0:52
Be a guy, you don't shave anything below the neck. Outrageous Talk Radio 100.7, The Buzz, KQBC, Seattle.
1:10
Voiceover
Listener discretion is advised. Adam Corolla and Dr. Drew Loveline, Coast to Coast.
1:24
Adam
Oh, yeah.
1:26
Voiceover
Loveline.
1:27
Drew
Just trying to get yourself charged up here. Oh, way to go, Adam.
1:31
Adam
Kick ass. Just trying to kick an ounce of enthusiasm into my lifeless corpse.
1:37
Oh, yeah.
1:40
Adam
Phone number for Loveline. 1-800-L-O-V-E-1-9-1. That's Dr. Drew over there. Dr. Drew, Board Certified Physician, Addiction Medicine Specialist. You, troubled teen with an attitude. Drew's going to see right through that veil and help you tonight, right, Druski?
1:57
Drew
As you say, Adam. Let's go.
1:58
Adam
That's right there, buddy boy. Ready to hop on the phones and help the nation?
2:02
Drew
Way to go, Ace.
2:03
Adam
Yeah. Here we go now. Oh, no, no.
2:08
Drew
Give me a little chill.
2:09
Adam
No, we got to get a lightning round going soon. Nick Carter from the Backstreet Boys is going to be in here tonight. We actually have a Backstreet Boy on this show.
2:18
Drew
You're not going to subject him to a lightning round, are you?
2:20
Adam
No, no, it doesn't work with guests, but Nick and the rest of the boys, Backstreet Boys that is, are finishing up their gig at the Staples Center and he's coming straight over here. So he should be here anytime now, depending on how long it takes him to have sex with ten groupies backstage, finish up, wipe down and head over here. Josh?
2:42
Oh, wow. What's up?
2:44
Adam
You're 18. What's going on?
2:45
Caller
I'm 18. I have a comment and a question.
2:47
Adam
All right.
2:48
Caller
My comment was, I went to the Backstreet Boys concert to pick up girls, but my plan, it backfired and the girls were like, they're all like 12 years old.
2:57
Drew
Right. Oh, boy.
2:59
Adam
Yeah. I still could have put together an alternate plan with those 12 year olds.
3:02
Drew
Was it just an amazing amount of screaming? Oh, boy.
3:05
Yeah.
3:06
Adam
Were you at the show?
3:07
Caller
Yeah. I actually went, I actually, I paid some shady guys from like security guard, like five bucks to get in. And he like led us into the back.
3:16
Drew
Wait a minute.
3:16
Adam
No, you didn't.
3:17
Caller
I swear.
3:18
Drew
Wait, but not tonight.
3:19
Excuse me?
3:20
Drew
No, he was in Seattle.
3:21
No, Tacoma Dome. Yeah.
3:23
Adam
You paid a guy five bucks?
3:25
Yeah.
3:25
Adam
Five bucks?
3:26
Caller
It's a magic handshake, you know.
3:29
Drew
Where did you sit?
3:30
Caller
Oh, we actually we had to find our own seats.
3:34
All right.
3:34
Adam
Could you turn down the evening news back there, Josh?
3:37
Caller
Oh, yeah. No problem.
3:38
Adam
All right.
3:38
Caller
I also I got pictures of it on.
3:42
Adam
All right. You idiot. Jackass. Did you jump? Did you dump that out, Anderson?
3:48
Please. Yeah.
3:50
Drew
Right on.
3:52
Adam
Listen, everybody who's got themselves a screwy website and thinks they're going to plug it over the air. You can do it through legitimate means by talking to us and perhaps we'll take pity on you. But if you just blurt it out, they don't get on the air because Anderson over there has himself a dump button and the show has a ten second delay.
4:12
Drew
Just block all that out.
4:13
Yep.
4:15
Drew
Have you been boxing with him lately? Have you had an ongoing career?
4:19
Adam
No. I've been working too much. And he's too big. I think I scare him with my left hook. Nicole?
4:28
Yeah.
4:28
Adam
You're 18. What's up?
4:29
Caller
Well, it's kind of the weirdest thing. Like, I'm 18 and I've never had a boyfriend. And everyone tells me it's really odd. And it's not like I'm bad-looking. I'm actually... Like, everyone tells me, well, you should have a boyfriend. Well, I don't know if I really want one after looking at all my friends.
4:43
Drew
Have you been dating at all?
4:44
Caller
What?
4:44
Drew
You date at all?
4:45
Caller
Yeah, I've dated, like, a couple guys. Like, I've dated probably about three guys in my entire life.
4:51
Drew
Why don't you date a little more? And don't feel the need to have a boyfriend. I think it's very protective not to have one at your age.
4:57
Yeah, and that's a good thing.
4:58
Caller
And I totally see that because I am gonna be leaving for college in a couple months.
5:01
Drew
You're going to college, you're changing a lot, you're engaging in life, you're gonna meet a whole new group of peers and friends.
5:07
Caller
Yeah, and the whole thing with that, though, is that I kind of back out, like, I guess, like, a lot of the guys that they date could definitely turn into, like, more than just dating.
5:17
Drew
Yeah, but you're 18. Why do that to yourself?
5:19
Caller
And I don't want to.
5:20
Nick Carter
That's fine. Oh, leave her alone, Drew.
5:22
Caller
That's exactly right. Like, I don't want to really necessarily.
5:24
Drew
Leave her alone. I'm trying to support her.
5:26
Adam
I know, but you're enabling her.
5:28
Drew
Where are you going to school?
5:30
Caller
I'm hopefully going to Seattle. I don't know, maybe East Coast. But it's...
5:35
Drew
Seattle, East Coast.
5:36
Adam
Same place. I can see you're very serious about your education.
5:42
Caller
As of now, I just want to not be in high school. But I think...
5:46
Adam
I see.
5:46
Caller
I was listening to your show a couple nights ago, and you guys brought up a very good point about when you lose somebody close to you, you kind of don't want to replace them. Like, I don't talk to my brother anymore.
5:57
Drew
How come?
5:58
Nick Carter
How come?
5:59
Caller
He was a drug addict. I just didn't agree with a lot of the things he did.
6:03
Drew
So that was painful to lose him.
6:05
Caller
And he still lives with me, and I just don't talk to him.
6:07
Adam
How old is he?
6:10
Caller
He's 20.
6:11
Nick Carter
Yeah.
6:11
Adam
Well, you're smart to hit the road and go off somewhere to college. What base have you gotten to? Are you a virgin?
6:18
Nick Carter
Yeah, I am.
6:18
Drew
She's not dated three guys. Dated.
6:20
Adam
You never know. But, Nicole, it still sounds like you'd rather do a little more than dating.
6:28
Caller
I would. And I kind of feel like I'm missing out on a lot of things by not exploring more in relationships. But it's just kind of like...
6:37
Adam
Well, listen, don't put pressure on yourself. Just keep yourself open. If you meet a good guy, go out with him.
6:44
Caller
And you know what? There is a guy that I really like right now, and he's dating one of my really best friends. He actually hooked up a year ago, and we hadn't talked for a year because a friend of mine had told me one night that...
6:57
Drew
She's into him.
6:58
Nick Carter
That he... What?
6:59
Drew
Yeah, but that she's into him, right?
7:01
Nick Carter
No.
7:02
Caller
That, like, right before me and this guy were going to hook up, one of my friends that was kind of like a brother to me told me that he... that this guy only wanted me for sex. And so I was like, OK, being the virgin that I am, I'm not going to do that.
7:17
Drew
Well, just figure that all guys have that orientation. Just assume that's their priority. That may not be where they stop, but that's their priority.
7:25
Adam
I'm just saying, she's going to think herself right out of a relationship. Doing too much thinking.
7:32
Drew
It's all right, though.
7:33
Adam
A couple of wine coolers, hit off the joint, just relax. Take it slow, right, Drew?
7:38
Drew
Oh, my God.
7:39
Adam
Yes, indeed. Erica?
7:41
Caller
Yes?
7:42
Adam
Year 15?
7:44
Nick Carter
I had a question for you guys, but can you wait till Nick gets there?
7:47
Caller
Because I have a question for him, too.
7:49
Drew
All right. No.
7:50
Nick Carter
No?
7:50
Adam
No, I don't care.
7:52
Drew
I understand that's why she got the call through.
7:54
No, no, I swear.
7:55
Nick Carter
I swear.
7:56
Caller
I have a question for you.
7:57
Adam
All right.
7:57
Caller
I just have one quick question for Nick.
7:59
Adam
I think I can answer any question you give to Nick. Go ahead.
8:02
Nick Carter
Well, it's not only a question.
8:03
Caller
It's just my friend, she really, really likes him.
8:06
Nick Carter
Yeah.
8:07
Adam
He knows. He's not interested.
8:10
Oh, I know.
8:10
Caller
I know. I was wondering if he could say hi to her.
8:14
Yeah.
8:16
Adam
I'll say hi to her for Nick.
8:18
Drew
Nick says.
8:19
Caller
Okay. Her name is Briand.
8:21
Adam
Briand?
8:22
Caller
Briand, yes.
8:23
Adam
Briand. Briand?
8:25
Nick Carter
B-R-I-A-N-D.
8:28
Drew
Briand.
8:29
Adam
Briand.
8:30
Yes.
8:31
Adam
Hi. This is Nick Carter from the Backstreet Boys. I want to say hi to Briand.
8:36
Drew
Okay. Now, what's your question, Erica?
8:40
Well, I can't. Okay.
8:41
Nick Carter
I came home and.
8:43
Drew
Stop. Don't go back now. Erica, what's that? You came home.
8:48
Nick Carter
I came home and I was home early and nobody was expecting me home.
8:53
Caller
And I found, well, I didn't find him, but I heard my stepbrother and my mom in there talking. And I found out that they were, they were sleeping together.
9:04
Drew
What did they say exactly?
9:06
Nick Carter
They were planning on when to do it, like, like next.
9:11
Drew
What did they say exactly?
9:15
Caller
Um, let me think.
9:21
Drew
What?
9:21
Nick Carter
What?
9:22
Drew
What did they say?
9:23
Nick Carter
They were talking just like about, like their schedules and stuff.
9:28
Drew
How old is your stepbrother? Oh, he has a very heavy schedule, I'm sure. Yeah.
9:34
He goes to college.
9:35
Yeah.
9:37
Adam
Where were they that they didn't know you were home?
9:41
Nick Carter
They were in his bedroom.
9:43
Caller
And that's like in the back of the house.
9:46
Drew
And you were just standing outside there listening?
9:49
Nick Carter
I was in the hall.
9:50
Drew
And why did they?
9:51
Caller
The door wasn't closed all the way.
9:53
Adam
And did they say we have to meet to have sex?
9:57
Nick Carter
No, they were just talking.
10:03
Caller
I couldn't hear everything.
10:04
Drew
So we either, either, this is bogus, or you misinterpret, these are our thoughts, or you misinterpreted what was being said. And we're trying to evaluate this.
10:15
Adam
That could have actually happened.
10:17
Drew
It could have actually happened. But not from what she's telling us.
10:19
Adam
We're going to need some more concrete evidence.
10:22
Caller
I guess I could have misinterpreted it maybe.
10:24
All right.
10:26
Adam
That's okay, baby. Why are you thinking about it so much?
10:30
Caller
I don't know.
10:30
Drew
Because she wanted to talk to Nick Carter.
10:32
Nick Carter
No, I don't.
10:33
Caller
I don't like him.
10:34
Nick Carter
Well, I mean.
10:34
Adam
I see.
10:35
Nick Carter
I don't have anything against him.
10:36
Adam
Hold on, let me. Yes, I'm very upset for Nick. All right, goofball.
10:41
Caller
No, Adam.
10:42
Adam
All right.
10:44
Drew
Off with you.
10:45
Adam
I don't have time for the kids tonight, Drew. Maybe you've maybe you've gathered that most nights.
10:50
Drew
Interesting. Samantha.
10:51
Adam
Well, this is what I want to say to everybody. If you have an allegation, fine. But be prepared to support it in some meaningful way. You know what I mean?
11:03
Drew
I'm with you on that.
11:04
Adam
Well, we have more of that in this show than at just about any other place on the planet. Here's what I think is happening. And then you go, well, why do you think that? And they go, huh? You go, what makes you think your stepbrother's going to sleep with your stepmom? Or your brother's going to sleep with your stepmom? It's like you came to them with the allegation now. Then they start filling it in. But it doesn't really make sense. It's bad radio, Drew. Samantha?
11:33
Nick Carter
Yes?
11:33
Adam
You're 25.
11:34
Nick Carter
Yeah.
11:35
Adam
What's up?
11:36
Caller
I think I've been diagnosed with obsessive-compulsive disorders before. Nothing big, just little things.
11:45
Drew
But hair pulling?
11:46
Caller
I'm sorry?
11:47
Drew
Hair pulling?
11:48
Caller
Hair?
11:49
Drew
Pulling?
11:50
Caller
I just, no, no, no. I count syllables.
11:53
Drew
Count syllables.
11:54
Caller
I count a little stupid things. But I think that in my, in my, okay, in my relationships, I think I get obsessed too easy. Very, very obsessed that I can't help it. And I find myself, I'm so scared right now. I don't, I don't know what to do.
12:15
Adam
Why are you scared?
12:16
Caller
Because I can't control it. I mean, I've been with this guy for about over, about a year, over a year now. And I don't love him and he doesn't love me.
12:26
Nick Carter
And that's fine, you know, because, you know, I'm not, I'm not looking for that right now.
12:32
Drew
We'll get out of there.
12:33
Caller
That's not, that's not the point though. It's just the point is that even though I know I don't love him, I feel myself obsessed with him. I think that I'm a sane person, but insane in a way.
12:42
Drew
Have you taken a medication for this?
12:43
Caller
I used to take Zoloft.
12:45
Drew
Why don't you see if somebody maybe get you back on meds, maybe it'll be easier for you to reconnect with reality.
12:50
Caller
The thing is, it didn't help much. It didn't help.
12:52
Drew
Maybe that's the wrong medicine for it.
12:54
Caller
I'm sorry?
12:54
Drew
Maybe that was the wrong medication.
12:56
Caller
I'm not sure. I just, I just know that like last night, I just, what happened was he didn't answer his, or he turned off his cell phone. And so I was supposed to go to work. So his cell phone was off and it scared me because usually when I'm over, he turns off his cell phone, which maybe he's a bad guy. But the point is, the point is this is, it's not, forget it, forget him for a minute.
13:18
It's me.
13:19
Caller
The thing is, is I could not control it. And in my mind, he had somebody over and I was just thinking all these things.
13:26
Adam
Samantha, let me ask you a quick question.
13:29
Nick Carter
Yeah.
13:29
Adam
How many syllables in psychiatrists?
13:33
Nick Carter
Four.
13:34
Four.
13:35
Adam
Oh, that's pretty good.
13:36
Fast.
13:37
Adam
Is that right?
13:37
Practiced.
13:38
Adam
I'm going to look that up during the commercial break and check up on you. All right. You need to get...
13:43
Caller
I got into a car last night.
13:45
Adam
While you're driving or were you walking?
13:47
Caller
The thing is, I had saw a car that I thought that I had seen at his house before and I saw it.
13:52
Drew
But Samantha, look, you've got a lot of mental health issues going on here. A lot. You're 25. It's not about kid stuff anymore. It's about a very entrenched way of thinking, a mood problem, anxiety problems, obsessive-compulsive features. You need to have some treatment. You're suffering with this. You're making bad choices in relationship. You're not getting on in your life. Let's take care of this. Let's get some treatment, all right? It's time. It's time. And I can tell you that if you can't engage in some sort of talk therapy or behavioral therapies that are effective for you and they take a long time, medication would significantly reduce your suffering. Okay?
14:30
Caller
It won't help me.
14:31
Drew
The right medicine will.
14:31
Caller
Is there anything that will help me so I can help?
14:34
Drew
Yes. I'm telling you the things that will help you, but you've got to go ask for the help.
14:39
Adam
Yeah, why not? Why go through life the way you're going through life?
14:43
Drew
How much worse could it be?
14:45
Adam
She had a serious chemical imbalance and she needed to be balanced.
14:49
Drew
Absolutely.
14:52
Adam
Chris?
14:54
Yeah?
14:54
Adam
You're 19.
14:55
Caller
Yeah.
14:56
Adam
What's your problem?
14:58
Drew
Well, I believe him already. Nothing. Go ahead. I'm seeing. See that? Sarah, we've had Sarah. We've had like one legitimate call tonight so far.
15:09
Adam
No, that is not.
15:10
Drew
They've all been. I believe it happened bogus.
15:13
Adam
We started off with more bogus last night than we did tonight. It is so true, though, Drew. You hear a guy and I don't know if it's just the sort of jack off tone or what it is. It's the age meets insincerity meets what?
15:31
Drew
It's, I look at the question up there and it's something horrible and the guy answering the phone is like gleeful. Gleeful and had full of bravado. No, wait a minute. That's not somebody that's talking about these all the time.
15:42
Adam
No, he just, what was his question?
15:44
Drew
Like whoop, whoop, whoop. It's like, hey, that's not somebody that's talking about it.
15:47
Adam
No, he was having, no, what was his question?
15:50
Drew
He and his girlfriend had walked in and his parents had had sex.
15:52
Adam
That's not horrible for a 19 year old.
15:54
Drew
No, it's not horrible, but it'd be like, hey, I got, you know, man, I got something to talk about. Yeah. I'm really upset about this one call.
16:00
Adam
I don't even compare it. I don't, I don't take their attitude and compare it to their question. I just hear their voice.
16:07
Drew
Yeah. Well, how they make me feel is my thing. Yeah.
16:10
Adam
Like you want to punch them.
16:11
Caller
Right.
16:12
Adam
Clarice?
16:14
Hi.
16:15
Adam
Hey, you're 17. What's up?
16:16
Caller
Yeah. Like ever since me and my boyfriend had sex, my friends told me that it would pop my cherry and that it would, like, bleed a lot. But when we had sex, and he doesn't have a small penis, it's fairly large. But when we had sex, it didn't pop and it didn't hurt or anything. And I orgasmed and it felt good and everything. And I even had some of the secretion that you've talked about before.
16:43
Drew
I mean, you had, you gushed.
16:44
Caller
Yeah.
16:45
Drew
Wow. First time out.
16:47
Adam
Is it, are they still calling it popping the cherry?
16:51
Caller
I guess. That's what my friends call it.
16:52
Drew
Yeah. The popping is a figure of speech.
16:57
Caller
Really?
16:58
Drew
Yeah. There's no popping that goes on.
17:01
Adam
No, but they break the cherry.
17:02
Caller
Yeah.
17:03
Drew
They feel some pain and then gives way.
17:06
Adam
I thought that was something from the 70s. I don't even remember saying popping the cherry, like when I was in high school, we were popping cherries.
17:13
It didn't hurt.
17:14
Drew
Good. Maybe you didn't have one anymore.
17:16
Caller
But, and then ever since we had sex, like it feels like someone put a balloon up in there and then they like inflated it inside me.
17:26
Drew
So you have some pain. Any discharge?
17:29
Caller
What do you mean? Like urine or?
17:30
Drew
No. I mean like any pus or anything funny coming out.
17:34
Caller
No, not really.
17:35
Drew
Any irritation around the outside? Yeah.
17:37
Caller
It feels like a balloon.
17:38
Drew
Yeah. How long ago did you have sex?
17:41
Caller
We had sex like a month ago.
17:42
Drew
No, no. You got to get a pelvic exam, okay? Really? Look, you should be getting one now anyway at your age. Yeah. Cervical cancer kills women in their 20s. It prevents that from happening. You're sexually active now, so it's important to do that as part of your normal health care. And now you have some funny symptoms that lead me to be concerned about infection. And you ought to get checked out.
18:03
Adam
Maybe there is a balloon up there.
18:05
Drew
Maybe left a balloon behind.
18:06
Adam
Have you been dating a clown?
18:08
Caller
I'm a little deep, but short and stout. Here is my handle, here is myself.
18:18
Adam
I know people think I should say something, but I'm not going to.
18:23
Wow.
18:26
Adam
Can you do the dreidel song, Clarice?
18:29
Drew
Clarice?
18:30
Adam
That's it?
18:32
I'm a little deep, but short and stout.
18:35
Adam
You don't have a lot of range, do you, baby? Come on, give me another song. Oh, my God. It's even weirdo broad night on Love Line. The guys we expected from, but the women. Have we got more bogus calls to this show in the last three weeks than we've gotten in the past three years?
19:00
Drew
No, we've got more in the last three weeks than we've had in the last nine years.
19:03
Adam
Oh, nine years.
19:04
Yeah.
19:05
Adam
How's that go? Is it just one of these things like pit bull attacks or freeway shootings? They just seem to come in clusters?
19:14
Drew
I'm asking for y'all at the control tower there to screen out the BS.
19:21
Adam
Well, if this keeps up, men and women calling with these bogus calls, we're only going to take calls from hermaphrodite. Agreed, Drew?
19:30
Drew
Sure.
19:31
Adam
Hermaphrodite Wednesday. John?
19:35
Yeah.
19:35
Adam
You're 16?
19:36
Caller
Yeah.
19:37
Adam
What's up?
19:38
Caller
Well, I got this thing with my teachers, but not really lots of them, just like one, where I get sexual obsessions with them. You know, like arrange to have them drive me home, or like she went to like the movies two weeks ago, and I find out she's going to go, and she went to go say Choc-a-Lot, and I somehow dragged my friends to go see it, just because she's going to be there.
20:05
Adam
How do you find out she's going to see the movie?
20:07
Caller
Well, I asked her what she was going to do this weekend.
20:09
Drew
How do you figure out what time and which...
20:12
Caller
Well, I just sort of like went and hung out in Westfield, and I checked what time movies were playing, and they were like...
20:18
Drew
Yeah, probably 12 different times. How do you decide which one?
20:21
Caller
Well, she was going to go that night, so I figured she wasn't going to go for a 9 o'clock show because that was probably too late for her, so I figured like 7.
20:28
Adam
And did you see her?
20:30
Caller
Yeah.
20:31
Adam
Did you say hi to her?
20:33
Caller
Yeah. And like, it happens like every year, like with a new teacher, like I get these like, I just start like obsessing about it.
20:41
Drew
He needs a girlfriend, right?
20:43
Adam
Yeah. You either need a girlfriend or a beanbag chair you can write.
20:46
Caller
Well, I have like a sort of girlfriend like this, you know, comes over and we do whatever, but like I could care like less about her.
20:54
Drew
Is there anything you need to tell us about your past? Nothing weird?
20:59
Caller
Like abuse?
21:00
Drew
Yeah, whatever.
21:02
Caller
Well, maybe like eight years ago.
21:06
Drew
So you were eight. What happened?
21:09
Caller
Well, there was some sexual abuse for like a short time, but.
21:13
Drew
With an older person?
21:14
Caller
Yeah.
21:15
Drew
I'm thinking about this again.
21:16
Adam
Yeah, I didn't believe this guy.
21:18
Caller
But, uh, I swear to God.
21:21
Adam
Where were you? I mean, how'd this happen?
21:25
Caller
What, the abuse?
21:25
Adam
Yeah.
21:26
Caller
Well, I was staying at my grandparents' house in, and like, it's in Portugal, and then, uh, it was my older cousin, like a relative, and he just sort of, we just sort of like kind of did, but he started like showing me things, and we started like doing stuff.
21:46
Drew
How old was he?
21:47
Caller
Uh, he must have been 15 at that time.
21:51
Drew
And you were eight?
21:52
Caller
Yeah.
21:53
Adam
Well, that's something.
21:54
Drew
That can screw with your, uh, workings. Your workings and your attachments to people, your attractions.
22:00
Adam
Have you ever, have you ever got any counseling for this?
22:03
Caller
Uh, well, I used to see a therapist for a couple years. I never bar off the subject, like...
22:07
Drew
All right, you might, you might want to check that out, right, Jack?
22:09
Adam
What'd you do? Just talk about tetherball and stuff? I mean, when you talk about your therapist with, you know, when you're 12, other than this...
22:19
Caller
O's, like, an eating disorder.
22:22
Adam
You had an eating disorder?
22:24
Caller
Yeah.
22:25
Drew
But that's... Some of that is from this trauma.
22:28
Adam
I'm sure all of it is. What kind of eating disorder did you have?
22:31
Caller
Anorexia.
22:34
Adam
Really? I didn't know guys got that very often.
22:36
Drew
Yeah, not very often, but they do get it.
22:38
Adam
Hey, John?
22:39
Caller
Yeah.
22:39
Adam
I think it's time to talk to someone again, and this time you got to tell them everything.
22:43
Drew
Yeah, absolutely.
22:46
Adam
Now we think every call's a bogus call, so the people actually need help don't get it. You see how it works?
22:51
Yeah.
22:53
Adam
It's a ripple effect. All right, let's take ourselves a little break and regroup, Drew.
22:57
Drew
That would be a good idea.
22:58
Adam
I think you need a hug. When we come back, we're going to speak to...
23:01
Caller
Nick Carter.
23:03
Drew
When's he coming back? Coming out.
23:05
Adam
Nick Carter from the Backstreet Boys?
23:06
Drew
That's right.
23:07
Adam
Should be out here pretty soon. They just finished their gig up over there at the Staples Center, and he's coming here straight away. When we come back... Oh, he just called. And when is he coming over here, Anderson?
23:21
Caller
He'll be here in like 10, 15 minutes.
23:22
Adam
10, 15 minutes. Darryl. Oh, that's from Engineer Anderson. So either he's already here or he won't be here for three days. Darryl is waiting on hold. He's 23. He's an alcoholic. He can't have erections anymore. He wants to know what's up with this. We'll tell him about it after this. Be right back.
23:58
Caller
You're listening to Loveline on Outrageous Talk Radio. 100.7 The Buzz.
24:13
Adam
Yeah, Loveline, I'm Adam Corolla, that's Dr. Drew over there. 1-800-LOVE-191 is the phone number. Sasha Alexander from Dawson Creek, I'll be in here tomorrow night. Cast of MAD TV. Somebody from NYPD Blue next week, Newfound Glory.
24:35
Drew
East St. Morales.
24:37
Adam
East St. Morales, oh yeah. Oh, is that from, I couldn't read it from here. Anyway, Nick Carter from the Backstreet Boys are gonna be in here, is gonna be in here in just a couple of few minutes and we will hop back to the phones.
24:52
Caller
Darrell? Yes.
24:53
Adam
You're 23?
24:54
Caller
Yes.
24:55
Adam
You're an alcoholic?
24:56
Caller
I guess.
24:58
Drew
Okay.
24:58
Caller
I'm really not sure.
24:59
Caller
I drink a lot, I guess.
25:01
Caller
All right. Okay, my question is, I've been abusing alcohol for about three or four years, the vodka, and I've recently quit about three weeks now and I've been experiencing numbness on my left side and my fingertips and my feet.
25:14
Drew
Well, you're detoxing. Have you been sleeping at all during that time?
25:18
Caller
Oh, yeah.
25:19
Caller
Tell me about it.
25:20
Caller
It's so terrible once you quit.
25:21
Drew
Yeah, you've been tremor? Are you tremulous still, too?
25:25
Caller
A little bit, but it's getting better.
25:27
Drew
Okay, well, you're detoxing. It takes a while to get off the stuff.
25:29
Caller
How long does it usually take?
25:30
Drew
Well, if you're untreated, it can drag on for a while. Certainly three weeks would not be an unreasonable period of time. The real intense stuff is usually about a week.
25:37
Adam
How does it go faster when you treat it?
25:39
Drew
It says, though, the whole thing is sort of suppressed. It's kind of a syndrome.
25:42
Adam
Do they give you medications?
25:44
Drew
Yeah, you have to get a lot of medicine.
25:45
Caller
Yeah, see, I'm doing it on my own, so.
25:47
Drew
Yeah.
25:47
Adam
What about the numbness?
25:49
Drew
The numbness, people get all kinds of funny symptoms when they're detoxing. Certainly numbness, shakiness, unsteadiness. I mean, I've seen, you name it, I've seen it.
25:59
Caller
But it should go away?
26:00
Drew
It should go away.
26:01
Caller
Longer than three weeks though, right?
26:03
Drew
Yeah, another week or so. Once you're not tremulous, and you're starting to feel normal, either you're sleepy or you're messed up for about six months, and your moods are going to be screwed up, especially if you don't get into recovery. I expect to feel like hell if you don't get involved in some sort of program. You've got to replace that alcohol with some process here.
26:20
Caller
And I'm also experiencing no erection.
26:22
Drew
Well, yeah, you have sympathetic overloads. That would not be a surprise.
26:27
Adam
Sympathetic overload is a good name for a band. I'm going to name my next project the Sympathetic Overload Project. Well, what should he do?
26:36
Drew
I think he's probably okay. Take lots of B vitamins, lots of fluids and get in the program.
26:42
Adam
Fluids, but not grain alcohol.
26:44
Drew
Not that sort of thing.
26:45
Adam
You mean like water?
26:46
Drew
Water and something in it.
26:48
Adam
Like what?
26:49
Drew
Like Gatorade.
26:50
Adam
Scotch or water?
26:51
Drew
No, Gatorade.
26:52
Adam
Gatorade and water? How about just drinking the Gatorade?
26:55
Drew
Gatorade would be great.
26:56
Caller
Why?
26:56
Adam
I was reading the Gatorade thing the other day. It has like, I don't know, weird stuff in there.
27:02
Drew
You need salt basically. You need fluid. You need salt, you need water and salt balance.
27:08
Adam
Does the salt keep the fluid in you?
27:10
Drew
Yes. And it also doesn't cause any dilution of anything you already...
27:13
Adam
How does the salt keep the fluid in you?
27:15
Drew
It basically, your kidney gets fluid out of you. See how I say this, the way it's understandable.
27:23
Adam
Well, you don't know.
27:24
Drew
No, no, I know. It affects the way the kidney dumps fluid water out.
27:29
Adam
So you don't process as much water.
27:31
Drew
So you will tend to retain sodium and water if you're taking in sodium and water.
27:37
Adam
I see. Do people take salt tablets anymore? Remember when athletes used to take salt tablets? Oh, yeah. Why don't they take those anymore? Okay. You're a great doctor.
27:48
Drew
That I don't know.
27:48
Caller
Paul? Yeah.
27:50
Adam
You're 25?
27:51
Caller
All right.
27:52
Adam
What's the question?
27:53
Caller
It's more of a clinical question. Dr. Drew would probably know about it. After having an orgasm, when I'm laying on my back or whatever way I'm laying down, if I kind of touch my finger very lightly, lightweight, like against the bottom side of my penis, I can feel like a radiating going down to the bottom of my feet, like towards the back of my legs. I think it's like the sciatic nerve. I don't know. I just want to know if you've ever heard of anything like that. I mean, I'm not scared about it.
28:26
Drew
There are all kinds of symptoms that people get after an orgasm that just are indicative of the whole process of orgasm.
28:36
Caller
I don't know.
28:38
Drew
Nothing you should worry about. Women complain about this all the time.
28:41
Adam
For me, I can't hear women talk.
28:43
Caller
Yeah.
28:45
Adam
Penny for your thoughts, huh?
28:47
Caller
Yeah. I was thinking maybe some of the sacral nerves.
28:50
Drew
No, Paul. Forget it. Stop. Stop thinking that way because that's not going to put you down a fruitful path.
28:57
Adam
Why don't you leave your pecker alone after you have the orgasm?
29:02
Drew
It's a spinal mechanism, okay? Spinal. It's a feedback loop that's through the spinal column that's stimulating the efferent pathways.
29:11
Adam
What do you think? You have cancer or something?
29:12
Caller
Oh, no. No, I wasn't scared. I just wanted to know if you had ever heard of anything.
29:15
Drew
Yes. Yes.
29:16
Adam
Just relax. Listen, after you have that orgasm, all bets are off with the penis. You get that weird shiver thing sometimes. All kinds of weird feelings. You're not supposed to touch your penis after an orgasm. That's the one time you leave it alone.
29:29
Drew
It's super sensitive at that point and it's due to a spinal mechanism. And the ones that are actually not well understood, the actual function of orgasm is not that well understood.
29:38
Adam
My penis is like a burn victim after I orgasm. Which is, don't get near it. It hurts. Leave it be.
29:46
Drew
Put it in sort of a laminar flow room.
29:49
Adam
That's right. Put one of those oxygen tents around it. Have Michael Jackson come visit it on the weekend. Just leave it be. Jenny?
29:59
Caller
Yeah? Oh.
30:00
Adam
There's Nick Carter now. Hold on a second there, Jenny.
30:04
Caller
Okay.
30:05
Adam
And just put them on hold. Nick, have a seat there, buddy. Right here, man. Good to see you. Put those headphones on. Adjust your volume there. And tell us all about it. What's up? Nick, now we met the Backstreet Boys at the Home Team show, right? Terry Bradshaw show. Do you remember that?
30:29
Caller
Yeah.
30:29
Adam
That was four or five years ago? Four or five years ago.
30:33
Caller
How long?
30:34
How long the show last?
30:35
Adam
They canceled it halfway in our segment, I think. And since then, what do you sold? 55 million copies, 55 million CDs since we saw you last.
30:49
That's OK.
30:50
Adam
Yeah, that's not bad. You just get off stage at the Staples Center?
30:54
Yeah. We just got done performing.
30:55
Adam
How did that go for you?
30:56
It went really good. I mean, it was a sold out crowd. And we actually were taping it for a CBS special.
31:05
Adam
When does that air?
31:06
I don't know. Sometime in the summer, maybe a little bit sooner.
31:10
Adam
Have you guys played the Staples Center since they made it?
31:12
I don't know if we have or not. I really can't remember.
31:15
Drew
Since they made it, the Staples Center? What was it before?
31:17
Adam
Well, since, I mean, the Forum, obviously, is where the Lakers used to play. You know what I was thinking? I was thinking of the Sports Arena, which is down the street.
31:25
Drew
Different.
31:27
Adam
Yeah, it's different, but what I'm saying is, it hasn't been there very long. And I'm just curious since it's been there relatively short period of time, if this is your first or second time around, but who cares now, Drew? You've soured me through this whole line of questioning. You want to talk about us?
31:46
Caller
Sure.
31:48
Adam
You have any opinions?
31:48
Caller
Where'd you get that shirt?
31:50
Adam
I got this shirt for the Man Show. Thank you very much, Nick. Nick grew up in where? Orlando?
31:58
Caller
No, I grew up in Tampa.
32:00
Adam
Oh.
32:01
Caller
It's close to Orlando.
32:02
Adam
I was reading here that the band got together in 93. But you're 21 now, right? So what? You're 13?
32:12
Caller
12 actually. I was 12 going on 13.
32:14
Adam
Wow.
32:15
Caller
So I've been in the group for 8 years now.
32:17
Adam
How long was the band around before they cut their first CD?
32:23
Caller
Before we dropped our first CD in America, we were around for like 3 years over in Europe.
32:29
Adam
Oh, you started in Europe?
32:30
Caller
Yeah.
32:31
Adam
I didn't know that.
32:32
Caller
Yeah, we started in Europe actually about around the time Snoop and dropped Doggy Style and Nirvana, you know, let Nevermind out.
32:41
Adam
And did you guys, you were touring in Europe at 14, 15 years old?
32:45
Caller
Yep.
32:46
Adam
And were you polishing your, you know, honing your skills, polishing your act in Europe? I mean, was that the plan? Go to go to Europe and work out all the beats?
32:55
Caller
I don't think it was. I mean, it was a little bit of that. I mean, actually turned out to be that. But then, you know, in the beginning, basically what it was, was that, you know, America just wasn't ready for a five guy white group, you know?
33:06
Adam
Right. Well, I guess...
33:07
Caller
Because New Kids on the Block had just, you know, had all that big, controversial stuff right around that time.
33:13
Adam
Well, there was a little... New Kids on the Block were real hot in the early 90s, right? And then they went away. And then there was a little boy band Backlash, which was FeH. Done with that. Let's hear some Nirvana and Soundcard and all that good stuff. And then people calmed down for a while. And then the bands made their way back.
33:37
Caller
See, we came out with Who Dropped Around the same time we did. Spice Girls did. Hanson did.
33:43
Adam
Right.
33:44
Caller
And it was us. Actually, we were a little bit before the Spice Girls. And we were a little pissed mad because, you know, the Spice Girls had dropped two singles and they did really good. And we weren't doing nothing at all. And they had just came in and we were, you know, been in forever. And then they came in. And milked the market and left.
34:04
Adam
These Backstreet Boys weren't guys you went to junior high with. I mean, you were recruited, right?
34:09
Caller
No, actually, well, two of the guys, Kevin and Brian, are cousins. They've known each other for their whole lives. And, you know, me, AJ and Howie, we knew each other actually even a little bit before eight years. The group's actually been together for eight years. But me, Howie and AJ, we knew each other like two years before that.
34:27
Adam
Oh, you did?
34:28
Caller
Yeah, AJ actually knew Howie even six years before that.
34:31
Adam
I always just thought everyone was like recruited.
34:33
Caller
No, we knew each other.
34:36
Drew
We interviewed 90 Degrees, remember?
34:38
Adam
Yeah.
34:38
Drew
And they were talking about how they were basically all pages at Universal Studios.
34:42
Adam
Well, they were like recruited.
34:44
Drew
Yeah, and they were just recruited. I mean, they were from all over the country.
34:47
Caller
Really?
34:47
Drew
Yeah. Well, like, wasn't that 90 Degrees?
34:50
Adam
Nsync is recruited.
34:51
Drew
It was Nsync, yeah.
34:52
Adam
Aren't they?
34:53
Yeah.
34:54
Yeah.
34:55
Adam
You don't like them. You can't talk about them, right?
34:57
Caller
No, that's cool.
34:58
Adam
Right. No, he's 55 million records.
35:01
Caller
What do you care?
35:02
Caller
That's cool.
35:03
Caller
Yeah.
35:03
Caller
I mean, hey, that's cool. The guys are cool. They're cool guys.
35:07
Adam
They seem like it. They're not on the show, so we can say whatever we want about them, and I doubt they'll be in here anytime soon.
35:14
Caller
All right.
35:14
Adam
So, where do you live now?
35:17
Caller
Where I live, I still have a place in Tampa.
35:19
Adam
And do you like doing all the touring? I mean, do you like the lifestyle?
35:24
Caller
I love it. We haven't been touring in about a year since the Millennium Tour. And now we're doing the Black and Blue Tour. It's going really good. We're having fun. I mean, we're up there just giving it all again.
35:36
Adam
And when do you go to Europe?
35:38
Caller
Oh, we go to Europe, like, sometime, I don't know, sometime like late summer.
35:46
Adam
And what's with the, you're going to do some producing or managing?
35:51
Caller
Yeah, I've actually been producing and co-managing a band, actually managing until the time they get picked up or whatever.
36:01
Adam
Born into chaos?
36:02
Caller
Yeah, it's a band from Tampa, my best friends in the band.
36:05
Adam
Can't you just force them to be picked up?
36:07
Caller
No, you know what, I thought it was going to be that easy, but it's not. You got to pay your dues no matter what. And I've come to find that out with these guys. They've been together for about a year now. And when they first got together, what it was was my friend Brent, he's one of the guys in the group, he's a guitar player. I had to ask him to, I said, what do you want to do? You want to do something? He was in a really low point of his life and everything. I said, well, what do you want to do? Get yourself out of there and everything. And I suggested, man, because he liked to play guitar and everything. I said, if you get your guitar skills really rolling and everything, and you get a group together, I'll help fund you. I'll help put you out. I'll help you tour and make records. And I said, but you got to want it. So that's what they're doing right now. And I saw myself achieving. I've known this kid for a long time. Me and him are just best buds and everything. And I saw myself achieving the dream that I have wanted my whole life. And I just wanted him to do it too. So basically I'm using my money, everything that I've had, and I'm helping him out with his band.
37:20
Adam
But you could get your label to pick them up if you want it, don't you?
37:22
Caller
Well, I mean, we're actually, dude, I'll tell you what, we've gone through songs and songs. I've been like, you know, guys, you gotta check out this band. You know, they're gonna be doing something. And people are starting to pick up on them a little bit. And our label's like, oh, let's get them in the studio. Let's do some more demos and see what they sound like in a little more time. Say, hey, man, do it now, you know? But, you know, you'd think it would be easy to do that and put them on our label, or especially even Jive.
37:49
Adam
No, no, I listen to him. I understand fully because on a much lesser scale, people come up to me and say, hey, can you give me one of those Man Show sweatshirts? And I go, I don't think they'll give me one. And Drew goes, who are you kidding? It's your show. Go get one. And I go, I think they'll yell at me if I try to get one. So I understand sometimes. It doesn't mean you get to do everything.
38:13
Caller
It's not easy.
38:14
Adam
All right, let's take ourselves a little bit of a break here, Drew, and when we come back we'll speak to Vanessa's 20. After sex with boyfriend, he gets small cuts on his pee pee. We'll talk to her and him about it after this. Yep, it is Loveline. I'm Adam Corolla, that is Dr. Drew. Over there, phone number, 1-800-LOVE-191. Nick Carter's here from the Backstreet Boys. Still sweaty from his stage appearance at the Staples Center. And we thank him for coming by straight away.
39:24
Caller
Thanks for letting me on.
39:26
Adam
You guys are in town tonight, obviously. So you just go back to the hotel, get some rest tonight. You doing a bunch of press or something tomorrow?
39:34
Caller
I don't know what the heck we're doing tomorrow.
39:36
Hey, Rose, what are you doing?
39:37
Caller
No.
39:38
Adam
But you guys break off and go different directions, right? I mean, I have to travel.
39:42
Caller
Yeah, we can do whatever we want.
39:45
Adam
Like tonight? Alright, let's speak to Vanessa's 20. Vanessa?
39:50
Caller
Hello.
39:51
Adam
What's up?
39:52
Caller
Well, my boyfriend, after my boyfriend, I have sex. He gets little, it almost looks like razor blade cuts around the head of his penis.
40:01
Drew
Is he wearing a condom?
40:02
Caller
Yes.
40:03
Drew
Could it be an allergy to that?
40:06
Caller
We've tried different condoms. He has them to the doctor. Yeah. The doctor said it looked like a yeast infection and he's been putting Lamisil cream on it. But it, I mean, it never, it never fails. It's like every after every time we have sex.
40:23
Drew
Does it ever heal completely?
40:25
It does heal completely.
40:26
Caller
We have to wait for it to heal because he's in so much pain.
40:29
Drew
And have you tried polyurethane condoms or animal skin condoms?
40:32
We've tried everything.
40:33
Drew
Then you sure?
40:34
Adam
Wait a minute. Does he have the cuts immediately after sex?
40:37
Caller
No, it's usually like later on that day or the next day. And he's not circumcised.
40:45
So I thought that had to do something with it. And that's what the doctor kind of said.
40:48
Drew
Right. And then that's the word that sort of yeast comes into this, but yeah, because the skin.
40:52
Adam
They look like, why, why little cuts? Is that drying?
40:55
Drew
It just like chafing and kind of cracking. But the herpes could do this too.
40:58
Adam
I'm going to, I'm going to, I got a theory here. You don't keep your keys up there. Do you Vanessa? No. I had a girlfriend, I kept her, I kept the spare, she kept the hide a key.
41:07
Drew
You're right. Contact dermatitis, the nickel from the keys. You're right Adam.
41:10
Adam
Listen, I've said a million times, if I had a vagina, I would keep stuff there. Think about it. He swears that my extra set of keys, what have you, dice, just things you'd want. Change for the meter.
41:22
Caller
Money.
41:23
Adam
Yeah, right. Right. And why not?
41:24
Drew
It's a purse.
41:25
Adam
Sure.
41:26
Where's my dad put a razor blade up there so he couldn't touch me? But it's...
41:30
Adam
That's lovely.
41:31
Caller
We joke about it, but he's in so much pain that we don't know what to do anymore.
41:35
Drew
Again, it can be herpes. You probably should have a dermatologist take a look at this when he's having a little outbreak.
41:41
Adam
Wouldn't Vanessa have yeast if he got yeast?
41:43
Drew
No, because they wear condom all the time.
41:45
Adam
Yeah, but it's every... religiously you wear condom? Yeah. I don't know.
41:52
Caller
And it's just started probably, I'm going to say, four months ago.
41:55
Drew
It's a bad irritation, that's for sure. It may be a reaction to the condom. And you even use the animal skin condoms?
42:01
Yeah, he has bought the animal skin condom.
42:05
Drew
I would stick with those, but if he gets an outbreak again, get into a dermatologist.
42:08
Okay.
42:09
Drew
I'm worried about herpes here.
42:10
Adam
How about you give him oral sex for a month and give him a little break?
42:14
Caller
Yeah, right.
42:15
Adam
Yeah. All right.
42:16
Drew
As if.
42:17
Adam
Well, listen, I think as soon as his penis is healed, it's back into the fire, it goes. And then it gets irritated again and never gets healed. So it's called a vicious cycle. Amanda?
42:33
Nick Carter
Yes.
42:34
Adam
You're 18?
42:35
Nick Carter
Yeah. Nick, I love you.
42:38
Caller
Oh, thank you.
42:40
Adam
He's never heard that from a young girl before.
42:43
Nick Carter
Are you ever going to do an album with Aaron?
42:46
Am I ever going to do an album with Aaron?
42:48
Nick Carter
Yeah.
42:49
Caller
I don't know if I'm going to do an album. I might do a couple of songs with him or something.
42:52
Nick Carter
Yeah, because I love your little brother, too. He's so adorable.
42:57
Adam
Oh, that's your little, your little brother.
42:59
Caller
Yeah, that's my little brat.
43:01
Adam
He's like 13.
43:02
Caller
Yeah.
43:03
Adam
And he's rapping and dancing and everything.
43:06
Caller
He's a lot cooler than me.
43:08
Adam
Oh, I've seen that. Drew, have you seen that kid?
43:10
Caller
No.
43:11
Adam
He's got an album out, right? He's got videos out.
43:14
Caller
Yeah.
43:15
Adam
He's filling up places and selling, moving. I mean, he sold a few CDs, right?
43:20
Caller
He's doing good, man.
43:21
Drew
Did your parents encourage him along?
43:23
Caller
He kind of wanted it himself, man. He's been, I mean, he's been around, he's been in the business for a while now.
43:28
Drew
Did your parents encourage you into it?
43:30
Caller
No, I mean, it's awesome. You kind of want it.
43:33
Drew
But I mean, did they?
43:34
Caller
Well, they helped.
43:35
Drew
They helped. They have some knowledge of this. They supported these little ideas you guys had.
43:39
Caller
Of course.
43:40
Adam
Well, how do you know, like, how do you know when you can sing? Do you know what I mean? How old were you? Were you nine? Were you singing?
43:47
Caller
I don't remember. I was so young and I don't remember.
43:51
Adam
But, Drew, do you think that that's one of those innate sort of god-given kind of either got it or you don't. And if you do got it, it just starts coming out, starts coming to the surface kind of thing.
44:02
Drew
Yeah.
44:02
Adam
Wouldn't you say?
44:03
Drew
Yeah.
44:04
Adam
You just start doing it at a young age naturally. You start gravitating. I mean, you were singing, were you like doing school plays and Yeah, I was doing school plays.
44:12
Caller
You know, I mean, I guess I could sing. So, you know, what happened was I went and took a couple of vocal lessons here and there just to help, you know, learn how to sing properly, I guess. There is a way to, you know, sing right and wrong.
44:26
Adam
Oh, I know. Drew, you know, I sing wrong. That's how I know. But Drew was in Man of La Mancha. He was like ten, right? And Drew sings opera. And boy, you really parlayed that into quite a living.
44:39
Drew
It's been very useful.
44:39
Nick Carter
Give us a sample.
44:40
Adam
Amanda?
44:41
Nick Carter
Yes.
44:42
Adam
Who's crying in the background?
44:44
Nick Carter
My five-month-old. My mom's taking care of her right now, so I could say hi to Nick. Nick, are you going to do anything with Leslie?
44:55
Caller
With Leslie?
44:55
Man, she knows my whole family.
44:57
Adam
Who's that? Your sister?
44:58
That's my sister.
45:00
Caller
Yeah, she signed to DreamWorks, so she's going to do something, too.
45:03
Adam
She sings, or acts?
45:04
Yeah, she sings.
45:06
Nick Carter
When is her album going to come out?
45:07
Caller
I don't know yet. I think they're still prepping her.
45:10
Nick Carter
Yeah, because I have her first two songs.
45:12
Caller
Oh, you do?
45:12
Drew
Amanda's phone's 11.
45:13
Nick Carter
Cool.
45:14
Adam
Yeah. Hey, Amanda?
45:15
Nick Carter
Yeah.
45:16
Adam
By the way, my sister, she's very talented. She borrows money. That's her big talent. Amanda, you all right? Anybody molest you growing up?
45:27
Caller
No.
45:29
Adam
You got that little girl voice?
45:31
Nick Carter
That's just how I talk.
45:32
Drew
No, no, no.
45:34
Adam
What happened?
45:35
Nick Carter
Nothing.
45:36
Adam
Tell us the truth.
45:37
Nick Carter
Seriously.
45:39
Adam
Tell us the truth.
45:41
Nick Carter
Seriously.
45:42
Adam
Where's your dad?
45:44
Nick Carter
In his room sleeping.
45:46
Adam
Is that a grave or prison? Where is he?
45:49
Nick Carter
His room.
45:50
Adam
All right. When did you lose your virginity?
45:53
Nick Carter
When I was 17 and a half.
45:55
Adam
Who touched you before then?
45:57
Nick Carter
No one.
45:58
Adam
Be truthful.
45:58
Drew
The first time you had sex, you got pregnant?
46:01
Nick Carter
No.
46:02
Drew
You got a five and a half month old.
46:05
Nick Carter
I'm very serious with her father.
46:09
Adam
Where's her father now?
46:11
Caller
At work.
46:12
Adam
We're just trying to do the math. You have a five month old.
46:16
Nick Carter
Yeah.
46:17
Adam
You're pregnant for, what is it now, six months? How long does that take?
46:20
Drew
Nine months.
46:20
Adam
Nine months.
46:22
Drew
You're 18 now.
46:23
Adam
There you go with about 15 months.
46:24
Nick Carter
I'm 18, 19 next month.
46:26
Adam
I see. All right.
46:27
Drew
So you dated him three months before you got pregnant?
46:30
Nick Carter
No. I was with him nine months.
46:33
Adam
Okay. All right. It all checks out.
46:36
Caller
They were trying to bust you.
46:38
Adam
Amanda, seriously, just tell us.
46:41
Drew
She's afraid she's going to ruin her image in Nick's eyes.
46:44
Adam
No. Nick doesn't care. That turns him on.
46:49
Caller
I'm sure that does.
46:50
Adam
You more than me. Seriously, somebody, you don't, don't give us any details. Just tell us yes or no.
46:57
Caller
What?
46:58
Drew
Something physical.
46:59
Adam
Somebody touched you. Yeah. Physical. Something physical.
47:03
Nick Carter
No.
47:04
Adam
No. No beatings.
47:06
Nick Carter
No.
47:07
Caller
All right.
47:08
Adam
It doesn't check out. All right, Amanda. If you're lying, I'll see you in hell.
47:14
Caller
All right.
47:15
Nick Carter
I love you, Nick. Bye-bye. Bye.
47:18
Drew
There's no way.
47:19
Caller
Yeah.
47:20
Adam
You think you could have cracked her if you had a little more time, Drew? Jenny?
47:24
Nick Carter
Yeah. Hi.
47:25
Adam
You're 14. What's up?
47:26
Nick Carter
Yeah.
47:26
Caller
Well, first of all, Nick, I've been an enormously huge fan for like, I don't know, since I was nine. But I'm sure you don't want to hear that. Anyway, I do have a serious question. My mom, she's afraid to lose weight.
47:38
Drew
Afraid to lose weight?
47:39
Caller
Yeah.
47:40
Caller
That's interesting.
47:41
Adam
Scared her boobs will get smaller?
47:43
Caller
No.
47:44
Caller
No. She's afraid of looking good because I think I have something to do because when she was four, she was mustered by her cousin.
47:52
Drew
That's what people do. They will gain weight as we are repelling people from them.
47:57
Caller
I mean, she has like diabetes. She takes like nine pills a day.
48:00
Adam
That's why I got all the hair on my ass. It's my nature to repel those guys.
48:06
Caller
I'm so worried about her.
48:07
Adam
All right. Jenny, hold on a second because we got to take a break.
48:10
Caller
Okay.
48:10
Adam
All right.
48:11
Caller
All righty.
48:11
Adam
We'll get right back with you and figure out your mom though, right? Okay. Nick Carter is here for the Backstreet Boys. Take a little break. We'll get back with Jenny and Big Mama. Kill Book Rape's mom after this.
48:26
Caller
We'll be right back. Call on the 1-800-LOVE-191.
48:46
Caller
Outrageous Talk Radio, 100.7, The Buzz, KQBC Seattle.
49:11
Adam
Loveline, I'm Adam Corolla, that is Dr. Drew over there. Nick Carter's here from the Backstreet Boys.
49:17
Caller
Yes, sir.
49:18
Adam
Black and Blue, of course, is the name of the CD. Eight Times Gone Platinum.
49:24
Caller
Yeah, worldwide.
49:27
Adam
What do you got to do, sell a million to go platinum?
49:30
Caller
Yep, that's what you got to do.
49:32
Adam
Now, I got a question you may not have an answer for, but it came up last night when Nelly Furtado was on this show. It's a million to go platinum in the US., but in Canada, it's less.
49:45
Caller
500 or something?
49:46
Adam
500. So if you got 8 million, no, no. If it's gone platinum eight times worldwide, is that 8 million? And if or should be less.
49:56
Drew
Should be less once you talk about China.
50:00
Caller
Then all you need is 50 for Germany.
50:03
Adam
50 for Germany and 45 million.
50:05
Drew
Yeah.
50:06
Caller
50,000.
50:08
Adam
For China, though, you need. Yeah, that would make sense. All right. I'd like to find out how you go platinum.
50:14
Drew
Canada is 30 million people. We have 350 million. You would think it would be 100,000.
50:20
Adam
How many is China have? Does it have like 2 billion or something?
50:22
Drew
Yeah. Oh, I couldn't even get more there.
50:26
Adam
Well, Pink Lady, were they Chinese? What did they do? No, I can't think of any Chinese fans off the top of my head.
50:34
Drew
It's a kind of five.
50:37
Adam
Oh, they Japanese.
50:38
Drew
Japanese. Excuse me.
50:41
Adam
Jenny, you're 14. What's up?
50:44
Caller
Oh, yeah. It's my mom.
50:45
Adam
Oh, yes. Right. Right. She's gaining weight to make herself unattractive.
50:50
Caller
Well, she lost 30 pounds recently and that's better because, you know, it doesn't put her at risk for like heart attack or anything, but she's really, really young.
50:57
Adam
Well, how old is she?
50:58
Caller
Well, I'm 14 and she's only 37.
51:00
Adam
And how much does she weigh?
51:03
Caller
I don't know. She's at least like 50 to 70 pounds overweight.
51:07
Drew
She's 160?
51:09
Adam
No, she's more like 210 or 200.
51:13
Caller
Okay.
51:14
Adam
Okay. And you're basically trying to save your mom.
51:17
Caller
Yeah. I mean, she's a great person and she doesn't she's just afraid to like look good because she doesn't want to be like, you know, taking advantage of.
51:25
Adam
How do you know all these details?
51:27
Caller
She tells me.
51:28
Adam
Really? She she burns you with all that? Well, I don't want to lose weight because then I'll be raped or I'll have sex.
51:35
Caller
Well, I don't.
51:36
Caller
She just was your dad.
51:38
Caller
I need to be careful, I guess.
51:39
Drew
Sure. Where's your dad?
51:41
Caller
Oh, my dad. I've never been happily married for like 16 years now. But they're sleeping together right now.
51:48
Drew
But why is it that she can tolerate him being attracted to her? Maybe he's into that, by the way.
51:55
Caller
I don't know.
51:55
Drew
Is he a black guy?
51:56
Caller
The fact that my dad and then I've been together since high school.
52:00
Drew
Yeah.
52:00
Caller
And she wasn't overweight then.
52:04
Drew
So?
52:04
Caller
And so like, you know, that's like real love, you know? And so she completely trusts my dad. My dad's a completely trustworthy person and they're so disgustingly in love. It's like they're just going out or something. It's really nasty.
52:18
Drew
Okay. So why are you so concerned about her? I think she has a very gratifying emotional life.
52:23
Nick Carter
I'm worried about her health.
52:25
Caller
I mean, my.
52:25
Drew
Well, get her to exercise a little bit. Don't focus on the weight. Get the exercise. Exercise is more important than anything else anyway.
52:31
Caller
What about the emotional?
52:33
Drew
Well, you just told us that she would have lived this wonderful emotional life. So Jenny.
52:37
Caller
No, no, no. Because of the, oh, sorry. But because of her past, because when she was four.
52:43
Drew
I understand. But our concern would be her ability to maintain intimacy. And you're telling us she has this wonderful relationship. So that's not such a big issue. It's really purely the health issue with her weight. And she has difficulty containing her appetite. So get her to exercise.
52:57
Caller
OK.
52:57
Drew
Even if she remains diabetic, exercise is a key thing for diabetics. Particularly walking, walking after meals. You know, she is diabetic. Is she diabetic or not?
53:06
Caller
Yeah, we have a history of diabetes.
53:08
Drew
Is she diabetic or not?
53:09
Caller
Yes, yes.
53:10
Drew
And she's still eating concentrated sugars?
53:13
Caller
She no, not as much. We gave her.
53:15
Drew
She is still eating concentrated sugars?
53:17
Adam
Leave her alone.
53:18
Drew
If she's eating concentrated sugars, you got to get her into her doctor immediately. And she needs to sit down with a dietician. She needs to sit down with a dietician to figure out what is up here. You may be able to go with her to one of those meetings.
53:29
Adam
Jenny?
53:30
Caller
Yeah.
53:30
Adam
You want to get her to exercise?
53:33
Caller
Yeah, we do.
53:33
Adam
You know, here's the way to do it. You dress up as a hot dog and she chases you around the house.
53:39
Caller
OK.
53:40
Adam
I used to do that with my mom.
53:41
Caller
You're a genius.
53:42
Adam
It was great fun. Neighbors couldn't make heads or tails of it, you know, through the windows at night, but it really, really got the pounds off her. I actually would dress up as a dime bag and my mom would chase me around. She'd chase me around the park. It was great. Jesus Christ, if she listens to this show, she's going to kill me. Hey, Jenny. Hey, Jenny, don't get so caught up in your mom's emotional well-being. Would you?
54:06
Caller
No, just just be the kid.
54:07
Adam
Be 14. Be the kid.
54:08
Nick Carter
Yeah. All right.
54:09
Adam
You know, get stuff caught in your braces.
54:11
Caller
I don't have any.
54:13
Adam
Well, get some braces, get a retainer and then lose it. So your parents get mad at you. Doodle on your peachy folder, have crushes on guys. Don't get all caught up in mom and her sexual abuse of the past. It's going to freak you out too much.
54:28
Caller
Well, Nick, thank you very much because you're just like a huge inspiration to me.
54:32
Caller
So thank you.
54:34
Caller
You take care. Take care of your mom.
54:36
Drew
Has burdened her with it all her life.
54:38
Caller
Yeah.
54:38
Adam
Listen, parents, don't start getting into that stuff with your mom. I mean, with your kids, it freaks them out. Everyone's had some freaky ass happen to them or been involved with this or that. Don't sit your kids down and tell them about every threesome you're in, or every time you got raped, or what your uncle did, you just leave them alone. Let them be kids for a change. Danielle?
55:01
Nick Carter
Yeah.
55:02
Adam
You're 17?
55:03
Nick Carter
Yes, I am.
55:04
Adam
What's up?
55:05
Nick Carter
Well, when I have sex, I like leak fluid.
55:11
Caller
It doesn't seem normal to me because-
55:14
Adam
Probably got bad hose.
55:15
Caller
No, I don't.
55:17
Nick Carter
No, it's just like too much fluid.
55:20
Caller
It comes out like water and it leaves a huge puddle. It's disgusting. It's very embarrassing and I don't know. It just started recently happening.
55:31
Drew
It's a normal thing.
55:32
Nick Carter
It's normal?
55:33
Caller
Okay, because it's just too much and I didn't know if there was something wrong or-
55:39
Drew
Nothing wrong.
55:39
Caller
Do you think you're drinking too much fluids?
55:41
Caller
Yeah, I think.
55:44
Adam
Is it, but did you say it was from an orgasm or just from having sex?
55:48
Caller
It's just from having sex. I've never had an orgasm.
55:51
Drew
Sometimes the gushing can occur. When you have the orgasm, it's going to gush even worse though. Okay. And it's good. It's an okay thing.
55:57
Adam
You got that to look forward to.
55:59
Caller
Okay.
56:00
Adam
And is it just is it feel like just moisture, like lubrication?
56:05
Caller
No, it's just, it feels like water. It just leaks down. I can feel it leaking down.
56:10
Drew
And you're not urinating.
56:11
Caller
Too much water.
56:12
Caller
It's not or anything. It just leaks down like water coming from my vagina.
56:18
Adam
Okay.
56:18
Drew
That can be normal.
56:19
Adam
Nick's trying to eat, so could you knock off the dripping vagina conversation for just a little bit?
56:24
Caller
Okay.
56:24
Adam
It's really nauseating. And I'm trying to masturbate to Nick eating over here, so. We're really screwing things up. No, I'm sorry. It's after 11. All right. Let's talk to Connie. Connie is 15. Connie?
56:39
Caller
Hi.
56:39
Adam
What's up?
56:41
Caller
Okay. My friend, she has been sex sexually abusing me. She's been having me do sexual favors for her and she's like kind of manipulating me.
56:51
Drew
How old is she?
56:52
Caller
She's 15 now. She's 14 and this is happening.
56:56
Nick Carter
She's human to me.
56:57
Drew
Sexually abusing you. Be more specific.
57:00
Caller
Oh, she was like manipulating me, like, you know, making me feel like special, I guess. So I would do like things for her, like sexual things for her.
57:12
Adam
Sexual favors?
57:13
Caller
Yeah.
57:14
Adam
Well, sexual, hold on a second. You know what's funny about sexual favors? It sounds like someone called you up and go, yeah, I got to move my vagina this weekend. You give me a hand.
57:23
Caller
You got it.
57:24
Adam
Your brother Kurtz got a truck, right?
57:26
Caller
Yeah.
57:27
Drew
This is what you're used to being manipulated by your friends.
57:29
Adam
Yeah. Why?
57:29
Drew
It's a little different.
57:30
Adam
How about after softball? Could you come by?
57:32
Drew
Tell us specifically how she manipulated you.
57:35
Caller
Well, when it very first started, we were just, she was over at my house and she was like, she was like, she would hold my hand and make me feel special. This was when I was fat and ugly and everything bad was happening to me. My life.
57:50
Adam
And hey, Tony, yeah, you can't say the S word.
57:55
Caller
Oh, I'm sorry.
57:56
Adam
The radio there.
57:57
Caller
Okay, sorry.
57:58
Adam
Okay.
57:59
Caller
And so she would like, she would hold my hand. She would like say things to me that made me feel like, you know, maybe there's something.
58:08
Caller
Is she your best friend?
58:09
Caller
She was.
58:10
Adam
She was. And she's a year younger.
58:13
Caller
Yeah. Well, three months.
58:15
Adam
I see. And so what do you guys do sexually?
58:20
Caller
You have to ask me that.
58:21
Adam
Yes.
58:22
Caller
Well, what do two girls do sexually together?
58:26
Adam
I don't know. We get a wide range. I mean, you guys have an oral sex set, right?
58:30
Caller
Yeah.
58:31
Caller
Okay.
58:32
Adam
Don't get persnipity, baby. I'm just trying to get to the bottom of this.
58:35
Caller
I'm sorry.
58:36
Caller
Okay. All right.
58:37
Adam
Well, why do you feel like you have to do it?
58:40
Caller
I don't feel I feel like that if I don't, maybe I'll lose your friendship. Maybe she'll, you know, tell everyone that's happening.
58:48
Drew
Here's what I understand is you perceive this as a manipulation. How do you think somebody would seduce you?
58:55
Caller
What do you mean?
58:56
Drew
If they, I mean, what would that look like if somebody were just trying to express physical intimacy to you? Would that always be a manipulation?
59:06
Nick Carter
I don't know, I...
59:07
Drew
Somebody holds your hand, tells you they care about you very much, and once it progresses...
59:13
Caller
The difference is that she won't do it in front of anybody.
59:16
Drew
Not like Adam, who macerates in front of Nick Carter?
59:19
Nick Carter
No, I don't.
59:19
I don't want her to.
59:21
Adam
Well, maybe she knows that. Here's what we're getting at. Maybe she thinks of you as her girlfriend.
59:26
Drew
Exactly.
59:27
Caller
No, she doesn't. I know she doesn't, because she told me. She told me I can't tell anyone.
59:32
Drew
Well, maybe she'd be embarrassed by being a lesbian.
59:34
Caller
Is she like that with anybody else?
59:37
Adam
I said she thinks of you as her girlfriend, but meanwhile she doesn't want to be ostracized at school and have other people find out about it.
59:47
Caller
But she's open lesbian.
59:48
Drew
And by the way, Connie, if you were with a guy, there are plenty of guys that will treat you like this too.
59:52
Caller
Yeah, I know, I know. I've had it happen.
59:55
Drew
So here we go.
59:56
Adam
What's going on, baby?
59:58
Drew
You were abused a lot when you were younger, huh?
1:00:00
Caller
Well, I was not by family or anything.
1:00:03
Drew
But you were big time abused.
1:00:04
Caller
It was by one of my brother's friends.
1:00:07
Drew
Big time.
1:00:08
Caller
Yeah.
1:00:08
Drew
Big time.
1:00:09
Adam
It just went on for a while?
1:00:11
Caller
It only happened a few times, but it was like I was like six and he was like 13 and he was making me do things for him.
1:00:17
Adam
Okay, so now you got someone else making you do things or even though there are things that you may want to do, they feel like someone's making you do something.
1:00:27
Drew
It's all the projection of what you expect from people, this transference of everyone is going to try to manipulate me to have sex and of course you repeat the trauma over and over again. You need some treatment here Connie, you got to deal with this.
1:00:41
Caller
I've been wanting to...
1:00:42
Drew
I'm going right over that.
1:00:44
Caller
I've been wanting to talk to her about it, you know, maybe just stop it.
1:00:48
Adam
Well, why don't you? I mean, are you that worried about losing someone's friendship who's sort of coercing you into sex?
1:00:56
Drew
But she may not perceive this at all. She may not, the friend.
1:00:59
Adam
She's not, but I'm asking Connie, logically, I mean, you're worried about hurting her feelings when you feel like she's forcing you into sex?
1:01:07
Nick Carter
I don't know.
1:01:08
Caller
I don't know. I, I just, it's really hard to bring it up because I tried to once and she was just like, no, I'm not doing anything like that. And then she tried to make me do stuff.
1:01:17
Adam
Yeah. Well, Connie, why don't you not hang around with her?
1:01:22
Caller
It's kind of hard.
1:01:23
Adam
I know it's hard because then you couldn't repeat this drama.
1:01:26
Drew
Yeah.
1:01:27
Adam
She plays along and plays into this fantasy.
1:01:29
Drew
Yeah. God forbid when you bring something up to her, like tell her how you're feeling and she acknowledges it and it really tries to reassure you and then tries to physically embrace you, you perceive that as the trauma all over again.
1:01:41
Adam
Well, I don't know. Drew, you may be spinning this a little farther than you need to too.
1:01:47
Caller
Connie. Yeah.
1:01:48
Adam
You gotta get some help for yourself. Okay. Because whatever your brother's friend did to you many years ago.
1:01:54
Drew
It's being reenacted over and over.
1:01:56
Adam
It's permeated your life and that's become your cry.
1:01:59
Drew
It's become who you are. You're the victim.
1:02:01
Caller
Okay.
1:02:02
Drew
You gotta break that.
1:02:03
Adam
You gotta get some counseling, alright?
1:02:04
Caller
Okay.
1:02:05
Adam
And meanwhile, don't hang out with this person. It's simple math.
1:02:10
Drew
Either that or give up the victim role. Stop being the victim.
1:02:15
Adam
Well, if she stopped being a victim, she might have to admit she was a lesbian.
1:02:19
Drew
Or admit that she's into this relationship.
1:02:21
Adam
Right. What do you think, Nick?
1:02:25
Caller
I wonder if she has a boyfriend.
1:02:26
Adam
Nick No. You think she does? Well, we can find out. Connie?
1:02:31
Caller
I did when it first happened.
1:02:32
Adam
Nick You had a boyfriend.
1:02:33
Caller
Yeah, when it first happened.
1:02:34
Adam
Nick But not anymore.
1:02:36
Caller
No, not anymore.
1:02:37
Caller
Did he find out?
1:02:38
No, no one knows.
1:02:39
Caller
You know, like the first people I told.
1:02:41
Caller
Nick Okay.
1:02:43
Adam
Well, no one listens, so you'll be fine.
1:02:45
Yeah.
1:02:46
Drew
Your secret is safe.
1:02:46
Adam
Nick Give yourself some counseling, please. And stop repeating this.
1:02:51
Caller
Okay.
1:02:51
Adam
And don't hang out with her. Okay. Listen, the only reason you hang out with lesbians in high school is for protection.
1:02:58
Caller
That's what I like.
1:03:00
Adam
You need someone's ass kicked, you hang out with a lesbian. You don't need the protection. You move on.
1:03:05
Drew
Nick That's how you dealt with Chris and Ray, huh?
1:03:07
Adam
Yeah. I used to use lesbians in my high school is what I call enforcers. Bodyguards, you know, Nick. You guys got a lot of lesbian bodyguards, right?
1:03:15
Nick Carter
Yeah, couple.
1:03:16
Adam
And Sarah?
1:03:18
Caller
Yeah.
1:03:19
Adam
You're 14. What's up?
1:03:21
Caller
Oh, I'm 17.
1:03:22
Adam
I mean 17, my mistake.
1:03:24
Caller
Okay.
1:03:26
Caller
I was just wondering if Nick was going to do like a play or anything or do a solo album during their break in 2002?
1:03:37
Caller
Personally? Well, I'm sure we're all like, I think we'll all do something probably individually, you know, we're going to all support each other when we do it. I mean, it'll I don't I can't really say what it's going to be because, you know, we do enjoy making albums together and we're having a lot of fun doing it. But I mean, there's times when we might just be like, hey, let's do some individually. But I think no matter what, we'll always come back together, you know, almost take a group.
1:04:08
Adam
So you don't have any specific plans of doing so much.
1:04:10
Caller
Nothing. Nothing. But I can't say that we won't do something.
1:04:17
Drew
Your album is awesome and so is the show.
1:04:21
Caller
Well, thank you.
1:04:24
Well, you sound a lot different on the phone than you do in interviews.
1:04:27
Adam
Well, he's not usually making love to a hamburger when he's doing interviews.
1:04:31
Caller
You sound different on the phone.
1:04:33
Yeah.
1:04:33
Caller
On the call?
1:04:34
Adam
Yeah. Hey, Sarah.
1:04:37
Caller
Hello?
1:04:37
Adam
Sarah? Yeah.
1:04:39
Drew
Sarah's a made up name.
1:04:40
Adam
Oh, I see.
1:04:40
Drew
Call her goes by Sarah.
1:04:42
Adam
You want Nick to leave an outgoing message on your phone machine where he just belches into it? Probably worth something.
1:04:50
I wouldn't quite mind that, but I find burps disgusting.
1:04:53
Caller
I'm sorry.
1:04:53
That's all right.
1:04:54
Caller
It's the 7-Up. It's the fluid. All right, baby.
1:04:57
If you're Nick Carter, you can do it.
1:04:58
Adam
That's right. That's right. His farts don't smell.
1:05:01
Caller
Bye, Sarah.
1:05:02
Adam
Bye, Sarah. All right. Let's talk to... Wait a minute. I think we should hear a song because Nick's going to eat that burger. And this will give him a little chomp in time. Here's a little something from the Backstreet Boys called... Oh. That was up on the screen. Oh, Anderson doesn't have it.
1:05:23
Caller
No!
1:05:23
Adam
This is Born in a Chaos.
1:05:24
Caller
This is my band.
1:05:25
Adam
Oh, okay.
1:05:26
Caller
I got a song here.
1:05:27
Adam
Oh, I thought we were playing a Backstreet Boys song. All right. Man. Why? They handed me the black and blue. See? I guess you guys have had enough airplay. Anderson Born in a Chaos. There we go. We got it there, Anderson? Yes. That is born into chaos, falling away. Nick Carter is managing the band, right?
1:09:41
Caller
For the time being. I mean, I'm just managing just until they get picked up.
1:09:46
Adam
Well, maybe they will now that they've had a little national exposure. We will take ourselves a break when we come back and speak to Ashley's 19, having sex for a year, still painful. Wants to know what the problem is after this.
1:10:22
Caller
You're listening to Loveline on Outrageous Talk Radio 100.7 The Buzz.
1:10:33
Adam
Loveline, I'm Adam Corolla, that's Dr. Drew. Nick Carter is our guest tonight from the Backstreet Boys. And he and we are ready to get back on the phones and save America, one screwed up team at a time. Ashley?
1:10:50
Caller
Yeah?
1:10:50
Adam
You're 19, what's up?
1:10:52
Caller
Okay, well, basically, I've been having sex with like a boyfriend for about a year now, and he's the first guy I've ever had sex with, and it still hurts. And now he's suggesting, well, since it still hurts, we should have anal sex.
1:11:07
Drew
Oh, this is quite a guy.
1:11:09
Caller
Yeah, and I'm like, okay, yeah, if vaginal sex hurts, what makes you think I'm gonna have anal sex?
1:11:13
Adam
Yes, you did the orifice math there. And-
1:11:18
Caller
So did he, unfortunately.
1:11:19
Adam
And it was correct.
1:11:20
Drew
His thing was, yeah, his deal was, oh, this one hurts, give me the next one. This truly is Sir Walter Raleigh. We finally found him.
1:11:29
Adam
Chivalry is not dead. You okay, baby? How's the cornhole? All right. That's lovely.
1:11:37
Caller
And like we've tried different positions and tried like-
1:11:40
Drew
At what point do you have pain? Is it right at penetration or after a while?
1:11:44
Caller
It's after a while, like-
1:11:47
Caller
After how long?
1:11:49
Caller
Like just maybe like 10 minutes.
1:11:53
Drew
No, maybe 10 minutes is all you're good for. Really, some women, 10 minutes, that's it.
1:11:59
Nick Carter
It's like, but it's like, I don't have that problem.
1:12:03
Caller
I guess it kind of gets dry.
1:12:06
Drew
That's right.
1:12:07
Caller
But when we use lubrication-
1:12:09
Drew
Yeah, but why do you have difficulty imagining that 10 minutes is all you need or want?
1:12:14
Caller
Because I've never orgasmed after 10 minutes.
1:12:16
Drew
Yeah, well, you're not going to. Well, you mean you would do eventually?
1:12:21
Caller
Yeah, like through other-
1:12:23
Nick Carter
Other-
1:12:24
Drew
That's the point.
1:12:24
Adam
Oral sex.
1:12:26
Nick Carter
Oral sex, masturbation, other things.
1:12:29
Drew
But that's the point, that 10 minutes is long enough for you, and that's it. You're not going to have orgasm during intercourse. And by doing it longer, it's not going to make it more likely to happen, it's going to make it less likely to happen.
1:12:40
Adam
Ever? Okay, Ashley.
1:12:42
Yeah?
1:12:42
Adam
You think that there's an orgasm that's floating out there at the 18 or 22 minute mark, and if you could just reach that, then you'd have your orgasm, right?
1:12:53
Well, I guess it's just because, you know, my friends are like, what's wrong with you? You know, they're like, they can have orgasms.
1:13:01
Drew
Many, many.
1:13:01
Adam
Those whores, don't listen to them.
1:13:04
Drew
Many 19 year olds do not have orgasm at all. Most, most do not during intercourse. Most.
1:13:11
Nick Carter
It's like a permanent thing that will.
1:13:13
Drew
No, as you get older, you might, you might find it. But most women at 19 are not having.
1:13:20
Adam
Drew and I were discussing this some weeks back. As you get older, things loosen up and start falling out of you.
1:13:26
Caller
Really?
1:13:26
Adam
Your teeth, your bowels, urine, fecal matter, orgasms, your hair, stuff just starts falling off you as you get older. If you think about it, you know what I mean?
1:13:39
Caller
I don't have that problem.
1:13:40
Adam
No, you're, you're young and spry, but one day things will start falling out of you. And for women, the orgasm just gets loose. It's like, it's like, you know what it's like? It's like, there's a tree inside the vagina and the orgasms as they're young are green apples. I mean, they're not, they're not ready to come off that tree, but as they get older, they get ripe.
1:14:03
Drew
You know what?
1:14:04
Adam
And they fall on the ground and then they rot and then squirrels eat them.
1:14:09
Drew
I'm really starting to believe.
1:14:10
Adam
Yeah.
1:14:10
Caller
I wonder, I wonder who the squirrels are.
1:14:12
Adam
I should write children's books.
1:14:14
Drew
As a boy, as women get older.
1:14:15
Adam
Isn't it like a tree, Drew? Isn't that a good analogy?
1:14:18
Drew
Yeah, it's a reasonable analogy.
1:14:19
Adam
Reasonable. It's brilliant.
1:14:21
Drew
I really think as women get older, their testosterone levels start to go up, their estrogen levels start to drop. And that really is true. By the time they hit menopause, it's why that sort of caricature of a horny old lady kind of thing. That horny old lady was probably a sort of disinterested 19 year old like Ashley.
1:14:40
Adam
At one time.
1:14:41
Drew
At one time. And I had a very bizarre conversation with Christina Ferrari today where she was saying, oh, she goes off, I work. If I knew what I do now, I'd have sex with lots of guys when I was 19. I thought, really? If you were in that 19 year old body, she thought, no, no, I wouldn't be interested.
1:14:53
Adam
Wasn't into it.
1:14:54
Drew
The biology just isn't there at 19.
1:14:56
Caller
But that doesn't go with everybody, though.
1:14:57
Adam
Not everybody.
1:14:59
Drew
But that's sort of a general, general reasonable.
1:15:01
Adam
But Nick, I got to tell you, every woman you're with, if she ain't having an organ, she's going to fake it because you're in the Backstreet Boys. You understand? It's too much pressure. She's got to come through.
1:15:13
Caller
And you know you get the same problem.
1:15:14
Adam
It's good. Yeah.
1:15:15
Drew
Yeah, that's you.
1:15:16
Adam
Oh, yeah, I get you done. Get off. Yeah, I women do start becoming men in their 50s. They get that mustache. They shut the cut their hair short. They start getting thick around the shoulders and the hips. No, you don't want to. No, you can get old. Just not your wife. And they start becoming men. And then it's like, come here, give me some. Yeah, I need it. Thank you.
1:15:41
Drew
And then they smile.
1:15:42
Adam
Yeah, they become they become men.
1:15:44
Drew
And men.
1:15:45
Adam
And they make men become women. They get saggy. They don't want sex anymore.
1:15:51
Caller
What movies have you been watching?
1:15:53
Adam
No, believe me, this is what life holds in store for you. This is the future.
1:15:56
Caller
I don't see it.
1:15:57
Adam
I don't want to. This is the future.
1:15:59
Drew
We never talk about this, do we? Because we're not dealing with that stage of life here on this show.
1:16:03
Adam
But really, do women stop making? Estrogen.
1:16:09
Drew
And they start making more.
1:16:10
Adam
Do they start making or the testosterone doesn't get shut off?
1:16:13
Drew
They make more. I don't know. They certainly have more circulating around for the adrenals start producing a bunch more.
1:16:19
Adam
So women make estrogen and testosterone all the time?
1:16:23
Drew
Yes.
1:16:23
Adam
And the estrogen goes away eventually and the testosterone keeps going.
1:16:28
Drew
Yeah.
1:16:29
Adam
And what about men? Do we make any estrogen?
1:16:31
Drew
Yeah. That's why we get breasts when we're 13. What the heck is estrogen?
1:16:34
Adam
What is it? That's woman juice.
1:16:35
Drew
It's a woman juice. Yeah. It's a female hormone.
1:16:37
Adam
That's the juice women got in them. And men, it's like, you know, men have Mountain Dew in them and women have Pepsi. But we got a little Pepsi in us too. And they got some Mountain Dew in them too. And eventually their Pepsi fountain runs dry.
1:16:53
Drew
Right.
1:16:53
Adam
And all they get is Mountain Dew.
1:16:55
Drew
Basically.
1:16:55
Adam
And that's when they grow those mustaches.
1:16:57
Drew
Right. Basically.
1:16:58
Adam
All right.
1:17:00
Caller
We got all figured out. Let's see if we can learn things in this show.
1:17:02
Adam
Oh, hell yes. Jackie, you don't remember them because you're stoned, but you do learn them. Jackie, you're 16. What's up?
1:17:11
Caller
Hello?
1:17:12
Adam
Hey.
1:17:12
Caller
Hey. Hey, Nick.
1:17:14
Caller
How you doing?
1:17:15
Caller
What's up?
1:17:15
Caller
What's up?
1:17:17
I just want to say I'm a huge fan of you guys.
1:17:20
Caller
Thank you.
1:17:20
Caller
You guys are so awesome.
1:17:22
Caller
Thanks.
1:17:22
And I stick up for you guys.
1:17:24
Caller
Even though I get BS from everyone.
1:17:26
Caller
Oh, that's a nice stuff.
1:17:27
Caller
I'm sorry.
1:17:28
That's okay.
1:17:29
Caller
I do it with a lot of pride, though.
1:17:31
Caller
Well, thank you.
1:17:32
Adam
You guys rule.
1:17:33
Caller
Anyhow, I want to ask you about the Backstreet Project. Did that comic book like out?
1:17:39
Caller
Yeah, it was out, but you know, I think we kind of just, they kind of just dried up, you know, kind of like this.
1:17:47
Caller
It was just a temporary thing?
1:17:52
Caller
It was like, it was temporary. Yeah, it was, I mean, I wanted it to continue on, but you know, the other fellas just weren't feeling it too much longer.
1:18:01
Caller
Oh, it's your idea.
1:18:02
Caller
Go for it.
1:18:03
Caller
I know. I do promote that, don't I?
1:18:06
Caller
Yeah.
1:18:06
Caller
Go for it.
1:18:07
Adam
Well, maybe Nick O'Connor of the solo comic.
1:18:10
Caller
Yeah, maybe.
1:18:12
Adam
All right, Jackie.
1:18:13
Caller
See you.
1:18:14
Can you say hi to my friend, Lindsey, please?
1:18:17
Caller
Hello, Lindsey.
1:18:18
She's Lindsey Bartle.
1:18:19
Caller
She's a huge AJ fan.
1:18:21
Caller
We're both BSB freaks.
1:18:23
Caller
Don't be freaks, just be, you know.
1:18:25
Adam
Keep fighting the good fight there, Jackie.
1:18:27
Caller
Bye-bye.
1:18:28
Adam
Good time, baby. Sarah.
1:18:31
Yeah.
1:18:32
Adam
You're 16?
1:18:33
Caller
Yes, I am.
1:18:33
Adam
What's up?
1:18:34
Caller
I have a couple of questions for Nick, but first I wanted to say that all your guys' names are on my shoe.
1:18:39
Adam
Oh, great.
1:18:39
Caller
So you step on us every day.
1:18:41
Caller
Oh, yeah.
1:18:42
Adam
It's all of us. Drew, Nick and Adam.
1:18:45
Caller
Yes. Adam, you're on my folder.
1:18:48
Adam
Nice. Sorry, guys.
1:18:50
Caller
You're lucky. See?
1:18:51
Adam
That's I graduated as a folder.
1:18:52
Caller
She gets to open you up every day.
1:18:54
Caller
Yeah, but I must say, Dr. Drew has a sexy voice, so.
1:18:56
Adam
Yeah, he's hot.
1:18:58
Caller
Yeah. I think she likes his voice.
1:18:59
Caller
Anyway, Nick, I was wondering what your parents thought when you first joined the Backstreet Boys.
1:19:03
Caller
Well, my parents think they supported me. You know, my mom supported me. Both of them. I mean, my dad still drives my bus.
1:19:12
Caller
Oh, really?
1:19:13
Caller
Yeah, he was a truck driver a long time ago.
1:19:16
Caller
So you're up and stuff like all by yourself when you're 14 or 15.
1:19:20
Caller
No, they they went over there. They took turns.
1:19:23
Caller
Oh, really?
1:19:23
Caller
Yeah.
1:19:24
Caller
So they're like happy about your little brother, too.
1:19:26
Caller
What's that? Yeah.
1:19:27
Caller
Happy about your little. Yeah.
1:19:28
Caller
My mom's with my brother right now.
1:19:30
Adam
And did you have to drop out of school and stuff?
1:19:32
Caller
Yeah, I dropped out. I didn't drop out. I mean, graduated still, but just not in high school. I never went to high school at all.
1:19:40
Caller
Oh, right.
1:19:40
Adam
Because you this was you were like an eighth grade or something when you got going with this stuff.
1:19:45
Caller
Did you have tutors?
1:19:46
Caller
Yeah.
1:19:46
Caller
Oh, that's cool. Anyway, I had no other questions.
1:19:49
Adam
Yes.
1:19:50
Caller
When the song I wanted that way first came out, you know, the version released on the radio is different from the version released on the Millennium album. Why was that? Why was that?
1:19:58
Caller
It wasn't always different. I mean, we, see, what happened, it was a big political, you know, political thing. Our record company wanted to release a version that was like, that I guess made more sense. And so we went in the studio and recorded a whole new version. And the original version, the one that's on the album, the one that just says, I don't know, I guess I forget the words. But anyways, it's one that doesn't really make any sense.
1:20:23
Caller
Really?
1:20:24
Caller
And that's the one we wanted to keep. But then they, you know, they decided to put the newer version, the one we went in the studio and re-recorded on the radio. And we had to pull it off the radio and put the other one back on because we weren't feeling that version. And it's just, I mean, it was really crazy.
1:20:41
Caller
Yeah, personally, I like the other one better, but you know.
1:20:44
Caller
Which one?
1:20:45
Caller
The one, I don't know, it's like the one on the album is the one, I don't want to hear you say I want it that way. And the other one was like, I love it when I hear you say I want it that way.
1:20:53
Caller
And the other one, you like, I love it?
1:20:54
Caller
Yeah.
1:20:55
Caller
You do?
1:20:55
Caller
I have like a really bad copy off the radio from like a whole, a long time ago.
1:20:59
Caller
Yeah, because it only played for like a couple days or like a week at the most.
1:21:02
Caller
Yeah, when it first came out, I caught it and I thought, I was like, oh, the new Backstreet Boys song, so I recorded it and then it changed.
1:21:08
Adam
So you like the first one?
1:21:09
Caller
Yes, I do.
1:21:10
Adam
Yeah, but isn't that kind of the way it goes, like, especially when you're young, you hear a song and then you hear a remake.
1:21:17
Caller
You don't like it.
1:21:18
Adam
You like the first, even when you hear the original, sometimes you hear the remake second and then you hear the original. The remake is the original in your mind.
1:21:26
Caller
Of course. It goes on anybody.
1:21:29
Adam
Yeah. Year 24?
1:21:31
Caller
I sure am.
1:21:32
Adam
What's up?
1:21:33
Caller
Well, I'm just having trouble figuring out if I want to get married or not.
1:21:38
Adam
All right.
1:21:39
Caller
So.
1:21:43
Drew
I would suspect not.
1:21:45
Caller
Well, my fiance, she lives in San Diego and I live here near Upland. And we've been doing this for about six years.
1:21:55
Drew
Again, you sound like you really don't want to get married.
1:21:58
Caller
Well, you know, it's just an iffy thing.
1:22:01
Caller
I mean, I mean, but sometimes it can be you can just be scared.
1:22:05
Drew
Yeah, but it's not an iffy thing. It's I'm scared. Yeah. He's saying he doesn't want to.
1:22:09
Adam
Are you scared, René?
1:22:11
Caller
Well, I am and I'm not. I mean, I think how old are you? I'm 24.
1:22:16
Drew
Have you been this thing for how long?
1:22:18
Caller
For eight and a half years.
1:22:19
Drew
He just doesn't know how to end it as a problem.
1:22:21
Caller
Two days ago was eight and a half years ago.
1:22:23
Drew
You do not want to get married.
1:22:24
Adam
Hold on.
1:22:25
Drew
Two years.
1:22:25
Adam
Oh, wait. Two days ago was eight and a half years.
1:22:28
Drew
Exactly.
1:22:29
Adam
You celebrate your half anniversaries when you get together. Nobody does that.
1:22:34
Caller
No, man. A lot of people out there do it.
1:22:36
Drew
But women do that. And she's got him. She's in.
1:22:39
Adam
Yeah. You do that in the first six months of the relationship.
1:22:43
Caller
That's because they want gifts every, you know.
1:22:46
Adam
Not at eight.
1:22:46
Drew
But this is someone that has made you her savior, right? Basically.
1:22:52
Adam
Yeah.
1:22:52
Caller
I can understand that. You're perfect.
1:22:54
Drew
You're the perfect person. You're saving her. You're not responsible for the other person. You shouldn't be marrying a charity case.
1:23:02
Caller
No, not at all.
1:23:03
Caller
I mean, do you love her?
1:23:05
Caller
I love her a lot. Yeah. But the thing is, is that here's the ultimate question.
1:23:11
Caller
Do you do you think about other other women? Do you look at other women in a certain way?
1:23:16
Drew
All the time.
1:23:17
Caller
All the time. I mean, she knows that you're just not ready.
1:23:20
Caller
That's what I think.
1:23:21
Caller
I mean, in August, we're going to get married. So we're supposed to get married.
1:23:25
Adam
Yeah.
1:23:26
Caller
And the dilemma is, OK, here's the dilemma.
1:23:30
Drew
What's his dilemma?
1:23:30
Caller
Go ahead.
1:23:32
Caller
Is that, you know, I've been with other girls and she doesn't know that.
1:23:35
Adam
I see.
1:23:37
Drew
That's the beginning of the dilemma.
1:23:38
Adam
Right. Renee.
1:23:39
Caller
Yeah.
1:23:40
Adam
Let me give you some advice. There's a difference between you wanting to get married and you not wanting to break up.
1:23:49
Caller
Right.
1:23:49
Adam
And what you want to do is not want to break up, not get married. You don't want to get married. You don't want to break her heart.
1:23:58
Caller
Yeah, exactly.
1:23:59
Adam
You're going forward with it because you don't want to break her heart.
1:24:02
Caller
You don't want to hurt her.
1:24:02
Adam
Not because you want to get married.
1:24:04
Drew
No, he just doesn't have the skill to get out. He doesn't know how to get out. Yeah.
1:24:08
Adam
You don't know how to get out because you've never gotten out.
1:24:11
Caller
I'll tell you a good advice. I mean, if you fake your own death, we'll be sad. Yeah. You know, go to some friends, have friends, like go to night, go. Your friends can usually help you out of situations like that.
1:24:25
Caller
I do. And he tells me, you know, to to not get married. And I spent a lot of time with my my best friend. You know, my parents say, well, what are you going to do? You know, what is he going to do when you get married? You know, we spent so much time with each other.
1:24:38
Drew
You're gay.
1:24:39
Adam
Oh, please, please, please. I don't think you make that allegation.
1:24:44
Drew
Nice to have those drops.
1:24:45
Adam
Yeah. Rene. Yeah. You two don't live together, right? Not at all. So that makes it much easier. OK.
1:24:54
Caller
Oh, yeah.
1:24:55
Adam
But soon you will live together and you'll have a kid and it'll be a year and a half from now. And then you'll want to have and now you got big, big problems. This is the kind of thing that you could work out and you could be over and done with by the summer. Clear.
1:25:12
Caller
Back on the beach.
1:25:13
Caller
So I could be at Havasu.
1:25:14
Adam
You could be at Havasu holding a big sign up that said, show us your. Sorry, Anderson, what are you going to do?
1:25:21
Caller
I think the one thing is you just I mean, I guess also in respect to I guess to her too, you know what I'm saying? I guess just shouldn't put her through this any longer. You know?
1:25:31
Adam
Yeah. You're not doing anyone a favor.
1:25:33
Drew
You're staying with her out of sympathy. That's why you let it go along this long.
1:25:36
Adam
I'm telling you, I mean, right now, he is very disrespectful. But that's a very good point. You make Drew a very rare, very good point, which is when you've been with someone since you've been 13 and a half or 14, you don't know how to break up with somebody.
1:25:51
Drew
Never done it.
1:25:52
Adam
This guy probably would have been all right with getting out of this relationship four or five years ago.
1:25:57
Drew
Easily.
1:25:58
Adam
No problem. He's probably been cheating around since he was 18 or 19. He doesn't have that skill. You need that skill. Lord knows I've helped people with that skill. I've let many a person tell me. You're helping him now.
1:26:11
Drew
I've learned that skill. She doesn't repel with quite the same intensity though.
1:26:15
Adam
Thank you. Thank you.
1:26:17
Drew
You're welcome.
1:26:17
Adam
We're going to take a break. Nick Carter from Backstreet Boys is our guest tonight. We'll be back with Nick and you after this.
1:26:24
Caller
You know what I'm saying, I'm there.
1:26:26
Caller
Adam and Dr. Drew will be right back on Loveline.
1:26:44
Caller
You're listening to Loveline on Outrageous Talk Radio. 100.7 The Bugs.
1:26:59
Adam
Yep, that's my favorite riff. That's Newfound Glory actually, who'll be on the show next week. So we'll hear that song over and over and over again. Nick Carter from the Backstreet Boys is our guest tonight. Just finished a set over there at the Staples Center. I don't know if you do a set in front of 20,000 people. I think it's more than a show.
1:27:24
Drew
It's a show.
1:27:24
Adam
It's a show. A set, small group, gig, slightly bigger group. Show, 20,000 people. And he was nice enough to basically just leave stage and run right over here. So we're glad to have him for the next 15 minutes. Carrie?
1:27:41
Yes.
1:27:42
Adam
You're 18?
1:27:43
Caller
Yeah. I had a question for Nick. It was kind of a strange question, but I'm seeing this guy right now and he claims that Brian is his uncle. Now I was wondering if that, I don't know if you know or not, but could that possibly be true? He says by marriage.
1:28:06
Caller
Well, what is, what is his name?
1:28:10
Caller
Randy.
1:28:11
Caller
What was his last name?
1:28:15
Caller
You know, I wouldn't really know. I wouldn't know.
1:28:17
Caller
He said that they live over in Alpharetta, Georgia.
1:28:21
Caller
Well, I know that Brian's wife is from Georgia.
1:28:24
Caller
Yeah.
1:28:25
Caller
So I mean, there's a possibility, you know, a lot of homegrown there.
1:28:29
Caller
Okay. Well, I was just wondering, because it sounds kind of bizarre. And I was like, well, that's really cool if it's true. But if not, I thought that was kind of weird.
1:28:38
Adam
Yeah. You got to dump him if you find out it's not true.
1:28:41
Caller
Oh, no, no. I just was interested. It's not.
1:28:44
Drew
You certainly wonder about a guy lying about stuff like that. But anyway, Adam, what carry?
1:28:48
Caller
I want to say that I really enjoy masturbating to the show sometimes.
1:28:53
Adam
Oh, really?
1:28:54
Drew
To the man show or to this show?
1:28:55
Caller
This show.
1:28:56
Drew
Oh, interesting.
1:28:57
Adam
To the sound of my nasally drone.
1:29:00
Caller
Yeah.
1:29:01
Drew
No, I don't.
1:29:02
Caller
I don't know. It's just something I do before I go to bed. And I usually have Loveline on. So I thought you might get a kick out of that.
1:29:09
Adam
I did. And I do. But what do you what do you think about?
1:29:16
Caller
Um, usually whatever the topic is kind of.
1:29:20
Adam
Oh, yeah.
1:29:21
Caller
Yeah.
1:29:22
Adam
OK. Have you done it yet tonight?
1:29:24
Caller
No.
1:29:25
Adam
So should we cook up something for you?
1:29:28
Caller
Sir, if you want to.
1:29:29
Adam
Yeah, let's see.
1:29:30
Nick Carter
Well, I can't.
1:29:32
Caller
No, I'm in Atlanta. So I hear the so like I'll hear it tomorrow.
1:29:36
Adam
Oh, you'll hear it tomorrow.
1:29:37
Caller
Yeah.
1:29:38
Adam
All right. Well, if you just why don't we just keep you on hold and you can just listen through the telephone?
1:29:44
Caller
Oh, OK. OK. OK.
1:29:46
Adam
I'll say we'll cook up a nice sultry song, a nice sultry call for you.
1:29:51
Caller
OK.
1:29:52
Adam
And you can just masturbate to that, right?
1:29:53
Caller
OK.
1:29:54
Adam
You don't use the phone to masturbate, do you?
1:29:56
Caller
No.
1:29:57
Caller
OK. Good.
1:29:57
Adam
Then you can listen at the same time.
1:29:59
Caller
OK.
1:30:00
Caller
OK.
1:30:00
Adam
Yeah.
1:30:01
Caller
Where are your parents?
1:30:03
Caller
My mom's asleep.
1:30:04
Adam
I see.
1:30:06
Caller
OK.
1:30:06
Adam
You have a lock on your door?
1:30:08
Caller
No.
1:30:09
Caller
Yeah.
1:30:09
Adam
You see, women can masturbate because they don't get a boner. You know, guys can't cover it up. There's nothing worse. I mean, we all got busted in high school. It's like boots hanging out of the end of the comforter, sweat on the brow, sweatshirt with hood hanging out, and big lump in the thing. And you're like, nothing. Just lying here. The TV's on Channel 3 and it's fuzzy. You know, you can't pull that off.
1:30:37
Drew
I saw you in the man show with Hands Free.
1:30:40
Adam
Oh, yeah, yeah. That was a good manovation. But you know, seriously, the thing about women is all you have to do is stop and you're not popped. Unless you're in the tub like Producer Hand, in which case it's tall order. But even then, you're taking a bath. All you have to do is move your hand and you're done. Guys, you move your hand, you just got that boner hanging there. You can't do anything with that. What are you going to do? Even if you're in a towel or bathrobe?
1:31:07
Drew
Want to see if this is doing anything for Carrie?
1:31:09
Adam
We're going to call her.
1:31:10
Drew
You want to see if this is doing anything for Carrie?
1:31:12
Caller
She got him carried away.
1:31:13
Drew
Carrie?
1:31:14
Caller
Yes.
1:31:14
Drew
Is this Adam talking? Is this doing something for you?
1:31:19
Caller
No, not yet.
1:31:21
Adam
Sorry, sorry.
1:31:22
Drew
Way to go, Adam.
1:31:23
Caller
Ah, okay.
1:31:25
Adam
Yeah, I mean, all you're left with as a man is that big, huge, robbing, pulsating, purple, undulating, black boner.
1:31:36
Caller
You're something.
1:31:38
Drew
Carrie again?
1:31:40
Adam
Sarah?
1:31:41
Caller
Yes?
1:31:41
Adam
You're 18?
1:31:42
Caller
Yeah.
1:31:42
Adam
What's up?
1:31:43
Caller
Well, I don't know, like, a couple weeks ago, my boyfriend let me borrow his laptop. And I was looking to find, if I could find a disc to say some of this stuff on. And in the section I was looking in, I found a picture off the Internet of, like, a little girl that was, like, naked. She looked like maybe, like, 11.
1:31:59
Adam
Oh, how is Carrie supposed to masturbate to that? Use your brain, woman.
1:32:04
Caller
And then there's also, like, pictures, like, out of a magazine of, like, little girls in underwear. It's like, I don't know, I'm, like, really, like, I can't enjoy sex anymore because it's like...
1:32:12
Drew
Did he have any weird sexual experiences as a child?
1:32:15
Caller
I don't know. Like, we've only been together, like, four months.
1:32:18
Adam
Yeah. How old is he?
1:32:19
Caller
He's 21.
1:32:21
Adam
That's not a great sign.
1:32:22
Caller
No. Like, I don't know, like, right now, like, he wears just a big sleeve, but, like, his friend's joke, like, saying that he looks like a child molester when he has, like, just a mustache. Like, I don't know, like, I don't know if it's a child.
1:32:31
Adam
Well, most guys look like child molesters with mustaches, but here's the thing about child pornography or any portrayals of children in a sexual way. You're either in or you're out. I mean, to 99% of guys and women, it's just disgusting.
1:32:49
Drew
Not disgusting, it's like zero, zero sex.
1:32:52
Caller
Because like when I found out, I was like, what the f-
1:32:54
Adam
What is this?
1:32:55
Drew
Well, it's not to say a young child is disgusting, it's just like that's not a sexual thing.
1:32:58
Adam
No, I'm not, I don't throw up when I see a kid. I mean, the idea of a child being portrayed in a sexual way is disgusting to 99% of people, but for that 1%, it's game on. But there's not too many people that are sort of, yeah, like a sprinkling of kiddie porn, when I'm in the mood. That, I don't believe that exists. Do you think that exists?
1:33:19
Caller
I don't even think 1%.
1:33:20
Adam
So if you see something, it's game on.
1:33:24
Drew
Yeah, he's into it.
1:33:26
Caller
Really?
1:33:26
Drew
Yeah.
1:33:27
Caller
Like, I wouldn't want to maybe bring it up, but like, I don't want him to think like I'm a snoop or like...
1:33:32
Drew
Well, you've found these ads with child underwear or whatnot.
1:33:37
Adam
I think you could bring it up just to give him the opportunity to try to explain himself. Maybe he's doing some research on Calvin Klein advertising techniques or something like that. I mean, maybe there's something.
1:33:52
Drew
Keep your eyes open.
1:33:53
Adam
Well, you give him a chance to explain himself. But if it's not good, I think you're out.
1:33:59
Caller
OK, I have another question. When we have sex, like we do it rough. Like by the end of the night and like the next day, like my stomach will hurt.
1:34:07
Adam
And once you're calm, daddy.
1:34:09
Drew
Huh?
1:34:10
Adam
No.
1:34:10
Drew
Are you getting pelvic exams regularly?
1:34:12
Caller
Yeah.
1:34:13
Drew
And when was your last one?
1:34:14
Caller
It was like last April or May.
1:34:16
Drew
It was a year ago. So time to get another one.
1:34:19
Adam
What are you using for birth control?
1:34:20
Caller
I'm on a pill.
1:34:21
Drew
Good.
1:34:22
Adam
Don't let this guy get you with his soiled seed. His demon soiled seed. That'd be a good name for a band too. Demon seed.
1:34:33
Drew
Just soiled seed.
1:34:34
Adam
Soil seed.
1:34:35
Caller
Yeah.
1:34:36
Caller
Yeah.
1:34:37
Caller
And then they figured out where it came from.
1:34:38
Caller
Yeah.
1:34:39
Adam
Yeah. I don't think.
1:34:41
Caller
Yeah.
1:34:42
Adam
Yeah. Could you masturbate to that child born call?
1:34:45
Caller
Not at all.
1:34:45
Adam
I'm sorry baby.
1:34:47
Nick Carter
Give me something better Adam.
1:34:49
Adam
I don't know. What do you like? What are you into? Lesbian calls?
1:34:54
Caller
No.
1:34:54
Caller
No.
1:34:55
Caller
No. No.
1:34:56
Caller
No.
1:34:56
Caller
Give me a heterosexual call.
1:34:58
Adam
What about like a nice herpes call?
1:35:00
Caller
No. No. No.
1:35:01
Caller
That wouldn't work for me.
1:35:02
Adam
Crabs?
1:35:03
Caller
No.
1:35:03
Adam
Shank Royd? Something like that?
1:35:05
Caller
No.
1:35:06
Adam
No.
1:35:06
Caller
Talk to somebody interested in Nick.
1:35:09
Adam
Okay. You know, we only have about...
1:35:12
Drew
Four seconds.
1:35:13
Adam
Four seconds. All we have is Alicia here. She's 14. Is that too young for you? Oh, we have Shana over here. Hold on. Shana?
1:35:21
Caller
Hello?
1:35:22
Adam
You into Nick?
1:35:23
Caller
Yeah.
1:35:24
Adam
What would you do to him if you guys were alone together?
1:35:26
Caller
Oh, I'll spank him. No.
1:35:28
Caller
Yeah. Yeah. Keep going.
1:35:29
Caller
Good God.
1:35:31
Caller
But that's not my question.
1:35:33
Caller
All right.
1:35:33
Adam
Well, you only have ten seconds now, so I'm going to read your question.
1:35:37
Caller
Okay.
1:35:38
Adam
You want to be a new artist?
1:35:40
Caller
Yes.
1:35:41
Adam
You sing?
1:35:42
Caller
Yeah.
1:35:43
Adam
And you want to form a band or a group?
1:35:46
Caller
No. Just me, all by myself.
1:35:48
Adam
I see. All right. Well, the problem is we're on a show. But, Nick, you can shed whatever light you want on this, but there's no quick answer, is there?
1:35:59
Caller
Yeah, there is.
1:35:59
Adam
There is?
1:36:00
Caller
You just got to stick with it. If you... First of all, well, this is really quick. I'll tell you what's quick. You just got to know whether or not you think that you have the talent to do it. And then you got to just stick with it and not give up and just constantly work at it.
1:36:16
Adam
There you go. All right, there. We'll be back. Well, there you go. Another fabulous Loveline show in the can. I want to thank Nick for coming out here tonight. And really, I know how hectic your schedule is, and I know there's many other things and places you would have rather done and places you'd rather been after you stepped off stage.
1:36:59
Caller
Definitely been an experience.
1:37:00
Adam
Well, we do thank you for rushing over after the show.
1:37:03
Caller
No, you can't have people existed.
1:37:05
Adam
We certainly does. So, thanks a lot, Backstreet Boys, everybody, and what's the other? Oh, yes, Born into Chaos is also the name of the new band. So, until next time.
1:37:17
Drew
Tomorrow night.
1:37:20
Adam
Yes, Drew.
1:37:22
Caller
Are you falling asleep?
1:37:22
Adam
I'm trying. So, until next time, this is Adam Corolla for Dr. Drew saying mahalo.
1:37:27
Drew
If I knew what I do now, I'd have sex with lots of guys when I was 19.
1:37:31
Caller
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