Wednesday, September 1, 2004

0:16🔗 Voiceover Sexually oriented content. Listener discretion is advised. This is Loveline. With Adam Carolla and Dr. Drew.

0:34🔗 Stryker Or not.

0:34🔗 Adam Anderson.

0:35🔗 Stryker Come on Anderson.

0:36🔗 Voiceover Stryker. Welcome to Loveline. It's 1-800-LOVE-191. Filling in for Adam Carolla. I'm Stryker. And Dr. Drew, Board Certified Physician, Addiction Medicine Specialist. Dr. Drizzu. My last night with you.

0:50🔗 Stryker I know. I'm falling in love. It's going to be bad.

0:53🔗 Adam We had fun, man. Three nights in a row. And I'm excited for my last night here. At least for the time being. Papa Roach. Two fourths of them hanging out.

1:00🔗 Drew What's going down?

1:01🔗 Adam Jacoby and Jerry. How are you guys doing?

1:03🔗 Drew I'm fabulous. Thanks for asking.

1:05🔗 Adam You're welcome. Yesterday was a very large day in your lives.

1:08🔗 Drew Yes, it was. Our album came out yesterday.

1:11🔗 Adam Get It Away With Murder.

1:12🔗 Drew Yes. In stores now. Buy it. Steal it.

1:15🔗 Adam They were just on my little radio show just in LA and we're going to reiterate or say what we just said.

1:19🔗 Stryker I'm just thinking he better say something about his upcoming delivery.

1:23🔗 Drew I'm sure that's coming.

1:24🔗 Stryker If you put the album ahead of the baby, your wife is going to kill you.

1:27🔗 Drew I got to straighten it out. I'm putting out an album which is out and my wife is putting out a baby in the next couple days.

1:32🔗 Adam Which is not out.

1:33🔗 Drew Which is not out yet. I'm going to go home.

1:35🔗 Stryker Both are out.

1:36🔗 Drew We're going to hopefully hump and induce labor. It's going to be great.

1:40🔗 Adam You're going to who do what?

1:42🔗 Stryker Labor?

1:43🔗 Adam Oh, okay.

1:43🔗 Drew I got it. I'm sure Dr. Drew, right? They say that's one of the things that can induce labor in the last month. In the ninth month, yeah. They say there's something in the men's sperm that connects with the organs. Come on. Get my back.

1:56🔗 I'm trying to get laid when I go home.

1:58🔗 Adam Yes. Come on.

1:59🔗 Stryker It's fine. Enjoy.

2:00🔗 Drew You know what I'm saying?

2:03🔗 Stryker If she goes to labor, I hope you're embarrassed when they find a deposit in there and they go reaching around looking for the baby.

2:08🔗 Adam Is it possible the phone may ring and the lady's like, I'm going to Cedars right now or wherever you're going to have the baby?

2:14🔗 Drew You know what? I actually had to cancel a trip to... I was supposed to go to... Or the band was supposed to go to Quebec in Canada and do this thing for MusiPluss out there, which is a music channel. And we had to cancel because we went to the doctor the other day and they were like, it could be any day, you know? And I was like, you know, family first. Like, I can mend a relationship with fans that are pissed that we didn't show up, but I can't, like, miss the birth of my child, so, you know.

2:40🔗 Adam So is Jerry, Dave and Tobin, are they going to be in the delivery room playing so, like, the baby can come out to Papa Roach?

2:46🔗 Drew Yeah, Jerry's going to be in the corner shredding, and Dave's going to be in there with his sticks tapping it out, you know what I'm saying? Tobin's just going to, like, phone it in. Via satellite, Tobin style.

2:56🔗 Adam Papa Roach is here on Loveline, and if you haven't seen Papa Roach A, what's wrong with you? I'm talking about live, because this band gives it more than they have in them every single time I've seen them play, and I was so lucky to see them play at a place called The Roxy, famous Roxy here in LA. I don't know how many people it holds, but it's small.

3:14🔗 Drew It's a bang of place, like, I don't know, like 600, 700?

3:16🔗 Adam But it feels like 80.

3:18🔗 Drew It's just, it's tight in there.

3:20🔗 Adam What was it like playing, like, doing your thing on stage, but doing it that way, like, where, like, people could literally get on stage with you?

3:27🔗 We did a tour of the States, and it was a lot of clubs like that. So, you know, it's, the energy there is just insane. And really, like, the LA crowd is infamous for being really kind of too cool. But that place was hopping.

3:42🔗 Drew Yeah, they were going off.

3:43🔗 Adam It was. I was sweating in there. I'm not even in your band, and I was, like, sweating, going crazy.

3:49🔗 Drew Yeah, that's how we do. I mean, it's like, you know, to get in those intimate environments and playing the new songs for the people and it's going off, like, it was just a really good tour for us, you know, to get connected with the small clubs again.

4:00🔗 Adam Right, because you've played huge festivals probably in London to, like, the big venues out here in the States.

4:06🔗 Drew We actually just did a cool gig in London a couple weeks ago, or about a week ago at this place called The Barfly, and it's like 200 people maximum. And we just did it, like, you know, for this magazine called Karang over there has been supporting us. And it's like a special gig. You know, come see P. Roach in a real small club and, you know, we rock it. And actually we just got the review from it. We read the review, they gave us four out of five Ks. I was like, yeah, represent. So we've been murdering it live.

4:37🔗 Adam You're also a band that takes pride very much in where you guys are from.

4:41🔗 Drew Vacaville.

4:42🔗 Adam There you go, right there.

4:43🔗 Drew Vacavillians.

4:44🔗 Adam Every single time. You guys ready to take calls? We're going to play some new Papa Roach, by the way. We'll play two songs tonight and we'll do that pretty soon. But first, let's talk to Kayla, 15, on Loveline. Papa Roach, what's up, Kayla?

4:55🔗 Yeah, I have this question. I heard from a friend that you can get an infection, a vaginal infection, by taking a bubble bath.

5:03🔗 Because I take bubble baths often.

5:06🔗 Drew I take bubble baths, too.

5:08🔗 Adam Start relaxing.

5:09🔗 Stryker Have you had a vaginal infection?

5:11🔗 Drew I'm working on it. I think maybe if you spend more than five hours in a bubble bath, you might get a vaginal infection.

5:16🔗 Stryker I think you're basically right. The soap can be irritating, but it's not an easy way to get an infection.

5:22🔗 Adam How about a wiener infection? Can you get that from a bubble bath?

5:25🔗 Stryker Again, it's irritating to the lining of urethra and whatnot.

5:29🔗 I have another question.

5:34🔗 I've been having these sexual dreams.

5:37🔗 I'm just wondering if it means anything.

5:39🔗 Adam It means you're a horny baby.

5:41🔗 Stryker No, it means you're 15. It's fine. Perfectly normal, perfectly natural. Truly.

5:49🔗 Drew I felt bad the first time when I was 15. I had a wet dream. I woke up, I thought I peed a bed. Then I was like, oh, that's not peeing.

5:55🔗 Adam Then you realized everything was stuck together down there.

5:59🔗 Drew It's perfectly natural.

6:00🔗 Adam You needed a crowbar to get the boxers off the hair. Beth, 21, on Loveline. What's up?

6:08🔗 Not much. I just have a question for Dr. Drew.

6:11🔗 And I also have seen Papa Roach live.

6:13🔗 So don't worry.

6:14🔗 Drew What's up, Beth?

6:17🔗 I'm a really sexual person when I'm by myself.

6:22🔗 But I don't have any desire to go get with anyone else.

6:28🔗 Stryker Have you had bad experiences with guys?

6:30🔗 No. I haven't really had a whole lot of any experiences.

6:36🔗 Stryker Are you not ready for...

6:38🔗 No, I've had oral sex and it's not that I don't want to have sexual intercourse. I just don't feel a strong desire to.

6:45🔗 Adam You're 21. What's going on, though? You should be right now just... I know.

6:51🔗 Caller But I masturbate on a daily basis.

6:54🔗 Drew Do you watch yourself in the mirror while you do that?

6:56🔗 Stryker Why do you ask that? Just for yourself when you go home?

7:01🔗 Drew Do you masturbate in front of a mirror? Ever?

7:03🔗 Caller Do I? Ever?

7:04🔗 Caller I have.

7:06🔗 Drew So maybe you go out and you find a girl that looks just like you and would be like having sex with yourself and it would be okay.

7:14🔗 Stryker The ultimate narcissistic experience.

7:15🔗 Adam I have an idea for Beth. Beth, why don't you masturbate in front of a guy? Because believe me, we like that very much. No, seriously.

7:26🔗 Stryker We gotta find out why she has no desire to be with a guy.

7:30🔗 Drew I took it to the gutter.

7:31🔗 Stryker 21. Are you working extra hard? Are you just not meeting people? Working extra hard.

7:36🔗 Adam She's on the sledgehammer every day and she can't hang out with a guy. I don't know.

7:43🔗 Caller I work full time and I'm a student full time.

7:47🔗 Adam What do you do for a job? What?

7:50🔗 Caller I work for a humane society, actually.

7:55🔗 Caller Like an animal shelter.

7:58🔗 Stryker Every girl's dream. And why don't you make a sort of a priority out of finding somebody, you know what I mean? Sort of figure that into your life a little bit and make a little effort to do it. So one of the things about masturbation, kind of take the winds out of your sail and you can sort of isolate. Just kind of maybe back off on the masturbation and really make a conscious effort to start meeting people and to date a little bit. And if you can't have intimacy and you can't have relationships, that's one thing. But it sounds like you're just sort of not cutting around to it. It's about time you did.

8:27🔗 Adam But guys, don't you think if she masturbates this much, the first guy, second guy, fiftieth guy, ain't going to be as good as the 10,000 masturbating sessions that she's had?

8:38🔗 Drew I like masturbation. I use it quite a bit on the road.

8:40🔗 Adam I do as well, but you've slept with people, I assume, since you do have a child.

8:43🔗 Drew Dude, check this out. My wife got me this. We had Dave. Dave and Mia had this sex toy party for their bachelorette bachelorette party before they got married. My wife bought me this little pink hand job giver.

8:55🔗 Caller Right.

8:55🔗 Drew And it's like perfect. I take it on the road and it's just like...

9:00🔗 Adam It's shaped in a cylinder.

9:02🔗 Drew It doesn't talk back to me.

9:03🔗 Caller Right.

9:03🔗 Drew It's fabulous.

9:04🔗 Adam Do you have to lube it up?

9:05🔗 Drew Yeah, of course.

9:06🔗 Adam Astroglide or what's your...

9:07🔗 Drew Oh yeah, all that good stuff.

9:08🔗 Adam Are you sponsored by them? Negative. Are they going to support a Papa Roach tour, possibly? I wish I'd be on the road with you boys. Lori, you're 17 on Loveline.

9:18🔗 Caller Yeah, okay, I just was wondering, okay, me and my ex-boyfriend, we were together for about two weeks and on our one week anniversary we had sex. And it was awesome. Don't get me wrong.

9:30🔗 Adam One week anniversary?

9:31🔗 Caller Yeah.

9:32🔗 Adam Good job sticking it out.

9:35🔗 Caller Oh, you have no clue.

9:37🔗 Stryker What do you mean? What does that mean?

9:38🔗 Caller Oh, we were like, yeah, we were...

9:40🔗 Adam That one week was fighting. They almost ended up on Geraldo.

9:45🔗 Stryker What do you mean?

9:47🔗 Caller Oh, talk about, he had me... If I was a guy, I would have had blue balls, okay?

9:51🔗 Stryker Okay, so he had you going. And then you did it, and then what happened? Oh, no, you didn't!

9:57🔗 Caller And then what happened? Well, we ended up, we got to talking and everything, and everything was moving really fast. And so we ended up splitting up. And I was wondering if y'all had ever jumped into a relationship that quick and had it end.

10:11🔗 Adam Yes, many times. After one night, normally, for me, though.

10:14🔗 Stryker But, and no, too. It happens and it doesn't happen. It doesn't always happen. I don't think there's a rule on that one.

10:19🔗 Adam But don't you think if a girl sleeps with you on the first date, you're kind of thinking, well, she probably did that with all her dates.

10:24🔗 Stryker No, I think guys that are going to leave you after they've conquered were planning to do that all along.

10:30🔗 Drew Yeah, it just kind of seems like he just wanted to hit it and quit.

10:33🔗 Stryker Yeah, once he got where he was going, it was fine, move on.

10:37🔗 Caller Well, I mean, we're still talking and everything because we didn't just stop talking. I mean, we just like really slow down on it. We're just talking now because we never did go through the whole talking process basically.

10:48🔗 Drew If you're going to be boyfriend, girlfriend, you got to communicate.

10:51🔗 Stryker Yeah, that's right.

10:51🔗 Caller Yeah, we'll see. We just sort of like we put a halt on everything and we're just talking now somewhat.

10:57🔗 Stryker Let me interpret that for you. You're yelling with you. You're yelling at his backside as he's walking away. Look, this guy is on his way out. He's trying to make an escape gently, but he is on his way out. I'm not saying it's a good thing. He's going to ask for doing this, but it sounds like that's the direction it's going. I'm not sure I would cling to this guy.

11:17🔗 Adam But the one week anniversary, I'm still kind of stuck on that. That's huge for a 17-year-old.

11:21🔗 Stryker Good job, Laurie.

11:22🔗 Caller I just got out of a two-and-a-half-year relationship.

11:26🔗 Drew Oh, well, maybe you just needed a record.

11:30🔗 Stryker You've got to learn. You need to learn about these bad guys. It's very arousing for you, but it doesn't end up in a relationship.

11:36🔗 Adam God, I love the Arkansas calls. Michael!

11:39🔗 Stryker Do you like the accent?

11:40🔗 Adam Yeah.

11:40🔗 Caller Yeah.

11:40🔗 Adam I was waiting for that...

11:42🔗 Ding-da-ding-ding-ding-ding...

11:45🔗 Stryker Michael?

11:46🔗 Caller There.

11:50🔗 Adam Yes, Nuss Rederna. What's up, Michael? You're 18.

11:53🔗 Caller Yeah, I've never had, well how can I say this, I've never come off oral sex, but regular sex and masturbation has worked.

12:05🔗 Adam Some guys, I know for a fact, some guys can come every time from sex and not from oral. There's some guys I know.

12:11🔗 Stryker Other way around.

12:12🔗 Adam Right, other way around, the opposite. You're just one of those guys.

12:15🔗 Stryker You're just wired that way, it's fine. Nothing wrong with it.

12:17🔗 Caller Okay, I just didn't know if some was messed up down there or what, but thank you.

12:21🔗 Stryker No, no, your wiring is fine, it's all good.

12:23🔗 Adam Maybe it's the technique as well, though.

12:25🔗 Stryker It's good.

12:25🔗 Adam Drew, you're going too fast over the BJs, no orgasm here.

12:29🔗 Stryker You care to stop and talk about it, guys? Gentlemen, anything but this?

12:32🔗 Adam Has anyone here ever had that problem?

12:34🔗 Stryker No.

12:35🔗 Adam No.

12:36🔗 Drew I'd make it work, man.

12:37🔗 Stryker I just, I get you. I think it moves you along a little bit. I'm kind of afraid of what Papa Roach is gonna say. Oh, moving on, here, we'll run along.

12:43🔗 Adam That's a good thing, though. That's a good thing.

12:46🔗 Drew Kobe can take it to the gutter real quick.

12:47🔗 Adam Yes. We're going, Teresa? What's up, Teresa, you're 21.

12:53🔗 Caller I had, I'm sorry, anal sex for the first time yesterday and afterwards I started to bleed, really heavily.

13:02🔗 Stryker Good times.

13:05🔗 Caller I'm sorry, what?

13:06🔗 Stryker Nothing.

13:07🔗 Adam Drew, come on.

13:08🔗 Stryker No, I mean, I don't understand people. I really don't understand. This is surprising. That area does not have a limited capacity.

13:17🔗 Adam If you were not bleeding now, was it worth it? Did it feel good?

13:21🔗 Caller No, no.

13:22🔗 Stryker Yeah, you tear that area, you give fistulas and abscesses and fissures, it's a mess.

13:28🔗 Adam Fissures.

13:29🔗 Stryker Prolapse later on, I've seen just messes, messes.

13:31🔗 Adam You've seen it up close?

13:33🔗 Stryker Yes, people get problems from this.

13:35🔗 Caller So even though it was a lot, it was, I mean.

13:39🔗 Stryker No, unfortunately, Teresa, once you have rectal bleeding, you have to go to the, well, you have to go to a doctor. If you're a little older, we'd send you to the hospital. But you gotta go, somebody has to look up there and see what the bleeding's from, whether or not you need some sort of surgical repair, whether or not there's a polyp or a tumor or something that just got activated. Or a gerbil. Or an internal hemorrhoid or something. Whatever it is, rectal bleeding is pretty much an indication for looking up there. So you gotta see a proctologist.

14:03🔗 Adam Whose idea was it to go for the anal for the first time? You or him? Of course. Is he your boyfriend?

14:09🔗 Stryker Of course.

14:10🔗 Caller Yeah.

14:10🔗 Adam How long have you guys been going out?

14:13🔗 Caller About three months.

14:16🔗 Adam Very nice for him to ask it after three months.

14:18🔗 Stryker Also for waiting that long?

14:19🔗 Drew He's a classy guy.

14:20🔗 Stryker For waiting that long, is that what you're saying?

14:21🔗 Adam Yeah, I'm saying that's unbelievable. Unbelievable. I mean, normally after like Burger King, the drive-in, baby, you know, I'd have spent $12.

14:30🔗 Let's go for the booty.

14:31🔗 Caller I wanna do things for you, baby.

14:33🔗 Caller Yeah.

14:34🔗 Adam Reach down and touch your toes. Star, you are 29. What's going on?

14:41🔗 Caller Yeah, I was just wondering, what do you do if you're addicted to sex?

14:46🔗 Stryker You get treatment for that.

14:47🔗 Drew Go to a sex anonymous.

14:49🔗 Stryker SA meeting, that's right. It's a very, it's actually a very destructive and serious form of addiction. Will you add the chemical first or heroin additives?

14:56🔗 Caller No, like I just wanna like be with rock stars and like have sex with like famous people.

15:04🔗 Adam But you live in Fresno. Who are you going out with? The firemen? Never mind. Who, what famous people and rock stars are in Fresno? I'm sure, you know, I'm sure bands go there, but I don't know if it's...

15:16🔗 Caller And I'm sure that there is like really like hot guys, but like, like, you know, they want to have sex.

15:24🔗 Stryker All right. Let's, let's, let's get into this.

15:26🔗 Adam I love her voice.

15:27🔗 Stryker I'm really interested in this. What does that do for you, Star? You're 29 years old. You're a grown woman.

15:32🔗 Caller On stage. You know, like if you had a really big concert on stage with a rock star. Having sex?

15:42🔗 Adam I don't buy it.

15:42🔗 Stryker I don't either.

15:44🔗 Adam I don't buy this girl.

15:45🔗 Caller But if you're addicted to sex, I mean, I just, I just need your advice, you know?

15:51🔗 Drew Well, go to the next rock show that comes to town.

15:53🔗 Adam Papa Roach will be there on the tour bus. July 7th.

15:56🔗 Caller I used to have sex with every rock star.

16:00🔗 Adam What famous rock stars have you slept with?

16:02🔗 Caller Well, you know, a few, but I mean, it's like, Bon Jovi. Like, oh my God, you know, like everybody's watching.

16:09🔗 Liar, liar whore, liar whore, and you know it.

16:13🔗 Adam Yeah, I don't buy that. You just hung up on 6-2, do you?

16:17🔗 Stryker No, 6-3.

16:18🔗 Adam Is it Micah, 15?

16:20🔗 Yeah.

16:21🔗 Adam What's going on? You're on Papa Roach. Vagaville.

16:24🔗 I was wondering, like, when you're screwing a girl, like, and you're using your fingers, right? You know, so do you use one finger, two or three?

16:32🔗 Adam Well, normally the technique is you got to start with one to lube it up, get it moist. And sometimes two is uncomfortable for the girl from what she and they have said to, well, not they. She once it was they. That was in the 80s. She said to me. And then sometimes it's two. But you got to do it really slowly and certainly. Are you bisexual? Yeah. So you're wondering why? Well, I'm sure you are. You play with yourself. How does it feel on you?

16:57🔗 No, I have rules against that.

16:59🔗 Stryker You won't touch yourself.

17:00🔗 Adam But you'll go with the girls.

17:03🔗 Stryker No, I don't buy it. We have done a bogus calls tonight. You don't buy it? Micah, say you should go. Take it, Drew. Well, it just you don't say this doesn't really ring true for us. Are you having sex with people at 15? Yeah. Who?

17:22🔗 People.

17:23🔗 Drew Well, at least it's not animals.

17:26🔗 Stryker Yeah, that's much clearer. Now, I'm just painting just a vivid picture of what she's talking about.

17:33🔗 No, usually just a couple of my friends.

17:35🔗 Stryker Females.

17:36🔗 Drew Is it more just experimenting? Like, are you sure you're bisexual or are you just like testing the waters?

17:41🔗 It's kind of thrilling, you know, being with girls, you know, it's kind of just, you know, yeah, experimental.

17:46🔗 But, you know.

17:48🔗 Stryker Are you doing drugs or something too, Micah?

17:50🔗 Nope.

17:51🔗 Stryker No drugs. You just, it just all doesn't sound right to me. What's going on in your life? You're doing okay at school? Yeah.

17:57🔗 All right.

18:00🔗 Stryker Well, she doesn't want to talk. What are you going to do?

18:04🔗 Adam You didn't give one thing there, Drew.

18:05🔗 Stryker Listen. All right.

18:06🔗 Adam You take the bisexual thing.

18:07🔗 Stryker Here we go. I'm just going to chill for a minute. Here we go. You asked for it.

18:13🔗 Adam No, let's move on.

18:14🔗 Stryker Micah. No, no. We don't have another call.

18:16🔗 Adam Let's take that one right there.

18:17🔗 Stryker Micah. Micah. Were you abused growing up? Did you have some abuse or something growing up?

18:22🔗 Caller No.

18:23🔗 Stryker Nothing. Nothing happened. You didn't live in any chaos, no violence in the home, anything like that?

18:28🔗 Caller No.

18:29🔗 Stryker And so why is thrill so appealing to you? Why is thrilling things? Why is it so so sad?

18:34🔗 My dad's kind of religious and he like frowns upon that.

18:38🔗 Drew So it's a little bit of rebellion?

18:40🔗 Stryker A little bit. I mean, you're absolutely, the baby Jesus is crying now. I'm like, what's the plan here? Why do you hate your dad so much? See, this is where we're going here.

18:51🔗 Adam She hates her dad.

18:52🔗 Stryker Why do you hate your dad so much?

18:54🔗 Adam Crazy.

18:54🔗 I don't know.

18:56🔗 Stryker Well, Micah, we don't know you. The only way we're going to get to know you is if you answer a couple questions. If you don't want to answer them, you can go ahead and take off right now. That's fine, my dear. It's all right. But if we're going to get to something with you, which Stryker told you was going to be impossible.

19:11🔗 Adam I'm in no mood to scream tonight, anyone.

19:12🔗 Stryker It's not screaming. It's not screaming. It's getting out of her. Yeah, this is cracking, you know, cracking safes here.

19:19🔗 Adam That's what I'm talking about.

19:20🔗 Stryker Hit her. There we go. Micah's got some real, very serious issues. Yeah, she didn't want to get into it. And we're not going to get anywhere with her. She is angry and she is...

19:29🔗 Drew She wants to get fingered. That's it.

19:31🔗 Adam Is it the one, two or the three are possibly a fist these days?

19:35🔗 Drew I don't know.

19:35🔗 Adam Oh, yeah, you're married. Jerry? Can't help you. Can't help me.

19:40🔗 Drew I've never been there.

19:41🔗 Adam All right, I have seen a couple of movies, though, so that'll help me. Should we talk to Lauren real quick? Sure. All right, Lauren, what's up? You're 13 on Loveline.

19:47🔗 Oh, my God. I'm on Loveline? Yeah. Wow, sorry. You guys, like, kick and I'm, like, really... Whoa. Well, first, can I ask, like, a question? Just, like, a stupid one? Before I get my real one?

19:58🔗 Stryker Go right ahead.

19:59🔗 Okay, like, I live in Oklahoma and I was wondering, like, do they, for Loveline shows, because mine come on at 10 o'clock at night, and so do they, like, tape them before or something?

20:11🔗 Stryker Yes, you're hearing last night's.

20:14🔗 Okay, well, my real question is, like, I am overweight and I am, like, scared about it.

20:20🔗 Adam How much do you weigh and how tall are you?

20:22🔗 I am 5'2 and I weigh 160.

20:25🔗 Adam I know what Corolla would say. I don't want to steal his shtick, but he'd say in radio terms, that's 5'180.

20:30🔗 Stryker Are people overweight in your family?

20:33🔗 Well, I don't know my real dad, but I don't know about him, but my mom is kind of, not much, though.

20:39🔗 Stryker Your biological mother?

20:41🔗 Yeah.

20:42🔗 Adam Are you eating like a horse? Are you eating Twinkies, Ding Dongs, the exercise? Or is it just you think you're just big because you're big?

20:48🔗 Well, I'm slightly, I'm, like, large boned, but I am... I'm not lying, but, like...

20:55🔗 Stryker Is the food and the weight serving some defensive role for you?

20:59🔗 Yeah, I'm an emotional eater and I have been having some troubles for the last two years.

21:05🔗 Stryker So, Lauren, you're 13, you're extremely insightful, you know what's going on, you realize it's a problem, you have a sense of where it's from, time to go ahead and move out of that contemplative phase and into action.

21:17🔗 I know, but, like, last year at school I quit eating and I lost 30 pounds in three months.

21:23🔗 Stryker Yeah, but that's the flip side of the same problem. That's going from too much to going from indulgence to deprivation. And that is the beginning of an eating disorder. You got to find, I think, Lauren, you'd be best served by getting some therapy, preferably someone who deals with eating food issues and getting on a balanced diet with a dietitian and getting a good workout program going. It sounds very unexciting and very unsatisfying, but that's how this is going to get better over the long term.

21:49🔗 Drew Maybe get involved in sports or something at school.

21:51🔗 Stryker Good idea.

21:52🔗 Adam Or a walk to somewhere. Did anyone see, I think it was Maury yesterday, the Maury Povich Show. They always have this topic on there.

21:59🔗 Drew Fat baby thing?

22:00🔗 Adam Yes.

22:00🔗 Drew That is creepy.

22:01🔗 Adam They send these two-year-olds out with no shirt on and they waddle out. Two years old, he would have 140.

22:06🔗 They're like, I feed him 14 cheeseburgers a day and fries and I don't know why he's fat.

22:13🔗 Drew You're like, well, maybe because he's eating cheeseburgers and whoppers and fries and Twinkies.

22:18🔗 Adam There are two.

22:18🔗 Drew It's ridiculous.

22:19🔗 Adam They're like 140 pounds. No way.

22:22🔗 Drew It's insane. It's insane. I've seen the shows he's talking about. Even if they're four years old, it's ridiculous. It's creepy.

22:31🔗 Stryker But that's got to be some genetic problem.

22:34🔗 Adam Well, the mom every time probably weighs normally average of 300 pounds, right?

22:38🔗 Drew Yeah, three to four.

22:39🔗 Stryker Yeah, three to four bills.

22:40🔗 Adam And just feeds the S out of the kid. All right, we're going to take a break here. Papa Roach is here hanging out. We're going to play a song when we come back. They got a new CD out. It came out yesterday, Get In Away With Murder. You can speak to the guys calling up Loveline. It's 1-800-LOVE-191, and we'll be back after this. 1-800-LOVE-191 All right, we are back here on Loveline. I'm Stryker filling in for Adam Carolla. He's coming back tomorrow. He's been fiasheen. I'm sure he cut a tuna. Dr. Drew is here. Jacoby from Papa Roach, Jerry.

23:27🔗 Stryker I feel like I got a wave of dread.

23:28🔗 Adam What do you mean? That he's coming back?

23:30🔗 Stryker I don't know.

23:32🔗 Adam Maybe he's gonna smell like the tuna if you know what I mean.

23:34🔗 Stryker Whatever.

23:36🔗 Adam Yeah, I know what you're saying. Jerry and Jacoby are here from Papa Roach. The new CD came out yesterday. I don't know if you guys remember, and I probably have one of very few. I have a gold record from your first CD. Yeah.

23:47🔗 Drew Sweet.

23:48🔗 Adam Yeah, and that thing ended up selling well over three million in the States.

23:51🔗 Drew Yeah, that was like five, almost six worldwide.

23:54🔗 Adam Wow, congratulations on everything. But I remember when Last Resort came out, like I was on it way before, I mean, so early. And I know somehow it got to you that like I was back in it and I like loved it so much.

24:06🔗 Drew Yeah, we came down to your show like days ago.

24:09🔗 Adam Yeah.

24:10🔗 Drew I remember that.

24:10🔗 Adam Yeah, five, four years ago.

24:12🔗 Drew Yeah, it's been quite a while.

24:13🔗 Adam And you brought the plaque with you, I think.

24:16🔗 Drew I think so. It was at the old KROQ building.

24:18🔗 Adam Exactly.

24:18🔗 Drew Because I come here, I'm all where are we going? I thought our record rep was taking us to some dark alley to stab us to death or something. But we ended up at KROQ.

24:26🔗 Adam Yeah, I still have that thing on my wall, by the way. Yeah, I like it. Papa Roach came out yesterday, as I said, Getting Away With Murder. How about we play the song and then talk about like Howard Benson, talk about the rest of the record, talk about touring and all this stuff. So here we go, this is Papa Roach on Loveline with the song Getting Away With Murder. Hit it. There you go, Get It Away With Murder. That's your band.

27:56🔗 Drew You like that, huh? It's good rock and roll.

28:02🔗 Adam Came out yesterday. First off, okay, Howard Benson, who I saw at your show at the Roxy, he was wearing, I think, a football jersey.

28:09🔗 Drew And a pair of sweats.

28:10🔗 Adam Yeah, and a pair of sweats. It was like George Costanza meets some guy that has no house.

28:16🔗 Drew You know, it's like, it's always weird because like, when we were going to do a record with Brendan O'Brien, like we didn't know what he looked like. We always knew what his records sounded like.

28:26🔗 Adam They killed.

28:27🔗 Drew And then you meet him in person and you're like, I didn't imagine that!

28:30🔗 Adam Yeah.

28:31🔗 Drew You know, like Howard Benson, this big old huge rock sound on all of his records. Then we meet him and he's just this kind of tall geeky guy. But he kicks ass in the studio. Oh yeah.

28:42🔗 Adam It's so good.

28:42🔗 Drew He was great to work with.

28:44🔗 Adam What about doing this record? How many songs did you have written? Give me the quick process of how it all went down.

28:51🔗 Caller Well, it started last April. Yeah. We had about five, six songs written from the road. And we started writing and recording at home. And we had about 30 demos recorded by the time we got into the studio. And then we picked 17 of those to record on the record. Then we picked 12 of those for the record.

29:15🔗 Drew It was cool because before we got with Howard, you know, got met with producers, we had like a pretty solid vision of where the band was headed and what direction we were going in. So it was really a matter of getting the right producer that understood the direction of the band and, you know, could hone in, you know, the creativeness and, you know, just be part of it instead of coming in and just like totally changing it. And Howard, you know, pushed me to my limits vocally, you know, it was a good experience.

29:42🔗 Adam Good. I guess that's why you need a producer sometimes to get on your ass.

29:45🔗 Drew Yeah. I mean, it's like we were motivated and we had the creativity flowing. It's just always cool to kind of have an outside force, you know, being part of it, you know, and it just worked out well. I mean, there was moments where I was ready to stab him in the neck.

29:59🔗 Adam Yeah.

29:59🔗 Drew But, you know, we worked through it.

30:02🔗 Stryker Good.

30:03🔗 Drew I love it. Howard, if you're listening.

30:05🔗 Adam And, Howard, sorry about the sweat in the...

30:08🔗 Stryker Sweaty!... in the comment.

30:10🔗 Adam Let's take some more calls here with Papa Roach on Loveline. Allie, you're 18. What's going on?

30:15🔗 Caller I'm Allie.

30:16🔗 I'm 18. When I have sex, I...

30:21🔗 Caller It feels like I'm too small.

30:24🔗 Adam Are you a midget?

30:26🔗 Caller No, not a midget. Well, I'm 5'2, so I'm short but not a midget.

30:33🔗 Stryker Is it with the same guy each time you have this experience?

30:36🔗 Caller Yeah, yeah.

30:37🔗 Drew Maybe he's big.

30:39🔗 Stryker How many times have you tried this?

30:42🔗 Caller Probably 9 or 10 times.

30:45🔗 Stryker Are you ready to have sex?

30:47🔗 Caller Yeah, I've had sex before this guy.

30:49🔗 Stryker But with this guy, you have this problem.

30:51🔗 Caller Yeah, and he's not incredibly big. I've had sex with somebody bigger than he is.

30:55🔗 Adam Maybe he's like the first guy that's come along that you have an emotional tie to that you're actually digging and maybe you're just getting a little nervous with it and maybe you're tightening yourself up. Could that be it? Do you dig this guy more than others? Are you into him?

31:10🔗 Caller But no, it feels like it hurts but not like hurts, you know?

31:16🔗 Stryker By the way, don't mention to him about the bigger guy coming before him, by the way. Literally.

31:23🔗 Yeah, we won't tell him about that.

31:25🔗 Stryker I'm a little confused. You're not nervous and you don't feel like you're contracting muscularly, all right?

31:30🔗 Caller No, I don't feel like I'm contracting anything.

31:32🔗 Stryker Have you had a pelvic exam recently?

31:33🔗 Caller Yeah, and everything checked out just fine because it freaks me out.

31:38🔗 Stryker And the pain is at the moment of penetration, right? That's when the pain occurs?

31:41🔗 Caller It's once he's like all the way in.

31:43🔗 Stryker And where does it hurt then? On our ear. Does it hurt deep up inside or at the vaginal opening kind of thing?

31:51🔗 Caller It's inside.

31:52🔗 Stryker Inside it hurts. Okay.

31:53🔗 Caller Yeah, like it's hitting the back, like I'm not big enough.

31:58🔗 Stryker So why don't you tell him to calm down a little bit and not go in so deep?

32:01🔗 Drew Yeah, dude, just don't drop it so deep, homie.

32:03🔗 Caller Because it feels good, but it feels good, but I can't take it.

32:08🔗 Drew It hurts so good.

32:09🔗 Stryker And Allie, what if you were twice as big and he was pushing so hard it hurt you back there? Wouldn't you tell him to kind of lay off a little bit? What?

32:16🔗 Caller I tell him to lay off, you know?

32:18🔗 Stryker All right, well let's assume, pretend, it'll make him feel good, believe me. Just pretend that's the case, that it's just too long and it hurts when he gets in deep.

32:25🔗 Drew It's too long.

32:26🔗 Stryker And obviously you've been checked for endometriosis and infection in the tubes and ovarian cysts and the things that really can be wrong that can cause pain with deep penetration. But the fact is, it's just something about the behavior you guys have established. You need to, we actually at one point in Loveline, the TV show, invented the Love Gromit.

32:41🔗 Drew The Love Gromit?

32:42🔗 Stryker The guy was supposed to slip it over here. It's peeing. It looked like one of those weights that batter, you know, donut, so you can't go in too deep.

32:52🔗 Adam That's a great idea. Did you market that thing?

32:54🔗 Stryker We should have.

32:56🔗 Adam Plus, also, I like when a girl gives me instructions. I need that thing.

32:59🔗 Stryker Yes.

33:00🔗 Adam Yes, you're right. We all do, of course.

33:02🔗 Stryker Yes. Men really want to be told what to do. They're fine with that.

33:07🔗 Adam And if she ever says to me, which hopefully one day in my life will happen, probably not, you know, Stryker, you're just going too deep in me. Can you pull it out a little? I'd stop right there and buy myself a trophy.

33:18🔗 Stryker Audrey, 21.

33:20🔗 Yes, hi.

33:21🔗 Stryker Hey.

33:23🔗 Caller Howdy.

33:24🔗 Stryker That's what we're wondering.

33:25🔗 All right.

33:26🔗 Caller I was recently diagnosed with bacterial vaginosis. It's been ongoing for a couple months. And before this happened, my boyfriend and I had like a really great sex life. It was cool. And since this has happened, like we've been taking it easy, you know, trying to like let myself recover from this and treat it normally.

33:44🔗 Stryker But, but, but, but, but, wait a minute, wait a minute, it takes about two days to recover from this.

33:48🔗 Caller Well, it's, that's kind of what I'm getting to. It's like it goes away and then we think everything's cool. We have sex again and it comes back. And I've been going to my doctor about it and she says like everything tests out fine. But it's, it's like really hampering on my sex drive. Like I've just noticed that I just have no desire whatsoever to have sex at all. And I shouldn't feel like I'm at 21 and it sucks.

34:13🔗 Stryker Is, is he been treated?

34:15🔗 Caller Yeah, he has. Like he's gone to the doctor too and everything's fine with him.

34:18🔗 Stryker Yeah, but as you're, you've seen a gynecologist?

34:20🔗 Caller Yeah, yeah.

34:22🔗 Stryker Have they ever suggested he takes some antibiotics?

34:26🔗 Caller She did mention, I had an appointment with her yesterday. She did mention it and he has an appointment scheduled.

34:30🔗 Stryker All right, so that would be one possibility.

34:31🔗 Adam It's the Z-Pak, that's all I need to take for that.

34:33🔗 Stryker You guys aren't doing any anal stuff, are you? And he, no, I mean, using condoms or anything like that?

34:41🔗 Caller Yeah, we use condoms and I'm on the pill and you know, I-

34:44🔗 Stryker Is there anything else that's being introduced other than the condom that might carry some bacteria?

34:48🔗 Caller No, we've been together for over a year and I mean, I-

34:50🔗 Stryker No, I don't mean another person.

34:51🔗 Caller I hate to say that we're rather routine, but yeah.

34:53🔗 Stryker Okay, rather routine. And why is the vaginosis, which is, I mean, basically no women escape vaginosis. So what is it? Vaginosis is a vaginal infection, like a yeast infection. That's one of the more common causes. And sort of no women escapes getting some sort of vaginosis.

35:06🔗 Caller Right.

35:07🔗 Stryker Vaginal vaginosis is very common. Why has this been so overwhelming to you?

35:10🔗 Caller It's just, it's really killing my sex life.

35:13🔗 Caller Why?

35:14🔗 Stryker That's the question, why?

35:16🔗 Caller I don't know. I guess I'm associating it with the fact that when we do have sex, it hurts. And so maybe I have an aversion to it now.

35:23🔗 Caller I don't know.

35:24🔗 Stryker And what is the nature of the pain you get when you have sex?

35:26🔗 Caller It's just, it starts to hurt. It almost feels like I'm overly tense. Maybe I'm nervous about it. Maybe I'm self-conscious. I don't know.

35:35🔗 Stryker That has nothing to do with the vaginosis itself.

35:38🔗 Caller That's not due to cause pain or anything with it?

35:40🔗 Stryker No. Not typically, not at all. And who cares? You have bacteria overgrown. It usually just creates a funny smell or discharge. That's it. It can be some irritation sometimes. That goes away immediately. It goes away very rapidly. So there's something else going on here. Do you have an abuse history or something? Sort of this big issue?

35:59🔗 Caller No, not at all. I came from a fairly normal family.

36:02🔗 Stryker Okay, no, that's all fine. And then, could there be something else? Are you on a new birth control pill?

36:07🔗 Caller No, I've been on the same pill since I was 18.

36:10🔗 Stryker Because you wonder if there's maybe a dryness problem or something else that's causing irritation other than you're blaming it. You're blaming it on the vaginosis, which in fact, that's not what's causing your problem. You have to really examine more carefully what your symptoms are and take that back to your doctor, really explicitly detailing what the symptoms are because I think you'll find it's not the vaginosis. It may be vaginismus, some sort of vaginal spasm of the musculature.

36:33🔗 Adam Wait, hold on.

36:35🔗 Drew Vaginismus?

36:36🔗 Adam Is there anything I can do for Papa Roach that you name your next album? It's not vaginosis, it's vaginismus.

36:42🔗 Drew Vaginismus.

36:44🔗 Adam Please call the next record that.

36:45🔗 Drew That's actually gonna be the name of the next tour we're gonna do, it's the Vaginismus Tour.

36:49🔗 Adam It does have two legs going sideways with like a, you can tell like a scent is coming out from the middle of the legs.

36:55🔗 Stryker And there are other sources of, there's something called vulvodynia, if you wanna add another.

37:01🔗 Drew That's gonna be the continuation, that's gonna be the European, vulvodynia.

37:06🔗 Stryker And that's about 10 to 20% of the time, that is unexplained, people can't figure out what's causing that, it's a common cause of discomfort. And interestingly, that tends to respond to antidepressant medicines. That's why I asked about the sort of abuse history because that sort of goes down that path.

37:19🔗 Adam One thing you asked her and this is something, if a girl has something like that, if the guy takes it always, shouldn't the guy be on the same thing at the same time if it's anything possibly sexually related down there?

37:29🔗 Stryker If it's some bacteria, they're passing back and forth. Absolutely.

37:31🔗 Adam You just get it on it together and then you have something you can't.

37:33🔗 Stryker Or maybe it's on his hands. Maybe it's the kind of condom they're using or it's on his hands or they've got to really sort of look at things very carefully. But that's not the source of her problem.

37:40🔗 Adam I have vaginosis on my palm.

37:42🔗 Stryker That's not why she's having the problem she's having.

37:45🔗 Adam All right, let's talk to Kelly.

37:46🔗 Stryker No, let's take a break.

37:47🔗 Adam Really?

37:47🔗 Stryker Let's tease her, Carl, let's tease her.

37:50🔗 Drew My wife's name is Kelly.

37:53🔗 Adam That might be her calling me home for the baby.

37:56🔗 Drew Oh no, that's not my wife.

38:02🔗 Adam She just had the baby! What's up, Kelly?

38:08🔗 I've got two questions for Dr. Drew. I heard a previous caller and she was talking about how she was bleeding from anal sex. And I want to know from Dr. Drew if that, in and of itself, is that if anal sex is, if you're careful with it and if you're in a monogamous relationship and you're, if you don't do anything to irritate or tear or do anything like that.

38:29🔗 Stryker Well, putting anything in your anus will cause all of the above. Now, not necessarily, but you're putting yourself in the risk of that. But we're gonna take a little break. We're gonna revisit this subject.

38:40🔗 Adam I already know if the guy's hung like a tree trunk, stay away from the butt.

38:45🔗 Drew Make love to the butthole.

38:47🔗 Adam Make love, yes.

38:48🔗 Stryker Get that on a loop.

38:49🔗 Adam All right.

38:53🔗 Drew Uncle Dirt.

38:54🔗 Adam All right, Coby, you're gonna be on the forever now. All right, we're gonna talk to Kelly S'more in a minute. Also, P. Roach is here, Jacoby and Jerry, and I'm Stryker for Adam and Dr. Drew and more Loveline after this. I'm Stryker filling in for my main man mayonnaise Adam Corolla who's coming back tomorrow. Dr. Drew, 1-800-LOVE-1-9-1, my last night with you. I'm very, it's been amazing.

39:47🔗 Stryker As usual.

39:47🔗 Adam You're the best.

39:48🔗 Stryker With you.

39:48🔗 Adam I love it.

39:48🔗 Stryker Thank you.

39:49🔗 Adam All right, Jacoby is here and Jerry from Papa Roach. Actually, Jacoby's in the bathroom, and if he can hear me in there, is it number one, or is it number two? His mic's in there.

40:02🔗 Stryker It'll be about 17 seconds later.

40:03🔗 Adam Hold on, let's hear him. Does he know he's up? Oh.

40:14🔗 Stryker Come on, I'm gonna start peeing.

40:19🔗 Adam Turn up the mic in there. I want to ask Jerry a question. All right. Do you know if you have a song, you may, in a game called Burnout 3 that's coming out.

40:28🔗 Caller I don't think so. No, we do have songs on video games coming out.

40:32🔗 Adam Tons, right? A few?

40:35🔗 Caller We have one on Gran Turismo 4. And EA Sports, NHL. Right. And Mech Assault 2.

40:46🔗 Adam You guys like doing that, getting involved in video games and having songs on there?

40:49🔗 Caller Yeah, it's just like, you know, exposure.

40:52🔗 Adam Yeah.

40:52🔗 Caller Because a game like Gran Turismo, you know, that series is built in like 6 million fans already. So it's like, you know, I think they're gonna have like two or three songs on there. So it's like, good for us.

41:06🔗 Adam That's good. All right, Papa Roach's new record came out yesterday. We're gonna take some more calls here. And we were talking to Kelly a second ago. She wants to know about anal sex. Is it safe? Should she be careful? She was asking Dr. Drew. Drew said, don't be hung like a tree trunk.

41:19🔗 Stryker Well, no, I said that it's, you can cause damage that area doing things to it. It wasn't designed to have done to it. Is that necessarily going to happen? No, it's not necessarily going to happen. If you want to do that, that's up to you. But there's some risk in that.

41:32🔗 My second question is for you again, Dr. Drew. I want to know, do you think homosexuality is nature or nurture?

41:40🔗 Stryker I think as with every human behavior, there's both. And there's more or less component of one of the other and given individuals, whether it's alcoholism or depression or schizophrenia or personality disorders, there are resiliency factors, biological factors, environmental factors that come to bear to create these specific human behaviors. And on our callers, we tend to talk to trauma survivors on this show. And so one of the ways that people become ambivalent or confused about their sexual orientation is trauma. Is that always the case? Absolutely not. There's some people that have more of a biological component than not.

42:14🔗 Adam Are you interested in having the anal sex, Kelly?

42:17🔗 Caller Or is your boyfriend?

42:19🔗 We did just kind of once. We kind of tried and like we were just careful but open to it, tried it, kind of wasn't working, just kind of experimenting with it.

42:30🔗 Adam Because if you're into anything in that region, a nice tongue can do the trick. Probably way better than inserting the man's penis.

42:40🔗 Stryker Ooh, Stryker. Sir Walter Raleigh. Coming up with a very, very classy and...

42:49🔗 Adam No, but I'm being 100% serious.

42:50🔗 Stryker You're not going to cause the problems I've been talking about.

42:52🔗 Adam Right. And the tongue, I swear, it's one time at band camp, this girl... Unbelievable, right? Jerry?

43:05🔗 Caller Can't help you.

43:06🔗 Adam Come on.

43:06🔗 Caller Sorry.

43:07🔗 Adam Come on, Jerry. Come on, get my back. Drew, you've had it done, right? Drew, please, tell me you have. Come on, late at night, your triplets are sleeping, your lady is like, you're my doctor, doctor. I'm going to do things to you with this surgical mask on, Dr. Drew. Maddie, I've made Drew uncomfortable. Maddie, you're 23. What's going on?

43:30🔗 Caller Well, the thing is, I'm a security officer, and ever since I became one, my boyfriend has had this freakish fetish for me to use my utility gear on him.

43:43🔗 Adam What the hell does that mean?

43:46🔗 Caller Basically, I carry things like handcuffs, an ass, pepper spray, well, he doesn't like pepper spray, right?

43:51🔗 Stryker Ass pepper spray?

43:56🔗 Caller It's an ass, which is basically a baton that retracts and extends. And the thing is, when we're having sex, the only way for him to have an erection is if I place that in his ass.

44:10🔗 Adam Come on. The nightstick?

44:14🔗 Caller What?

44:15🔗 Stryker It doesn't even make sense.

44:16🔗 Caller No.

44:17🔗 Stryker I mean, biologically, it doesn't...

44:18🔗 Caller No.

44:19🔗 Caller I don't either.

44:20🔗 Caller That's why I'm calling.

44:21🔗 Stryker No. He can't... Here's why you screwed up the call, Maddie. When your boyfriend put you up to this, you're supposed to say he can't orgasm without it in his ass. Not being able to have an erection with it does not make any sense.

44:31🔗 Adam He'll get an erection from the wind blowing.

44:33🔗 Stryker That's right. And certainly putting something in his rear is not going to...

44:37🔗 Adam Did you hear yourself going to the bathroom?

44:39🔗 Caller To cum is what I'm saying.

44:42🔗 Stryker She switched her call now because the boyfriend is going, no, no, right, you know. When he comes for him to cum, he needs it in his...

44:48🔗 Caller Oh, see, I get erection and I don't know much about sex because I started when I was 20. I mean, because I did the whole wait till you're supposed to be married thing, but that didn't work for me. I just got curious about it.

44:58🔗 Stryker Very clearly it didn't.

45:00🔗 Caller I don't know. I'm like aversion to it still. I don't understand a whole lot about it.

45:04🔗 Stryker You don't know the difference between ejaculation and erection?

45:07🔗 Adam Come on, you're 23.

45:10🔗 Caller I know that's the thing.

45:11🔗 Stryker Is English not your primary language?

45:14🔗 Caller No, it is. I mean, I just don't understand it.

45:19🔗 Stryker But why would you confuse the two words? That's why we don't believe the call, Maddie. You're fighting hard, you're fighting hard, so we'll stay with you. So what's your question?

45:28🔗 Caller I mean, I just don't know if he needs counseling or if we both need to go to camp. I don't understand.

45:33🔗 Adam The only way, hold on one sec, Maddie. The only way her boyfriend can supposedly have an orgasm if she uses her nightstick, because she's a security guard, it uses it in his butt.

45:47🔗 Drew Oh, well, prostate stimulation. He's into it.

45:51🔗 Stryker Which most guys are not.

45:53🔗 Drew I mean, you know, a finger in the butt ain't gonna kill you.

45:55🔗 Adam What about a tongue there?

45:57🔗 Drew A tongue in the butt ain't gonna kill you.

45:58🔗 Stryker We only have ten seconds, but here's the deal. If he needs, there are people, listen, that's why there are those crazy devices that people put things in those places. Yeah, whatever. And yeah, I wouldn't suggest you use the night stick. You may want to go to a visit adult store and find something else, and that's just him.

46:15🔗 Adam Maybe the pepper spray night stick.

46:17🔗 Stryker I don't think you have to freak out about it. It's a little peculiar, and I wouldn't trust this guy, but be that as it may, it's all right.

46:24🔗 Adam It's like the movie Old School, and the guy comes home in the beginning, and the girl's like standing in the night, oh, you're into this porn thing. I could really get into this. Meanwhile, the couple walks out of the bathroom. It's way higher. All right, we gotta take a break. We're running a tad late. Papa Roach is here. We'll talk to them and more with you guys. I'm Stryker and Drew on Loveline.

46:39🔗 Caller Bottom line, here's the deal.

46:41🔗 Looking to hook up. Sick of wasting time with the wrong person.

46:44🔗 Caller One call is all you need to make.

46:45🔗 Adam Call the Dateline.

46:46🔗 877-889-DATE.

46:52🔗 Caller Loveline with Adam Carolla and Dr. Drew.

46:54🔗 Caller 1-800-LOVE-191. We'll be right back.

47:00🔗 This hour brought you apart by acts.

47:03🔗 Experience the acts effect.

47:33🔗 Adam All right, you guys, we're back on Loveline. One more hour to go. Dr. Drew is here. I'm Stryker filling in for Adam Carolla. He's coming back tomorrow. Jacoby is here, and Jerry from Papa Roach. Getting Away With Murder came out yesterday. I told the guys off air in a very, well, who cares if it's in a homo or heterosexual kind of way? You guys look great.

47:51🔗 Drew Thank you, man.

47:52🔗 Adam Thanks. You guys look in shape. Jacoby, let's go to you first. Done with drinking forever for a year.

47:58🔗 Drew You know what, man, I'm just like, of course it has to be forever.

48:02🔗 Adam I don't know if he was addicted or if he just wanted to get healthy from it.

48:06🔗 Drew I just can't say forever.

48:07🔗 Stryker Didn't you hear what he described to you a few minutes ago? Today he's sober.

48:10🔗 Drew Today, yeah, I just have to go at a day at a time.

48:13🔗 Adam Sorry, Drew, I'm not a specialist like you.

48:15🔗 Drew But, yeah, man, I quit boozing.

48:16🔗 Stryker I don't want you to leave that door open for Jacoby.

48:18🔗 Drew I quit boozing, man, right before we... It was funny because I just hit bottom. I was out of control and it was right before we were coming down to record the record, I called our producer and I'm like, hey, Howard, I'm going to get sober when I come down to the record.

48:31🔗 And he's like, you're going to do what?

48:33🔗 Drew I'm like, yeah, man, I got to get sober. Like, this is the only way I'm going to do this, you know?

48:36🔗 Caller And that's going to mess with your flow, man. You can't do that.

48:39🔗 Drew And I'm like, no, man, I have to.

48:40🔗 Stryker Your producer needs to be arrested.

48:42🔗 Drew No, but you know what I'm saying? He's worked with people that have tried to do it. And it's just been a train wreck, you know? And it just... I just had it... Something had to give. And, you know, my relationship with my band, my relationship with myself is better, my relationship with my family. Like, I just, you know, something had to give. I fell in love with my music again. I fell in love with life again. Like, you know, it was just a bad situation. And then I lost some weight, too. So that's why I'm so high.

49:08🔗 Adam Now, you think that's from, like, all the calories and just the lifestyle? Are you working out?

49:12🔗 Drew I mean, for me, it was like, I just had to start getting on the treadmill and start running. And me and my wife, we got a personal trainer for, like, a month.

49:20🔗 Adam Right.

49:21🔗 Drew She kicked my ass.

49:22🔗 Adam Was it the guy in TV, Tony Little?

49:23🔗 Drew No, it was Richard Simmons, man. We hadn't come to the house, you know, in the tight fit up.

49:27🔗 Adam Dolphin shorts.

49:29🔗 Drew No, man, I was just a priority, you know. This record is really important to me and I just want to get in shape and get myself back together, you know. And that was just, the physical part was just another side of it, you know.

49:39🔗 Adam Good for you, though. Staying off the booze a year straight.

49:40🔗 Drew Thank you very much for noticing.

49:41🔗 Adam No, seriously, good job on that. It's admirable. We down the Red Bull.

49:46🔗 Stryker Speaking of booze.

49:46🔗 Adam Yeah, 19, Brittany Loveline, what's up?

49:52🔗 Caller Okay, so tonight my friends and I tried a little experiment and we poured hard alcohol into my butt.

50:02🔗 Adam Bottle included or just the liquid part? No, poured.

50:05🔗 Caller We used a water bottle and we cut off the bottom to make it like a funnel.

50:09🔗 Stryker Oh, that's hot.

50:10🔗 Caller And I rubbed soap, like body wash, around the edge so it went in easily.

50:15🔗 Stryker And we poured that. Hang on, this is so cool. Your female friends?

50:20🔗 Caller Actually, there's two girls and three boys.

50:22🔗 Stryker I was gonna say, this is not, the girls don't think, the guys are the ones going, yeah.

50:26🔗 Drew Yeah, use her ass as a beer funnel.

50:29🔗 Stryker The girls are not doing this.

50:30🔗 Adam I was playing shoots and ladders growing up. She's pouring booze in the vagina, or the butt.

50:34🔗 Stryker Oh, it takes a group of males to force women to behave like that.

50:37🔗 Drew Did you get a buzz?

50:39🔗 Caller I was really drunk, really fast, but then it went on really fast.

50:42🔗 Drew Well, cause there's a lot of nerve endings down there.

50:44🔗 Stryker No, it's actually a highly absorptive area and you can have alcohol absorbed extremely quickly through the rectum.

50:50🔗 Drew Actually, a friend of mine does wine enemas. I'm not joking you.

50:55🔗 Stryker For what, just to get loaded?

50:56🔗 Drew Just to get messed up real quick.

50:59🔗 Stryker Yeah, well, there you go. Takes all kinds.

51:01🔗 Adam You know what's crazy about Britney?

51:02🔗 Drew I got some weird friends.

51:03🔗 Adam Is not only did she, not only did they go for it, but they took the time to build a funnel out of the water bottle.

51:09🔗 Drew Get the smooth cream for the foot tops.

51:12🔗 Stryker Listen, guys are like freaking mad scientists.

51:15🔗 Caller Because my ass wasn't high enough in the air, so as we poured it in the bottle, it kind of just poured back out.

51:20🔗 Stryker Well, all you need, you can go get a whole enema pack that any pharmacy has.

51:23🔗 Drew Yeah, just fleet enema pack and pour the water out.

51:26🔗 Stryker No, no, even really just the water enema thing. You can hang it way up here.

51:29🔗 Adam So how about this? I have this water bottle here. If I cut, hold on, no, if I put the Red Bull in here and just go for the anus, am I gonna be wired instantaneously? Can we try it?

51:41🔗 Stryker You wanna do it right now?

51:42🔗 Adam Do you have any lubrication? You spit, man. You wimp.

51:45🔗 Drew Come on, get creative.

51:46🔗 Adam Only if it's yours.

51:48🔗 Stryker All right, so we're gonna use his spit.

51:51🔗 Drew Dude, I don't wanna watch you stuff that bottle in your ass right now.

51:53🔗 Adam I know people that used to do ecstasy and just stick it right in there instead of putting it through the mouth.

51:58🔗 Stryker People are just, I mean, I'm just, oh boy.

52:01🔗 Adam You guys, hold on. You need to see Dr. Drew right now. Explain this, it's just like.

52:07🔗 Drew He's just like, what's wrong with people these days?

52:12🔗 Stryker Wayne 25.

52:16🔗 Adam What's up, Wayne?

52:19🔗 Stryker I just, I just want to, hang on a second, Wayne. If you were like a zookeeper and you suddenly saw the primate cage doing this kind of ass. You'd be like, oh my God, these have been overtaken by the, oh my God, there's Martians in the primate cage.

52:33🔗 Drew People are at home trying it.

52:34🔗 Stryker Here we go.

52:35🔗 Adam At least we don't eat our own poop like them.

52:38🔗 Drew No, but there's people on, no.

52:40🔗 Stryker They don't even need to fling it.

52:41🔗 Adam Speaking of that, line five right there, Drew.

52:43🔗 Stryker Eating poop. No, no. Way in 20, 25.

52:47🔗 Hey, I don't know how I'm going to back up on that one.

52:51🔗 Stryker Yeah, yeah, don't worry about it. That didn't happen. We didn't have that discussion.

52:56🔗 I've been having an erection problem and I was just wondering if 25, if Viagra was a good choice or...

53:06🔗 Stryker Yeah, I mean, it is something that is designed to treat erectile dysfunction, even in a young person. It's really meant to be for people that have medically related or medically caused erectile dysfunction. Are you on medication or do you have a medical problem?

53:19🔗 Oh, no, none of that.

53:21🔗 Stryker Why are you losing erection?

53:24🔗 I don't know. It's really strange that, you know, a lot of times right in the middle of having sex, it just down, you know.

53:34🔗 Adam Is that with a condom? Sorry, you guys. Is that with a condom or with a...

53:39🔗 No, I've had a vasectomy, so I...

53:43🔗 Stryker And is with the same partner?

53:45🔗 Yeah.

53:46🔗 Stryker Are you into her?

53:48🔗 Oh, yeah. Yeah, I'm definitely into her. It's just that, I don't know, I was married for a while, and I had the same problem with my ex-wife, and that's kind of what led to the divorce, and that was somewhat prior to Viagra coming on to the market.

54:09🔗 Stryker Well, it's kind of putting a band-aid on the problem. I don't know what the cause of your erectile dysfunction is, but yeah, absolutely, Viagra would work for you. I have a sneaking suspicion that that would not magically eliminate your sexual concerns because something else is going on here in your interpersonal life that's making this happen.

54:26🔗 Adam But if he takes it, does it automatically make your penis erect if you take Viagra without even thinking about it?

54:31🔗 Drew Or do you have to, like, get aroused?

54:33🔗 Stryker You have to have arousal.

54:34🔗 Adam What about a guy who gets erections quite easily and takes Viagra?

54:40🔗 Drew They'll stay.

54:41🔗 Stryker They'll be longer erections more easily.

54:42🔗 Adam I mean, can you go longer without having the orgasm?

54:45🔗 Stryker No, but you'll have an erection.

54:47🔗 Adam But if you have an orgasm, you get an erection right away.

54:48🔗 Stryker You'll keep the erection, yes.

54:50🔗 Adam Is it bad to take those if you're fine in that department?

54:53🔗 Stryker Stryker, I'm just reading the thoughts.

54:55🔗 Drew Stryker's just checking because he's taking them before. But he's making sure it's okay.

55:00🔗 Stryker He's not taking them before. He's checking down a list to decide whether he's going to use them. I see the thought bloom over his head. Why don't you just say, if I do this, if I do that?

55:10🔗 Drew Just give it a whirl, Stryker.

55:11🔗 Caller I have a friend that's kind of wondering.

55:15🔗 Adam What's the answer? Is it not healthy if you're fine?

55:17🔗 Stryker It's not healthy. Medications are never healthy when you're healthy. They really aren't. They're only putting you in harm's way.

55:24🔗 Adam Damn you, Dr. Drew! Eric, you're 20 on Loveline with Papa Roach.

55:30🔗 Caller Eric?

55:31🔗 Stryker Hey.

55:33🔗 Caller Hey, while I was in Iraq, I'd come back on two weeks of leave, and my wife had just taken off, and we also have a daughter together. She just like left her there at the house.

55:45🔗 Stryker What? What do you mean?

55:48🔗 Caller She was still being taken care of, though. There was other people there. But she had just taken off and was like living with one of her girlfriends, and they were doing like crystal meth and all sorts of things.

55:59🔗 Stryker I was going to say, this is a drug addict move.

56:01🔗 Drew Stay out that blow.

56:02🔗 Stryker Yeah, so what's the question?

56:05🔗 Caller Well, the question is, like, it's been a while after that, about a year, and she's not doing that anymore, and she has come in to see her daughter, and she's interested in trying to get back together with me, and I know I'm kind of interested in getting back together with her, but I don't know if I should.

56:21🔗 Stryker I really think you ought to do it under one condition, and that is that she's actively engaged in the recovery program, and you need to be actively going to Al-Anon with the sponsor. Otherwise, she's going back to drugs.

56:33🔗 Drew Yeah, you guys got to know what each other's going through.

56:35🔗 Stryker Yeah, unless you're engaged in a process, this is not going to go well.

56:40🔗 Caller So even if she hasn't been doing it for a year, she should still get into a rehab program?

56:46🔗 Stryker Not an inpatient program. She needs to be in a 12-step program in the community. She will go back, and she'll actually, I guarantee you, she'll go back, and I'm reasonably certain she's continuing to do something.

57:00🔗 Drew Does she like smoke pot or drink?

57:02🔗 Caller Yeah, I think she does both of those.

57:05🔗 Stryker Alright, so that's what I'm saying. And that's going to escalate eventually, and something horrible is going to happen to your daughter as a result, and you don't want that. And the only way she's going to stop this is if you also are engaged in some sort of process like Alan on, so you've got to go if you're really serious about this.

57:20🔗 Adam Alright, Eric. Let's go to Zach. What's up, Zach? You're on Loveline. Hey, how's it going?

57:24🔗 Stryker And by the way, for Eric, God bless him for serving to me. We just kind of just went right over there.

57:31🔗 Drew Back from Iraq, man.

57:33🔗 Stryker Give him some props on that.

57:35🔗 Adam Eric.

57:36🔗 Caller Yes.

57:37🔗 Adam Thanks for serving the country.

57:39🔗 Caller Thank you.

57:40🔗 Adam Being serious. Thanks for going out there. What was it? Terrible conditions, obviously terrible conditions, but were you scared for your life every day? Give us a little synopsis of it. What was your job?

57:52🔗 Caller I was a combat MOS, a 19 Delta Calvary Scout. While we were there, it really, I don't know, our mindset, we weren't really scared or afraid or anything. And I guess the reason why that would be is all the training that we go through. Believe it or not, we actually, you get bored when nothing is happening over there. So when you're under attack or you're going after something, it's actually exciting because other than that, you're sitting around or you're bored. You want something to happen.

58:21🔗 Stryker And did you feel as though you were useful and did something worthwhile?

58:25🔗 Caller Oh, yeah. Yeah. I mean, yes and no. We were over there for about a year and a couple of months. And after the war, though, really, I don't really think that we were needed there. To me, it was a waste of time.

58:39🔗 Stryker For troops as highly trained as you guys?

58:42🔗 Caller Well, just anybody. I mean, I don't understand their occupying force, but after that, the rest of our missions that we would do over there was we would escort higher ranking like VIPs. And all that they would do is they would go to oil sites and talk to the Iraqis there, try to get the oil problem. That's like all we did for our missions after that, pretty much. Until they started revolting in some of the cities and we had to take those back. But, you know, really, that was what most of what we were doing.

59:10🔗 Stryker Who do you think the bad guys were in the cities?

59:13🔗 Caller Who do we think they were?

59:14🔗 Stryker Yeah.

59:15🔗 Caller Well, there was a problem over there because it was really like guerrilla war and you couldn't tell who your enemy was.

59:22🔗 Stryker Was it the same guys you were fighting in the war, you think, to just sort of regroup?

59:26🔗 Caller Yeah, because we obviously couldn't get everybody. So some former members of the regime and just loyalists to Saddam.

59:32🔗 Stryker Yeah. Eric, thank you. That's crazy. Thanks for enlightening us.

59:36🔗 Drew We're glad you came back alive, man. Straight up.

59:39🔗 Stryker Sorry by serving, things get crazy at home, but hopefully she's on the road to recovery and willing to really make some change.

59:45🔗 Adam Well said. Zach, now you're back. What's going on?

59:49🔗 Caller Sorry about that. I'm like really nervous because I'm talking to one of the best doctors out there, Dr. Drew.

59:58🔗 Adam One of the best.

1:00:00🔗 Caller But hey, I have a question for Papa Roach. I'm a 14-year-old bassist and I want to start a band. And I was wondering what's the step-by-step process for making a song?

1:00:10🔗 Drew The 12-step program to starting a rock and roll band. Actually, that's when we were getting interested in playing music ourselves. I've been in Papa Roach since I was 16. We were doing it because we wanted to play music. We had love for music. Just got with friends that had the mutual love and respect for music and just jammed. It's just like there's no recipe. You just got to go out there and work hard and get down with people that love music and not are doing it just to be the cool dude. And practice, practice, practice, practice. Practice, learn. Do you take lessons or anything like that?

1:00:50🔗 Caller I'm taking a guitar class right now and I practice bass about six hours a day.

1:00:54🔗 Drew That's dope. You're on it.

1:00:57🔗 Caller Keep doing that.

1:00:58🔗 Drew Keep on that, man. That was like Tobin, our bass player.

1:01:00🔗 Caller A couple times we were playing my bass too loud.

1:01:04🔗 Drew Do you play along with records and stuff like that or do you read tabs?

1:01:07🔗 Caller I play along with you guys.

1:01:09🔗 Adam Hey, do you have your bass handy?

1:01:11🔗 Caller No, I do not actually.

1:01:14🔗 Drew Damn.

1:01:15🔗 I wish you.

1:01:16🔗 Drew You got friends that you're going to start jamming with here soon?

1:01:19🔗 Caller I was just wondering, I know you guys write a song, the lyrics out first, but then do you have the guitars play next, the basses, and then...

1:01:27🔗 Drew I mean, we'll just jam on a riff usually. Just jam on a riff, put a beat to it, and then eventually I'll come around with some lyrics after a song is written. You know, there's no real set formula. You just kind of go with the flow. That's what being a musician and being in a band is, it's about freedom, you know? It's about doing it whichever way you want to do it. You know?

1:01:47🔗 Adam Zach, do you have the new Papa Roach CD?

1:01:49🔗 Caller No, I'm...

1:01:50🔗 Caller Dude, you gotta go get it.

1:01:52🔗 Caller I'm broke right now.

1:01:56🔗 Drew Get yourself a jobby job.

1:01:58🔗 Caller Yeah, I know.

1:01:58🔗 Adam All right, Zach.

1:02:00🔗 Stryker Take care, buddy.

1:02:01🔗 Caller I just want to add, you guys are the first CD I ever bought.

1:02:09🔗 Stryker That's radical.

1:02:11🔗 Adam And the only one, evidently.

1:02:12🔗 Stryker Ralph, 21.

1:02:13🔗 Adam That's cool, man.

1:02:14🔗 Caller What's up, dude? First, I want to start off with, for some reason, I got a four-year-old little boy. And Papa Roach is the only CD he'll ever listen to.

1:02:23🔗 Caller He's like, Papa Roach!

1:02:27🔗 Caller So, just start off there. Anyway...

1:02:29🔗 Stryker I'm not sure if that was a compliment or not.

1:02:33🔗 Caller It was.

1:02:36🔗 Adam Drew, you're one of the best doctors out there, by the way.

1:02:39🔗 Caller But, okay, I'm 21, and I cheated on my girlfriend. And...

1:02:44🔗 Drew What happens?

1:02:46🔗 Caller I told her. I'd moved out for a couple weeks. But I told her, I came home, and just want to know what's the chance of us actually staying together because, of course, this is totally... That's all she can think about is me cheating on her. And it comes up, like, 20 times a day.

1:03:02🔗 Drew You know what? Check this out. I kind of went through some crazy stuff like this myself. And... It's really just a matter if you're done being a dog. Are you done being a dog? I mean, and it's like, it's just a matter of you guys sitting down and really talking about it and going through it and see if it's actually worth, you know, working through this. Because it's definitely not easy for a chick to... to forgive her man for doing that, you know what I'm saying?

1:03:31🔗 Caller Yeah, she took it kind of hard. She was getting, like, physically getting sick and stuff, you know what I mean? But we'd split up. I'd left and moved out, took all my stuff, moved out. You know, I figured it was over. That's why it happened. But then I came back because I came to see my boy, and then he grabbed a hold of me like I hadn't seen me in five years, you know what I mean? And I decided then it's time for me to come home, you know what I'm saying?

1:03:53🔗 Stryker There you go. If you have a child involved with this, you've got to figure this out.

1:03:55🔗 Drew Yeah, man. Go to some, try to get some counseling or, you know, work through that.

1:04:00🔗 Stryker It doesn't matter whether she can or can't get over it. You have to. She has to be a mom now, and that's ahead of all of the priorities. That means getting over this. All right.

1:04:08🔗 Adam Ashley, what's up? You're 20 on Loveline.

1:04:13🔗 Caller I was affected, well, I had two situations that happened when I was younger, one when I was in high school and one when I was about six years old. And I was curious if any of my depression and problems from that would affect my son in any way, like if it's a genetic thing or if it's just like...

1:04:31🔗 Stryker Well, no, tell us what happened. What happened when you were six?

1:04:36🔗 Caller My grandpa actually tried drowning me in a hot tub.

1:04:39🔗 Stryker Your grandfather tried drowning you?

1:04:41🔗 Caller Yes.

1:04:42🔗 Stryker Why? I mean, was he drunk or was he... What was happening?

1:04:48🔗 Caller Actually, I want to say he's completely normal, but at the same time, obviously, he's not if he's doing that.

1:04:54🔗 Adam How did you fight him off if you're six? And why didn't you drown completely? Who stopped him? What happened?

1:04:59🔗 Caller My sister did. My sister was in the hot tub and it happened. She thought he was just kidding around because we used to kind of toss us in the hot tub and we kind of jumped in type things.

1:05:10🔗 Adam Did he molest you also?

1:05:11🔗 Stryker That's what I'm wondering.

1:05:13🔗 Caller What's that?

1:05:13🔗 Adam Did he touch you, molest you?

1:05:16🔗 Caller Not that I remember. He never did anything sexual like that. It was just he held my head under the water and my hair got stuck into the jet type thing, I guess you can say. And I got stuck under there and he obviously didn't try helping me get out. My sister even told me things. At the time, I never remembered it. And then lately, over the last two or three years, I've been starting to get more memories of it. And I'll ask my sister about it and she agrees with me.

1:05:44🔗 Stryker Is he still alive?

1:05:46🔗 Caller I don't know why.

1:05:47🔗 Caller Honestly.

1:05:49🔗 Stryker Is he still alive?

1:05:50🔗 Caller Yeah.

1:05:51🔗 Stryker There's still missing pieces to this story, but whatever. Okay, what was the other thing that happened to you?

1:05:57🔗 Caller I was raped my sophomore year of high school by a boyfriend. And we were actually going to a school dance. And we never ended up going. He left me up. He did it to me at a cool parking lot.

1:06:10🔗 Adam Not in a hot tub?

1:06:13🔗 Caller No, no. This was a boyfriend that I had had. And he did it to me up at a high school, or at an elementary school in our neighborhood area. And left me there and I had to walk home.

1:06:25🔗 Stryker Yeesh.

1:06:26🔗 Drew That just ain't right.

1:06:27🔗 Stryker But that kind of victimization does suggest that something more explicit happened to you growing up.

1:06:32🔗 Caller And I don't have any memories of anything like that happening.

1:06:36🔗 Stryker All right, anyway, so what's your question now?

1:06:39🔗 Caller I've been having more depression problems of that from those incidents. And I was curious if any of that could affect my son. Like if it's a genetic thing or if it's more just me.

1:06:51🔗 Stryker Mom being depressed has a profound effect on children. So yes, you just being depressed can have an effect on the child's development. So A, that can have an effect. B, you are some kind of trauma survivor. I'm not quite, it's not the usual situation. I'm not clear what happened to you or what kind of craziness was going on in your family.

1:07:08🔗 Adam She was almost drowned at six.

1:07:09🔗 Stryker But absolutely. When you come from a crazy family system, that's gonna be brought to bear on your child. And if you've been abused, you have about a 60% chance of being an abuser yourself. Okay, so there's a lot of things here. Yes, get some treatment, get some help with this. So you don't act it out. One of the ways some parents think to themselves, well, my parents were so abused, I'm never gonna be like that. And they react to a complete other extreme. Anytime your parenting is influenced by your upbringing in the sense that you are totally avoiding or totally imitating, whichever it is, things that happened that were traumatizing when you were a child, it's all gonna have bad effects on the kids. You can't let the ghost of the past come to bear in the present.

1:07:52🔗 Adam How come sometimes, and I hear it on the show all the time when I'm here and just listening to you guys, a victim, five, six, seven, eight years old...

1:07:59🔗 Stryker Seeks victimization?

1:08:00🔗 Adam No, becomes a victim again. I know, it's amazing. At like 17 or 18.

1:08:04🔗 Stryker It's amazing.

1:08:04🔗 Adam Why do you think?

1:08:06🔗 Stryker I cannot... No one knows. There is something called a repetition compulsion. When people are traumatized, they are compulsed to repeat the trauma over and over again. And I think there's even something more specifically that happens, that the things that were terrorizing in childhood become a source of attraction in adulthood. Once the hormones turn on, the terror is converted into attraction and arousal, and you're super attracted to it.

1:08:29🔗 Drew Maybe that's why people are into like S&M and stuff like that.

1:08:32🔗 Stryker Well, there's the absolute of this, that, and there's also crazy bad relationships. Why do I keep going for that kind of guy?

1:08:37🔗 Drew The guy who beats me.

1:08:38🔗 Stryker Yeah, but lo and behold, dad was that first guy, or my Uncle Joe or whatever, and then that got wired in, and now that's... I didn't think he was another one of those guys again, but for some reason, I was super attracted to that guy. Well, guess what? If you have a trauma history, you gotta learn to read your attractions and not go after this person you're super attracted to. Unfortunately, you can't, because...

1:08:56🔗 Drew That's just your instinct.

1:08:58🔗 Stryker Your wiring's messed up. Yeah, your wiring's messed up from the trauma.

1:09:00🔗 Drew That's crazy.

1:09:01🔗 Adam Let's tease Frank, so to speak, before we go to break.

1:09:04🔗 Stryker Okay.

1:09:05🔗 Adam Let's see if it's even legit. Frank, 16, what's up? You're on Loveline.

1:09:09🔗 Caller Hey, what's up, man? What's up, Stryker? What's up, Dr. Drew? I've been listening to you guys since, like, I was 12. Cool.

1:09:16🔗 Stryker Three years ago.

1:09:18🔗 Caller What happened?

1:09:18🔗 Stryker Nothing. Go ahead.

1:09:20🔗 Caller All right, so I have a question. As you guys know, I'm 16. I rather, I don't have such a small penis, but I don't have a rather average-sized penis for my age. It's like two and a half inches un-erected.

1:09:36🔗 Stryker Penises are generally, they don't register it as not erect. They don't register it as not erect.

1:09:40🔗 Drew Yeah, you gotta work it up, dude.

1:09:41🔗 Stryker You're gonna register it.

1:09:42🔗 Drew Then get out the ruler.

1:09:42🔗 Stryker If you're gonna register your penis, it's gotta be erect. That's the Geneva Convention.

1:09:47🔗 Adam Don't measure when it's not erect.

1:09:49🔗 Caller When it's erected, it's like five and a quarter.

1:09:53🔗 Stryker Good times.

1:09:54🔗 Drew You're all right, man. You're gonna be okay.

1:09:55🔗 Adam I don't know if you're all right.

1:09:56🔗 Stryker You're not, you're gonna be okay. Five and a half, like 16, first of all. Five, you've got five more years of growth.

1:10:00🔗 Drew He's got time to grow, dude.

1:10:01🔗 Stryker And five and a half is actually normal.

1:10:03🔗 Adam Is the penis like fingernails or hair? It'll always grow?

1:10:06🔗 Stryker No.

1:10:07🔗 Adam Damn.

1:10:07🔗 Stryker You want it to be like Jack and the Beanstalk.

1:10:11🔗 Drew The older you get, your nose and your ears grow.

1:10:13🔗 Adam Right, that's what I'm saying.

1:10:13🔗 Drew And your penis doesn't go with it.

1:10:15🔗 Stryker No, they just get the ear hair and the nose hair in there.

1:10:18🔗 Adam Well, Frank, good luck with the five inch penis. Sorry about that. All right, we're going to take a break. When we come back, let's play another Papa Roach song. We're going to do that from the new CD.

1:10:26🔗 Drew Sounds good.

1:10:26🔗 Adam And hang out with the guys a little bit more. And we'll do that right after this on Loveline.

1:10:35🔗 Caller 1-800-LOVE-191.

1:11:01🔗 Adam Yup, we're back here on Loveline. Got a half hour more with Papa Roach. I'm Stryker, and Dr. Drew is here. We're about to play another P. Roach song. We've been talking about the record a bunch tonight. It came out yesterday.

1:11:11🔗 Drew Yes, getting away with murder in stores.

1:11:13🔗 Adam All right, let's talk about, super quick, a tour. Is it set yet in the States? First, you're going where? Where are you going, London or something?

1:11:20🔗 Drew Well, after I do this show tonight, I'm going home, having a baby, kicking with my family for a few. And then we go to Europe, and we're doing a tour of Europe for like two, two and a half weeks. And then we come back to the United States October 20th. We start a tour in Florida, and we'll be doing that for like, probably through the holidays, and ending up with doing some radio shows and stuff like that. So if kids want to know exactly where we're going to be, just go on poparoach.com.

1:11:45🔗 Adam Very nice. And there's going to be a headlining tour in the States.

1:11:47🔗 Drew Yes, headlining tour. We're doing like a thousand to two thousand seat venues on this tour. Just, you know, theaters, just killing them.

1:11:53🔗 Adam You guys have played with...

1:11:55🔗 Drew Name it.

1:11:56🔗 Adam Exactly, every single band.

1:11:58🔗 Drew Yeah, Eminem, Limp Bizkit, Korn, Green Day, you know, AFI, name it. You know, we've been out there.

1:12:07🔗 Adam What size venues is it set? What size you're going to do on this tour? Cause I know you just did the club thing here in the States.

1:12:13🔗 Drew Theaters, like theater size, you know, a thousand to two thousand seat places. And we just want to pack them out and have, you know, good vibes. You know, it's always like, whenever I go see concerts, I usually go see them at like that size venue. And it's always just the best experience. Cause it's still personal, but it's still big rock. You know, so it's going to be a good run for us. And we're not exactly sure which bands we're taking out. We've been talking to 36 Crazy Fists and they're like, kind of like a hardcore band, our road runner records. And so trying to put together a build that's a little bit different, you know, and bands that don't all sound the same. So it's going to be, it's going to be a good times. And I think this album is going to be a really good touring record for us. Cause you know, these songs just rock. We got anthems on this one.

1:12:54🔗 Adam Yeah. You got to see Papa Roach. I mean, they take pride in being a live band and they do it good.

1:13:00🔗 Drew Oh, yes. Really good.

1:13:01🔗 Adam All right. Let's shut the hell up and play a song.

1:13:02🔗 Drew Yes.

1:13:02🔗 Adam All right. From Papa Roach and the new CD, this song is called Take Me. Roach.

1:16:25🔗 Drew Oh, it's all right. It's all good. Dude, that's the part you talk over at the end of the song.

1:16:29🔗 Adam No, I don't like doing that. Ah, I thought it was done. You had one more Take Me in there. Yeah, man, two more. Jacoby's singing right there. Jerry's here and Jacoby from Papa Roach, and that was called Take Me from Get It Away With Murder. Came out yesterday.

1:16:41🔗 Drew Yeah, man, we actually were, go ahead.

1:16:42🔗 Adam No, I was gonna say, your third record, right?

1:16:44🔗 Drew Yeah, third album, third one with a major label. We're on actually, we got changed around. We're on Geffen Records now. So new record label for us, and it's been really cool, man. Actually, when we were making the record, we kind of didn't have a record label for a little while. So we were tripping, we were like, I don't know if we're gonna be able to put this out. We just put our nose to the grindstone and just said, no, let's just focus, make a rock record that we love, and things will work out. And then we ended up at Geffen and they loved the album. And things are just good.

1:17:11🔗 Adam Now when you end up at Geffen from DreamWorks, right? Did you go to Geffen because they said, we want that band, or did most bands from DreamWorks end up at Geffen?

1:17:20🔗 Drew This is what happened. DreamWorks got bought out by Universal. So some of the bands went to...

1:17:26🔗 Adam MC...

1:17:27🔗 Stryker And Interscope.

1:17:27🔗 Drew Interscope. And then some of the bands went to Geffen.

1:17:30🔗 Stryker Got it.

1:17:30🔗 Drew And we went to Geffen and everybody there is really backing us.

1:17:33🔗 Stryker Jordan Schur.

1:17:34🔗 Drew Yeah.

1:17:34🔗 Stryker The man.

1:17:35🔗 Drew I was just hanging out with Jordan today. Jordan, Polly Anthony, you know, Jen Littleton, all types of good folks there, man. Spivak.

1:17:42🔗 Adam Spivak, the author.

1:17:43🔗 Drew Tommy Daly.

1:17:44🔗 Adam All right. Let's take a few more calls here before we have to go. Where we going?

1:17:49🔗 Stryker Sheila.

1:17:49🔗 Adam All right, Sheila, 19 year old, Papa Roach, Loveline.

1:17:54🔗 Caller My boyfriend wants to have a threesome with one of my best friends. And... Yeah, fun. But I don't know, like, I'm kind of nervous about it because I've done it before with her and one of her ex-boyfriends and ever since I mentioned to him, he's like, let's do it, let's do it.

1:18:11🔗 Stryker Of course, of course. Guy's probably beside himself.

1:18:13🔗 Adam A, he's a guy, B, you've done it before so he knows you are somewhat experienced. Your relationship will be most likely not how it is now after the threesome.

1:18:22🔗 Stryker Right, it will ruin the relationship but in a way it's already ruined because this guy's gonna be so overtaking with the idea that there's some guy that was able to do this with my girlfriend and not me that he's not gonna let it go. He's not gonna let it go. And when he finally does get a chance to do this, things are gonna come up that are gonna screw up your relationship.

1:18:42🔗 Drew I saw a movie one time where it was like this guy, his fantasy was to get another chick into the sack and what happens is the wife finally goes, okay, we'll bring this other girl in and the guy gets kicked out of the bed pretty much. And the two girls are going out and the guy's sitting on the outside like, I thought this was about me.

1:19:00🔗 Stryker But that's about as good as it can get. You know what I'm saying? The kinds of feelings that people are sort of, that come up in situations like this can be extremely unpredictable and very unpleasant usually.

1:19:10🔗 Drew Yeah.

1:19:11🔗 Stryker But then again, you're 19, how old is he?

1:19:14🔗 Drew I'd give it a whirl.

1:19:15🔗 Adam Yeah, I mean, you're not gonna get married most likely. You haven't been with him that long.

1:19:18🔗 Stryker Whatever. Meg, 23.

1:19:21🔗 Adam Give it a whirl.

1:19:22🔗 Caller Hey, how's it going?

1:19:24🔗 Drew Howdy.

1:19:27🔗 Caller My question is, I started dating a girl about two months ago, I'm a lesbian, and we just had sex a couple days ago, and I went down on her and she came and she sounded like a goose and I don't know exactly how to bring it up to her.

1:19:41🔗 Adam The vagina was goose sounding or her mouth was goose sounding?

1:19:44🔗 Caller No, no, no, no, her noise. Like it sounded like a goose.

1:19:46🔗 Drew Can you make that noise? Can you remake the noise for us?

1:19:49🔗 Caller Oh, it was like a honking noise, like honk.

1:19:52🔗 Caller I don't know how to say it exactly. Yeah, like that.

1:19:56🔗 Caller You're gonna loop that one.

1:19:59🔗 Drew That's bad.

1:19:59🔗 Stryker Yeah, put that one on loop too. That's so. Yeah, that's not very sexy.

1:20:03🔗 Caller Yeah, not so much.

1:20:05🔗 Adam Or you can look at it like, look, you were so good, you made her sound like a freaking goose.

1:20:09🔗 Stryker Did you laugh?

1:20:10🔗 Caller No, it's hard because, I mean, I stop, I don't know what to do, I get nervous. Yeah, so I don't know if I should bring it up to her and talk to her about it.

1:20:20🔗 Stryker Didn't she wonder why you were laughing?

1:20:22🔗 Caller Well, I didn't really laugh, it just startled me.

1:20:25🔗 Drew Hey, did she do it the whole time or just when she came?

1:20:28🔗 Caller Just when she came.

1:20:30🔗 Drew Well, then, you know, just deal with it.

1:20:32🔗 Adam You should see the noises and hear the, see the body convulsions and where my eyeballs going, what I'm doing, what I'm in that thing. I mean...

1:20:39🔗 Stryker No, thank you.

1:20:40🔗 Adam You should see my O-Glo, Dr. Drew. The O-Glo.

1:20:44🔗 Drew I haven't heard that before, the O-Glo.

1:20:46🔗 Adam It's great. Are we done with Meg?

1:20:48🔗 Stryker No, we're not. If she's done with us, is that it? I don't know what to tell her. Don't worry about it, Meg.

1:20:52🔗 Adam You just did a good job.

1:20:53🔗 Drew Dude, put a sock in her mouth.

1:20:54🔗 Stryker You kind of bring it up if it's a troubling dude.

1:20:57🔗 Caller Well, I mean, I really like her. I want to be, you know, with her. It's just, I don't know, it just bugs me, you know? I don't know how to bring it up to her or what. I mean, she should know about it, obviously.

1:21:08🔗 Stryker Maybe that was, and has that happened since the first time?

1:21:12🔗 Caller Well, we've only had it once, so I mean.

1:21:14🔗 Stryker Maybe it was just a one time thing. Maybe it was just one of those things.

1:21:17🔗 Adam She makes goose noise. You guys seen the movie Porky's?

1:21:19🔗 Drew Yes.

1:21:20🔗 Adam What was that girl called? Like the hound dog or something dog? Every time she had sex, she was like, Oh, she's, oh!

1:21:27🔗 Drew The gym teacher.

1:21:27🔗 Adam Exactly. They would have sex in where they keep all the balls, so to speak. Yep. Miss Ball Breaker. It had a mole on it.

1:21:36🔗 Stryker Amy?

1:21:36🔗 Adam What's up, Amy? You're 21.

1:21:41🔗 Caller My boyfriend can't keep an erection like when he's about to have sex with me.

1:21:46🔗 Stryker So before he's able to penetrate, he loses it.

1:21:49🔗 Caller Yeah, like any other time, like all, any other time, he can keep an erection, but he gets on top of me and, you know, it's ready to go in and can't because...

1:22:00🔗 Stryker Bad times.

1:22:01🔗 Drew Is he like 60 years old? Is he old?

1:22:06🔗 Caller He's 20.

1:22:07🔗 Drew Oh, well then, there's some, some's going on.

1:22:10🔗 Adam Is he wearing a condom? Is he wearing a condom? God.

1:22:17🔗 Drew Maybe you're just intimidating to him, I don't know.

1:22:19🔗 Stryker Does he have any medical problems? Is he on any medication? Is he doing drugs or alcohol when this happens?

1:22:29🔗 Adam But he's good when she goes down on him.

1:22:31🔗 Stryker Yeah, I know. You know, it's many, many different reasons why guys get this on a psychological basis and only he knows what it is for him.

1:22:41🔗 Caller Well, he doesn't though, cause he's like, he's just as concerned about his IO.

1:22:46🔗 Stryker It's never happened before with anybody else? No. Has he ever had sex with anybody?

1:22:50🔗 Caller If you want to talk to him, you can, he's right here.

1:22:53🔗 Stryker You want to talk to him?

1:22:54🔗 Adam Hold on one sec, before we talk to him, there's been like three or four calls about losing erections.

1:22:58🔗 Drew Yeah.

1:22:59🔗 Adam I'm feeling jinxed to myself right now. Like, I swear to God, if I go home and I don't get one, I'm blaming, I feel so, my mind is messing with me right now.

1:23:08🔗 Drew The show is jinxing you right now.

1:23:09🔗 Adam No, I swear to God, it's jinxing me.

1:23:12🔗 Stryker Yeah.

1:23:12🔗 Drew Why don't you go in the bathroom and check?

1:23:14🔗 Adam No, I want to.

1:23:14🔗 Drew Three-star saver.

1:23:15🔗 Adam Seriously, we have videos in the other room.

1:23:17🔗 Stryker Well, whether or not we're able to get to the bottom of the psychology, as we've talked about earlier in the show tonight, there are medications now available that will take care of this.

1:23:25🔗 Drew There you go.

1:23:25🔗 Stryker And although you wouldn't particularly be enthusiastic about using it on a 20-year-old, it could really help him. And I would think somebody like this, once he's sort of got some momentum going, you know, you got him over the hump, so to speak, into the hump. And he might not need the erectile medication after the while.

1:23:43🔗 Adam I want to try Viagra so bad.

1:23:45🔗 Stryker Lovitra, Viagra, or Cialis.

1:23:47🔗 Drew Tonight, tonight's the night.

1:23:48🔗 Adam I don't have any, though.

1:23:49🔗 Stryker Yeah, well, I have stacks of it in my office.

1:23:52🔗 Drew I know a guy.

1:23:53🔗 Adam You know a guy, really?

1:23:54🔗 Drew Who could get you those things?

1:23:55🔗 Adam I'll come by the hotel and grab it from you.

1:23:58🔗 Stryker I have closets full of that stuff in my office.

1:24:00🔗 Adam Can you bring some, please? Can I have one?

1:24:02🔗 Stryker No.

1:24:02🔗 Adam Why would you not give it to me?

1:24:03🔗 Stryker Because you're not my patient. It's unethical.

1:24:07🔗 Adam All right, fine.

1:24:07🔗 Stryker Boundary problem. Take a break.

1:24:09🔗 Adam All right, we're taking a break right now? All right, we're gonna take a break. We're gonna find some freaking Viagra here, get ourselves some hard-ons and we'll be back. We'll be back with Papa Roach after these words. We'll be right back.

1:24:58🔗 Drew That's a stinky groove right there.

1:25:00🔗 Adam It's good, huh?

1:25:01🔗 Drew That's a good groove.

1:25:02🔗 Adam All right, that's Papa Roach here hanging out in the studio. 50% of them, Jacoby and Jerry. Make sure and tell Dave and Toby and I say, what's up?

1:25:09🔗 Drew We will.

1:25:10🔗 Adam And tell Dave's parents, if you see them, I say hello also. Yeah. Because back in the day, they were on my TV show when they allowed me on TV back then.

1:25:18🔗 Drew What'd they do? They were like, they just, we ain't having you no more. You're gone.

1:25:21🔗 Adam Who, the TV people? Yeah. That particular TV people, we did like 60 of them, but since then, I've done a little here and there. I've said no to some things, but anyone listen, I'm back in the ball game, if you know what I mean.

1:25:32🔗 Drew He's doing adult features.

1:25:34🔗 Adam Yes, exactly, and I'm good at it. Get those blue pills going. Papa Roach's CD, if you've been listening, you already know it came out yesterday. If you're just tuning in, Get It Away With Murder, came out yesterday. Their third big label record, it's exciting. They'll be touring the States after they come back from, I guess you call it, is it overseas?

1:25:51🔗 Drew Yeah, going to Europe.

1:25:54🔗 Adam What, is that wrong?

1:25:55🔗 Drew October 20th.

1:25:56🔗 Caller Is that what you guys call that?

1:25:57🔗 Stryker It's kind of like an old man thing to say.

1:25:59🔗 Adam It is?

1:25:59🔗 Stryker Yeah.

1:26:00🔗 Drew When you go overseas.

1:26:02🔗 Adam October 20th, Florida.

1:26:03🔗 Drew See, right now we are stateside.

1:26:05🔗 Adam Yeah.

1:26:05🔗 Drew That's what we call it.

1:26:06🔗 Adam We're stateside, we're in Culver City, California. Let's talk to Casey, 15, on Loveline, what's up?

1:26:12🔗 Caller Hi, I just recently broke up with my boyfriend and I broke up with him because he didn't want to hurt me and do it himself, but he says that he wants to see other people, but at the same time, he won't let me do anything with anyone else or let me go out with anyone else and he doesn't want me to be with anybody else.

1:26:30🔗 Stryker That's if he were still your boyfriend.

1:26:32🔗 Adam A-hole.

1:26:32🔗 Stryker Is that right?

1:26:33🔗 Drew Yeah. Yeah, tell him to piss off.

1:26:35🔗 Stryker Let's see, you broke up, so what are you gonna do?

1:26:37🔗 Drew Yeah, okay.

1:26:38🔗 Stryker Yeah, it's good. You're the right thing. Do not obsess about this guy. Do not think about getting him back. Do not figure out how you're gonna change him. Let it go.

1:26:45🔗 Caller Okay. All right, good girl.

1:26:47🔗 Adam Perfect.

1:26:48🔗 Stryker Take care now.

1:26:48🔗 Adam Go to sixth, I like that. Andrew, 14, on Loveline.

1:26:54🔗 I have a question for Dr. Drew.

1:26:57🔗 Stryker Yes?

1:26:57🔗 Yeah, I masturbate a lot and I want to know if that affects the growth of your penis. Like, will it stop it?

1:27:05🔗 Adam Hey, wait, how old are you? You're 14?

1:27:08🔗 Caller Yeah.

1:27:09🔗 Adam Do you even, I mean, your voice, your voice will change, of course, but do you even have any liquid coming out when you're doing it?

1:27:15🔗 Caller Yeah.

1:27:17🔗 Stryker 14.

1:27:18🔗 Adam But the voice hasn't really hit the, you know.

1:27:21🔗 Drew Yeah, 14.

1:27:22🔗 Stryker Well, now, what is a lot?

1:27:25🔗 Caller A lot, like one or two times a day.

1:27:28🔗 Adam Normal.

1:27:30🔗 Drew That's all right.

1:27:31🔗 Stryker Jacoby's like disappointed, like, I'm like, come on, like five or six at least, bro, come on.

1:27:35🔗 Adam On the school bus, you gotta do it at least once.

1:27:38🔗 Stryker So, no, it will not stop the penis from growing. No, it will not.

1:27:41🔗 Adam It may even help it, since you're tugging on it all the time. That's what I was told. The number's gonna go up.

1:27:50🔗 Stryker Who told you that?

1:27:52🔗 Adam You know, my friends.

1:27:53🔗 Stryker My circle of friends. Your dad or the clergy?

1:27:57🔗 Adam No, going to Blasio. Rabbi Schwartz told me. I was going to Blasio Road Elementary School. And we were playing handball.

1:28:07🔗 Drew Yeah, you know what, dude, just enjoy yourself, kid.

1:28:09🔗 Stryker Blasio's old enough for you to have been in elementary school.

1:28:14🔗 Adam What's that?

1:28:15🔗 Stryker In Vegas?

1:28:16🔗 Adam No, no, here in LA. Here in LA, yeah. Blasio, what do you mean, after the hotel?

1:28:20🔗 Stryker Yeah, I was like, oh my God.

1:28:22🔗 Adam Yes, I went to school in the casino next.

1:28:32🔗 Stryker To the hotel. Flamingo Road, Tropicana Road, whatever, Riviera Road. I thought, oh my god, there's a Bellagio Road, and you're young enough to have been in an elementary school?

1:28:42🔗 Adam No, I went out here. I went to a Bellagio Road, then Palisades Village School.

1:28:45🔗 Drew And then Motel 6 Road School.

1:28:47🔗 Adam Right, and then the No-Tel Motel. All right, let's go to, so it's not going to shrink, by the way. Ravy, 18. Rav-ay. Rav-ay.

1:28:57🔗 Stryker Rav-ay, sorry.

1:28:59🔗 Adam Overseas name.

1:29:00🔗 Stryker Get it right. What's up?

1:29:03🔗 Caller Well, I just recently broke up with my boyfriend and he still comes over and he still wants to sleep with me.

1:29:09🔗 Stryker Of course. Of course.

1:29:12🔗 Caller Should I tell him that it's completely over or should I just be like, well, we need to get back together or what? I don't know, I'm just like really confused.

1:29:22🔗 Stryker He's not wanting to get back together. Do not confuse him wanting to sleep with you with him wanting to get back together. Those are two entirely different things. Yeah, that's so he'll have sex with him, Rave. Rave, that's so you'll have sex with him only. That's not to get you back.

1:29:43🔗 Drew He just wants to hit it when he wants to.

1:29:45🔗 Stryker Just wants the sex. If he wanted you back, he'd be interested in getting you back, not having the sex. Those are two completely different components of the male mind. Completely.

1:29:54🔗 Caller Okay.

1:29:56🔗 Stryker And please don't get confused that because he's having sex with you, he still A, loves you, or B, wants to get back. No. Not related. All right.

1:30:07🔗 Adam All right, let's go to Refinage on, where are we going? Oh, we're going to one?

1:30:12🔗 Stryker Jennifer?

1:30:14🔗 Adam That's Refinage backwards, Jennifer. You're 19, Jennifer.

1:30:17🔗 Stryker Pardon me for being confused. Rev-A.

1:30:20🔗 Adam Okay, what's going on?

1:30:27🔗 Stryker How old are you?

1:30:28🔗 Adam I'm 19.

1:30:29🔗 Stryker Okay. That's the problem with being with somebody when you're 15. Did you have sex with him when you were 15? This is what happens, they get bound to somebody because of those intense feelings. And it's somebody that if she met now, she spent a few weeks dating and then kind of get on with it. But because it was that early bonding, it's very hard to let go of that. Get them while they're young. So, what's the deal?

1:30:55🔗 Caller When we have sex, it really hurts. It's like having cramps.

1:31:01🔗 Stryker In the abdomen, in the pelvic area.

1:31:03🔗 Caller Yeah, it's just like when I get cramps because I don't have periods at all.

1:31:08🔗 Stryker Why?

1:31:10🔗 Caller I just finally went to the doctor about that. The doctor had said that I had polycystic ovary syndrome.

1:31:18🔗 Stryker Okay, well there you go. So you don't ovulate your polycystic ovarian and that hurts. The ovaries can be tender.

1:31:25🔗 Caller Okay.

1:31:26🔗 Stryker Ovarian cysts. So what's your question?

1:31:32🔗 Caller Pretty much like, I guess I kind of would answer my question.

1:31:36🔗 Stryker Are you overweight?

1:31:38🔗 Caller Huh?

1:31:38🔗 Stryker Are you overweight?

1:31:41🔗 Caller Yeah, I am overweight.

1:31:43🔗 Caller Don't guess like it much, but I am.

1:31:45🔗 Stryker And are you diabetic? All right, so here's the deal. Stryker won't let me talk to you anymore. The insulin resistance from the polycystic ovarian syndrome's gotta be dealt with. The excess weight is probably the reason, or at least a contributory reason to why you have this problem. Lose the weight, diabetic diet, get back on exercise, get cycling again. Don't worry about the pain when you have intercourse. That's the least of your problems.

1:32:10🔗 Adam All right, we're gonna take a break right now. I wish we ended on a different call because that's my last call that Corolla comes back. But that was fun as hell with Papa Roach. But we're gonna sign off with you guys in a minute.

1:32:19🔗 Drew Sounds good, we'll hang out. All right, cool.

1:32:20🔗 Adam We'll be back after this on Love Line. Hold on.

1:32:23🔗 Caller All right, guys, here's the deal.

1:32:24🔗 Caller You're looking to hook up, sick of wasting time with the wrong person?

1:32:28🔗 Caller One call is all you need to make.

1:32:30🔗 Adam Call the Dateline.

1:32:31🔗 Caller 877-889-DATE.

1:32:33🔗 Adam Call the Dateline. All right, wrapping up Loveline here with Papa Roach. Thanks, you guys.

1:33:05🔗 Drew It's been a nice night, man. Thanks for having us.

1:33:08🔗 Adam Anytime.

1:33:08🔗 Drew Appreciate it, Dr. Drew, and Stryker.

1:33:10🔗 Adam Of course, thanks for dealing with me. And once again, keep up the live shows, man. That's my favorite part about your band.

1:33:16🔗 Drew Oh yes, gotta come see us live, coming to a theater near you.

1:33:20🔗 Adam Definitely, and the CD came out yesterday, Go and Get It, Getting Away With Murder.

1:33:24🔗 Drew Yes.

1:33:25🔗 Adam And Jacoby, good luck with the brand new child. Hopefully it's a happy, healthy birth.

1:33:29🔗 Drew Oh man, I'm so excited, I'm like, in the next few days, it's on. I'm excited.

1:33:36🔗 Adam Jerry, hopefully you'll sing while the baby's coming out.

1:33:39🔗 Caller Yep.

1:33:40🔗 Adam And play a little guitar, so I'm gonna come in on it.

1:33:42🔗 Caller Just picture it in your head, you know.

1:33:44🔗 Adam All right, Drew, thanks man. You make it so easy. Nice, and to all the callers, thanks for being so cool. That's it, Adam's coming back tomorrow. So for Dr. Drew and the guys from Papa Roach.

1:33:54🔗 Caller Peace and chicken grease.

1:33:56🔗 Adam I am Stryker saying goodbye.

1:33:58🔗 Drew Make love to the butthole.

1:34:02🔗 Caller Loveline, the opinions expressed in this show are not necessarily those of the staff, management, sponsors or this station. The producer for Loveline is Annie Gold. Loveline is a presentation of WestWood One Entertainment.

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