Wednesday, March 14, 2001

0:52🔗 Be a guy, you don't shave anything below the neck. Outrageous Talk Radio 100.7, The Buzz, KQBC, Seattle.

1:10🔗 Voiceover Listener discretion is advised. Adam Corolla and Dr. Drew Loveline, Coast to Coast.

1:24🔗 Adam Oh, yeah.

1:26🔗 Voiceover Loveline.

1:27🔗 Drew Just trying to get yourself charged up here. Oh, way to go, Adam.

1:31🔗 Adam Kick ass. Just trying to kick an ounce of enthusiasm into my lifeless corpse.

1:37🔗 Oh, yeah.

1:40🔗 Adam Phone number for Loveline. 1-800-L-O-V-E-1-9-1. That's Dr. Drew over there. Dr. Drew, Board Certified Physician, Addiction Medicine Specialist. You, troubled teen with an attitude. Drew's going to see right through that veil and help you tonight, right, Druski?

1:57🔗 Drew As you say, Adam. Let's go.

1:58🔗 Adam That's right there, buddy boy. Ready to hop on the phones and help the nation?

2:02🔗 Drew Way to go, Ace.

2:03🔗 Adam Yeah. Here we go now. Oh, no, no.

2:08🔗 Drew Give me a little chill.

2:09🔗 Adam No, we got to get a lightning round going soon. Nick Carter from the Backstreet Boys is going to be in here tonight. We actually have a Backstreet Boy on this show.

2:18🔗 Drew You're not going to subject him to a lightning round, are you?

2:20🔗 Adam No, no, it doesn't work with guests, but Nick and the rest of the boys, Backstreet Boys that is, are finishing up their gig at the Staples Center and he's coming straight over here. So he should be here anytime now, depending on how long it takes him to have sex with ten groupies backstage, finish up, wipe down and head over here. Josh?

2:42🔗 Oh, wow. What's up?

2:44🔗 Adam You're 18. What's going on?

2:45🔗 Caller I'm 18. I have a comment and a question.

2:47🔗 Adam All right.

2:48🔗 Caller My comment was, I went to the Backstreet Boys concert to pick up girls, but my plan, it backfired and the girls were like, they're all like 12 years old.

2:57🔗 Drew Right. Oh, boy.

2:59🔗 Adam Yeah. I still could have put together an alternate plan with those 12 year olds.

3:02🔗 Drew Was it just an amazing amount of screaming? Oh, boy.

3:05🔗 Yeah.

3:06🔗 Adam Were you at the show?

3:07🔗 Caller Yeah. I actually went, I actually, I paid some shady guys from like security guard, like five bucks to get in. And he like led us into the back.

3:16🔗 Drew Wait a minute.

3:16🔗 Adam No, you didn't.

3:17🔗 Caller I swear.

3:18🔗 Drew Wait, but not tonight.

3:19🔗 Excuse me?

3:20🔗 Drew No, he was in Seattle.

3:21🔗 No, Tacoma Dome. Yeah.

3:23🔗 Adam You paid a guy five bucks?

3:25🔗 Yeah.

3:25🔗 Adam Five bucks?

3:26🔗 Caller It's a magic handshake, you know.

3:29🔗 Drew Where did you sit?

3:30🔗 Caller Oh, we actually we had to find our own seats.

3:34🔗 All right.

3:34🔗 Adam Could you turn down the evening news back there, Josh?

3:37🔗 Caller Oh, yeah. No problem.

3:38🔗 Adam All right.

3:38🔗 Caller I also I got pictures of it on.

3:42🔗 Adam All right. You idiot. Jackass. Did you jump? Did you dump that out, Anderson?

3:48🔗 Please. Yeah.

3:50🔗 Drew Right on.

3:52🔗 Adam Listen, everybody who's got themselves a screwy website and thinks they're going to plug it over the air. You can do it through legitimate means by talking to us and perhaps we'll take pity on you. But if you just blurt it out, they don't get on the air because Anderson over there has himself a dump button and the show has a ten second delay.

4:12🔗 Drew Just block all that out.

4:13🔗 Yep.

4:15🔗 Drew Have you been boxing with him lately? Have you had an ongoing career?

4:19🔗 Adam No. I've been working too much. And he's too big. I think I scare him with my left hook. Nicole?

4:28🔗 Yeah.

4:28🔗 Adam You're 18. What's up?

4:29🔗 Caller Well, it's kind of the weirdest thing. Like, I'm 18 and I've never had a boyfriend. And everyone tells me it's really odd. And it's not like I'm bad-looking. I'm actually... Like, everyone tells me, well, you should have a boyfriend. Well, I don't know if I really want one after looking at all my friends.

4:43🔗 Drew Have you been dating at all?

4:44🔗 Caller What?

4:44🔗 Drew You date at all?

4:45🔗 Caller Yeah, I've dated, like, a couple guys. Like, I've dated probably about three guys in my entire life.

4:51🔗 Drew Why don't you date a little more? And don't feel the need to have a boyfriend. I think it's very protective not to have one at your age.

4:57🔗 Yeah, and that's a good thing.

4:58🔗 Caller And I totally see that because I am gonna be leaving for college in a couple months.

5:01🔗 Drew You're going to college, you're changing a lot, you're engaging in life, you're gonna meet a whole new group of peers and friends.

5:07🔗 Caller Yeah, and the whole thing with that, though, is that I kind of back out, like, I guess, like, a lot of the guys that they date could definitely turn into, like, more than just dating.

5:17🔗 Drew Yeah, but you're 18. Why do that to yourself?

5:19🔗 Caller And I don't want to.

5:20🔗 Nick Carter That's fine. Oh, leave her alone, Drew.

5:22🔗 Caller That's exactly right. Like, I don't want to really necessarily.

5:24🔗 Drew Leave her alone. I'm trying to support her.

5:26🔗 Adam I know, but you're enabling her.

5:28🔗 Drew Where are you going to school?

5:30🔗 Caller I'm hopefully going to Seattle. I don't know, maybe East Coast. But it's...

5:35🔗 Drew Seattle, East Coast.

5:36🔗 Adam Same place. I can see you're very serious about your education.

5:42🔗 Caller As of now, I just want to not be in high school. But I think...

5:46🔗 Adam I see.

5:46🔗 Caller I was listening to your show a couple nights ago, and you guys brought up a very good point about when you lose somebody close to you, you kind of don't want to replace them. Like, I don't talk to my brother anymore.

5:57🔗 Drew How come?

5:58🔗 Nick Carter How come?

5:59🔗 Caller He was a drug addict. I just didn't agree with a lot of the things he did.

6:03🔗 Drew So that was painful to lose him.

6:05🔗 Caller And he still lives with me, and I just don't talk to him.

6:07🔗 Adam How old is he?

6:10🔗 Caller He's 20.

6:11🔗 Nick Carter Yeah.

6:11🔗 Adam Well, you're smart to hit the road and go off somewhere to college. What base have you gotten to? Are you a virgin?

6:18🔗 Nick Carter Yeah, I am.

6:18🔗 Drew She's not dated three guys. Dated.

6:20🔗 Adam You never know. But, Nicole, it still sounds like you'd rather do a little more than dating.

6:28🔗 Caller I would. And I kind of feel like I'm missing out on a lot of things by not exploring more in relationships. But it's just kind of like...

6:37🔗 Adam Well, listen, don't put pressure on yourself. Just keep yourself open. If you meet a good guy, go out with him.

6:44🔗 Caller And you know what? There is a guy that I really like right now, and he's dating one of my really best friends. He actually hooked up a year ago, and we hadn't talked for a year because a friend of mine had told me one night that...

6:57🔗 Drew She's into him.

6:58🔗 Nick Carter That he... What?

6:59🔗 Drew Yeah, but that she's into him, right?

7:01🔗 Nick Carter No.

7:02🔗 Caller That, like, right before me and this guy were going to hook up, one of my friends that was kind of like a brother to me told me that he... that this guy only wanted me for sex. And so I was like, OK, being the virgin that I am, I'm not going to do that.

7:17🔗 Drew Well, just figure that all guys have that orientation. Just assume that's their priority. That may not be where they stop, but that's their priority.

7:25🔗 Adam I'm just saying, she's going to think herself right out of a relationship. Doing too much thinking.

7:32🔗 Drew It's all right, though.

7:33🔗 Adam A couple of wine coolers, hit off the joint, just relax. Take it slow, right, Drew?

7:38🔗 Drew Oh, my God.

7:39🔗 Adam Yes, indeed. Erica?

7:41🔗 Caller Yes?

7:42🔗 Adam Year 15?

7:44🔗 Nick Carter I had a question for you guys, but can you wait till Nick gets there?

7:47🔗 Caller Because I have a question for him, too.

7:49🔗 Drew All right. No.

7:50🔗 Nick Carter No?

7:50🔗 Adam No, I don't care.

7:52🔗 Drew I understand that's why she got the call through.

7:54🔗 No, no, I swear.

7:55🔗 Nick Carter I swear.

7:56🔗 Caller I have a question for you.

7:57🔗 Adam All right.

7:57🔗 Caller I just have one quick question for Nick.

7:59🔗 Adam I think I can answer any question you give to Nick. Go ahead.

8:02🔗 Nick Carter Well, it's not only a question.

8:03🔗 Caller It's just my friend, she really, really likes him.

8:06🔗 Nick Carter Yeah.

8:07🔗 Adam He knows. He's not interested.

8:10🔗 Oh, I know.

8:10🔗 Caller I know. I was wondering if he could say hi to her.

8:14🔗 Yeah.

8:16🔗 Adam I'll say hi to her for Nick.

8:18🔗 Drew Nick says.

8:19🔗 Caller Okay. Her name is Briand.

8:21🔗 Adam Briand?

8:22🔗 Caller Briand, yes.

8:23🔗 Adam Briand. Briand?

8:25🔗 Nick Carter B-R-I-A-N-D.

8:28🔗 Drew Briand.

8:29🔗 Adam Briand.

8:30🔗 Yes.

8:31🔗 Adam Hi. This is Nick Carter from the Backstreet Boys. I want to say hi to Briand.

8:36🔗 Drew Okay. Now, what's your question, Erica?

8:40🔗 Well, I can't. Okay.

8:41🔗 Nick Carter I came home and.

8:43🔗 Drew Stop. Don't go back now. Erica, what's that? You came home.

8:48🔗 Nick Carter I came home and I was home early and nobody was expecting me home.

8:53🔗 Caller And I found, well, I didn't find him, but I heard my stepbrother and my mom in there talking. And I found out that they were, they were sleeping together.

9:04🔗 Drew What did they say exactly?

9:06🔗 Nick Carter They were planning on when to do it, like, like next.

9:11🔗 Drew What did they say exactly?

9:15🔗 Caller Um, let me think.

9:21🔗 Drew What?

9:21🔗 Nick Carter What?

9:22🔗 Drew What did they say?

9:23🔗 Nick Carter They were talking just like about, like their schedules and stuff.

9:28🔗 Drew How old is your stepbrother? Oh, he has a very heavy schedule, I'm sure. Yeah.

9:34🔗 He goes to college.

9:35🔗 Yeah.

9:37🔗 Adam Where were they that they didn't know you were home?

9:41🔗 Nick Carter They were in his bedroom.

9:43🔗 Caller And that's like in the back of the house.

9:46🔗 Drew And you were just standing outside there listening?

9:49🔗 Nick Carter I was in the hall.

9:50🔗 Drew And why did they?

9:51🔗 Caller The door wasn't closed all the way.

9:53🔗 Adam And did they say we have to meet to have sex?

9:57🔗 Nick Carter No, they were just talking.

10:03🔗 Caller I couldn't hear everything.

10:04🔗 Drew So we either, either, this is bogus, or you misinterpret, these are our thoughts, or you misinterpreted what was being said. And we're trying to evaluate this.

10:15🔗 Adam That could have actually happened.

10:17🔗 Drew It could have actually happened. But not from what she's telling us.

10:19🔗 Adam We're going to need some more concrete evidence.

10:22🔗 Caller I guess I could have misinterpreted it maybe.

10:24🔗 All right.

10:26🔗 Adam That's okay, baby. Why are you thinking about it so much?

10:30🔗 Caller I don't know.

10:30🔗 Drew Because she wanted to talk to Nick Carter.

10:32🔗 Nick Carter No, I don't.

10:33🔗 Caller I don't like him.

10:34🔗 Nick Carter Well, I mean.

10:34🔗 Adam I see.

10:35🔗 Nick Carter I don't have anything against him.

10:36🔗 Adam Hold on, let me. Yes, I'm very upset for Nick. All right, goofball.

10:41🔗 Caller No, Adam.

10:42🔗 Adam All right.

10:44🔗 Drew Off with you.

10:45🔗 Adam I don't have time for the kids tonight, Drew. Maybe you've maybe you've gathered that most nights.

10:50🔗 Drew Interesting. Samantha.

10:51🔗 Adam Well, this is what I want to say to everybody. If you have an allegation, fine. But be prepared to support it in some meaningful way. You know what I mean?

11:03🔗 Drew I'm with you on that.

11:04🔗 Adam Well, we have more of that in this show than at just about any other place on the planet. Here's what I think is happening. And then you go, well, why do you think that? And they go, huh? You go, what makes you think your stepbrother's going to sleep with your stepmom? Or your brother's going to sleep with your stepmom? It's like you came to them with the allegation now. Then they start filling it in. But it doesn't really make sense. It's bad radio, Drew. Samantha?

11:33🔗 Nick Carter Yes?

11:33🔗 Adam You're 25.

11:34🔗 Nick Carter Yeah.

11:35🔗 Adam What's up?

11:36🔗 Caller I think I've been diagnosed with obsessive-compulsive disorders before. Nothing big, just little things.

11:45🔗 Drew But hair pulling?

11:46🔗 Caller I'm sorry?

11:47🔗 Drew Hair pulling?

11:48🔗 Caller Hair?

11:49🔗 Drew Pulling?

11:50🔗 Caller I just, no, no, no. I count syllables.

11:53🔗 Drew Count syllables.

11:54🔗 Caller I count a little stupid things. But I think that in my, in my, okay, in my relationships, I think I get obsessed too easy. Very, very obsessed that I can't help it. And I find myself, I'm so scared right now. I don't, I don't know what to do.

12:15🔗 Adam Why are you scared?

12:16🔗 Caller Because I can't control it. I mean, I've been with this guy for about over, about a year, over a year now. And I don't love him and he doesn't love me.

12:26🔗 Nick Carter And that's fine, you know, because, you know, I'm not, I'm not looking for that right now.

12:32🔗 Drew We'll get out of there.

12:33🔗 Caller That's not, that's not the point though. It's just the point is that even though I know I don't love him, I feel myself obsessed with him. I think that I'm a sane person, but insane in a way.

12:42🔗 Drew Have you taken a medication for this?

12:43🔗 Caller I used to take Zoloft.

12:45🔗 Drew Why don't you see if somebody maybe get you back on meds, maybe it'll be easier for you to reconnect with reality.

12:50🔗 Caller The thing is, it didn't help much. It didn't help.

12:52🔗 Drew Maybe that's the wrong medicine for it.

12:54🔗 Caller I'm sorry?

12:54🔗 Drew Maybe that was the wrong medication.

12:56🔗 Caller I'm not sure. I just, I just know that like last night, I just, what happened was he didn't answer his, or he turned off his cell phone. And so I was supposed to go to work. So his cell phone was off and it scared me because usually when I'm over, he turns off his cell phone, which maybe he's a bad guy. But the point is, the point is this is, it's not, forget it, forget him for a minute.

13:18🔗 It's me.

13:19🔗 Caller The thing is, is I could not control it. And in my mind, he had somebody over and I was just thinking all these things.

13:26🔗 Adam Samantha, let me ask you a quick question.

13:29🔗 Nick Carter Yeah.

13:29🔗 Adam How many syllables in psychiatrists?

13:33🔗 Nick Carter Four.

13:34🔗 Four.

13:35🔗 Adam Oh, that's pretty good.

13:36🔗 Fast.

13:37🔗 Adam Is that right?

13:37🔗 Practiced.

13:38🔗 Adam I'm going to look that up during the commercial break and check up on you. All right. You need to get...

13:43🔗 Caller I got into a car last night.

13:45🔗 Adam While you're driving or were you walking?

13:47🔗 Caller The thing is, I had saw a car that I thought that I had seen at his house before and I saw it.

13:52🔗 Drew But Samantha, look, you've got a lot of mental health issues going on here. A lot. You're 25. It's not about kid stuff anymore. It's about a very entrenched way of thinking, a mood problem, anxiety problems, obsessive-compulsive features. You need to have some treatment. You're suffering with this. You're making bad choices in relationship. You're not getting on in your life. Let's take care of this. Let's get some treatment, all right? It's time. It's time. And I can tell you that if you can't engage in some sort of talk therapy or behavioral therapies that are effective for you and they take a long time, medication would significantly reduce your suffering. Okay?

14:30🔗 Caller It won't help me.

14:31🔗 Drew The right medicine will.

14:31🔗 Caller Is there anything that will help me so I can help?

14:34🔗 Drew Yes. I'm telling you the things that will help you, but you've got to go ask for the help.

14:39🔗 Adam Yeah, why not? Why go through life the way you're going through life?

14:43🔗 Drew How much worse could it be?

14:45🔗 Adam She had a serious chemical imbalance and she needed to be balanced.

14:49🔗 Drew Absolutely.

14:52🔗 Adam Chris?

14:54🔗 Yeah?

14:54🔗 Adam You're 19.

14:55🔗 Caller Yeah.

14:56🔗 Adam What's your problem?

14:58🔗 Drew Well, I believe him already. Nothing. Go ahead. I'm seeing. See that? Sarah, we've had Sarah. We've had like one legitimate call tonight so far.

15:09🔗 Adam No, that is not.

15:10🔗 Drew They've all been. I believe it happened bogus.

15:13🔗 Adam We started off with more bogus last night than we did tonight. It is so true, though, Drew. You hear a guy and I don't know if it's just the sort of jack off tone or what it is. It's the age meets insincerity meets what?

15:31🔗 Drew It's, I look at the question up there and it's something horrible and the guy answering the phone is like gleeful. Gleeful and had full of bravado. No, wait a minute. That's not somebody that's talking about these all the time.

15:42🔗 Adam No, he just, what was his question?

15:44🔗 Drew Like whoop, whoop, whoop. It's like, hey, that's not somebody that's talking about it.

15:47🔗 Adam No, he was having, no, what was his question?

15:50🔗 Drew He and his girlfriend had walked in and his parents had had sex.

15:52🔗 Adam That's not horrible for a 19 year old.

15:54🔗 Drew No, it's not horrible, but it'd be like, hey, I got, you know, man, I got something to talk about. Yeah. I'm really upset about this one call.

16:00🔗 Adam I don't even compare it. I don't, I don't take their attitude and compare it to their question. I just hear their voice.

16:07🔗 Drew Yeah. Well, how they make me feel is my thing. Yeah.

16:10🔗 Adam Like you want to punch them.

16:11🔗 Caller Right.

16:12🔗 Adam Clarice?

16:14🔗 Hi.

16:15🔗 Adam Hey, you're 17. What's up?

16:16🔗 Caller Yeah. Like ever since me and my boyfriend had sex, my friends told me that it would pop my cherry and that it would, like, bleed a lot. But when we had sex, and he doesn't have a small penis, it's fairly large. But when we had sex, it didn't pop and it didn't hurt or anything. And I orgasmed and it felt good and everything. And I even had some of the secretion that you've talked about before.

16:43🔗 Drew I mean, you had, you gushed.

16:44🔗 Caller Yeah.

16:45🔗 Drew Wow. First time out.

16:47🔗 Adam Is it, are they still calling it popping the cherry?

16:51🔗 Caller I guess. That's what my friends call it.

16:52🔗 Drew Yeah. The popping is a figure of speech.

16:57🔗 Caller Really?

16:58🔗 Drew Yeah. There's no popping that goes on.

17:01🔗 Adam No, but they break the cherry.

17:02🔗 Caller Yeah.

17:03🔗 Drew They feel some pain and then gives way.

17:06🔗 Adam I thought that was something from the 70s. I don't even remember saying popping the cherry, like when I was in high school, we were popping cherries.

17:13🔗 It didn't hurt.

17:14🔗 Drew Good. Maybe you didn't have one anymore.

17:16🔗 Caller But, and then ever since we had sex, like it feels like someone put a balloon up in there and then they like inflated it inside me.

17:26🔗 Drew So you have some pain. Any discharge?

17:29🔗 Caller What do you mean? Like urine or?

17:30🔗 Drew No. I mean like any pus or anything funny coming out.

17:34🔗 Caller No, not really.

17:35🔗 Drew Any irritation around the outside? Yeah.

17:37🔗 Caller It feels like a balloon.

17:38🔗 Drew Yeah. How long ago did you have sex?

17:41🔗 Caller We had sex like a month ago.

17:42🔗 Drew No, no. You got to get a pelvic exam, okay? Really? Look, you should be getting one now anyway at your age. Yeah. Cervical cancer kills women in their 20s. It prevents that from happening. You're sexually active now, so it's important to do that as part of your normal health care. And now you have some funny symptoms that lead me to be concerned about infection. And you ought to get checked out.

18:03🔗 Adam Maybe there is a balloon up there.

18:05🔗 Drew Maybe left a balloon behind.

18:06🔗 Adam Have you been dating a clown?

18:08🔗 Caller I'm a little deep, but short and stout. Here is my handle, here is myself.

18:18🔗 Adam I know people think I should say something, but I'm not going to.

18:23🔗 Wow.

18:26🔗 Adam Can you do the dreidel song, Clarice?

18:29🔗 Drew Clarice?

18:30🔗 Adam That's it?

18:32🔗 I'm a little deep, but short and stout.

18:35🔗 Adam You don't have a lot of range, do you, baby? Come on, give me another song. Oh, my God. It's even weirdo broad night on Love Line. The guys we expected from, but the women. Have we got more bogus calls to this show in the last three weeks than we've gotten in the past three years?

19:00🔗 Drew No, we've got more in the last three weeks than we've had in the last nine years.

19:03🔗 Adam Oh, nine years.

19:04🔗 Yeah.

19:05🔗 Adam How's that go? Is it just one of these things like pit bull attacks or freeway shootings? They just seem to come in clusters?

19:14🔗 Drew I'm asking for y'all at the control tower there to screen out the BS.

19:21🔗 Adam Well, if this keeps up, men and women calling with these bogus calls, we're only going to take calls from hermaphrodite. Agreed, Drew?

19:30🔗 Drew Sure.

19:31🔗 Adam Hermaphrodite Wednesday. John?

19:35🔗 Yeah.

19:35🔗 Adam You're 16?

19:36🔗 Caller Yeah.

19:37🔗 Adam What's up?

19:38🔗 Caller Well, I got this thing with my teachers, but not really lots of them, just like one, where I get sexual obsessions with them. You know, like arrange to have them drive me home, or like she went to like the movies two weeks ago, and I find out she's going to go, and she went to go say Choc-a-Lot, and I somehow dragged my friends to go see it, just because she's going to be there.

20:05🔗 Adam How do you find out she's going to see the movie?

20:07🔗 Caller Well, I asked her what she was going to do this weekend.

20:09🔗 Drew How do you figure out what time and which...

20:12🔗 Caller Well, I just sort of like went and hung out in Westfield, and I checked what time movies were playing, and they were like...

20:18🔗 Drew Yeah, probably 12 different times. How do you decide which one?

20:21🔗 Caller Well, she was going to go that night, so I figured she wasn't going to go for a 9 o'clock show because that was probably too late for her, so I figured like 7.

20:28🔗 Adam And did you see her?

20:30🔗 Caller Yeah.

20:31🔗 Adam Did you say hi to her?

20:33🔗 Caller Yeah. And like, it happens like every year, like with a new teacher, like I get these like, I just start like obsessing about it.

20:41🔗 Drew He needs a girlfriend, right?

20:43🔗 Adam Yeah. You either need a girlfriend or a beanbag chair you can write.

20:46🔗 Caller Well, I have like a sort of girlfriend like this, you know, comes over and we do whatever, but like I could care like less about her.

20:54🔗 Drew Is there anything you need to tell us about your past? Nothing weird?

20:59🔗 Caller Like abuse?

21:00🔗 Drew Yeah, whatever.

21:02🔗 Caller Well, maybe like eight years ago.

21:06🔗 Drew So you were eight. What happened?

21:09🔗 Caller Well, there was some sexual abuse for like a short time, but.

21:13🔗 Drew With an older person?

21:14🔗 Caller Yeah.

21:15🔗 Drew I'm thinking about this again.

21:16🔗 Adam Yeah, I didn't believe this guy.

21:18🔗 Caller But, uh, I swear to God.

21:21🔗 Adam Where were you? I mean, how'd this happen?

21:25🔗 Caller What, the abuse?

21:25🔗 Adam Yeah.

21:26🔗 Caller Well, I was staying at my grandparents' house in, and like, it's in Portugal, and then, uh, it was my older cousin, like a relative, and he just sort of, we just sort of like kind of did, but he started like showing me things, and we started like doing stuff.

21:46🔗 Drew How old was he?

21:47🔗 Caller Uh, he must have been 15 at that time.

21:51🔗 Drew And you were eight?

21:52🔗 Caller Yeah.

21:53🔗 Adam Well, that's something.

21:54🔗 Drew That can screw with your, uh, workings. Your workings and your attachments to people, your attractions.

22:00🔗 Adam Have you ever, have you ever got any counseling for this?

22:03🔗 Caller Uh, well, I used to see a therapist for a couple years. I never bar off the subject, like...

22:07🔗 Drew All right, you might, you might want to check that out, right, Jack?

22:09🔗 Adam What'd you do? Just talk about tetherball and stuff? I mean, when you talk about your therapist with, you know, when you're 12, other than this...

22:19🔗 Caller O's, like, an eating disorder.

22:22🔗 Adam You had an eating disorder?

22:24🔗 Caller Yeah.

22:25🔗 Drew But that's... Some of that is from this trauma.

22:28🔗 Adam I'm sure all of it is. What kind of eating disorder did you have?

22:31🔗 Caller Anorexia.

22:34🔗 Adam Really? I didn't know guys got that very often.

22:36🔗 Drew Yeah, not very often, but they do get it.

22:38🔗 Adam Hey, John?

22:39🔗 Caller Yeah.

22:39🔗 Adam I think it's time to talk to someone again, and this time you got to tell them everything.

22:43🔗 Drew Yeah, absolutely.

22:46🔗 Adam Now we think every call's a bogus call, so the people actually need help don't get it. You see how it works?

22:51🔗 Yeah.

22:53🔗 Adam It's a ripple effect. All right, let's take ourselves a little break and regroup, Drew.

22:57🔗 Drew That would be a good idea.

22:58🔗 Adam I think you need a hug. When we come back, we're going to speak to...

23:01🔗 Caller Nick Carter.

23:03🔗 Drew When's he coming back? Coming out.

23:05🔗 Adam Nick Carter from the Backstreet Boys?

23:06🔗 Drew That's right.

23:07🔗 Adam Should be out here pretty soon. They just finished their gig up over there at the Staples Center, and he's coming here straight away. When we come back... Oh, he just called. And when is he coming over here, Anderson?

23:21🔗 Caller He'll be here in like 10, 15 minutes.

23:22🔗 Adam 10, 15 minutes. Darryl. Oh, that's from Engineer Anderson. So either he's already here or he won't be here for three days. Darryl is waiting on hold. He's 23. He's an alcoholic. He can't have erections anymore. He wants to know what's up with this. We'll tell him about it after this. Be right back.

23:58🔗 Caller You're listening to Loveline on Outrageous Talk Radio. 100.7 The Buzz.

24:13🔗 Adam Yeah, Loveline, I'm Adam Corolla, that's Dr. Drew over there. 1-800-LOVE-191 is the phone number. Sasha Alexander from Dawson Creek, I'll be in here tomorrow night. Cast of MAD TV. Somebody from NYPD Blue next week, Newfound Glory.

24:35🔗 Drew East St. Morales.

24:37🔗 Adam East St. Morales, oh yeah. Oh, is that from, I couldn't read it from here. Anyway, Nick Carter from the Backstreet Boys are gonna be in here, is gonna be in here in just a couple of few minutes and we will hop back to the phones.

24:52🔗 Caller Darrell? Yes.

24:53🔗 Adam You're 23?

24:54🔗 Caller Yes.

24:55🔗 Adam You're an alcoholic?

24:56🔗 Caller I guess.

24:58🔗 Drew Okay.

24:58🔗 Caller I'm really not sure.

24:59🔗 Caller I drink a lot, I guess.

25:01🔗 Caller All right. Okay, my question is, I've been abusing alcohol for about three or four years, the vodka, and I've recently quit about three weeks now and I've been experiencing numbness on my left side and my fingertips and my feet.

25:14🔗 Drew Well, you're detoxing. Have you been sleeping at all during that time?

25:18🔗 Caller Oh, yeah.

25:19🔗 Caller Tell me about it.

25:20🔗 Caller It's so terrible once you quit.

25:21🔗 Drew Yeah, you've been tremor? Are you tremulous still, too?

25:25🔗 Caller A little bit, but it's getting better.

25:27🔗 Drew Okay, well, you're detoxing. It takes a while to get off the stuff.

25:29🔗 Caller How long does it usually take?

25:30🔗 Drew Well, if you're untreated, it can drag on for a while. Certainly three weeks would not be an unreasonable period of time. The real intense stuff is usually about a week.

25:37🔗 Adam How does it go faster when you treat it?

25:39🔗 Drew It says, though, the whole thing is sort of suppressed. It's kind of a syndrome.

25:42🔗 Adam Do they give you medications?

25:44🔗 Drew Yeah, you have to get a lot of medicine.

25:45🔗 Caller Yeah, see, I'm doing it on my own, so.

25:47🔗 Drew Yeah.

25:47🔗 Adam What about the numbness?

25:49🔗 Drew The numbness, people get all kinds of funny symptoms when they're detoxing. Certainly numbness, shakiness, unsteadiness. I mean, I've seen, you name it, I've seen it.

25:59🔗 Caller But it should go away?

26:00🔗 Drew It should go away.

26:01🔗 Caller Longer than three weeks though, right?

26:03🔗 Drew Yeah, another week or so. Once you're not tremulous, and you're starting to feel normal, either you're sleepy or you're messed up for about six months, and your moods are going to be screwed up, especially if you don't get into recovery. I expect to feel like hell if you don't get involved in some sort of program. You've got to replace that alcohol with some process here.

26:20🔗 Caller And I'm also experiencing no erection.

26:22🔗 Drew Well, yeah, you have sympathetic overloads. That would not be a surprise.

26:27🔗 Adam Sympathetic overload is a good name for a band. I'm going to name my next project the Sympathetic Overload Project. Well, what should he do?

26:36🔗 Drew I think he's probably okay. Take lots of B vitamins, lots of fluids and get in the program.

26:42🔗 Adam Fluids, but not grain alcohol.

26:44🔗 Drew Not that sort of thing.

26:45🔗 Adam You mean like water?

26:46🔗 Drew Water and something in it.

26:48🔗 Adam Like what?

26:49🔗 Drew Like Gatorade.

26:50🔗 Adam Scotch or water?

26:51🔗 Drew No, Gatorade.

26:52🔗 Adam Gatorade and water? How about just drinking the Gatorade?

26:55🔗 Drew Gatorade would be great.

26:56🔗 Caller Why?

26:56🔗 Adam I was reading the Gatorade thing the other day. It has like, I don't know, weird stuff in there.

27:02🔗 Drew You need salt basically. You need fluid. You need salt, you need water and salt balance.

27:08🔗 Adam Does the salt keep the fluid in you?

27:10🔗 Drew Yes. And it also doesn't cause any dilution of anything you already...

27:13🔗 Adam How does the salt keep the fluid in you?

27:15🔗 Drew It basically, your kidney gets fluid out of you. See how I say this, the way it's understandable.

27:23🔗 Adam Well, you don't know.

27:24🔗 Drew No, no, I know. It affects the way the kidney dumps fluid water out.

27:29🔗 Adam So you don't process as much water.

27:31🔗 Drew So you will tend to retain sodium and water if you're taking in sodium and water.

27:37🔗 Adam I see. Do people take salt tablets anymore? Remember when athletes used to take salt tablets? Oh, yeah. Why don't they take those anymore? Okay. You're a great doctor.

27:48🔗 Drew That I don't know.

27:48🔗 Caller Paul? Yeah.

27:50🔗 Adam You're 25?

27:51🔗 Caller All right.

27:52🔗 Adam What's the question?

27:53🔗 Caller It's more of a clinical question. Dr. Drew would probably know about it. After having an orgasm, when I'm laying on my back or whatever way I'm laying down, if I kind of touch my finger very lightly, lightweight, like against the bottom side of my penis, I can feel like a radiating going down to the bottom of my feet, like towards the back of my legs. I think it's like the sciatic nerve. I don't know. I just want to know if you've ever heard of anything like that. I mean, I'm not scared about it.

28:26🔗 Drew There are all kinds of symptoms that people get after an orgasm that just are indicative of the whole process of orgasm.

28:36🔗 Caller I don't know.

28:38🔗 Drew Nothing you should worry about. Women complain about this all the time.

28:41🔗 Adam For me, I can't hear women talk.

28:43🔗 Caller Yeah.

28:45🔗 Adam Penny for your thoughts, huh?

28:47🔗 Caller Yeah. I was thinking maybe some of the sacral nerves.

28:50🔗 Drew No, Paul. Forget it. Stop. Stop thinking that way because that's not going to put you down a fruitful path.

28:57🔗 Adam Why don't you leave your pecker alone after you have the orgasm?

29:02🔗 Drew It's a spinal mechanism, okay? Spinal. It's a feedback loop that's through the spinal column that's stimulating the efferent pathways.

29:11🔗 Adam What do you think? You have cancer or something?

29:12🔗 Caller Oh, no. No, I wasn't scared. I just wanted to know if you had ever heard of anything.

29:15🔗 Drew Yes. Yes.

29:16🔗 Adam Just relax. Listen, after you have that orgasm, all bets are off with the penis. You get that weird shiver thing sometimes. All kinds of weird feelings. You're not supposed to touch your penis after an orgasm. That's the one time you leave it alone.

29:29🔗 Drew It's super sensitive at that point and it's due to a spinal mechanism. And the ones that are actually not well understood, the actual function of orgasm is not that well understood.

29:38🔗 Adam My penis is like a burn victim after I orgasm. Which is, don't get near it. It hurts. Leave it be.

29:46🔗 Drew Put it in sort of a laminar flow room.

29:49🔗 Adam That's right. Put one of those oxygen tents around it. Have Michael Jackson come visit it on the weekend. Just leave it be. Jenny?

29:59🔗 Caller Yeah? Oh.

30:00🔗 Adam There's Nick Carter now. Hold on a second there, Jenny.

30:04🔗 Caller Okay.

30:05🔗 Adam And just put them on hold. Nick, have a seat there, buddy. Right here, man. Good to see you. Put those headphones on. Adjust your volume there. And tell us all about it. What's up? Nick, now we met the Backstreet Boys at the Home Team show, right? Terry Bradshaw show. Do you remember that?

30:29🔗 Caller Yeah.

30:29🔗 Adam That was four or five years ago? Four or five years ago.

30:33🔗 Caller How long?

30:34🔗 How long the show last?

30:35🔗 Adam They canceled it halfway in our segment, I think. And since then, what do you sold? 55 million copies, 55 million CDs since we saw you last.

30:49🔗 That's OK.

30:50🔗 Adam Yeah, that's not bad. You just get off stage at the Staples Center?

30:54🔗 Yeah. We just got done performing.

30:55🔗 Adam How did that go for you?

30:56🔗 It went really good. I mean, it was a sold out crowd. And we actually were taping it for a CBS special.

31:05🔗 Adam When does that air?

31:06🔗 I don't know. Sometime in the summer, maybe a little bit sooner.

31:10🔗 Adam Have you guys played the Staples Center since they made it?

31:12🔗 I don't know if we have or not. I really can't remember.

31:15🔗 Drew Since they made it, the Staples Center? What was it before?

31:17🔗 Adam Well, since, I mean, the Forum, obviously, is where the Lakers used to play. You know what I was thinking? I was thinking of the Sports Arena, which is down the street.

31:25🔗 Drew Different.

31:27🔗 Adam Yeah, it's different, but what I'm saying is, it hasn't been there very long. And I'm just curious since it's been there relatively short period of time, if this is your first or second time around, but who cares now, Drew? You've soured me through this whole line of questioning. You want to talk about us?

31:46🔗 Caller Sure.

31:48🔗 Adam You have any opinions?

31:48🔗 Caller Where'd you get that shirt?

31:50🔗 Adam I got this shirt for the Man Show. Thank you very much, Nick. Nick grew up in where? Orlando?

31:58🔗 Caller No, I grew up in Tampa.

32:00🔗 Adam Oh.

32:01🔗 Caller It's close to Orlando.

32:02🔗 Adam I was reading here that the band got together in 93. But you're 21 now, right? So what? You're 13?

32:12🔗 Caller 12 actually. I was 12 going on 13.

32:14🔗 Adam Wow.

32:15🔗 Caller So I've been in the group for 8 years now.

32:17🔗 Adam How long was the band around before they cut their first CD?

32:23🔗 Caller Before we dropped our first CD in America, we were around for like 3 years over in Europe.

32:29🔗 Adam Oh, you started in Europe?

32:30🔗 Caller Yeah.

32:31🔗 Adam I didn't know that.

32:32🔗 Caller Yeah, we started in Europe actually about around the time Snoop and dropped Doggy Style and Nirvana, you know, let Nevermind out.

32:41🔗 Adam And did you guys, you were touring in Europe at 14, 15 years old?

32:45🔗 Caller Yep.

32:46🔗 Adam And were you polishing your, you know, honing your skills, polishing your act in Europe? I mean, was that the plan? Go to go to Europe and work out all the beats?

32:55🔗 Caller I don't think it was. I mean, it was a little bit of that. I mean, actually turned out to be that. But then, you know, in the beginning, basically what it was, was that, you know, America just wasn't ready for a five guy white group, you know?

33:06🔗 Adam Right. Well, I guess...

33:07🔗 Caller Because New Kids on the Block had just, you know, had all that big, controversial stuff right around that time.

33:13🔗 Adam Well, there was a little... New Kids on the Block were real hot in the early 90s, right? And then they went away. And then there was a little boy band Backlash, which was FeH. Done with that. Let's hear some Nirvana and Soundcard and all that good stuff. And then people calmed down for a while. And then the bands made their way back.

33:37🔗 Caller See, we came out with Who Dropped Around the same time we did. Spice Girls did. Hanson did.

33:43🔗 Adam Right.

33:44🔗 Caller And it was us. Actually, we were a little bit before the Spice Girls. And we were a little pissed mad because, you know, the Spice Girls had dropped two singles and they did really good. And we weren't doing nothing at all. And they had just came in and we were, you know, been in forever. And then they came in. And milked the market and left.

34:04🔗 Adam These Backstreet Boys weren't guys you went to junior high with. I mean, you were recruited, right?

34:09🔗 Caller No, actually, well, two of the guys, Kevin and Brian, are cousins. They've known each other for their whole lives. And, you know, me, AJ and Howie, we knew each other actually even a little bit before eight years. The group's actually been together for eight years. But me, Howie and AJ, we knew each other like two years before that.

34:27🔗 Adam Oh, you did?

34:28🔗 Caller Yeah, AJ actually knew Howie even six years before that.

34:31🔗 Adam I always just thought everyone was like recruited.

34:33🔗 Caller No, we knew each other.

34:36🔗 Drew We interviewed 90 Degrees, remember?

34:38🔗 Adam Yeah.

34:38🔗 Drew And they were talking about how they were basically all pages at Universal Studios.

34:42🔗 Adam Well, they were like recruited.

34:44🔗 Drew Yeah, and they were just recruited. I mean, they were from all over the country.

34:47🔗 Caller Really?

34:47🔗 Drew Yeah. Well, like, wasn't that 90 Degrees?

34:50🔗 Adam Nsync is recruited.

34:51🔗 Drew It was Nsync, yeah.

34:52🔗 Adam Aren't they?

34:53🔗 Yeah.

34:54🔗 Yeah.

34:55🔗 Adam You don't like them. You can't talk about them, right?

34:57🔗 Caller No, that's cool.

34:58🔗 Adam Right. No, he's 55 million records.

35:01🔗 Caller What do you care?

35:02🔗 Caller That's cool.

35:03🔗 Caller Yeah.

35:03🔗 Caller I mean, hey, that's cool. The guys are cool. They're cool guys.

35:07🔗 Adam They seem like it. They're not on the show, so we can say whatever we want about them, and I doubt they'll be in here anytime soon.

35:14🔗 Caller All right.

35:14🔗 Adam So, where do you live now?

35:17🔗 Caller Where I live, I still have a place in Tampa.

35:19🔗 Adam And do you like doing all the touring? I mean, do you like the lifestyle?

35:24🔗 Caller I love it. We haven't been touring in about a year since the Millennium Tour. And now we're doing the Black and Blue Tour. It's going really good. We're having fun. I mean, we're up there just giving it all again.

35:36🔗 Adam And when do you go to Europe?

35:38🔗 Caller Oh, we go to Europe, like, sometime, I don't know, sometime like late summer.

35:46🔗 Adam And what's with the, you're going to do some producing or managing?

35:51🔗 Caller Yeah, I've actually been producing and co-managing a band, actually managing until the time they get picked up or whatever.

36:01🔗 Adam Born into chaos?

36:02🔗 Caller Yeah, it's a band from Tampa, my best friends in the band.

36:05🔗 Adam Can't you just force them to be picked up?

36:07🔗 Caller No, you know what, I thought it was going to be that easy, but it's not. You got to pay your dues no matter what. And I've come to find that out with these guys. They've been together for about a year now. And when they first got together, what it was was my friend Brent, he's one of the guys in the group, he's a guitar player. I had to ask him to, I said, what do you want to do? You want to do something? He was in a really low point of his life and everything. I said, well, what do you want to do? Get yourself out of there and everything. And I suggested, man, because he liked to play guitar and everything. I said, if you get your guitar skills really rolling and everything, and you get a group together, I'll help fund you. I'll help put you out. I'll help you tour and make records. And I said, but you got to want it. So that's what they're doing right now. And I saw myself achieving. I've known this kid for a long time. Me and him are just best buds and everything. And I saw myself achieving the dream that I have wanted my whole life. And I just wanted him to do it too. So basically I'm using my money, everything that I've had, and I'm helping him out with his band.

37:20🔗 Adam But you could get your label to pick them up if you want it, don't you?

37:22🔗 Caller Well, I mean, we're actually, dude, I'll tell you what, we've gone through songs and songs. I've been like, you know, guys, you gotta check out this band. You know, they're gonna be doing something. And people are starting to pick up on them a little bit. And our label's like, oh, let's get them in the studio. Let's do some more demos and see what they sound like in a little more time. Say, hey, man, do it now, you know? But, you know, you'd think it would be easy to do that and put them on our label, or especially even Jive.

37:49🔗 Adam No, no, I listen to him. I understand fully because on a much lesser scale, people come up to me and say, hey, can you give me one of those Man Show sweatshirts? And I go, I don't think they'll give me one. And Drew goes, who are you kidding? It's your show. Go get one. And I go, I think they'll yell at me if I try to get one. So I understand sometimes. It doesn't mean you get to do everything.

38:13🔗 Caller It's not easy.

38:14🔗 Adam All right, let's take ourselves a little bit of a break here, Drew, and when we come back we'll speak to Vanessa's 20. After sex with boyfriend, he gets small cuts on his pee pee. We'll talk to her and him about it after this. Yep, it is Loveline. I'm Adam Corolla, that is Dr. Drew. Over there, phone number, 1-800-LOVE-191. Nick Carter's here from the Backstreet Boys. Still sweaty from his stage appearance at the Staples Center. And we thank him for coming by straight away.

39:24🔗 Caller Thanks for letting me on.

39:26🔗 Adam You guys are in town tonight, obviously. So you just go back to the hotel, get some rest tonight. You doing a bunch of press or something tomorrow?

39:34🔗 Caller I don't know what the heck we're doing tomorrow.

39:36🔗 Hey, Rose, what are you doing?

39:37🔗 Caller No.

39:38🔗 Adam But you guys break off and go different directions, right? I mean, I have to travel.

39:42🔗 Caller Yeah, we can do whatever we want.

39:45🔗 Adam Like tonight? Alright, let's speak to Vanessa's 20. Vanessa?

39:50🔗 Caller Hello.

39:51🔗 Adam What's up?

39:52🔗 Caller Well, my boyfriend, after my boyfriend, I have sex. He gets little, it almost looks like razor blade cuts around the head of his penis.

40:01🔗 Drew Is he wearing a condom?

40:02🔗 Caller Yes.

40:03🔗 Drew Could it be an allergy to that?

40:06🔗 Caller We've tried different condoms. He has them to the doctor. Yeah. The doctor said it looked like a yeast infection and he's been putting Lamisil cream on it. But it, I mean, it never, it never fails. It's like every after every time we have sex.

40:23🔗 Drew Does it ever heal completely?

40:25🔗 It does heal completely.

40:26🔗 Caller We have to wait for it to heal because he's in so much pain.

40:29🔗 Drew And have you tried polyurethane condoms or animal skin condoms?

40:32🔗 We've tried everything.

40:33🔗 Drew Then you sure?

40:34🔗 Adam Wait a minute. Does he have the cuts immediately after sex?

40:37🔗 Caller No, it's usually like later on that day or the next day. And he's not circumcised.

40:45🔗 So I thought that had to do something with it. And that's what the doctor kind of said.

40:48🔗 Drew Right. And then that's the word that sort of yeast comes into this, but yeah, because the skin.

40:52🔗 Adam They look like, why, why little cuts? Is that drying?

40:55🔗 Drew It just like chafing and kind of cracking. But the herpes could do this too.

40:58🔗 Adam I'm going to, I'm going to, I got a theory here. You don't keep your keys up there. Do you Vanessa? No. I had a girlfriend, I kept her, I kept the spare, she kept the hide a key.

41:07🔗 Drew You're right. Contact dermatitis, the nickel from the keys. You're right Adam.

41:10🔗 Adam Listen, I've said a million times, if I had a vagina, I would keep stuff there. Think about it. He swears that my extra set of keys, what have you, dice, just things you'd want. Change for the meter.

41:22🔗 Caller Money.

41:23🔗 Adam Yeah, right. Right. And why not?

41:24🔗 Drew It's a purse.

41:25🔗 Adam Sure.

41:26🔗 Where's my dad put a razor blade up there so he couldn't touch me? But it's...

41:30🔗 Adam That's lovely.

41:31🔗 Caller We joke about it, but he's in so much pain that we don't know what to do anymore.

41:35🔗 Drew Again, it can be herpes. You probably should have a dermatologist take a look at this when he's having a little outbreak.

41:41🔗 Adam Wouldn't Vanessa have yeast if he got yeast?

41:43🔗 Drew No, because they wear condom all the time.

41:45🔗 Adam Yeah, but it's every... religiously you wear condom? Yeah. I don't know.

41:52🔗 Caller And it's just started probably, I'm going to say, four months ago.

41:55🔗 Drew It's a bad irritation, that's for sure. It may be a reaction to the condom. And you even use the animal skin condoms?

42:01🔗 Yeah, he has bought the animal skin condom.

42:05🔗 Drew I would stick with those, but if he gets an outbreak again, get into a dermatologist.

42:08🔗 Okay.

42:09🔗 Drew I'm worried about herpes here.

42:10🔗 Adam How about you give him oral sex for a month and give him a little break?

42:14🔗 Caller Yeah, right.

42:15🔗 Adam Yeah. All right.

42:16🔗 Drew As if.

42:17🔗 Adam Well, listen, I think as soon as his penis is healed, it's back into the fire, it goes. And then it gets irritated again and never gets healed. So it's called a vicious cycle. Amanda?

42:33🔗 Nick Carter Yes.

42:34🔗 Adam You're 18?

42:35🔗 Nick Carter Yeah. Nick, I love you.

42:38🔗 Caller Oh, thank you.

42:40🔗 Adam He's never heard that from a young girl before.

42:43🔗 Nick Carter Are you ever going to do an album with Aaron?

42:46🔗 Am I ever going to do an album with Aaron?

42:48🔗 Nick Carter Yeah.

42:49🔗 Caller I don't know if I'm going to do an album. I might do a couple of songs with him or something.

42:52🔗 Nick Carter Yeah, because I love your little brother, too. He's so adorable.

42:57🔗 Adam Oh, that's your little, your little brother.

42:59🔗 Caller Yeah, that's my little brat.

43:01🔗 Adam He's like 13.

43:02🔗 Caller Yeah.

43:03🔗 Adam And he's rapping and dancing and everything.

43:06🔗 Caller He's a lot cooler than me.

43:08🔗 Adam Oh, I've seen that. Drew, have you seen that kid?

43:10🔗 Caller No.

43:11🔗 Adam He's got an album out, right? He's got videos out.

43:14🔗 Caller Yeah.

43:15🔗 Adam He's filling up places and selling, moving. I mean, he sold a few CDs, right?

43:20🔗 Caller He's doing good, man.

43:21🔗 Drew Did your parents encourage him along?

43:23🔗 Caller He kind of wanted it himself, man. He's been, I mean, he's been around, he's been in the business for a while now.

43:28🔗 Drew Did your parents encourage you into it?

43:30🔗 Caller No, I mean, it's awesome. You kind of want it.

43:33🔗 Drew But I mean, did they?

43:34🔗 Caller Well, they helped.

43:35🔗 Drew They helped. They have some knowledge of this. They supported these little ideas you guys had.

43:39🔗 Caller Of course.

43:40🔗 Adam Well, how do you know, like, how do you know when you can sing? Do you know what I mean? How old were you? Were you nine? Were you singing?

43:47🔗 Caller I don't remember. I was so young and I don't remember.

43:51🔗 Adam But, Drew, do you think that that's one of those innate sort of god-given kind of either got it or you don't. And if you do got it, it just starts coming out, starts coming to the surface kind of thing.

44:02🔗 Drew Yeah.

44:02🔗 Adam Wouldn't you say?

44:03🔗 Drew Yeah.

44:04🔗 Adam You just start doing it at a young age naturally. You start gravitating. I mean, you were singing, were you like doing school plays and Yeah, I was doing school plays.

44:12🔗 Caller You know, I mean, I guess I could sing. So, you know, what happened was I went and took a couple of vocal lessons here and there just to help, you know, learn how to sing properly, I guess. There is a way to, you know, sing right and wrong.

44:26🔗 Adam Oh, I know. Drew, you know, I sing wrong. That's how I know. But Drew was in Man of La Mancha. He was like ten, right? And Drew sings opera. And boy, you really parlayed that into quite a living.

44:39🔗 Drew It's been very useful.

44:39🔗 Nick Carter Give us a sample.

44:40🔗 Adam Amanda?

44:41🔗 Nick Carter Yes.

44:42🔗 Adam Who's crying in the background?

44:44🔗 Nick Carter My five-month-old. My mom's taking care of her right now, so I could say hi to Nick. Nick, are you going to do anything with Leslie?

44:55🔗 Caller With Leslie?

44:55🔗 Man, she knows my whole family.

44:57🔗 Adam Who's that? Your sister?

44:58🔗 That's my sister.

45:00🔗 Caller Yeah, she signed to DreamWorks, so she's going to do something, too.

45:03🔗 Adam She sings, or acts?

45:04🔗 Yeah, she sings.

45:06🔗 Nick Carter When is her album going to come out?

45:07🔗 Caller I don't know yet. I think they're still prepping her.

45:10🔗 Nick Carter Yeah, because I have her first two songs.

45:12🔗 Caller Oh, you do?

45:12🔗 Drew Amanda's phone's 11.

45:13🔗 Nick Carter Cool.

45:14🔗 Adam Yeah. Hey, Amanda?

45:15🔗 Nick Carter Yeah.

45:16🔗 Adam By the way, my sister, she's very talented. She borrows money. That's her big talent. Amanda, you all right? Anybody molest you growing up?

45:27🔗 Caller No.

45:29🔗 Adam You got that little girl voice?

45:31🔗 Nick Carter That's just how I talk.

45:32🔗 Drew No, no, no.

45:34🔗 Adam What happened?

45:35🔗 Nick Carter Nothing.

45:36🔗 Adam Tell us the truth.

45:37🔗 Nick Carter Seriously.

45:39🔗 Adam Tell us the truth.

45:41🔗 Nick Carter Seriously.

45:42🔗 Adam Where's your dad?

45:44🔗 Nick Carter In his room sleeping.

45:46🔗 Adam Is that a grave or prison? Where is he?

45:49🔗 Nick Carter His room.

45:50🔗 Adam All right. When did you lose your virginity?

45:53🔗 Nick Carter When I was 17 and a half.

45:55🔗 Adam Who touched you before then?

45:57🔗 Nick Carter No one.

45:58🔗 Adam Be truthful.

45:58🔗 Drew The first time you had sex, you got pregnant?

46:01🔗 Nick Carter No.

46:02🔗 Drew You got a five and a half month old.

46:05🔗 Nick Carter I'm very serious with her father.

46:09🔗 Adam Where's her father now?

46:11🔗 Caller At work.

46:12🔗 Adam We're just trying to do the math. You have a five month old.

46:16🔗 Nick Carter Yeah.

46:17🔗 Adam You're pregnant for, what is it now, six months? How long does that take?

46:20🔗 Drew Nine months.

46:20🔗 Adam Nine months.

46:22🔗 Drew You're 18 now.

46:23🔗 Adam There you go with about 15 months.

46:24🔗 Nick Carter I'm 18, 19 next month.

46:26🔗 Adam I see. All right.

46:27🔗 Drew So you dated him three months before you got pregnant?

46:30🔗 Nick Carter No. I was with him nine months.

46:33🔗 Adam Okay. All right. It all checks out.

46:36🔗 Caller They were trying to bust you.

46:38🔗 Adam Amanda, seriously, just tell us.

46:41🔗 Drew She's afraid she's going to ruin her image in Nick's eyes.

46:44🔗 Adam No. Nick doesn't care. That turns him on.

46:49🔗 Caller I'm sure that does.

46:50🔗 Adam You more than me. Seriously, somebody, you don't, don't give us any details. Just tell us yes or no.

46:57🔗 Caller What?

46:58🔗 Drew Something physical.

46:59🔗 Adam Somebody touched you. Yeah. Physical. Something physical.

47:03🔗 Nick Carter No.

47:04🔗 Adam No. No beatings.

47:06🔗 Nick Carter No.

47:07🔗 Caller All right.

47:08🔗 Adam It doesn't check out. All right, Amanda. If you're lying, I'll see you in hell.

47:14🔗 Caller All right.

47:15🔗 Nick Carter I love you, Nick. Bye-bye. Bye.

47:18🔗 Drew There's no way.

47:19🔗 Caller Yeah.

47:20🔗 Adam You think you could have cracked her if you had a little more time, Drew? Jenny?

47:24🔗 Nick Carter Yeah. Hi.

47:25🔗 Adam You're 14. What's up?

47:26🔗 Nick Carter Yeah.

47:26🔗 Caller Well, first of all, Nick, I've been an enormously huge fan for like, I don't know, since I was nine. But I'm sure you don't want to hear that. Anyway, I do have a serious question. My mom, she's afraid to lose weight.

47:38🔗 Drew Afraid to lose weight?

47:39🔗 Caller Yeah.

47:40🔗 Caller That's interesting.

47:41🔗 Adam Scared her boobs will get smaller?

47:43🔗 Caller No.

47:44🔗 Caller No. She's afraid of looking good because I think I have something to do because when she was four, she was mustered by her cousin.

47:52🔗 Drew That's what people do. They will gain weight as we are repelling people from them.

47:57🔗 Caller I mean, she has like diabetes. She takes like nine pills a day.

48:00🔗 Adam That's why I got all the hair on my ass. It's my nature to repel those guys.

48:06🔗 Caller I'm so worried about her.

48:07🔗 Adam All right. Jenny, hold on a second because we got to take a break.

48:10🔗 Caller Okay.

48:10🔗 Adam All right.

48:11🔗 Caller All righty.

48:11🔗 Adam We'll get right back with you and figure out your mom though, right? Okay. Nick Carter is here for the Backstreet Boys. Take a little break. We'll get back with Jenny and Big Mama. Kill Book Rape's mom after this.

48:26🔗 Caller We'll be right back. Call on the 1-800-LOVE-191.

48:46🔗 Caller Outrageous Talk Radio, 100.7, The Buzz, KQBC Seattle.

49:11🔗 Adam Loveline, I'm Adam Corolla, that is Dr. Drew over there. Nick Carter's here from the Backstreet Boys.

49:17🔗 Caller Yes, sir.

49:18🔗 Adam Black and Blue, of course, is the name of the CD. Eight Times Gone Platinum.

49:24🔗 Caller Yeah, worldwide.

49:27🔗 Adam What do you got to do, sell a million to go platinum?

49:30🔗 Caller Yep, that's what you got to do.

49:32🔗 Adam Now, I got a question you may not have an answer for, but it came up last night when Nelly Furtado was on this show. It's a million to go platinum in the US., but in Canada, it's less.

49:45🔗 Caller 500 or something?

49:46🔗 Adam 500. So if you got 8 million, no, no. If it's gone platinum eight times worldwide, is that 8 million? And if or should be less.

49:56🔗 Drew Should be less once you talk about China.

50:00🔗 Caller Then all you need is 50 for Germany.

50:03🔗 Adam 50 for Germany and 45 million.

50:05🔗 Drew Yeah.

50:06🔗 Caller 50,000.

50:08🔗 Adam For China, though, you need. Yeah, that would make sense. All right. I'd like to find out how you go platinum.

50:14🔗 Drew Canada is 30 million people. We have 350 million. You would think it would be 100,000.

50:20🔗 Adam How many is China have? Does it have like 2 billion or something?

50:22🔗 Drew Yeah. Oh, I couldn't even get more there.

50:26🔗 Adam Well, Pink Lady, were they Chinese? What did they do? No, I can't think of any Chinese fans off the top of my head.

50:34🔗 Drew It's a kind of five.

50:37🔗 Adam Oh, they Japanese.

50:38🔗 Drew Japanese. Excuse me.

50:41🔗 Adam Jenny, you're 14. What's up?

50:44🔗 Caller Oh, yeah. It's my mom.

50:45🔗 Adam Oh, yes. Right. Right. She's gaining weight to make herself unattractive.

50:50🔗 Caller Well, she lost 30 pounds recently and that's better because, you know, it doesn't put her at risk for like heart attack or anything, but she's really, really young.

50:57🔗 Adam Well, how old is she?

50:58🔗 Caller Well, I'm 14 and she's only 37.

51:00🔗 Adam And how much does she weigh?

51:03🔗 Caller I don't know. She's at least like 50 to 70 pounds overweight.

51:07🔗 Drew She's 160?

51:09🔗 Adam No, she's more like 210 or 200.

51:13🔗 Caller Okay.

51:14🔗 Adam Okay. And you're basically trying to save your mom.

51:17🔗 Caller Yeah. I mean, she's a great person and she doesn't she's just afraid to like look good because she doesn't want to be like, you know, taking advantage of.

51:25🔗 Adam How do you know all these details?

51:27🔗 Caller She tells me.

51:28🔗 Adam Really? She she burns you with all that? Well, I don't want to lose weight because then I'll be raped or I'll have sex.

51:35🔗 Caller Well, I don't.

51:36🔗 Caller She just was your dad.

51:38🔗 Caller I need to be careful, I guess.

51:39🔗 Drew Sure. Where's your dad?

51:41🔗 Caller Oh, my dad. I've never been happily married for like 16 years now. But they're sleeping together right now.

51:48🔗 Drew But why is it that she can tolerate him being attracted to her? Maybe he's into that, by the way.

51:55🔗 Caller I don't know.

51:55🔗 Drew Is he a black guy?

51:56🔗 Caller The fact that my dad and then I've been together since high school.

52:00🔗 Drew Yeah.

52:00🔗 Caller And she wasn't overweight then.

52:04🔗 Drew So?

52:04🔗 Caller And so like, you know, that's like real love, you know? And so she completely trusts my dad. My dad's a completely trustworthy person and they're so disgustingly in love. It's like they're just going out or something. It's really nasty.

52:18🔗 Drew Okay. So why are you so concerned about her? I think she has a very gratifying emotional life.

52:23🔗 Nick Carter I'm worried about her health.

52:25🔗 Caller I mean, my.

52:25🔗 Drew Well, get her to exercise a little bit. Don't focus on the weight. Get the exercise. Exercise is more important than anything else anyway.

52:31🔗 Caller What about the emotional?

52:33🔗 Drew Well, you just told us that she would have lived this wonderful emotional life. So Jenny.

52:37🔗 Caller No, no, no. Because of the, oh, sorry. But because of her past, because when she was four.

52:43🔗 Drew I understand. But our concern would be her ability to maintain intimacy. And you're telling us she has this wonderful relationship. So that's not such a big issue. It's really purely the health issue with her weight. And she has difficulty containing her appetite. So get her to exercise.

52:57🔗 Caller OK.

52:57🔗 Drew Even if she remains diabetic, exercise is a key thing for diabetics. Particularly walking, walking after meals. You know, she is diabetic. Is she diabetic or not?

53:06🔗 Caller Yeah, we have a history of diabetes.

53:08🔗 Drew Is she diabetic or not?

53:09🔗 Caller Yes, yes.

53:10🔗 Drew And she's still eating concentrated sugars?

53:13🔗 Caller She no, not as much. We gave her.

53:15🔗 Drew She is still eating concentrated sugars?

53:17🔗 Adam Leave her alone.

53:18🔗 Drew If she's eating concentrated sugars, you got to get her into her doctor immediately. And she needs to sit down with a dietician. She needs to sit down with a dietician to figure out what is up here. You may be able to go with her to one of those meetings.

53:29🔗 Adam Jenny?

53:30🔗 Caller Yeah.

53:30🔗 Adam You want to get her to exercise?

53:33🔗 Caller Yeah, we do.

53:33🔗 Adam You know, here's the way to do it. You dress up as a hot dog and she chases you around the house.

53:39🔗 Caller OK.

53:40🔗 Adam I used to do that with my mom.

53:41🔗 Caller You're a genius.

53:42🔗 Adam It was great fun. Neighbors couldn't make heads or tails of it, you know, through the windows at night, but it really, really got the pounds off her. I actually would dress up as a dime bag and my mom would chase me around. She'd chase me around the park. It was great. Jesus Christ, if she listens to this show, she's going to kill me. Hey, Jenny. Hey, Jenny, don't get so caught up in your mom's emotional well-being. Would you?

54:06🔗 Caller No, just just be the kid.

54:07🔗 Adam Be 14. Be the kid.

54:08🔗 Nick Carter Yeah. All right.

54:09🔗 Adam You know, get stuff caught in your braces.

54:11🔗 Caller I don't have any.

54:13🔗 Adam Well, get some braces, get a retainer and then lose it. So your parents get mad at you. Doodle on your peachy folder, have crushes on guys. Don't get all caught up in mom and her sexual abuse of the past. It's going to freak you out too much.

54:28🔗 Caller Well, Nick, thank you very much because you're just like a huge inspiration to me.

54:32🔗 Caller So thank you.

54:34🔗 Caller You take care. Take care of your mom.

54:36🔗 Drew Has burdened her with it all her life.

54:38🔗 Caller Yeah.

54:38🔗 Adam Listen, parents, don't start getting into that stuff with your mom. I mean, with your kids, it freaks them out. Everyone's had some freaky ass happen to them or been involved with this or that. Don't sit your kids down and tell them about every threesome you're in, or every time you got raped, or what your uncle did, you just leave them alone. Let them be kids for a change. Danielle?

55:01🔗 Nick Carter Yeah.

55:02🔗 Adam You're 17?

55:03🔗 Nick Carter Yes, I am.

55:04🔗 Adam What's up?

55:05🔗 Nick Carter Well, when I have sex, I like leak fluid.

55:11🔗 Caller It doesn't seem normal to me because-

55:14🔗 Adam Probably got bad hose.

55:15🔗 Caller No, I don't.

55:17🔗 Nick Carter No, it's just like too much fluid.

55:20🔗 Caller It comes out like water and it leaves a huge puddle. It's disgusting. It's very embarrassing and I don't know. It just started recently happening.

55:31🔗 Drew It's a normal thing.

55:32🔗 Nick Carter It's normal?

55:33🔗 Caller Okay, because it's just too much and I didn't know if there was something wrong or-

55:39🔗 Drew Nothing wrong.

55:39🔗 Caller Do you think you're drinking too much fluids?

55:41🔗 Caller Yeah, I think.

55:44🔗 Adam Is it, but did you say it was from an orgasm or just from having sex?

55:48🔗 Caller It's just from having sex. I've never had an orgasm.

55:51🔗 Drew Sometimes the gushing can occur. When you have the orgasm, it's going to gush even worse though. Okay. And it's good. It's an okay thing.

55:57🔗 Adam You got that to look forward to.

55:59🔗 Caller Okay.

56:00🔗 Adam And is it just is it feel like just moisture, like lubrication?

56:05🔗 Caller No, it's just, it feels like water. It just leaks down. I can feel it leaking down.

56:10🔗 Drew And you're not urinating.

56:11🔗 Caller Too much water.

56:12🔗 Caller It's not or anything. It just leaks down like water coming from my vagina.

56:18🔗 Adam Okay.

56:18🔗 Drew That can be normal.

56:19🔗 Adam Nick's trying to eat, so could you knock off the dripping vagina conversation for just a little bit?

56:24🔗 Caller Okay.

56:24🔗 Adam It's really nauseating. And I'm trying to masturbate to Nick eating over here, so. We're really screwing things up. No, I'm sorry. It's after 11. All right. Let's talk to Connie. Connie is 15. Connie?

56:39🔗 Caller Hi.

56:39🔗 Adam What's up?

56:41🔗 Caller Okay. My friend, she has been sex sexually abusing me. She's been having me do sexual favors for her and she's like kind of manipulating me.

56:51🔗 Drew How old is she?

56:52🔗 Caller She's 15 now. She's 14 and this is happening.

56:56🔗 Nick Carter She's human to me.

56:57🔗 Drew Sexually abusing you. Be more specific.

57:00🔗 Caller Oh, she was like manipulating me, like, you know, making me feel like special, I guess. So I would do like things for her, like sexual things for her.

57:12🔗 Adam Sexual favors?

57:13🔗 Caller Yeah.

57:14🔗 Adam Well, sexual, hold on a second. You know what's funny about sexual favors? It sounds like someone called you up and go, yeah, I got to move my vagina this weekend. You give me a hand.

57:23🔗 Caller You got it.

57:24🔗 Adam Your brother Kurtz got a truck, right?

57:26🔗 Caller Yeah.

57:27🔗 Drew This is what you're used to being manipulated by your friends.

57:29🔗 Adam Yeah. Why?

57:29🔗 Drew It's a little different.

57:30🔗 Adam How about after softball? Could you come by?

57:32🔗 Drew Tell us specifically how she manipulated you.

57:35🔗 Caller Well, when it very first started, we were just, she was over at my house and she was like, she was like, she would hold my hand and make me feel special. This was when I was fat and ugly and everything bad was happening to me. My life.

57:50🔗 Adam And hey, Tony, yeah, you can't say the S word.

57:55🔗 Caller Oh, I'm sorry.

57:56🔗 Adam The radio there.

57:57🔗 Caller Okay, sorry.

57:58🔗 Adam Okay.

57:59🔗 Caller And so she would like, she would hold my hand. She would like say things to me that made me feel like, you know, maybe there's something.

58:08🔗 Caller Is she your best friend?

58:09🔗 Caller She was.

58:10🔗 Adam She was. And she's a year younger.

58:13🔗 Caller Yeah. Well, three months.

58:15🔗 Adam I see. And so what do you guys do sexually?

58:20🔗 Caller You have to ask me that.

58:21🔗 Adam Yes.

58:22🔗 Caller Well, what do two girls do sexually together?

58:26🔗 Adam I don't know. We get a wide range. I mean, you guys have an oral sex set, right?

58:30🔗 Caller Yeah.

58:31🔗 Caller Okay.

58:32🔗 Adam Don't get persnipity, baby. I'm just trying to get to the bottom of this.

58:35🔗 Caller I'm sorry.

58:36🔗 Caller Okay. All right.

58:37🔗 Adam Well, why do you feel like you have to do it?

58:40🔗 Caller I don't feel I feel like that if I don't, maybe I'll lose your friendship. Maybe she'll, you know, tell everyone that's happening.

58:48🔗 Drew Here's what I understand is you perceive this as a manipulation. How do you think somebody would seduce you?

58:55🔗 Caller What do you mean?

58:56🔗 Drew If they, I mean, what would that look like if somebody were just trying to express physical intimacy to you? Would that always be a manipulation?

59:06🔗 Nick Carter I don't know, I...

59:07🔗 Drew Somebody holds your hand, tells you they care about you very much, and once it progresses...

59:13🔗 Caller The difference is that she won't do it in front of anybody.

59:16🔗 Drew Not like Adam, who macerates in front of Nick Carter?

59:19🔗 Nick Carter No, I don't.

59:19🔗 I don't want her to.

59:21🔗 Adam Well, maybe she knows that. Here's what we're getting at. Maybe she thinks of you as her girlfriend.

59:26🔗 Drew Exactly.

59:27🔗 Caller No, she doesn't. I know she doesn't, because she told me. She told me I can't tell anyone.

59:32🔗 Drew Well, maybe she'd be embarrassed by being a lesbian.

59:34🔗 Caller Is she like that with anybody else?

59:37🔗 Adam I said she thinks of you as her girlfriend, but meanwhile she doesn't want to be ostracized at school and have other people find out about it.

59:47🔗 Caller But she's open lesbian.

59:48🔗 Drew And by the way, Connie, if you were with a guy, there are plenty of guys that will treat you like this too.

59:52🔗 Caller Yeah, I know, I know. I've had it happen.

59:55🔗 Drew So here we go.

59:56🔗 Adam What's going on, baby?

59:58🔗 Drew You were abused a lot when you were younger, huh?

1:00:00🔗 Caller Well, I was not by family or anything.

1:00:03🔗 Drew But you were big time abused.

1:00:04🔗 Caller It was by one of my brother's friends.

1:00:07🔗 Drew Big time.

1:00:08🔗 Caller Yeah.

1:00:08🔗 Drew Big time.

1:00:09🔗 Adam It just went on for a while?

1:00:11🔗 Caller It only happened a few times, but it was like I was like six and he was like 13 and he was making me do things for him.

1:00:17🔗 Adam Okay, so now you got someone else making you do things or even though there are things that you may want to do, they feel like someone's making you do something.

1:00:27🔗 Drew It's all the projection of what you expect from people, this transference of everyone is going to try to manipulate me to have sex and of course you repeat the trauma over and over again. You need some treatment here Connie, you got to deal with this.

1:00:41🔗 Caller I've been wanting to...

1:00:42🔗 Drew I'm going right over that.

1:00:44🔗 Caller I've been wanting to talk to her about it, you know, maybe just stop it.

1:00:48🔗 Adam Well, why don't you? I mean, are you that worried about losing someone's friendship who's sort of coercing you into sex?

1:00:56🔗 Drew But she may not perceive this at all. She may not, the friend.

1:00:59🔗 Adam She's not, but I'm asking Connie, logically, I mean, you're worried about hurting her feelings when you feel like she's forcing you into sex?

1:01:07🔗 Nick Carter I don't know.

1:01:08🔗 Caller I don't know. I, I just, it's really hard to bring it up because I tried to once and she was just like, no, I'm not doing anything like that. And then she tried to make me do stuff.

1:01:17🔗 Adam Yeah. Well, Connie, why don't you not hang around with her?

1:01:22🔗 Caller It's kind of hard.

1:01:23🔗 Adam I know it's hard because then you couldn't repeat this drama.

1:01:26🔗 Drew Yeah.

1:01:27🔗 Adam She plays along and plays into this fantasy.

1:01:29🔗 Drew Yeah. God forbid when you bring something up to her, like tell her how you're feeling and she acknowledges it and it really tries to reassure you and then tries to physically embrace you, you perceive that as the trauma all over again.

1:01:41🔗 Adam Well, I don't know. Drew, you may be spinning this a little farther than you need to too.

1:01:47🔗 Caller Connie. Yeah.

1:01:48🔗 Adam You gotta get some help for yourself. Okay. Because whatever your brother's friend did to you many years ago.

1:01:54🔗 Drew It's being reenacted over and over.

1:01:56🔗 Adam It's permeated your life and that's become your cry.

1:01:59🔗 Drew It's become who you are. You're the victim.

1:02:01🔗 Caller Okay.

1:02:02🔗 Drew You gotta break that.

1:02:03🔗 Adam You gotta get some counseling, alright?

1:02:04🔗 Caller Okay.

1:02:05🔗 Adam And meanwhile, don't hang out with this person. It's simple math.

1:02:10🔗 Drew Either that or give up the victim role. Stop being the victim.

1:02:15🔗 Adam Well, if she stopped being a victim, she might have to admit she was a lesbian.

1:02:19🔗 Drew Or admit that she's into this relationship.

1:02:21🔗 Adam Right. What do you think, Nick?

1:02:25🔗 Caller I wonder if she has a boyfriend.

1:02:26🔗 Adam Nick No. You think she does? Well, we can find out. Connie?

1:02:31🔗 Caller I did when it first happened.

1:02:32🔗 Adam Nick You had a boyfriend.

1:02:33🔗 Caller Yeah, when it first happened.

1:02:34🔗 Adam Nick But not anymore.

1:02:36🔗 Caller No, not anymore.

1:02:37🔗 Caller Did he find out?

1:02:38🔗 No, no one knows.

1:02:39🔗 Caller You know, like the first people I told.

1:02:41🔗 Caller Nick Okay.

1:02:43🔗 Adam Well, no one listens, so you'll be fine.

1:02:45🔗 Yeah.

1:02:46🔗 Drew Your secret is safe.

1:02:46🔗 Adam Nick Give yourself some counseling, please. And stop repeating this.

1:02:51🔗 Caller Okay.

1:02:51🔗 Adam And don't hang out with her. Okay. Listen, the only reason you hang out with lesbians in high school is for protection.

1:02:58🔗 Caller That's what I like.

1:03:00🔗 Adam You need someone's ass kicked, you hang out with a lesbian. You don't need the protection. You move on.

1:03:05🔗 Drew Nick That's how you dealt with Chris and Ray, huh?

1:03:07🔗 Adam Yeah. I used to use lesbians in my high school is what I call enforcers. Bodyguards, you know, Nick. You guys got a lot of lesbian bodyguards, right?

1:03:15🔗 Nick Carter Yeah, couple.

1:03:16🔗 Adam And Sarah?

1:03:18🔗 Caller Yeah.

1:03:19🔗 Adam You're 14. What's up?

1:03:21🔗 Caller Oh, I'm 17.

1:03:22🔗 Adam I mean 17, my mistake.

1:03:24🔗 Caller Okay.

1:03:26🔗 Caller I was just wondering if Nick was going to do like a play or anything or do a solo album during their break in 2002?

1:03:37🔗 Caller Personally? Well, I'm sure we're all like, I think we'll all do something probably individually, you know, we're going to all support each other when we do it. I mean, it'll I don't I can't really say what it's going to be because, you know, we do enjoy making albums together and we're having a lot of fun doing it. But I mean, there's times when we might just be like, hey, let's do some individually. But I think no matter what, we'll always come back together, you know, almost take a group.

1:04:08🔗 Adam So you don't have any specific plans of doing so much.

1:04:10🔗 Caller Nothing. Nothing. But I can't say that we won't do something.

1:04:17🔗 Drew Your album is awesome and so is the show.

1:04:21🔗 Caller Well, thank you.

1:04:24🔗 Well, you sound a lot different on the phone than you do in interviews.

1:04:27🔗 Adam Well, he's not usually making love to a hamburger when he's doing interviews.

1:04:31🔗 Caller You sound different on the phone.

1:04:33🔗 Yeah.

1:04:33🔗 Caller On the call?

1:04:34🔗 Adam Yeah. Hey, Sarah.

1:04:37🔗 Caller Hello?

1:04:37🔗 Adam Sarah? Yeah.

1:04:39🔗 Drew Sarah's a made up name.

1:04:40🔗 Adam Oh, I see.

1:04:40🔗 Drew Call her goes by Sarah.

1:04:42🔗 Adam You want Nick to leave an outgoing message on your phone machine where he just belches into it? Probably worth something.

1:04:50🔗 I wouldn't quite mind that, but I find burps disgusting.

1:04:53🔗 Caller I'm sorry.

1:04:53🔗 That's all right.

1:04:54🔗 Caller It's the 7-Up. It's the fluid. All right, baby.

1:04:57🔗 If you're Nick Carter, you can do it.

1:04:58🔗 Adam That's right. That's right. His farts don't smell.

1:05:01🔗 Caller Bye, Sarah.

1:05:02🔗 Adam Bye, Sarah. All right. Let's talk to... Wait a minute. I think we should hear a song because Nick's going to eat that burger. And this will give him a little chomp in time. Here's a little something from the Backstreet Boys called... Oh. That was up on the screen. Oh, Anderson doesn't have it.

1:05:23🔗 Caller No!

1:05:23🔗 Adam This is Born in a Chaos.

1:05:24🔗 Caller This is my band.

1:05:25🔗 Adam Oh, okay.

1:05:26🔗 Caller I got a song here.

1:05:27🔗 Adam Oh, I thought we were playing a Backstreet Boys song. All right. Man. Why? They handed me the black and blue. See? I guess you guys have had enough airplay. Anderson Born in a Chaos. There we go. We got it there, Anderson? Yes. That is born into chaos, falling away. Nick Carter is managing the band, right?

1:09:41🔗 Caller For the time being. I mean, I'm just managing just until they get picked up.

1:09:46🔗 Adam Well, maybe they will now that they've had a little national exposure. We will take ourselves a break when we come back and speak to Ashley's 19, having sex for a year, still painful. Wants to know what the problem is after this.

1:10:22🔗 Caller You're listening to Loveline on Outrageous Talk Radio 100.7 The Buzz.

1:10:33🔗 Adam Loveline, I'm Adam Corolla, that's Dr. Drew. Nick Carter is our guest tonight from the Backstreet Boys. And he and we are ready to get back on the phones and save America, one screwed up team at a time. Ashley?

1:10:50🔗 Caller Yeah?

1:10:50🔗 Adam You're 19, what's up?

1:10:52🔗 Caller Okay, well, basically, I've been having sex with like a boyfriend for about a year now, and he's the first guy I've ever had sex with, and it still hurts. And now he's suggesting, well, since it still hurts, we should have anal sex.

1:11:07🔗 Drew Oh, this is quite a guy.

1:11:09🔗 Caller Yeah, and I'm like, okay, yeah, if vaginal sex hurts, what makes you think I'm gonna have anal sex?

1:11:13🔗 Adam Yes, you did the orifice math there. And-

1:11:18🔗 Caller So did he, unfortunately.

1:11:19🔗 Adam And it was correct.

1:11:20🔗 Drew His thing was, yeah, his deal was, oh, this one hurts, give me the next one. This truly is Sir Walter Raleigh. We finally found him.

1:11:29🔗 Adam Chivalry is not dead. You okay, baby? How's the cornhole? All right. That's lovely.

1:11:37🔗 Caller And like we've tried different positions and tried like-

1:11:40🔗 Drew At what point do you have pain? Is it right at penetration or after a while?

1:11:44🔗 Caller It's after a while, like-

1:11:47🔗 Caller After how long?

1:11:49🔗 Caller Like just maybe like 10 minutes.

1:11:53🔗 Drew No, maybe 10 minutes is all you're good for. Really, some women, 10 minutes, that's it.

1:11:59🔗 Nick Carter It's like, but it's like, I don't have that problem.

1:12:03🔗 Caller I guess it kind of gets dry.

1:12:06🔗 Drew That's right.

1:12:07🔗 Caller But when we use lubrication-

1:12:09🔗 Drew Yeah, but why do you have difficulty imagining that 10 minutes is all you need or want?

1:12:14🔗 Caller Because I've never orgasmed after 10 minutes.

1:12:16🔗 Drew Yeah, well, you're not going to. Well, you mean you would do eventually?

1:12:21🔗 Caller Yeah, like through other-

1:12:23🔗 Nick Carter Other-

1:12:24🔗 Drew That's the point.

1:12:24🔗 Adam Oral sex.

1:12:26🔗 Nick Carter Oral sex, masturbation, other things.

1:12:29🔗 Drew But that's the point, that 10 minutes is long enough for you, and that's it. You're not going to have orgasm during intercourse. And by doing it longer, it's not going to make it more likely to happen, it's going to make it less likely to happen.

1:12:40🔗 Adam Ever? Okay, Ashley.

1:12:42🔗 Yeah?

1:12:42🔗 Adam You think that there's an orgasm that's floating out there at the 18 or 22 minute mark, and if you could just reach that, then you'd have your orgasm, right?

1:12:53🔗 Well, I guess it's just because, you know, my friends are like, what's wrong with you? You know, they're like, they can have orgasms.

1:13:01🔗 Drew Many, many.

1:13:01🔗 Adam Those whores, don't listen to them.

1:13:04🔗 Drew Many 19 year olds do not have orgasm at all. Most, most do not during intercourse. Most.

1:13:11🔗 Nick Carter It's like a permanent thing that will.

1:13:13🔗 Drew No, as you get older, you might, you might find it. But most women at 19 are not having.

1:13:20🔗 Adam Drew and I were discussing this some weeks back. As you get older, things loosen up and start falling out of you.

1:13:26🔗 Caller Really?

1:13:26🔗 Adam Your teeth, your bowels, urine, fecal matter, orgasms, your hair, stuff just starts falling off you as you get older. If you think about it, you know what I mean?

1:13:39🔗 Caller I don't have that problem.

1:13:40🔗 Adam No, you're, you're young and spry, but one day things will start falling out of you. And for women, the orgasm just gets loose. It's like, it's like, you know what it's like? It's like, there's a tree inside the vagina and the orgasms as they're young are green apples. I mean, they're not, they're not ready to come off that tree, but as they get older, they get ripe.

1:14:03🔗 Drew You know what?

1:14:04🔗 Adam And they fall on the ground and then they rot and then squirrels eat them.

1:14:09🔗 Drew I'm really starting to believe.

1:14:10🔗 Adam Yeah.

1:14:10🔗 Caller I wonder, I wonder who the squirrels are.

1:14:12🔗 Adam I should write children's books.

1:14:14🔗 Drew As a boy, as women get older.

1:14:15🔗 Adam Isn't it like a tree, Drew? Isn't that a good analogy?

1:14:18🔗 Drew Yeah, it's a reasonable analogy.

1:14:19🔗 Adam Reasonable. It's brilliant.

1:14:21🔗 Drew I really think as women get older, their testosterone levels start to go up, their estrogen levels start to drop. And that really is true. By the time they hit menopause, it's why that sort of caricature of a horny old lady kind of thing. That horny old lady was probably a sort of disinterested 19 year old like Ashley.

1:14:40🔗 Adam At one time.

1:14:41🔗 Drew At one time. And I had a very bizarre conversation with Christina Ferrari today where she was saying, oh, she goes off, I work. If I knew what I do now, I'd have sex with lots of guys when I was 19. I thought, really? If you were in that 19 year old body, she thought, no, no, I wouldn't be interested.

1:14:53🔗 Adam Wasn't into it.

1:14:54🔗 Drew The biology just isn't there at 19.

1:14:56🔗 Caller But that doesn't go with everybody, though.

1:14:57🔗 Adam Not everybody.

1:14:59🔗 Drew But that's sort of a general, general reasonable.

1:15:01🔗 Adam But Nick, I got to tell you, every woman you're with, if she ain't having an organ, she's going to fake it because you're in the Backstreet Boys. You understand? It's too much pressure. She's got to come through.

1:15:13🔗 Caller And you know you get the same problem.

1:15:14🔗 Adam It's good. Yeah.

1:15:15🔗 Drew Yeah, that's you.

1:15:16🔗 Adam Oh, yeah, I get you done. Get off. Yeah, I women do start becoming men in their 50s. They get that mustache. They shut the cut their hair short. They start getting thick around the shoulders and the hips. No, you don't want to. No, you can get old. Just not your wife. And they start becoming men. And then it's like, come here, give me some. Yeah, I need it. Thank you.

1:15:41🔗 Drew And then they smile.

1:15:42🔗 Adam Yeah, they become they become men.

1:15:44🔗 Drew And men.

1:15:45🔗 Adam And they make men become women. They get saggy. They don't want sex anymore.

1:15:51🔗 Caller What movies have you been watching?

1:15:53🔗 Adam No, believe me, this is what life holds in store for you. This is the future.

1:15:56🔗 Caller I don't see it.

1:15:57🔗 Adam I don't want to. This is the future.

1:15:59🔗 Drew We never talk about this, do we? Because we're not dealing with that stage of life here on this show.

1:16:03🔗 Adam But really, do women stop making? Estrogen.

1:16:09🔗 Drew And they start making more.

1:16:10🔗 Adam Do they start making or the testosterone doesn't get shut off?

1:16:13🔗 Drew They make more. I don't know. They certainly have more circulating around for the adrenals start producing a bunch more.

1:16:19🔗 Adam So women make estrogen and testosterone all the time?

1:16:23🔗 Drew Yes.

1:16:23🔗 Adam And the estrogen goes away eventually and the testosterone keeps going.

1:16:28🔗 Drew Yeah.

1:16:29🔗 Adam And what about men? Do we make any estrogen?

1:16:31🔗 Drew Yeah. That's why we get breasts when we're 13. What the heck is estrogen?

1:16:34🔗 Adam What is it? That's woman juice.

1:16:35🔗 Drew It's a woman juice. Yeah. It's a female hormone.

1:16:37🔗 Adam That's the juice women got in them. And men, it's like, you know, men have Mountain Dew in them and women have Pepsi. But we got a little Pepsi in us too. And they got some Mountain Dew in them too. And eventually their Pepsi fountain runs dry.

1:16:53🔗 Drew Right.

1:16:53🔗 Adam And all they get is Mountain Dew.

1:16:55🔗 Drew Basically.

1:16:55🔗 Adam And that's when they grow those mustaches.

1:16:57🔗 Drew Right. Basically.

1:16:58🔗 Adam All right.

1:17:00🔗 Caller We got all figured out. Let's see if we can learn things in this show.

1:17:02🔗 Adam Oh, hell yes. Jackie, you don't remember them because you're stoned, but you do learn them. Jackie, you're 16. What's up?

1:17:11🔗 Caller Hello?

1:17:12🔗 Adam Hey.

1:17:12🔗 Caller Hey. Hey, Nick.

1:17:14🔗 Caller How you doing?

1:17:15🔗 Caller What's up?

1:17:17🔗 I just want to say I'm a huge fan of you guys.

1:17:20🔗 Caller Thank you.

1:17:20🔗 Caller You guys are so awesome.

1:17:22🔗 Caller Thanks.

1:17:22🔗 And I stick up for you guys.

1:17:24🔗 Caller Even though I get BS from everyone.

1:17:26🔗 Caller Oh, that's a nice stuff.

1:17:27🔗 Caller I'm sorry.

1:17:28🔗 That's okay.

1:17:29🔗 Caller I do it with a lot of pride, though.

1:17:31🔗 Caller Well, thank you.

1:17:32🔗 Adam You guys rule.

1:17:33🔗 Caller Anyhow, I want to ask you about the Backstreet Project. Did that comic book like out?

1:17:39🔗 Caller Yeah, it was out, but you know, I think we kind of just, they kind of just dried up, you know, kind of like this.

1:17:47🔗 Caller It was just a temporary thing?

1:17:52🔗 Caller It was like, it was temporary. Yeah, it was, I mean, I wanted it to continue on, but you know, the other fellas just weren't feeling it too much longer.

1:18:01🔗 Caller Oh, it's your idea.

1:18:02🔗 Caller Go for it.

1:18:03🔗 Caller I know. I do promote that, don't I?

1:18:06🔗 Caller Yeah.

1:18:06🔗 Caller Go for it.

1:18:07🔗 Adam Well, maybe Nick O'Connor of the solo comic.

1:18:10🔗 Caller Yeah, maybe.

1:18:12🔗 Adam All right, Jackie.

1:18:13🔗 Caller See you.

1:18:14🔗 Can you say hi to my friend, Lindsey, please?

1:18:17🔗 Caller Hello, Lindsey.

1:18:18🔗 She's Lindsey Bartle.

1:18:19🔗 Caller She's a huge AJ fan.

1:18:21🔗 Caller We're both BSB freaks.

1:18:23🔗 Caller Don't be freaks, just be, you know.

1:18:25🔗 Adam Keep fighting the good fight there, Jackie.

1:18:27🔗 Caller Bye-bye.

1:18:28🔗 Adam Good time, baby. Sarah.

1:18:31🔗 Yeah.

1:18:32🔗 Adam You're 16?

1:18:33🔗 Caller Yes, I am.

1:18:33🔗 Adam What's up?

1:18:34🔗 Caller I have a couple of questions for Nick, but first I wanted to say that all your guys' names are on my shoe.

1:18:39🔗 Adam Oh, great.

1:18:39🔗 Caller So you step on us every day.

1:18:41🔗 Caller Oh, yeah.

1:18:42🔗 Adam It's all of us. Drew, Nick and Adam.

1:18:45🔗 Caller Yes. Adam, you're on my folder.

1:18:48🔗 Adam Nice. Sorry, guys.

1:18:50🔗 Caller You're lucky. See?

1:18:51🔗 Adam That's I graduated as a folder.

1:18:52🔗 Caller She gets to open you up every day.

1:18:54🔗 Caller Yeah, but I must say, Dr. Drew has a sexy voice, so.

1:18:56🔗 Adam Yeah, he's hot.

1:18:58🔗 Caller Yeah. I think she likes his voice.

1:18:59🔗 Caller Anyway, Nick, I was wondering what your parents thought when you first joined the Backstreet Boys.

1:19:03🔗 Caller Well, my parents think they supported me. You know, my mom supported me. Both of them. I mean, my dad still drives my bus.

1:19:12🔗 Caller Oh, really?

1:19:13🔗 Caller Yeah, he was a truck driver a long time ago.

1:19:16🔗 Caller So you're up and stuff like all by yourself when you're 14 or 15.

1:19:20🔗 Caller No, they they went over there. They took turns.

1:19:23🔗 Caller Oh, really?

1:19:23🔗 Caller Yeah.

1:19:24🔗 Caller So they're like happy about your little brother, too.

1:19:26🔗 Caller What's that? Yeah.

1:19:27🔗 Caller Happy about your little. Yeah.

1:19:28🔗 Caller My mom's with my brother right now.

1:19:30🔗 Adam And did you have to drop out of school and stuff?

1:19:32🔗 Caller Yeah, I dropped out. I didn't drop out. I mean, graduated still, but just not in high school. I never went to high school at all.

1:19:40🔗 Caller Oh, right.

1:19:40🔗 Adam Because you this was you were like an eighth grade or something when you got going with this stuff.

1:19:45🔗 Caller Did you have tutors?

1:19:46🔗 Caller Yeah.

1:19:46🔗 Caller Oh, that's cool. Anyway, I had no other questions.

1:19:49🔗 Adam Yes.

1:19:50🔗 Caller When the song I wanted that way first came out, you know, the version released on the radio is different from the version released on the Millennium album. Why was that? Why was that?

1:19:58🔗 Caller It wasn't always different. I mean, we, see, what happened, it was a big political, you know, political thing. Our record company wanted to release a version that was like, that I guess made more sense. And so we went in the studio and recorded a whole new version. And the original version, the one that's on the album, the one that just says, I don't know, I guess I forget the words. But anyways, it's one that doesn't really make any sense.

1:20:23🔗 Caller Really?

1:20:24🔗 Caller And that's the one we wanted to keep. But then they, you know, they decided to put the newer version, the one we went in the studio and re-recorded on the radio. And we had to pull it off the radio and put the other one back on because we weren't feeling that version. And it's just, I mean, it was really crazy.

1:20:41🔗 Caller Yeah, personally, I like the other one better, but you know.

1:20:44🔗 Caller Which one?

1:20:45🔗 Caller The one, I don't know, it's like the one on the album is the one, I don't want to hear you say I want it that way. And the other one was like, I love it when I hear you say I want it that way.

1:20:53🔗 Caller And the other one, you like, I love it?

1:20:54🔗 Caller Yeah.

1:20:55🔗 Caller You do?

1:20:55🔗 Caller I have like a really bad copy off the radio from like a whole, a long time ago.

1:20:59🔗 Caller Yeah, because it only played for like a couple days or like a week at the most.

1:21:02🔗 Caller Yeah, when it first came out, I caught it and I thought, I was like, oh, the new Backstreet Boys song, so I recorded it and then it changed.

1:21:08🔗 Adam So you like the first one?

1:21:09🔗 Caller Yes, I do.

1:21:10🔗 Adam Yeah, but isn't that kind of the way it goes, like, especially when you're young, you hear a song and then you hear a remake.

1:21:17🔗 Caller You don't like it.

1:21:18🔗 Adam You like the first, even when you hear the original, sometimes you hear the remake second and then you hear the original. The remake is the original in your mind.

1:21:26🔗 Caller Of course. It goes on anybody.

1:21:29🔗 Adam Yeah. Year 24?

1:21:31🔗 Caller I sure am.

1:21:32🔗 Adam What's up?

1:21:33🔗 Caller Well, I'm just having trouble figuring out if I want to get married or not.

1:21:38🔗 Adam All right.

1:21:39🔗 Caller So.

1:21:43🔗 Drew I would suspect not.

1:21:45🔗 Caller Well, my fiance, she lives in San Diego and I live here near Upland. And we've been doing this for about six years.

1:21:55🔗 Drew Again, you sound like you really don't want to get married.

1:21:58🔗 Caller Well, you know, it's just an iffy thing.

1:22:01🔗 Caller I mean, I mean, but sometimes it can be you can just be scared.

1:22:05🔗 Drew Yeah, but it's not an iffy thing. It's I'm scared. Yeah. He's saying he doesn't want to.

1:22:09🔗 Adam Are you scared, René?

1:22:11🔗 Caller Well, I am and I'm not. I mean, I think how old are you? I'm 24.

1:22:16🔗 Drew Have you been this thing for how long?

1:22:18🔗 Caller For eight and a half years.

1:22:19🔗 Drew He just doesn't know how to end it as a problem.

1:22:21🔗 Caller Two days ago was eight and a half years ago.

1:22:23🔗 Drew You do not want to get married.

1:22:24🔗 Adam Hold on.

1:22:25🔗 Drew Two years.

1:22:25🔗 Adam Oh, wait. Two days ago was eight and a half years.

1:22:28🔗 Drew Exactly.

1:22:29🔗 Adam You celebrate your half anniversaries when you get together. Nobody does that.

1:22:34🔗 Caller No, man. A lot of people out there do it.

1:22:36🔗 Drew But women do that. And she's got him. She's in.

1:22:39🔗 Adam Yeah. You do that in the first six months of the relationship.

1:22:43🔗 Caller That's because they want gifts every, you know.

1:22:46🔗 Adam Not at eight.

1:22:46🔗 Drew But this is someone that has made you her savior, right? Basically.

1:22:52🔗 Adam Yeah.

1:22:52🔗 Caller I can understand that. You're perfect.

1:22:54🔗 Drew You're the perfect person. You're saving her. You're not responsible for the other person. You shouldn't be marrying a charity case.

1:23:02🔗 Caller No, not at all.

1:23:03🔗 Caller I mean, do you love her?

1:23:05🔗 Caller I love her a lot. Yeah. But the thing is, is that here's the ultimate question.

1:23:11🔗 Caller Do you do you think about other other women? Do you look at other women in a certain way?

1:23:16🔗 Drew All the time.

1:23:17🔗 Caller All the time. I mean, she knows that you're just not ready.

1:23:20🔗 Caller That's what I think.

1:23:21🔗 Caller I mean, in August, we're going to get married. So we're supposed to get married.

1:23:25🔗 Adam Yeah.

1:23:26🔗 Caller And the dilemma is, OK, here's the dilemma.

1:23:30🔗 Drew What's his dilemma?

1:23:30🔗 Caller Go ahead.

1:23:32🔗 Caller Is that, you know, I've been with other girls and she doesn't know that.

1:23:35🔗 Adam I see.

1:23:37🔗 Drew That's the beginning of the dilemma.

1:23:38🔗 Adam Right. Renee.

1:23:39🔗 Caller Yeah.

1:23:40🔗 Adam Let me give you some advice. There's a difference between you wanting to get married and you not wanting to break up.

1:23:49🔗 Caller Right.

1:23:49🔗 Adam And what you want to do is not want to break up, not get married. You don't want to get married. You don't want to break her heart.

1:23:58🔗 Caller Yeah, exactly.

1:23:59🔗 Adam You're going forward with it because you don't want to break her heart.

1:24:02🔗 Caller You don't want to hurt her.

1:24:02🔗 Adam Not because you want to get married.

1:24:04🔗 Drew No, he just doesn't have the skill to get out. He doesn't know how to get out. Yeah.

1:24:08🔗 Adam You don't know how to get out because you've never gotten out.

1:24:11🔗 Caller I'll tell you a good advice. I mean, if you fake your own death, we'll be sad. Yeah. You know, go to some friends, have friends, like go to night, go. Your friends can usually help you out of situations like that.

1:24:25🔗 Caller I do. And he tells me, you know, to to not get married. And I spent a lot of time with my my best friend. You know, my parents say, well, what are you going to do? You know, what is he going to do when you get married? You know, we spent so much time with each other.

1:24:38🔗 Drew You're gay.

1:24:39🔗 Adam Oh, please, please, please. I don't think you make that allegation.

1:24:44🔗 Drew Nice to have those drops.

1:24:45🔗 Adam Yeah. Rene. Yeah. You two don't live together, right? Not at all. So that makes it much easier. OK.

1:24:54🔗 Caller Oh, yeah.

1:24:55🔗 Adam But soon you will live together and you'll have a kid and it'll be a year and a half from now. And then you'll want to have and now you got big, big problems. This is the kind of thing that you could work out and you could be over and done with by the summer. Clear.

1:25:12🔗 Caller Back on the beach.

1:25:13🔗 Caller So I could be at Havasu.

1:25:14🔗 Adam You could be at Havasu holding a big sign up that said, show us your. Sorry, Anderson, what are you going to do?

1:25:21🔗 Caller I think the one thing is you just I mean, I guess also in respect to I guess to her too, you know what I'm saying? I guess just shouldn't put her through this any longer. You know?

1:25:31🔗 Adam Yeah. You're not doing anyone a favor.

1:25:33🔗 Drew You're staying with her out of sympathy. That's why you let it go along this long.

1:25:36🔗 Adam I'm telling you, I mean, right now, he is very disrespectful. But that's a very good point. You make Drew a very rare, very good point, which is when you've been with someone since you've been 13 and a half or 14, you don't know how to break up with somebody.

1:25:51🔗 Drew Never done it.

1:25:52🔗 Adam This guy probably would have been all right with getting out of this relationship four or five years ago.

1:25:57🔗 Drew Easily.

1:25:58🔗 Adam No problem. He's probably been cheating around since he was 18 or 19. He doesn't have that skill. You need that skill. Lord knows I've helped people with that skill. I've let many a person tell me. You're helping him now.

1:26:11🔗 Drew I've learned that skill. She doesn't repel with quite the same intensity though.

1:26:15🔗 Adam Thank you. Thank you.

1:26:17🔗 Drew You're welcome.

1:26:17🔗 Adam We're going to take a break. Nick Carter from Backstreet Boys is our guest tonight. We'll be back with Nick and you after this.

1:26:24🔗 Caller You know what I'm saying, I'm there.

1:26:26🔗 Caller Adam and Dr. Drew will be right back on Loveline.

1:26:44🔗 Caller You're listening to Loveline on Outrageous Talk Radio. 100.7 The Bugs.

1:26:59🔗 Adam Yep, that's my favorite riff. That's Newfound Glory actually, who'll be on the show next week. So we'll hear that song over and over and over again. Nick Carter from the Backstreet Boys is our guest tonight. Just finished a set over there at the Staples Center. I don't know if you do a set in front of 20,000 people. I think it's more than a show.

1:27:24🔗 Drew It's a show.

1:27:24🔗 Adam It's a show. A set, small group, gig, slightly bigger group. Show, 20,000 people. And he was nice enough to basically just leave stage and run right over here. So we're glad to have him for the next 15 minutes. Carrie?

1:27:41🔗 Yes.

1:27:42🔗 Adam You're 18?

1:27:43🔗 Caller Yeah. I had a question for Nick. It was kind of a strange question, but I'm seeing this guy right now and he claims that Brian is his uncle. Now I was wondering if that, I don't know if you know or not, but could that possibly be true? He says by marriage.

1:28:06🔗 Caller Well, what is, what is his name?

1:28:10🔗 Caller Randy.

1:28:11🔗 Caller What was his last name?

1:28:15🔗 Caller You know, I wouldn't really know. I wouldn't know.

1:28:17🔗 Caller He said that they live over in Alpharetta, Georgia.

1:28:21🔗 Caller Well, I know that Brian's wife is from Georgia.

1:28:24🔗 Caller Yeah.

1:28:25🔗 Caller So I mean, there's a possibility, you know, a lot of homegrown there.

1:28:29🔗 Caller Okay. Well, I was just wondering, because it sounds kind of bizarre. And I was like, well, that's really cool if it's true. But if not, I thought that was kind of weird.

1:28:38🔗 Adam Yeah. You got to dump him if you find out it's not true.

1:28:41🔗 Caller Oh, no, no. I just was interested. It's not.

1:28:44🔗 Drew You certainly wonder about a guy lying about stuff like that. But anyway, Adam, what carry?

1:28:48🔗 Caller I want to say that I really enjoy masturbating to the show sometimes.

1:28:53🔗 Adam Oh, really?

1:28:54🔗 Drew To the man show or to this show?

1:28:55🔗 Caller This show.

1:28:56🔗 Drew Oh, interesting.

1:28:57🔗 Adam To the sound of my nasally drone.

1:29:00🔗 Caller Yeah.

1:29:01🔗 Drew No, I don't.

1:29:02🔗 Caller I don't know. It's just something I do before I go to bed. And I usually have Loveline on. So I thought you might get a kick out of that.

1:29:09🔗 Adam I did. And I do. But what do you what do you think about?

1:29:16🔗 Caller Um, usually whatever the topic is kind of.

1:29:20🔗 Adam Oh, yeah.

1:29:21🔗 Caller Yeah.

1:29:22🔗 Adam OK. Have you done it yet tonight?

1:29:24🔗 Caller No.

1:29:25🔗 Adam So should we cook up something for you?

1:29:28🔗 Caller Sir, if you want to.

1:29:29🔗 Adam Yeah, let's see.

1:29:30🔗 Nick Carter Well, I can't.

1:29:32🔗 Caller No, I'm in Atlanta. So I hear the so like I'll hear it tomorrow.

1:29:36🔗 Adam Oh, you'll hear it tomorrow.

1:29:37🔗 Caller Yeah.

1:29:38🔗 Adam All right. Well, if you just why don't we just keep you on hold and you can just listen through the telephone?

1:29:44🔗 Caller Oh, OK. OK. OK.

1:29:46🔗 Adam I'll say we'll cook up a nice sultry song, a nice sultry call for you.

1:29:51🔗 Caller OK.

1:29:52🔗 Adam And you can just masturbate to that, right?

1:29:53🔗 Caller OK.

1:29:54🔗 Adam You don't use the phone to masturbate, do you?

1:29:56🔗 Caller No.

1:29:57🔗 Caller OK. Good.

1:29:57🔗 Adam Then you can listen at the same time.

1:29:59🔗 Caller OK.

1:30:00🔗 Caller OK.

1:30:00🔗 Adam Yeah.

1:30:01🔗 Caller Where are your parents?

1:30:03🔗 Caller My mom's asleep.

1:30:04🔗 Adam I see.

1:30:06🔗 Caller OK.

1:30:06🔗 Adam You have a lock on your door?

1:30:08🔗 Caller No.

1:30:09🔗 Caller Yeah.

1:30:09🔗 Adam You see, women can masturbate because they don't get a boner. You know, guys can't cover it up. There's nothing worse. I mean, we all got busted in high school. It's like boots hanging out of the end of the comforter, sweat on the brow, sweatshirt with hood hanging out, and big lump in the thing. And you're like, nothing. Just lying here. The TV's on Channel 3 and it's fuzzy. You know, you can't pull that off.

1:30:37🔗 Drew I saw you in the man show with Hands Free.

1:30:40🔗 Adam Oh, yeah, yeah. That was a good manovation. But you know, seriously, the thing about women is all you have to do is stop and you're not popped. Unless you're in the tub like Producer Hand, in which case it's tall order. But even then, you're taking a bath. All you have to do is move your hand and you're done. Guys, you move your hand, you just got that boner hanging there. You can't do anything with that. What are you going to do? Even if you're in a towel or bathrobe?

1:31:07🔗 Drew Want to see if this is doing anything for Carrie?

1:31:09🔗 Adam We're going to call her.

1:31:10🔗 Drew You want to see if this is doing anything for Carrie?

1:31:12🔗 Caller She got him carried away.

1:31:13🔗 Drew Carrie?

1:31:14🔗 Caller Yes.

1:31:14🔗 Drew Is this Adam talking? Is this doing something for you?

1:31:19🔗 Caller No, not yet.

1:31:21🔗 Adam Sorry, sorry.

1:31:22🔗 Drew Way to go, Adam.

1:31:23🔗 Caller Ah, okay.

1:31:25🔗 Adam Yeah, I mean, all you're left with as a man is that big, huge, robbing, pulsating, purple, undulating, black boner.

1:31:36🔗 Caller You're something.

1:31:38🔗 Drew Carrie again?

1:31:40🔗 Adam Sarah?

1:31:41🔗 Caller Yes?

1:31:41🔗 Adam You're 18?

1:31:42🔗 Caller Yeah.

1:31:42🔗 Adam What's up?

1:31:43🔗 Caller Well, I don't know, like, a couple weeks ago, my boyfriend let me borrow his laptop. And I was looking to find, if I could find a disc to say some of this stuff on. And in the section I was looking in, I found a picture off the Internet of, like, a little girl that was, like, naked. She looked like maybe, like, 11.

1:31:59🔗 Adam Oh, how is Carrie supposed to masturbate to that? Use your brain, woman.

1:32:04🔗 Caller And then there's also, like, pictures, like, out of a magazine of, like, little girls in underwear. It's like, I don't know, I'm, like, really, like, I can't enjoy sex anymore because it's like...

1:32:12🔗 Drew Did he have any weird sexual experiences as a child?

1:32:15🔗 Caller I don't know. Like, we've only been together, like, four months.

1:32:18🔗 Adam Yeah. How old is he?

1:32:19🔗 Caller He's 21.

1:32:21🔗 Adam That's not a great sign.

1:32:22🔗 Caller No. Like, I don't know, like, right now, like, he wears just a big sleeve, but, like, his friend's joke, like, saying that he looks like a child molester when he has, like, just a mustache. Like, I don't know, like, I don't know if it's a child.

1:32:31🔗 Adam Well, most guys look like child molesters with mustaches, but here's the thing about child pornography or any portrayals of children in a sexual way. You're either in or you're out. I mean, to 99% of guys and women, it's just disgusting.

1:32:49🔗 Drew Not disgusting, it's like zero, zero sex.

1:32:52🔗 Caller Because like when I found out, I was like, what the f-

1:32:54🔗 Adam What is this?

1:32:55🔗 Drew Well, it's not to say a young child is disgusting, it's just like that's not a sexual thing.

1:32:58🔗 Adam No, I'm not, I don't throw up when I see a kid. I mean, the idea of a child being portrayed in a sexual way is disgusting to 99% of people, but for that 1%, it's game on. But there's not too many people that are sort of, yeah, like a sprinkling of kiddie porn, when I'm in the mood. That, I don't believe that exists. Do you think that exists?

1:33:19🔗 Caller I don't even think 1%.

1:33:20🔗 Adam So if you see something, it's game on.

1:33:24🔗 Drew Yeah, he's into it.

1:33:26🔗 Caller Really?

1:33:26🔗 Drew Yeah.

1:33:27🔗 Caller Like, I wouldn't want to maybe bring it up, but like, I don't want him to think like I'm a snoop or like...

1:33:32🔗 Drew Well, you've found these ads with child underwear or whatnot.

1:33:37🔗 Adam I think you could bring it up just to give him the opportunity to try to explain himself. Maybe he's doing some research on Calvin Klein advertising techniques or something like that. I mean, maybe there's something.

1:33:52🔗 Drew Keep your eyes open.

1:33:53🔗 Adam Well, you give him a chance to explain himself. But if it's not good, I think you're out.

1:33:59🔗 Caller OK, I have another question. When we have sex, like we do it rough. Like by the end of the night and like the next day, like my stomach will hurt.

1:34:07🔗 Adam And once you're calm, daddy.

1:34:09🔗 Drew Huh?

1:34:10🔗 Adam No.

1:34:10🔗 Drew Are you getting pelvic exams regularly?

1:34:12🔗 Caller Yeah.

1:34:13🔗 Drew And when was your last one?

1:34:14🔗 Caller It was like last April or May.

1:34:16🔗 Drew It was a year ago. So time to get another one.

1:34:19🔗 Adam What are you using for birth control?

1:34:20🔗 Caller I'm on a pill.

1:34:21🔗 Drew Good.

1:34:22🔗 Adam Don't let this guy get you with his soiled seed. His demon soiled seed. That'd be a good name for a band too. Demon seed.

1:34:33🔗 Drew Just soiled seed.

1:34:34🔗 Adam Soil seed.

1:34:35🔗 Caller Yeah.

1:34:36🔗 Caller Yeah.

1:34:37🔗 Caller And then they figured out where it came from.

1:34:38🔗 Caller Yeah.

1:34:39🔗 Adam Yeah. I don't think.

1:34:41🔗 Caller Yeah.

1:34:42🔗 Adam Yeah. Could you masturbate to that child born call?

1:34:45🔗 Caller Not at all.

1:34:45🔗 Adam I'm sorry baby.

1:34:47🔗 Nick Carter Give me something better Adam.

1:34:49🔗 Adam I don't know. What do you like? What are you into? Lesbian calls?

1:34:54🔗 Caller No.

1:34:55🔗 Caller No. No.

1:34:56🔗 Caller No.

1:34:56🔗 Caller Give me a heterosexual call.

1:34:58🔗 Adam What about like a nice herpes call?

1:35:00🔗 Caller No. No. No.

1:35:01🔗 Caller That wouldn't work for me.

1:35:02🔗 Adam Crabs?

1:35:03🔗 Caller No.

1:35:03🔗 Adam Shank Royd? Something like that?

1:35:05🔗 Caller No.

1:35:06🔗 Adam No.

1:35:06🔗 Caller Talk to somebody interested in Nick.

1:35:09🔗 Adam Okay. You know, we only have about...

1:35:12🔗 Drew Four seconds.

1:35:13🔗 Adam Four seconds. All we have is Alicia here. She's 14. Is that too young for you? Oh, we have Shana over here. Hold on. Shana?

1:35:21🔗 Caller Hello?

1:35:22🔗 Adam You into Nick?

1:35:23🔗 Caller Yeah.

1:35:24🔗 Adam What would you do to him if you guys were alone together?

1:35:26🔗 Caller Oh, I'll spank him. No.

1:35:28🔗 Caller Yeah. Yeah. Keep going.

1:35:29🔗 Caller Good God.

1:35:31🔗 Caller But that's not my question.

1:35:33🔗 Caller All right.

1:35:33🔗 Adam Well, you only have ten seconds now, so I'm going to read your question.

1:35:37🔗 Caller Okay.

1:35:38🔗 Adam You want to be a new artist?

1:35:40🔗 Caller Yes.

1:35:41🔗 Adam You sing?

1:35:42🔗 Caller Yeah.

1:35:43🔗 Adam And you want to form a band or a group?

1:35:46🔗 Caller No. Just me, all by myself.

1:35:48🔗 Adam I see. All right. Well, the problem is we're on a show. But, Nick, you can shed whatever light you want on this, but there's no quick answer, is there?

1:35:59🔗 Caller Yeah, there is.

1:35:59🔗 Adam There is?

1:36:00🔗 Caller You just got to stick with it. If you... First of all, well, this is really quick. I'll tell you what's quick. You just got to know whether or not you think that you have the talent to do it. And then you got to just stick with it and not give up and just constantly work at it.

1:36:16🔗 Adam There you go. All right, there. We'll be back. Well, there you go. Another fabulous Loveline show in the can. I want to thank Nick for coming out here tonight. And really, I know how hectic your schedule is, and I know there's many other things and places you would have rather done and places you'd rather been after you stepped off stage.

1:36:59🔗 Caller Definitely been an experience.

1:37:00🔗 Adam Well, we do thank you for rushing over after the show.

1:37:03🔗 Caller No, you can't have people existed.

1:37:05🔗 Adam We certainly does. So, thanks a lot, Backstreet Boys, everybody, and what's the other? Oh, yes, Born into Chaos is also the name of the new band. So, until next time.

1:37:17🔗 Drew Tomorrow night.

1:37:20🔗 Adam Yes, Drew.

1:37:22🔗 Caller Are you falling asleep?

1:37:22🔗 Adam I'm trying. So, until next time, this is Adam Corolla for Dr. Drew saying mahalo.

1:37:27🔗 Drew If I knew what I do now, I'd have sex with lots of guys when I was 19.

1:37:31🔗 Caller This has been Loveline. This has been Loveline. The opinions expressed on the show are not necessarily those of the staff, management sponsors or this station. The producer for Loveline is Ann Wilkins Dingle. Loveline is a presentation of Westwood One Entertainment.

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