2:03🔗
Drew
There's different kinds of psychics. There's people who can connect with people on the other side, which is what I do, and there's also people who just do psychic readings, which is foretell the future, tell you what you're headed for based on where you're at right now.
2:23🔗
Drew
My strength is connecting with people on the other side. People have crossed over, and a lot of the information that comes through tells me what I need to know about the person who's right in front of me, like you, for instance.
2:38🔗
Adam
I understand that, but if you were talking to someone who was in my life, who passed through to the other side, like my cat Norman, for instance, what would that tell you about me?
2:50🔗
Drew
No, the cat wouldn't tell me anything about me. The cat would just tell me about the cat, and they wouldn't talk. They would just show me the cat.
3:10🔗
Adam
Oh, I see. Culver City is some of the outlying areas. I know there's parts of hell in the valley. Chatsworth, Reseda, places like that.
3:18🔗
Adam
Yeah, North Hollywood, where I grew up. But you take people and you read them psychically, but you also read their life psychically by people that have come and gone in their life, parents, loved ones, past relationships, things like that.
3:47🔗
Drew
My understanding is that they leave the body, like the moment of quote, impact if they have an accident or if they die of cancer, just of old age, their spirit leaves the body. And the spirit is just like the oxygen in the air. You don't see it, but it exists. And it's the same thing. The spirit still exists, and it can communicate, just like through telepathy. If you've ever thought of someone and then they call you, you actually, you called them mentally. So the spirits speak to me, speak to actually everybody. People who have crossed over for you do speak to you, except you may not listen. You may not know that it's happening.
4:20🔗
Adam
Well, I didn't listen to a lot of them while they were here. So my feeling is why listen to them now that they're dead?
4:25🔗
Adam
At least now I have an excuse. All right. So, and when did you discover you had this ability?
4:31🔗
Drew
Well, when I was really young, I knew things. I used to predict a lot of stuff, but I didn't call it psychic. I just knew things that occurred. But it wasn't until a friend of mine actually killed himself, that I sat down and I wrote conversations with the spirit world, which is 17 people who killed themselves, basically speaking through me, and I checked out all the names and details, and it turned out to be true. That was the first real connection.
4:56🔗
Adam
Isn't it true you just killed this person so you could talk to them? Or did they actually kill themselves?
5:07🔗
Are you?
5:19🔗
Adam
I know. You know, like, I know that I'm tall. I know that my hair is brown. I know whether I'm sane or not. I know there's certain things I may be a little out there on, but generally, I'm not what you'd call crazy. Pain in the ass half the time, but not what you call crazy.
5:35🔗
Adam
A lot of the psychic people you talk to, they're a little out there. And maybe now you believe everyone has this ability to some degree or another.
5:44🔗
Drew
Well, we all have an ability to connect with the people that we love on the other side, not necessarily other people like a neighbor's father or something.
5:53🔗
Adam
I see. And is it the kind of thing someone can practice? Can they get in touch with their side, their psychic side?
6:02🔗
Drew
I just created a tape called Building a Bridge to the Other Side, and that's what it's about. It's about learning. It's the signals. It's noticing. It's so fast that it's easy to miss. When you get the instinct, when you hear a name, it sounds like I'm hearing it in my head, but it's like someone's calling your name from a distance.
6:18🔗
Adam
Now let me ask you this. Do the people have passed on to the other side? Do they have some insight? For instance, don't get on that airplane or don't marry this person. Do they? And if so, why the hell do they know?
6:34🔗
Drew
Well, it's like if you're in an airplane, you can look down and you see a broader space than if you're just walking straight ahead. That's how it has come through to me, is that they can see more about what we're doing. They're more objective. When we're involved in our lives, we don't see a lot of stuff. So they come through with things. I've had warnings. I've had things that come to pass. I mean, that's not the purpose of what I do, because I think every person kind of wants to learn for themselves. You can tell them, don't do it, don't do it. And if they need to go there, they'll go there.
7:14🔗
Drew
Well, because you pretty much, you know, some people try to hide it. It's like this. It's like you, what you're about pretty much is like on your sleeve. You just, you're easy to read. I mean, you're not really hidden. What you do is like a public thing. You're used to being out there. It's like your energy is more out there than someone who sits at home all day and doesn't talk to people.
7:39🔗
Drew
Well, the first thing that comes to mind with you, I was thinking about Valentine's Day and relationships with you, and kind of asking the spirit world about you and relationships, and they said, like a mess.
7:53🔗
Drew
Okay. But not at this particular point. There's a feeling of that leaving a trail behind you. Whether or not you've left a trail behind you, there's like a leaving a trail behind you. That's what's coming through. Okay. Yeah.
8:06🔗
Adam
But I do see my problem with a lot of the psychic stuff is that when you talk to people in terms of, well, you know, you're a creative person, but your job doesn't really give you that outlet right now.
8:19🔗
Adam
Right. Everyone says yes when you say you've had some relationships in the past, you've left a trail behind you. Those are things that most people...
8:28🔗
Adam
You take any guy who's in his mid 30s who's not married and you can say, safely, the guy's probably had a little bit of a trail.
8:38🔗
Adam
That's not necessarily glimpsing at his soul. That's more something I could figure out about a guy. Show me guys 36, not married and dresses poorly. I'm going to show you guys got a trail. Do you see what I'm saying? I'm looking for specifics and here's what I'm saying. I generally don't believe in the whole psychic thing. I don't believe in them moving on. I don't believe in, and I don't know if you believe in this, the reincarnation. The reason I don't believe in the reincarnation is because there just wasn't that many goddamn princes back then. Everyone was some form of royalty. No one shoveled crap 200 years ago. They all were something noble except for they're doing something crappy now. I never buy into that because the math doesn't work out for me. It doesn't seem like there's enough good enough gigs back there for everyone to be a noble man or a knight or a maiden or whatever the hell a great poet whatever they claim to be it all sounds like sort of narcissism to me but and I lost my train of thought thanks I shouldn't I shouldn't have drank that I forgot to do you know but what I'm saying is is like to me you die you're dead I believe it's it's more the ego that doesn't want to let us go and when I'm talking about my skepticism with psychics I want to know why you guys can't pick a Super Bowl and a lot of people can't you see this is the thing and then yeah no they can't well then they haven't they don't okay the next Super Bowl I'll pick a Super Bowl if you're gonna pick an earthquake you know four years from now why not just pick the Super Bowl for me and make me some money where were you talking about psychic in general not about me so next year you want me to predict the Super Bowl I'll do that for you I'm saying if you could go to the track and pick the winner of a race you wouldn't be sitting here and is that the purpose of psychic stuff is it you think that's what the spirit world wants us to come and do pick the track now that's something you do on weekend so you wouldn't have to sit here in front of me no but this is my love I mean I love doing this I love and what you're saying about you know there's two different things there's a psychic and then there's mediums and basically it's when you bring through people if you I don't know if you listen to my demo tape but if you bring through people that crossed over you tell people names you tell people details and you you tell people things that there's no logical way of knowing right you could say well how does she get that I mean I'm not here to prove it to you it's just the experience of having a quote reading and there are a lot of psychics that are full of you know yeah there's a ton and it kind of ruins the I hate the word psychic because of that but what what is a hokey what about the thing that always makes me skeptical is this sort of very general nature of the information a lot of times a lot of times it is but not why is the communication so broken up it's not so broken up it's like for example from the spirit world you get sounds it's like it's like imagine from where they're communicating it's like a really long distance call so they'll say a name to me like a JA the two initials JA. Why don't they just give you the whole name?
11:32🔗
Drew
They do give me the whole name. Yesterday on the radio this guy I said who's Jim? Jim's coming through he's your dad. The guy's like yeah he's my dad and I told him how he crossed over and I told him when he did and I told him details.
11:42🔗
Adam
All right all right well you may be different we'll we'll find out tonight I'm just saying in general people are piecing together something when I hear these guys some of these more famous guys what's the guy's name is his name Prague Jameson Prague yeah he's got a show coming out or something like that he's fishing he always looks like he's fishing it always looks like he's doing a car trick to me meaning my grandfather who was someone who's passed away you can find him later probably talking to you now tell me quiet down I'm doing the talking my grandfather used to do this thing where he'd say hide your keys in the room somewhere and he will lead you to the keys and what he would do is he would hold your hand and he would walk you around the room and he could feel and if something had to train at and something had to be skilled at just like a magician or someone who did sleight of hand he could tell by your little motions and your body language and your gestures where the keys were and he would magically find them but it was you who led them based on him doing a sort of hunt and peck sort of feel absolutely and when I see these other people not you of course but these other people do this it always seems like they're on some sort of expedition they're fishing my thing is like don't give me the J don't give me the A give me the guy's goddamn name either you're talking to him or you're not right but something see this is the thing it's just like in life some people communicate better than others so if your grandfather wasn't a great communicator he's not going to be one on the other side either and that's why what do you mean well because if they don't communicate well I get people with different languages what are they supposed to speak English all of a sudden well that's my point though either I speak Japanese or I don't if I don't speak Japanese I don't understand anything that's going on but if I do speak Japanese I do understand not bits and pieces or little J's and A's.
13:22🔗
Drew
Right but you see this is the thing the logical mind doesn't understand that we're talking about you're talking about me talking to people who are no longer in a body so until we're no longer in a body I really can't judge if they give me a piece and they give me more details and I'm very specific when it comes to details because I hate that as well as you just said I hate the general all right well we'll we'll put you to the test tonight. You do that.
13:44🔗
Adam
All right all right we'll plug your book too for for me bugging you now let me see so the deal is everybody we don't obviously have Dr. Drew here tonight we don't have an MD we just have me in a medium so you're really you're really up ass creek without a paddle but we'll see we can pile through some of these calls and if some people have calls about you can do this via the phone right?
14:11🔗
Adam
Some people who've had loved ones pass on maybe we can get some insight to that. All right let's just start at the top here. Sandy?
14:21🔗
Yes.
14:35🔗
Yeah.
14:36🔗
Caller
And he does little things. He's over controlling and he's not here at the moment. He's overseas and I want to break it off with him but I want to know if it's just me being paranoid, scared or being stupid or if it's really him that's trying to do something.
15:03🔗
Caller
No. You see, he puts up this front. He will be your best friend. He will talk to anybody and everybody like he's known them for years.
15:12🔗
Caller
Yet when I was like eight or nine months pregnant, he said, let's go out to eat and I said, okay, that's cool. We're getting ready and he says, now, can you please keep it between us? Like you know, don't involve anybody else in our conversation. You know, just let it be me and you.
15:30🔗
Caller
And then at the restaurant the whole night, it ends up him talking and messing around with the waiters.
15:41🔗
Caller
Well, his brother, one time when I first got to meet his family, he came up to me and he goes, what are you doing looking at my brother like that for?
15:52🔗
Adam
His brother came up to you and then he accused you of looking at his brother. Yes. Well, okay, he's an idiot. Why did you marry him?
16:04🔗
Caller
And I want to make sure that, you know, because we have a son together and he just does things like that.
16:12🔗
He'll pick me out, make up for it.
16:22🔗
Drew
I'm getting a strong vibe. With you, first of all, the first thing I got from you is that you do, quote, fight back with your mouth. Okay. Does that make sense to you? Yes. Okay. Because what really came through is you've got a mouth on you, which is not an insult. It's just what I got from you. And like a lashing out at him and a lot of screaming. And basically, he does his thing, you do your thing. But the thing is, is that you get something out of staying in this. Partially, it's the complaining, you know, there's something about that that you've been going on with. Because the truth is, if you don't want to be married, you cannot be married anymore. Him trying to control you, it's, I'm not picking up that he tries to control you. I pick up that you don't, he doesn't do what you want and you lash out.
17:04🔗
Adam
Wow, what do you mean? He went to a restaurant, said, let's be quiet, and then he ordered.
17:19🔗
Adam
Listen, it doesn't take a psychic to figure out both of your pain in the ass. And I don't mean to be so rude, but That's fine. You're not giving, I mean, you sound a little angry, and maybe that's rightfully so, and maybe you should be angry at him, but it sounds like you're angry at men too. Is that true?
18:10🔗
Adam
I see. All right. It just feels like there's some strain in that relationship. Seems like there's something missing here.
18:17🔗
Caller
Well, there's one more thing that really gets to me. A year ago, around this month, I was diagnosed with herpes. And we've been married three years at the end of this next coming up month. And I've been faithful to him this whole time. And the doctor said that usually that kind of sexual disease, whatever, is contracted within ten, maybe a week or two within sexual intercourse. And I've been faithful to my husband this whole time. And it was two years into our marriage that I come up with this.
19:01🔗
Adam
Alright, alright. Listen, you two hate each other. So get a divorce. And then you can hook up another guy and complain about him.
19:15🔗
Caller
That's what I'm trying to do. I'm trying to get myself on my feet so when he comes back, I'll say see you.
19:21🔗
Adam
The spirit world says good. What do you think of that big homo Kenny Kingston? You don't like him, do you?
19:32🔗
Drew
Let me say something to you real quick. See, when a person starts, basically all I need is a person to ask a general question because if she starts talking, of course she's going to read into things that she says. It doesn't take a psychic. But if she just says, tell me about my relationship, then that's when I do my work. Well, I understand.
20:03🔗
I was wondering if there's any way to make it bigger. Is it something or should I just wait?
20:11🔗
I was going to say wait for what?
20:15🔗
Yeah.
20:18🔗
Adam
I see. Do you think God answers those kinds of prayers, ones that make your Johnson bigger?
20:23🔗
I hope so. Yeah.
20:24🔗
Adam
He's not usually at the top of his priority list, the make the genitalia bigger for the screwy teenagers. I'm sure if you pray enough though. Tom, how big is your penis when it's erect?
20:38🔗
Probably four inches.
20:39🔗
Adam
All right. That's not too bad. You're fine. I've labeled this a bogus call, by the way, so I'm not going to spend too much time on it. Now, Lisa, you want to pick a call? You getting any vibes off any of these calls here?
21:01🔗
All right.
21:04🔗
All right.
21:09🔗
Yes.
21:15🔗
Adam
You're white? Okay. That's too far away. Indian, I would have gone with, but hold on. Let's see if we can find a black caller. Joey? Yeah. Are you black? All right. Hold on a second. Let's talk to Emily. Emily?
21:33🔗
Adam
That's close. So is Cher, though. We're not talking to her. Hold on a second. All right. You're hearing an African American.
21:41🔗
Drew
I was not hearing. It was early. I'm not sure if anyone hung up, but there was a feeling about that.
21:47🔗
Yeah.
21:48🔗
No, I'm white.
21:49🔗
Okay.
21:52🔗
Okay.
21:52🔗
All right.
21:52🔗
Adam
That's close. Hold on a second. Hold on. Anderson, what did you say, by the way? All right. Let me speak to, I'm quite down in there. Anderson, Emily?
22:11🔗
Adam
Wait a minute. Wait a minute. Anderson's right. Hold on a second, sweet spirit. I didn't read her question. She had a question. You're reading it off the screen.
22:19🔗
Adam
You read it earlier. Kathy? I wasn't. You have a question about a black man? Yeah. Of course. Okay.
22:25🔗
There you go.
22:28🔗
I'm 17 and what I've noticed is that only older black guys are attracted to me. I have never been able to attract like a white 17-year-old guy.
22:39🔗
It's a complete phenomenon to me. I never talk to them. They just come up to me and start talking to me.
22:52🔗
I mean, I don't date them. I talk to them. But that's how that comes up to me. I never get anybody else. Yeah.
22:58🔗
They're usually 26, 27, 28. All right.
23:02🔗
I mean, they're attractive, but I just want somebody my own age.
23:09🔗
Not really, but just somebody who's 17 or 18 or something.
23:14🔗
Yeah.
23:19🔗
It's been going on since I was like 14.
23:21🔗
Adam
Well, eventually, you'll be 28 and then you'll be begging for the older black guys. But I mean, you're in high school. There's plenty of guys in high school, right?
23:29🔗
Yeah.
23:29🔗
Adam
Do you walk? Are you sort of open? Do you know what I mean as far as your body language and stuff?
23:34🔗
Yeah. I mean, it's not like I hide or anything. It's like everybody could see me.
23:39🔗
You know that I'm there, but it's like nobody ever approaches me. Only those guys.
23:45🔗
Drew
I'm getting pretty much you acting like a victim. Okay? And it's not an insult, but it's kind of like you're just sitting back waiting for something to happen as opposed to going for what you want. So because basically that's what you're attracting because that's what you're like open for. So it's up to you to go out there and just go for what you want instead of waiting around for whatever comes up to you or whoever comes up to you.
24:04🔗
Adam
All right. You got to get proactive there, Kathy. All right there, sweetie. Enjoy. Good luck with the white guys. All right.
24:10🔗
Thank you.
24:13🔗
Thank you.
24:13🔗
Adam
All righty. Lisa Matteo is our guest tonight. She's a psychic spirit medium. She wrote herself a book, Conversations with the Spirit World. Wrote it after one of her good friends committed suicide. Then you were able to communicate with that friend. Fantabulous. We're here with her tonight. We're answering your questions that have to do with love, relationships, and maybe just questions about the dearly departed. Right? Phone number 1-800-L-O-V-E-1-9-1. We'll take a little break. We'll be back after this. Hey, Loveline, I'm Adam Carolla. That's where Dr. Drew would be sitting, except for he's passed over to the other side, the other side being New York, hoaring himself out for a buck. Phone number 1-800-LOVE-191. Lisa Mateu is our guest tonight on this fantabulous Valentine's Day. She's a psychic spirit medium. She's the author of the book Conversations with the Spirit World. She also has a website which is www.channelingspirits.com. And on that website, what can you find?
25:54🔗
Drew
Oh, you can find so many things. You can find details about how to connect with the other side yourself. You can set up a reading with me by phone. You can also do that if you call 310-820-711.
26:07🔗
Adam
Yeah, man, go ahead and pimp. That's fine. I mean, you know, you come out here, you polish your crystal ball and get some numbers out. Well, you know, it only gets weird when you pretend like you're not doing it.
26:29🔗
Adam
Let's see if we can, again, we don't have an MD here tonight, so we're going to see about channeling, and that's a good choice of terms, some of our calls toward the psychic world. This is Kim. Kim is 30. Kim?
26:52🔗
Lysa Mateu
They just kind of, in regards to them, that have made me wonder if it's them like just saying that, hey, we're okay, or whether it's just, they're just coincidences that things have happened. That kind of remind me of these two people.
27:07🔗
Drew
Okay. The number one thing regarding, just in general sense, regarding people who have crossed over, they do send you signals. So sometimes they'll use the light, sometimes a song will come on the radio. They can affect things. Usually when you get the instinct that you feel them, it's like feeling somebody staring at you and they're pretty far away. You just can feel it or you can sense. You're usually correct with that. So that's on a general sense number one with that. What I'm picking up with people who have crossed over for you, there's somebody who is... There's a male coming through right now and it's the feeling of that... And he's saying like there's someone with a DA. Now it's either them or someone here.
27:39🔗
Okay?
27:41🔗
DA.,
27:48🔗
Drew
Thank you. And there's the feeling that whether or not there's a choking or something around him with either the choking or the... It's really hard for me to breathe right now. So, it's a feeling of like there's some kind of either collapsing something with the lungs, either choking or collapsing with the lungs.
28:17🔗
Drew
whether or not there is a... All right. If there's a question mark around his crossing, okay, it's almost like whether or not there's something else that occurred in conjunction with the heart attack, okay.
28:33🔗
Drew
There's a question mark. There's like the heart attack, but something didn't make sense. There's something that didn't make sense about how he crossed over, whether or not the doctor... There's something that didn't make sense. That's what's coming through.
28:47🔗
Lysa Mateu
The only thing... They ruled it as a heart attack, but they didn't do any type of autopsy and they just kind of took it as that, that it was a heart attack because he had a ventricle and it goes by him, so I don't know if that's true or not.
28:59🔗
Adam
Well, sure. I mean, that's what his business partner did to make it look like a heart attack. Listen, I'm with Elise on this one. But, look, you want to know if he's okay?
29:11🔗
Adam
I don't know if she can pick up on that. First off, he's dead, so he ain't in great shape. No. I mean, you're not that good when you're dead, are you?
29:19🔗
Adam
So Elise's not alive. We can rule that part of good out, right? But for a dead guy, he's doing great. Fantastic. I hope I do that good when I'm dead. Now, are you getting any vibe from how he's doing? He's getting along with the other dead people? Is he making friends? Does he know like Abe Lincoln? What do you want to know?
29:45🔗
Drew
People ask me, are they okay? It's like, yeah, I feel the same way. Yeah, they're okay. But you're more asking about the signs that they're giving you, okay?
29:53🔗
Drew
And it's a feeling with him, there's a feeling of a presence around you, and it's also affecting things. The other person that's coming through is another male, but there's like a younger male, okay? Does that make sense to you?
30:04🔗
Drew
Okay. And there's the feeling of that, whether or not he was a, quote, kidder, like the kind of, I would call it like a jokester, but he's calling it like more of a kidder, something about him that's like a kidder. I don't know if that makes sense to you.
30:38🔗
Drew
Well, they're coming through together, yes. Like the minute she asked about the people on the other side, immediately there was a two-man presence. Doesn't mean there's not other people, but they came forward. And there was the father, where I said the DA, and then there was someone younger. There was like the younger male.
30:51🔗
Adam
So, we did get that. And so, I mean, if I die, I have to spend eternity with my family, or can I avoid that?
30:59🔗
Drew
I don't know about that, because I've gotten people who are married that didn't like each other when they were married.
31:09🔗
Adam
Six months, get back on my feet kind of thing. You know, it's going to be tough to get a gig when you're dead.
31:14🔗
Adam
I'm sure I can still work for Westwood One in some capacity. As soon as I get a gig, I'm back out again. I'm on my own. I got my own coffin, maybe a mausoleum. I'm going to step up to something nicer, get a few roommates, live in a nice mausoleum. All right, let's see if we have some other questions here for Lisa. Jennifer? You're 20?
31:39🔗
Lysa Mateu
I was just wondering, well, see, my family is really angry because my grandfather died two weeks ago. He had cancer and he was 82, but he ended up shooting himself and he did it while my grandmother was home. Well...
32:07🔗
Drew
It's almost as if his crossing over has stopped something. It's like whether or not it was a will or something that his crossing over kind of stopped the process of. Because he's saying like took with him, unless it was just him taking himself out. But no, it's like the feeling of that he took something with him. I'm not sure what that is.
32:27🔗
Lysa Mateu
Well, see, my grandma has Alzheimer's disease and she was the only one that was home with them and she said that he took her out and stuff and was just like, had her look at all these things like he was going to kill her too. But then he sent her.
32:48🔗
Lysa Mateu
Turn around and stuff and then he was just like, then he was like all of a sudden he's all go in the house.
32:53🔗
Drew
So that's what I said a moment ago. I said take her out, I mean take him out. So that's what he was talking about because that was what I was getting about that.
33:02🔗
Drew
No, no, when I said take, first I heard took him with him but then I heard instead of taking himself out, so then she just said he was going to take the grandmother out. There was something about that.
33:16🔗
Lysa Mateu
The family is angry because he did it while she was home by herself, like with him.
33:30🔗
Drew
Well, it doesn't matter. If he's dying of cancer, like exactly, he did it in front of people. This doesn't take a psychic. It takes... the logic is that he does it in front of her. He wants her to see. He's making a statement about it.
33:41🔗
Adam
Well, Jennifer, I agree he didn't handle this the right way, but he should have taken her and dropped her off somewhere or something, right?
33:48🔗
Lysa Mateu
Well, what I'm thinking is I think he should have OD'd or something on pills because then she'd think that he just didn't wake up because he was 82 years old, you know?
34:19🔗
Adam
All right. Hey, Jennifer, this is sad, and I feel bad for, you know, the family and the grieving and all that. He probably, what, he had a few months left to live?
34:31🔗
Adam
So it's kind of bad because here you are, you die. Everyone should be mourning your death. Instead, they're pissed off because you basically did it in a way that horrified other family members and screwed up the grieving process.
34:44🔗
Drew
But even your grandmother is not so aware of what actually occurred. She's kind of in and out of that, right?
34:50🔗
Drew
Yeah, because she's, you know... I'm not demeaning, I mean, I'm not trying to make less of what happened, but she's not fully aware of what really happened anyway.
34:57🔗
Adam
All right. Well, so it's, you know, good times. Good times. Let's talk to CJ, he's 23. CJ? Yeah. What's up?
35:06🔗
Oh, I just had a question for the psychic lady there. I'm a new man. I really don't believe in psychics, man. They're too general for me, too.
35:15🔗
Yeah, I know. I'm terrible.
35:18🔗
Well, I met this girl a while back, and she was separated with her ex-husband, or not ex yet. Still legally married, but separated. And we kind of talked and fell in love, I guess, so to speak. And she's not carrying my child, except she's a thousand miles away from me right now. And she has three kids of her own from her previous marriage.
35:45🔗
Right now.
35:47🔗
Not even.
35:49🔗
I wanted to know if, if, you know, my dad's, my family that is dead right now, who can see this picture like from an airplane so they can see a broader spectrum like she said, is because she left me about three times before to go back to her ex, so she didn't lose her kids. Yeah. If they kept holding the kids over her. Yeah. If you leave him there, you're going to lose your kids. And I guess she wasn't strong or not, but, you know, she moved out of her ex's house finally and back to her parents. And we're thinking about getting married. And I'm wondering if she's going to be strong enough to move out here to Albuquerque with me.
36:26🔗
Drew
Well, the first thing I'm picking up is somebody with a bad temper. So it's either you or her husband or ex-husband, whatever you want to call it. That's like the bad temper. Okay. Does that make sense about you or about him?
36:36🔗
A little bit of both. He does have a temper. He was abusive.
36:39🔗
Drew
Well, that's what I call it. I mean like a bad temper. I'm seeing that because I'm seeing her staying because of fear. There's like a fear factor as opposed to what you said is just about the kids. No, there's like a fear factor. It's almost like he's been telling her things about leaving more than just about the kids. Okay? Because from you, I'm picking up there's a... It's almost like if she wanted to, she could walk all over you and not that that's her intention but you're like the nice guy. There's like the nice guy with you. Okay? And whether or not that has... It doesn't mean you have to start not being nice but that in relationships with you has kind of... women have taken advantage of that. Does that make sense?
37:15🔗
Oh yeah, I've been married before, yeah.
37:19🔗
Yeah, make sure I have a big time.
37:25🔗
No, I don't wear cologne.
37:27🔗
Nothing.
37:27🔗
Adam
Yeah, see maybe if you start putting some cologne on you could get some chicks. What's your problem? You smell like beer all the time. All right, so what's going to happen? You're going to tell him what's going to happen or what he should do?
37:38🔗
Drew
Well, see what's going to happen is based on what he does, okay? Basically for you, I don't really see, I see this one kind of staying apart for a while, okay? I don't see it really going together. She's got to, she's not ready to leave permanently.
37:50🔗
Adam
Thank God that you guys had that kid, Eugenius. Listen, look, you don't need a psychic for this. This chick screwed up. She's a, her husband's abusive. She's freaked out. Her dad was probably abusive before him. There's probably some alcohol or substance involved here. It's not that she's got to be with him or she's not going to get her kid. She could easily get divorced from this guy and get custody of her kids. She can't do it. She's not into CJ. She's into him, sort of, but then goes back to the abusive guy because her dad was abusive. She doesn't have that strong, deep rooted attraction. All right, so what's he going to do? I don't know. I think he dodged a bullet here. I'm sorry he had a kid with her. I don't know if he wants to spend the rest of his life with this screwed up chick and the four kids. He should look into himself and figure out why he's attracted to these types of women and what he's doing not to keep them. All right, we'll take ourselves a little break. Lysa Mateu is our guest tonight. She's a psychic spirit medium and if you have any questions for her on this Valentine's Day, you can call us up after this. Hey, there, psychic friends, it's Loveline. I'm Adam Carolla. That is not Dr. Drew. The sweet spirit known as Dr. Drew has passed on to the other side, the other side of the Atlantic Ocean, or Pacific. I guess it would be the Atlantic. There he is. I guess he's in New York, and he's pimping something. God knows what. We don't care because life is for the living over here at Loveline. Lysa Mateu is our guest tonight. She's a psychic spirit medium. She's the author of the book, Conversations with the Spirit World. She has herself a website.
39:35🔗
Drew
www.channelingspirits.com. I'll be doing some book signings in March, so check out the website. It's on there.
39:42🔗
Adam
That's right. Tonight, we're going to flavor the show that way. Since we don't have an MD here, we're going to swing the questions a little more toward the psychic realms. So, why don't we talk to Taylor? Taylor is 15. Taylor?
40:00🔗
Lysa Mateu
Lisa, I had a friend commit suicide two years ago, and I was just wondering some things like why she did it, and if she regrets it, and if she's in a place that when I die, I'm going to see her again.
40:13🔗
Drew
Okay. Two things about that. The questions like that, I mean, any answer that I give you, you won't be able to validate. Okay.
40:33🔗
Adam
She didn't mean to commit suicide. She is happy where she is. And yes, there's a place for you.
40:42🔗
Drew
I'm going to tell her something good, okay? The most important thing for you is that it's almost as if more than just finding out, there's like something hidden, whether or not she kept things very hidden as opposed to someone who is blatantly, outwardly depressed. There's like a hiding, some kind of hiding with her. I don't know if you know that about her. Does that make sense to you?
41:01🔗
Lysa Mateu
Like, she told me, like a few weeks before she did it, that she was feeling really depressed and she was scared. But other than that, she didn't really talk about anything like that.
41:11🔗
Drew
I'm talking about the way she showed it to the world, like other people, like in public, as opposed to... Yeah, that's what I mean.
41:20🔗
Drew
Okay, exactly, because I'm seeing this opposite. And this sounds general, who's the blonde, but I'm seeing the blonde, so I'm not sure if that's you or her. That could be darker hair, but I'm seeing there's somebody with the blonde that she's mentioning.
42:01🔗
Adam
Yeah, I see. I see. That's what I've seen. When I see rope, I mean hangman's noose. You don't see a phone cord hanging. I'm seeing like a drawing. You see what I'm saying? It's the way the spirits speak to me. I love you, by the way. Thank you.
42:16🔗
Adam
She really hung herself, huh? Yeah. That is, I would think, an unusual way for a woman especially to kill herself.
42:24🔗
Drew
Actually, a lot of them do hang themselves, believe it or not. Guns is the least. I mean, guns is like the man.
42:30🔗
Adam
Guns, what I mean is for women, from what I know is they go in sort of less violent ways. ODs, things like that. Some of them, too many bonbons, something like that. Something of a less cruel way. But her, she must have been hopped up on drugs or booze or something.
43:01🔗
Lysa Mateu
I feel a little bad that she told me about it, that I could have done something more. But other than that, I don't think I've ever...
43:09🔗
Lysa Mateu
She told me not saying that. She was really scared. And I told her to get some help, but I feel I could have done something more. Right.
43:33🔗
Drew
And she's somebody that they always said was always smiling, because I'm seeing this like this, always smiling, always smiling.
43:48🔗
Adam
Well, because people that are walking around miserable, depressed, and complaining that they're going to kill themselves, are intervened upon. They don't get away with it.
44:01🔗
Lysa Mateu
She was a very cheerful and happy person, and she was just like that. Yeah, but there was things about her life that really screwed her up.
44:12🔗
Adam
Well, listen, Taylor, I'm sorry this happened to her and to you. You will be together with her, not anytime soon. It will be about eight months, but not in the near future. No, you got years and years. But don't worry. When you see her, wait a minute, that's a good question. And Taylor kicks off at 85 and this chick's 14. What are they going to talk about? You know what I mean?
44:36🔗
Adam
I crap myself. I want to go see and sing. You know what I mean? Like what are they going to do?
44:46🔗
Adam
That's a really good question. Do you age in the spirit world? Are you about the same age you were?
44:51🔗
Drew
You know, there's been babies that have crossed over and they just show me themselves as like a baby. I haven't seen anyone like get older because you wouldn't recognize it. No, the babies don't talk, they just, I didn't see them.
45:00🔗
Adam
And when you go over old, you got to spend the rest of your life that way or the rest of your non-life that way, right?
45:27🔗
Adam
Right, yeah, you want to have friends. All right, let's see if we see some of the calls for Lisa over here. John?
45:36🔗
What's up?
45:39🔗
I'm just curious. I kind of wanted to communicate with my grandma. She passed on like three to four years ago, and I'm just curious. You see, I'm really into the whole spirit thing. I believe a lot in everything. I'm just the opposite of you, Adam. I believe in everything that happens in everything. But I just... I often feel like I'm communicating with my grandmother, but I feel like I need the proof.
46:08🔗
Yeah. Thanks a lot, bro. No, sorry.
46:11🔗
No.
46:18🔗
No, not by.
46:22🔗
Drew
Who's the, like, the, I don't know, the name Lainey or something with Lainey, like an LA name, someone with the, it's either an L or an LA name. It's not her, but she's saying something with the L or LA name. And I hate saying grandma's with knitting because it seems like every grandma knits, but she's showing me something with that, like making things, whether or not she used to make things. Does that make sense to you?
46:46🔗
Drew
No, no. The making things, both of them. The LA is here. Someone she's referencing, the name that begins with an LA. Not her, I said.
46:55🔗
Right. No, it doesn't ring anything.
47:00🔗
I'm working, man. I'm searching everything.
47:08🔗
No, no.
47:11🔗
Yeah, what's up?
47:14🔗
My mom is here, yeah.
47:22🔗
It's my dad's, not his family.
47:26🔗
Yeah.
47:27🔗
Adam
Here's what I want you to do. I want you to think real hard about LA. I don't care if it's the middle initial of some guy you work with. I want you to work it into something that works here, all right?
47:53🔗
Always.
47:55🔗
We'll be back. Call on the 1-800-LOVE-191. With Dr. Drew and Adam Corolla on New Rock 104.
48:32🔗
Adam
I'm Adam Carolla. Dr. Drew is somewhere better tonight. He's in a better place. Probably Ramada Inn, sleeping somewhere. Tomorrow night, Dano and Allison are going to be in here from Temptation Island. Anyone who's been watching the phenomenon known as Temptation Island will recognize those names. They'll be in here tomorrow night. We'll talk to them. And tonight we have Lysa Mateu. Lysa is a psychic spirit medium. She's authored the book, Conversations with the Spirit World. You want more information, you contact her on her website, which is www.channelingspirits.com. There you have it, everybody. All right, let's get back to the phones. 1-800-LOVE-191. Again, we're skipping some of the medical questions tonight in lieu of taking some psychic questions on Valentine's Day. Joey, you're 18.
49:26🔗
Caller
Yes, sir. What's up? Well, I'm married, and I have a 10-month-old son. Well, about two weeks ago, my wife told me that she cheated on me.
49:46🔗
Caller
Throughout our whole relationship, she's pretty much wanted to go hang out with other guys and all that stuff. I've always tried to be trusting and understanding.
49:59🔗
Caller
She told me. After it happened, she said that she was with another guy that she had been going over to his house. Like at first, he was supposed to be babysitting for us.
50:15🔗
Caller
Yeah. She told me that she doesn't want to have anything to do with him. The only problem is she works with him. I can't really trust her on that.
50:38🔗
Caller
Yeah. I think when I got us an apartment and got us out on our own, she pretty much wanted to go buckwild.
50:46🔗
Adam
I see. All right. And I mean, here's the deal. You guys can salvage the relationship if she wants to do that. Do you think she wants to do that?
50:57🔗
Caller
I'm not sure. At first, you know, when she first told me, you know, she convinced me to, you know, give her another chance. You know, she begged, pretty much begged me. But like, you know, since then, she's been kind of, you know, will screw you.
51:18🔗
Caller
At when I first heard it? Yeah. And then, you know, she convinced me and I thought about it for a day or two. And, you know, decided with the baby, I wanted to try and make it work out.
51:32🔗
Caller
Well, she's been talking to a pastor or something. Yeah. Or she was supposed to, but I haven't heard anything else about it.
52:01🔗
Caller
I'd say they probably do. The way the office is, he probably has to come in and out to get what forms he needs to load and all that.
52:19🔗
Adam
Yeah. Well, listen, Joey, this is why you don't have kids in Mary Screwballs, you understand?
52:26🔗
Adam
She's a chaotic broad, right? She's got some problems. You're 18. You're not really equipped to deal with this stuff. But you have a kid and you have to take care of this kid. And whether you're chronologically an adult or emotionally adult, it's not really the issue. The issue is you got a 10-month-old kid and you have to do everything within your power to make a good stable environment for the kid. And that means you guys getting into some counseling, maybe she gets into some individual stuff to work on some of her demons. And I would say getting another gig. I wouldn't want her working around the guy she's having the affair with and she probably shouldn't be.
53:03🔗
Drew
No, but she wants out. And I, you know, she does. She wants out and she's looking for a way out and it's not it's She wants out of the relationship or she wants out of the relationship. But you know, she's finding a way, you know, one of the ways that she thought she'd get out was by cheating. She thought that would be enough and it's not enough.
53:20🔗
Drew
Because is the fear of losing but also wanting out. She wants out. I guarantee you, you call back like 10 months from now, she's out. She wants out.
53:27🔗
Adam
I see. I think she wants chaos, which is temporarily wanting out. Listen, she wouldn't beg to come back in.
53:37🔗
Adam
Listen, if she met this guy, hold on, stop shaking your head over there. I'm talking to the peanut gallery. I don't need coaching from behind the guests. Don't think I don't see that, Sarah. I think she obviously comes from a lot of chaos in her life or she wouldn't be pregnant. So, you know, 16 and a half, 17. She wouldn't be married at the 17, 18 years old and she does one out at times. But then she wants to keep the cycle of chaos alive. So, she gets back in and then steps out again. She is stepping out and she is causing.
54:10🔗
Adam
Oh, listen, this thing ain't going to last. The over under is about eight months. But I'm saying if she wants out, she would go with this guy she was having the affair with. Why didn't she just stay with him?
54:31🔗
Adam
Listen, everything's going to... Your marriage is going to be over in two years. What are you talking about? Of course it is.
54:47🔗
Adam
Why don't you... She gets on her knees. That's a good sign. Why don't you ask her... Why don't you give the opportunity? She felt bad. Why don't you say, do you want out of this thing? And if you do, say it and see what she says, all right?
55:05🔗
Adam
Okay. Well, maybe she does want out. I know she's real chaotic. Whatever it is, whether it's her out or her in, if she's in, she's got to work. You both have to work at it, all right? All right. Okay. Listen, everybody. Don't get married at 17 and a half. Don't knock your high school sweetie up when she's 16 and a half. Don't do it. This is it. That's right. This is what your life is. You're living with a drunken, pippy, long stocking. She's screwing around with the guys at work. She's totally chaotic. Kids aren't going to help. They're not going to stabilize. Please, everybody. I like to sue these people. I really would on behalf of the United States and the taxpayers. Emily?
56:01🔗
Adam
The psychic knew that. I was explaining to the psychic that I was a genius just a few minutes ago, was I not? You were.
56:23🔗
Lysa Mateu
Anyway, so I just get crushes on guys a lot. They kind of turn not obsessive but a little bit.
56:33🔗
Adam
Right. But are there guys that are interested in you that you're aware of that you're not interested in?
56:41🔗
Adam
There's never been a guy that's been some nerdy guy with an AV windbreaker on who's interested in you.
56:53🔗
Adam
That's when I'm counting when they're in diapers, for Christ's sake. So nobody in high school, nobody asks you do they have junior prom or the snow dance or anything like that?
57:20🔗
Adam
What do you do at school? What do you play sports? Are you a good student? What do you do?
57:26🔗
Adam
Oh, yeah. Guys love a chick and a big mumu. Big shiny mumu singing. You get any vibe off of this?
57:34🔗
Drew
Yeah. It's interesting when you said that you're not... I don't think you're mousy, but you do keep to yourself. There's definitely this stay away from me energy going on when it comes to men. It would be more like a shyness, like a shutting down when you're around somebody that you do like, that you have an interest in. Okay. So what that does, you know it's just shyness, but to them, it looks like you're not interested.
57:55🔗
Drew
Okay. So if you're shutting down like that, you need to kind of allow your feelings for someone to be shown. You don't have to be outrageous about it, but do not hide it because if you hide it, they can't find it. They can't see it.
58:07🔗
Drew
All right. Because you've been hiding it too much and then wondering why no one comes after you.
58:17🔗
Lysa Mateu
My best friend's dad died like two years ago and I was just wondering, Lisa, if you could like talk to him or anything and see if he has a message for his daughter.
58:27🔗
Drew
Okay. What I'm getting and this sounds so graphic. I hate to say like dropped it, but there's a feeling of that he just boom, like was just gone. Okay.
58:39🔗
Drew
A commenter of me. Okay. The feeling that he just was like just gone like in a moment. So whether or not it's not that... Yeah. He was just like gone. So for her, you can ask her about this, that there was no preparation from her part to say goodbye to him. Okay. Even though she spoke with him, it was like just sudden.
59:10🔗
Adam
He knew. Oh, she knew he was going to die. Two years, for Christ's sake. Look, you don't bat a thousand. That's fine.
59:18🔗
Adam
This was a slow, long, lingering death. No, it wasn't. You couldn't have been further off on this one.
59:23🔗
Adam
Listen, even Mark McGuire strikes out every once in a while. They're not all home runs. We'll get it back on the next call, baby.
59:33🔗
No.
59:46🔗
Adam
Of course it's true. You got a safe dropped on you. You die in an instant. You have cancer for 20 years. You die in an instant. You always die in an instant.
59:59🔗
Adam
Yes, she was. She was sitting in the hospital room. Well, it's true. She expected him to die 15 minutes later. Come on. She's sitting in the guy's hospital room while his body's being eaten by cancer. That's the worst argument I've ever heard. You got to let this one go. That's all right. You're bad about 800% here. That's not bad. It's not about me.
1:00:43🔗
Adam
Well, I know it's Chicago in the winter, but you got to give a little if you want to get the boys. You understand?
1:00:51🔗
Adam
Take care of yourself. All right. That's all right. We all miss a few. Let's see if we can get back on the next one. All right. Any vibes off any of these numbers here? Any lucky numbers here?
1:01:02🔗
Adam
Yeah. I'm looking at the board here. Do you see anything you like? Look at the screen here. Do you see anything speaking to you? There's some questions here. Ann here has a question. She wants to know if she's going to hook back up at the ex-lover. That sounds like a good Valentine's Day one. Why not? Hey, Ann.
1:01:22🔗
Lysa Mateu
I just want to ask Lisa a follow-up. She found anything since... It's been about eight years and we recently started talking again. And I was interested in whether we could get back together.
1:01:51🔗
Adam
All right. So let me get this straight. You're 28. You're with a guy like eight years ago.
1:01:59🔗
Adam
Oh, a girl. A girl. I'm sorry. Eight years ago, you were with a girl and you have a relationship and then you break it off.
1:02:33🔗
Adam
You want to know if something's going to happen? There could be more sparks. What do you think?
1:02:36🔗
Drew
Okay. Well, first of all, and like, this doesn't take a psychic to say what I'm going to say. It just takes logic. Your attitude even with being late, there's nothing to do with it. It's more passive. Like you're waiting to see what's going to happen as opposed to deciding what's going to happen. Okay? Like she's like, you're waiting to see what's going to happen based on her taking action as opposed to you deciding that you want a relationship and going forward.
1:02:57🔗
Lysa Mateu
Actually, I have decided that and I am doing that. I just want to know if it's the right thing to do.
1:03:03🔗
Drew
But your question about whether or not it's going to work, okay, doesn't put you in the driver's seat. There's like a she decides whether that's been the question with the relationship in the past, that she was doing all the deciding about whether to end it or whether to be with you. Does that make sense?
1:03:17🔗
Drew
Okay. And so for you, it's about stepping up into the driver's seat and going forward with this and having it be, it's not like you would control it, but it's almost what she's looking for. You were way too passive in the past. Like she could just bulldoze you. Does that make sense? Yeah. Okay. So it's like you taking a different stance here. It's kind of like meeting your match. I mean, she doesn't want to be with someone who she can bulldoze. Not that that's the purpose, but you need to kind of step up to the plate. And yes, it will work in that respect. And actually, I'm not sure if you really want to be with her once you start getting what you want from her. You know, you may be very surprised about if she's the kind of person that you really want to be with long term.
1:03:53🔗
Drew
Yeah. But you definitely need to step up. That's just your own growth, like not being passive and stepping up for yourself.
1:04:01🔗
Adam
All right. I'm going to play a little psychic hunch here because the spirits are speaking to me.
1:04:05🔗
Adam
Let me guess what you do for a living. I got narrowed down to two things, either auction livestock or you're a carnival barker. Is that one?
1:04:27🔗
You woke her up though.
1:04:28🔗
Adam
Yeah. Okay, baby. I wish I had a boss like this. Say, Adam. Yeah? Come in my office. Yeah? I forgot. Go get lunch. That would be a great boss, wouldn't it? I'd like to have an innocent boss. Hey, I got an assignment.
1:04:51🔗
Adam
Why don't we nap on this one? Okay. That's good. All right. Let's see. Let's talk to... You're slowly redeeming yourself.
1:05:15🔗
Adam
Okay. That's good. I'm glad you can admit that. Most women buy lingerie for them. So they can feel pretty. You understand? Yeah. You buy it so guys can see your mince around in nice panties, right? That's right.
1:05:31🔗
Lysa Mateu
I am recently. I lost somebody who is really close to me. And I was wondering if maybe you could tell me if they're okay, or if they found some kind of peace and if they're around me at all. And if, you know, misses me, misses my family.
1:05:47🔗
Drew
Okay. The first thing that, and one thing when spirits come through, they don't necessarily come through in the order that you're asking for. Okay? It's kind of like the leader comes through first because there's a feeling of someone being, all right, this is a different kind of thing. Whether or not something caused this person's, it's like they said taken from you. So it's the feeling of that some, something like an impact, an action, something caused this person's death as opposed to their own actions. There's like, they're making it, no, this person has something to do with their death actually.
1:06:16🔗
Drew
Okay. Yeah. I was saying that and then the spirits were like, no, that they were involved in this, meaning that they brought it about, not necessarily a suicide, but they brought it about, like their actions brought about their death.
1:06:42🔗
Lysa Mateu
Well, he was going through some problems with alcohol. And, you know, he just felt really guilty about everything that had happened.
1:07:05🔗
Adam
Good, because this is like, you know, you can have a lot of, you know, trauma from something like this.
1:07:12🔗
Drew
I'm not sure if you would look, what's coming through is someone, something about looking through his stuff, something about looking through his stuff. And he's also saying the initial D, which is not necessarily for, it's someone with the D either here or across or over, that's coming through, that's saying D, like a D, that's what I'm getting with that. It's not him. There's the feeling of, does that make sense? Also looking through his stuff, I don't know why, whether or not you have his, there's something about looking through his stuff. I don't know what that means.
1:07:39🔗
Drew
No, no. There's a feeling of like someone either spends a lot, a lot of time reminiscing, looking, like searching through his things, like a lot of time, more than just putting his stuff away and using it, like not looking at it.
1:07:50🔗
Lysa Mateu
Yeah, he played the guitar and I played the guitar, too. I play his guitar all the time.
1:07:58🔗
Drew
No, no. It's not even an instrument. It's like looking through his stuff. Like they were looking for something, like looking for, I don't know, something. Like searching. It's almost a feeling of like searching for it, either an answer within his stuff. Does that make sense to you? Like looking through his stuff, that's all it's coming through with that.
1:08:29🔗
Lysa Mateu
He wrote it while he was in the hospital. And then he left and he just never finished it.
1:08:44🔗
Lysa Mateu
What happened was, I came home and I found him on the floor. And I didn't know what was wrong. I called the ambulance. I didn't know that he was drinking. So, and I thought he'd had a heart attack. And once I called the ambulance, it was just because he had drank so much. If he had one more drink, he would have been dead. And he went through rehab and he went through detox. And we told him that he had to keep going through it. And he just, I don't think he thought he could finish it. And he was supposed to go to the rehab center, but instead he went to Las Vegas.
1:09:19🔗
Drew
What is with the, I don't know, if he injected drugs, I'm seeing something with the arms and injecting.
1:09:29🔗
Lysa Mateu
There was a lot of medication injected into him, like, that really made him depressed.
1:09:34🔗
Drew
Oh, he was injected, because I was seeing injecting, so I didn't know what that meant, okay.
1:09:37🔗
Adam
All right. Well, Sarah, listen, I know you want to know, you know, what he's doing in the afterlife and all that other stuff, but you need to focus on you and your counseling and your therapy. I mean, this is a huge, huge thing to deal with at your age, at any age. You understand? And it has all kinds of feelings that surround it and feelings like maybe could have done something or something. This guy had a disease and he couldn't beat it, and it ended up taking his life. And it has nothing to do with you. And I'm sure he loved you. Yeah. And you cannot... He would want you to have a good productive life and good relationships and do well in school and excel and exceed in life. You know what I'm saying? I mean, the greatest tribute you could pay to this guy is having a good life. It really is.
1:10:35🔗
Drew
It's interesting. Actually, what Adam just said is what he's sending. It's really important for you to do that.
1:10:44🔗
Adam
Yes. Stay in school. Deal with the grieving. It's way too early to even pretend like you can get passes.
1:10:51🔗
Drew
But also, I just want to say, I want you to... I guess it is pimping, but it's also helping. My book is about that. It's Conversations with the Spirit World. It's 17 people who kill themselves and what they have to say. So that you can get on Amazon. But that can help you out.
1:11:12🔗
Adam
All right. I may kill myself later on. You make it 18. You can do a revision to the book. Don't you want to go for 20? Why 17? The book seems a little light.
1:11:29🔗
Adam
We'll take ourselves a little break. Lisa Mateu is our guest tonight. She's a psychic spirit medium. We will come back with more of your questions after this. Loveline, I'm Adam Carolla. That is Lysa Mateu. Lysa is a psychic spirit medium. She's authored herself a book, Conversations with the Spirit World. If you want more information about how to obtain that book, you can look her up on her website.
1:12:37🔗
Adam
That's right. Now, tonight it is Valentine's Day, and what we can do is instead of taking the MD questions, we will take the psychic questions because that's where we are feeling strongest. Let's talk to Lou. Louis19, Lou?
1:12:52🔗
Caller
Yeah, I have a question for the psychic about the whole soulmate concept. I want to know what she thinks about it because I've had some experiences, which I believe is a soulmate.
1:13:08🔗
Drew
Regarding the soulmate, it is basically like this. Some people think that they wait their whole life for someone to show up and they're going to just know it. I do believe that. That's what happened with my husband. You just know. But a lot of people waste their time with someone who's not right trying to make it right. So there is a sense of ease that comes when you meet a friend, for example, and it just works. You just get along. It's not all this trials and craziness. That's a sign that the relationship's off.
1:13:33🔗
Adam
What if you're like me and you've had 14 soulmates? Can you have more than one soulmate?
1:13:44🔗
Adam
Wait a minute. Wait a minute. Wait a minute. Let me do the math here. I had eight soulmates. Six were cellmates. That's different, right? I think so. Big black guys. Yeah. Okay. That's different. Yeah. Only eight soulmates.
1:13:59🔗
Adam
Oh, it's nonsense. You know, Lou, when you're 19, you spend a lot of time thinking about soulmates. When you're in your 30s, all of a sudden, you stop talking about soulmates. Yeah. It's the a-hole who sleeps in the bed with me. That's the way you look at it. You stop looking at soulmate.
1:14:14🔗
Caller
Okay. Because my experience was, it all started back when I was in 10th grade. And this female, she used to write. She used to do a lot of writing. I'm into that stuff. And some of the stuff she wrote, I kind of was interested in it. But I never told anyone about this. I never told anyone about this.
1:14:46🔗
Caller
Yeah, but the thing is, this is kind of odd because I never had her for a classroom. But towards the end of the year, like in graduation, I wrote one of my poems and I gave it to someone so this person didn't give it to her and at the same time she wrote one to me.
1:15:29🔗
Drew
No, no, did you ask her out? How would you know she's not ready unless you ask? Using your mouth, not your hands.
1:15:35🔗
Adam
The pen is mightier than the sword, but the penis is mightier than the pen. See, it trumps the pen.
1:15:41🔗
Caller
Yeah, she said, you know, I'd be an interesting person to hang out with. I told her, you know, you seem like you'd also be interesting.
1:15:51🔗
Adam
Let me douse a little tough reality on you and your soulmate-riddled life. This chick's either interested or she's not. I don't know what the answer to that is. Smart Money says no, but ask her out. Don't write her a poem. Don't write her a note. Ask her out, no uncertain terms. If she don't want to go out with you, that ain't your soulmate. All right?
1:16:23🔗
Adam
Okay. Okay. So find yourself a nice woman. This could be her, but you don't know by writing her letters. Right.
1:16:33🔗
Drew
And also you have to be specific. Ask her like specifically. Like you want to go out Tuesday night at 8. Not just like I'd like to hang out with you. What does that mean?
1:16:41🔗
Adam
Yeah. I used to try to pull that move on chicks. I'd go, hey, I'd give real loose terms so they wouldn't back out. I'd go, hey, you want to, what about going out sometime, like some point, some indefinite time in the future? And they'd always be like, hey, yeah, sometime. I mean, not this month, right? No. Like sometime. And they'd go, yeah. And then I'd do it like stages, you know? And then I'd hit them up like a week later. Well, you know, how about that time is now, right? No.
1:17:13🔗
Adam
I'm not so sure this chick's interested in Sweet Lou. Lisa? I mean, sorry, Jim? Yes. You have a question for Lisa?
1:17:20🔗
Yes, I do.
1:17:22🔗
Lisa, I've lost many family members in my lifetime, but there's only one of them that I really need to feel validation or I really respect the opinion of. And I was wondering if maybe you could try and channel and find out maybe if that dominant person comes to the front and speaks.
1:17:35🔗
Drew
Okay. The first person that's coming through is a male and it's a male that is above you, which would either be either an older brother, father, grandfather, but it's the feeling of it's a, he's making himself like a very, not only strong force in your life, but a strong personality, like a very, there's like a solidity to him. I don't know if that makes sense to you. Does that make sense to you?
1:17:54🔗
No.
1:18:00🔗
No, I'm not trying to add to the stab there.
1:18:01🔗
Drew
No, just, can you listen? There's somebody coming through, there's a solidity, it's almost the feeling of like he is a sergeant. There's this kind of military or this kind of general, whatever he was like in charge of something. That's who's coming through. Just because you ask for someone doesn't mean they come through first, okay? Because the person coming through is above you, it feels like either father, grandfather, and he's giving me the feeling of like a very solid, either a general or some kind of, that kind of, whatever he did for a living was like either a general or a marshal or something that he was the head of.
1:18:30🔗
My grandfather was a drill instructor.
1:18:35🔗
It's not like he said, it's not who I was looking for. Exactly. What do you get?
1:18:38🔗
Adam
We get. Listen, let me tell you something about this psychic thing. It's like throwing spaghetti at the wall. You just see what sticks. You see what I'm saying? So your grandfather was a DI. Yeah. And he D.I.ed, right?
1:18:52🔗
Yes, he did.
1:18:54🔗
No, actually it was his wife, my grandmother.
1:18:57🔗
Drew
Okay, but so one person comes through first. He could give me a minute, then the other one comes through.
1:19:05🔗
She said you don't get who you want, but...
1:19:08🔗
If she could work on her and try and bring her, you know, tell grandpa to get the military and step aside and let her talk.
1:19:17🔗
Adam
No, the drill instructor with the grandpa was not bizarre, but at least warm. I mean, there was something there.
1:19:31🔗
Are you going to try it for grandma or not?
1:19:33🔗
Adam
No, I'm not trying for grandma. Yeah, she's going to try. Try for grandma. I'll take grandma for $400.
1:19:42🔗
You said if you give me a minute, even though he was first, he might come third.
1:19:45🔗
Adam
Well, she got grandma now. Well, actually, you gave her grandma, but now we're on grandma. Can you focus on grandma?
1:20:01🔗
Drew
You know what? You guys are missing the boat about what this is about. You don't understand?
1:20:05🔗
Well, I've been married for a while and my grandmother died before I got married. We have two children and things are pretty good. However, I just wanted to know her feelings on whether she was happy, I was with the right girl or no, this isn't the one you should have picked or.
1:20:22🔗
Adam, I'm talking to her about it.
1:20:24🔗
Drew
That's what she said. You know what I'm going to do for you, okay? Yeah. Just give me a call.
1:20:30🔗
What is your name?
1:20:31🔗
Jim.
1:20:31🔗
Drew
Jim, my number is 310-820-0711. Just tell my husband Satori, I told you to call me. I'm going to just do a ten minute free reading for you, so I don't have to make a bizarre thing, like a circus ring about your grandmother because this is important to you.
1:20:44🔗
310-8...
1:20:48🔗
Okay.
1:20:48🔗
Drew
Just tell Satori that I told you to call and I'll do ten minutes of free reading for you because he's going to make this into a circus and that's not what he deserves.
1:20:55🔗
Like sometimes through the week or...
1:20:59🔗
Okay.
1:21:00🔗
Adam. Hey, Jim.
1:21:02🔗
Adam, you were talking about Temptation Island again last night instead of the West Wing. What is going on here?
1:21:12🔗
West Wing is too heady for you?
1:21:17🔗
All right. Well, stick with your heroine island or whatever it is.
1:21:21🔗
Adam
Thank you. Well, listen, we got people from Temptation Island coming on tomorrow night and then I got my old friend Mark Wahlberg coming in here who hosts the show, so I got to kiss a little Temptation ass. There's nothing wrong with that. When someone from West Wing comes on here and Rob Lowe comes on here, I'll kiss some Rob Lowe ass and gladly. There was a guy I was going to do, that'd be the guy. Let's talk about me for a minute. You getting any vibes?
1:22:16🔗
Drew
Right now, what's speaking to me is he's speaking to me the whole time, something about you and writing some kind of comedy thing and something falling through with TV. Something with TV keeps about you falling through. Something is falling through.
1:22:32🔗
Adam
Listen. Listen. Any comedy writer I got to do is something fell through on TV. That's everyone in this town.
1:22:42🔗
Drew
No. It's not nothing ever fall through, but this is just what's coming up with you specifically.
1:22:56🔗
Drew
There's something that you were working on that, for Seinfeld, it didn't fall through. It went through.
1:23:08🔗
Drew
No. They're making it like pass. Like it just passed and there was something that fell through with TV.
1:23:12🔗
Yeah.
1:23:12🔗
Drew
Because right now, it's kind of like you're looking for the next thing. Not that this is not good enough.
1:23:15🔗
It is.
1:23:16🔗
Drew
But it's not what you're ultimately going to be doing. You're going to do something in addition to this that's, you know, I don't think it's not big, but bigger than this. Yeah.
1:23:27🔗
Adam
No, I do know what you're talking about. And it's a, you know, it's a, listen, it's a, it's a good bet, it's a safe bet to say something fell through, but nothing is falling through. But now you're down to six hours.
1:23:38🔗
Drew
It's not. So nothing's falling through. So you just told me that all the TV writers, there's, I mean, all comedians have something fall through, but you're telling me nothing fell through for you.
1:23:46🔗
Adam
Well, I got to tell you, and I don't want to dedicate the, well, we'll run long tonight, dedicate the rest of the show to me. In my career, I did Loveline, the TV show, which is now off the air, which ran for about four years on MTV, which about as long as anything runs on that network. That's, I haven't done that in over a year. That's nothing that fell through. Other than that, everything couldn't be going better. I'm working on, I just went back to work on 26 more man shows, and we got a movie thing going on, and there's nothing I'm aware of that fell through.
1:24:28🔗
Adam
You're down to 600. You want to go for 500? Whatever I want to do. You want to keep going, or we go over the phones?
1:24:42🔗
Don't throw it back on me.
1:24:43🔗
Drew
So you're telling me that you never wrote something? No. Okay, that's fine. So you can say no.
1:24:51🔗
Adam
I said it was an idea for a TV show. I didn't say you wrote it. I have never written an idea. You just said right. I have never written a concept or floated a concept for a TV show that I have not ended up doing. Now granted, I don't float too many concepts, so I got a good batting average, unlike yours, which is dropping right now. But no, nothing is falling through.
1:25:16🔗
Adam
Listen, it's like you're saying, you want to believe the Earth is round? Fine. No, it's not what I want to believe. It's a fact. There's nothing that is falling through.
1:25:24🔗
Drew
Okay, and I guarantee you tomorrow, I guarantee there's somebody who can say, do you remember the time you did this and this and this? There'll be somebody, I guarantee you, somebody will listen to this and know you, and we'll tell you that.
1:25:33🔗
Adam
All right. Anderson, you've been with me for a couple years now. Is there, have I ever spoke of any project that I thought I was doing?
1:25:43🔗
Adam
Oh, okay. I'm secretive. No, no, you're right. There's no project when I'm working on The Man Show. I'm writing a movie, but I'm done with the movie. And that's green-lighted, so we're doing it. All right. All right.
1:26:19🔗
Hello. This is Loveline.
1:26:25🔗
You're listening to Loveline.
1:26:28🔗
Bye-bye, I'm New Rock, 104.
1:26:43🔗
Adam
All right, it is Loveline. I'm Adam Carolla. That is Lisa Mateu. Lisa is a psychic spirit medium. She is author of Conversations with the Spirit World. And I was busting Lisa's chops. She's not here to pimp. And I'm saying, I'm saying to you, Listen, whether this book has anything worth reading or not, the point is, is that you wrote it. You want people to read it. It's not about getting ranch. It would be nice if you could cover the electric bill this month. But it's not about that. Give the number out. Let people get it and be enlightened. Right?
1:27:38🔗
Adam
All right. So let's talk to... You're exhausted, aren't you? Tired of me busting your balls?
1:27:46🔗
Adam
Well, listen, if you're on something, I'll say it and if you're off something, I'll say it. That's fine. That's my job.
1:27:52🔗
Drew
The thing of the psychic is that there are things that have not come to pass yet. So something's falling through and it's not like 10 years from now. It's like around now. So you can get back to me about that.
1:28:00🔗
Adam
All right. Well, you know, I'm not going to do it, but if it does fall through, here's what I'll do. I'll tell you what, because...
1:28:08🔗
Adam
No, no, no, I won't. Listen, I don't call anyone. I don't talk to anybody. I don't follow up with anything. But here's the deal. I really don't. I'm really super lazy. I got a thousand people I got to call back before I get to you and I won't get to them either.
1:28:23🔗
Adam
So here's the deal. If something falls through, like for instance, I was thinking while I was taking a leak, me and Jimmy are doing the Tonight Show. My partner and I, not Dr. I can't even remember his name, Dr. Who, over here, me and Jimmy Kimmel from the Man Show are doing the Tonight Show on Tuesday, or at least we're slated to do it on Tuesday. Now, there's a good, not a TV project, not a script, but there's an appearance. We could easily be bumped. They could easily call us Tuesday morning or Monday night and say, you know what, you guys aren't doing the show. That's something that could fall through.
1:29:14🔗
Drew
It could be a movie, but there's someone involved that has to do with TV. There's some TV connection with this whole thing, so I don't know what that is.
1:29:28🔗
Caller
Oh, I've been hearing like voices, like for like two days. Like yesterday and the day before, right?
1:29:38🔗
Caller
Yeah, like it's like calling my name, but I'm not sure if I'm just hearing voices like in my head. I'm imagining them or actually.
1:29:48🔗
Caller
No, they like woke me up. I was already sleeping when I, and then I woke me up and then I heard them sort of.
1:30:00🔗
Caller
They're just calling my name, like just to get my attention or something. It's really annoying.
1:30:18🔗
Adam
This is your natural pace? Don't do any weed. You'll come to complete stop and fall over.
1:30:25🔗
Okay.
1:30:26🔗
Adam
Listen, I can tell you that schizophrenia does heal a lot of males in their late teens, early twenties. And that's about hearing voices. You understand?
1:30:39🔗
Adam
I mean, listen, don't laugh. It's a serious thing. If you're hearing voices, if you're hearing voices, that could be schizophrenia. You understand?
1:30:59🔗
Adam
Well, it comes on to males or affects males more than females. I think females get it too, but it seems most of them are males. And it hits them at 18, 19, 20. They start hearing voices and then it starts progressing. I'm saying maybe you should go to a doctor, psychiatrist and get yourself checked out.
1:31:22🔗
Caller
I told him he thinks like... I don't know. He doesn't know what it is. He thinks I'm just making it up or whatever. He doesn't believe me or something.
1:31:39🔗
Adam
All right. Well, listen, do me a favor. If it happens again, tell him that you have to talk about it. You have to deal with it. You have to see a specialist if possible, because if you're hearing voices, that's something that's what it could be. All right. Let's see. Let's take a little psychic related question. Carissa?
1:32:03🔗
Caller
I met a guy a couple of weeks ago that it seems that we really get along when we're together, and to me, I feel like we have a connection as we're...
1:32:17🔗
Drew
Yeah, he's backing away. I mean, he's holding himself back more than backing away, but he's holding himself back from you.
1:32:26🔗
Drew
No, I'm not kidding that he's got a girlfriend, but I'm just kidding that he's got a standstill, so what that does is make you want more and go more forward as far as him being on your mind. So what you need to do is kind of chill out about this because he's not going to come out of his, quote, shell. If you're sending so much energy to him, like, you want him, you want him, you want him, it's borderline like obsessive in your mind. Okay. And so you need to, because he gets your energy, so he's not going to come towards that.
1:33:05🔗
Drew
Don't, you know, dump him. I honestly dump him. He's out with, and I hate these kind of questions, but...
1:33:10🔗
Caller
No, no, no. See, we have a daughter together, and I don't know where him and his daughter stand.
1:33:17🔗
Caller
Yeah, because he'll come and see her. Maybe, I don't know, like this week, it was three times a week, he was down three times.
1:33:26🔗
Adam
All right, baby. Listen, we got to go to break, but let me tell you something right now. You got to be mama. You got to be super mama. Do you understand? You cannot get pregnant again. Do you hear me?
1:33:38🔗
Adam
I want you on ten different kinds of birth control. I want cement dumped in your vagina. Do you hear me? No more kids. Now, as far as this guy, this guy's an idiot. This is why you don't get pregnant at 16 and a half or 17. You understand? I don't trust this idiot as far as I can throw him. Okay, here's my point. You focus on being a great mother to this child. If this guy is in your life, in the child's life, then he is. But you can't yo-yo with this guy. He's got to either be daddy or he's out. And if he's out, he has to give you support.
1:34:11🔗
Adam
He needs to give you financial support, and you need to contact the court system to get this son of a bitch at doing it. And listen, all you idiots out there, you knock someone up, you pay. I'm not paying for it. Idiots. Take a break.
1:34:31🔗
Loveline, with Dr. Drew and Adam Corolla on New Rock 104.
1:34:56🔗
Adam
I think Lysa Mateu and I have made a piece, back on a good psychic side. And for that, I'll give her one more plug. It's Conversations with the Spirit World. Lysa Mateu is the author, and if you look her up on this website, www.channelingspirits.com. Thank you. You can find out more about the book and make yourself an appointment for reading, right?
1:35:25🔗
Adam
Good times. Tomorrow night, we have some folks from Temptation Island. Until next time, this is Adam Carolla for Lysa Mateu saying Mahalo.
1:35:34🔗
Caller
This has been Loveline. The opinions expressed on this show are not necessarily those of the staff, management, sponsors or this station. The producer for Loveline is Ann Wilkins Engel. Loveline is a presentation of Westwood One Entertainment.