Wednesday, May 23, 2001

0:53🔗 Voiceover Loveline is meant for an adult audience.

0:55🔗 Voiceover Loveline may contain sexually oriented goods. 1-800-LOVE-191 with Dr. Drew and Adam Corolla.

1:07🔗 Voiceover Listener discretion is advised. Adam Corolla and Dr. Drew. Loveline, coast to coast.

1:19🔗 Adam Yep, it is Loveline. Again, I'm Adam Corolla, that is Dr. Drew over there. Phone number 1-800-LLVE-191. Dr. Drew is a board certified physician and addiction medicine specialist. Jerri Manthey is our guest tonight. She is of course Jerri from Survivor. She's got a real good looking one with a lot of hair. You guys definitely know from Survivor. Oh yeah. Well, it's true. And what the hell? How did you keep that hair going during that shoot?

1:49🔗 Jerri Manthey I have no idea. I've been asked that a lot by women with curly hair. I really don't know. I was sure I was going to get out there and look like Tina Turner at some point, but I got lucky.

1:59🔗 Adam You know, every time I saw Survivor, all I could really think about is what if I got a white head? And would I walk around with that white head on my face?

2:08🔗 Drew You wouldn't know it.

2:09🔗 Adam Yeah. For six weeks.

2:10🔗 Drew Right.

2:10🔗 Adam I mean, would somebody tell you?

2:13🔗 Jerri Manthey Did you?

2:13🔗 Drew The camera guys?

2:14🔗 Adam Did people groom other people like what chimps do with each other?

2:18🔗 Jerri Manthey You know, we kind of made a pact at some point to, you know, let the other one know if there's something in your teeth, you got a booger in your nose, something like that. Because there's cameras everywhere and you don't want to, you know, you don't want to make a fool out of yourself.

2:30🔗 Adam How much, how much filming went on on an average day?

2:35🔗 Jerri Manthey Oh, God, there was, there's always two beta cams running in like four to five digital video cameras, handhelds, running around 24-7.

2:43🔗 Adam Oh, really?

2:44🔗 Drew Yeah. So, I mean, so you wake up in the middle of the night, there's still a guy running a camera.

2:48🔗 Jerri Manthey Yep, they had the infrared thing going on.

2:51🔗 Adam So, they would have people standing around.

2:53🔗 Drew Just think about what that would look like in your life. Oh, the humanity. It's crazy. Can you imagine a camera on U24? Oh, my God.

3:02🔗 Jerri Manthey It's frightening.

3:04🔗 Adam And what did you bring? I mean, what was the-

3:07🔗 Jerri Manthey As my luxury item?

3:08🔗 Adam Yeah.

3:09🔗 Jerri Manthey A bongo drum.

3:10🔗 Adam Really?

3:11🔗 Jerri Manthey Yeah.

3:12🔗 Adam What the hell is that for?

3:13🔗 Jerri Manthey They don't let you take things that would actually work.

3:16🔗 Drew Help you, yeah.

3:16🔗 Jerri Manthey Yeah, like, you can't take knives, you can't take any toiletries.

3:20🔗 Drew I talked to Mad Dog, and she said the greatest luxury she had was being menopausal. Oh.

3:27🔗 Yes, Adam, yes.

3:29🔗 Drew Yeah. And that the little survivor bandanas became multipurpose.

3:34🔗 Really?

3:35🔗 Jerri Manthey Oh, my God. That's what he said. She would say that. And that's why we love her, because she doesn't change for anybody. She's not embarrassed.

3:42🔗 Adam I mean, they didn't give you tampons?

3:44🔗 Jerri Manthey Oh, yeah, of course they did.

3:45🔗 Adam Oh, they did?

3:46🔗 Jerri Manthey Of course. They have to. I mean, that would give the men way too much of an advantage.

3:51🔗 Adam Yeah.

3:52🔗 Jerri Manthey And they already had an advantage. Not having to deal with their cycle.

3:57🔗 Adam Yeah, except for they had to live with the women who were having theirs. Oh, yes. Under the same car. I mean, could you imagine?

4:05🔗 Drew All cycling together.

4:06🔗 Adam Yeah. I mean, you can't make it from your with your wife from South Pasadena into Brentwood in a in a luxury SUV without going insane when she's on the rag, right?

4:16🔗 Drew No.

4:16🔗 Adam Could you imagine being stranded out on some patch of sand?

4:20🔗 Jerri Manthey Oh, my God.

4:21🔗 Adam Did you guys sync up at all or were you there long enough?

4:25🔗 Jerri Manthey No, we didn't. See, some of the girls thought that by taking the pill through their whole period, they wouldn't get their period, and they ended up getting it the entire time they were out there.

4:33🔗 Drew Because of the diet problems. Yeah. They were losing weight and they weren't eating.

4:36🔗 Jerri Manthey Interesting. The crazy part is that all of us are still dealing with trying to get our bodies back on cycle.

4:45🔗 Drew Yeah. Just that cycle. But in the tricholinal, you feel okay, you feel good.

4:49🔗 Jerri Manthey No. Maybe I could talk to you about this a little bit. Yeah. The physical effects of this thing.

4:54🔗 Drew Got to be profound.

4:55🔗 Jerri Manthey Were so brutal. Yeah. It's taken months and months to be able to digest food normally again. Because when you starve yourself, then you start eating again, you just blow up like a balloon, and that's quite frightening.

5:08🔗 Drew Did they have someone follow you or monitor that or anything?

5:10🔗 Jerri Manthey No.

5:10🔗 Drew That's not so smart.

5:11🔗 Jerri Manthey That was my main concern, actually, when they asked me if you could change one thing. I was like, you guys really need to get a nutritionist on board.

5:19🔗 Drew Yeah.

5:19🔗 Jerri Manthey We had no idea what was going on with our bodies.

5:21🔗 Drew You guys were going to start eating rice for three weeks.

5:23🔗 Jerri Manthey Yeah. Yeah, it was horrific.

5:25🔗 Adam What was the worst thing you ate? What did you eat during that grub challenge where you had to spin that thing around? What did you put in your mouth?

5:34🔗 Jerri Manthey It was a mangrove shellfish. It was very similar to an oyster, but it was like five times the size. It had a tail about six inches long. And it had cartilage inside of it. So when you chewed it, it crunched.

5:48🔗 Oh, it was pretty bad.

5:51🔗 Adam I can barely eat jumbo shrimp.

5:52🔗 Drew Did you get bloat child at that point?

5:54🔗 Jerri Manthey No, I sucked it down. I got it down, but I gagged a couple of times.

5:59🔗 Adam Was there something else? Did you do two or just one?

6:01🔗 Jerri Manthey I just had to do one. There were some people that had to do two. And there were a couple of things on there that were horrible. There was this big yellow bug. It was about six inches long. It had big eyes and pinchers. That was the only thing I did.

6:15🔗 Drew Somebody had to eat that?

6:16🔗 Jerri Manthey No, no one had to. But someone had to eat a really large grasshopper.

6:21🔗 Adam Yeah, it's so painful. I know why you would put yourself through it. Did you do it for the money? Did you do it for the challenge? Did you do it for the exposure or all of the above?

6:33🔗 Jerri Manthey I actually applied for the first one before anybody knew it was going to be this huge hit. And the reason I applied was because of the whole adventure aspect. Because I go camping a lot.

6:43🔗 Adam You do?

6:43🔗 Jerri Manthey Yeah, I do. And to push myself physically and mentally to that degree was, it just enticed me.

6:50🔗 Adam Really?

6:50🔗 Jerri Manthey Yeah.

6:51🔗 Adam Why don't you just sit out in your yard for a weekend and not eat anything?

6:55🔗 Jerri Manthey Because you know what? No, because there's no way. If you know what's in there, you're going to eat it.

6:59🔗 Adam Yeah.

6:59🔗 Jerri Manthey But when you're out there, you're craving things and you know you can't have them. And there's something, it almost drives you to a point of mania, which is what happened to me when I was craving chocolate. I about lost my mind.

7:10🔗 Adam Did you, have you gotten offers from Playboy and other places like that? I'm sure you have. Yeah?

7:16🔗 Jerri Manthey I'm negotiating with them.

7:17🔗 Adam Oh really? Yeah. Smart. Now here's the thing though. I mean, you have to kind of strike while the iron is hot, correct? We can't let too much time go by.

7:26🔗 Jerri Manthey Yeah. There's definitely a period of time that I think people are really after all of us. But with me, it's a little bit different because I was doing the acting thing before I even went on Survivor.

7:39🔗 Adam Right.

7:39🔗 Jerri Manthey And so I've kind of gone through the process of rejection and-

7:44🔗 Adam Are you going to do it?

7:45🔗 Jerri Manthey Absolutely.

7:45🔗 Adam Oh good.

7:46🔗 Jerri Manthey Absolutely. This is a great opportunity for me.

7:48🔗 Adam Well, would you have done it, would you have done Playboy a year ago for 10 grand?

7:55🔗 Jerri Manthey No.

7:55🔗 Adam You wouldn't have?

7:56🔗 Jerri Manthey No.

7:57🔗 Adam Would you have done it for 50 grand?

7:59🔗 Drew But remember, it's not for the money, right? And it happens to be she can get a lot of money, but she's doing it because it keeps the momentum going.

8:07🔗 Adam Well, she wouldn't have done it for the 10 grand though.

8:09🔗 Jerri Manthey Well, it's just a matter of can they give me what I want from the deal? And not just monetary, but also creatively as well. I see this for me as a way to express myself as a woman and make a stand.

8:24🔗 Adam Well, I mean, everyone looks good in that magazine, right? I mean, they take women in their mid fifties that come out looking pretty good. I mean, they're going to put you in a survivor. They'll put you in a survivor motif, won't they?

8:38🔗 Jerri Manthey No, no.

8:39🔗 Adam You don't want that?

8:40🔗 Jerri Manthey No, this is nothing to do with survivor if I in fact do it.

8:43🔗 Adam But they will advertise you as Jerri from Survivor.

8:47🔗 Jerri Manthey No, they can't.

8:47🔗 Adam They can?

8:48🔗 Jerri Manthey CBS wouldn't let them.

8:50🔗 Drew That sounds like CBS.

8:51🔗 Adam So is that part of your contract with CBS?

8:54🔗 Jerri Manthey I'm still in a huge contract with CBS. They pretty much owned me for a little while.

8:59🔗 Adam And so if you did Playboy, it would just be Jerri, you know from where? Jerri Manthey. Right, but wouldn't they have to hedge that?

9:10🔗 Jerri Manthey No, people know. Without saying from Survivor, people know.

9:13🔗 Adam All right, what kind of money are we talking about?

9:16🔗 Jerri Manthey I can't discuss that.

9:17🔗 Adam How come nobody? I talk about whatever money anyone pays me on this show. What do you care, the IRS?

9:22🔗 Drew They'll pay you crap, that's why.

9:26🔗 Adam No, but people have asked me what I've gotten paid for those crappy phone commercials I did.

9:31🔗 Jerri Manthey You tell them? Because I think that's nobody's business.

9:33🔗 Adam Who cares? I got paid 250 grand. I did like five and a half commercials. That's why I did it.

9:41🔗 Jerri Manthey Wow, that's pretty good.

9:42🔗 Adam Yeah, it's not bad.

9:42🔗 Jerri Manthey That's nice.

9:43🔗 Adam Right. But if you're on TV or you're doing radio, I mean, don't-

9:49🔗 Jerri Manthey He whined about it.

9:52🔗 Drew He wanted residuals.

9:53🔗 Adam No, I did not. How dare you? I thought they were idiots for paying me. I just want to know, it's not like the tax man isn't going to find out. It's not like you got to worry about it. Are we in the- We're into six figures.

10:05🔗 Jerri Manthey I can't discuss it.

10:07🔗 Adam Why can't you? Does someone tell you can't?

10:08🔗 Drew Because they're still negotiating.

10:10🔗 Jerri Manthey Yeah. It would hurt me if I discussed numbers right now.

10:14🔗 Adam There's a weird stigma in this society about that. Where I come from, you make money, you brag about how much. You get a nice pinky ring, and you gold anodize the hubcaps on your Cadillac, and a nice big fur fedora, and a purple duster, and you're really advertised.

10:29🔗 Jerri Manthey You're the kind of guy that leaves town and tells everyone you're going out of town too, right?

10:33🔗 Adam Under a million or above a million?

10:36🔗 Jerri Manthey I'm not going there.

10:37🔗 Adam You know what I'm saying? I'm thinking about 500 grand. That's what I'm thinking.

10:44🔗 Drew Yeah, I think that's about right.

10:46🔗 Jerri Manthey I'm not going there.

10:47🔗 Adam Really? You wouldn't have done it otherwise. I mean, this is for the money.

10:52🔗 Jerri Manthey No, it's not. It's not.

10:55🔗 Adam Why do it then? Why negotiate? Why don't just take what they give you?

11:00🔗 Jerri Manthey Well, I'm not stupid.

11:01🔗 Adam All right. So it's for the money. That's the other thing too. It's not. Why can't people dismiss they do stuff for money?

11:07🔗 Jerri Manthey Because it's not. There's more to it for me than that. It's, I mean, I think Playboy is a very respectable magazine. And I think it's an opportunity to be immortalized.

11:17🔗 Adam Right.

11:18🔗 Jerri Manthey You know, in 20 years, I probably won't want to take my clothes off for anybody.

11:22🔗 Adam We won't want you to take them off.

11:24🔗 Jerri Manthey Well, I'll actually do whatever I can to make sure I want to.

11:27🔗 Adam It's for the money or you wouldn't be negotiating so much. All right.

11:31🔗 Jerri Manthey It's also for creative control.

11:33🔗 Adam All right. Matt?

11:36🔗 Yeah.

11:36🔗 Adam You're 16.

11:37🔗 Caller Yeah.

11:38🔗 Adam It's not for the money. Now, what's your question?

11:41🔗 Caller My question is, every time I ejaculate after waiting to masturbate for a while, it feels like it's solid.

11:50🔗 Drew How long? How long do you wait?

11:53🔗 Caller About a week or a little longer.

11:55🔗 Drew Oh, Adam.

11:56🔗 Adam At 16?

11:58🔗 Caller Yeah.

11:59🔗 Adam That's a lifetime. What are you thinking? What happened?

12:02🔗 Drew You mean there's like chunks in it? Is that what you're talking about?

12:05🔗 Caller Yeah, there's chunks and it seems like it's all one long string, but then it kind of breaks up.

12:12🔗 Drew Bad time.

12:13🔗 Jerri Manthey I have never heard of anything like that.

12:14🔗 Drew That's a new one on me too. The chunks certainly I've heard of.

12:17🔗 Jerri Manthey What kind of diet do you have?

12:19🔗 Caller A normal diet.

12:20🔗 Drew This is a sort of stagnant semen syndrome.

12:24🔗 Adam Why don't you get going more than once a week? That's light for a 16 year old.

12:29🔗 Jerri Manthey Yeah, keep the pipes moving.

12:30🔗 Adam That's right.

12:32🔗 Caller I was thinking, obviously I don't know who else would be calling you, but I was thinking maybe waiting that long clogs it up or something.

12:39🔗 Drew Well, it just...

12:41🔗 Adam Well, listen, if that's what your theory is, why don't you try to test your theory by putting yourself down for three or four times a week and see how it works?

12:50🔗 Caller Well, actually, this hasn't happened for a while. I just...

12:54🔗 Drew He hasn't made it that way. There's nothing to worry about, okay? Relax, relax. I'm sure it's fine.

12:58🔗 Adam All right?

12:59🔗 Caller Yeah, thanks. All right.

13:00🔗 Drew Just a reminder from God.

13:01🔗 Adam He's a real genius, this kid.

13:03🔗 Jerri Manthey Cut down on carbohydrates.

13:06🔗 Adam It's always funny when I get angry at the teens for not masturbating anymore. Heather?

13:12🔗 Yeah?

13:12🔗 Adam You're 17?

13:13🔗 Caller Yes.

13:14🔗 Adam What's up?

13:15🔗 Caller Let's see. I've got a couple of questions. One, the last couple of guys that I've dated, like we had this really big thing with sex, you know? And I enjoyed like, you know, pleasuring them or whatever. But this guy that I'm dating right now, I like him a whole lot. And he's not really into, I mean, he likes to have sex and everything, but he's not into it as often as my previous boyfriend.

13:41🔗 Drew And what's the question?

13:43🔗 Caller So it's like, so it's kind of hard for me to get off of it. Like, I'm really into sex, you know? But at the same time, like after I'm done having sex, I feel bad about it because, I mean, it's not necessarily like he doesn't necessarily want to, but it's like he's doing it more than I want to, than he wants to. I mean, this isn't like all the time, but this is-

14:04🔗 Drew How often are you guys actually doing it?

14:06🔗 Caller Probably three, four times a week.

14:09🔗 Drew And why does it make you feel bad to initiate?

14:13🔗 Caller I don't know, because sometimes she's just not in the mood.

14:15🔗 Drew Yeah, but that's fine. But guys go through that all the time.

14:18🔗 Adam I know, but women don't want to press it.

14:20🔗 Drew I mean, they want to be desired. Yeah, but that's right. And usually what women will do when they don't like to initiate is they won't. But she goes ahead and then feels guilty about it. And my point is that, hey, it's okay. Why feel bad about it?

14:31🔗 Adam I'm getting a little more of a vibe off of Heather than just this.

14:33🔗 Drew That's where I'm going. I know, I understand.

14:35🔗 Adam Why don't you go there, though, Drew?

14:37🔗 Drew So-

14:38🔗 Adam How old is this guy?

14:39🔗 Caller He's 19.

14:40🔗 Adam 19. And you've had a few boyfriends. Do you think you're sexually addicted?

14:50🔗 Caller Kind of.

14:51🔗 Drew Compulsed. See, what I think is these other guys participated with her in the compulsion, and that sort of supported her thing. And now she's confronted with a more real relationship, with their real feelings, and she's conflicted and feels guilty, and doesn't know how she feels about her sexuality all of a sudden, because you can't just use it compulsively the way you used to.

15:07🔗 Adam Also, sometimes when guys feel a little bit of compulsion sprinkled in with that sexuality, they freak out a little and try to get a little distance. Heather, were you ever sexually abused?

15:21🔗 Caller Um, yeah.

15:23🔗 Adam Okay, so now we're getting somewhere.

15:25🔗 Caller When I was like two by a girl, which is...

15:28🔗 Drew Have you been with women?

15:30🔗 Caller Not, well, kind of. I mean, like, I've made out with them and stuff like that, but that's my other question also.

15:36🔗 Drew Which is?

15:37🔗 Caller Um, I've actually, like, I... When I'm, like, getting off, you know, when I masturbate, like, I think about, like, girls, but I'm hetero.

15:45🔗 Drew I'm completely hetero. Well, I mean, the way to think about this, Heather, well, but she... The way to think about this is that somebody sort of soldered your wires together at a premature age, okay? And the kind of arousal that that resulted in was directed... was caused by a female. And so naturally enough, a lot of your sort of sexual arousal, when you hit puberty, then comes directed at a female. That's sort of how that works.

16:05🔗 Adam How old was the female that molested you?

16:08🔗 Caller Well, if she was sexually abused too, I think she... I believe she was like seven or eight.

16:12🔗 Drew Yeah, that's usually what happens. The child... un-child sexual abuse is very, very common.

16:17🔗 Adam How about after that?

16:19🔗 Drew You get raped or anything? You never got raped or anything like that?

16:21🔗 Caller No, but I didn't have sex a lot with this one guy that kind of like mentally abused me.

16:28🔗 Drew Yeah.

16:28🔗 Adam Where's your dad?

16:30🔗 Caller My dad... I don't live with my dad, but he... we have a really good relationship.

16:34🔗 Drew How was it like when you were living with him?

16:37🔗 Caller It was good. Me too. I don't have my mom a lot.

16:40🔗 Drew So you have all kinds of great feelings about men probably.

16:42🔗 Caller Wow.

16:43🔗 Drew Yeah. So it's a full plate there, you know? And it's natural enough that you have conflicted feelings.

16:48🔗 Adam This is what the guys are feeling, by the way. I mean, they don't know how to sort it out, but they're feeling like this weird energy that's more than sex, and I think it freaks them out sometimes. And if you can find another guy that's a little bit screwed up, he'll dive right in.

17:00🔗 Drew That's what she's had last couple of boyfriends. She's had other compulsive guys.

17:03🔗 Adam This new guy is probably not as whacked out as your other guys.

17:07🔗 No, he's a really great guy.

17:08🔗 Drew Yeah, it's a real relationship, and that's why all these funny feelings, because you're really having a relationship. You're not just using sex as a way of gratifying some feelings.

17:16🔗 Caller Well, I also dated him like two years ago when I was 15, and we broke up, but I haven't talked to him for like two years, and then we got back together.

17:25🔗 Drew Well, just listen. Stay with the guy. We think things are fine. Don't feel guilty when you initiate sex. Realize he's going to push back a little bit because you've got a little excessive energy around sexuality. You sexualize everything because you're sexually abused. If you really want to do something about this, get some treatment.

17:40🔗 Caller Okay.

17:40🔗 Drew Okay?

17:41🔗 Caller Thank you.

17:42🔗 Adam All right, Heather.

17:42🔗 Caller All right. Talk to you later.

17:45🔗 Adam I was just thinking that's like a sensible little call. I had a little beginning, middle, and some actual advice.

17:50🔗 Caller Full story.

17:51🔗 Drew You actually look kind of shocked.

17:52🔗 Adam Nothing entertaining about it, but it may have just helped somebody. Very rare here on Loveline. You may be our good luck charm. Brandon?

18:03🔗 Yes.

18:03🔗 Adam What's up?

18:05🔗 Caller I was wanting to know my girlfriend.

18:09🔗 She has a period every five, six months. She doesn't have a period that often. I was going to know what her chances are of getting pregnant. Wow.

18:17🔗 Drew Well, if you have sex with her.

18:20🔗 Jerri Manthey That sounds like heaven.

18:21🔗 Drew Yeah. Not having a period regularly.

18:23🔗 She hasn't had a period in a while.

18:24🔗 Drew Yeah. Just because she doesn't have a period doesn't mean she doesn't ovulate.

18:28🔗 Yeah.

18:29🔗 Caller That's what she told me. She never knows when she's ovulating.

18:31🔗 Drew That's right. So she can get pregnant anytime. She's obviously a little less likely, but it can happen anytime.

18:37🔗 Caller Yeah.

18:37🔗 We've only been together for a couple of months now, but she hasn't had a period in about five months.

18:41🔗 Drew Well, do not think it's game on. She still needs to get on the pill. You guys need to use condoms.

18:45🔗 Adam Hey, does she still have any mood during any time of the month?

18:50🔗 No. Basically, she has a consistent mood.

18:53🔗 Adam Wow.

18:54🔗 Drew Has she been evaluated for this?

18:56🔗 Jerri Manthey Where do I sign up for that problem?

18:57🔗 She's actually been to doctors. Because a couple of times before when she had a period, she bled pretty badly. And she's been to doctors before.

19:03🔗 Drew All right. So she's been looked at and serious going on. Some women have real regular periods.

19:07🔗 Jerri Manthey Wow.

19:07🔗 Adam Yeah.

19:08🔗 I mean, is this normal?

19:09🔗 Drew It's not normal, but it doesn't necessarily mean there's something drastic going on.

19:12🔗 Adam We hear about it all the time.

19:13🔗 Jerri Manthey Definitely not normal.

19:14🔗 Adam Jerri, you're really ramped up in this whole period.

19:19🔗 Jerri Manthey I'm amazed.

19:20🔗 Drew That what? That someone cannot bleed for five months?

19:22🔗 Jerri Manthey Yeah.

19:22🔗 Drew You can get on the Depo Provera and not bleed for as long as you take it.

19:25🔗 Jerri Manthey I don't believe in pumping on natural hormones into my body. If they're not in there already, they're not getting in there.

19:30🔗 Adam Well, what do you use for birth control?

19:32🔗 Jerri Manthey Condoms.

19:33🔗 Adam Condoms?

19:33🔗 Jerri Manthey Yeah.

19:34🔗 Adam All right. Well, I don't use condoms, so this is going to be an issue. This is going to be a serious stumbling point.

19:39🔗 Jerri Manthey How often do you get tested?

19:41🔗 Adam Drew gives me test every night. Is that right, Drew?

19:45🔗 Drew Yeah, it's the dipstick.

19:46🔗 Adam He gives me test every night. Listen, we'll start with oral sex, and then we'll just work our way into other things. We'll see where the relationship goes.

19:55🔗 Drew Let's ask you some questions about Survivor, because everybody wants to know about that. Go ahead. Did you have a relationship with Colby, really?

20:02🔗 Jerri Manthey No.

20:02🔗 Drew Did that ever get going?

20:04🔗 Jerri Manthey No, it didn't.

20:05🔗 Drew Do you think that was just being alone on a desert island with someone versus, was it strategy or was it just boredom?

20:13🔗 Adam Drew, what an allegation.

20:14🔗 Drew No, I could say.

20:15🔗 Adam Strategy.

20:16🔗 Jerri Manthey Well, I mean, initially we were attracted to each other.

20:21🔗 Drew And would you think if you guys had been at a busy bar that would have been there too or is that just because you were at a desert island alone?

20:27🔗 Jerri Manthey No, I think we kind of gave up the same energy and it was attractive to both of us. But when you're playing this game, there's no trust. And for me, that's the basis of everything. So when you start looking at someone and you start wondering why they're saying and doing the things that they're saying and doing, then I just kind of.

20:48🔗 Adam Did he have a girlfriend back wherever he was from?

20:51🔗 Jerri Manthey I think he has many girlfriends.

20:53🔗 Adam Really?

20:53🔗 Jerri Manthey Yeah.

20:54🔗 Adam Yeah. I don't like, I don't trust that guy. You know why?

20:57🔗 Jerri Manthey He knows how to work a room.

20:58🔗 Adam You know why? Because he's one of these good looking athletic type guys who plays it off like he doesn't think he's much of anything. Very interesting angle.

21:08🔗 Jerri Manthey I don't see. I don't agree with that.

21:10🔗 Adam Oh, you don't?

21:10🔗 Jerri Manthey I think he was kind of a nerd at some point. And I think-

21:14🔗 Adam Well, he may be-

21:15🔗 Drew He made compensation for that.

21:17🔗 Jerri Manthey Yeah. He blossomed and I think now he's out of control.

21:21🔗 Adam Well, but he's not an egomaniac. He plays it off as humble and homespun, doesn't he?

21:27🔗 Jerri Manthey Editing is a very powerful storytelling tool.

21:31🔗 Adam Well, so that's- Oh. But doesn't he try to come across that way?

21:36🔗 Jerri Manthey Yeah. You know what? He's very charming. He's very charming and he is a nice guy.

21:39🔗 Adam I don't mean that he's not evil or an evil geek deep inside. I just mean he's playing it right.

21:48🔗 Jerri Manthey Yeah. You know what? I'll totally give him kudos for that. He knows how to work a room. He really does.

21:53🔗 Adam So did you fall in love with him?

21:55🔗 Jerri Manthey Oh, God, no.

21:56🔗 Adam Really?

21:57🔗 Jerri Manthey It takes me a while to fall in love.

21:58🔗 Really?

21:59🔗 Jerri Manthey Yeah.

21:59🔗 Really?

22:00🔗 Adam You couldn't have done it in a few weeks?

22:03🔗 Jerri Manthey Fallen in love or had sex?

22:04🔗 Adam Oh, whatever. I mean, you could have developed a pretty major crush on the guy.

22:09🔗 Jerri Manthey He wasn't that perfect.

22:11🔗 Adam All right.

22:12🔗 Jerri Manthey Listen, I just, you know what? I was attracted to him and I have no qualms about flirting with someone if I'm attracted to him. But it got weird with cameras around and he said things to me off camera that didn't make the show, that kind of led me on. And he played me.

22:30🔗 Adam Like what? Like when we get off out of this place, we're going to get together, that kind of stuff? Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. So, I mean, you guys were talking about dating or going out or getting together when you, I kept wanting to say get off the island, but get out of the continent.

22:49🔗 Jerri Manthey We did have that conversation.

22:51🔗 Adam Yeah. At what point of the show or of your stay, like what day was that? How far into it were you?

22:58🔗 Jerri Manthey Like a couple of days.

22:59🔗 Caller Really?

23:01🔗 Adam Son of a bitch. How many days total were you on the continent, or were you in the outback?

23:07🔗 Jerri Manthey 27.

23:08🔗 Drew That was you or the whole show took 27 days?

23:11🔗 Jerri Manthey The whole show was 42 days. I was out there 27, but I made the jury, so I had to come back every three days up until the final 42 were over.

23:19🔗 Adam And when you left, did you think there was going to be something going on with you and Kobe?

23:23🔗 Jerri Manthey No.

23:24🔗 Adam No, you figured it out by then?

23:25🔗 Jerri Manthey Yeah, because I noticed that he was kind of throwing flirtations to other girls out there.

23:32🔗 Drew Well, it seemed like by the time you guys were on that thing you did where you stole the coral and violated international laws.

23:40🔗 Jerri Manthey Yeah, which is why I didn't take any.

23:43🔗 Drew Oh, he took it?

23:43🔗 Jerri Manthey He took it, yeah.

23:45🔗 Drew There was already some boundaries and stuff, but they were pretty clear and it wasn't too weird, was it, at that point?

23:50🔗 Jerri Manthey No, he was still flirting with me, even then, and like I said, I can give him full credit for playing me the way he did.

23:59🔗 Adam You're kind of angry at him, right?

24:01🔗 Jerri Manthey No, I'm not angry.

24:03🔗 Adam Think he's a dick?

24:04🔗 Jerri Manthey No, I'm not angry at him. I'm just kind of disappointed because I don't think it was necessary in the context of the game to play that kind of game.

24:12🔗 Drew Oh, you think that was strategy on his part?

24:15🔗 Jerri Manthey Well, I never voted for him, so it might have been. But some of the things he said were unnecessary.

24:22🔗 Adam Wow.

24:22🔗 Jerri Manthey Yeah, I was a little bit hurt. A little bit hurt by it, but...

24:26🔗 Adam But you're okay now?

24:27🔗 Jerri Manthey I'm fine.

24:28🔗 Adam Okay.

24:28🔗 Jerri Manthey I'm doing quite well, actually.

24:29🔗 Adam You're attracted to either me or Drew at all?

24:34🔗 Jerri Manthey Not really? Maybe.

24:35🔗 Adam A little bit?

24:36🔗 Jerri Manthey I don't know. I don't know you well enough.

24:37🔗 Adam All right. Takes her a while. Oh, yes. All right, we will take ourselves a little break. Jerri from Survivors, our guest tonight. When we come back, we'll speak to Tom, Thomas 20. His girlfriend wants to put her vibrator up his butt.

24:52🔗 Jerri Manthey Oh, my God.

24:57🔗 We'll be right back. Call on the 1-800-LOVE-191.

25:41🔗 Adam Wow, that's a liner.

25:43🔗 Drew I love that Shaggy.

25:44🔗 Adam Do you?

25:44🔗 Drew Yeah, I do.

25:45🔗 Adam He's the one you like.

25:46🔗 Drew Yeah.

25:47🔗 Adam Jerri Manthey's our guest tonight. She is the beautiful, long, curly haired one from Survivor, which, well, everyone knows about Survivor.

25:58🔗 Drew Now, why do you think people sort of turned on you? Your friends, your buddies?

26:04🔗 Jerri Manthey Well, I think some people tend to be threatened by women who take control of a situation. Because personally, I don't think I did anything out there that rubbed anyone the wrong way.

26:21🔗 Drew You watched footage of the show since you've been out?

26:23🔗 Jerri Manthey Yeah, I watched it right along with everyone else in America and watched this basically character of me turn into this total bitch. I sat there with everyone else going, oh my God, I am a bitch.

26:36🔗 Adam Yeah, Drew was saying that. I thought you were great, but Drew said, boy, what a bitch. I defended you.

26:42🔗 Jerri Manthey Thank you.

26:43🔗 Drew Yeah. By saying, which one's Jerri?

26:45🔗 Adam Oh, please. I watch the show religiously. Now, everybody we speak to who has done this sort of thing or who was on one of these MTV shows or all this real world and all this stuff says, it's all in the editing. I mean, that was not me or they basically constructed a sort of collage that became me via sound bites and bits and pieces.

27:12🔗 Jerri Manthey Yeah, well, I'm never, I've never gone to record nor will I to say that what you saw in the show isn't me, because it was in fact me. It was me starved and sleep depraved.

27:24🔗 Drew Right, so you were irritable.

27:26🔗 Jerri Manthey I was so irritable and I was around people who were afraid to take control of the situation and improve the situation. Whereas with me, if I see something that needs to be done, I'm not going to sit around and wait because I'm afraid that someone else is going to judge me.

27:41🔗 Adam Me neither.

27:41🔗 Jerri Manthey I'm going to stand up, I'm going to take control of the situation, and I'm going to do whatever is possible.

27:45🔗 Drew Adam, make no mistake about it, people would all consider you a bitch if you were.

27:48🔗 Adam I would get someone to do something if I knew that something needed to be done. Oh, I would be such a commodity on that island.

27:54🔗 Drew Oh, for God's sake.

27:55🔗 Adam First off, they could-

27:56🔗 Jerri Manthey He'd be a hero though. If he did what I did, he'd be called a hero.

27:59🔗 Adam That's right.

27:59🔗 Drew That's interesting.

28:00🔗 Adam They could all knit wool caps from the hair on my ass. Wool caps?

28:06🔗 Drew Like shag carpets and F-gams and things.

28:09🔗 Adam Oh, no.

28:10🔗 I'm frightened.

28:11🔗 Adam Throw rugs, shawls. We'd all be in great shape. The number one, at least my vibe is, is the number one a-hole on the island was the chef guy. Keith. Was that Pete?

28:23🔗 Drew Keith.

28:24🔗 Adam Keith. Nobody trusted him. Nobody liked him. Why is that?

28:27🔗 Drew He asked last time, how come he stayed on the islands? Wasn't you asked that? Why he stayed around so long?

28:31🔗 Adam He stayed around for a while but-

28:32🔗 Jerri Manthey Because he kissed the right asses. That's why.

28:35🔗 Drew Did he have alliances or something early on or-

28:37🔗 Jerri Manthey He bonded with Tina and Colby, period, and believe you me, he drove them just as crazy as he drove me.

28:45🔗 Drew We can see that on television.

28:46🔗 Adam I watched a few of the episodes. I always heard people bitching about him and not trusting him, but I never really saw him do anything. I just saw everyone hating him.

28:56🔗 Jerri Manthey I know. A lot of that got left out.

28:58🔗 Adam Did he deserve that much? I mean, was he that big an a-hole?

29:01🔗 Jerri Manthey He was just very condescending, and I don't tolerate that. If someone belittles me for maybe because I'm younger than they are or because I'm a woman, I get very defensive. And he kind of talked down to everyone because he was the eldest male in our tribe.

29:20🔗 Adam But he did the cooking, right? Or he did it half the time?

29:22🔗 Jerri Manthey He attempted to.

29:23🔗 Adam Yeah, I think the thing was is the only guy's claim to fame was that he could cook and then everyone complained about his cooking.

29:30🔗 Jerri Manthey Yeah, it was.

29:31🔗 Adam But to be fair to him, just having stream water and rice is not a whole lot to work with.

29:35🔗 Jerri Manthey No, it's not. But and that's that was my point. You know, it's rice. Why can't you even make rice?

29:41🔗 Adam Screwing that up. Did you eat any vermin?

29:44🔗 Jerri Manthey No.

29:45🔗 Adam No rats or anything like that?

29:46🔗 Jerri Manthey No, I wish there would have been rats out there.

29:47🔗 Adam Really?

29:48🔗 Jerri Manthey I would have been eating rats left and right. Yeah? Yeah.

29:50🔗 Adam You're just starving for protein?

29:52🔗 Jerri Manthey It was the most horrific thing I have ever been put through.

29:58🔗 Drew The starvation part.

29:59🔗 Jerri Manthey Yeah. I mean, I've never been in a situation where I go to bed hungry, I wake up hungry and you crave food all day long and you know you can't have it.

30:07🔗 Drew You didn't get the later part too where they were clearly getting ill. I mean, they were having problems.

30:11🔗 Jerri Manthey Yeah. When I left, there was one cup of rice left.

30:14🔗 Adam What about booze and weed? None of that either, right?

30:17🔗 Jerri Manthey You know what? We did get some wine when the tribes merged.

30:19🔗 Adam Oh, yeah?

30:20🔗 Jerri Manthey We sat on our new camp. We opened up this big crate and it had wine in it and cheese and crackers. Oh my God. It was heaven.

30:27🔗 Drew And Mountain Dew and Doritos.

30:30🔗 Jerri Manthey That was later.

30:30🔗 Adam You could probably get a pretty good buzz going if you hadn't eaten solid food in two weeks.

30:35🔗 Drew Oh, just a little bit of wine.

30:36🔗 Jerri Manthey We were trashed and there were some people who don't even drink and they were just right in there drinking it with us.

30:42🔗 Adam Free calories. Tom?

30:45🔗 Yeah.

30:45🔗 Adam You're 20?

30:46🔗 Caller Yep.

30:46🔗 Adam What's up?

30:47🔗 Caller Okay. I don't know. Well, first of all, I want to say, Jerri, I do not want to have mad monkey sex with you and all the other crap people were saying yesterday. I think we should ban that. That's ridiculous.

30:59🔗 Adam How are they saying that yesterday?

31:01🔗 Caller Yesterday when that guy from Blink was on, all them chicks calling up, I want to make mad monkey love to you, whatever.

31:06🔗 Drew You're gay. They were talking about the drummer.

31:10🔗 Caller Yeah.

31:11🔗 Caller I think that's stupid when people are calling to do that.

31:12🔗 Drew All right, good. Anyway. You want to talk about putting a vibrator in your ass?

31:15🔗 Caller Yeah.

31:16🔗 Adam Or do I hate our callers? I hate them so much.

31:19🔗 Drew Okay.

31:19🔗 Caller Go ahead.

31:20🔗 Adam I do hate them. I hate all of you who call this show.

31:22🔗 Drew Go ahead, Tom. I'm listening.

31:24🔗 Caller So my girlfriend wants me to put her vibrator up my ass.

31:28🔗 Adam No, she doesn't. No, she doesn't.

31:30🔗 Caller That's what she's been asking me to do.

31:32🔗 Drew You know what? I buy it.

31:33🔗 Jerri Manthey How does that make you feel, though? Do you want her vibrator in your butt?

31:37🔗 Caller No.

31:39🔗 Jerri Manthey There's not even a little part of you that wants to try it?

31:41🔗 Caller Not a part? Well, for her sake, to a degree, but I'm just like, you know? The first time she mentioned this to me, I thought she was joking, and she's like, no, seriously, because she's got this thing with toys, and we've never used toys before. She's mentioned it, and I thought, well, maybe we could start using it.

31:59🔗 Adam Is this a vibrator or a dildo?

32:01🔗 Caller A vibrator.

32:02🔗 Adam I see. More ass-friendly, I would say, than a dildo. Yeah, because a vibrator, traditionally, is much more streamlined. It's sort of the difference between taking the Concord in your ass and a jumbo jet in 747. Yeah, much sleeker.

32:21🔗 Caller You seem to know a lot about it.

32:22🔗 Adam Yeah, I can't figure out whether Tom's full of crap or I just hate him, or like bi or some kind of mess.

32:30🔗 Drew Whatever it is, I don't know. Whatever it is, what's the purpose of this question?

32:34🔗 Caller I'm trying to figure out. She told me that.

32:38🔗 Drew It's not normal.

32:39🔗 Caller She said the idea was the same thing to girls as two chicks together in bed.

32:45🔗 Drew You know what? Listen, women read way too much crappy women's magazines that suggest there's a G spot for the man, achieved, reached somehow through the anus, which is a bunch of BS. And somehow she needs that kind of bizarre arousal in order to get going. Relax. If you don't want to do it, don't do it.

33:02🔗 Adam Just let him try.

33:03🔗 Drew Or not, whatever.

33:03🔗 Adam Why not? And then what's she gonna do with it? She can't use it anymore after you've soiled it, right? She's gotta throw that thing out.

33:09🔗 Jerri Manthey Isn't anal sex bad for you, though?

33:11🔗 Drew It's not good for you, that's for sure.

33:13🔗 Jerri Manthey It seems like it would be damaging in some way.

33:15🔗 Drew It's bad for your soul. Yeah, God shed the tear.

33:18🔗 Jerri Manthey That's for sure. Yeah.

33:20🔗 Adam It makes the baby Jesus cry. Oh, no. Yes, it does.

33:24🔗 Drew But they've done tests. Yeah, we're starting to see problems now. We're starting to see fissures and tears and problems.

33:29🔗 Adam Sure.

33:30🔗 Drew And listen, sometimes people when they're young, they don't acknowledge the biological reality of who they are.

33:36🔗 Adam Well, you think your anus will be 20 for the rest of your life.

33:39🔗 Drew They think their anus will be 20 forever.

33:41🔗 Adam I just had this conversation with my grandmother. She's 85 and told me she's paying the price now.

33:48🔗 Drew You don't want an 85-year-old anus?

33:49🔗 Adam You don't want it. No. Well, her doctor said she had the anus of a 71-year-old. So it was very high praise. Okay. The whole deal with that area is if something does go wrong, you get no sympathy. You only get laughter from your peers.

34:06🔗 Drew From everyone.

34:07🔗 Adam That's why. I had what turned out to be a carbuncle around that area at one point.

34:14🔗 Drew 20 years ago. Still laughing about it.

34:16🔗 Adam No, I got another one later on. I was like 29, seven, eight years ago. And I was telling you about this.

34:23🔗 Drew This is when you lanced yourself.

34:25🔗 Adam I thought I had a hemorrhoid. I lanced both of them myself. Thank you. Yes. No need for the medical profession. All quackery. But am I turning you on? I thought I had a hemorrhoid. Okay. I'd never had one before. My idiot friend Ray had me rubbing Preparation H on my carbuncle for a week. It wasn't doing anything for it. Like 80 bucks in Preparation H. But the point is, is I was working as a boxing instructor, and I had to call into the gym and tell them I couldn't make it. And they went in a wine and I told them because my ass was on fire. And they laughed their ass off, not an ounce of sympathy from anybody.

35:02🔗 Jerri Manthey Of course not.

35:03🔗 Adam I'm saying-

35:03🔗 Jerri Manthey That's the kind of thing you lie about.

35:05🔗 Adam I should have lied, but-

35:06🔗 Jerri Manthey You know, I have a toothache, you know.

35:07🔗 Adam Yeah, but you know what?

35:08🔗 Jerri Manthey I fell down the stairs.

35:10🔗 Adam I didn't want them to think that I drank too much the night before and was hung over. I want them to believe that I wasn't coming in because I actually had-

35:17🔗 Drew In other words, no one is going to use the carbuncle on the ass as an alibi.

35:21🔗 Adam Nobody uses that. You know what I love? My ass is still sore from my last boyfriend.

35:26🔗 Drew What I love is that Jerri is going to do all the talk show rounds and here she is on the line talking about-

35:31🔗 Jerri Manthey A carbuncle on your ass.

35:32🔗 Drew Carbuncle and vibrator.

35:34🔗 Jerri Manthey You know what though? I appreciate the originality.

35:36🔗 Adam Thank you.

35:36🔗 Drew I really do. You will not find this in any of the talk shows you visit.

35:40🔗 Jerri Manthey No, you're absolutely right.

35:41🔗 Drew I'm very proud.

35:42🔗 Adam Takes a big, big man to talk about his ass. Alex?

35:45🔗 Yeah.

35:46🔗 Adam You're 18?

35:47🔗 Caller Yes, I am.

35:47🔗 Adam What's up?

35:48🔗 Caller Okay. So I was wondering, I wanted to get breast implants because I have a 34A, but I can't even fill out the cups because I have a wide rib cage, but I have really small, small breasts, really small.

36:01🔗 So I was wondering.

36:02🔗 Jerri Manthey Are you doing it for yourself? Are you doing it to impress a man?

36:06🔗 Caller Oh, no. No, I don't have a boyfriend or anything, so it's just for myself because it's kind of embarrassing. My boobs are really small. So I just kind of, I would want to know, what are the complications of that kind of surgery?

36:15🔗 Drew Well, it's a surgery. It's, you know, people occasionally die from them. There are infections, bleeding, complications of anesthesia. It's a big deal, but it's a common procedure.

36:24🔗 Adam It's not that big a deal.

36:25🔗 Jerri Manthey Yes, it is. Have you ever hung out with someone after they had breast surgery?

36:29🔗 Drew It hurts.

36:29🔗 Adam It hurts.

36:31🔗 Jerri Manthey I've never seen someone in so much pain. Yeah, it's very uncomfortable.

36:35🔗 Adam Really?

36:35🔗 Jerri Manthey Yeah.

36:36🔗 Adam Who have you hung out with? Was it the chef guy who got the breast implants?

36:41🔗 Jerri Manthey You know, I do have a life outside of survival.

36:43🔗 Adam You do? Oh, I see. You don't just hang around with those guys.

36:45🔗 Jerri Manthey Absolutely not.

36:46🔗 Adam And this person was in a lot of pain for how long?

36:49🔗 Jerri Manthey She was on painkillers for about a week.

36:51🔗 Drew Yeah, the first couple of days were pretty bad.

36:53🔗 Jerri Manthey And just hugely swollen and crying, and her boyfriend had to hold her in his arms.

36:58🔗 Adam He couldn't grab them either, right?

37:00🔗 Jerri Manthey No. No.

37:01🔗 Adam Alex? Listen, I know everyone sits around and talks about society and pressures and being a young lady and all that good stuff. But, you know, if you have an A-cup and you're pretty small and you want to do something, you know, it's doable. I talked to Dr. Marcel, who's Dr. Drew's buddy, he's a plastic surgeon guy. He's the guy who wears the pinky ring and the Italian horn chain. That's really the difference between the plastic surgeons and the internist. The plastic surgeons wear more jewelry and have the year-round tan.

37:37🔗 Jerri Manthey The sweat pants.

37:38🔗 Adam They're the pimps. Yeah, sweat suit. Yeah, the pimps of the doctor world. He didn't say too many good things about the through the belly button technique, by the way. Yeah, just FYI. He didn't have too much good to say about that, probably because he didn't know how to do it, but he didn't have anything good to say about that. But if you're interested, go look around and consult some plastic surgeons and look at their books and all that stuff.

38:05🔗 Drew All right. They take work afterwards too. If you have to encapsulate, you have to prevent them from scarring, they move around, they have to be redone most of the time.

38:13🔗 Adam Let me tell you fellas too. I tell guys this all the time. You'd be proud of me. Women think that all guys want is huge jugs, and that is not true.

38:24🔗 Jerri Manthey I don't think so.

38:24🔗 Adam Not true at all.

38:25🔗 Jerri Manthey I've never had anyone complain.

38:27🔗 Adam Yeah. Most guys want an average or nice looking, but they don't want huge novelty ones.

38:37🔗 Drew Yeah. We understand. Most, vast majority of guys other than yourself.

38:40🔗 Adam No. I like the jumbo novelty ones. Well, that's me.

38:44🔗 Jerri Manthey Some guys like legs. Some guys like butts.

38:47🔗 Adam Right.

38:47🔗 Jerri Manthey Everyone has their own body preference.

38:49🔗 Adam I look at the legs as a stand to hold up the boobs. That's how much I enjoy boobs. Yes. I like boobs and I will not apologize for that. I believe it makes me more of a man.

39:00🔗 Drew Well, didn't we have a discussion a couple of nights ago about maybe it being more detached from the person, some other body parts. You know what I'm saying?

39:07🔗 Adam Yeah. It's a part that's furthest away from the person.

39:10🔗 Jerri Manthey Oh, my God.

39:11🔗 Adam You can almost get them from the next room.

39:13🔗 Drew I'm not sure that was the reasoning.

39:14🔗 Adam Oh, that wasn't it? All right. Jerri is here from Survivor. We're going to take ourselves a little break and then we'll be back.

39:22🔗 Caller Love Line, 1-800-LOVE-191, we'll be right back.

40:00🔗 Adam Love Line, everybody. Phone number, 1-800-LOVE-191. Jerri Manthey is our guest tonight. She is from Survivor. She spent, let's say, 27 days.

40:13🔗 Jerri Manthey In the outback.

40:15🔗 Adam And what did when you got voted out, and you then went back to a hotel?

40:21🔗 Jerri Manthey No, no, they had us put up in a ranch, in the middle of the rainforest.

40:26🔗 Adam What, was there as much food as you wanted to eat?

40:29🔗 Jerri Manthey We could have anything we wanted, which was not...

40:32🔗 Adam Did you get sick?

40:33🔗 Jerri Manthey Oh yeah, I got sick every day.

40:35🔗 Drew Vomiting sick.

40:36🔗 Jerri Manthey Yeah, it was horrifying.

40:38🔗 Adam Did you go back and just eat a ton and then vomit?

40:41🔗 Jerri Manthey Yeah, it was an uncontrollable situation. I remember sitting down my first day at the table, and the woman who runs the ranch made breakfast, and she made exactly what I wanted, a French toast. So I ate like three pieces of French toast, and then she was like, oh, it's lunchtime, and she just like kept bringing food out. I sat there all day and ate.

40:59🔗 Adam And then you heaved?

41:00🔗 Jerri Manthey Yeah, and I thought I kind of thought I was losing my mind, too. I was like, why can I not stop eating?

41:06🔗 Adam That's called an eating disorder, Jerri. Drew knows something about that.

41:11🔗 Drew There's help that you can get. I've heard of these kinds of refeeding. They do studies of prisoners and things like that that have gone through these experiences. There are people out there that know how to manage that.

41:20🔗 Adam Yeah, they should have got those people. They should have got those people in there. Your impulse would be to eat everything in sight, but that's probably the worst thing you could do. You probably have to slowly acclimate yourself back into it.

41:33🔗 Drew The fluid and electrolytes seem to be managed as you eat. You should have been having blood tests and things.

41:39🔗 Jerri Manthey It was out of control. In Australia, they cook with fat, full cream and whole butter.

41:47🔗 Drew That might have been okay. But if you get past the vomiting, your stomach is exposed to it.

41:53🔗 Jerri Manthey It was pretty bad.

41:55🔗 Drew But certainly what you need was fatty acids. That's one of the things you probably lacked.

41:59🔗 Adam Robin? You're 27. What's up?

42:04🔗 Caller I have a couple questions. I have been a stripper now for about a year and a half, two years. I just recently started getting into porn movies. I was molested from like six until 16. I used to drink a whole lot. I was 21. I went through AA and all that stuff, which forced me to deal with the molestation issues.

42:36🔗 Adam Yeah, but it just came out in the form of sexuality later on.

42:41🔗 Drew I'm certain people in the program suggested you sort of think about new careers and things like that, right?

42:47🔗 Caller Actually, I wasn't dancing at the time. I mean, I've only been dancing for like a year and a half.

42:53🔗 Drew Are you doing drugs again of any kind?

42:55🔗 Caller No, I am totally drug-free. And at work, I only drink maybe one or two drinks a night.

43:01🔗 Drew Okay, well, that's not drug-free, Ron. You're back in your disease.

43:05🔗 Adam What do you drink in those mini bottles of champagne that some idiot paid 18 bucks for?

43:10🔗 Caller No, I don't work for drinks. I work for money.

43:12🔗 Drew But you're using again. So this is all part of addiction. Sexual abuse plus addiction creates sexual addiction.

43:20🔗 Caller When I drink, I mean, I drink like one when I first get there, you know, just to like loosen up and stuff. And a lot of times, I drink like mixed drinks that don't have a lot of alcohol.

43:32🔗 Drew Listen, your drinking is not out of control just yet because you have all these other arousing experiences you're distracting yourself with. It's gonna get going. It'll get going.

43:41🔗 Caller Actually, I don't even like sex a whole lot anymore.

43:44🔗 Adam Okay, oh, we know that.

43:45🔗 Drew Yeah, we affect you. Usually people in your condition hate men for participating with you in it.

43:50🔗 Caller Actually, I have so much fun with my customers. It's the whole flirtation. I mean, I can, I give dances and they, you know, I mean, I keep my top off but my bottoms are on.

44:03🔗 Adam Yeah.

44:04🔗 Caller And if I get them in like our little private room and dance, I can make them ejaculate. And it's just, it's so much fun because it's like I'm in control.

44:13🔗 Adam Yeah.

44:15🔗 Drew But don't you see that that's just a reenactment of the old exploitation, except now you're in the power position. But men are still really exploiting you still.

44:25🔗 Caller Yeah, but at least now I have fun.

44:26🔗 Drew It's an illusion. It's a reenactment of the same old thing. It's an illusion.

44:31🔗 Adam All right. But Robin, you're getting into porn movies now?

44:34🔗 Caller Yeah.

44:35🔗 Adam How many have you done?

44:37🔗 Caller I did one like three days ago. And I've done like a couple clips for other people. But now I'm just, because like one of my best friends is like really big into it. I mean, I live on the East Coast. We live on the East Coast and she flies out to the West Coast like every week to do them. I'm just saying a really huge name. But I mean, I'm just now starting to get into the business.

45:03🔗 Adam Okay, but you're calling because it sounds like maybe you're going down a path here that you don't want to go down?

45:10🔗 Caller I mean, I didn't know if, you know, the whole getting into the porn and all this other stuff was like a way of, because I listen to you guys all the time, like when I come home from work, and I didn't know if it was like, you know, me trying to get out of it.

45:31🔗 Adam Listen, it's all bad for you.

45:33🔗 Drew Yes, this is all that stuff, all that un-dealt-with stuff.

45:36🔗 Adam Yeah, and you gotta deal with this.

45:37🔗 Drew And you really didn't get into the program. You really didn't. If the fact that you can still use alcohol and not understand why that's such a violation of your programmatic principles. I don't do it. Listen, Robin, listen, go to essay, okay? Go to Sex Addicts Anonymous and stop drinking. Go to some program, get a sponsor, work the steps, and see if things don't start changing a little bit. If they don't, if you really want these things to change, you need to get some treatment. There's a place out here in Southern California called Delamo Treatment Center that deals very much with sexual addiction. They do a nice job.

46:09🔗 Adam I'm gonna do some guest speaking there maybe next week. All right.

46:12🔗 Drew For the self abuse profiles?

46:15🔗 Adam Yeah. She was a million miles away from reality.

46:18🔗 Drew I know.

46:19🔗 Adam Listen, this show has really ruined pornography for me. It really has because I realize behind every movie is someone like Robin. She was molested for 10 years. She's strung out. She's screwed up. I can, it's all I can do to watch porno twice a day now. I mean, that's a good day. Sometimes I'm now down to like one and a half.

46:41🔗 Drew You know what?

46:42🔗 Jerri Manthey I believe you too.

46:44🔗 Drew That he struggles or he's watching that movie?

46:46🔗 Adam No, that I struggle emotionally.

46:47🔗 Jerri Manthey He's cut back, but not by much.

46:49🔗 Adam Yes.

46:50🔗 Drew Twice a day, that's way back.

46:52🔗 Adam I shed more than a tear. Jerri is here from Survivor and we'll be back.

46:59🔗 Drew Hello.

47:00🔗 Caller This is Loveline. 1-800-LOVE-191.

47:03🔗 Caller Loveline will be right back.

47:36🔗 Adam Yep, Loveline. I'm Adam, that's Drew. Jerri Manthey's our guest tonight. She is from Survivor, of course. And I was reading somewhere that you're doing something for Sports Illustrated. What is that?

47:50🔗 Jerri Manthey Oh, yeah, I did a photo shoot with Alicia, the bodybuilder for Sports Illustrated for Women.

47:57🔗 Adam Oh, they have Sports Illustrated?

47:59🔗 Jerri Manthey For Women. Yeah, they just started the magazine. It's fairly new. And we did a really cool shoot down in Mexico. We spent like three days down there in the Sea of Cortez. And it's going to be a great spread. I can't wait to see it.

48:12🔗 Adam When does that come out?

48:14🔗 Jerri Manthey I believe it's the July issue, so it should be coming out in June.

48:18🔗 Adam And the Young and the Restless, how's that going?

48:22🔗 Jerri Manthey It went great. I had a one-day gig on that and it airs Monday, Memorial Day.

48:28🔗 Adam And did you play you or did you play a doctor?

48:31🔗 Jerri Manthey I played Jerri from Survivor, which was very weird.

48:34🔗 Adam Yeah.

48:35🔗 Jerri Manthey Yeah. I mean, they wrote the piece based on what they saw of me on the show, which as people are getting to find out is really not what I'm all about.

48:44🔗 Adam So they made you bitchy?

48:47🔗 Jerri Manthey It could have gone that way, but I actually chose to turn it into more of a likable character.

48:54🔗 Adam And what's the plan? I mean, you want to just continue with the acting movies, that kind of stuff?

49:00🔗 Jerri Manthey Yeah. I've been focusing on my film career for about four years. And that's essentially where I want to end up is just doing film.

49:08🔗 Adam Yeah. Seems easiest.

49:11🔗 Drew What?

49:11🔗 Jerri Manthey No.

49:12🔗 Adam No?

49:12🔗 Jerri Manthey No. Film is challenging.

49:14🔗 Drew He means in terms of hours working for money.

49:17🔗 Adam Yeah. No.

49:18🔗 Jerri Manthey Listen, forget about the labor-wise.

49:21🔗 Adam Yeah. Acting is not challenging, but the plays are nonsense. Oh, no. We're going to fight.

49:25🔗 Jerri Manthey You're going down for that. That is so not right.

49:29🔗 Adam Either you can do it or you can't, and if you can do it, it's easy. But film, you work a few months out of the year. If you do like the Young and the Restless every day, I mean, that's a bitch.

49:41🔗 Jerri Manthey Yeah. Soaps are a lot of work. They do like 70 pages a day.

49:45🔗 Adam You got to get up at four in the morning.

49:47🔗 Jerri Manthey Yeah. It's crazy. Go hang out all day. But you know what? It's a great way to hone your craft, because it's the closest thing you can get to theater on television.

49:56🔗 Adam Right. Drew has a background in the theater, singing opera, doing musicals, all that kind of stuff. He loves legitimate stage.

50:05🔗 Drew Yeah, I do.

50:06🔗 Adam Yeah. Is there illegitimate stage? Is this Drew singing?

50:10🔗 Drew Oh my God.

50:11🔗 Adam This is Drew.

50:11🔗 Is it?

50:12🔗 Adam Yes.

50:13🔗 Drew Yeah, probably.

50:14🔗 Adam I think so.

50:20🔗 Drew You think that's so funny.

50:21🔗 Adam It's him doing a Memorix commercial.

50:23🔗 Drew This was on Ben Stein, Turn Ben Stein Off.

50:26🔗 Jerri Manthey You see an opera? Wow, I'm impressed.

50:30🔗 Adam Yeah.

50:31🔗 Jerri Manthey That's like, that's hardcore.

50:33🔗 Adam That's him right now.

50:37🔗 Drew I think that's funny.

50:38🔗 Adam Drew, what are you saying?

50:40🔗 Jerri Manthey Yeah, do you know what you're saying?

50:41🔗 Caller I don't know.

50:42🔗 Jerri Manthey You're just saying the words.

50:44🔗 Drew I could probably figure it out.

50:45🔗 Adam What is your character? What opera is this from?

50:48🔗 Drew It's André Chignet. It's a corporal signing orders for send his people off to war kind of thing.

50:57🔗 Adam Yeah. Then he's lamenting that?

50:59🔗 Drew Yes.

50:59🔗 Adam They do a lot of lamenting in opera.

51:01🔗 Jerri Manthey Yes.

51:01🔗 Drew A lot of musing and lamenting and carrying on.

51:03🔗 Adam Here's my whole thing about opera. Can't they just lament without singing about it? Do they have to sing about every goddamn thing they're doing?

51:10🔗 Jerri Manthey Then it wouldn't be opera.

51:11🔗 Adam No. Well, actually. That's a good point. You see, I never really thought of it that way. I thought just lament on your own time.

51:18🔗 Yeah. You're right.

51:19🔗 Adam There wouldn't be no opera. Jerri makes a very valid point. Eric?

51:25🔗 Caller Yeah?

51:25🔗 Adam You're 18.

51:28🔗 Caller My question was, how do you get the morning after pill? Yeah, that's basically it.

51:32🔗 Drew What city are you calling from?

51:34🔗 Caller LA.

51:35🔗 Drew And how long ago was the sexual encounter? Yesterday. Okay. Planned Parenthood. Planned Parenthood, I think, is the best place to go, I agree. Planned Parenthood? Yeah. I'm actually going to Planned Parenthood and speaking in San Diego tomorrow, the big Planned Parenthood organization there. But yeah, they definitely can get it. You can get it from an emergency room. Your doctor can get it for you. It's something that I believe every woman of childbearing age, I know you don't like the idea of being on hormones, but it's something that can prevent a pregnancy. And even if you're not on the pill, it's something that if an accident happens, you've got that as a fallback position.

52:07🔗 Caller I hear you guys talk about Planned Parenthood right all the time.

52:10🔗 Jerri Manthey Yeah, it's a great service for women.

52:12🔗 Caller Because I just imagine some building like Toys R Us or something. But what is it exactly though?

52:17🔗 Adam That's what it is. It's Toys R Us. Birth control and abortion apparatus. It's the same thing.

52:24🔗 Jerri Manthey It's free.

52:25🔗 Drew It can be free. Yeah.

52:26🔗 Adam I've got a big giraffe as a mascot.

52:29🔗 Drew It's great. But you can get the morning after pill pretty easily there.

52:32🔗 Adam Yes. And use protection next time. Would you screwball?

52:36🔗 Drew Well, he's thinking about it right. Again, morning after pill, we're not talking about the abortion pill. We're talking about a pill that suppresses the egg from being released. So there's no con... When I was on Politically Incorrect, we had Congresswoman Sanchez from Orange County on. And I was talking about this morning after pill thing. I was telling her, look, this is your issue. And she agreed. She was kind of aware of stuff. Yeah. And I said, you know, the people are lining up against you. They don't want to... The reality is they've taken aim at the morning after pill, but they just don't want contraception. She said, we know that. Oh, really? They are pro birth, not anti-abortion.

53:08🔗 Adam Right.

53:08🔗 Drew And that anything, any of that stuff, which we sort of heard from the Right to Life group that came up here and spoke a few weeks ago.

53:13🔗 Adam Yeah.

53:14🔗 Drew That they wanted to get rid of birth control altogether.

53:16🔗 Jerri Manthey Oh, my God.

53:17🔗 Adam Yeah.

53:18🔗 Drew That's just stupid. But what I say, at least that's logical and consistent, because to take aim at the morning after pill, it's to take aim at all contraception. People just don't understand that that's what they're doing.

53:30🔗 Adam But as we've learned from living on this planet, anybody who picks up the torch and fights too hard for any cause is a nut job. The PETA people are whacked out. They don't want the guy to drink his milk in Victory Circle, the Indy 500, because now the latest spin. Are you kidding? Yeah. No, because it's now a racist thing because blacks and Hispanics are lactose intolerant. What? Let me tell you, please, let me, let me just give a word of advice to all people involved with any causes. Please stick to the cause and try not to stay, try not to fray too far to get to the outer fringes where everyone labels you nut cases. Because this is what PETA does. This is what GLAAD will do. This is what the NRA does. This is what all groups do. They start off with a semi-sound, insane sort of agenda. The NRA says, look, we don't want guns taken away from law-abiding taxpayers who want to protect their home and families. You go, no, all right, I'm down with that. And then some guy wants to put some legislation forward that outlaws 50-round banana clips and AK-47s and they're dead set against it. Now you go, okay, nut job. Next? Who's next? Then PETA says, we don't like the idea of them testing harsh chemicals on the eyes of laboratory animals and rabbits and torturing lab animals and mutilating cows and blah blah blah. And you go, yeah, all right, I'm on board with that. Then they go into the guy drinking milk at the winter circle with the Latinos who are lactose intolerant. You go, nut job. Next? And then the next guy comes along and it's the same thing with these pro-life nut jobs. Abortion is bad. All right, we'll agree to that. Somebody comes along with a pill that's going to seemingly limit abortions now. They're against that. Nut job. Next. They're all whack jobs. And the reason they're in the group is because they're nuts. And they're not in it for the cause. They're in it to write letters. They're in it to complain. They're in it because they have some kind of cry that's inside of them. That this is somehow...

55:41🔗 Jerri Manthey For attention.

55:41🔗 Adam Yes. And the world becomes a big play that they cast.

55:45🔗 Jerri Manthey I have learned that people tend to be media whores.

55:50🔗 Adam Oh, yes.

55:50🔗 Jerri Manthey I have seen it happen to people from this show.

55:55🔗 Drew People from your cast.

55:57🔗 Jerri Manthey Well, it stems even into their families. You know, their families get wrapped up in the media process.

56:04🔗 Adam Oh, yeah. Drew's family is the same with him.

56:09🔗 Jerri Manthey It's just frightening what people will do for attention.

56:12🔗 Adam Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. And it usually has nothing to do with whatever it is they're talking about. You know, they all end up becoming sort of televangelists. Up there yapping fire and brimstone, thumping the Bible, banging their secretary.

56:28🔗 In the back of the church.

56:29🔗 Adam That's right. Jerri? Yeah. You're 22. Yes. Man Jerri. Go ahead.

56:36🔗 Yeah. The male Jerri. Good evening, Dr. Drew and Adam Corolla.

56:41🔗 Adam And say hi to girl Jerri.

56:43🔗 Well, my question is for her.

56:45🔗 Adam Go ahead.

56:45🔗 Oh, cool.

56:47🔗 My question, Jerri, for you was, on the show, Amber, well, our impression of Amber was that she was basically your puppy dog. She followed whatever you said. She followed your ideas, your ideas for alliances, stuff like that. Did you manipulate her on purpose to do that or did that just kind of happen on its own?

57:07🔗 Jerri Manthey I did not manipulate her at all. She just befriended me because I kind of took her under my wing and she was-

57:17🔗 But see, to us, it seemed that it was more than just a friendship. It seemed like she really looked up to you and like, you know, she was just always there for you, always listening to you and just always said, you know, sure, whatever you say, Jerri, whatever you want.

57:30🔗 Jerri Manthey Well, you know, again, I was the proactive leader at times and it was her strategy possibly just to stay as close to me as she could because she saw me as someone who was going to go far in the game, but I never manipulated her. She was like my little sister out there.

57:48🔗 Adam We had- Call her Jerri? Yes. Jerri told us that she manipulated her intention during the break. She was laughing and blowing cigar smoke the whole time.

58:00🔗 Can I ask you if she manipulated anyone at all? I mean, do you feel like you play with anyone's mind?

58:07🔗 Jerri Manthey No.

58:08🔗 No?

58:08🔗 Jerri Manthey No, I didn't. That wasn't my game.

58:10🔗 Caller I was all about being honest.

58:12🔗 Adam Isn't that part of the game?

58:14🔗 Jerri Manthey If you make it part of the game, yeah. But for me, it was about being honest with people. And it pissed some people off and other people stuck with me.

58:23🔗 Adam But did you have a strategy going in? I mean, did you study, for instance, the other Survivor tapes of the other episodes of previous season? And did you think, okay, this is a good idea? Or was it day by day?

58:37🔗 Jerri Manthey Well, my original strategy was just to create an alliance as quickly and as aggressively as I could before anybody beat me to the punch. And once I did that, then there's other things that happen that make you have to reshape and reformulate your plan. So from that initial strategy and achieving that goal, I had to work on a daily basis. Who was in your alliance? I approached Mitchell first. Then we approached Colby, Tina, and Amber. Because we needed five to be a majority.

59:07🔗 Adam You know, I was just picturing myself on Survivor. Day 29, not remembering three of the guys' names.

59:15🔗 Hey, dude!

59:16🔗 Caller Hey, dude!

59:17🔗 Adam Come here and help me with this lean-to. And bring what's-his-nose with it. Hey, Beard!

59:26🔗 Rice Boy!

59:26🔗 Adam Let's go. Over here.

59:28🔗 Jerri Manthey It did take a while to learn everyone's names. It was like a good four or five days where we're all going...

59:34🔗 Adam Did they have names? They should have had name tags.

59:36🔗 Caller Why not?

59:37🔗 Adam Why make it more difficult?

59:38🔗 Jerri Manthey It would have been a nice art project for a day.

59:40🔗 Adam Sure, you're depleted of rich nutrients.

59:42🔗 Jerri Manthey Your name on a grain of rice.

59:43🔗 Adam Yeah, you can't remember.

59:45🔗 Keith, you're 33? You got it.

59:48🔗 Adam What's up?

59:50🔗 You guys are doing a great show. Adam, I've got more of a request of you than a question.

59:55🔗 Adam All right.

59:56🔗 All right, I know that you sprung for the womb of construction. You've done your fair share of manual and skilled labor. And you are in fact a bona fide millionaire.

1:00:04🔗 Adam Yes, I'm literally a millionaire. Literally, literally, literally.

1:00:09🔗 But to use a couple of your words, lay off the junior colleges, you screwball.

1:00:14🔗 Caller Why? Why?

1:00:16🔗 Because you regularly trash them on the air. And there's a ton of kids out there that take a lot of stock of what you say.

1:00:23🔗 Adam That's right. I'm trying to steer them clear of that, that, that boat of the dam known as junior college.

1:00:29🔗 Drew All right.

1:00:30🔗 I'm going to give you three quick, brief examples of how they can still make their, achieve their goals through junior colleges.

1:00:36🔗 Adam All right.

1:00:36🔗 Drew Will they usually go on to four-year colleges quickly?

1:00:40🔗 Well, one that didn't go on to four-year colleges quickly. My mother went through nursing school in the 70s, got an AA and an RN in nursing. Late 30s, she went back to UNLV, did a couple years of pre-reqs for med school, got accepted at 42, matriculated at University of Nevada, Reno from 42 to 46, and is now an OB-GYN.

1:00:59🔗 Adam Hold on, I can't write this fast. Keep going.

1:01:02🔗 Drew But I think your point is well-taken, Keith, which is that people that don't may not have funds or have had training. Yeah, access, maybe some happened in their life where they didn't get prepared for colleges.

1:01:15🔗 Adam Once in a while, the stars align and somebody actually graduates. Yes, I will not argue with you.

1:01:21🔗 I will talk in my nuclear family. My fiancee, my mother, myself is an example. Yeah. My fiancee went to a junior college in the East Bay area, then transferred to Cal. She graduated 4.0 plus to Macomb lobby and walked over into Bull Call.

1:01:40🔗 Drew The other thing, Keith, is that junior colleges in the East Coast are actually prestigious on the East.

1:01:44🔗 Adam Yes. Those I have not checked out personally.

1:01:47🔗 Drew They are not the hacky sack, pot smoking, power bar ingesting, skip school for surfing.

1:01:53🔗 Adam high school with ashtrays. Look, here's the deal. I'm never going to argue that no one has graduated or got anything from a junior college. The percentage, the batting average is dreadful. I would say for every 500 people that pass through the doors, one guy walks out and goes off to another four-year university. Here's the reason. If you ain't cutting it in high school, you're not going to cut it in junior college because it's high school, except for you don't have to show up. I think we turn all these things into labor camps or prisons and really start getting our money back. They already got the fence around them. They're constructed much like prisons, many of them. It's just a big waste of time. Just everyone should go to work who's not going to college. Who are you kidding? People waste it. I have friends who are still in junior college. They're literally in their 17th, 18th year of junior college. Get out. I swear to Christ. I went to LA Valley Junior College for like 20 minutes and I just realized, look, the whole reason you weren't cutting it in high school is you brought the same brain to this place and you're not cutting it here. I just think people should go out and get a job or go to regular college. It's just a waste of time. Let's face it. Thank you. And Drew hates them too. Thank you very much, Drew. One day I'm going to find out how much money we waste on these so-called institutions of learning and then I'm really going to be outraged. Danielle, you're 22. What's up?

1:03:19🔗 Caller I read in a book not too long ago that if when your boyfriend or husband or whatever is performing oral sex on you and he blows air up there, it can get into a bloodstream and it can kill you.

1:03:30🔗 Adam What book were you reading? This is junior college. You go to junior college?

1:03:34🔗 Caller I used to.

1:03:34🔗 Adam There you go.

1:03:35🔗 That's what we're putting out. Oh no. That's the kind of...

1:03:38🔗 Adam This is what we're putting out.

1:03:39🔗 Drew What book were you reading?

1:03:41🔗 Caller It wasn't mine.

1:03:42🔗 Caller It was my friend's when she was pregnant.

1:03:43🔗 Caller It was called...

1:03:45🔗 Adam How to Kill Your Mate Through Oral Sex?

1:03:47🔗 Caller No.

1:03:47🔗 Jerri Manthey Good God.

1:03:48🔗 Caller When you're expecting...

1:03:50🔗 Drew It was not in that book, was it?

1:03:51🔗 Caller Yeah.

1:03:51🔗 Caller It was.

1:03:53🔗 Drew I interviewed that author.

1:03:55🔗 Caller It kind of freaked me out because sometimes...

1:03:56🔗 Drew Well, here's the deal. There actually has been a reported case of that, believe it or not.

1:04:00🔗 Caller Really?

1:04:01🔗 Drew Yes. And there is access to... Under significant pressure, if somebody really blew in their heart and enough air got into the venous system, the veins near the ligaments of the uterus, there is a possibility that could go to the lung and cause an air embolus. It has happened, but in the entire history of humanity, it's probably happened once. It ain't going to happen again.

1:04:24🔗 Caller It doesn't do that, but sometimes when we're having sex, air will just start to come out.

1:04:29🔗 Drew That's fine, Danielle. It's normal. Do not worry. People would be dropping dead all over the place if any little air made any difference.

1:04:35🔗 Jerri Manthey Queef, I think that's what she's talking about.

1:04:37🔗 Adam You'd be like a serial killer in college, Drew, one of those women you've got. Danielle?

1:04:43🔗 Caller Yeah.

1:04:43🔗 Adam All right. And what happened after junior college?

1:04:47🔗 Caller I started working full-time until I didn't have a chance to go back. Right.

1:04:51🔗 Adam Never graduated, right?

1:04:53🔗 Caller All right. All right.

1:04:54🔗 Adam Well, you can go back. No, that's fine. All right, baby. I think. Relax. Good times. There you go.

1:05:00🔗 Jerri Manthey Oh my God. That is totally bizarre.

1:05:03🔗 Adam Yeah. That could happen. I mean, but you really got to go like trying to, you know, you know, the Strongman competitions?

1:05:10🔗 Jerri Manthey Tires.

1:05:11🔗 Adam They blow up the hot water bottle. Yeah. Right. That kind of move. I missed by the way, there used to be like Strongman displays where they take the hot water bottle and they blow it up, pop that, take the telephone book, rip it in half. Robert? Never saw that Jerri?

1:05:30🔗 Jerri Manthey No. I guess I haven't lived.

1:05:33🔗 Caller I have a couple of questions for Jerri. The first one was, what would be your ideal acting role as of right now? What are you looking for?

1:05:43🔗 Jerri Manthey Well, I mean, I definitely would prefer to work in film.

1:05:48🔗 Adam Easier.

1:05:51🔗 Jerri Manthey It's quite challenging.

1:05:52🔗 Adam It's so much easier, though, just for the hours. Easy.

1:05:57🔗 Jerri Manthey Wow. I think people actually are getting ready to see me play the villain in something. So I think I'd almost like to play the exact opposite of that and throw everyone off.

1:06:09🔗 Caller That's good. Good luck on that.

1:06:11🔗 Jerri Manthey Thank you.

1:06:11🔗 Caller I was wondering if you ever were tempted to do a Susan Hawke type snake and rat at the jury.

1:06:21🔗 Caller Everyone was looking forward to it.

1:06:23🔗 Drew Yeah.

1:06:25🔗 Jerri Manthey I have a little more class than that. I think what Susan did was completely unnecessary and uncalled for.

1:06:32🔗 Adam What did she do?

1:06:34🔗 Jerri Manthey She got up in front of everyone and belittled the last two people.

1:06:38🔗 Drew Kelly, right? Yeah. We had Kelly up here. Remember Kelly Wiggelsworth, the rafting?

1:06:43🔗 Caller Yeah.

1:06:44🔗 Drew She got up and said, you're a slime bucket or lower than a rat's ass.

1:06:48🔗 Jerri Manthey If you were dying of thirst, I wouldn't give you a drink of water.

1:06:51🔗 Adam Kelly said that?

1:06:52🔗 Drew No, no.

1:06:52🔗 Adam They said Susan said it about just about Kelly. Why just about Kelly?

1:06:59🔗 Jerri Manthey Susan, yeah.

1:07:00🔗 Drew Susan, the truck driver.

1:07:01🔗 Jerri Manthey Yeah.

1:07:01🔗 Adam Right.

1:07:01🔗 Drew Because she felt, it wasn't apparent to me that actually it happened that Kelly violated some trust or something. I couldn't even figure out.

1:07:08🔗 Jerri Manthey But I mean, she was ready to backstab her in the same sentence. So no, I was never tempted to do that. No matter how angry I got at everyone out there, no matter how betrayed I felt, I, you know, I got class.

1:07:21🔗 Adam Right. All right. Interesting that there's been two. Chick and a gay guy have won so far. So it's like chick and a half have won. But no guys. No dudes.

1:07:32🔗 Jerri Manthey No men.

1:07:33🔗 No bros.

1:07:35🔗 Adam Interesting.

1:07:37🔗 Drew That's why we brought the boot camp around.

1:07:39🔗 Adam I see. I wonder if this is geared more toward a feminine mindset.

1:07:44🔗 Jerri Manthey Survivor?

1:07:45🔗 Adam Yeah. Maybe not all the physical aspects of it, but the strategy aspect of it.

1:07:50🔗 Jerri Manthey I don't know. I think it goes against everything female. But it's not nurturing. It's not kind.

1:07:57🔗 Adam But let me offer this up. Guys are a-holes. They're pretty readable. But don't you think women in general, growing up, they're a little more clickish, and they have their friends in high school, and they talk about that. There's a little more of a mind for that.

1:08:18🔗 Drew I'm watching my daughter since kindergarten. That stuff goes on. The boys could not care less.

1:08:24🔗 Adam The guys want to play sports and hang out and fart on each other.

1:08:27🔗 Drew They want to be the right other and play kickball at lunch, and that's it.

1:08:29🔗 Adam But their mind isn't working in terms of like, who's dating who, what they can do about it.

1:08:35🔗 Jerri Manthey I mean, I definitely agree. Women are a much more difficult sex to deal with, even as a woman.

1:08:42🔗 Adam I'm just saying, they may have a mind for that kind of strategy.

1:08:45🔗 Drew Social intrigue.

1:08:46🔗 Adam Social strategy more than guys.

1:08:48🔗 Jerri Manthey You might have a point there. I never really thought about that.

1:08:51🔗 Adam It'd be interesting if this show went on for ten years to figure, you know, to sit back and look at the sexes that won. I'm guessing just chicks and gays. You know what? That's where the smart money is.

1:09:02🔗 Jerri Manthey I wouldn't doubt that. Thank you.

1:09:05🔗 Adam We'll take ourselves a little break, and we'll be back.

1:09:11🔗 Caller Love Line will be right back, so get your problems ready. Ready.

1:09:41🔗 Caller This is Pamela Lee, and you're listening to Loveline with Adam Carolla and Dr. Drew.

1:09:47🔗 Adam Yes, you is. Phone number, 1-800-LOVE-191. Jerri Manthey is our guest tonight. She, of course, is from Survivor, and Binder and Sports Illustrated, the woman's version of Sports Illustrated, out in June. In July's issue, Young and the Restless on Memorial Day. Is it? Yeah. And maybe, Playboy? Possibly. Never know.

1:10:14🔗 Caller Let's see.

1:10:15🔗 Adam If the money is right. But it's not for the money. But if the money is right, I'll see her there. Shannon? Yeah. You're 20? Yeah. What's up?

1:10:25🔗 Caller Hi. I had a question for Jerri. Okay. Yeah. I had a question about Deb. Well, everybody found out that she was going to marry her son-in-law. Did you guys know that while she was on the island?

1:10:41🔗 Jerri Manthey What is this now?

1:10:41🔗 Adam She was going to marry her son-in-law.

1:10:44🔗 Jerri Manthey Her stepson.

1:10:46🔗 Caller What?

1:10:46🔗 Caller Yeah. You didn't hear about that?

1:10:48🔗 Jerri Manthey She was married to the man for 20 years and he died. She fell in love with his son.

1:10:55🔗 Drew Which one is Deb?

1:10:56🔗 Jerri Manthey She was the very first one kicked off.

1:10:58🔗 Drew Oh, yeah.

1:10:59🔗 Jerri Manthey Yeah, and she has probably been more tortured by the tabloids than anybody else.

1:11:04🔗 Drew Really?

1:11:04🔗 Jerri Manthey Because of her situation.

1:11:05🔗 Caller Yeah, everybody, it seemed like the last show, like everybody felt sorry for her, but I mean, do you feel sorry for her that, I mean, she's going to marry her stepson?

1:11:16🔗 Jerri Manthey Well, I know she's technically not going to marry him because legally there's some issues. Yeah. And it's, you know what?

1:11:24🔗 Adam There is?

1:11:25🔗 Jerri Manthey It sounds a little, yeah, there's something, I'm not sure. But I mean, it is a little bit strange to me, but I'm not judging her for it because obviously, this man makes her very happy and apparently, when she was married to his dad, there was no son-mother relationship. Like they weren't around each other.

1:11:45🔗 Adam Yeah. Well, that does make a big difference. Listen, you should feel sorry for him, not her. I'd like to get a hold of this guy and have a little conversation with him. Think about the guy. Yeah. You know what I'm talking about? Yeah. I mean, you could make an argument for her being whacked out, but this dude is 31, she's 55 or what's going on? What are the age differences?

1:12:10🔗 Jerri Manthey I think he's like 35 and she's like 40, something like that. It's not that extreme.

1:12:17🔗 Adam It sounded better when I did my age thing though. It was worse. I'd still like to talk to him. You think this is what dad wanted? Dad down in hell, looking up at you. They never say it that way.

1:12:32🔗 Jerri Manthey He actually said in an interview, he said, my dad would want for us both to be happy.

1:12:37🔗 Adam Yeah. They always do that one. They always do that.

1:12:40🔗 Drew Go ahead, son, see you in hell.

1:12:41🔗 Adam Yeah.

1:12:41🔗 Jerri Manthey Oh my God.

1:12:44🔗 Adam I'll have this cot, I'll soak with gasoline and just be waiting for you when you come on down.

1:12:48🔗 Jerri Manthey You know what though, I have a lot of sympathy for her just because of the things she's been through, and she has stood up for me left and right.

1:12:56🔗 Adam Oh really?

1:12:57🔗 Jerri Manthey Yeah. She's a wonderful, wonderful person.

1:13:00🔗 Caller He only knew her for like one day on the show.

1:13:02🔗 Jerri Manthey Yeah.

1:13:03🔗 Adam Well, she started standing up for you though.

1:13:05🔗 Drew Yeah.

1:13:05🔗 Adam That made a difference. Why is she standing up for you?

1:13:09🔗 Jerri Manthey Because she understands what it's like to be completely ripped apart by the tabloids, as well as being called all kinds of names that are unnecessary.

1:13:18🔗 Adam You know, I was thinking when you were talking about the tabloids, and you know, maybe this sounds naive, but I don't know what's going on out in the world, really.

1:13:26🔗 Drew Can you just not read it?

1:13:28🔗 Adam Not paying attention to it? Yeah.

1:13:28🔗 Jerri Manthey That's what I was wondering. Yeah. Except when you go to the grocery store and you find yourself looking at yourself in the magazine and some huge title says, you know, Jerri eats men alive sexually or Jerri has sizzling sex diaries that were found.

1:13:47🔗 Drew We don't read about our stuff. We don't read good or bad, you know what I mean? Yeah.

1:13:53🔗 Adam It's nice if you don't read good or bad. I mean, listen, if I saw a huge picture myself at the supermarket, I might be tempted to pick that thing up.

1:14:03🔗 Jerri Manthey You could try and hide from it, but like I said, you go to the grocery store, you look over and you're like, oh my God.

1:14:08🔗 Adam Yeah. You don't have the genetic predisposition to ignoring your own crap that Drew and I have.

1:14:16🔗 Drew We used to have, we were like, oh.

1:14:17🔗 Adam I'll tell you, one of my dad's favorite...

1:14:18🔗 Jerri Manthey I found it entertaining after a certain point.

1:14:20🔗 Adam Oh, well, if you don't mind. One of my favorite dad stories is I was at a grocery market with my dad. He was checking out the magazines while I was paying for some groceries. He was just killing time. He picked up a magazine that had an interview with Adam Corolla from Loveline on the cover. He picked it up. I saw him looking at it. He was looking at it for a few minutes. He was kind of examining it. I could tell he saw my name on there. He was kind of looking at it. He looked for a couple of beats and then he slid it back. He turned back around and he said, Are we ready to roll? I said, Dad, did you notice the magazine with my name on it? He said, Yeah, yeah, that's you, all right.

1:15:02🔗 Caller And I said, Yeah, and that was it?

1:15:05🔗 Adam Didn't feel any kind of compulsion to crack it open and have a look-see.

1:15:09🔗 Caller Wow.

1:15:11🔗 Adam No, no, that's a genetic, and I have those kind of genetics. Yeah.

1:15:16🔗 Jerri Manthey Interesting.

1:15:17🔗 Adam It's very good. Oh, Drew has them too. Drew comes, first off, Drew has been in a movie or two, has not seen any of them, does not even know the title of the, what was that movie we were in with Brooke Shields?

1:15:31🔗 Jerri Manthey Are you serious?

1:15:32🔗 Drew I am dead serious.

1:15:33🔗 Jerri Manthey Were these movies that you auditioned for?

1:15:35🔗 Adam No, no, we were asked to do a...

1:15:37🔗 Jerri Manthey Well, there you go, that's why. If there was a challenge to get in it, you would have definitely been.

1:15:41🔗 Adam I don't think you would have done that either.

1:15:43🔗 Drew Well, yeah, if it's something you really sought out, you'd, you know, you'd want to be a part of.

1:15:47🔗 Jerri Manthey It's a part of your job as an actor to watch.

1:15:50🔗 Drew We didn't know what the hell we were doing when the film was rolling, when the camera was rolling, like, what is this again? What the hell, what are you watching? Remember that?

1:15:56🔗 Jerri Manthey Oh my God.

1:15:58🔗 Adam Right.

1:15:58🔗 Jerri Manthey Were you playing yourself?

1:15:59🔗 Caller After Sex?

1:16:01🔗 Adam After Sex is a Brooke Shields movie or something. I don't even know. But let me tell you, Drew, real fast everybody, Drew will come in here, do this show from 10 to midnight and will be on Politically Incorrect that night and not say a goddamn word about it the entire two hours of the show. It has nothing to do with modesty. I don't think he remembers and doesn't think the plot.

1:16:23🔗 Jerri Manthey You're unaffected.

1:16:24🔗 Adam That's, well, he's thick. It's like a cigar store Indian. He's wooden. He doesn't. He has no feelings. He's hollow.

1:16:32🔗 Jerri Manthey I don't believe that.

1:16:33🔗 Adam Wicker man. Nothing inside.

1:16:35🔗 Jerri Manthey He's married. He can't be hollow.

1:16:36🔗 Adam Empty, hollow shell. A broken, broken down shell of a man. That's true. Every every every nerve ending has been cauterized. He has no pulse. He has no feelings. Ice water in his veins, if in fact he has veins at all.

1:16:54🔗 Jerri Manthey Are you going to sit there and take that?

1:16:55🔗 Drew No, I'm just trying to think how much of that is accurate.

1:16:58🔗 Jerri Manthey Oh my gosh.

1:16:59🔗 Drew No, I'm just trying to think what it is that makes me not think about this stuff. A, I have great disdain for people that self-promote.

1:17:07🔗 Adam Horrible low self-esteem.

1:17:09🔗 Drew Low self-esteem. Both of us have low self-esteem, which is very helpful.

1:17:12🔗 Adam That's why we work well together.

1:17:13🔗 Drew We work beautiful together. And then just sort of that's my job kind of feeling. You know what I mean?

1:17:21🔗 Adam You're just not that interested in yourself, quite frankly. Yeah. You find yourself boring as most of us do. Bob.

1:17:27🔗 Caller Oh.

1:17:29🔗 Adam No, he's no big deal. Drew, hey, how about a warm up on the coffee?

1:17:35🔗 Drew Oh, yes sir.

1:17:35🔗 Adam Yes, I'll handle the calls. What's going on, Bob? You're 24.

1:17:40🔗 Caller Hey, Adam. What's up? You're my idol, dude.

1:17:42🔗 Adam Thank you. Yes, I know. Yeah.

1:17:44🔗 Caller Yeah. I just want to say that, first of all, I'm not gay.

1:17:50🔗 Drew Oh, we've got to, hang on a second. We've got to thank Diamond Limousine.

1:17:54🔗 Adam That's right. Diamond Limousine.

1:17:55🔗 Drew As long as I'm kissing ass.

1:17:57🔗 Adam Why does him not being gay have to do with Diamond Limousine?

1:18:00🔗 Drew I was thinking about kissing ass.

1:18:01🔗 Caller I wanted to talk about this earlier.

1:18:02🔗 Drew Hold on, Bob. Hold on. Bob, hold on a second. Bob. You're gay.

1:18:06🔗 Adam Hush that gay mouth of yours for one second. I want to thank Diamond Limo for bringing Jerri out here. Was everything in order?

1:18:14🔗 Caller Yes.

1:18:14🔗 Jerri Manthey Thank you, Diamond Limos.

1:18:16🔗 Adam Okay. Now, go ahead, Bob.

1:18:18🔗 Caller All right.

1:18:18🔗 Adam You were saying you were gay?

1:18:20🔗 Caller My girlfriend wanted to stick something up his butt. Right. I've actually tried that before.

1:18:25🔗 Caller Good time.

1:18:26🔗 Caller I've tried like putting a dildo in my butt and a vibrator.

1:18:29🔗 Adam Was a girl there?

1:18:31🔗 Caller No, no girl involved. I got the idea off of a like masturbation news group like five or six years ago. And I, you know, got this crazy idea to try it.

1:18:41🔗 Drew Hold on a second. Off what?

1:18:44🔗 Caller A news group like the Internet.

1:18:47🔗 Drew It's like a book club? A masturbation club?

1:18:50🔗 Caller Like alt-sex masturbation.

1:18:53🔗 Jerri Manthey A hundred and one ways to get off.

1:18:56🔗 Drew Wow. Is this making sense to you?

1:18:58🔗 Adam I stopped listening.

1:19:01🔗 Caller It does actually like, you know, create an effect that enhances your orgasm.

1:19:09🔗 Adam You masturbate while you do this?

1:19:11🔗 Caller Yeah, you masturbate while you're doing that.

1:19:13🔗 Adam What position would you then be in?

1:19:16🔗 Caller You sort of like, you have to sort of sit on your knees.

1:19:19🔗 Adam Right.

1:19:20🔗 Caller Like kneel down and then you hold it with one hand, holding the front with the other hand.

1:19:24🔗 Adam Right. But isn't that, isn't working that butter churn in your ass and whacking off, isn't that a lot like patting your head and rubbing your stomach? I mean, I would find that challenging.

1:19:40🔗 Drew Anything else, Bob?

1:19:41🔗 Caller So there was a slight like extra, you know, stimulation there.

1:19:45🔗 Drew That's good. That's good.

1:19:46🔗 Caller The main problem is that it's kind of messy. You don't really want to...

1:19:50🔗 Drew Right. It's a little bit of effort for a minor improvement. And it's in something that already is sort of about as good as it gets. You know what I'm saying?

1:19:58🔗 Adam Right. But let me explain how a lot of guys look at sex and or masturbating. You take these race cars.

1:20:05🔗 Drew It's a car, yeah. That's exactly the right analogy.

1:20:08🔗 Adam And they put them in a wind tunnel. They will spend a million dollars for every two miles an hour they pick up on the track and extra G of downforce. You know what I'm saying? Because they're that highly conditioned.

1:20:24🔗 Drew And every male deals with his masturbatory habits.

1:20:26🔗 Jerri Manthey He tries to find the ultimate experience.

1:20:29🔗 Adam We're all looking for that masturbatory edge. I think I found mine in high school. I don't want to talk about it on the air. I'm scared the competition is nipping at my heels, Drew. Drew, do you want to talk to someone before we go to break?

1:20:45🔗 Drew It was a good one to go to break with.

1:20:46🔗 Adam Really?

1:20:46🔗 Drew We've got to get a taste of this one.

1:20:48🔗 Adam Okay. Sarah?

1:20:49🔗 Caller Yeah.

1:20:50🔗 Adam You're 19?

1:20:51🔗 Caller Yeah.

1:20:51🔗 Adam Hi, Adam. Hey.

1:20:52🔗 Caller What's up? Oh, I've been trying to call you guys forever. Okay. I have been seeing women, being with women and everything. And I want to tell my dad. I want him to know because he knows everything about me.

1:21:10🔗 Drew Are you living with your dad?

1:21:11🔗 Caller No, I live alone.

1:21:12🔗 Drew How do you think your dad would react to this?

1:21:14🔗 Caller Well, he's a minister.

1:21:16🔗 Drew What does that mean?

1:21:18🔗 Caller He's a preacher.

1:21:19🔗 Drew But what I mean...

1:21:20🔗 Caller He would not... I really don't know how he would react with it. Like, I told him other things that he didn't really...

1:21:27🔗 Drew What other things?

1:21:28🔗 Caller Huh?

1:21:30🔗 Adam What other things?

1:21:31🔗 Caller Um, about...

1:21:35🔗 Caller stuff that...

1:21:36🔗 Caller I guess...

1:21:39🔗 Caller Well, I told him when I got my nipples pierced. I told him my dad.

1:21:43🔗 Adam Payback time, preacher.

1:21:44🔗 Drew Yeah, yeah. What did the dad... Was dad kind of physically abusive with you or something?

1:21:48🔗 Caller No.

1:21:49🔗 Caller When I was little, he just wasn't around.

1:21:52🔗 Caller He was married to somebody else.

1:21:54🔗 Caller And my mom says he was abusive, but I was too young for that.

1:21:58🔗 Caller All right.

1:21:58🔗 Drew Well, you were...

1:21:59🔗 Adam Keep paying him back.

1:22:00🔗 Drew Yeah, it's payback time.

1:22:00🔗 Adam Hey, you know what's good? You're a lesbian?

1:22:03🔗 Caller Huh? I guess. All right.

1:22:04🔗 Adam See, find yourself a black chick. You're probably...

1:22:07🔗 Caller I don't...

1:22:08🔗 Adam You're white, right? Are you white, Sarah?

1:22:11🔗 Caller Yeah.

1:22:11🔗 Adam Don't you think a black chick would piss him off even more?

1:22:14🔗 Caller It probably would.

1:22:14🔗 Caller Yeah, all right.

1:22:15🔗 Adam Go get a black chick, a big one, a big husky one.

1:22:19🔗 Caller Oh, my God.

1:22:20🔗 Adam All right? A name like Lasagna or something.

1:22:24🔗 Caller I remember that one.

1:22:26🔗 Adam Do that.

1:22:28🔗 Caller Me and my boss at work always, we call each other Spaghetti and Meatballs because of that.

1:22:32🔗 Adam Go get a big husky black chick and really send him through the roof. Okay?

1:22:38🔗 Caller Okay.

1:22:39🔗 Adam All right. And that'll make you feel better.

1:22:40🔗 Caller I can't do that, though.

1:22:42🔗 Adam Oh, you can't?

1:22:42🔗 Caller I can't do that because of me. I can't. I wouldn't be able to.

1:22:45🔗 Adam You're not into that?

1:22:46🔗 Drew Even though she's willing to do it, even though she's not into it, if you really get back at dad, she's willing to go there.

1:22:50🔗 Adam I'm telling you, you may not be into that, but even if you're not, it would really do a number on your dad.

1:22:58🔗 Caller Well, I really don't even, I don't even know if I really, I mean, I like women and everything, but.

1:23:02🔗 Adam Well, whether you like women or not is not important. You got to tell your dad you're a lesbian.

1:23:07🔗 Caller I just don't like men at all. I hate men. All right.

1:23:10🔗 Adam So process of elimination.

1:23:13🔗 Drew Just remember, the one thing I would say though, is that the extent that you have difficulty perceiving reality, it's usually the issues of the past coming to bear in the present. All men are not hateful.

1:23:25🔗 Caller Well, every man that I've ever like.

1:23:27🔗 Drew I understand that's how you experience it.

1:23:28🔗 Jerri Manthey But just be aware.

1:23:30🔗 Drew Just be aware that the.

1:23:31🔗 Adam Not that Kobe though. I know.

1:23:34🔗 Drew The experience of the past coming to bear in the present distort reality a little bit. You shouldn't be a lesbian. I'm not saying that at all. I'm just saying they'd be hateful of a whole gender suggest all some.

1:23:44🔗 Jerri Manthey There's some really wonderful men out there.

1:23:46🔗 Caller I mean, I'm not. I just don't like to have a relationship like with a man. That's fine.

1:23:50🔗 Jerri Manthey Do you have any male friends?

1:23:52🔗 Caller Just friends? My best friend is a man.

1:23:53🔗 Jerri Manthey Oh, OK.

1:23:54🔗 Caller Good. And I don't have many girlfriends.

1:23:57🔗 Adam Gay. He's gay?

1:23:59🔗 Caller No, he's not.

1:23:59🔗 Adam Really? Well, there's a good straight guy.

1:24:02🔗 Caller Well, he.

1:24:04🔗 Drew She hates him too.

1:24:05🔗 Caller Huh?

1:24:05🔗 Drew You hate him too.

1:24:06🔗 Caller No, I love him. He's my best friend. But it just wouldn't.

1:24:11🔗 Drew No, no, we're not. We're not saying you should test your sexual orientation. We're not saying that. We're just saying that that hatred may be a little bit overdone.

1:24:20🔗 Caller That's really wary of him. I guess.

1:24:22🔗 Drew Yeah, well, dad. Dad wore you down long ago.

1:24:24🔗 Adam Sarah.

1:24:25🔗 Caller It wasn't really my dad that said it to me.

1:24:27🔗 Caller It was other people.

1:24:28🔗 Adam Listen, any guy you're going to choose is going to be a bad guy at this point in your life anyway. So it's not going to be a coincidence, you know, when you say that every guy you've been with has been an a-hole. Of course, you chose them and you're not in the position to choose anyone who's not an a-hole at this point in your life. Okay listen, everyone please stop acting out constantly. Your life just become one big acting class. Just stop it. Just look, you're pissed at dad or you're pissed at stepdad or whoever did what to you. Fine. Get some help, get some therapy. You're an adult now. Read a book, work it out. Stop just acting out. Okay, we'll be back. Yep, Loveline, everybody. Jerri is here from Survivor. And so is Adam and Dr. Drew, who have no interest in doing a show like that. I would fold like a card table. Like a taco, immediately.

1:25:55🔗 Jerri Manthey It's not for everyone.

1:25:57🔗 Adam No, and you know the thing, you know, every time, ironically, the show is on at 8 o'clock and most people just finish dinner and sit down and watch it. And you know, when you're full, it's like, ah, honey, quit complaining about the rice. You'll be fine. You know, but I'll tell you, just skip breakfast and lunch that next day and see what kind of mood you're in.

1:26:24🔗 Jerri Manthey That's what I would tell people.

1:26:25🔗 Adam Well, and people don't realize.

1:26:27🔗 Jerri Manthey And don't sleep either. Like, don't sleep for the whole night.

1:26:30🔗 Drew Wake up.

1:26:31🔗 Adam Yeah, I'll tell you, in terms of mood, sleep, deprivation and and food are probably in the top three or four of things that will alter your mood for the worse.

1:26:46🔗 Jerri Manthey Yeah.

1:26:47🔗 Adam And it's basically if you're if you're if your fuse was five feet long with a full belly and eight hours sleep, it gets down to six inches long.

1:26:58🔗 Jerri Manthey Yeah.

1:26:59🔗 Adam With no sleep and no food. And I do sympathize. Maggie.

1:27:05🔗 Caller Hey, guys. Hey, how are you?

1:27:06🔗 Caller Hello.

1:27:07🔗 Caller Okay. First of all, I just want to say that I really respect that you aren't afraid to speak your mind and be 100% honest. I think that shows a real sign of strength. And thank you. Okay. My question was, I was wondering if you were surprised at all when your alliance turned against you and voted you off. I mean, did you see it coming or were you just like, Oh my God, I can't believe they did this to me.

1:27:29🔗 Jerri Manthey I actually did sense it coming because that morning I had a little bit of an outburst.

1:27:34🔗 Caller Oh, right.

1:27:34🔗 Jerri Manthey And, you know, there's a certain dynamic that changes when you're about ready to get voted off because I did it to other people as well. You start to distance yourself from them. And, you know, the person will walk up when you're in the middle of a conversation talking about them. And the place kind of goes silent. And I just kept sensing those things happening to me all day. So I saw it coming. And I told Amber, I was like, I don't think I'm going to come back tonight. Please make sure if someone gets my bongo drum to me.

1:28:03🔗 Adam Yeah, no going back to the camp to get the bongo.

1:28:05🔗 Jerri Manthey No, no. I had to get one of the producers to get to me.

1:28:09🔗 Adam Could you have brought the bongo drum with you to the fireside, Chad?

1:28:14🔗 Jerri Manthey Well, the hike there was so grueling and dangerous that...

1:28:18🔗 Drew Really?

1:28:19🔗 Jerri Manthey Yeah, carrying a bongo drum with you.

1:28:20🔗 Drew You don't really get that feeling watching it.

1:28:22🔗 Jerri Manthey How long is the hike? Well, they would drop us off at the top of this canyon, and then we'd hike across these rocks. It took like two hours. Really? Yeah. And it was probably the scariest part. Why?

1:28:34🔗 Drew Were the heights?

1:28:36🔗 Jerri Manthey Yeah, there was rocks that if they were even slightly slippery, you were like walking on ice. And then if you slipped and fell, you'd fall into some rapids and get dumped over a huge waterfall. I mean, you really begin to feel like they just, you know, they're just hoping something dangerous happens because it would make it more interesting.

1:28:52🔗 Adam Did you, and do you have the feeling that, like we were talking about this earlier about them not having doctors, you know, present when you were voted off and went back into civilization, for lack of a better term. Did you, do you have the feeling that they wanted something spectacular to happen, that that would have been, you know, even bigger ratings for them and that everyone had signed off and they had no legal obligation to the person? Not that they wanted someone to die, but that the ratings if someone took a spill down a hill.

1:29:27🔗 Jerri Manthey It can only help ratings if someone.

1:29:29🔗 Drew How about the guy who fell in the fire?

1:29:30🔗 Jerri Manthey Yeah.

1:29:31🔗 Adam Who fell in that fire?

1:29:32🔗 Jerri Manthey This guy, Michael, Mike Scoupin. There were medics there.

1:29:37🔗 Adam He seemed like a decent guy. When did he get booted off?

1:29:40🔗 Drew He didn't. He burned. Oh, he burned.

1:29:42🔗 Adam He couldn't come back. That's right.

1:29:44🔗 Drew He got airlifted off.

1:29:45🔗 Adam Yeah. I saw him get airlifted off, but then I didn't know. I couldn't remember if he came back or not. No. There's the problem with that show. All the guys growing beards, they just turn into one big white guy with a beard. They all look like Santa to me.

1:30:01🔗 Caller That's your issue with the show?

1:30:02🔗 Adam Yes. Too many beards.

1:30:05🔗 Jerri Manthey Let me ask you a question. Would it bother you if you were dating a girl and she didn't shave her legs for a couple of weeks?

1:30:11🔗 Caller Oh, yeah.

1:30:13🔗 Adam Our pubic area, leg, armpits. Yeah, you couldn't get it all that stuff, could you?

1:30:20🔗 Jerri Manthey For me, it was an issue. It bugged me.

1:30:21🔗 Adam But it didn't really show up on camera, did it?

1:30:25🔗 Jerri Manthey No, it didn't. It really didn't. Thank God. Because everyone else had really fine baby blonde hair. Right. Did you guys wax before the show? We could have, yeah. I know some people did. But that's something that you have to kind of prepare for.

1:30:41🔗 Drew Even though it's a month in here.

1:30:42🔗 Adam Yeah. I mean, the waxing, that would come back too. All right, Maggie. You good? Thank you. Thank you. Let's talk to Brad over here. She was nice. Brad. Yeah. Hey, what's up?

1:30:53🔗 Drew What's up?

1:30:54🔗 Hi, Dr. Drew. Hi, Adam. Hi, Jerri. How are you? Hello.

1:30:57🔗 Drew You're gay. What's up, Brad?

1:30:59🔗 Yeah, I'm very gay. Stop that. This is my issue. When I was 14 years old, I started modeling as a male model and I moved to New York. And I was working for a really reputable agency. And my agent, when I was younger, I had long hair and everyone thought I was a girl. And my agent booked me for a job. And at the job, they ended up having me model as a woman instead of a guy. And my agent saw that I was getting more work as a woman than I was getting work as a guy. I started working as a female model. My whole portfolio, all my comp cards were done as a woman. And a lot of clients did not even know that I was a man. Because I had pulled off everything.

1:31:40🔗 Jerri Manthey What was your name as a woman?

1:31:42🔗 I'm not going to say my name because my name is the same name as my real name. What the deal is, I actually quit modeling about a year ago. Now I live in San Francisco. And I still dress up as a woman all the time because I'm really, really, really drop dead gorgeous as a woman. But what the issue is, is there was just a competition about eight months ago. It's top ten female illusionists out of the entire world. It's a big competition. It's called Miss Continental or Model Search 2000. And they bring female illusionists from all over the world and they compete and they represent their country.

1:32:17🔗 Adam When you say illusionists, see I thought you're talking about magic. That's what I thought.

1:32:21🔗 No, no, no.

1:32:21🔗 Adam I mean female illusionists mean female impersonators.

1:32:24🔗 We're not drag queens. We're female impersonators. So we all competed and I actually won first place. And I also won two additional awards, Miss Photogenic and Best for Runway.

1:32:35🔗 Adam How proud were your parents?

1:32:37🔗 Actually, my dad was there, my grandmother was there, and they're actually very proud.

1:32:41🔗 Adam Interesting.

1:32:42🔗 Caller But my mother doesn't know I'm gay. And she doesn't know I do that.

1:32:45🔗 Drew So what is the question, Brad?

1:32:46🔗 Adam If she was at Mr. Illusion 2000, she proudly has an inkling that something may be up.

1:32:52🔗 Caller Well, she wasn't there.

1:32:53🔗 Caller But my point now is, is now that I've gotten some type of recognition that yes, I am a beautiful woman, and I feel that I'm a lot more attractive as a woman than I am as a guy. As a guy, I'm just this average skinny...

1:33:03🔗 Adam I'm not gay, but I like to F the hell out of Bryant just based on his own recommendations.

1:33:08🔗 Drew So what's the question, Brad?

1:33:10🔗 Caller So what the question is, is I have some friends that I actually got to know through the show that actually competed. And they're now transsexuals, which means they were born as women. Yeah, yeah. For a year, then they had to complete sex.

1:33:21🔗 Drew Yeah, yeah.

1:33:21🔗 Adam We got it.

1:33:22🔗 Caller Now, I'm not interested in having my dick cut off and turn into a vagina.

1:33:25🔗 Drew Thank you.

1:33:26🔗 Caller What I'm interested in, though, is living part of my life as a woman because I feel that I'm much more attractive.

1:33:31🔗 Adam I see. All right. Listen, we got to take a break. Here's my thing. Brad is a mess. Brad, stop worrying about why you're so good-looking or how you can be so good-looking as one gender or another.

1:33:43🔗 Drew Pick a gender.

1:33:43🔗 Adam Stop basing your life on what you look like. Just pick the gender you like and be it.

1:33:47🔗 Drew And he could have breast implants that could be undone if he wanted to go down that path without being a transsexual.

1:33:51🔗 Adam Listen, get some therapy. Don't worry about the dress.

1:33:55🔗 Jerri Manthey I didn't catch the question.

1:33:56🔗 Adam Who cares?

1:33:57🔗 Caller Hello, this is your radio, Love Line.

1:34:35🔗 Adam All right. Well, there it is.

1:34:36🔗 Drew That's our version. When we get screwed over, we don't notice it.

1:34:40🔗 Adam Thank you.

1:34:41🔗 Jerri Manthey Because you don't pay attention.

1:34:43🔗 Drew That's right. We don't care.

1:34:44🔗 Adam Giving Jerri a little lesson in life. Off the air. All right. Jerri, thanks a lot for coming in.

1:34:52🔗 Jerri Manthey Thanks for having me.

1:34:54🔗 Adam It was nice to meet you.

1:34:56🔗 Jerri Manthey I've had a lot of fun here tonight, thanks. I've learned some interesting hits of trivia.

1:35:02🔗 Adam Well, thank you.

1:35:02🔗 Drew About Adam and his porn collection?

1:35:05🔗 Jerri Manthey Yeah, and things, what happens if you blow into someone's vagina?

1:35:09🔗 Adam That's right.

1:35:10🔗 Jerri Manthey Yeah.

1:35:11🔗 Drew So, if you're planning to do that, hold on.

1:35:15🔗 Adam And until next time, this is Adam Corolla for Dr. Drew saying mahalo.

1:35:20🔗 Jerri Manthey I didn't catch the question.

1:35:21🔗 Adam Who cares?

1:35:23🔗 Caller This has been Loveline. The opinions expressed on this show are not necessarily those of the staff, management, sponsors, or this station. The producer for Loveline, Dan Wilkins Engel. Loveline is a presentation of Westwood One Entertainment.

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