gonna go whoosh, straight up.

1:15:28 Drew We can only hope.

1:15:29 Adam We're only coming back if Adam Corolla's gonna be in.

1:15:32 Oh, damn.

1:15:35 Adam All right, Andrea, 17 on Loveline.

1:15:37 Caller Hey, I'm actually just calling to talk to SR-71.

1:15:41 Drew We love this.

1:15:42 Adam Okay, we're gonna have to put you on hold.

1:15:43 Caller Oh, come on.

1:15:45 Stryker Oh, seriously?

1:15:46 Stryker No, go ahead.

1:15:47 Stryker Okay, well anyways, you guys totally rock. And me and my friend are gonna go see you at the Film Wall on Saturday.

1:15:51 Drew Oh, great, San Francisco.

1:15:53 Stryker Yeah. And anyways, I was just calling to ask Mitch, when you're writing the lyrics to your songs, do you ever hold back from what you originally wanted to say because you know that your family and friends and the public will be hearing your songs?

1:16:06 Drew Absolutely not. Actually, there are a lot of times that Jeff actually turns to me and says, you know, you're being vague. You're not saying exactly what you want to say. I know what you want to say, but I don't think anybody else is. Be more specific. Say what you want to say. And I'll tell you, that song that you just heard, Politically Correct, is kind of about...

1:16:22 Stryker Yeah, I love that song. It's awesome.

1:16:24 Drew You know where I'm coming from, speaking your mind. I think the biggest problem we have today in society is that nobody wants to speak their mind and tell the truth. And if somebody asks you a question, there's always that preface. You want me to answer honestly? The fact that you have to say that is ridiculous.

1:16:41 Stryker And you still don't.

1:16:42 Drew Right. It's all about being honest. And lyrically, I think I've always tried to be honest, as honest as I can describing a situation, or an idea, or a thought.

1:16:50 Stryker And when other people can relate to it, that's brilliant. That's what you want.

1:16:54 Caller Right.

1:16:54 Drew And the bluntness of it, I think, helps because sometimes you laugh, because you don't hear being blunt so much anymore. Good question.

1:17:01 Stryker Yeah.

1:17:02 Caller Thank you.

1:17:02 Drew Awesome.

1:17:03 Adam Have fun at their show on Saturday.

1:17:04 Caller We'll see you there.

1:17:05 Drew All right.

1:17:05 Adam All right. I won't, but they will.

1:17:08 Drew We're bringing him. We're throwing him on the bus tonight. Don't worry.

1:17:10 Stryker Okay. Great.

1:17:11 Adam I'm getting on with good old Dave. Dave, by the way, who I hear, used to go to your shows just because he wanted to pick up on women.

1:17:17 Drew Oh, you heard about that.

1:17:18 Adam I heard all about it.

1:17:18 Drew He never liked the band. He never used to come out and he used to. I can't tell you exactly what he said because I don't think I could say it, but he said that, I don't really like listening to you guys, but all the girls are here. So I got to hang.

1:17:28 Stryker Dave who?

1:17:29 Drew He still go home alone.

1:17:30 Adam This guy Dave.

1:17:31 Stryker He's running around here.

1:17:32 Stryker Dave Cash.

1:17:32 Adam He just wants a shout out. He got it. All right.

1:17:34 Stryker How's it going, Dave?

1:17:35 Adam Jason, 20, you're on Loveline.

1:17:37 Stryker Yes.

1:17:38 Adam And what's up?

1:17:39 Stryker Speaking of my mind, I have a great relationship with my girlfriend, and I always tell her what I'm feeling, but she won't shave her pubic area for me. And it's something that I just want her to try once.

1:17:53 Stryker So you've asked her to do it.

1:17:55 Stryker Yes, I've asked her to do it many times. And she just can't get used to the idea.

1:18:01 Adam How old is she?

1:18:02 Stryker She's 17.

1:18:03 Caller I'm 20.

1:18:05 Stryker Marginal.

1:18:07 Stryker Yeah, it's marginal, but it's just something that physically turns me on.

1:18:13 Drew You know what we call that in Baltimore? The big 70s bush.

1:18:18 Adam You need a machete to get through there right now, don't you? Big old machete.

1:18:21 Drew It's like a 70s porn film, man. You remember those? They pull down their pants, you go, what are you wearing? Feather underwear?

1:18:27 Adam What's she afraid of? Razor burn?

1:18:30 Stryker Just that it's going to hurt.

1:18:33 Stryker She's actually tried it before with clippers, like with number four.

1:18:38 Adam Oh, you got to go with the number two.

1:18:40 Stryker Number two, David.

1:18:41 Drew And then when you get good, number one.

1:18:43 Stryker What is that, a shears? Is that a shears or something?

1:18:45 Adam Yeah, exactly.

1:18:47 Stryker Just like a sheep.

1:18:47 Stryker She clips her bikini line with shears in the bathtub, but she'll never go anything more than that.

1:18:53 Stryker Well, here's an option. There's now laser that can actually remove the hair in the hair.

1:18:57 Drew I was going for that. How much money do you have in the bank saved up?

1:19:00 Stryker Well, I started my own business, so I'll have a couple grand in a couple more.

1:19:04 Stryker These flash lasers, can one application take care of that?

1:19:08 Drew Permanent.

1:19:08 Adam That's permanent. I know the best product to take off the hair. Have you guys seen the infomercial for a product called Nads?

1:19:16 Stryker Yeah, I have.

1:19:17 Adam Seriously, it's called Nads.

1:19:18 Stryker I thought it was a joke.

1:19:20 Adam They have the hairiest man in the history of mankind in this infomercial. He's sitting back smiling. Some French lady is rubbing Nads, not product. On his legs. It was on his leg and he's sitting there smiling and she rips this thing off his leg and he...

1:19:34 Stryker It doesn't repeat.

1:19:36 Adam And they're like, look, he's not even in any pain. He's just smiling back and he's like, get this fricking thing off of me, please. Go for the Nads, Jason.

1:19:46 It must be an acronym.

1:19:48 Adam Yeah, I think it is.

1:19:49 Drew If she thinks shaving hurts, get Nads.

1:19:51 Adam Exactly. Have you heard of that product?

1:19:55 Stryker Yeah, her sister told her to do some waxing and her sister had a bad experience with it and I guess she's...

1:20:02 Adam Tell her to use baby oil.

1:20:04 Stryker Baby oil.

1:20:05 Adam And a razor.

1:20:06 Stryker She got a hernia? What happened with that? What happened with the waxing?

1:20:11 Adam She wasn't smiling like the hairy gentleman on TV.

1:20:12 Stryker What do you mean she had a bad experience with the waxing? What does that mean?

1:20:16 Stryker Her sister told her that she went to a salon and she tried doing her bikini line but she couldn't follow through with it and she was going to try and shave.

1:20:26 Stryker Check out the apple light.

1:20:27 Stryker Does she really want to shave?

1:20:29 Drew He wants her to shave. I want her to shave. I'm with you, bro.

1:20:32 Stryker She really doesn't want to. She doesn't want to par with it.

1:20:35 Stryker Well, you know.

1:20:36 Adam She doesn't want to par with it.

1:20:37 Drew No pun intended.

1:20:38 Adam Tell her to put it in a bag and put it on her dad's head as a toupee. That'll be fun.

1:20:42 Caller All right.

1:20:44 Adam Dominique?

1:20:45 Caller Hello.

1:20:45 Adam Hello. You're 16 on Loveline.

1:20:47 Caller Yes. How are you guys?

1:20:49 Drew Great. What's up?

1:20:51 Caller I have a question. I like love to have sex and I don't know. It's just like I got a really bad reputation at school last year and I'm trying, I don't know. Like I still just like I'll have friends that I just do that with and like there's nothing more, nothing less and I don't know. I don't know.

1:21:10 Stryker What's your question?

1:21:11 Caller I don't know if like I was molested for like three years.

1:21:17 Stryker Well, there you go.

1:21:18 Adam You're taking that route of just spreading them and having sex with anyone you can get your hands on.

1:21:24 Stryker What about getting some treatment for that experience?

1:21:27 Caller I went to counseling and we're in the middle of prosecuting right now and I don't know, just nothing's going on. I've like had hell with my parents and stuff.

1:21:38 Stryker Nothing has helped? Is that what you said?

1:21:40 Caller No, me and my parents ever since it's been going on for a couple of years now, it's been like I keep fighting with my parents and we don't have a good relationship.

1:21:52 Stryker Why don't you get some help?

1:21:54 Stryker I did counseling for like a year and it didn't do anything.

1:21:59 Stryker I bet it at least calms you down a little bit. Yeah, I bet it at least sort of kept some of these behaviors from exploding like they're doing now. So you can't always, with therapy, it's not like a magic panacea. It's not like you're just going to be well. But it helps you manage some of these feelings. It helps to reduce some of these risky behaviors and ultimately helps you process this all in a way that you do start to make healthy decisions and slowly do grow and feel better. Takes a long time.

1:22:26 Stryker Really?

1:22:26 Stryker So stay with it, right?

1:22:28 Stryker Okay.

1:22:29 Adam Bye, Dominique.

1:22:30 Stryker Bye, you guys.

1:22:30 Adam All right, we got to take a quick break. Stryker here with Dr. Drew. I'm in for Adam along with SR-71. We're going to speak to a man who is thinking of piercing his penis. We'll find out if that's healthy next on Loveline. All right, we're back, it's Loveline. Stryker with Dr. Drew.

1:23:21 Stryker Red hat.

1:23:22 Stryker The guy with the red hat.

1:23:22 Adam Now the red hat gets a rap from these critics.

1:23:25 Stryker It's not Santa Claus.

1:23:27 Drew Come on now.

1:23:27 Adam All right, Dr. Drew. We got one more night together. We'll get it tomorrow.

1:23:32 Drew Did you play Password Breakfast?

1:23:33 Stryker I have Neapolitan radio for breakfast.

1:23:35 Adam Mitch, Jeff, and Dan are hanging out here in the Loveline studio, they're from SR-71, and you got 25% of your band outside of the studio. That would be whom?

1:23:45 Drew Mark, he's too drunk to get on the air right now. Is he?

1:23:48 Adam He would just be a buffoon?

1:23:49 Drew He's out in the hallway right now.

1:23:50 Stryker At least he has the good sense and the decorum not to come in here.

1:23:54 Adam Right.

1:23:55 Drew We're civilized.

1:23:56 Stryker As compared to bands like Pennywise that bring somebody in here.

1:23:59 Adam Thank God I was not filling in, but actually I get along extremely well with Fletcher from Pennywise.

1:24:04 Stryker I do too.

1:24:04 Adam He's a great guy.

1:24:05 Stryker No.

1:24:06 Adam Except when he locks you in the room and wipes his feces on your head.

1:24:11 Stryker And says that he has a live grenade and that the police, the SWAT team that filled that room should shoot at him.

1:24:15 Adam Right.

1:24:17 Drew We're boring as hell, man. Geez.

1:24:19 Adam So are all the guys in girls, friends, family in Baltimore just rooting for you guys, proud of you guys right now that-

1:24:25 Drew In front of our faces or behind our backs?

1:24:28 Adam I don't know. They just-

1:24:28 Stryker All the local bands back home are like, we love those guys, we hate those guys.

1:24:32 Adam Oh, really?

1:24:32 Drew Actually, no. We have a great relationship with everybody back home. We played forever. We met everybody. Everyone, we played with everybody. So when we finally, actually the funny part is we disappeared for a year. Like I was telling you, we went to New York and then we finally got signed. And everybody went, what? Y'all got signed?

1:24:47 Caller How did you guys get signed?

1:24:49 Drew So we told everybody and the studios actually are jam-packed in Baltimore right now. Everybody's recording, everybody's putting on their own CD. Everybody's getting smart. They're realizing that if you want to do it, you got to get the music out there.

1:24:58 Stryker Next Seattle's up.

1:24:59 Drew You got it.

1:24:59 Adam Definitely. And the Orioles are still losing badly.

1:25:02 Drew The bands are doing great, but the ball team is doing terrible.

1:25:05 Stryker Horrible.

1:25:06 Adam And we're going to speak to John, 20. First off, John, how many piercings do you have right now?

1:25:11 Caller None right now.

1:25:12 Adam How many tats do you have?

1:25:13 Caller None.

1:25:13 Adam So, why do you want to stick a needle in the wiener?

1:25:16 Stryker I figured it would be a lot better than having a tattoo.

1:25:20 That would be all permanent stuff.

1:25:23 Stryker A needle in your, a spear in your penis.

1:25:26 Stryker What's that?

1:25:27 Stryker A spear in your penis is a pretty big commitment too, isn't it?

1:25:29 Caller Yeah, but it's a piercing.

1:25:30 You can take it out, right?

1:25:32 Caller Wow.

1:25:32 Stryker Yeah.

1:25:33 Drew Do you want to have sex anytime soon?

1:25:35 Stryker Oh, yeah.

1:25:36 Stryker Nerve damage.

1:25:37 Stryker Ouch.

1:25:38 Stryker Do you know anybody?

1:25:39 Stryker Nerve damage.

1:25:40 Stryker Know anybody that had any damage that way?

1:25:42 Stryker I know someone that has it, but I don't really know them that well. I just know someone that has it.

1:25:46 Stryker All right. So why all the way? Why start with the...

1:25:51 Drew Start with your ear, for God's sake.

1:25:53 Stryker Screw the ear, man. That's how...

1:25:54 Stryker Why?

1:25:54 Drew No, start with your ear. I'm not saying only do your ear. Start with your ear, get your nose, maybe your lip, your eyebrow, but Jesus, man.

1:25:59 Adam It's not extreme enough just to go with yours.

1:26:01 Stryker I had that so long ago that it was back when if someone had their navel pierced, everybody would freak out.

1:26:06 That's like how long ago it was.

1:26:08 Stryker Now it's just like nobody will have the navel pierced.

1:26:10 Drew It's not your first, then?

1:26:11 Yeah, you know, I've done other stuff.

1:26:13 Adam Is it safe, Dr. Drew, to get that procedure done?

1:26:16 Stryker It's amazing how few complications there are, but there's bleeding and infection and stenosis of the urethra and all kinds of things can happen. They certainly aren't very, very likely to. But the question is why? Still, why put yourself in harm's way like that? What is it going to do for you?

1:26:32 Caller Ouch!

1:26:34 Adam I know exactly why it wants to do it. Just like some people don't want to get one tattoo anymore because everyone has one tattoo. You gotta get the full sleeve now. Everyone has piercings, a nipple, an ear. If you go for the penis, it's more extreme than the guy next to you.

1:26:47 Stryker It wouldn't be really different to none of that stuff.

1:26:50 Adam That's just like my friend Barry that lives in San Diego. He's like, he's crazed, hot smoking, told his parents aren't listening, this person. And I'm like, how come you have no tattoo down here in San Diego? You haven't worn a shirt since the early 90s. He's like, everyone's got them. I'm not going to do it.

1:27:06 Caller Yeah.

1:27:07 Adam So, John, don't pierce down there.

1:27:11 Stryker I've seen it done a couple of times. It is just horrifying.

1:27:14 Stryker Some people have gotten pretty messed up with it.

1:27:16 Stryker Well, no. How have you seen that done? We had them done twice live on the radio. Piercer came down here, guy laid right down right there, and they stuck a spear right through him. It was lovely.

1:27:28 Adam I don't know. Do it. Don't do it. I don't care. I guess Dr. Drew says it's safe. John, go for it.

1:27:33 Stryker I know. It was safe.

1:27:34 Stryker That's probably the thing I'm worried about. I don't want to lose sensitivity.

1:27:37 Stryker I said it's remarkable how few complications there are.

1:27:40 Drew I wouldn't mess. That's the area that I treasure the most. I don't want to put anything into it. I want to put it into other things.

1:27:47 Stryker I just wanted to see if he went into that BS about it being so arousing to his partner.

1:27:51 Stryker I'm not trying to be like, oh yeah, I've got a ring and show everybody. I'm not going to be like that. It's just going to be like, you know.

1:27:57 Stryker It's just for me.

1:27:58 Stryker It's all clean cut and nobody would totally expect that. You know, just one of those freaky things that I know that nobody else knows.

1:28:04 Stryker Beautiful.

1:28:05 Adam John, where are you from?

1:28:06 Drew Atlanta.

1:28:07 Stryker All right.

1:28:08 Drew See you in a week. You can show me your penis and see if you've done it.

1:28:12 Adam All right, John, good luck, man.

1:28:13 Stryker Get a clip on.

1:28:17 Adam Probably get a word out of you. Sitting here, you whistle like a bird and eat like a horse.

1:28:22 Stryker Novelty Prince Albert.

1:28:23 Adam Yeah, exactly. Frank, 18 on Loveline. What's up?

1:28:26 Hey, what's up, guys? Frank. Hey. FL71, I'm from Baltimore. I was at your Pier 6 concert.

1:28:33 Drew All right, man.

1:28:34 You guys rock.

1:28:35 Stryker You didn't get hurt, did you?

1:28:36 Not too bad.

1:28:38 Drew Nothing that needs hospitalization.

1:28:40 Anyway, here's my question for Stryker and Dr. Drew. My girlfriend, she refuses to have sex unless she's in some kind of altered state.

1:28:51 Stryker How old is she?

1:28:52 She's 17.

1:28:54 Adam Does she know that she's having sex with you when she's drunk?

1:28:57 Oh, yeah.

1:28:57 Adam Oh, she does.

1:28:58 Stryker Okay.

1:28:59 Stryker And what does she say when you ask her why?

1:29:01 Why she wants to do this? I've never really asked her. She just always wants... I mean, I've told her I don't really like it, but I never really asked her why she does it.

1:29:13 Stryker Why don't you ask her?

1:29:15 What do you think she's going to tell me?

1:29:17 Stryker Well, I don't know.

1:29:19 Adam Frank, if I were you, breakfast tomorrow, beer, lunch, vodka. Dinner, more beer, and you know what you get, Frank?

1:29:27 Caller What?

1:29:27 Adam Sex three times a day.

1:29:29 Caller Hey!

1:29:30 Stryker I would suspect that she really doesn't feel good about having sex, and is just sort of using that to numb herself up so she can.

1:29:37 Stryker What am I doing wrong?

1:29:39 Stryker It's not that you're doing wrong. It's just something about her and what her belief system is and what she feels she should or shouldn't be doing or is ready to do or not ready to do. And she needs to talk about that. She's how old? Seventeen. Seventeen? She may not be ready for this yet, but here she is.

1:29:56 Drew Hey, Frank, I'm sorry, have you ever seen Annie Hall?

1:29:59 Stryker What's that?

1:29:59 Drew It's a Woody Allen movie, Annie Hall.

1:30:00 Stryker I was thinking about that too, when she smokes pot every time.

1:30:02 Drew Every time. He finally asks her why.

1:30:04 Stryker So does Frank, by the way.

1:30:05 Drew Yeah. It was that laugh.

1:30:09 Stryker Yeah.

1:30:09 Drew You should see Annie Hall, find out what she would, with Diane Keaton, find out what she said. I'll watch that.

1:30:15 Stryker All right.

1:30:15 Adam All right, Frank. Stay off the drugs and good luck getting more active with your lady.

1:30:19 Drew See you back home, man.

1:30:19 Adam Yes. Chris, 18 on Loveline.

1:30:22 Yeah. I'm having problems with my girlfriend. I come from a less off family than she does, and I feel really uncomfortable around her family because her family is kind of wealthy and mine's not.

1:30:40 Stryker Why should that make any difference to you?

1:30:41 Well, I don't know. I feel really uncomfortable around them because her mom drives a Lexus, and I drive like an old beat up Chevy.

1:30:55 Adam You're 18 and she's a mom.

1:30:57 Caller No, her mom drives a Lexus.

1:30:59 Adam Right. You're 18, you should have whatever you're driving. She's a mom and...

1:31:03 Caller Yeah, I know, but I mean like she's got a 2000 Honda.

1:31:06 Adam Oh, well in that case...

1:31:09 Stryker But how do they treat you? Do they treat you like the kids?

1:31:12 Caller Well, they treat me fine, but I mean, I just really feel uncomfortable, and I was wondering how I could get over that.

1:31:17 Stryker Yeah, so it's your issue, Chris, not theirs, right?

1:31:20 Caller Yeah.

1:31:20 Stryker And what is the issue for you?

1:31:22 Caller Well, I just feel really uncomfortable around them.

1:31:25 Stryker Why?

1:31:26 Caller Well, because they're like, I don't know, they have all this money and stuff, and I've been raised living off a welfare part of my life and scraping up pennies and stuff to go get candy, that kind of thing.

1:31:40 Adam Hey, Chris, are you afraid they're going to think that you're trying to be a freeloader?

1:31:44 Caller Yeah. I guess.

1:31:47 Stryker No, no, no. Are you angry or envious?

1:31:50 Caller Well, no, I just don't want to look bad in their eyes.

1:31:54 Stryker You don't. You're a great guy. You're their daughter's boyfriend. They like you. They welcome you in.

1:32:00 Caller Right. Yeah.

1:32:02 Stryker The people, if they're if they're quality people, which I would think that's what you would be sort of around, they would be judging you for your economic status. They judge you for who you are.

1:32:14 Adam Right.

1:32:15 Caller Yeah. I mean, it's just I just feel really, I don't know, like I'm less of a person than they are or something.

1:32:23 Stryker But that's ridiculous.

1:32:25 Adam Chris, that's ridiculous. And I guarantee they have not thought about this one time that you're driving around in a lesser of a car than their daughter is or the mom's Lexus or the 2000 Honda.

1:32:36 Drew I was in, when I was in college, I dated a girl whose parents were very well off. And I drove a 71 Buick Skylark.

1:32:44 Stryker Nice.

1:32:44 Drew And I had no money and I had very, very, very long hair. And trust me, when she brought me in, man, they freaked. But these people welcome you with open arms. They fed me night after night. They took me out to dinner. It was not until they saw me naked running down the hallway in their house and realizing that I was boning their daughter that they ever, ever act in any way not nice to me. But up until that point, trust me, they loved me.

1:33:10 Adam Everything was going fine.

1:33:10 Drew It was going great. And then her mother saw me fully erect, I might add.

1:33:13 Stryker Oh, God.

1:33:15 Adam It's like Daniel LaRusso, who was from Recita, going to date the girl that lived wherever she lived. All right. It's break time. But Drew, yes or no? Do tampons bust the hymen?

1:33:26 Stryker They could.

1:33:26 Adam Nadine wants to know.

1:33:27 Stryker They could.

1:33:27 Adam They could. Maybe if we have time, we'll speak to her next. Stryker with Dr. Drew and SR-71 coming back next on Loveline.

1:33:34 Stryker Hello? Is this Loveline?

1:33:35 Caller Call 1-800-LOVE-191. Adam and Dr. Drew will be right back.

1:34:15 Adam We're back. Loveline is here without Adam Corolla. I tried my best, little sucky, but you gotta deal with me one more time. I'm Stryker with Dr. Drew.

1:34:25 Caller Rockstryker.

1:34:26 Stryker You'll be here tomorrow night, too.

1:34:27 Adam Yeah, I'll be here tomorrow night.

1:34:28 Stryker With Cindy Margolis, right?

1:34:29 Adam With Cindy Margolis.

1:34:30 Drew We just met her at the MTV Beach House.

1:34:33 Adam And how was that? Good?

1:34:35 Drew Smokin.

1:34:35 Adam Yeah.

1:34:36 Drew Oh yeah.

1:34:36 Adam I think she's married to my friend.

1:34:38 Drew She's married?

1:34:39 Adam I think, I don't know. I think she's married to my friend Guy, who wants a place called Guy's on Beverly Drive next to Jerry's Deli.

1:34:44 Drew My fantasy is over. Oh my god.

1:34:47 Adam No, you're kidding. It'll be fine.

1:34:49 Drew Guy won't mind.

1:34:50 Adam No, Guy won't mind who I grew up with, who was on the Yankees in my little league. But anyway, SR-71, you guys, thanks for hanging out.

1:34:57 Drew Thank you.

1:34:57 Adam Thank you for having us. Thanks for dealing with me. Not only I'm speaking to everyone listening, great band, just great guys in general. It's very fun to meet you guys, fun to hang out.

1:35:05 Drew Hey, can we plug the site, our website?

1:35:07 Adam Let's go right ahead.

1:35:07 Drew www, like it be anything else, sr71.net.

1:35:13 Adam You guys got that? Say it again.

1:35:15 Drew sr71.net. That way, no calls about dates.

1:35:19 Stryker The this dash or the this dash?

1:35:21 Drew It's the dash, not underscore dash. That way, you got questions about dates, questions about anything else, please go to the site, refer to the site.

1:35:28 Adam It'll be there and you can pick up their CD. Now you see inside for Dr. Drew. This is Stryker. We will talk to you guys tomorrow on Loveline saying, just for you, shalom.

1:35:36 Caller All right.

1:35:37 Caller This has been Loveline. The opinions expressed on this show are not necessarily those of the staff, management, sponsors, or this station. The producer for Loveline is Ann Wilkins Engel. Loveline is a presentation of Westwood One Entertainment.

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