1:20🔗DrewIt is Loveline! Uh, I'm excited! I am not Adam. That's why I'm excited. Which means I'm not Harry. But I'm not a millionaire. I'm Stryker. With Drew. Doctor.
1:29🔗StrykerWhat is that voice? Who is that? What is that positivity? Where's the negativity?
1:33🔗DrewI just ate Baja Fresh at 930, right by the Beverly Center. I was eating it so fast. I was with my lady. She's like gobbling it down, the burrito. I'm like, I gotta get over to Loveline. So 930, I'm still sitting in there, ran to the car, sped here. The Killers are gonna be on tonight.
1:49🔗StrykerThat is killer, right? For the rest of the country, fill them in on this band. You're in my history with the band, too.
1:55🔗DrewYes. Okay, first off, The Killers, I think, are an amazing band. They're from Las Vegas. I don't know from from, but they're claiming they're from there.
2:04🔗DrewYeah, they have an unbelievable CD called Hot Fuss. The first single is called Somebody Told Me. Somebody told me you had a boyfriend, looked like a girlfriend, that I had a February of last year.
2:14🔗StrykerAnd that's a song that you played for the first time on KROQ here in Los Angeles. And I was sitting in the studio.
2:19🔗DrewAnd I said, Drew, you have to listen to this.
2:23🔗DrewAnd not only was it catchy as hell, but then when I got the CD, which came out in the middle of June, this was way before June. But when the CD came out, I was like, these guys are legit. It's not just a one song thing. But you and I bonded over that song. And every time you came in the studio when I did my show in LA, I would play it for you.
2:39🔗StrykerWell, I don't know if you're playing for me or not. You certainly played it. And I seem to be playing every time I walked in the studio. And then there's another, the second single, Mr. Brightside. You like that?
2:47🔗DrewThat could be the greatest song of 2004. Are they listening? Oh, and so the Killers are here, but they're not in the goddamn room.
3:04🔗DrewOh, the door is opening? Hey, it's the Killers, that's Brandon Flowers. No, Ronnie. Oh, Ronnie, I'm sorry. You look like him, but I've seen you.
3:19🔗DrewWe have 50% of the band. I don't know if you just heard me yapping about you guys in the hallway. Did you hear it? Hold on, hold on, hold on, the mic's not on yet. Microphones. We on? Hello, Ronnie? Yes. All right, there you go. 50% of them, Drew, which is good. I don't wanna redo our whole spiel about it, but let's just say it was huge. I exposed you guys, the music that is, to Dr. Drew way before June 15th.
3:45🔗StrykerHe was, you brought it to Los Angeles.
3:47🔗DrewI don't know if I brought it, but I was like so high in it, you guys, like going crazy. Loving the single, the song in the pink single case that I had.
4:08🔗DrewSo Drew, every time he would come in the studio before Loveline, because I'm on normally 6 to 10, I'm Stryker by the way, I'm not Adam Carolla, like I would play that for him, like Drew, you have to listen to these words, it's so good to listen to the music.
4:20🔗DrewYeah, and then I was saying, and I'm gonna reiterate right to your face, when I got the CD just before June 15th, I was so excited for myself and you guys that it was so legit and so good.
4:54🔗DrewIt was all right. I'll have to go to the bathroom in a minute. Rachel, you're 18? Yeah. What's going on? You're on with The Killers on Loveline.
5:03🔗CallerUm, all right. I'm 18 years old and I've been having sex for three years and I can't get an orgasm.
5:12🔗DrewHow about when you're by yourself? Can you do it?
5:15🔗CallerNo, I can't. And I've been with like girls and I've been with boys and I can't do it.
5:22🔗StrykerWell, a couple things. First of all, women under 20 very frequently can't do that by themselves and often can't do it with a partner. Most will never have an orgasm with intercourse. It's only with some sort of direct stimulation.
5:36🔗DrewWhat if like you know how to work your equipment and you're in the union? Do you think you can get up and have one?
5:40🔗StrykerIf you're union, per diem, whatever it is, things don't sort of come online until after 20 for many women. The biology doesn't sync up. And so it's really about finding an intimate relationship and kind of working it out. This business of finding lots of different people and having sex with them is not gonna work. It's not how it works.
5:59🔗CallerAnd by the way, I have a steady girlfriend right now.
6:02🔗StrykerYeah, and by the way, you sort of reek of chaos. Were you sexually abused growing up? Is there a reason why you're all over the place?
6:10🔗DrewWhat do you mean six guys and six girls? A total of 12 at 18 years old. Is there something wrong with that? You guys from The Killers?
6:17🔗StrykerI'd say wrong. She's just all over the place. She's just chaos.
6:56🔗StrykerNo need. She's with girls. I would, no abuse or abandonment or foster care or something in your life? Why does it seem so chaos, so much chaos?
7:06🔗DrewI think she's just excited. She's from Wyoming. There's nothing to do there except sleep with the girls.
7:23🔗StrykerNo. It makes sense, but it's not the problem. But go ahead. All right, Rachel, don't stop worrying about the orgasm. Stay focused on finding a relationship.
7:31🔗DrewBut back to the orgasm with the intercourse. So if a girl can have it with the intercourse, what's going on? Hello. If the girl can have it, see, now I'm, what's going on here? What are you guys doing? Oh my God, Drew is now, can you explain what just happened, anybody? How distracting was that?
7:50🔗StrykerAnne came in and started making signs to me, and it was that she needed the card to get out of the studio.
7:55🔗DrewOh, Anne's worked here, I love Ms. Wingle, but she's worked here for like five years and doesn't have a card?
8:21🔗StrykerVery quick. All right, they can't hear it, so.
8:25🔗DrewLet her ask it. It's just one simple quick question.
8:27🔗StrykerAnderson said no. Technically, they can't hear it at all. We hear it, nobody else hears it.
8:32🔗There's thousands of people trying to call and we're gonna take that call?
8:34🔗DrewAll right, thank you, Anderson. I'll ask it. Hey, she wants to know what's the inspiration behind a lot of your guys' songs on Hot Fuss?
8:45🔗CallerThe inspiration behind our songs? We just write songs. Usually, you know, the lyrics are the last thing that come up, so we're more focused on the song and the melody to begin with.
8:56🔗DrewAnd who is most lyrically writing the songs, if that makes sense? Who's penning the songs?
9:02🔗CallerI am most lyrically writing the songs. Brandon. Yeah, I write the lyrics.
9:07🔗DrewAnd then when it comes to the music, is it collaboration between everybody? Group effort. Including you, because you play a couple instruments, right Brandon?
9:19🔗DrewNow how about, you guys use a keyboard, you can hear it in the songs, you gotta drag it around every place you go. What kind of bands did you guys listen to growing up, or why a keyboard? I mean it sounds really, you have such good, as noise is the right word, in your songs, from so many different types of instruments.
9:37🔗CallerI just, we all listen to a lot of the same stuff, it just happens to be what I play. I would like to play the guitar, but it's easier for me, because I took piano lessons when I was a kid. But I do, you know, we love Depeche Mode and The Cure, and a lot of keyboard stuff in there. Blur, everybody uses them, so.
9:55🔗StrykerSharon? 18? Hey, by the way, let me set the show. This is Loveline, that's Stryker, out for Adam, his ship is fishing in La Paz.
10:26🔗DrewSharon, come back, we'll come back to you, be prepared, okay? Thank you. Tim, we're going to Tim, be ready or else. We can't have that. Damn, I gotta get in a role here. What's going on, Tim? Yeah.
10:38🔗CallerHey, Dr. Drew, I wish Adam was here. Love you guys so, Dr. Drew, I saw you on MSNBC, talking about that gay marriage stuff, awesome, man. And can I ask you a personal question? Are you an atheist, also, like Adam?
10:50🔗StrykerNo, no, I'm not as vehement as he is.
10:55🔗CallerGood for you, man. I'm almost wishing I would have come. Chuck, you're all right, but you're definitely no Adam. You're all right, though, yeah.
11:02🔗DrewOkay, Tim, hold on, we're gonna put you on hold and take the next call. Go to number five right there. Adam, you're 26, what's going on?
11:18🔗CallerA long time ago. And I want to say what's up to Killers. You guys are the bomb, dude. I love all your music, it's awesome. And I just wanted to ask you guys, how long you guys been playing together?
11:41🔗DrewThat is pretty amazing. Were you in separate bands before The Killers? Or were you guys together, always in a band together? Was it always The Killers?
12:05🔗AdamI went to Clark and graduated from Western High School.
12:09🔗DrewGod, Vegas. I know you growing up there, you're probably, do you still do the same ridiculous stuff that you don't live there or is it more when you go back because you're not there all the time?
12:19🔗AdamI think when we go back, it's home time. Right. It's time to get back to sleeping in your bed and using your facilities.
13:01🔗StrykerLike, I don't wanna be, like, I feel kind of like, I take on the guy's role in that, after the orgasm, I'm kind of done, and...
13:08🔗DrewOf course you're done. You're worn out, the juices have flown, it's getting a little dry down there, your brain is bent, and your body. You should be done, right?
13:18🔗StrykerI guess so, but I don't, like, want them, and I feel like people make me think I should want them.
13:22🔗StrykerWhat do you want? Wait a minute, wait, well, I'm very confused. You said on one hand, you act like a guy and are driven to orgasm, and then are completely done afterwards.
13:31🔗StrykerI'm driven to orgasm, like, when I do orgasm, I'm not happy with the fact that I don't want to go anymore. Or like, my boyfriend will still want to go?
13:40🔗StrykerIs this with the same guy? Oh, this isn't, you're kind of not matching up, you and he. You gotta work things out.
13:48🔗DrewBut isn't it normal after an orgasm with the girl from at least, you know, I've only been with one girl. Hold on one second, hold on, Andy, one sec. I was with the girl in June of 92. You had one girl, yeah. And after she orgasmed, she was done. Aren't girls mostly done after they?
14:01🔗StrykerYes, but the problem is that her boyfriend, this is the opposite of what we normally deal with, which is she's done before the guy. And so, and she's like thinking like, oh my god, this is ruining the experience for him. Therefore, I can't have a distraction like an orgasm intervening here. Which is unfortunate, and this is a function, not of you and your body, this is you and the relationship not working right.
14:24🔗DrewBut he's feeling so good that he's making you orgasm very fast, I'm sure.
14:27🔗StrykerBut maybe not, maybe he's one of these guys that's focused on his orgasm only, making her feel bad for being done, and now you got a problem.
14:34🔗DrewNow which guy are you in that department, Dr. Drew? Are you focused on yourself or are you focused on your partner?
14:39🔗StrykerI have a pathology in general of being too focused on other people.
14:45🔗DrewHave you ever just stopped the whole operation and said, don't worry about me, I'm done for the night, even though you haven't reached that point?
14:50🔗StrykerWell, that's something that men are not capable of saying. Not to the about 75 or something.
15:13🔗CallerThere's this place on my house and it's called Gravity Hill and it's like in the middle of a cemetery and I really like to go up there and have sex in my car in the middle of the cemetery.
15:32🔗CallerLike since I lost my virginity like a year and a half ago.
15:37🔗StrykerSame guy? Did you lose your virginity there?
15:45🔗DrewIsn't that where most girls like, you know, they dream of losing their virginity. When I lose my virginity, we can either go to the Four Seasons Hotel after prom or the Palms Hotel in Vegas or we can go to the cemetery.
15:58🔗StrykerMost will specify mausoleum. But anyway.
16:00🔗CallerWell a lot of us come up here and like get drunk and stuff all the time.
16:03🔗StrykerAre you loaded when you're up there every time?
16:08🔗CallerNot every time but it's like, you know, it's like a hangout sometimes or sometimes we can go to be alone, nobody really goes up there.
16:14🔗StrykerAlright so it's not about it being a cemetery. It's a comfortable place, a safe place, and a place you also use drugs and alcohol. Those are the features of that place other than it being a cemetery. It's more about that, isn't it?
16:28🔗CallerI guess, I don't know. I just found that no matter what I do, unless I'm in the cemetery, I can't have an orgasm.
16:36🔗DrewThat's good that you're having orgasm not only at 17 but in the car which is a tough place to even, I have a tough place having one in there.
16:42🔗StrykerWell, don't take things too far. But yeah, that's right.
17:27🔗Not much. I've got a question for you. My girlfriend, she won't let me go down on her at all because she says that it smells bad down there or whatnot even after she takes a shower.
17:42🔗StrykerThe Killers have something to say about this, right?
18:02🔗I have. After like we have sex, yeah, I can smell it. I guess just the smell of sex or whatnot.
18:08🔗StrykerYeah, it's just her smell. It's not anything unusual, right?
18:11🔗Yeah. But like she says it smells bad even after she takes a shower.
18:14🔗StrykerYeah, but you keep saying that. Yeah, it immediately makes us think bogus when you reiterate the same statement.
18:20🔗DrewNo, no, no, he's just saying that she likes to get clean.
18:23🔗StrykerThat's fine. The deal is, yes, it's hard to say based on what you sort of information you're providing for us. Could be an infection, could be a chronic bacterial overgrowth of some type. She could see a doctor about it and then give her some cream and try to sort of clear out the bacteria quite literally. But it sounds more like this is just her smell and some people have unique smells and unfortunately she feels very self-conscious about herself and you have to really make more of that. Making her feel comfortable with her body. Yeah. Think about it again, the difference between men and women. There's not a guy on earth, no matter what it smelled like, you know what I mean, would turn that kind of thing down. Of course not.
19:00🔗DrewGirls are very, one thing I've experienced, you would tell a girl not to go there? Maybe after a show.
19:07🔗AdamIt's a respect thing, you know. Yeah. Maybe if it's not fresh, don't come a-knockin.
19:14🔗DrewDepends where they are down there though, really. Some places can be worse than others.
19:34🔗DrewHey, how were your shows last night, by the way, at the Troubadour?
19:37🔗CallerTwo nights ago at the Troubadour. We played two in a row and I didn't think we could do it, but we did it.
19:44🔗DrewI heard you guys were on fire as my friend Aaron emailed me today. It was really, really, really good.
19:49🔗CallerThe second one was even, it was just a lot of fun. It was more jumped up than the first.
19:54🔗DrewWhat did you guys think of Winnie Roast this year? I believe you were first up. I saw your whole set out there, by the way. It was still somewhat crowded, but did you guys feel good doing it?
20:03🔗AdamIt was really hot. We were just talking about that today. It was a cool place to play.
20:07🔗DrewGreat venue. You guys are gonna play Inland Invasion 4, which we'll talk about in a few minutes, with an unbelievable lineup.
20:13🔗StrykerThese are all, just for the rest of the country, these are concerts here locally in Los Angeles that the mothership KROQ puts on.
20:19🔗DrewBut the Inland Invasion, people, they're still tickets, it's a big venue. After I read the lineup, people like in San Diego are within five hours. They may want to come to this thing. It's crazy good.
21:09🔗DrewAnd how do you know they've all cheated? How have you caught them off? That's an unbelievable record that you've caught eight boyfriends in a row cheating on you.
21:15🔗CallerWell, half the time they tell me that sometimes I've caught a few of them.
21:20🔗StrykerI have an interesting question. If they don't cheat on you, do you cheat on them?
21:29🔗CallerI think it might be that I'm too good to them, I guess. They take advantage of it. I don't know.
21:34🔗StrykerNo, it's who you pick. It's not as if all guys are cheaters. Cheaters are cheaters, and that's a particular kind of guy. And it means that you pick guys that are unavailable and aren't interested in a real relationship. Kind of goofing around. That's what you have to examine for yourself. Why is that so attractive to you? Was your dad gone all the time when you were growing up, or was he?
21:57🔗StrykerAll right, well that's, there you are. So you pick the guy that's never there, the boyfriend, that's gone all the time too. So it's just a reenactment. The crazy thing about the human being is that the things that are the most painful in childhood become the sources of attraction in young adulthood. In fact, I was reading Dante's Inferno, one of the things. And in this damn poem, he talks about, he's looking at these people come across a river, like the river sticks to hell, and he asks for it, he goes, why are these people coming? They don't seem to resist. He goes, oh, it's because terror is converted into attraction in hell.
22:30🔗DrewRight there. All right, we gotta take a break here on Loveline. That's Dr. Drew, I'm Stryker filling in for Adam. The Killers are here. We're gonna play a song from Hot Fuss in just a few minutes, and we'll tell you where they're gonna be on the road, and find out about some Vegas stories when they stayed up at Dre's till 11 in the morning on some water substance or something like that. All right, more Loveline after this.
23:16🔗StrykerHey there, it's Loveline, I'm Dr. Drew. The phone number here is 1-800-LOV-191. Filling in for Mr. Corolla. I'm trying to think of strong enough words to describe my delight and happiness in having you here.
23:30🔗StrykerI'll give you a hug. Absolutely. Yeah, he may or may not, but I'm overlooking that, I'm wearing condoms. And in the studio tonight is The Killers.
23:40🔗DrewYeah, 50% of them from Las Vegas. And I say this honest to God truth, I drove to Palm Springs on Friday after my show, listened to it through like three or four times. Not for my first three or four, but I listen to it all the time. The gospel song, I think it's number five. I don't know if it's gospel, but all things, all these things that I've done. I love that song, by the way. We're probably not gonna play it on Loveline tonight. We're gonna have to play that somebody told me thing and Mr. Brightside, but just for the record, if there's a third single, the idiot in LA likes that one. And I love Smells Like You Mean It, too.
24:17🔗DrewSmile like you mean it. See, I'm asking for a call. No, but I promise, I swear to God, you guys, I just screwed that up. You really know. No, I swear, I can sing the words to it. If you played it right now, I could sing it. Go, on air. Right now, go. No, if you played it, I could sing it. I love, and the first song, I swear, I'm not lying. We can call someone that was in the car with me. I'm so stupid right now. I'm quitting.
24:36🔗StrykerWe had that smell call. Maybe you're still thinking about that.
24:41🔗DrewI've already worked four hours on the radio before this tonight. My brain is screwed up. All right, let's play Somebody Told Me. If your radio station doesn't play this song, scream at them. It's a good song, good lyrics. And here you go, The Killers, Somebody Told Me on Loveline. Hit a press. The killer is that is called somebody told It's Loveline, they are here at Loveline. I'm Stryker with Dr. Drew. You guys have been on tour non-stop. You guys broke first, not in the States.
28:20🔗DrewWe were just talking about that off the radio. You had a deal in England?
28:24🔗AdamYeah, we did a small deal in England first, and got to tour over there first, and then America finally caught on.
28:35🔗DrewGravitated to you guys. Got the label deal here, and it's going really well for them. They're gonna be playing a show called the Miller Lite Inland Invasion 4, Flashback to the Future, it's September 18th. It's The Killers, and check out this lineup, and then I wanna ask you guys who you're probably most excited to see. Morrissey, Susie in the Banshees, Tears for Fears, Billy Idol, Franz Ferdinand, Devo, Stone Roses, X, Muse, Flocka Seagulls, Death Cab for Cutie, Missing Persons, and The Walkman. All one day, any of those bands you dig crazy?
29:07🔗CallerOh, I mean almost all of them. We're into a lot of that stuff.
29:13🔗AdamI know we're playing with Tears for Fears.
29:15🔗CallerYeah. I'm excited to see Tears for Fears.
29:28🔗DrewAll right, let's take some calls here. Where are you going, Drew? Rachel, you're 24 and Loveline.
29:34🔗CallerYes, hi. The other night, I tried giving my boyfriend a rim job and he didn't really get that excited and I'm just wondering if I was doing it wrong or if it was something with him.
29:49🔗DrewDid he use the counter-clockwise swirl or did he go normal clockwise with it?
29:53🔗CallerWell, I tried a bunch of different things and worked up and down the scrotum too, but I started around his anus.
30:05🔗StrykerRachel, I'm sure, and I recognize the accent, she went to finishing school in Geneva, I'm sure of it. Sure.
30:12🔗DrewYou think she's acting? You think it's a bonus? No, I don't. No, no. Rachel, you said you tried giving it, how many do you give it often to your boyfriends?
30:21🔗CallerNo, I've never done it before, so I was just wondering, like, what's the best way to do it?
30:26🔗StrykerI think first it would be good to check to see if a guy's into it, because I bet a lot of guys are not into that.
30:32🔗DrewHow lightly were you licking the area? That's the important, was it light or was it force licking?
30:38🔗CallerI don't know, it was kind of like, I started to use different pressures, you know? Because when he wasn't really into it, I tried a couple different things, so.
30:47🔗StrykerWell, you know how it is when somebody's not into something, you start working harder at it, it just makes it worse.
30:53🔗DrewAnd more uncomfortable for the person that doesn't like it at the same time.
30:55🔗StrykerYeah, I think you got a guy that's just not into that, that's my bet. And you oughta ask him.
30:58🔗DrewIs he into the normal oral sex that you performed?
31:17🔗StrykerSo, maybe you ought to just give her a little advice. I've never really known anyone that had any degree of expertise in this topic, but I'm delighted tonight we have you here, so go ahead.
31:27🔗AdamIt's your first time, right? You haven't done this a lot. You have not done this a lot, right?
31:33🔗CallerNo, I haven't. So, it could be something that I'm doing wrong.
31:44🔗StrykerYeah, and they do not have a son. I do not have a son!
31:47🔗DrewGrandma's listening. Drew, seriously? Fine. The best thing to do... Just... Oh my God. A light, very light, licking, obviously, motion. Keep the fingers away. Just glide over it. Don't insert it. And maybe long, soft strokes.
32:31🔗DrewHowie is getting some cocktails, isn't he?
32:35🔗StrykerHere we go. Drew, you're killing me there. Sarah is 27. Hey, Sarah.
32:43🔗StrykerOne of the, a guy that I'm dating right now, when we have sex, I don't like feel anything. I don't, it's not like he's small or anything. I just, for some reason, don't think he like gets that hard. Is there anything I can do to make it feel better? Cause it's just like, it doesn't do anything.
32:58🔗StrykerAnd then you've never had, and this is not the first guy you've been with?
33:02🔗StrykerNo, it's not. I've been with a lot, you know, multiple different people and I've never thought that this could be a problem and I've come to talk to my friends about it and they're like, I don't know. Like, they don't get it either.
33:14🔗CallerYou should be able to tell if it's, how hard it is if you've been with other people.
33:17🔗StrykerI mean, can't you feel with your hand to see what's going on there?
33:21🔗StrykerNo, I mean, it's just weird because it's like, he get hard, but it's not like that much. Like, anytime it's like, I guess it's just not like super hard and I wanna have sex, like I just don't feel it, you know?
33:35🔗StrykerSo, he's not getting an erection, full erection? That makes sense. And is he on medication, do you know?
33:44🔗StrykerDoes he have a pulse? I think that would be the right thing to ask, is meds or doing drugs or something like that, because that can impair erection. If he really is having some problem with erectile function, I mean, that's what the drugs like Viagra are made. Is she laughing? No. The drugs like Viagra are made for. So, you need some more investigation. And by the way, how old is he?
34:08🔗StrykerA 28 year old who can't achieve an erection. I would get a neurological workup, a medical workup, because I'd be really concerned about that before anything else.
34:17🔗DrewHold on, go ahead. Brandon, Brandon. Hold on, Sarah.
34:54🔗DrewWhat about when you're on top of him, Sarah? Does it feel good at all for you? Because maybe sometimes you can just work it, even though he's not fully hard, where he's like his pelvis, his like bone deep down is like pushing on your good spot. Does that work for you? Have you tried that?
35:07🔗StrykerI've tried everything and it's just kind of like, it's just weird because like everything else is good, but then I just kind of like try to avoid like having sex because it just doesn't do anything for me. And like I've kind of tried to talk about some stuff, but it's like, I think he's shy and try to like see if we can talk about it a little more. And I don't know if like he even realizes that it's even maybe a problem. That's one thing.
35:30🔗StrykerYou gotta always take this kind of thing from the standpoint of your concern for his health and say, look, this is not something that seems normal to me. I'm worried about you medically. Let's get this looked into and get it looked into.
35:40🔗DrewWhy are you staying with him if he's not performing sexually to your expectations? I know. Well, I'm sure. I mean, if you don't do it right, if you're unsatisfied, how are you gonna maintain a lengthy relationship with that person, Sarah?
35:54🔗StrykerI know that's, I mean, that's one of my questions. I mean, I am looking at it, you know, he's a great guy and I like everything about him, but like just one thing. And I'm just kind of like, don't want to be that shallow to be like, oh, well, you know, the sex isn't good. But at the same time, it's like.
36:09🔗StrykerStryker, she wouldn't be that shallow.
36:10🔗DrewThat's a big matzah ball though, isn't it?
36:12🔗StrykerBut it's, I mean, well, I know you're talking about, like I've been with someone that had been really good and then all of a sudden you're like, oh, this kind of sucks. Like, you know, it's, it's kind of not fair. Like you kind of trying to find someone that has everything like the whole package, you know, it's kind of hard to find someone that you, you know, has every quality you want. So you're kind of like wondering, you know, you know.
36:34🔗StrykerThis is the question. When you're overanalyzing everything.
36:35🔗DrewWell, just bring it up to him and say, what are you doing that it's not getting hard and go from there.
36:41🔗StrykerIf you're, if you're really thinking about staying with this guy, you've got to, you've got to bring this up and solve the problem. Was it before?
36:48🔗CallerWas he harder before? He just never was.
37:02🔗StrykerCaller who goes by John, yeah, there you are. Yeah.
37:06🔗CallerHi, I was circumcised after I was born. And since I started having sex, I've been having trouble maintaining an erection and achieving orgasm.
37:16🔗StrykerHang on, hold on. You were circumcised after you were born? Not before you were born?
37:51🔗CallerWell, I mean, I was just wondering if maybe being circumcised could have lowered the sensitivity and made it harder to have an erection and an orgasm.
38:04🔗StrykerThat would mean everybody would have a problem. No, that's not a cause of any significant problem that way. What's your problem? John. Stop thinking about it. You're 19. Tell us what the problem is.
38:16🔗CallerPretty much like I have trouble having an orgasm a lot of the time.
38:34🔗CallerNo, never any problem when I'm by myself.
38:36🔗StrykerHow long does it take you when you're by yourself?
38:38🔗CallerTwo minutes. Anywhere from like a couple minutes to close your heart.
38:44🔗StrykerYou're fine. Look, you do not have any problem with orgasmic function. You have a problem being comfortable and feeling intimate, being sexual in a relationship. That's what this is all about. You're 19, you got some time to work that out. You got to find-
38:56🔗DrewStop masturbating so much when you're not with your girl, and then you for sure will come when you wear a condom.
39:01🔗StrykerThat's absolutely a good advice. Also, you need that relationship. We kind of work things out when you're still 19. You got to get a long-term relationship where you kind of work all this stuff out. Start feeling comfortable. We got to take a break. We do?
39:11🔗DrewAll right. The Killers are here. We're going to play some more music from them pretty soon. The song Mr. Brightside, which is really good. See, I got it right right there. Talk about the tour and everything. If you have questions for the guys, it's 1-800-LOVE-191. And more Loveline after this.
39:46🔗DrewWe are back here on Loveline. I'm Stryker, Dr. Drew, 1-800-LOVE-191. I'm filling in for Adam. He's out Fiashing, going from Marlin and Tuna somewhere, and The Killers are here, Brandon and Ronnie. You guys are from Vegas. You're playing Inland Invasion on September 18th out there in San Bernardino. What about your own tour after tonight? You finally have a day off. I don't know, is today considered a day off, even though you're in here? And what do you do tomorrow? Where do you go on your new bus?
40:30🔗DrewWe can multitask here, dude. And then how long are you gonna be on the tour you're on now before you start this MTV2 thing, the $2 bill tour?
40:39🔗AdamMan, this whole tour I heard was 14 weeks.
40:42🔗DrewOkay. And how much do you guys like the road? Is it what it's cracked up to be?
40:48🔗AdamWe just, you know, before we were in a 15 passenger van.
40:53🔗AdamAnd, you know, most of it was pretty good, but you got to be miserable after a while. You know, sleep is very important when you're traveling and, you know, entering different time zones and trying to give 100% every night, so. I guess what I'm trying to say is being on the bus and having a place to spread out in Lounge and maybe think a little is really change things.
41:16🔗CallerThe option just to go to sleep right after you're finished.
41:22🔗DrewWhat about when playing in Vegas as a baby band before you were signed? Is it hard to get a following there in Vegas? Or is it easy to get a buzz out for a band?
41:32🔗CallerIt's rough. There's not a lot of places to play.
41:42🔗CallerWell, we played a lot at this place called The Junkyard. And another place called The Rock, which closed down because someone was murdered. Nice. And...
41:53🔗CallerWe played at this transvestite club, turned to an indie club on Sunday nights. And our friend set that all up and we would play there once a month.
42:42🔗CallerNo, like, you know, in these weekly papers that they give away, you can, you know, there's always a musician section at the back, and people will put, you know, looking for a guitar player.
42:54🔗CallerDave Cooning, our guitar player, was not here. He just put, you know, I love Oasis, and U2 and the Beatles, and Smashing Pumpkins, and things like that, and put, you know, he's just looking for anybody to start a band with.
43:08🔗StrykerThat's it. All right, here we go. Danielle, 20.
43:13🔗I had a question about, I guess, my sex drive. I've been married for two years, and me and my husband were trying to get pregnant. And during that time, I was like, well, I guess I was overzealous. I would just have sex with him like every day if he would have sex with me.
43:37🔗StrykerYou know, there's an interesting thing that no one ever talks about, and there's finally been a book put out, called Maternal Desire, Women's Erotization of the Desire to Have a Baby, that went, that it's an erotic impulse. It's an erotic impulse for women sometimes to want to try to make a baby. For men, it's the opposite. They want to avoid that. But-
43:58🔗DrewSo you said the girl gets hornier and friskier when she's in baby-making mode and wants something inside there.
44:03🔗StrykerThat has now been documented. Really? So that might have been part of what was driving it.
44:08🔗Yeah, but then we found out that we couldn't have kids. And there was like a period that like, for like six to eight weeks that we didn't have sex.
44:59🔗DrewAnd now you have no drive for him. How long has it been since you found out you can't have kids and you lost the drive?
45:05🔗Well, it's been, well, probably six to eight months, but I mean, we're still having sex, but it's not nearly as much as it was, and now it's like, you know, take it or leave it for me. This actually can, I want to have sex.
45:23🔗StrykerThere are people, therapists, that specialize exactly in what you're dealing with, and usually they're connected with fertility clinics, so you need to call back and talk to them, because it can be quite a shattering experience for some women to find out that they are not gonna be a mother, at least not gonna be able to have a baby, and so you gotta kinda work through that and think of your sexuality differently, and that needs a little bit of work, Danielle.
45:44🔗Okay, cause there was like a period when like, yeah, we didn't have sex, and like that whole period, like all I would do was cry or.
45:51🔗StrykerYeah, this has obviously been a really serious experience for you, and you gotta call the fertility clinic back, first of all, make sure that all biological possibilities have been exhausted, and then I'm sure they have therapists connected with that clinic. What was that?
46:05🔗CallerI was just saying a good clinic should have already been on that, you would think.
46:09🔗StrykerYeah, you would think, that's why I'm wondering what worship was going. Lori, 28.
46:19🔗CallerOh, hi, my question was, I'm getting a little resentment from my 17 year old boyfriend, because I kind of suggested that he use these growth enlargement pills.
46:31🔗DrewI don't believe this, you're 28, he's 17, and you're telling him to take penis enlargement pills?
46:50🔗StrykerTurn your radio off. Turn your radio off. Yeah, the guy in the car is putting her up to this, as usual. We gotta take a break, so we'll hear more about Lori.
48:09🔗Drew1-800-LOVE-191, Drew's been doing this thing a long time. I like being right by your side and touching your shoulder. You're a good man. Don't touch me. Look, with all my other boyfriends, I've only given them hand jobs. Anderson, hey, hey, hey, hey, very funny. We're going to play Mr. Brightside in just a minute, a song from The Killers and their CD Hot Fuss. But first, Jessica, 16, what's up there?
48:37🔗StrykerGo ahead. Oh, sorry, do you want to go back to your call? She's actually contemplating it. It's a good thing Adam's not here, Jessica, that's all I can say. What's going on?
48:58🔗DrewIf you're a girl, yes. If you're a guy, hell no.
49:00🔗StrykerYeah, again, this is one of the strange territories that people don't like to talk about, but a 16-year-old female, many times, now women have a tremendous range in their sexual sort of response and expressions, but most 16-year-old women can't, and masturbation does nothing for them, and there's nothing you can do to a male by the time he's 16 to prevent him from masturbating. There's nothing you can do. Maybe cut off his penis, but even then, I'm not sure that, you know what I'm saying?
49:29🔗DrewIf you cut off both my arms, I'd still find a way to do it.
49:31🔗StrykerThe idea that it's the environment that creates this is really ridiculous, because for centuries, people have tried to find a way to make the male not masturbate. There is no way, it's never worked, it never will work, and yet the female, we've now gone through several decades of trying to encourage this in the female, and it just doesn't work for many of them.
49:49🔗DrewIt's hard not to masturbate as a guy when you don't have a girlfriend. It is literally, I've tried my best to go two days, I can't even make it two days, it's impossible.
49:58🔗AdamWhy is that? I mean, why is it that the guys have to?
50:04🔗StrykerNo, first of all, it's a completely different biology. The testosterone is a drug that saturates your system. Secondly, there's a fluid that builds up that must be released, and if you don't release it, God will release it for you during the night.
50:14🔗DrewSo you're saying if I go five days without masturbating, I'll have a wet dream?
50:17🔗StrykerProbably. Well, you'll certainly have a couple of weeks with that one. And there you go.
50:22🔗StrykerAnd so Jessica, no, you're fine. This is the bizarre thing, we're making women who are normal feel flawed for being normal. You're fine. And when you do feel like doing it, or if you ever do, that'll be fine, too, okay?
50:51🔗StrykerThat's generally when you squeeze it off.
50:54🔗DrewAll right, speaking of squeezing it off, we're gonna play a song. And this song plays tricks on my mind when I listen to it, because the words are great and it's a great song.
51:04🔗DrewYeah, the song is called Mr. Brightside from the band The Killers. 50% of the band, they're here. More at The Killers, but check out the song. It's probably my favorite song on the CD Hot Fuzz. Here it is, Mr. Brightside on Loveline. That was Mr. Brightside from The Killers on Loveline. I'm Stryker with Dr. Drew and The Killers are here. And I'm very, very excited in my life about a few things, music, a little bit of sports, and just having fun. And so when a band like The Killers comes in, and you guys don't know me, you live in a different state, and I'm like, oh, I love this, I love that. I mean, I'm just, I'm very passionate. I like the band very much and music in general. And that song, Mr. Brightside, is such a great song, you guys. Is it about a guy whose mind is playing tricks on him? Because he thinks, you know, the girl's hand's on the chest, the guy's taking off her dress, but you're kind of falling asleep? Or is that happening right next to you when you're falling asleep? Or please help me and tell me.
55:31🔗CallerThis basically goes into detail of someone's imagination that's jealous.
55:43🔗AdamIt's loosely based on Wyatt, not in the band Boswell's life. There's a shout out.
55:50🔗DrewI was talking to someone here, KROQ, on the radio, a big thing we did about that song on the radio. I'm like, I don't think it's abnormal for a guy's mind to play tricks on him when she's choking. No, I'm serious. When the girl's out doing something and it's just like weird coincidence when she says something, but that really happened, but it was really something different. And your mind is like, no, she's making out with that guy. She's screwing him when she's really supposed to be at work. But she was really at work. And then it just, it destroys you. Your head and your stomach just kill after that. Is that kind of the gist of it?
56:24🔗DrewAll right. Mr. Brightside, The Killers. Find him in a city nearest to you, like San Francisco, pretty soon. Let's go to Liz, your 22, on Loveline.
56:32🔗CallerHi, I'm just, this is a question for The Killers. I was at the show on Saturday and I was just like totally blown away by the way you guys dressed. It was just really like cute, snappy. And I was just wondering, what inspires you to dress that way? I mean, not too many people, like rockers out there, are like, you know, dressing up.
56:49🔗DrewYou guys have a stylist, right? I'm just kidding.
56:53🔗CallerI'm just kidding. So was it England or Vegas or?
56:58🔗CallerPartially, I think it's a couple of things for me. It's a, I think it, you know, I wouldn't want to play these songs in, you know, in a holey jeans and a T-shirt. And then the other part of it is, I always enjoyed getting dressed up my whole life. You know, whether it was going to church or whatever it was, that was something that excited me. I loved getting snappy.
57:25🔗DrewRonnie, do you have a members only jacket?
58:53🔗CallerWell, I've only been with him a few times.
58:55🔗StrykerLook, guys aim to please and all you gotta say is, you know, I'm glad you're into this, I'm into it too, but here's what I need and just spell it out, period. Guys want you to be happy for the most part and men unfortunately have great confusion about how to do that because they know what they like and they're very carefully coached to believe that women want exactly what men want, therefore, whatever I like, you must like.
59:18🔗DrewOr maybe he thinks you look best with your ankles around your ears.
59:22🔗StrykerSo you've gotta just tell him, he'll be fine.
59:35🔗CallerYeah, he's so into the fact that I'm like eight years older than him and he just loves that, you know? And he's, I don't know, I mean, I wanna tell him, you know, go down on me, but I'm afraid that he's gonna get all scared, you know, because he's intimidated that I'm older.
59:51🔗StrykerMen really like instruction. All you gotta do is just, but make sure you don't wait till you're resentful and frustrated, and then go, well, you just, oh, you just go do this.
1:00:03🔗StrykerOkay, but that's what they don't like. They don't like you waiting till you're frustrated and resentful and coming at them with demands. That is not good.
1:00:13🔗DrewAnd then you feel small, and you don't feel good about yourself. So tell it before the fact, like Drew said. Hey, Mo, you're 18.
1:00:19🔗CallerYeah, I'm calling from Upland. My girlfriend, we've been having sex for about four months, and she won't let me fuck her now.
1:00:29🔗DrewYou get that? Did you save us? Did everyone save us? Okay, good. Let's go to Crystal. I think that was a real call, right? I'm having the same problem at home. What's up, Crystal? You're 22.
1:00:41🔗CallerYeah, my boyfriend and I have been together for about four years, and about two years ago, I started getting yeast infections quite a bit, and I thought maybe we'd have something to do. I never had the problem before, but then again, he's the first person I've had sex with, and he's not circumcised, but I was wondering if there's anything that might have to do with that, if it was, you know, hiding somewhere.
1:01:04🔗StrykerYeah, it's possible, but just having sex can trigger yeast infections, so.
1:01:09🔗CallerOkay, I was gonna say, is there anything we can do?
1:01:11🔗StrykerWell, he can get, you can get some more. Oh, sorry, I was seeing them in the hallway. Crystal, ba-ba-ba-ba-ba.
1:01:16🔗DrewAn almond speed and a fetter and even a bread bag.
1:01:18🔗StrykerRight, Crystal, you can make, he can get some anti-yeast cream, maybe talk to a dermatologist about that, making sure it's all cleared up, even start with something over the counter, their anti-fungal creams there, keep things real dry with the head of the penis down as the foreskin pulled back. And then sometimes, some women need to be, there's just a New England Journal article that came out today, interestingly, about women with recurrent yeast infections needing to take a medication called Diflucan all the time.
1:01:44🔗StrykerAs the only way, the Fluconazole. And so having recurrent yeast infections is not at all uncommon. You ought to be checked to make sure it's not a thyroid problem or a blood sugar problem, but that's rare.
1:01:52🔗DrewLet me ask you a question about the yeast infection. Why having sex often, I'm asking Drew, actually, having sex often triggers it.
1:01:59🔗StrykerThere's anything that upsets the, it's like an ecosystem down there. And anything that intrudes from it out.
1:02:05🔗DrewIs it the fluids that cause it, or is it the rubbing against the skin, or what is it?
1:02:10🔗StrykerDifferent for different women, probably. It's probably a lot of different factors. Just it may, sometimes it's a condom that does it.
1:02:27🔗StrykerHey, whoa. Okay, I got with this guy about five years ago. We were together seven months, moved in right away. My house got raided, we both went to prison.
1:04:00🔗StrykerOkay, you know, stuff like that, whatever. So I kind of left home when I was young and lived on my own. By the time I was 17, my dad got me an apartment or whatever, you know, so I lived on my own. He moved in with me almost instantly, you know. We went to prison. I came home, I moved on with my life, you know, started getting my stuff together, you know, and he comes home about five months ago and he pops into my life. And we start having sex, but not a relationship, you know, we don't want a relationship or whatever. And then he decides that he wants to be serious again. But I just went, I just got my own place recently, I'm working two jobs, you know, and I told him that if he was serious and he really wanted to be serious with me, he would be serious. And he won't let me go. I've tried to end it, you know, and tell him.
1:04:59🔗StrykerWhat do I do? I don't know what to do. Like I don't know, I mean, I call him and I'll tell him, you know, just bring me back my things and you know, that's it, you know.
1:05:08🔗DrewYou have moved on with your life. You have two jobs. You are in jail. Most likely because you got involved with him at 17. Let him keep the stuff that he has.
1:05:18🔗StrykerChange your phone number, change your locks. You obviously have trouble with boundaries. Naturally enough, having been sexually abused most of your life, you've got to be able to set down boundaries and hold them. You want this guy out, he's out, that's it. You don't contact him, you don't have communication with him. That's it, alright?
1:05:39🔗DrewAshley, 17, what's up, you're on Loveline.
1:05:44🔗CallerOkay, me and my boyfriend were in his mom's car.
1:05:48🔗DrewThat's just funny in itself, I love it.
1:05:52🔗CallerI gave him a hand job and he kind of went on his stomach. And he was trying to clean it off himself, I guess. And he like wipes it off with his hand and then he proceeded to get onto me and finger me with the same hand. So I was wondering if there was any possibility that it could be knocked up.
1:06:09🔗StrykerAgain, a lot of products of finishing school and higher education tonight. Quite interesting. Could you be knocked up by the finger?
1:06:19🔗DrewCan the sperm live from stomach to finger to vagina?
1:06:21🔗StrykerYes, it sure could. But that'd be a pretty rare event, but it certainly could.
1:06:25🔗DrewSo he could have taken the live little swimming sperm. From his third finger over from the far right.
1:06:31🔗StrykerHis finger could have been the turkey-based drivel of, yes.
1:06:40🔗StrykerDo you know what the morning after pill is, Ashley? Yes. You know anything about taking that?
1:06:44🔗DrewYeah, I do. I love how he wiped it off his stomach and went straight for you.
1:06:47🔗StrykerYes, guys. All class. 1888... Hold on. 1888, not number too late. 1888, not too late is a phone number. You can call to get the referral to a pharmacy in your area where you can get the morning after pill without a prescription. How much is that? It's about 30 bucks.
1:07:13🔗StrykerYou just take one pill and then another set 12 hours later. That's it. And you've really prevented ovulation. If you've already ovulated and the sperm is up there, it's going to get you pregnant.
1:07:25🔗DrewWhat he should have done was wipe it off his belly, lick it, and then use the tongue to... That would have really...
1:07:43🔗DrewYeah. Molly, we're going to talk to her in a minute. She's 20. She has anal with her 30-year-old boyfriend often and then has intercourse later and she's curious that there could be a smell because of that.
1:08:42🔗DrewWe're back here on Loveline. I'm Stryker for Adam Carolla and Dr. Drew, and Brandon and Ron, you're here from The Killers. You guys, did you already film the OC? You already did it?
1:09:30🔗DrewWhen you guys, when a band films on the OC, I believe I've only seen like one or two episodes because it's always on when I'm working. What do they do with the bands? Is it just that you're at some hot club in the OC?
1:09:41🔗CallerThe kids actually come to see a Killers gig in it, I believe, and there's Marquis and everything, so.
1:09:53🔗DrewYeah, good band. You guys, and you're gonna be playing with The Walkmen and Morse and Tears for Fears and Billy Idol, Francis Ferdinand, Devo.
1:10:03🔗DrewHis real name's Francis. He got killed when it started World War I. Muse, Flock of Seagulls, Death Cab, Missing Persons. That's September 18th, Hyundai Pavilion. You can still get tickets. It's gonna be an unbelievable show. By the way, you guys are gonna be sweating your freaking arses off. I know you're from Vegas.
1:10:18🔗StrykerAre we gonna do something better with the access to that backstage air?
1:10:21🔗DrewDo you remember that last year? You and I were talking about that. Yeah.
1:10:24🔗StrykerIs something better gonna happen this year?
1:10:26🔗DrewI don't know, I don't run the thing. I just show up and watch.
1:10:28🔗StrykerBut I mean, I don't think I'm gonna do that. It was like a one hour ride through the desert.
1:10:34🔗StrykerOn a tram, really back roaded on a tram.
1:10:37🔗DrewIt was, it was kind of like Universal Studios without the King Kong. Yeah. All right, if you wanna talk to the Killers, we got another 30 minutes, 1-800-LOVE-191, or talk about anal sex, like Molly. Hit that, Drew, you're 20. On Loveline, what's up Molly?
1:10:53🔗CallerWell, my question is, I just wanna know like what's going on, like me and my boyfriend, he's 30 years old, I'm 20 years old. We've been together for four years and we decided to try anal sex and regular sex right after that. The anal sex, I guess I didn't mind, I mean it felt really good the first time but then afterwards what really went wrong was like the flops on my skin turned to inflate and I wanna know like what happened.
1:11:55🔗StrykerNo, but I'm wondering whether we don't have what's called a red herring here that may be able to hurt his outbreak and that's it.
1:12:01🔗CallerI don't know what it is, but he's natural, like he has a skin, like his skin, I don't know what you call it. Is it circumcised?
1:12:07🔗StrykerBut he doesn't have any rashes or anything on his penis.
1:12:09🔗CallerNo, he doesn't, but the thing is like when we have sex, like regular sex, his skin peels, and I think it's like the juice that comes out of my vagina.
1:12:29🔗StrykerSo you do a right to it. So you probably got, as the band is so aptly jumping to the conclusion that they were anxious to go to that place where they wanted to tell you that it's bacteria you brought from behind to the front and that doesn't belong there. And you get bad infections in the vagina from that. Or you can also get sexually transmitted diseases per se.
1:12:49🔗StrykerNo, maybe the boyfriend had something, but probably not since they've been doing well for a while and this is the first time they engage in that behavior.
1:12:54🔗DrewSo you liked it the first time, though, the anal, huh?
1:12:58🔗CallerYeah, like as long as it's lubricated and it's really wet, it's all good.
1:13:01🔗StrykerShe sounds very enthusiastic about it. Yeah.
1:13:04🔗DrewAs long as it's got the astroglide in there and it's literally what it is.
1:13:07🔗CallerI have to be really, really turned on, otherwise I wouldn't be up for it. But it's just that one incident, it happened twice and it really scared me because I wasn't about ready to go to a doctor, spread my legs and say, what happened? Why is my vagina inflated?
1:13:22🔗DrewThat's a horrible attitude to have, Dr. Drew, isn't it?
1:13:26🔗StrykerWell, Molly, what do you think people come to the doctor for?
1:13:29🔗CallerIt's just I'm never, I'm not used to that. I've never gone to the doctor for anything like that.
1:13:34🔗DrewYou gotta bite the bullet and do it when you have a problem.
1:13:36🔗StrykerThen you gotta do it because that's important. You can get serious infections, you can get urinary infections, you can get infections that get up into the tubes and cause scarring, it's a mess. They have an inflammatory disease, so you gotta take care of this, all right?
1:13:49🔗DrewLet's go to Thenic, number two, Kenneth, you're 25 on Loveline. What's going on?
1:13:55🔗CallerYeah, how you doing? I have kind of a small curvature in my penis and my wife and I have sex, but she only complains when it's from behind.
1:14:08🔗CallerI heard so. Well no, but I'm wondering if there's some way I can, is there any way to correct that or am I kind of?
1:14:14🔗StrykerYes, there is a surgery that can correct that, but I wouldn't advise you have it. I'd advise you avoid the positions that hurt her.
1:14:20🔗DrewBut you know what's crazy? Doggy is such a fantastic position. I'm sure you can attribute to that. You know that doggy. You told me that the other week.
1:14:26🔗StrykerYeah, I was just doing it over lunch.
1:14:28🔗DrewOver lunch at the Apple Pan. And that sucks that you can't do doggy anymore.
1:14:34🔗StrykerYeah, well it's not that he can't do it anymore. He's got to be very cautious and slow and you know, go easy with it, but he certainly can't do it with any gusto.
1:14:41🔗CallerDr. Drew, my wife is reading your book, correct?
1:14:46🔗CallerAnd I know you were having this new book come out to deal with painkillers. I'm taking a medication right now that's called Tussin-X suspension.
1:14:57🔗StrykerNow the real talk. Well, Tussin-X is just like a cough syrup.
1:15:00🔗CallerWell, yeah, but it's antihistamine with hydrocodone in it.
1:15:03🔗StrykerAll right, so it's got Vicodin in it. All right.
1:15:05🔗CallerIs it Vicodin? And I mean, how do you, I mean, I'm not sure. It doesn't say it on the bottle, but do you know how much like hydrocodone or Vicodin that's actually in that, because I'm taking...
1:15:15🔗StrykerWell, I can tell you, whatever it is in it, you should never be taking that more than about a week. If you've taken it more than a week, you got a problem.
1:15:24🔗StrykerAll right, well, cut it out. Cut it out, it's all right. Cut it down.
1:15:27🔗CallerI mean, I'm up to like two, it says one teaspoon every 12 hours, but I'll take two.
1:15:32🔗StrykerYeah, well, you're going. You're getting going here, so go take, just stop.
1:15:35🔗DrewThat was the real part of the call, by the way.
1:15:38🔗StrykerAll right? Seriously, Kenneth, take it easy. You could be going with the opiates.
1:15:42🔗DrewAll right, let's go to Daisy. You're 20 on Loveline with the Killers.
1:15:46🔗CallerHello. I was wondering whether, well, here's a question for the Killers, obviously.
1:15:52🔗CallerI was wondering whether it is essential for you to maintain a definitive signature killer sound or whether you would like to develop your sound for the following album, because this album is multifaceted, which I love, but I was wondering whether you were planning to keep a signature sound, or whether you would want to change it up.
1:16:15🔗CallerThat is a good question. We think the album's very diverse, too. We like a lot of different types of music, and I don't ever see us going in a certain direction, just hardcore, but...
1:16:34🔗CallerYeah, because we love so many different types of music, which is what you're saying you can tell, basically, on the record. And I don't know. We just kinda do what comes to us.
1:16:46🔗DrewAre you even remotely close to writing any new songs? Because this is really just now starting to catch on with people. It's okay that people are late, and they're just starting to hear the first single. Are you even thinking about the next record?
1:17:00🔗AdamWe've got like 15 song deals. We'll call them Finnish songs, yeah. Probably 15 or 16.
1:17:10🔗CallerWe are growing a lot. I guess we definitely want to stick around and actually mature with the music.
1:17:20🔗DrewWhat about keeping your credibility on the next record? Is there anything that you guys think about that you for sure, as a band, we can't do this because we've had these fans in Vegas that came to our shows when there was 10 of them there, and we have to make sure not to do this because then they're going to say this about us. Is that ever coming to play?
1:17:37🔗AdamWell, from the beginning, the band's never been contrived in every way. It's never been like, you know, one big idea. And I think as long as you just keep writing the good songs like we do.
1:17:50🔗AdamYeah, just keep the integrity of the band. I think it'll follow through. I think it'll be good.
1:17:58🔗DrewNice. That's The Killers we're talking to if you're just listening to Loveline here. And now we're going to Rose 23. What's up, Rose?
1:18:07🔗CallerI just found out not too long ago that I'm pregnant and I grew up. I had a bad childhood and I was wondering how is that going to affect my parenting or should I get help?
1:18:25🔗StrykerI thought I heard a smoke alarm for a second. Yes, Abbrose, please, the fact that you're thinking about getting help is a great sign because here's the possibilities. When you've had horrible parenting, when those are the images of parenting that you have sort of stored deeply in your brain, you're either going to be, in spite of yourself, have parenting styles and parenting impulses that are going to very much be like those of your parent or you're going to have a profound reaction against it and go completely the other way and end up making mistakes because you're avoiding so profoundly with the same kinds of things you see yourself, in yourself, that were in your parents. I'm not making myself clear, but you're going to go from one extreme to the other. Either you're going to be like your parent or completely opposite and both are reactions to your parents. Both are pathological and you need help sorting that out.
1:19:14🔗DrewSo you said like in Dante's Inferno, that was your example earlier.
1:19:17🔗StrykerYes, that in hell we are attracted to things that were terrorizing in childhood and earlier in life. And Rose, you got a great plan. Get some help, okay?
1:19:28🔗DrewGood luck, Rose. Good job, by the way. Getting pregnant.
1:19:30🔗StrykerThank you. Well, and getting help with it. Well, both.
1:19:33🔗DrewMaybe she was going for it. I'm going to go for it, Rusty. Rusty's not going to pork her. Amy, what's up? You're 23 on Loveline.
1:19:41🔗CallerI went to the doctor and I was having problems that seemed to be like a UTI and they had me have a urine sample and they were going to test me for the UTI and additionally for chlamydia which I've been with my boyfriend for three years and I really didn't think I was going to be positive.
1:20:05🔗CallerWell, when I got the results back, it came up negative for the UTI, positive for chlamydia. And I confronted my boyfriend about it, it was pretty open, we communicate pretty well and we were both like, what is going on? So he went and got tested and he found out that he was negative and I had never done anything like been cheated on or anything even close to…
1:20:44🔗CallerSo that's why I'm just, it totally threw me for a loop as far as what could be going on, how accurately…
1:20:50🔗StrykerYeah, it's possible. Maybe your test was inaccurate, maybe his was inaccurate. Maybe you have just chlamydia sort of in the tubes and it got detected and…
1:20:59🔗DrewThat's going to be the name of my first record.
1:21:01🔗StrykerChlamydia in the tubes? Yeah. And for whatever reason it's not sort of made it to him yet but that's a hard thing to understand. Do you use condoms all the time?
1:21:09🔗CallerWell, no, I mean we've been together for three years so we're both, we don't really use, I just use birth control, I don't really use condoms anymore.
1:21:18🔗StrykerNo condoms. It's hard to understand that one Amy.
1:21:21🔗CallerIs it possible to have chlamydia for like three years and not know it and not have any symptoms at all?
1:21:28🔗StrykerFor a woman, absolutely. Yes, that's definitely the case. But you would think your boyfriend would still have it. The way I would approach this is it's a mystery, I'm not sure we can really get to the bottom of it. Both of you need to be treated. You both take the Zithromax.
1:21:55🔗CallerOh, I'm sorry. I was just going to ask also, as far as if the test was accurate, when I went into the doctor that wasn't my initial problem, I was having problems sleeping. So, that was just like an added thing that I told her to check me for. And when I went in and got tested for like had the urine test, my symptoms like the burning, the tickle more or less, not a burning, were already kind of like, you know. I know.
1:22:21🔗StrykerIt doesn't matter. It's all gone. It really doesn't matter. It's all gone. A lot of people are advocating that all young people be tested for chlamydia every time they interact with the doctor. It's so common.
1:22:38🔗StrykerWell, the problem is when you go for a cold, you shouldn't be on antibiotics. I've lectured you about this before. And if you were going to respond to something, this is a very good medication to the side effects of erythromycin. The problem is it's so broad spectrum and so powerful, it's making the organisms in the environment resistant to a drug that is really quite useful, rendering it obsolete.
1:23:02🔗DrewWhat other ever happened to amoxicillin? That's just a penicillin. Okay, and then they're like, the Z-Pak's better, it's quicker, six, seven days, you're getting in your...
1:23:08🔗StrykerPenicillin is for strep only. Got it. That's it, period. Some of the, a lot of sore throats are by chlamydia type organisms.
1:23:16🔗StrykerNot chlamydia trachomatis, which is what causes the sexual transplants. Of course. Take a break.
1:23:21🔗DrewAll right, Chlamydia in the Tubes will be coming out probably next Thursday. The Killers are here. We got a little bit more time with them. I'm Stryker and Dr. Drew in Loveline, more after the ass.
1:24:06🔗DrewAll right, what's up, you guys? It's Loveline, I'm Stryker, filling in for Adam Carolla, Dr. Drew. Papa Roach will be in here two nights from now. Tomorrow, I don't think there's a guest yet coming in. Hey, how is Jenna Jamison, by the way, Dr. Drew?
1:24:32🔗StrykerShe's sort of, we've known her for years, she's been on the show a few times.
1:24:34🔗DrewShe was good. Damn, I wish I was working that night over there.
1:24:37🔗StrykerChris was transfixed. Chris, were you transfixed? He went into the sub- Engineer Chris? Oh, it was the most, it was the strangest thing. She stayed for an hour and a half and she left. And all of a sudden, I was worried there was a stirring on the other side as though, I was just so nervous. It's like he'd been in cement and it was sort of like the Tin Man coming out of it. It's like, oh, Chris, you're there, oh my God.
1:24:56🔗DrewGod, I wish I would have been here that night. Good times. The Killers are here hanging out for a little bit more. Look for them on the $2 Bill Show. It's the MTV2 Tour that they're gonna do. Do you know who you're gonna be on the road with for that?
1:25:54🔗DrewThe only thing, I know I saw Alicia Keys play, and that was cool, Lenny Kravitz and Stevie Wonder. And I saw a rap group, I don't know their name, but Lil Jon was in it.
1:26:07🔗DrewYeah, Lil Jon, it was cool. You know who Lil Jon is? I don't know him personally either, but he's pretty good. Usher was out there, or Usher. Usher. It's lame. He's got the song to make the booty go smack. Melanie, you're 20 on Love Line, what's up?
1:26:25🔗CallerHey, I was just calling because me and my boyfriend just started having sex, and he's my first, so I don't know a whole bunch about it. But I was wondering if he doesn't use a condom or anything, but you know how you can come before he comes back?
1:26:49🔗CallerIs he missing that the pull-out method is okay because-
1:26:53🔗StrykerNo, no, pull-out method, you may already be pregnant if you've been using the pull-out method. You've got to wear condoms- What? No, he cannot feel the-
1:27:05🔗DrewMelanie, two minutes before you think you're gonna come, little driplets can come out of there.
1:27:11🔗StrykerOften highly concentrated in sperm. If you are not using a condom and not using birth control, you are going to get pregnant, period.
1:27:19🔗CallerI mean, I went to school in America, and I know, you should know this.
1:27:23🔗StrykerYeah. She went to school in Los Angeles, though, so she didn't talk about that stuff.
1:27:31🔗CallerYeah. So, but I was just wondering, because he doesn't want me on birth control.
1:27:34🔗StrykerHey, hey, Millie, come on. Don't be so stupid.
1:27:38🔗DrewYou're 20 years old, and taking this attitude, that's ridiculous.
1:27:41🔗StrykerThis guy's an asshole. You need to protect yourself. Come on. You're going to get pregnant. Is that what you want?
1:27:51🔗StrykerOkay, then get on birth control, or make him work on it. Believe me.
1:27:55🔗DrewYou hold all the cards. If you say you have to wear a condom or no sex, believe me, he'll be at the store so fast buying probably the smaller condoms. I'm serious. And also, with the pullout method, of course you can get pregnant from that, but the guy, because you haven't got pregnant, say 10 times in a row, he gets a little more cocky in how long he actually will leave it in there, and then more driplets are going to come out. And then you got a bun in the oven. Drew, please. Kathy, 24, what's up?
1:28:25🔗CallerI had a question. I'm going to be at the show this coming Wednesday, and I just had a question for The Killers. I was wondering, what's your favorite song to play live? Ah.
1:28:35🔗CallerYou know, it differs. Midnight Show is always fun for me. It's just a very exciting song to play. We always finish usually with a song, All These Things That I've Done.
1:28:48🔗CallerAnd I like the way it makes me feel when we finish with that song. And so that's another one of my favorites. Ronnie?
1:29:01🔗AdamIt's different every night. I guess we look forward, you know, we talk about songs before we play them sometimes and different little nuances about them and it just makes you enjoy them.
1:29:12🔗DrewYou guys still get nervous for certain cities or certain crowds or is it just, it is what it is?
1:29:18🔗AdamYou get the butterfly, I mean you get excited. I don't know if it's nerves, but I don't know if it's, I don't know if it stops you from playing a show or anything.
1:29:27🔗DrewNo, of course it doesn't stop you, but you know, butterfly excitement type thing.
1:29:33🔗AdamThat's good, you always have to have that I think.
1:29:35🔗DrewWhat about family that you have in Vegas? They ever come out to LA and see the shows that aren't in Vegas and see what you guys are up to and how big it's getting? Do they know, do they realize?
1:29:43🔗AdamI have my little brother Nick right here.
1:29:48🔗CallerMy mom and my sister came down from Vegas to the Troubadour shows, yeah.
1:29:53🔗DrewWhat did they think of the Troubadour, the heat in there, the closeness, just the vibe. It's just a, you know, it's a legendary place as well.
1:30:00🔗CallerYeah. Oh, that's, they're always excited no matter what.
1:30:05🔗DrewProud of you, right? I'm proud of you too. I'm not even related. Derek, what's up? You're 20 on Loveline.
1:30:16🔗CallerWell, let's start off with this, that I've been dating this girl for almost a year now, and she lost her virginity to me, and we really love each other. We both like, we were like really in love and shit. So anyways.
1:30:36🔗DrewDrew, I don't know if there's a right answer to this. Is there a wrong, is there, what do you think is an average amount of time a couple going out for a year or more has sex per week? Average.
1:31:05🔗DrewIs it because of time, or is it because of the, or because the honeymoon so-called focuses over?
1:31:09🔗StrykerYeah, the people get into their sort of rhythm, and one and a half times a week is basically sort of a national average.
1:31:15🔗DrewBut the intensity can still be there when you're not doing it, of course. Do you know what I mean? In terms of the intimacy with the brain, even though you're not sleeping together seven times a week, but you still can feel it when you're not doing it. Oh, sure. Which is why after a year, you don't have to do it seven times a week.
1:31:28🔗StrykerRight, and then life sort of intervenes in the scheduled, you know, the things that take priorities over that. And you know, there's the coolage effect too, which is the newness makes you want to do it more.
1:31:40🔗DrewGot it. That's something I have to keep in mind. Bobby. Real quick one. All right, you're 17. Go ahead.
1:31:47🔗CallerUm, yeah, I just wanted to ask Dr. Drew how he dealt with some of the people who call in and ask questions that he answers almost every night and is so calm and cool with them.
1:31:59🔗DrewHonestly, I'll answer. He's the guy, and I mean this in all seriousness, he's so sincere and he does care very much about everyone that calls in. He only gets frustrated when you don't say hello back or you sit there like a jackass when you're like, call her, are you there? He's just very sincere and he cares a lot and he didn't become a doctor for nothing.
1:32:23🔗CallerWell, cause the last caller, the girl who called about the pullout method, it was something that I learned when I was in this grade.
1:32:32🔗StrykerBut you know what? Think about this, if there's one like that, there's thousands more and it's a good thing we're talking about it cause those that didn't get it in fifth grade maybe need to get it now. So, you know what I mean? It's frustrating and it's outrageous, but well, that's our country. So there you go.
1:32:48🔗CallerAnd God bless you for helping them out.
1:32:52🔗DrewThat did not sound sarcastic at all. Should we take a break or we go?
1:33:06🔗CallerBut I tried everything else and thought, what the hell? So I called the dateline and actually met a cool guy. Believe it or not, other normal people are out there looking too.
1:33:30🔗DrewAll right, Loveline, wrapping up here. I'm Stryker for Adam. I'll be back tomorrow.
1:33:35🔗StrykerNo, no, no, you'll be back tomorrow.
1:33:36🔗DrewYeah, I'll be back tomorrow. Yeah, Adam's fishing. Dr. Drew. The Killers, thank you for dealing with me and being on Loveline for two hours.
1:33:47🔗DrewKeep it up. It's gonna be a good ride with the record, you guys. It's a fun record. You guys should go check out the Killer CD, Hot Fuss, and it's really good. And San Francisco tomorrow night. And then you can probably go to Seattle after that. And then the show I wanna mention is September 18th, Hyundai Pavilion, Flashback to the Future, Miller Lite, Inland Invasion 4 with like 16 other bands.
1:34:10🔗StrykerI guess people wanna find out if you're coming to their town. www.thecillermusic.com. The killer's music.com. The killer's music.
1:34:39🔗CallerThis has been Loveline. The opinions expressed in this show are not necessarily those of the staff, management, sponsors, or this station. The producer for Loveline is Annie Gold. Loveline is a presentation of Westwood One Entertainment.