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Adam
Hey, everybody. It's Loveline. I'm Adam Corolla. That's Dr. Drew. Dr. Drew's still in Atlanta tonight.
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Adam
Dr. Drew, board certified no, physician, addiction medicine specialist. Do you hear it, Drew?
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Adam
You don't? All right. Well, so here's the way I combat the echo thing. I just never stop talking.
4:30🔗
Adam
All right. Why is this? Lisa, Anderson, do you know what this echo is? Can you hear it, Anderson? Okay. Drew, this one has a very interesting sort of space-age sound. It's the effect they used to use in the 50s when they do the sci-fi movies.
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Adam
Yeah. Well, wait a minute. Lisa Ann Walter is our guest tonight. She came in here because she stars in the- Now, you're even worse than I am.
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Echo.
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Adam
I'm going to Vegas tomorrow, so I'll be broadcasting from Vegas. Cool. Lisa was in here to- oh, this is going to drive me insane.
6:04🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
I like it. It's that thing when you have your cell phone and you can hear yourself.
6:18🔗
Adam
Oh, you're here because you love the show? Yeah. And I saw Emerald and Emerald wasn't bad. It wasn't good. I think the problem with Emerald was is it was just a sitcom in a sea of sitcoms. It felt like a sitcom.
6:30🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
Well, I mean, everybody tries to say what happened, why and because of September 11, people don't want to go to a new show. They want to stay with stuff they know. Whatever the reason is, I had a great time, was a great bunch of people. Emerald is the nicest guy in the world and I love going to work every day. For that reason, selfishly, I'm sad that we're not working right now, but we're going to be back in September for a couple of weeks and we'll see what happens.
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Adam
There you go. But anyway, so now, you know what was funny, Drew? Lisa was telling me that she had won how much on the weakest link?
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Lisa Ann Walter
Yeah. For a charity show with celebrities, it's the most that they've ever won. Of course, you're saying I'm up against the sports people, too, and the survivor cast or whatever, fear factor people, which was just kind of sad.
7:45🔗
Oh, my God.
7:47🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
It's not like I'm any more or less of a retard. It's just I know a lot of useless crap.
7:59🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
You know what? Here's the deal. I met her in New York when I went to for what?
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You are the weakest thing. Goodbye.
8:11🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
She's actually the sweetest lady in the world, and so she didn't scare me, but I was too afraid to be funny on the show. I didn't want to get in trouble. I felt like I was in second grade again. I was going to be sat in the hall.
8:22🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
Yeah. Well, Carrot Top like grabbed my boobs, and I slapped his hands and said, don't get me in trouble. Get away from me.
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Carrot Top is a man.
8:38🔗
Adam
Yeah, there's this echo thing. And then on top of it, Anderson's throwing in a bunch of lame sound effects. So now I really don't know where I am.
8:45🔗
He's a tough man.
8:47🔗
Adam
And then the sound effects that he's throwing in are echoing. So it's just all over the place.
9:01🔗
Dolce.
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It means candy.
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Okay. Adam, oh my God. I just want to tell you that I love you. I love you. I love you.
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I want to wake up next to you every morning.
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Lisa Ann Walter
I never get that, even by the guy that I wake up next to. Nobody has ever said that to me.
9:25🔗
Adam
You can do that, except for you're gonna have to be moved in, in the morning. We're not going the whole night. You go to sleep, and technically, you wake up in the morning next to me, although you did not spend the night.
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Okay.
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I'm so nervous.
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I'm sorry.
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Do you want me to tell you my question?
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Lisa Ann Walter
No, I want you to suck up to Adam more, because, you know, I really enjoy watching a man being mean to a woman who's begging.
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I listen to you every night, Adam. I listen to you everything.
10:00🔗
Thank you.
10:01🔗
Adam
And all the thousands of listeners who do. No, just you, just you, baby. This is for you, Dolce.
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Thank you.
10:11🔗
And Drew, you are extremely sexy.
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He is.
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Lisa Ann Walter
That's intelligence. Women love intelligence. And money. They like intelligence and money.
10:38🔗
Okay, I want to get revenge on my ex-boyfriend so bad. I hate him so much.
10:47🔗
He used me.
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For, like, sex.
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I was with him for 10 months.
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No. Actually, the first seven months, it was good and we loved each other. But then we broke up and then we got back together and then he used me. When we got back together.
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He's 17.
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Drew
When you got back together with him, was he clear with you that he didn't want a relationship?
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He hesitated at first to get back together.
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Lisa Ann Walter
But wait, you wanted to have sex again because you figured that that would be the way to get the relationship back on track too, right?
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No.
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Yeah.
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I want to kill him.
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My dad says I could get like a gang of girls to beat him up.
12:00🔗
No, just me and like two other girls will beat him up.
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Lisa Ann Walter
You know you won't. You'll get there in a circle. You'll go to beat him up and then you'll be like, but I love you and you won't do it.
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I don't love him. I don't love him. I hate him. I hate him. I want to kill him.
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When can I meet you, Adam? I want to meet you so bad.
12:25🔗
I'm going to steal you from your girlfriend.
12:27🔗
Adam
All right. Go right ahead. As a matter of fact, I'd like to do a thing where we lash both your hands together with leather and then we put a knife in each one of your free hands and you have one of those Indian type fights. You know what I'm talking about? They used to do that in the Old West. They take the right arm of each person and they'd lash it together and they'd put a knife in the left arm and they'd go around and the music starts up.
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Lisa Ann Walter
See, that's what got the guy kicked out of Big Brother. You can't introduce knives to sex play.
12:53🔗
Adam
Okay, baby. Listen, just leave that boyfriend of yours alone and move on. No revenge, please. It'll get dangerous.
13:17🔗
Caller
Well, first of all, I want to tell you guys, you guys have to breathe for providing one of the most beneficial public services, and you guys are awesome. And I have a question.
13:27🔗
I didn't know you were out here.
13:30🔗
Caller
Really? I was at work all day. My question for y'all is that I'm trying to find out if there's something wrong with me is when like ever I have sex, I would like to be dominated. I'm not just talking like lightly.
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I'm talking like heavily.
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Caller
I'm talking like the whole bondage thing, call me names, you know, things like that and I just find it odd.
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Caller
No, I can't. That's why I'm really confused, is I can't think of anything that it would have caused, you know.
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Drew
There's another historical source that we don't talk about much in this show, sometimes a lengthy illness when you're a young child. Anything like that? Were you in a hospital for a period of time?
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The worst thing I ever had was...
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Yeah.
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Lisa Ann Walter
Bingo. Okay. Can I speak to this? Sure. Okay. I read nine and a half weeks when I was 16. I don't know if you know anything about this movie or book, except for if you've heard about it with Mickey Rourke. It spoke to me. And being raised Catholic myself, a lot of us who worry about sex with guilt, when you're dominated, tied up, called names, humiliation, sex, we call it in the biz, you have no control. So then you're not to blame for your enjoyment and pleasure. You can orgasm as many times as you want, and you're not a bad girl. Because as women, we're always told that we're bad for enjoying sex, you're a whore, you're dirty if you like sex. Now if you're not in charge and somebody else is...
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Lisa Ann Walter
That's okay. I've been called that before and sometimes I've enjoyed it. But the thing is, is that if you live the rest of your life in charge and you take care of your business and you go about your life and in the bed you like for a man to be stronger, I don't think that's a problem unless it crosses over into something really negative, like abuse. But if you like it, go for it.
15:41🔗
Adam
Well, here, I'm kind of down with you on, I like that whole angle by the way, except for the only part I'm not sure about, although it's an interesting hypotheses is the, it's supposed to be dirty and you're not supposed to like it. So if someone forces you to do it, it's not your fault. I just think when you tell somebody something is dirty and something is wrong, it gets so intriguing to them that when it comes time to be naughty, it makes them extra naughty. Do you know what I mean?
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Lisa Ann Walter
But as a girl, it's different just because you're so told that you shouldn't enjoy it. Men are sort of congratulated for having great sex and being sexual and women aren't.
16:28🔗
Drew
Right. So you think it's other women that perpetuate that double standard? Yeah. Yeah. Interesting. Adam, tell you a story about this thing in bed.
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Lisa Ann Walter
I swear. You know what? I never told anybody and I tried to wash it, but who else in the house used that?
17:07🔗
Adam
Yeah. But they had the extra. They had the red one was for mom and the green one was for the son and the blue one was for dad. Then they had the brown one for Elijah or somebody, you know, someone who didn't exist. So I just used the brown one.
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Lisa Ann Walter
Do you tell your friends and then they go, oh my God, you must have a self-esteem problem? Is that what's going on?
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Caller
I mean, the only ones who know about it are like my boyfriend and a few of my close friends. And they've never said anything like that, so I guess, you know.
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Lisa Ann Walter
Go for it. As long as he can do it right, because if they get weird about it and they're not really dominant, they're just trying to play at it, it doesn't work.
18:12🔗
Adam
Oh, yeah. Oh, all right. Good times there. And look, if it starts spinning out where he's putting a trash bag over your head and trying to asphyxiate you and stuff like that, then it's time to stop and reel it in a little bit. Yeah, Kevin? Yeah? I believe almost all women like a little rough trade properly applied. You cannot announce to them while you're in your street clothes, hey, when we get up to bedroom, I'm going to tan your ass with my hand. They're not going to go for that, or most women won't go for that, at least they will.
18:45🔗
Adam
Not on the first date, but once you start getting intimate, if you start sort of sliding into the driver seat sexually, I think most women will go along with you, as long as they think you're a competent driver.
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Lisa Ann Walter
Right. It's a genetic imprint, I agree, but it depends on the woman. I mean, some women don't go for that at all.
19:06🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
And I'm a strong woman. I mean, I've always been in charge of my life, you know, financially and every other way, but in the rack, he's gotta be in charge.
19:14🔗
Adam
And by the way, it's not such a bad thing to let somebody, I mean, like if I'm out in the middle of the forest and I'm lost, I would like to be with a guy who says, I know where we're going, I know what I'm doing, I got a compass up my ass, follow me, we're going this way. As opposed to the guy who's going, I don't know, what do you wanna do?
19:33🔗
Adam
That's a scary feeling. Ann, I want good sodomy. Oh, wait a minute. Why was I on the force with this guy?
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Yeah?
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Caller
Well, I'm in the girls and all, right? But then when I'm alone with one, I can't get flush.
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Caller
Yeah. I get it. Anyway, my dad's a carpenter, and he was working in his house, and the girl who lives in there, I saw her and I liked her, so we hooked up, so I was alone in our house, and it's like we were alone, right? We started making out, and took our clothes off, but I was up, but then as soon as she turned around, I just lost it.
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Drew
Kevin, a lot of guys first time out have this problem. Really, your body is telling you that you're not ready for this, or maybe this relationship isn't comfortable enough for you to be able to perform. Just take it slower. Get involved with somebody, have a relationship, then go ahead with the sex.
21:13🔗
Adam
You know what I was thinking, Drew? You know what this is? This is the sort of male version of, you know when the 14, 15-year-old Teeny Bopper runs into her celebrity idol male and she can't form a sentence? Right. And she's saying she calls herself by his name and his line by her name, and they're all over the map.
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Why don't we?
21:43🔗
Adam
Right. Yeah, it's funny, they transpose things. Yeah, well, we had many people run up to me.
21:49🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
That's what I'm saying. I knew that was going to go back to somebody's done this to Adam.
21:59🔗
Adam
Right. Are you who I think I am? Right. Here's the point. And I'm not even a real celebrity. I'm B slash C, tops. But here's my point. When you get flustered, the ability to do things that you normally could do easily come with much difficulty. And this is sort of the version of that. 15-year-old guys are so excited about sex and the opportunity. It's like some chick from the 60s being in front of Paul McCartney. You know, they don't know how to conduct themselves. They have difficulty and they never seem to function right. And that's what's going on with our last caller.
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Lisa Ann Walter
Plus, I would imagine that if he knows how to take care of himself when he's on his own, obviously, that works itself out. But when you have added on top of that, what do I do with this mystery that is the vulva? I mean, there are parts that, you know, if you don't have like, you know, a blinking neon light, you know, you're not only concerned about yourself, but you're, there's so much pressure on young people to like perform well for the opposite sex. You're just not talking about yourself being erect and aroused, you're talking about the other person.
23:13🔗
Adam
No, I totally agree, and I'm factoring that into the whole thing. I mean, they're excited, they're nervous, there's pressure, and they don't perform. And maybe that Drew's right, ultimately, just a little too young, a little too unseasoned. Dan?
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Yeah.
23:30🔗
Caller
I've been hearing people smoke weed, asking, talking to Dr. Drew, and he's been telling them about the right frontal lobe shrinking in that age, and I want to know, is that permanent or?
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Drew
You know what? Most of the pot, I believe most of that is reversible. I really do. The real problem with it is that you don't have available to you your brain at a time in which you need to master certain developmental milestones. So the real issue is not so much that there's a long-term brain damage, it's more that when you need sort of the capacity to manage and grow and cope with development, it's not there. So you just sort of arrest to a certain extent in terms of your emotional development.
24:15🔗
Adam
Yeah, and I think everybody, and Drew, you can correct me from wrong, but everyone looks at the brain as this vase that's up on a pedestal, and either you break it or you don't, but they don't look at it as a muscle that is sort of strengthened and seasoned in experiences.
24:33🔗
Drew
I mean, an instrument with thousands of functions, many of which we're not aware of, but if we don't have at our disposal, we don't perform normally.
24:41🔗
Adam
Right. Yeah. So the point is, even if you don't do damage to it, if you don't work it out, you're kind of screwed.
24:53🔗
Drew
I do. What I read and what I've seen clinically, people recover when it comes to pot. It takes a while, then they have a lot of depression and anxiety and that kind of thing can persist. But in terms of their cognitive function, and their ability to sort of manage and deal again, that all seems to come back. All right.
25:10🔗
Drew
The problem is that they're managing it. If they started smoking pot when they were 15, that's the developmental state they're in. Right.
25:43🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
Rosalynn's a doll. She's a sweetest woman. She wore a cloth coat to the inauguration. Don't talk about Rosalynn like that.
25:52🔗
Adam
I'm sorry. I didn't say you couldn't give intelligent women the finger. I just was curious if you guys-
26:01🔗
Adam
Well, you know how they- you guys hit it off. You have a couple of cocktails, maybe card Jimmy's in the Sudan somewhere trying to do some fame and relief. She's a lonely woman. You're an attractive man. Although she's past her prime, she's certainly a powerful woman, someone that you respect.
26:22🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
Poor Jimmy's building a house for the homeless somewhere, and you're like having Dr. Drew snake his wife.
26:27🔗
Adam
That's right. Yeah, he's talking to some of the heads of 3M, trying to get some siding from them, and you're going to town on his wife. Drew, is that possible?
26:40🔗
Adam
Okay. She's not a young hot blonde, but it'd still be pretty nice in your resume to say that you got Rosalind Carter, right?
27:06🔗
Adam
Well, she's 20 now, but when he met her, she was 18. Sweet. That was about a year and a half ago. Anyway, Drew, you're doing all right? Susan's out there with you?
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Yeah.
27:20🔗
Adam
Okay. It's good times. Lisa Ann Walker's here tonight. Walter. Did I say Walter? I said Walker. Sorry.
27:37🔗
Adam
She was plug in Emerald, but now she's not because it got yanked. But it's coming back on-
27:44🔗
Adam
So we'll pre-plug it for that. Drew's in Atlanta and we'll be right back. Hey, everybody, it's Love Line. I'm Adam Corolla. That's Dr. Drew. We've gotten rid of the reverb, and our spirits are lifted. Lisa Ann Walter is our guest tonight. She's bold, sassy, and brassy. Brassy does fit you well.
28:56🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
Okay. You're right. You're absolutely right. If they would just put that on the breakdowns when they're like casting people. Big rack sense of humor. That's me.
29:10🔗
Adam
I don't know why I'm a genius. My family are like, I come from a family of tards, practically, really.
29:19🔗
Adam
I know. That's what I kept telling my family, but it's true. We're from North Hollywood.
29:36🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
Pampa is actually slang in Italian for making the sucking motion. I don't want to say it nastier than that. I have yet to tell my mother this, but that's what it means.
29:49🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
It's true. I was told this by an Italian friend of mine, that it was slang in Italian for orally gratifying.
29:59🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
You know, I don't know. I'm sure that if they knew it at Ellis Island, they would have changed it right off.
30:14🔗
Adam
Yeah, it's always interesting when people get those nasty last names. And then they always compound it by naming the kid Dick.
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Lisa Ann Walter
Yeah, okay. There was a guy at our school whose last name is Ass Man. I'm not kidding.
30:28🔗
Adam
But his parents weren't so incredibly cruel that they named him like Dick Ass Man. Were they? I mean, see, I don't know who, I don't know if this is intentional.
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Lisa Ann Walter
How could it not be? My ex-husband, my ex-husband's last name was Bomb. People get really creative. They're like, you should name your kid Adam. You should name him like Lip. I was pregnant with a girl and well, I didn't know she was a girl, but when she came out, I said, come up with a good name. So I said Cherry, Cherry Bomb, because I figured she makes some dollar bills that way.
31:04🔗
Adam
Butt and Kiss, and then you go with the Dick. But there's some subtle ones like, I know a guy named Jacques Hoffman, which just sounds like Jack Hoffman. Sure. Why don't you name the guy Jacques Hoffman?
31:27🔗
Adam
Well, I'll get it. I'll just start. All right. Drew's real last name is Feltchman, but he didn't want people to know he was cute.
31:52🔗
Caller
Well, my husband had pushed me for several years to have a, I guess, menage à trois, and we did, and after we had this experience, I continued the relationship with the other woman. You're a lesbian.
32:26🔗
Drew
This is really what always happens in these things. When you bring another person in, the relationship destabilizes in ways that you often just can't even predict. And it sounds like your husband's sort of an asshole.
32:40🔗
Drew
Because he's forcing her into a threesome, and she's coerced into it, and it just sounds like somebody that she's not happy with.
32:47🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
I don't know about forced. You know guys are always going to be like, honey, you know it'd be hot. That doesn't mean you're forced. I mean, this girl was your friend for a while, right?
32:55🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
Okay. So when he was saying this, you're like, well, if it was anybody, it would be.
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Oh boy.
33:54🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
Are you emotionally satisfied in the relationship more with the women or is it more physical? Um, both?
34:11🔗
Adam
How do you know? And how much time, I mean, realistically, have you have even spent with this woman? I mean, she's a friend of yours, but in an intimate relationship, that's a whole different thing, you know? I mean, you could dump your husband, she could dump her husband, you guys could move in together and in six weeks into it, want to kill each other.
34:33🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
A lot of the lure of the relationships that are on the sly is the being on the sly.
34:40🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
Yeah, it's... And forget about being a lesbian, even if it was a guy, there's all that hidden danger. We might get caught. That adds to a lot of it. You got to remember that this stuff has a time and place in the world and like everybody's into, oh, you know, lesbian sex and it's so hot and so wonderful. But, you know, you got kids.
35:02🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
She's not a lesbian, Drew. My God. I think anybody, any woman that's ever had sex with a woman is a lesbian.
35:14🔗
Adam
Okay. Jenny, why don't you see if you can get your husband to blow her husband and strike up some sort of relationship with him sexually?
35:29🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
Well, what is it? I think more honestly, what you should do is see if you can get from your husband what it is that you're getting from this woman, whether it's better oral or more communication, or him telling you honestly what he thinks of your outfit. Or having a real conversation. Try to get that. See if you can get that work done.
35:47🔗
Drew
I think at this stage, it's not going to happen without some professional intervention. Why not on behalf of your family, your children, try to work this thing out, get some help, and whatever the weaknesses are, the problems are within this relationship in the first place can be worked on.
36:17🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
Yeah. No wonder you like this other woman. She knows how to help you with the kids. Let your husband know what the hell to do.
36:32🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
I sure do, and you're all twins. I'm there, Jenny. Except I like penises, really, definitively.
36:41🔗
Adam
Right. My thing is, when you got four kids, you waive your rights to act like a college chick who's experimenting with her sexuality.
36:52🔗
Adam
Maybe, and you have four kids, you stop me if I'm wrong, and maybe it's just convenient because I don't have any kids. But from just a societal standpoint, once you have a bunch of kids, you're experimenting screwing off irresponsible days if they're going to affect the kids are over.
37:09🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
You have to make that decision. I mean, certainly, I've said, I got to leave the fivesome, I got to sit her. You have those days when you're younger and then you just got to go, you know what, I got to lead a responsible life. Jenny, I'm sure you've been with your husband a while, whether he's the father of all your kids or whatever. You've been with men for a long time. That's probably where you are. I think that the woman being introduced is just something different, something exciting.
37:37🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
Exactly, it's something that feels a little forbidden and so that means excitement in your life that might be drawn down by four kids that are really close together in age. I mean, that's a nightmare, honey. You're dealing with a lot of dirty-ass diapers and if somebody comes in like in a hot negligee, you're like, yeah, this is exciting, but yeah, I say go to counseling. See if you can get what from your husband, what you're getting from this woman.
38:07🔗
Yes.
38:10🔗
Caller
Well, I've been married for three years. I have a two-year-old baby with the same guy, but I've noticed the past year, I don't like him. I mean, I know it sounds bad, but it's just, I mean, if he even looks at me wrong, it gets my nerves.
38:36🔗
Caller
He should avert his gaze. We'll get up at six o'clock in the morning, he'll just be loud. He acts like my son acts more mature than he does.
38:59🔗
Adam
No. Hold on a second. Let me tell you the cornerstone of white trash. Do things that you don't know. You make moves at 21, but white trash, it's all ages. Here's part of being dumb. You do things that are dumb. That's how you define stupidity. And you just do, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know. And you're out on parole for only two weeks and you decided to get drunk and take a bat to your neighbor's mailbox at four. Yeah, I don't know. Do you see what I mean? Why do you have kids with this guy? You don't even like, I don't know. That's the hallmark, the I don't know.
39:46🔗
Adam
No, but why angry now? I mean, it sounds like, you know, he's bugging you, but it sounds like you're angry at him.
39:54🔗
Caller
I don't know. It could be, you know, I'm working a full-time job and I'm going to school and I'm raising my son and he can barely keep a job for six months.
40:08🔗
Caller
And I'm trying to tell him this and he'll go out and smoke his dope and hang out with me.
40:30🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
Don't tell him. Don't tell him. Do this. Have your stuff packed, gone. When he comes home, you're gone. And then be away for a year and see if he straightens up. Honest to God, you've got to bring him up short.
40:53🔗
Caller
Well, he's on it for a month and he seems like a crackhead. I mean, you know, he's an addict.
40:59🔗
Drew
And the one thing that can change is that disease can be treated. And one of the things you can ask of him is if this relationship is going to, if you're going to give it a chance, it has to be with him in sobriety. Unless he's willing to get involved in a program, get sober, get a sponsor, go to meetings every day, then you are out. But the possibility exists that he could get with the program and really improve rather dramatically.
41:21🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
And you're living your life, you're going to school, you work a full-time job. He's not helping all that much. What are you afraid of girl? Go do it.
41:28🔗
Adam
Right. And listen all you crackpots, stop cranking out kids with retards. Would you please have a little dignity out there? Stop trying to slowly dismantle the world. Your goddamn kids with your retarded husbands. The kids are barely, they're not even in the first grade yet, and everyone's tired of everybody. I got to get out of this. He's no good. I should have known. Don't have the kids. Jesus Christ. I mean, I understand a lot of people are stupid, but this is beyond stupid. Don't crank out the big families with the screwball guys. Ladies, these guys are idiots.
42:07🔗
Adam
That's right. And I know you want your child to have a husband, or have a father, but...
42:23🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
It's a treatable condition. But it can't be with the, I'm going to leave you. I swear I'm going to leave you if you don't. She's got to be gone. Then he'll have.
42:29🔗
Drew
Right. She has to leverage it, and she has to be willing to follow through on any of her threats.
42:49🔗
Adam
We're going to get back with you. Like I said, this could so be avoided. You got the last name like Kockschlager. Just don't name the kid Dick. Hey Adam.
43:00🔗
How hard is that?
43:02🔗
Drew
My parents had a friend, the dicks. The Mr. Dick, first name, Richard. And he married Ruby. Dick and Ruby Dick.
43:33🔗
Adam
That's right. Mr. and Mrs. Seaman, I'd like to present you with your new baby boy. What are you going to name him?
43:51🔗
Adam
Wouldn't that look great just monogrammed on his lapel? Dick Seaman on that smoking jacket.
43:57🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
That's rude. Why don't you just teach the kid karate by the second grade? Yeah.
44:08🔗
Love Line.
44:12🔗
We'll be right back.
44:47🔗
Adam
Hello. Loveline, I'm Adam Carolla. That's Dr. Drew in Atlanta. Let me yell at the phone screener, Damien, for a second. No. All right. Lisa Ann Walter is back in the studio. You know her from Emeril and from winning $62,500.
45:29🔗
Adam
I saw that about 20 minutes of that abortion called the Miss Congeniality that you really enjoyed last summer. Oh, that was sad.
45:42🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
Listen, when you're a parent, you're like psyched if anything comes out that you can watch and not wretch. Monsters Incorporated, I thoroughly endorse.
45:51🔗
Adam
Once in a while, like your Buzz Lightyear or something comes out and it's enjoyable for everybody.
45:56🔗
Adam
Hey, Drew, you know, one other thing I was thinking about with the names and the tragedy of naming the guy Dick when his last name is Seaman. The ones that are sort of innocuous on their own like the guy's last name is Nibbler. So you could name like Gerald Nibbler and that'd be fine. But you go ahead with the Dick Nibbler anyway, and now you got a porn star. That's the real tragedy.
46:22🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
I mean, there's other stuff too. You could get like Boyd Titler. That was one guy.
46:26🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
Yeah. It was a doctor that was recommended to me. I said, where does he work? Petticoat Junction? I'm not going to some guy named Boyd Titler. Works on like Sam Drucker.
46:43🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
Okay. Here's the audience. Don't name your kid Dick. It could all go horribly wrong. Yeah.
46:58🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
Hey, you're not supposed to say this stuff, are you, Susan? What are you, a candy striper there? You're not supposed to divulge this information.
47:15🔗
Caller
He's a marriage counselor here and his name is Dick Nickel. He thinks about backwards on a form.
47:25🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
There was a guy on the subway in New York whose name was Dr. Tush and he worked on hemorrhoids. Do you remember this? I remember riding the subway in New York when I lived there. Dr. Tush. Sometimes they just make him up, I think.
47:44🔗
Caller
Yeah, I've been having problems with dizzy spells lately. I wake up in the morning, and I just feel dizzy, and everything spins around.
48:07🔗
Drew
So it just is relentless? There's nothing you can do to get it to stop? There's nothing that makes it worse?
48:17🔗
Drew
Well, usually inner ear problems, the hallmark, the classic symptom is dizziness triggered by rolling over in bed and or certain changes of position in specific planes. You can also get a lightheadedness when you stand up. That's a whole different set of symptoms, but persistent lightheadedness, excuse me, persistent dizziness, that's a little more serious symptoms. It can be labyrinthitis, but Jaco, it is something that needs to be looked at by a doctor.
48:57🔗
Drew
Good. That's like Lisa said, you go to the ear doctor, but it's usually an inflammation of the nerve to the ear, that's persistent dizziness like that. Yeah. You're going to let me talk to him, Adam?
49:10🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
Maybe he's just having too many wet dreams, maybe he's just a little used up when he gets up.
49:14🔗
Adam
Yeah. He may be spent, he may be low on fluids. Let's sell one call before we go to break here, Drew. Who are we going to talk to when we come back?
49:22🔗
Adam
April is 20 over there. You never had a sex drive and your new boyfriend wants sex, and now you got to put out, right, April?
49:32🔗
Yeah.
49:35🔗
Well, I've actually been with him for two years.
49:40🔗
Yes, I have.
49:44🔗
I mean, I didn't know if something was wrong with me or what.
49:49🔗
He's really good. And when I have sex with him, I enjoy it.
49:53🔗
I just never think about it.
49:56🔗
Adam
Hold on a second. Yeah. Wait till he doesn't want to have sex with you, and then you're going to want some. All right. We'll be back with April after this. Okay. Lisa Ann Walter is here tonight from Emeril, which is off, but will be back on. Don't worry. Yeah, I'm almost sung. Chicken, chicken, chicken.
51:17🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
I'm in a mosh pit now. I'm jumping over the desk. I landed on Adam. Are you okay?
51:30🔗
Drew
My daughter would never forgive me if I don't ask you. How was that actress that played the twins?
51:35🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
I think that's spectacular. You knew it was one girl because most people say those girls that were the twins. She's wonderful.
51:41🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
She's the oldest of four and she takes care of all the little ones. She's the greatest. She's real professional and sweet. Her mother actually kept her back in Long Island after that went on to say, I wanted to have a normal life and go to regular school, which I thought was great.
51:55🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
Her mother is great. She was an ex-rocket and she would just go, I don't want Lindsay to be out here in the West Coast. People aren't real here. I loved her.
52:03🔗
Adam
Where's Lisa was in The Parent Trap, which is a movie that Drew enjoyed quite a bit because his kids enjoyed it.
52:18🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
Okay. I've never seen The Shining. I have seen Raging Bull. Unacceptable. I'm very embarrassed.
52:29🔗
Adam
Drew, you watch that damn movie this weekend, would you please? Then don't give me all that crap about I'm busy, I'm busy, I'm busy. Stay home Saturday night and put the movie in after the kids go to bed. It's real easy. You got a VCR, right?
52:41🔗
Yeah. Okay.
52:43🔗
Yes.
52:46🔗
Caller
Well, I've been dating this guy for a little bit over two years and I actually live with him.
52:54🔗
Caller
Right. Our relationship is perfectly fine except for that. It's causing a lot of tension between us.
53:09🔗
Adam
Would that? No, please. First labeled everyone a lesbian tonight. Now, by the way, at age 20, there's a lot of women, not our guest tonight, Lisa. She was horny from the time she left the womb. But a lot of 20-year-old women are not that horny. It's just not their cadence, sexually.
53:29🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
It's not a bad thing, April. It's really a life thing and it increases as you get older, sadly to say, because men's usually decreases.
53:56🔗
Caller
Well, when I'm into it, I do, but a lot of times my mind is other places and I'm just-
54:10🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
I'm just not enjoying it. If you catch a chick and you know the guy wants it all the time, then you're like, there's no challenge. There's nothing there for you to like want to be sexy for. It's just like you're always sitting there, like out of the corner of your eye going, oh God, he's looking at my breast. Oh, he's going to want it. Oh, let me cover up the breast. I don't want him to touch me. I'm going to move over here in the bed so he doesn't feel anything, so he doesn't think about sex. And it's all about avoiding sex. It's all in your mind about how do I keep him from thinking about it? So even if you were into it, you wouldn't do anything because you're all about avoiding it, right? What is that?
54:39🔗
Caller
I don't know. I think sometimes I do want to be the one who initiates it and who tries to get him to want me rather than him.
54:49🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
So why don't you tell him to give it like an experiment for like one month. Tell him to never initiate. But then you've got to do your part. And like on the other side of it, like initiate it the way you want it. You know what I mean? Like make up in your mind that you're going to twice a week do it the way you want to and initiate and surprise him. And see what happens. No, you won't come on April. You do that wouldn't you?
55:17🔗
Adam
Yeah, but listen, I agree with Lisa. You're sort of on the run. You feel like prey in your own condo. And so what happens is you it's like there's a pursuer and there's the prey and you're just running. And it's to the point where you don't even know why you're running anymore. You're just running.
55:36🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
She's drinking by the stream and then she hears like the hunter, the big bad, now he wants it from behind. And yeah, that's no fun for anybody. Does he do it in a way that you don't like? You said he was great, but you're in love with him. Come on, let's be real, April. Talk to me.
56:42🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
No, thank God he's not in the business. He's a doll though. Actually, Dr. Drew met him at a gym or somewhere, Las Vegas somewhere. What's he do? He was actually decathlete for the Canadian Olympic team.
56:54🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
He was like a stunt man, I mean, he did that sort of stuff. He was Spider-Man for a long time at Universal, represented all the characters that they have there.
57:16🔗
Drew?
57:17🔗
Adam
Yes, I'm done with April. She's not a horny chick and it's hard. She just got to hold still once a week.
57:27🔗
Drew
When that disparity comes up and the guy starts getting desperate and starts pushing the sex on the woman.
57:33🔗
Drew
Right. He has to really learn to lie back a little bit and literally engage in what some psychologists call significant emotional conversation.
57:43🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
I think they need to play this game. Do you ever hear of this game where you do that thing where you try to turn them on as best as you can and they can't touch you? Even if he's dying, he's got to hold back and let her work her things so she can be an aggressor for once just to see what it's like. But she's a baby.
58:01🔗
Adam
No, I do agree with Drew in that this guy's just got to back off and jack off and just cool his jets for a couple weeks and let her come around and stop running. She has to stop running and turn around and look and see him sitting there instead of him chasing her and then go over to him. No, he's not going to do it, but she's not going to be able to do the sort of sex getting thing either.
58:23🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
April's still listening. I bet she does. Come on, April. You know you're hot.
58:33🔗
Yeah.
58:40🔗
Caller
First off, my mother's maiden name is Hoss, H-O-F-S, and she has an uncle sort of God named Jack.
59:17🔗
Adam
Well, look, even worse. You named him John Hoff and somehow you switched it to Jack Hoff.
59:30🔗
Adam
Oh, this is an electronic bra that makes your boobs bigger that we were talking about last night, correct?
59:38🔗
Caller
I saw the doctor that developed it, happened to be on the view. I'm embarrassed I've ever seen it. But anyway, basically what it did was it's got like two layers to it, like two chambers to it. And the inside one, like he said, was sticky. It sticks to your boobs, so you get the shape of the cup. And then after that, it's like a vacuum sealer, like it sucks the air out of the space between the two. Right. And that computer girl kept talking about, like maintains the pressure.
1:00:08🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
Okay, so basically what it is, is it sucks on your boob, which actually brings the blood flow to it. When you're aroused, your boobs get bigger.
1:00:25🔗
Drew
Okay, Beth, I looked at that website last night, and there was absolutely no science on that site. This little business about cell enhancement, cell growth, there's just nothing to suggest that's happening. And the three...
1:00:38🔗
Caller
Would it like make them grow, and then they would shrink again, or would it either...
1:00:51🔗
Drew
Or they become inflamed, and there might be some transient improvement, but I can't imagine what's to stay.
1:00:54🔗
Caller
Well, yeah, a couple of the girls that had it done said that it didn't really increase them a cut size, but it made the shape a lot better.
1:01:06🔗
Adam
Okay, but this is pretty basic technology. I mean, if this actually worked, don't you think there'd be many, many versions of it around for many years?
1:01:14🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
I have one. I just hire boy scouts to walk around and suck on my nipples, and it increases. Yeah, really.
1:01:32🔗
Adam
All right, Beth. Anyway, thanks. Enjoy. Bye. Okay. I love the fact that as a society, we have women so freaked out about their parents, they're just willing to walk around with a-
1:01:50🔗
Yeah.
1:01:53🔗
Caller
Well, about a month ago, I found out that my girlfriend was pregnant with my kid, and I think she wants to keep it, but I don't know what I want to do.
1:02:22🔗
Adam
She can have your kid, though. Yeah. Well, what are you going to do? You want to try to talk her out of it?
1:02:28🔗
Caller
Yeah, pretty much, because my parents don't even really know that I have a girlfriend, especially that she's two years older than me. And she's, I don't know, I think they've kind of tripped.
1:02:36🔗
Adam
Well, I'll tell you what. Don't bother telling your parents that you have a girlfriend. Just tell her that you have a son or a daughter, because they'll figure the math out. And that way, you don't have to tell them two pieces of bad news.
1:03:25🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
You know what? I'm not even going to have a problem with that, because I've gotten pregnant with a condom. I've gotten pregnant with everything.
1:03:37🔗
Adam
Well, she wanted to get pregnant, so she's pregnant now. And Nick, what are you in high school?
1:03:45🔗
Adam
Junior college, though. Yeah. That ain't college. That's more high school. That's high school.
1:04:07🔗
Adam
Shocking. Shocking. You can always hear it in the lads' voice. Well, Nick, you're officially a man. And look, I know you're freaked out right now, brother. Keep in mind, this has happened. I mean, as freaky as this sounds and as freaked out as I would have been at 17 and all that kind of stuff, this has happened to millions and millions and millions of people on this planet. As a matter of fact, on places other than the United States, it's probably more the norm than it is the exception. And it's becoming the norm here in the United States, sadly, too. So it doesn't mean that life's going to be easy, but it's not a death sentence either. It's happened to many, many people who have gone on to lead productive and fruitful lives. But now, Nick, it just means that you're going to have to make some alterations. You're going to have to keep in contact with her. I would work hard on the adoption angle.
1:05:22🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
I mean, sadly, I remember when I was pregnant with my son, I was unmarried, and I wanted to get help from Catholic Services, and I just wanted to get health insurance, and all they could give me was cribs and old clothes. I said, I could get that at a thrift store. I need health insurance. They can help you not have an abortion. They don't want to help you with anything else. And this is going to be a tough one. She's there to have that baby. I don't know if her family will help or whatever. But the good news is, I'm sure, as scary as it is, you're going to love the baby and be proud when he comes out. And you'll still be able to play ball with him when you're 30.
1:05:55🔗
Adam
Play ball. They'll probably attend the same junior college. It's quite conceivable. I know I have many friends in their 11th and 12th year over at the junior college. The kid could skip a couple of grades and be in the junior college when he's 16. We could really work it out.
1:06:12🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
On the other hand, Nick, on a serious note, you could actually have this be a catalyst to make your life go in a different direction, not smoke so much weed. You might have to because you might have to provide some child support, baby.
1:06:36🔗
Adam
Oh, you're from Hawaii? Yeah. How come we always call it Hawaii and everyone in Hawaii calls it Hawaii?
1:06:41🔗
Caller
We have the same. It's like a glottal stop. It's kind of like an apostrophe and that means you pause.
1:07:01🔗
Adam
Hawaii. Yeah. Not a smart breed over there in Hawaii, but they know how to enjoy life.
1:07:18🔗
Adam
Yeah. You got to watch out for cultures that like Spam. What happened? Did some troop ship go down off the coast and Spam washed ashore one day in like 1941 and you guys got hooked on it? Or how did that happen, the Spam thing?
1:07:38🔗
Caller
Well, me, I've been in the same diet every day. I've been brushing my teeth every day twice. Usual stuff, eating the same diet.
1:07:49🔗
Caller
And I'm just getting a really stinky breath. And my mom noticed it and my friend did. And he's like, Oh, would you eat a skunk? And like, nice. So I brush my teeth twice a day. And I was like, and you know, it's fresh for like two hours, you know? But then after that, I could really think, I was wondering, could that have anything to do with going through puberty?
1:08:09🔗
Drew
Yes, it sure can. That's what I was going to ask you. It was puberty. It was just getting going.
1:08:19🔗
Adam
Well, Ryan, I'm glad you brought that up because I didn't know about that. I mean, I know you start getting BO because you don't see nine-year-olds with BO, right? But I never heard about the breath part, Drew.
1:08:35🔗
Drew
Reflux, those are things that can predispose to this. Yes, that's when things can start stinking.
1:08:40🔗
Caller
Natural for a 13-year-old to start getting it, so I just got to take care of it better.
1:08:44🔗
Drew
Yeah, one of the sources of bad breath is bacteria at the back of the tongues. You might get a tongue scraper and use mouthwash, and you might pay attention to your diet and pay attention to any heartburn symptoms, that sort of thing.
1:08:57🔗
Adam
It's a whole science now, though. He could just go to a dentist that specializes in this and just make one quick, easy trip, right?
1:09:04🔗
Adam
It's probably not even that much these days. Spam in Hawaii, you know, I was in Hawaii with my funny partner Jimmy about two, three years ago, and we were playing golf. And Jimmy had heard this theory about Hawaiians loving spam because there was a fair amount of cannibalism on the island at some point, and that it tasted like a human flesh. And I was like, you retard, that's not why they like spam. And so he asked our Hawaiian caddy whether that's true. And the person took great offense to it. It was one of those very uncomfortable situations. Imagine that. Yeah.
1:10:16🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
Listen, I walked in on my sister in the bathroom. My mother at one point had to shut off the hot water because my sister, I remember growing up, would always take hour long, two hour, whatever, in the bathroom. And I walked in on her doing it. It never occurred to me that I would just wake up with my pelvis pressed against the wall every morning and going, why do I want something? Had no idea. Then I saw my sister, who was a couple of years older, in the bathtub and went, ooh, figured it out from that and couldn't get out of the bathtub for probably five years. The bathtub is a good thing. Shower massage works even better, Lisa. I advise you to get one of those.
1:10:54🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
No, the shower massage, Lisa, it's key. You'll be in there so long your legs will lock up. They'll have to come get you out.
1:11:04🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
Why not? Go for it. You know what? The wonderful thing about being a woman, Lisa, you can have as many as you want. Doesn't stop your strength.
1:11:10🔗
Caller
My boyfriend keeps asking why. He keeps wondering why I only get off from the bathtub.
1:11:15🔗
Adam
Well, let me, Drew, please, let me ask Lisa this. And here's the only thing I guess we worry about is, man, we talk to people, women who are in a vibrator, for instance, and they get sort of.
1:11:28🔗
Adam
Yes. They become almost addicted, pardon the pun there, to the vibrator. And then everything else is just pales in comparison. And so there's a balance to strike. It seems to me that you want a woman who is familiar with herself, comfortable with herself, can have orgasms, but you don't want her so stimulated by other means than your tongue or your penis that nothing else is right.
1:11:51🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
Lisa, here's the thing. Here's the key. Move over from the tub experience. So, I mean, you can still go back to that here and there because it's fun, but I recommend the shower massage. But learn how to do it.
1:12:09🔗
Adam
What's he going to do, push his dick out the faucet, though? I mean, how are you going to get that?
1:12:13🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
No, but I mean, he can... Actually, he'd really enjoy it, I think, watching you get off. That would be a great thing. That would be a fun thing to add to it. But, even better, learn how to pleasure yourself with your hand. Really learn how to do that, because once...
1:12:29🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
Get it wet enough. It's a circular motion, honest to God, from around the clitoris, start from the outside in, work around the clitoris.
1:12:43🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
Yeah, no, middle. Middle or index, you have to go with... Yeah, index can be too hard. But you got to go with... You got to figure out how to do it by yourself. Work it up. Use the fantasy in your head. And work up how to do it yourself. Because honestly, it's easier for you to incorporate a lover into what makes you feel good when you know how to make it feel good with, like, just a human.
1:13:18🔗
Adam
We understand the tub concept with you being in the tub and getting the water in your vagina and how good it feels, but you called because you have a problem, right?
1:13:32🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
All right. All I'm saying is this is very physical. Lisa, when you do the tub thing, do you press your butt up against the tub and let the faucet run on top? Oh, yeah. Okay. So you're stretching your thigh muscles when you do that. Those are stretched really tight, right? Okay. So what you need to do when you masturbate is kneel on the bed and stretch those muscles tight. Yeah. Because what you've taught yourself, yeah, what you've taught yourself is that how you get off is with stretching your thigh muscles really tight.
1:14:02🔗
Adam
Couldn't you just be on your back and spread them out? Hold on, smarty-clit. How dare you know me?
1:14:14🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
He's spreading now. He's featuring his package to me, ladies and gentlemen. I'm now looking at Adam Corolla's entire package. He's presenting. It's lovely, by the way.
1:14:29🔗
Adam
I completely agree with you in that she's going to want to get and sort of simulate the positions and the physicality.
1:14:37🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
Well, the physical stretching of it is very important. I've been there, honey. I know.
1:14:43🔗
Adam
But when she's in the tub, she's on her back. Is she not? I'm not arguing with you. I'm using your logic. Just listen. If she's on her back and she has those orgasms in there. That her ass is up against.
1:15:04🔗
Adam
No, not the guy. I think she needs to get on dry land and have herself an orgasm on her own, number one.
1:15:14🔗
Adam
I think. If she's used to being on her back, lean back like I am in my simulated tub chair here, maybe she should just put her feet up against the wall behind the bed and do that diddling with the index.
1:15:27🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
Turn backwards and go up behind the bed. You know what? Good, but not as good as stretching the quads tight, but not as good as being on your knees or your feet. By the way, here's a good one, Lisa. Go up on your toes, raise your toes up like Barbie feet. That works too. Stretching the quads is a really good way to get the clitoris stimulated. But I know what I'm talking about, Adam.
1:15:58🔗
Adam
She could get in that same position, get the same stretch on her quad that she gets in the tub by putting her feet up just against the foot of the bed.
1:16:06🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
Yeah, but then he'd have to learn how to work his tongue like a running faucet. Well, back to the point. And very rarely does that happen.
1:16:35🔗
Adam
Jesus Christ. You got a therapist number on the refrigerator right underneath the fire department. I don't need one.
1:16:47🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
Don't you think he's happier with a mom who knows how to get off than one who's got a bad attitude? I don't know.
1:16:59🔗
Adam
I agree with our guest, Lisa, to all you young ladies who think you can only do something a certain way, which is eventually, just like the primordial swamp, you have to crawl out of that and start to evolve. Experiment. I know right now the tub is the only one that's doing it for you, but you got to get up on dry land and have at it.
1:17:21🔗
Please get the shower massage.
1:17:23🔗
Adam
All right. Someone wants to know if I'm wearing leggings. No, you know what? I'm wearing long johns. I'm wearing a blue long johns. Whatever. I had my feet up over my head and I guess Ann saw my long johns. He's very cold.
1:17:44🔗
Love Line with Adam Corolla and Dr. Drew. We'll be right back.
1:18:14🔗
Adam
Hey, everyone. It's my theme song. Lisa Ann Walter is our guest tonight. We found out she likes to masturbate. She's the sassy and brassy one from Emeril, which is, well, it was on Tuesdays on NBC at 8 o'clock, but now they're pulling it, and then it's going to come back in like December. So you can look for that. And Drew knows her work best from the parent trap, of course.
1:18:44🔗
Deal with the fact that I am gay.
1:18:56🔗
Hello.
1:19:01🔗
Caller
Okay. My fiancee is, we just had a little baby two months ago, and I was wondering if sexual stimulation, if she's breastfeeding, if that's going to take that away.
1:19:17🔗
Drew
Breastfeeding can reduce it, but it's normal for women, whether or not they're breastfeeding, to have a substantial drop off in their sex drive. It's always important to keep on the lookout for postpartum depression which can further make sex drive worse, so there's really three...
1:19:34🔗
Adam
Lisa was telling me that after she had her first child, her sex drive dropped off quite a bit.
1:19:45🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
Now, you know what, Dr. Drew, with all due respect, you know, the postpartum and all that, but there's a reason that breastfeeding reduces your sex drive. It's hormonal, it's God's or whoever's plan's way of keeping you from having babies again because you have a young one that needs your breast all the time.
1:20:03🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
In my experience, it does reduce your sex drive. It does? Yeah, but you know what's fun? When you do orgasm when you're breastfeeding, it shoots out like Old Faithful.
1:20:13🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
Yeah. It's really cool. You're lying there and you could like hold a coffee cup and get milk.
1:20:20🔗
Caller
No, no, no, no, no, no. What I'm saying though is she can't even like stimulate herself too.
1:20:29🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
Yeah. Well, she might be just sore all over. That's a real, that's a serious abdominal surgery, dude. Yeah. Listen, let me tell you something. No, it doesn't kill the nerve endings. But after one month, I could barely walk up a hill. I mean, it is serious abdominal surgery. I needed help to get out of bed. That was only my first eye to see section. It's rough. Just to recuperate from that kind of surgery takes a while.
1:21:07🔗
Drew
Here's the deal. While she's breastfeeding, it's likely to drop off, do primarily the oxytocin release, that sort of thing.
1:21:14🔗
Drew
But it's very common also for women to have a dramatic drop in their sex drive, whether or not they're breastfeeding. And your job, Anthony, is to just cool out a little bit. But she's dealing with raising a child. And then watch out for postpartum depression. Be sensitive to that.
1:21:37🔗
Caller
Okay. I'm actually, for the last two months, I've been going to a underground, I guess, not really a club, but a session every week involving dominating in leather and sadomasochism.
1:21:53🔗
Adam
You know what's weird, Tristan? I didn't look up at the screens, I had no idea what your call was, but from your voice, I was prepared for some sort of cultish-type behavior out of you.
1:22:07🔗
Caller
Yeah, that's what my friend says. Actually, I have a friend that is saying that I'm starting to act more dominating at work and in my life.
1:22:36🔗
Caller
Actually, there's many. See, it goes underneath the building that I go into, and there are many different rooms and setups, so to speak, different scenarios. So I would say at least there's probably 40 to 50 men there, but not all together there, and separate, you know, two in one place.
1:22:57🔗
Adam
And do you have, let's see, I got a few questions. Is there a certain guy or two or three that you seem to run into over there, or is it just grand?
1:23:14🔗
Caller
See, that was one of my concerns, but there's, they actually, they're very, it's a very healthy environment, with the exception of, I mean, there's waivers you have to sign and so forth, to, with regards to certain things, but if there's anything that's bothering you, they...
1:23:29🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
See, a waiver doesn't protect your penis, Tristan. This is what I'm concerned about. If you're having anal, there's not a rubber made that's, like, gonna keep you safe.
1:23:37🔗
Adam
Really? Can't you wrap your penis in the waiver? Well, wait, I want to know what Tristan is doing, though, because there may not necessarily be sex.
1:23:46🔗
Caller
There's some people that are into the suspension part of it, with the piercings and everything.
1:24:03🔗
Caller
I just like to be in a situation where I'm either being dominator or I dominate to wear, I mean, from everything, from wearing leather to whipping the other person or spanking them while getting them off or...
1:24:18🔗
Adam
So, so for you, you, it doesn't matter to you what side you're on, I mean, you could be being dominated or you could be dominating.
1:24:29🔗
Caller
Yeah, it is, but I have my friend that's saying that I'm starting to portray this, I guess, alter ego in my normal life.
1:24:41🔗
Adam
Do you, do you feel like this is getting in the way of you having a, you know, good monogamous relationship?
1:24:48🔗
Caller
That's... Well, I don't know, that's a good point because I've been with somebody for three years now and he doesn't know about it.
1:24:55🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
You know, that gets in the way of monogamy when you're like running off to the S&M club.
1:24:59🔗
Adam
Where... And when you come back with the bruised nipples and sack, he doesn't ask questions?
1:25:18🔗
Adam
Every Tuesday night, and you get down there, and you get the whips and the bondage and the whole thing, and then you go back. Do you live with this guy?
1:25:32🔗
Caller
I work two jobs. I work at a corporation during the daytime and then at night I wait tables. So usually I tell him that I'm at the restaurant.
1:25:46🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
Are you willing to sacrifice the relationship because this is becoming a big thing in your life?
1:25:55🔗
Caller
be honest with him and stop doing it, but it's like a fetish type of scenario that I really...
1:26:01🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
Yeah, it does sound fetishy. Why don't you bring him in to what you like to do? Would he be at all interested, do you think?
1:26:12🔗
Caller
Completely, and it's understandable. It's nothing that I've ever even thought of doing before until...
1:26:17🔗
Adam
Okay, well let me ask you this. Do you feel like this is a slippery slope? Like you're getting a little momentum with this and you're spinning out?
1:26:26🔗
Caller
That's what I'm wondering. I'm just wondering if after being four years in a relationship, if I'm wanting to look at different things or maybe I'm bored with this scenario or I don't know.
1:26:38🔗
Adam
Well, why don't you... I mean, I think, and Drew, you can weigh in, but with any kind of addiction or budding addiction, it seems like the best way to see if you can do without is to try to do without.
1:27:00🔗
Caller
I mean, in the first two weeks there was nothing involved. You go through a guest program as well.
1:27:34🔗
Caller
Well, it's not that as much as... I guess I feel that I don't get enough out of my relationship. It's grown kind of, what's the word? Stacked.
1:27:45🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
Yeah, but don't blame the relationship being stale on the fact that now you like spanking. I mean, you've just discovered a new thing that really gets you off.
1:27:54🔗
Adam
Well, look, let's wrap it up. We'll take a vote. I think he ought to end the relationship that he's in currently.
1:28:12🔗
Drew
It is reasonable for him to consider this a possible sexual compulsion or addiction. And I agree, stopping for a while and seeing how he feels about that. If he becomes depressed or agitated or starts craving it, that's a sign that he's got a problem.
1:28:32🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
Like, see, it worries me because, like, for a while, it seemed like people were, you know, starting to get a little more responsible in the gay world. And now that the specter of AIDS has dimmed because people have lived for a few years, it's all gone completely nuts again. And people are doing these rages with 9,000 people and so on.
1:28:52🔗
Drew
It's even worse because people are living decades with this virus and they can live to spread it. If they engage in these big group things, there's really opportunity for more exposure.
1:29:02🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
And again, this guy is young, I bet you he's the star there. He's probably, you know, got a lot of attention on him.
1:29:08🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
Exactly. Exactly. It's going to be, he's going to be the center of attention.
1:29:14🔗
Adam
It is, besides the heavy recycling, which I really respect them for, it's always going to be debaucherous because-
1:29:22🔗
Adam
That's right. Not only is it debaucherous because it's guys deciding on when and how much sex we should have.
1:29:42🔗
Adam
Absolutely. But it's always going to be a little debaucherous. And the number two thing is these are guys that are usually not held back too much by things like, you know, religion and family and stuff like that. They're gay, for Christ's sake. They're on the hunt.
1:29:57🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
It's not that they're not held back by religion and family. It's just that it's all hidden. It's all secretive, which, you know, it was why you're in a dungeon on Tuesday night.
1:30:17🔗
Adam
Hell bent for the leather. But, you know, there's even an extra added sort of edge of its payback time. So it's always going to be a mess. So everyone put a condom on.
1:30:29🔗
Adam
And we'll be back. Hey, everybody. Lisa Ann Walter is here from the Emeril and the Parent Trap and all that stuff. We're just having an interesting, heady discussion on the NAFTA Treaty and whether that's helped her, the North American economy.
1:31:21🔗
Adam
Actually, she was talking about ass effing, as she would say in the spread of AIDS. Hey, Drew?
1:31:41🔗
Caller
My question for Drew. Okay. I read up on the symptoms for TSS, toxic shock syndrome. And I have a lot of the symptoms, but I'm also a methamphetamine user. And I don't know if those symptoms could be because of that, too.
1:32:05🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
And wait, Drew, I had toxic shock when I was 18. And you are in the hospital with a very high fever. And you'd know. Diana, you'd know. You'd know the minute your fever started spiking upwards of 104.
1:32:21🔗
Drew
You get a terrible rash, high fevers, kidneys start to fail. It's very rapidly progressive, and it's not something you walk around with and call radio shows.
1:32:32🔗
Adam
But something like being a meth addict, well that can make you think you have certain things that maybe you don't have.
1:32:47🔗
Drew
Yeah. You have a fatal condition. It's called addiction. And that's what needs to be dealt with.
1:32:55🔗
Drew
All right. Don't worry about toxic shock. Worry about your amphetamine addiction. That is a serious and potentially life-threatening problem.
1:33:01🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
Where do you think you got the toxic shock? I mean, what is it in your head that's playing, that's making you think that's what it is?
1:33:11🔗
Caller
Well, because of all the systems that I have and because I have used like, my mom always buys bigger tampons than I need.
1:33:23🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
But you replace them? You replace them like you're supposed to? I mean, every-
1:33:28🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
But you've left one in for 12 hours and now you think you've got toxic shock?
1:33:40🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
It's just a little dry and uncomfortable, but that's not going to give you toxic shock. You have to leave one in like two days and even then it's not guaranteed. There's a whole lot of other things that come into play.
1:33:49🔗
Drew
Diana, you're thinking is not right. I'm very worried about this amphetamine problem. That is a, for drop everything else and focus on the amphetamine addiction.
1:34:05🔗
Adam
All right. Well, stick with it and give it up, please. It's the worst, most insidious habit of them all.
1:34:25🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
That's a problem though. If you've ever had one that's too big, it's uncomfortable.
1:34:36🔗
Adam
Yeah, like when they'd buy tennis shoes for nine-year-olds. Like you buy them a size and a half big.
1:34:41🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
Hey, listen, I've had four kids, I still use a slender. It's called Kegels, honey. It works.
1:34:54🔗
Adam
You're 18. Yeah. I'm going to read your question. You want to know if it's safe for you to sell your eggs for thousands?
1:35:39🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
That's good. Why are you selling your eggs, honey? Just go rack up the bucks doing, you know, like transmission.
1:35:50🔗
Caller
I'm really not interested that much in the money. I'm more like interested in just like doing something for somebody else.
1:35:58🔗
Adam
Oh, that's nice. Drew? Yeah. What about, how involved is it for them to stimulate the women and get the eggs there?
1:36:05🔗
Drew
Well, it's a pretty involved process. The ovaries have to be hyper stimulated and we really don't know the long-term consequences of that. There's some concern that may increase the risk of ovarian cancer and things can go wrong. The ovaries can actually become so large and stimulated, they actually outstrip their blood supply and can die.
1:36:25🔗
Drew
No, I'm just saying, I want her to know it's not without risk. To get the eggs, they have to go in and either stick a needle through the vaginal wall or actually do a laparoscopy, which is kind of a surgery.
1:36:34🔗
Adam
Here's my point. Would they harvest an egg from somebody who had kids just to give one away?
1:36:47🔗
Caller
All right, guys. Here's the deal. You're looking to hook up, sick of wasting time with the wrong person?
1:37:46🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
I'm sure it's already been out and back. What else? Oh, Strong Medicine on November 18th on Lifetime.
1:37:54🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
Oh, come on. It's really fun. I play a comic who's trying to break into the waitress at a comedy club is trying to break in the business is lying to everybody that she's 35 and she's really 50 and going through menopause. And I'd wear age makeup. It was great.
1:38:12🔗
Lisa Ann Walter
Well, you know, it's got Rosa Blasey. She's hot. She's going to be a maxim.
1:38:24🔗
Adam
Rosa Blasey's been in? Oh yeah, she's dynamite. She's one of our best guests. I know her well. We went out for a beer after the show. All right, well, we'll get her back in here. Thanks, Lisa. We do appreciate it.
1:38:49🔗
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