Episode 1000741485132

0:15 Voiceover 1-800-LOVE-191 Love Line starts now.

0:21 Drew Hey, everybody, with me tonight from Cypress Hill. Be real. Dear, dear, dear, dear, dear, dear friend of the show.

0:27 Cypress Hill That's right.

0:27 Drew Hi, everybody.

0:28 Cypress Hill How are you doing?

0:28 Drew Excellent. And you were just saying last night you were on Jimmy Kimmel.

0:31 Cypress Hill Yeah, we were on Jimmy Kimmel last night.

0:33 Drew We were lamenting the sort of the difficult, the stress of being on broadcast mediums these days and not knowing what the rules are and how the rules keep changing. It's like, you know, working out like a moving sidewalk. You don't know where to step.

0:45 Cypress Hill Yeah, they're definitely tightening things up on what they can, what they're gonna allow you to say and do, you know, on radio and TV.

0:53 Drew But on Kimmel last night you were gonna give him a jersey from your paintball team. By the way, I gotta apologize. I've got some horrible bronchitis and I'm like, taking decongestants and I'm barely, I'm like, my brain isn't functioning right tonight. It's gonna be very interesting.

1:06 Cypress Hill It's not a problem, been there, done that.

1:09 Drew I know you're ready to pick up.

1:10 Cypress Hill Yeah.

1:11 Drew You haven't partaken in a couple hours, you're gonna be fine.

1:14 Cypress Hill No, I'm good, yeah, I'm ready.

1:15 Drew You're good, all right. So you gave him a jersey.

1:18 Cypress Hill Yeah, we gave him a jersey from the paintball team. You know, it had, you know, the name of the paintball team is Stoned Assassins, as I've said before many times over here. And we had a number on it, obviously, and it was 420. Now, they didn't have a problem with it saying Stoned Assassins, you know, they could, we could get away with that one. It was the number implying, you know.

1:42 Drew Stoned.

1:43 Cypress Hill Stoned. No, no, 420, yeah.

1:45 Drew I know, but you can say Stoned, you can't imply Stoned. Wait, what?

1:48 Cypress Hill Yeah, it was, it was standards.

1:51 Drew But how ridiculous. It's just some guy, you know, with a tie thing. Oh, no, no. Because he doesn't know what it means and he's afraid of what it evokes and has no sense of any idea what he's talking about.

2:02 Cypress Hill Yeah, it was ridiculous. But you know, hey, we gave it to him anyway.

2:05 Drew All right, you guys have a new CD out. It is The Greatest Hits from The Bong.

2:09 Cypress Hill From The Bong.

2:10 Drew Proud of you guys.

2:11 Cypress Hill They almost had a problem with saying The Bong.

2:14 Drew Came out on Tuesday. What would they have said? Just Greatest Hits.

2:17 Cypress Hill I guess so.

2:19 Drew Well, here's some mouth. Do you have anything you want to play tonight?

2:23 Cypress Hill It doesn't matter to me. All of it.

2:25 Drew I like The Greatest Greatest Hits. How I can sing on the membrane and green thumb.

2:29 Cypress Hill Yeah, that's cool.

2:29 Drew We'll hear some of that later. You guys formed in 1988?

2:33 Cypress Hill Yeah.

2:33 Drew That's incredible.

2:34 Cypress Hill Yeah, you know, we were doing it, you know, as a hobby for a while, you know, just.

2:39 Drew Did y'all live together and?

2:40 Cypress Hill No, you know, we were all, we all lived in different places. I mean, Sen and his brother Melo lived together. So, you know, Meloman, Ace, and, you know, Sendog, their brothers. And so they used to, you know, obviously kick the rhymes around all the time. We met Mugs later and, you know, we were all from different places and we all just hooked up and started doing our hobby and eventually took it serious. And now we're here.

3:08 Drew 17 million, I would say 15 million, 17 million albums sold worldwide.

3:13 Cypress Hill 15 years later, 17 million albums sold.

3:15 Drew Here we are.

3:16 Cypress Hill It's all good.

3:17 Drew I think we've seen you on Loveline at least twice a year across those 15 years. All right, let's take some calls. There is Kenny, 18. Yeah. Hey, Kenny, what's going on?

3:27 Hey, well, I'm, yeah, I'm 18 and I've kind of got an addiction to strip clubs.

3:35 Cypress Hill Wow. Now, how long have you had this problem?

3:40 I actually developed probably about three months ago. And it's gotten to the point now where I'm dropping like $75 to $150 a week.

3:48 Drew It's three months ago when you turned 18?

3:51 Yeah, well, I've been 18 since January, but like, yeah, I mean, pretty much once I started, once I moved out on my own, like.

4:01 Cypress Hill What kind of job do you have?

4:03 Oh, I work too. I work in a grocery store and then I'm a salesman.

4:07 Drew It all goes to these girls.

4:09 Cypress Hill It all goes to the pole grinders. Well, you know how.

4:11 Drew Did you have a girlfriend? You ever had a girlfriend?

4:13 Yeah, I still do. Like.

4:15 Drew How does she feel about this?

4:17 She doesn't know.

4:19 Drew Yeah. Are you addicted to anything else?

4:22 Not really.

4:23 Drew I mean, I've never been.

4:25 I've got an addiction to video games, but I really wouldn't say that. I mean.

4:28 Drew Well, you know, that would make sense to me because somebody that's sort of like zoning out like that, whether it's porn online or strip clubs or video games, that's all sort of this kind of half a sleep experience people get into. We sort of go into a little bit of an altered space as a way of just sort of dealing with stress. Frankly, do you have trouble dealing with stress?

4:47 Not really.

4:48 Cypress Hill I mean, he goes to the strip club.

4:50 Drew Those of us who have no stress goes to the strip club. Well, Kenny, here's the deal. If you can stop it, go ahead and stop. You're going to screw up your relationship and you're going to lose all your money.

5:01 Cypress Hill Or he can ask her to go with him to the strip club.

5:05 Drew The girlfriend. But he's still going to lose all his money. That's bugging.

5:08 Cypress Hill Maybe she'll go pay half.

5:10 Drew I don't know that you're addicted yet because usually there's a chemical addiction first. It just sounds like you have a compulsion. You're 18. You've got a lot of energy. Everyone was like me. 18B.

5:19 Cypress Hill Yeah. So long ago.

5:20 I know.

5:23 Drew And I suggest you just because it's not an addiction, you should be able to just go ahead and stop. So why don't you try to wean yourself off? I think you'll find it's like any other compulsive behavior. If you just go cold turkey, it's going to be easier to stay away from. You try to wean yourself down. No way. You just got to have a cold turkey. Elizabeth, 21.

5:41 Yes.

5:44 I have a question.

5:45 I was wondering, I hear like the bumps were on my nipples. There's white stuff that comes out.

5:51 Drew Are you really 21?

5:52 Yes.

5:53 Drew Doesn't she sound like 15 or 16?

5:55 Cypress Hill Like she's throwing her voice or something?

5:57 Drew No, no. Just doesn't sound 21.

5:59 No, I've been 21 just a little bit ago, actually.

6:03 Drew You in school?

6:04 No, I work.

6:06 I have a daughter.

6:08 Drew You're a daughter?

6:09 She has a daughter.

6:10 I have a daughter.

6:12 Drew All right. Are you breastfeeding?

6:14 No, I'm not.

6:15 Drew Any chance you're pregnant again?

6:18 No.

6:19 Drew Are you on medication?

6:21 I've been on birth control and I quit taking birth control.

6:25 Drew Oh, so you will be pregnant soon. All right. Good times.

6:28 No, I'm not.

6:29 Drew Well, you will be. I suggest you get back on the birth control if you have any contact with guys, obviously. Here's the deal. Those glands around the nipple there can be like sebaceous glands and just like they can form a little, have a discharge sometimes. Sometimes even they can kind of confuse what the gland is and what the nipple is. It can be like a milky discharge too. So it's the point is it's not anything you have to worry about. That's for sure.

6:51 Cypress Hill You can work that into a neat little trick.

6:54 Drew Look what I can do. Here's Christy 21.

6:58 Caller Hello.

6:59 Drew What's going on?

7:01 Caller Nothing. I really enjoy oral sex, but I have a problem allowing people to perform it on me. Like I, to me, oral sex is more, I guess, intimate than sexes that I feel. And I've been in therapy and my therapist is really kind of pushing for me to do like some kind of hypnosis session because she feels like if I can remember like exactly what happened when I was molested, then she thinks it'll maybe help me. And I'm really scared about that because when I do remember, it really traumatizes me when I think about it. And I don't even want to remember the stuff I don't want to remember because I feel like there's a reason I don't remember it.

7:43 Drew All right. You really want to help her.

7:45 Caller And so I was just...

7:47 Drew Slow down. I don't want anybody... Slow down.

7:48 Sorry.

7:50 Here we go.

7:51 Drew This is what Cypress Hill was made for. That's why you formed the band.

7:55 Cypress Hill Don't change a thing.

7:57 Caller I've seen you guys in concerts so many times.

7:59 You guys...

8:00 Caller I'm sorry. Oops.

8:02 Drew All right. Now I got to put a hold on... Christy, I want you to hold for a second while we reset our hold.

8:07 Cypress Hill Take a breath.

8:07 Drew This is part of the another FCC thing. We have to have this like 13 second delay. And when she says the F word, we have to reset everything. OK, now we're back again. All right, Christy.

8:17 Caller All right.

8:18 Drew Contain the F bombs, please.

8:20 Caller OK, sorry.

8:21 Drew OK, but you can tell Cypress Hill what you think of them without using the F or the S word.

8:26 Caller Awesome. Awesome.

8:27 Drew They're awesome.

8:28 Cypress Hill Thank you so much.

8:28 Drew I agree with you. What song do you want to hear off their greatest hits from the BONG album?

8:35 Hits from the BONG.

8:37 Cypress Hill Is that even in there?

8:38 Drew I don't think so. All right. Listen, Christy, here's the deal. Here's the deal. It's natural that you would have anxieties and problems with your sexuality since you were sounds like sort of brutally sexually abused. The memory itself is really, let's just first say the memory is not as important as what it does to your relationships with other people. So evoking a memory is really not always a vital thing. So just being able to regulate feelings and to tolerate closeness with other people, those are more the tasks at hand. Now, if your therapist believes there's some reason to make a more what we call descriptive narrative of the actual events of the abuse, the way you do that in this day and age is not hypnotherapy, but something called EMDR. And if you listen to a couple nights ago, we had Jonathan from Korn in here, and he had something similar and went through EMDR. We talked a lot about it, a rather remarkable response. So you look into that, okay? Okay. EMDR it's called. And it's very good for phobias. That's what you're having here, so you're having a phobia for moral sex. But you're gonna spoil it for be real.

9:46 Cypress Hill So she can't enjoy it, but she enjoys giving it.

9:49 Drew Yes. So we're gonna convert her to someone who enjoys both.

9:52 Cypress Hill For your boyfriend, it's a win-win situation.

9:55 Drew It's a mitzvah, as we say, as your people say, Kristi, in Oklahoma. It's a mitzvah, but we're gonna undo that and make it more sort of complete for you, okay?

10:04 Caller Okay.

10:05 Drew It's EMDR it's called, all right?

10:06 Caller EMDR, all right. Thank you.

10:09 Caller All right.

10:10 Drew Here's something for be real. It's Bender27.

10:13 Caller Hey, what's going on, guys? How you doing tonight?

10:16 Caller We're all right.

10:16 Drew What's up, Bender?

10:17 Caller Oh, not a lot. I was just calling. I heard be real was on tonight and wanted to call up and at least say hello.

10:25 Cypress Hill How's it going, man?

10:26 Caller Pretty good, dude. I got to thank you for letting me get into low riding and all that stuff. I wonder what happened to all that.

10:32 Cypress Hill You got into low riding or you're asking me what happened to you pretty much in the music and the videos and stuff.

10:37 Caller And I just kind of wonder now where it all went to.

10:41 Cypress Hill Oh, well, you know, I had two cars. I had a 57 Bel Air Hard Top and a 65 Impala Convertible.

10:51 Yeah, lifestyles and all that stuff.

10:53 Cypress Hill Yeah, with lifestyle. And I eventually got rid of them. I sold one to Japan and one to this guy in Europe. And I'm trying to start over. I want to start over and do a new car and whatnot. So I'm not completely out of it. I'm just trying to find the right car.

11:08 Drew You're one of those ones that jump around.

11:10 Cypress Hill Yeah, I used to have the cars that hop. What are you driving?

11:15 Caller I used to have a 74 Caprice.

11:18 Used to, huh?

11:19 Caller Yeah, I moved out to Phoenix and some haters tried to take it.

11:23 Cypress Hill Oops.

11:23 Drew Nice.

11:24 Caller Yeah, oops.

11:25 Cypress Hill But you know, good luck with the rebuild.

11:28 Caller Yeah, most definitely. Dr. Drew, I just found Adam's out there tonight. I'd like to hear him quiet on me a few minutes.

11:35 Drew Now, you in here, he's doing, taking up a new job. Here is Rick 19.

11:42 Caller Rick? Yeah, how you doing?

11:44 Drew What's going on, buddy?

11:45 Caller What's going on?

11:46 Drew We want to know from you.

11:48 Caller Oh, yeah. No, I was just going to ask Dr. Drew what the, what the, what happens, the risks of getting a tattoo on your penis.

12:01 Drew Oh, good times. Good times.

12:04 Cypress Hill I'd say the pain for one.

12:06 Drew That's the main risk. And there can always be infection with these things, but that's pretty uncommon. I actually would think, you ought to talk to the guys that do this, but I would assume that the piercing is more dangerous than the tattooing, and people get lots of piercings.

12:20 Caller Yeah, I wanted to get a lightning bolt.

12:24 Drew What is that actually going to do for you?

12:26 Cypress Hill You know, that might imply that you're quick, man. I don't know about the lightning bolt.

12:31 Caller It's all good.

12:34 Drew What is the preoccupation with the lightning bolt? Help me understand what that does for you.

12:38 Caller I don't know. It's kind of like Steve-O with the your name tattoo on the ass.

12:43 Drew Yeah, except it's completely different.

12:45 Caller Right. No, it's the same. It's kind of like a pickup line.

12:48 Drew I bet you have a lightning bolt on my penis.

12:50 Caller Hell yeah.

12:51 Caller You want to ride it?

12:51 Kind of like that.

12:52 Cypress Hill He wants a conversation piece.

12:54 Drew You want to ride my lightning bolt?

12:56 Caller Heck yeah.

12:57 Drew Do you understand the Your Name gig? You understand why that's funny?

13:01 Wouldn't it be better if it was a lightning rod?

13:04 That's the same.

13:05 Drew He doesn't? Okay. Enjoy, Rick. But talk to the guys that do it. Here's, my goodness, this is Steve 17.

13:15 Cypress Hill It's creative, though.

13:16 Drew It's very creative. You got a hand to him. Steve, what's up, buddy?

13:21 Caller All right, Drew. First off, you're a genius. You've inspired me to get into biological anthropology, so thank you for that.

13:26 Drew Oh, nice. I love that field.

13:29 Caller And so here's my question. You talked about how, like, 60% of women have herpes now.

13:35 Drew HPV. I'm not sure I can say 60. I may have quoted once some data that claimed that. I'm not sure I believe that. I think it's more like 10 or 20%. And what we were saying with a lot of the recent data is that a lot more women have it. Many more times have it than realize they have it.

13:53 Caller Well, it is getting really popular.

13:57 Drew It's always been very popular, Margie.

13:59 Cypress Hill It's so popular. I want that.

14:01 Drew But I think Steve-O brought this up that night. It was a very interesting statement. He goes, look, there must be a hell of a lot of people with herpes out there. If the drug companies are spending that much money that we've all seen herpes commercials on TV.

14:13 Caller Right.

14:13 Drew The chick with the brown hair, you know, kickboxing, she's gonna roll a woman. We've all seen it. That means, you know, they're not gonna spend that money unless they have to capture a huge, huge market.

14:23 Caller Right.

14:24 Drew And so that gives you a hint of how big this is.

14:26 Cypress Hill You gotta have people to market the product to.

14:28 Drew But that's the point. A lot of people have herpes. A lot, a lot.

14:33 Cypress Hill That's why there's a lot of condoms.

14:35 Drew Let's put it this way. There's millions, tens of millions of people with high blood pressure. I don't see any blood pressure medicine on TV.

14:41 Caller Right. I understand. So should us guys be being pretty careful these days? Or should we just pull it?

14:47 Drew No, no. Wear the condom. There was also a study that came out about a week ago that showed the condoms were really very effective in preventing transmission of herpes virus. So yeah, just wear your condom fastidiously and you will then be protected against really what's in reality the more serious conditions.

15:02 Caller Get that.

15:02 Cypress Hill Slappin on, man.

15:03 Drew All right.

15:04 Caller All right. Thanks a lot, guys.

15:05 Drew And get that HPV vaccine as soon as it comes out. Laura, 24.

15:11 Caller Hello.

15:12 Drew Hello.

15:13 Caller How are you guys doing?

15:14 Drew We're having a pretty good time. Yeah, we're good.

15:16 Good.

15:17 Drew Cypress Hill, greatest hits from the bong.

15:20 My question is, I did not know my father growing up. He died before I was able to know him. And I'm curious about how that's going to affect my dating life.

15:33 Drew Hmm. Have you noticed it? What have you noticed it doing? I think it can go a lot of different ways, frankly. I don't think that's quite as predictable as some of the other things we often talk about in the show. But what have you noticed?

15:42 Well, I've noticed that I've been attracted to bad boys, people who aren't very successful, that kind of thing. I have had male role models, you could say, stepfather, mother's boyfriends, that kind of thing. Just never my own father.

15:57 Drew How are the relationships when you get into them? Are you able to have a stable relationship?

16:01 Looking back, no. I mean, there's nothing crazy. I've been cheated on.

16:07 Drew What was your mom like?

16:08 My mom and I are really good friends. We're very close.

16:11 Drew What kind of a parent was she growing up? Do you feel safe when you're growing up? Did you feel that it was a chaos and out of control?

16:18 I felt safe. We didn't ever have a lot of money, so that was always an issue. That was the only thing I could complain about growing up.

16:26 Drew This can go one or two. It generally goes towards, as you're noticing, sort of being attracted to the unavailable. One of the things you could do is build a very idealized sort of representation of what your dad must have been, this sort of idealized knight in shining armor.

16:40 Cypress Hill She's looking for daddy.

16:41 Drew And then you start looking for that guy. Or you get angry at man for having left you and abandoned you, make you feel bad about yourself because you as a little child feel responsible for that abandonment, and look for guys that reinforce that negative feeling about yourself.

16:54 Cypress Hill Self-sabotage.

16:55 Drew Yeah, so it sounds like you could go...

16:57 Definitely the second one's going on.

16:59 Drew Yeah, that's more you, huh? Well, you can either get therapy, or you can take yourself and go into relationships with guys that are not so damn exciting, not so interesting.

17:12 Cypress Hill Make a conscious effort.

17:14 Drew Yeah, yeah, don't... Right, just look for... You know, we learn to read your attractions. Learn that when a guy... I'm so into... Oh, God, I'm going to get that guy... You got to stop... Oh, I know what that is. That's going to be a bad thing. But this guy, he's kind of interesting, and kind of like him. He's all right. Hang out with that guy for a while and see if he develops some feelings for him. That's sort of the idea.

17:32 Yeah, I've definitely tried to... I've been more drawn to the people that I have an initial big spark with.

17:39 Drew I know, but that's the bad guy. You've shown... You've proven that. You've gone down that path a few times. But that's what you've got to avoid now.

17:46 Okay, now I heard something... Another question. It's okay. I heard something a few nights ago about most women will either have orgasm sexually or orally.

17:57 No, I mean...

17:57 Drew No, no. Yeah.

17:59 Oh.

18:00 Drew Yeah, what I said was most women have orgasm with oral sex only, that there's a certain group, which you're in, Laura, maybe 20 or 30 percent of women, they can do it both ways, and then there's another group as they move towards having orgasm only with intercourse or multiple orgasm with intercourse who don't like oral sex at all.

18:19 And that is a...

18:20 Drew You're in the middle. You're in that middle zone. And that is a biological thing. It seems to be genetically set. There's some evidence for that, and that's just the way people are set up. You can't go from the woman who has orgasm only with oral sex to the woman who has multiple orgasm with intercourse. You can't... You can't... Those are two different biologies. I know you're the middle ground. You're the middle one. I know you're good. You're good to go.

18:41 Cypress Hill You can have your cake and eat it too.

18:43 Drew Let me ask this. How old were you when you started having orgasms?

18:46 I was 18, 17 or 18. I started having oral sex at 17 and sex at 18.

18:53 Drew Good times. All right, Laura.

18:55 Thank you, guys.

18:55 Drew Bye.

18:56 Bye.

18:58 Drew Be real. These kids.

19:00 Cypress Hill I don't know.

19:01 Drew They should take a paintball or something, right?

19:03 Cypress Hill Yeah.

19:03 Drew How long have you been doing paintball?

19:06 Cypress Hill Close to, wait, what is it? Two and a half years, something like that.

19:10 Drew How did you form the team?

19:12 Cypress Hill We were on one of the guys' birthdays, you know, playing around, and then we just took it from there. We started taking it serious week by week.

19:19 Drew You started buying more stuff.

19:20 Cypress Hill Buying more stuff. And then, you know, we decided to start competing in the tournaments.

19:26 Drew So somebody just went on a birthday party, you'd go out on a paintball mission, and then it became like from there you fell in love with it.

19:32 Cypress Hill Yeah, you'd get addicted, man. It was like the quickest thing I ever got addicted to more than anything, man. It's more expensive than the other thing, too.

19:39 Caller Yeah, it sure is.

19:40 Cypress Hill Yeah, man, but it's fun, you know.

19:42 Drew How long ago was that?

19:43 Cypress Hill What?

19:44 Drew That you first got addicted to paintball.

19:47 Cypress Hill The first time I played.

19:48 Drew Was that five years ago, ten years ago?

19:49 Cypress Hill No, it was like two, three years ago, probably.

19:52 Drew And the same group of guys stuck together with it?

19:54 Cypress Hill Yeah. Well, at least, well, we started with twenty and ten, pretty much stuck it out.

19:59 Drew Wow.

20:00 Cypress Hill You know, it's expensive and it hurts. It's just like love.

20:06 Drew Stings.

20:07 Cypress Hill Stings.

20:07 Drew This is Danielle, eighteen.

20:09 Caller Danielle?

20:10 Drew Yeah, Danielle. Don't use those pellets, do you? Use the paintball.

20:12 Cypress Hill No, the, yeah, the paintballs, yeah.

20:15 Drew Yeah, Hi, Danielle. What's going on?

20:16 Caller Hi. Well, my problem is I get really sad at night and it's when I'm like, it's at night when I'm alone. But, and I don't understand why, because I'll just cry. And then, but like I have like a good family and like good friends and like awesome friends actually, but I don't understand. Like I'll always just cry if I'm like by myself.

20:38 Drew Did something happen to you at night ever?

20:40 Caller No, I don't understand it. Like.

20:43 Drew Well, there's a lot of things that can lead to this. If one of them can be purely biological, maybe you're just depressed, you have some sort of reaction to light that helps elevate your mood, or maybe you have even a bipolar condition, or something happened to you that you're not really cognizant of right now, you really can't bring to consciousness, then these sort of sort out. I mean, we'll sort out with time, but there's nothing magical we can say that's going to be specific to what you're describing. But it was something I would definitely look into. It's not normal to be profoundly depressed every time you go to bed at night.

21:15 Caller Yeah.

21:16 Drew And it sounds like an abandonment thing, like every time you're alone, that's when you can't be in your own skin.

21:21 Cypress Hill Go get a Def Jam comedy CD before you go to sleep.

21:24 Drew You know what, leave it on all night?

21:26 Cypress Hill Yeah.

21:26 Drew That's the one way of doing it.

21:27 Cypress Hill There you go.

21:28 Drew All right, very quickly, Eric, 29 Eric.

21:31 Caller Hey, brother, how you doing?

21:32 Drew What's up?

21:33 Caller Hey, I got a question for you about penises and pain, like a generalized kind of thing.

21:39 Drew Why don't you hold on one second? We got to take a commercial. We're here with Cypress Hill, Be Real in the studio tonight. We're going to get back to Eric and his painful penis.

21:47 Cypress Hill That sounds like a painful subject.

21:50 Drew Painful subject. We will take a commercial. We're going to talk more about the new album, which is Greatest Hits from the Bunger, and hear something off the album after the commercial break. In the meantime, we'll be right back. How do you want me to say it?

22:04 Love Line will be right back.

22:05 Caller Love Line will be right back.

22:26 Drew Back to Loveline, 1-800-LOVE-191. Be Real from Cypress Hill in the studio with us tonight. Again, 1-800-LOVE-191. Give us a call while we're talking to Eric with the painful peony. Eric, here we go.

22:40 Caller All right.

22:41 Drew We're back with you.

22:42 Caller All right. I appreciate it. Who are we on with tonight?

22:44 Drew Be Real.

22:45 Caller Be Real.

22:46 Drew Cypress Hill.

22:46 Caller I was born in Chicago. That's weird. All right. Yeah, so it's a generalized pain. It's not like anything associated with sex necessarily. But occasionally it's like somebody sticks a needle on the inside tube there.

23:00 Drew Have you had that looked at?

23:02 Caller You know, I don't qualify for insurance because I don't make enough money and the people in the county don't seem real interested.

23:08 Drew You mean you've been to the county facilities?

23:10 Caller Right.

23:11 Drew All right.

23:11 Caller In the county facilities they don't seem real concerned.

23:14 Drew Well, it's not something you should be real concerned about, but it is something that needs to be sort of sorted out and figured out. Can you check that out? Does it hurt when you pee?

23:22 Caller No, not at all. You know, when you rub one out and occasionally it happens too fast, sometimes it gets a little irritated then, but other than that, no.

23:33 Drew Okay. Does it hurt all up and down the shaft of the penis?

23:37 Caller Just kind of on the inside.

23:39 Drew Inside?

23:39 Caller Yeah. Yeah, in the carrying tube.

23:42 Drew More, the urethra. That is often an inflammation of the urethra. Most commonly it's an infection. Most commonly it would be an STD and something easily treated with some antibiotics. But there are other things, but that's not necessarily what you have. There are other conditions that can do this, too. There are other causes of urethritis. And there are prostate conditions and epididymis inflammations. And so what we do sometimes with these sort of unexplained discomforts like this, is we first try some antibiotics, then we try some anti-inflammatories, and then we try some medication that relaxes the smooth muscle that sort of makes your bladder evacuate more freely. Right.

24:16 Caller Nice!

24:17 Drew What?

24:18 I said nice!

24:19 Drew Well, it's not a big deal. It's not a big deal. It's literally, it's just, you just try, you get one thing until you get a really good result. And usually you can get the symptoms to relieve. It's usually, more often than not, it's sort of a prostate inflammation. That's really what's causing it. And that's something you can take care of. Something should be taken care of because you grow older, you're going to get more and more and more of that stuff.

24:36 Cypress Hill It's going to get more painful.

24:38 Drew Let's see.

24:39 Cypress Hill That's the name of punk band, if you ask me. Painful Penis.

24:42 Drew Painful Penis. This is Chris wants to talk to Be Real. Chris?

24:45 Caller Yeah, what's up?

24:46 Drew What's up?

24:47 Caller Who's this? Is this Dr. Drew?

24:49 Drew Yep, you're on with Be Real.

24:50 Caller Oh, well, hey, what's up, B? How you doing?

24:52 Cypress Hill What's happening, bro?

24:53 Caller Hey, I want to call you and talk to you about your paintball team, Stoney Sound.

24:57 Cypress Hill Oh, cool.

24:58 Caller Yeah, yeah. Did you guys, have you guys talked about that tonight?

25:01 Drew Yeah, yeah.

25:02 Caller Sweet, sweet.

25:03 Drew But we haven't had anybody who came to challenge him, so is that what you're doing?

25:07 Caller Oh, I don't think we'll put up a good challenge, but we'll still take him on. I was going to tell you too, we got mutual friends, Chris. The one in San Diego, I think he's helping your co-chair.

25:19 Cypress Hill Yeah, Chris, yeah, I know Chris.

25:21 Caller Yeah, he's a co-cat. Anyways, I wanted to give you props on your team and everything, you guys have been doing good this year.

25:25 Caller Thanks a lot, man.

25:27 Caller Yeah, you guys did a good job.

25:29 Cypress Hill Oh yeah, definitely, man.

25:30 Yeah, when you guys move to Div.

25:31 Cypress Hill I love shooting people up.

25:33 Drew Is that it, Chris?

25:35 Caller Yeah, yeah, go ahead.

25:35 Drew When are you going to move to what?

25:38 Caller Oh, Div.

25:38 Drew I?

25:40 Cypress Hill We're going to try to make that move next year, but you know, it just all depends on how many points we have at the end of the year.

25:46 Drew So I have a question. It seems like a lot of that, the performance in these, at least this is what I was watching people do. It's very dependent on the equipment you have. Move over as the more rapid firing, longer firing, more accurate firing, you win.

25:59 Cypress Hill Well, some guns are more accurate than others. Others have a better rate of fire than others, but it just depends on the team and how well you play together and if you execute the plan, you know?

26:10 Drew Those Navy guns that send off spent uranium, they four thousand rounds are done. It's crazy, right?

26:16 Cypress Hill Yeah, you got to have good equipment, but you know, the guy with the gun and the teammates, they got to be on the same page too.

26:23 Drew So makes sense.

26:24 Cypress Hill It's team sport.

26:25 Drew All right, this is a Brittany 22. What's up, Brittany?

26:28 Caller Hey, guys.

26:29 Drew What's up?

26:30 Caller Hola.

26:31 Caller OK, my question is, is kind of broad, but I know a lot of people have really bad sleeping habits. My time runs in my family because my my mom, my sisters are all the same way. We tend to stay up really late and not get enough sleep. But then again, mine kind of go up and down. But I think it's affecting my health because I work out regularly. I eat right. But when I go to sleep, I am out. I sleep through alarms. There's some points when I'm late for work and I don't I don't know how I can change those as far as so it's not affecting my life so much. I don't know if it's necessarily a problem or just like the way my body is built or I just have really bad sleeping habits. And I just when I sleep, I sleep. But I can stay up for like two days three.

27:19 Drew Are you sure you're not bipolar or something?

27:22 Caller I don't think it runs in my family. My stepdad's bipolar, but I've never actually been touched for it.

27:27 Drew Well, you just finished saying how your sister and your mom are all the same way. So something's running in your family.

27:33 Caller Something's but it's never been actually clinically proven. Right.

27:36 Drew But they're diagnosed. If I were you, I would start because the connection is horrible. I'm going to put you on hold for a second. But I would get a sleep study. There are people that are sleep physiologists, sleep experts out there. We would go get a formal study to see what happens during your sleep that puts you into that deep sleep late in the morning, as opposed to getting some REM sleep during the night and why you're not having restorative sleep, why you have trouble going to sleep. That needs to be fully evaluated. Maybe you're hyperthyroid, maybe you're bipolar, maybe you're depressed, who knows? Maybe you have anxiety disorders, lots of different possibilities here. But it definitely, yes, of course, it can affect your health. In fact, more and more doctors are looking at sleep as something that we've ignored for many years. It can cause things like strokes, heart disease, heart attack, kidney problems. So I would look into it.

28:17 Cypress Hill At that point, you can't really hear anything when you're in that deep of a sleep.

28:21 Drew Right. Well, there's people, some people can't. Some people never go into that stage. Some people go there and can't get out. And yeah, if you're in one of those people that really has difficulty, then yeah, you can have trouble being, you can literally be shaken. Something could shoot a gun off and not rouse. Emily, 25.

28:40 Caller Hi.

28:41 Caller What's going on?

28:43 Caller Hello.

28:43 Drew There you are. You're on the air.

28:45 Caller Yes. Dr. Drew. Yes. I wanted to ask a question. Basically, I have been with my husband for a few years, but the thing that I have problem with is when I'm doing sexual intimacy, things like blow jobs and stuff like that. Yeah. And I feel, you know, I try to do it to please him, but I feel basically disgusted, not by myself, you know. I feel like a whore, you know. I feel like everybody in the world knows what I'm doing, and I just feel like it's wrong, even if, you know. I can't get into it. I don't know. I have a problem with that. And I was wondering, you know, even if, how can I get over that? All right.

29:25 Drew Hold on now. Did something happen to you growing up that was awful and disgusting?

29:31 Caller Well, actually, I always had this problem throughout my sexual life.

29:37 Drew How old were you when you started having sex?

29:40 Caller I was pretty like 15, 16.

29:45 Drew And you didn't have sex? No one did anything to you when you were a kid?

29:48 Caller Basically, I was molested only.

29:52 Drew Only that? Wow. I mean, who hasn't been molested?

29:56 Cypress Hill It's a small thing.

29:57 Drew No, Emily, that's the problem here. You understand? Yeah. That's a horrifying experience for a child. And it has, it can go one of two ways. It either feels powerless and disgusting and, you know, you hate men and you hate the feeling of it. Or some kids actually feel responsible for it. They feel like they seduced the adult. They feel like they're aroused by it and then feel guilty and ashamed and dirty for that. Whatever sort of mode you're in, it's all highly traumatic. It's not your fault. But of course you're going to have very mixed feelings about men, have difficulty being close and have extreme difficulty with sexual functioning. So why don't you look into that?

30:32 Caller Oh yeah. I really feel uncomfortable. Like, you know, even being undressed in front of my partner. I mean, I've been with him for years and, you know, It's your husband.

30:39 Drew It's your husband. It's not your partner. It's not some guy you're being sexual with. It's your husband who's committed to you for life. Why don't you guys see someone who can help you out with this? Or at least you particularly. And we've talked already tonight about EMDR and how it can help trauma. And just maybe general therapy would help you relax and deal with overcoming some of these anxieties.

30:58 Cypress Hill How long have they been married?

30:59 Drew How long have you been married, Emily?

31:03 Caller No, this is my first marriage.

31:05 Drew How long have you been married?

31:07 Caller Like two years.

31:08 Drew Two years. How long have you guys been together?

31:10 Caller Like for five years. Three years prior before getting married.

31:18 Drew You've been having sex the whole time?

31:20 Caller Five years. I try to please him. I try to please him in like sexual things like that.

31:24 Drew I know. We got you. Does he know you feel disgusted and bad?

31:27 Caller Yes, he does, but I punish him because he feels that it's just in my head.

31:32 Drew It is just in your head.

31:34 Caller And I try to, but...

31:36 Drew It is in your head, of course. It's not that he's actually a disgusting person. There are only two possibilities here. He's actually disgusting or it's in your head.

31:43 Caller I'm not disgusted by him or anything, but like doing the acts or doing those kind of things, you know, I feel low about myself after.

31:52 Drew I know. Who abused you when you were a kid?

31:54 Caller Yeah.

31:54 Drew Who abused you when you were a kid?

31:55 Caller My stepfather. He just molested me. He didn't, like, do no intercourse thing.

32:01 Drew He just touched you in bad places?

32:03 Caller Yeah.

32:04 Drew Did he do things in front of you? Did he masturbate or anything like that? Was he horrible?

32:08 Caller No. All he did was basically put a porno on TV.

32:12 Drew All right. That's all that same good, lovely stuff. God bless him. I hope he rots in hell. Yeah.

32:18 Cypress Hill I mean, either way, it affects you.

32:21 Drew It's the gift that keeps on giving. These A-holes, they take these young girls, not even his, somebody else's child, abuses them, and now for the rest of her life, she goes on spinning about this, and then she'll have kids, and her trauma will get transmitted to them. It's fantastic. It's really a great system, huh?

32:38 Cypress Hill Yeah. Just beautiful.

32:40 Drew Let's hear a song. Cypress Hill song. I think this one's Insane in the Membrane, sort of appropriate for talking about guys like that. So you go ahead and intro it, B-Real.

32:51 Cypress Hill This is Insane in the Brain from our Greatest Hits album, Greatest Hits from the Bong. Take a hit.

36:17 Drew Cypress Hill. New album is Greatest Hits From the Bond, came out on Tuesday the 13th. 17 million albums sold worldwide. This will be another 3 million to add on top of that, probably.

36:29 Cypress Hill Yeah, we'll see.

36:29 Drew Well, maybe we need to be real with Micah here. Oh boy. Air engineer is Michelle, whose birthday it is today, by the way, I forgot to get her a pie. I'm such a great friend. Anderson, go out. You guys got those restaurants right around. People don't know that B-Real and I are here in the studio with Michelle and Anderson, and the screeners are down the street about a mile. And where Anderson is, there's a bunch of shops. Go out there and get a pie and bring it down here for Michelle, right?

36:53 Cypress Hill Get the pie.

36:54 Drew Or send Lance here or somebody. There's got to be somebody around there.

36:57 Cypress Hill Bring us the pie.

36:58 Caller Everything closed in like five.

37:01 Drew Damn. All right. I want to quickly. Yeah, yeah. Let me just quickly hear from John here. 16. John?

37:07 Caller Hello?

37:08 Caller What's up?

37:10 Caller I was just wondering, does anal stimulation during masturbation have any side effects or anything?

37:16 Drew You're gay. Well, we'll find out. But first, a break. We'll be right back. Excuse me. Yo, don't go nowhere. Be real in here tonight from Cypress Hill. The phone number is 1-800-LOVE-191, and we were talking to John, who is 16.

37:56 Cypress Hill I was waiting for the disco balls to fall out the sky.

37:58 Drew It's nice, huh? Yeah, we came to please. Hello? Yeah, John. So, the question again.

38:05 Caller Does anal stimulation during masturbation have any side effects?

38:10 Drew You're gay. Like, what do you mean by anal stimulation? What does that mean?

38:13 Caller Well, like sticking a toothbrush up my butt or something like that.

38:17 Drew Oh, something like that. Well.

38:20 Cypress Hill You must want to keep it real clean or something, huh?

38:24 Drew I'm more curious what is, forget the adverse effect. What are the positive effects? I can imagine the adverse effect.

38:31 Caller I guess it just like makes everything more, not intense, but like it makes everything feel better. I can have a better orgasm.

38:39 Drew So this is one of those guys. This is the guy that screwed up for the rest of us.

38:42 Cypress Hill He's asking us if it's better, but he's already done it.

38:46 Drew He says it's going to hurt him. He does it. He likes it. Yeah. And here's the deal. These women went around thinking that all men like this. And John, you're a rare, rare breed. There's very few guys like this, but some guys do and they like it a lot. And so be it. I wouldn't put anything in there large. You can tear areas. You can cause hemorrhoids. It's something that's sort of not a particularly healthy thing to do, but if you're careful, it's not that big a deal. So, but don't spoil up for the rest of it. Any girls that you sort of bring this up with, be sure to point out to them that you're a very rare breed. You're a rare guy.

39:19 Cypress Hill You're very rare, my friend.

39:21 Drew Very.

39:21 Caller I guess that's nice to know.

39:23 Cypress Hill I'll put you in a glass case.

39:26 Drew Be real here. The thing is, I've talked to a girl last night about this who was just intent upon doing something like this to her boyfriend. We were like, no, look, don't, don't. He doesn't like it. He told you he doesn't like it. Men tell you what they like. I mean, John is going to not hold back when he gets involved with somebody. He's going to tell him.

39:41 Cypress Hill She's either going to run for the hills or strap the rubber glove on.

39:48 Drew Just be careful. Are you OK otherwise? Did something happen to you growing up?

39:51 Caller No, my parents are awesome.

39:54 Cypress Hill He's just a freak, Drew. There are those.

39:57 Drew I was hoping he was going to tell me something happened.

39:59 Cypress Hill There are freaks like this guy.

40:00 Drew No, there are. There no doubt are.

40:01 But that's OK.

40:03 Cypress Hill Being a freak is OK, dude.

40:05 Caller Also, I was just wondering, can the giver during oral sex, can that person contract an STD?

40:13 Drew Yes, either person always in oral sex can get it, just like either person in intercourse can get it. Sheila, 19.

40:19 Caller Hi.

40:20 Drew Hey, what's up?

40:21 Caller Hi, there's a girl who called me earlier about she doesn't have enough sleep. Well, I'm like the opposite. I get too much sleep.

40:28 Drew Right.

40:28 Caller And I think it was like two years ago, in 03. The doctor told me I had like a tumor in my pituitary gland. That I have too much hormones in.

40:39 Drew Which one? Which one? Which hormone?

40:42 Caller Pituitary.

40:43 Drew Yeah, your pituitary makes a lot of different hormones. Which one is being produced by the tumor?

40:47 Caller I'm not sure. I don't remember.

40:49 Drew Probably nothing. Probably nothing, then.

40:51 Caller Oh, yeah?

40:51 Drew Because there are pituitary, what are called pituitary microadenomas that don't do anything. The most common pituitary tumor is something called a prolactinoma.

40:58 Caller Yeah, it is prolactinoma.

40:59 Drew Okay, so you need to get that dealt with. Because there are medicines you can take to suppress it and shrink it and reduce the prolactin production.

41:05 Caller Does that have anything to do with like, I sleep too much because of my...

41:09 Drew It really might, Gio. Yeah, it could. I've seen some cases where relatively minor increases in prolactin cause a lot of depression and a lot of fatigue.

41:19 Caller Yeah, I was diagnosed with depression, bipolar, and a lot of things.

41:26 Drew Well, the other thing is, I'm getting a little technical here, but if you were on a major tranquilizer or certain psychiatric medication, that can actually raise your prolactin levels and make it look like there's a pituitary tumor. Provided the prolactin level is under a hundred, we generally think that's just the medication.

41:44 Caller Okay.

41:45 Drew Generally speaking. But, you know, let's get this further by a teen endocrinologist and go forward, because the reality is these mood disturbances you're having may be the tumor and not a primary psychiatric disorder. Valerie 22.

41:56 Hey.

41:57 Drew Hey, what's up?

41:58 Um, sorry, I was eating Del Taco.

42:01 Drew Oh, well, don't let us interrupt. You want a little more time with the taco? With your burrito?

42:07 Cypress Hill Let's go and grape for that time.

42:10 I'm actually calling because, well, first off, I've been listening to you since I was probably about eight years old, which is, I don't know if it's a good thing or a bad thing.

42:20 Drew Oh, thanks, man. I appreciate that. I mean, I don't know if that's a good thing or a bad thing that you say it like that.

42:26 Well, I don't know. I just got this, like, weird, not obsession, but just like an awareness of sexuality.

42:35 Drew Because of this show? Yeah. Oh, that's not good.

42:38 It's not, well, not entirely because of this show, but it added to it.

42:43 Drew Because my thing with this show is you really, 14 and under should not really be listening.

42:48 Oh, yeah.

42:48 Drew It happens occasionally. But if somebody has some crazy problems, and they don't have anywhere else to go, I'm glad we're here. But in terms of being preoccupied with it, this is not the place for under 15.

42:59 Cypress Hill There's a lot of information out there.

43:02 Drew So what's happening as a result?

43:05 I'm actually only just calling because I, I would say I'm addicted to Xanax right now.

43:13 Drew Right.

43:13 But I'm using it to kind of counteract my addiction to crystal meth.

43:18 Drew Fabulous.

43:19 I started using that when I was about 13.

43:22 Drew All right. So we got to deal with that, right?

43:25 Huh?

43:26 Drew We got to deal with that, right?

43:27 Oh, well, yeah, kind of.

43:30 Drew You're in Orange County, right?

43:31 Yeah.

43:32 Drew You're in Newport?

43:34 Pretty close to it, yeah.

43:35 Drew Okay. Hoag has a very good addiction program. Get in there immediately. Amphetamine is one of these drugs that causes brain damage.

43:43 Oh, yeah, I totally understand that. And that's what I want to talk to you about.

43:46 Drew Mallory, you know the memory problems you're having?

43:48 Yes.

43:49 Drew That's from the speed and it's permanent.

43:51 Cypress Hill What's that doing to the heart even? I mean, because she's doing the speed and then the Xanax slows your heart rate.

43:57 Well, no, I haven't been doing speed. I've been clean off that for about three years.

44:01 Drew Oh, you're not doing speed. You're not doing speed.

44:03 No, no, no. It's like I get panicky, kind of paranoid. Like sometimes I get the craving for speed.

44:10 Caller Sometimes that's when I use Xanax.

44:12 But usually I just use Xanax because like I've basically like got, you know, really kind of panicky.

44:18 Drew Like how much you take? Well, that's again, that's part of the love. The speed can leave you that way too. How much Xanax are you using a day?

44:25 Probably like close to one, one to one and a half milligrams a day I'm prescribed.

44:30 Drew Okay. And are you in the program now?

44:32 No, but I have a best friend who is like a recovering alcoholic, so he's kind of motivating me into that.

44:41 Drew All right, Mallie, the only thing is this is all actually good. You're actually telling me a good story and you're moving in the right direction. There are two things that I would do with somebody like you. One is obviously get you off the Xanax. The problem is you can have a seizure coming off Xanax, cold turkey, and it's very hard to taper off it. So you really want to get in the hands of somebody who knows how to do this, does this a lot. Again, Hoag has an addiction program where you can look into that and get detox. You probably need to be somewhere for about a week to get it done. That's number one. Number two, and plus when you're there, you can get really entrenched in the program, get some treatment, really understand how the program works, and then get assessed psychiatrically to see if maybe some of that speed is left behind some damage that's causing the panic, that can be corrected with pharmacology. After all, you hurt yourself just if you broke your leg or something, water skiing, you'd want to get some physical therapy and get that supported too, in the same way that the speed has injured you now and you need to do something to correct it. So those are the two things I'd look into. Then stay with your friends, start going to meetings, get a sponsor, you're moving in the right direction, Mallory. Make me proud, make me proud. You've been listening since you were eight, for god sakes.

45:40 Cypress Hill Keep it slow.

45:41 Drew All right.

45:42 I just want to ask you another thing, like I've been smoking pot every day.

45:47 Drew Well, that's got to go too, unfortunately. That's all got to go. It's all got to go. And the pot, the pot, hang on, we'll get back to you in a second. We got to take a break here. But the pot is what you're going to miss the most. People love pot. People love pot when they love it.

45:59 Cypress Hill Say goodbye, bye.

46:00 Drew Yeah, when you're...

46:01 Cypress Hill More for me.

46:02 Drew More for B-Real. All right, B-Real is in the studio from Cypress Hill. We gotta take another break here. We'll be right back. Greatest hits from the bomb. Cypress Hill, be real in the studio tonight. You guys going out on tour in February?

46:40 Cypress Hill Yeah, February. We're gonna be out for the month.

46:43 Drew Do you know where?

46:44 Cypress Hill Just the states, from east to west.

46:46 Drew Just major cities kind of thing?

46:48 Cypress Hill Yeah.

46:48 Drew Big concert halls?

46:50 Cypress Hill We're doing intimate stuff like the House of Blues.

46:53 Drew Nice, out here? Do you know anything?

46:55 Cypress Hill Yeah.

46:55 Drew Oh, that'd be fine.

46:57 Cypress Hill Yeah, we're just gonna, you know, give everybody the aroma across the country.

47:02 Drew Nice, nice. So, the new album again is Greatest Hits From The Bomb. We're gonna hear another song from that, maybe the next segment. They were on Jimmy Kimmel Live last night. What did you guys play last night?

47:12 Cypress Hill We played Rock Superstar and Insane in the Brain.

47:15 Drew Of course.

47:16 Cypress Hill I was, you know, I was having a good time.

47:19 Drew Now, you, do you have a girlfriend now?

47:22 Cypress Hill Yeah.

47:22 Drew And is she, are you living with together?

47:24 Cypress Hill No.

47:24 Drew No. And this somebody you've been with for a long time? Yeah. How do you handle the road when you're involved with somebody else? Does she go with you? You guys aren't out of the road that much, I guess.

47:33 Cypress Hill Not these days. We don't go out on the road that much anymore.

47:35 Drew I mean, talk to some of these bands, they like go out for four years. They're home for seven days out of the year, some crazy stuff like that.

47:41 Cypress Hill Yeah. It gets hard to deal with. But I mean, you know, just anytime you leave home, you have to deal with that separation from being away from your family, you know, your loved ones and all that stuff. But it's the job you do, you know. It's just like being an athlete. You got to travel from city to city, play these games and, you know, for the whole season and stuff like that. And for us, it's like sometimes we're home for a couple weeks at a time and you got to go back on the road. I mean, these days for us, we spend more time at home recording. So, you know, it's not so bad.

48:14 Drew But is there a new album coming out after the greatest hits?

48:17 Cypress Hill I believe so. Right now, we're all focusing on separate projects. You know, I'm working on a solo album that I'm trying to put out next summer. And Muggs has got this thing out with this guy called The GZA. He's a hip hop legend as well. You know, they got a really good album out there that they're pushing it. And Sendog's working with his brother Melo Man Ace on a record called The Reyes Brothers. So everybody's got their perspective projects. Bobo's got his thing, too.

48:47 Drew I know where's Bobo been? I come out here with you a long time.

48:49 Cypress Hill Yeah, I don't know. I figured one of these guys were going to be here with me.

48:53 Drew Well, Sendog's been out a while, but Bobo came every time with you and then all of a sudden he vanished.

48:58 Cypress Hill He vanished.

48:59 Drew And that was it.

49:00 Cypress Hill Yeah, I mean, he's been working really hard on his project and everything, trying to get it done. So he's probably working on it right now. I had the free time.

49:09 Drew Fair enough. All right, we'll finish with Mallory. Mallory, so you were smoking pot now also, right?

49:15 Oh, yeah, like, I mean...

49:16 Drew All right, that's good. The thing with addiction is that it's a part of the brain called the medial forebrain bundle, and anything that massages that area, which happens to be all drugs of abuse and addiction, will perpetuate the addiction to whatever your drug of choice is. And so you can't get off the Xanax. You can switch from one drug to the next, but you can't get sober until you're off everything. And this process continues to progress, the process we call addiction, if you're not off everything. So you need to go somewhere for about a week. HOGUE has a good program. You're right nearby there. Go in, get treatment, get back on the beam, go with these friends to NA meetings and get going.

49:54 Cypress Hill Clean it up, damn it.

49:55 Drew All right?

49:56 All right. Well, I pray that nobody from my work listened to this, and I want to thank you for all your help, and thank you for being on the air for so long.

50:04 Drew It's my pleasure, and I hope that it had no adverse effect on you over these 14 years. Well, no, not at all. But let's let tonight, really, let's bring it home, all right?

50:11 Cypress Hill Guess what? I recorded this whole conversation, and I'm sending it to your boss right now.

50:19 Drew I'm sending it to the Robinsons at Fashion Island, where you work. All right?

50:24 Caller That's horrible. Thank you.

50:26 Drew All right.

50:26 Bye.

50:28 Drew All right. Let's hear a couple of calls for B-Real. Here's Big Happy, 29.

50:32 Caller Hey, what's up, man? What's up, B-Real?

50:34 Cypress Hill What's happening, bro?

50:35 Drew Clearly, the name Big Happy gets on the air.

50:37 Caller All right. Hey, I was just asking, I was wondering what your relationship with Dice Cube was.

50:43 Cypress Hill Everything's cool now. It was rocky back in the late 90s.

50:48 Drew What happened?

50:49 Cypress Hill Well, we had a couple of run-ins. There was a misunderstanding about who wrote what song and what not. In hip-hop, that's pretty much cause for a battle right there. It got flipped into different stuff, but we eventually ironed it out. We just came out on a song with Warren G. For Warren G.'s album called Don't Let No One Get You Down. It was me, New Dog, Ice Cube and myself and Warren.

51:19 Drew All in the studio together or just laid out different times?

51:21 Cypress Hill Different times, but we did the video together. That probably was the first time me and Ice Cube had done any kind of music together in 15 years.

51:29 Drew He's actually a nice guy.

51:30 Cypress Hill He's cool.

51:31 Drew Yeah, he's a guy.

51:33 Cypress Hill I mean, we had our problems and you know, but he's all right.

51:36 Caller Here's Warren G.

51:37 You need to go to the doctor and get checked out.

51:41 Caller That's what he was on the show.

51:42 Cypress Hill Get it checked out, man.

51:45 Caller Yo, Drew.

51:46 Drew Big happy.

51:47 Caller I have one more question.

51:48 Caller I was wondering if B-Roo is going to be starring in any more movies. Because I saw him in that movie, Brokeback Cowboy.

51:54 Cypress Hill Brokeback Cowboy?

51:57 Caller Brokeback Mountain. Is that a new gay film that's out?

52:00 Cypress Hill Is that a joke?

52:01 Caller He did a threesome with Heath Ledger and Jake Gyllenhaal.

52:05 Cypress Hill Who, me?

52:06 Caller No, I guess that's what he's implying. He was joking.

52:08 Drew He's implying. Yeah, that's really good. I enjoyed seeing. I like the Cypress Hill shows up animated every once in a while.

52:14 Cypress Hill Wow.

52:14 Drew They show up on The Simpsons. They show up on Family Guy. I love that.

52:17 Cypress Hill Yeah, here and there. I mean, you know, when something comes along that's cool, I might do it. But, you know, hey, I like doing music. And radio.

52:27 Drew Yeah, cool. One. I enjoy these times. Hey, buddy, what's up?

52:30 Caller Hey, I had a question for Biro.

52:32 Drew Yeah, here he is.

52:33 Caller Yeah, I was wondering if you were ever going to come back with the Smokeout Tour.

52:37 Cypress Hill Yeah, we're actually, I actually had talks about it today with one of my partners on it, and we're trying to get it going in October of next year.

52:46 Drew Usually it was in the spring, wasn't it?

52:47 Caller Well, originally, it was April, it was 420.

52:49 Cypress Hill Yeah, originally we started in October, but then a lot of these, you know, other radio stations realized that you can get money in October. You can make a lot of money in October, and you know, eventually they, you know, moved in on October. So we had to move it to November, the Smokeout. We always had the 420 event in April.

53:12 Drew I just remember one you had, it was so hot. Remember that one?

53:15 Cypress Hill Yeah, that must have been...

53:17 Drew The 420, right?

53:17 Cypress Hill No, that was...

53:18 Drew November?

53:19 Cypress Hill No, that was in...

53:20 Drew October.

53:20 Cypress Hill October.

53:21 Drew That was the first one, I think.

53:23 Cypress Hill Yeah, before it gets real cold towards then. But yeah, we're planning to do another one this year, you know, I mean this coming year. So get your bong ready, get your pipe ready, get your papers, whatever.

53:36 Drew You can actually drive a car, you don't have to ride your bong out to the event in the New England Empire.

53:40 Caller Or you can take the bus.

53:41 Drew Jennifer 23.

53:43 Hi, Dr. Drew, thanks for taking my call. Basically, I just want to know if there's any medication out there that I can take to reduce suicidal thoughts.

53:56 Drew Well, sure, I'm certain you've had been treated with something like that, right?

54:00 I'm sorry?

54:00 Drew I'm certain you've been treated with medication to reduce some of that, those kinds of symptoms.

54:05 I'm currently on 200 milligrams of Zoloft, but I don't know. I just kind of hit rock bottom recently, and I'm not really sure what I can do.

54:15 Drew Why on such a low?

54:19 All right, to make a long story short, I'm repeating my first year of grad school because I failed my first year because I didn't take my midterms because I was really depressed. And so my school was really sympathetic of my problems, decided to let me retake the year. This year, same thing happened. And they're not so sympathetic anymore. They basically kicked me out. My parents don't know any of this. They don't know I'm bulimic. They don't know that I'm retaking my first year. They don't know that I am getting kicked out. They don't know anything. And if they knew, they'd be so ashamed. And I'd be so ashamed, so.

55:01 Drew You're 23, you're an adult now. It's time to be your own person. Whatever they feel, they feel, and that's their business. But you need to really take care of yourself. Are you getting proper care?

55:13 Caller It's really hard. I've been trying to battle anorexia and bulimia for a really long time.

55:18 Caller And there's good days and bad days.

55:21 Caller But you know what? It's a battle every hour.

55:24 Drew And have you ever been completely treated, thoroughly treated?

55:28 Caller I'm currently in therapy right now, and she's been awesome. So if anyone out there is bulimia, you go see a therapist.

55:35 Drew And is she recommending that you go to a program or that you continue just in therapy?

55:39 Caller I continue with therapy. She doesn't know I'm suicidal.

55:42 Drew Well, no, no, you must tell your therapist, Jennifer. Come on. You have a life-threatening symptom. One out of five people with depression kill themselves. You have a life-threatening symptom and you have a life-threatening condition with the bulimia.

55:54 Caller I do want to keep myself strong. I don't care.

55:56 Drew And you must call. Then you need to go somewhere tonight. It's really important. If you really, if you're, do you have a plan?

56:06 Caller I'm sorry?

56:06 Drew Do you have a plan?

56:09 Caller What do you mean? Like, yeah, I mean, I've been looking at stuff. So, yeah, I kind of know what I'm going to do.

56:20 Cypress Hill What are you going to do?

56:24 Caller I don't really want to talk about it. I'm sorry.

56:28 Drew When do you plan to do it?

56:31 Caller This is going to sound really stupid. But I was just thinking, like, I'm going on. I have Christmas break to go back to see my parents. And I was thinking on the plane ride back. So I could do it on the plane and there would be, like, no attachment to, like, any of my family property. So, like, if they try to sell it later, it wouldn't be a problem. I'm, like, crazy like that. So, you know, I know I'm a nutcase.

56:59 Drew No, you're suffering. And you need to, you need to commit to us tonight. Then when you put the phone down with us, you're gonna call your therapist and tell them what's going on.

57:10 Caller Thank you on vacation.

57:11 Drew Then call the covering therapist. You've gotta, you could have called them and tell them about these symptoms. You must do that. Can you promise me, please? Or at least whoever's prescribing the Zoloft, we at least do that. Call up and describe what you're feeling. You owe it not only to yourself, but to the people who are trying to take care of you. And I hope you will commit to us on this behalf, too, because it's something you need.

57:35 Caller I just want to know when it will get easier, you know?

57:38 Drew There is treatments, but how the hell can the team treat you if they don't know the symptoms you're having? You're hiding what's actually going on with you, so they think everything's going on fine, and you're miserable and suffering, and wondering why they can't do anything for something they don't even know what's going on with you. So, Jennifer, come on.

57:54 Cypress Hill You gotta let them know.

57:55 Drew You gotta get it going. You gotta get it going. Let's turn it around right now. There's nothing about what you have that is untreatable.

58:01 Caller No, but like I can't not be in grad school. Like, you don't understand. My parents don't understand.

58:07 Cypress Hill Look, you know what? Everybody fails. You can, you know, try again. It's as simple as that, you know? There's a lot of people out there going through the same thing you're going through, you know? They're not making it. They don't know what to tell their parents, but you know what? You can always try again. I'm sure your parents are going to understand. They may have had expectations, but hey, screw that. You're talking about your health right here.

58:30 Drew Not only that, you were smart enough to get into graduate school in the first place. You've had a medical condition that has derailed your treatment. They may want you to be on disability for a while till you get that properly cared for. Then you go back and re-roll into grad school. You don't do it. Part of the problem here, I guarantee you, Jennifer, is you're trying to barrel through grad school while you're trying to have a very serious psychiatric condition treated. I'm certain your team has talked to you about taking time off from school, right? They kicked me out. Yeah, but I understand that you're... I'm certain that the people at Cake and Carry were saying, look, you go back to school once your psychiatric issues are dealt with. In the meantime, school only destabilizes everything. So you lose on both fronts. You stay ill and you get kicked out of school as opposed to taking time off, getting the proper care, and going back when it's appropriate. That you have to admit to yourself that you're ill right now. Get the prior, god damn it, if it had been cancer, you would have done it. But you somehow feel so flawed because it's a mood disorder and bulimia that you can't be perfect, which of course, all eating disorder patients have.

59:30 Cypress Hill What do you think your parents are going to do to you because they found out you failed and got kicked out?

59:34 Drew And by the way, what do you think they're going to feel when they find you're dead? Think that's going to be a happy thing for them? They're going to go right past shame into their own suicidal feelings. It's the worst thing you can do to a parent, don't you dare.

59:44 Cypress Hill Snap out of it.

59:45 Drew Come on, call the team, promise me you'll call your psychiatrist tonight, okay? Please, please.

59:53 Caller Thanks for taking the call.

59:54 Drew Jennifer?

59:55 Caller Yeah.

59:56 Drew Promise?

59:58 All right.

1:00:01 Drew Veronica 26.

1:00:03 Caller Hello?

1:00:04 Drew Hey there.

1:00:06 Caller Hey.

1:00:06 Drew You're on with B-Real, 1-800-LOVE-191. There's no reason Jennifer can't get better. No reason. She's just got to go do it and make an excuses. You know, whenever there's, you know, whenever there's, you know, I want to get mad at the parents because whenever there's a kid that's messed up, the parents are more messed up behind her. But Jennifer's an adult. She should be like, it's time, it's time. Veronica, what's up?

1:00:29 Caller I just want to ask B what his favorite position is.

1:00:33 Caller Oh, no comment.

1:00:38 Cypress Hill No comment.

1:00:42 Drew Do you want to ask me anything else?

1:00:43 Cypress Hill It's hilarious.

1:00:46 Caller Maybe when we can hook up.

1:00:48 Drew Oh, you want to hook up with people.

1:00:49 Cypress Hill Oh, sorry.

1:00:51 Drew She's nearby.

1:00:52 Caller He's taken already, right?

1:00:53 Drew He's got a girlfriend. He's stupefied by your comment, not the question. But I'm answering for him.

1:01:05 Caller What's that mean?

1:01:05 Caller You can't answer that?

1:01:06 Caller That was one of the smoothest segues we've had in a long time.

1:01:09 Cypress Hill Wow. You stumped me. I mean, I've been asked a lot of questions here. That's terrible of you.

1:01:17 Drew She's delighting in it, by the way, I think. She likes putting you on the spot like this.

1:01:21 Caller Come on.

1:01:24 Cypress Hill Indulge you. Jesus Christ. All right. Wolf Wolf. That's a hint.

1:01:30 Drew You got it, Veronica?

1:01:31 Caller There you go.

1:01:33 Caller I like that. But you knew it, right?

1:01:38 Caller All right. That's all right. I'll take that one.

1:01:40 Caller I take it.

1:01:41 Drew Take that and run.

1:01:42 Caller Take it.

1:01:43 Drew All right. Dan, what's up? 19.

1:01:45 Caller Hey, what's up? I'm 19. My problem is I'm 19. I'm a virgin, and I've only had been in one relationship, and it was maybe for about half a year, and she dumped me because I wasn't religious enough for her, so I went to actually an all-summer Bible camp for her, and I came back, and it didn't really work out, and she had moved on. But I'm good, good friends with two to three girls now, and it's kind of to the point where we hang out, and we're kind of, I want to ask them if we're dating and stuff, but I just don't know how to bring up the question or tell them, like...

1:02:23 Drew Ask them if you're dating? What do you mean?

1:02:25 Caller Well, no.

1:02:26 Caller We hang out, so it's kind of like a dating sort of atmosphere.

1:02:30 Caller Who's we?

1:02:32 Caller Just me and them.

1:02:33 Drew Who's them?

1:02:34 Cypress Hill The girls.

1:02:35 Drew Yeah, the girls. Who are they?

1:02:37 Caller They're good, good people that were in high school, like probably one or two grades lower than me.

1:02:42 Drew All right.

1:02:42 Caller They were in...

1:02:44 Drew Those are not, you're not dating more than one girl.

1:02:46 Caller No, no.

1:02:46 Drew You got to pick one, you got to ask him out on a date, take him out to dinner.

1:02:50 Cypress Hill Is there one that you were hanging out with more than the other?

1:02:54 Caller No, they're all about the same, but my question is...

1:02:57 Drew Dan.

1:02:57 Cypress Hill He's Jack Tripper.

1:02:59 Drew Oh, my God.

1:03:00 Caller I want to explain to them, I'm a virgin, and I don't know, like, these girls, what their reaction is going to be. Like, I'm kind of worried if they're going to be...

1:03:07 Drew Hey, Dan, Dan, you're way up in your head, you're way ahead of things here with your thinking. Will you please, for god sakes, ask one of these girls out on some dates?

1:03:16 Cypress Hill Yeah, you might want to ask them out on a date before you go telling them you're a virgin.

1:03:19 Drew You have no reason to tell them you're a virgin. In fact, you probably never will need to tell them that, but if you feel the need to, once you're actually intimately involved with somebody and sharing things about yourself, sure, then, but to billboard it now, what are you doing? Are you kidding me? Ask one of these girls out, have some dates, spend some time with them.

1:03:38 Cypress Hill It's a sympathy call.

1:03:39 Drew Oh, that's what he's hoping for, yeah. Come on, Dan, let's get it going.

1:03:43 Caller They should like accept it, right? I mean.

1:03:45 Drew Stop it. They'll do nothing with it because you're not going to tell them until you've developed a relationship. You're just hanging out at this point.

1:03:50 Cypress Hill Listen, get the wax out of your ears. He just told you not to admit it, man.

1:03:55 Drew Just not admit it. Just don't bring it up. It's not an issue.

1:03:58 Cypress Hill Yeah, don't even bring it up.

1:03:59 Drew Until you start sharing with somebody your intimate details about what your physical life has been like, that's in preparation for you guys carrying on together, really what that will be.

1:04:09 Cypress Hill Besides, she'll know the minute she gives it to you that you're a virgin.

1:04:12 Drew That's right.

1:04:14 Cypress Hill Forget about it.

1:04:14 Drew Oh, my. Here's Juan.

1:04:17 Caller Hello?

1:04:18 Drew 20, what's up, Juan?

1:04:19 Caller What's up, Dr. Drew? I have a question with my girlfriend that she has a problem with sleeping disorder where she just wakes up in the middle of the night and just starts punching me in the face.

1:04:27 Drew Phone number here is 1-800-LOVE-191. Loveline. Juan's got a girlfriend that beats him up every night.

1:04:34 Caller Yeah, she just wakes up in the middle of the night. She's asleep but she does not remember anything in the morning. She also masturbates and she doesn't like masturbating nothing at all when she's fully conscious during the day. In the middle of the night she's right there naked next to me masturbating and she just starts punching me in the face.

1:04:56 Cypress Hill Have a couple of shots of tequila and go for it, man.

1:05:01 Drew Anything you want to tell me about her heritage or her history or what's happened to her growing up?

1:05:05 Caller I don't know. I usually notice this pattern when we have an argument and we have an argument and we said the argument but in the middle of the night she just started doing it but I also know that she had done this before with her past boyfriends.

1:05:18 Drew Here's my experience. The kind of funny sexual behaviors at night in my experience has often been associated with sexual abuse. Certainly night rages and night terror is also associated with sexual abuse. The other thing, the only time I've ever dealt with somebody that actually does the punching of the partner in bed, which I've dealt with several times, those patients were all bipolar.

1:05:38 Caller Bipolar?

1:05:39 Drew No, in my experience.

1:05:39 Cypress Hill Are they like half awake or they sleep?

1:05:41 Drew No, they're asleep but they're kind of manic during the day and sort of a manifestation of mania. So, Juan, she may need a little help with this, buddy.

1:05:49 Cypress Hill You better go get some head gear, brother.

1:05:50 Caller She doesn't believe me at all. She thinks I'm making this up. She doesn't never believe me. Even when I wake up with like cuts on my face or even with a bruise or anything, she doesn't believe me. She thinks I'm making all this up.

1:06:02 Cypress Hill Here's what you do, man. You go get yourself a tripod, go get a camera, set it up in the corner of the room. Then when she falls all the way asleep, go put your head gear on and your mouthpiece in your mouth and just get ready for the bout.

1:06:15 Drew Turn the camera on.

1:06:16 Cypress Hill And then in the morning, you know, you show her tape and you know how you got knocked out.

1:06:20 Caller Yeah.

1:06:22 Cypress Hill And, you know, she'll believe you after that.

1:06:24 Drew Does she have health care?

1:06:26 Caller Does she have health care? Yes, she does.

1:06:27 Drew Okay. Go with her to her doctor and talk to him or her about what's been happening. Psychiatrists usually can handle this, again, bipolar disorder. In my experience, has been one of the underlying conditions. It does particularly the beating thing at night. And then you might bring up with her her heritage or history of whether or not as a kid, she was sexually abused or physically abused, that sort of thing. You heard of that one before? Juan's problem?

1:06:51 Cypress Hill You know, I've heard of the kicking and all that stuff. There's some people......hunching, put to masturbating. That's...

1:06:56 Drew That's pretty serious. Some people start having sex in the middle of the night and stay asleep. Really? Yeah. These are all part of sleep disorders. Sleep's a funny thing. I mean, you're in an altered state when you're asleep. We had the girl earlier tonight that couldn't be roused, remember? Yeah. This is a different thing and they go into sort of an altered state and do things they wouldn't do otherwise.

1:07:13 Cypress Hill It's a shame.

1:07:14 Drew It's a shame?

1:07:15 Cypress Hill It's a shame.

1:07:15 Drew At least she does this stuff at some point.

1:07:17 Cypress Hill Well, at least, you know, she can't feel it. It's a shame.

1:07:20 Drew Oh, I get it.

1:07:22 Cypress Hill I guess we went on a different base.

1:07:23 Drew A little different plane, different plane. So the new CD, which came out last Tuesday on December 3rd for Cypress Hill, December 13th for Cypress Hill, is Greatest Hits from the Bong.

1:07:33 Cypress Hill And I've taken many.

1:07:35 Drew And I'm just so proud of them for coming up with that name. And I don't, you know, knowing you guys for so many years, I just don't know why you came up with that name.

1:07:42 Cypress Hill I just, it's just, it's just sort of, you know, it was going to be the greenest hits from the Bong, but you know, somebody, you know, wanted the greatest.

1:07:49 Drew The greatest, okay. And we're going to hear some of the greatest during the next segment, but first we're going to take a little break. Be reals in here and we'll be right back.

1:08:03 Caller Loveline will be right back.

1:08:29 Drew 1-800-LOVE-191 is our number here at Loveline. Be real from Cypress Hill in the studio. We're going to hear some more off the new CD, which of course is the greatest hit, the greenest and greatest hits from the Bond. But you must know it as the greatest hits from the Bond.

1:08:42 Cypress Hill Yes.

1:08:42 Drew Came out last Tuesday and until we-

1:08:44 Cypress Hill No, this Tuesday.

1:08:44 Drew This Tuesday, 13th. Until we do that, let's first talk to Ava who's 18.

1:08:49 Hi, I have a bit of a problem here. I've had no problems about this in the past. It just popped up like about three times. The three pastimes that I've been having sex with my boyfriend, like afterwards my clitoris just gets really like large and it starts like burning. And I can't really seem to do anything about it. It's never happened before to me. And I'm wondering if you've ever heard of anything like this.

1:09:15 Drew How long does it last for?

1:09:16 Like an hour or two.

1:09:19 Drew This is going to sound awful, but is it external burning or is it a throbbing?

1:09:24 It's a throbbing. It's like a burning sensation.

1:09:27 Drew Okay, got it. And do you continue to have sexual arousal with it?

1:09:30 No, it hurts too much to do anything.

1:09:34 Drew Do you have orgasm before this happens?

1:09:36 No, no. I mean usually we have to stop like three times or so.

1:09:40 Drew And is it because you guys are sort of going for a long time that this happens?

1:09:44 It doesn't have to be a long time actually. Okay.

1:09:46 Drew Are you on any medication?

1:09:48 No. Nothing. I'm on the Pats, the breast control Pats.

1:09:52 Drew Is that new for you?

1:09:53 No, I've been on it for like a year and a half.

1:09:55 Drew You know, there's some new evidence on that too. Maybe I'll take an aspirin a day. This thromboembolic disease may be increased with that. Maybe, maybe. Aspirin a day. Just think about it. Talk to your doctor about it. Well, usually this thing, this kind of thing happens for medication and it just happens from excessive stimulation, irritation. Some women, I brought an article for you in here, B-Rail. It's called persistent sexual arousal syndrome. Some women actually get persistent sort of like low level orgasm for a long period of time after the sex stops and it's very uncomfortable for them. Here it is right here.

1:10:26 Cypress Hill Another one who cannot enjoy it.

1:10:28 Drew That's terrible. Right here, this.

1:10:31 Cypress Hill Oh, this one.

1:10:33 Caller See that?

1:10:35 Drew Read the headline.

1:10:36 Cypress Hill Persistent sexual arousal syndrome in women.

1:10:39 Drew See? It happens. This is not really that.

1:10:41 Cypress Hill They're usually supposed to be aroused when you're in.

1:10:44 Drew I know, this keeps going afterwards. It's uncomfortable for them. If guys got this, God only knows, they'd drop out of school. Hey, are you still there? She dropped out.

1:10:54 Cypress Hill That's a terrible thing.

1:10:56 Drew I was going to try to figure out with her what she was doing that caused the severe irritation. There are things that can do that and she's not going to get in with us. Shelly 20.

1:11:04 Caller Hey Dr. Drew.

1:11:05 Caller I talked to you about two months ago and I just wanted to call back and thank you so much. You really did a lot for me. I called in when Busy Phillips was on and I was 18 years old when my dad molested me and you know, you were the first person who I ever like, like began to realize that that's what happened to me and I confronted it for the first time and it just, it changed my life. Like I'm a different person now.

1:11:30 Caller That's better.

1:11:30 Drew Describe what happened. Give us some more details. I'm so proud of you. What? Did you see a therapist or how did you do this?

1:11:36 Caller Yeah, I told my mom and we went to a therapist and I went alone for the first time because every time I had gone with my parents and you know, we can work on the problem and I, you know, I'm dating someone now, which is something I wasn't able to do and it's great.

1:11:54 Drew It's such a rapid turn around again for people. It's just so people can understand what the process is for other women out there that may be been abused or traumatized. What did you do? How were you treated?

1:12:04 Caller Um, I, I refused. I didn't want to take any medication because I had been so medicated as a child. I just, I didn't want to do it. And we just really focused in on putting everything aside and just focusing on what I have now, what, like attaining my goal, you know, learning to forgive but not forget. And just working on that has helped. And I'm, at this point I'm trying to establish some sort of a relationship with my dad.

1:12:29 Drew He was the one that did it, right?

1:12:30 Caller Yeah.

1:12:31 Drew Wow.

1:12:31 Caller And it's hard, but it seems to be working at this point.

1:12:34 Drew But you're doing it with the supervision therapist?

1:12:36 Caller Yeah.

1:12:37 Drew All right. Well, that's great. Well, thanks for the feedback. Appreciate it.

1:12:40 Caller Thank you.

1:12:41 Drew Okay. Bye-bye. It's a success story.

1:12:43 Cypress Hill She confronted all her problems.

1:12:45 Drew I hope Jennifer calls back later and gives us something positive someday. Jake, what's up? 19.

1:12:51 Hey, what's up, guys?

1:12:53 Caller Pretty much, I've had this problem since I was 15.

1:12:57 Caller Any girl that I knew that I liked, whatever, if she had hooked up with some other guy before, I met her or whatever, I couldn't do anything with her, even just hook up or whatever.

1:13:09 Drew I didn't follow.

1:13:11 Cypress Hill He pretty much gets disgusted by the fact knowing that somebody else hooked up with the girl, right? Is that what you're talking about?

1:13:17 Caller Yeah, like if the girl is not like a virgin or...

1:13:23 Cypress Hill Get over it, man. There's not a lot of virgins in the world anymore, man. Come on.

1:13:27 Caller I realize that, you know, and I've been with my chick for a while now, and I'm the only guy she's been with and it's working out good. But, you know, like, if anything was to happen, you know, like I've always had that problem in my head. You know, it's just like, it's just like, I don't know. It just makes me like not want to be with them at all. I'm just wondering if that's like an actual problem or...

1:13:45 Drew Well, it's going to be very low. To me, that seems like something that you should just get over.

1:13:50 Cypress Hill He's got to get over that one.

1:13:51 Drew Yeah, because you're going to spend your life alone and be very unhappy.

1:13:55 Cypress Hill Go watch some porn and, you know, pretend the girl in the porn knows your girlfriend, man. Come on, get over it.

1:14:00 Drew Jake smokes quite a bit of pot.

1:14:02 Cypress Hill Well, that's good for him.

1:14:03 Drew I'm just saying, just saying.

1:14:04 Caller Oh yeah, man, Cypress Hill.

1:14:05 Cypress Hill Is that paranoia you're talking about over here?

1:14:07 Drew Yeah, I wonder, because he's certainly got that...

1:14:09 Caller They've been here, you know, since I......to back in the day, so...

1:14:13 Drew Oops, the S word again. Okay, hold on, Jake. Anderson, we can restart over. Nice big old S bomb drop for us. Ready? Anderson?

1:14:24 Caller Yeah, we're good.

1:14:25 Drew Okay, let's go back to Jake. Jake, how about talking to us without the S and the F?

1:14:30 Caller Sorry about that.

1:14:33 Caller Jake, your girlfriend is having sex with three dudes right now.

1:14:36 Caller She's like, that would kill me right there, man.

1:14:38 Caller I'm telling you, like that.

1:14:41 Drew Yeah, the guys have energy. You'll lose it as your testosterone levels start falling and you get older. But the reality is, you need to get over this. If you can't be where anyone else has ever been, you're going to limit the population of women you're going to be able to date. And that's fine, that's what you want to do, but it's going to be very frustrating. I hear a song. Here's Crazy Benji.

1:15:04 Caller Hello, hi, good evening to you all.

1:15:06 Drew We're good. What's up, Crazy Benji?

1:15:08 Caller I'm not too bad, how are you?

1:15:10 Drew We're good.

1:15:10 Caller I hear you're bubbling, bubbling, bubbling. I was just tuned in to you by Juniper Crossed the Dile, and I understand you have Be Real there.

1:15:18 Drew We do.

1:15:20 Caller Hello, Be Real.

1:15:21 Cypress Hill How's it going?

1:15:22 Caller Not too bad. Do you remember me?

1:15:25 Drew Crazy Benji.

1:15:25 Cypress Hill Crazy Benji.

1:15:27 Caller San Jose.

1:15:28 Drew Describe yourself.

1:15:32 Caller Deadlocks.

1:15:33 Drew Crazy.

1:15:34 Caller English. Hi, I'm Murdoch from Gorillaz.

1:15:39 Caller I beg your pardon?

1:15:40 Cypress Hill Could be.

1:15:42 Caller Yeah, you know, from the ha ha ha ha, Gorillazm, the ha ha ha ha, you know, the backing vocals and the backing craziness on the, what's it, Black Eyed Peas and so on and so forth. And I was just tuning across the dark. Sorry, I'm in a bad state, my throat's in a bad state. But I was tuning across the dark, I just heard you. And last time I saw you, you were talking about an album. Yeah. Could you tell me more about it? How far has it got?

1:16:16 Cypress Hill Which album were you talking about?

1:16:17 Drew The new one or the one of the greatest hits that just came out?

1:16:22 Caller I don't know if it's the greatest hits that you were talking about. I mean, perhaps it was. This was in about the late summer of 2004.

1:16:33 Drew Were you hanging out with these guys then? How did you hear them then?

1:16:38 Cypress Hill Since then, huh? I think we had put out Till Death Do Us Part around that time. Our last studio album around that time, maybe. I'm not good with that. But since then, I mean, you know, we were just putting out this greatest hits album and everybody's working on solo projects right now, so...

1:17:00 Caller Have you seen Tech9? You know Tech9?

1:17:05 Cypress Hill I know of them and I've heard a couple of his songs, but I've never seen them live.

1:17:09 Caller Right, okay. I heard you mention Ice Cube.

1:17:14 Cypress Hill Yeah.

1:17:14 Caller Yeah, I've met him once when I think somebody was making a video.

1:17:23 Drew Benji, you're so curious. You're such an interesting fellow. What do you do for a living?

1:17:27 Caller What do I do now?

1:17:29 Drew Yeah.

1:17:30 Caller Well, I do various things. I do electronics.

1:17:33 Drew What does that mean?

1:17:34 Caller I do computer programming.

1:17:36 Drew Okay.

1:17:37 Caller Also, I write little bits and pieces of music here and there.

1:17:42 Drew Were you a musician to begin with?

1:17:44 Caller Well, I've always been a musician, yes.

1:17:47 Drew Okay. How did you end up in this country?

1:17:52 Caller It's a long story. I think this might be interesting for your love life thing. I met somebody in London whom I fell for very heavily. And I, it's kind of a long story. Sure, it didn't work out. But I'm here now.

1:18:17 Drew That's quite a vivid story. He met somebody in London and then he came here. Wow, that is very interesting.

1:18:23 Caller He stuck around.

1:18:25 Drew No, no. He met somebody in London. It didn't work out. And then he's here.

1:18:29 Cypress Hill And then he ended up here.

1:18:31 Drew But he sounds like he's hung with you guys a little bit. And he's interested in your music. Anything you want to tell him?

1:18:35 Cypress Hill He might be taking hits from the bong, right?

1:18:38 Drew No, no. He doesn't sound high to me. He's interested in your music, though.

1:18:45 Cypress Hill That's cool. I appreciate that, man.

1:18:47 Drew Let's quickly finish with Ava. Ava?

1:18:49 Hi, I'm sorry. I got this.

1:18:50 Drew Ava with the swollen clitoris. So I think it's really just an issue of what we call trauma, just overstimulation, basically.

1:18:57 So then how can I prevent it? Or how can I, you know, because it ruins the whole moment.

1:19:04 Drew Is there something he's doing mechanically that's irritating it?

1:19:07 Not different than what we used to do.

1:19:09 Drew Well, I understand we need to cool off a little bit.

1:19:11 Cypress Hill You're using lubrications?

1:19:13 Yeah, I was thinking it might be not enough for us.

1:19:17 Drew Yeah, is he wearing a condom?

1:19:20 No. No condom.

1:19:23 Drew And again, the birth control is the same when you've been on it's the patch. So, but I would say, as long as you're not on medication and you're otherwise healthy medically, this really is just an issue of mechanical irritation. Let's hear a song.

1:19:36 Cypress Hill Try some lubrication.

1:19:37 Drew That's right. Is that the name of the song?

1:19:38 Cypress Hill That's not on the album.

1:19:39 Drew Not on the album, but that's a general recommendation from Cypress Hill. So be real.

1:19:43 Cypress Hill Maybe it should be a song.

1:19:44 Drew Let's introduce Dr. Green Thumb. Why don't you do that?

1:19:47 Cypress Hill This is Dr. Green Thumb by Cypress Hill. Greatest hits from the bong. Use lubrication, please.

1:23:00 Drew Hey, it's Loveline. B-Real's here from Cypress Hill. I should talk about this.

1:23:05 Cypress Hill Yeah.

1:23:06 Drew B-Real's ready to go there. And I'm not even high. All right, so let's get one quick question for you. Eric's 25.

1:23:15 Caller Hi, B-Real, I'm a big fan.

1:23:17 Caller You guys are awesome.

1:23:19 Drew Thank you.

1:23:19 Caller I've seen you here in Portland, Dr. Drew.

1:23:21 Caller You introduced them, and...

1:23:25 Drew Yeah, we went up. I was thinking about that flight we took. I took to... I talked to Send... I really didn't know Send Dogg until that flight.

1:23:31 Cypress Hill Yeah.

1:23:31 Drew I talked to him all the way up there. And yeah, we got to introduce those guys. We had a lot of fun.

1:23:36 Cypress Hill Was that the... was that the... the stadium? It was a baseball stadium?

1:23:40 Drew Little... like a minor league baseball stadium, yeah.

1:23:42 Cypress Hill Yeah, it was gonna blow up and everything.

1:23:43 Drew Yeah, and they closed it down or something? I left it before that happened.

1:23:46 Caller Yeah, they had a gas leak, and they had to close it down 20 minutes early. And that really sucked. But my question is, your solo album coming out, who produced it, and did you hook up with anybody with the album?

1:23:59 Cypress Hill Well, basically, I'm barely starting it now. I mean, I've worked on it a little bit, but I haven't really started the recording schedule on it because I'm putting out a mixtape right before it. Actually, next month in January, I'll be putting out my second mixtape, which is called Gunslinger Volume 2, Fistful of Dollars. And that's just like, you know, something to keep it going till the solo album comes out. Now, the solo album, I've done a little bit of work with Warren G, DJ Quick, The Alchemist, DJ Lethal of Limp Bizkit, and a couple of things that I produced myself as well. So it's a slow process. I'm just trying to fill it out, get a vibe and try to put it out by, you know, late summer next year.

1:24:46 Caller Is it going to be more rock influence or more hip hop?

1:24:50 Cypress Hill No, it's going to be more hip hop because I'm going to save the rock stuff, the metal stuff for the Kush project.

1:24:58 Drew Alright buddy, there you go Eric.

1:25:01 Caller I'm looking forward to hear it.

1:25:03 Cypress Hill Thank you very much.

1:25:04 Caller I'm just a big fan and you guys are awesome.

1:25:06 Cypress Hill Thank you very much, man.

1:25:07 Drew That was fun. I'm going to fly with you guys to Portland. That was good. Alright, listen, the phone number is 1-800-LOVE-191. This is Be Real. You're hearing from Cypress Hill. The new album is Greatest Hits from the Bong.

1:25:19 Cypress Hill From the Bong.

1:25:20 Drew That's right.

1:25:20 Cypress Hill Very smokin.

1:25:22 Drew Was it ever, were there other names you entertained? Greatest Hits from the Spleef, Greatest Hits from the...

1:25:28 Cypress Hill You know, the album title that I came up with for that Greatest Hits album was called Let's Get It Over With.

1:25:38 Drew That's great. I like that.

1:25:40 Cypress Hill You know, let's get it over with.

1:25:41 Drew They didn't like that?

1:25:42 Cypress Hill They didn't like that one.

1:25:43 Drew That is awesome.

1:25:45 Caller You like that one, man?

1:25:46 Drew Let's Get It Over With is the name of the Greatest Hits album by Cypress Hill, but you'll call it. You'll find under the name of Greatest Hits from the Bond. So yeah, let's be real. And I, Dr. Drew, here tonight. 1-800-LOVE-191. We'll be right back. This is Loveline. That's right, Loveline. Be real in here from Cypress Hill. We've heard now Green Thumb and Insane in the Brain. And there's every, really, your greatest hits. It's truly your greatest hits, Ron. As I've even held back. You got it over with.

1:26:33 Cypress Hill Well, yeah, we got it over with. Yeah, I mean, the way we came about choosing this, you know, was basically we don't have, like, you know, Cypress Hill has never been a big radio band or MTV band. We had two songs that were really big for us on radio and video, which is Insane in the Brain and Rock Superstar. We had other things on local video outlets and stuff like that. But it was primarily the live show that got us, you know, our popularity, you know, doing an opening for the right people, you know, stealing some of the fans and whatnot. So we picked these songs based off of the live show and the reactions that these songs have. Some songs didn't make it because we were given a specific number.

1:27:20 Drew Right.

1:27:20 Cypress Hill So we couldn't fit all the ones that we had originally picked.

1:27:24 Drew But when you go out in February, these are the songs you're going to play?

1:27:27 Cypress Hill We're going to play those songs and, you know, probably a little bit of everything, you know. We try to play a long enough set to give them the proper fix of the, you know, Cypress Hill experience.

1:27:41 Drew Casey, 17. What's up, Casey?

1:27:44 Hi. Well, my boyfriend's mom really hates me a lot. Why? Why? Well, she never, like, I'm his first girlfriend. And we've known each other since we were little, but.

1:27:58 Drew You're 17. How old is he?

1:27:59 17.

1:28:00 Drew All right. And why does he hate you? Why does she hate you?

1:28:03 Well, she don't like me initially just because, like, he, we'd go out all the time and, like, his career was, like, 930, but he wouldn't come home until, like, 10 or 1030. And she just don't like that he wasn't at home as much as he used to be.

1:28:14 Cypress Hill You're the bad influence.

1:28:15 Drew That's your fault?

1:28:17 Caller Yeah.

1:28:18 And then we've been at.

1:28:19 Drew I love parents who do that. Parents, when a kid misbehaves, it's the peers' fault or the school's fault.

1:28:24 Cypress Hill Right.

1:28:25 Drew Really?

1:28:26 Cypress Hill Not the taking the responsibility.

1:28:28 Drew Or not themselves. It's between you and the kid. That's the problem. All right. So what else has she been sort of ragging on you about?

1:28:36 Well, most recently, the problem was that we've been going out for like four months now. And I guess it was like last weekend, like my parents were out of town and I was just spending one night by myself. And my parents were like, you should have somebody spend the night because we don't want you by yourself. And like they were cool with having him over.

1:28:55 Caller So I oops, oh boy, oops.

1:28:59 Drew Does your does your does your boyfriend's mom hate your parents?

1:29:03 Now probably.

1:29:04 Drew But did they were they get along before or were they sort of from different worlds?

1:29:08 They're really different than in my talk or anything.

1:29:11 Drew But what is his mom like?

1:29:14 My my parents are pretty cool. Like we have a good relationship and we talk about stuff and whatever.

1:29:19 Drew What is what is his mom like?

1:29:21 Um, well, like they don't talk about it at all. It's just a weird thing is like, I know she doesn't like me because I people tell me that she says the bad things about me all the time.

1:29:33 Drew But is he is he one of these kids that has to be perfect for his parents?

1:29:36 Yeah.

1:29:36 Drew Yeah. Those are his parents.

1:29:38 Cypress Hill She's old school.

1:29:38 Drew Well, they're narcissistic. They need him to be a certain way for them.

1:29:42 Cypress Hill Yeah.

1:29:43 Drew And anybody that pulls them, parents like that, you're either in or you're out. And anyone that pulls him out is really to be destroyed, to be as dangerous because it's pulling him outside the system. And he can look at it realistically and go, hey, I'm out of here. They can't tolerate that.

1:29:57 Cypress Hill How does it feel to be the bad girl, the bad influence?

1:30:01 I just like, I mean, I don't know.

1:30:03 Cypress Hill The foozy down the street.

1:30:05 But I would rather have them. I mean, I don't even think I'm allowed at their house right now.

1:30:11 Drew Is there anything else about you we should know that they might not like?

1:30:15 I, we're like, I mean, no, I really like, they're really, really rich and my family's not, but.

1:30:22 Drew Are you going to college?

1:30:24 I will be.

1:30:24 Drew Where are you going to go?

1:30:26 I'm not sure, to get in somewhere, but like that's one issue at all. Like, we're, me and him, we've all been in the same, like, good classes and everything.

1:30:37 Drew Well, it's part of being your age. Struggle through it.

1:30:40 You don't think there's anything I can do to?

1:30:42 Drew Yeah, you can be yourself around them and try to establish a relationship with them inside their system so they don't look at you as somebody from the outside and don't look at you as that problem girl. They look at you as just Casey. See what I'm saying?

1:30:53 Cypress Hill And then make him take the responsibilities for, you know, being out late.

1:30:58 Drew Right, don't let him put the blame on you. He needs to take responsibility, take the fall for it. And he also needs to set limits with his parents a little bit.

1:31:05 Cypress Hill As Adam would say, don't let him be a pussy.

1:31:10 Drew Let's quickly, I want to deal with this one real quick. This is Miranda 23.

1:31:15 Caller Hi, how are you?

1:31:16 Drew Hi, Miranda, we have very limited time here. Real quick.

1:31:19 Caller Okay, I'll try really quick.

1:31:20 Caller Basically, I was dating a guy for about two months. He moved out of state and he was going to come back, but he committed suicide on a business trip. We were never intimate. I was very, very close with him and now the people that I become intimate with, I only fantasize about my first time having sex with him. I mean, not my first time having sex, but with him.

1:31:42 Caller Like the only time I fantasize about sexually is about him.

1:31:45 Drew Did you ever have sex with him? No, right?

1:31:47 Caller No, I did not.

1:31:49 Cypress Hill A task incomplete.

1:31:51 Drew Yeah. How long ago did he kill himself?

1:31:53 Caller It was the week before Thanksgiving.

1:31:56 Drew Oh, so this just happened. Well, have you been having lots of sex lately?

1:32:01 Caller Um, I was before I started dating him, and I've gotten, I've been with two people since. And, like, usually, like, during the day if I fantasize, like, whatever, I can't stop thinking about, like, I'll just make things up in my head to the point where we would get to have sex.

1:32:18 Caller And I can't orgasm with these guys.

1:32:20 Drew I know. Miranda, there's some sort of clinging to this, some sort of grieving you're not willing to do, and you're sort of clinging to a fantasy about consummating this relationship, sort of brings him back into reality when the reality is you need to grieve the loss. He's not here. He's not here. And if you can't do that on your own, see a therapist. You may just give this a little more time, start to have a real relationship, go slow, see if you can get close to people, and see if this issue doesn't kind of go away by itself. If not, again, see somebody. Give it about three months. This is Loveline. We'll be right back. All right, so everybody go out and get Greatest Hits from the Bong, Cypress Hills Greatest Hits. They really got it over with this time. They put them all on there. B-Real, thank you so much for coming in. Come back in May and February when you guys are out on tour.

1:33:26 Cypress Hill Yeah, definitely.

1:33:27 Drew Promoting this thing. And we gotta take off. I'd love to keep going, keep talking, but you come back, right?

1:33:32 Cypress Hill I always have a good time coming down here.

1:33:33 Drew Thank you for coming. Until next time we see B-Real, until I see you all next time, I'm gonna be with David Alan Greer. This is Dr. Drew on behalf of B-Real, saying good night and stay well.

1:33:44 Caller This has been Loveline. The opinions expressed on this show are not necessarily those of the staff, management, sponsors, or this station. The producer for Loveline is Annie Gold. Loveline is a presentation of Westwood One Entertainment.

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