1:06🔗
Adam
Hey, this is Loveline. I'm Adam Corolla. That is Dr. Drew. Phone number 1-800-LVE-191. Facts number 310-854-4455. Dr. Drew is a board certified physician and addiction medicine specialist. I get the phone number, I get the facts number.
1:27🔗
Why?
1:28🔗
Adam
Well, I don't know. Actually, I'm just making excuses for my poor execution of the show, five seconds into it. Our Lady Peace is our guest tonight. Jeremy and Rain are both here from the band. I thought these guys were on eight or nine months ago. So I thought too. Turns out they were two years ago?
1:46🔗
Oh boy.
1:49🔗
I don't know.
2:00🔗
You guys are getting old.
2:08🔗
Adam
Yeah. I think when you get older you try to slow down events because then it seems like you're not getting as old as fast. You know what I'm saying?
2:18🔗
Adam
I think that's what our attempt is. Anyway, Our Lady Peace is currently touring with Creed, who I know was in here seven or eight months ago. Perhaps.
2:35🔗
Oh, they've got fat.
2:39🔗
It's all that catering.
2:47🔗
They're the rock band of.
2:51🔗
Adam
Our Lady Peace will be playing with Creed, by the way, at the Palladium tomorrow night. And I guess that's the Hollywood Palladium. Also, they'll be in San Diego on Thursday night. And what the.
3:08🔗
Adam
We'll get the whole breakdown and we'll let the folks know where you're going and when you're going to be there. And where are you guys from? Because I feel like it's somewhere other than here.
3:22🔗
No, no.
3:33🔗
You sound like you're from Buffalo, though.
3:38🔗
Really?
3:38🔗
Adam
I just have a deviated septum. Let me tell you the big problem with the deviated septum. You breathe through your mouth, not through your mouth.
3:46🔗
I have that. Yeah.
3:51🔗
I can't say I drool. I've started to drool.
3:55🔗
It's affected me a little bit later in life, I think.
3:59🔗
Breathing around here is not too good. But I woke up this morning on a bus and I couldn't breathe.
4:08🔗
We arrived at that hotel, but I got up on the bus and I didn't breathe so well.
4:13🔗
Adam
It's funny, you pull into a hotel and someone goes, wake up, it's time to go to bed. And that's how it works, right?
4:20🔗
Pretty much.
4:21🔗
Adam
They just like roused you. You walk through the lobby with an erection and a pair of bunny slippers, stagger in your room and go back to bed. Is there anything worse really than when your clock gets screwed up? I mean, haven't you guys?
4:38🔗
No, because then you sleep longer. I mean, through North America, it's not that bad.
4:48🔗
You don't even realize, you know, you kind of just go and our tour manager tells us where we are and what time it is and you just don't even pay attention to it.
4:56🔗
Adam
And do you find that after two months and X amount of gigs, you're somewhere and you're thinking about the last two months and you don't remember that much of it?
5:07🔗
Yeah.
5:09🔗
Except all of a sudden I've done like a AT&T commercial. You know, in a-
5:16🔗
I don't remember.
5:19🔗
You know what? It's funny. It really gets me off after a show. That's a good bit.
5:24🔗
Very, very funny.
5:31🔗
I don't even get it.
5:35🔗
Adam
Yeah. I originally, I said rape, but they toned that down, Drew. They didn't think that'd go well. Corporate America is not in it.
5:44🔗
That's what we're having trouble.
5:46🔗
Adam
All right. So Our Lady Peace is our guest. We'll hear something off of Happiness, which is their CD, and we'll take some calls and then we'll get to some music. Ron?
5:58🔗
Yeah. How are you doing?
6:02🔗
Caller
I can't get my girlfriend to orgasm. We have not had it in our course. She's not ready for that, and I have tried finger stimulation. I have done oral stimulation on her, and she just, I don't know if I'm not doing something right.
6:21🔗
Adam
Not now while he's doing it. It's another place where the deviated septum hurts me, by the way, is the oral. It's like I'm like a whale. Like every three minutes I got to come up for a big shot of air, you know? I'm just down there, and then it's like, I'm going back down again.
6:39🔗
Yeah.
6:42🔗
Caller
Yeah, I've asked her. I'm like, just tell me what you like. And she says, yeah, it feels good.
7:01🔗
Adam
Hey, Ron? Yeah, here's the problem, as I see it. She's a little unsure of herself. She hasn't had the orgasm before. You're pushing on her a little bit. Right. You're working, you're going double time. And instead of doing that, you ought to just back off and mellow out a little bit. You know what I mean? Slow down the pace.
7:36🔗
Drew
But also focus more on the relationship and that will create a place that oftentimes helps the physiology.
7:44🔗
Adam
Yeah, I mean, when men try to get women to have, first off, it never seems to work when the guy is really trying to have an orgasm for both of them.
7:58🔗
Adam
Sports center is starting in a minute, Sonny. I just want to know where you're at with the orgasm. We say halfway home or, you know, give me a countdown. And not only that, but they pushed you hard. And I think what men got to do is just sort of slow it down, relax, get a little rhythmic and don't, don't pick up the pace if you're not getting the desired results. That's what I'm saying.
8:23🔗
You're 23.
8:25🔗
Caller
Yeah. I've been taking Percocet pain pills and every time I've tried to have sex, when I take the pills, I can't get an erection.
8:39🔗
Caller
And my girlfriend's thinking it's her, but I've tried to explain to her that, what's the best way to explain it? Why are you taking...
8:52🔗
Caller
My back. I have two herniated discs. And just to stay on tour and stay on the road. I was getting epidurals and then taking a lot of Percocet, like seven or eight Percocet a day to kind of just stay on the road. And it killed my voice, because it just obviously dries you out, right? It sucks all the fluid out of your body. And obviously that kind of basically limits your sex life.
9:21🔗
Drew
Yeah, some medicines just dry certain people out. I mean, that could be a potential side effect. It's not specifically dehydrating, but people can have a sense of being dry.
9:39🔗
Drew
Why don't you deal with the addiction? You're beginning to have consequences of addiction. This is just the beginning, okay? It's a very, very difficult habit to stop. Shane? It is opiates. It's the same chemical as heroin basically.
10:02🔗
Drew
Well, start talking to some doctors about it and see if you can get yourself some help with this, because this is something you can't stop by yourself.
10:12🔗
Drew
Well, the reason you get painful muscle spasm is because you're withdrawing from Percocet. The withdrawal from Percocet takes about five to seven days, and it is incredibly painful.
10:25🔗
Caller
Yeah, I had it. Yeah, but I, you know, I took it for about five months. And, I mean, you know, it's just you deal with the pain, and the back pain I got was sometimes so severe that I couldn't even walk. So you just end up on Percocet, and it's just, I guess what you're saying, it is like an opiate. You feel high.
10:47🔗
Caller
Basically, I just stopped, like pretty much cold, because it wasn't doing any good, and it was killing, it was seriously killing my throat, which was the worst. Obviously, you can't be on tour when you can't sing, so I didn't have a choice.
10:59🔗
Drew
So you see, the interesting example, the difference between addiction and dependency. You can get dependent on a drug, have withdrawal, but if you're an addict, and have all the syndrome of pain reward systems and everything, but addict can't stop. That's the difference. You don't stop.
11:15🔗
Caller
I mean, my pain was my back, and I got off the drugs and just went and tried to fix my back. That's what obviously have to get to the root of the problem.
11:25🔗
Drew
But if you're an addict, you're not an addict. The point is, if you're an addict, you ain't stopping. There's no way you can't. Once that biology has been activated, you can't stop.
11:37🔗
Drew
And you had withdrawal and you stopped. But an addict cannot stop. That's what makes addict addict. They can't. It just keeps coming.
11:44🔗
Adam
What Drew is saying is you didn't have the predisposition to be an addict. Although you are in a band. Eventually, if you tour long enough, can't you just acquire that addict gene from sleeping on a bus next to addicts? You guys sharing the same toothbrush or something?
12:01🔗
Our Lady Peace
I asked my girlfriend to drive our bed around. For several hours, I can't sleep.
12:08🔗
Megan.
12:10🔗
Yeah?
12:11🔗
Caller
Yes. What's up? I have a question about... I'm a lesbian. I had a discussion with one of my friends about him possibly donating some sperm later on down the line. However, he's done lots of ecstasy and acid and a bunch of things like... He's done some speed and things like that. I was wondering what kind of effects it would have later on on the child that we might have later.
12:47🔗
Adam
Well, to me, it's not so much that the sperm has gone bad, but you're getting sperm from an addict. That's the real problem. What's that?
13:01🔗
Adam
This kid's gonna have an addict's sperm coursing through him. Two mommies. Come on. This kid's gonna be junky by his fifth birthday. Believe me.
13:11🔗
Adam
You need to find some good pristine sperm like Drew's. Lily White, freshest sperm in the snow. Beautiful sperm, that Drew has.
13:34🔗
Oh, really?
13:39🔗
Adam
It smells of fresh-cut pine, too, for a sperm. It's not that odorous stuff that's coming out of it.
13:52🔗
Drew
Not per se. Although, interestingly, if there is chromosomal damage from some of these hallucinogens, you just won't get pregnant. And I don't know that there's really good evidence to suggest that happens. The only thing I've seen some reasonable data about is pot possibly causing an increased risk of orthopedic disturbances, like extra fingers and that kind of thing, even several months after the dad smoked pot.
14:19🔗
Adam
I said that to Drew a hundred times. If having four fingers is real misery and five is good, isn't six better?
14:30🔗
Adam
And there you go. She's probably camped in the swim team, right? Seven fingers. First off, you know what kind of banjo you could pick with six fingers?
14:39🔗
Absolutely.
14:39🔗
Adam
A piano playing. Roy Clark would just break down crying if he saw a guy with six fingers picking away.
14:45🔗
All right.
14:47🔗
Adam
I'm not sure when Megan's going to start her fertility campaign, but I'm hoping she gives it just a couple more years. And that's expensive, isn't it?
15:04🔗
Drew
But I imagine the storage of the sperm is less expensive than the whole fertilization procedure. Are they going to harvest eggs, or are they going to just do repeated implantation of sperm? What are they going to do?
15:26🔗
Adam
Do you think they could get my whole hamper into that cooler, or would I have to just pull out one sock as a specimen?
15:34🔗
Drew
You know, have you ever seen how when you put things in liquid nitrogen, they become solid? Like you put at least a piece of lettuce in, and you drop it, it's like breaking glass.
15:45🔗
Adam
As it is, I'm serious. To get my sock, to get like a tube sock, an athletic sock into my hamper, I have to lay it across the top flat, and then drop down on it with an elbow, like a wrestling move. I actually get up on top of my vanity, and I'll drop down, and I'll let a pretty good key eye go. You would get a lot of holes through it, and it'll just snap in half, and go down into the hamper.
16:21🔗
Yeah.
16:34🔗
Drew
Patient I hadn't talked to for a while, he goes, your partner really outdone himself. When you could have an appearance on that show. Oh, guys.
16:42🔗
Adam
Drew is on The Man Show playing the part of the proctologist in episodes coming up, so don't you worry. Also, by the way, The Man Show tomorrow night, Wednesday night on Comedy Central, that's tonight to everyone who's listening to us.
16:57🔗
Where?
17:02🔗
All right.
17:02🔗
Adam
And also, me and my handsome partner, Jimmy Kimmel, will be on the Kill Born Show tonight at about 12.30 out here.
17:14🔗
Go ahead.
17:16🔗
Caller
I like this girl a lot, but I have no idea how to approach her or tell her that I like her or even start a conversation that would even swing towards that direction.
17:43🔗
Drew
Could you ask her maybe direct a conversation towards a movie that's playing and throw a CD? Maybe ask her, you know, would you like to go see that and let's meet and what do you think? Take a risk.
17:55🔗
Caller
The thing is that like I can't just go out of the blue and go, hey, do you want to do this?
18:08🔗
Adam
You know, the problem with being 15 is you're trying to figure out a way to ask a girl out without her knowing you've asked her out, which is a fundamental problem.
18:18🔗
Drew
It's literally like trying to play a piano piece without ever having to play the piano. You know, you don't have the facility for it.
18:26🔗
Adam
Yeah. Eventually, then you have to move on to step two, which is I got to figure out a way to have sex with her without her knowing I'm having sex with her, which is only happened to me a handful of times. But here's the deal. And what Jason is saying is, is we're saying, well, why don't you just go up and ask her if she wants to go to this movie? And his point is, is I can't do that. She'll know I'm asking her out.
18:49🔗
Adam
But our point is, is gents, ladies, especially when they're 15, 16, 14, whatever, they're prepared for guys to ask them out. They may not be excited about you asking them out, but they will not be offended in general over you asking them out. It's sort of like you walking into a car dealership and offering less than the guy wants to take. He's not going to chase you out, throw a chair at you. You just may not get the car. But he's not going to be offended to see you walking into the showroom and poke around a little bit, kick the tires as it were. So guys need to know this. I mean, I wish someone would have sort of pulled me aside when I was 15, 16, and said, listen, women expect to be asked out. Go ahead and ask them out. Don't creep them out, but ask them out. If they don't want to go, they'll tell you.
19:46🔗
Drew
You really, you just don't, you know, it's like trying to do an acrobatic act or something. You don't know. You can't do it.
19:52🔗
Adam
It's tough. Just go up to her, start making some conversation and work a popular movie that was just released into the conversation. This is my ploy. I wish I would have known it when I was 15. Basically, here it is. If you say to a chick, hey, have you seen that? I've heard that being John Malkovich was maybe a little heady for 15.
20:27🔗
Adam
Okay. Let's just go Fight Club for the sake of argument. If you go up to a chick, I don't care what age you are or she is, and you go, hey, man, I've been hearing some good things about that Fight Club, and she says, I haven't heard anything good about it, and I don't like Brad Pitt. She don't want to go on a date with you. Stop. Right there. She's stopping you. She's saying do not pass go.
20:52🔗
Adam
If she says, yeah, I've heard some pretty cool things. Some of my friends have seen it. I haven't seen it yet, but I've heard some pretty cool things about it. You're in.
21:00🔗
Adam
That's it. She wants, she is opening the guard gate and letting you ride in. So bring a movie up, bring a new one up, and see what she says about it until you'll know. Joshua?
21:23🔗
Adam
Well, you fall asleep, then somewhere between the time you nod off and the time you get up in the morning, you've gone somewhere. You've gone somewhere.
21:30🔗
Caller
No, okay. It's just like I fall asleep and my mom tells me that I walk around the house just yelling. I make threats towards people. Oh boy. I just like blabber about nothing.
21:52🔗
That's my brother.
21:53🔗
Caller
I said, is he dead? I just like so like freaked out about that. She said, and I was talking, I was like yelling at her.
22:01🔗
Drew
Well, look, usually those sorts of sleep disturbances fall into two sort of broad categories. One is that there's some biological problem, like these are sort of seizure type phenomenons or this is the residual some trauma or stress in your life. Something happened, were you beaten or anything like that or saw something awful happen?
22:42🔗
Adam
You know what I'd have? If I was her mom, if I was Jonathan's mom, I'd have one of those beanbag guns that the SWAT team uses. You don't want to kill your kid. You don't put like a round in his forehead, but you like to knock him down if he came at you. You know what I mean? They just shoot that beanbag they used to use in that toss-a-cross game. Pow! Right in the chest. Just knock him back, wake him up. You know. Come on.
23:08🔗
Adam
Yeah. It's not... Hey, listen. I would put a little $5 barrel bolt on my door because if there were someone who didn't know what they were doing and had a lot of rage and walked around at night and could pick up a candlestick and go upside my head with it, I would put a little lock on my door.
23:27🔗
Drew
The funny thing in this country, they have a grave misconception about what young people need when they're disturbed. As though they need to warm and fuzzy and just love them and make them feel warm.
23:36🔗
Drew
You need to be present. You need to be caring. But you may need to shoot a bullet. You definitely have a lock and you need to get structure for them and help them.
24:47🔗
Adam
All right, Joshua, really look into it, because I mean, you don't want to wake up drinking bleach.
24:57🔗
Adam
Well, I don't know. His dad's been gone. He never knew his dad, so I'm sure things were less than perfect at home. But anytime you wake up drinking bleach, it's a bad thing. Jeremy's just infinitely entertained by the consumption of bleach by our poor listeners. And let's just hope he wasn't watching any colors in his stomach while he drank that bleach.
25:18🔗
Drew
And again, night terrors have lots of different causes, but there is some major, major stress that's what triggers them off, unless there's some biological events.
25:27🔗
Adam
We're going to take ourselves a little break. Our Lady Peace is here. We'll hear something from them when we come back.
25:32🔗
You have five seconds.
26:05🔗
Adam
It is Loveline. I'm Adam Corolla. That is Dr. Drew. Our Lady Peace is our guest tonight. Bruno Campos, the good looking guy from Jesse's, in here tomorrow night. And then real funny comedian Robert Schimel will be in here on Thursday night. We have Rain and Jeremy from the band. I think we'll take a call, and then we'll hear something off the CD. And it's back to the phones. We go, Jennifer?
26:34🔗
Caller
Hi, Rain. Hi, Jeremy. I met you about a month ago or a month and a half ago in Toronto. I'm calling from San Diego, but I used to live in Toronto. I just moved here. Aren't you lucky?
26:52🔗
Caller
Yeah. I'll be at the LA Show tomorrow on the San Diego Show on Thursday. Excellent. Yeah. I just want to say I love happiness. I've had it in my CD player ever since I got it, basically.
27:02🔗
Caller
But I'm just wondering, would you ever consider adding Weighted back on to your setlist? Because I totally love that song.
28:26🔗
Drew
I'm really interested in these protein kinases because they figure in addiction real prominently.
28:31🔗
Drew
Yeah, there's several of them that they think changes in response to chronic exposure to excessive dopamine stimulation.
28:59🔗
See ya.
29:02🔗
Adam
Wow. What the hell? Some people are so... It's like taking five people and shoving it into one. You know what I mean? Pretty much, yeah. I never really thought about this, but I'm stumbling onto this theory. There's some people that's... It's like they're five or six people and they got crammed into one body.
29:22🔗
Adam
And then there's a lot of people, like people I grew up with in North Hollywood, were like one third of a person in a 300 pound body. You know what I mean? I mean, if you really look at certain people...
29:33🔗
Drew
That's not a bad thing. There's something to that. It's a matter of brain development. I mean, the brain developed or it's not.
29:38🔗
Adam
And it's like, but it's almost like the guy. And I know a lot of these guys, they're still living in North Hollywood. They got into construction, you know, 15 years ago. They're still drinking the six pack after work. And they're trying to get a used jet ski. That's like the big, you know, that's the big, that's the 10 year plan.
29:56🔗
Adam
And the thing is, it's almost like they should sue these people that have five in them because someone took like seven-eighths of them.
30:04🔗
Adam
And it's like, I'll take half of you and half of you and half of you and I'll just collect it for myself.
30:12🔗
Our Lady Peace
Yeah, and it's a simple life, man. They got it easy. They don't have to wake up and think of it.
30:36🔗
Adam
I want to just cut into the roast for one second so we can play Our Lady Peace song, if that's okay. Is that all right with you guys?
30:45🔗
Adam
Ah, The Man Show. Yeah, that's going to be on right now, if you're listening on the other side of the Mississippi. We are going to hear something from Our Lady Peace, and this one is called One Man Army.
34:07🔗
Adam
All right, One Man Army from Our Lady Peace off of Happiness is Not a Fish You Can Catch. Very philosophical. And is that, is that something, did you make that up or is that a mean key?
34:40🔗
Hi.
34:41🔗
Caller
Well, my problem is basically me and my girlfriend have been going out for almost three months now. And about a month ago, we tried having sex. And we're both virgins. And I didn't really get it in at all because it hurt too much for her. And so we stopped. And then just last week, we tried it again. And I bought like KY lubricant, you know, because I heard like, I don't know, that would make it easier or whatever. And I got in like maybe like half an inch, an inch, like the end or whatever. And it hurt way too much. We had to stop.
35:19🔗
Caller
No, she wasn't bleeding, but it was, I could tell that it was really, really painful for her.
35:46🔗
Adam
When I get a lady who's having pain with the, with the index finger, I always say, don't worry, the penis will be there in a minute, shh, don't worry, it'll get better.
35:55🔗
That's right.
36:17🔗
Drew
Either, well, she's, either she's very nervous and it's causing a muscle spasm down there.
36:22🔗
Caller
Yeah, cause she said, like, the first time that we tried it, she said, like, she didn't know what was going on. Like, she just tightened up.
36:43🔗
Drew
It was helpful in the whole process, but it's not making her feel at ease and comfortable with the whole process. She may not be ready to have sex yet.
36:49🔗
Adam
Well, the tube may not be the desired, um, container. You may need the Duncan tub, which is different.
36:57🔗
Our Lady Peace
It's gotta get that cape out of the closet and do some of the Casanova dancing.
37:07🔗
Caller
All right. But, like, do you think it makes a difference that we waited three weeks from the first time? Because she said something like, like maybe next time we should try it a little sooner and maybe it'd be like a little, I don't know, like, like more broken in almost.
37:38🔗
Adam
What about, what about like taking like a hot bath and having a little, little 16 shot of cooking sherry or something before you get into the, into the sack?
37:52🔗
Adam
You know what I mean? It's just sort of having to loosen you up because you will. Women, when they get tense, the vagina, it cinches clothes, like like you're pulling on the hood of a sweatshirt. You know, you put like sweatshirt over your head, and you start yanking the string and eventually you can't see.
38:17🔗
Adam
That's right. All right. We'll take a little break. Our Lady Peace is our guest. We haven't seen them in either eight months or two years, depending on who you believe. And we'll be back with more of the show after this.
39:01🔗
All right.
39:02🔗
Adam
Our Lady Peace is here tonight. We have Rain and Jeremy from the band. They will be at the Palladium. That is tomorrow night, right? Boys with Creed, and then Thursday, they'll be out San Diego Way, and then we'll get some more locations. As a matter of fact, if...
39:55🔗
Caller
Well, we've directed our own videos before. Unfortunately, it's just kind of out of our hands now where we try to trust other people in terms of like big budget videos.
40:11🔗
Caller
No, you know what it is really. It's the stuff that we've done. There's a character that exists in our record covers that each album we kind of try to bring to life and it doesn't really make for a specific video for a song.
40:27🔗
Caller
It's more of like a thematic thing behind the music on a live show. We just haven't had time to do it yet because we kind of made the record and then started touring with Creed on this tour right away. So as soon as we get home off this tour, before we go to the UK, we're going to do a couple shorts and then over Christmas do a couple more shorts. By the time we get the tour together to come back down to America in January and our Canadian tour, there'll be this kind of, it's just like an added dimension to the music really that, I mean, not that we're incredible directors, but it's just another avenue. It's just a different media to express ourselves and it's kind of, it's exciting in that sense.
41:26🔗
Caller
And in the middle of, like, well, after, like, a couple minutes, like 10, 15 minutes, she asked me how much I loved her. And I kind of asked her, you know, what do you mean? And I just kept asking her why she asked me that.
41:45🔗
Caller
And she kept asking me if I loved her. And I said, of course I love you. I love you very much.
42:12🔗
Caller
Right after I said that she gave me that look like, you know, you're in trouble or I did something. And then she said that she didn't love me.
42:33🔗
Caller
No. I stopped. I got off of her. I sat at the end of the bed looking at her. And I asked her, you know, why did you do that? And then she simply told me that she did it because she wanted to get a reaction like that I would do more aggressively, more violent. And she said that because she wanted it that way.
43:05🔗
Adam
This ain't Canada. You cannot use the F word. Even if you're using it as just a description, I believe, Drew. Is that right?
43:19🔗
Adam
What if he is quoting, though, something that his girlfriend says? Is he allowed to say that?
43:40🔗
Adam
It's weird when you sulk with an erection. You know what I mean? It's not dignified. It really isn't. All right. Jason? Yeah. This gal may not be marriage material. Why don't you just call her on it? Why don't you just ask her, hey, what's up with that?
43:59🔗
Adam
Okay. You do what I do. You put the pillow over their head when you're having sex with them.
44:05🔗
Adam
You got to pull it off every three to five minutes. I'm going to go up there and then the pillow goes right back on. Although wait a minute, three to five minutes.
44:25🔗
Yeah.
44:27🔗
Caller
Yeah. What's up? Back in February, I had my tubes tied. Nice. I wasn't supposed to have sex for six weeks afterwards, but I ended up having sex two weeks afterwards. I was just wondering if there's any possible way of me becoming pregnant because of that.
45:13🔗
Drew
I'm not sure though that that significantly changes the risk of pregnancy to being in six weeks.
45:20🔗
Adam
Let me say what I know about doctors. If they say like, you know, stay off it for six weeks, really what they mean is stay off it for three weeks.
45:32🔗
Adam
Plus, they know if someone's got to get their tubes tied, they have a little difficulty keeping the penis out of them. And so they're going to go ahead and pad that figure, knowing, knowing full well that you'll probably be back in action 10, you know, 14 days down the road.
46:23🔗
Adam
No, I don't think she wants to know that. That's the way it's sounding. But what she's saying is, I shouldn't have let him walk on the floors before the varnish had dried, and now I've screwed it up.
46:41🔗
Adam
Yeah, no, she did. She misworded her question. But what her question is, and Monica, you stop me if I'm wrong, you want to know if you could have jeopardized this procedure by having sex too quickly?
46:54🔗
Adam
No, I don't understand why you would. I think really what they're telling you to do is to stay off the vagina for a couple of weeks and not jostle things down there. But in terms of what you would do to that area that was tied and cauterized, you couldn't really do anything to that area.
47:11🔗
Drew
I suppose you could increase the risk of infection and bleeding and that sort of thing, but that's all long gone.
47:15🔗
Adam
Would it be by like stimulating it and bringing blood to that area or something like that?
47:24🔗
Adam
I understand. Yes, those penises can be fairly persuasive, I'll tell you. Usually I say no, but the constant prodding?
47:37🔗
Adam
It's more of a nudge than it is a prod. Drew, you're so right about that. All right, Our Lady Peace is here. I think we may have offended their delicate sensibilities on that last round of calls. We're going to see if we can't win them over during the commercial break and we'll do that. We'll be back after this. Hey, it's Loveline. We're going to take a quick 10-second timeout. We'll be back with more of the show in just 10 seconds.
48:29🔗
This is Loveline on Radio Station.
48:43🔗
Adam
It is Loveline, I'm Adam Corolla, that is Dr. Drew, Our Lady Peace is our guest. Happiness is Not a Fish You Can Catch is the name of the latest CD. Rain and Jeremy are both here. They'll be at the Palladium tonight, sorry, tomorrow night, and then they'll be in San Diego on Thursday. Vegas.
49:26🔗
Drew
We have a question up here which is, when are we headlining your own tour? So part of this is your own tour?
49:43🔗
Yeah.
49:48🔗
Caller
Well, I've been smoking for about 10 years and I'm wanting to quit and when I do stop smoking, I'm okay for about the first day or so. But after that, I start getting kind of edgy when stressful situations come up.
50:15🔗
All right.
50:20🔗
Drew
I'm not quite sure I understand what the problem is with you. So because you become irritable, you start smoking again?
50:27🔗
Caller
It's like a, it's. The thing where when I start getting stressed out, I can just go have a cigarette. It's a way to separate myself from the stress.
50:40🔗
Drew
So you're using it as a way as a regular, what we call regulate affect, way to manage feelings.
51:00🔗
Our Lady Peace
A friend of ours, a girlfriend took it and she was in the hospital like two weeks into it. Like what? Severe. She was just like, I don't know exactly what, but it was from, there was like three pages of side effects that came with the drug.
51:21🔗
Drew
Well, usually headache and sleeplessness and sometimes elevated levels of anxiety, they go away after about a week in terms of severe reaction.
51:34🔗
Drew
No, it would counteract as much as it makes things less difficult to handle. So although your anxiety and things might be, it's more like being sped up than anxious. And the cravings tend to diminish and the drive to reduce. And it really makes sense, given how we understand the biology of the work.
51:55🔗
Drew
Yeah, and then also use nicotine replacement products. Use gum, use the patches, and it won't be cerebral.
52:01🔗
Adam
Let me ask you something here, Drew. Something that I object to in our society, I don't know if they do this in Canada, but we advertise more and more substances on television, more of these medications, stuff for prescriptions.
52:29🔗
Adam
I'd like to be on some of them. Hey, I see some chicks snowboarding through a field of corn. I want in, you understand? I don't know what this goddamn stuff is.
52:39🔗
Caller
But it's the same with that weight loss stuff. They prescribe it for people that are 30 or more pounds over weight. But the majority of people that are going to take it are probably 8 or 7 pounds over weight and are going to be anorexic.
52:51🔗
Adam
Well, the first thing they do is they don't tell you what this stuff is for. I know it's called wellbutrin or welladjust. What is this stuff where the...
53:01🔗
Adam
Claritin. I didn't know what claritin was. They don't say what it's for. They just show a guy snowboarding through some wheat. And I think, I want some of this claritin in my underpants. I'm on my sofa.
53:16🔗
Adam
Well, now I know. Yeah. But then I just like, hey, listen, I'm in the snowboarding. I like the outdoors. I like wheat. I'm wearing a bathrobe now. It's four in the afternoon. I'm sitting on my sofa. I want to get some of this claritin and do some snowboarding. So A, you should say what the stuff is for. Because I thought it was some kind of...
53:45🔗
Adam
Yeah, and that's it. You're still in your bathrobe on your sofa. And number two. So I want them to say what the stuff is for right at the top. And number two, I do not need the long list of potentially dangerous side effects to be given during the commercial. Because I'm not buying this stuff. When I do buy it, then you can give me the list of side effects.
54:09🔗
Caller
Why waste your time going to the store when there's all these... I mean, like FenFen, now there's this new one that I'm sure it probably has an equal amount, just different side effects, right?
54:35🔗
Adam
And the guy comes at the end, they go, can be associated with headaches, water retention, and oily anal discharge, you know?
54:53🔗
Adam
Like the Valdez went down in Popper's Crapper. Which would be a good name for a band, by the way. But the point is, is I don't need them to go through every possible side effect during the commercial. Just list the product, and then you can tell me about it. I know it, but listen, you can advertise a car and not explain that there's the possibility of you being side-swiped by an alcoholic on your way home, or that you may roll it when you're coming down.
55:26🔗
Adam
I'm saying, I'm not buying the product. If I do buy the product, then tell me, or if I go in to buy the product, then explain to me the dangers associated with the product.
55:36🔗
Caller
Wouldn't you be offended that that's a waste of your time? Because you buy in to the commercial, you end up at the store, and you've spent that hour going in the store, and all of a sudden you realize that, you know what, I'm not going to buy this. I'm an idiot if I buy in to this.
55:47🔗
Adam
I think people who need a certain medication take that certain medication, you know, regardless of the side effects, if they truly need it, whether it's the Claridin or the Fant Blocker, and those who don't need it, well, then it's kind of moot. You know what I'm saying? I mean, Drew, has, once you take it, then you can learn about the side effects. I'm just saying, I don't want to hear about the oily anal discharge while I'm eating a TV dinner.
56:10🔗
Drew
It's all based on legalities, and whenever you talk about health care, the legality sort of card is huge.
56:16🔗
Our Lady Peace
They just come up with it and two weeks later it's on the market. That's the beauty of America. In Canada, you gotta wait about five hours.
56:23🔗
Drew
No, no, wait a minute. In this country, the FDA was the slowest in the world, and there was this huge backlash against it over the last couple years. They were forcing them to release stuff quicker against their...
56:34🔗
Caller
Isn't that just corporate America putting the fist down, saying, you know what, we gotta make money off this stuff?
56:39🔗
Drew
It was mostly the AIDS lobby group that really pushed things along. It was all about AIDS, drugs not coming out fast enough.
56:49🔗
Drew
Corporate America is disturbed about it because they think they're gonna suck up the liability for all this.
57:03🔗
Good.
57:20🔗
Caller
We'll go with broken. All right, my question to you is, how do I bring myself to leave her? I mean, she's a good person, she's a phenomenal girl, and she's got a little touch of OCD, but other than that, I feel guilty, it's a guilt factor.
58:04🔗
Caller
Well, I feel like a scumbag if I leave her, you know? I mean, we've been through a lot together.
58:10🔗
Drew
Oh, well, the witch is a bigger scumbag. It's a stringer along. Not knowing that you're not into her just out of sympathy and not knowing you're not going to marry her or being honest with her or being honest with her about your real feelings are, even no matter how painful that's going to be to you.
58:39🔗
Adam
Nick, you're a quality individual. That's obviously a man of discerning taste. And I'm sure you met her when you were what, 19 or 20?
59:34🔗
Adam
Boy. Hey, Nick. Yeah. You're just going to have to break it off. And it's not going to be too tough because you're not married, you don't have any kids. I feel like I'm married. You're not living together. Well, let me explain something. Married people live with each other and they see each other all the time. You guys see each other once a week.
59:52🔗
Drew
And recognize you're not so much protecting her as protecting yourself from the experience of watching her have pain.
59:59🔗
Adam
Right. And Nick, I don't know how to say this, but you're not that great a guy. She'll be fine. She'll get right over you. I'm sure she's seeing somebody else now.
1:00:15🔗
Hello?
1:00:18🔗
Caller
All right. My twin sister came over to me about a week ago and she asked me to have a threesome with her boyfriend.
1:00:28🔗
Adam
These are the kind of calls I wait for. This is what keeps me coming back every night. Go ahead. Identical twin.
1:00:37🔗
Adam
So your 16-year-old identical twin sister asked you two weeks ago if you want to have a threesome.
1:00:43🔗
Caller
With her boyfriend. And well, she told me it was like a fantasy of his. So it took a while, but I said yes. And I didn't have sexual intercourse with him, but I did almost everything except.
1:00:56🔗
And how old is this guy?
1:01:10🔗
Caller
And like, she stopped speaking to me afterwards. She assaulted me a couple of times.
1:01:17🔗
Caller
Yeah. She almost broke my nose. And she's in a rehabilitation center for cocaine. And she, I don't know. She just won't answer me. I ask her why she won't speak to me, what's wrong. She won't talk to me.
1:01:50🔗
Adam
Why don't you just let her get a few meetings under her belt before she shows up and gets sucked in the nose?
1:01:55🔗
Drew
Well, because this is, well, she won't in a safe environment like that, but this is a significant source of distress. This is going to push her back towards drugs. This is a very bad choice and a typical thing that addicts do, which is up the ante on their sexual antics and the extreme behavior is a way of trying to manage affect in the early phases of recovery, the first three to six months, gambling, extreme sports, sexual acting out, become a way of responding to the same biology. And she, her, she's in relapse, Chloe, and until you, this is part of sort of a relapse mode. And unless you get in there and get honest about it, and let's get some of this out, she's going to go, she is either already or will soon be back on drugs.
1:02:38🔗
Drew
No, just have a session, don't have your mom there, do it with just a session with you and your sister.
1:02:43🔗
Drew
How does she work that? They've asked not to have Chloe there, they can ask not to have mom there for one session.
1:02:48🔗
Adam
All right, but, I don't know, is that going to freak mom out? Here's what I'm saying, can't... Your twin sister's just entered rehab recently?
1:03:28🔗
Caller
Well, okay, like I had dated him before she had and I don't know, me and my sister were always really close and like she told me that he asked her.
1:03:48🔗
Adam
Why would you put yourself, you had to know, in a sense, that the trouble was lurking just around the corner. You know what I'm saying, Chloe? And what's up with you just as a 16-year-old woman that you would even consider this? Do you know what I'm saying? Well, I don't know. Okay. Well, I don't know what it is.
1:04:08🔗
Adam
All right. Hey, Chloe? Hey, Jeremy? Yeah. Let me beat up verbally on the guest. I mean on the callers. That's my thing. You play the instruments. I'll beat up on the callers.
1:04:21🔗
Adam
Okay. Yeah. You play good cop. Hey, Chloe? That's a pretty stupid move, sister. I know. Okay. All right. No, I'm not going to back down, Jeremy. That's the way I feel.
1:04:32🔗
Adam
Hey, thank you, 10.30. How many sons for Wednesday night? You know what? I'll tell you what. Why doesn't the family just meet over the TV set on Wednesday night? You watch The Man Show and you bury the hatchet. All right, Chloe, I know there's a lot of chaos in your family. I know your sister's not helping. Here's what you need to do. Study and go off to college somewhere.
1:04:54🔗
Adam
And go to the meeting like Drew says and see if you can hash things out. I think we know which one the evil twin is.
1:05:34🔗
Drew
By the way, you're giving people easy outlets. All they have to do is just mention the man show and boom, you're neutralized.
1:05:41🔗
Oh, it's back on the hold.
1:05:46🔗
Adam
I know, but if you're calling and request, by the way, what kind of strategy is that? You don't always do that?
1:05:54🔗
Adam
You know what always drives me nuts too is when they do that, when they advertise on their own station, like I'm sitting home watching HBO and they're going, sign up for HBO, get a free month of HBO. And I'm going, hey, partner, I'm watching HBO, what do you want? And no, but this isn't the freebie HBO weekend. This is just HBO advertising on HBO. And I'm thinking, how much more HBO do I need to be? Should I get another set and put it behind me with HBO on? That's what I'm watching, Ryan?
1:06:32🔗
Drew
Wait, what do you mean, replacement? Why are you deficient in some way? Replacement suggests you're not making enough normally.
1:06:50🔗
Our Lady Peace
No, this year he's put his back out. No, he threw his back out now. He's got a lot of zits on his back.
1:07:51🔗
Our Lady Peace
I say if there's more than four syllables in three of the words, don't take it.
1:08:18🔗
Adam
Come on, you guys go buck forty-five, you run around in your boxer shorts, kicking a ball around. You don't need any steroids.
1:08:32🔗
Adam
Yeah, I mean, what do you, well, you can't even use your hands in this game. What do you need steroids for?
1:08:38🔗
Adam
Listen, let me tell you about a guy named Pele, alright? He didn't know from steroids or Anderstein Dione, you understand?
1:08:52🔗
Adam
Alright, just go there and kick that ball. But, like, try out for the football team, you call us back.
1:08:57🔗
Drew
Here's the deal with steroids. Here's the deal. First of all, soccer, please. It'll make your penis shrink. Yeah, that got there.
1:09:05🔗
Drew
It can make you have permanent rectal dysfunction, can affect your fertility, cause liver disease, kidney damage, heart disease, strokes, heart attacks, you name it, this thing can do it.
1:09:26🔗
Caller
Yeah, but you know, how can you tell these guys, you know, these kids that are coming up in college, not to do that stuff when everyone that's in the NFL's base, not that I'm saying everyone's doing it, but. What are they doing? Yeah, exactly. You know, there's.
1:09:36🔗
Drew
Yeah, when they're whole, that is the real question is, this is the philosophical question is, is it worth risking their life to try to get that advantage in their.
1:09:50🔗
Drew
I mean, it's like saying, well, if you could take a pill and you could play a panel like Mozart, but the pill might kill you. Would you take it? I don't know.
1:10:04🔗
Adam
Well, yes, you feel invincible. When you're 17 and someone says, hey, you're going to die at 54, you go, hey, it's a good long life.
1:10:13🔗
Adam
Well, I mean, he was probably in his early 40s or something when he kicked off. Okay, so you tell a 17-year-old, hey, you'll make the Varsity squad this year and you'll die at 44, he's still going to take the pill. Absolutely. Furthermore, you know what it's like though? I think this is the sort of male equivalent to the boob job, which is it's competition. You take a bunch of 19, 20-year-old girls, the boobs are sticking straight up and they're out to hear and they're defying gravity and they got to go sit next to these chicks at the beach and walk around in sun dresses.
1:10:47🔗
Caller
But nine times out of ten you can remove those when there are any repercussions. Steroids, you're not going to get away with it.
1:10:53🔗
Adam
Right. All right. I suggest that you do what Rain does, which is just get yourself on the boob job. Get the pump watch.
1:11:08🔗
You're listening to Loveline, The Adam Carolla and Dr. Drew Loveline, I'll be right back.
1:11:39🔗
Adam
Hey, it's Loveline. Our Lady Peace is here, and they'll be in, let's see, let me figure this out one time, being in Palladium tomorrow night with Creed, and then Thursday night. Well, you got to go San Diego first, right?
1:12:29🔗
Adam
Uh, yeah, I would, I'd go with Roy Jones. Yeah, he's, uh, he's quite spectacular. He really has just, uh, you know, he has not only, you know, toughness and strength and everything, but just amazing athleticism. I mean, he's probably a guy who could play a lot of other sports.
1:12:54🔗
And he's long-range.
1:12:55🔗
Adam
Yeah, and that's why, that's why boxers are scary. They knock you out with their weak arm. And that's, uh, that's trouble.
1:13:02🔗
Our Lady Peace
That's, that's a boxer, but us just put it through our heads with their weak finger.
1:13:17🔗
Hello?
1:13:22🔗
Caller
Okay. Um, I'm sorry to bother you guys, but I wanted to say that I think you create the most incredible music. And, um, I was curious. Well, I had read on this Internet chat thing where you, Rain, had said that, um, this was going to be your last album. And I wasn't sure if, like, that was true or if you were serious or anything.
1:13:43🔗
Caller
Uh, I mean, we're serious in the fact that if we don't go back into the studio or rehearsal hall the next time and feel as passionate about the music as we did for, you know, the music that ended up on the Happiness record, it's not worth doing it. So we just have to be in that space. And I hope to God that we are.
1:14:01🔗
Caller
But I mean, it's silly to, you know, to kind of think that it's always going to happen. It's life's not like that.
1:14:07🔗
Our Lady Peace
We would have taken the same stance on, you know, between Clumsy and Naveed, you know.
1:14:23🔗
Caller
Well, you know, for the first two years, it's like we're a band, we're going to be around forever and ever, and it's not, you know what? It's not like that.
1:14:35🔗
Adam
See, Drew's just the opposite. He thought he'd be doing this show for three to six months, and he's going on year 17.
1:15:11🔗
Drew
I'm trying to figure out how to pay you proper homage and really be... not seem too...
1:15:38🔗
Caller
Yeah. I just want to say that you guys are doing a really good job on the air and everything. It's a really good thing that you guys are doing.
1:15:57🔗
Caller
My problem is on my left breast, I have these spots of like, it appears to be a rash for me. My nipple is very sensitive and I want to know what might have caused that, what I can do about it.
1:16:18🔗
Drew
See, this is so hard. The TV show people have finally taken to sending me Polaroids of their skin.
1:16:26🔗
Adam
First Polaroid. I've been doing this, we've been doing the TV show for three years, right? Yeah. The very first Polaroid I see of a skin condition is the underside of a guy's sack. You know what I mean? He took the camera and just sort of wedged it up in his ass and took a shot. And that's what I'm looking at the entire show. By the way, Drew doesn't...
1:16:51🔗
Adam
You had that Polaroid on the coffee table for me to fixate on for the first 45 minutes of the show and then you got to it at the very end of the show. Meanwhile, I was obsessing with this guy.
1:17:28🔗
Drew
Okay, or it could be herpes, or it could be a cellulitis, some sort of infection in the skin. You do need to see a doctor about this. Does it hurt a lot at times?
1:18:03🔗
Adam
Hey, Sarah, how much longer were we going to go on about the shingles before you chimed in with the dad had shingles? Another 45 minutes an hour? Okay. All right, go ahead. Now I'm putting my money on the shingles horse.
1:18:19🔗
Caller
But I was also wondering if it's not shingles, if it could have been caused by some foods I've been eating because I just changed my diet.
1:18:28🔗
Drew
No, but that could have changed your immune system and put you at risk for this kind of thing.
1:19:18🔗
Adam
I saw a guy walking around, like, in a 7-Eleven the other night. He had a Krishna haircut. He was wearing the jeans in a, like a black Sabbath t-shirt, but he had the sheet... He had the sheet over him. Which was like, oh, come on, buddy. What's the sheet for?
1:19:46🔗
Adam
Well, first of all, now we know why your dad got the shingles. He's stressed out so much over you going to a Krishna.
1:19:58🔗
Drew
Hey, by the way, this thing, the herpes zoster or shingles can cause a permanent pain or at least a chronic pain in that region. It's important that you get this treated right away because the earlier you have treatment, the less the risk of this persistent pain syndrome.
1:20:44🔗
Caller
Is it? It came from, well, like, the equivalent to the Bible is called the Bhagavad Gita.
1:20:53🔗
Adam
Yeah. I think it's also Steely Dan's song. We're going to look into that. That's the bogie start, right? Hey, Sarah. So you're praying to everyone's God. I mean, you know, the Jesus guy, the guy with the beard and sandals.
1:21:18🔗
Adam
All right. Okay, that's fine. But why would he give you the shingles? I mean, here you go, pow. And by the way, that's how you know you've stepped in the wrong religion and possibly crossed the real God. You go over to the Krishna thing and then you break out.
1:21:35🔗
Our Lady Peace
All he has is a couple of little symbols in his drawer afterwards and his sore and itches all over.
1:21:51🔗
Adam
Where are you going? Jessica, you're not going anywhere. How do you care how the two hours have broken up?
1:22:05🔗
Caller
Well, like, I've been going for this guy and he's really shy and I don't know how to, like, approach him because I've been talking to him and I heard that he's digging me, you know?
1:22:22🔗
Drew
Wouldn't you guys agree that any guy, any attention from any woman is OK with a guy? As long as it's just sort of aggressive, no matter what it is.
1:22:40🔗
Drew
And if he's not interested, women have to get used to the idea that rejection is part of the deal. And guys are not that used to it.
1:22:52🔗
Adam
They might even say yes, just because they don't know how to say no. But here's something that women think, and I guarantee you this is not correct. No man has ever said, I'm into this chick, I think she's hot, but I was turned off.
1:23:07🔗
Adam
She came and pushed the dating subject with me. If you're into somebody and they come to you, as a guy we're very pragmatic. It's like anything else.
1:23:18🔗
Adam
If there's anything you want in life and it shows up at your doorstep, you're that much happier. You didn't have to go get it. You didn't have to walk down to the liquor store. All right. We will take a break. Drew, are you going to go potty?
1:23:37🔗
Adam
Our Lady Peace is our guest. They're from Cannes, and they're like the Pooh humor. We'll take a little break, and we'll be back after this.
1:24:18🔗
Adam
Alright. It is Loveline. We have Rain and Jeremy from Our Lady Peace. The name, don't touch anything in the studio.
1:24:26🔗
Our Lady Peace
It's Sam Fidler with the damn mics. You're a singer. He's got to hold the mic in his hands.
1:24:34🔗
Adam
Put the mic down. Mind your pees and cues. Come on. Get back in this program, please. She's migrating out of the studio. It's been the parking lot for another 20 minutes. All right.
1:24:48🔗
Adam
That's what I wanted to say. All right. That's the CD and we will go back to the phones.
1:25:09🔗
Adam
We should pronounce it the way people who are from wherever they're from pronounce it. So what do you call it again? No, no. The Ecuador.
1:25:25🔗
Caller
My girlfriend and I have been seeing each other for like two years. And we have next to us these girls who are lesbians. Now they are talking to her, telling her that it's fisting. I want to know. She wants me to do this to her.
1:26:00🔗
Adam
Well, I know you're not familiar with the customs of this country, Rockhill. But the lesbian culture steeped in tradition in this country. And as a matter of fact, it's a slap in the face, not to fist a neighbor.
1:26:21🔗
Adam
Hey, Rockhill? Yeah. Oh, boy. You know, that hurts. Rayne's mic has just been confiscated. Not a moment too soon. Oh, wait a minute. He's getting another one. Your neighbors are lesbians, right? And they're telling your girlfriend about the virtues of fisting. And your girlfriend has been telling you this, right?
1:27:40🔗
Our Lady Peace
Isn't this something you have to work up to? You can't just all of a sudden be...
1:28:09🔗
Our Lady Peace
Take a look on the, put fisting on Yahoo! Search and you'll find out very quick.
1:28:29🔗
Adam
I would think it would be painful. Let me explain my fist policy. I don't want to be hit with a fist. I don't want one in my anus. I don't want the word fist in fisting.
1:28:45🔗
Adam
Yeah. I worry about a woman who wants to be fisted. Although, I think you could do it like pulling a cookie out of a mason jar, where you relax your hand, you put it in there, then you grab the cookie and you can't get it out. But, I mean, don't you...
1:29:11🔗
I know some girls that are into it.
1:29:14🔗
Yeah.
1:29:17🔗
Really?
1:29:22🔗
No, definitely not.
1:29:26🔗
It's just something different, and especially if they're with somebody that they're really close with, and for some reason, it's a bonding experience for them. I don't get it. It's just something that I guess brings them closer than just regular sex.
1:29:47🔗
Adam
But here's my take is, I'm not getting near anyone with my puny penis after a good fist-in. I mean, that has got to be anticlimactic. It really, you know what I'm saying? It's like you give them a good fist-in. It's like you warmed up. All right, baby. Now you're getting a real thing. And they're like, are you in? Like, I got to say, ten minutes ago.
1:30:09🔗
Caller
It's never actually been the full fist, though. Like, it's always like a hand. Like, you're saying kind of relaxed is what they tell me. But it's never like you're going in, like you're punching somebody.
1:30:19🔗
Our Lady Peace
Yeah, I've seen some pictures on the internet, and it doesn't look like one or two fingers.
1:30:23🔗
Adam
Well, why don't you guys start something like rockers against fisting, like RAF or something.
1:30:33🔗
Adam
Pitch it to Creed tomorrow. See if you can't get them on board too. Now what would that be? Let's see. Rockers unite against fisting, and we're off.
1:30:45🔗
Our Lady Peace
Like those death metal bands, there's too many that are probably into it. We'd get beaten up.
1:31:09🔗
Caller
Not much. Well anyways, I called because, look, well, my, well, I guess she's a good friend. I don't know. And you could say that. She just broke up with her boyfriend. She'd be going out with him for, I think, it was almost a year now. And I just want to know how long before I make a move.
1:31:30🔗
Adam
Yeah. I wasn't listening. I was trying to come up with another acronym that involved the drunkers and fisting. I'm sorry. What was he saying? It's just rough. It's not going to work at all.
1:31:42🔗
Adam
All right. We'll hash it out after the show, fellas, over a couple of beers. All right. What was he saying, Drew?
1:32:14🔗
Drew
Well, it's going to be a few weeks before she really knows what she wants, even a few months.
1:32:22🔗
Adam
And listen, too, especially when you're a little bit younger, later teens, when a relationship goes on for a year and a half and then it ends, it's probably been on the way out for three or four months. So sometimes people are slightly more healed than you're aware of.
1:32:38🔗
Our Lady Peace
It depends on the personality. This happened to me once, and I didn't phase me at all. I didn't care. It's like, if you're happy, then go ahead. But I guess some people just get too attached. And it's like the whole like going out on a date with another girl and your old girlfriend with your best friend is kind of...
1:32:55🔗
Adam
Now what didn't phase you? I mean, you were ready to date immediately after the breakup or didn't phase you?
1:33:01🔗
Our Lady Peace
It was just like, I didn't have this, if someone else felt feelings for someone and they're both happy, it didn't bother me. Like, I'm not going to let my, you know, any personal baggage get over. You just got to deal with it and realize that they're happy. And, you know, it depends. If you don't like the person and you're going to be around them a lot, I can understand that being a problem.
1:33:24🔗
Adam
What did you do with their, they're in pods under the studio? All right. I just, I was just reminded we got to play another song.
1:33:30🔗
Adam
I should say we get to play another song. And Drew couldn't be happier because that means more peeing for Drew.
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