1:13
Adam
Hey, hey, everybody. It's Loveline. I'm Adam Carolla. That is Dr. Drew over there. Phone number 1-800-LLVE-191. Dr. Drew, board certified physician. Addiction medicine specialist.
1:26
Oh, Christ.
1:30
Adam
I don't know what to get it on. Should we introduce the guest or should I complain about my dentist?
1:34
Drew
No, dentist second.
1:36
All right.
1:36
Adam
Taryn Manning is our guest tonight. Taryn.
1:40
Oh, boy.
1:41
Drew
There you go.
1:43
Adam
Hi.
1:43
Taryn Manning
How's it going?
1:44
Adam
Good. I'm a little tired.
1:46
Drew
You were clamped.
1:47
Taryn Manning
You got your tooth worked on.
1:50
Adam
I realized you don't burn many calories in the dentist's chair. You just sort of sit there, but your soul smolders. You burn a lot of emotional calories.
2:01
Drew
Well, that's because you're-
2:02
Taryn Manning
And the dentist talks to you too. That's the worst part.
2:05
Adam
Yeah. They want you to answer.
2:07
Drew
Not Adam. Adam smokes out, takes much of Vicodin and then turns up the nitrous.
2:13
Adam
You know, first thing I got- You open the door and you get chewed out because I hadn't been there in like 14 months. And you know, the chick who's- Adam, what's it going to take to get you in here? First off, the what's it going to take to get you in here argument when you're standing there. It's always kind of a weird one early in the morning. What's it going to take? What do we have to do to get you in here? I'm thinking, where the F am I, honey? We in my goddamn living room? Am I wearing my pajamas? Where are we? I'm here. And I'll tell you what's going to take to get me in here. Stop with the drilling and the scraping. That'll get me in here. I seem to show up other places where there's no drills, there's no surgical instruments. I have no problem showing up at other places.
2:54
Drew
I was just thinking how can they make-
2:55
Taryn Manning
Dentist is the worst.
2:57
Drew
Maybe they could have like, maybe they have Pornos for you.
3:00
Adam
What's it going to take? That's what it would take, right? Obviously, whatever it is you've been doing is not working. That's what I told her. All right. I got more to talk about with the dentist, but I want to talk about Taryn's new movie. This is called Crazy Beautiful and it's coming out. What's the release date on this?
3:19
Taryn Manning
Comes out Friday, June 29th.
3:21
Adam
No, that's this Friday, right?
3:22
Taryn Manning
This Friday.
3:23
Adam
Yeah. That's with Kirsten Dunst.
3:27
Taryn Manning
Kirsten Dunst and Jay Hernandez.
3:29
Adam
Who's Jay Hernandez?
3:31
Taryn Manning
He's new. He's a new actor, but he's really, really good. He's a good guy. He was discovered in an elevator.
3:39
Adam
Doing what?
3:40
Taryn Manning
Just like probably going down or up or something. Or maybe coming out.
3:49
Drew
Who discovered him?
3:50
Taryn Manning
His manager, who just passed away like two days ago. So it's kind of sad, but.
3:55
Adam
Wow.
3:56
Taryn Manning
Yeah, it's kind of a shame he was a good person.
3:58
Adam
And tell us about Crazy Beautiful.
4:01
Taryn Manning
Crazy Beautiful is, I don't know, it's crazy. It's, it's like beautiful. Yeah, it's beautiful.
4:08
Drew
It's crazy and beautiful. Take notes.
4:10
Taryn Manning
It's about, you know, young people falling in love for the first time, which I think we all know can be kind of crazy.
4:15
Adam
Yeah.
4:15
Taryn Manning
But yet kind of beautiful.
4:17
Adam
Right.
4:17
Taryn Manning
And it's also really, you know, it's shot really different. And I don't know, it's very realistic. The director is John Stockwell and he's, he was an ex actor, so he's, he's good.
4:26
Adam
And what do you mean it's shot differently?
4:29
Taryn Manning
I don't know. It's shot like, like if you watch it, it almost looks like it's kind of like the tones are really bluish. It's just like, like kind of documentary-ish.
4:37
Adam
Where did you shoot it?
4:38
Taryn Manning
In Pacific Palisades mostly.
4:40
Adam
Oh really? Oh, I have first time.
4:42
Taryn Manning
We're Pali High Girls.
4:44
Adam
First time I heard of something that wasn't shot in Canada in like five years.
4:48
Taryn Manning
I haven't gotten to go there yet. I'm, I'm mad. But everyone else has.
4:51
Adam
I can't believe it. Taryn's also going to be seen with Michelle Pfeiffer and Renee Zillweger and White Orlean. I'm having trouble. That's true. When's that out?
5:02
Taryn Manning
That's out next year.
5:04
Adam
And what about the movie with Brittany Spears?
5:09
Taryn Manning
Yeah, I just did a movie with Brittany Spears. It's going to be her first feature film that she's starring in and she was going to be acting.
5:16
Adam
It seemed like this is taking a little while for Brittany.
5:20
Taryn Manning
I mean, I think, I think she's been like kind of preparing for it because she knew what was going to happen and she wanted to like, you know.
5:26
Drew
Or busy doing other things, Adam.
5:27
Taryn Manning
Yeah.
5:28
Drew
Everything in its time.
5:29
Adam
I guess they did. Did you like Brittany Spears?
5:32
Taryn Manning
Yeah. She's really cool.
5:34
Adam
Really?
5:34
Taryn Manning
Yeah. Totally like normal. We went out. We had fun. She's a normal girl.
5:38
Adam
You went out?
5:39
Taryn Manning
Yeah. We all went out.
5:40
Adam
Where did you go? You can't go anywhere with her.
5:44
Taryn Manning
I mean, I know. I don't know how we got in.
5:47
Drew
Where did you go?
5:48
Taryn Manning
Just out in LA. Just hanging out. We went to her house and hung out, a bunch of us.
5:54
Adam
You know, though, there's some people that have a very distinct look who I don't think could hide. But she has a sort of a blank canvas sort of look to her.
6:05
Taryn Manning
Right.
6:05
Adam
Generic. This is a generic attractive look. I don't mean that in a bad way. But I mean, you're used to seeing her.
6:12
Taryn Manning
No, she told me girls would come to her and go, girls go, oh my god, you look like Britney Spears, but you're much prettier to her. That's like that happens to her all the time.
6:22
Adam
Well, she dresses pretty scantily and lavishly and all that kind of stuff. I bet if she put on some sweatpants and a baseball hat, get the road.
6:31
Taryn Manning
She's just a normal Louisiana girl.
6:34
Adam
Who screwed the most as far as that goes? Michael Jackson? I mean, who couldn't? Do you know what I mean? Yeah. Who couldn't hide it? Oh, you know who can't. This guy's like Shaq.
6:44
Drew
Oh yeah.
6:45
Adam
You can't hide it.
6:45
Drew
I mean, so he just he flaunts. He drives in a helicopter.
6:48
Adam
You might as well because, you know, you're 7'1, 350 pounds. It doesn't matter what you're dressed in. He could put a, you know, freckles and red wig on like Taryn over here. And people would still jump on him the second, the second he left the house.
7:02
Caller
All right.
7:02
Adam
So you know how the show goes, by the way?
7:05
Taryn Manning
Yeah, I've heard.
7:05
Caller
All right.
7:06
Taryn Manning
Try me when I can.
7:08
Adam
That's right. Dan.
7:09
Hello.
7:10
Adam
You're 34.
7:11
Caller
Yeah.
7:11
Adam
What's up?
7:12
Caller
Uh, don't laugh. And I know you're not going to believe me, but I swear to God, the truth. Uh, got a lady that I'm seeing now. Uh, we act, her nickname is actually Puddles. And, uh, she has, she swears up and down that she's never had an orgasm that somebody else didn't give her. And she just has an enormous amount of female ejaculation. I just, an incredible, incredible amount. We've ruined sleeping bags, mattresses, rugs. It just, and we've already gone through the, is this urine? And she goes to the bathroom constantly beforehand.
7:50
Adam
Yeah.
7:51
Caller
And it's just, it just doesn't stop. I mean, we will go two, three hours and it doesn't stop.
7:57
Adam
I mean, we, I mean.
7:58
Taryn Manning
Lucky girl.
7:58
Adam
You mean with each orgasm more fluid?
8:01
Caller
Oh yeah. And I'm not talking about dribble dribble. I'm talking about, you know, you know, geyser.
8:06
Taryn Manning
Constant flow.
8:08
Caller
Yeah. Yeah, there you go. Nice sound effects.
8:10
Adam
Yeah, Dan's from Maine, so geyser is a good word for him. Uh, say geyser one more time, Dan.
8:17
Caller
Geyser.
8:19
I know.
8:20
Caller
My Jesus, it's wicked good.
8:23
Adam
All right, so.
8:24
Caller
What I want to know is, what exactly is the fluid to begin with?
8:27
Drew
Well, there are multiple glands in that area, Skeen's glands, Bartholomew's glands, all can produce fluid and you know, it's basically the same stuff that would come from your prostate to some extent, same kinds of fluid. It's just what's there to lubricate.
8:39
Adam
Are you sure it's not urine, though?
8:42
Caller
She was mortified the first time this happened because she thought she urinated on me. I mean, she was literally just totally mortified.
8:49
Drew
If it happened so much, I wonder why she doesn't dehydrate?
8:54
Caller
Oh, well, she does. I mean, when she knows that we're going to have sex, she'll drink all kinds of water that day. And if she doesn't drink a lot of water, not a lot comes out. But if she drinks, you know, like three or four gallons before, you know, you know, I mean, it's just like, why don't you lay off of the fluid a little bit? Well, no, it's not like it's bad. You know, you like it. You like it. No, no, it's neither one way or the other. I mean, but I know for her, it's more enjoyable for her, you know, whether anything comes out or not, because the feeling is still there.
9:24
Adam
Right.
9:25
Caller
I just want to know. I mean, this is just really weird.
9:28
Adam
Hold on.
9:29
Drew
He just went back on himself.
9:30
Adam
Yeah. All our callers, they'll always double back on themselves. Well, they'll go, so it's like this, like, oh, well, if she knows she's going to have sex, she'll drink three, four gallons of water before. Three, four gallons of goddamn water? No. Yeah, because no, it's more enjoyable. It's good. Then a second later, well, you know, she gets a sensation whether something comes out or not. No, I don't care either way. But how could you have?
10:00
Drew
By the way, the question was, why doesn't she drink less fluid? So less comes out of it bothers her.
10:04
Adam
Right. He doesn't care either way. She gets the sensation either way. Why is she loading up on water and then ruining another throw rug? Now here comes, it's not going to be easy. Let's wait through this part of the pond. Dan, if she gets the same sensation with or without fluid and you don't care, then why doesn't she take it easy on the fluids and save your sleeping bags and wood floors?
10:30
Caller
Because apparently for her there is, it does feel good to her one way or another, but apparently it does feel better to her. It feels like it's unfulfilled apparently.
10:43
Adam
Is this a red light?
10:45
Caller
What's that?
10:45
Drew
Is this uh... Is she proud of her product? Of what she produces?
10:53
Caller
I don't know if I'd say proud, but she certainly... It's thrilled with the idea that she can, you know, that she's never been able to do anything like this and she had never even heard of it.
11:01
Drew
We certainly talked to plenty of people to do this. I just wondered how they contain what they do to prepare now.
11:06
Adam
I don't even care anymore with Dan. I'm scared to talk to him. We know it is thrown in this tail-chasing loop again. You know what, Dan, this doesn't make any difference to her whether something comes out or not.
11:17
Drew
You know what this call is.
11:18
Adam
Now it really makes a big difference.
11:19
Drew
Three times.
11:20
Adam
I'm porking this chick and ringing her like a bar rag. That's right. Three times.
11:24
Drew
Never happened to her before. She's so thrilled with it. I'm amazed that it happened.
11:28
Adam
Right. He doesn't care either way. Dan is calling to tell the world that he has a big penis. That's basically what it is. He's banging this girl so hard that her soul comes out in liquid form.
11:41
Taryn Manning
Yeah.
11:42
Adam
That's what he's saying.
11:43
Taryn Manning
Congratulations.
11:44
Adam
Because Dan had no question. That was a statement and a statement and a statement. The second we attempted to answer his question, he wasn't interested in. You notice that-
11:55
Taryn Manning
Yeah. He didn't want to really know what she should do.
11:58
Adam
Yeah. We kept going, well, here's a way to remedy that. He was like, I banged the bejesus out of her.
12:07
Drew
Well, Dan's a good guy and congratulations. Enjoy.
12:10
Great.
12:10
Adam
But just don't call the show anymore. Josh?
12:13
Yeah.
12:13
Adam
You're 26.
12:15
Caller
How you doing?
12:16
Adam
Good.
12:18
Caller
Well, here's my problem. I have a genital wart and it's put a damper on my date in life, obviously, but-
12:25
Drew
Well, why? Half of your friends have it too. Have they stopped dating?
12:30
Caller
I don't know who's got it. Not the true.
12:32
Adam
Stop saying this because it makes me think you have warts.
12:34
Caller
It's true.
12:35
Adam
It really does. Drew has warts. It's true.
12:38
Drew
It's true.
12:39
Adam
Drew, you say this every goddamn time.
12:42
Drew
Because it's the fact.
12:43
Adam
It is not the fact.
12:44
Drew
It is the fact.
12:45
Adam
Nobody has maned to your friends than I do. Nobody. Nobody has maned to your friends than I do.
12:50
Drew
You have the virus. I couldn't-
12:52
Adam
I have the- How dare you?
12:53
Drew
I couldn't detect it, but I know it's got to be there. It's got to be there.
12:57
Adam
Okay. Hold on. Josh, hold on a second. Drew.
13:00
Drew
Yeah.
13:02
Adam
There's a little back history to this wart thing, Taryn. I'm sorry you had to get caught up in this. But Drew has claimed- and anyone who listens to the show with any regularity knows- knows there's two things about this show. Drew reads a book in some sort of hermetically sealed cone of silence all day long, then is- barely sees the light of day and then comes out on the show and spoozes it into the microphone. I go out and live in the real world. Drew says that half the people living in urban settings have the wart virus. And whenever I call them out on that and go, look, I know a bunch of scummy guys who live in a urban setting. I know one of my friends who has had it over the years, and that's the only friend I know. And I know my friend's penises very well. Then Drew comes back and says, well, they have it, but they don't know it, which is a horrible, spurious argument because you can't argue with these people all have it, and they just don't know it, and you don't know it either.
14:00
Drew
Well, that's a spurious argument. Of the penile that you're familiar with.
14:04
Adam
Of my friends. Yeah, of my friends.
14:06
Drew
How many are we talking here?
14:07
Adam
Hmm, geez, I'll just say about ten for this argument.
14:12
Drew
Alright, so you're gay, and amongst your friends, it's at least ten percent. At least ten percent.
14:17
Adam
Well, but there could be fifteen that don't. I mean, I don't know, I'm saying ten percent. I'm saying ten for the sake of argument.
14:25
Drew
There's gotta be at least two of them that have it or are telling you.
14:27
Adam
No, I know what goes on in my friend's penises.
14:30
Drew
We have to light them up here.
14:32
Adam
And Drew said the same thing about my penis. He told me I had warts over the air. Suspicious. There it is, you heard that? It's Marcel. No, I said, look, how do I have warts? I've never had a wart on my penis. I'm 37 years old, I've never had a wart. He said, you have it, you just don't know it.
14:49
Drew
It's terribly common.
14:50
Adam
You have it, you don't have it.
14:52
Drew
It's at least 30 percent.
14:53
Adam
I said do a test. Do a test on me.
14:55
Taryn Manning
But herbes or warts?
14:56
Drew
Warts.
14:57
Taryn Manning
Warts?
14:57
Drew
Look, at least 30 percent.
14:58
Adam
Drew, every time you say that, all I hear is I have warts.
15:01
Drew
That's all I hear.
15:02
Adam
That's all I hear from you. Anderson, am I right?
15:07
Drew
How common is cervical cancer? Or cervical changes? It's the preservical cancer.
15:12
Caller
Out of the ten male friends.
15:14
Taryn Manning
Like a lot of my friends, you know?
15:16
Drew
Yeah. So Taryn's making up for what you lack, you see?
15:20
Adam
What are you talking about?
15:20
Drew
A lot of her friends have.
15:21
Taryn Manning
Not a lot, no, I just have heard of it.
15:24
Drew
A lot of her friends.
15:25
Taryn Manning
Not warts? You said cervical, I'm talking about cervical stuff.
15:28
Drew
That's from the wart virus. Oh, yeah.
15:29
Taryn Manning
Never mind.
15:30
Drew
That's what that is.
15:31
Adam
Hey, I'm not saying it's out there. I'm saying.
15:33
Drew
It's very common.
15:35
Adam
Yeah, listen, when a guy calls in and starts talking about warts and you go, look around, half your friends have it, that's a mis-drew.
15:43
Taryn Manning
I don't know, I've never seen it.
15:45
Caller
That is suspicious.
15:47
Adam
Yes, that's them talking about my wart-free penis trying to salvage a hundred bucks that Drew put on my penis. He dumped acetic acid on it, shined a black light on it in order to see anything, because obviously there's no visible wart.
15:59
Taryn Manning
Oh, you did that for him? Yeah.
16:01
Drew
Right here, right on the radio.
16:03
Adam
Oh, Jesus Christ. I just dumped acid all over my penis. Yeah.
16:08
Drew
Yeah, right here.
16:09
Adam
Nothing there, although it got what was left of it. Damn acid.
16:14
Drew
All right, so what the hell, what were we talking about?
16:16
Adam
Well, wait a minute, let's finish with Josh.
16:17
Drew
Let's finish with Josh.
16:17
Adam
All right, well, hurry up.
16:18
Drew
All right, Josh?
16:20
Caller
Well, my problem is I really want to ask this girl out, and I haven't yet because of that, but I'm wondering if I do date her, when I should tell her, if I should just tell her right away or wait till her...
16:30
Drew
Well, make sure you're going down some path, and that's not seeming too anxious about it, or assuming too much about where the relationship is going to go by going right to the wart history.
16:47
Adam
Look, hey, you can just wear a condom.
16:48
Drew
Yeah, you wear a condom, she won't get it, okay?
16:51
Caller
There's absolutely no way she can get it if I wear a condom.
16:53
Adam
Well, okay, so here's the fine line you've got to walk.
16:56
Drew
The answer is that's not accurate, but it substantially reduces the risk.
17:00
Caller
Yeah, how do you walk away from having sex after wearing a condom and not feeling guilty without telling her, you know?
17:05
Drew
Oh, you tell her. You're supposed to tell her. You're supposed to tell her.
17:08
Adam
Well, when?
17:09
Drew
But you're not, not day two.
17:12
Adam
But before you have sex.
17:13
Drew
Before you have sex. Not after you have sex, because that will freak her out if you hold something.
17:17
Adam
What about if he has no, I know, again, you can't answer this question, Drew. You won't answer this, which is he has no outbreak. He has no visible wart. He does not know if he's contagious. Drew is saying as well, you just wear a condom because it's not Drew's penis. But my thing is, we can't figure this out at all. What about the wood's light in the acid on one side?
17:39
Drew
I guess you could do that, but this guy, Josh sounds pretty fastidious about this kind of thing. He's not going to feel right if he doesn't wear a condom.
17:45
Adam
All right.
17:46
Taryn Manning
He's caring.
17:47
Adam
Josh, 80 to 90 percent of the people you know have it, according to Drew, so you don't have to worry about it. Just take it slow and in the off chance that you get to have sex, bring it up.
17:58
Drew
Remember that a certain amount of these viruses, the wart viruses, go away over about three to five years by themselves. The ones that persist are the ones that we think are predominantly the ones responsible for cervical cancer.
18:07
Adam
James? James?
18:11
Drew
19 from Oregon?
18:13
Caller
Hello?
18:14
Adam
Hello?
18:15
Caller
Whoa, I'm on.
18:16
Caller
That's right.
18:17
Adam
What's up?
18:18
Taryn Manning
Hello.
18:18
Caller
Hi. See, like, whenever my boyfriend and I, whenever we get together, it's like I cannot orgasm. And I like, he goes and he gets over with it. And then I go and I go and I go. I just can't get to it.
18:35
Adam
What are you doing?
18:36
Caller
Well, like, we do anal and we do oral. I mean, we do everything. And I can't get there.
18:42
Drew
That's got to be miserable.
18:44
Adam
Well, just the anal alone.
18:45
Caller
How are you by yourself?
18:47
Adam
Does this sound bogus?
18:48
Drew
No. How are you by yourself?
18:49
Adam
Andrew, does my mic sound weird tonight?
18:51
Drew
No.
18:52
Adam
Something sounds tinny or strange or something.
18:54
Drew
A little bit, a little bit.
18:55
Adam
Yeah, not enough for me to raise hell, but it's a little off here, Anderson.
18:59
Caller
A little bit of the high end stuff.
19:01
Drew
James, are you able to do this? Are you able to ejaculate by yourself?
19:06
Caller
Well, yeah, like I was talking to the screener.
19:08
Drew
Yeah.
19:09
Caller
And he asked me that, and I told him it takes me like 20 minutes, and he said that that was like a really long time.
19:14
Drew
That's a long time.
19:15
Caller
Okay. How fast am I supposed to be going?
19:18
Drew
Everyone has their clock. It's different for different people.
19:21
Adam
Well, maybe you're talking about RPM or you're talking about- Tor. Yeah, I don't know. 20 minutes is great. What's your position?
19:30
Caller
What do you mean?
19:30
Adam
I mean, you're getting a BJ with the-
19:33
Caller
Oh, I get- Well, we do both ways.
19:36
Adam
You start with the BJ, though, right? You don't finish with the BJ.
19:39
Caller
No, we start with the BJ.
19:40
Adam
Smooth. Very smooth.
19:42
Caller
Now, I was going to ask you- I heard Adam the other day telling about, like, on The Man Show when he was, like, he could do it dry.
19:51
Caller
Yeah, he's the dry guy.
19:52
Caller
And I'm sitting there going, how do you do that?
19:54
Adam
Dry whack?
19:55
Caller
Yeah.
19:55
Adam
Intestinal fortitude? I don't know. You know, it all depends. It's like, you know, I wipe my ass with my right hand, but I'm left-handed. My buddy Ray whacks off with his left hand, even though he's right-handed. Certain stuff you get started on- I have a right-handed football stance, even though I'm left-handed. I know, I'm talking about right and left hands here. What I'm saying is, you get started on certain things early, that's about it. I mean, you beat off a couple of times at 15 with no lube, and you're set for life.
20:26
Drew
James, how often are you ejaculating?
20:28
Caller
Well, I try like at least every day.
20:30
Drew
Okay.
20:33
Caller
I ask a couple of my friends what their technique was.
20:36
Drew
Why don't you slow down a little bit? Why don't you try so hard?
20:39
Caller
Well, I see I don't always reach it.
20:41
Drew
I understand, because maybe you're trying a little too hard. Maybe your body's normal rhythm is more like once or twice a week. Maybe. What? I know, it's shocking.
20:50
Adam
For a young guy?
20:50
Taryn Manning
Lose your imagination more.
20:52
Drew
James had a little energy, you know. It could be all kinds of other things interfering with his...
20:56
Adam
James?
20:57
Taryn Manning
Yeah.
20:58
Adam
James?
20:59
Caller
Yeah.
20:59
Adam
Caller goes by James?
21:01
Caller
Yeah.
21:01
Adam
Are you a little bit wacky?
21:04
Caller
What do you mean?
21:04
Adam
You got some weird energy? People think you're strange?
21:08
Caller
People know I'm gay.
21:10
Drew
No, no. Not about being gay.
21:11
Adam
No, I just mean strange.
21:13
Drew
You have any emotional problems, anxiety disorders, anything like that?
21:16
Caller
No.
21:17
Drew
Depression on medication?
21:18
Caller
No.
21:19
Adam
You don't wash your hands all the time?
21:21
Caller
Of course I do.
21:24
Adam
You do, but I mean, you seem like... I don't know, you seem a little spazzy. You a little spazzy?
21:32
Caller
Well, it depends on what you mean by spazzy.
21:34
Drew
Anxious, anxious, compulsive.
21:37
Caller
Well, right now I'm just nervous. I'm not always like this.
21:40
Adam
Okay.
21:41
Caller
All right.
21:42
Adam
Well, don't whack off for three days.
21:44
Caller
See what happens.
21:45
Caller
Well, that's one of the things I want to ask you about was like, how do you do it?
21:50
Drew
How do you do it?
21:51
Caller
I just like, I don't know, I rub it, but I really don't know what else to do.
21:57
Drew
Wait a minute. Hang on. He was sexually abused.
21:59
Adam
You think so? Why? Just to get that vibe, the rubbing part.
22:03
Drew
He's talking about something.
22:05
Adam
James? Were you sexually abused?
22:08
Caller
When I was like three.
22:09
Adam
There you go. Drew, everybody.
22:12
Caller
All right.
22:13
Adam
James, you ever got any therapy for that?
22:15
Caller
Yeah, I actually did when I was like 12 and 13. I went to this guy for three years. And I just, I mean, the guy cleared me up. And I've never really, I don't think about it all the time or anything.
22:29
Adam
You ever think about women?
22:32
Caller
No.
22:32
Drew
I think it's affecting, though, your relationship with your penis, if I like a better way of saying it. You're sort of talking about it like it's an instrument detached from you. And, you know, how do you handle this instrument? Tell me, Adam, how is this, what's the grip? What's the proper grip on this?
22:49
Adam
It's got a sextant or something between his legs.
22:53
Drew
I'm thinking more like a tennis racket. What's the swing on it?
22:57
Adam
That he could figure out. Look, you know, telling a 19-year-old guy how to grip his penis and start a masturbation. For me, it would be like explaining to me how to breathe, how to get my heart to beat. How to walk.
23:11
Drew
How to walk.
23:11
Adam
It's very normal for you.
23:13
Drew
Not just Adam.
23:13
Taryn Manning
Second nature.
23:14
Drew
Yeah, in a male.
23:15
Adam
Not second, first. First, honey. There's nothing that comes ahead of that.
23:21
Drew
All right. And yes, you had some treatment then. I'm glad that the moods and all have settled down. I'm sure that's what you were dealing with back then. But there's some other stuff needs to be dealt with now. They're a little older, I'd say.
23:31
Adam
Isn't it kind of weird that some guy got hold of him when he was three and now he's gay? I know it's an unpopular opinion, but...
23:40
Taryn Manning
Maybe it wasn't a guy.
23:42
Adam
Yeah, it had to be.
23:43
Caller
One more time.
23:44
Adam
James? The caller goes by the name of James?
23:48
Caller
Yeah.
23:49
Adam
Yeah. Who got hold of you when you were three?
23:51
Caller
It was like this guy from across the street. I didn't even know him.
23:54
Adam
How old was he?
23:56
Caller
Oh, boy. I was... Let's see, it was... He was probably about 20, 21.
24:00
Caller
All right.
24:01
Adam
More therapy, James. All right. He'll tell you how to get a handle on your life and your penis. Okay? Okay, well, I just want to...
24:09
Drew
That should be your new motto.
24:12
Adam
Get a handle on your life and your penis?
24:14
Drew
Your new book.
24:16
Adam
Listen, Anderson, I don't care what he wanted to say, and I don't care if you don't care or do care whether he wanted to say something or not. Anderson yelled in my ear what he wanted to say. You know it's going to be nothing good.
24:26
Caller
Okay, let's find out really.
24:28
Adam
James?
24:29
Caller
Yeah?
24:29
Adam
Okay, what did you want to say?
24:31
Caller
I just want to say you guys rock.
24:33
Adam
Thank you.
24:34
Caller
The show is like the best thing out there. You guys like, people should pay to listen to you.
24:39
Adam
That's right.
24:40
Drew
Oh, James.
24:41
Adam
Thank you, thank you.
24:42
Anderson, write this date down in your scrapbook.
24:47
Drew
For the first time, we went back to a caller and enjoyed the comment.
24:50
Adam
That's right.
24:51
Taryn Manning
All right. He knew that.
24:53
Drew
And followed the direction from Anderson.
24:55
Adam
Yeah.
24:55
Drew
Yeah.
24:55
Adam
All right.
24:56
Drew
Two things.
24:56
Adam
Well, let's get out before the whole S House comes down and says, Jim Morrison would say, Taryn Manning is our guest tonight. Crazy Beautiful is the name of the movie. It is coming out this Friday.
25:08
Taryn Manning
This Friday. Crazy Beautiful.
25:10
Adam
We'll take a break. We'll be right back after this.
25:14
1-800-LOVE-191.
25:48
Hey, everybody.
25:50
Adam
Loveline, I'm Adam Corolla. That is Dr. Drew over there.
25:56
Caller
Yawning.
25:56
Adam
Taryn Manning is our...
25:58
Caller
Jeez.
25:59
Adam
She's our guest tonight.
26:00
Drew
I get abuse from both sides.
26:02
Adam
She's gonna star in Crazy Beautiful, or already has starred in Crazy Beautiful, which is out this Friday. Kirsten Dunst is in this one as well. And again, this Friday is when it hits the theaters. Also got something coming out with Michelle Pfeiffer, Renee Zellweger, and that's not coming out till next year, right?
26:20
Taryn Manning
Next year, 2002.
26:21
Adam
And then a Britney Spears movie as well.
26:24
Taryn Manning
Britney Spears movie. That'll be first before that one.
26:26
Adam
Oh, will?
26:26
Yeah.
26:28
Caller
How come?
26:29
Taryn Manning
I don't know. I completed that one before The White Oleander.
26:35
Adam
Ah. How's Britney's acting?
26:37
Taryn Manning
She's good.
26:37
Adam
She's good. What are you gonna say? She sucks. She's a bitch, huh?
26:41
Taryn Manning
No, she's my friend.
26:44
Adam
Really?
26:44
Taryn Manning
Yeah. We keep in touch. So, she's cool to be my friend.
26:48
Drew
Really?
26:49
Taryn Manning
Yeah.
26:50
Adam
Where does she live?
26:51
Taryn Manning
She lives, well, she has houses everywhere like New York, here, Louisiana.
26:58
Adam
Is that where she's from?
26:59
Taryn Manning
New Orleans. Well, actually like a smaller town.
27:03
Drew
Baton Rouge.
27:05
Taryn Manning
No, it's called, I forget like, I forget.
27:09
Adam
Spearsville now.
27:11
Taryn Manning
Yeah, no, there's a big billboard, home of Brandy Spears.
27:14
Adam
Right.
27:14
Taryn Manning
Driving in.
27:15
Adam
Right. I'm trying to get one of those in North Hollywood.
27:18
Drew
Oh yeah, that'll happen.
27:21
Taryn Manning
I'm sure it could.
27:22
Drew
Just picturing what you'd be doing in that billboard.
27:26
Adam
Adam Corolla welcomes you to North Hollywood.
27:28
Hi.
27:29
Adam
Carolyn, you're 16. What's up?
27:32
Caller
Yeah.
27:33
When I was 15 last summer, I did H seven times. I snorted it in three months and it burned a hole in my nose.
27:44
Drew
You're talking about heroin?
27:45
Caller
Yeah.
27:47
Still, a year later, I haven't done it since last October and still, it hurts me all the time. I'm constantly aware of it.
28:00
Drew
If you push the septum that separates your two nostrils?
28:03
That's where it is.
28:04
Drew
If you push, how would you describe what I'm doing here?
28:07
Taryn Manning
Pushing up on your septum.
28:08
Drew
Pushing up on that. Is it tender there?
28:10
Yeah.
28:11
Caller
It burns really badly.
28:13
Drew
Can you see a hole through it?
28:15
All the way through?
28:16
Drew
Yeah.
28:17
No. I can see it.
28:19
It's really, really red.
28:21
Drew
You need to see a doctor by this because you may have initiated an inflammatory process that ultimately will eat through the other side. It get worse? You can perforate the whole thing. You can dissolve the whole damn thing.
28:35
Adam
You got one big nostril. Big deal.
28:36
Drew
It's miserable when you have that.
28:38
What if I don't go to a doctor because I don't want my family to like...
28:42
Drew
You don't have to tell them how this happened. Just tell them that you're having all this pain and inflammation.
28:46
Taryn Manning
Yeah. They won't know.
28:48
Drew
They will give you some steroid sprays that should clear it up or some creams.
28:51
And I'm on some medicine. Would that interfere with that?
28:54
Drew
What medicine have you taken?
28:56
Depakote and effectser.
28:58
Drew
No. That's fine. So you're bipolar also?
29:00
Yeah.
29:00
Drew
Yeah. Stop the heroin, right? That's not going to help your bipolar disease.
29:04
Yeah. I'm pretty much off all drugs now. And also, I just wanted to say to Adam, I called in about Green Day last week, wanting to get backstage at the Chicago show when Pennywise was in.
29:16
Adam
Right.
29:16
And you guys told me to like show up at the venue early and everything. Oh, right, right. And I did and it worked.
29:21
Adam
Really?
29:22
On that stage. And I got to show with Green Day in the Living End. I wanted to thank you guys.
29:27
Adam
Wow.
29:27
It worked.
29:28
Caller
Interesting.
29:29
Adam
People do get something out of this show. We didn't stop her from snorting heroin, but we did get her backstage at the Green Day in the Living End.
29:36
Drew
She was getting abused by the band.
29:38
Adam
Yeah.
29:38
Thank you very much.
29:39
Drew
Alright. See the doctor, okay? Any kind of doctor, any regular doctor at your nose, throat, all will be good.
29:45
Adam
You know the feeling I miss? And I was just identifying with Carolyn's feeling, which is, and you used to have it all the time. I don't think you have it as an adult anymore. Standing around somewhere you shouldn't be looking around, waiting for someone to tap you on the shoulder. Whether you're backstage, you have no laminate. You're enjoying the concert, but you're just waiting for things to cave in. Sneaking into a movie and waiting for some usher to come up behind you. But do you really sneak into things?
30:13
Drew
Do you sneak into stuff anymore?
30:15
Adam
No, that's my point. I don't do that anymore.
30:17
Taryn Manning
Yeah, but she was in the clear, like when she was in.
30:20
Adam
No, but you're never really in the clear because you're hanging out backstage.
30:23
Taryn Manning
That's true.
30:23
Adam
You don't have a laminate.
30:25
Taryn Manning
And you're not like a rock star.
30:27
Adam
You're always still kind of waiting. You know, you're kind of looking around trying not to establish any eye contact with any security guys or managers. But once in a while, some guy will shoot you a look and start walking your way. You think he's coming for you. You hold still and he walks past you.
30:41
Taryn Manning
And then you look more suspicious.
30:43
Adam
There's a little adrenaline rush there. And I don't know whether it was, you know, I mean, this goes through, this permeates all life when you're a kid, when you're in the classroom and you're goofing off and you're copying and the teacher, you think the teacher saw you cheating. Whatever it is, it just was a part of life that doesn't seem to exist anymore. Now you're trying to sneak out of places instead of sneak into places. I don't know where that happens in your life, but you spend the beginning part of your life trying to sneak in everywhere. You want to get into R-rated movies. You want to get backstage. You want to sneak out of your room. Now it's like you try to sneak in. Try to get in, unplug the phone, don't answer anything, shut the fax. You know what I'm talking about? I got some kind of business meeting you're trying to get out of or sneak out of. I missed the sneaking in. I don't like the sneaking out part.
31:30
Taryn Manning
You can sneak in somewhere then. Just for fun?
31:34
Adam
No, but see now I'm trying to sneak into my bed. Now I'm trying to sneak into places that don't have people in them. You're right. I should go sneak into something. Tim? Yes. You're 28? Yes. What's up?
31:50
Caller
Well, where should I start? My girlfriend is a little more than seven months pregnant. Throughout the whole pregnancy, we've been having a lot of problems, a lot of arguing, a lot of her throwing stuff at me. I've done a lot of things. I don't know. It's like I'm thinking I don't want to seem like a deadbeat dad, you know, but maybe we should split up, go our separate ways.
32:29
Adam
Should we go to the next topic?
32:30
Caller
Yeah.
32:31
Adam
Well, look, she's got a lot of hormones coursing through her right now.
32:36
Caller
I understand all that. We sort of had some problems before all that.
32:45
Drew
Is she using drugs?
32:46
Caller
No.
32:47
Drew
Was she before?
32:48
Caller
No. Neither one of us do. I used to a long time ago, but, you know, I don't miss when they made that now. Neither one of us need to. You know, she's got the pregnancy and I'm in the process of fighting cancer.
33:04
Drew
What kind of cancer?
33:05
Caller
Colon.
33:06
Drew
Colon cancer? 28?
33:09
Caller
Yes. It's hereditary.
33:10
Drew
Do you have ulcerative colitis or something?
33:14
Caller
No, I had, like, about two months ago, I went to the hospital, Queen of Angels. I thought I had appendicitis and they did too, and then next thing you know, they opened me up. My appendix was fine and they saw this mess down there.
33:28
Drew
Who else in your family had colon cancer?
33:30
Caller
My mother. She died of it.
33:32
Drew
At what age?
33:33
Caller
She was in her fifties.
33:35
Drew
Yeah, but that's when people get colon cancer. In their twenties, that's wild.
33:40
Caller
Well, I kind of have a checkered past, you know what I mean. I did a lot of partying when I was younger.
33:46
Adam
Yeah, you still shouldn't have colon cancer.
33:47
Taryn Manning
Still pretty young.
33:48
Drew
Do you have a history of what's called polyposis, multiple colon polyps?
33:53
Caller
That I'm not sure of.
33:54
Drew
And you had no other medical condition?
33:57
Caller
None that I know of. I just had like a physical yesterday for a job. I didn't tell them about that. And they said that I was perfectly healthy. They removed it and I'm taking chemotherapy, but they said they got it all and it didn't spread anywhere or anything like that.
34:13
Adam
All right, so you got colon cancer and your girlfriend's still throwing ashtrays at you?
34:18
Caller
Yeah.
34:19
Caller
That's a tough woman.
34:21
Taryn Manning
What are you doing to make her so mad?
34:23
Caller
Yeah.
34:24
Adam
Tim, you love this woman?
34:30
Caller
I hate to use a cliched term, but yes, I love her, but I don't think I'm in love with her anymore.
34:37
Caller
Right on.
34:38
Adam
All right. Look, how about she give the kid up for adoption? It doesn't seem like either one of you is in a good place to raise this kid.
34:46
Caller
Well, no. I mean, she's pretty successful.
34:49
Adam
What does she do?
34:51
Caller
Well, she owns a business.
34:53
Okay.
34:54
Caller
And I'm about to start a new job.
34:57
Adam
All right. Well, then stay together and raise the kid. Look, Tim, here's the thing. She's seven months pregnant, right?
35:04
Caller
Yeah.
35:04
Adam
You got to ride it out for a couple of more months.
35:06
Drew
Right.
35:07
Adam
Don't make any decisions. You can't break up with her now.
35:10
Drew
She may be getting the depression. There's all kinds of things that happen during pregnancy.
35:14
Taryn Manning
That's after usually.
35:14
Adam
Right.
35:15
Drew
But it can get going during and just give her a little bit of a break here. Be supportive and I don't know what the problems were before the pregnancy. He was very coy about that.
35:24
Taryn Manning
Yeah.
35:25
Drew
What happened? No.
35:26
Adam
Listen, I don't care. Just look, she's pregnant. She will never forgive you if you make these last two months difficult on her. Just lay low.
35:35
Drew
That is true.
35:35
Adam
Never forget. A woman is like a killer whale. You see that movie Orca? They never forget. They never forget. They never remember anything important. But they never forget anything. But you never forget anything emotional. You remember guys. You remember like looks on guys' faces.
35:53
Drew
And these screw ups by guys.
35:55
Adam
You remember screw ups. Amazing. Amazing memory for screw ups. Yeah. So just, Tim, it does, it really, I know some people are difficult, but still it takes two to tango. Just lay low. Yes dear, no dear. I'm going to go to the next room and read if she seems a little cranky. Just stay out of her crosshairs.
36:13
Drew
I agree.
36:14
Adam
Right?
36:14
Drew
I agree.
36:15
Adam
All right. Jenny? Yeah? A lot of guys can't do that though. Are you 32? Yeah. You called last week. You want to update us on a message?
36:25
Yeah, I quit.
36:26
Adam
Or massage. Oh, sorry.
36:27
I wanted to tell you that I found an ounce of self respect in myself and I quit.
36:32
Adam
Yeah. Now, Jenny called last week. We talked to her for, it seemed like 20 minutes. Got the whole skinny on the erotic massage. Worked at a place, gave guys a rub down, gave a little reach around, made 200 bucks, kept 100, right? All right. And you're a mother of a young two?
36:51
Yeah.
36:51
Adam
And this didn't seem like the kind of thing that was for you.
36:54
No. I was just desperate and proud.
36:57
Drew
Hold on. We want to talk more.
36:58
Adam
We want to talk more to Jenny about this. Although, do we?
37:02
Drew
Yeah. Oh, yes.
37:03
Taryn Manning
She did it. She quit.
37:04
Drew
I want to find out because last week she was talking about, it's no big deal. It's kind of fun. Remember all that business? Now, it's like, what is now? What does it look like now that she's out? What are the feelings? What was she doing? How did she get, you know, she'll have a whole set of things to say, I'm sure.
37:17
Adam
She wasn't that crazy about it.
37:18
Drew
She wasn't. She was thinking about stopping. But she wasn't saying.
37:21
Taryn Manning
But like, what is she doing now?
37:22
Drew
What you're going to hear now is that, you know, I could see that I did it by suppressing all these feelings and I felt ashamed and I couldn't. We'll see.
37:29
Adam
Yeah. We'll see. Are you just going to tell us what she's going to say?
37:31
Drew
I could tell you, but we'll see.
37:32
Adam
Well, you think you just did.
37:34
Drew
Well, I'd like to be quiet. Confirm.
37:35
Adam
You be quiet. Taryn Manning is our guest tonight. Crazy Beautiful out this Friday with Kirsten Dunst and we'll be back.
37:48
Love Line with Adam Corolla and Dr. Drew. We'll be right back.
38:14
Caller
Hi, this is Mike Ness from Social Distortion, and you're enduring the love line with Adam Carolla and Dr. Drew.
38:23
Adam
Yes, you is. Phone number 1-800-LLV-E-191. Taryn Manning is our guest tonight from Crazy Beautiful, which is coming out this Friday.
38:34
Taryn Manning
Crazy Beautiful.
38:36
Adam
That's it?
38:36
I thought you were gonna say something.
38:38
Adam
That's it?
38:39
Taryn Manning
Yeah. I love the title of it.
38:41
Adam
It is a good title. Also, got something coming out with Britney Spears and something else with Michelle Pfeiffer and Renee Zellweger. How are they?
38:51
Taryn Manning
You know what? I didn't get to do any scenes with either of them.
38:55
Adam
You didn't have parts with them in this movie?
38:56
Taryn Manning
No, not with them, not in this movie.
38:58
Adam
So you didn't get to meet them?
39:01
Taryn Manning
That stinks, huh?
39:03
Bummed.
39:03
Taryn Manning
I really wanted to meet them.
39:05
Yeah.
39:07
Adam
Well, next movie.
39:08
Taryn Manning
Not even at the rap party they weren't there.
39:10
Adam
Oh, they didn't show up?
39:11
No.
39:11
Adam
Those bitches.
39:12
Taryn Manning
No, what are they doing better?
39:14
Adam
I don't know.
39:15
Drew
Did you bring Britney?
39:16
Adam
But you know Britney Spears.
39:17
Taryn Manning
No, Britney didn't go. Yeah.
39:19
Adam
But you hang out with Britney Spears, right?
39:22
Taryn Manning
Once in a while when she's not so busy.
39:24
Adam
Yeah. I don't know. Doesn't she have enough money? That's the way I always look at everything. She's got to relax a little bit.
39:31
Taryn Manning
Yeah.
39:31
Adam
How old is she now? 14?
39:34
Taryn Manning
19.
39:36
Adam
Jenny?
39:37
Yeah.
39:37
Adam
You're 32?
39:38
Caller
Yeah.
39:39
Adam
All right. So you called last week. You're talking about giving the sensual massage.
39:44
Drew
And you were kind of saying it wasn't so bad.
39:46
Adam
How did it work? Microphone, hand-drawn?
39:48
Caller
Yeah. You know, it wasn't so bad, but Dr. Drew, you kind of hit it on the nail.
39:53
Drew
Which is?
39:54
Caller
Which is that it just wasn't feeling right.
39:58
Drew
What feelings did you have to suppress to sort of get through your work day there?
40:01
Caller
What's that?
40:02
Drew
Did you find you had to suppress feeling?
40:03
Caller
Oh, absolutely.
40:04
Drew
What were the feelings?
40:05
Caller
Um, a lot of nervousness, a lot of anxiety, a lot of stress.
40:11
Adam
Well, that's not what Drew's looking at. Drew, tell her what she was suppressing.
40:13
Drew
Did you feel bad about yourself?
40:14
Caller
Yeah.
40:15
Drew
Why?
40:16
Caller
It just felt wrong. It just felt strange.
40:21
Adam
All right. But you never really crossed the line. I mean, you crossed a line, but not the line.
40:27
Caller
Yeah.
40:27
Adam
Did you do a lot of hand work?
40:30
Caller
Yeah.
40:31
Caller
Evil pot-smoking hand jobber?
40:35
Adam
Who the hell said that?
40:36
Caller
Who the hell said that?
40:38
Adam
Who was it? Jimmy's Chicken Shack. Oh, yeah. All right. So now you're out. What are you doing now?
40:44
Caller
Well, I'm teaching. I was doing that already.
40:48
Adam
Oh, that's right. That's right. That was the irony.
40:49
Drew
Were you purely alert by the money?
40:51
Caller
What's that?
40:52
Drew
Were you purely?
40:54
Caller
I just want to get out of debt.
40:56
Drew
And again, in retrospect, it wasn't anything else. You were sort of acting out.
40:58
Caller
Pretty much, yeah.
41:00
Adam
Yeah. See that, Drew? Well, the reason Drew and I argued about this, thanks Jenny, when we were talking to you last week, which was she wanted to make some easy money and she was willing to sort of compromise her standards, but not to the point where she was, you know, having the Sultan of Brunei's buddies all pull a train on her.
41:21
Drew
But this is that same argument, the Harvard student that became a dancer just for money.
41:26
Taryn Manning
Well, yeah, but why else would you do it?
41:29
Adam
There are shades of gray here.
41:32
Drew
That's right. I agree. Jenny may have been just looking for money, but generally, oftentimes, there's an acting out. There's something more than just the money directs them that way to look for those kinds of choices.
41:44
Adam
Well, I agree with you. There's a lot of people who would never even consider it. That's just the way they're made up psychologically. But then there are those who never underestimate the allure of money. I mean, people need money, and they do a lot of...
41:58
Taryn Manning
And women can easily do that kind of stuff.
42:00
Adam
Yeah.
42:01
Taryn Manning
It's not that hard.
42:02
Adam
It isn't?
42:03
Taryn Manning
No.
42:04
Adam
No.
42:04
Taryn Manning
I've heard.
42:05
Adam
You never did anything like that yourself, though?
42:08
Taryn Manning
No.
42:08
Adam
But what about something like that? Would you do something like that?
42:11
Taryn Manning
No, but like... No.
42:14
Adam
No.
42:14
Taryn Manning
No, but there's been times of desperation where you go, you know, you wonder, like, what you would do. And as a woman, it's really easy to make money doing stuff like that.
42:22
Adam
Well, I mean, as a hairy, unattractive man, I've never had that option. Well, or something could get into me.
42:31
Caller
Yeah.
42:32
Adam
Yeah, I just mean, I would have taken that route, the easy route, a time or two.
42:38
Taryn Manning
It's the easy route.
42:39
Drew
When you were 15, you would have, like, trained for that. That would have been your career of choice.
42:44
Adam
Handies to a strange businessman?
42:46
Caller
No.
42:48
Drew
Well, yeah. I was thinking more of that if you were a woman.
42:51
Caller
Right.
42:51
Drew
And that was you.
42:53
Caller
Yeah. Okay, Drew.
42:54
Adam
I did some gay porn in the late 70s.
42:56
Caller
Oh, man, Anderson.
42:58
Jack?
43:00
Adam
Jack, you're 37.
43:02
Caller
Yes. Hi. Hi, Adam.
43:04
Adam
Hi, Jack.
43:04
Caller
Taryn.
43:05
Caller
Hi.
43:07
Caller
18 years ago. Excuse me. Yeah, 18 years ago, I molested my little sister who was nine years old.
43:17
Adam
Is she your biological sister?
43:19
Caller
Yes.
43:19
Caller
All right.
43:20
Caller
Yes. And the reason for my call is about a couple of years ago, I finally had a little bit of clarity. I've been through therapy. And forgive me, I'm a little bit nervous right now.
43:35
Caller
All right.
43:38
Caller
I'm trying desperately to reach out to her and let her know that I'm not the person, that person 18 years ago.
43:48
Drew
Had somebody done something to you at that point?
43:50
Caller
No. But when I was 11 or 12, I'm not sure which age, I was forced to do a blowjob on a guy that I thought was my friend.
44:01
Drew
Wouldn't that be someone doing something to him?
44:03
Adam
Well, I think because this guy who you were forced to do the BJ on was your age, he doesn't look at it as the same kind of thing.
44:12
Drew
It's exactly the same thing.
44:13
Adam
Well, it's not exactly.
44:14
Drew
It's traumatic sexual abuse.
44:16
Adam
Yeah. It's not, I would still argue that it's not as bad as a guy who's 25 getting him to give the BJ, but it's still bad and kind of set the table for this.
44:27
Drew
Yeah.
44:29
Adam
How is it though that your friend who is also 11 or 12 was able to force you to do this?
44:34
Taryn Manning
Yeah.
44:35
Caller
We were playing a game. We were playing a card game and I cannot remember exactly what the game was. It was some kind of dare game. And when he told me what I had to do, he had some friends there. And if I didn't do what he wanted me to do, I would get beaten up.
44:51
Drew
You mansy. Most guys would take the beating.
44:55
Adam
Yeah.
44:55
Drew
Wouldn't you?
44:55
Caller
Yeah.
44:57
Adam
I guess. I don't know. I mean, be that as it may.
45:02
Taryn Manning
He was like 11, too.
45:04
Adam
You molested your sister. How many times did you do that?
45:08
Caller
I did it once.
45:09
Adam
Just once?
45:09
Caller
Yes.
45:10
Adam
Why do you think you just did it once?
45:12
Caller
Well, it's taken me, I guess, 16 years to finally have some idea. But even I told my therapist that what I did was wrong. And, um, uh, forgive me.
45:30
Drew
Did you know it was wrong immediately after you had done it?
45:33
Caller
Yes, I did.
45:34
Drew
And that's what caused you to stop?
45:36
Caller
Um, well, I don't want to get into details if I don't have to, but she told me that she was uncomfortable and I did stop.
45:45
Adam
Okay. And during the first molestation, she said she was uncomfortable?
45:53
Taryn Manning
How old was she?
45:54
Adam
She was nine. She was nine. And how has her life been since?
45:59
Caller
Well, when she graduated high school, around 18 or 19, it seemed okay because I would be allowed over to the family home and I remember giving her a hug and everything was okay.
46:17
Drew
No, not how's your relationship with her. How has her life been?
46:19
Caller
Oh, how's her life?
46:21
Adam
Wait, hold on a second, Jack, hold on because we got to take a break. This is interesting. I mean, obviously, Jack didn't do a great thing and I feel bad for him. I feel bad for his sister, but I'm not as angry at Jack as I'd like to be. I think he has genuine remorse for this. He's trying to make it better.
46:41
Taryn Manning
I mean, how old was he when he did it?
46:45
Adam
He was 18. She was 9. We got to take a break and we're going to come back and we'll get with Jack and we'll figure out how he's going to confront and talk to his sister after this.
46:57
1-800-LOVE-191.
46:58
Adam
We'll be right back. It's me, Loveline, everybody. Phone number 1-800-LOVE-191. I think I did that to the drum beat there. Taryn Manning is our guest tonight. She is from Crazy Beautiful, which is coming out this Friday. And she is opposite Kirsten Dunst. Yep. You're her friend?
48:00
Taryn Manning
Yep, I play her crazy friend.
48:02
Adam
Who, yeah, I could see you doing crazy. I mean, you're a little crazy in real life, right?
48:09
Taryn Manning
Yeah, I mean, yeah.
48:11
Caller
You're insane.
48:12
Adam
No, like crazy good, right?
48:14
Taryn Manning
Yeah, crazy all different kind of ways.
48:16
Adam
Like quirky crazy, right?
48:17
Taryn Manning
Depends on the situation, I mean.
48:18
Adam
You're in a band with your brother?
48:20
Caller
Yep.
48:21
Taryn Manning
We're called Boom Cat.
48:23
Adam
Who else is in the band?
48:24
Taryn Manning
It's me and my brother mostly, but we have a band we play out, DJ and bass player.
48:31
Adam
What do you do?
48:31
Taryn Manning
I'm a singer. I play guitar.
48:34
Adam
You get along well with your brother?
48:37
Taryn Manning
I have. For the most part.
48:40
Adam
No, not really.
48:41
Taryn Manning
No, we do, Kellan. We get along. We definitely get along because we both play our parts in a band. We both have our separate jobs, but sometimes we both want to be like the leader, but we have to be equal.
48:56
Adam
Right. Yeah.
48:57
Taryn Manning
It's hard at times.
48:59
Adam
Drew, can you imagine being in a band with your sister?
49:02
Taryn Manning
Now I know why, like Oasis.
49:03
Drew
How about with you?
49:04
Adam
Or anybody?
49:04
Drew
What about that?
49:05
Taryn Manning
Like the Oasis brothers, I always be like, why are they fighting? Their music is so great.
49:10
Adam
Yeah.
49:10
Taryn Manning
And now I know exactly why.
49:14
Drew
I've never met those guys.
49:16
Adam
You get the feeling, who are those, the Gallagher brothers?
49:18
Taryn Manning
Yep.
49:19
Adam
You get the feeling that even if there was one of them or even half of one of them that they'd be going at it with somebody, but two of them.
49:26
Taryn Manning
That's right, two of them.
49:27
Adam
Not enough room. Not enough room, really, on the continent for those two. I haven't heard much from them lately.
49:34
Taryn Manning
That's what I was... Yeah, where are they?
49:36
Adam
I don't know if they've dried up or slowed down, or what the hell's up with those two? We'll find out.
49:42
Taryn Manning
They're probably working it out.
49:43
Adam
Usually when I say bad things about people, they're booked on the show in the next few days, so maybe they'll be coming in here. Jack?
49:50
Drew
Yes.
49:51
Adam
Okay, so Jack's situation was and is that when he was 18, he molested his sister one time, who was nine. He was somewhat molested when he was 11 by a peer, and he's had some therapy.
50:07
Drew
Did you act out on any other children yourself?
50:10
Caller
No, I haven't.
50:11
Adam
He's done a little therapy, and now he wants to basically have a talk with your sister.
50:18
Taryn Manning
How is she feeling?
50:21
Caller
I talked to her back in November of 1999. It was a fluke phone call to my parents. I was really nervous when I talked to her, and pretty much it was a casual conversation after how she was. I finished it off, and I told her that I loved her more than anything in this world. I can't remember the exact words I said, but to that effect, and she didn't say thank you. She said, I appreciate it, whatever that meant. I'm not sure.
50:53
Adam
So she's what? 28, 29 now?
50:57
Caller
She's 26.
50:57
Taryn Manning
Did you like move out right after you did it or something?
51:00
Caller
No.
51:01
Taryn Manning
Weren't you guys living in the same house?
51:03
Caller
I was in the home until I was 22.
51:07
Adam
All right. So now you're living away from home, and how far away from home?
51:13
Caller
Well, let's see. Oh, gosh. 35, 40 miles.
51:16
Adam
And how far away from her are you?
51:21
Caller
I would venture to say about the same amount of distance.
51:23
Adam
Okay. And the family doesn't know about this?
51:28
Caller
Yes, the family does.
51:29
Adam
Oh, they do?
51:30
Caller
Yes. And my question, part two of this question is I feel very left out. I feel like a social outcast.
51:41
Caller
Right.
51:43
Caller
I feel like my parents, under the circumstances, what more could they do? But time has gone on. You know, it's been such a long time. And yet I haven't been invited to their home.
51:59
Adam
How long?
52:00
Caller
The last two years I haven't been invited any holiday gatherings.
52:04
Adam
When did they find out about this?
52:07
Caller
Let's see, when I was 18, when she was 13.
52:11
Adam
When she was 13.
52:13
Caller
Yes.
52:13
Adam
So it was like four years, five years later.
52:15
Drew
How did they find out?
52:18
Caller
She told them.
52:19
Adam
Okay. And yet that was quite some years ago. So you got to go to, you got to live at home. You were still living at home, right? When they found out?
52:31
Caller
Yeah. No, no, I was, I was out of the house.
52:35
Drew
You told us you were at home till twenty two.
52:37
Adam
Well, it was right about then that you found out. Okay.
52:40
Caller
When I was twenty two years old, I was kicked out.
52:43
Adam
Oh, you were kicked out.
52:44
Caller
Yes. Why? Because of, because of what the, what she told my parents.
52:49
Adam
Okay. So hold on. Let me talk to Drew.
52:52
Drew
I'm very confused.
52:52
Adam
No, he, he, he's a little nervous. I usually start yelling about now, but he was living at home when they found out. And then they found out and kicked him out.
53:03
Drew
And then they will have nothing to do with him?
53:05
Adam
Well, he said-
53:05
Taryn Manning
No, just in the last two years.
53:06
Adam
Last two years, which is strange because what about the other ten years?
53:10
Taryn Manning
Yeah.
53:10
Adam
When, uh, or fifteen years or whatever it is.
53:12
Drew
And he was talking to them on the phone, telling the sister, I love her.
53:15
Adam
All right.
53:15
Taryn Manning
Ask that.
53:16
Drew
That's a freak to my eyes.
53:17
You want me to ask that?
53:19
Caller
Yeah.
53:20
Adam
Jack?
53:20
Caller
Yeah.
53:21
Adam
Yeah. So what about that? They found out, they kicked you out of the house, but yet you weren't completely outcast from the family at that point. Were you?
53:28
Caller
No, I wasn't. My parents have made efforts to see me without my sister.
53:33
Adam
Well, then why the last two years?
53:37
Caller
The last two years? I can't even think straight right now.
53:45
Taryn Manning
You said the last two years they haven't invited you.
53:48
Caller
Oh, I haven't been invited. No, we've gone out to like restaurants to meet, you know, without my sister and I just feel I feel very left out. I feel like if I could just talk to my sister face to face.
54:01
Adam
All right, Jack, how about how about is she is she married? Does she have her own life now?
54:06
Caller
Yes, she is married. She has her own life.
54:07
Adam
Okay. How about a letter?
54:09
Caller
I mean, I've tried a letter. I've tried a letter. I don't know if she's received it yet because it had to go through my my parents first.
54:16
Drew
Why?
54:19
Adam
It just got a little creepy.
54:20
Taryn Manning
Yeah.
54:21
Caller
Well, there you see my situation. My parents seem to be protecting her.
54:27
Taryn Manning
Yeah, they're not letting you.
54:29
Drew
Have you been stalking her or something?
54:31
Caller
No, I have not.
54:32
Adam
Why? Do you know what her home address is?
54:36
Caller
No, I don't.
54:37
Adam
You don't know where she lives. You would have no way of contacting her.
54:41
Caller
I do not have any idea of address, phone number.
54:44
Adam
Okay. All right. I've got the plan.
54:50
Drew
Go ahead. We're all waiting.
54:51
Adam
We need to kill ourselves in a big Jonestown type mass suicide.
54:57
Taryn Manning
He needs to figure this out.
54:58
Adam
There's more to this story than meets the ear. You know, his parents are sort of staying with him.
55:03
Taryn Manning
I think it happened more than once, maybe.
55:07
Adam
I believe him when he say it happened once. His parents are freaked. His sister may be having problems and maybe this is coming back into Jack's lap.
55:18
Drew
And the parents are a better piece of work.
55:20
Adam
Parents do really seem like a piece of work.
55:23
Drew
Ask him.
55:24
Adam
Yeah, ask him, ask him. How do you think we'll get a straight answer?
55:26
Drew
It's been one of those nights. It's been good.
55:27
Adam
Okay, are your parents...
55:29
Caller
Yes, I'm still here.
55:30
Adam
Are they a piece of work, your parents?
55:32
Caller
I'm sorry, go ahead.
55:32
Adam
Are your parents a piece of work?
55:35
Caller
No, I love my parents, believe it or not, to death. I think very highly of my father.
55:40
Adam
I know you love him, but Hitler's dog loved him. Are they a piece of work though?
55:46
Caller
No, they're not. They're very good people.
55:47
Adam
They're good, fair, honest people.
55:50
Caller
Where's my bourbon?
55:51
Adam
Right?
55:52
Caller
Yes.
55:53
Adam
Okay, so here's the plan now, Jack. I put Jack on hold. He can listen to my plan. He cannot get to his sister unless he goes to his parents. His parents, they're tearing the family apart, even though Jack got things going many years ago. But for Christ's sake, it's been almost 20 years.
56:09
Taryn Manning
Like they should let him talk to her, you know.
56:11
Drew
But he has to prevail upon them.
56:12
Adam
Here's what he needs to do. He needs to write a letter that's going to her. Then he needs to meet with his parents. And he needs to say, look, you know what's going on. Let's see if we can heal this. Here's the letter I've written.
56:25
Taryn Manning
Spell check.
56:25
Adam
Let me, yes. Take a look at it. Tell me what you think. Is there anything I've left out? Do you feel good about this? Okay, if you do feel good about this letter, here it is. It says, could you please pass it along? I won't be waiting by the phone, but just please, in the name of the family, pass this thing along.
56:44
Drew
Still, something missing.
56:46
Adam
Something missing, but if the only way you can get the letters to them, and he's not sure if the parents are passing it along, then I would say open that up. They're good, fair, honest people. He's described them. He has a dialogue with them. He can go out to dinner with them, show them the letter, and then pass it along. This is why I don't want to have kids, by the way. Yeah, this is it.
57:05
Drew
It's kind of freaky. So they don't abuse each other?
57:08
Adam
I'm just saying that I'm sitting at home, I've retired, I'm trying to relax, unbutton my pants and watch some Discovery Channel, and oh Christ, Jack wants to meet over at the Red Lobster Tuesday night to discuss the letter. That's the one I'm sending the wife on. Look, honey, I trust you implicitly. Go meet him, here's 40 bucks, get a nice shrimp cocktail, and if you think the letter should, green light it, if you think it will light. No problem. You know what I mean? Do you really want to, as a dad, don't you just, you just want to relax a little bit to get your kids around the house.
57:44
Caller
Oh, okay.
57:46
Adam
Estella?
57:47
Yeah.
57:47
Adam
You're 15?
57:48
Caller
Yeah.
57:49
Adam
What's up?
57:50
Caller
Like I'm not sure about my sexuality, you know? Like I think I'm bi, but sometimes I think I'm less, and sometimes I think I'm straight, you know? I'm not sure.
57:59
Drew
Well, you're 15.
58:00
Caller
Yeah.
58:01
Drew
So that's sort of common 15-year-old feelings.
58:04
Caller
Yeah. But like I'm more attracted to girls, like more girls are more attracted to me too, you know?
58:09
Drew
Are you sexually active?
58:11
Caller
Not really. Like every once in a while.
58:13
Drew
With girls?
58:14
Caller
Yeah.
58:15
Adam
You ever been with a guy?
58:18
Caller
Was about to, but I didn't feel comfortable, because I don't want to, you know?
58:22
Drew
How old were you when you started having sort of physical relationships?
58:25
Caller
I was 14.
58:26
Adam
With girls?
58:28
Caller
With both of them, but not like with a guy I would just rub on some, you know, just play around and stuff.
58:33
Drew
That 14-year-old girl when you were 14, was she, the other person was 14 also?
58:38
Caller
Yeah.
58:40
Adam
All right. So you got some feelings for women.
58:43
Taryn Manning
Yeah, but like going through all kinds of emotions right now.
58:46
Adam
15?
58:47
Caller
Excuse me?
58:48
Taryn Manning
Said you're having all kinds of feelings at 15, you know?
58:51
Drew
And it may be dealing with being lesbian. That's probably one of the feelings you may be having, being ambivalent about coming to terms with that.
58:57
Adam
I don't know. We always say, don't declare a sexual major if you're confused. But is it important? I mean, do you think?
59:04
Drew
To declare?
59:05
Caller
Not really.
59:06
Adam
You don't think so?
59:07
Caller
No, not really.
59:07
Adam
All right. Well, then who cares?
59:09
Drew
You guys are cool and?
59:11
Adam
Ass.
59:12
Caller
Yeah.
59:15
Adam
I just don't think the S word has become, I don't think it's considered profanity anymore if it's used.
59:21
Drew
Every third word on South Park.
59:23
Taryn Manning
I just came right out.
59:24
Adam
Every third word? Yeah. They got on South Park on their premiere. I guess it was their premiere last week or the week before. They said the S word 163 times.
59:36
Drew
Wow. Good times.
59:38
Adam
Now, here's the thing that's funny about that.
59:40
Drew
They didn't mention underpants though.
59:43
Adam
We, no, it's not the funny thing about it. I, Drew, please, would you let me have a thought over here for a second.
59:50
Caller
You know how difficult it is for me to think.
59:52
Drew
Yeah, I'm sorry.
59:53
Adam
We deal at the Man Show, which premieres this Sunday, by the way, the big Man Show premiere ten o'clock on Comedy Central. We deal with the same censor, Renee is her name, that they deal with. And ever since we got the 163S word in our back pocket, there's no stop at us because every little thing she fixates on, on our show and tries to correct on our show, we immediately throw the 168 or 163S right back in her face. So that's the beauty of it for us.
1:00:32
Drew
163, you guys are just going 163S's, 163.
1:00:37
Adam
I call her Miss 163 now when she picks up the phone. I'll tell you, you people who have not had an argument with a TV network sensor really have not lived. It is some of the most surreal conversation in the world, just bizarre, bizarre conversation.
1:00:56
Drew
I think the underpants discussion was one of the more.
1:00:59
Adam
Yes, one of them was, I could say underpants, but I couldn't say underwear.
1:01:02
Drew
It was the other way around?
1:01:03
Adam
No, I couldn't say, right. I could say underwear, but not underpants.
1:01:06
Drew
And we had one with MTV at one time too, didn't we?
1:01:08
Remember that?
1:01:09
Adam
It was the same woman, by the way. No. Yeah, yeah.
1:01:13
Wow.
1:01:14
Adam
Yeah, she went on to Comedy Central. Her love affair continued. Eric?
1:01:20
Yeah.
1:01:20
Adam
You're 19?
1:01:21
Caller
Yeah.
1:01:22
Adam
What's up?
1:01:23
Caller
Basically, I've had an eating disorder for quite some time. Probably since I was about 12 years old or so. Just kind of through the course of high school, it's something that's always really bothered me. I've always kind of gone on these attempts, I guess, to try and correct it and start dieting, start exercising, that sort of thing, to start kind of living a little bit more healthier. I'm 19 now and it's still with me. I'm just wondering, is eating disorder something so serious that you have to seek out therapy to fix?
1:01:59
Adam
What was your eating disorder?
1:02:02
Caller
Basically, just bingeing, just eating as much as I could. And then throwing up? I've done that a few times but not a whole lot.
1:02:11
Drew
So you just go on the binges?
1:02:12
Caller
Pretty much, yes. Are you overweight? Well, yeah.
1:02:17
Drew
How much weight?
1:02:18
Caller
I'm about 250.
1:02:20
Drew
How tall are you?
1:02:21
Caller
6'5.
1:02:22
Drew
That's close to my weight.
1:02:24
Caller
Well, you know, I've talked to doctors before and they've told me I should probably be shooting for about 210.
1:02:30
Drew
Yeah, 210 would be good.
1:02:31
Adam
Well, it kind of depends what your body type is.
1:02:34
Caller
Well, you know, I've actually got a pretty thin frame and I know I probably should be a lot less and I look overweight. Alright.
1:02:41
Adam
Well, how about the diet and the exercise?
1:02:44
Caller
Well, it's just really weird every time. You know, I've just tried it so many times, you know, over the years and I just can't break it. I mean, it's so damn hard.
1:02:57
Drew
Can't break what?
1:02:58
Caller
Just the cycle, I guess.
1:03:00
Drew
Of what?
1:03:00
Caller
Of overeating. You know, like I'll try and just, you know, try to stay healthy, stay diet for like a week and after that I just can't handle it. I have to eat something.
1:03:11
Adam
Well, how about you let yourself go off for a day and then you come back and you do that?
1:03:15
Caller
What do you mean?
1:03:16
Adam
Well, you know, you want a couple in and out burgers, you have a couple in and out burgers and the next day you go for a jog and eat some kelp or something.
1:03:24
Taryn Manning
Yeah, like what are you eating when you binge?
1:03:27
Caller
Mostly like just like chips, corn nuts, you know, that kind of stuff.
1:03:33
Drew
Could you binge on healthier foodstuff?
1:03:35
Taryn Manning
On carrots?
1:03:36
Caller
No, no, you can't binge on carrots. You don't want to eat them.
1:03:39
Taryn Manning
Vegetables?
1:03:40
Caller
I don't think so.
1:03:42
Drew
How about seeing a dietician sort of getting a monitored plan going?
1:03:45
Caller
A dietician? Well, you know, I've tried kind of more, you know, direct approaches like that in the past, like joining a club, getting a personal trainer, you know, kind of sitting down at the plan and following it. And, you know, even that, I just... And the thing is, the problem itself, it's so... I'm so obsessive about it that if I can't kick, you know, the eating habit, I can't do anything else.
1:04:10
Drew
Well, how about... Oh, that's ridiculous. But how about going to get some mental health services?
1:04:15
Caller
Mental health services?
1:04:16
Drew
Yeah.
1:04:16
Caller
Like?
1:04:17
Drew
Like a therapist, somebody to figure this out for you. Maybe a psychiatrist. Maybe there's some biological treatments that can be helpful to you.
1:04:22
Adam
You know, maybe I'm just being insensitive because he's a young guy, but it sounds like he's putting all his eggs in this eating basket.
1:04:30
Drew
Yeah.
1:04:30
Adam
And it sounds like he has bigger problems than this and other problems.
1:04:33
Drew
Absolutely.
1:04:35
Adam
Because you really...
1:04:37
Caller
Well, you know, I definitely have other...
1:04:39
Adam
Yeah, you do. Because, you know, your eating habits, you're...
1:04:44
Drew
They're not that bad.
1:04:45
Adam
Not much different than the average 19 year old.
1:04:48
Drew
I'm not even sure if they'd qualify for eating disorder, frankly, that meet formal criteria.
1:04:52
Adam
Yeah, you're not throwing it up. You're not taking laxatives.
1:04:55
Drew
You certainly are obsessive. Certainly obsessive compulsive.
1:04:58
Caller
Right.
1:04:59
Adam
And that's what you need to focus on.
1:05:00
Drew
Yeah, and that may be more the issue here.
1:05:02
Caller
Well, you know, the thing is, in the past, I've just, you know, I try to build myself up, you know, and kind of be really positive about it and try to attack it and take care of it and just get it done with.
1:05:12
Drew
Do you have a body image distortion as well? Do you think you're overweight when other people tell you you aren't?
1:05:18
Caller
Well, you know, I definitely can stand a loose weight. That's for sure. That's reality.
1:05:24
Drew
That's what he's saying.
1:05:25
Adam
All right. But he does actually he does what I remember. My mom used to do this, which was it just put all her energy into diet and eating. And it becomes like a life. Like my mom would be eating. And about halfway into the meals, she'd slide back her chair and she'd go, slow down, slow down.
1:05:48
Taryn Manning
To herself?
1:05:49
Adam
Yeah, no. Well, no, not to herself because I would know. But she, I mean, to herself, yeah, to herself, to herself, but out loud, you know? And she'd go, she'd go, slow down. It's not a race, you know? And then once in a while, she'd be one of these people that have like a donut and go, I'm really, I'm really racing right now because I'm riding a pretty good sugar high. You know, they make a big deal out of food. You know, they make, they make everything and everything. You know, it's like, I ate a burger. So, now I have to punish myself, you know.
1:06:18
Taryn Manning
Now it's a whole disease.
1:06:21
Adam
It becomes, it is about food, but it's more just about obsessing. And food is a great thing to do because it's such a part of your life. It enters your body. It's everywhere you look and it's every day of your life.
1:06:33
Taryn Manning
There's all different kinds.
1:06:34
Adam
You know, in the X amount of days you're on the earth, how many of them go by that you don't eat? You know what I mean?
1:06:42
Drew
There's kind of an aggressive quality to eating too. That's how you manage aggression.
1:06:47
Adam
Right.
1:06:47
Drew
Managing eating too.
1:06:48
Adam
And Eric, it doesn't seem like the diet is the problem. It's just his obsessive nature which is going into his food.
1:06:55
Drew
Geez, no wonder.
1:06:56
Adam
That's what needs to work out.
1:06:57
Drew
I'm just thinking, if Eric has an eating disorder, you had an eating disorder.
1:07:01
Adam
How dare you?
1:07:02
Drew
Think of your binges.
1:07:03
Taryn Manning
Maybe he has the munchies.
1:07:04
Drew
No, no. What would you binge on?
1:07:06
Adam
I ate three Grand Slams at a Denny's once. Big deal.
1:07:09
Drew
No. How about when you were babysitting?
1:07:11
Adam
You know how many three Grand Slams is like 12 pieces of sausage, 16 pancakes or 12 pancakes and six eggs.
1:07:20
Caller
Whatever it was.
1:07:21
Drew
How about when you go babysitting?
1:07:23
Adam
Well, I go babysitting when I was a kid. I used to babysit my neighbor when I was like 11 or 12. I'd go to the house, open a can of pie filling. Boisbert pie filling. Dump that into a bowl, then put a bunch of miniature marshmallows on top. And some Toll House morsels and like a handful of crunch berries.
1:07:47
Drew
Cow chocula.
1:07:48
Taryn Manning
That's what happens when you babysit. They have the best food.
1:07:50
Adam
You just spin out.
1:07:52
Drew
His mom was so obsessive that he became a binger.
1:07:56
Adam
What my mom did is she was so such a health nut. There's all this brown rice and tofu and all that nonsense. That the second I broke loose of the prison that I lived in, I was like, those movies where the people have been trapped out in the desert for weeks and the next thing you know, like in the movie when Tom Hanks was out on the island, The Survivor, the Castaway movie. Then next thing you know, you're back in civilization. Big planter shrimp in front of you and some Swedish meatballs. You just go insane. The feeling is, I may not see this for a while. I got to dig in. I still have that now, by the way. Thanks, man. Appreciate that. All right, let's go eat. Taryn Manning is here from Crazy and Beautiful, which is out this Friday. We'll take a little break and we'll be back.
1:08:58
Caller
Um, back in a minute.
1:09:22
Caller
Hi, this is Jesus Christ.
1:09:23
Caller
This is Eric Cartman.
1:09:25
Caller
And this is Counselor Mackie.
1:09:27
Caller
Okay, we're from South Park.
1:09:29
And you're listening to Love Line with Adam Carota and Dr. Bruce.
1:09:33
Caller
Hey.
1:09:36
Adam
Yeah, the S-word, 162 times, everybody. All right, Drew, let's get it together and move on with the show, huh?
1:09:47
Drew
Yeah, man. You're going to be such a god damn piece of mess tomorrow night.
1:09:54
Adam
Yeah, I got to get up at 430 in the morning and do a bunch of radio for about three hours today or tomorrow or whenever that is and then going to be doing that politically incorrect tomorrow night. No. I'll tell you, I know it sounds like I'm complaining and that's true, but sleep deprivation, man. And, you know, everyone looks forward to show business and want to get into show business and you never hear actors complain about it and the pay is great and the food is great and the travel is great and the perks are great, but they don't tell you about the sleep part.
1:10:29
Taryn Manning
Yeah, they don't.
1:10:30
Adam
And there's some crazy stuff going on. I mean, you know when you're out promoting, right? You do a show like...
1:10:37
Taryn Manning
No, just like filming a movie.
1:10:39
Adam
Oh, yeah.
1:10:39
Taryn Manning
You got like eight hours to drive home, sleep in, drive back.
1:10:43
Adam
Oh, yeah, if you're lucky.
1:10:44
Taryn Manning
If you're lucky.
1:10:45
Adam
But when you hit the promotional trail, you're doing this show till midnight and then you're supposed to be up at 6 and I swear to God, I'd like to move to New York just for that because we got to shave three hours off of all our get up time over here. All right. Taryn Manning is our guest tonight. She is Crazy Beautiful is the name of the movie. This Friday. Out this Friday. See, that's good promotion. Rex?
1:11:12
Hello?
1:11:13
Adam
You're 29.
1:11:14
Caller
I am 29.
1:11:15
Adam
What is up? What's going on, Rex?
1:11:18
Caller
Oh, nothing. I'm stuck in traffic and felt it was an opportune time to go ahead and voice my concerns to some professionals.
1:11:28
Drew
Where the hell is there traffic at 3 in the morning?
1:11:30
Caller
Well, I'm on the Ambassador Bridge. I just saw the big North American fireworks there in Detroit and a million people light gathering in North America.
1:11:39
Taryn Manning
Is it a holiday?
1:11:41
Adam
Well, is that free?
1:11:42
Caller
There are independents coming up shortly, so that might blow off the fireworks. It's a big deal.
1:11:48
Drew
Canadian independents?
1:11:49
Adam
No, our 4th of July here.
1:11:50
Drew
I was talking from Canada.
1:11:52
Caller
Well, I'm originally from the Michigan. We watched them on the Canada side because...
1:11:57
Drew
Why am I so confused? The fireworks are on the 4th of July, not in preparation for the 4th of July.
1:12:03
Caller
At any rate...
1:12:04
Adam
Yeah, I don't know. Rex?
1:12:06
Caller
Yes.
1:12:06
Adam
Please tell us why they were lighting off fireworks a week before the 4th of July.
1:12:12
Caller
Well, you know, I don't know. It's kind of like, I guess, Hanukkah. How come they take up 8 days of nonsense there? You know, it's...
1:12:20
Drew
Because that's how long the candles last, the lamp lasts at 8 days. There's a very specific ritual associated with that. Independence Day is so...
1:12:28
Caller
Well, this is like the pre-4th of July ritual, though. This has been going on since the time of the Indians.
1:12:34
Drew
Not anywhere else in the country. So I don't know. Maybe Detroit's different.
1:12:38
Caller
Yeah, Detroit is different.
1:12:39
Adam
All right. I'll buy the fact that they lit the fireworks off. The only part I'm confused about is the part where you think we're nuts for bringing it up.
1:12:46
Drew
Yeah.
1:12:46
Adam
I mean, it's a week before the 4th of July.
1:12:49
Taryn Manning
This is normal to him.
1:12:50
Adam
All right. Well, anyway, Rex, what's your question?
1:12:53
Caller
I have a girlfriend who's 21 years old. We have a very nice relationship, and everything goes very well. We're very communicative. We get along great in pretty much every aspect, as well as in the bedroom. Other than the fact that, and this is nearing the point where there could be a breakup as a result of it, she won't let me commandeer the anal sex portion of it.
1:13:19
Adam
I see. Could you turn your... Yeah, Rex, turn your radio down, please.
1:13:23
Caller
There you go.
1:13:24
Caller
And she just thinks it's a terrible, terrible thing, whereas all our friends are trying to explain to her that it is, and can be a very tender experience.
1:13:34
Drew
And for many women, it's a terribly painful experience that cannot be tolerated.
1:13:38
Caller
Right, right.
1:13:39
Drew
So she's obviously one of those.
1:13:41
Caller
Well, she hasn't even tried it.
1:13:44
Adam
What's that?
1:13:45
Caller
She has not even given it a whirl. She's given it, I mean, a very...
1:13:49
Adam
Well, listen, Rex, keep pushing. You may get the story where she gave it the whirl and didn't enjoy it. That's not going to be pleasant, by the way. There'll be fireworks going off in the bedroom. But...
1:13:59
Taryn Manning
It's really not that important.
1:14:01
Caller
Is it not that important? I mean, some people are prone to saying that it's, you know, one of the best experiences that a woman can have.
1:14:10
Drew
Oh, please. What are you talking about?
1:14:13
Taryn Manning
Yeah, but if she doesn't want to have it, then...
1:14:15
Adam
Hold on a second. Rex sounds like he's from the National Anal Institute. He's got some literature between his legs, and he's on a propaganda campaign. Look... Maybe he really wants to please his... No, he wants to please nobody.
1:14:31
Taryn Manning
I know.
1:14:31
Adam
Thank you. He wants to please himself.
1:14:33
Drew
He's a very aggressive guy.
1:14:34
Adam
Well, he's kind of a... He's really just a dick. Rex is kind of out of it. You know what? When women complain about men, they're talking about Rex. He's not a rapist, not a pedophile, doesn't shoot or stab anybody. He's just... Rex is looking out for Rex, basically.
1:14:52
Taryn Manning
He can't just have like normal sex. He's got to like...
1:14:55
Adam
No, he's got a nice 21-year-old, and he's got to soil her up with his stinky poo-poo penises, basically.
1:15:01
Drew
Yeah, it's not what she wants. It's about him having to sort of commandeer her, as he said it himself. Those are the words he used.
1:15:07
Adam
Right. Now, look, some women enjoy anal sex.
1:15:11
Drew
And they'll let you know.
1:15:12
Adam
And some women don't. And it's more women that don't than do. Now, here's Rex's theory. Maybe she loves it, and she just doesn't know it. Right. Well, you know what? You could say that about me in anal sex. You could say that about Drew and getting cornholed. You could say that about me and blowing some prisoner. You could say that about anybody. I mean, you could float that theory with anybody and anything. Right. You know what? There's no answer to that question, because if the person is not inclined to do it, then we will never know.
1:15:43
Taryn Manning
Maybe she'll come around.
1:15:44
Caller
No.
1:15:45
Adam
I sincerely hope not.
1:15:47
Caller
He's immediate.
1:15:48
Caller
What do you mean? Why is nobody in my camp?
1:15:50
Adam
Nobody's in your camp.
1:15:52
Caller
I realize this. I thought maybe you guys were the professionals that you are, and knowing that different anatomies are different and responsive to different things, that perhaps this is something that she's missing out on, and I don't want to know.
1:16:06
Drew
Rex, if you're infuriating me, cut the BS and just speak in regular tongue. What do you mean?
1:16:13
Caller
I am.
1:16:15
Drew
See, she might be an anatomical specimen that's slightly different and have different...
1:16:20
Caller
I'm not trying to impress anybody with the way I speak. I'm putting it forthright in your...
1:16:27
Drew
The seems more forthright tonight.
1:16:29
Caller
He's well read.
1:16:29
Adam
I'm starting to get in your camp, Rex. This Drew's giving me a pain in my ass. What do you do for a living? Are you a salesman?
1:16:35
Caller
Am I a salesman? Absolutely not.
1:16:37
Adam
What do you do for a living?
1:16:38
Caller
What do I do? I drink currently.
1:16:41
Adam
You do what?
1:16:42
Caller
I'd be a bartender.
1:16:43
Adam
Oh, you mix drinks. I see. Here's the deal. If she wants to do this, that's fine. And if she doesn't want to do it, there's not a whole lot you can do to get her to do it.
1:16:54
Caller
Well, see, this is why I think that she honestly doesn't. She's a little bit perhaps just apprehensive about it because it's a new experience. Because the other night the inhibitions were a little bit low due to some libations. And she wanted to give it a whirl and then kind of check out at the very last possible moment.
1:17:12
Drew
Because it hurt?
1:17:13
Caller
Well, no, she only gave it about, if I can say, about a quarter inch of an effort.
1:17:20
Drew
And then it hurt?
1:17:22
Caller
Well, I think she's just panicked.
1:17:23
Drew
Rex, listen to me. He drives me crazy.
1:17:28
Adam
Hopefully he'll just drive off some branch on the way back to Canada.
1:17:30
Drew
He can't even acknowledge that she was in pain. He can't even say simply without some bizarre, twisted, convoluted, crazy...
1:17:37
Taryn Manning
Yeah, it doesn't sound like he is considering her.
1:17:40
Drew
Not at all. Not one bit.
1:17:42
Taryn Manning
No.
1:17:43
Adam
Rex is a jack-off. I mean, let's face it. Rex, please, take a good long look in the mirror.
1:17:48
Caller
He's an idiot.
1:17:50
Caller
You're an idiot.
1:17:52
Adam
There's nothing wrong with anal sex, but your girlfriend, your 21-year-old, and by the way, this is part of the problem with hooking up with a chick that's near 10 years younger than you are, is not ready for this. I'm sure she'll be ready for it at 25, but she's a few years off.
1:18:11
Caller
No, she won't.
1:18:11
Taryn Manning
Maybe she will.
1:18:12
Adam
She may try it out.
1:18:14
Drew
It's terribly painful for many women. I mean, seriously painful.
1:18:18
Adam
I am saying this, Drew. A lot of women sort of start slowly sexually and start building into stuff. I hope that she's cornholing some guy a few years from now other than Rex, just to rub a little duke in his wound.
1:18:32
Drew
That's all. Don't people drive you crazy who speak with such affectation?
1:18:37
Adam
Yes, it drives me insane.
1:18:38
Drew
She's having some life patience at the set moment.
1:18:41
Adam
He's drunk. He's driving home to Canada. Let's just hope he stays there. And this is, I just hope she dumps Rex. But Rex, Godspeed. Good luck to you and all that.
1:18:52
Caller
Matt.
1:18:54
Caller
Hello.
1:18:55
Adam
Matt, you're 18. What's up?
1:18:57
Caller
Well, I hate to tell you this, but I lied about my question.
1:19:00
Drew
All right? Oh, and it didn't come off.
1:19:02
Adam
Oh, okay. Well, the bad news is he was on hold for 54 minutes.
1:19:07
Drew
And I want to hear what he has to say.
1:19:09
Adam
He got to speak three syllables.
1:19:10
Drew
Come on in. Let's hear him. Matt.
1:19:13
Caller
Yeah, I'm here.
1:19:14
Drew
All right. Well, quick, before Anderson cuts you off again.
1:19:16
I just want to say hi to Adam.
1:19:18
Caller
Funniest man in the world.
1:19:19
Caller
I don't mind saying on hold for now. That's all right.
1:19:21
Caller
As long as I get to talk to you, Adam.
1:19:23
Adam
Thanks, buddy. All right. And I'm going to dedicate the rest of this evening's show to you, Matt.
1:19:30
Caller
Oh, thank you.
1:19:31
Adam
A good buddy listening in Chicago.
1:19:32
Caller
Too kind of you. Too kind.
1:19:34
Taryn Manning
I wonder what story he made up, though.
1:19:36
Caller
I said my penis was bent to the side because I masturbated too much.
1:19:41
Adam
Thanks, Matt.
1:19:42
Caller
No problem.
1:19:42
Adam
Appreciate the call and you hanging on and all that good stuff.
1:19:46
Caller
Oh, yeah.
1:19:46
Adam
All right. Take care of yourself.
1:19:47
Caller
Good times.
1:19:48
Adam
Good times, buddy. That's a good guy, that man.
1:19:51
Taryn Manning
Yeah, that's a good one.
1:19:52
Adam
It's good people, that man is. Estevan?
1:19:56
Caller
What's up?
1:19:57
Adam
Estevan? How do you say that?
1:19:59
Caller
Uh, yeah.
1:20:00
Adam
How do you pronounce your name?
1:20:02
Caller
Huh?
1:20:02
Adam
How do you pronounce your name?
1:20:04
Caller
Just Stephen.
1:20:06
Adam
Stephen will work?
1:20:07
Caller
Yeah.
1:20:08
Adam
Okay.
1:20:09
Caller
Stephen will work.
1:20:10
Adam
All right. Stephen, you're 17. What's up?
1:20:12
Caller
Yeah.
1:20:13
Caller
See, how do I say this?
1:20:14
Caller
My boss, he's like obsessed with sex. I have no idea. I know he's been claiming sober for six years.
1:20:22
Drew
Cleaning sober?
1:20:24
Caller
He's sober.
1:20:25
Caller
You know, he was kind of a little drug addict.
1:20:28
Drew
What was his drug?
1:20:30
Caller
You know, alcohol, pot, cocaine, I guess.
1:20:32
Drew
Okay.
1:20:33
Caller
And, you know, I guess he's quit that addiction. But, you know, I just don't know. He has another addiction, just like sex. I know he hasn't gotten laid in a long time.
1:20:45
Drew
A significant majority of addicts are also sex addicts.
1:20:48
Caller
Yeah, because I don't know what to tell him anymore, you know.
1:20:52
Drew
Why are you even involved with him that way?
1:20:54
Caller
He's my boss.
1:20:55
Drew
Yeah. Well, bosses aren't supposed to talk to their inferior, their employees about their sexual frustration.
1:21:01
Adam
I do.
1:21:03
Drew
Where do you work? What kind of place?
1:21:05
Caller
I work at a factory.
1:21:08
Drew
Huh?
1:21:09
Adam
No, where do you work?
1:21:10
Caller
I work at a skate shop.
1:21:11
Drew
And how old is he?
1:21:12
Caller
He is like 34.
1:21:13
Adam
Is he gay?
1:21:14
Caller
No, he's not gay at all.
1:21:16
Drew
Oh, because he was going after him or something?
1:21:18
Adam
Yeah, so what do you care?
1:21:18
Taryn Manning
Do you guys talk about it together? Or is he just constantly?
1:21:21
Caller
You know, he'll just talk about it.
1:21:23
Adam
He's a horny guy.
1:21:24
Caller
Like, yeah, no, but...
1:21:26
Adam
Is he married? Is he married?
1:21:28
Caller
No, he lives with his mom.
1:21:29
Caller
Oh, yeah.
1:21:30
Adam
Do you, are you gay?
1:21:32
Caller
No, I'm not.
1:21:33
Caller
All right.
1:21:34
Adam
Forget it. Who cares? This guy's not threatening him. He's just going, I'm horny.
1:21:41
Caller
Who cares?
1:21:43
Adam
Right, who cares?
1:21:44
Taryn Manning
All right, move on.
1:21:46
Adam
If the guy's bothering you, just tell him.
1:21:47
Taryn Manning
Yeah, just say it.
1:21:48
Drew
I think it's inappropriate. Is his boss at work?
1:21:50
Adam
Yeah, it's not coming on to him. Just, you know, just knock it off. That's all. All right, should we take a little break?
1:21:56
Drew
Sure.
1:21:56
Adam
Now, really, I want to salvage this section of the show by talking to Jessica. Jessica?
1:22:02
Caller
Hi.
1:22:02
Adam
You're 16.
1:22:03
Caller
Yeah.
1:22:04
Adam
You knew this guy. You saw him at NA. You want to know if you should date him?
1:22:09
Caller
Yeah.
1:22:13
Adam
You met him at NA. Is that what you're saying?
1:22:15
Caller
Well, I knew him before from school.
1:22:17
Adam
I see.
1:22:18
Caller
But I got to know him in NA.
1:22:20
Adam
All right. So you're both in Narconics Anonymous.
1:22:23
Caller
Yeah.
1:22:23
Adam
What was your drug of choice?
1:22:25
Caller
Well, I didn't choose to go there. My mom's forcing me to.
1:22:30
Adam
What was the drug you were taking? Okay. What was his drug?
1:22:36
Caller
Alcohol. It's like this teen ananus. Okay.
1:22:40
Adam
All right. And he's your age?
1:22:41
Caller
Yeah. All right.
1:22:42
Adam
Hold on a second. We'll tell you what to do.
1:22:44
Caller
Okay.
1:22:44
Adam
All right. We'll take ourselves a little break. Taryn Manning is here from Crazy Beautiful out this Friday. And we'll be back with Jessica after this.
1:22:56
Caller
Adam and Dr. Drew will be right back on Loveline.
1:23:30
Adam
Hey, everybody, it's Loveline. I'm Adam Carolla. That is Dr. Drew over there. Taryn Manning is our guest tonight. Crazy Beautiful is the name of her latest joint. Kirsten Dunst is also in that, and that is coming out this Friday. Gotta give a quick shout out, Drew, as I- Dan, your boyfriend. Don't ruin it.
1:23:51
Drew
Oh, sorry.
1:23:52
Adam
It's his birthday in about 15 minutes, so I gotta give a shout out to Dan, the man, Kellison, who's celebrating his big 37th.
1:23:59
Taryn Manning
Happy birthday.
1:24:02
Adam
And Sal, my pal, Icono, who's in the car with him. So that's my new thing now. I do the radio show.
1:24:10
Drew
Shout out to your friend.
1:24:11
Adam
My buddy Daniel gets drunk, and then he calls me and wants shout out while he's driving home from the restaurant.
1:24:20
Drew
Daniel, we got to talk.
1:24:21
Adam
All right, you're going to talk to Drew. Jessica? Yes. Daniel, if you're listening in the car, Drew is very interested and fascinated in your lifestyle. He would like to have a discussion with you. And but more importantly, Drew, I don't want you to talk to Daniel. I would like Daniel to straighten you out. Oh, you understand that?
1:24:40
Drew
No.
1:24:41
Adam
You could get more from him than he could get from you.
1:24:44
Drew
How do you figure?
1:24:45
Adam
Look at you, you pee-whipped son of a bitch.
1:24:48
Drew
Oh, that part.
1:24:49
Adam
Oh, yes. Yes.
1:24:50
Drew
If I start hanging out. Okay.
1:24:52
Adam
They're hanging out. That's right.
1:24:54
Taryn Manning
I'm hanging.
1:24:55
Adam
Jessica?
1:24:55
Taryn Manning
Yeah.
1:24:56
Adam
You're 16 now. What's going on?
1:24:59
Caller
Okay. I like this guy, but I knew him from school, but I recently got to know him in NA.
1:25:05
Adam
Okay. How long have you been sober?
1:25:10
Drew
Not at all.
1:25:11
Caller
Since BFD.
1:25:12
Taryn Manning
Your mom's making her.
1:25:14
Drew
When was BFD?
1:25:15
Caller
Like a week?
1:25:17
Drew
Well, look, you're not, you don't go to those meetings to meet people, and it tends to screw up your ability to participate in any meaningful way in recovery.
1:25:24
Caller
Well, I don't want to recover.
1:25:26
Drew
Yeah, I know you don't, but clearly there's a need and people are concerned about you. So for us to say, hey, go enjoy yourself, pick up another, you know, find a relationship there and enjoy, that completely derails any possibility of anything coming out of this.
1:25:39
Adam
That'd be great too for mom. It's like, well, the bad news is the recovery didn't take. The good news is she got herpes from another guy in the group.
1:25:47
Drew
A herring addict.
1:25:49
Caller
He knows him.
1:25:50
Adam
Okay. Why are you so hell-bent on defying your poor mother?
1:25:55
Caller
Well, I'm not, but like she goes to meetings with me.
1:25:59
Adam
Your mom does?
1:26:00
She has to be there too.
1:26:02
Adam
Why? Did the court force this on you?
1:26:06
Caller
No, CPS.
1:26:08
Drew
Child Protective Services?
1:26:09
Caller
Yeah.
1:26:10
Drew
Why?
1:26:11
Caller
Well, we got in a fight one day and there was a bruise. And so I ran away to my friend's house and she called the cops and all these people got involved and she's a little bit of an alcoholic.
1:26:26
Adam
Right.
1:26:26
Caller
There you go.
1:26:27
Adam
You resent her and you're out of control and you're acting out.
1:26:31
Caller
I don't have a dad.
1:26:33
Adam
Shocking, shocking. Meanwhile, this is where every one of my tax dollars is going to because you and your freaked out mom can't figure out how to get along. I got to pay for the cops and the child protective services and the meetings. Please, can you just straighten up a little, Jessica?
1:26:47
Caller
Yeah, but he's really cute.
1:26:48
Adam
All right, so date him. I don't care. But just you work on yourself. Stay off the weed and start listening to your mom and stop calling the cops. Everyone, stop calling the cops.
1:26:59
Taryn Manning
Who called the cops? Her mom?
1:27:00
Adam
Yeah, her mom. Unless someone's got a knife or a bullet in them, just don't call the cops anymore. Just stop it, everybody. What do they do? Is there something between the cops and the meter maids that can handle the chicken ass? I'd like to call them the chicken ass squad. They carry mace instead of a gun. They handle the domestic disputes. When the neighbors call, there's a party going on and the music's too loud. They handle all the chicken ass stuff. Yeah. They also, you know, when you see all the cops staked out with the radar gun and the jaywalking tickets and all the traffic violations, what I like to call chicken ass stuff, the chicken ass patrol will handle that.
1:27:43
Drew
The CS squad.
1:27:44
Adam
The CS squad, a notch above parking enforcement and a couple notches below peace officer.
1:27:51
Drew
I said the East Police will come.
1:27:52
Adam
And they work in conjunction with the East Police. That's right. The YPers and the CSers, right, all right. Should we keep going here?
1:28:04
Drew
Yeah, I think we should. Please.
1:28:06
Adam
Why not? Jennifer?
1:28:07
Yeah, hi.
1:28:08
Adam
Hey, you're 18, Perky. What's up?
1:28:10
Caller
Okay. My problem is, the situation is about a week ago, I messed around with my boss's son. And he's had a girlfriend for about, I don't know, a year or something. And he's messed around, like he's screwed around with other girls while he was dating her before. And like now the situation is really awkward because he comes into work all the time and I don't, and he like avoids me.
1:28:34
Drew
How old is he?
1:28:35
Caller
He's 19.
1:28:36
Drew
What kind of work is this?
1:28:37
Caller
I don't want to say.
1:28:38
Drew
What kind of work?
1:28:40
Caller
It's, I work at a nursery.
1:28:42
Drew
Nursery?
1:28:43
Caller
Yeah, like a plant nursery.
1:28:45
Adam
Right.
1:28:46
Caller
What kind of plant?
1:28:48
Adam
And his dad owns the nursery.
1:28:50
Caller
Um, yeah, something like that.
1:28:53
Drew
Okay. You're fat.
1:28:54
Caller
Thanks.
1:28:56
Drew
So I understand, so you messed around and he doesn't want to go further with the relationship. It's always awkward when people sort of have to see each other.
1:29:03
Caller
Well, but it's like we've never discussed it. Like it's not like...
1:29:06
Adam
What did you do with him?
1:29:07
Caller
Um, I don't know. We took a shower and made out and I was about to go further, but I had to leave.
1:29:15
Adam
Oh, I see. How did you swing the shower?
1:29:18
Caller
It was... He brought it up. He came up... He brought me... We were drinking at work. We were co-workers and he had to bring me home because I was intoxicated. And we hung out for a while and he brought up the shower idea.
1:29:30
Adam
That's great. And by the way, a mental note, kick dad in the nuts for not owning a business again because this... When your dad owns a place, this is what you get to do. You get loaded at work and you finger the employees in a shower. It's what you get to do as the boss's son.
1:29:44
Taryn Manning
Shower on the first day too.
1:29:46
Adam
All right. And you like him, right?
1:29:49
Caller
Well, that's the thing. I haven't been really... I haven't had sex in seven months with a guy. I'm not really attracted to guys. And I'm really attracted to him and I would like to have sex with him, but he's not... Like we've seen each other like three or four times since last week and he just completely avoids me.
1:30:08
Drew
He's got a girlfriend.
1:30:09
Adam
He's got a girlfriend. He's freaked out.
1:30:10
Caller
But it's like...
1:30:12
Drew
Hey, Jennifer, he's freaked out. He doesn't want to...
1:30:14
Adam
He's got a girlfriend.
1:30:15
Drew
Yeah, he can't talk about this.
1:30:16
Caller
All right. I don't... But, okay.
1:30:18
Adam
You just want sex.
1:30:19
Caller
I can't explain the situation.
1:30:20
Taryn Manning
Yeah, but she's feeling something from him.
1:30:22
Drew
You can tell.
1:30:23
Caller
Yeah, it's like...
1:30:24
Drew
Be that as a mate.
1:30:25
Caller
He doesn't approach me and like...
1:30:27
Taryn Manning
He probably likes you and he's freaking out.
1:30:29
Drew
He comes up and touches you now?
1:30:30
Caller
Well, no, it's like... I can't even explain it. Like, you know, just like how you... When you're...
1:30:36
Adam
I don't care. Do you care?
1:30:39
Drew
I'm curious, yeah.
1:30:40
Adam
She's not... Thank you.
1:30:41
Drew
Who cares?
1:30:42
Adam
She's not going to say anything any good, is she? You know, how when you're there and somebody does something that's kind of like this and they don't really do it, but you still sort of know what they're talking about. You know, didn't that work? We're going to get... He's got a girlfriend.
1:30:56
Drew
He's freaked out.
1:30:57
Taryn Manning
But obviously, how much does he like his girlfriend if he does this all the time?
1:31:01
Drew
Oh, he's 19.
1:31:01
Adam
Not that much. But if he dug Jennifer and he had her naked in a shower and his daddy was the boss and she was an employee and he was hanging around, he'd be working something out. This guy's a guy smooth enough to get her drunk and get her in a shower on the first... Not even the first date.
1:31:20
Taryn Manning
That's pretty sweet.
1:31:20
Adam
Believe me, he can work it out.
1:31:22
Taryn Manning
That's right.
1:31:22
Adam
He knows how to manipulate women and when he's interested in someone, he doesn't play coy. She'd be right back in that shower if he wanted her back in the shower and he knows she's willing. He's just not that interested. Look, everybody, you can have a girlfriend and still be a little fascinated with other people. He's probably fascinated with her, but he's bisexual chick that works at the nursery.
1:31:45
Caller
Right.
1:31:46
Adam
That's right. She's the crazy bi with the bulbs. Stephanie?
1:31:53
Caller
Yes.
1:31:53
Adam
You're 23.
1:31:54
Caller
Yeah.
1:31:55
Adam
What's up?
1:31:56
Caller
I'm completely overly addicted to sex.
1:32:00
Caller
I want it all the time.
1:32:01
Caller
I constantly think about it. I even go home from work to have a little fun with myself.
1:32:07
Adam
You got to go home to Master Bay?
1:32:09
Caller
Well, yeah.
1:32:10
Adam
I beat off at war.
1:32:11
Caller
Well, and the work's really crowded. The parking lot's like three inches long.
1:32:16
Drew
It's what she's saying if she could.
1:32:17
Caller
Overcrowded.
1:32:17
Adam
I see.
1:32:18
Drew
She had her own dressing room or something like you do.
1:32:20
Taryn Manning
Are you in love with somebody right now?
1:32:23
Caller
I have a boyfriend. But he's never around.
1:32:25
Caller
He works too damn much.
1:32:27
Drew
So you're having sex with someone else?
1:32:29
Caller
I have and I want to all the time. And I'm having a hard time just staying faithful to him. I haven't since I've been together with him this last time because we broke up before, I haven't done anything with anybody. I'm just having a really hard time about it.
1:32:42
Drew
Are you or have you been addicted to anything else?
1:32:46
Caller
Nothing to think of. Eating. That's about it.
1:32:51
Adam
And you've never been molested or raped or anything?
1:32:54
Caller
No.
1:32:55
Caller
I think about sex. I mean about constantly every single day everything reminds me of sex.
1:33:03
Adam
Pre-occupation. Alright, so diddle yourself, just don't cheat.
1:33:08
Caller
I was wondering if there was some sort of drug or anything that would make my urges.
1:33:13
Drew
There are, and you might go and yeah, Taryn's saying no, don't, don't, God no.
1:33:17
Taryn Manning
Don't do that yourself.
1:33:18
Drew
There's a website, National Council on Sexual Addiction and Compulsivity, the ncsac.org. You can get some information there.
1:33:24
Adam
Alright, we'll be back.
1:34:01
Drew
Well, mercifully, another episode of Loveline comes to a close. Taryn Manning was our guest. The movie is called Crazy Beautiful.
1:34:07
Taryn Manning
Make sure you go and see it. It's good.
1:34:09
Drew
Opens Friday. She is opposite Kristen Dunst, and looking forward to it.
1:34:13
Taryn Manning
Thank you.
1:34:13
Drew
Crazy Beautiful.
1:34:14
Taryn Manning
It's crazy.
1:34:15
Drew
Thanks very much. It's been a pleasure having you here. And in spite of my partner's behavior, I want to apologize. But say on his behalf, this is Dr. Drew for Adam Corolla saying mahalo.
1:34:26
Caller
Who cares? This has been Loveline. The opinions expressed on this show are not necessarily those of the staff, management, sponsors, or this station. The producer for Loveline is Ann Wilkins Dingle. This is a presentation of Westwood One Entertainment.