Episode 1000643461839

0:30 Voiceover Not Dr. Drew, I'm Stryker. With Dr. Drew, Board Certified Physician, Addiction Medicine Specialist, the phone number is 1-800-LOVE-191. Dr. Adam is still fishing, is that what he's doing?

0:41 Stryker I guess so.

0:42 Adam I knew he liked boxing and construction and two by fours and girls on trampolines. I didn't know he was into the fishing.

0:50 Stryker He likes doing anything with other men.

0:53 Adam Hello.

0:53 Stryker Yeah. And anything that's not work.

0:56 Adam Right.

0:56 Stryker And anything that he never thought he'd be able to do before.

0:59 Adam Fishing can be work if you have a heavy enough fish on there.

1:02 Stryker Tell me about it. Fishing is getting up early and I love fishing.

1:06 Adam I caught an 80 pound tuna in Mexico. Yeah. It took me about an hour to reel in. My arm was trembling, shaking.

1:13 Stryker Oh my God.

1:14 Adam When after I got it on board.

1:15 Stryker I bet.

1:15 Adam It's crazy because right when it gets near the boat, the guys in the boat have the huge gaffers and they like stick it and they just rub it right on deck and then beat it with a small baseball bat, which I swear I felt very bad about. I did. And then my tip, I said, you go keep the tuna instead of the money. They ate for four weeks in Mexico on the tuna, on the tuna, man.

1:39 Stryker So what about this voiceover thing you did or game?

1:42 Adam No, EA Sports. Everyone knows EA Sports. They do all the big games for everything. There's a new game coming out and it's the third installment. It's called Burnout. Burnout 3 is the game. It's a demolition derby slash race car slash extreme racing all in one with crazy soundtrack. I'm the voice of the whole game. The entire game. There are like 8,000 lines or 10,000 lines.

2:04 Stryker You're the John Madden of Burnout.

2:08 Adam I am the every voice you hear from when you turn it on, and this maybe will annoy you, from when you turn on the game to when it stops and you kick the ass out of the game is me. Whether it's screaming, don't turn right there to like, all right, if you get through the city and it's snowing, make sure to hit third gear so you can hit the second turn on the course. So it's called Burn Out 3, you guys. I've already played the game. It's ridiculous. It's so good. And the soundtrack, full of punk rock, full of just unbelievable music. And I think the soundtrack is as good as the game, which is why video games, I think, are so good now. I play video games all the time. And listen to music and sit at home and watch TV.

2:47 Stryker And have a job where you sit and listen to music. Correct.

2:49 Adam Yeah, and talk. And talk to you, Dr. Drew.

2:51 Stryker Yeah, and talk to...

2:53 Adam Tyler, who's 20 years old on Loveline. What's up, Tyler?

2:58 Caller Over the last couple of years, I've gained quite a bit of weight. I've been drinking a lot. And, well, my girlfriend's been telling me that my penis has actually gotten smaller. And I can tell that's true. So I was wondering if there's any way, like, if I got back in shape or got healthy, if I could get that back at all.

3:18 Adam How much weight did you gain?

3:21 Caller 30, 40 pounds.

3:22 Adam And how much span of a time?

3:25 Caller Probably the last two years.

3:27 Adam Damn, that's a lot, Drew.

3:28 Stryker It can affect you. If for no other reason, it can put a panus in front of the penis so it's short. It's like the turtle head thing. So it can seem a little less long because of that. And the reality is that also adipose, fat tissue, creates estrogen. And that may affect sort of something about his penis.

3:45 Adam So the fatter you are, the smaller the wiener.

3:48 Stryker Well, basically, at the very least, it's the mailbox on the post theory that if you have long grass growing around the post, not much of the post is showing.

3:55 Adam So the point is, if you want to psych her out a little, trim the grass.

4:01 Stryker Lose the weight.

4:01 Adam Well, okay. Well, if you don't want to lose the weight.

4:03 Stryker He's got the turtle going in there, you know what I'm saying?

4:05 Adam Or put a mirror next to it and say objects in mirror are bigger than they appear.

4:09 Are, are, are.

4:11 Adam Jessie, 21, on Loveline. What's up?

4:18 Probably started about two months ago. It's been going on. I've been with the same guy for three years and we're real exclusive. And it started where I was kind of itching on the outside of my vaginer. And um, I was having like pressure on my larynx.

4:35 Stryker Vaginer, that's even a new, new pronunciation.

4:37 Adam We call it the vagudge.

4:40 Stryker We get the vaginer once in a while. But the vaginer, vaginer is the double R.

4:45 Adam So what's happened to that thing down there?

4:48 It's itching and it's burning and it was burning really bad during intercourse and then there was really bad pressure on my lower abdomen or my pelvic area.

4:58 Stryker How long has this been going on for?

5:00 Almost two months. So I went to the doctor and they treated me for yeast infection, for a bacterial infection. It turned out not to be any of those. Turned out not to be a bladder infection, negative for STDs, blood tests, everything. And I just had an ultrasound, but I don't know if that's going to show anything and I'm freaking out because it's definitely taking a toll on my relationship.

5:22 Adam Has fire come out of there yet? No, okay, well that's alright then.

5:28 Stryker Well, vulva... What? Vulva vaginitis is very... Vulva vaginitis. Look at that article I brought in on exactly that. And it is a common problem and it commonly can't be explained too. And it's something that gynecologist is trying to sort of solve. This painful hoo-hoo that can't be explained based on infection or anything else. Do you guys use condoms?

5:53 No.

5:54 Stryker Is there anything else going on? Any chemicals, lubricants, anything that could be irritating things?

6:00 Not at all.

6:02 Stryker Do you guys have sex for a long period of time?

6:06 Drew No.

6:06 Stryker How long do you have sex for?

6:09 Drew I mean it depends on when, you know, and where.

6:12 Stryker On average?

6:13 I mean it could be like maybe 20 minutes.

6:17 Stryker That's long for many women.

6:19 Adam What do you think the average... Hold on, Jesse.

6:21 Stryker The average is about 6 to 10 minutes.

6:23 Adam That's how long sex lasts, 6 to 10 minutes. Not counting, that's intercourse time. So I'm fine then. I always thought...

6:30 Stryker Most women after 10 minutes get what Jesse's got.

6:33 Adam Pain and burning and irritation.

6:34 Stryker So Jesse, you might want to sort of calm it down a little bit here.

6:38 Well, I haven't had intercourse for, what, 2 months now.

6:41 Stryker Oh, because of the pain. Does the pain go away?

6:44 No, the pain has not gone away. And like I said, when they did the internal part of the ultrasound, it hurt so bad when they were going under my ovaries.

6:51 Stryker Are you on any medication?

6:53 Birth control, that's it.

6:54 Adam You should take the Z-Pak.

6:56 Stryker You might want to try changing birth control pills because sometimes, in my experience, the progesterone from the birth control pill can cause drying, subtle drying that can lead to some discomfort.

7:05 Adam That's crazy what you say about the 6 to 10 minutes should be a good length of time. It's so stereotypical.

7:11 I can go for 50 minutes straight.

7:13 Stryker For most women, that means ouch. For some women, that's what they want. So again, the great mystery about the female is that no two are the same. And you have to kind of adjust accordingly.

7:21 Adam I've adjusted in my lifetime, by the way. I've gone for 50 minutes, after round two, of course.

7:26 Stryker That was a nap.

7:27 Adam And then I've gone the 8 seconds, kind of like a bull rider, maybe it's 9. And then everything in between. I saw something the internet drew about orgasms today.

7:34 Stryker Tell me.

7:35 Adam The more, they said, the more a guy has them, the less sperm you're going to have.

7:41 Stryker At a certain point, at a certain point, yeah. There's a sort of an optimal range.

7:44 Adam Doesn't that seem logical, though? Why is there a study that now says that's the case?

7:48 Stryker Well, they're trying to, for instance, want to know how many days a guy should be abstinent before he offers a sample for a fertility clinic. And usually they'll say like a week or so to store up. A week? It could be exploding after three days. I forget what they say exactly, but there are sort of optimal ranges. If you go longer than that, it starts to fall off too. The testosterone levels start to go down. I don't know if people are listeners. I speak at colleges all the time, and I really enjoy doing it. Does anybody want me to come to their college? Please? No, it's not that much, but I just really enjoy it. I went to Occidental College tonight and had a really nice experience.

8:19 Adam That's at the 10 or the 60 or something?

8:22 Stryker It's right in Eagle Rock.

8:24 Adam Smart kids at Occidental. How was it? What did they ask you?

8:28 Stryker What was the craziest thing? They just stayed with it. If you want the Kepler organization in Washington, DC. K-E-P-P-L-E-R, I'd be happy to come out. I just really enjoy talking to young people. Adam never gives me a chance to say this. I always give you much grief about it. I spoke to it. No, it's not that. I just enjoy talking to young people. It's always a growing experience for me every time. I feel like I learned something.

8:48 Adam Have you done at USC or UCLA? How can UCLA not have you? You're in the backyard of the place.

8:54 Stryker I know. How about SC? I'm a graduate of the medical school.

8:56 Adam Yeah. Please.

8:58 Don't start me.

8:59 Adam Sherry, you're 28 on Loveline. What's going on?

9:03 Stryker Number four.

9:03 Adam What's up, Sherry?

9:04 Hi. I was curious to know when, in fact, you guys were just talking about this, when a man starts to lose fertility and sexual drive, what age does it normally occur at?

9:18 Stryker Depends on the male. It can go all the way into his 70s easily.

9:21 Adam You mean that he has the drive?

9:23 Stryker That he has the drive.

9:24 Adam I pray that's me, and I think it will be. How's your drive, Drew? It's pretty strong?

9:28 Stryker Yeah, ridiculous.

9:31 Adam Why? Is your man losing it, Sherry?

9:34 No, not at all. In fact, he's going quite strong, and he's 45, and I'm just kind of thinking about a future relationship with him and what that might mean as far as having kids or being sexually active with them.

9:47 Stryker Well, I would think more in terms of the life you're going to lead together. You're 20 years his junior, very nearly, and men in their 70s get things, so you've got to be real. Medical problems, things happen.

10:03 Adam Sex should be the least of their concern because other things could be going on.

10:06 Stryker Oh, my goodness, it's hard to get through the 70s as a male. If you're in your 80s, that's pretty much where you wrap it up. So you're going to be in your 40s when he's in his 70s. You've got to think about taking care of a sick older man when you're still relatively young.

10:20 Adam When she's 45, he'll be 63. That's not bad.

10:24 Stryker Is that the difference?

10:25 Adam Yeah, 17 years.

10:28 Stryker I've treated a lot of patients that's sort of a surprise to them when the husband suddenly is in a nursing home and they're still relatively youthful. It's like, how do you deal with that?

10:38 Adam I've got two words for you. Hugh Hefner.

10:41 Stryker You know, and 17 years is not that big a deal. It really isn't. It's more in terms of, can he manage having kids and is he ready for that? Does he want that?

10:48 Yeah, he says as long as he can raise them. What does that mean?

10:54 Stryker As opposed to what?

10:56 As opposed to him trying to raise a family. He has two girls that have already grown up. Uh-huh.

11:04 Stryker There you go.

11:07 Adam Bye, Sherry.

11:08 Thanks.

11:09 Adam Alright, it's 1-800-LOVE-191 going to Samantha, 22. What's up, Samantha?

11:15 Stryker Hello.

11:15 Can you hear me okay?

11:17 Stryker We gotcha.

11:17 Okay, is Dr. Drew there or who's in it?

11:21 Stryker I'm me and Stryker.

11:21 Adam Are you blind or deaf?

11:23 Yeah, I'm blind. But I wasn't for sure because usually it's Drew and Adam Carolla.

11:28 Adam Sorry about that.

11:29 Stryker Not tonight.

11:30 I'm not familiar very much with Stryker.

11:33 Adam That's all right, Samantha. I've been to Missouri, by the way. I've been to Branson.

11:37 Oh, I love that. I've seen The Promise play when I was 17.

11:40 Adam So you had sight at 17. Now you're blind.

11:43 Yeah, I shot myself at 17. I think I went to Branson when I was 16.

11:48 Adam Purposely or by accident? You shot yourself.

11:50 On purpose.

11:53 Adam How did that cause blindness? You shot yourself in the eye or in the head and it messed it up?

11:57 In the head and it severed my optic nerve. First I was totally blind. Now I've got peripheral vision. Some people here think, you know, at the nursing home, say I have selective vision. I see what I want.

12:11 Stryker What other kinds of injuries did you get?

12:14 My left foot. I have to have a brace on it sometimes because it wants to curve in.

12:17 Stryker Did you just use a small caliber pistol or something?

12:21 I'm a.22.

12:24 Adam What was going on with you? Why did you do that?

12:26 That's pretty small, ain't it?

12:27 Adam Yeah, that's what she said. But why did you do that, Samantha?

12:32 Why did I do it? I was really depressed. And while I found out from listening to you guys that coming off of meth and crack and all that can make you really suicidal, too. See, I learned from you guys. They just call us all dumb callers.

12:49 But some of us learn.

12:50 Stryker No, no, that's Adam. Adam's not here. The nice guy's here.

12:53 Okay, so I make it...

12:54 I'm sorry then.

12:55 Stryker So what did you call about?

12:57 You understand why I hate our callers, even the ones that have been raped?

13:02 Adam Or shot themselves.

13:04 Stryker What's up, Samantha?

13:05 Okay, I was wanting some of Dr. Drew's books or something and to figure out how I could either get on one tape or if he would send me one so somebody could read it to me. Because right now I'm in a nursing home and I only get $30 a month. So you'd either have to work out a payment plan with me or give me the book so somebody here could read it to me.

13:27 Adam Drew sells his book on layaway, I heard. Where you get like a dollar a month.

13:31 Stryker It's coming out of paperback in a few weeks, interestingly. Can't you send her a book? And, but that's one thing. And I think I don't have any of those books, but I will get her a book.

13:41 What about on tape?

13:42 Stryker It's not on tape.

13:44 Adam Drew, how about this? You and I will work out, I'll be the voice reading the book on tape for you.

13:48 Yeah, it doesn't matter.

13:49 Or have Drew do it.

13:51 Stryker We don't have it on tape, but hold on. You stay on the line. I'm going to see if I can get Junior Producer Lauren to get something going here.

13:57 Adam That seems like it should be on tape.

13:59 Stryker Driving around. Yeah, it should be on tape. It should be on Braille.

14:02 Adam Yeah, in Braille. How many books these days are in Braille?

14:05 Stryker I don't know. She probably doesn't read Braille, though. So we'll get her a book. I'll get her a book.

14:08 Adam In a nursing home. At 22. See? Stay away from the small caliber pistols. If you're going to kill yourself, use the big gun.

14:14 Stryker Cracking the speed.

14:15 Adam Don't use the small gun. Paris, 19. What's up, Paris?

14:21 How are you guys feeling today?

14:23 Stryker Good today.

14:25 I just want to say really quick that Dr. Drew, you're hot. No.

14:32 Stryker All right.

14:32 Adam You should see Drew smiling right now, Paris. He's so happy.

14:36 Stryker No one ever says anything nice to me. I mean, sitting here, usually getting just strictly abused by Corolla. That's usually what the night is made of.

14:43 Adam I don't understand the abuse by him. Is that just the role of the show, but it wasn't like that before?

14:48 Stryker He just becomes abusive when he gets close to people, I guess.

14:50 Adam To everybody.

14:51 Stryker You've noticed that, right?

14:52 Adam He's being mean to me.

14:53 Stryker It's not mean. It's abusive.

14:54 Adam What's that, mayonnaise? And then he just pats me on the arm when he walks in the building.

14:58 Stryker And he keeps talking on the phone.

15:00 Adam Yeah, yeah. He's always on the phone.

15:02 All right.

15:03 Adam So what's going on, Paris?

15:05 I've dated this guy for about a year and a half, and we're still together. But like about two months ago, he cheated on me with a guy.

15:19 Adam Gay.

15:19 Caller And, you know, I was asking him, like, are you gay or what's going on?

15:24 Stryker And what'd he say?

15:25 Caller And he said, no, he didn't like it. He was just trying it for the experience.

15:31 Adam That wasn't his first time, Paris, by the way.

15:33 Stryker Yeah, I'm sure of that. Was he sexually abused when he was a kid?

15:38 Caller Not to my knowledge. He says, I mean, he lives with his mother and his father. So as I know, no, he hasn't told me.

15:49 Stryker There is a category out there called men who have sex with men who are not gay that the infectious disease community is sort of coined because there's so many guys out there that are confused about their sexual orientation or kind of carry on like this that actually aren't gay, that are just sort of something. Not really gay.

16:07 Adam Sexually active, but they don't know which side they want to be with.

16:10 Stryker Basically. And in my experience, that is sexual abuse. That somebody has survived that.

16:14 Adam Is it horniness, though?

16:16 Stryker Yeah, it's sexual compulsion.

16:18 Adam So you just want anything you can get?

16:19 Stryker Generally speaking. And it's also heading towards gay, usually. I know a lot of gay people say that that's gay. They just haven't quite come to terms with it yet.

16:28 Adam That's the logical thing. If you're with someone of the same sex, you're gay or bi.

16:31 Caller Yeah.

16:32 Stryker Well, so Paris, this guy sounds like a piece of work.

16:35 Caller So what do you think I should do?

16:37 Stryker I don't care if he's cheating with guys or cheating with girls. He's cheating. That's it. Let's call it quits. Cut your losses. I know you spent many good months with him, but he's showing his true colors now.

16:47 Adam Well, maybe they can find another guy and they can all go shopping together. No, that could work.

16:52 Stryker Wendy, 19, turn your radio off.

16:56 Adam Yeah, it's us. What's up, Wendy?

16:59 Well, when me and my boyfriend have sex, there's like this white goo that's on me, and it kind of looks like cum, but we use condoms and stuff, so it really shouldn't be cum.

17:10 Stryker Oh, good times.

17:10 Adam Wait, the white goo is coming out of you, out of the vagina area, I assume?

17:14 Drew Yes.

17:16 Adam Drew?

17:18 Stryker Women have a discharge, and that may be your normal discharge, or it could be a yeast infection.

17:22 Adam Is it thick like his, like ours, or is it more of the thin kind?

17:28 Drew No, it's more like cum-like.

17:31 So it's like a little thicker.

17:34 Adam You've seen that, Drew, haven't you? No, seriously, that's...

17:36 Stryker No, seriously, that can be normal. That's just you. Do you have an ejaculation when you... Do you have orgasms? Yeah. Does it come squirting out at that point? It just goos out. It gooses out. That's normal. You have a lot of contractions of muscles and glands down there, so there's extra secretions, and then things are pushed out through the muscular contraction with orgasm. It's all good. If you have any irritation or pain or anything, obviously, it ought to be checked out because it could be.

18:05 Adam Speaking of the squirting, that is crazy with girls.

18:09 Stryker Talk to me.

18:11 Adam I don't know anything.

18:12 Stryker Why would you bring it up?

18:13 Adam I've got a video at home. It's called Squirting Part 3. So on the video, it's just ridiculous. It's like they're urinating, but it's not pee.

18:24 Stryker Do you know what I mean? It's not a small stream, though, necessarily.

18:26 Adam Not necessarily a small stream, but it can literally moisten all the sheets and the mattress. And then you just can't be with that person anymore. It's in the video.

18:36 Stryker Linda, I fell out of the car.

18:39 Adam You're 23.

18:42 Caller Oh, I'm on?

18:44 Stryker Yes, indeed.

18:48 Caller Maybe this will be one of your more bizarre calls. I'm 23, my boyfriend's 38. He wants me to have sex with his best friend. He wants me to go to sex clubs. He has all these sex toys. And I don't feel comfortable with it.

19:03 Stryker When did you find out that he has this proclivity?

19:09 Caller Well, not for a while. It was kind of one of those deals where he sucked me in. He got me interested in him. He says he likes me because I'm, you know, I dress very conservatively in everything.

19:24 Stryker Whatever.

19:24 Caller I also have really long blonde hair and I'm sexy. So maybe I'm his fantasy.

19:32 Stryker Linda, you can get a lot of other guys. You have to get with a sex addicted guy. And by the way, this smacks of other drugs too. What else are you doing?

19:39 Caller Well, actually, I just, I mean, I, everything kind of came to a...

19:44 Stryker What other drugs are you doing?

19:47 Caller Well, he, has smoked some marijuana.

19:54 Stryker What else?

19:55 Linda, say it.

19:56 Caller He went to my brother's wedding and he was on crystal meth.

20:01 Adam Was he swinging from the chandeliers during the ceremony?

20:04 Caller He doesn't do any drugs in front of me.

20:07 Stryker So what?

20:08 Adam Just in front of the whole wedding party.

20:09 Stryker Meth is only a once a day drug. What are you talking about?

20:13 Caller Well, believe me, I finally had to say, okay, you know what, I think this guy is not being forthright with me.

20:20 Stryker Well, okay, he is definitely sex addicted. He is definitely an addict. People do not stop being addicts. It's a chronic condition and it requires constant treatment and...

20:31 Caller Well, I gave him an ultimatum. I said that he needed to go to a counselor.

20:35 Stryker No, he needs to go in patient or at least a comprehensive program. A counselor would not handle this. This is big time addiction, big time.

20:42 Caller Because we were going to get married and...

20:44 Stryker Why?

20:45 Adam Why do you want to marry?

20:46 Caller How old is he?

20:48 Stryker 14?

20:49 Caller I wanted to understand because I gave him an ultimatum and I'm not seeing him anymore. But it's been bothering me because I've never dated anyone that wanted this from me before.

21:02 Adam You know what he's doing right now, Linda? Right now he's on Crystal Math, probably a swing club.

21:06 Stryker Going to those sex clubs. Absolutely.

21:09 Adam It probably hurts a little, but that's exactly what he's doing.

21:12 Caller Well, I have to say, Dr. Drew, I think you're wonderful. Thanks.

21:16 Stryker I'm sorry I had to be glooped.

21:17 Caller And you give a lot of great advice on depression, too. I've suffered from that, but I'm doing really well.

21:23 Stryker Linda, let me tell you, were you a victim growing up or something? What happened?

21:32 Caller Oh, gosh. I actually went through some counseling and I hope my family's not listening. My mom was very critical.

21:42 Stryker But it sounds almost like she was mentally ill or something. You were busy taking care of her or staying out of her way or something.

21:48 Caller Well, this counselor said she was a dry drunk.

21:51 Stryker Yeah, it sounds like the fact that you're I know you didn't pick up on this guy being this guy's.

21:57 Caller Believe me, everyone says, you know, why do you pick these guys? You got so much going for you. But they say, you know, I love you and they send you flowers and they take you on trips and they shower with you with jewelry.

22:07 Stryker Linda, that does I wish I could use the S word because that doesn't mean S. That doesn't mean S. That's how people manipulate one another. They tell you exactly what you want to hear. You've got to be able to know when people are actually expressing love. And that's something that takes a little work when you've been through the kind of experience you've been through.

22:24 Caller Do you think it does seem to stem from my childhood?

22:30 Stryker Yeah, you need some therapy. You're a perfect therapy candidate. Once you develop a real closeness with a therapist, you won't be so much of a good target to these guys. You won't put up with this stuff anymore. You'll attract a different kind of guy.

22:42 Adam The gifts are good and the words are good. But once he's saying sleep with my best friend and go to the sex club.

22:47 Stryker It's funny. It's confusing for people. Well, it felt like he loved me. But the actions really, they say everything. Everything. Otherwise, you're in denial. You're in denial about who this is. This is a guy who goes to the sex club, once he'd have sex with his best friend, and he's a meth addict. That's fine. Get him treated. That's great. It can be treated, but it takes a long time.

23:09 Adam The wedding video probably is going to be on America's Funniest Home Videos. Swinging from the chandeliers, slicing the cake with his hand, running down the aisle doing a head first slide like it's a slipping slide.

23:19 I do, everybody!

23:20 Adam Alright, is it break time? Alright, we gotta take a break. 1-800-LOVE-191 is the number I'm striking for Adam Carolla and Dr. Drew and Loveline after this. Hold on.

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24:07 Adam All right, we are back here on Loveline. I'm Stryker filling in for Adam Carolla, who will be back on Thursday. Dr. Drew is here, 1-800-LOVE-191. Drew seems hungry, seems thirsty. I walk in today, 20 minutes before the show starts. You're eating somebody else's dinner. You're eating rye crisp, you're drinking coffee.

24:24 Stryker Dude, I did not get dinner tonight, or really lunch.

24:28 Adam You work out a lot?

24:29 Stryker Yeah, and I give a talk, and this afternoon, I was, you know, didn't have time.

24:33 Adam You know we have a vending machine here full of crap. Do you stand away from the crap these days?

24:36 Stryker I had some M&M's, but that's it.

24:40 Adam And the rye crisp, was it good?

24:41 Stryker Oh, good.

24:42 Adam You know Lauren didn't offer me one piece, she had 18 pounds of it, and didn't say she'd like it or something? She knew better. What do you mean?

24:48 Stryker You won't eat peanut butter.

24:49 Adam That's right.

24:49 Stryker You're not gonna eat some weird Swedish bread.

24:51 Adam That's true, probably not.

24:53 Stryker Yeah, she just knows you.

24:54 Adam All right, I guess we're gonna talk to, where, Giovanni? What's up, Giovanni, 18.

25:00 Yeah, I don't have a problem with my girlfriend. Like she wants to have a threesome with one of her gay friends and I'm not feeling that, you know?

25:08 Stryker Gay male friends or gay female?

25:11 Every time he comes over, he'll look at me like if he wants me or something.

25:15 Stryker I don't believe that.

25:16 Adam You don't, not for a minute?

25:17 Stryker Not for a second.

25:18 Adam His name is Giovanni.

25:19 Stryker Do you wanna abuse Giovanni a little bit?

25:21 Adam I don't know, should we just quiz him? Let's see, what, Giovanni, what is the gay guy's name?

25:26 He's Mark.

25:33 Stryker Nah, he's Mark. How old is he?

25:35 He's 18 as well, like we're all 18.

25:37 Stryker And what was your girlfriend's intent with this, to see you and he have sex?

25:42 Like me, him, and her, like.

25:45 Stryker Yeah, but he's not interested in her, so she wants to see you and him have sex?

25:49 In some way where I guess, like, I'm not feeling this, like it's me and him, and sometimes her, like she wants like, oh, like you two, and then me, and like, she tries to be with him.

25:58 Stryker Then she wouldn't ask for a gay friend to get involved.

26:00 Adam Correct.

26:01 Stryker She asks for a straight friend to get involved, right?

26:03 Adam Because the gay guy wants you, he doesn't want to touch her.

26:05 When most of you is a gay guy, why is he gonna look at me out the window?

26:10 Adam Ah, move on.

26:11 Stryker Yeah.

26:11 Adam It's so stupid.

26:12 Stryker Yeah, so there's no question here.

26:14 Adam Don't do it, that's it, don't do it. He's gay, he wants to be with you, the girlfriend knows he's gay, yada, yada, tease him.

26:19 Stryker Girlfriend, if this is real, your girlfriend is a piece of work, and this relationship is not gonna last.

26:24 Adam Yes, Boise, I love Boise, that's where Evel Knievel tried to jump the Snake River. I think, or maybe that was outside of Twin Falls.

26:31 Stryker Oregon, yeah.

26:31 Adam No, it was in Idaho, it was over the Snake River. I thought it was in Oregon. No, no, no, Idaho, positive. Snake River, Twin Falls.

26:38 Stryker Snake River goes from Oregon.

26:39 Adam Oh, it does, okay, but the, where he jumped, anyway. Boise, Chelsea.

26:44 Drew Hi.

26:44 Adam What's going on?

26:46 Drew I got raped like a couple weeks ago. Rape? I think he's about 35 or 36.

26:54 Stryker Oh my God.

26:54 Adam Somebody you knew?

26:57 Drew He's been friends with my mom for about 20 years and my dad about 13.

27:01 Stryker Why didn't you go to the police right away?

27:03 Drew Because I'm afraid that something will happen, like he'll get like really mad or my parents will like flip out and like yell at me for not telling them sooner.

27:12 Stryker The longer it goes. Why didn't you tell them right away?

27:16 Drew I don't know, I was really scared because they were both drunk, my mom or my dad and my dad's friend.

27:24 Stryker And what happened? Your dad was there when this happened?

27:26 Drew Yeah, they were. Yeah, he had found out that night that I was starting to become sexually active and he, I think he just kind of wanted to take advantage of me.

27:41 Stryker Your dad?

27:42 Drew No, my dad's friend.

27:43 Stryker Wait a minute, your dad was there during all this?

27:45 Drew Yeah, but he was asleep.

27:48 Adam Passed out.

27:49 Yeah.

27:49 Adam Not sleeping.

27:50 Yeah.

27:51 Stryker All right, so you were raped. You were raped. Have you been raped before? Or sexually abused or something?

27:57 Drew Yeah, my uncle did when I was young.

27:59 Stryker Hell, really?

28:00 Drew Like, maybe two, maybe a little younger.

28:02 Stryker Yeah, that's why you didn't take any defensive action on your own behalf with all this. This is horrible. And unfortunately, because you didn't document what happened, it's hard to sort of prove it now. Now it's going to be your word against his.

28:14 Adam How did it go down? They're drinking, they're drunk, your dad passes out. Were you already asleep in bed and he just crawled into your room?

28:20 Drew Yeah, like I was asleep in my room and then he came and made me give him a hand job and then kind of forced himself onto me.

28:28 Stryker Oh my gosh, that's awful. Is there a counselor at school or something you can tell? Hello?

28:40 Adam What was that on the phone?

28:41 Drew Oh, my cousin told me when I was probably coming to my room.

28:43 Adam Oh, all right, let's put her on hold and just tell her what she should do. Tell a counselor.

28:49 Stryker Yeah, I thought a counselor at school.

28:50 Adam Can you just go to the police and call them and tell them?

28:52 Stryker Yeah, call Department of Social Services, Child Protective Services. There's many different ways to go about this. If there's somebody at school that you trust, tell them this story.

29:00 Adam Can that be a trend? Can someone that was raped, are they more likely than someone that hasn't been raped to be raped again?

29:06 Stryker Oh, yeah.

29:07 Adam Yes, really.

29:07 Stryker Well, there's a couple versions of it. One is somebody, a 14-year-old or a 17-year-old who's raped had sexual abuse in childhood. I don't know why, unless it was a violent random rape at gunpoint, but the kind of friend rape, that kind of rape, for whatever reason, there always seems to have been a childhood sexual trauma. Almost always, at least on this show, always.

29:25 Adam Yeah.

29:27 Stryker The other thing that happens is sometimes when they have rape, then they'll start becoming super sexual, hypersexual and start acting out with lots of different guys as though they're trying to master the experience in some weird way. And that's the other version. And I believe those, too, have had some kind of trauma earlier on, but maybe not explicitly.

29:43 Adam Get some help for yourself and report it, but make sure you do something for yourself. All right. Oh, yes. Tammy. I've been looking for you, baby. You're 23. Give it to me.

29:56 Caller How many times?

29:57 Adam Well, what time is it now? 10.33? I could last a little till 12.

30:02 Caller You're embarrassing me. Hi, Dr. Drew. I appreciate you taking the time to help everyone. What, like you guys were talking earlier about the consistency of a woman's...

30:22 Adam Orgasm?

30:23 Caller Yeah.

30:24 Stryker Well, she really wasn't having that. She was just, a discharge was just sort of slipping out.

30:28 Caller But kind of along the lines, since Stryker was talking about it, how come some women are more, for lack of a better word, liquefied?

30:41 Stryker Yeah, some are Mount Vesuvius and some are nothing. Some really gush a lot all the time. Some gush a lot some of the time. Some gush a little summer all the time. How can you explain it though?

30:53 Adam How can you explain that?

30:54 Stryker Because women are, each one is completely different.

30:57 Adam I know, but the amount of liquid that comes out in some of these women is absolutely unbelievable.

31:02 How is it stored in that?

31:03 Adam I have not...

31:04 Stryker Some of it is urine sometimes. Some of it is the very, there's skeins in the bathrooms. There are multiple glands in there that store a lot of fluid. I mean, think about the, just the lubrication phenomenon.

31:14 Adam I might have to wear a swimming cap one time down on a girl.

31:17 Stryker What's that damage? What's coming out of there?

31:18 Caller How can you tell the difference between urine and...

31:22 Stryker Eat some asparagus. That proves it right there.

31:25 Adam What about, and probably the temperature of the liquid.

31:28 Stryker No, it's all warm. It's body temperature.

31:31 Caller The hotter it is, the more liquefied. Yeah, I don't think so.

31:35 Stryker Yeah.

31:36 Caller How come some women are able to, you know, probably have a vague answer. Okay, like for me, when I had an orgasm during one session, it was like 15 times.

31:50 Stryker Yeah. Multiple, yeah. Okay, and what's the question?

31:54 Caller How, how was I able to do that? Or why was I able to do that?

32:02 Stryker That you're not somebody who does that routinely, that was just one time?

32:06 Caller No, once I, it's like once I was able to experience it, then...

32:10 Stryker Tammy, you're gonna have to answer the question a little more clearly. Are you someone who is multi-orgasmic usually?

32:18 Caller Well, there's a first time for everything.

32:20 Stryker Are you someone who's multi-orgasmic? I'm gonna keep asking this question so I get a straight answer. Are you someone who's multi-orgasmic usually?

32:29 Caller Okay, I'm sorry, I'm not trying to be vague, but I haven't been with the guy or anyone, actually.

32:36 Stryker You've never been with a guy before? Where you never been with a guy before?

32:39 Caller No, since.

32:41 Stryker You were with a guy only once?

32:43 Adam It's only happened once, the multi-orgasms.

32:46 Caller Yeah, since I had the multi-orgasms, I haven't been with anyone else.

32:53 Adam I can't take it, Drew, I can't take it. Hit the blue button. I like her so much, but you can't get to the fricking point, man. You gotta see Drew's face right now.

33:01 Stryker It's like a wound I gotta pick up.

33:05 Adam You're not going back.

33:07 Stryker Tammy, Tammy, Tammy, stop and listen. When I said, are you multi-orgasmic, usually, that wouldn't be one time. That would be usually. So you're not usually multi-orgasmic, is that correct?

33:22 Caller Yes, that's correct.

33:23 Stryker Okay, thank you.

33:24 Caller I was stimulated like I was with...

33:26 Stryker Thank you, so you're usually are not multi-orgasmic.

33:31 Adam Drew, you just asked, she's not normally multi-orgasmic.

33:34 You're trying, stop picking at it.

33:35 Stryker So one time you were, one time you were, right?

33:38 Caller Yes.

33:39 Stryker And before that, had you been with any guys?

33:42 Caller Oh yeah.

33:43 Stryker But just nothing that did it to you like this guy?

33:46 Caller Right.

33:46 Stryker Was it a longer period of time you were with him?

33:49 Caller I was recently divorced and...

33:51 Stryker No, no, no, bye. Was the sexual act longer with this guy, is that why you were able to get in a bunch of flurries? No, it was just the arousal with this guy.

33:59 Adam He was pushing the right button.

34:01 Stryker Yeah, there is that experience.

34:03 Adam Can't you just push, well I know the answer, but for everyone, you can just be sitting still and not even pumping your body and create an orgasm for the girl because you're touching it and it's barely, barely moving it.

34:14 Stryker Some women, some like more direct and it's all over the place. And Tammy's sort of actually more unusual than that because usually somebody that can have 15 is somebody that routinely has a lot.

34:26 Adam Man, you girls are crazy out there. Seriously, your buttons are, from girl to girl, it's all different every single time. You wonder why we're so confused down there?

34:34 Stryker Yes.

34:35 Adam Not all of us are in the union, man.

34:37 Stryker And by the way, women don't talk amongst themselves about how different they are. They're like, each one feels flawed because they don't measure up to what's in Cosmo.

34:42 Adam And by the way, they have to tell us what to do or we're lost. I don't get mad if she says, can you do it softer or do it harder? Please, I encourage that.

34:49 Stryker Of course, they want that.

34:51 Adam God, I had a tutor for math. Tell me. Lance, you're 26 on Loveline.

34:57 Caller Yeah.

34:59 Caller I had a question for Dr. Drew. I just got off steroids.

35:03 Caller My wife wants to have a kid.

35:05 Stryker Fantastic.

35:06 Caller And I was wondering how long should we wait or do we need to wait or what's the deal?

35:12 Stryker Are you able to have erections again?

35:14 Caller Yeah.

35:15 Stryker Normal?

35:17 Stryker Hello?

35:18 Stryker Normal erections?

35:20 Stryker Yeah.

35:21 Stryker And do you ejaculate normal volumes? No, not a lot of semen?

35:25 Caller And I may have lost a little bit, but nothing noticeable.

35:29 Stryker And why would you be waiting then?

35:31 Caller Well, I don't know if there's... I don't want my kid to have birth defects, but I've heard that it's possible.

35:39 Stryker Drew, is it? I'm not, I don't want to say it's not possible because I'm not familiar with the research on that off the top of my head. I've not seen that myself. I'm not seeing that. And also it's kind of unusual if people use a lot of steroids that they're only using steroids. Usually the other stimulants are involved too. But yeah, as soon as your sperm count goes back up, theoretically you can get her pregnant. And I'm not aware, you may want to look online, but I'm not aware of there being...

36:03 Adam I wonder how much she bench presses now from body billing. How much, Lance?

36:07 How much did I bench press?

36:08 Adam Yeah.

36:10 Caller I'm over 400.

36:12 Adam Pounds or pieces?

36:13 Stryker Pounds. Pounds.

36:14 Adam I know, pounds baby, pounds. All right.

36:16 Stryker Where do you work out though? No, no, by what weight you're bench pressing? What's your work? You pyramid up when you bench press, yes? Yeah, what's your sort of workout weight? What are you doing most of the working out with the bench? What weight?

36:40 Stryker What's your sort of workout weight?

36:42 Caller Probably 315 to 350.

36:45 Damn, strong. That's why he was on the steroids.

36:48 Stryker Well, that's what the steroids do.

36:49 Adam Wait, when you get off the steroids, not only is it gonna mess up your testes while you're on it, but do your muscles shrink if you stop working out back to normal size or are you gonna be that bulking and strong?

36:59 Stryker Oh, no, no, it shrinks fast.

37:01 Adam What if you stay on the workout plan and stop the steroids?

37:03 Caller Really?

37:04 Stryker Not as fast, but it shrinks.

37:05 Caller Right.

37:06 Adam All right, let's take a break or no, let's get someone else. I like fun.

37:10 Stryker Yeah.

37:11 Adam All right, Tim, you're 15, I'm Loveline.

37:13 Stryker Yeah, I have a question for Dr. Drew. You? Me and my girlfriend have been going out for just 10 months now and we were thinking about actually having sex and I'm uncircumcised and I keep hearing from everybody that if I do have sex, then it's gonna hurt me and I'm gonna be like, it's gonna be bothering me the entire time.

37:33 Adam It's gonna be like warm apple pie, man. Don't worry.

37:36 Stryker What are you talking about?

37:36 Adam It's not gonna hurt your wiener.

37:38 Stryker And then I've also heard that it's either gonna hurt or it's gonna be more pleasurable.

37:43 Stryker Listen, that's all your a-hole friends not wanting you to get out ahead of them.

37:48 Stryker Ah, exactly.

37:51 Stryker And you may, you're 15, you may wanna kind of hold off a little bit, especially with all the she.

37:54 Stryker We're not planning on doing it like any time real soon. I mean, cause-

37:58 Stryker Good, take your time. Six, 16, 17, it's just-

38:01 Adam You masturbate, right, Tim?

38:04 Stryker It doesn't hurt, right?

38:05 Stryker No.

38:05 Stryker Same.

38:06 Adam Same thing. Yeah, you're all good, man.

38:10 Stryker Good time.

38:10 Adam That's a crazy question. The friends have just brainwashed him just cause they're not getting any and he's got a girl for 10 minutes.

38:15 Stryker Well, they wanna hold him back just as long as they can catch up.

38:17 Adam Hey, Tim, I'm a-

38:19 Stryker Tim, dude, if you have sex, it is gonna hurt so much.

38:22 Adam Yeah, I was reading in a Playboy, if you have extra skin, it's gonna hurt so bad. All right, let's go to Samantha, 26, what's going on?

38:31 Drew All right, 26, I just got engaged about three months ago.

38:35 Adam Are you circumcised?

38:40 Drew I mean, you know.

38:41 Adam Yeah, good answer.

38:45 Drew My fiance and I have a really healthy sexual appetite and I haven't been able to come lately.

38:55 Stryker Lately?

38:56 Stryker Two to three weeks, yeah.

38:57 Stryker You used to be able to?

38:58 Oh yeah, totally.

39:00 Stryker Oh, okay, sorry. Okay, hold on, hold on, hold on.

39:03 Adam Should we take a break and come back?

39:04 Stryker Yes, we gotta take a break and then we will deal with Sam's.

39:07 Adam All right, we'll find out about Samantha not having orgasms and maybe gushing when we come back with her and me and Drew after this on Loveline. Draze everybody in Las Vegas.

39:54 That's what it sounds like, that Bumblebee's thing.

39:57 Adam It's Love Line! You're listening to Love Line. There it is. We'll be taking drugs to 5 in the morning at wherever we are. Here we are, this music. The Vegas Boys last night, the killers, I loved their music. Just very soft-spoken.

40:11 Stryker Very quiet guys, yeah.

40:12 Adam I was trying to get into the whole Vegas thing with them, but just didn't want to do it. They were just cool. I mean, I loved them, but just very, even with their fans calling, same thing.

40:22 Stryker What I thought was interesting was that Brandon at the end goes, I could do this every night. I thought, what, sit and watch us talk?

40:29 Adam Sit and watch us talk and have a big beer? Exactly. All right, just before the break here on Loveline, by the way, we were talking to Samantha, and she used to have many orgasm in her life, including her current man, and the last two weeks, zero, nothing, no orgasm. How's the sex, though, Samantha? Still good?

40:45 Caller It's, I mean, it's good. It feels good.

40:47 Drew It's just that I can't orgasm for some reason. It's, I don't know.

40:51 Adam Stress in your life? Are you getting married, or?

40:53 Drew Yeah, we got engaged, and, I mean, school's starting, and, I mean, just a lot of things, but usually I can get past that and go on with it, but I don't know why.

41:06 I'm just stuck.

41:09 Stryker Are you on medication?

41:11 I was on vacation.

41:12 Stryker Medication.

41:13 Medication, no.

41:14 Stryker Nothing.

41:15 Adam She was on vacation, though, by the way. Where were you on vacation?

41:19 Drew I went on a cruise to Ensenada.

41:22 Adam And was that with the boyfriend? And did you have the orgasms on the cruise?

41:28 I can't remember, but probably not.

41:30 Adam I guess it wasn't that good.

41:33 Drew I don't think so. It's been, yeah.

41:36 Stryker I feel like you want us to pry something out of you.

41:38 Adam Yeah, me too.

41:39 Stryker What is that? No, no, but I mean, like, there's something, you're like, you're taunting us with something.

41:45 Adam Yeah, you're dangling the carrot and you want one of us to snatch it or bite it right now, but I don't know what it is.

41:50 Drew If I knew, I'd probably be able to, you know.

41:54 Stryker So you normally orgasm easily, is that correct?

41:57 Drew Yeah, he, let's say, I mean, I didn't used to, and then he came along and we were great, and it was more than I'd ever.

42:08 Stryker During intercourse or during oral sex?

42:11 Drew Everything.

42:12 Anytime, it was like, all right, great.

42:15 Adam I wouldn't worry. I think it's probably nothing except, do you feel the exact same way form you do now as you did a month ago?

42:24 Caller Yeah, definitely.

42:25 I mean, maybe even more.

42:28 Stryker Does the fact that you feel closer somehow scare you?

42:32 Drew Probably. I mean, I've never been this serious with anybody, so.

42:36 Stryker All right, so maybe that's it. Maybe that the sort of the level of intimacy you achieve by being open that way and being free and relaxed suddenly is becoming threatening.

42:47 Adam But you would think you would do it more like she was.

42:50 Stryker No, not if closeness is a dangerous place for her. You see what I'm saying?

42:56 Drew Yeah.

42:56 Adam What do you think of that, Samantha?

42:57 Stryker When he was just a bad guy you were carrying around with, it was okay, but now that he's actually somebody who's available for a real relationship. Oh no, no, no, no.

43:03 Drew That's the thing, though. I mean, the bad guys that I've been with, I never really orgasmed. It was usually just casual sex and that was it.

43:15 With him, I opened up and I let myself go and it was just amazing.

43:20 Drew And it still is, I mean, it feels good, but.

43:22 Stryker Are you depressed?

43:23 Drew He cries and I feel, huh?

43:24 Stryker Are you depressed?

43:26 Um, I guess, maybe a little bit.

43:28 Drew Could be.

43:29 Adam Why are you depre, I mean, now, see, now we're getting the, getting it out of you.

43:32 Stryker What are you depressed about?

43:36 Adam Come on, Samantha, lay it out on the line. No one's looking at you. We're just listening. Please, why are you depressed? Tell us, say it, say it, say it, say it!

43:42 Drew School, work, parents, scared of what might come.

43:47 Stryker With what?

43:49 Caller With marriage, everything.

43:51 Stryker So the marriage thing is freaking you out. Yeah. And how long have you been engaged? How long have you been engaged?

43:58 Drew About four months.

44:01 Adam Is the wedding planned? Is there a date set?

44:06 Stryker You come from a broken family?

44:08 Drew No, not at all.

44:10 Both of us come from very good families.

44:13 Adam What about going with him, what about taking him to like a couple's therapist and just talking it out? I mean, that's all good, that's normal, it'll only make you stronger probably in the long run and it's definitely not crazy to do that.

44:25 Stryker Do you want to get married? Do you want to marry him?

44:29 Yes, I want to marry him.

44:30 Stryker All right, then move along.

44:33 Adam Yeah, you're fine.

44:34 Stryker You're gonna be all right.

44:34 Adam Yeah. Get a toy.

44:37 Five minutes.

44:38 Stryker Ooh, Brianna.

44:39 Drew Yeah.

44:40 Stryker What's up?

44:41 Hello?

44:42 Adam You're on Loveline. What's going on, Brianna?

44:46 Drew I was wondering because I've kissed six girls so far and I was wondering if I'm supposed to be bi-curious because I've been considering myself as bi-curious, but I've done a little bit more with one of them, but I'm not sure.

44:59 Stryker You're lesbian.

45:00 Adam True, true.

45:01 Stryker You have to ask us what you are?

45:03 Drew I'm not sure.

45:05 Stryker Well, we don't know you, Brianna, so we can't tell you what you are.

45:09 Adam She's kissed more girls than I have this year, I'll tell you that.

45:11 Stryker Yeah, and you seem very lost and very empty. I suggest you kind of spend a little time figuring out who you are before you declare your major.

45:20 Adam Yeah, you're only 15 also by the way.

45:22 Stryker Yeah, just relax, slow it down. I don't know if this is pain you're acting out or confusion or what, but just kick back a little bit. Don't declare a major. You kiss six girls, whatever.

45:33 Adam It's a lot at 15.

45:34 Stryker Yeah, but whatever. It's good. It means or doesn't mean, I don't know. Brianna doesn't know, so we certainly don't know.

45:40 Adam Right, if she's 20 and kissing five girls and five guys, what would you say?

45:45 Stryker Five girls and five guys?

45:46 Adam You know, within a year span at 20 years old. How is that different?

45:51 Stryker Sometimes it's exhibitionism. Sometimes they kiss girls to get the guy's attention. You know what I mean? If everybody's different. Brianna, if she can't tell us what she's doing, we certainly can't read her mind. So let's take a break.

46:02 Adam How many girls have you kissed this year?

46:04 Stryker Including my wife and daughter?

46:07 Adam I've kissed one all year. Just one. All right, we're going to take a break, and we've got more Loveline coming up after this. Hold on.

46:15 Stryker All right, guys, here's the deal. You're looking to hook up, sick of wasting time with the wrong person?

46:21 Adam One call is all you need to make.

46:22 Stryker Call the Dateline. 877-889-DATE. Love 191.

47:08 Adam All right, we are back on Loveline. Drew, you know who Lil Jon is?

47:11 Stryker No.

47:12 Adam He got the beat that made the booty go smack, Anderson. You know who Ersher is?

47:16 Stryker The singer, dancer?

47:18 Adam Yeah, I think he's got the voice that make the booty go smack.

47:20 Stryker Is it Ersher?

47:21 Adam No, it's Usher, but Ludacris calls him Ersher. You know who Ludacris is? He's got something that makes the booty go smack. Anderson, do you know which one it is for Ersher? I mean, for Ludacris? I got no clue, sorry about that. Me see me neither, that's the only song I know. Way to go, B. All right, I'm Stryker, filling in for Adam Carolla, Dr. Drew, Board Certified Physician, Addiction Medicine Specialist, one hour to go. Flying through these, the phone number is 1-800-LOVE-191. And oh, my friend, I just talked to him on the phone. Straightest, craziest rocker guy. I just was talking to him. I've never heard someone go so crazy after a concert. You know what concert he was at? You would think it was like Metallica or something.

47:58 Stryker I heard you say Phil Collins.

47:59 Adam Yeah, Phil Collins.

48:00 Stryker No way.

48:00 Adam Yeah, Dean May. Yeah, this is my friend Dean.

48:03 Stryker He's like, Yeah, dude, I just went to Phil Collins.

48:05 Adam And he's singing to me on the phone while you're yelling me to get back on the microphone. You're like, Phil Collins, man, it was the best show ever. I don't know.

48:13 Stryker Your friend's high.

48:13 Adam Yeah, I think so.

48:14 Stryker Anyway, give me that black book over there because I don't have stickies.

48:17 Stryker Give me the medical book, the little black medical book.

48:19 Stryker I got to get them.

48:20 Adam There you go. All right, let's talk to Kim. 29.

48:23 Stryker Kim.

48:23 Adam What's up, Kim? You're on Loveline.

48:26 Hi. I'm 29. I've been married for 11 years now. And my husband, we've been together 12 years, and he's never given me oral sex. In fact, I've never had it.

48:40 Stryker Oh, my God.

48:42 Adam That is the craziest.

48:43 Stryker The humanity.

48:44 Adam Can we talk to him, please?

48:45 I'm not at home.

48:47 Adam Can we call him?

48:49 No, no.

48:50 Adam Why? This is, I mean, this is the most basic question. Why has he not given it to you? But more importantly, how come you have not demanded it and said, if you don't give me oral sex, I ain't doing anything to you?

49:01 Stryker It's so simple.

49:02 Adam You hold all the cards.

49:03 Stryker So simple.

49:06 I, he just does like, I don't want to say claustrophobic, but he just, I know it's not about me. He just doesn't want to do it in general.

49:15 Stryker Wait, wait, wait. I have to interpret.

49:17 Adam Stuck between the two legs down there by the hole can make a man freak out.

49:21 Stryker Are you telling me that he uses that as a lame excuse for not being willing to do oral sex? That he gets, he feels claustrophobic?

49:28 Adam Take him to the park and do it, then.

49:32 Stryker Is that literally what you believe, what he says?

49:34 I believe him because he's given it an effort once or twice, and it just does not work.

49:41 Adam Are you clean down there, hair-wise?

49:44 Yes.

49:45 Stryker What do you mean it doesn't work? Is it a gag or something? Yes. He gags?

49:50 Yes.

49:50 Stryker Well, that's not claustrophobia.

49:53 Adam Gag reflex, what is it, Drew? What's it called?

49:56 Stryker It's sort of wimp meats.

50:01 Adam He's scared of the vagina.

50:02 Stryker Yeah, he's sort of, yeah.

50:03 Adam The taste is freaking him out and being down there.

50:07 Stryker It's so like you.

50:09 Stryker How about putting a, this is going to sound ridiculous, but like a latex sheet down or something, like a condom, you know, a dental dam.

50:17 Adam No, no, no, no, no, I got it. Peanut butter down there.

50:21 Stryker No, he's not a golden lamb.

50:22 Adam No, if it works with the lab, it's going to work with her hubby. Put the peanut butter there or put his favorite food down there.

50:28 Stryker But that's an interesting idea, is to put something in there that does taste differently.

50:30 Adam Yes.

50:30 Stryker And that would be the way to do it. And some guys are a little freaked out about that area. It's sort of a magical...

50:34 Adam Are you fully, fully clean hair-wise in the region? I'm not talking about just above, you know, the area, but right?

50:41 No, I mean, I'm not Brazilian, but it's kept clean.

50:45 Adam Just a little landing strip.

50:46 Okay.

50:47 Adam Why don't you, see, if you get a fully clean down there, put some, there's tasty lubrication that tastes like cherry or mint, put it down there, and just be so cool and nice, and just make them feel good and say, honey, just try it. If it's terrible, I understand. And see what happens.

51:02 Stryker You got to make it clear to them that it's important to you. That's really silly that he can't overcome that. Find a way to do it.

51:06 Adam If he's good at the oral sex cam, forget the other sex, man. You're going to love it.

51:11 Stryker Do you have orgasms the other way?

51:13 Yes.

51:14 Stryker You do? All right, so at least, you know, I mean, you know, things are okay, right?

51:20 Yeah, things are great.

51:22 I mean, our marriage and our sex life, we've always made time for it.

51:28 Adam A guy could not go 11 seconds without oral sex. She's gone 11 years, or she's never had oral sex performed on her.

51:34 Stryker Well, it'd be fair. He's gone down there and gagged a couple of times. How nice of him. Is this Sir Walter Raleigh?

51:40 Adam Celeste? Celeste, you're 24. What's up? Loveline?

51:46 Stryker Gone.

51:46 Adam Did you press it?

51:47 Stryker You did?

51:48 Stryker Let's do it again. Over there she is.

51:51 Celeste, gone.

51:53 Adam You dropped six in the meantime.

51:56 Stryker Where are you?

51:56 Adam Amanda, you're 19.

51:58 Caller Yeah.

51:59 Adam What's going on at NAMA?

52:01 Caller My question was about my boyfriend. We've been together for about 10 months, and he can't... I guess he can't have an orgasm during intercourse. He can if I go down on him or if I do other stuff, but he doesn't have an orgasm.

52:14 Stryker He's wearing a condom. No. That's that guy. There is that guy. There's some guys that do not orgasm during intercourse, have great difficulty doing so, no problem with the oral sex.

52:25 Yeah, it's really, really weird.

52:29 Stryker No, it's just he is that guy. It's just the same as those guys out there that don't orgasm during oral sex and only do during intercourse.

52:36 Adam Has he ever had it during the sex?

52:38 Caller No, never.

52:38 Adam Do you wear a condom? He wears condoms?

52:41 Caller No, we don't.

52:42 Adam Wow, that's crazy.

52:43 Stryker No, it's just that guy. They're not all that common, but there is definitely heard this one before many times.

52:49 Adam I mean, I've heard of guys that can go three or four times not having an orgasm during sex for whatever reason, but never doing it during sex.

52:59 Stryker Never doing sex and only with oral sex. That is that guy. And actually Adam is almost that guy.

53:03 Adam Really?

53:04 Stryker Yeah. And he talks about it a little bit too much. Okay, so it's not you, Amanda. It's just him. It's just the same thing about the same way. Like a lot of guys are with women who don't orgasm during intercourse only during oral sex. You found a male version of that, okay? Oh, okay. Well, I feel much better now. You put it that way. Yeah, yeah.

53:23 Adam Switch the tables. Have you ever had sex and hadn't had an orgasm and just said forget it, I'm done, called it a night? Even though we're guys, we don't normally do that. But have you ever done that? Just hung it up, hung up the panties and said, I'm done.

53:35 Stryker That does not happen unless it's like sequential. You know what I'm saying?

53:39 Caller No.

53:39 Adam What do you mean sequential?

53:40 Stryker There's been other...

53:42 Adam Like the second or third one. So you can go two or three. Damn, the drive is strong. You're going two or three. USC grad, Occidental College. You're eating some sort of rye bread tonight. Rose?

53:55 Stryker Leah.

53:55 Adam Oh, Leah? What's up? You're on Loveline. You're 21.

54:00 Caller I'm on? Yeah.

54:01 Adam Yeah.

54:02 Caller Wow, that's bizarre. I didn't think I was gonna get on tonight. Oh. I have a marital question about my husband. I don't know if he's mentally abusive.

54:16 Caller Are you there?

54:17 Stryker Yeah, we're waiting.

54:18 Caller We're stunned.

54:18 Stryker Well, we don't know either. So there you go.

54:21 Caller Thanks. We fight an awful lot and everybody around me is telling me to leave him and I don't know if I should or not. He doesn't hit me. He doesn't physically abuse me in any way. He's just, he tells me like, I'm not allowed to get a job and just little stuff. I'm allowed to hang out with my friends most of the time, but if I'm down there for too long, I get yelled at royally.

54:54 Stryker Is there anything, has he got any cultural or ethnic issues that we should know about? He's just a regular old.

55:02 Caller Yeah, well, he's in the military, but.

55:05 Stryker There's nothing about his cultural or heritage or anything that would sort of bias him that way.

55:10 Caller No.

55:11 Adam Are you guys married? I didn't catch that.

55:13 Caller Yeah, we've been married for almost a year, so it'd be a year in November.

55:18 Adam Was he like that before you guys got married? Telling you who to go out with and when and how long you can stay and don't work and all that kind of stuff?

55:25 Caller No, he turned like that.

55:26 Stryker Do you have kids? Do you have kids?

55:30 Caller No.

55:31 Stryker I don't know how many years you're gonna put up with this before you do something or leave. It's a very simple question. Can you live with this the rest of your life? Are you, is this what you want from a marriage? Is he willing to seek some sort of compromise or treatment? We can't answer these things. You're living under a circumstance. What's that?

55:48 Caller I asked him to go to counseling with me and we went for like two sessions and then that stopped and we never went back.

55:56 Stryker Why'd it stop?

55:58 Caller Because he said it wasn't doing anything, it wasn't helping.

56:03 Stryker Yeah, he wouldn't go. By the way, people say counseling. You're looking at a couple of years. I mean, you don't go for three sessions, you go, hey, it didn't work. Now, you gotta go for a while.

56:12 Adam But Drew, isn't it, is it odd or strange that this started after they got married? Wouldn't she have?

56:17 Stryker How long were you together before you got married? Almost two years. It is kinda odd, but I guess I was wondering if there's some sort of cultural thing where he has certain demands of the wife. There has to be a certain way. Leah, we can't answer these things for you. Maybe you're the one that needs to get therapy by yourself and he won't participate with you. That's fine, you can sort these things out. Doesn't sound like a great thing to be, do not have a child as a way of solving this A. B, it doesn't sound like a good thing that when you're in, you already can't tolerate it. That's not a way to go through life, I don't know. If he's not willing to do something to change it, doesn't sound good to me.

56:48 Adam And therapy can help, Drew. Couples therapy, isn't that normal? Don't you think that's completely normal? I've gone in the past before, actually. If I found out, he told me to get the hell out. Seriously.

56:59 Stryker It worked for you.

57:00 Adam Yeah, that's right. I'm happy as a clam, aren't I, Drew? No, not a clam, except when I painted my nails, he told me to take it off.

57:07 Stryker Good.

57:08 Adam Remember?

57:09 Stryker I told you to take it off.

57:10 Adam You're like, that's something that means you could do.

57:12 Stryker Yeah, I told you to take it off.

57:13 Adam I know.

57:13 Stryker You mean, you met something, didn't it?

57:15 Adam Yeah, I took it off.

57:15 Stryker But think about where you were at then in your life, and it did mean something.

57:21 Adam Drew, you guys that are listening, so I see Drew every night, because normally Adam's here, and he comes in the studio where I'm at, and I get free advice, unsolicited, but yet I want it, and he's right on everything, and he can read people like a book. It's unbelievable, and it's never demeaning, which is why I like it. I feel better.

57:41 Stryker Good.

57:41 Adam Hey, Rose.

57:42 Stryker Celeste.

57:43 Adam I mean, Celeste. You're 24. What's going on?

57:48 Caller I have, I think it's called a vaginal tag. It's where my hymen hangs down on the inside of my vagina, and it makes sex painful sometimes, and I was curious, can I have those removed, or is that going to be even more painful, or?

58:01 Stryker No, no, you can have things like that taken out. It sounds, what do you, I don't know what you're describing, though.

58:07 Adam It's a floppy disk.

58:08 Stryker You sure it's not your labia minora just coming out below the majora?

58:14 Caller I don't, it's just like a piece of skin, and it's just on one side, and I can feel it, and then like it has a tear in it, because sometimes tampons get stuck in the tear, so it's like you gotta pull it out, and it actually comes out of my body. And I was told that it was my hymen, because I was like, oh my god, I'm a freak. And then my sister actually told me she has the same problem, and hers actually hangs out of her body. And then someone told us, well, that's just your hymen, and it just broke incorrectly or something.

58:38 Stryker Who told you that?

58:39 Adam Vogue magazine.

58:40 Caller Just a friend, I don't remember.

58:42 Stryker No, Celeste, it sounds like, people have inner lips that come out sometimes, that drop down below the, and they're actually procedures to shorten that all up.

58:51 Adam Some men find that attractive, by the way. Not me, per se, but.

58:54 Stryker No, that is, those are, that's, no, I doubt that's the hymen. That's a funk, a normal part of your anatomy.

59:01 Caller From one side, though?

59:02 Stryker Yeah.

59:03 Adam Is it tough to have an orgasm?

59:06 Caller It feels more like there's more friction on that side, and I'm like susceptible sometimes, I think, to like, to yeast infections, so I don't, but I'm also a dancer, so I mean, I thought that was just because they were tight so often. But I don't, I was curious maybe if that was like, what was maybe-

59:19 Adam Are you a professional dancer or in topless?

59:21 Stryker Tight, tight.

59:22 Caller No, no, like ballet, like-

59:23 Stryker Ballet dancer.

59:24 Adam She is the first ballet dancer in the history of Loveline Callers of dancers. That's why I wanted to confirm that.

59:30 Stryker But as soon as she said tights, I knew she wasn't talking about the usual.

59:32 Adam Of course, I knew that too, but I just wanted to just confirm. Maybe she's got the ballerina act on stage and she rips them off like they're a pair of basketball pants.

59:39 Stryker There are, Celeste, other kinds of little growths that can occur that need to be, should be probably easily taken off, frankly, so.

59:46 Adam That must be weird in the tights when you're dancing, if the skin is floppy, can they see them?

59:49 Stryker No, no, no.

59:50 Adam It's like having testicle down there. No? You're saying no, but I think I'm, all right. Hey, now we're going to you, Rose. You're 26 on Loveline.

59:58 Caller Yes, hello?

59:59 Adam Hello.

1:00:00 Caller Yeah, I just wanted to ask, is it normal? I'm 26, I've been with three years with my boyfriend and I haven't been able to orgasm.

1:00:09 Stryker 26, have you ever in your life had an orgasm?

1:00:12 Caller Excuse me?

1:00:13 Stryker Have you ever in your life had an orgasm?

1:00:15 Adam She's having one now.

1:00:16 Caller No, no, never. You never had one? Never.

1:00:20 Stryker So you need to get to work on that. You're not gonna have it with intercourse. That's the one thing I promise you.

1:00:24 Adam At least not right now. Can you give yourself one? So I guess that means no since you never had one.

1:00:28 Caller No.

1:00:29 Stryker So Stryker, give her a little talk.

1:00:31 Adam I would say, do you touch yourself, do you masturbate?

1:00:37 Caller No.

1:00:38 Adam Why don't you try? First, try on yourself to see what you like and how you like to be touched. But it may be even more important than that, oral sex on you from the guy, give him instructions, and that could lead to possibly having an orgasm. What do you think, Drew? Do you think that sounds?

1:00:54 Stryker Yes, I think that or the tub.

1:00:56 Adam The bathtub.

1:00:57 Stryker Yeah.

1:00:57 Adam Do you mean the water?

1:00:58 Stryker The angle approach, which is you sort of put the feet up on the wall and have the spigot going straight on the action area.

1:01:07 Adam Rose, you get that? Yes, I got it.

1:01:09 Stryker And then, but more importantly, I think instructing your boyfriend on the oral sex.

1:01:13 Adam On the oral.

1:01:15 Stryker That is most women only have orgasm with direct stimulation.

1:01:19 Adam Let me tell you something, Drew, about a girl. Tell me something. No. I have, I know a girl. She has never, ever had an orgasm from oral sex. But in regular sex.

1:01:32 Stryker She's multi-orgasmic. Women do not like oral sex.

1:01:34 Adam I don't think she's had multiple orgasms.

1:01:36 Stryker I guarantee you she does. You go ask her. Let's call her up.

1:01:38 Adam Let's call her up. She's not multi-orgasmic. I know for a fact that I've been there. I know the number, though. What do you think about that?

1:01:49 Stryker Easily orgasmic?

1:01:51 Adam You got to work at it, but it gets there. It's not like just a touch and blah. It's like you didn't work.

1:01:56 Stryker Because usually the ones that don't really just don't get anything at oral sex are multi-orgasmic.

1:02:01 Adam I know she's had more than one at a time before, but rarely. But she definitely gets that one 90% of the time.

1:02:06 Stryker Maybe she just prefers that.

1:02:07 Adam You know what's crazy about sex too, which I've learned? Girls, at least lately, from what I've realized, is that they cannot have an orgasm and the sex can be unbelievable, where we just think it's not even good if we don't have an orgasm.

1:02:21 Stryker No. Here's what they do. They have an experience that's estrogen-mediated called receptivity. The experience of receiving and the closeness is totally satisfying. Without an orgasm. Male does not have that experience. The male, the orgasm doesn't occur, it's frustration, your ability, anger. The whole thing was just flawed. For a woman, that's why they can say, when you say, did you have an orgasm? They go, no. But it's fine, it's fine. They're not BSing you.

1:02:48 Adam No, that's what's crazy.

1:02:49 Stryker It was actually a satisfying experience.

1:02:50 I used to beat myself up over that.

1:02:52 Stryker But a male cannot appreciate it. We do not have that experience. We never, ever, ever will have that experience.

1:02:56 Adam But how come even though I know that, I still kind of beat myself up a little?

1:03:00 Stryker Because it's so far from our experiences, like how could that possibly be?

1:03:04 Adam Right.

1:03:04 Stryker How could it be? Does that make any sense? The testosterone drives the male to orgasm.

1:03:09 Adam Right. Oh, man. I've learned so much the last year. Jamie, you're 20 on Loveline. What's going on?

1:03:15 Caller Who, me?

1:03:16 Adam Yeah, you.

1:03:17 Stryker You, Jamie.

1:03:18 Caller I was just listening. I was really agreeing with what you were saying.

1:03:21 Adam Uh-huh. Cool.

1:03:22 Stryker So you can have a receptive experience without an orgasm. You'll be perfectly happy.

1:03:26 Caller That's very interesting. Oh, but back to what I was asking about.

1:03:32 Stryker All right, go ahead.

1:03:34 Caller My thing is that I don't know if this is normal or not, and I was just kind of curious, is that when I'm on top, I orgasm pretty fast, and it's really good, but then when I'm on the bottom, I orgasm really way later on, and I was just curious about that. Is that normal? Is it because I'm controlling it on top?

1:03:52 Stryker Yes, that's very common.

1:03:53 Adam Definitely.

1:03:54 Stryker That's rather common. You can count your blessings. You're 20, you can do that. You're ahead of your peers.

1:03:59 Adam And you're so comfortable to move it how you want on top that you're getting it done. That's fantastic. I'm serious.

1:04:06 Stryker Thank you.

1:04:06 Adam Probably making the guy feel very, very good at the same time. No, I'm being honest.

1:04:11 Stryker I'm sorry, absolutely.

1:04:11 Adam Yeah. Robert, you're 18 on Loveline.

1:04:14 Caller Yeah, I got a problem.

1:04:15 Caller Oh, hell.

1:04:17 Caller Well, when I'm with my girlfriend, like, she, like, when she goes down on me, we can, like, I, like, lose my erection and she never makes me cum ever.

1:04:27 Adam Lose the erection during oral sex. Drew, take it away.

1:04:30 Stryker So why don't you skip the oral sex?

1:04:32 Caller Well, she wants to do it, she's always down there, and, like, then it feels really weird when, like, you know, I don't enjoy it.

1:04:39 Adam For you or her?

1:04:40 Caller For me and her.

1:04:43 Adam Then why keep doing it?

1:04:45 Caller Well, I don't know.

1:04:46 Adam And why are you losing an erection? You don't know the answer, I'm sure, during oral. That is correct.

1:04:50 Stryker Because it's a bogus call.

1:04:51 Adam No, it's not. It's so not. No, I don't, I believe him. His tone is not bogus.

1:04:59 Stryker It's hard for me to understand why you wouldn't just not do this. It's uncomfortable for everybody. You don't like it. There you go. Don't do it.

1:05:05 Caller Is that it? Is that, like, she really wants to. And it's like.

1:05:09 Adam Because it's like, because she's not, she's feeling.

1:05:11 Stryker Is she one of these people that sort of prides herself, oh, I give the best for my mom?

1:05:15 Caller She really just wants to, like, I don't know. Like if I do it to her and it's great and she's like, oh, you don't enjoy it when I do it. And I'm like, I don't really know.

1:05:22 Stryker No, you know, there's some guys that just don't.

1:05:24 Adam How's the sex part of it, though, Robert?

1:05:26 Caller Oh, I haven't had sex with her yet.

1:05:27 Stryker Ah, okay. Well, there you go.

1:05:29 Adam That's why they keep on doing it.

1:05:30 Stryker Yeah. Well, that's going to be tough.

1:05:33 Adam Hold on. How about when you masturbate? Are you all good when you're by yourself?

1:05:37 Caller Yeah. And I try to, like, cut back so I can, like, be with this girl a little better. But, you know.

1:05:42 Adam What about masturbating in front of her and slowly working in her, touching it with her mouth?

1:05:47 Caller I was thinking about doing that, but, like, you know.

1:05:50 Adam Some girls dig watching, Robert.

1:05:51 Stryker I think that's a plan.

1:05:52 Adam You think so?

1:05:53 Stryker Yeah.

1:05:53 Adam All right.

1:05:54 Stryker I think that's a plan. But it is a little kind of funky here that the, that maybe just explore with other things other than oral sex that don't include it, of course, you know what I'm saying?

1:06:04 Adam Masturbate in front of her. Work it in. It'll work. All right. Break time? Or where are we going? Here we go.

1:06:10 Stryker Veronica.

1:06:10 Adam What's up, Veronica? 16.

1:06:14 I listen to you guys all the time and you guys are really great.

1:06:18 Drew So I have trouble masturbating. I can never really reach an orgasm and at first, it's really... I enjoy it, but then when I start to actually enjoy it, it's very uncomfortable. I start to hate it.

1:06:42 Stryker Here's the thing about males, if they hated it, they wouldn't do it. They don't hate it. Yeah. They don't have to figure it out. They don't have to force themselves to do it. It is something they must do and if you're demanding that out of your body and you're not there with it, just relax a little bit. I understand. Why are you so hell bent on this?

1:07:04 Drew I don't know. I enjoy masturbating, but once I want to orgasm nothing, I don't enjoy it.

1:07:14 Adam Maybe your body's not ready.

1:07:15 Stryker Yeah, you may not be online yet. You don't have orgasms, right?

1:07:19 No.

1:07:20 Stryker Yeah, it's hard for 16 to 20 year olds many times to have orgasm. They often don't. It's very difficult.

1:07:25 Adam Have you had sex, Veronica, before?

1:07:28 No, I'm a virgin.

1:07:29 Adam Good. Keep it that way for a while.

1:07:30 Stryker Just keep exploring things. You'll kind of figure it out as it kind of comes on. The biology sort of kicks in a little better. See, I don't actually bother by that. The women are being taught, you've got to masturbate, got to masturbate. There's not a guy in the world that you have to say anything to. In fact, you can try, no matter how hard you try to make them not do it, nothing you can do. And it's a force women to do it when, yes, to get them to explore and stuff and try to figure out, perfect.

1:07:55 Adam It's like in the Seinfeld.

1:07:56 Stryker But demand that of everybody when it's not quite there yet.

1:07:58 Adam You ever see the Seinfeld when they had a bet who could go the longest without masturbating? Kramer was out in 20 minutes and then, and there's a lot of money at stake in this and they could not last.

1:08:09 Caller Wow.

1:08:11 Adam John F. Kennedy Jr. who was alive at the time, was in Elaine's like exercise class and he's like, Hi, Elaine. And then of course she went home. She was out. And she, because she was the girl, she had to give like three to one odds or something. So she had to give more money. She walks in, she's like, slaps the money down. I'm out. You're out? Then Jerry and George. And I think Jerry ended up winning or something.

1:08:33 Stryker That is very funny.

1:08:33 Adam I'm dating a virgin. I'm in this contest for masturbating. All right. Jenny, you're 21. We're going to take a break.

1:08:41 Stryker Let's tease Jenny. It's fine.

1:08:42 Adam Yeah, Jenny.

1:08:43 Stryker Jenny? Go ahead.

1:08:47 Caller I've been with my boyfriend for two years, and I want to do anything possible to make him happy. And one of the things or one of his fantasies was that he wanted to have a threesome. And he was very specific as to what he wanted to happen with his threesome.

1:09:04 Adam Well, don't tell us what it is. Why don't we take a break? Because I want to know what the hell happened in this threesome. He was very specific with what he wanted in the threesome. Very specific.

1:09:14 Stryker Why do women do this to themselves?

1:09:16 Adam Well, I mean, kudos to him for having the balls to say this is what I want. Or is that shame on him?

1:09:22 Stryker Shame?

1:09:23 Adam Oh yeah, shame on him. Sorry.

1:09:25 Stryker The nuts should have been taken from him.

1:09:29 Adam We're going to take a break. Stryker for Adam along with Dr. Drew. We'll talk to Jenny in the threesome and who did what to who and why. After this, more of Loveline. John Loveline, got about a half-hour left. You want to get a call in, 1-800-LOVE-191. I'm Stryker in for Adam Carolla. Dr. Drew is here. And one more night with me tomorrow, Papa Roach, Dr. Drew, tomorrow night. They got a new CD out. I saw them play at the Roxy. It was loud in like 120 degrees in there. But it was fun as hell. They're good live. And we'll hang with them and play music with Papa Roach tomorrow night on Loveline. Before the break, we're talking to Jenny. She's got a boyfriend. He wanted a threesome. They had a threesome. He told her exactly what he wanted in the threesome, and we don't know what he actually wanted in the threesome. Jenny, what did he want in this threesome?

1:10:57 Caller Well, he wanted very specific things. He wanted his dick get licked by two females, one of them me, and he wanted to come that way. He also wanted to do every position possible, I mean, including putting it in the butthole and doing the whole nine yards, and he wanted me to kiss her. He wanted the girl to eat me out.

1:11:22 Caller Who was this person?

1:11:24 Stryker Who was this person? Who was this third person?

1:11:27 Caller We were trying to find a person for the longest time. We even tried to hook her, and we paid her $300, and she ended up taking off with the money. And yeah, so I mean, I lost out on that, because he has no money, I'm the one that has the money. And yeah, but we- But basically, we were on the telephone, like on a party line kind of thing, and we decided to meet with this girl because we were having sex on the line. And then this girl decided to listen, so we started talking to her, because we figured anybody who would listen would be freaky enough to have a threesome. And we met her, and the very next day, we decided on choosing her, and she was like, yeah, well, I definitely want to do it. So we all did it. And he told me that once that happened, he would be totally, completely happy. And it hurt me a lot to see him with another girl because we've been together for a long time.

1:12:30 Stryker Yeah, and that's the end of your relationship right there.

1:12:33 Caller Yeah, and so, and then-

1:12:34 Stryker That's it, that's over. Now he's going to want to do threesome, he's going to be with another girl. He's crossed that barrier, and now it's game on.

1:12:41 Caller Yeah, I mean-

1:12:41 Stryker And you're going to feel like just hell, and jealous, and icky, and ugh, what a disaster.

1:12:46 Caller You know, I thought I would feel more jealous than what I was, but I still am jealous, and the thing that makes me upset is if he would have let it go, it would have been okay, but I mean, when we go out to a club, or we go out to places, he gets mad, oh, you weren't picking up on that girl, how come you didn't pick up on her, we couldn't have had a threesome, and this is not-

1:13:04 Stryker Hey Jenny, it's the same guy that wanted to threesome in the first place. He still wants a threesome, the guy's an idiot. He has no, he can't support you. What are you putting yourself into this for? It's a disaster.

1:13:15 Adam Jenny, does he have a job?

1:13:18 Caller He's trying to.

1:13:19 Adam Exactly, and you have one.

1:13:20 Stryker Well, right now, he's looking for a job.

1:13:23 Adam He is going out with the girl that has the job and is giving him threesomes, and you are giving it to him. He ain't, I mean-

1:13:29 Stryker It's just a disaster.

1:13:29 Adam You gotta stop it.

1:13:30 Stryker Where did you become a doormat? Where did that happen? Where'd you learn that that's okay?

1:13:35 Caller I have no idea. I don't know, I mean, I don't, I love him, but I just don't know what to do. I don't think, I don't, I keep on telling him, you know, I'm not sure if this is gonna work out. If this is what you're telling me, oh, you have to pick up on that girl. And he tells me, you have to pick up on the girls because they don't like me. They won't find me attractive right away. And they'll find you attractive first.

1:13:57 Stryker And so if you put on-

1:13:59 Stryker I wish, I wish you were taping this and I want you to listen back to this in a year after you've been away from this guy and hear yourself. It's unbelievable. You just, you've just become an absolute robot.

1:14:10 Adam To this guy.

1:14:11 Stryker To this guy, to do his bidding for him, whatever it might be.

1:14:14 Adam Wait, so what's the bottom line for Jenny?

1:14:16 Stryker Bottom line is she's thinking about it, not working out, keep thinking about it.

1:14:19 Adam Set the rules now, say exactly what you want and he ain't gonna go for it then dump him, right?

1:14:25 Stryker She needs, it's just a disaster. She has, look, she needs to really be honest about her feelings right now, which are very ambivalent. She's jealous, she's hurt, this guy's abusing her and exploiting her. How do you feel about that? It's okay to feel that way, get out of there.

1:14:38 Adam You know what we skipped right over though? We didn't even blink an eye or maybe you did. They called a party line and had sex.

1:14:46 Stryker Somebody just randomly made a party line.

1:14:47 Adam And then if anyone wanted to listen, they would be listening and of course they'd be freaky enough so they could have the threesome with that person. The hooker didn't work, but the party line did. Having sex on the party line. What was the number of that party line?

1:15:00 Stryker Chris, 25.

1:15:02 Caller Hey, how's it going?

1:15:03 Stryker We're good, what's up?

1:15:05 Caller Yeah, apparently I'm 25 here. My girl is 19. We've been together for almost two years. And for whatever reason, I cannot enter her. I cannot penetrate her when we're trying to have sex.

1:15:17 Stryker How long have you been trying this?

1:15:20 Caller For probably a year now.

1:15:22 Stryker Been trying to have sex for a year.

1:15:23 Caller Yeah, just can't.

1:15:25 Adam Have you used lubrication, like Astroglide, the best product ever?

1:15:29 Caller Tried that, tried a K-wide.

1:15:31 Stryker And when she goes, obviously she's had a pelvic exam to make sure everything's okay anatomically.

1:15:37 Caller Um, that's the thing. I've been pushing her for that, but she's like scared, worried, whatever. I don't know what's going on with her there.

1:15:43 Adam Maybe she's so scared to have sex that she tightens up and clamps up.

1:15:46 Stryker Well, if she's not ready to have a pelvic exam, she's not ready to have sex. Very simple. And if she's too fearful to have an exam, which is very strange for an 18 year old, it certainly must be incredibly anxiety provoking for her to have sex. So yeah, that's a common way that women get vaginismus or a clamping of that pelvic musculature.

1:16:07 Adam And it's just what closes it. The wall closes.

1:16:09 Stryker It just closed down.

1:16:10 Adam Comes down like Harrison Ford in the Indiana Jones when he grabs the whip and the wall comes down.

1:16:15 Stryker It's the Berlin Wall.

1:16:16 Adam The Berlin Wall comes down on the vagina when they tense up. So that's what's going on, Chris.

1:16:20 Stryker It could be also a very thick hymen or something.

1:16:25 Adam How often do you talk to her about not penetrating? How often do you try?

1:16:28 Caller I mean, it's been discouraging, so not as often anymore.

1:16:32 Stryker Let me answer for you. All right, today's Tuesday. 87,000 times.

1:16:36 Caller It's been about two weeks.

1:16:39 Caller But I mean, she's the one that's the aggressor. I mean, she's the sexual aggressor here, more so nowadays and...

1:16:45 Stryker That's interesting.

1:16:46 Caller I don't know.

1:16:46 Stryker Well, get a pelvic exam. Find out if something anatomic going on. She's gotta be prepared for this anyway. You guys are gonna figure out what you can do for birth control going forward. So this is Carrie, 20.

1:16:55 Caller Hi. Hey, okay.

1:16:59 Stryker Every time I have sex with my current boyfriend in three months.

1:17:05 Adam What's so funny about that?

1:17:06 Stryker It just, I'm delighted the way she put it all in for us.

1:17:10 Caller Right.

1:17:10 Stryker My current boyfriend in three months.

1:17:11 Adam We don't have to ask.

1:17:12 Stryker What happens? Which means not with the previous boyfriend.

1:17:14 Caller Right.

1:17:15 Stryker Told us exactly how long it's been with this boyfriend. And it's happening right now. Okay, go ahead. Yeah.

1:17:20 Stryker It's a new thing for me.

1:17:22 Adam What happens?

1:17:23 Stryker I queef.

1:17:24 Adam Ooh, the.

1:17:25 Stryker Good times.

1:17:26 Adam The air escaping noise.

1:17:27 Stryker Yeah. That usually means a some sort of a fit issue. Too big or too small? Too small.

1:17:37 Adam How come it normally happens? Too small.

1:17:40 He's too small.

1:17:42 Adam And what's his name and phone number so we can call him and harass him? No, I'm just kidding. No. So too small. And is that so, how does it feel though, by the way, the sex with him?

1:17:53 Caller It feels good.

1:17:55 Stryker Fist bumpiness?

1:17:56 Caller Yeah.

1:17:58 Stryker It feels great, yeah, great, yeah, yeah.

1:18:00 Adam Great for a four-incher.

1:18:02 Stryker So, ooh, pot.

1:18:04 Caller Yeah.

1:18:05 Stryker Yeah, Carrie, you smoke a lot of pot, huh?

1:18:07 Caller No, I don't smoke pot.

1:18:09 Stryker Did you stop smoking pot recently? Thank you.

1:18:13 Adam That's 7 p.m.

1:18:14 Stryker Still hear that laugh.

1:18:15 Adam But anyway- So is it embarrassing you want to stop doing it? I guess it's just because, as Drew said, the spacing, the non-fitting, or the too big of fitting causes it.

1:18:23 Stryker The air is getting in and it's sort of getting packed in with the piston action. You usually hear that pot laugh? And you can usually find some sort of position that doesn't happen, but you gotta kind of experiment around.

1:18:36 Adam How come it happens a lot of times after the sex when you're done and you're just kind of lying there and you're like, we both kind of passed out?

1:18:42 Stryker You answer your own question. Why does that happen?

1:18:43 Adam Oh, because it's getting smaller because you had no orgasm.

1:18:45 Stryker Well, then you packed all the air in and the muscles relax and things kind of-

1:18:50 Adam Was I a listener right there? Was that dumb?

1:18:52 Stryker No, you wasn't.

1:18:53 Well, yeah, yeah, yeah.

1:18:55 Adam Let's go to John, number six. What's up, John? 14.

1:19:02 Caller Hi, I was wondering, when I like, jack off and stuff, like, I get an orgasm, but nothing comes out, like.

1:19:12 Stryker Well, you're 14 and judging by the-

1:19:15 Adam Tone of the-

1:19:16 Stryker Timber of the voice there, I would say.

1:19:17 Adam You're an alto.

1:19:18 Stryker Yeah, you're not, probably not producing the fluid yet. Quite literally, you're not coming online with that yet. I'm surprised you're having orgasms even, but there you go.

1:19:25 Adam Well, can't you have an orgasm without being able to come?

1:19:28 Stryker Meaning your body- I mean, the males, before their whole systems go, yeah.

1:19:33 Adam His testes must be hurting so bad.

1:19:35 Stryker This is something, right, this is somebody that's been waiting for, looking forward to this.

1:19:39 Adam Let me talk to John. John, you have a girlfriend yet? Oh, that sucks. How often do you masturbate? Oh, you're on perfect pace, man. By the time you're 15, it'll be every day. Do you have hair yet under the arms? Oh, you do? Yeah. Drew, is that normal for no liquid to come out?

1:20:02 Stryker He's on the verge.

1:20:03 Adam All right, John, be ready. Call us when it happens, all right? I'll send you a CD. Jessica, 19, you are on the Loveline show.

1:20:12 Drew Hello.

1:20:13 Adam Hello.

1:20:14 Drew Okay, yeah, my question is that if you're having anal sex, is it common for you to have gas after or cleaf or?

1:20:23 Stryker What was the question again? Your cousin says.

1:20:25 Drew When you're having anal sex or doing it like doggy style, is it common to have gas after?

1:20:32 Stryker No.

1:20:33 Drew No?

1:20:35 Adam But it's the same thing as the cleafing in the vagina.

1:20:39 Stryker It's the same thing as what? That's a different thing. I mean, yes, you can have it, but gas is produced further upstream. And if you're gonna have gas, you're gonna have gas. It's not because of the anal sex. And if you're forcing air in during anal sex, it tends to come right back out. There's not as much of a, the anatomy's different.

1:21:00 Adam I stay away from the anal.

1:21:02 Stryker Yeah. Let's take a break.

1:21:06 Adam Are you all right?

1:21:06 Stryker I'm disgusted.

1:21:07 Adam You are disgusted. We're on such a roll until three calls in a row with beefing. It's all right, though. Excuse me. All right, we need to take a break. We're gonna talk to a girl who receives come and huh?

1:21:18 Stryker Nah, we're gonna wait and see what new calls come up. A really good one we're gonna have.

1:21:22 Adam All right, I'm gonna drink my liquid here, which is sitting in front of me. Stryker for Adam and Dr. Drew, and we'll get to Loveline more after this. Ah, I messed it up a little bit. Back on Loveline. Loveline. 99 problems in a biatch ain't one. There. Dr. Drew is here. I'm Stryker filling in for Adam Carolla. He'll be back on Thursday. Thursday? On Thursday, he's fishing. Ha ha ha! He's fishing. 1-800-LOVE-191. We got about 15 more minutes if you want to try to get a call in. Let's go to Carrie. Hit it, Drew, number six. 19, Carrie, what's going on?

1:22:33 Caller Hey, I just wanted to know, I'm 19, I've been married for a year, and I've never had an oral orgasm, and...

1:22:47 Stryker Yes? Are you listening to the radio or something? What are you doing?

1:22:51 Caller No, I'm sorry, you know how the cell phone like talks, you can hear the echo? Sorry, I've never had a masturbation orgasm, I've had small orgasms on top, you know, and I assume it's a clitoral one, because I've kind of read about different kinds you can have, and never had...

1:23:11 Adam Wait, hold on, hold on. What's a small orgasm? Is that like, when only a, for a guy, would that just a droplet, or wait, how, what's the difference? When you want to come out of your skin and you're not coming out of it, or what?

1:23:23 Caller Well, like I've heard of mind blowing orgasms, and it's more like, oh yeah, that feels nice, and that's about it.

1:23:31 Stryker You know, I've talked to a lot of women that feel that way about their orgasms when they're in their late teens and early 20s, and again, this is a biological event, and as you mature, the chemistry changes a little bit, and things get more intense. That's, you know, when women talk about having a sort of a peak in their 30s, some of that for some women, again, it's different all the time, is what you're talking about here, Kari. This may just be sort of where you're wired up right now.

1:23:59 Adam How long is your small orgasm last for you?

1:24:02 Caller I've had a few of like them in a row, like one or two, and they're just seriously just for like an instant or two of I'm on top and then I just stop, enjoy it, and then that's it.

1:24:16 Adam And then you climb off, smoke a cigarette, go to sleep, and he watches ESPN.

1:24:19 Caller I'm done, all right, that's it, yeah. And like you just said a little bit before, the other caller of receiving more, literally I've been enjoying receiving more because I get so frustrated with trying orgasm. Like oh, it didn't happen, okay, you go on top, I'm done.

1:24:34 Stryker So you see, but you have a boyfriend, right?

1:24:37 Caller No, actually I'm married. For a year.

1:24:40 Stryker And you're kind of working on this with him?

1:24:42 Caller Yeah, we've tried different things, different positions, toys.

1:24:47 Stryker Are you on the birth control pill now?

1:24:49 Caller Yes.

1:24:50 Stryker Is that making it worse or better?

1:24:53 Caller I've been on it before I knew him, so I don't think.

1:24:56 Stryker Yeah, so that might be part of the problem. Sometimes different pills make you respond, yeah, sometimes. And yeah, just kind of keep working on it.

1:25:02 Adam You said it's biological, 19th still time to get bigger and stronger organs. At least you're having small ones, which is a step.

1:25:09 Stryker Keep working on it, all right?

1:25:11 Caller Okay, and then I also have another little question. Just beginning of, just lately I've not been as into having sex, like not as horny as I used to be, and I'm wondering if like, is that anything, if you know, just your body goes up and down of.

1:25:25 Stryker It goes up and down, and it goes up and down, and it's certainly affected by your emotional condition and your stresses in your life, and medications, and you're focused on the orgasm so much, it's probably getting frustrating and kind of distracting, so take the heat off that a little bit, okay? All right.

1:25:39 Adam You know what's so crazy, Drew? You were just telling Carrie that, because for guys, no matter what stress, at least for me, or most guys, no matter what stress we have in our life or what's going on, I still wanna.

1:25:50 Stryker Not that you might be more different.

1:25:51 Adam Yeah, but what's crazy is, in the past, and like my friends will tell me about it, like they get a little upset and their mind plays tricks on them when their girl was so horny for a few weeks and then all of a sudden for two weeks she's not and they don't realize and we don't realize that it's just because when they get stressed out and things go on, they just lose it for a minute, but they can get it right back.

1:26:13 Stryker But guys freak.

1:26:14 Adam Yeah. All of them, including me. It's crazy.

1:26:17 Stryker Yeah. You know, I don't think women realize how important it is for men to be desired.

1:26:22 Adam Yes. Is that selfish or is that being meant?

1:26:25 Stryker I think it's just, no, it's just how men are. But unfortunately women, I mean, they spend a million hours reading all the crap in Cosmo about techniques that mean nothing to any guy. And all they need to do is show enthusiasm and excitement and desire the guy. And it's just over. Over the top.

1:26:50 Adam You're right.

1:26:51 Stryker All, hold on.

1:26:52 Stryker Forget stop the Cosmo. Stop reading the techniques. All women need to show.

1:26:56 Adam All women need to show, yeah.

1:26:59 Stryker Enthusiasm.

1:27:00 Adam OK, hold on, number one, enthusiasm.

1:27:04 Stryker I desire you.

1:27:05 Adam Desire the guy, right?

1:27:07 Stryker And excited.

1:27:10 Adam And excited.

1:27:11 Stryker Right? Yeah, no, those are the three ingredients and everything. And after she's done that, she can just sit back. Just to just lie still, just to stay right there.

1:27:19 Adam Enthusiasm, show desire and be excited.

1:27:23 Stryker That's all it that is it. Forget Cosmo, throw up, trash it, burn it. Just but you have to be excited. You can't fake excitement, though. That's the thing.

1:27:31 Adam Right.

1:27:31 Stryker And that's tough. That's a tolerator.

1:27:32 Adam And it's not the excitement, actually, during the sex it is. But it's the build up for it.

1:27:36 Stryker Build up. Yeah, you got it. That's the desire part. That's the desire thing.

1:27:39 Adam You know, I'm using these notes to write my first book, which is going to be called Cracked Out.

1:27:44 Stryker Cracked Up.

1:27:46 Adam Penis down, crack up.

1:27:47 Stryker Ain't all it's cracked up to be.

1:27:48 Adam All right. Beth, you're 24.

1:27:52 Caller Yes, I am.

1:27:54 Adam What's going on?

1:27:55 Stryker I have been, I've been sexually active since I was like 14, probably. I have an active sex life and I've never ever had an orgasm during sex with a man ever. Not oral sex, nothing. But I'm perfectly productive on my own. Just not with someone.

1:28:16 Stryker And what's your question?

1:28:19 Stryker What's wrong? Why do you think that is? I can't figure it out. So ask me.

1:28:25 Stryker How do you do it by yourself?

1:28:27 Stryker Manually, I have toys, whatever.

1:28:30 Stryker And do you have a boyfriend? Have you ever had a relationship?

1:28:33 Stryker Oh, yeah, serious relationships so far, loving.

1:28:35 Stryker And do you bring any of these things in?

1:28:42 Stryker I don't know if it's just like, I don't know what it is, because we've tried stuff that I do by myself and it just doesn't work when they're there.

1:28:51 Adam Do you think you've built up too much on yourself with the toys that a heartbeat is no good now?

1:28:56 Stryker Well, no, even when she brings the toys in, just the presence of a guy is too distracting.

1:29:00 Adam I was watching what you were writing.

1:29:01 Stryker Yeah, so I don't know about that. That's a weird one.

1:29:04 Stryker Because I mean, I played off like doing it myself, thinking that I'm like, oh God, I'm hooked on my vibrator.

1:29:10 Stryker How have your relationships been with guys?

1:29:14 Stryker Pretty decent. I mean, obviously I'm not with them anymore, but they weren't all bad all the time.

1:29:20 Stryker You're heterosexual?

1:29:22 Stryker I'm sorry, what?

1:29:23 Stryker You're heterosexual for sure?

1:29:25 Stryker Yes, for sure.

1:29:28 Stryker Okay, I don't know, to me it could be a million different things. Nothing, somethings on this show follow certain patterns we can tell real easily what's going on. Nothing jumps out at me with this problem as sort of a, oh well, here's what that pattern is.

1:29:41 Adam The most weird thing is that you can't do it with the toys with the guy.

1:29:44 Stryker Yeah, that's what's unusual about this. Plenty of people that can't have orgasms unless they use their special techniques and their magic box of tricks, but the presence of the guy is distracting or overwhelming or makes you feel defensive or anxious or whatever it is. It's something about intimacy that's troubling you and I don't know what that is.

1:30:01 Stryker Yeah, it's just frustrating and I enjoy it. I mean, like you guys have been talking about, it's fantastic. It feels great. It just never, you know, gets to that peak.

1:30:12 Stryker What if the penis wasn't involved and you just pulled your toys out?

1:30:17 Stryker I think it's just, they're there.

1:30:19 Stryker Yeah, see that suggests that there really is something wrong with the intimacy and maybe you got to be careful with that. That's, you might want to look into that.

1:30:27 Adam Mike, 21. Let's get a couple in before we're done here. What's going on, Mike?

1:30:30 Caller Hello?

1:30:32 Adam Yeah, you're on.

1:30:33 Caller Oh yeah, so pretty much, if I have sex with a girl, like as soon as that's happened, like I won't have any interest in it after that.

1:30:44 Adam You're 21.

1:30:45 Stryker Yeah, there's a lot of reasons for that. One is just, you know, testosterone does that to males and secondly, it's envy. Sometimes it's that, you know, if you can, if they're willing to soil themselves with you, they must not be worth it. Some of it is a conquest thing and that's all that sex is about. So my biggest suggestion to you is look for a relationship. Don't look for a conquest. Look for a person, it's not an object. And maybe then you'll slow down.

1:31:12 Adam It's so hard to do that, though.

1:31:13 Stryker I know, did you realize that at 21?

1:31:15 Adam A little bit, I definitely had a time frame where, when you say conquer, that makes it sound so terrible, though.

1:31:21 Stryker It's more than conquer, it's worse than conquer.

1:31:25 Adam But it doesn't mean you're a bad person, by any means.

1:31:27 Stryker No, but if he really is not a bad person, go ahead and stop doing that, because it's gonna hurt somebody. Jenny, last call, go ahead.

1:31:32 Caller Hi, I have a girlfriend. We don't have sex as much as we used to, and I want to have more sex, and I don't know how to tell her that.

1:31:46 Stryker How long you been with her? How long you been together? Year and a half. Stryker, you wanna know a secret about lesbian relationships that nobody knows? Yes. And I don't know the data on this, but lesbians I've treated and who are friends of mine tell me that one of the, not real secrets, but a common phenomenon, and it's sort of a unspoken secret in the lesbian community, is that most lesbian couples, at least they claim most, and I don't have anything to corroborate this, most lesbian couples stop having sex after six months. Interesting? They just stop. They're just not interested. They cuddle and they have intimacy and other things, but the sex part just kind of, there's nothing driving it. Isn't that interesting?

1:32:28 Adam Yeah. You should conduct a sociological study on that.

1:32:31 Stryker And so Jenny, this may be just part, I understand in Jenny's case she wants sex, wants to have it, but your girlfriend's sort of dropping off.

1:32:37 Adam Maybe she falls into that.

1:32:38 Stryker Is sort of more in that category. I don't know that anybody's ever studied what that means, but it may not be that she doesn't love you. It may mean nothing. And you may just have a different sex drive and you got to kind of work together to find some way of compromising on that, as most heterosexual couples have to do.

1:32:52 Oh my goodness gracious.

1:32:53 Adam If that happened with us, it was done after six months. We'd only be in six month relationships.

1:32:58 We'd all be gay males.

1:32:59 Adam Gay males, that's right. They can share clothes, they can shop together. God, what a great lifestyle gay men have. All right, we got to take a break, right? All right, we'll be back Loveline after this. Hold on.

1:33:10 Stryker Okay, so I know there's nothing wrong with me. So what's up?

1:33:12 Caller So I was like you and I used to think that these datelines were totally cheesy.

1:33:16 Caller But I tried everything else and thought, what the hell?

1:33:18 Caller So I called the dateline and actually met a cool guy.

1:33:22 Caller Believe it or not, other normal people are out there looking, too.

1:33:25 Stryker 877-889-DATE This hour brought to you in part by AXE.

1:33:35 Experience the AxE Effect I've enlightened you.

1:34:07 Adam Very much.

1:34:08 Remember those three things. I will.

1:34:10 Stryker Three things.

1:34:10 Adam I'm gonna say them in a second. Thanks to all the callers that call in. You guys are awesome. You know, I'm just filling in for Adam, doing my best. It's very fun. You guys rule. Tomorrow night on Loveline, Papa Roach, Anderson Perez, thank you guys very much.

1:34:21 Caller You rule.

1:34:21 Adam And so for Dr. Drew, I am Stryker saying, Ladies give us enthusiasm, desire, and be excited. See you later.

1:34:29 Caller I was kind of itching on the outside of my vagina.

1:34:46 Caller The producer for Loveline is Aningold.

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