Episode 1000754886621

1:00 Content, content.

1:02 Voiceover Listener discretion is advised. Adam Corolla and Dr. Drew Loveline, Coast to Coast.

1:13 Voiceover Coast to Coast?

1:15 Adam Yeah. I thought it was on in LA. Only.

1:19 Stryker You knew better.

1:20 Adam I knew better.

1:20 Stryker Yeah.

1:20 Adam All right, my name is Stryker. I am in for Adam Corolla here on Loveline. Who? Yeah, who exactly? Adam calls himself a C celebrity. I'm like a Z. I'm a Z celebrity. Loveline, a couple of appearances on TV.

1:33 Stryker Be fair, he's C slash D for him.

1:35 Adam For him.

1:35 Stryker Yeah.

1:36 Adam I'm a Z, soon to be a D minus starting Monday.

1:39 Stryker Nice.

1:39 Adam Next Monday, as you know.

1:40 Stryker MTV 5 o'clock.

1:41 Adam That's all right. Yeah, MTV 5 p.m. Dr. Drew is a board certified physician and addiction medicine specialist. Carmen Electra is right to my right.

1:49 Hello.

1:49 Drew Hello.

1:49 How are you?

1:50 Drew I'm good.

1:50 Adam How are you? I'm fantastic. Congratulations on getting engaged.

1:54 Drew Thank you.

1:54 Adam To Dave Navarro.

1:55 Drew Yes.

1:55 Adam An amazing musician.

1:57 Drew Absolutely.

1:57 Adam I am a straight male. That guy has the best goddamn body. Seriously?

2:02 Stryker You're gay.

2:02 Drew No, I'm not. He would be so happy to hear that.

2:04 Adam Don't. I mean, is that-

2:05 Drew He does.

2:05 Adam He really does.

2:06 Stryker He works at it too, yeah.

2:07 Drew He works really hard.

2:08 Adam Were you a fan of like Porno for Pyro's Jane's Addiction back in the day? And did you always have a little thing for him? Or did you kind of just run into him randomly in LA?

2:15 Drew I mean, I've known of him and I always thought he was extremely handsome. But I had heard through some friends that he was just a really good person and really sweet and we were sort of set up on a blind date.

2:28 Adam It's not really a blind date if you already know what the person looks like though.

2:31 Drew But we hadn't met. We hadn't met. So it was interesting. I mean, I was really nervous. But he was. He was kind of shy and really sweet. And we've been together ever since.

2:41 Adam Now was the first date, this blind date, is this when you went fly fishing?

2:45 Drew Yes.

2:45 Adam He took you fly fishing to Colorado Springs on a first date?

2:48 Drew Yes.

2:49 Adam My first date with girls normally, it's like, you want to go like Johnny Rockets or something? I had like $12 on me and then but luckily sometimes I'll be funny on the date and I'll get a kiss and stuff. So did you kiss him on the first date?

2:59 Drew No.

2:59 Adam Oh, no.

3:00 Drew No.

3:00 Adam He goes to Colorado and no kiss.

3:02 Oh, my God.

3:03 Adam All right. So you're going to hang out for a couple of hours with us on Loveline and you are the new spokesperson, spokeswoman for the UFC.

3:10 Drew That's right.

3:11 Adam The Ultimate Fighting Championship.

3:13 Drew That's right.

3:13 Adam And it's going down at the Mandalay Bay.

3:16 Stryker Why is it UFC 33?

3:19 Drew I have no idea.

3:20 Adam Because it's the 33rd time that they've had the championship. I am just assuming.

3:24 Drew You should be the spokesperson for the UFC.

3:26 Stryker I'm not as pretty. He's better at BSing, but no. Let's see. It's Friday at the Mandalay. Is that going to be televised?

3:33 Drew Yes, it is on pay-per-view, Direct TV and In Demand.

3:37 Adam Now, I know Adam Corolla is really in a boxing and the roughen up, so he would dig this, but I have seen this stuff and I'm not a pro boxer, but these guys can kick the living daylights out of anybody on the block.

3:48 Drew Oh, yeah.

3:48 Adam It is. This is the real deal when these guys fight.

3:50 Drew This is so intense. I mean, it was so controversial that they actually banned the fight in different states. Right. So it sort of disappeared for a few years, and now they're bringing it back and just sort of revamping the fight. They've added some new rules, like no eye gouging. So it's, I mean, it's still pretty hardcore.

4:07 Adam No point of the testicles.

4:08 Drew Yes, yes.

4:09 Adam I think you can do that. I believe you can. Don't bite his penis anymore, Shamrock.

4:13 Drew Yes.

4:14 Adam I saw that guy Shamrock fight. I don't know if he's still around fighting, but that guy was just a monster, absolute machine. But actually, it is September 28th at the Mandalay Bay in Vegas. If you want to watch it on TV, it's going to be on in-demand, Direct TV and Dish Network pay-per-view 10 p.m. on that date and we'll talk more about that. And I think later on the night, we're going to speak to a fighter via the telephone.

4:35 Drew Yeah, Tito.

4:36 Stryker Tito?

4:36 Drew Yeah, Tito Ortiz.

4:38 Adam I bet that guy got teased so much because of Tito Jackson. And then he learned how to kick everyone's ass.

4:42 Stryker Listen, I'm just reading about Tito Ortiz. Yeah? Where he immediately tied up in the biggest fight of the evening. Ortiz got Tanner, this is February of last year, this year, wrapped him up, elevated him, slammed him on the floor. The impact was enough to knock Tanner out, but Ortiz made sure his opponent was finished, landed two punches in the head. Oh, my God.

4:59 Adam These guys are psycho. I wouldn't want to mess with them, Carmen.

5:03 Drew No. Yeah, I don't blame you. I mean, it's pretty intense, but these guys are real athletes. I mean, they study everything.

5:09 Adam Oh, yeah. Yeah. I have a friend that's been martial arts and studying this. These guys are unbelievable. All right. The phone number here, Loveline, by the way, you guys, in case you don't know it, 1-800-LOVE-191. Carmen Electra is here. I am Stryker for Adam. I'm sorry if I suck too bad. And the very, very wise all over the country, Dr. Drew.

5:25 Stryker Anne.

5:27 Hi.

5:27 Adam Welcome to the radio program. You're 30 on Loveline.

5:30 Thank you. My question is for Dr. Drew. Basically, after the birth of my second child, nearly two years ago, I have had no sex drive. I mean, and I was just wondering if it was possibly from the birth control, because it seems like ever since I went back on birth control, I have just been completely messed up. I'm nauseous. I've been taking my birth control at night so that I don't suffer from being nauseous. And like I said, I just have no sex drive. My poor husband.

6:01 Stryker All right. There often is a drop in sex drive after a pregnancy, and it usually lasts about a year, but it can go on beyond that. And it usually is not the first pregnancy, but somewhere second or third. Now, the way that's often treated is by putting someone on the birth control pill. So now.

6:21 I've checked with my doctor, and I asked her about creams and-

6:24 Stryker Hold on, hold on. There's absolutely no doubt, though, that each pill affects each woman differently, and they definitely can affect your sex drive in both directions. It can either make it better or it can make it worse. So maybe you need to consider trying a different pill.

6:37 Oh, my God. I've tried orthotrecycline, low overall. I mean, everything that my body accepted before my second baby, I could handle no problem. Now it's like everything, it just makes me ill.

6:52 Stryker Well, it's sad. You see, how'd the low overall work for you?

6:56 Adam I haven't tried that one yet. No, she tried that one.

6:59 I believe I have. Yes, I did. I have tried that one. The orthotrecycline, I could not take. I was just completely ill all the time.

7:07 Stryker What happened with the low overall?

7:09 Nauseous.

7:10 Stryker Really?

7:11 I had a period constantly. The same thing with the orthotrecycline.

7:16 Adam Have you tried NyQuil yet, Ann?

7:18 Which one?

7:19 Adam NyQuil.

7:20 Stryker Carmen, you ever had the stuff? You ever done the pill?

7:23 Drew I'm not on the pill now, but I was years ago, and I didn't really have that problem.

7:29 Stryker You didn't have any problem?

7:30 Drew No, sex drive was on point.

7:32 Adam Yeah.

7:34 I'm really concerned because I'm under-

7:35 Stryker Especially after pregnancy is a real problem for them to change. But there's a new pill called Yasmin, kind of an offensive name, but Yasmin.

7:43 Adam Who just got busted by the way.

7:44 Stryker Yeah, I heard.

7:45 Adam Did you hear about her?

7:46 Drew She's a good friend of mine.

7:47 Adam She is?

7:48 Drew Yeah.

7:48 Adam And yes, her boobs are real, Adam Sandler said in the song.

7:51 Drew They are.

7:52 Adam We'll get to those later.

7:53 Stryker Good times.

7:54 Drew I mean, I don't know anything about that.

7:55 Adam No, you don't.

7:55 Stryker Sure, you do.

7:56 Adam You're on Baywatch together, where you are.

7:58 Drew Yeah, yeah.

7:58 Adam I see you all the time in the reruns. That's a fun show to watch.

8:01 Drew How do we jump from like poor woman that has no sex drive to Baywatch?

8:06 Adam Drew, finish this up about the sex drive.

8:07 Stryker So the point being that you need to sit down and talk to your doctor. Whether or not it is the pill, the pill could be helpful. And one of the things you can do is try off the pill for a few weeks if that feels better, if not, try some other things. But there's this new progesterone preparation yasmin, some women are finding very useful and they don't want to try that.

8:25 I've spoken to my husband about getting a vasectomy and he's just scared to death. I mean will that make him any less?

8:31 Stryker No, he won't do anything to him. But don't necessarily count on the fact that coming off the pill will be the answer here. Because it's really common for there be a lot of changes after that second or third pregnancy and I think that's what you're more dealing with.

8:44 I kept thinking by the time I'm 30 I'm going to have this outrageous sex drive that I never had before and I'm just worse than I've ever been and I just hate being that way.

8:52 Stryker You get it back.

8:54 I could join the convent. I'm so uninterested.

8:56 Stryker Are you not on any other medication, Ann?

8:58 I'm not on any medication other than birth control.

9:01 Adam Alright, good luck, Ann.

9:03 Well thank you. I appreciate the advice.

9:04 Stryker Bye bye.

9:05 Adam Is it solely a medical issue that she's going to get better or what about talking to someone?

9:12 Stryker You know, what she describes is, you know, the way she describes it, the time course of it is so often a biological thing and women are very sensitive to their hormonal milieu.

9:21 Adam Right.

9:21 Stryker Really. Some women, the progesterones just shut them down. Some women, the estrogen. It's very different and it is profound how much it affects them.

9:29 Adam Thank God I'm not going to have kids out of my tummy. Carmen Electra is here. What about you and Dave after you get married? Are you thinking of maybe, you know, giddies? Of course. Yeah. Wow.

9:39 Drew I love kids.

9:40 Adam Really?

9:40 Drew Yeah.

9:41 Adam Do you ever babysit them these days?

9:43 Drew Sometimes I do.

9:43 Adam Who do you babysit?

9:45 Drew My manager has a baby.

9:46 Adam Oh, okay.

9:46 Drew Yeah.

9:47 Adam All right. Very good.

9:48 Stryker Do you have a sister with kids or something?

9:50 Drew My sister passed away as well. But yes, my sister has three kids. But they live in Ohio. They're far away.

9:58 Stryker Where in Ohio?

9:58 Drew All my family is in Ohio.

9:59 Adam Drew was just in Ohio.

10:00 Stryker I was just in Columbus.

10:02 Drew It's hard just being in Los Angeles without family. Just being here alone. But now I have Dave.

10:10 Adam If you have a shoulder when Dave's on the road, I'm here for you.

10:13 Drew Why, thank you.

10:13 Adam I am here just like in that Seinfeld when Jerry and Elaine, hey, Grant, once again.

10:18 Stryker She was relieved that Adam wasn't here.

10:20 Adam You're a 16. I'm going to pipe down. What's your question, man?

10:24 Last year, me and my homecoming date, we went to a serious place. We didn't have too much fun. So this year, she suggested that we go to Chuck E. Cheese.

10:31 Adam Yes.

10:32 How does that sound?

10:33 Adam That sounds amazing. If it's not your first date, that's cool.

10:37 All right.

10:37 Stryker It's like a Stryker date.

10:39 Adam No, no, Drew, hold on. Let me explain. If that's a first date, I would never take someone to Chuck E.

10:42 Stryker Cheese.

10:43 Adam But if it's like the third date and you're getting comfortable, definitely go there. You have the best time.

10:47 Stryker Their homecoming, though. Homecoming or?

10:48 Drew Chuck E. Cheese.

10:49 Adam Me, too.

10:49 Drew Pizza, video games.

10:50 Adam The one in the valley with the singing mice.

10:53 Yeah, because the way we saw it was like pizza, video games, and then homecoming, and then a party.

10:57 I mean, it was like a perfect night.

10:58 Adam Party in the pants, Grant.

11:00 Stryker All right. Good times.

11:01 All right. Bye, guys.

11:02 Adam All right.

11:02 Stryker Have fun.

11:03 Adam All right. I knew I was filling in for Adam for some reason. Jason. What's up, man? You're 22 on Loveline with Carmen Electra.

11:09 Caller Right on. I developed a wart-related object and it's painful on my penis. And I wanted to know what besides herpes or genital warts it could be.

11:17 Stryker Wart-related object. Yeah.

11:19 Adam Is it under the skin or above it?

11:22 Caller Above it.

11:24 Adam Is that a good question, Drew, right there?

11:25 Stryker Well, warts look stuck on, you know what I mean? Like somebody like pasted a little cauliflower on it.

11:29 Caller Like a nipple-looking thing.

11:31 Stryker No. Nipples look like zits, right?

11:34 Caller Relatively, yeah.

11:34 Stryker Have you tried to pop it? Is this a zit?

11:36 Caller I did actually pop it and it just was puffy.

11:38 Stryker Yeah, it's a zit. It's a carbuncle.

11:40 Caller Really? Yeah. Well, that makes me feel a lot better.

11:43 Stryker Well, they can get out of... Be careful. You can get cellulitis and they can be a real mess.

11:47 Adam Have you had sex without protection? Is that why this thing happened?

11:49 Caller Yeah, but I've been with my girl from Monogamously and she has two for a year. I'm thinking it's not anything STD-related.

11:56 Stryker That's it.

11:57 Caller Alright, good.

11:58 Stryker Good times.

11:59 Adam Little Oxy 10.

12:00 Stryker One more thing.

12:01 Caller God bless America.

12:02 Adam God bless America.

12:04 Caller Alright, thanks a lot.

12:04 Adam Okay, see you later. Alright, let's...

12:07 Stryker Do you want me to pick the calls like I've been doing? Or do you want to just do it yourself?

12:09 Adam I like how you do it.

12:10 Stryker It's easy.

12:11 Adam Because Adam was here, I picked myself, and for some reason you changed last night. I don't care.

12:16 Stryker I automatically, because Adam does not read. He can't read. And so, if I don't point like a chimpanzee...

12:22 Adam He can't read, but he's got 18 TV shows and some telephone commercial. I live in an apartment in West LA., which is pretty cool. Drew, when we get back from the next break, we're not taking a break now, I've got to tell you about a dream I had last night about you, which is very fun. I had a dream that I was sitting, because remember during a break last night, we were talking about Hollywood Squares?

12:41 Stryker Yes.

12:41 Adam And I said, my goal is to get into Hollywood Squares, but with you in the box with me, even though you hate being in a square with someone, correct?

12:49 Stryker No, but I'll go ahead.

12:50 Adam So anyway, I had a dream that we were just in a square together on Hollywood Squares and someone said, I want to take Stryker and Dr. Drew for the block. And then that host said, Circle Gets the Square. It was the weirdest dream ever. It was like the whole break last night. That's all we talked about for some reason. And I dreamt about it. And if that ever happens, I'm going to tell that fat guy with the beard, what's your purpose? I'm never going to get on that show.

13:13 Stryker You get up there. I guarantee they'd put us on the top thing.

13:16 And no one would have been right above them.

13:17 Stryker Have you done that, Carmen?

13:18 Drew I have, yeah.

13:19 Stryker The thing is rickety, like the slightest little earth tremor, the thing's going boom, it's going right over.

13:22 Right, you're going down.

13:24 Adam Oh, God. Hey, Lenny.

13:26 Yeah.

13:26 Adam What's up, man? You're 26 on Loveline with Carmen Electra.

13:29 Caller Hey, guys, how you doing?

13:30 Good. Good.

13:33 Caller Basically, this is about my girlfriend. I'm pretty sure that she was sexually molested when she was a child by her father.

13:43 Stryker And you base that on?

13:45 Caller Well, first, it was when we were, before we were having a real relationship, there was a letter she sent me where she kind of highlighted some of the problems that she's had in her past because with her family, she has a real screwed up family. And then she said, actually, there's some other problems and maybe I can tell you one day. And then that just, you know, stayed there for a while. I didn't want to push it. I didn't know, you know, I've pushed people like that to try to tell things they're not ready to tell before, and they kind of, they lash out against you. It can have a very negative reaction or a negative impact on a relationship. Anyway, when I was visiting her, she's Indonesian. When I was in Indonesia, visiting her and our relationship became a lot closer. We, through the course of some emotional moment that I don't want to go all the way into, she then had told me that, you know, I've got all these problems in my life, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. And actually, I've had problems ever since I was a little girl and it's about my father. And then I said, well, do you want to talk about that? And then she just said no. And then it was just, you know.

14:47 Stryker All right. What do you want from us?

14:49 Adam Exactly.

14:50 Caller Well, I wanted to know, how do you go about, when you have something like that, what exactly do you do?

14:58 Stryker Nothing. You can't do anything.

15:00 Adam Hey, wait, Lenny, does this girl live in Indonesia right now?

15:02 Yeah.

15:04 Adam That's a long distance relationship.

15:05 Stryker A long distance relationship.

15:06 Caller Well, no, it's soon to be a short distance relationship. I'm going back in about a week.

15:09 Stryker Relationships are not projects. You don't get the... It's not like trying to be a mechanic for a car. You're going to tinker and fix and make better. You can't do anything. You can't do anything. And her talking about it, not necessarily going to make a damn bit of difference.

15:25 Caller Well, her not talking about it certainly can't be good, can it?

15:27 Stryker It's not going to make much difference. The emotional circumstance is going to change no matter what you do. It's not going to change. Now, if she needs treatment, she needs treatment. That also is not your role. Your role is to be the lover or the whatever, boyfriend, whatever it is you happen to be, and be supportive and be available and stay attuned and hang on tight because she's going to put you through a terribly chaotic ride. And if you're up for that, that's fine.

15:50 Adam How long have you guys been going out?

15:53 Caller We've been friends for a couple of years. We've been boyfriend and girlfriend for about a year.

15:57 Adam Is it super important to you to get to the bottom of this so-called problem she may have had?

16:02 Caller Well, I know that you've got something like that. It just it affects your entire life.

16:07 Stryker Yeah, but talking to you about it's not going to change it.

16:09 Adam Right.

16:10 Caller But that can be she hasn't talked to anyone about it.

16:13 Stryker She needs to get some treatment.

16:15 Caller Right. And I was at least talking to someone at the beginning of then, okay, from here we can do something. But what I wanted to avoid was the whole push her to talk about it. And then she kind of lashes out at me against it or projects some of that negativity she may have towards her father, towards me.

16:30 Stryker That's already happening. That's all got to be there already.

16:33 Caller Right.

16:34 Stryker But if a condition of her, if you staying in that relationship is she gets involved in treatment, you should leverage that.

16:42 Caller Well, yeah, of course.

16:43 Stryker Yeah, okay, ask her to get some treatment then.

16:45 Caller Well, that's also the problem in Indonesia. They don't exactly have the best medical profession.

16:51 Adam Lenny, I think, not to say I'm pessimistic, but I think you're going down a road that's going nowhere with her. I mean, I feel horrible if she got molested and everything, but it seems like it's disturbing you too much. And she's in Indonesia. You say, are you moving there? Yeah. Well, I don't know. Go surfing in Indonesia. They got nice waves there.

17:10 Caller Yes, I know.

17:11 Stryker You're just in for a lot of chaos. Where did you get this idea that relationships are about fixing people? Did you have a parent as an addict or something?

17:21 Caller Oh, man, you are good.

17:23 Stryker Yeah.

17:23 Adam He's been doing the show since day one.

17:25 Stryker I mean, that's where that comes from. In terms of what really helps these kinds of situations, is not the patient doing anything, but the person who's concerned with the patient going to something like Al-Anon, getting a sponsor, working the steps, and that gives you the sort of support and the clarity about what you need to do to get her into treatment. And that actually has the highest impact on her getting involved in treatment successfully. Okay?

17:50 Caller I see.

17:51 Stryker So there you go. It's not about her, it's about the two of you.

17:54 Caller Can I raise one more question?

17:55 Stryker Yeah.

17:55 Caller Okay. Because I actually wanted to talk about my dad. He was on crack about two, three years ago. And he's been, as far as my knowledge, very clean. But there's been a long succession of clues that have come up recently that have led me to believe that he's relapsed.

18:17 Stryker If he's not going to meetings every day and he doesn't have a sponsor, you're guaranteed to relapse. Guaranteed.

18:21 Well then, the guarantee is there.

18:24 Stryker Mathematical. Yeah, mathematical.

18:26 Adam So your question is, what are you supposed to do to fix him now?

18:28 Stryker The same thing with him. You go to Al-Anon. That's it. You get a sponsor, you go to Al-Anon. Okay?

18:33 Caller Okay.

18:33 Stryker Good timing.

18:34 Adam Alright, Lenny.

18:35 Caller Thanks a lot.

18:35 Adam Alright, have fun in Indonesia.

18:36 Caller Alright, thanks.

18:37 Adam We got women out there. Alright, 1-800-LOVE-191 is friendly.

18:40 Stryker Can you imagine traveling to Indonesia in the current world climate?

18:42 Adam No, I would never do that.

18:43 Stryker What's going on in Indonesia, too?

18:45 Adam Yeah.

18:46 Stryker I don't get it.

18:47 Drew It's a big step for him, and he's already having problems.

18:51 Stryker Oh my God. I had trouble going to Ohio last week.

18:55 Adam I refused to travel. I was supposed to go out of the country next Friday, but I canceled.

18:58 Stryker Where are we going to go?

18:59 Adam I think the Bermuda Triangle. I don't think. I know.

19:02 Stryker For what?

19:03 Adam For something. I was supposed to go out there for something. I'm not going to go now. For something. Thank you, Nuss Redna. Carmen Electra is here. She is the new spokesperson, which is... That's crazy that you're the spokesperson. Isn't that a little crazy? Yeah, crazy, weird, odd and fun.

19:17 Drew Yeah, I thought it was too. When they approached me, I thought it was a little bit odd, but like I said, they're trying to revamp the show and bring some attention to it. So we did a photo shoot and I get to show up and go to all the fights. It's a lot of fun.

19:29 Adam That's nice. It's the ultimate fighting championship going on in Las Vegas, September 28th. If you want to buy tickets, no dice. If you know Carmen Electra, she may hook you up. She gets to sit ringside, I assume.

19:39 Drew That's right.

19:39 Adam Or you guys can watch it on TV through pay-per-view. Or like me, I used to have free purview until I got busted. That was the best thing ever.

19:46 Drew Did you get busted?

19:47 Adam Well, in a roundabout way, but I wasn't charged through the system or anything like that. But that thing was removed from my apartment.

19:54 Drew Oh, really?

19:55 Adam It was not good. But my friend-

19:57 Drew Got rid of mine just in time, I guess.

19:59 Stryker You did? Really? What is this you're talking about?

20:01 Adam It's this black box which you hook through your cable, and you get all the pay-per-view on the Spice Channel and the Playboy Channel and something else. Oh my God, I forgot to mention something to you, Carmen.

20:10 Drew What?

20:11 Adam Who is the best hairdresser slash make-up person in the world that's not gay?

20:16 Drew Jude Alcala? That's right, girl.

20:19 Hello, Jude.

20:20 Drew Hi, Jude. I love Jude.

20:22 Adam Yeah, he's listening right now. I was talking to him today, and I told him that you were going to be on, and he got all excited.

20:26 Drew I miss Jude so much.

20:28 Adam Call him at four in the morning. He's expecting your call.

20:29 Drew I will. He'll be up. I know Jude.

20:31 Adam He's up.

20:32 Drew He'll be partying somewhere.

20:33 Adam He's cutting my hair tomorrow.

20:34 Stryker Is he?

20:34 Adam Yeah, he is. All right, we got to take a break. Carmen Electra is here.

20:40 Stryker For some reason, I was just thinking about the last time the Insane Clown Posse was in here. It was the closest thing. Here, the pansy. You pansy?

20:48 Caller Oh, my God!

20:49 Somebody hold the phones! I can't believe that!

20:53 Stryker This is the exact kind of guys that do the Ultimate Fighting Championship.

20:56 Adam But aren't they sweet outside the ring for the most part? The guys that ultimate fight?

20:59 Drew I thought so.

21:01 Stryker Let's go out with the joke that we heard from the Insane Clown Posse.

21:04 Adam Okay, listen to this, and then we'll come back in just a second.

21:06 The only weight I lift is my own.

21:08 My big fat ass every day when I wake up.

21:12 That was pretty good.

21:13 My fat ass when I wake up. Oh, my God!

21:15 Caller Hey, play that again! Adam and Dr. Drew will be right back on Loveline.

21:52 You're listening to Loveline with Striker and Dr. Drew.

21:57 Excellent.

21:59 Adam I like the sound of that.

22:01 All right.

22:01 Adam This is Loveline. Carmen Electra is here, and that man, Dave Navarro, is the man you're going to be marrying at some point.

22:07 Drew Yes.

22:07 Adam And you're pretty excited about this, I take it. There was a sparkle in your eye when you heard his voice.

22:11 Caller I could see it.

22:13 Drew Yes. He's a good guy.

22:16 Adam Is he going to be going to the Vegas Ultimate Fighting Championship?

22:19 Drew Yes, he is.

22:19 Adam Going to sit right next to you? Absolutely. Very nice. Actually, we're going to speak to Tito, who is from Huntington Beach, and this man is part of the Ultimate Fighting Championship. Tito, you there?

22:29 Yes, I am. What's up?

22:30 Adam I'm doing good. How are you doing?

22:31 Super, man.

22:32 Adam Are you in Vegas right now? Yep.

22:33 In Mandalay Bay. Just kicking back to my room. Just got back from a little workout.

22:37 Adam Nice.

22:38 I'm ready.

22:38 Adam All right. You are 204 pounds, you're 6'2, and you just kicked the living daylights out of people, yeah?

22:45 Caller Yeah, to a certain extent, yes. I just go in there and try to compete in the best ability that I can at least.

22:49 Adam And how did you get involved in the whole Ultimate Fighting Championship deal?

22:53 Caller Actually a while back. I used to wrestle for Golden West Junior College there in Huntington Beach, California. And Tank Abbott, my person who used to do Ultimate Fighting, he needed a workout partner. And I started working out with him, and then they got weight classes in it, and I started putting a little more rules. So to me, it seemed a little more safer. So I thought of competing in it, and the first time I competed was in May of 97, and I stopped my opponent in 22 seconds.

23:15 Adam And what sort of technique do you use when you're in the ring with these guys?

23:19 Caller Well, when I first started competing, I was a wrestler at heart with a little bit of boxing background.

23:24 Stryker Since you got hit by a bus.

23:26 Caller Yes, that was on my honeymoon with me and my wife, Kristin.

23:28 Drew Oh my God.

23:30 Caller Yeah, it was last year in June.

23:32 Drew And I bet you didn't even have a scratch.

23:34 Stryker Was that part of your training? Was that some sort of training?

23:36 Drew The bus was probably like dented and crashed in, but Tito walked away fine.

23:40 Caller It was scary. I mean, it was very, very scary for me. I almost lost my wife. We're in Bermuda and there they drive on the opposite side of the road there. And I came to a stop sign and it was a two way stop on a three way intersection. And kind of used to driving here in the States, you look left or right to pull out to make a right. Right. And there you got to look right to left. And I went to go look left and I pulled out and looked right. And before I knew it, the bus was there and it hit us. Bus was going 30 miles an hour. Hit me, threw me like 30 feet. Caught my wife underneath the bus and drug her for about 8 feet. Fractured 4 vertebrae in her back. Completely crushed one of them. It was very, very lucky. She had no surgery. She's doing about 80 to 90 cent better now. Wow. Oh my God. But we're just lucky. I think I got a second chance on this planet in Ultimate Fighting. I guess they might call in live.

24:28 Adam Well, thanks for lighting us up around here. That was really, really fun right there. I'm sorry that that happened. So what's your strategy or what's your attitude before you get in the ring? You got to just psych yourself up. You hit yourself in the face. I mean, this is crazy.

24:41 Caller It's more of a mental deal for me. I mean, I kind of turn on a light switch. Yeah. I mean, once the cage is locked behind me. And it's just a different person, I believe. I mean, I think it was just a little better anger when I was going up as a kid and stuff. And I kind of turn that light switch on and everything I worked in the gym. I just put it all inside the ring.

25:00 Adam We're talking to Tito, who is going to be in the Ultimate Fighting Championship in Vegas. He's in the light heavyweight division. He was hit by a bus and he's still talking to us. And right now he's in Vegas. So maybe you can see a huge guy and that's going to be him. What is your number one technique for having someone tap out, I guess is the term, by choking them or poking them in the eye? How do you do it?

25:20 Caller Actually, I'm not eye gouging at all. There's no headbutting. There's a lot of rules. It's pretty much similar to kickboxing. But we just get these wrestling submissions and chokes. Some of the better ones that I do is I strike with my elbows and punches and I take people down.

25:35 Adam How much actual boxing technique is involved in this kind of fighting?

25:39 Caller I do about two to three hours of boxing a day. I train about eight hours a day.

25:45 Stryker I just brought up Tank Abbott a few minutes ago. You used to train with Tank?

25:51 Adam Your phone's ringing in your hotel.

25:52 Stryker Don't worry about this little radio show.

25:53 Adam It's your prostitute showing up. Just kidding, TO. Here, man.

25:57 Stryker Wicking your legs.

26:01 I've heard that before.

26:05 Caller I don't actually mess around at all, at least two to three weeks before.

26:08 Stryker Am I reading this right, that you used to train with Tank Abbott?

26:11 Caller Yes, this is correct. I trained with Tank Abbott a few minutes ago.

26:13 Stryker I just brought him up a few minutes ago.

26:14 Drew Well, as soon as I walked in, you were asking me if I knew.

26:16 Stryker Because he was on this show about three years ago, and he was one scary guy.

26:19 Caller He's a kind guy at heart, but just when he gets around people, he thinks he has to put a defense up and try to play the tough guy.

26:25 Adam He was the bus that probably hit you.

26:27 Caller No. The bus that hit me was about 50 times bigger, I guarantee you. It hit me a lot harder.

26:32 Adam Tito, does that guy Shamrock still fight? Hello? Hello?

26:37 Caller Yes.

26:38 Adam All right, Tito, hold on. We're putting you on hold. He's on the phone. Because you're too busy, for god's sake. That was Tito. We may not come back to him. He's probably, they pass those things out right by Cedars Palace.

26:46 Stryker See the deal is here.

26:47 Adam Woman in your room in 20 minutes or less.

26:49 Stryker What's your deal? We make this show sound casual, but it goes to 80 stations around the country.

26:55 Adam Unacceptable. Unacceptable? Serenity?

26:57 Yes.

26:58 Adam Hi, you're 14 on Loveline.

26:59 Caller What's going on?

27:00 Okay. I want to tell you about my stepbrother. He's about two months younger than me. Okay. We used to get spanked as younger children and stuff, but now he still gets it because he doesn't wipe himself.

27:19 Unacceptable.

27:21 Stryker How old is he?

27:22 Caller 12?

27:22 Adam 14. He's two months younger.

27:24 Stryker Two months younger.

27:24 Caller Yeah.

27:25 Yeah. And I just want to know, like, is like...

27:29 Adam How do you know he doesn't wipe his ass, Serenity? How do you know this?

27:32 Because in the basement, in the station, I told him, there's a red bucket, a little small bucket full of his underwear.

27:40 Stryker And one of your parents beat him because of that?

27:43 Oh, his stepdad used to, like, spank him. Not like beat, but spank.

27:46 Stryker That's right. That's beating.

27:48 Okay.

27:49 Stryker All right. You don't hit a 14-year-old. You don't hit the kid at all, as a matter of fact. But I mean, it's egregious at this situation. That may be his sort of passive-aggressive attempt to sort of assert himself. This is not a good situation.

28:04 Adam So is your question is, why is your brother not wiping himself and how to get to your stepdad from hitting him?

28:09 Well, I just want to know, like, yeah, pretty much that, I guess.

28:12 Stryker How do you get the stepdad to stop? You call Child Protective Services.

28:16 Adam Right. Do you have a number, Drew, an 800 number by any chance?

28:19 Stryker Yeah, let me give you a number.

28:19 Adam Serenity, grab a pen. Hold on one second, please, Dr. Drew. Are you ready?

28:23 Yeah.

28:24 Stryker 800-540-4000.

28:27 I got that.

28:28 Stryker You got that one? 540-4000.

28:30 Adam Don't be afraid to do it. I mean, that's, your brother's already 14. I mean, this could really screw him up.

28:36 Stryker I mean, there's something really very wrong already.

28:38 I think he already is because he has, like, this attitude problem sometimes. Like, he just won't talk to you. He'll look at you and just be, like, really, really rude. My stepdad painted our front door purple and the bathroom downstairs baby blue. Like, if you go in there at night, it's like, it's like something like you're going into, like, another realm or something like that because it just looks really, really weird.

29:04 Stryker Well, it just sounds like a bad situation for him and he needs a little help. All right?

29:08 Okay.

29:09 Adam Goodbye, Serenity.

29:10 Bye.

29:11 Adam Yikes. See, I fill in for Adam and I'm very happy coming in here. Then you hear a call like that and you're like, oh, Jesus Christ.

29:17 Drew Well, no, especially because you have children calling in, 14-year-olds and they just do so much and they're so forward. This situation, it's sad because you feel like you don't have control when your parents are abusing you.

29:33 Stryker They don't even know they're being abused. What kids do is your brain will do anything not to feel powerless. What kids do is they immediately assume, I deserve this. Now you're back in control of the situation. I caused it to happen and this person that's hitting me is somehow wiser and more wonderful than I am because he knows that I need this and it's all BS. It's just out of control, a whole stepdad that's beating on a young kid.

29:58 Adam You think that kid is freaking out, not wiping himself just because what this dad is doing?

30:01 Stryker You know, it's on that order. There's something really going wrong here.

30:06 Adam Hey Morgan.

30:07 Yeah.

30:07 Adam What's up Idaho man? You're 16. What's going on dude? Nothing.

30:10 Caller Stryker, you're doing a great job.

30:12 Adam Thank you.

30:12 Caller Hey, how's it going Carmen?

30:13 Drew I'm good, how are you?

30:14 Caller I'm doing all right. I got a question about like the girls that seem to be attracted to me. Like they all have like these emotional problems and stuff, you know?

30:24 Adam How? What kind of problems?

30:26 Caller Oh, like, I don't know, the parents don't treat them very well or I don't know, they're having sex by like 14 and stuff. Just weird stuff like that, you know?

30:35 Stryker How? Let me get this straight. They are attracted to you and you have relationships with them?

30:40 Caller Well, not always relationships. It's just like, it always seems like I'm the one that they can come to with their problems, you know?

30:47 Stryker All right, so be that person, that's fine.

30:49 Caller Well, I don't really know how to handle all of it.

30:52 Stryker All right, well tell them that.

30:53 Caller Because I do, but I'm not really the type of guy that can just say no, like, if you're going to come and tell me something.

31:00 Stryker No, I can't sleep with you.

31:02 Adam Morgan is the kind of guy I think who will take advantage of the situation to get a little something, something. Yeah, Morgan?

31:07 Caller No, that's not true at all.

31:08 Adam Come on, Morgan.

31:09 Caller No way, dude.

31:10 Adam Okay.

31:11 Stryker So what is it you can't handle? You can't say no? You can't tell them you can't handle it?

31:15 Caller Well, it's like, yeah, it's like that, but it's, I don't know, it's happened a couple of times. I think it's just I'm too nice or something.

31:22 Stryker Yeah. Yeah. I'll go for that.

31:24 Caller Yeah. It's because I don't know. I don't do it really much anymore because I've kind of changed my whole group of friends and stuff, you know, but I don't know, because it used to, it weighs down on my conscience, like way heavy. It's like, why is this happening to this person? And how can I help and stuff?

31:39 Stryker Okay.

31:39 Caller All right. I don't think I'm really equipped to deal with all that.

31:42 Stryker You're not. And so it's nice that you have that desire to be helpful, that you are sort of what's called empathically attuned to other people. But you have to also be able to establish boundaries with that. You have to realize what you can and can't do. And it sounds like you're kind of tuned into that. You just need to be able to make that clearer to the other person.

31:57 Adam Morgan, you seem nicer than I was expecting you to be. So, I mean, at least you're listening to them, right?

32:02 Stryker Well, he's a little bit, he's after all a 16 year old male. Right. And mostly it's like, it's distracting him from his ultimate task.

32:10 Adam That's why I said that one thing that I did because he's 16. Morgan, where in Idaho do you live?

32:15 Caller I live in Boise.

32:16 Adam Boise.

32:16 Caller All right.

32:16 Adam Well, say hi to my friend, Tom Sparks out there. Okay.

32:19 Caller Tom Sparks?

32:19 Adam Yeah.

32:19 Caller Where would I see him?

32:21 Adam I don't know. Probably in Sun Valley somewhere.

32:23 Caller All right.

32:23 Caller Whatever.

32:24 Caller Thank you. If I see him, I'll say hi.

32:26 Adam Okay.

32:26 Caller All right. Thanks a lot, you guys.

32:27 Adam Later, man.

32:28 Caller Bye.

32:28 Adam All right. Carmen. What? Carmen Electra is here, by the way. And don't talk in my ear, Anderson. Jesus.

32:34 Stryker You can talk in mine, though.

32:36 Drew Go to Tito and sip. We will. We will.

32:38 Adam Tito messed with us. We're going to mess with Tito.

32:40 Drew He's on a cell phone.

32:41 Adam All right.

32:41 Stryker Hold on. Let me grab.

32:42 Drew I wouldn't mess with Tito.

32:43 Stryker No, no.

32:43 Adam I'm just kidding. Hold on.

32:44 Stryker You can double book him.

32:45 Adam Tito?

32:46 Stryker Yes.

32:46 Adam We're just real quick going to say thanks for calling in because we're going to take some more calls here.

32:52 Stryker Maybe Tito wants to answer.

32:53 Adam Yeah. Do you want to answer one of these questions here?

32:55 Stryker Yeah.

32:56 Caller I've always been a huge fan of Dr. Drew and Adam Corolla. Actually, they helped me a lot when I was going through high school.

33:00 So, I mean, it's my listening.

33:02 Stryker They're in Huntington Beach, huh?

33:03 Adam All right. Tito, we're going to speak to this lady named Cindy. Okay. So, just listen up and pipe in whenever you want.

33:09 Stryker Sounds good.

33:09 Adam All right. If you guys just joined us, Tito is an Ultimate Fighting Championship fighter. He's in the, he's just a huge guy. He's a monster. He'll kick all your asses. Don't mess with him. Cindy.

33:18 Hello?

33:18 Adam Hi, Cindy. You're 20 on Loveline.

33:20 Caller Yeah. Hi. Well, I can't believe I got through. Wow.

33:25 Adam Go ahead.

33:27 Caller I got, I guess, a problem.

33:31 Adam You smoke a lot.

33:32 Caller Huh?

33:33 Adam Do you smoke a lot?

33:34 Caller No. I had an operation on Monday where they put the tube down my finger throat. For what? Well, I've been having some stomach problems. And so they were, they put a tube down my throat.

33:47 Stryker That's an, yeah, that's an endoscopy.

33:50 Adam That's an endoscopy.

33:51 Stryker It's an endoscopy. It shouldn't have anything to do with your voice, though.

33:54 Adam Unacceptable.

33:54 Caller It does, because I have a horse throat now over on the left side. My neck of my throat, it hurts. My left ear hurts. I don't know. It hurt a lot when they did it too.

34:06 Adam Tito, you enjoying this so far?

34:08 Wow. It may sound like a light infection.

34:11 Adam Yeah. Okay. Go ahead, Cindy. What's going on now?

34:14 Caller Well, I'm seeing someone right now. I'm just, I'm not, I guess it's... Get to the point. I'm actually seeing my sister.

34:29 Adam How old is she?

34:31 Caller She's 21. I'm 20 and she's 21.

34:33 Stryker Is she your biological sister?

34:35 Adam Yeah.

34:35 Stryker What do you mean you're seeing her? What does that mean?

34:37 Adam They're sleeping together, right?

34:41 Caller Yeah.

34:42 Adam How long has this been going on?

34:44 Drew I have chills. That's heavy.

34:45 Adam How long have you been doing this?

34:48 Caller Well, I guess steady for about four years, but before that, when we were younger, we just messed around and stuff.

34:57 Adam Did your dad ever touch you?

34:58 Stryker Yeah. Who sexually abused one of you?

35:00 Caller What did the parents have to do with anything like that?

35:02 Stryker What adult? What happened? How old were you? Six? Age six? Something happened? Seven, eight?

35:07 Caller I was seven and I had an uncle.

35:11 Stryker There you go.

35:12 Adam I was on the right track, Drew. You see this? I'm learning from being here. I knew it was going down that alley.

35:16 Stryker But you gotta learn to get the age right.

35:18 Caller That doesn't have anything to do with this, though, does it?

35:20 Stryker Oh, absolutely. That is where incest comes from. Some adult comes along and sexually abuses a child. The child loses track of the normal boundaries, becomes sexualized, and starts acting out on their peers, sometimes on their own family members, when families are rather disturbed.

35:39 Caller Well, I guess when I'm kind of wondering, I don't know. I'm not sure I really... I guess society-wise, it's wrong.

35:52 Stryker No, it's not wrong. It's not wrong. It's very disturbed. And it's because you were sexually abused, and it's because the family wasn't working right. It's not about right or wrong. It's about what is or not healthy for people. And you need help with this, Cindy.

36:05 Adam And this is going on because of what your a-hole father did to you. Uncle. I'm sorry. Uncle did to you as a seven-year-old.

36:14 Caller I guess I don't understand because, I mean, I like women and, I mean, There's others in the sea besides your sister.

36:24 Stryker Cindy, there's nothing wrong with any of this. It's not wrong. It's disturbed. There's a problem here and it needs to be dealt with.

36:33 Is there any type of therapy that maybe she could be seen?

36:36 Stryker Well, yeah. I mean, she needs to see a professional about this. This is a very, very serious situation.

36:41 Caller Okay. Am I disturbed because I like women or because it's my sister?

36:46 Stryker It's because you were sexually abused when you were a kid. And that's not been dealt with properly. Also, I'm sure your family was a real mess. Your family must have been very, very chaotic.

36:54 Adam Where's your dad right now?

36:56 Caller Oh, he's still with my mom. They don't get along too well. They never really have.

37:02 Stryker Did they physically abuse you guys, too?

37:04 Caller No. They drink a whole lot, though.

37:08 Stryker Okay. Are you both addicts, also?

37:10 Caller No. Actually, I don't even drink and neither does my sister. I think probably because we're so tired. I guess we grew up with it and seeing my dad and my mom.

37:22 Stryker You don't smoke pot? You don't use any substances?

37:24 Caller No.

37:25 Adam Do you guys live together, Cindy?

37:26 Caller I have help.

37:28 Adam Do you guys live together?

37:29 Caller Yeah, we do.

37:31 Adam Easy access.

37:31 Caller Yeah, we're in our own apartment. My parents, they don't know anything.

37:37 Adam All right, Cindy, I guess the bottom line is you're never going to get better and you're going to keep doing these disturbed things unless you get yourself some help. So, I mean, you seem to be, you know, Drew, I don't know if that's...

37:47 Stryker Yeah, I don't know why you have to look at it as something right or wrong. You're not going to get help if you keep looking at it in that light. It's that this is something...

37:54 Caller I don't understand the difference then between disturbed and wrong.

37:57 Stryker Well, it's somebody did something to you that wired your brain in a certain way that makes it difficult for you to see things normally and in a way that would be healthy for you. And so you'll be prone to do things that are kind of destructive.

38:12 Caller Okay, but if I...

38:14 Adam You're not listening. You're trying to...

38:15 Stryker Well, she wants to understand.

38:16 Caller Well, no, I'm just wondering if it was someone like not my sister, like just a...

38:23 Adam Cousin...

38:23 Caller .other girl that...

38:25 Stryker We wouldn't be having this... Then we wouldn't... No, we wouldn't be having this conversation. We'd be saying, gee, that sexual abuse you had when you were a kid must still affect you. It has to. That's the way it is. And have you ever dealt with that or aren't you interested in working on that? But now we have a situation where there's some pretty serious symptoms here. And we're thinking you ought to look into it.

38:45 Caller But does that mean that that's why I like women and step here?

38:49 Stryker No, it doesn't mean anything. That's a separate issue. And that's not going to... That's probably going to be something you're going to feel better about, frankly, if you get a little help with that.

39:00 Caller Okay. So, now what? I guess I'm going to have kind of a hard time, you know, dealing with my sister and all, and just, you know, letting her know all that.

39:10 Stryker Well, don't let her. Just get yourself some help. Talk to a professional about it. Don't unload on your sister. Just get a plan going with someone who can help you.

39:18 Caller Once you start talking to someone, you're going to want to progress and move away, and it'll be a lot easier to talk to her.

39:23 Stryker Don't talk to anyone right now, because there's so much chaos here ready to unleash. It's just going to destabilize things. Just get in the hands of somebody that can really help usher you through this.

39:33 Caller Who would I, I mean...

39:35 Stryker Any kind of mental health professional, therapist or psychiatrist.

39:39 Adam If you can't find one, go to your normal doctor, and they'll send you to someone.

39:42 Stryker Ask for a referral, okay?

39:43 Caller Oh, okay.

39:44 Stryker All right, Cindy. Good luck.

39:45 Adam Thanks, Cindy.

39:45 Caller Thank you.

39:46 Stryker All right.

39:47 Adam Hey, Tito.

39:49 Caller Wow.

39:49 Adam This is fun times around here, huh?

39:51 Caller Wow. That was pretty traumatizing.

39:54 Adam Yeah, that wasn't good. But, Tito, we actually have to take a break. And if you want to hang out, that's cool. You can listen in. You want to do that? Yeah, that sounds good to me. All right, that's Tito. I'm Stryker with Dr. Drew and Carmen Electra is here. If you have questions about the Ultimate Fighting Championship, call and speak to Tito or Carmen, who knows a lot about it. Carmen and I will now wrestle during the break. Loveline coming back after this. I want to join. No stupid poem can fix this home. I'd read it anyway. Keep going. No, that's it. It's Blink-182's song, it's a very good song right there. Alright, this is Stryker, this is Loveline, Dr. Drew is here. Circle gets the square in my dream last night. It was the best dream ever, Dr. Drew. Luckily, it wasn't in the morning.

41:04 Stryker Just remember that gift basket you get.

41:06 Adam Well, I don't know about a gift basket.

41:07 Stryker Gift basket?

41:08 Drew Yes.

41:08 Stryker Awesome, right?

41:09 Drew It was.

41:09 Adam I'm not famous like you two guys. I mean, I'm sorry, I'm just...

41:13 Stryker I know what that's a problem for. MTV, 5 p.m., Monday through Friday, new show, Stryker. What's the show called again?

41:19 Adam It's called Who Knows the Band.

41:20 Stryker Who Knows the Band.

41:21 Caller Yeah, it's a funny show.

41:22 Adam It's gonna be pretty cool, I hope. It'll be fine. It was fun to do. All right, let's talk to Tito real quick just to ask him a couple more things. Hey, Tito.

41:30 Yes.

41:30 Adam All right, couple last things. You're gonna be fighting this Friday night.

41:34 Yes, that's correct.

41:34 Adam At the Mandalay Bay in Vegas.

41:36 Yes, this is correct.

41:38 Adam If people want to watch you fight and hopefully win... How many fights do you have on Friday? Just one, right?

41:44 Caller There will actually be nine fights all together on the whole card. That's one thing. The Ultimate Fighting Championship has changed. They're all one fight now. No more tournament champions.

41:53 Stryker Why do they call it UFC 33? What does 33 stand for?

41:58 Caller That's how many UFC's there has been.

41:59 Stryker See?

41:59 Adam That's what I said. I was right.

42:01 Caller There's been 33 UFC's since it first started.

42:04 Adam So if people want to watch you, they can get it on the old pay-per-view or the Dish or anything like that. And I've seen this before. And it is unbelievable.

42:13 Caller It's a new sport for the new millennium, that's for sure.

42:16 Adam Definitely. Are you going to Cheetahs tonight?

42:19 No, I don't really go to Cheetahs at all.

42:22 Drew Paradise?

42:23 Adam Yeah, Paradise across from the Hard Rock.

42:25 Drew That's right.

42:25 Adam I frequented that place. Oh, jeez. Crazy Horse 2. Carmen and I know the places.

42:32 Drew I said, oh, jeez.

42:33 Caller Yeah, Olympic Gardens.

42:34 Caller I try to stay away from those places about this time, you know?

42:36 Adam Of course, a couple places.

42:37 Caller I've got a lot more important things in life to do.

42:39 Drew That's good. I like to hear that.

42:40 Stryker Winkers his legs.

42:41 Adam All right. Tito, best of luck to you out there, man.

42:44 Well, thank you very much.

42:46 Adam I will. I think I may buy it and then tape it and then watch you when I get home from doing my K-Rock show on Friday night.

42:52 I guarantee I'll entertain you.

42:54 Adam Excellent, man. And when you get back to the 714, call me up at the radio station.

42:59 Caller Well, that sounds good. Anybody wants to get a hold of me, email me at Tito ortiz.com. That's my website.

43:03 Adam Tito Ortiz. O-R-T-I-Z. All right, Tito. Good luck, man.

43:09 Caller Thank you much. Carmen, see you on Friday.

43:11 Drew Bye, all right.

43:12 Caller Bye-bye.

43:13 Adam See, that guy is as nice as can be right there.

43:16 Drew He's so nice.

43:17 Adam Oh, man, he would strangle us so quick.

43:19 Stryker Yeah, I would say you could be nice if you're that huge.

43:22 Drew Exactly.

43:23 Adam Yeah, I guess.

43:24 Stryker No reason not to be nice.

43:25 Adam Does he just have muscles on his muscles? Does he just completely ripped up?

43:28 Drew He's just a big guy and he's in great shape and very intimidating.

43:32 Adam I'm doing a triathlon this Saturday.

43:34 Stryker Congratulations.

43:35 Adam In Malibu.

43:36 Drew Really?

43:36 Adam Oh my God, it's gonna kill me. That's tough. You're looking at me like, Oh, that's simple. Carmen.

43:41 Drew Oh, you can do it.

43:42 Adam No, I can't. Mike.

43:43 Hello?

43:44 Adam What's up, man? You're 17 on Loveline with Carmen Electra.

43:47 Caller All right. Yeah, me and my girlfriend have been having sex for just a little while now.

43:51 Caller And it's like, it's not always planned. You know, sometimes it's spontaneous. We don't always use a condom at first.

43:58 Stryker Well, then you're gonna get pregnant then. That's not planned either.

44:01 Caller Yeah.

44:03 Caller Well, I don't, we don't, I always put a condom on eventually, but she's a little worried about the, you know, the clitstub that comes out before.

44:09 Stryker That's right. That's all full of sperm.

44:12 Caller So can I get her pregnant with that also?

44:13 Stryker Absolutely.

44:15 Adam Is that, I don't want to influence you, Mike, so don't listen too closely. Dr. Drew, can that pre come, is it rare that someone can get pregnant from that? Or is it definitely just as easy to get pregnant as if you let the whole thing go inside?

44:28 Stryker It's not just as easy, but it's not rare. And you should maybe keep on hand emergency contraception, which is a pill she can take within three days of an unplanned event like that.

44:39 Adam Has it always been within three days? I thought it was just the day after.

44:42 Stryker It's called the morning after pill, but you have 72 hours to take it. And I was just reading an article tonight where people are not taking advantage of this. It prevents the egg from being released. We're not talking about RU-46. We're not talking about an abortion pill. We're talking about a contraceptive. And if you have some unplanned event like this, you can really take the risk down towards zero by taking that after the pre-com exposure.

45:07 Adam How can 17-year-old Mike get the day after pill?

45:10 Caller Yeah, where do I get that?

45:11 Stryker In Kansas. In some states, one of the reasons Washington is the greatest state in the union is you can get it without a prescription there. But in Kansas, you could, any emergency room, any urgent care, any doctor can prescribe it for you.

45:21 Adam How comfortable is Mike going to be going to Dr. Smith in Kansas? Can I get the morning and after pill?

45:26 Stryker His girlfriend actually once got to get it. Maybe you can go with her.

45:29 Adam Do it, Mike or else you are in for a long, stressful haul, my friend.

45:33 Caller All right. Thanks.

45:34 Caller Okay, dude.

45:35 Caller Bye.

45:35 Adam Later.

45:36 Stryker Bye.

45:36 Adam Hey, Ron.

45:37 Caller Yes.

45:37 Adam Hey, you made it. You're 38 on Loveline.

45:39 Caller Good morning.

45:40 Adam Morning.

45:41 Caller Dr. Drew, question for you.

45:42 Caller Yeah.

45:42 Caller About six months ago, you and Adam were talking about, you're having a discussion about Bill Clinton.

45:47 Caller Yeah.

45:48 Caller You said you wrote a letter to yourself.

45:50 Stryker I did. I can't find the damn thing. I sealed it. I put it at my desk and we moved.

45:55 Adam So wait, what happened?

45:56 Stryker Well, I wrote a letter. I think Mr. Clinton, and I actually have no quarrels with his administration. I thought it was a nice eight years, but I knew he's an alcoholic in my opinion. I knew it and I predicted a bunch of the behaviors to myself that came true. He didn't disappoint me at all. It scared me when he first came to office. I can see what this guy is and I don't know what, these things are going to happen and it's going to be awful.

46:18 Adam Alcoholic, you thought? You still think that? I don't think that at all.

46:22 Stryker You're an expert on that. Not with raging disease or anything, but he's got those features. I could just see some of the, he has a history of profound abuse and his mom's a marfina. He's got all the isms there. He didn't disappoint me. He did all the stuff I thought he was going to do, but his administration was quite good.

46:40 Caller Let me say to the people of America and the nations of the world that I hate your ass. I swear to God I do.

46:47 Stryker I put that letter I'll find someday. I even included some stuff about Hillary and her co-dependency.

46:54 Caller That's what I was going to ask.

46:55 Caller If you think she's co-dependent because of him.

46:58 Stryker They live in this peculiar, and again, obviously their relationship works for them, and we don't know really what's going on with them personally, but in this, we're going to break, give me a second here, this fantasy of destruction and resurrection where some people get into where they reunite after he Fs up in this sort of fantasy reunion where she's going to make it all okay again, and then he'll never do it again, and of course he goes to the same cycle all over again.

47:22 Adam I hope Bill's listening right now because maybe he'll call the show at 1-800-LOVE-191 for President Clinton. Chelsea, I know you don't go to Stanford anymore, but I'm here at Stryker for Adam Corolla with Dr. Drew and more with Carmen Electra in just a few minutes on Loveline. All right, guys, here's the deal. Looking to hook up, call the Dateline. All right, we are back. This is Loveline. Thank you for listening, you guys. I'm Stryker, in for Adam Corolla, who is, I guess, on the East Coast doing something, right?

48:39 Stryker Yeah, yeah, he's doing Stern and a roast of...

48:42 Adam Hugh Hefner.

48:42 Stryker Hugh Hefner. Why can't I remember his name?

48:44 Adam He's friends with Hugh Hefner, but I'm friends with you. Mm-hmm, that's more important.

48:48 Caller That's a good thing.

48:49 Stryker Right. We're gonna make the square.

48:52 Adam When are you and I gonna go for a run, a jog?

48:54 Stryker You kick, I'm so slow.

48:56 Adam I don't care, I go slow, too.

48:57 Stryker Do you know where I love running? It's in the Arroyo in Pasadena. You wanna run sometime?

49:00 Adam Yeah, definitely.

49:00 Stryker It's beautiful. I mean, it is spiritual.

49:03 Adam Really? I'll go do that.

49:04 Stryker That'll be fun.

49:06 I'll bring you water.

49:07 Stryker Oh boy. Listen, we only have four minutes during the breaks. We have to do our socializing when we're on the air, too. Relax.

49:13 Adam I know. Come on. Carmen Electra is here. I read that you did a movie called Rent Control.

49:19 Drew Yes.

49:20 Adam I met a young kid that wrote that, right? Little redheaded guy with glasses.

49:24 Drew I believe so. I didn't meet him.

49:26 Adam Okay. How did that come out? Because Melissa Joan Hart was doing that?

49:30 Drew Yeah. It was cool. It's an independent film. I just did looping for it. Oh, okay. Which is like the hardest thing. Yeah. I don't know if anyone realizes how hard it is to see yourself. You know what I mean? People think that because you're in this business that you have this confidence and you just love yourself. And it's insane.

49:50 Adam Looping, you guys.

49:50 Drew It's the hardest thing to do.

49:51 Adam By the way, is when you film a TV show or whatever, and they can't get the sound or your whispering.

49:58 Drew Yes, you have to go in.

49:59 Adam Into a room and watch yourself.

50:01 Drew With a huge TV screen, and you watch yourself over and over and over.

50:05 Adam And you keep doing the lines to match your facial expression and the tone.

50:08 Drew And instead of doing that, you're picking apart things about yourself that you hate.

50:12 Adam I had to do this looping, and I'll say the line, I want the giant stinky, or you can go to the Super Bowl. Both great prizes, of course. And it took me like eight hours to get that done. Yeah, I couldn't do it. I couldn't do it, because I did it kind of good the first time, but then I was horrible when I did it again.

50:27 Drew Not good.

50:28 Adam Oh, my friend Pete McCoy loves the giant stinky. Morgan.

50:32 Yeah?

50:32 Adam Hi, you're on Loveline. Carmen Electra is here, and you're 14.

50:34 Caller Yeah?

50:35 Adam Go ahead.

50:36 Caller Okay. This is my first time going out on a date with somebody I really like.

50:41 Stryker Where are you going with her?

50:43 Caller Movies.

50:44 Stryker What are you going to say?

50:45 Caller Whatever she wants.

50:46 Stryker Oh, that's your first mistake. What do you say, Carmen?

50:51 Caller Oh, yeah.

50:52 Stryker You're the man. You got to make all the choices.

50:53 Drew Yeah, make the decisions. Girls like that anyway.

50:56 Adam Carmen, give him some advice. Should he go see a so-called chick flick or something he's interested in?

51:01 Stryker Couldn't he ask her ahead what are you interested in? What do you like? What kind of film?

51:04 Drew What kind of movies do you like?

51:05 Stryker Yeah. But then when the time comes, he's got to have it all planned out.

51:08 Drew Yes.

51:09 Adam What about food on the date? Should they go for food after? Yeah, why not? How are you getting to the movies, Morgan?

51:14 Stryker More 14-year-olds do it, Morgan, is they mock up a sort of miniature scale of where you're going and you have little miniature fixtures and you move a stick. You move right and left and you go to the film. You dine at this one. We move the sticks along. You've got to map it out. It's like a war plan, Morgan.

51:28 Adam Are you pretty nervous about this?

51:30 Caller Yeah.

51:30 Adam I would too. I was nervous, definitely. So do you have any idea what movie that you should see, even though you said she'll decide?

51:40 Caller I was going to see like Zoolander or something like that.

51:42 Adam Perfect.

51:43 Stryker That's perfect.

51:43 Adam That is perfect.

51:44 Drew Comedy, you can laugh.

51:45 Stryker How about dinner?

51:48 Adam The movie theater hot dogs is the way to go.

51:50 Stryker No, no, no, no, no. Carmen was like, what about food, Morgan?

51:58 Adam What are you guys going to do? Or are you just going to go to the movies?

52:00 Stryker No, you got to eat.

52:01 No, we're going to go to the mall after that.

52:02 Stryker After to eat.

52:03 Adam Oh, good.

52:04 Stryker What time is the movie? What time is the movie?

52:07 Caller What are you talking about?

52:08 Adam What time is the movie going to start that you're going to see? A daytime, right?

52:11 Caller Before five.

52:12 Adam Okay. So you're going to go to the movie. Is the movie theater at the mall?

52:15 No.

52:16 Adam Okay. How are you going to get from the movie theater to the mall?

52:18 My mom.

52:19 Adam Nice.

52:20 Okay.

52:20 Adam So mom will do it. It's just like the karate kid when they go to golf and stuff.

52:23 Drew And then they'll go to the food court.

52:25 Adam Right. And then they'll play that hockey game. They'll look at each other. Their eyes will meet and they make out. Mr. Miyagi. So Morgan, after you go to the movie, just be really relaxed. Go to the mall with your mom and don't ask her every single second. What do you want to do? What do you want to eat? What do you want to do?

52:42 Drew Don't ask that at all.

52:43 Caller Well, I've known her for a while.

52:45 Stryker It's alright. Just set it all up. That's what she wants.

52:47 Adam Well, at the mall, can you say, do you want to go to that place or that place? Can you do it like that? Can you bring up two places?

52:53 Stryker Or you could say, I thought we'd go to the Panda Inn Express. I hope you like Chinese food. And if she says, oh, I can't stand that, have a backup.

53:03 Adam Then you go to Hot Dog on a Stick.

53:05 Stryker Alright, Morgan?

53:06 Adam Any more questions?

53:08 Caller Um, wasn't Carmen Electra on that one Taco Bell commercial or something?

53:13 Drew Taco Bell, Pizza Hut.

53:14 Caller Pizza Hut, yeah.

53:15 Drew Yeah.

53:16 Caller Oh, I saw that.

53:16 Drew You did.

53:17 Adam Did you see her in the Playboy?

53:20 What?

53:22 Stryker Here's a little note about Carmen Electra. Carmen Electra was the woman in the audience for Loveline TV in like 1996.

53:31 Drew In the very beginning of Loveline. Loveline first started on MTV.

53:34 Stryker Yeah.

53:35 Adam Carmen was also on Singled Out.

53:37 Drew That's right.

53:37 Adam In the last couple of seasons.

53:39 Drew Yes.

53:39 Adam I saw you on that and you're in Scary Movie.

53:41 Drew Yes.

53:41 Caller Which was hilarious.

53:42 Drew And Baywatch. Right.

53:44 Caller A lot of stuff.

53:44 Drew Yeah. Staying busy.

53:46 Adam Yeah. Staying busy. I love all those things. Megan.

53:50 Caller Yeah.

53:50 Adam Hi there. You're on Loveline. You're 15.

53:52 Caller Hi.

53:53 Okay. I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time. I never bled or anything. We had sex a couple of times and I never bled. Then when I was in Hawaii, I had sex with this guy and then I bled. So I was just wondering if the first time my hymen couldn't have broke and it might have been the last time.

54:10 Stryker I doubt it. I think it's more just that sexual activity sometimes stimulates blood from the uterus.

54:16 Adam How old was this guy in Hawaii?

54:18 Caller 19.

54:21 Adam Was it in where? How?

54:22 What?

54:24 Caller In the parking lot.

54:25 Drew How old is she again?

54:26 Adam 15.

54:27 Stryker Carmen, go.

54:29 Drew Man, you have so much time. I mean, I know you're young and no one likes to be preached to. I mean, I definitely didn't want anyone to tell me what to do. But it's just, you know, by example, if you just look and see, you know, I remember growing up in Ohio, so many girls in school at 14 years old, at 15, 16, getting pregnant, and you don't realize it's not a reality until it happens. And I mean, besides that, I mean, AIDS and there's so many diseases and stuff going on, I mean, you have so much time. Take your time, and you're talking about two different guys now. I mean, this one guy and now this guy in Hawaii.

55:05 Stryker I've never talked to a woman that didn't feel, how do I praise this, that wished she had waited or hadn't waited? I mean, there's not a single, I've never met a woman that felt like she didn't wait long enough. Is that what I'm saying right?

55:18 Adam Yeah, that makes sense. Most girls you meet kind of wanted to wait later.

55:22 Stryker Yeah, yeah, most of them say, I wish I would have been 100%. There's not a single woman that went, I wish I had done it sooner. No way. You never find that.

55:33 Drew No, it's so special, you know, to keep yourself and wait. I mean, there's no rush. Yeah, so guys are going to be around, they're not going anywhere.

55:41 Adam No, we're not.

55:41 Stryker Guys are something they want to get rid of. Women, they're happy to wait.

55:45 Adam Let the fluids leave the building. Megan, so Drew answered your question about the bleeding, that it was okay, that it was the fourth time. But I think more importantly, what Carmen was talking about, slow down a little bit. You're only 15, getting with 19-year-olds.

55:58 Stryker What are you doing for contraception?

56:00 Drew Condom.

56:00 Stryker Birth control. All right.

56:01 Drew Oh, that's good. At least he's doing that.

56:04 Adam Just be careful, Megan, okay?

56:05 Drew Okay, thank you.

56:06 Adam All right. Good luck. All right. 1-800-LOVE-191. That is the phone number to talk to Carmen Electra or Dr. Drew. Laura, or myself. Laura.

56:15 Hi.

56:15 Adam Hey, you're 19.

56:16 Caller Hi. Carmen, you're the best. I think you should stay there.

56:20 Drew Oh, thank you.

56:21 Caller You're so sweet.

56:22 Caller Yeah. And my stepbrother hit on me like last night, around like 5 in the morning.

56:28 Stryker Hit on you.

56:29 Caller Yeah. And like.

56:30 Stryker What does that mean?

56:31 Adam Hitting on someone means you go to a bar and you kind of like chat them up a little bit.

56:34 Stryker Was he just kind of talking to you?

56:36 Caller Yeah. No. He like came over to my room and like knocked on the door and sat right by me and started talking and laid down and like kissed me and everything.

56:44 Stryker How old is he?

56:45 Caller He's a year older than me.

56:48 Adam Same mom or same dad or completely separate?

56:51 Caller Oh, completely separate. Just Brady Bunch kind of thing.

56:55 Stryker This is what the Brady Bunch actually happened.

56:57 Adam Yeah.

56:57 Drew It really went on, right?

56:58 Adam How's Oliver doing?

57:00 Caller Oliver.

57:01 Adam Never mind.

57:01 Stryker So Laura, what do you want to do?

57:03 Drew Oliver.

57:03 Stryker Oliver.

57:04 Adam A little Oliver.

57:05 Stryker Did you tell him to get out?

57:07 Caller Yeah. I actually told him I was really sleepy and I had to work this morning really early, yada, yada, yada, you know, but.

57:13 Stryker What are you doing living at home still?

57:15 Caller Oh, I'm actually saving up for college and I'm going to college next semester. I can't live out of the house because it's better for me to stay here, you know?

57:23 Adam To save money?

57:24 Caller Yeah, pretty much.

57:26 Caller Like my friends are helping me.

57:27 Adam What is your brother doing 20 years old at home right now?

57:30 Caller He's kind of a bum.

57:33 Stryker Why don't you tell your mom? And a creep.

57:34 Caller Laura?

57:36 Caller Yeah, but like I'm kind of scared.

57:37 Caller Like I really don't want to put anything between the family.

57:40 Stryker You know, but listen, he's he's disturbed. I don't know if he's doing drugs or what's making his judgment so severely impaired, but he's disturbed. It's a reality. The family needs to deal with it and the parents need to be the one to help, to be the ones that institute the whatever is necessary here.

57:58 Adam Is that the first time he's done something?

58:00 Caller No, that's when I was 13. He did it. But I moved away and came back. But I just don't, you know, I know my parents love each other and I really don't want to cross anything between them.

58:12 Adam Then you know what you need to do? You need to move out.

58:14 Stryker Yeah, you have no choice. Either you leave or you do something about this.

58:19 Drew She's more worried about how her parents feel than how she feels.

58:22 Stryker Absolutely. Her feelings are not as important.

58:23 Drew Yeah, you're just putting yourself off and you're suffering because he's doing this to you.

58:27 Stryker And get yourself a barrel bolt and put it on your door and lock your door. Seriously, what's so funny about that? Protect yourself. Laura, there is a predator loose in your house. And next time he may come in with something that immobilizes you. God knows what.

58:46 Adam So now, here's your choice. Move out, get a solid lock on the door. Or tell your parents.

58:51 Stryker Or all three of those.

58:53 Caller Yeah.

58:54 Caller Okay.

58:55 Adam All right, Laura.

58:55 Stryker Is that rather serious, Laura?

58:57 Caller All right.

58:58 Stryker Okay.

58:59 Caller Thank you very much.

58:59 Caller Bye.

59:01 Adam We're doing good. Justin.

59:03 Caller Yeah. Hi.

59:04 Adam You're on Loveline. You're 13.

59:05 Caller Yeah.

59:06 Caller What's up?

59:07 Caller Yeah. I'm a biker. And earlier today I was riding. And I just fell and I hit my balls really hard. And I was like, Oh, no.

59:20 Stryker How dare you, Carmen? You don't know how awful that is.

59:23 Drew I don't. I have no idea.

59:24 Adam Justin, what kind of trick were you trying to do?

59:26 Caller Oh, I was trying to do a Superman.

59:28 Adam Okay. I love that. That's when you hold the handlebars and kick your feet up behind the bike.

59:34 Caller Oh.

59:35 Stryker Now he deserves it.

59:38 Adam So you landed on your nuts and you squished them, right?

59:40 Caller Yeah.

59:41 Adam Now what's going on with them?

59:43 Caller It's like burning and it hurts.

59:44 Adam Oh, God. Drew, take this.

59:45 Stryker When you pee or just the testes hurt a little bit?

59:49 Caller Like right now it's burning.

59:50 Stryker Are they swelling up?

59:52 Caller I haven't looked at them.

59:54 Stryker Why don't you take a look? We'll turn around.

59:56 Drew Why don't you take a look?

59:58 Stryker Take a look for me, all right?

59:59 Caller Okay.

1:00:00 Stryker Look.

1:00:00 Okay.

1:00:01 Caller No, they're not really like...

1:00:02 Stryker Not swollen or anything like that.

1:00:03 Adam Are they discolored?

1:00:05 Caller No.

1:00:05 All right.

1:00:08 Stryker Go ahead.

1:00:10 Caller Um, and also, when I'm going to pee, it burns more.

1:00:15 Stryker Yeah, just, you need to get this looked at. You can actually crush the testes. You can fracture them. You can do all kinds of bad things to them. And you want to have fertility, and you want to keep producing testosterone, and you want those tubes to be functioning normally. Can you ice them? You might need to ice them, but you might want to go by an emergency room or else you'll see a urologist tomorrow morning, okay?

1:00:36 Caller Okay.

1:00:36 Adam Have you told your parents you heard them?

1:00:38 Stryker Yeah.

1:00:38 Caller Oh, they're at the hospital. My mom's having a baby.

1:00:40 Stryker Oh, for God's sakes. Oh, for God's sakes.

1:00:43 Adam Well, you know, at least your family's already there.

1:00:45 Drew Yeah, go on in to see how they're doing and get yourself checked out at the same time.

1:00:49 Stryker Yeah, downstairs is the ER usually.

1:00:50 Adam You'll both be in the same position, legs spread wide.

1:00:53 Stryker And believe me, your dad will understand. Just tell him what has happened. It won't be anything too humiliating. And let him help out with you, okay?

1:01:00 Caller Okay.

1:01:01 Adam Hey, who's your favorite writer?

1:01:03 Caller Mine?

1:01:03 Stryker Yeah.

1:01:04 Caller Um, Corey Nostalgia.

1:01:05 Adam Oh, cool. How about, who's your favorite skater?

1:01:08 Caller Um, skateboarding?

1:01:10 Adam Yeah.

1:01:10 Caller I like Bucky Lasky.

1:01:12 Adam He's the guy I always play in Tony Hawk 2, by the way. I like Bucky.

1:01:15 Drew Cool.

1:01:16 Adam Thanks, Justin.

1:01:16 Drew What's his, Justin? Yeah? You have a lot of balls for calling us today. Thanks.

1:01:21 Stryker All right, see you later.

1:01:22 Drew Sorry, I had to.

1:01:23 Adam Ultimate fighting challenge for nothing, Carmen Electra. No, it's good.

1:01:27 Stryker Lisa.

1:01:28 Caller Yeah.

1:01:28 Adam Hey, you're 19 and you're on this show Loveline. What's up?

1:01:31 Caller Not much. I have these canker sores that I've had for the past two years every day.

1:01:39 Stryker Wow.

1:01:40 Caller Yeah.

1:01:41 Stryker Same spot?

1:01:42 Caller No, they move throughout my mouth and throat.

1:01:46 Stryker Do you have any hardware in your mouth, braces or anything like that?

1:01:50 Caller Nope.

1:01:50 Stryker Do you take any medication?

1:01:52 Caller No, they gave me medication for them, for the sores. They actually get swollen and then they make my lips and my cheeks or whatever it is.

1:02:04 Stryker What did they give you?

1:02:05 Caller They gave me prednisone for a while.

1:02:08 Stryker What is that, Drew? It's an anti-inflammatory base. Okay. Do you have another medical problem? Is this part of a more generalized, like lupus or anything like that?

1:02:17 Caller No, they check for that. They don't have that. They took me off the prednisone because I was taking it every month for a year.

1:02:25 Caller Oh.

1:02:28 Adam How does that start, the canker sores?

1:02:30 Stryker Well, I'm not sure what this is.

1:02:32 Drew No eating disorders or anything?

1:02:34 Caller No.

1:02:35 Adam A lot of vitamin C?

1:02:36 Caller Yeah, I take vitamin C.

1:02:38 Stryker You take a lot of it?

1:02:39 Adam Doesn't that?

1:02:40 Caller No, I don't take a lot of vitamins.

1:02:42 Stryker Why don't you take nothing for a while and just see if it helps?

1:02:44 Caller Well, that's what I'm on right now. I was on colchicine.

1:02:48 Stryker Yeah?

1:02:48 Caller Because...

1:02:49 Stryker What's that? It's an anti-gout medicine.

1:02:52 Caller Yeah, but that actually was helping the canker sores after a while.

1:02:55 Stryker Why were you on colchicine?

1:02:57 Caller It was another doctor prescribed it for the canker sores.

1:03:00 Stryker Wow. Have you seen a dermatologist?

1:03:02 Caller Yeah. She took a biopsy and said there was nothing wrong with it. It was just a canker sore. I've seen actually five doctors.

1:03:10 Stryker All dermatologists?

1:03:11 Caller No, I've seen a regular doctor, an ENT, a dermatologist, a rheumatologist.

1:03:23 Stryker Right there is the right combo. That group of doctors are the ones that deal with mouth sores. Yeah. Wow. Very unusual, Lisa.

1:03:33 Adam Is it really uncomfortable?

1:03:34 Stryker Have you tried antiviral medications, Zovrax?

1:03:37 Caller No.

1:03:38 Stryker Why don't they try some antiviral medicines on you? Why don't you talk to them?

1:03:41 Adam Write that down, Ova-rax. Zovrax, Zovrax, I don't know, Zovrax.

1:03:44 Caller How do you spell that?

1:03:45 Stryker Z-O-V-I-R-A-X.

1:03:47 Caller Z-O-V-R-O.

1:03:49 Stryker I-R-A-X, Zovrax. Okay.

1:03:54 Adam Man, that has got to be so painful.

1:03:55 Stryker Because it's just a-

1:03:56 Caller They're a little bit smaller than a dime, the ones that get smaller.

1:04:00 Stryker That's pretty big.

1:04:01 Caller That's big.

1:04:02 Caller Yeah, that's-

1:04:03 Stryker So they're ulcers. And you get nothing on your skin.

1:04:05 Caller No.

1:04:07 Stryker Do they ever use a term called Pemphigus or Pemphigoid?

1:04:10 Caller No. Usually there's more than one. There's about probably four to six at a time.

1:04:20 Adam Man, all right. Well, Lisa, ask one of those doctors about that.

1:04:24 Stryker All right. Well, you're seeing the right group of guys. And I kind of stick with the dermatologist a little bit. See if they can figure this out, okay? Okay. But ask about the Zoverex for the time being.

1:04:32 Caller Okay.

1:04:33 Adam And no tongue kissing.

1:04:34 Stryker And maybe another biopsy and some cultures, too.

1:04:37 Caller Yeah.

1:04:37 Stryker Yeah. Just because it needs a name. It doesn't have a die. Canker, this is not Canker Shores. No way.

1:04:43 Adam Something weird.

1:04:43 Stryker Yeah, interesting.

1:04:45 Adam Scott.

1:04:46 Hey, guys. How you doing?

1:04:47 Stryker Good. What's up?

1:04:48 Adam You're 29.

1:04:48 Caller Hey, Carmen. I just want to say a few years back at the NBA Finals, I saw you in Chicago. And I just want to say how nice you were. I'm just an average guy. I just came up and said hello. And you were so kind. And I just appreciate it's kind of refreshing to have the left.

1:05:02 Caller Oh, thank you.

1:05:06 Caller But anyway, as far as the ultimate fighting goes, Carmen, is it tough for you to watch that live? I'm a fan of ultimate fighting and I watch on TV a lot. And is it tough for you to watch that stuff live? Because some of it is pretty crazy.

1:05:19 Drew Yeah, it was a little bit tough, I can honestly say. It kind of felt like a guilty pleasure. You know, something that you have to watch. You know, like when there's, you know, you're driving down the street and there's a car accident and you don't want to look because you really don't want to see anything but you do anyway. It's kind of, it's almost not quite that intense but pretty damn close.

1:05:40 Caller Yeah, a lot of these guys too, because being a fan of sport, you know, Chuck Liddell, who's a fighter, he's got a CPA and all these guys are college educated. It's kind of amazing that they, you know, go toe to toe and get after so much. But it's a lot of fun. I think it's a sport that's definitely on the rise now that they're back on the main cable now. And, you know, I think it's a sport that could be as popular as boxing.

1:06:04 Adam You're going to get it this Friday night?

1:06:06 Caller Yeah, I've got the last six or seven and a big fan. Tito Ortiz, real quick, he's done a lot of good charity work. He's worked with a lot of underprivileged kids. And he's the champion.

1:06:18 Stryker He's a really nice guy.

1:06:19 Caller Yeah, he's a great champ. And I just, you know, I appreciate those guys. They're not just mercenaries. You have to get after it. But I mean, there's a lot of good guys out of the ring. It's refreshing to see.

1:06:29 Adam Nice. Well, cool. Well, thanks, Scott.

1:06:31 Caller All right, guys, take care.

1:06:33 Adam Bye. It's the UFC, which Scott is talking about. It's going on Friday night, Mandalay Bay. If you want to buy tickets, no dice. Get it on a pay-per-view and all that. Drew, you're about to say something? Oh, that's where I'm going. Jamie.

1:06:46 Stryker Well, now there's all these comment calls all of a sudden that she's got to go after this.

1:06:50 Adam Jamie. What's up? You're 24 and Loveline. And you are asking a brilliant question. Say it.

1:06:56 Caller I just wanted to ask Carmen what she likes in a man.

1:06:59 Caller So I just was wondering about that.

1:07:02 Drew What I like in a man?

1:07:03 Adam That's right.

1:07:04 Caller Yes.

1:07:04 Drew Well, it's interesting because it's actually changed. I used to want to fix people. And I used to want to be the savior of someone that had a lot of problems and come into their life and just try to turn everything around. So my judgment really wasn't that great. And I would make some poor decisions. I was kind of looking for more of the excitement or more of the fun or just the drama.

1:07:32 Adam You've dated a lot of famous people since you've been famous.

1:07:35 Caller No, not really.

1:07:36 Adam Can I name some? And you say you dated them?

1:07:38 Drew No, absolutely not. We're not going there today. And I just, you know, I took some time to just sort of be by myself. And I stayed single for like almost a year. And then everything changed. I mean, honestly, what I would look for in a man is just someone that's had a lot of experiences or maybe someone that could have had a crazy past, but just really got it together. And someone who's smart and still fun and exciting, but just, you know.

1:08:05 Stryker Tell them about that year because that was so, it's an intriguing part of your story. What you did with yourself to sort of. And when?

1:08:11 Adam The year when she wasn't seen?

1:08:12 Stryker Yeah.

1:08:12 Caller What happened?

1:08:13 Drew Yeah, my mom passed away. She had a brain tumor. And then within a week of my mom, my sister passed away and I'd never really gone through anything so extreme as that. And I didn't know how to handle it. So I would just go out a lot and I surrounded myself with people and I became really numb. And I remember after it happened, I didn't, I couldn't even cry. You know, people would say, are you okay? I go, yeah, I'm fine. What do you mean? I'm fine. I'm okay. And I had to be this strong person and it really started to get to me because deep down inside I was having all these feelings. I just wasn't allowing myself to feel them. And I took, finally, it just hit me one day. And I just said, in order to heal, I have to feel, I have to let myself cry or be angry. And I just took a year away from just the drama. I cut a lot of people out of my life and just spent a lot of time reading and just trying to get my.

1:09:05 Stryker That how did that?

1:09:07 Drew Sorry.

1:09:07 Stryker All right. How did that happen though? You woke up one day and power, did you have a religious sort of connection with it? Was it a spiritual thing?

1:09:14 Drew I don't really know if it was a spiritual thing. I just had enough, you know, I just was very aware of.

1:09:21 Stryker Was it the bottom you hit?

1:09:24 Drew I didn't really hit the bottom. I mean, I remember watching Oprah and it just kind of like something snapped inside of me. And that's where I learned in order to heal, you have to feel and it sounds kind of corny, but it's really true. And it just rang a bell. I don't know.

1:09:42 Adam But what about talking about it?

1:09:44 Drew Yeah, just being open about it.

1:09:46 Adam I mean, I don't know.

1:09:47 Drew Yeah, that's another part of this healing process for me, was just being really honest and really just talking about what was going on in my life. And it really helps. And it helps, too, for people to understand, because people can relate, you know?

1:10:00 Adam Well, there's a lot of people listening, including someone in this room like myself. I can't talk about that stuff at all.

1:10:06 Stryker Well, that's how you get problems. Really?

1:10:09 Adam Yeah.

1:10:09 Stryker I mean, just from a standpoint of, let's look at the World Trade Center disaster. In order to not get post-traumatic stress reaction, you need to do exactly what Carmen did. Everyone naturally goes numb. Everyone gets angry. Everyone bargains and mourns and pushes the feelings away. But you have to take the time in a connected fashion with other people. Deal with it. Yeah.

1:10:31 Drew Like haven't you ever like started to get upset about something? And instead of just sitting there and like crying about it, or maybe writing things down, instead of doing that, you'll find something, well, I'll just go shopping or I'll put on some music or just be in silence and just feel it, you know?

1:10:47 Adam Drew, I have a question for you. Is it unhealthy if you are able to express the emotions, okay, so you cry, you mourn, but you have trouble talking about bringing up what happened to strangers? It's normal.

1:11:05 Stryker It's normal, though.

1:11:05 Adam Is that unhealthy?

1:11:08 Stryker It's normal and it's something that you have to pay attention to because if you get stuck in that avoidance walled off place, that's when you get yourself into trouble.

1:11:18 Adam Avoidance or not wanting someone to put a stigma on you. Like every time, you find out something, that something happened to somebody really bad and then sometimes it happens to me when I see them, I automatically think about, God, that poor person that happened to him.

1:11:33 Stryker Well, I don't know that everyone has to deal with that in their own way. Some people like to deal with it very publicly, others very privately. And you need to decide for yourself what works. I think in general, it's not important that everyone knows your business. It's just important that you experience it in the presence of somebody you really trust. Got it.

1:11:49 Adam On that note, here's what we're going to do. We are going to take a little break. Carmen Electra is here. Thank you for being so open and honest. That was amazing. Thank you. Seriously, man.

1:11:56 Stryker We know.

1:11:58 Adam Huh?

1:11:58 Stryker Anderson says, you got to go.

1:11:59 Adam Oh, I know.

1:11:59 Stryker All right. Sorry. We got it. We got it.

1:12:01 Adam All right. More Loveline is coming on. Hold on, you guys.

1:12:05 Caller Loveline, we'll be right back.

1:12:07 Caller Call on the 1-800-LOVE-191.

1:12:45 Adam Drew, put on your headphones real quick. This is the best new song in the plane in the background right here.

1:12:51 Stryker We've been using it as a bumper for like a year and a half.

1:12:53 Adam No, no, no. The song's only been out for like a month. System of a Down. That's the Chop Sue one.

1:12:57 Stryker How long have we had this for?

1:12:58 Adam Anderson, not that long, right? A month and a half.

1:13:00 Stryker A month and a half. Really? It seems like it's been about a year.

1:13:02 Adam They all sound alike to you.

1:13:03 Stryker Yes, they do.

1:13:04 Adam Come over my place sometime. I'll make some sandwiches and we'll listen to music.

1:13:07 Stryker You don't eat peanut butter, though.

1:13:09 Adam No, I don't eat peanut butter and I've never had it, tried it, or a watermelon, or a coffee. I know, you said it last night. I'm Stryker in for Adam Corolla, Ace Rockolla, my main man mayonnaise, and Dr. Drew is right next to me. Actually, Carmen just took off. I knew she was here for one more segment, but we never really gave the big send-off tour. But she was fantastic that last bit that she was here. I'm so honest.

1:13:33 Stryker Isn't that interesting? Every time I talk to her, we have a discussion about that period of her life. It's so unusual for somebody to spontaneously do something that healthy.

1:13:41 Adam Yeah. I was unbelievable.

1:13:43 Stryker After watching Oprah.

1:13:44 Adam Yeah. Well, Oprah is good. She has that Dr. Phil on all the time now.

1:13:47 Stryker Please.

1:13:48 Adam I was going to say, you're way better than that guy.

1:13:50 Stryker Thank you very much.

1:13:50 Adam About a thousand times better than him. Did you try to get that gig, or was that an open gig?

1:13:55 Stryker He was the jury consultant for that case when she had gone out of Texas, and they made a friendship. He's not a bad guy. He's a good guy.

1:14:04 Adam He seems like a good guy, but he seems like he I don't know how to put it. He parodies himself the way he does it.

1:14:09 Stryker Well, I just think, my lycrasm is not even of him. It's of what people choose to put on TV, and sort of the range of training and expertise and stuff is sort of not what's needed to do that job.

1:14:19 Adam But still, Oprah is, I think, the smartest, best talk show lady out there.

1:14:22 Stryker Actually, I've forgotten that Carmen's story always inspires me to do more media, because to me it's like, oh my god, it does make a difference.

1:14:29 Adam What did you do on Good Morning America the other day? You said you were on it.

1:14:33 Stryker I give talks at colleges around the country and Good Morning America camera followed me up to a college in Minnesota and then they showed a piece about it and I talked to Charlie Gibson about it.

1:14:42 Adam Got it.

1:14:42 Stryker Charlie Gibson.

1:14:44 Adam Charlie Steiner from ESPN?

1:14:46 Stryker Who's the host of Good Morning America?

1:14:47 Adam Brian Gumbel? Greg Louganis?

1:14:49 Stryker What?

1:14:50 Adam Who's the host of Good Morning America? Diane Sawyer and Charles Bronson? Charles Groton? I don't know, it doesn't matter. If anyone knows, you can tell us on the line.

1:15:00 Caller I care.

1:15:02 Adam Carolina, you're 22 and Loveline. Hi.

1:15:04 Caller Hi. I'm a working actress. I do theater and stuff like that. And I've been having these strange dreams that I'm actually having like weird sexual fantasies with famous actors.

1:15:18 Adam Actors or famous people?

1:15:20 Caller Actors.

1:15:20 Adam Okay. Like who?

1:15:22 Caller Like Tom Cruise. I mean like weird assortments though. You know, I mean like Tom Cruise and like Freddie Prinze Jr. Handsome men, yeah.

1:15:32 Adam And Ted Stryker, Ernest Borgdine.

1:15:35 Stryker I mean, it's you naming guys that sort of make sense, right?

1:15:37 Adam Tony Orlando?

1:15:39 Caller No. Okay.

1:15:40 Caller And I'm actually arguing with my boyfriend in the same dreams. So I don't know if in some way that's related.

1:15:48 Stryker I don't know.

1:15:49 Caller And you know, I've told them that I've had dreams about that I'm arguing with him that we're, you know, getting into these big nasty fights, but you know, not about the other part.

1:15:58 Stryker So are you sort of done with that relationship?

1:16:01 Caller Pardon me?

1:16:02 Stryker Are you kind of done with your relationship with your boyfriend? No, no.

1:16:04 Caller We've been together for two years.

1:16:08 Stryker I know. That's not a good defense. That's even more of a reason for me to suspect you might be done, but just don't really don't want to deal with it.

1:16:14 Adam Do you guys live together?

1:16:16 Stryker No.

1:16:17 Adam Is he a working actor or a waiter?

1:16:21 Stryker No.

1:16:21 Caller Actually, he works for his father.

1:16:24 Caller Oh, okay.

1:16:27 Stryker You know, at 22, sometimes you don't know when relationships are over.

1:16:30 Adam Yeah, we talked about this last night.

1:16:31 Stryker Yeah, you really don't. And so you often let relationships go on for a year or two or three after you would, longer than you would at, say, 28, when you'd be done with it in two months. So just try to be very honest with yourself about what it is you're looking for right now. It just kind of sounds like you're unsettled.

1:16:48 Caller Okay, great.

1:16:48 Stryker Right?

1:16:49 Adam Carolina.

1:16:50 Caller Yeah.

1:16:51 Adam You live out in the Valley, right? Is it hard for you to do these auditions when they're in Hollywood and places like that?

1:16:56 Caller Yes. It's extremely hard and I have a really tight schedule.

1:17:00 Adam Well, move over the hill, baby. Get some jobs.

1:17:03 Caller I'm trying. I'm looking right now.

1:17:05 Adam Good luck. All right.

1:17:05 Caller Thank you very much.

1:17:06 Adam Okay.

1:17:07 Caller Good night.

1:17:07 Adam Good night. I wonder if I'll end up in one of her dreams. Lisa? What's up? You're 23 and you are on Loveline.

1:17:15 Caller I'm 23 and I'm a stripper in Salt Lake.

1:17:17 Adam Congratulations. How's the money in Salt Lake? Did a lot of guys show up?

1:17:22 Caller Oh, yeah, of course.

1:17:23 Adam Is it just topless or full nude?

1:17:26 Caller We wear T-Backs and pasties.

1:17:28 Caller Okay.

1:17:31 Adam I know the lingo, Drew.

1:17:32 Caller I know that I'm dating. Do you think it's a good idea for me to invite them to the club?

1:17:36 Stryker No.

1:17:36 Caller So they can know more about me or...

1:17:39 Stryker No. I think telling them what you do is a good thing because it is something you do.

1:17:43 Adam Give them the passes.

1:17:45 Stryker Yeah. I don't think many guys can handle seeing it.

1:17:49 Caller Actually, seeing it is kind of keeping them separate.

1:17:53 Adam It takes a good guy to be able to handle it if he goes.

1:17:55 Stryker Yeah. I don't know.

1:17:59 Adam Lisa, do you watch that show on HBO when they follow the strippers around?

1:18:02 Caller No.

1:18:03 Adam Oh, it's really good. There's a couple situations like that where the boyfriend comes in and watches the girl strip and he gets fired up sometimes at the girl when she does a little too much when she's dancing. Not like nothing super sexual but just gets a little closer and the guys freak every time.

1:18:20 Caller Oh, yeah, jealousy.

1:18:21 Adam Yeah.

1:18:22 Caller Yeah.

1:18:25 Adam So, I don't, maybe you should let them know but not right off the bat, I don't think. Don't you think, Drew?

1:18:30 Stryker I think letting them know, sooner the better. They need to know who she is and what she does. And so, most guys start out saying they can handle it, but when they really start developing feelings for you, they want you to stop and change. And very few guys can handle it, unless they meet you at the club, aren't going to be able to handle saying you do that.

1:18:49 Adam How much of your table dance is in Salt Lake?

1:18:52 Caller Oh, we don't do table dances. We just do off stage work.

1:18:55 Adam Oh, okay. Got it.

1:18:56 Caller All right. Well, I have another question, too. Yeah, with bruising, I get a lot of bruises.

1:19:03 Caller From what?

1:19:05 Caller From, I don't know, aerobics work? Everything like that.

1:19:10 Stryker Aerobics?

1:19:12 Caller Yeah, well, dancing.

1:19:14 Adam Okay.

1:19:15 Caller It's for my job, definitely.

1:19:16 Caller It's for my job.

1:19:17 Caller I get bruises up and down my legs. I don't know. It's not like they're caused by me bumping something because I know I don't bump my legs that much. It's almost like it follows a pattern.

1:19:29 Stryker What's the pattern?

1:19:31 Caller Just in lines and perfect circles all the way down my leg.

1:19:36 Stryker You've got to bump into something.

1:19:38 Caller Well, I bump into things, but not that much.

1:19:43 Stryker You must be kind of in an altered state, like being in a football game or something. You know, you're sort of all pumped up when you're doing these things. And you don't realize it.

1:19:50 Caller You don't really realize it.

1:19:51 Stryker Yeah, I think so. I mean, you might. There are there are medical conditions that can predispose to bruising. And obviously, if you're taking a lot of aspirin or anti-inflammatories, that can increase the bruising. So you want to avoid that. But you might want to have a doctor just at least do a CBC and a blood clotting test on you, just to be sure.

1:20:09 Caller Yeah, I've been taking like iron and potassium. I know that's supposed to help.

1:20:13 Stryker No, it won't do much.

1:20:14 Caller No, not too much.

1:20:15 Stryker No, it might be a little bit helpful, but that's it.

1:20:18 Adam Lisa, do you ever do the go to move as a dancer where you get to your knees and do the really, really slow crawl with your butt kind of in the air and you crawl right to the guy and make eyes at him just to get a dollar?

1:20:27 Caller Oh, yeah.

1:20:28 Adam I love that move.

1:20:29 Caller Keep up that move, girl.

1:20:30 Stryker All right.

1:20:31 Adam Good luck with the bruises.

1:20:32 Stryker Just for a dollar?

1:20:33 Adam Well, whatever. It takes maybe a dance for after she gets off the main stage and she'll be with you in just a minute. That is Strawberry. Whoops, wrong one. I knew a dancer named Strawberry in Tucson back in 1991. She talked to herself. Lucas.

1:20:47 Caller Stryker.

1:20:47 Adam What's up, man?

1:20:48 Caller Nothing much, man. My question is for you. By the way, Dr. Drew, you rock.

1:20:51 Stryker Dude, thanks.

1:20:53 Caller I'm in a band called the F***. And we rock. We play live. We played the Palm Springs area, Palm Desert area. We played a gig at a club called Reflections. It's in Victorville. A bunch of big names have been through there. We actually have a demo CD that's out. We're in the process of remastering because my bass line is on it and my drummer's drum line is on it. I want to know what I can do at this point to further our...

1:21:21 Adam Did you get signed?

1:21:22 Caller Yeah.

1:21:22 Adam Do you guys have a following in Palm Springs?

1:21:25 Caller Not really in Palm Springs. We have a pretty big following in Victorville.

1:21:29 Adam But you're from Palm Springs.

1:21:30 Caller Yeah, but the area is not the right area. I mean, there's not that many clubs. We played this club called the Rio, which is mainly a hip hop club. We played a club called the Warehouse, which is a hip hop club.

1:21:42 Adam All right, let me give you quick advice. Then if you want to talk more, I'll just talk to you.

1:21:46 Stryker Talk to you.

1:21:46 Caller Okay, that's cool.

1:21:47 Adam All right, best thing to do if you're trying to get signed. If you live in a place like Palm Springs, which is only like an hour and a half, two hours away from LA.

1:21:53 Stryker Move, move, move.

1:21:54 Adam Either you got to book gigs in LA and create a following, and make sure you guys have a lot of demo CDs handy after you play, so you can sell them, so you can use that money to go to different areas to play in your band. Soon as you get a following, that's when a lot of the labels will start to recognize you, and make sure your demo was really good.

1:22:10 Stryker A following in Victorville won't work.

1:22:12 Adam Probably not a lot.

1:22:13 Stryker You'll have to be able to send a following.

1:22:14 Adam Unless it's a fluke, and you know. What about a New York following? Yeah, I mean, anywhere. As long as you can get a following. You know, because of the Internet these days, a lot of bands are getting big and getting discovered through the Internet. So that's my advice, at least for now. Kathy?

1:22:28 Caller Yes?

1:22:28 Adam What's up? You're 20 on Loveline. Thanks for waiting.

1:22:31 Caller Yeah. My boyfriend, he never really liked to do drugs. I'll do marijuana every once in a while, but he was up in Ann Arbor practicing with his band because he goes to the University of Michigan.

1:22:44 Adam Does he have a follow-up skin type?

1:22:48 Caller And he tried crystal meth. And lately he's been having a lot of mood swings. I'm kind of wondering what crystal meth can do to affect you.

1:22:57 Stryker A single exposure?

1:22:59 Adam So he says probably.

1:23:00 Stryker Kathy?

1:23:01 Caller Yes?

1:23:01 Stryker A single exposure?

1:23:03 Caller Yeah.

1:23:03 Stryker He used it one time?

1:23:05 Caller Yeah.

1:23:05 Stryker Nothing. Probably nothing. Unless he's manic-depressive, it can precipitate mood disturbances. Yeah, that's possible. But it's rare that somebody... That's kind of a drug that people do more than once.

1:23:18 Caller Yeah. I was kind of wondering, though, because a lot of my friends are potheads and they won't even touch crystal meth. They'll do acid and shrooms and a lot of other stuff, but they won't touch crystal meth.

1:23:27 Stryker All bad. But amphetamines are highly addictive, and you use it enough, long enough, it will damage your brain. It's very similar effects to much, much smaller doses of ecstasy.

1:23:37 Adam Can you get hooked on that stuff from doing it once? No. But marijuana, you said like five times or so.

1:23:44 Stryker When you first get that amazing experience from POD, that you're hooked pow.

1:23:47 Adam OK.

1:23:48 Stryker That's the only drug that really, heroin is the only one that does that.

1:23:50 Adam What, on one time?

1:23:51 Stryker Yeah. Really? Yeah, that's the only one.

1:23:53 Adam And how long does it last when you do heroin, that sensation?

1:23:56 Stryker A few hours.

1:23:57 Adam That's it. And then you're done.

1:23:59 Stryker And then you're thinking about doing it again and again.

1:24:00 Adam Wow. Does that answer your question, Kathy? Yes.

1:24:03 Stryker Thank you. And people describe POD even more so gloriously even than heroin. Heroin, or at least opiate, people describe it as for the first time everything was good. It was okay. With POD, it's like, oh, this is wonderful.

1:24:16 Caller Oh, Jesus.

1:24:17 Stryker Guess what? You're going to keep thinking about that.

1:24:19 Adam Right. All right. This is Loveline, you guys. We have to take another quick break. If you want to get in here, it's 1-800-LOVE-191. That's Dr. Drew and I'm Stryker for Ace Rockolla. We'll be back after this.

1:24:29 Caller Loveline, Loveline, 1-800-LOVE-191.

1:24:32 Caller I'm back in a minute.

1:25:00 Caller We're back.

1:25:00 Adam This is Loveline, 1-800-LOVE-191, in for Adam Corolla. I am still Ted Stryker in Los Angeles with Dr. Drew Pinsky, Board Certified Physician, Addiction Medicine Specialist. When I used to listen to Loveline, I never understood what that meant, that whole tagline next to your name.

1:25:17 Stryker Addiction Medicine, then?

1:25:18 Adam You know, it was kind of mumbled over.

1:25:20 Stryker No one understands what the hell I am as part of the problem. And I actually have some concerns about it. And a guy emailed me a letter a couple months ago, also concerned about it. His thing was, do you think more sophisticated consumers really understand? No, because if I say internist, people think you're an intern, you're still in training. They don't know what an internist is. And I say addictionologist, they have no idea what that is.

1:25:44 Adam Your specialty is people that are addicted to something?

1:25:47 Stryker Yes, but I'm sort of, I'm interested in the global human experience. Mental health, physical health.

1:25:54 Adam That part is obvious to me, but maybe not to the people. Right, you're not just an internist, medicine.

1:25:59 Stryker No, I'm not just that. I also do a lot of psychiatric stuff.

1:26:02 Adam You could, if someone has been watching this show, listening to the show for the past five years, the best sociological studies could and have come from this.

1:26:12 Stryker Oh yeah.

1:26:13 Adam I mean, it's something.

1:26:13 Stryker Oh yeah, I wish somebody would do it.

1:26:15 Adam Well, you haven't thought of charting everything?

1:26:19 Stryker I had a research student once about six, seven years ago, and she did some stuff, but it really would be hard to corral all this. Right. All right.

1:26:28 Adam Let's try to squeeze a few calls in before we have to go. Robin?

1:26:31 Yeah.

1:26:31 Adam Hey, you're 22.

1:26:32 Caller Yeah. Well, I just broke up a few days ago with my boyfriend of four years. It was never perfect. It's always off and on. And it just, it got so bad that I want to know how to, I mean, I want to stay away from him. I don't ever want to do this again. I don't ever want to go back. And it's just been a really bad pattern that we've gotten into.

1:26:55 Stryker You've broken up and then gone back several times.

1:26:57 Caller Yeah. And this time it's just, I found he was sleeping with two other girls. And so I think I was so angry this time that it's kind of helping me to stay away, but I want to know how to keep being angry.

1:27:08 Adam Was it a pattern? Is that why you stayed with him? Just because it was convenient, you had someone always there. If you want to do something, you could call him up. Was it like that?

1:27:14 Caller No. I really loved him. He's got a lot of problems, a history of suicide and his family, alcoholism. And I guess as cliché as it is, I thought I could help him. I thought even though I really loved him, I did. But you can't get through.

1:27:27 Stryker There's a book out there called But I Love Him. I think we're going to have the author on one of these days. I suggest you check it out. Just go on Amazon. It's called But I Love Him. And maybe you'll insight into how meaningless that term is in relationships like this. How do you stay away from him?

1:27:45 Caller Yeah.

1:27:46 Adam I mean, not go back to him.

1:27:48 Caller Yeah.

1:27:48 Stryker Don't call him. Do not contact him.

1:27:51 Caller The thing is, I know that's the hardest part is I know he will. He'll get drunk. He'll call. I'll feel bad. I'm not saying that's why I have to go back.

1:27:58 Stryker Then go to Al-Anon. Change your number. You must bring the Cone of Silence down. Because every time you contact him, the clock starts ticking again on your process of getting over this relationship. And you need several months without any contact in order to do it. And why torture yourself with resetting that clock every couple of days?

1:28:19 Adam Does that make sense, Robin?

1:28:21 Caller It does. It does.

1:28:22 Caller It's just actually doing it that's going to be hard.

1:28:24 Adam Because the way Drew said it, it clicked in my mind. How do I put this? Basically, if you don't call him, the better off you're going to be in the long run starting tomorrow.

1:28:35 Stryker Starting now?

1:28:36 Adam Starting now.

1:28:36 Stryker Immediately. You've got to stop. And you're not going to, so what can I do to make you?

1:28:42 Adam No, I trust her. I think she's going to.

1:28:44 Stryker No, she's not going to.

1:28:45 Adam Are you going to, Robin?

1:28:46 Caller You know, this time I've never been angry. There's a couple of things that are different.

1:28:49 Stryker Yeah, but you're not going to be angry in a few weeks, and you're going to be in denial still, and you're going to just miss it and explain it. Get that book, But I Love Him, change your phone number and all contact.

1:28:58 Caller Okay.

1:28:59 Adam And move to Antarctica.

1:29:00 Caller All right.

1:29:01 Stryker You have to.

1:29:02 Adam And go get one of those good burritos at UCSB.

1:29:04 Stryker Part of the problem, I was going to say part of the problem is she's in Santa Barbara, she will never leave. No one ever leaves Santa Barbara.

1:29:09 Adam That's a great place.

1:29:09 Stryker It's too nice.

1:29:10 Adam They have the best golf courses there. Jason.

1:29:15 Stryker Jason.

1:29:16 Caller Hello.

1:29:16 Adam Hey, you're on Loveline, you're 21.

1:29:19 Caller Yeah. My fiance, like saying she lost her feelings for me because I lost my job.

1:29:25 Stryker She's saying that?

1:29:26 Caller Yeah. And she's like wanting to move out and go live back with her parents.

1:29:31 Stryker Because you lost your job?

1:29:33 Caller Yeah.

1:29:33 Stryker Nothing to do with how you're behaving or how you're feeling. It's merely because you lost your job.

1:29:39 Caller Yeah.

1:29:39 Adam That's not nice of her.

1:29:40 Caller Yeah, she's saying that she doesn't feel like she wants to support me.

1:29:43 Adam What were you doing for a job?

1:29:45 Caller I was a salesman.

1:29:47 Stryker What were you selling?

1:29:48 Caller Furniture.

1:29:50 Stryker And why did you get a new job?

1:29:52 Caller Because I'm just having a hard time finding one right now.

1:29:54 Stryker How long ago did you lose your job?

1:29:56 Caller A couple of weeks.

1:29:58 Adam Oh, she's already turning on you.

1:30:00 Stryker No, something's missing here, Jason. There's something really missing.

1:30:03 Adam This could be an excuse, you losing your job for her to be meeting.

1:30:07 Stryker No, she's probably telling you other stuff too. You're just choosing to ignore all that.

1:30:10 Caller And like, out of the blue, like all these guys' names come up that are her old friends and stuff.

1:30:15 Stryker Yeah, out of the blue, she's probably been telling you for a long time that she's not happy, right?

1:30:19 Caller Not really. Not lately, no. Not until this came up.

1:30:24 Stryker She's been perfectly happy until two weeks ago.

1:30:26 Caller Yeah, we were going to get married and see her and then all of a sudden this happened and she just like totally flipped her lid.

1:30:34 Stryker Well either she has a brain tumor, she is more disturbed than you're letting us on, or there's a lot more missing here that you're in massive denial about. And I suspect it's the latter.

1:30:47 Caller Well, she's got like a lot of guy friends, and now she's starting to talk to one that I haven't even heard of. She says, yeah, they're just friends, they're just friends.

1:30:55 Stryker Have you always been kind of jealous and controlling and not let her have her guy friends?

1:30:59 Caller No, I have no problem with her friends. Like, some of them she won't let me meet. She's like, you don't need to meet them.

1:31:05 Stryker Have you always been kind of jealous and controlling about these guys?

1:31:09 Caller Well, some guys I'm jealous of because she keeps them under her wing.

1:31:13 Stryker Have you been sort of trying to control her and tell her who she can and can't spend time with?

1:31:17 Caller No, because that hadn't been an issue yet until now.

1:31:24 Adam You think there's something going on with the fiancee and...

1:31:28 Stryker There's just something missing here. We would need to talk to her to find out what's really going on. I suspect if we talked to her we'd hear an entirely different story.

1:31:34 Adam Have you sat down one-on-one and just tried to get all the BS out and find out what the real deal is?

1:31:38 Caller She just starts yelling.

1:31:40 Adam You know what, I think there's something...

1:31:43 Stryker What are you upset about? This sounds like an awful person.

1:31:44 Adam And it sounds like the relationship is about to end anyway.

1:31:47 Stryker Yeah. It's not about the job.

1:31:49 Caller We broke up.

1:31:50 Caller I mean, we broke up. But she's saying, if I get a job and start doing all the stuff that I had was doing, there's a good chance we might get back together. But now she's saying, well, I just want to be single for a while.

1:32:04 Stryker Well, then that's it.

1:32:04 Adam That's what's going on. Man, you're only 21. You seem like a pretty good guy. You had a job. Go get another job. There's plenty of women out there. And it sounds so easy for me to say.

1:32:14 Stryker It's hard for me to say, but very troubled.

1:32:16 Adam It's harder than it is.

1:32:17 Stryker Because it's just not fitting together. Maybe because he's not really seeing her for who she is.

1:32:20 Caller Why are you acting stupid like that?

1:32:22 Stryker There, that would be her.

1:32:23 Adam Drew, can I real quick go to Henry?

1:32:24 Stryker Okay.

1:32:25 Adam Henry. Henry.

1:32:28 Yes, sir.

1:32:28 Adam What's up, man? You're 27. Real quick.

1:32:31 Caller Yes, sir. I just got some, just needed to get some information on like some weight loss drugs or anything like that. Do y'all know anything about that?

1:32:39 Adam Weight loss drugs and what can they do?

1:32:41 Stryker You see a dietician, get some exercise going. They're not just yet, is there any really good weight loss drugs? There are a few things going on. I just read another article today about insulin modulating medication. You could see an endocrinologist who specializes in obesity and weight loss, might be able to help you. But the big thing is proper diet, exercise. That's where it starts.

1:33:02 Adam It is so much about the diet. Cut off half your food, try to eat better also. Cut off half the food, you will lose weight instantaneously. Stay away from the fast food and all that stuff. All right, we got to take a quick break and we will talk to you just a second. And more Love Line. Hold on. All right, guys.

1:33:18 Caller Bottom line, here's the deal.

1:33:19 Caller Looking to hook up. Sick of wasting time with the wrong person. One call is all you need to make.

1:33:23 Caller Call the Dateline.

1:33:25 Stryker 877-889, date.

1:33:30 Caller Love Line with Adam Corolla and Dr. Drew.

1:34:00 Adam Loveline, it's Loveline, and we're about to go.

1:34:05 Stryker Ooh, tomorrow night's just the love between us.

1:34:07 Adam Just the love between us at Loveline tomorrow. I will be here again tomorrow night and the following night, actually, for Adam Corolla. Please do not turn off your radio when I'm here.

1:34:16 Stryker Ultimate Fighting Champion 33, Vegas and Victory in Vegas.

1:34:19 Adam That's right. Sorry, Adam.

1:34:20 Stryker I'm sorry, Adam, but it's true. Check your what? Check your cable listings.

1:34:25 Adam Yeah, it's Friday night. There's Ultimate Fighting Championship and you can get on your pay-per-view or your dish or whatever you got.

1:34:31 Stryker 10 p.m. Eastern Time, 7 p.m. Pacific Time.

1:34:33 Adam That's right. So that's it, right?

1:34:35 Stryker That's it. We'll get out of here.

1:34:36 Adam All right. For Dr. Drew, I am Stryker and I am saying adios. I want the Giant Stinky or you can go to the Super Bowl. Both great prizes, of course.

1:34:44 Caller This has been Loveline. The opinions expressed on this show are not necessarily those of the staff, management, sponsors or the station. The producer for Loveline is Ann Wilkins Dingle. Loveline is a presentation of Westwood One Entertainment.

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